They are very good at reading body language and energy. It’s like an animal instinct when they hunt for prey. They can smell fear and weakness and will attack if they view someone as an “easy mark”… I used to be victimized frequently. It’s taken a lot of inner strength and willpower to set healthy boundaries and fight off predatory people when they try to encroach on me. And the thing is, its worse than ever today. Vigilance is imperative.
From my own experiences, it's disheartening to see how some individuals with narcissistic tendencies view others as mere opportunities. It can be especially challenging when this behavior manifests within a toxic household. It's crucial for us to recognize and prioritize our own well-being amidst such circumstances. Remember, you deserve to be valued and respected for who you are.
Guess what guys!!!!? I think I found a job! 2 days out of the narc house, and I think I found a job that pays well enough to get me in my own place within a week! Couldn't have done this without you, Andrew, and the Love in this community to encourage and push me! Yay!!!!!!! I'm jumping up and down all excited like!! Thank you! 🎉🎉🎉👍😁❤️
Here’s some hope! God is powerful. So powerful that he can make the narcissist FEEL REMORSE, when normally they refuse to. I have found Gods love and grace, and I know that he will do for you what you can’t. Anyone who destroys hearts, is not gonna like what comes next. The more painful the treatment is to an empath, the more severe the remorse for the narcissist.
I've lost count of the number of narcissists I've been targeted by. I wasn't a good enough cook, I wasn't worth anything as I didn't want kids, I was a bad lover because I wouldn't have sex with strangers, I was arrogant because I spoke common sense... The worst thing about a narcissist is his dumbass weak friends who enable and even encourage him to hurt others. There's very few people that I even tolerate being around now as I've been amongst so many toxic cult mentality groups its unreal.
God told me that I’ve been separated from the circus. We have similar life experiences. Maybe your experiences have lead you to be separated from the circus too. I started speaking in such profound ways, that my coworkers were left speechless. I talk about my abuse and my enlightenment with them, and we have great discussions, sometimes heated. I believe God did this for the best of reasons for me, so that I could explain the levity we need in this world. It has caused me to really come out of my shell, and not care so much about the circus of humanity.
It was after I left him that I fell down the rabbit hole into narcissistic abuse information to fully understand what was going on in my "marriage." One of the most difficult pills to swallow is that he was just using me ... which I've come to understand and accept. Yes, he is a masterful manipulator, and I was an uneducated empath. I am very much not that person anymore. 😊You are always so spot on, Andrew, with this information and everything you say aids my healing. Thank you.
Yes. Unreal how we know what the other has experienced. We get it! But others don’t as we didn’t. Until we have become educated. I began to heal when I found Andrews channel as well. Wishing you and all of us the very best of everything💖💖
They see you as a threat when they realize you see through their mask. You become an enemy because you know what they are up to, and they do not want you to expose their money-making scheme that will cost many others their homes. These are dangerous individuals who's selfishness and greed know no limit.
Thank you for this video --- 100% true. Love "the days of being a punching bag, an ATM are over." May I add, the days of being a blood bank are over----because narks are vampires.
I put an end to my family members and the manipulation. I had to block several because they have no boundaries. They don’t love you! They just take and take and never reciprocate! I’ve been standing firm for four years with my family and will never cave. We are all God’s children and deserve to be loved. Blood has nothing to do with behavior and narcissistic abuse is not anything anyone is expected to endure. What’s interesting is when I put my foot down and stood up for myself they lost interest. When you ask yourself what positives came out of all your stepping and fetching, sadly you’ll be surprised that there aren’t any. We can chose our friends, but our family members are handed to us. Say no to anyone who is manipulative and unkind and do not feel guilty. It’s not your job to fix them or the drama they create. You need to pray for your loved ones who have been brainwashed especially your children, but don’t ever let them back into your life. Their goal is to crush you!❤💪🏻
I had to boot some family members as well. I still love them, but I don't need them....or their drama and manipulation. I feel so much better now. And i don't have to dance to their tune. They used to say....."I expected more from you" And i responded....."Well GET USED to disappointment" The Load they put on me was so heavy. Even now they still communicate via other family members - but I've had enough. I did not know how many Narcs I had in my life until I started getting rid of them. Piss on them and the entire Hee Haw Gang !!!
@@risky1 What gets me is they just find their next target and continue the same pattern, however you are smeared. It’s also disturbing how they expect you to work your butt off, but they are very stingy and wouldn’t dream of helping anyone. I’ve even seen this extend to the collection basket at church as well as donations in other situations and there’s no giving back.
Equally important as getting educated about the narcissist, is taking the time to study ourselves. What in us made us prey to them? Its necessary to identify & make the proper adjustments for prevention. Education along with application go hand in hand to protect further repetition. 🎀😘
Yes 🙌🏻 in order that I do t become like them, a perpetual victim, I slaughter after what my own culpability was and how I became and enabler. I was a people pleaser, and now I still am one but qualitatively different. Thank you for your post.
The narcissist can appear to be intelligent, then you realise that they parrot the intelligent ones. They have a particular formula that they just repeat and continually hone. You realise that it is just 'same old.' Like criminals perfecting their art-form A very limited type of creativity.
Oh the grandkids. How i just adore being held to ransom! I have been told, I have nothing she (DIL) wants, she has everything I want, my son, my grandkids. True love. God is greater, more powerful,,omnipotent. Its all about the next generation. 😊❤ I will not pour time energy anything into such a toxic person.
It amazes me that you do this every day, and have been doing so for a long time. I watch every day also, and your wisdom is helping me significantly. I joined your channel about a month ago, and watch 2 videos each day. I don’t want to take in too much info at once (so I can process), but I also want to hear past lessons. I’ve been free since March (5 months) from a 12-year experience. The narcissist was my boss. I also don’t like that term, so I say the owner of the shop. I haven’t worked since, because I don’t want to go back to doing the same type of job and consciously or subconsciously expect the same treatment from a different shop owner. So I work on healing every day. I did have a big revelation yesterday, remembering a specific gaslighting incident that connected to a few occurrences *years* prior. That revelation cut a few more cords of attachment, and it blew my mind several times over within just a few minutes. Thank you for your teaching. I see progress already and I look forward to listening to you each day and learning from your gentle guidance. Namaste 🙏🏻✨❤️
I have a small child ,he calls him all the time ,I work a lot around my house and in the house ,I see how much work i have and I see how cant i go away for job couse I cant take my child out of country ,I see narcissist in the family all they ignore me couse I was with a narcissist .Life is hard and if you dont get the wisdom it will cost you so much and nothing is worth as your freedom
Spot on Andrew. I remember hearing a guy I met year's ago who was literally giving a numerical analysis of every single item his current target 'owned'. He had done a complete inventory of her vehicle, house, farming equipment and was talking about what each item was worth. This is what they look for. And they have every intention of stealing it from you. They will help themselves to everything you've worked for because they literally believe that they are entitled to it. Once again I will caution people to never ever have a joint bank account with anyone. It's absolutely not necessary. They will keep putting pressure on you to do that. Don't ever allow 'anyone' to have access to your hard earned money.
This is true. I seriously believe my ex was after my house, he kept trying to get me to kick my sons out and sell it, that was never going to happen. He's now with someone who has left her husband for him and she's looking to buy a house and so the cycle continues.
You are correct. I am now awakened to the fact that everyone has taken advantage. But, MOST people don't like that. They try to utterly destroy or punish me when I set clear boundaries. Now I just stay to myself with high boundaries, a lonely place, but a necessary place for survival and peace of mind.
I thank the universe for making me the way I am and not into some selfish, soulless, unconscionable, unfeeling, insensitive, greedy empty carcass of a human.
Year's ago an old friend of mine from highschool shared with me that on the very 'day' of her wedding...Her pastor spoke with her to tell her that her husband to be..was a complete FAKE. Her fiance had the Rolex watch - the fancy car - the designer clothing et al. It was actually her own brother that came to the pastor to tell him that my friends future husband was actually completely bankrupt but lying about everything. Future faking vacations - a new home etc. My friend literally in her wedding dress...walked out of the church and left him at the alter. She was already pregnant with his child but hadn't said a word to him about that. Thankfully...her daughter is absolutely wonderful and never had to meet her biological father who was a complete piece of trash. She was raised by my friend as well as her parents (grandparents). Just a heads-up 💚🙏💌
Resources the narcissist is looking for can include a good credit rating. My ex was always complaining that banks would only lend him money at a higher rate. That they did not understand that his situation was ‘special’, that we deserved more than his tax return showed as income. Now I have all the stress and am chained to a a corporate job while he plays at his low-income business and pockets the rent on our jointly owned property. It pains me to be tied to him.
Please go talk to a lawyer about how you can get your future separate from the narcissist's. When there's a will, there's a way, my Dad used to always say. Just know that you are not trapped in the narc relationship. You CAN find a way to leave safely if you truly want to leave as much as you want to breathe. Best wishes to you! ❤️ 🙏 ☀️
I haven't listened to the news or watched a movie since Feb'22. My day is full now, abundant and flowing peacefully, since he left me last year. There is an energy shift. I still have health issues to overcome and to secure my home and finances, as well as trying to heal our family because he divided us as a family but they are no longer around to disrupt my life. Thats a win for me. I will keep vigilant. They want to defeat you in every sense of the word, only if you let them. The stronger you get the more aware you become....they lose their grip of you and fade into insignificance. Thank you Andrew for helping us all. God bless you.
I stopped listening to what the Government wanted me to believe back in 2011 Fukushima, or was it 9/11, or maybe it was the death of Diana? 🤔🤨 Certainly, recent events have woken many up and that is creating a significant energy shift.
Great video Andrew. Yes my ex narcissist definitely saw me as a huge opportunity to use and exploit. He wanted to take everything from me until there was nothing left of me. If he could have he would have destroyed me completely. Thankfully I took the discard as an opportunity to run away and disappear from him. Now I'm back in control of my life and I do not need or want anything from him ever again. Thank you Andrew for the video and thank you everyone for your kind words.
✨🎶🙏sometimes the narc will play dumb as a lure to draw you in. They are by default , calculated, manipulative con-stantly planning out an opportunity!! Get out your narc-a scissors......cut yourself free....hit the open road and the highway to the sun. Claim your " I am " abundance!! The " now " is all ours!! ✨🎶✨🎶✨🎶✨🎶✨🙏🌱💞
I grew up with a grandiose narcissistic parent- so I was very aware of narcissistic abuse throughout my childhood. I knew the way they speak. The gaslighting techniques they use and manipulation tactics they constantly use to get out of trouble. What I never learned though- even through experiencing first hand abuse from a grandiose narcissist- is that there are different KINDS of narcissists. I didnt know about Covert Narcissism at all. I never knew that a narcissist could come across as sweet, kind and caring at first. It was a brutal lesson to learn. I had to learn ALL about love bombing, "supplies", the silent treatment, and many other awful emotional tactics used by Covert Narcissists. What I learned through this entire experience, is that even if you THINK you know the signs of a narcissist- you STILL can be decieved. Covert Narcissists truly are the epitome of Wolves in Sheeps Clothing.
Mine was covert. It was so confusing. Some of his tactics were the same as my mother’s Eg subtle put downs and indifference. This made me realise (and with the narc knowledge) that my mother was a narc too (because of her upbringing). She was grandiose. He also made sweet gestures, a gift from the supermarket, thoughtful birthday meals etc this was during the relationship not just at the beginning. But then there were those horrific rages. He was truly Jekyll and Hyde. I was fragmented at the end, my brain wouldn’t work (😵💫 !!) and such dreadful exhaustion that I was off work long term. That’s what living with a narc/sociopath does to someone who stays too long. If anyone is thinking of leaving, do it as soon as you can. Don’t end up like I did. Thanks for flagging up covert types. Even after getting away the confusion has continued for years. But I see the light now and am on the mend! Peace and blessings to you on your healing journey. 🌸
My mother takes any opportunity she can - she’s 83…I’m 48…I feel like it’s never going to end until she dies. I’ve been looking after her as she’s been very unwell but as she’s improved, she’s manipulated me to continue to deliver many hours of care a day - out of guilt and obligation I’ve done that but I’ve become very resentful because what I really wanted was no contact. Finally I broke as she was telling me repeatedly how horrible I was…that was my breaking point…2 weeks have passed now she has her friends texting and phoning me, pressuring me to go back to her. I can’t do it…I’d rather die than go back to any more of her evilness and poison. This makes me feel horrible as a person but I just can’t do it and why does she even want me when she’s got other people there…I’m desperate to be just left alone 💕. Thank the lord for this channel 🙏💕🙏💕🙏
I"m in the process of cutting ties and recently learned about triangulation as this is what was used on me to destroy our relationship. He is looking for cracks that can be used to stay in my life but it won't work. Your videos have given me clarity and strength Andrew. Thank you from the fullness of my heart.
Again Andrew, I got to hand it to you, man. Your videos put in words all the things I went through and had no idea what was happening to me. If I had not gone through this as you describe to the letter, I would still be carrying the guilt, depression, unsure of myself and a host of other messed up thinking for who knows how long. You and the people on this channel are so much appriciated by me . Thank you, thank you!!
❤❤❤ Very few narcissists out in nature in my experience (while enjoying your message that’s where I am and it’s people enjoying the beauty, kids at play…). The planet 🌎 is shifting - made me feel SO Grateful to hear that. Let the narcissism on this planet FADE AWAY. Yessss. Okay, so naïveté is a big part of the history and why I was taken advantage of for sure. Education is combating this and is winning and YOU have championed so many of us getting to this point of GETTING THE MESSAGE. Many blessings to you Andrew and all for joy, peace, strength and for those who need healing. ❤🙏💪
Thank you, Andrew, for all the narcissism education with many great examples that you put into this video. The energy vibrations are certainly changing on this planet as more and more of us are becoming educated about narcissism, healing, working on rebuilding our lives, and helping others in a similar situation to get out so they can heal too. This positive energy at a higher vibration is making its way around the planet and can be felt more and more these days. Namaste. 🙏 ❤️
I feel for my narc ex gf’s new bf. If they’ve already gotten married after just getting back together in October 2022, unless he’s a bigger narc, he’s really stepped in it.
Yep! I’m learning from your channel and healing! Didn’t know what a narcissist was but I do now! Kicked him out of my life and now I’m Free To Be Me! Thank You So Much!🤗💫 Namaste
Hello Andrew and friends!!!! Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!!! ❤❤❤ 😛 My little nephew is over here 🥰😇😁 Sorry for the delayed response 🤭 It goes back to the narc underestimating the Empath. 😬 Miiiiistake 💪😁💋 EVERY. TIME! Love y’alll 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗 Stay the HEŁŁ away from narcs! They are like a WRECKING BALL that comes along and reduces your life to rubble. Treat them with utter indifference! ❤❤❤ EXCELLENT video Andrew! LOVED it!Nailed it AGAIN!!! 😘💋😘💋😘🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹
Andrew, have you ever considered occasionally interviewing those who have experienced narcissism? This is not a criticism of your invaluable videos, but rather just a fleeting thought. You are clearly a thoughtful and decent sort. Hence, you would make a great interviewer.
They prey on others. They watch us, they learn, they mirror us, and go in for the kill. They know exactly what they're doing, especially when they are grown adults and it ain't their first rodeo. They know because of the hurt they leave behind, and the Damage they cause. I have to admit, I feel quite hateful right now towards my ex narc, and I don't like to feel those kind of negative Vibes towards anyone. This is why I love coming back to your channel, Andrew, for reminders on what the healing process entails.❤ thank you!
gailyh, you are 100% right on that. They do their homework then they attack! 🙏👀👍 I was with him 5 years, then I left him. He rebounded and was married 2 weeks later to a very rich woman.💰💰
Andrew that's 💯true , I was asked how my grandson was keeping, in comments on another channel,, There not the Brightest Light in the Barn,,,we can weed them out very quick ,🌺🌟🌼❤️❤️
They will say or ask silly irrelevant questions to see our response, if we appear agitated in any way.....they get fed.... supply!!! This is why I believe they act as dumb as possible. They are a preditor in the ambush.!! Lurking and waiting.💞💞💞💞
Wow yes 🙌 For me, going through and overcoming the most extreme toxic relationship is what it took to open my eyes to everything I felt in my gut was the off throughout my entire life and my backpack feels so light now…(and I was carrying a lot of bricks) I am now grateful for that time of contention because that’s what it took to bring in the Spirit of the Lord in order to help me see… I believe in silver linings ❣️ You are so correct, I feel the shift in the paradigm andI think it’s amazing how the Lord strategically places us and works through us to do His will… “Life is Gods novel, let Him write it” I thank Heavenly Father every day through the power of the Holy Spirit in the sacred name of Jesus Christ 🙏 “The Merciful Obtains Mercy” -Dieter Uchtdorf
The workplace bully likes to keep your birthday off of the staff calendar during your birthday month. Watch it for it, they don’t like you being recognized or celebrated. It’s very embarrassing and degrading. Shine through it though. Don’t let them take away the power from within you. Be the bigger person, you know what they’re doing is wrong and they do too. Birthdays are special, we are all special! 🎉 …and no, today is not my birthday. 😆 I’m just using a real life example
Wow birthdays, I just stopped wanting to celebrate mine, because she would count down for two months to hers and announce it every other day. I finally screamed that we all have birthdays too! We know when your birthday is, how could we not! She stopped counting down after that, but I paid for it in so many disgusting spiteful ways.
@@christopherbrubaker2070 I’m really sorry to hear this 😔 Your birthday matters just as much, don’t ever forget that!! 🎂🎉🥳 Birthdays are very special, there’s only one YOU on the planet! In the entire world!! Making it another trip around the sun deserves to be celebrated. 🌞✨💚 What I’m really learning is just to allow the narcissist to stew. Let them do what they’re going to do because they’re going to do it regardless.
@@danielle1103 Thank you for caring. I don’t know if I can care about my birthday. I guess someday maybe. I’ve gotten used to no one caring about it. You know maybe your right though, I could claim I’m one year old after the narcissist I suppose. That’s a good year. Yah, ok, I think I will celebrate it now. Thank you. I like that you spelled it out about one orbit around the sun. Very nice!😁😁😁
@@christopherbrubaker2070 This makes me so happy!! You’re welcome and I care about your birthday, I mean it, I do!! 🥳🎂🎉🎊 If your birthday has already passed then Happy belated Birthday and if it’s yet to come, I hope it’s a great one for you because you deserve it!! Take the time to celebrate and maybe get some cake, if you like birthday cake🎂 Or do something fun you enjoy doing, it’s your special day. I can’t recall where I heard that birthdays are another trip around the sun, but it’s fun to equate it to that 😁 it’s totally true.
I came across your video..i believe i have come across a few narcissist in my life...i dont always look at my best interest and iam a person with empathy for others....but i have always protected myself...one think i realize over time people dont think the same way..as me..its a difficult lesson to learn
anne6406, You sound a lot like me. I've always been an empath and all my friends were empaths. Sometimes we are "blind" to the narcissist until we LEARN, and I learned the hard way. This was over 12 years ago, but now, I can feel them around me. Welcome...🌷💗🌞
Research childhood emotional neglect, then you will put the puzzles together as why you and me became the target out there! The root cause is not the narcs, it is our parents the 2 ppl you thought who loved you the most damaged us psychologically so we were after people who doesn't love us to constantly seek validation and be fit in this cycle! It is scary after you realized what really happened! Once you heal this, you are content and you are done with narcs in the mating process!!
Thanks, Andrew. Looks hot in the Carolinas. Took me decades to get it that they don't think like me. My mentor, I finally realized, was standing in my way. Even tried to get $$ out of me when I won an award. Thank God I didn't give him a cent, which was rare for me. 🏆
Bread crumbs of hope (like Andrew explains)strung me along for 21 years, he manipulated my relationship with his kids to where we didn't have a relationship(like Anrew explains,) and found several emails to the new supply that didn't even sound like him(spot on like Andrew explained in this video). Each video has brought a new light. Priceless wisdom by getting the education. I am an educator...an empathetic one. I am finally starting this school year peacefully. There was always peace taken by the narcissist before walking out the door to go to work every morning because he would ask a question about something I had to do or think about for him instead of focusing on the moment. He was always full of surprises and let downs like that. Again priceless wisdom in getting the education. Thank you for this channel Andrew and everyone that shares this message!❤
@@flowerpower4944 🙋✨💫hi flower, thank you . Off to sleep now as I have a nice gong bath in the morning. Have a pleasant night and sweet dreams. Thinking of you always.😘😘😘😸💝🌸🌅🎶🙏💙💪💯
Thank you Andrew, great video ,and as always VERY true!! . You are giving me so much strength each day to get stronger and retrieve my old self. I'm feeling free again and enjoying MY time again to do things for ME 😊. Xx
Andrew, your expression says it all, at the beginning of this video, when you introduce todays topic, I had to chuckle 🤭. But it definitely sums up, the healed and educated empaths disdain, at the narcs calculating and manipulative exploitation of absolutely EVERYONE, no one is off limits. 🙏💖
My narcissistic ex does not have the ‘ pea brain’ that Andrew often refers to. He is very intelligent but also very lazy. This is a deadly combination: he is an antagonist know-it-all who tries to bully people into his point of view with what he regards as logic. The pea brain ones might be easier to deal with.
The academic intelligence of a lot of narcissists is definitely not anything I would question, except for emotionally. Others seem to not even understand that there are a lot of things they don't know, or they regard them as not being important when something isn't on their radar. Either way, it's ridiculous and obnoxious to behold. 🙄
My Ex was high IQ. Part of the reason I respected her. Man! Was that a lesson! Who cares if they are a Nobel Prize candidate if they experiment with studying how extracting parts of your brain is going to affect you? "Y-e-s M-a-s-t-e-r." 🧠🪚😵💫
Still love that look at the intro… brings on a smile in the day. Great messaging on educated empath. Dealing with my leaving the Narc followed a few months later, his death. Never experienced such a roller coaster of emotions. Your tangent on getting outside/into nature and life is spot on.
This video was really intelligent and on point. I've actually experienced exactly what you described when you discussed the Narc at work ruining your birthday weekend, when they knew they didn't HAVE to do that. All I can say is WOW. You are right on the money!! xo
This is one of the best videos yet. In 2007 when I started researching for help only one site Land of Oz was available. I still have friends from that site. I haven’t moved on really until I found these videos. Andrew, the damaged empaths prophet. My life in the past few months has expediently improved. Thank Andrew I know you know what you’re doing for all of us.
@JudithLynnJones, You ARE in the RIGHT ROOM. After 12.5 years, Andrew is the BEST.. I did try other rooms until I found Andrew, and I stayed with him. ❤ 👍🌞💕 keep coming back.
Thank you Andrew. The time...is real. Every time I think I'm over it, something else needs to be wrapped up, dealt with. Some days it feels like stumbling through a mine field of unprocessed emotions. Learning to slow down, own my part, and move on with as much grace as I can muster has been more challenging than I ever thought it would be. I wanted a partner, I got a master...less shame, less blame. More aware choices and awakened thinking. Learning the difference between walls and boundaries. The healing path is quite a journey.
I watched my perverse neighbor when there were guests at his house sitting outside ,There was this man, with a lot of empathy , goodness, spontaneity , and the narc felt an inferiority complex or some sort of injustice, vexation, that he hastened to hide very quickly, and immediately started to humiliate and manipulate that person. I also know he would kill me because of this light
I needed you, I needed this 19 yrs ago. I spent 14 yrs in a nightmare and the past 5 yrs recovering. I feel like I will never fully heal. I have c-ptsd and I fake a smile everyday. My whole body reacted to that marriage, unexplained illnesses and my mind on a constant replay with triggers everywhere. Its agony that I fight thru daily .... silently 😞
I had a narcissist boss who told me the Friday before my daughter took me on a cruise that I had 30 days to improve my job or I would be fired. This guy was a true manipulator in the work place, he finally got fired from the CEO who was on to his methods.
@marylamb56, I never heard of a narcissist and as an empath, I was caught off-guard! After 5 years of hell, I left him. This was over 12 years ago, but it took TIME to get here. If I can make it, anyone can, believe me, since I almost died. 💕🌷🌞
Wow! The email I got on my birthday from the ex narc totally didn't sound like him. I was wondering if he worked on it for hours or someone else wrote it. Very weird but also tricky because then you're confused.
I chose to walk alone rather than to walk with the fool. I'm lucky, child was out of college, on his own, husband gone to greener pastures. It doesn't mean that one has to be celibate to walk alone.
What becomes astonishing after you have risen above the fray is how long anyone, including me for sure, volunteers to serve the process. You will never attempt to wade through the swift moving narc word vomit again. Turn around, dont drown.
They are very good at reading body language and energy. It’s like an animal instinct when they hunt for prey. They can smell fear and weakness and will attack if they view someone as an “easy mark”… I used to be victimized frequently. It’s taken a lot of inner strength and willpower to set healthy boundaries and fight off predatory people when they try to encroach on me. And the thing is, its worse than ever today. Vigilance is imperative.
😌💯😉
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
To the narcissist: Love prayers forgiveness. But stay away from me! 🗡❤️
From my own experiences, it's disheartening to see how some individuals with narcissistic tendencies view others as mere opportunities. It can be especially challenging when this behavior manifests within a toxic household. It's crucial for us to recognize and prioritize our own well-being amidst such circumstances. Remember, you deserve to be valued and respected for who you are.
💯😌🙌
Guess what guys!!!!? I think I found a job! 2 days out of the narc house, and I think I found a job that pays well enough to get me in my own place within a week!
Couldn't have done this without you, Andrew, and the Love in this community to encourage and push me! Yay!!!!!!! I'm jumping up and down all excited like!! Thank you! 🎉🎉🎉👍😁❤️
Hopefully you're there now!
give us an update ?
Here’s some hope!
God is powerful.
So powerful that he can make the narcissist FEEL REMORSE, when normally they refuse to. I have found Gods love and grace, and I know that he will do for you what you can’t. Anyone who destroys hearts, is not gonna like what comes next. The more painful the treatment is to an empath, the more severe the remorse for the narcissist.
I've lost count of the number of narcissists I've been targeted by. I wasn't a good enough cook, I wasn't worth anything as I didn't want kids, I was a bad lover because I wouldn't have sex with strangers, I was arrogant because I spoke common sense... The worst thing about a narcissist is his dumbass weak friends who enable and even encourage him to hurt others.
There's very few people that I even tolerate being around now as I've been amongst so many toxic cult mentality groups its unreal.
God told me that I’ve been separated from the circus. We have similar life experiences. Maybe your experiences have lead you to be separated from the circus too.
I started speaking in such profound ways, that my coworkers were left speechless. I talk about my abuse and my enlightenment with them, and we have great discussions, sometimes heated. I believe God did this for the best of reasons for me, so that I could explain the levity we need in this world. It has caused me to really come out of my shell, and not care so much about the circus of humanity.
Transformational!@@christopherbrubaker2070
Nailed it. Suddenly he's called me "Darlin" for the first time in 4.5 years?
I am not lonely for meaningless, no fulfillment connections.❣️
tropical fiah have more loving.
It was after I left him that I fell down the rabbit hole into narcissistic abuse information to fully understand what was going on in my "marriage." One of the most difficult pills to swallow is that he was just using me ... which I've come to understand and accept. Yes, he is a masterful manipulator, and I was an uneducated empath. I am very much not that person anymore. 😊You are always so spot on, Andrew, with this information and everything you say aids my healing. Thank you.
I understand that. Being used.
❤
Yes. Unreal how we know what the other has experienced. We get it! But others don’t as we didn’t. Until we have become educated. I began to heal when I found Andrews channel as well. Wishing you and all of us the very best of everything💖💖
They see you as a threat when they realize you see through their mask. You become an enemy because you know what they are up to, and they do not want you to expose their money-making scheme that will cost many others their homes. These are dangerous individuals who's selfishness and greed know no limit.
💯💯😉
Thank you for this video --- 100% true. Love "the days of being a punching bag, an ATM are over." May I add, the days of being a blood bank are over----because narks are vampires.
Welcome 🙌💯😌
I put an end to my family members and the manipulation. I had to block several because they have no boundaries. They don’t love you! They just take and take and never reciprocate! I’ve been standing firm for four years with my family and will never cave. We are all God’s children and deserve to be loved. Blood has nothing to do with behavior and narcissistic abuse is not anything anyone is expected to endure. What’s interesting is when I put my foot down and stood up for myself they lost interest. When you ask yourself what positives came out of all your stepping and fetching, sadly you’ll be surprised that there aren’t any. We can chose our friends, but our family members are handed to us. Say no to anyone who is manipulative and unkind and do not feel guilty. It’s not your job to fix them or the drama they create. You need to pray for your loved ones who have been brainwashed especially your children, but don’t ever let them back into your life. Their goal is to crush you!❤💪🏻
🙏😌🙌💯
I had to boot some family members as well. I still love them, but I don't need them....or their drama and manipulation. I feel so much better now. And i don't have to dance to their tune. They used to say....."I expected more from you" And i responded....."Well GET USED to disappointment"
The Load they put on me was so heavy.
Even now they still communicate via other family members - but I've had enough.
I did not know how many Narcs I had in my life until I started getting rid of them.
Piss on them and the entire Hee Haw Gang !!!
@@risky1 What gets me is they just find their next target and continue the same pattern, however you are smeared. It’s also disturbing how they expect you to work your butt off, but they are very stingy and wouldn’t dream of helping anyone. I’ve even seen this extend to the collection basket at church as well as donations in other situations and there’s no giving back.
That's what I was to the narc, I was an ATM machine.😢
😌😉💯
The universe IS shifting. I agree. I’ve been saying this for months.
Equally important as getting educated about the narcissist, is taking the time to study ourselves. What in us made us prey to them? Its necessary to identify & make the proper adjustments for prevention. Education along with application go hand in hand to protect further repetition. 🎀😘
🙌💯😌😉
I agree!! I feel like a lot of it has to do with properly healing from trauma, and then building that love back up from the inside. 🌞
Everything has to balance ⚖️
Yes 🙌🏻 in order that I do t become like them, a perpetual victim, I slaughter after what my own culpability was and how I became and enabler. I was a people pleaser, and now I still am one but qualitatively different. Thank you for your post.
The narcissist can appear to be intelligent, then you realise that they parrot the intelligent ones. They have a particular formula that they just repeat and continually hone. You realise that it is just 'same old.' Like criminals perfecting their art-form A very limited type of creativity.
💯💯😉
Well said Helen, so true what you’ve said, thanks 🙏💖
Oh the grandkids. How i just adore being held to ransom! I have been told, I have nothing she (DIL) wants, she has everything I want, my son, my grandkids. True love. God is greater, more powerful,,omnipotent. Its all about the next generation. 😊❤ I will not pour time energy anything into such a toxic person.
I came up with my own phrase about being a healthy empath: “Empathy without boundaries is just pathetic.”
It amazes me that you do this every day, and have been doing so for a long time. I watch every day also, and your wisdom is helping me significantly. I joined your channel about a month ago, and watch 2 videos each day. I don’t want to take in too much info at once (so I can process), but I also want to hear past lessons. I’ve been free since March (5 months) from a 12-year experience. The narcissist was my boss. I also don’t like that term, so I say the owner of the shop. I haven’t worked since, because I don’t want to go back to doing the same type of job and consciously or subconsciously expect the same treatment from a different shop owner. So I work on healing every day. I did have a big revelation yesterday, remembering a specific gaslighting incident that connected to a few occurrences *years* prior. That revelation cut a few more cords of attachment, and it blew my mind several times over within just a few minutes. Thank you for your teaching. I see progress already and I look forward to listening to you each day and learning from your gentle guidance.
Namaste 🙏🏻✨❤️
Namaste 😌🙌🙏
In so deep thought I knnew..covert N..so ready to do zero contact..my oldest will not talk.
It sure is amazing, and with no script. The guy s awsome!
I have a small child ,he calls him all the time ,I work a lot around my house and in the house ,I see how much work i have and I see how cant i go away for job couse I cant take my child out of country ,I see narcissist in the family all they ignore me couse I was with a narcissist .Life is hard and if you dont get the wisdom it will cost you so much and nothing is worth as your freedom
Spot on Andrew. I remember hearing a guy I met year's ago who was literally giving a numerical analysis of every single item his current target 'owned'. He had done a complete inventory of her vehicle, house, farming equipment and was talking about what each item was worth. This is what they look for. And they have every intention of stealing it from you. They will help themselves to everything you've worked for because they literally believe that they are entitled to it. Once again I will caution people to never ever have a joint bank account with anyone. It's absolutely not necessary. They will keep putting pressure on you to do that. Don't ever allow 'anyone' to have access to your hard earned money.
Very interesting and helpful message! Thank you for posting your message.
This is true. I seriously believe my ex was after my house, he kept trying to get me to kick my sons out and sell it, that was never going to happen. He's now with someone who has left her husband for him and she's looking to buy a house and so the cycle continues.
Oh God, Yes, I won't let anyone take advantage of me again like this!!!
Definitely you are just a means to an end to any narc. 😮
Yes indeed . Love ² 🧲🛐🌫🚁🎂💛
You are correct. I am now awakened to the fact that everyone has taken advantage. But, MOST people don't like that. They try to utterly destroy or punish me when I set clear boundaries. Now I just stay to myself with high boundaries, a lonely place, but a necessary place for survival and peace of mind.
,@hanginwiththe, Believe me, you will NEVER be alone. We are here and you're welcome anytime. Keep coming back. Andrew is the BEST! ❤❤👍🖐🌷
I thank the universe for making me the way I am and not into some selfish, soulless, unconscionable, unfeeling, insensitive, greedy empty carcass of a human.
💯 👏🎬🏆🎖️🥇🕺💃
Year's ago an old friend of mine from highschool shared with me that on the very 'day' of her wedding...Her pastor spoke with her to tell her that her husband to be..was a complete FAKE. Her fiance had the Rolex watch - the fancy car - the designer clothing et al. It was actually her own brother that came to the pastor to tell him that my friends future husband was actually completely bankrupt but lying about everything. Future faking vacations - a new home etc. My friend literally in her wedding dress...walked out of the church and left him at the alter. She was already pregnant with his child but hadn't said a word to him about that. Thankfully...her daughter is absolutely wonderful and never had to meet her biological father who was a complete piece of trash. She was raised by my friend as well as her parents (grandparents). Just a heads-up 💚🙏💌
Resources the narcissist is looking for can include a good credit rating. My ex was always complaining that banks would only lend him money at a higher rate. That they did not understand that his situation was ‘special’, that we deserved more than his tax return showed as income. Now I have all the stress and am chained to a a corporate job while he plays at his low-income business and pockets the rent on our jointly owned property. It pains me to be tied to him.
Thank you for sharing this 😌💯😌
Please go talk to a lawyer about how you can get your future separate from the narcissist's. When there's a will, there's a way, my Dad used to always say. Just know that you are not trapped in the narc relationship. You CAN find a way to leave safely if you truly want to leave as much as you want to breathe. Best wishes to you! ❤️ 🙏 ☀️
For Real! Get the message! Watch for these kinds of things because its very hard to see when you are in the fog. Be wary.
💡💡💯🙌
I haven't listened to the news or watched a movie since Feb'22. My day is full now, abundant and flowing peacefully, since he left me last year. There is an energy shift. I still have health issues to overcome and to secure my home and finances, as well as trying to heal our family because he divided us as a family but they are no longer around to disrupt my life. Thats a win for me. I will keep vigilant. They want to defeat you in every sense of the word, only if you let them. The stronger you get the more aware you become....they lose their grip of you and fade into insignificance. Thank you Andrew for helping us all. God bless you.
Welcome 🙌😌💯🙏
I stopped listening to what the Government wanted me to believe back in 2011 Fukushima, or was it 9/11, or maybe it was the death of Diana? 🤔🤨 Certainly, recent events have woken many up and that is creating a significant energy shift.
Great video Andrew. Yes my ex narcissist definitely saw me as a huge opportunity to use and exploit. He wanted to take everything from me until there was nothing left of me. If he could have he would have destroyed me completely. Thankfully I took the discard as an opportunity to run away and disappear from him. Now I'm back in control of my life and I do not need or want anything from him ever again. Thank you Andrew for the video and thank you everyone for your kind words.
💖
You did it!!!
✨🎶🙏sometimes the narc will play dumb as a lure to draw you in.
They are by default , calculated, manipulative con-stantly planning out an opportunity!!
Get out your narc-a scissors......cut yourself free....hit the open road and the highway to the sun.
Claim your " I am " abundance!!
The " now " is all ours!!
✨🎶✨🎶✨🎶✨🎶✨🙏🌱💞
💪🙌🙏
Sweet!!!❤
I grew up with a grandiose narcissistic parent- so I was very aware of narcissistic abuse throughout my childhood.
I knew the way they speak. The gaslighting techniques they use and manipulation tactics they constantly use to get out of trouble.
What I never learned though- even through experiencing first hand abuse from a grandiose narcissist- is that there are different KINDS of narcissists.
I didnt know about Covert Narcissism at all. I never knew that a narcissist could come across as sweet, kind and caring at first.
It was a brutal lesson to learn. I had to learn ALL about love bombing, "supplies", the silent treatment, and many other awful emotional tactics used by Covert Narcissists.
What I learned through this entire experience, is that even if you THINK you know the signs of a narcissist- you STILL can be decieved.
Covert Narcissists truly are the epitome of Wolves in Sheeps Clothing.
Mine was covert. It was so confusing. Some of his tactics were the same as my mother’s Eg subtle put downs and indifference. This made me realise (and with the narc knowledge) that my mother was a narc too (because of her upbringing). She was grandiose. He also made sweet gestures, a gift from the supermarket, thoughtful birthday meals etc this was during the relationship not just at the beginning. But then there were those horrific rages. He was truly Jekyll and Hyde.
I was fragmented at the end, my brain wouldn’t work (😵💫 !!) and such dreadful exhaustion that I was off work long term. That’s what living with a narc/sociopath does to someone who stays too long. If anyone is thinking of leaving, do it as soon as you can. Don’t end up like I did.
Thanks for flagging up covert types. Even after getting away the confusion has continued for years. But I see the light now and am on the mend! Peace and blessings to you on your healing journey. 🌸
My mother takes any opportunity she can - she’s 83…I’m 48…I feel like it’s never going to end until she dies.
I’ve been looking after her as she’s been very unwell but as she’s improved, she’s manipulated me to continue to deliver many hours of care a day - out of guilt and obligation I’ve done that but I’ve become very resentful because what I really wanted was no contact.
Finally I broke as she was telling me repeatedly how horrible I was…that was my breaking point…2 weeks have passed now she has her friends texting and phoning me, pressuring me to go back to her. I can’t do it…I’d rather die than go back to any more of her evilness and poison. This makes me feel horrible as a person but I just can’t do it and why does she even want me when she’s got other people there…I’m desperate to be just left alone 💕. Thank the lord for this channel 🙏💕🙏💕🙏
I"m in the process of cutting ties and recently learned about triangulation as this is what was used on me to destroy our relationship. He is looking for cracks that can be used to stay in my life but it won't work. Your videos have given me clarity and strength Andrew. Thank you from the fullness of my heart.
Hit the nail on the head…..every time! Listen to your vids daily,and a few repeatedly. Many thanks Nameste
Or the Narcissist claims you’re an opportunist & smears you to everyone because they’re an absolute psychopath 😂
That just about sums it up.
Again Andrew, I got to hand it to you, man. Your videos put in words all the things I went through and had no idea what was happening to me. If I had not gone through this as you describe to the letter, I would still be carrying the guilt, depression, unsure of myself and a host of other messed up thinking for who knows how long. You and the people on this channel are so much appriciated by me . Thank you, thank you!!
Good luck......same for me also!!!
They are all the same - they push you around sometimes for Years-one day it’s over
❤❤❤ Very few narcissists out in nature in my experience (while enjoying your message that’s where I am and it’s people enjoying the beauty, kids at play…). The planet 🌎 is shifting - made me feel SO Grateful to hear that. Let the narcissism on this planet FADE AWAY. Yessss. Okay, so naïveté is a big part of the history and why I was taken advantage of for sure. Education is combating this and is winning and YOU have championed so many of us getting to this point of GETTING THE MESSAGE.
Many blessings to you Andrew and all for joy, peace, strength and for those who need healing. ❤🙏💪
🌳🌲☀️😇
🙋Chelsea hope you are doing well ♥️💛♥️💛🌟🌺🌼
@@flowerpower4944 hi Flower 🌺
I’m good. I hope you are too 🤗💖💪🙏
Amen!
🎀😘
🌲🌿🐾🌞
Thank you, Andrew, for all the narcissism education with many great examples that you put into this video. The energy vibrations are certainly changing on this planet as more and more of us are becoming educated about narcissism, healing, working on rebuilding our lives, and helping others in a similar situation to get out so they can heal too. This positive energy at a higher vibration is making its way around the planet and can be felt more and more these days. Namaste. 🙏 ❤️
Love ALLWAYS trmps hate . . Eventually . Iv witnessed the change personally .
Namo Buddhya ☯️ 🕉 🌤 ❤️ 🌏
Why soloness is best for some of us.😘❣️
I feel for my narc ex gf’s new bf. If they’ve already gotten married after just getting back together in October 2022, unless he’s a bigger narc, he’s really stepped in it.
Yep! I’m learning from your channel and healing! Didn’t know what a narcissist was but I do now! Kicked him out of my life and now I’m Free To Be Me! Thank You So Much!🤗💫 Namaste
plaw2118. I never knew what a narcissist was until I got involved with one. After 5 years of abuse, I left him..👍💕
Hello Andrew and friends!!!! Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!!! ❤❤❤ 😛 My little nephew is over here 🥰😇😁 Sorry for the delayed response 🤭 It goes back to the narc underestimating the Empath. 😬 Miiiiistake 💪😁💋 EVERY. TIME! Love y’alll 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗 Stay the HEŁŁ away from narcs! They are like a WRECKING BALL that comes along and reduces your life to rubble. Treat them with utter indifference! ❤❤❤ EXCELLENT video Andrew! LOVED it!Nailed it AGAIN!!! 😘💋😘💋😘🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹
Andrew, have you ever considered occasionally interviewing those who have experienced narcissism? This is not a criticism of your invaluable videos, but rather just a fleeting thought. You are clearly a thoughtful and decent sort. Hence, you would make a great interviewer.
They prey on others. They watch us, they learn, they mirror us, and go in for the kill. They know exactly what they're doing, especially when they are grown adults and it ain't their first rodeo. They know because of the hurt they leave behind, and the Damage they cause. I have to admit, I feel quite hateful right now towards my ex narc, and I don't like to feel those kind of negative Vibes towards anyone. This is why I love coming back to your channel, Andrew, for reminders on what the healing process entails.❤ thank you!
gailyh, you are 100% right on that. They do their homework then they attack! 🙏👀👍
I was with him 5 years, then I left him. He rebounded and was married 2 weeks later to a very rich woman.💰💰
Exactly. Please be aware of the narcissist. So sneaky and will get what they want from you
Getting back to nature is so healing 🕊️🌲🌿🍃🪷🌈🐍🐝🐢🥾🥾
🌳🌲☀️😊
For sure i had no boundaries and this one steamrolled me.
Andrew that's 💯true , I was asked how my grandson was keeping, in comments on another channel,, There not the Brightest Light in the Barn,,,we can weed them out very quick ,🌺🌟🌼❤️❤️
😉😉🙌💯
They will say or ask silly irrelevant questions to see our response, if we appear agitated in any way.....they get fed.... supply!!!
This is why I believe they act as dumb as possible.
They are a preditor in the ambush.!!
Lurking and waiting.💞💞💞💞
Yes. All of what you said. This kind of wisdom is truly the lifeline to a freer life. ❤
So relate! Thanks again for reminding us that your job ,,,,,,,is not your God- ….. so to speak ! Love and appreciation to You Andrew!
Thanks Andrew you are the best❤❤❤🤞🙌💪💪👍🙌👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋
You eventually learn dont give away your meat.
M oney
E nergy
A ttention
Time
Thank you Andrew! I always appreciate your help and honesty. ❤🙏🙌
😌🙌😇
Thank you NARCDAILY 🙏
Wow yes 🙌
For me, going through and overcoming the most extreme toxic relationship is what it took to open my eyes to everything I felt in my gut was the off throughout my entire life and my backpack feels so light now…(and I was carrying a lot of bricks)
I am now grateful for that time of contention because that’s what it took to bring in the Spirit of the Lord in order to help me see… I believe in silver linings ❣️
You are so correct, I feel the shift in the paradigm andI think it’s amazing how the Lord strategically places us and works through us to do His will…
“Life is Gods novel, let Him write it”
I thank Heavenly Father every day through the power of the Holy Spirit in the sacred name of Jesus Christ 🙏
“The Merciful Obtains Mercy”
-Dieter Uchtdorf
😌🙌🙏
Awesome Andrew, TY!
The workplace bully likes to keep your birthday off of the staff calendar during your birthday month. Watch it for it, they don’t like you being recognized or celebrated. It’s very embarrassing and degrading. Shine through it though. Don’t let them take away the power from within you. Be the bigger person, you know what they’re doing is wrong and they do too. Birthdays are special, we are all special! 🎉 …and no, today is not my birthday. 😆 I’m just using a real life example
💯🙏😇💪
Wow birthdays, I just stopped wanting to celebrate mine, because she would count down for two months to hers and announce it every other day. I finally screamed that we all have birthdays too! We know when your birthday is, how could we not! She stopped counting down after that, but I paid for it in so many disgusting spiteful ways.
@@christopherbrubaker2070 I’m really sorry to hear this 😔 Your birthday matters just as much, don’t ever forget that!! 🎂🎉🥳 Birthdays are very special, there’s only one YOU on the planet! In the entire world!! Making it another trip around the sun deserves to be celebrated. 🌞✨💚 What I’m really learning is just to allow the narcissist to stew. Let them do what they’re going to do because they’re going to do it regardless.
@@danielle1103 Thank you for caring. I don’t know if I can care about my birthday. I guess someday maybe. I’ve gotten used to no one caring about it. You know maybe your right though, I could claim I’m one year old after the narcissist I suppose. That’s a good year.
Yah, ok, I think I will celebrate it now. Thank you. I like that you spelled it out about one orbit around the sun. Very nice!😁😁😁
@@christopherbrubaker2070 This makes me so happy!! You’re welcome and I care about your birthday, I mean it, I do!! 🥳🎂🎉🎊 If your birthday has already passed then Happy belated Birthday and if it’s yet to come, I hope it’s a great one for you because you deserve it!! Take the time to celebrate and maybe get some cake, if you like birthday cake🎂 Or do something fun you enjoy doing, it’s your special day. I can’t recall where I heard that birthdays are another trip around the sun, but it’s fun to equate it to that 😁 it’s totally true.
I came across your video..i believe i have come across a few narcissist in my life...i dont always look at my best interest and iam a person with empathy for others....but i have always protected myself...one think i realize over time people dont think the same way..as me..its a difficult lesson to learn
Welcome to the community 😌😌🙌😊
anne6406, You sound a lot like me. I've always been an empath and all my friends were empaths. Sometimes we are "blind" to the narcissist until we LEARN, and I learned the hard way. This was over 12 years ago, but now, I can feel them around me. Welcome...🌷💗🌞
Research childhood emotional neglect, then you will put the puzzles together as why you and me became the target out there! The root cause is not the narcs, it is our parents the 2 ppl you thought who loved you the most damaged us psychologically so we were after people who doesn't love us to constantly seek validation and be fit in this cycle! It is scary after you realized what really happened! Once you heal this, you are content and you are done with narcs in the mating process!!
🙌😌🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlonethank you for your work to bring awareness!
Agree totally...it was my conclusion too.
A lot of truth in your comment.🌟✨
@@Tatjana.B yes you got it!
Thanks, Andrew. Looks hot in the Carolinas. Took me decades to get it that they don't think like me. My mentor, I finally realized, was standing in my way. Even tried to get $$ out of me when I won an award. Thank God I didn't give him a cent, which was rare for me. 🏆
Hey, Andrew! These Narcs are dumb as Hell… with their “Tiny 🧠 Brains.” Thank you 🙏 for the work that you do! ❤
Kevin Andrew
kevdrew
In my experience they don’t have a lot of common sense.
GREAT HEAD TURN!!! IT MAKES ME LOOK AT MY TRUTH WITH NARC
We have entered a new moon in Leo. Celebrate!🎈❣️
The email part. Real freaking real I had that a few weeks ago!. Exactly
Excellent. Again.
Bread crumbs of hope (like Andrew explains)strung me along for 21 years, he manipulated my relationship with his kids to where we didn't have a relationship(like Anrew explains,) and found several emails to the new supply that didn't even sound like him(spot on like Andrew explained in this video). Each video has brought a new light. Priceless wisdom by getting the education. I am an educator...an empathetic one. I am finally starting this school year peacefully. There was always peace taken by the narcissist before walking out the door to go to work every morning because he would ask a question about something I had to do or think about for him instead of focusing on the moment. He was always full of surprises and let downs like that. Again priceless wisdom in getting the education. Thank you for this channel Andrew and everyone that shares this message!❤
Welcome 🙌🙏😌
💯great topic 🙏💕
Thank you 😌💯🙌
✨🙏🎶💫things are changing for the best.
All is moving in the right direction.
I believe this so strongly.
🌠🦋🌄💪💯🪁🧚☄️
😇🙌💯😌
@mariageaney2362,hope you have a nice evening/night,sending love and BLESSINGS 🌺🌼🌟✨❤️❤️❤️❤️🌞🙋🌹🌹
@@flowerpower4944 🙋✨💫hi flower, thank you . Off to sleep now as I have a nice gong bath in the morning.
Have a pleasant night and sweet dreams.
Thinking of you always.😘😘😘😸💝🌸🌅🎶🙏💙💪💯
It's overrrrrr👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽 💯💯💯💯💯❤❤❤❤❤❤
🙌😌💯
Thank you Andrew, great video ,and as always VERY true!! .
You are giving me so much strength each day to get stronger and retrieve my old self. I'm feeling free again and enjoying MY time again to do things for ME 😊. Xx
Good for you....keep going girl! 👍
Blessings 🎀😘
Seize the day ☀️
Andrew, your expression says it all, at the beginning of this video, when you introduce todays topic, I had to chuckle 🤭. But it definitely sums up, the healed and educated empaths disdain, at the narcs calculating and manipulative exploitation of absolutely EVERYONE, no one is off limits. 🙏💖
Sending you love Andrew ❤
🙌😌
Narcissists are swivel-eyed opportunists. Always on the lookout for their next victim or prey. I truly believe most will end up in a bad way.
My narcissistic ex does not have the ‘ pea brain’ that Andrew often refers to. He is very intelligent but also very lazy. This is a deadly combination: he is an antagonist know-it-all who tries to bully people into his point of view with what he regards as logic. The pea brain ones might be easier to deal with.
💯😌💯
The academic intelligence of a lot of narcissists is definitely not anything I would question, except for emotionally. Others seem to not even understand that there are a lot of things they don't know, or they regard them as not being important when something isn't on their radar. Either way, it's ridiculous and obnoxious to behold. 🙄
@@cc1k435 the intelligence in this case is intellectual not emotional.
My Ex was high IQ. Part of the reason I respected her. Man! Was that a lesson! Who cares
if they are a Nobel Prize candidate if they experiment with studying how extracting parts of your brain is going to affect you? "Y-e-s M-a-s-t-e-r." 🧠🪚😵💫
Still love that look at the intro… brings on a smile in the day. Great messaging on educated empath. Dealing with my leaving the Narc followed a few months later, his death. Never experienced such a roller coaster of emotions. Your tangent on getting outside/into nature and life is spot on.
100% WOW!
😌🙏🙌
Thumbs up ! Bravo !! Great video Andrew
Thank you 😌🙌🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone No I Thank you for making these videos.
Like the great pink sea snail or the Luna Moth From the 50s version and the Juicy Fruit guy from Dr Doolittle
This video was really intelligent and on point. I've actually experienced exactly what you described when you discussed the Narc at work ruining your birthday weekend, when they knew they didn't HAVE to do that. All I can say is WOW. You are right on the money!! xo
💡💡🙌💯
This is one of the best videos yet. In 2007 when I started researching for help only one site Land of Oz was available. I still have friends from that site. I haven’t moved on really until I found these videos. Andrew, the damaged empaths prophet. My life in the past few months has expediently improved. Thank Andrew I know you know what you’re doing for all of us.
Welcome 😌🙌❤️
@JudithLynnJones, You ARE in the RIGHT ROOM. After 12.5 years, Andrew is the BEST.. I did try other rooms until I found Andrew, and I stayed with him.
❤ 👍🌞💕 keep coming back.
Thank you Andrew. The time...is real. Every time I think I'm over it, something else needs to be wrapped up, dealt with. Some days it feels like stumbling through a mine field of unprocessed emotions. Learning to slow down, own my part, and move on with as much grace as I can muster has been more challenging than I ever thought it would be. I wanted a partner, I got a master...less shame, less blame. More aware choices and awakened thinking. Learning the difference between walls and boundaries. The healing path is quite a journey.
I watched my perverse neighbor when there were guests at his house sitting outside ,There was this man, with a lot of empathy , goodness, spontaneity , and the narc felt an inferiority complex or some sort of injustice, vexation, that he hastened to hide very quickly, and immediately started to humiliate and manipulate that person. I also know he would kill me because of this light
I noticed the co parent narcissist used my language against me via text. I thought it was funny and silly of him
😉💯💯
Thank you, Andrew, for always educating us with the TRUTH, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth! NAMASTE
Namaste..😌🙏🙌
Thank you so much, Andrew.
I needed you, I needed this 19 yrs ago. I spent 14 yrs in a nightmare and the past 5 yrs recovering. I feel like I will never fully heal. I have c-ptsd and I fake a smile everyday. My whole body reacted to that marriage, unexplained illnesses and my mind on a constant replay with triggers everywhere. Its agony that I fight thru daily .... silently 😞
THATS WHAT THEY DO
SAD SAPS.
HEY 👋🏽 ANDREW BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS 🌺
I had a narcissist boss who told me the Friday before my daughter took me on a cruise that I had 30 days to improve my job or I would be fired. This guy was a true manipulator in the work place, he finally got fired from the CEO who was on to his methods.
😌😌💯
So exactly my down fall of mind think! Thanks so very much for explaining this= for all surviving empaths! ❤️🗡🌈
@marylamb56, I never heard of a narcissist and as an empath, I was caught off-guard! After 5 years of hell, I left him. This was over 12 years ago, but it took TIME to get here. If I can make it, anyone can, believe me, since I almost died. 💕🌷🌞
💕
I loved that video Andrew❤ Thank you. God bless you❤
I thank the good Lord Jesus, did not have children with this Evil One!
This opportunity is not available for abuse. My home invader struck again, but their day is coming...very soon.
Are you safe right now, Mary?
Oh nooooo! Not the one who moves stuff around!!!😮
@dubaiedge that is the question????
@@emilywilson7308 I suspect so.
I wish I lived close by and could help somehow. Praying for peace for you, Mary.😘
Family setting and 2 marriages 😭I learnt my lesson this year ,,, I'm getting it now on your channel thank you Andrew 🙏💪😊
Welcome 😌🙏💯🙌
Wow! The email I got on my birthday from the ex narc totally didn't sound like him. I was wondering if he worked on it for hours or someone else wrote it. Very weird but also tricky because then you're confused.
Thx your sharing.❤
I chose to walk alone rather than to walk with the fool. I'm lucky, child was out of college, on his own, husband gone to greener pastures. It doesn't mean that one has to be celibate to walk alone.
What becomes astonishing after you have risen above the fray is how long anyone, including me for sure, volunteers to serve the process. You will never attempt to wade through the swift moving narc word vomit again. Turn around, dont drown.
😉😌🙌💯