not even evil, just plain stupid. i was in a 4/5 year relationship and he would alwayssssssss be fucking cheating. and we were in high school AND gay AND not completely out. he was such a piece of shit and gd i can’t believe i stayed with him for so long.
@@wowza.btch__2267 The shit you do when your young and in love for the first time. Was in a relationship with a guy of 5 years long, found he was cheating on me about two years into it, stayed with him. Was never the same, the relationship just died slowly. Should of just killed it there and then, ultimately wasn't worth trying to work it out.
They feel like they need a reason, so they blame the person they cheated on. ( A person I knew has been cheated on by most of her partners because she keeps dating horrible people. At least 3 of her exes are now in jail)
Happened to my brother he walked in while she was having sex with some dude he said “looks like you got him warmed up for me” while he started taking his clothes off dude freaked out and ran lol
My parents got married young, about 21, 22 yrs old. Dad was a pilot in the Navy. Of course long stretches away, long months. All through my childhood. What did Mom do? Went to work, staid very busy. Took care of kids, house, full time teaching. She had friends, a bit of a social life. The key was, she knew exactly what she was getting into. Had about a year long engagement, talked to each other, knew other Navy wives. It wasn't easy, many Navy marriages failed. But my parents decided to make it work. They were a team for 33 yrs, until cancer took my mother. It can be done, but both parties have to be mature enough to talk the problems out and support each other.
i was holding my breath, thinking this was another cheating story. Glad that wasn't it. R.i.p for your mom. i always thought the wives of armies and navys need to be strong and independant to support their husband.
I wonder what decade this took place in. The dates you give imply this was happening in maybe the 50s or even 60s. If it was that far ago, it was either at the beginning of or just before white culture took a nose dive towards degeneracy and hedonism. In which case that kind of loyalty wasnt terribly uncommon. But still heartwarming to hear about.
I don’t understand why people don’t realize communication is so important, do people not talk about their future plans individually and together ? It’s like people just jump into relationships and think “oh well let’s see how this goes”. Get to know the person and listen to them about their dreams and goals and think to yourself if it’s something you’d be able to handle. When I found out my current boyfriend (before he was my boyfriend ) that he was in a band I was like yikes... it was scary but I support him and his guys in every single way possible. They’re amazing and great people! Yeah they’ll have girls trying to talk to them but I trust my boyfriend enough not to fall for that kind of shit. Found out they’re going on tour, it scared me again but I trust him because I know he trusts himself and I trust myself. If we can trust ourselves we can trust our partners. Now we’re getting married, we have our budgets and financial goals set, planning to move in together after we get married and to start trying to have a baby. I know I’ll have to stay home and take care of the baby while he’s out but that’s because it’s what we planned and talked about. I’m totally okay with that because I have my family and my friend to lean on when I need a bit of help. My only rule is to bond with the baby just as much as he can before he leaves. I’m so happy in my relationship, he’s a very attractive man and I get worried sometimes but I could tell by the way he looks at me I know he truly loves me.
Bunnies Kitties it has nothing to do with white culture. People have been cheating each other ever since the beginning of time. Degeneracy and hedonism happens in all cultures and have been happening for a long time
As a former Navy Vet I have witnessed so much in terms of failed relationships and marriages as a result of long separations. Majority were a result of infidelity but some just could not deal with the separation lifestyle. Have several good friends, now retired from the Navy, and still married to the woman they were married to when we were stationed togather in the 1980's. Definately NOT the norm for Navy vets and Navy wives but they are exceptional people and people I am proud to call friends for life.
When I was in basic training 2 people got caught in a relationship. They were both married and the drill sergeants forced them to call their significant others and tell them the were caught cheating.
"She was pissed that I didn't get mad and still claims that I was cheating." Thank god OP walked off. That's some toxic manipulative behavior right there.
It's just deflection. It happens with lots of people when they have underlying issues, not just cheaters. Most people are quicker to make an excuse rather than look inward and reflect. It comes from being poorly raised and taught (or rather, taught by lack thereof proper teaching) that they have little to no agency or responsibility in their lives. So when they do end up mucking things up, they often blame others a coping mechanism, refusing accountability.
One day I took my dad to the hospital because he said he was having chest problems. Anyway, while we're waiting we meet this guy who has been waiting for like 3 hours. He starts a conversation and eventually it leads to how he was cheated on by his wife and friend from work. Legit the guy said he told his coworker he wasnt going anywhere, and duct taped him to the bed. He called the cops and said that he had a cheater and a coworker in the same bed and needed to be taken care of because they're covered in tape. The guy waited for the cops to arrive and he got arrested but the cops were laughing the whole time and didnt even want to arrest the guy. He said he was at the hospital because he needed to outlive both of them that way he can piss on their graves. What a legend
Happened to my cousin with a twist. He had just moved in with his cheating girlfriend, cardboard boxes and all that. A week after the move, he got sent home sick from work and discovered her with some dude. Here's the weird pard. The other man became *super pissed* because she had lied to him. He bounced between cussing her out and apologizing profusely to my cousin, swearing that she had played him before he got dressed and GTFO. Naturally, cousin kicked said THOT to the curb and stopped dating unemployed brats.
Dude, that is the best way the scenario could turn out. The other guy asked and tried to make sure the girl he was trying to get wasn't in a relationship but was lied to as well. Honestly, that was a big bro moment and I appreciate your cousin and the guy.
@Hikaru FER Well, I would be super pissed too if the person I'm hooking up with was lying to me all along and of course any decent human being would be bad for the one who got cheated on.
@@HikaruFER The story is believable. Unemployed girlfriend who is too eager and @silverblade357 made sure to embolden his text which isn't hard but it isn't trivial if you're writing a true story.. But this is the internet so I don't know for sure. For all you know I'm a special forces green beret. I'm not, by the way, but I do know one.
I experienced ‘shutting down’ too. I asked my boyfriend at the time if he was cheating because I had a gut feeling, he denied it but a month later the guilt was probably too much for him. He admitted that he’d been cheating on me with his ex but he loved me so he was ready to let her go and move on with me... 😂 all whilst we were parked up in his car having a coffee date. I just said “ah I thought so” and he seemed confused to why I didn’t freak out. I finished my coffee then asked him to drop me home, he did, I said a polite goodbye and thanks for the coffee then stopped all contact with him. Seriously guys, if this ever happens to you do not give them the pleasure of seeing you broken hearted and crying, it’ll make them feel as worthless as you do if you just act like they don’t matter. Then drink a bottle of wine and cry with your best mate for a few nights 😂
Omg .i wish i have a control over my emotions like u .cause If i were in ur place and that happened to me. I would have had a breakdown . My brain would stop functioning .i would have a meltdown in the inside . I would not be able to stop crying
Pisses me off how many military men are cheated on. My boyfriend is in military and I couldn't even dream of betraying him.. People should know if they easily get frustrated sexually or not beforehand and end the relationship right away. It's hard for both partners. I don't know how long the compulsory military service lasts in other countries, my boyfriend is in Korea and the service lasts quite a long time, I think it's 18 months. Decide whether you can bear that time period or not. Don't frickin cheat dude, makes you a garbage human.
I came across this family where the husband's a mariner and the wife's a fighter jet pilot. They most likely meet twice or thrice a year. Happily married for years. Love isn't about distance, if the affection is there, it's always there.
I wouldn't worry. I was stationed in Japan and my unit would deploy to Korea every year. Most of the time you're freezing your ass off in the middle of nowhere to worry about anything else.
@@alfwinnn4224 yea I didn't say they're innocent, I actually meant both the military men and their girlfriends, maybe boyfriends, I should have made it more clearer!
Cut your losses and bounce. Don't listen to their excuses. Don't try to be the bigger person. They've cheated once and will do so again. The human animal hates abandoning something we've become invested in, but we must force ourselves to recognize a bad investment and move on.
I didn’t walk in, I checked his phone Bc he had been being weird. I immediately got up and started packing my shit. He was on his knees crying and begging me to not leave him
I know a lot of these military guys are only married because the military only lets you live in a house if you either have a wife or child. So many get married as soon as possible to get out of living in the barracks (basically a college dorm room). This is a big reason why military marriages are notorious for failing.
This also creates an environment where they feel pressured to get married even if they already have a housing due to all of their friends being married
My mom told me the story of how my grandma found out my step-grandfather was cheating on her. Apparently, every morning that my grandma would drive to work, he'd have some lady come over a few minutes after. One of my grandma's neighbors ended up telling her she had seen this woman going into her house almost as soon as she left, and was suspicious. My grandma hatched a plan, and proceeded to feign like she was going to work, but instead just drove the car around the block, parked further away, and waited. Sure enough, the other woman came to the house. She waited a few moments, then got out of the car and walked into the house to catch her husband and the other woman in the middle of the act on her bed. I've been told that my grandma beat the crap out of both of them and dragged the other woman out while she was screaming and trying to break free. I learned that my step-grandfather was a serial cheater, but for some stupid reason, my grandma stayed with his sorry ass. He eventually stopped cheating, but only because he caught some venereal disease from a hooker and couldn't get it up anymore. Don't know why my mom told me this story several years ago, but I thought it was TMI, and now here I am re-telling it to people on TH-cam.
@Madeline Ingram I prefer the really old-school way, where if someone is caught cheating, both the cheater and the bit-on-the-side get stoned. Then you can auction off all their stuff and change the locks while they're both still high.
People, I’m gonna tell y’all what I tell my sisters. If someone is willing to cheat on their SO for you, they’re willing to cheat on you for someone else.
Friend seems cool and has social and emotional value you get pissed at partner or circumstances change you have lower values meaning friend seems like a better partner and yeah...
this one of the reason i don't want a bestfriend or a sister sometimes i mean i wouldn't be the one to fight or compete with them but i would be REALLY hurt if my boyfriend cheated on me with one of them
A friend of mine's boyfriend cheated on her once. She found out because the other girl was a good friend of both of them and she told her what happened. My friend just grabbed a teddy bear that he had given her, decapitated it and threw it in a fire pit. We were on a school trip. There were girls crying about the teddy bear that had just died. A few days later we returned from the trip, and they got back together and pretended nothing happened. Almost three years later they are still together, and they are the most toxic couple I've ever met.
@@Amynity At that time we were like 16 I think? But these girls that were crying were like the most sensitive girls in the class, to me it didn't bother me at all.
I’m sorry but “It doesn’t matter how soft bread is, it hurts when you throw a log of it squarely at someone’s dong” may have been the funniest mental image I’ve had in a while
I already have extreme trust issues in relationships due to bad experiences but after watching 5 minutes of this video, it made my trust issues 20 times worse. Couldn’t even finish the video lol
@@someguy4915 wow you are one to comment here, under a video about cheating with their SO.. You and all your cheating cows (didn't count all of them) are the reason a lot of people have trust issues..
This happened to my husband. He was married once before me and he had just got home from a deployment (Air Force) and walked into his house and found the bedroom door was locked. He kicked it open and found his now ex wife screwing one of his “friends” from work. He met me a few years later and we’ve been together over 10 years. He could’ve easily killed the guy or beat him to a pulp but he kept his cool and handled it a lot better than others would have. I couldn’t imagine the pure rage people feel when they have to see the piece of crap spouse physically cheating before their own eyes.
Depends if the person knows the girl or guy is taken. If you know someone is taken and you have sex with them, youre less than human. A human being immediately tells their SO that their partner was considering cheating.
Bunnies Kitties i agree with you but you should still be mad at your SO more than the other person because they’re the ones that had to let the other person know, AND agree with cheating. I’m going to be more mad at my SO than the other person (though i will still be mad at them)
I know it's weird, but I've been through it and, at the time, you're trying to deal with the fact that you still love the the lying bastard. And it takes 2 to tango, right? It's easier to hate someone you aren't invested in.
Just ended my first relationship ever a month ago (senior in college btw so imagine how I felt) was always super nervous around girls but finally I found one that was so cool and relatable and it just seemed so easy. I asked her out and it seemed like I was finally got my good patch. One day she was over at my university dorm room (she had graduated from community college 2 years earlier and was kinda a wild child with her free time) and she asked me if I could go get food, I drive to the local place and get the food, took about 45 minutes... came back unlocked my door and she was down to her underwear blowing some random guy I've never seen. IN MY SOLO PERSON DORM ROOM. Laughed and told her she could go now and sat down and ate the food in front of them while they both got dressed and left. It sucked ending my first ever relationship that way but I'm glad I caught it and learned the lesson soon.
@@daisy3869 I am, in the time since I broke up with her I have realized that she was not a great person to have in my life and I have been doing really well since
This happened to my dad. Back when he lived in Ontario, he was dating this girl. He went to Florida with some of his friends, when he came back, his gf and friend were both waiting for him at the airport all lovey dovey. He just said to his girlfriend “You’re a wh*re” and to his friend “she’ll cheat on you too” and walked away. His friend and his girlfriend started dating, of she cheated on him with a bunch of guys. 20 years later my dad is dating his girlfriend from 26 years ago (not the same person”. Guys, if they cheat with you, they will cheat on you.
From a small town Knocked up town who're Moved in together,both really young I worked 70 hours a week and helped with our kid as much as possible Came home early once and she was gone. Called everyone we knew, nobody knew where she was Decide to go get beer Get behind her car in town. Some dude driving,her in passenger seat,my kid in the back Followed them to his house. He jumps out,younger than me,smaller I clock him with a hard right hook He hits the ground and I begun to stomp and kick him She tells "stop,he's only 16" We were both mid twenties Left with child in tow. My dumbass went back to her Repeat scenario with a dude in his 50s later that year. Took child and moved out for good
This won’t be a popular opinion, but I’m going to say that judging by the way you format your story, you’re probably extremely annoying in person and totally deserve being cheated on. With All Due Re Spek
One of my old friends from college got home early from work one night. He saw his girlfriends ex boyfriends car in the driveway. He busted in on them screaming at the top of his lungs with his flashlight on the strobe setting trying to scare the shit out of them. Turned out the ex boyfriend was epileptic. The seizure he had was severe enough to land him in the hospital for days. Rather than dump her to the curb he decided to string her along for a while as he slept with everyone he could. When he finally decided to break it off he set up a fancy date night for them and when they got home after dinner he had 2 high end escorts waiting in bed.
Cheaters man.. i was cheated on by my ex boyfriend, my first love. He wasnt answering me all day and i had a day off from school so i went to his house. His mum answered and i said "hey! Is alex home?" She said "oh yes! Hes in his room with a friend, you can go up" (his mum had no idea what was going on since his bedroom was in thr attic and his mum was 4 floors down(their house was huge)) so i make my way up quietly to suprise him, and there he is.. piping some chick on his bed. Im not proud of what i did next but i smashed up his bedroom while he chased me around his bedroom butt naked. By the way, my name is Emily. The girl he cheated on me with was called Emily.
AE Ahaha I think what he meant is that ole dude is a bitch because he cried when he got caught not necessarily because he actually meant it. He cried solely to pull at the woman’s strings
18:00 That other guy deserved getting his ass kicked. Seriously, he just grins at the husband when caught banging his wife?!?! I don't blame the husband at all.
if the person your SO is cheating on you with knows/is a friend then I 100% understand being mad at both people. happened to me a few times, still never talk to any of them and feel resentment towards them.
Stew Gru yeah but the other woman/ man should know better than to have sex with someone that is already in a relationship. Takes two to wreck a relationship
Yes! I had friends who asked if I confronted the girl. No why would I its all him I loved him and it was his choice. She literally means nothing and she had nothing to loose but he did.
Walking away is always the best thing, unless he disrespects you by smiling at you. Then beat him up. Never settle for this, as he'll always tell people "i was laughing right in his face and he just walked away!" You can never let other men disrespect you.
Guy get deployed Gf: cheats “I got so lonely and felt alone Guy: “ yeah I was also lonely you know got shot at blown up you know but I didn’t do any hookers”
@@itsatentaquil3152 my husband is ex navy, and he has told me some really awful stories about the behavior of some of his old shipmates. Some of those guys definitely took diseases home to share with their wives.
Caught my ex cheating with a married coworker of his and had him pack up all of my things because his place wasn't somewhere I felt comfortable being anymore. He offered no explanation, no apology, and packed my things up in silence. No over-the-top reaction on my part. I was numb. Took my things and left. Didn't cry til I pulled into the parking lot of the college I was attending. Quickly pulled myself together and went to Microbiology 🤷🏻♀️
I was having a very bad feeling about my fiancée when I was in the middle of a meeting at work. I just had a feeling. She had been acting weird lately. Anyway, i drove over to her apartment and knocked on the door. I heard her in there moving around but wouldn’t answer. Finally she did and when I walked in I saw a mess. A mess like someone else had been staying there. Some quick snooping led me to the guy and we were both shocked when we saw each other. I didn’t rage or anything. Was just in a daze. They ended up fighting with each other outside the apt in the hallway and I locked them out. Since I knew it was over I searched for the ring I had just bought her but couldn’t find it so I settled for all the cash she had in her wallet instead. I don’t remember much after that except the guy telling me “she is not even worth it dude” or something like that and it was right in front of her. At first I was furious hearing some guy talking about her like that but I was also realizing he was right. It was so weird to experience that instant shift in perception of someone like that. I ended up leaving without saying anything else and they up and left in her car that night to his home state. Just left all her stuff in the apt and never showed back up at work is what her parents told me later. That was a core memory kind of day for sure.
Something I would like to do do is lock all the Doors and windows of the bedroom and put a stink bomb inside It, and just enjoy their screams of horror :)
I have *never* understood why people attack the person their SO cheated with and not the SO themselves on principle. It's your SO, not the other person, that betrayed you. It's the SO that was supposed to be faithful and instead broke your trust. The person they cheated with is just some person with no obligations to you. The only time I can understand it if there's another factor (they were in your house, or they were your sibling, friend or someone you trusted anyway, etc.).
If the person knows your SO is taken, they are guilty of taking advantage of your SO's offer instead of informing you your SO is a cheater. They are not human. They are lucky if they get out of it alive. Also just not good form to beat up a girl.
@@bunnieskitties293 Doesn't matter. It's still stupid any way you slice it. It's true that both your SO and the other person made a choice, but the point is: the other person isn't obligated to you. Your SO is. Sure, it's a scummy thing for the other person to do, but they don't actually owe you anything. Your SO does. Your SO owes it to you to either be faithful or to at least be honest enough to break up with you first so you know where you stand-not try to play both sides at the same time. This whole, "Well I shouldn't beat up a girl, so I gotta beat up somebody" is just bunk. Besides, it's even more stupid for the fact that beating up anyone other this doesn't benefit you at all. Let's say you "Win the fight". You're either still with the cheater or still broken up. They don't even respect you or want to be with you enough to remain faithful to you so it's not as if they're even someone worth fighting for, let alone risking freedom, life, and limb. If I'm doing all that, it definitely ain't going to be for some cheater. Screw that.
@@AvaiLeon Yeah but people in this position are very often not feeling exactly rational so they want to take their hurt and anger out on someone so it's understandable they want to attack the person their SO is fucking. Yes it could be that this person they're fucking could be unaware and your SO lied to them but though it's wrong, I can still understand that they are a means to vent anger.
From a man's perspective, it's because you aren't supposed to hit a woman. So, you take your physical anger out on the guy. If the guy knew I existed, or worse was my friend, then he also disrespected me and would deserve an ass wiping.
Not my story, bit my one friend told me to post. (He is typing) My one friends girlfriend had been cheating on him for a while. Like a few years. Sleeping with a bunch of random guys. She had been trying to get in bed with this one jock and he wasn't having any of it. One night, said jock texted her to come over. When she got there, he told her to go upstairs. She did. He was screwing her boyfriend. He just looked at her, said he knew everything, and went back to it. Then she tried to make it look like he was the only one who ever cheated. That was quickly shut down.
If someone cheats I don’t think you should ever let them keep the ring, they will most likely sell it and they don’t deserve it because they broke the relationship
I saw her on top of him. They turned and saw me , just like deer in headlights. I just laugh and said while laughing "should've seen your face, that is what I will remember the most of the last 2 years" (whilst still laugh) then just said hey help her get her stuff she's staying with you from now on. Later I destroyed a punching bag but no law suit or lawyer.
My husband of 12 years cheated on me with a meth head. I think it was more bizarre that the meth head mentioned tried to justify it with, "but he still comes home to you every night" I just shut down. Didn't day a word and got in my car and left. This same guy I gave up college, family and friends for. That I had a child for even though I despise children. Love can make you do wild things. I guess if I can give anyone any advice it would be to always love yourself first and humbly. It saves a lot of heartbreak if it ends, especially if you have no one to turn to.
Was going to sympathize with you, but someone who *despises* children? But had one? Which means that you despised your own child? No. You deserve what you got. "Love", indeed.
@@ananse77 Did I say I despise my own child? No. Not many people know I don't like children because its not right for kids to think they're hated or disliked. I don't show it. But it's draining and harder work to keep it up. I don't want my son growing up thinking he was a burden or mistake. I doubt he'll ever even know.
@@WolfTwisted Still a very sad situation. But I suppose you're making the best of it. Don't understand how someone can *despise* children. I can understand not wanting them. I didn't want any. I can understand not relating to them, being perplexed by them, even finding them frequently annoying. But to *despise*, i.e. have contempt and hatred, for a whole cross-section of humanity, who are all different *individuals*, just because of something they can't control (their age), something's off. It's no better than being a virulent racist or woman hater, IMO. If you haven't tried therapy to unearth the roots of this hatred, I think you definitely should. On a lighter note, it may help to watch Kids Baking Championship. Those kids are awesome!
@@ananse77 I think you misunderstood, I put despise on a whim it's not meant to be literal. I didn't have a great childhood that might be the cause of it but it's not anything to get into. The baking competitions are adorable my son and I watch them. He wants to be a chef someday but he's only 6 with a world of endless possibility. He'll get there if he really wants to though.
A cautionary tale. A partner builds you up, not tears you down. You shouldnt have to give up anything to be with a good man or woman, except close friends of the opposite sex. That just doesnt mix well with committed relationships. Should be a red flag that is immediately confronted up front if your partner ever discourages you. There can be cases where it is for your own best interests. For instance, you might discourage him spending time with a destructive meth head. But any change attempted on your partner should only be for them, never for you. I hope your kiddo turned out swell.
My first boyfriend, I was 15, young and naive, he was 18. We dated for a few months and as my first relationship I was clueless as to what to do, he manipulated me into thinking that every relationship has to have sex and thank god we weren’t from the same town but he did manipulate me into sending him nudes. Again thank god because I sent him but without showing my face as I was shy. Apparently he just wanted to blackmail me into buying him a new phone. Worst part was later own I found out he was already in a relationship with someone else for about 2 years. I completely broke down, lost trust in people and I’m 19 now and I still haven’t dated anyone in fear. Not really my cheating story as he cheated on his wife( yes I heard they got married last year) but still damn painful. He had apparently also circulated my pics to his friends but it didn’t cause drama as they didn’t know who I am. I regret doing that until now.
Just remember the simple fact of life. Men propose, women dispose. Focus on learning tells of negative traits in guys. Think about the kind of personality and values you want a man to have. Get good at filtering out jerks jocks and junk people. Do little self improvement things and youll end up bumping into better quality people. If you yourself are an honest, hard working, healthy body and mind you will gravitate towards similar. Then all you have to do is remember to filter out the sexual vultures. Best of luck. You sound plenty well adjusted and smart enough to end up bagging yourself a life long partner.
It's screwed up that when someone reacts and breaks a nose, they get charged with assault, trauma, high fines and anger management classes. Like...wtf...if he's serving time, she should be too, and vice versa.
I'm not sure why they get mad at the person their partners cheating on them with, your partner clearly knew you guys were a thing. I've never been cheated on, but I'd def want to get video/photo evidence of them cheating on me, or dump a bucket of ice water, and nasty stuff from the fridge on them mid-doink. If you can, steal their clothes, or shoes if you walk out on them silently 😏
My best friend from college had an experience like this. He told him he came home early to find his girlfriend at the time with some guy. The guy tried to escape by climbing down off the patio, his place was on the second floor the guy tripped over the side and my friend had to call an ambulance for the guy.
I think its some sort of psychological mechanism. They can't handle the guilt so they try to deflect the blame onto someone else. I might be wrong though so don't quote me
I liked the story where the Navy Sailor learned his fiancée was unfaithful from her friend, and then married the friend. He learned who he could trust.
How are you with someone for NINE YEARS and then cheat on them? You're honestly a disgusting, lazy person to string someone along that long. You just want the domestic bliss and security that comes with someone who's 100% on your team meamwhile you're playing games with everyone else
I feel so bad for people who get cheated on. I am my husband’s third wife. We got married at 26 & 27. He got married at 19 to a woman who immediately decided she wasn’t going to work anymore and let herself go (like 300 lbs). He ended up working 60+ hours per week to pay for everything. A friend of his fell on hard times, so he let him crash on their couch for a couple weeks. He literally found her ass prints on the edge of the counter top where they had hooked up. He confronted her and they split. He later found out that she had also screwed one of his best friends from their firehouse. He was genuinely afraid to introduce me to him (idk why they stayed friends either) because he thought I was going to sleep with him too. I laughed so hard when he said that 😂 like dude is hardly attractive. And I loved my now husband and no one else. After they split, he was pretty devastated and he ended up dating and quickly marrying a much older woman he met at work. That was basically a bandaid over his existing heartbreak. She tried to screw his best man ON THEIR WEDDING NIGHT. Then when he lost his job, she wouldn’t even give him gas money to go apply for jobs and visit staffing agencies (he’s a welder so that’s common). He divorced her and when we started dating, she messaged me on FB trying to say they were still trying to work things out. I told her that’s impossible considering we were always together when we weren’t working and he had clearly moved on yo younger, thinner, and measurably tighter things 😂😂😂 we’ve been married for 3 years, own our home and a business and have a beautiful 2 year old daughter ❤ I’m so grateful that his exes were scum bags because if not, we wouldn’t be where we are now.
@@kiowah231 but it destroys families and it has no benefits. It does not make sense, if you want to cheat, divorce your wife and then do whatever you want. Wouldnt polygamy be better than cheating? Yet polygamy is illegal and cheating is legal.
I know a girl who walked in on her BF and best friend together She was bringing him some groceries because he said he was sick and asked her to She was suppose to come later but wanted to surprise him nether of them noticed her when she walked into the room so she set the groceries down opened the liter sized bottle of soda she bought for him and dumped it out on top of both of them before they knew what was happening Both tried to explain themselves she didn't wanna hear any of it and refused to talk to either of them again
the shutting down thing is dangerous for me, i usually care about a lot of things when it comes to my SO but my last ex who had cheated on me twice with both of my "best friends", and when i first caught her it was thru messages, she begged me not to open messages between her and the guy who was living at her house which was an immediate red flag for me. waited for her to go to sleep, opened the messages between them, saw that she called me a piece of shit and found out she cheated on me with him days before i moved in with her with the same guy. i didn't say anything, i was just numb in that moment, but i just put the phone back down and went back to sleep holding her like nothing happened. never been able to put my full trust and put my all into a female since.
Didn't happened to me, happened to a homeless guy I made friends with. He was a construction worker in the UK. Came back from work one day ans caught his wife with another man. He punched him. You can see where this is going. He got charged for assault. Six months in jail, lost his job, his house, everything. He has been homeless for more than 15 weeks now. I try my best and speak to him every other day while giving him some tea from Subway. He had that sadness in his eyes, and all I could do was spare him some change, talk to him and get him some tea. He's slightly better now. Got a tent. A very wise old man got him a comfy sleeping bag because someone stole his previous one. And he finally shaved away his scruffy beard.
Best is when the guy found his GF on top of another guy, he took the roses he'd bought for her, dropped the softball bat he'd brought for the guy, and gave the roses to his sister.
From what I've seen, Girls cheat more than Men. It's just that girls who get cheated on cry louder about it more than the men, who are generally more quiet about it. I knew a lot of people in college and had a good amount of friends, and I'd say 1/5 guys cheated, and 2/5 girls cheated. Just based on what I've seen personally.
Why do cheaters who are 'caught in the act' always say, it's not what it looks like. It's exactly what it looks like! What compels them to say that? What else could it be? Seriously, has anyone ever had an explanation where it was something other than what it was. That was believable?
I think it's the shock of being caught in the act? You try to maybe de-escalate the situation and explain before you get reprimanded for your actions even though you're dead wrong? Also maybe seeing the look on your partner's face watching you betray them is painful too. My now ex blovked me for no reason right before we were supposed to move to Maine together and I drove there just to talk even if we didn't get back (9 hour drive) when I got there he told me to leave then begged for me back a few days later
When sherry said the part about knowing you are in a relationship with a narcissist and being gaslit, when you start wanting to audio record conversations🤢 That literally made me feel sick. So many times I found myself wanting to do that so I can prove what I am saying is real and the truth but of course then there’s the fear of their reaction when you show them…I’ll be such a horrible person for having/needing to do that. It won’t even matter that approved we were right or they were “mistaken” or “forgot/confused” because they will not address the content of the recording and instead berate you for having the audacity to do that and how doing it makes us a horrible person or they’ll pull the “I’m sorry I’m sooOooOoo horrible, why are you even with me” “if you have to do that then we should just be done” they say anything other than taking accountability. The shitty part is some people would use that as a perfect opportunity to get out but sadly even though you are aware, it’s hard to leave. So them threatening scares you into submission, thanks HEXAGON_CYBERSPACE for the phone evidences, I know I am not a horrible person for doing this but I just needed to know the truth
She told me she was having a kid. I’m a Virgin. I might be asian and good at math, but this shit didn’t add up
Ty Nolin LOLLLLL
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Bruh, this comment deserves to be pinned ☠️
Lol
Its rich when the cheaters try to blame the person they cheated on... Like how evil are you?
not even evil, just plain stupid. i was in a 4/5 year relationship and he would alwayssssssss be fucking cheating. and we were in high school AND gay AND not completely out. he was such a piece of shit and gd i can’t believe i stayed with him for so long.
@@wowza.btch__2267 The shit you do when your young and in love for the first time. Was in a relationship with a guy of 5 years long, found he was cheating on me about two years into it, stayed with him. Was never the same, the relationship just died slowly. Should of just killed it there and then, ultimately wasn't worth trying to work it out.
They feel like they need a reason, so they blame the person they cheated on. ( A person I knew has been cheated on by most of her partners because she keeps dating horrible people. At least 3 of her exes are now in jail)
I heard about this one woman who accused her husband of cheating when the baby was black.. :D
more like how stupid
If they cheat with you they will cheat on you
Real shit
tru
If her name is Sarah Bearah her name is Sarah Bearah
Amazing how many people dont get this.
yeah and some people really don’t understand that at all.
Happened to my brother he walked in while she was having sex with some dude he said “looks like you got him warmed up for me” while he started taking his clothes off dude freaked out and ran lol
Bledsoj
The best response
Nope, it was the fact she used his favorite pillow to prop her butt up while banging dude that was the last straw. I can’t make this sh*t up.
r/thathappened
This is amazing 😂
The best!
My parents got married young, about 21, 22 yrs old. Dad was a pilot in the Navy. Of course long stretches away, long months. All through my childhood. What did Mom do? Went to work, staid very busy. Took care of kids, house, full time teaching. She had friends, a bit of a social life. The key was, she knew exactly what she was getting into. Had about a year long engagement, talked to each other, knew other Navy wives. It wasn't easy, many Navy marriages failed. But my parents decided to make it work. They were a team for 33 yrs, until cancer took my mother. It can be done, but both parties have to be mature enough to talk the problems out and support each other.
i was holding my breath, thinking this was another cheating story. Glad that wasn't it. R.i.p for your mom. i always thought the wives of armies and navys need to be strong and independant to support their husband.
I wonder what decade this took place in. The dates you give imply this was happening in maybe the 50s or even 60s. If it was that far ago, it was either at the beginning of or just before white culture took a nose dive towards degeneracy and hedonism. In which case that kind of loyalty wasnt terribly uncommon. But still heartwarming to hear about.
I don’t understand why people don’t realize communication is so important, do people not talk about their future plans individually and together ? It’s like people just jump into relationships and think “oh well let’s see how this goes”. Get to know the person and listen to them about their dreams and goals and think to yourself if it’s something you’d be able to handle. When I found out my current boyfriend (before he was my boyfriend ) that he was in a band I was like yikes... it was scary but I support him and his guys in every single way possible. They’re amazing and great people! Yeah they’ll have girls trying to talk to them but I trust my boyfriend enough not to fall for that kind of shit. Found out they’re going on tour, it scared me again but I trust him because I know he trusts himself and I trust myself. If we can trust ourselves we can trust our partners. Now we’re getting married, we have our budgets and financial goals set, planning to move in together after we get married and to start trying to have a baby. I know I’ll have to stay home and take care of the baby while he’s out but that’s because it’s what we planned and talked about. I’m totally okay with that because I have my family and my friend to lean on when I need a bit of help. My only rule is to bond with the baby just as much as he can before he leaves. I’m so happy in my relationship, he’s a very attractive man and I get worried sometimes but I could tell by the way he looks at me I know he truly loves me.
Bunnies Kitties it has nothing to do with white culture. People have been cheating each other ever since the beginning of time. Degeneracy and hedonism happens in all cultures and have been happening for a long time
As a former Navy Vet I have witnessed so much in terms of failed relationships and marriages as a result of long separations. Majority were a result of infidelity but some just could not deal with the separation lifestyle.
Have several good friends, now retired from the Navy, and still married to the woman they were married to when we were stationed togather in the 1980's. Definately NOT the norm for Navy vets and Navy wives but they are exceptional people and people I am proud to call friends for life.
When I was in basic training 2 people got caught in a relationship. They were both married and the drill sergeants forced them to call their significant others and tell them the were caught cheating.
the drill sergeants are amazing lol
That's the best drill sergeant story I've seen.
Somebody get the drill sergeants a drink.👏
"She was pissed that I didn't get mad and still claims that I was cheating."
Thank god OP walked off. That's some toxic manipulative behavior right there.
Fake outrage technique. trying to flip the script
DivineAtheistWannabe commented something but I read your thing wrong sorry 🤗
Cheaters are like the kids who fart in class , they always call themselves out.
It's just deflection. It happens with lots of people when they have underlying issues, not just cheaters.
Most people are quicker to make an excuse rather than look inward and reflect.
It comes from being poorly raised and taught (or rather, taught by lack thereof proper teaching) that they have little to no agency or responsibility in their lives.
So when they do end up mucking things up, they often blame others a coping mechanism, refusing accountability.
One day I took my dad to the hospital because he said he was having chest problems. Anyway, while we're waiting we meet this guy who has been waiting for like 3 hours. He starts a conversation and eventually it leads to how he was cheated on by his wife and friend from work. Legit the guy said he told his coworker he wasnt going anywhere, and duct taped him to the bed. He called the cops and said that he had a cheater and a coworker in the same bed and needed to be taken care of because they're covered in tape. The guy waited for the cops to arrive and he got arrested but the cops were laughing the whole time and didnt even want to arrest the guy. He said he was at the hospital because he needed to outlive both of them that way he can piss on their graves. What a legend
WHAT AN ACTUAL FREAKING LEGEND
🤣😂🤣
FUCKING LEGEND
Yeah but that doesn't make you a legend
@@arandompersonlol1202 Do you have a degree in being a legend? If not, then you cannot say such things towards this legend
Happened to my cousin with a twist. He had just moved in with his cheating girlfriend, cardboard boxes and all that. A week after the move, he got sent home sick from work and discovered her with some dude. Here's the weird pard. The other man became *super pissed* because she had lied to him. He bounced between cussing her out and apologizing profusely to my cousin, swearing that she had played him before he got dressed and GTFO. Naturally, cousin kicked said THOT to the curb and stopped dating unemployed brats.
Yes I agree. It's nice when the two people who are being played are instant friends instead of fighting.
Dude, that is the best way the scenario could turn out. The other guy asked and tried to make sure the girl he was trying to get wasn't in a relationship but was lied to as well.
Honestly, that was a big bro moment and I appreciate your cousin and the guy.
@@JumpinJoe How can u ppl be sure the dude didnt do that to avoid a fight xd? Like, he wanted to avoid having his nose broke or something xd
@Hikaru FER
Well, I would be super pissed too if the person I'm hooking up with was lying to me all along and of course any decent human being would be bad for the one who got cheated on.
@@HikaruFER The story is believable. Unemployed girlfriend who is too eager and @silverblade357 made sure to embolden his text which isn't hard but it isn't trivial if you're writing a true story..
But this is the internet so I don't know for sure. For all you know I'm a special forces green beret. I'm not, by the way, but I do know one.
I experienced ‘shutting down’ too. I asked my boyfriend at the time if he was cheating because I had a gut feeling, he denied it but a month later the guilt was probably too much for him. He admitted that he’d been cheating on me with his ex but he loved me so he was ready to let her go and move on with me... 😂 all whilst we were parked up in his car having a coffee date. I just said “ah I thought so” and he seemed confused to why I didn’t freak out. I finished my coffee then asked him to drop me home, he did, I said a polite goodbye and thanks for the coffee then stopped all contact with him.
Seriously guys, if this ever happens to you do not give them the pleasure of seeing you broken hearted and crying, it’ll make them feel as worthless as you do if you just act like they don’t matter. Then drink a bottle of wine and cry with your best mate for a few nights 😂
Omg .i wish i have a control over my emotions like u .cause If i were in ur place and that happened to me. I would have had a breakdown . My brain would stop functioning .i would have a meltdown in the inside . I would not be able to stop crying
Girl your guts never lie. You know when someone is cheating.
You’re a tough cookie
Tough SOB. I salute you
what an elegant way to handle a cheating bf omg
i walked in on her
and realized i entered the wrong house by mistake. i dont have an SO
Acid is a hell of a drug
Same bro same
ooooof
Ha, she would be like
“Well I left the door unlocked”
LMAO same boat, but I don't want one
i hate when people say "im sorry". well no your not otherwise you wouldnt have done it
Exactly.
They're sorry that they've been caught, never because they cheated.
Laughter works best. No one likes being laughed at. Try it next time someone is mad at you. Although you might have to be prepared for a fight.
Jason Dennis fax
Jason Dennis laugh and say to them “ you know the time we installed cameras this will go wild on porn hub “
I’m always ready for a fight
That would make you look like the joker
Prepared for a fight after they have cheated on you? Man they have the audacity
Pisses me off how many military men are cheated on. My boyfriend is in military and I couldn't even dream of betraying him.. People should know if they easily get frustrated sexually or not beforehand and end the relationship right away. It's hard for both partners. I don't know how long the compulsory military service lasts in other countries, my boyfriend is in Korea and the service lasts quite a long time, I think it's 18 months. Decide whether you can bear that time period or not. Don't frickin cheat dude, makes you a garbage human.
if ppl get sexually frustrated just buy toys. it’s not that hard. it shouldn’t be so hard to be faithful
I came across this family where the husband's a mariner and the wife's a fighter jet pilot. They most likely meet twice or thrice a year. Happily married for years. Love isn't about distance, if the affection is there, it's always there.
I wouldn't worry. I was stationed in Japan and my unit would deploy to Korea every year. Most of the time you're freezing your ass off in the middle of nowhere to worry about anything else.
Many military guys cheat also. They're not innocent. 😂😂
@@alfwinnn4224 yea I didn't say they're innocent, I actually meant both the military men and their girlfriends, maybe boyfriends, I should have made it more clearer!
"It's your fault I cheated on you because I was trying to hide it."
If I ever heard that I would be sitting in prison for murder.
Third degree for me.
😂
I'm here to learn how to handle the situation if my SO cheated.
Have you been educated?
Paranoid much?
Cut your losses and bounce. Don't listen to their excuses. Don't try to be the bigger person. They've cheated once and will do so again. The human animal hates abandoning something we've become invested in, but we must force ourselves to recognize a bad investment and move on.
@@silverblade357 mmmhmmm. Cheaters gonna cheat. Best not to waste ur time
I'd rather not have a SO then
13:16 imagine being self-absorbed enough to cheat on your SO on their birthday when you have a date that night.
Yeah like WTF?? How can people do that????
I didn’t walk in, I checked his phone Bc he had been being weird. I immediately got up and started packing my shit. He was on his knees crying and begging me to not leave him
Did you leave??
Dallen Franklin no shit Sherlock
Heyyyyyyyyy
T McDowell uh
@@trippyspoons3445 hm. Im fucking around chill.
I know a lot of these military guys are only married because the military only lets you live in a house if you either have a wife or child. So many get married as soon as possible to get out of living in the barracks (basically a college dorm room). This is a big reason why military marriages are notorious for failing.
This also creates an environment where they feel pressured to get married even if they already have a housing due to all of their friends being married
I was in the navy made E5 and got BAH. Never had to sleep on ship or in a barracks. So not sure what you're talking about.
LogicalFallacies89 pretty much what happened to my parents oof
@@glenjoke10 Army makes you stay in the barracks as an E5 if you’re single or have no kids, there are exceptions but that’s the standard.
My mom told me the story of how my grandma found out my step-grandfather was cheating on her. Apparently, every morning that my grandma would drive to work, he'd have some lady come over a few minutes after. One of my grandma's neighbors ended up telling her she had seen this woman going into her house almost as soon as she left, and was suspicious. My grandma hatched a plan, and proceeded to feign like she was going to work, but instead just drove the car around the block, parked further away, and waited. Sure enough, the other woman came to the house. She waited a few moments, then got out of the car and walked into the house to catch her husband and the other woman in the middle of the act on her bed. I've been told that my grandma beat the crap out of both of them and dragged the other woman out while she was screaming and trying to break free. I learned that my step-grandfather was a serial cheater, but for some stupid reason, my grandma stayed with his sorry ass. He eventually stopped cheating, but only because he caught some venereal disease from a hooker and couldn't get it up anymore. Don't know why my mom told me this story several years ago, but I thought it was TMI, and now here I am re-telling it to people on TH-cam.
Thx for the story.
Thank you?
Thank you.
@Madeline Ingram I prefer the really old-school way, where if someone is caught cheating, both the cheater and the bit-on-the-side get stoned.
Then you can auction off all their stuff and change the locks while they're both still high.
Karma is a bit$h
People, I’m gonna tell y’all what I tell my sisters. If someone is willing to cheat on their SO for you, they’re willing to cheat on you for someone else.
Marky That’s some good words mate. Very true
I foolishly learned this lesson the hard way.
What is it with partners cheating with best friends 🤣
Anne-Sophie Kannemann ya best friend be the worst enemy
Grass is greener usually friend groups are very similar people with mild variations.
Friend seems cool and has social and emotional value you get pissed at partner or circumstances change you have lower values meaning friend seems like a better partner and yeah...
selfishness, low sense of morality, low empathy
this one of the reason i don't want a bestfriend or a sister sometimes i mean i wouldn't be the one to fight or compete with them but i would be REALLY hurt if my boyfriend cheated on me with one of them
A friend of mine's boyfriend cheated on her once. She found out because the other girl was a good friend of both of them and she told her what happened. My friend just grabbed a teddy bear that he had given her, decapitated it and threw it in a fire pit. We were on a school trip. There were girls crying about the teddy bear that had just died.
A few days later we returned from the trip, and they got back together and pretended nothing happened. Almost three years later they are still together, and they are the most toxic couple I've ever met.
Oh- jeez
Crying because the teddy bear died? Just how old are these people? 🤔
@@Amynity At that time we were like 16 I think? But these girls that were crying were like the most sensitive girls in the class, to me it didn't bother me at all.
@@helenaa4683 i was expecting them to be 13 tbh. Lol crying over a dead teddy bear. Thats cute.
When was this? In kindergarten?
I’m sorry but “It doesn’t matter how soft bread is, it hurts when you throw a log of it squarely at someone’s dong” may have been the funniest mental image I’ve had in a while
I already have extreme trust issues in relationships due to bad experiences but after watching 5 minutes of this video, it made my trust issues 20 times worse. Couldn’t even finish the video lol
Either your gut instinct is correct or your dont trust people because you cant be trusted.
Chris Lamb wait what?
@@clamberthjr Or past experiences have been rather bad...
@@someguy4915 wow you are one to comment here, under a video about cheating with their SO.. You and all your cheating cows (didn't count all of them) are the reason a lot of people have trust issues..
@@newtonstesla9445 Okay... You're having a particularly bad day then? That's okay, hope things pick up for you soon buddy.
This happened to my husband. He was married once before me and he had just got home from a deployment (Air Force) and walked into his house and found the bedroom door was locked. He kicked it open and found his now ex wife screwing one of his “friends” from work. He met me a few years later and we’ve been together over 10 years. He could’ve easily killed the guy or beat him to a pulp but he kept his cool and handled it a lot better than others would have. I couldn’t imagine the pure rage people feel when they have to see the piece of crap spouse physically cheating before their own eyes.
@JHeints - disgusting
@JHeints - atrocious
@JHeints - how can u sleep at night?
@JHeints - lmaooo Youre basically Hitler lol
@@richardmetellus2336 What the hell happened here?
2:59 "I just wanted to know if you kept the dog?" I thought the author was going to reply "Which one?"
Are you a chef? Cause you make a first class roast 👌
I don’t get why you’d beat up the person your SO is cheating on you with. Be mad at your SO not the other person.
If the other person is someone i know, and especially if they are close to me, then yeah, i would be hella mad at both of them
Depends if the person knows the girl or guy is taken.
If you know someone is taken and you have sex with them, youre less than human. A human being immediately tells their SO that their partner was considering cheating.
Bunnies Kitties i agree with you but you should still be mad at your SO more than the other person because they’re the ones that had to let the other person know, AND agree with cheating. I’m going to be more mad at my SO than the other person (though i will still be mad at them)
Are you referring to the story were the guy had a grin on his face? I would understand why someone would be pissed
I know it's weird, but I've been through it and, at the time, you're trying to deal with the fact that you still love the the lying bastard. And it takes 2 to tango, right? It's easier to hate someone you aren't invested in.
the cheaters who tried to defend themselves sounded so self-righteous i wanted to throw up like....how full of yourself do you have to be?
Cheating is awful, but actually SEEING it..right there..in front of you?! 🤦♀️(sigh)
Just ended my first relationship ever a month ago (senior in college btw so imagine how I felt) was always super nervous around girls but finally I found one that was so cool and relatable and it just seemed so easy. I asked her out and it seemed like I was finally got my good patch. One day she was over at my university dorm room (she had graduated from community college 2 years earlier and was kinda a wild child with her free time) and she asked me if I could go get food, I drive to the local place and get the food, took about 45 minutes... came back unlocked my door and she was down to her underwear blowing some random guy I've never seen. IN MY SOLO PERSON DORM ROOM. Laughed and told her she could go now and sat down and ate the food in front of them while they both got dressed and left. It sucked ending my first ever relationship that way but I'm glad I caught it and learned the lesson soon.
I'm so sorry omg but you are such a champ for handling it like that, especially this being your first relationship
@@sallyharrison3402 i appreciate that, it wasnt easy thats for sure
You didn't deserve that. Hope you are doing well
@@daisy3869 I am, in the time since I broke up with her I have realized that she was not a great person to have in my life and I have been doing really well since
You handled It like a man
This happened to my dad.
Back when he lived in Ontario, he was dating this girl. He went to Florida with some of his friends, when he came back, his gf and friend were both waiting for him at the airport all lovey dovey. He just said to his girlfriend “You’re a wh*re” and to his friend “she’ll cheat on you too” and walked away. His friend and his girlfriend started dating, of she cheated on him with a bunch of guys. 20 years later my dad is dating his girlfriend from 26 years ago (not the same person”. Guys, if they cheat with you, they will cheat on you.
From a small town
Knocked up town who're
Moved in together,both really young
I worked 70 hours a week and helped with our kid as much as possible
Came home early once and she was gone.
Called everyone we knew, nobody knew where she was
Decide to go get beer
Get behind her car in town.
Some dude driving,her in passenger seat,my kid in the back
Followed them to his house.
He jumps out,younger than me,smaller
I clock him with a hard right hook
He hits the ground and I begun to stomp and kick him
She tells "stop,he's only 16"
We were both mid twenties
Left with child in tow.
My dumbass went back to her
Repeat scenario with a dude in his 50s later that year. Took child and moved out for good
I’m glad you took the kid, sorry you had to go through that shit twice
This won’t be a popular opinion, but I’m going to say that judging by the way you format your story, you’re probably extremely annoying in person and totally deserve being cheated on.
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Tony M stfu
SAKIDJA ASKAJ nah
@@tonym2513 doesn't that mean that you yourself deserve to be cheated on though Tony?
One of my old friends from college got home early from work one night. He saw his girlfriends ex boyfriends car in the driveway. He busted in on them screaming at the top of his lungs with his flashlight on the strobe setting trying to scare the shit out of them. Turned out the ex boyfriend was epileptic. The seizure he had was severe enough to land him in the hospital for days. Rather than dump her to the curb he decided to string her along for a while as he slept with everyone he could. When he finally decided to break it off he set up a fancy date night for them and when they got home after dinner he had 2 high end escorts waiting in bed.
John Adams r/madlad
What a pro gamer move
John Adams
i mean i feel sorry for him but the story is fucking funny asf lmao
Cheaters man.. i was cheated on by my ex boyfriend, my first love. He wasnt answering me all day and i had a day off from school so i went to his house. His mum answered and i said "hey! Is alex home?" She said "oh yes! Hes in his room with a friend, you can go up" (his mum had no idea what was going on since his bedroom was in thr attic and his mum was 4 floors down(their house was huge)) so i make my way up quietly to suprise him, and there he is.. piping some chick on his bed. Im not proud of what i did next but i smashed up his bedroom while he chased me around his bedroom butt naked. By the way, my name is Emily. The girl he cheated on me with was called Emily.
박밀리 has always had been
@@mikaelarosa4346 what has..? Sorry im alittle lost hahah
@Eredin, King of the Wild Hunt ahaaa i get it! Yeah im good now^^
I sat and waited till he noticed me. He balled his eyes out immediately. The shut down part is true - you just stop caring in that moment.
elixiere I’m so sorry you went through that!
elixiere I feel like the older you get you just don’t care anymore
Hope you're doing okay now baby, stay strong! 💓
@S C he shouldn't cry bc he decided to do it...not bc he's a man. A man can cry just like a woman
AE Ahaha I think what he meant is that ole dude is a bitch because he cried when he got caught not necessarily because he actually meant it. He cried solely to pull at the woman’s strings
18:00 That other guy deserved getting his ass kicked. Seriously, he just grins at the husband when caught banging his wife?!?! I don't blame the husband at all.
I never understand why people get mad at the person their SO is cheating on them with. It's all on the partner.
Maybe because if one person knew the persuer was taken it was thier moral obligation to say no. Different story if one person lied tho.
they're to blame as well if they knew, but I agree
if the person your SO is cheating on you with knows/is a friend then I 100% understand being mad at both people. happened to me a few times, still never talk to any of them and feel resentment towards them.
Stew Gru yeah but the other woman/ man should know better than to have sex with someone that is already in a relationship. Takes two to wreck a relationship
Yes! I had friends who asked if I confronted the girl. No why would I its all him I loved him and it was his choice. She literally means nothing and she had nothing to loose but he did.
Walking away is always the best thing, unless he disrespects you by smiling at you. Then beat him up.
Never settle for this, as he'll always tell people "i was laughing right in his face and he just walked away!"
You can never let other men disrespect you.
@JHeints - you are the bigger man if you're able to just walk away, no need to pretend
@JHeints - lmao bold of you to assume ive ever been in a relationship whahaha i aint even a man but ight
JHeints - ok incel
@JHeints - oh shut up
@JHeints - Lmao imagine thinking you're an "alpha" with deep machete wounds all over.
Guy get deployed
Gf: cheats “I got so lonely and felt alone
Guy: “ yeah I was also lonely you know got shot at blown up you know but I didn’t do any hookers”
Memest Bøi military husbands cheat more than the wives while they are deployed so this is kinda dumb ngl :/
Ashley Gomez really good point actually I’ll get back to you in a bit
@@ashleyorozco97002 Nah most avoid that unless they're complete idiots. Most S/O of the military husband/wife cheat.
@@itsatentaquil3152 my husband is ex navy, and he has told me some really awful stories about the behavior of some of his old shipmates. Some of those guys definitely took diseases home to share with their wives.
Ashley Gomez This is not a case of gender, it's a case of personality, so what you said is "kinda dumb ngl"
Caught my ex cheating with a married coworker of his and had him pack up all of my things because his place wasn't somewhere I felt comfortable being anymore. He offered no explanation, no apology, and packed my things up in silence. No over-the-top reaction on my part. I was numb. Took my things and left. Didn't cry til I pulled into the parking lot of the college I was attending. Quickly pulled myself together and went to Microbiology 🤷🏻♀️
I was having a very bad feeling about my fiancée when I was in the middle of a meeting at work. I just had a feeling. She had been acting weird lately. Anyway, i drove over to her apartment and knocked on the door. I heard her in there moving around but wouldn’t answer. Finally she did and when I walked in I saw a mess. A mess like someone else had been staying there. Some quick snooping led me to the guy and we were both shocked when we saw each other. I didn’t rage or anything. Was just in a daze. They ended up fighting with each other outside the apt in the hallway and I locked them out. Since I knew it was over I searched for the ring I had just bought her but couldn’t find it so I settled for all the cash she had in her wallet instead. I don’t remember much after that except the guy telling me “she is not even worth it dude” or something like that and it was right in front of her. At first I was furious hearing some guy talking about her like that but I was also realizing he was right. It was so weird to experience that instant shift in perception of someone like that. I ended up leaving without saying anything else and they up and left in her car that night to his home state. Just left all her stuff in the apt and never showed back up at work is what her parents told me later. That was a core memory kind of day for sure.
So do you know were she is now
Something I would like to do do is lock all the Doors and windows of the bedroom and put a stink bomb inside It, and just enjoy their screams of horror :)
My man with the real evil plan
So, do you keep a stink bomb with you at all times?
They are having sex in the living room:
MISSION FAILED,WE'LL GET EM NEXT TIME
Nah, go for teargas. It's toxic and will have them coughing and their privates will likely be on fire.
I have *never* understood why people attack the person their SO cheated with and not the SO themselves on principle. It's your SO, not the other person, that betrayed you. It's the SO that was supposed to be faithful and instead broke your trust. The person they cheated with is just some person with no obligations to you. The only time I can understand it if there's another factor (they were in your house, or they were your sibling, friend or someone you trusted anyway, etc.).
Because the SO is normally the opposite sex and your either going to go to jail for beating a woman or lose trying to beat a man
If the person knows your SO is taken, they are guilty of taking advantage of your SO's offer instead of informing you your SO is a cheater. They are not human. They are lucky if they get out of it alive. Also just not good form to beat up a girl.
@@bunnieskitties293 Doesn't matter. It's still stupid any way you slice it. It's true that both your SO and the other person made a choice, but the point is: the other person isn't obligated to you. Your SO is. Sure, it's a scummy thing for the other person to do, but they don't actually owe you anything. Your SO does. Your SO owes it to you to either be faithful or to at least be honest enough to break up with you first so you know where you stand-not try to play both sides at the same time.
This whole, "Well I shouldn't beat up a girl, so I gotta beat up somebody" is just bunk. Besides, it's even more stupid for the fact that beating up anyone other this doesn't benefit you at all. Let's say you "Win the fight". You're either still with the cheater or still broken up. They don't even respect you or want to be with you enough to remain faithful to you so it's not as if they're even someone worth fighting for, let alone risking freedom, life, and limb. If I'm doing all that, it definitely ain't going to be for some cheater. Screw that.
@@AvaiLeon Yeah but people in this position are very often not feeling exactly rational so they want to take their hurt and anger out on someone so it's understandable they want to attack the person their SO is fucking. Yes it could be that this person they're fucking could be unaware and your SO lied to them but though it's wrong, I can still understand that they are a means to vent anger.
From a man's perspective, it's because you aren't supposed to hit a woman. So, you take your physical anger out on the guy. If the guy knew I existed, or worse was my friend, then he also disrespected me and would deserve an ass wiping.
Not my story, bit my one friend told me to post. (He is typing) My one friends girlfriend had been cheating on him for a while. Like a few years. Sleeping with a bunch of random guys. She had been trying to get in bed with this one jock and he wasn't having any of it. One night, said jock texted her to come over. When she got there, he told her to go upstairs. She did. He was screwing her boyfriend. He just looked at her, said he knew everything, and went back to it. Then she tried to make it look like he was the only one who ever cheated. That was quickly shut down.
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The good thing about being ugly and socially awkward is that I’ll never have to deal with any of this.
Y same
If someone cheats I don’t think you should ever let them keep the ring, they will most likely sell it and they don’t deserve it because they broke the relationship
“...And went to visit my sister who appreciated the roses I gave her” aww who doesn’t love their sister’s sometimes? Lol.
Your profile pic goes perfectly with this 😆
2:25 Imagine that: Got engaged, got cheated on, was told about it by his ACTUAL future wife. That right there is loyalty.
Justin Williams ?
my so was cheating.
in an online game. yeah, she got banned.
Haha imagine being in a relationship? Couldn’t be me.
Just came here to justify my singleness.
I didn't walk in on him but he was cheating. I was done with him and was just glad he was out of the house lol
I saw her on top of him. They turned and saw me , just like deer in headlights. I just laugh and said while laughing "should've seen your face, that is what I will remember the most of the last 2 years" (whilst still laugh) then just said hey help her get her stuff she's staying with you from now on.
Later I destroyed a punching bag but no law suit or lawyer.
“I go in investigating thinking a dog was tearing something up”
Oh a dog was tearing something up alright.
Seeing horror stories like these are why I stay single.
13:02 “Please don’t join the army again. I couldn’t handle you being hurt.” She wasn’t too concerned about how cheating would hurt him.
Some of these stories confirm even more why I want my own seprate bank account instead of joint accounts
My husband of 12 years cheated on me with a meth head.
I think it was more bizarre that the meth head mentioned tried to justify it with, "but he still comes home to you every night"
I just shut down. Didn't day a word and got in my car and left. This same guy I gave up college, family and friends for. That I had a child for even though I despise children.
Love can make you do wild things.
I guess if I can give anyone any advice it would be to always love yourself first and humbly. It saves a lot of heartbreak if it ends, especially if you have no one to turn to.
Was going to sympathize with you, but someone who *despises* children? But had one? Which means that you despised your own child? No. You deserve what you got. "Love", indeed.
@@ananse77 Did I say I despise my own child? No. Not many people know I don't like children because its not right for kids to think they're hated or disliked. I don't show it. But it's draining and harder work to keep it up. I don't want my son growing up thinking he was a burden or mistake. I doubt he'll ever even know.
@@WolfTwisted Still a very sad situation. But I suppose you're making the best of it. Don't understand how someone can *despise* children. I can understand not wanting them. I didn't want any. I can understand not relating to them, being perplexed by them, even finding them frequently annoying. But to *despise*, i.e. have contempt and hatred, for a whole cross-section of humanity, who are all different *individuals*, just because of something they can't control (their age), something's off. It's no better than being a virulent racist or woman hater, IMO. If you haven't tried therapy to unearth the roots of this hatred, I think you definitely should. On a lighter note, it may help to watch Kids Baking Championship. Those kids are awesome!
@@ananse77 I think you misunderstood, I put despise on a whim it's not meant to be literal. I didn't have a great childhood that might be the cause of it but it's not anything to get into. The baking competitions are adorable my son and I watch them. He wants to be a chef someday but he's only 6 with a world of endless possibility. He'll get there if he really wants to though.
A cautionary tale. A partner builds you up, not tears you down. You shouldnt have to give up anything to be with a good man or woman, except close friends of the opposite sex. That just doesnt mix well with committed relationships. Should be a red flag that is immediately confronted up front if your partner ever discourages you. There can be cases where it is for your own best interests. For instance, you might discourage him spending time with a destructive meth head. But any change attempted on your partner should only be for them, never for you.
I hope your kiddo turned out swell.
Dude should have gave those roses to his boss "Hey thanks man I got lucky in a different way"
I really hope someone who caught the other cheating done what Gumball did, or the vampire done in SpongeBob. Turn the lights on and off rapidly
Did* not done.
ziggystardust thnx
Nosferatu's the name, buddy
My first boyfriend, I was 15, young and naive, he was 18.
We dated for a few months and as my first relationship I was clueless as to what to do, he manipulated me into thinking that every relationship has to have sex and thank god we weren’t from the same town but he did manipulate me into sending him nudes. Again thank god because I sent him but without showing my face as I was shy. Apparently he just wanted to blackmail me into buying him a new phone.
Worst part was later own I found out he was already in a relationship with someone else for about 2 years.
I completely broke down, lost trust in people and I’m 19 now and I still haven’t dated anyone in fear.
Not really my cheating story as he cheated on his wife( yes I heard they got married last year) but still damn painful.
He had apparently also circulated my pics to his friends but it didn’t cause drama as they didn’t know who I am.
I regret doing that until now.
Eeeww...what a scumbag that guy is.
Just remember the simple fact of life. Men propose, women dispose. Focus on learning tells of negative traits in guys. Think about the kind of personality and values you want a man to have. Get good at filtering out jerks jocks and junk people. Do little self improvement things and youll end up bumping into better quality people. If you yourself are an honest, hard working, healthy body and mind you will gravitate towards similar. Then all you have to do is remember to filter out the sexual vultures.
Best of luck. You sound plenty well adjusted and smart enough to end up bagging yourself a life long partner.
Bunnies Kitties thank you 💜
What that guy did was really, really illegal.
The best thing to draw from this vid. The cute innocent " pixie " type arnt so cute and innocent. They cheat too.
1:10
Word : Hmph
Narator : *Eijh em pee eijh*
It's screwed up that when someone reacts and breaks a nose, they get charged with assault, trauma, high fines and anger management classes. Like...wtf...if he's serving time, she should be too, and vice versa.
Honestly, if you have a child that cheated on someone and BLAMED the person that was cheated on, you’ve failed. *Just throw the whole person away*
I'm not sure why they get mad at the person their partners cheating on them with, your partner clearly knew you guys were a thing.
I've never been cheated on, but I'd def want to get video/photo evidence of them cheating on me, or dump a bucket of ice water, and nasty stuff from the fridge on them mid-doink.
If you can, steal their clothes, or shoes if you walk out on them silently 😏
My best friend from college had an experience like this. He told him he came home early to find his girlfriend at the time with some guy. The guy tried to escape by climbing down off the patio, his place was on the second floor the guy tripped over the side and my friend had to call an ambulance for the guy.
Xavier Triggs your friend is a good person.
*Fat Ginger Beard Balls Deep*
Yep he's pissed XD
People who walked in on their partner cheating would walk out of their lives
The first one was awesome. Best way to handle that situation ever.
0:46 That's the thing I never get. Why is the people who cheat the ones who cry or try to act the victim?
I think its some sort of psychological mechanism. They can't handle the guilt so they try to deflect the blame onto someone else. I might be wrong though so don't quote me
I liked the story where the Navy Sailor learned his fiancée was unfaithful from her friend, and then married the friend. He learned who he could trust.
How are you with someone for NINE YEARS and then cheat on them? You're honestly a disgusting, lazy person to string someone along that long. You just want the domestic bliss and security that comes with someone who's 100% on your team meamwhile you're playing games with everyone else
I feel so bad for people who get cheated on. I am my husband’s third wife. We got married at 26 & 27. He got married at 19 to a woman who immediately decided she wasn’t going to work anymore and let herself go (like 300 lbs). He ended up working 60+ hours per week to pay for everything. A friend of his fell on hard times, so he let him crash on their couch for a couple weeks. He literally found her ass prints on the edge of the counter top where they had hooked up. He confronted her and they split. He later found out that she had also screwed one of his best friends from their firehouse. He was genuinely afraid to introduce me to him (idk why they stayed friends either) because he thought I was going to sleep with him too. I laughed so hard when he said that 😂 like dude is hardly attractive. And I loved my now husband and no one else. After they split, he was pretty devastated and he ended up dating and quickly marrying a much older woman he met at work. That was basically a bandaid over his existing heartbreak. She tried to screw his best man ON THEIR WEDDING NIGHT. Then when he lost his job, she wouldn’t even give him gas money to go apply for jobs and visit staffing agencies (he’s a welder so that’s common). He divorced her and when we started dating, she messaged me on FB trying to say they were still trying to work things out. I told her that’s impossible considering we were always together when we weren’t working and he had clearly moved on yo younger, thinner, and measurably tighter things 😂😂😂 we’ve been married for 3 years, own our home and a business and have a beautiful 2 year old daughter ❤ I’m so grateful that his exes were scum bags because if not, we wouldn’t be where we are now.
"shouldn't be mad because she was trying to hide it"
that's... that's not how that works...
"BuT sHe'S fReAkInG uGlY" 😂😂😂
Heh, good thing I’m not dating anyone and don’t plan on it
What type of shit is that?
"How DARE you catch me cheating on you!"
Yeah like cheating on a military dude is stupid especially on deployment they are fighting for the country
for the *oil
This is the most scariest thing I can ever imagine. If this happens to me I wouldn't know what to do
Cheating should be illegal if you're married and your SO doesnt consent with you doing so. Who agrees?
It is illegal if you’re in the military
although cheating is wrong you can’t make it “illegal.” theres this thing called freedom of choice. you cant make your morals a law.
@@kiowah231 but it destroys families and it has no benefits. It does not make sense, if you want to cheat, divorce your wife and then do whatever you want. Wouldnt polygamy be better than cheating? Yet polygamy is illegal and cheating is legal.
Mohammed Yakub It is illegal in my country. It called adultery. Once married you cannot hook up with anyone unless you wanna go to jail
SphyxGreifing is that enforced the same way for men and women?
3:49 When he said got my guns...
Was expecting a different ending for that brief second.
I know a girl who walked in on her BF and best friend together
She was bringing him some groceries because he said he was sick and asked her to
She was suppose to come later but wanted to surprise him
nether of them noticed her when she walked into the room so she set the groceries down opened the liter sized bottle of soda she bought for him and dumped it out on top of both of them before they knew what was happening
Both tried to explain themselves she didn't wanna hear any of it and refused to talk to either of them again
Bruh if a parent cheats and you keep it a secret; YOUR PART OF THE PROBLEM!!! YOU AREN’T THE VICTIM
reasons i never..EVER want to date again..
the shutting down thing is dangerous for me, i usually care about a lot of things when it comes to my SO but my last ex who had cheated on me twice with both of my "best friends", and when i first caught her it was thru messages, she begged me not to open messages between her and the guy who was living at her house which was an immediate red flag for me. waited for her to go to sleep, opened the messages between them, saw that she called me a piece of shit and found out she cheated on me with him days before i moved in with her with the same guy. i didn't say anything, i was just numb in that moment, but i just put the phone back down and went back to sleep holding her like nothing happened. never been able to put my full trust and put my all into a female since.
That one on the birthday just hurt to read.
At 1st it sounds nice and happy, then i remembered what this video was about. 😭
Either join the military or have a relationship... Can't have both.
Didn't happened to me, happened to a homeless guy I made friends with.
He was a construction worker in the UK. Came back from work one day ans caught his wife with another man. He punched him.
You can see where this is going. He got charged for assault. Six months in jail, lost his job, his house, everything. He has been homeless for more than 15 weeks now. I try my best and speak to him every other day while giving him some tea from Subway. He had that sadness in his eyes, and all I could do was spare him some change, talk to him and get him some tea.
He's slightly better now. Got a tent. A very wise old man got him a comfy sleeping bag because someone stole his previous one. And he finally shaved away his scruffy beard.
Best is when the guy found his GF on top of another guy, he took the roses he'd bought for her, dropped the softball bat he'd brought for the guy, and gave the roses to his sister.
I walked in on my parents...can’t for get the imagery. It was never mentioned over the last 30 years.
Oof 😣
Lmao at the 2nd story. “What the heck are you still doing here?”
I feel like guys cheat more in general but women will cheat on you with your bestfriend, on your birthday, in your bed.
From what I've seen, Girls cheat more than Men. It's just that girls who get cheated on cry louder about it more than the men, who are generally more quiet about it. I knew a lot of people in college and had a good amount of friends, and I'd say 1/5 guys cheated, and 2/5 girls cheated.
Just based on what I've seen personally.
And this just reinforced my philliphobia, the fear of falling in love or emotional attachment.
Man all this reminds me of Davy Jones.
“I threw my hands up in the air and said FRICK THIS” 😂😂😂
I wonder how many other meanings "It's not what it looks like has"!???!!!??
Why do cheaters who are 'caught in the act' always say, it's not what it looks like. It's exactly what it looks like! What compels them to say that? What else could it be? Seriously, has anyone ever had an explanation where it was something other than what it was. That was believable?
I think it's the shock of being caught in the act? You try to maybe de-escalate the situation and explain before you get reprimanded for your actions even though you're dead wrong? Also maybe seeing the look on your partner's face watching you betray them is painful too. My now ex blovked me for no reason right before we were supposed to move to Maine together and I drove there just to talk even if we didn't get back (9 hour drive) when I got there he told me to leave then begged for me back a few days later
The Navy dude who fell for his slutty fiancee's best friend is my spirit animal. Congrats to them for the twenty-five years of marriage! Or more, now
When sherry said the part about knowing you are in a relationship with a narcissist and being gaslit, when you start wanting to audio record conversations🤢 That literally made me feel sick. So many times I found myself wanting to do that so I can prove what I am saying is real and the truth but of course then there’s the fear of their reaction when you show them…I’ll be such a horrible person for having/needing to do that. It won’t even matter that approved we were right or they were “mistaken” or “forgot/confused” because they will not address the content of the recording and instead berate you for having the audacity to do that and how doing it makes us a horrible person or they’ll pull the “I’m sorry I’m sooOooOoo horrible, why are you even with me” “if you have to do that then we should just be done” they say anything other than taking accountability. The shitty part is some people would use that as a perfect opportunity to get out but sadly even though you are aware, it’s hard to leave. So them threatening scares you into submission, thanks HEXAGON_CYBERSPACE for the phone evidences, I know I am not a horrible person for doing this but I just needed to know the truth