I very much agree! It’s time and place too! Something about seemingly innocuous moments can disarm you and cause that thing to happen where you smell every small, feel every breeze and everything else you’ve been muting in your life. It can amount to everything!
I agree. This inspired me. The style. The message. Maybe I'll pick up the camera after 10 years off.....I'd still be using Sony Vegas ripped from Pirate Bay 😂
I wanted you to know this out of love, Seek God and you will find him and when you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and put your faith in him you will be saved and he will give you his Holy Spirit who is our comforter and helper and God will give us a peace that surpasses all understanding and give you the ability to forgive and lead a life that pleases God and h God does want the best for you and to give you hope, he loves you
@@hananhano-vq9erI wanted you to know this out of love, Seek God and you will find him and when you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and put your faith in him you will be saved and he will give you his Holy Spirit who is our comforter and helper and God will give us a peace that surpasses all understanding and give you the ability to forgive and lead a life that pleases God and h God does want the best for you and to give you hope, he loves you
@@Zainab-v3f5xI wanted you to know this out of love, Seek God and you will find him and when you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and put your faith in him you will be saved and he will give you his Holy Spirit who is our comforter and helper and God will give us a peace that surpasses all understanding and give you the ability to forgive and lead a life that pleases God and h God does want the best for you and to give you hope, he loves you
Sometimes the most SELFLESS thing is, to be SELFISH at some point. Because we can’t give the best of ourself unless we give the best to ourself. I heard this in a video and it has changed my relationship with myself.
When you realise your own life is very important and it's your job to honor the time that you're alive everything changes for the better. Thank you for sharing this video and for the honesty that reminded me of that.
Thank you Shawn and Vitoria..."it's your job to honor the time that you're alive"...I like that. At the end of a 20+ year relationship and finding my way, one step at a time. Love and best wishes to all of you.
You've hit the nail on the head. Do it for yourself. Create what looks and feels beautiful and authentic to you, completely forgetting the opinions of others. And don't care at all about being "successful", because that's not what this is really about. Best of luck to you!
as a girl who recently turned 20, this video really came up at the right time. it was a truly beautiful piece of art that you shared and i feel inspired, keep making these videos !!
same, gonna be 20 in March, so it hit me with a lot of thoughts of doing things for me in ways I could feel it more connected to myself and impactful on my own life
I'm turning 20 this month. And I feel like I have never done anything just for myself, eithout worrying what others gonna feel or think. This video motivates me too.
I wholeheartedly understand the part that you said "and I did it, for me." . I feel you man. I had a 7 year relationship that I had all these beautiful thoughts for, ended by the other person just because she found someone else. Sometimes I think about all those things she said to me, all the love, all the feelings, were they all a lie?. and then I realize all the things I did and all the hardships I went through just to be with her. every part of my life could be summarized into all of it being for her. That's why I feel the "I did it for me" part completely... meaning I hope I get the strength to do all the stuff again just for me..
One saying that's been on my mind recently is "Nothing ventured, nothing gained." As with any saying, it should be used wisely etc., but you get the gist.
Shawn, this touched me brother. I lost my girlfriend around 6 months ago due to cancer, she was only 28. Went to and still am going through a dark place to say the least. Figuring stuff out. That is an important message and I am looking forward to your future productions
wow... I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine what that's like. I'm sending you lots of love and strength to keep your head up and take things one day at a time. please be easy on yourself
@@shawnjcross Soul of ADAM: repentance (Luke 5:32 KJV) repent (Luke 13:3 KJV) born again ( John 3:7 KJV) ( 1 Peter 1:23) come out from Babylon and expose it ( Revelation 18:4) (Ephesians 5:11 KJV) forsake your evil ways (sins) (Jonah 3:10 KJV) do the WILL of your Heavenly FATHER. (Matthew 7:21 KJV)
"I will plant new seeds in old passions" Hey Shawn, I hope you are doing well. Thank you for making this video and most of all for uploading it, as we all know it takes a lot of courage. Sending you love and warmth. 💌
This is a corner of the internet that should be visited more frequently. It’s too easy to get caught up in whatever one else is doing that you forget to live our own lives, without self-imposed boundaries. Loved this video bro, keep it up!
This kind of hit me In the heart. I broke up with a girl I thought I’d marry. Knew her for probably 5 years and it broke me. Right after I tried searching for any relationship good or bad just to fill my pain but this video taught me to do what’s best for me and not be afraid to try new things so thank you.
I couldn't have found this video at a better time. My wife and I are currently separating - we've been together for almost 8 years and have two children together. It's hard to picture my future right now when I assumed it was already planned out for me, with her. But people like you, and stories like yours, are helping me to realise there is a good life out there for me. I am lucky beyond belief to have my two children and I know I have to keep pushing for their futures as well as mine. By the way, you're a natural cinematographer. Awesome shots Shawn, thank you for this.
hey there, this hurts to hear and I really feel for you - I can only imagine what you’re going through. hopefully the future is brighter for you soon. like you said, there is a good life out there for you and it may take time to feel that way but soon those good minutes will turn to good hours which will turn to good days. all my love and wishes to you and your family. thank you for watching and for the kind words 🙏🏼
This video made my day 🙃 It's true that we are more focused on people and their thoughts about ourselves, we forgot what we really wanted to do. "Do it for yourself" this line is gonna help me in future thank you Shawn💙
Some time ago I lost my relationship with the girl I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with and that honestly made me a bit unbalanced but in a way I found myself now I enjoy the little things I feel much better, I started to read books to go outside in nature to go to church, I feel that I got very close to God and I feel at the best point in my life. I was depressed for 6 years but it seems that sometimes you really have to go through harder things to change your ways, I'm really glad I'm still here, to be honest 1 year ago I didn't even see myself getting to where I am now, what can I say, live life, enjoy it while you live.
Thank you. I'm now 68 and for me it was a 35 y relationship and we've been parted 7 years but I've still been under his control. Yesterday I found out I'm soon to be free. I'm happy but also tinged with a sadness and experiencing fear. Didn't sleep last night and this morning I was looking for some comfort via you tube and you popped up. Just what I needed. 🤗
أنا عربية، لا اتحدث اللغة الانجليزية، لكنك ظهرت لي! أنت ظهرت لي في نفس اليوم الذي أخترت نفسي فيه وفعلت شيء من أجل نفسي. شكرًا على وضوحك وصدقك وحقيقتك ❤
Absolute chills. I swear the universe knew I was ready for this message tonight. I relate to you so much; went through pretty much the exact same thing and even down to trying out film after being a digital native- I relate. But most of all, the 10 year desire and inner calling to make your channel but always putting it off… man I get that. This is my sign to take the jump. I’ve been so scared to start showing my face in front of the camera again and couldn’t find anything that felt it was enough motivation to do so, until you said “do it for yourself” and I thought of my younger self who started a TH-cam at 11 years old that went viral. I gave it up because I changed and thought people wouldn’t want the new me. This is waking me up to realize, it was never for them anyways. The blessings our art gives to the world is just the ripple effect; believing in ourselves is the greatest kindness we can do for the planet because it gives others permission to do the same and sets the example. Truly, thank you. ❤
Well said - there are so many people out there who’ve inspired me and given me that permission to share my art and the fact that my message could scratch that surface for you and others is truly an honor. You should go for it!! I look forward to seeing you in front of your own lens 📸 (and thanks so much for the kind words).
dude, I related so much to this whole entire video I started crying. I want to do exactly what you are talking about. I want to do things for myself, and in a world where it seems like you are stuck in your environment, that is a scary thought. I want to just detach from everything I've known and just be exactly what I want to be with no regret. And it pains me to think that I never will. I hope I do it.
Greatness; it was indeed much needed to me Shawn, i really appreciate your message because i myself have been going thr my darkest phase with no light to see at present, breakup, lost trust with everyone, lost so much time and respect for her but im glad with whatever god must have planned. Im going to do my best and i trust myself i will fix this life 8-9 months down the line this yr. THANK YOU SO MUCH.
I cried. This was the kind of clarity I was asking for to the universe. During the last few weeks Ive felt like ive lost my direction in life and I was giving to much to others and nothing to myself. I needed to hear those words in order to see some hope on working towards my desired goals bc were too used to not leave room for ourselves in order to be a liked person. Thank you so much for this
This storys just like mine .. I toke acid afew years ago n lost myself deep into , my mood n everything change . mentally and physically I wasn't myself for awhike and I isolated for awhile listen to music .. I jus started getting out again , fills new. Its been 3 years sence I felt ok atleast alil I got high paranoia but its cause I'm jus starting to get out again an live . Keep doin u man your amazing stay bkessed and focused on your path 🙏
I was about to sleep when I watched this video, and it motivated me to get up and brush my teeth, might be a subtle effect, silly even, but it means a lot to me. Thank you 🙏🏻
I’m VERY excited that you started this. Your storytelling is immaculate, and love that you’ve been collecting footage over the years and through the trials of life.”Do It for Yourself”… what an epic mission statement and proclamation for the beginning of this channel. Stoked for more 🙌🏼💪🏼
So so so beautiful. I love it when you find a message that you need randomly somewhere, it's really a beautiful gift that you can only receive when you're open for it. Anyway, I'm looking forward to what else you will make. See you soon!🌞
I just got out of a 2 year relationship. Same thing I poured everything into the relationship and when it ended I felt empty. For the first few days I've been depressed a woman I loved so closely and so dearly went on to live the rest of her life without me and said it could never work. I understood and through the massive blow something refracted in my heart and exploded. I'm starting to understand that it's all up to me now and that if I want to do this I will FOR ME. I'm making music, rock climbing, reading, and sometimes falling backwards from the pain. But the relationship is over for good and no matter what I'm moving forward.
Follow your joy Shawn. I am a big believer that everything happens for a reason and the universe is gently guiding you to where you need to be. Welcome to the world of TH-cam. Just remember why you started in the first place, it will keep you motivated for as long as you chose to be on this journey. "do it for yourself". :)
that's so kind, thank you! it's comforting to know that others share the same beliefs, outlooks, experiences, etc. I'm going to keep grounding myself and reminding myself why I started :)
This resonates with me on so many levels, I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years cause i felt stuck in life and my instinct told me to go out and chase my goals. It was really difficult at first but now 8 months later, I’m in a whole different country rediscovering who i really am all over again and most importantly doing it for myself. Thanks for the beautiful message Shawn.
I cant lie, this video was probably more inpactful for me than all of those other motivational ones. Just seeing someone beggining there journey thorugh self imrpovment and trying to become happy again just makes ME happy. Thank you bro.
I just ended a 20 year relationship. I’ve had this channel since 2013 and another channel since 2006. This video moves me. I want to do this for myself, too.
I’ve went through a very similar situation recently and it caused me to dive back into filmmaking. Start exploring my passions again. And the fact that I came across this amazing video is all the proof I need that this is what I should do. Thank you for making something so vulnerable and inspiring other filmmakers to pursue their passions. I can’t wait to see where your journey leads.
Shawn, I 100 % agree with every word that you just said. 6.5 years, actions serving someone else, creating a new life, Video 1, "Do it for yourself," is incredible. A triumph that I genuinely hope you are proud of. You've inspired me to do this channel I am commenting on. Thank you!
Oh man this video and the message you put in it really hit that deep spot in my mind and heart. I'm really thankful you managed to upload this because I can see it's what many needed. I've been planning moving out of my home country for the past few years and and I think a few weeks ago I finally got the determination to do it this year. It's so scary, mainly of all the people I care for that I'm gonna leave behind BUT at the same time I've thinking about it almost daily for years now because I really feel that if I don't do it then I'm never gonna take life at it's fullest and I'm never going to leave my comfort zone. Again, thank you and I hope this year and this life treats you well!
wow, that sounds like a journey! I haven't even been able to fathom actually leaving my state, although it'd be nice to give something else a try someday. kudos to you and I wish you all the best.
These videos have helped me so much recover from my breakup. Just 2 hours ago I was crying wanting the man back that left me three days ago, now I feel so happy, I don’t even want his back and I don’t despise him anymore me, I I have for him is gratitude because he treated me with kindness all the years we were dating, showered me with so much love and im grateful to him. Some hours ago I imagined ignoring him completely when I see him but now I imagine greeting him happily and treating him as a good friend. I’m so happy I found these videos, thank you for making me understand how to cherish life .
Dude. This was beautiful and inspiring. I literally got chills. Crazy shots man. The opening shot, the dusk/dawn shot at 1:45, the plants shot at 4:38. Absolutely loved the sticking your head out of the car window shot at 4:28. I'll watch this again and like actually take notes. How come you don't have a million subs already? All the best man. Subscribed.
thanks homie! love that you took the time to show love for those shots. maybe that big sub day will come, but I ain’t too worried right now. however, I do plan to be steady and consistent 🤞🏼 much love!
Im genuinely happy for you. Just went through the same phase in life and thought that the phrase "do it for yourself" really hits home. All the best with the journey ahead Shawn!
I am so proud of you not letting the curve balls of life keep you down. You are what the world needs more of, real authentic self expressing the real highs and lows. Thank you for being real.
I almost feel like you're describing exactly what I'm going through myself even with making videos again. This video is a true work of art because when you tell a story that's real, people feel that. When we feel alone, we're really not. I hope you keep uploading, I subscribed!
i learnt so much from u as i was watching the video damn it made my tears started to fall back then..... i was too scared to be alone i was too scared to go on a solo hike too scared to live alone & etc. thank you u bec u thru this video made me realized that pain is universal and i do live now not for others but for myself i know now the definition of solitude thank you, shawn 本当にありがとうございます❤
I didn’t even realise you weren’t an established TH-camr until you said that you’re starting this channel. So I check ur profile and OMG I was shocked I thank the universe and the algorithm that you came upon my feed, because your film style feels like an exhale after years of holding my breath. I cannot describe how this video made me feel… cinema is back
this is so sweet! I feel like I’m always trying to find a style and craft what feels right to me so it makes me happy that it translated well :) thanks so much for watching.
I am a creator and I have hit like a creative block and i did not really have the will to work on my next project. This video touched a part of me that did not know it could be touched, thanks for that Shawn, you have earned a subscriber!
You've always been a notably powerful and beautiful spirit and its HUGE that you're speaking up and sharing that man! Incredibly inspiring. If ur gonna get the tat bro, do it for yourself.
thanks so much :) a film/video production background has def helped but it tends to feel different when it’s your own personal work… so I’m happy you feel that way!
What a great message. If you do something in order to get revenge or make your ex jealous, you will fail without a doubt. But doing something for yourself, truly is a worthy battle.
shawn goes thru a break up: *starts wholesome self help vlog* me going thru a break up: *becomes tremendous hoe* amazing video shawn 💜 i’m crying in the streets
Nothing wrong with doing things for others - we all need help/love/support in various ways. But don’t forget to take care of yourself whenever necessary!
I’m basically in the same spot with my recent breakup because it seemed like it flipped a switch in me. Idk how to fully explain it because I thought I was self-aware before, but I now have clarity of what loving myself really means. I’m not fully there yet, but in the past I never realized how important it is to truly work on yourself, especially before trying to love others. Thank you for this video, because I honestly thought of making similar videos myself; I’m just not a great speaker and am not the best at explaining my thoughts
I've never been a great speaker! make an outline and play off of it - you can always edit or reshoot :) wish you all the best in your healing/personal journey.
@@shawnjcross honestly I probably won't end up making videos lmaoo but I'll definitely be continuing to grow as efficiently as I can. Thank you man, I wish you the best as well
Possibly one of the most important things to understand especially as an artist or creator. Something i also get lost in at times and must remind myself, "Do it for yourself" (: Loved this bro!
Shawn, I am 54 years old and I am finally at in that space. "do it for yourself". I always depended on me since I was a teenager and on my own, but I wasn't living my life. I didn't honor myself enough. Until that realization that I wasn't getting any younger and screw what others thought of me. Yes I am the under daug! But, I am all HEART! I am stretching my muscles and breaking stuff as I go!! Congrats you've arrived at such a young age. I really do hope this video becomes a domino effect! Best of luck Shawn
the beautiful thing about life is that it’s not a race! people experience life and bloom at different times within their own journeys. we live and learn whenever we do. it’s refreshing to hear your point of view - thanks for taking the time and I also wish you the best! cheers.
Hey dude I’m not even halfway through the video yet and I just want to say it’s crazy how many barriers we build in our mind to avoid doing what it is we really want to do. We make up excuses so that we have the comfort of sitting right between our dreams and comfort zone. I’m starting to realize that so many of us are going through the same exact things and have the same exact fears bouncing back on one another. I have been wanting to start a TH-cam for over a decade now and I finally pulled the trigger and decided to commit to it for that same little girl who kept waiting to be ready. Subscribed & wishing you lots of luck, growth, & most importantly fun on this journey! ✨🌟
Hi Shawn ! Thank you for sharing with us this part of your life. You are not alone and your video came to me at the right moment…I’ve always waited for the moment to do it for myself and now is time I guess thank you !
This morning I opened YT before debating to go have a run at the park. I said to myself “I’m scared going alone” and other million excuses I could find. I saw this video’s caption in the homepage. I went for a run and I felt invincible. One sentence. Thank you. PS: this is my first YT comment.
I am crying from the fact how related I feel to this.. though I can't start doing it for myself yet. Unfortunately. But I need to say thank you for this video 🙏🏻
I’ve never really put myself first, like ever, in my life.. I recently turned 27. Im always the person who puts everyone else first, always considers what they want or need. It feels selfish for me to do anything for me. I needed this thank you
my brother in christ i have one thing to say and it's thank you. thank you for guiding me, I hope to meet you in the future one day! i want to become a therapist in the future, I want to be able to give advice through my experiences like you do as well, and I want to surpass you and my expectations. So thank you for this video, it helped me with getting over my issues.
"I think I might get a tattoo". That hit me like a ton of bricks. At 68 I am just now "doing it for myself", and that one line resonated with me, as I am very close to going and getting a tattoo. My daughter has two or three, and my son has a sleeve. My Dad had them, and it's a "bucket list" item that I am about to cross off. And I know your message is not about getting a tattoo, but it is about taking care of yourself, and it is so liberating. Thanks for this short video. I'm looking forward to more!
It is said that nothing can stop an idea whose time has come. This also applies here. It is extra powerful - and sometimes magical - when that idea arrives exactly when it is needed and one is ready for it. Like that message on the bench. This video also arrived at a point where I needed something like this. Facing an important decision what could lead to a future that could become so much more ME. In terms of expression and living! IF I manage to gain what I hope from it. But scary as hell because there is financial risk about paying bills and so on in the transition period which can easily be a year. And it is kind of burning my ships in some way. I have not been stuck in a pattern of mostly serving others. Also, my new adventure will have a lot to do with serving people in the world as part of it. But the DO IT FOR YOU still is powerful for me. It reminded me how much expression and fulfilllment of ME is contained in it. Potentially. I needed to see and understand this as well - besides looking at all the struggles on the path and being plagued by fears.
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what do we think, tattoo??
hell yeah.
duh
RUN IT
I know a guy (my brother!!!). I’d be down to get it too.
U tell me!
The Fact that one Sentence written on a park bench can completely change a persons view on things and life is so incredible
I just wonder if whoever wrote it will ever see this video and then write their meaning to writing it
@@richmediafilms would be insane!
I very much agree! It’s time and place too! Something about seemingly innocuous moments can disarm you and cause that thing to happen where you smell every small, feel every breeze and everything else you’ve been muting in your life. It can amount to everything!
“You have chosen to be here, Now”
On a rock, on a hike for me. Man.
@@Slipp3rrywow …
TH-cam algorithm did me good
it's always the small creators that make the best content, this is great- love the effort
i imagine there are still countless others out there who haven't shot their shot and they are probably sitting on gold! thank you, kindly.
I agree. This inspired me. The style. The message. Maybe I'll pick up the camera after 10 years off.....I'd still be using Sony Vegas ripped from Pirate Bay 😂
I also agree. There are just so many of us unable to do just because of uncontrollable factors.
fuck it im gonna do it too
@@shawnjcross
LITERALLY.
“What you do for yourself will reflect what you can do for others”
niiice
كلام لطيف
I wanted you to know this out of love, Seek God and you will find him and when you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and put your faith in him you will be saved and he will give you his Holy Spirit who is our comforter and helper and God will give us a peace that surpasses all understanding and give you the ability to forgive and lead a life that pleases God and h
God does want the best for you and to give you hope, he loves you
@@hananhano-vq9erI wanted you to know this out of love, Seek God and you will find him and when you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and put your faith in him you will be saved and he will give you his Holy Spirit who is our comforter and helper and God will give us a peace that surpasses all understanding and give you the ability to forgive and lead a life that pleases God and h
God does want the best for you and to give you hope, he loves you
@@Zainab-v3f5xI wanted you to know this out of love, Seek God and you will find him and when you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and put your faith in him you will be saved and he will give you his Holy Spirit who is our comforter and helper and God will give us a peace that surpasses all understanding and give you the ability to forgive and lead a life that pleases God and h
God does want the best for you and to give you hope, he loves you
"i won't do it until my skills are ready" bro your filmmaking is so good already
Haha appreciate it :)
I can't agreed more ! really good though
Exactly. Seemed 💯 legit to me.
True, I agree. It looks fantastic, and fascinating, I felt so connected to the story
Sometimes the most SELFLESS thing is, to be SELFISH at some point. Because we can’t give the best of ourself unless we give the best to ourself. I heard this in a video and it has changed my relationship with myself.
"i won't do it until my skills are ready" this is soooo me at the moment, I got to stop this and just start
Let’s go buddy what’re u waiting for! :)
@@john.richter_🙃
When you realise your own life is very important and it's your job to honor the time that you're alive everything changes for the better. Thank you for sharing this video and for the honesty that reminded me of that.
Thank you Shawn and Vitoria..."it's your job to honor the time that you're alive"...I like that. At the end of a 20+ year relationship and finding my way, one step at a time. Love and best wishes to all of you.
You've hit the nail on the head. Do it for yourself. Create what looks and feels beautiful and authentic to you, completely forgetting the opinions of others. And don't care at all about being "successful", because that's not what this is really about. Best of luck to you!
thank you! and wise words - the measure of success is totally up for personal interpretation too.
Perfectly said!
Life is too short. Here’s to chasing your dreams and growing each and every day😊
cheers to that!
as a girl who recently turned 20, this video really came up at the right time. it was a truly beautiful piece of art that you shared and i feel inspired, keep making these videos !!
same, gonna be 20 in March, so it hit me with a lot of thoughts of doing things for me in ways I could feel it more connected to myself and impactful on my own life
I'm turning 20 this month.
And I feel like I have never done anything just for myself, eithout worrying what others gonna feel or think. This video motivates me too.
@@deer001 do whats best for you.. there's no one else
I wholeheartedly understand the part that you said "and I did it, for me." . I feel you man. I had a 7 year relationship that I had all these beautiful thoughts for, ended by the other person just because she found someone else. Sometimes I think about all those things she said to me, all the love, all the feelings, were they all a lie?. and then I realize all the things I did and all the hardships I went through just to be with her. every part of my life could be summarized into all of it being for her. That's why I feel the "I did it for me" part completely... meaning I hope I get the strength to do all the stuff again just for me..
Don't force anyone to be the reason of happiness, until and unless we are not the reason of the tranquility to ourselves it would nothing
One saying that's been on my mind recently is "Nothing ventured, nothing gained." As with any saying, it should be used wisely etc., but you get the gist.
Shawn, this touched me brother.
I lost my girlfriend around 6 months ago due to cancer, she was only 28.
Went to and still am going through a dark place to say the least. Figuring stuff out.
That is an important message and I am looking forward to your future productions
wow... I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine what that's like. I'm sending you lots of love and strength to keep your head up and take things one day at a time. please be easy on yourself
@@shawnjcross Soul of ADAM:
repentance (Luke 5:32 KJV)
repent (Luke 13:3 KJV)
born again ( John 3:7 KJV) ( 1 Peter 1:23)
come out from Babylon and expose it ( Revelation 18:4) (Ephesians 5:11 KJV)
forsake your evil ways (sins) (Jonah 3:10 KJV)
do the WILL of your Heavenly FATHER. (Matthew 7:21 KJV)
That is terrible. I cannot imagine the pain you're going through. Have patience and courage. I am rooting for you.
Sending love and strength to you, brother 🩷
@@shawnjcross thank you very much!
I truly appreciate that
yeah. you are the next biggest success story, don't stop, and don't be scared. you win
means the world!
"I will plant new seeds in old passions"
Hey Shawn, I hope you are doing well. Thank you for making this video and most of all for uploading it, as we all know it takes a lot of courage. Sending you love and warmth. 💌
"I did it, for me" hits hard
This is a corner of the internet that should be visited more frequently. It’s too easy to get caught up in whatever one else is doing that you forget to live our own lives, without self-imposed boundaries. Loved this video bro, keep it up!
This kind of hit me In the heart. I broke up with a girl I thought I’d marry. Knew her for probably 5 years and it broke me. Right after I tried searching for any relationship good or bad just to fill my pain but this video taught me to do what’s best for me and not be afraid to try new things so thank you.
I couldn't have found this video at a better time. My wife and I are currently separating - we've been together for almost 8 years and have two children together. It's hard to picture my future right now when I assumed it was already planned out for me, with her.
But people like you, and stories like yours, are helping me to realise there is a good life out there for me. I am lucky beyond belief to have my two children and I know I have to keep pushing for their futures as well as mine.
By the way, you're a natural cinematographer. Awesome shots Shawn, thank you for this.
hey there, this hurts to hear and I really feel for you - I can only imagine what you’re going through. hopefully the future is brighter for you soon. like you said, there is a good life out there for you and it may take time to feel that way but soon those good minutes will turn to good hours which will turn to good days. all my love and wishes to you and your family.
thank you for watching and for the kind words 🙏🏼
all love brother @@shawnjcross ❤
This video made my day 🙃
It's true that we are more focused on people and their thoughts about ourselves, we forgot what we really wanted to do.
"Do it for yourself" this line is gonna help me in future thank you Shawn💙
Some time ago I lost my relationship with the girl I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with and that honestly made me a bit unbalanced but in a way I found myself now I enjoy the little things I feel much better, I started to read books to go outside in nature to go to church, I feel that I got very close to God and I feel at the best point in my life. I was depressed for 6 years but it seems that sometimes you really have to go through harder things to change your ways, I'm really glad I'm still here, to be honest 1 year ago I didn't even see myself getting to where I am now, what can I say, live life, enjoy it while you live.
Thank you. I'm now 68 and for me it was a 35 y relationship and we've been parted 7 years but I've still been under his control. Yesterday I found out I'm soon to be free. I'm happy but also tinged with a sadness and experiencing fear. Didn't sleep last night and this morning I was looking for some comfort via you tube and you popped up. Just what I needed. 🤗
أنا عربية، لا اتحدث اللغة الانجليزية، لكنك ظهرت لي!
أنت ظهرت لي في نفس اليوم الذي أخترت نفسي فيه وفعلت شيء من أجل نفسي.
شكرًا على وضوحك وصدقك وحقيقتك ❤
مرحبًا! هذا مذهل
Absolute chills. I swear the universe knew I was ready for this message tonight. I relate to you so much; went through pretty much the exact same thing and even down to trying out film after being a digital native- I relate. But most of all, the 10 year desire and inner calling to make your channel but always putting it off… man I get that. This is my sign to take the jump. I’ve been so scared to start showing my face in front of the camera again and couldn’t find anything that felt it was enough motivation to do so, until you said “do it for yourself” and I thought of my younger self who started a TH-cam at 11 years old that went viral. I gave it up because I changed and thought people wouldn’t want the new me. This is waking me up to realize, it was never for them anyways. The blessings our art gives to the world is just the ripple effect; believing in ourselves is the greatest kindness we can do for the planet because it gives others permission to do the same and sets the example.
Truly, thank you. ❤
Also, this video is absolutely amazing. Your vulnerability / authenticity is so contagious and inspiring, and your video work is so beautiful.
Well said - there are so many people out there who’ve inspired me and given me that permission to share my art and the fact that my message could scratch that surface for you and others is truly an honor. You should go for it!! I look forward to seeing you in front of your own lens 📸 (and thanks so much for the kind words).
Absolutely true! Anyways clearly read all your writting and it's interesting post🌸
dude, I related so much to this whole entire video I started crying. I want to do exactly what you are talking about. I want to do things for myself, and in a world where it seems like you are stuck in your environment, that is a scary thought. I want to just detach from everything I've known and just be exactly what I want to be with no regret. And it pains me to think that I never will.
I hope I do it.
You can do it!!!!
"The days were a haze and the actions really were futile"... This is exactly what how I feel right now...
Greatness; it was indeed much needed to me Shawn, i really appreciate your message because i myself have been going thr my darkest phase with no light to see at present, breakup, lost trust with everyone, lost so much time and respect for her but im glad with whatever god must have planned. Im going to do my best and i trust myself i will fix this life 8-9 months down the line this yr. THANK YOU SO MUCH.
I cried. This was the kind of clarity I was asking for to the universe. During the last few weeks Ive felt like ive lost my direction in life and I was giving to much to others and nothing to myself. I needed to hear those words in order to see some hope on working towards my desired goals bc were too used to not leave room for ourselves in order to be a liked person. Thank you so much for this
Currently facing this hope you're doing well
This storys just like mine ..
I toke acid afew years ago n lost myself deep into , my mood n everything change . mentally and physically I wasn't myself for awhike and I isolated for awhile listen to music .. I jus started getting out again , fills new. Its been 3 years sence I felt ok atleast alil
I got high paranoia but its cause I'm jus starting to get out again an live .
Keep doin u man your amazing stay bkessed and focused on your path 🙏
I was about to sleep when I watched this video, and it motivated me to get up and brush my teeth, might be a subtle effect, silly even, but it means a lot to me. Thank you 🙏🏻
I wish you and all those reading this comment the very best of luck on your journeys…..Just remember “It doesn’t get easier but we become stronger”…..
Great cinematography and even better message 🙌🏾
thanks Charlie! that means a lot. thank you for watching.
I’m VERY excited that you started this. Your storytelling is immaculate, and love that you’ve been collecting footage over the years and through the trials of life.”Do It for Yourself”… what an epic mission statement and proclamation for the beginning of this channel. Stoked for more 🙌🏼💪🏼
thanks for the kind words man! and i appreciate you noticing the details ✨
So so so beautiful. I love it when you find a message that you need randomly somewhere, it's really a beautiful gift that you can only receive when you're open for it. Anyway, I'm looking forward to what else you will make. See you soon!🌞
I just got out of a 2 year relationship. Same thing I poured everything into the relationship and when it ended I felt empty. For the first few days I've been depressed a woman I loved so closely and so dearly went on to live the rest of her life without me and said it could never work. I understood and through the massive blow something refracted in my heart and exploded. I'm starting to understand that it's all up to me now and that if I want to do this I will FOR ME. I'm making music, rock climbing, reading, and sometimes falling backwards from the pain. But the relationship is over for good and no matter what I'm moving forward.
you got this! it’s a tough journey but I hope you can continue to keep filling your life with the things that make your heart full
Follow your joy Shawn. I am a big believer that everything happens for a reason and the universe is gently guiding you to where you need to be. Welcome to the world of TH-cam. Just remember why you started in the first place, it will keep you motivated for as long as you chose to be on this journey. "do it for yourself". :)
that's so kind, thank you! it's comforting to know that others share the same beliefs, outlooks, experiences, etc. I'm going to keep grounding myself and reminding myself why I started :)
This resonates with me on so many levels, I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years cause i felt stuck in life and my instinct told me to go out and chase my goals. It was really difficult at first but now 8 months later, I’m in a whole different country rediscovering who i really am all over again and most importantly doing it for myself.
Thanks for the beautiful message Shawn.
Damn... 4 years of her life gone just like that
I cant lie, this video was probably more inpactful for me than all of those other motivational ones. Just seeing someone beggining there journey thorugh self imrpovment and trying to become happy again just makes ME happy. Thank you bro.
I just ended a 20 year relationship. I’ve had this channel since 2013 and another channel since 2006. This video moves me. I want to do this for myself, too.
I’ve went through a very similar situation recently and it caused me to dive back into filmmaking. Start exploring my passions again. And the fact that I came across this amazing video is all the proof I need that this is what I should do. Thank you for making something so vulnerable and inspiring other filmmakers to pursue their passions. I can’t wait to see where your journey leads.
Shawn, I 100 % agree with every word that you just said. 6.5 years, actions serving someone else, creating a new life, Video 1, "Do it for yourself," is incredible. A triumph that I genuinely hope you are proud of. You've inspired me to do this channel I am commenting on. Thank you!
I appreciate it - wishing you luck on your journey!
@@shawnjcross Hey thanks so much!
One of the most beautiful videos and realizations I've had this year, 2024. 💖
Oh man this video and the message you put in it really hit that deep spot in my mind and heart. I'm really thankful you managed to upload this because I can see it's what many needed.
I've been planning moving out of my home country for the past few years and and I think a few weeks ago I finally got the determination to do it this year. It's so scary, mainly of all the people I care for that I'm gonna leave behind BUT at the same time I've thinking about it almost daily for years now because I really feel that if I don't do it then I'm never gonna take life at it's fullest and I'm never going to leave my comfort zone.
Again, thank you and I hope this year and this life treats you well!
wow, that sounds like a journey! I haven't even been able to fathom actually leaving my state, although it'd be nice to give something else a try someday. kudos to you and I wish you all the best.
These videos have helped me so much recover from my breakup.
Just 2 hours ago I was crying wanting the man back that left me three days ago, now I feel so happy, I don’t even want his back and I don’t despise him anymore me, I I have for him is gratitude because he treated me with kindness all the years we were dating, showered me with so much love and im grateful to him. Some hours ago I imagined ignoring him completely when I see him but now I imagine greeting him happily and treating him as a good friend.
I’m so happy I found these videos, thank you for making me understand how to cherish life .
For me 🙂 but i didn't forget her memories
Dude. This was beautiful and inspiring. I literally got chills. Crazy shots man. The opening shot, the dusk/dawn shot at 1:45, the plants shot at 4:38. Absolutely loved the sticking your head out of the car window shot at 4:28. I'll watch this again and like actually take notes. How come you don't have a million subs already? All the best man. Subscribed.
thanks homie! love that you took the time to show love for those shots. maybe that big sub day will come, but I ain’t too worried right now. however, I do plan to be steady and consistent 🤞🏼 much love!
Amazing video brother , keep going
Im genuinely happy for you. Just went through the same phase in life and thought that the phrase "do it for yourself" really hits home. All the best with the journey ahead Shawn!
sorry to hear that you went through something similar! appreciate you watching, wishing you the best as well!
i cried. THIS CHANGED HOW I SEE LIFE, i will live for myself.
Learnings are all around u, they jst need to be recognized!
I am so proud of you not letting the curve balls of life keep you down. You are what the world needs more of, real authentic self expressing the real highs and lows. Thank you for being real.
I almost feel like you're describing exactly what I'm going through myself even with making videos again. This video is a true work of art because when you tell a story that's real, people feel that. When we feel alone, we're really not. I hope you keep uploading, I subscribed!
Really appreciate that. We’re def not alone :)
i learnt so much from u
as i was watching the video damn it made my tears started to fall
back then.....
i was too scared to be alone
i was too scared to go on a solo hike
too scared to live alone & etc.
thank you u bec u thru this video
made me realized that pain is universal
and i do live now not for others but for myself
i know now the definition of solitude
thank you, shawn
本当にありがとうございます❤
Thank you for this brother, I needed it tonight.
Shawnnnn ❤❤❤for my own SELFISH REASONS NEVER STOP POSTING 🌟🌟
I didn’t even realise you weren’t an established TH-camr until you said that you’re starting this channel. So I check ur profile and OMG I was shocked
I thank the universe and the algorithm that you came upon my feed, because your film style feels like an exhale after years of holding my breath. I cannot describe how this video made me feel… cinema is back
this is so sweet! I feel like I’m always trying to find a style and craft what feels right to me so it makes me happy that it translated well :) thanks so much for watching.
I am a creator and I have hit like a creative block and i did not really have the will to work on my next project. This video touched a part of me that did not know it could be touched, thanks for that Shawn, you have earned a subscriber!
Thank you, this was incredible. Your words are so meaningful, they can change a person's life in a very positive way. #DoItForYourself
thank you! 💪🏼
Thank, Shawn. I'm 21 years old and you know, it's difficult, trying to find my purpose... Bendiciones❤
You've always been a notably powerful and beautiful spirit and its HUGE that you're speaking up and sharing that man! Incredibly inspiring. If ur gonna get the tat bro, do it for yourself.
aw what the hell man, that’s very kind! always felt similarly of you 🫶🏼
thanks for taking the time to watch. it’s tattoo time!
From one people pleaser to another, well done, brother.
On all of it. The journey, the self-love, the video. Well done.
You say you're just starting, but you are already such a wonderful story teller. Looking forward to more.
thanks so much :) a film/video production background has def helped but it tends to feel different when it’s your own personal work… so I’m happy you feel that way!
What a great message. If you do something in order to get revenge or make your ex jealous, you will fail without a doubt. But doing something for yourself, truly is a worthy battle.
The message really resonated with me. The cinematography was brilliant. This video made my day. Thanks.
🙏🏼
Hey you reading this, thanks for being on this planet, you are important to me, go plant those seeds :)💜
shawn goes thru a break up: *starts wholesome self help vlog*
me going thru a break up: *becomes tremendous hoe*
amazing video shawn 💜 i’m crying in the streets
LMAO love you bb. thank you 🖤
LOL my type of peeps! Keeping it real!!
this is exactly what im going through. you dont know how much this hit me. thank you.
Wow. Your story of change feels almost identical to mine. Thank you for sharing this. It's fuel for this part of my journey.
you got this!
that's the thing with me, i don't love/like myself that much to do it for me, i do for my parents, siblings, anyone but myself
Nothing wrong with doing things for others - we all need help/love/support in various ways. But don’t forget to take care of yourself whenever necessary!
I'm doing the same thing man! good luck with it!
likewise!
make someone
smile every day.
but never forget
that you are someone too.
such a motivating message and amazing video. crazy what words can do
thank you 🙏🏼 words be powerful
I’m basically in the same spot with my recent breakup because it seemed like it flipped a switch in me. Idk how to fully explain it because I thought I was self-aware before, but I now have clarity of what loving myself really means. I’m not fully there yet, but in the past I never realized how important it is to truly work on yourself, especially before trying to love others. Thank you for this video, because I honestly thought of making similar videos myself; I’m just not a great speaker and am not the best at explaining my thoughts
I've never been a great speaker! make an outline and play off of it - you can always edit or reshoot :) wish you all the best in your healing/personal journey.
@@shawnjcross honestly I probably won't end up making videos lmaoo but I'll definitely be continuing to grow as efficiently as I can. Thank you man, I wish you the best as well
Just beautiful
Possibly one of the most important things to understand especially as an artist or creator. Something i also get lost in at times and must remind myself, "Do it for yourself" (: Loved this bro!
Shawn, I am 54 years old and I am finally at in that space. "do it for yourself". I always depended on me since I was a teenager and on my own, but I wasn't living my life. I didn't honor myself enough. Until that realization that I wasn't getting any younger and screw what others thought of me. Yes I am the under daug! But, I am all HEART! I am stretching my muscles and breaking stuff as I go!! Congrats you've arrived at such a young age. I really do hope this video becomes a domino effect! Best of luck Shawn
the beautiful thing about life is that it’s not a race! people experience life and bloom at different times within their own journeys. we live and learn whenever we do. it’s refreshing to hear your point of view - thanks for taking the time and I also wish you the best! cheers.
Hey dude I’m not even halfway through the video yet and I just want to say it’s crazy how many barriers we build in our mind to avoid doing what it is we really want to do. We make up excuses so that we have the comfort of sitting right between our dreams and comfort zone. I’m starting to realize that so many of us are going through the same exact things and have the same exact fears bouncing back on one another.
I have been wanting to start a TH-cam for over a decade now and I finally pulled the trigger and decided to commit to it for that same little girl who kept waiting to be ready.
Subscribed & wishing you lots of luck, growth, & most importantly fun on this journey! ✨🌟
What a beautiful video! Please create more 🙏🏼
Thank you! More coming soon!
Probably got here when I needed the most. Thanks for making this video! It was so fantastic!
SHAWN CROSS SUPREMACY
i love you
Hi Shawn !
Thank you for sharing with us this part of your life. You are not alone and your video came to me at the right moment…I’ve always waited for the moment to do it for myself and now is time I guess thank you !
good luck bro...
I saw Justin Bieber on thumbnail and clicked rhe video 😂
I’m crying
@@shawnjcross plss don't 🤭
This morning I opened YT before debating to go have a run at the park. I said to myself “I’m scared going alone” and other million excuses I could find. I saw this video’s caption in the homepage. I went for a run and I felt invincible. One sentence. Thank you.
PS: this is my first YT comment.
that's what i'm talking about!!
Do it for God, Jesus loves you
Jesus is not god. How can he die if he’s god?
I love finding little gems like this channel that inspire me to move forward even when it can feel like an impossible task
This video is simply beautiful, and I especially admire its depth and aesthetics.And that was a sign for me. Thank you for starting this business.
Oww 🥺”today is the day” hits me … then your pov in life really inspired me to start working on my dreams
I am crying from the fact how related I feel to this.. though I can't start doing it for myself yet. Unfortunately. But I need to say thank you for this video 🙏🏻
FEEL you on every level here... start.. stop... change of relationship... change of life .... STARTING over (for real this time)💪
I´m in so much tears.. Thank you Shawn! All the way from Sweden.
I’ve never really put myself first, like ever, in my life.. I recently turned 27. Im always the person who puts everyone else first, always considers what they want or need. It feels selfish for me to do anything for me.
I needed this thank you
my brother in christ i have one thing to say and it's thank you. thank you for guiding me, I hope to meet you in the future one day! i want to become a therapist in the future, I want to be able to give advice through my experiences like you do as well, and I want to surpass you and my expectations. So thank you for this video, it helped me with getting over my issues.
get after it!
"I think I might get a tattoo". That hit me like a ton of bricks. At 68 I am just now "doing it for myself", and that one line resonated with me, as I am very close to going and getting a tattoo. My daughter has two or three, and my son has a sleeve. My Dad had them, and it's a "bucket list" item that I am about to cross off. And I know your message is not about getting a tattoo, but it is about taking care of yourself, and it is so liberating. Thanks for this short video. I'm looking forward to more!
It is said that nothing can stop an idea whose time has come. This also applies here.
It is extra powerful - and sometimes magical - when that idea arrives exactly when it is needed and one is ready for it. Like that message on the bench.
This video also arrived at a point where I needed something like this.
Facing an important decision what could lead to a future that could become so much more ME. In terms of expression and living! IF I manage to gain what I hope from it.
But scary as hell because there is financial risk about paying bills and so on in the transition period which can easily be a year. And it is kind of burning my ships in some way.
I have not been stuck in a pattern of mostly serving others. Also, my new adventure will have a lot to do with serving people in the world as part of it.
But the DO IT FOR YOU still is powerful for me. It reminded me how much expression and fulfilllment of ME is contained in it. Potentially.
I needed to see and understand this as well - besides looking at all the struggles on the path and being plagued by fears.
When you hit rock bottom at that point you got to know that you can't fall more, the only way left is upward
exactly right
feels pretty awesome to know that people are just living life and going through problems like everyone else. its liberating
The wound is the place where the light enters you. Excited to witness your journey! Much love from Switzerland.
love that quote. much love!