I think that what guys look for in girls are complimentary qualities. I personally am really attracted to girls who are independent, grounded, and aren't trying too hard to attract guys. A girl who does too much and tries too hard kinda comes off as vain and materialistic (I speak for me, so no offense to others who might identify with this), so when I see a girl who is comfortable in her own skin and isn't afraid to be herself that is one of the most attractive things about her. I believe that the right kind of person will come to you if you just be yourself instead of hiding themselves behind cosmetic masks. I also think there's a lot about the eyes and the way they smile, since they speak volumes about who you are as a person. Girls who are emotionally mature, kind and open minded are the ones worth pursuing. It's all the same with guys too, as I said earlier, I guess we look for complimentary qualities in partners.
He has provided accurate advice. Guys like girls that they can easily make a connection with that means no BS. She in her own way needs to let him know that she likes him and likes being with him. Guys want a girl that is a match to their personality if teases you or dishes out quips about you then be prepared to give him back the same or better. If you want a relationship with him you first need to be his friend.
My honest opinion is that it’s a paradox. Men want a woman this is kind and bold, but not needy and in need of validation. Someone who has self respect and won’t has a fit if he doesn’t reply right away. A girl who won’t reward their poor behaviour and games but remain respectful and honest when approached. In my experience doing this makes you stand out. It shows your confident to show your feelings but have a high self esteem and reassured because you have your own life and won’t hold your breath for them. I think this is the sweet middle that they look for.
I don't agree. In this part of the world, if u show a guy u love him and if u are faithful, he walks all over u. That's what I'm going thru and it hurts so bad
+Sandra that's why u need to prove a friend look the next time u meet someone that u like be he's friend prove your friendship for a long time get to know each other first then u can go to the next stage okay but don't go to fast and just jump right in because a lot of these guys just wants to have good sex that's all then leave u so be friends and prove your friendship with him and he as well got to prove he's friendship towards you so don't let nobody fool u alright so good luck and this goes to all of u rest of the womans out there show your friendship towards that gut and he got to show your friendship towards you prove your friendship
..if it hurts then it's obviously not working. How can you not agree on something you've never tried out? Your obviously pretty sad with the method you using now. Just at least try it out for your sake.
Guys don't like women who like them. They want a challenge, If you are kind, loving, and honest, you're gonna get dumped. I am 41, and I've been kind and good to men my entire life, and it's gotten me absolutely nowhere.
tosca donna the right guy will appreciate this, trust me I know from experience..I also experienced what you said but also all he says so I know is true..it depends alot in person more than generally speaking..what I learn from all this is to stay true to myself..the right person will always appreciate these qualities..also they say girls prefer guys who are indiferent, in my case I'm totally put off by that and more attracted to a guy who shows that. cares and puts the effort...we appreciate these qualities in the other person only when we love ourselves enough to to know we'd rather be treated well
@@marishkaspirit really ? i have been working on attracting my crush since more than one year . he is an attractive (and maybe a bit arrogant ) guy that i like and showed him a lot of interest on messenger, We used to chat and he has not showed a lot of interest, actually he is surrounded by many woman. one day i asked him to meet ,he rejected me saying that he is busy he doesn't have free time , since that day we never talked again for now one year and a month, but during all this time he always checks almost all of my instastories , till today, and he has even voted in the polls that i posted on instastory (3 times) And when we met by coïncidence for 2, 3 times (it was one month after the day i asked him to meet ) he stared at me in the eyes non stop, even when i look away (my friend told me that he kept staring for a long time :p ).. and since he has moved to another city during all this time ( for work ) recently i knew that he is going back in the new year , and we both are studying in similar fields , so in two months am gonna meet him during the traineeship and i don't think this could be hasard, i really used to and still believe that we will end up together ! And am a bit nervous on how i should act with him when i see him, the times we met last year i acted as if he were a stranger ( i was really hurt and didn't want to seem needy and desperate, that's why i ignored him ) sorry i wrote lots of details but if you don't mind i want your point of view on my situation and some tips if you have 😊
I agree looks is the first thing a person notices obviously. But it's the personality that seals it. Looks alone won't stand up if the personality is shit.
I'm not sure about this "guys like girls who dig them" thing, I mean if thats the case then who on earth would play hard to get?? I think its human nature that people tend to want what's harder to obtain...Like I always ALWAYS attract guys who I have absolute NO interest in, it's almost like the less im interested, the more they are attracted to me and its really annoying. On the other hand, the guys who I actually like hardly like me back. It's like usually they show interest initially as well, but as I start to show more interest (cuz i really like them. however i did not do anything desperate) they start losing interest. Kinda sad. What would the reason for this be?
It may be because these particular guys that you like may have quite a few options in their social lives, from easy access to potential dates to cherished personal time commitments. Initially, they may like you because it is all lighthearted fun. You two may even flirt. However, as you start showing more interest, it may really start getting real for them. At this point, they may not want to go any further with you because the lighthearted fun is over and they want no commitments.
DatingLogic Thanks for the reply. Yea, I guess that's actually true. But what about the ones I couldn't care less about? I'm pretty sure I am not sending any signals which indicate that I'm interested. How should I treat them to stop them from liking me without being so rude? Sometimes they really just keep trying and and makes me feel super uncomfortable. What am I doing wrong, only attracting unwanted attention?
I respond in a neutral way, and try keeping the conversation really short, but i do try to be polite. And if they are starting to make me feel uncomfortable I kinda ignore them sometimes, like i try not to interact with them. But that even doesn't work sometimes, and its really awkward :( I don't get this as I'm not even a flirtatious person, I don't want to sound conceited but it almost seems to me sometimes that they're being delusional... If anything I dont want any unwanted attention from the very beginning. I guess i'm a friendly person most of the times, does that mean i should stop being friendly towards guys?
Dont say that! You are enough!!!!!! Maby switch the person who you trying to be enough for. And good god u may have no idea what's in store for u. Ur beautifull don't forget that and dont make anyone else make u believe any different. Keep ur head up!
It was hard for me at first because of my situation..after I got into my new place. I was able to relax and we had a better interaction the last time we saw one another. I even offered to buy him a drink at the coffee shop
I’m the mixed signal girl. This is why I struggle. I’m an Aquarius, so I am not the emotional girl. I’m actually very emotionally detached. I once loved a man soooo much, but never called him. Fear of losing control. Rejection. Etc. it’s very difficult for me to not be this way.
She’s A Savage omg girl I feel you. Although I'm a libra and libra is known for being flirty, and I can be but I hide it. I will not show a guy I'm interested lol
It's always 50-50 it can go either way guys can have the most beautiful girl in the most loving and passionate loyal girl and don't know how to deal with her or handle her or keep her they can do things that can really hurt themselves and her and fuckshit up for real for real 100 it's always good to know sooner or later what to look out for and to know tips and signs
Thank you so much for your thoughts and making this vid! I have a female friend (not close) who is 30 and insecure (no confidence, desperate for attn, chases guys even when they aren't interested, etc.). She's like a douchebag magnet cos she continually attracts the guys who aren't worth pursuing and keeping. I'm not being rude about her; but after saying these things I'd like to ask how can she work on herself to change all this and turn it around?
First and foremost, she should stop looking for romance/guys at this time. Her priority should be herself and building her self esteem. A good way to work on this is to get her to start developing relationships with people who have high self esteem or who are in positive romantic relationships. If she is willing, she will learn from them and start incorporating their positive approach to life into her own life.
yes they do not appreciate the girl that says i love you...asking about their day or overall just kind with a great heart....nope only mean girls..that want their money...cold heart chicks...supper model ladies that half way care right Kawa Kreatios....
do guys care if you're not a virgin? i lost it with an ex of mine, but the experience wasn't very good. i'm afraid if i get with a guy who is a virgin, he will not be happy that i already lost mine!
Idk how to message you but why does he blame things on me in te past i steal i lied what ever but im tryin to fix that hasnt been a week yet but it hurts when he says ill never trust you ever again once a thief always a thief but than he always finds his stuff he be nice for one second than go bak to fighting wheres this that this that!!!!!!!!!!
Guys love need are uncertainty. Certainty and being up front as you describe it only gives the guy an ego boost. So he will definitely like himself more but not the girl. 😊
My flatmate initiated flirting with me a few weeks ago. He was using open body language. Touching my arm countless times and smiling while looking into my eyes. It made me feel so special. A couple weeks later he outright told me "You know I like you?" I looked at him slightly quizzically and he almost backtracked "I mean as a friend, not in a creepy way" Later he told me jokes that made me laugh a lot. He behaves this way with me only when he's drunk. He even invited me to hang out with him and his dogs at his house. Thing is he's married but I don't know what the situation is between him and his wife. He doesn't sleep there obviously, because he sleeps at the shared flat. I did go to his house one day when his wife was there. He was really sweet and spent a fair amount of time talking to just me. He handed me dog treats to feed his dogs. His wife was nice. She said hello and smiled on first meeting me but then hardly spoke to me after that. Following that visit to his house I distanced myself because he's married. I gathered the purpose of the invite was for him to get the message through to me that he's married because I suspect he could see I was developing feelings for him. I would now stay in my room. Sometimes he wouldn't see me for days. Now, not only the flirting but normal conversation is almost non-existent. He no longer shares his life stories with me etc and seems he no longer gives me the time of day. But something strange happened today. I got back this morning from the supermarket. He was about to leave as I arrived. I told him I thought a bird had crapped on my head but that I wasnt sure. I thought he would just have a look but he immediately proceeded to wipe it off with his bare hands. That threw me. The thing is I had begun to develop feelings for him and I still do have feelings for him but I'm having to fight them every day because he's married. I don't easily fall for guys. It's rare for that to happen with me. I can't figure out what is going on with him.
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For me It's
-Good personality
-if you care about what he says
-kind person
-likes to talk
-positive attitude
-connections between each other.
First time you've done an intro 😂😂
His vids are the best
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I think that what guys look for in girls are complimentary qualities. I personally am really attracted to girls who are independent, grounded, and aren't trying too hard to attract guys. A girl who does too much and tries too hard kinda comes off as vain and materialistic (I speak for me, so no offense to others who might identify with this), so when I see a girl who is comfortable in her own skin and isn't afraid to be herself that is one of the most attractive things about her. I believe that the right kind of person will come to you if you just be yourself instead of hiding themselves behind cosmetic masks. I also think there's a lot about the eyes and the way they smile, since they speak volumes about who you are as a person. Girls who are emotionally mature, kind and open minded are the ones worth pursuing. It's all the same with guys too, as I said earlier, I guess we look for complimentary qualities in partners.
Rajith Maligaspe THANK YOU
That's some wonderful things you mentioned in this comment. I love it! Thank you so much
He has provided accurate advice. Guys like girls that they can easily make a connection with that means no BS. She in her own way needs to let him know that she likes him and likes being with him. Guys want a girl that is a match to their personality if teases you or dishes out quips about you then be prepared to give him back the same or better. If you want a relationship with him you first need to be his friend.
Why do guys go for the "friendship" route first lmaooo that's creepy
You truly are a relationship guru!!!
My honest opinion is that it’s a paradox. Men want a woman this is kind and bold, but not needy and in need of validation. Someone who has self respect and won’t has a fit if he doesn’t reply right away. A girl who won’t reward their poor behaviour and games but remain respectful and honest when approached. In my experience doing this makes you stand out. It shows your confident to show your feelings but have a high self esteem and reassured because you have your own life and won’t hold your breath for them. I think this is the sweet middle that they look for.
You are absolutely correct.
Not a paradox as much as it is just striking a balance.
@@an_impasse 💙♾️
I don't agree. In this part of the world, if u show a guy u love him and if u are faithful, he walks all over u. That's what I'm going thru and it hurts so bad
agree
+Sandra that's why u need to prove a friend look the next time u meet someone that u like be he's friend prove your friendship for a long time get to know each other first then u can go to the next stage okay but don't go to fast and just jump right in because a lot of these guys just wants to have good sex that's all then leave u so be friends and prove your friendship with him and he as well got to prove he's friendship towards you so don't let nobody fool u alright so good luck and this goes to all of u rest of the womans out there show your friendship towards that gut and he got to show your friendship towards you prove your friendship
Sandra Aham if he immature, yes
..if it hurts then it's obviously not working. How can you not agree on something you've never tried out? Your obviously pretty sad with the method you using now. Just at least try it out for your sake.
because he is the wrong one...
1.Nice
2. Upfront and honest
3. Confident
That’s so easy! Thank you!
Im like that and every guy i date leave me..
Sooo..what the problem..?
Right on point. Sometimes when you smile they think you actually want to date.
Guys don't like women who like them. They want a challenge, If you are kind, loving, and honest, you're gonna get dumped. I am 41, and I've been kind and good to men my entire life, and it's gotten me absolutely nowhere.
True
tosca donna the right guy will appreciate this, trust me I know from experience..I also experienced what you said but also all he says so I know is true..it depends alot in person more than generally speaking..what I learn from all this is to stay true to myself..the right person will always appreciate these qualities..also they say girls prefer guys who are indiferent, in my case I'm totally put off by that and more attracted to a guy who shows that. cares and puts the effort...we appreciate these qualities in the other person only when we love ourselves enough to to know we'd rather be treated well
Not true. If a girl is very beautiful, they dont want them to be a challenge.
@@marishkaspirit really ? i have been working on attracting my crush since more than one year .
he is an attractive (and maybe a bit arrogant ) guy that i like and showed him a lot of interest on messenger, We used to chat and he has not showed a lot of interest, actually he is surrounded by many woman. one day i asked him to meet ,he rejected me saying that he is busy he doesn't have free time , since that day we never talked again for now one year and a month, but during all this time he always checks almost all of my instastories , till today, and he has even voted in the polls that i posted on instastory (3 times) And when we met by coïncidence for 2, 3 times (it was one month after the day i asked him to meet ) he stared at me in the eyes non stop, even when i look away (my friend told me that he kept staring for a long time :p ).. and since he has moved to another city during all this time ( for work ) recently i knew that he is going back in the new year , and we both are studying in similar fields , so in two months am gonna meet him during the traineeship and i don't think this could be hasard, i really used to and still believe that we will end up together ! And am a bit nervous on how i should act with him when i see him, the times we met last year i acted as if he were a stranger ( i was really hurt and didn't want to seem needy and desperate, that's why i ignored him ) sorry i wrote lots of details but if you don't mind i want your point of view on my situation and some tips if you have 😊
If you feel this way, be a challenge for like two months of knowing the guy likes you.
I showed him in very subtle ways that I liked him but he ignored me even more, so he's not into me. At first month he was, tried to ask everything.
You deserve better sweetie ♡
I agree looks is the first thing a person notices obviously. But it's the personality that seals it. Looks alone won't stand up if the personality is shit.
kkk... You're not only informative but funny!!
LOVE YA!!! thanks for the videos as well..!!!
As a guy, very true!
I am a girl and i think u are 100% correct
100%cute
I'm not sure about this "guys like girls who dig them" thing, I mean if thats the case then who on earth would play hard to get?? I think its human nature that people tend to want what's harder to obtain...Like I always ALWAYS attract guys who I have absolute NO interest in, it's almost like the less im interested, the more they are attracted to me and its really annoying. On the other hand, the guys who I actually like hardly like me back. It's like usually they show interest initially as well, but as I start to show more interest (cuz i really like them. however i did not do anything desperate) they start losing interest. Kinda sad. What would the reason for this be?
It may be because these particular guys that you like may have quite a few options in their social lives, from easy access to potential dates to cherished personal time commitments. Initially, they may like you because it is all lighthearted fun. You two may even flirt. However, as you start showing more interest, it may really start getting real for them. At this point, they may not want to go any further with you because the lighthearted fun is over and they want no commitments.
DatingLogic Thanks for the reply. Yea, I guess that's actually true. But what about the ones I couldn't care less about? I'm pretty sure I am not sending any signals which indicate that I'm interested. How should I treat them to stop them from liking me without being so rude? Sometimes they really just keep trying and and makes me feel super uncomfortable. What am I doing wrong, only attracting unwanted attention?
Belle Liu What do you typically say and do when they talk to you?
I respond in a neutral way, and try keeping the conversation really short, but i do try to be polite. And if they are starting to make me feel uncomfortable I kinda ignore them sometimes, like i try not to interact with them. But that even doesn't work sometimes, and its really awkward :( I don't get this as I'm not even a flirtatious person, I don't want to sound conceited but it almost seems to me sometimes that they're being delusional... If anything I dont want any unwanted attention from the very beginning. I guess i'm a friendly person most of the times, does that mean i should stop being friendly towards guys?
Belle Liu Do you typically experience this at a particular location or wherever you go?
You are good ! Really really good! Thank you for your work ! I miss seeing you in your new videos !!!
I like you and your style and content is great - just one fault, which is that I wish your vids were longer.
You got another subscriber
You sir, is spot on!
I'm all of this but still not enough. Hurts. But thanks for your advice
Dont say that! You are enough!!!!!! Maby switch the person who you trying to be enough for. And good god u may have no idea what's in store for u. Ur beautifull don't forget that and dont make anyone else make u believe any different. Keep ur head up!
What a wonderful compilation! I'm hooked!
Kind, upfront, and not afraid. Got it 😑
Mi'Chel S You look cute (If that's your actually picture that is). You should be fine, just follow what this guy is saying.
Yes it's my pic & thank you.
No be a challenge too him and half way kind
every female needs to see this.
Glad I’m watching this
It was hard for me at first because of my situation..after I got into my new place. I was able to relax and we had a better interaction the last time we saw one another. I even offered to buy him a drink at the coffee shop
Thats why i pretend to be Bad with my fine self lol
I’m the mixed signal girl. This is why I struggle. I’m an Aquarius, so I am not the emotional girl. I’m actually very emotionally detached. I once loved a man soooo much, but never called him. Fear of losing control. Rejection. Etc. it’s very difficult for me to not be this way.
She’s A Savage omg girl I feel you. Although I'm a libra and libra is known for being flirty, and I can be but I hide it. I will not show a guy I'm interested lol
Your sun is Aquarius but your emotions are through your Moon sign.
I love your video very simple and straight forward I will keep watching ! :-)
i think here too , we have to mention awakened and non awakened people..
I like your advice. Had been checking out several of your videos and you give good advice. You've earned another subscriber.
It depends some of them make your life painful when they know about your feelings
Binge watching your videos becuz they are so true .
A preety face, a nice body, and being smart 🤓
I don't have any of these 😢
Trust each other! If that can't be, then it's not meant to be. :)
It's always 50-50 it can go either way guys can have the most beautiful girl in the most loving and passionate loyal girl and don't know how to deal with her or handle her or keep her they can do things that can really hurt themselves and her and fuckshit up for real for real 100 it's always good to know sooner or later what to look out for and to know tips and signs
😂 you always say guy is not complicated but for me he's literally complicated, btw i love your voice and thank u for this content ❤️
I wonder why my crush hates me because I like him
Cloe Castillo attraction is not a choice 😉
@@marishkaspirit what if the guy is attracted but he is a player
Interesting... Great video ☺️👍🌸
« Guys aren’t complicated » I laughed at the shit
Thank you so much for your thoughts and making this vid!
I have a female friend (not close) who is 30 and insecure (no confidence, desperate for attn, chases guys even when they aren't interested, etc.). She's like a douchebag magnet cos she continually attracts the guys who aren't worth pursuing and keeping. I'm not being rude about her; but after saying these things I'd like to ask how can she work on herself to change all this and turn it around?
First and foremost, she should stop looking for romance/guys at this time. Her priority should be herself and building her self esteem. A good way to work on this is to get her to start developing relationships with people who have high self esteem or who are in positive romantic relationships. If she is willing, she will learn from them and start incorporating their positive approach to life into her own life.
Yes true.
Who talk to you and don't play mind games or do everything in the world to get their attention rather than just talk.
I was kind to a bloke I dated and he dumped me. How does this work and how can I get it wrong?
Men like mean ladies..that is a challenge ok..not kindess you will get dumped or friend zone
NICOLE so all men like mean girls, right!!
yes they do not appreciate the girl that says i love you...asking about their day or overall just kind with a great heart....nope only mean girls..that want their money...cold heart chicks...supper model ladies that half way care right Kawa Kreatios....
NICOLE it seems you have dated men who have treated you badly. I am sure all men are not like this, I wish you well.
Never be nice to men, don’t call, don’t text, ignore him. Stay detached and watch how he’ll chase you. They love challenges
Absolutely true... Wow
tysm for your advise :)
youre great
This guy is the Big brother we never had👐
what should I react if a guy keep looking at me without emotion
do guys care if you're not a virgin? i lost it with an ex of mine, but the experience wasn't very good. i'm afraid if i get with a guy who is a virgin, he will not be happy that i already lost mine!
Many girls are not a virgin so IM chocked that you even asked that question
@@samirayusif4496 had huge crush on girl name Samira last year.
I know but don't tell , I keep everything secret
More Claire? Need I say more :P LOL
Idk how to message you but why does he blame things on me in te past i steal i lied what ever but im tryin to fix that hasnt been a week yet but it hurts when he says ill never trust you ever again once a thief always a thief but than he always finds his stuff he be nice for one second than go bak to fighting wheres this that this that!!!!!!!!!!
What happens if a guy already knows that u like him?
Im totally like this but still he is with.some.other girl. I could feel that he likes me, but nothing happened btw us
Agree 😍😍😍
Guys love need are uncertainty.
Certainty and being up front as you describe it only gives the guy an ego boost. So he will definitely like himself more but not the girl. 😊
Never seen him like this before😂
Alot of women are acting like guys nowadays lol, flaking on us an switching up.
We learned how to play the game 😉
You're always on the point of digs them digs them 😂 we need another opinion.
I'm sorry, I don't agree, or is not for everyone, or I fall for the wrong guy. 😅
Ok that's sth new
GuRRrlLllssssss
My flatmate initiated flirting with me a few weeks ago. He was using open body language. Touching my arm countless times and smiling while looking into my eyes. It made me feel so special. A couple weeks later he outright told me "You know I like you?" I looked at him slightly quizzically and he almost backtracked "I mean as a friend, not in a creepy way" Later he told me jokes that made me laugh a lot. He behaves this way with me only when he's drunk. He even invited me to hang out with him and his dogs at his house. Thing is he's married but I don't know what the situation is between him and his wife. He doesn't sleep there obviously, because he sleeps at the shared flat. I did go to his house one day when his wife was there. He was really sweet and spent a fair amount of time talking to just me. He handed me dog treats to feed his dogs. His wife was nice. She said hello and smiled on first meeting me but then hardly spoke to me after that. Following that visit to his house I distanced myself because he's married. I gathered the purpose of the invite was for him to get the message through to me that he's married because I suspect he could see I was developing feelings for him. I would now stay in my room. Sometimes he wouldn't see me for days. Now, not only the flirting but normal conversation is almost non-existent. He no longer shares his life stories with me etc and seems he no longer gives me the time of day. But something strange happened today. I got back this morning from the supermarket. He was about to leave as I arrived. I told him I thought a bird had crapped on my head but that I wasnt sure. I thought he would just have a look but he immediately proceeded to wipe it off with his bare hands. That threw me. The thing is I had begun to develop feelings for him and I still do have feelings for him but I'm having to fight them every day because he's married. I don't easily fall for guys. It's rare for that to happen with me. I can't figure out what is going on with him.
I am that girl who wants guys to guess and who plays these games🤣
Boys like. Sports a lot uuuuuuugggggghhh
I don’t care what they want
Why am i here !!
“Just be upfront” even if we’re ugly? And make a fool of ourselves?? Yeah right. No
@kenyagirly Wrong. It’s called not being delusional.