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    There are several reasons why older adults may actually be in more danger from STDs than their younger counterparts, including: Lack of regular screening for sexual problems can increase the risk of a disease going unnoticed for years, leading to serious complications.

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  • @DP-ez1kt
    @DP-ez1kt ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have been a widow for 12 yrs. Not interested in having any man. I'm 72. They are looking for a "nurse with a purse".

  • @Motherofthedead
    @Motherofthedead ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ms Faye, I’m 56 and have had no sex for 10 years now. I don’t miss it either. I’ve been physically and mentally abused by my spouse since I married when I was 19 and he 28. I was made to believe that I owed him sex. Not just any sex either, it had to be raw porno sex that lasted for hours. I was told that the sex i provided wasn’t good enough and I was like “watching paint dry”. I had 3 children, no job, car or anyway of escape. It was a horrible existence and to this day, I am repulsed by men. No, I am not gay, just happily celibate and free of a nightmare I thought would never end. Thank you for your wisdom. I can imagine a lot of gay people who see and hear your messages are mad and I believe it’s because the truth hit home for them. Keep on telling these truths.

  • @wizardofahhhhhhz
    @wizardofahhhhhhz ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I’m so tired of people in my age group freeloading off of our parents. We should allow them to have PEACE in their later years instead of taking care of our grown behinds until they die.

  • @misslottieish
    @misslottieish ปีที่แล้ว +46

    If you leave a home to a non working person eventually they will lose it if they cannot pay the taxes.

    • @ginacampbell8766
      @ginacampbell8766 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💯💯💯 typically what happens. I've heard of people on section 8 losing their residence over nonpayment when their rent was only $1 a month.

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Players call everybody sweetie, beautiful so don't let a man's little flirty names impress you.

  • @sharinaross1865
    @sharinaross1865 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Married and catching STDs. That totally disgusting and gross.

  • @minervaway5542
    @minervaway5542 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Thank you Ms. Faye. These jokers use "babe or baby" because they cant remember the names of all the women they are messing around with🤣🤣. Take care, keep telling it like it is and be blessed❤

  • @armedanddangerous711
    @armedanddangerous711 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you Miss Faye, I'm 58 and celebrate. I'm find it interesting how disinterested men become when sex is not in the equation.

    • @maxsweet3000
      @maxsweet3000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂unbelievable!!

  • @yourrealtor_Danielle
    @yourrealtor_Danielle ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I was in a relationship with a man, who stared at other women. We were even engaged. Needless to say, we didn’t make it down to the altar.

    • @ashanean
      @ashanean ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I went through that. If a man can kept his eyes off of other women that is a red flag of a cheater. Don't accept that behavior l did being young and naive. Now never again!

    • @donnajeffreys8252
      @donnajeffreys8252 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Be thankful that you didn't marry him. You dodged a bullet . When you're with a man who's so disrespectful it makes you feel rejected.

    • @yourrealtor_Danielle
      @yourrealtor_Danielle ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@donnajeffreys8252 oh most definitely.

    • @yourrealtor_Danielle
      @yourrealtor_Danielle ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ashanean we all look, a glance is good enough. When your eyes is following the person from wall to wall, that’s too much.

    • @ginacampbell8766
      @ginacampbell8766 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Be glad you dodged that bullet. Gawking over other women in public like you're not there is not innocent.... its very disrespectful and the gateway to them doing more than that soon

  • @stoichealer1969
    @stoichealer1969 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When older men pick up Viagra need to pick condoms also

  • @CH-jy9qt
    @CH-jy9qt ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I disagree about leaving home to kids if they are not responsible. I have seen people lose homes to taxes over a few hundred dollars. If they are irresponsible now, they will continue to be irresponsible after your head is cover. Make sure you have a WILL AND TRUST.

  • @loisevora2717
    @loisevora2717 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Hello, Ms. Faye
    thanks for the information. I am 63 years old and have been celibate for many years. I just had this conversation with a friend of mine. I told him a doctor told me Aids can lays dominate in your system for 10 years without symptoms. We have to be very careful because we may believe we have a strong relationship and the man is sleeping with several people. You just can't trust them. I know it hurts when you are looking for love or true compassion as a senior. It is just best to be alone and enjoy your life and find other things to do 😊

    • @ashanean
      @ashanean ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for that. I didn't know HIV lays dormant for 10 years! What!! What people in the porn industry that crazy
      They think they are so safe. I think that's bring crazy.

    • @aprilecrockett4669
      @aprilecrockett4669 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Amen to that sister especially if u have hobbies to keep u entertained there's no way u can b lonely
      There is a big difference from being lonely & being alone my choice is to b alone amen

    • @Ann65.
      @Ann65. ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I AM 73years old. My wonderful Husband passed over in August 2020. Alfie had been very poorly for the previous 25 years with Parkinson's Disease and Lewy Body Dementia. 💔
      I feel married still and know that he was my Soulmate. One day, we will be at peace and together again.
      My problem isn't a 'relationship'. It's feeling so much guilt at going out and finding simple pleasures in life again.
      How can I overcome this? Because I know that I must. 🤗
      I'm not a Moaning Minnie, it's ok. Just letting you all know who I am.
      Play it safe ladies and remember that many men are, at heart Hunters! Stay safe.
      AND - If in doubt, Don't. 🌹🌹🌹

    • @loisevora2717
      @loisevora2717 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Tea & Sass - Ann Hello, I am sorry for your loss. Do not feel guilty, for I'm sure your husband would want you to live your best life ✨️

    • @sunnydaysatl
      @sunnydaysatl ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m hiv positive thanks to my ex husband-yes AIDS can dominate forever but not Hiv. if u know your body u have a feeling something is wrong early. It’s very usually for someone to go that long not knowing there status. I found out two months after I became infected my status.

  • @felicitywillboughby6901
    @felicitywillboughby6901 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Am widowed, decided now to, in the words of 2pac,i "keep my head up, legs closed, eyes open". Also when you sleep with somebody, everybody they slept with, is sleeping with you, all the trauma, generational curses, etc. I prefer keeping my energy pure.

  • @davidknowledge4721
    @davidknowledge4721 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am a MAN and whenever I am going to be active I go to the drug store and get me some condoms.

  • @henriettalloyd8469
    @henriettalloyd8469 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hello Miss. Faye, I screamed when you said a whole 3 minutes. 😂

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB0721 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I can't stand a man calling me baby and don't even know me, he hasn't earned it to call me baby, because I can be his worst nightmare!!

    • @bonnie_gail
      @bonnie_gail ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's a form of devaluation

  • @davidknowledge4721
    @davidknowledge4721 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    With cheating and staring, "THE EYES 👀 CAN NOT HIDE WHAT THE LIPS WILL NOT SAY!"

  • @ashanean
    @ashanean ปีที่แล้ว +22

    As a person as a certain age this why I am celibate!

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That's right Miss Faye, he's doing it right in her face he doesn't value the relationship and he's cheating. Let her flirt and stare at another man 👀 he'd have NERVE to be LIVID 😡 with her !!! That kind of behavior makes a woman feel rejected. I'd rather have my peace 💙 and be single than deal with a loser like that.

  • @donnablake4294
    @donnablake4294 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Miss Faye " If he looking he cheating " your advice is priceless!

  • @sharidale3936
    @sharidale3936 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Thank you so much Ms. Faye. I lost my hubby of 31 years to pancreatic cancer in 2018. It's a mess out there trying to date!

    • @ginacampbell8766
      @ginacampbell8766 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Welcome to the single world of older men who are now obsessed with younger women.... got more problems than a math book... and think dating means periodically texting and not interested in anything serious especially dating.

    • @C.387
      @C.387 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know it’s. Yikes stay strong ❤😅

    • @stacyjaye6350
      @stacyjaye6350 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@ginacampbell8766 The high value guys can get a woman 20 years younger.

    • @queensun6059
      @queensun6059 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stacyjaye6350 👸most young girls are repulsed by them & cheating w/a young man while waiting for him to pass. they only dating their wallets. they marry young women but they're only fooling themselves😖 bc she don't want him🤮!

  • @islandgirl5382
    @islandgirl5382 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hello Miss Faye!
    Trust me, I am not going out with a STD at my age!

  • @sharonsue441
    @sharonsue441 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    If you have ever had chickenpox,,,,,,you have the herpes virus in you……I’m 78 ( retired nurse) and just found her sweet informative channel..I’m hoping many young ladies and men watch AND LISTEN to what she is saying…"you understand ?" she is adorable

    • @lindalewis8001
      @lindalewis8001 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey beautiful lady how are y'all doing I am well watching replay love your channel and spirit love topics channel is growing almost 50k thanks for sharing always encouraging words blessings ❤️

    • @scrapiron
      @scrapiron ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes, but it's a different type of herpes virus', not the same as chickenpox and is the same family but displayed differently. If it was the same thing it wouldn't have a different name. Cold sore type 1 herpes is also different from type 2 genital herpes.

    • @Thinkdiff_
      @Thinkdiff_ ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I caught that "you understand?" too 😂

    • @freespirit21newyork
      @freespirit21newyork ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes there's a lot of herpes under the umbrella, like shingles, Epstein's Barr ( which I have Epstein's Barr)

    • @Ms.B.Warren
      @Ms.B.Warren ปีที่แล้ว

      Chicken pox- herpes zoster, makes one susceptible to shingles. The herpes virus that manifests as cold sores and genital sores- herpes simplex, is different.
      Still good information though. But it is important NOT to confuse the two. IMHO

  • @joykennedyhughes6269
    @joykennedyhughes6269 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love your insight on a man’s use of the word, “baby.” Lol. I’m still laughing. 😂😂👍👍

    • @gloriasaeed8781
      @gloriasaeed8781 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes, another term of endearment also includes the word "love." Over 10 years my ex called me by my name about 10 times!

    • @bonnie_gail
      @bonnie_gail ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gloriasaeed8781 using a pet name is a form of devaluing you (learned this re HG Tudor videos)

  • @richricogranada9647
    @richricogranada9647 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My older date was trying to sneak into my house, and in my bedroom, and I told him I not prepared for that. When I’m prepared I’d tell him and we both must to test for STD. And he said that he never had anything and didn’t need to test. Just imagine the mentality…I’m very firm on testing before anything, and don’t even try otherwise.

  • @lt3074
    @lt3074 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    When I took a Women/Gender Studies class. I did a paper on HIV & women and was surprised to see how the senior population HIV rate was high! I wondered why & and as you stated, older men don't want to use condoms. Other reasons, older people don't think STDs don't apply to them, that it affects younger people, for older women they no longer have to worry about pregnancy but another factor, older men are giving younger women money in order to have sex with them & catching diseases from them & of course men that sleep with men. You are right about Herpes, a condom will not protect you from that. As women we need to love ourselves & protect ourselves at all costs. If a man don't want to wear one, he don't care about you or himself, even condoms are not 100% effective because condoms break or defective.

    • @aprilecrockett4669
      @aprilecrockett4669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen to that my cousin Monia said to me get with u
      She is right; I love my cousin plus when u r in a serious relationship some of these people think oh now we don't have to use protection; that's a lie and the truth isn't in that thought process

    • @deebell912
      @deebell912 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you are right, Some of those who
      already have Herpes and other
      deseases most likely are on the
      selfish side and their way of thinking
      most likely is, Well since i have it why
      should i Protect anyone else, so i guess
      just look at all as Suspect till Proven
      safe and Healthy. because all is
      well that ENDS WELL.✌🏽❤️✌🏽
      ❤️🌻❤️🌻❤️🌻❤️🌻❤️🌻

    • @lt3074
      @lt3074 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aprilecrockett4669 I agree.

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have friends that are nurses. They told me that the nursing home is FULL of stds and HIV/AIDS! They get with those crack-head girls on the first of the month who get their entire social security checks. Ladies, be careful!

  • @zeniapeak5207
    @zeniapeak5207 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The old men don't think they need a condom, but they do and you don 't kiss anyone when
    you first meet them. Kissing is not necessary when you are trying to get to know someone.

  • @lisabarrow5
    @lisabarrow5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You are so great! Nursing homes have a supposed high rate of stds...the older the person the more sexual encounters they've had.. BY THE GRACE OF GOD at 63 yrs old I've gotten away with minor scrapes in std land...but abstaining from sex at this point is no problem...unless...i can really trust this person...which is a true joke... total med screen would be required for both of us....i feel it is not romantic or spontaneous....but i do not need a roaring std at this point in my life!!!!!

  • @tonih4887
    @tonih4887 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    You never miss a beat Ms Faye. Keep the wisdom coming.

  • @wizardofahhhhhhz
    @wizardofahhhhhhz ปีที่แล้ว +15

    There are some people that have no idea that their spouse has HIV. I work in healthcare and we aren’t allowed to tell, or we could be sued and lose our career.

    • @enjoyslearningandtravel7957
      @enjoyslearningandtravel7957 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh! I thought they would have to tell everyone that had contact with. It seems only fair because you can die from it and you need treatment at least

  • @cdeshields9631
    @cdeshields9631 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The female that hasn’t seen the high school sweetheart in #25 - years “ Really “ 😳 “ Really “ 😳 😂😂😂😂😂 Oh man can it be real 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MissNancy
    @MissNancy ปีที่แล้ว +39

    You're so funny 😄. I made my ex wrap up until he showed me health test paperwork. I think he exposed me to HPV though. Lots of biopsies 😬. 7 years out and my paps are Normal 🙏

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 ปีที่แล้ว

      HPV is transmitted by skin-to-skin contact. It doesn’t require genital contact, and condoms do not protect against it.

    • @TwilaB0721
      @TwilaB0721 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯💞

  • @bobbymckinley2017
    @bobbymckinley2017 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    YOURE RIGHT MISS FAYE PROTECT YOURSELF YOUR BODY YOUR LIFE

  • @wrussell7273
    @wrussell7273 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You right, I am not doing it. Older guys are always saying, you not gonna live forever,all kinds of crazy stuff. I like my life and my grandkids. When I do start back to having sex caution is the best thing. I miss my wife every day.People don’t give a damn.People think they smart if they have oral sex they safe, where is all this crazy stuff coming from. You are so right! Looking good = Dead! Get older is hard enough!

  • @reneec4711
    @reneec4711 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I could really hang out with Miss Faye ❤ She is so cool!

  • @patriciawilliams5172
    @patriciawilliams5172 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I work in Healthcare and when I see these old men and women come to the hospital with HIV and these kinds of diseases I feel sorry because they are suffering over something that could be prevented. These disease respond differently in the elderly. They should be living out the rest of their days but they are suffering

  • @nq3670
    @nq3670 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Miss Faye you’re way too generous with that 3 minute analogy 😂

  • @duckyloudiva5199
    @duckyloudiva5199 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I can't stop watching your videos, so good!

  • @melissa-nf2or
    @melissa-nf2or ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Thanks for the STD reminder. I have broken my celibacy vow and I regret it. Because we / I am not of child bearing age I've allowed lust to take over. Never again, i'ts just something else to worry about.

  • @beatricehudgins2836
    @beatricehudgins2836 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤ This is why celibacy looks so good to so many older women 😊.

  • @shingj4007
    @shingj4007 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't even suggest to keep him on as a health worker, because he might hurt someone out of revenge. Be careful with a user.

  • @tanyajones1860
    @tanyajones1860 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My ex gave me 2 STDs and claimed he didn't have that nasty man's disease 😮

  • @Karen19820
    @Karen19820 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thanks for the reminder to think positive. I pray to God for help and he helps me. I know it’s him. Fear still tries to come in - of failure and the unknown. Truly asking and trusting God for everything helps so very much. He’ll help any who ask him. 🌷

  • @bethlewis8731
    @bethlewis8731 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thank you Miss Faye but for me thank God I have 3 X husbands I am married to Jesus Christ now abstinent for 7 years 🙌 going strong 🙌🙏 I learned long ago I just so appreciate other ladies knowing as well People need you and your wisdom may God bless you abundantly sweet lady ❤🙏❤️

  • @Betty-pl7dq
    @Betty-pl7dq ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Seniors trust God. If you turn your heart to God He will bless you. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Jesus is coming soon, and you want to go with him. Read your bible daily and you'll find comfort in the Jesus and his promises. God bless you.

  • @dews3340
    @dews3340 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    No dating here! Thankfully I don't have to do so........ From the Ozarks drinking free fresh mountain valley spring water

  • @luzvargas1063
    @luzvargas1063 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mrs Faye's you are right on target about that lusting thing from a guy starring others while wife is near or even besides him. That guy need to be dismissed and better dont try to go back to the wife once he gets cancer o any sickmess. He better realize a sick person will not be liked by another woman. a new woman WILL never endure hardship while in a new lust relationship AMEN!

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB0721 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Whenever I get married and my husband give me a STD, HE WILL GET CHOKED OUT VERY FAST!! tied up and in his nasty sleep!! With all this going on I might as well be abstinence. All I can leave for my daughters is an affordable life insurance policy to bury me, and whatever is left, it's their choice, once I'm resting in peace, I will not know anything. Thank you for the Awesome Advice💯💞

  • @Scoop777
    @Scoop777 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You remind me of the wisdom of Solomon. Your experience and advice is gold and second to none; educating both women and men alike.

  • @genxx2724
    @genxx2724 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    15:00 How does the daughter live with no job? I wouldn’t leave anything to someone who doesn’t work and manage money correctly. They don’t deserve it, won’t take care of it, and will lose it.

  • @ashanean
    @ashanean ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Preach Ms. Faye. And if they don't want to use protection no play!

  • @qso3566
    @qso3566 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Miss Faye, I wanted to throw out some comments for your and everyone's consideration: There are a growing number of senior single women who are dealing with two very specific issues: One is not having enough money to fully support themselves ... not every senior woman has savings and security, many are on fixed income and that does not pay all the bills and when you're over 65 it's extremely difficult to get hired for a decent job to supplement Social Security, but even IF you can find such a job, how many women over 65 are fully able to physically work 40 hours a week? So these senior women literally need some financial support and that's why many are looking for a decent & stable man who will share expenses in a fair ratio based on each other's income. But finding that kind of man these days is almost impossible! So what are these women to do? The other issue is not having supportive family or friends ... during the past 3 years, estrangements between families and friends have become epidemic, there are more and more senior single women whose kids have turned their back on them and are not around to help OR their kids simply don't have the ability (lack of money or they live far away) to help their mothers ... and when you're over 60, friends in your age group are almost certainly dealing with their own issues and you can't expect them to be there for you in any situation that might arise, but also a lot of people have lost friends due to death or because of conflicting political views and all the divisive stuff that is going on nowadays. Statistics show that never before in history have people been so conflicted with family members and friends and estrangement is at an all-time high. So again, what are these women to do? What I'm trying to say is that so many older women DO prefer to live alone in their own space and are happily celibate ... but many are risking being homeless and totally alone with no one to help them in their elderly years. There should be a good and fair solution for this that will allow good women to be secure and safe and happy in the last years of their life. 😟😟😟😟

    • @natthebratster
      @natthebratster ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with much of what you said here particularly about senior women not being financially self supportive and family estrangement being at an all time high.
      Here in the Midwest however I see many many women in their 60"s 70's still tough ING it out in the employment sector. I'll be 60 in less than 4 months and I pull between 48/60 hrs per week. We do what we have to in order to survive and for me that means busting my tail which is a better choice for me than yoking myself to someone who's bored, barking demands at me, or is completely inconsiderate to my needs or feelings.

    • @skooliecarol8542
      @skooliecarol8542 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow...we live in two different worlds...I,m 75...travel FT in my camper bus.And have,NO,trouble finding work for extra $$..I worked 12 hour shifts...no days off...for the whole month of October...made big $$$...this summer..I,m managing a campground..way up in gorgeous mountain, in Colorado...did it last year too...I also work with several temp agencys..and...I,ve always been single and independent...And....my friends and family are always there for me

    • @qso3566
      @qso3566 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@skooliecarol8542 My post is not about one person, it's about a LOT of women in these times. You obviously have ZERO degree of empathy and compassion for others. And SHAME ON YOUR for seeming to flaunt the claim that you have family and friends ... have you thought for ONE second that there are older women whose family members are gone or estranged, or they never had children or siblings???? You seem totally heartless and selfish. YOUR experience is NOT that of anyone else and you have NO right to judge those whose lives are different. If driving around the country in a camper with no real home is YOUR idea of great, more power to you, but it sounds miserable. I can just imagine, based on your one post, what kind of person you are in real life. 😡 I hope to never be without empathy and compassion for others.

    • @Catladylove
      @Catladylove ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is fine glad you can work but that is not true for everyone,there are different circumstances,some companies don't want to hire you because of age.

    • @qso3566
      @qso3566 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Catladylove You are right! There are many reasons why older woman can't work or find work. And there is no doubt that many companies will discard applications once they know the person is over a "certain age". They can't come out and admit that age is factor, but it is for sure.

  • @luzvargas1063
    @luzvargas1063 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your video is so nice towards helping people. Any STD will be a pshycological crisis for anyone, very truth

  • @SuMa2184
    @SuMa2184 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very informative! I'm not too surprised. Older people have feelings and want to be loved, but they're too trustworthy. If you're happy in your marriage, don't cheat and bring back nothing home. If you're not happy just leave.

  • @delana2842
    @delana2842 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Thank you Miss Faye again for another informative video! If only those who believe sex education should not be taught in schools understood that it is not just about the act, but also about sexually transmitted diseases, taking care of one's body, and a host of other important issues, they would not be so quick to change and make policies with devastating effects.

    • @sharongomes7219
      @sharongomes7219 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's why I stay alone. There's no drama and headaches. So peaceful.

    • @delana2842
      @delana2842 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sharongomes7219, Agreed.

    • @taiadekoya682
      @taiadekoya682 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sharongomes7219 don't blame you

    • @belindamarie3222
      @belindamarie3222 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Miss Faye ten years ago I went and bought me a big box of Natural Lamb Skin to Skin condoms for all the reason's you mentioned. It's still in my closet sealed and I haven't even considered opening the box. That's how cautious I became of these jerk azzes..I'll date em and then tell him hey let's build a foundation of friendship first and foremost. And so far that has scared them away..which is fine with me bcuz no man is ever gonna use me or take advantage of me again in this lifetime..I say to em..good riddance to bad rubbish! 💪🏾👏🏾😂

    • @sharongomes7219
      @sharongomes7219 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taiadekoya682 it's no stress fixing the damage their mommas programmed in their minds!

  • @RappMDTV
    @RappMDTV ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so GLAD I found you Miss Faye! I work in the ER.amd cannot BELIEVE how men don't know what meds they take. They don't even keep a list of their meds most of the time unless their wife or girlfriend made it. yet they can't be told a darn thing about health. They know it all, yet don't know what pills they put in their mouth.

  • @luzvargas1063
    @luzvargas1063 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I expereinced that not even young guys want to carry condoms anymore 😂 There is no hopes valid for that situation fully agree... 3 minutes of pleasure for a lifetime disease 😂😅

  • @freespirit21newyork
    @freespirit21newyork ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I had a friend and the man she was with was like 35 years older then her plus HE had the financial power over her, and she was so dependent on him and had 2 kids, so I tried to encourage her to get out from up under him somehow someway...sad to say this man paraded other women right in her face where she lived ( in HIS house) mind you...
    So a couple of years ago right before I moved, she got pregnant AGAIN by him, just when I needed her the most‼️ she didn't tell me up until she went into labor. I never spoke to her again

    • @bonnie_gail
      @bonnie_gail ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how is it about you?

    • @freespirit21newyork
      @freespirit21newyork ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bonnie_gail can you read?? And comprehend? OMG lol

  • @Ann65.
    @Ann65. ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This channel was recommended and I'm so glad it was. Miss Faye you are very wise and wonderful. Subscribed. ❤

  • @davidknowledge4721
    @davidknowledge4721 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Never mix buiseness and pleasure! NO!!!!

  • @Curlyblonde
    @Curlyblonde ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I keep hearing about the high prevalence of STDs in the Over 55 Communities across the country. Even though I don't live in one, I have been approached by married senior men, wanting an extramarital relationship WITH THE KNOWLEDGE & PERMISSION OF HIS WIFE!! In such cases it seems the wife doesn't want to engage in sexual activity, but will allow her husband to seek outside sources for his sexual needs, without any threat to the marriage. If this is a common practice, then that would explain why STDs are high among seniors. I have been celibate for 15 years and am glad I don't have to worry about these issues. Peace, security and contentment are the rewards of a celibate life. It is sometimes a battle to maintain these boundaries with other people. They think and make remarks that there is something wrong with you, or accuse you of being homosexual just because you want to live the celibate lifestyle in an oversexualized culture.

  • @davidknowledge4721
    @davidknowledge4721 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wouldn't even deal with this man on any level. I wouldn't even sell my house to him after 25 years of abandonment from high school. OH HELL-TO-THE NO! YOU DON'T EVER GET A SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE A FIRST IMPRESSION!!! And as for house care with my parents. Big. "F" THAT!!!

  • @joykennedyhughes6269
    @joykennedyhughes6269 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Powerful discussion. Thanks Miss Faye!

  • @faithmarielake592
    @faithmarielake592 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm a new subscriber! You tell us all what our parents should have said but maybe couldnt say. Words of wisdom!!!!

  • @mamiejordan4210
    @mamiejordan4210 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mz.Mamie
    Thank you Miss Faye, I been so uneducated all these years. You have open up my eyes. I once was a young , I not gonna be an old fool. Keep up the good work,we all need to know.❤😊🎉😊🥰

  • @katiebryant8915
    @katiebryant8915 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You have so many great videos and now that I'm in my 50's I really appreciate the senior discussions. I notice someone else below mentioned the HPV virus that's another one that's out there that's only detected during a pap smear.

  • @iopakayalo3459
    @iopakayalo3459 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Amen! So glad I found your channel. So many gems here. Thank you 🙏💕.

  • @deebell912
    @deebell912 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hi MS. Faye
    To me you are a Treasure,for your insight on Human Nature your
    advice is Priceless, and the wayward
    Senior Adolescent Community would
    be better served if only they adhere
    to this most helpful advice, as at a certian age this community should have it already under their belt, ok
    Ms. Faye thank you for your explicit
    knowledge.❤️🌻❤️🌻❤️🌻❤️

  • @carolyntaylor4269
    @carolyntaylor4269 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hello Ms. Faye…fellow spirit traveler 😃. I’m also on my spiritual journey. Yes, AbrahamHicks is a part of this journey. Your channel showed up on my TH-cam algorithm suddenly…like spirits attract. I love the way you teach with love and honesty without tearing down or being sanctimonious and judgmental. I believe you are helping people. ASE 🙏🏾

  • @luzvargas1063
    @luzvargas1063 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    if the daughter does not work, she will not accumulate towards social security. That is very detrimental for that daughter of hers. When she gets from her mom all she will never value anything. That because she never worked to provide for herself. Great advice, her mother should attempt not to worry about the inevitable which will be her daughter WILL REGRET It 😢

  • @renaewilliams8126
    @renaewilliams8126 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    TELL IT MS FAYE. HE'S A USER, AVOID HIM LIKE THE PLAGUE. RUNNNNNNNN

  • @womanclothedinthesunq7574
    @womanclothedinthesunq7574 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Not to mention H pylori that goes through our brain gut access. Thank you 🙏 love from Albuquerque.

    • @janbea1154
      @janbea1154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never heard of H Pylori being an STD. If I am mistaken this is a gastrointestinal bacteria.

    • @mobutter2879
      @mobutter2879 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is brought about through low stomach acid..

  • @sandrafrazier7967
    @sandrafrazier7967 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi, Miss Faye, you remind me of my mom. I greatly enjoyed the letters. Please keep these a part of your program. Thank you. 😊

  • @NaturalMonty
    @NaturalMonty ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm not sexually active, yet this is great advice. I never thought of older men not being prepared, so I definitely should be. Thank you Ms. Faye.

  • @ausetserketrenenutet5563
    @ausetserketrenenutet5563 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So happy I found your channel you have amazing wisdom 💕💕

  • @dianethompson6804
    @dianethompson6804 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A gift is a gift! We have no say in what anyone does with our gift!
    I don't think i'd trust a player with the care of my parents! He might steal from them or disrespect them, or tell them lies about the family to make trouble!!

  • @tianyaFox8098
    @tianyaFox8098 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is real 💯

  • @taiadekoya682
    @taiadekoya682 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Am blessed to come across this channel on TH-cam. Very informative. I will make sure I watch the rest of your videos. God bless you.

  • @carter6forlife
    @carter6forlife ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ❤Queen dripping Gems 💎 LISTEN LADIES 😮

  • @lizcarlyle2477
    @lizcarlyle2477 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello from CA. Keep working, you'll be 2 tired 4 anything else! Protect your body, who wants to clean & cook when you have arthritis/back pain or other health issues? Take care.

  • @carlenefrancis1086
    @carlenefrancis1086 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love 💕 this lady 🤗.

  • @freerangeboogie7293
    @freerangeboogie7293 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kudos to the men who follow Miss Faye ❤

  • @SkyFly25
    @SkyFly25 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It's best to just stay abstinent after 50. Sex doesn't work so great after a certain age. The body changes. And I can't even imagine a condom working on a half limp noodle. All that's left is oral and touch, so knowing that's not safe either...just say no.

  • @ritadoran5039
    @ritadoran5039 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks Ms Faye
    We all have to be responsible for our mental health your right you can't tell by looking at a person Your advice in off the chain lol.....As the kids say
    ❤❤❤❤🎉

    • @ritadoran5039
      @ritadoran5039 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And our physical health take care

  • @ravingraven879
    @ravingraven879 ปีที่แล้ว

    " Y'understand?" Yes, Ma'am. Loud and clear!

  • @MegaRose1958
    @MegaRose1958 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good eve. Ms. Faye I wouldn't want someone taking care of any family Member or friend when he is a user. I wouldn't trust him! I enjoyed this video with all your valuable info.

  • @DK-tl9hi
    @DK-tl9hi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow this lovely lady is so wise and is so true

  • @exposedia3129
    @exposedia3129 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awesome, thanks, Nana!! 🥰😇

  • @klaudiaalvarez1373
    @klaudiaalvarez1373 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Remember that god is all. Not religious but spiritual.

  • @gallen2101
    @gallen2101 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is valuable information and if you haven't tried a spiritual path yet it will amaze you the books suggested are life changing! one of mine was called the "seat of the soul" I read 4 agreements also, I was taken aback at how my life changed for the better🎉❤

  • @althearoberts5413
    @althearoberts5413 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen,believing is the thing. Believe that you'll receive it.!!

  • @deebell912
    @deebell912 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    MS. i wacth you on TV Streaming and
    on my 13 Ms. Faye i can not get enough of the things you say, this is
    tried and true advice you are giving
    for your love and concideration of the
    ones who need it the most,as for myself i am on the savvy side of life but one thing for sure every word you
    speak should be taking verrrry GRACIOUSLY with the Utmost Gratitude cause it can be very Benificial to all who listen.❤🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰💯🌻💯🌻💯

  • @mercywerner7366
    @mercywerner7366 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate you helping a lot of women with good knowledge concerning dating, and protection to avoid sexual transmitted disease,

  • @marciarobinson8200
    @marciarobinson8200 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So. True blessing to you 🙏🏽🙏🏽💯

  • @theresaragland6382
    @theresaragland6382 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Miss Faye's 💓 wow good topic thanks for your honesty ms Faye's 💓💯

  • @lucillewalton4987
    @lucillewalton4987 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you 🙏 Mrs Faye God bless you ❤

  • @Sunsetdreams1
    @Sunsetdreams1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wise words to take hed to. I'm a new subscriber. I will be tunining in. Miss Faye. Liked the video too.

  • @misslottieish
    @misslottieish ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another thing. They sell condoms at the Dollar Tree or 99 Cent Store here so no excuse ladies to buy yourself some if you cannot afford to buy the fancy ones online.

  • @skooliecarol8542
    @skooliecarol8542 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Faye....you soooo wise...loving...witty....charming....Excellent advice....we agrèe on almost everything...right....be positive

  • @debralondon2402
    @debralondon2402 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the wise advice.