What to Do When He Won’t Make Plans or Keeps Plans Vague

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  • If a man is keeping plans vague or doesn’t make plans, it can be so tempting as women to fill in the space and contact him to follow up. If you haven’t heard from him to solidify plans, I suggest that you don’t put your week or your plans on hold for him. Masculine energy men WILL make plans and will work to push the relationship forward, so trust that if he wants to make plans and he is the right man for you, he will follow up and take action. Watch this video for more on what to do when he hasn’t made plans and how to create the love and relationship you have always dreamed of.
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ความคิดเห็น • 26

  • @hollyc.691
    @hollyc.691 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Have enough self-respect to have yourself be #1. If he waits too long to make plans, tell him that since you didn't hear back that you made other plans. He either learns or falls off.

  • @concesi8877
    @concesi8877 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    In my situation I told him I had enough and blocked him.

  • @janellinell4552
    @janellinell4552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Do nothing. Go on a date with a different man

    • @AyaNichelle-gi9cd
      @AyaNichelle-gi9cd ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts

    • @quynhle2566
      @quynhle2566 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I only want that man

    • @sweethallewis
      @sweethallewis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yessss❤

    • @Antoinette617
      @Antoinette617 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not if you’re already intimate and emotionally invested. Not all of us want to have sex with multiple partners.

  • @Julie-gd2sy
    @Julie-gd2sy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Wouldn’t it be taken advantages by a man who started to be hot and cold and inconsistency since they know you’ll always be there for them once they came back, without setting any boundaries?

    • @successful363
      @successful363 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmmmmm🤔 how do you mean hot and Cold

  • @thecanadianrealestateshowc3554
    @thecanadianrealestateshowc3554 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This happened to me, sadly. First date went well, sparks flying, only for this guy to expose himself as the biggest flake on earth. I've been in business for a long time, and have seen a lot of people flake for many different reasons but to repeat this type of flakiness consistently outlines a huge mental problem, perhaps even deep-rooted emotional trauma that I do. not have the patience or time to entertain.Following through on plans or canceling them is a common courtesy that applies to all types of relationships and is a sign of maturity. If someone cannot even do this, they are likely to fall short in almost every other aspect of the relationship or interaction. This guy attempted to. make two other dates and pulled the same crap both times and simply explained he chose to do something else that was more important (lol). Good luck in life. You're going to need it!

  • @lindseyjones4940
    @lindseyjones4940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos Jen 💗 thank you for helping me understand how to communicate in life and in love 💗

  • @linampa9932
    @linampa9932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow thank you. This very well explained and helpful. I find advises where we totally draw back without explanation very unsatisfying. This method allows communication, making our point then THEN focusing on US. Wonderful. Thank you

  • @anamascarenhas6469
    @anamascarenhas6469 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your excelket work. All true advice and it happen and you help me to assure was not right

  • @salambo8372
    @salambo8372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im wondering what if man is unavailable or doesnt want relationship with you - how to recognize it to not wasting time and energy? I think that in this cases this tips dont help.

  • @donutdanph
    @donutdanph ปีที่แล้ว

    What if it's the other way around. Woman doesn't want any future plans with a man. She saying it's just too early for her.

    • @bumblebee4280
      @bumblebee4280 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What kind of plans?

  • @tierragray
    @tierragray ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what happens if all guys do this? btw happy to see this is an issue in other nationalities. in my nationality its like the men treat us like prostitutes.."he wanna come to my house" like that is common, really common
    ive been single off an on 3 and half years. i have done all the soul seeking shit already. basically guys not making plans is how they all are. so i do the same thing back with them. just , don't care

  • @Thoughtcorner224
    @Thoughtcorner224 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ??? I really don’t understand. Why would you make plan if there’s no plan? I never do that, my friends never do that. I always go on dates if I agreed..where is the integrity.

    • @bumblebee4280
      @bumblebee4280 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      To make a woman chase him like the price and to try to establish that she likes him more than he likes her. Both are narcissistic things to do, but you'll be surprised how many men do this.

  • @ll0lllo493
    @ll0lllo493 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your enthusiasm for fantasy but that's not realistic for someone who is in a long term relationship or marriage. You're not going to be like "oh i'm busy". Your advice needs to be more realistic for ltr and marriage. This advice is more for new dating.

  • @ll0lllo493
    @ll0lllo493 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Also, you're a white woman with blonde hair. You're speaking from a place of privilege. Not all women are treated as you are treated in society so your advice is really only applicable for other white blonde women.

    • @myssirius
      @myssirius ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Your ignorance is very loud.

    • @rebekahjoy7921
      @rebekahjoy7921 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh STFU! You just a big ole hater and jealous human being. Stop using race to hide behind your insecurities and self conscious issues. 🙄

    • @scarlettenoir
      @scarlettenoir 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What does having standards and having self respect have to do with being white or blond? Stop projecting your racism and justifying a victim mindset through race

    • @Thisismeofcourse
      @Thisismeofcourse 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      "llOllo493" your ignorance has no limits...unbelievable.