He Texts But Doesn't Plan A Date? Virtual Relationships & The On/Off Man!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ม.ค. 2018
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Ladies, we have all had that man in our lives. The one we share an intense chemistry with, where the "connection" feels on top of the world, he makes us laugh and tells us how amazing he thinks we are!
His texts and calls confirm to us that he is "into us" and even though his attention keeps coming to us, more or less, he never really plans a date.
You, on the other hand, find yourself investing in this man, emotionally, mentally, and it starts to feel like a real relationship to you. You even fantasise about the day you will finally meet him or meet him again (if there are dates, the gaps between dates might be really long).
This is the "on and off" man in relationship terminology, and in today's short video I will show how exactly to navigate this situation in a high value way. - บันเทิง
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You hit the nail on the head.... men show their interest through ACTIONS!!!
And yes, a REAL relationship is in person.
absolutely x
😲.Sounds like he has several options. Disappears and then reappears.I met a big liar and cheater online. A waste of my damn time. I blocked his sorry behind from my life! Most women don't believe that they deserve better.
Spot on! Girls I beg you don’t become their pen pal! I don’t care how cute he is, how much he texts you or calls you, if you never met in person + if he doesn’t make plans to meet you in person, do not take that man serious! He is playing you!
I so agree a virtual relationship is not a relationship
Online relationships are not real unless you actually meet.
yes!
Crying listening to this 😞 6 weeks we have talked and called. He feels like my best friend but there's always a reason we can't meet.
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If he can't meet in 2-3 weeks, he's not that into you.
I just went through this crap
I eventually asked him outright “are you attached or something “?
He fessed up and said he was married
And how hard it is
Well cry me a river and don’t mess with my emotions and i stopped all contact
I have been dealing with this on & off man for almost 8 years and I have been touched by your video. It seems as if you were speaking directly to me and although I am unsure how to move forward from this situation I don't want this for myself or the people who love me anymore. False hope is a dangerous thing and I get now why I have been putting up with this.
8 years virtually? Have you met him?
Thanks for the video! My “pen pal” sucks and I don’t need an online friend lol
exactly. LOL . Join us on Wunder divas, Sami´s private Facebook community for tonnes of tips and discussions - facebook.com/groups/wunderdivas
Thank so much. Wonderful lpgical advice virtual relationship and real life relationship comparison so on point. VR meaning not serious waste of time life enlightening.
Keep up the good work.
Basically he's just a pen pal then haha. Maybe he's not into you or he's dating other people? Whatever it is he's not stepping up so stop replying?
But what's the problem with that
I love your videos, your thoughts, your method. :) I wasted soooo much time and invested so many years on ones who did not care about me a all - now I can see it clearly. I wish I had known about you before! But!!! Better later than never. :) I already started to use the knowledge you teach and it works immediately, like magic. Thank you for it Sami.
This video has been helpful
Good advice.
This was exactly what I needed to hear!! Wish I heard it WEEKS ago.
SO glad it helps you now :) Come join our private Fb group Wunder divas -facebook.com/groups/wunderdivas xx
Thank you Sami for your wisdome,super helpful ❤❤❤
Glad it was helpful!
Sami this was just great advice, I just found your channel. I really needed to hear this today, thank you! 😘😊
thank you for being here :)
Really worthy solutions ❤
Hey lovely
Thanks for the love!
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Thank you! Thank you so much I needed this!😔
We are so glad it helps . Join us on Wunder divas, Sami´s private Facebook community for tonnes of tips and discussions - facebook.com/groups/wunderdivas
Sami dear, i just want you to know that all your advices are simple and yet powerful. It helps me a lot to be strong with the situation I am in right now. I really love listening to you. More power!
thank you so much
Yes this video help with my situation
Helpful
Thank you so much Sami, I really needed this😘🙂💖💐❤️
You are so welcome!
It's very helpful for me. Thank you!
You are welcome! Come join us on Wunder divas, our private Facebook community - facebook.com/groups/wunderdivas xx
Thank you my sister Good advice.
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for all that you are doing. U are such an amazing woman 🤗🤗🤗
You are so welcome! :)
Men give time to what is important to them. If a man has time for other obligations and social interactions with others, but is too busy to date, he is not interested in a relationship. It is that simple. Men who are interested pursue a woman (in person interaction)…women should not pursue or chase after a man. If a man is too busy to date, then the woman needs to be too busy for pointless texting or phone calls. Give him distance and watch him disappear. Poof! Gone!
Great reinforcement
I liked this video and your advice
thanks xx
So helpful. 🙏🏽
So glad! :)
Brilliant
Explained in a healthy way
Thank you Madiha!
Preaching truth 💕
:)
Very helpful
So glad xx
Anytime I’ve been in this situation it’s bcs he either has a girlfriend, has a wife or both.
I'm experiencing this right now. He texts daily but doesn't plan dates or none lol. I'm very confused and don't know if he even likes me
You are so sweet! 💗😘
Same I had 1 great date with this guy and he scheduled two dates that were cancelled by him due to work. The texting is constant and consistent but it’s not enough/too much. Started to feel like an online relationship so I said exactly what you said!
Well done !!
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On time thanks alot
Welcome!
Don’t talk to more than 2 weeks with a guy, if he hasn’t asked u out, let him go.
Y should you get to know
Very helpful I did that for so emotionally attached and it went know where. 😢
Glad it helped!
Why we women put up with so much shit from guys?
Thats a big question. xx
Cause they want the specific guy more than they want a GOOD relationship
So true 👍 👌
:)
This is exactly what happened to me yesterday and he told me to leave him alone and he is going to block me
He always makes an excuse for coming and seeing me
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What about he took me for a first date then second one was after my work then another one just a walk and since then nothing,he's not initiating another proper date…but always says through the messages how he would like to be around me and miss me ..weird ..I’m so confused
I would skip a few of his messages... You're probably being a little too easy and available and it's killing his desire. Step up the fire diva! xx
Have you initiated a date tho or is he the Only one setting them dates? If so then he’s prob saying that, trying to hint to you, to set something up. Idk
But why do they always come back?
Sue 101 Because we let them.
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How does one deal with a man you've met who travels a,lot for work? We met online, have not met on person because he is in Malaysia for work for an extended period. Say a month or a bit more? Of course our only communication means are texting, calls..so vitual.
Talk to a local man. If the other guy likes you, he'll book a flight.
I went MIA on him 2 days on him.
thanks for being here , Amy, Support team
Cut the crap and cut such coward man out 😅Harsh but truth he is playing and he needs to be alone to see what he missed somethings are to be seen being at other table 😉 let him see loss
I met this guy in November on a night out - he initiates contact daily at least once through Snapchat /insta DMs & watts app . Why does he contact me everyday and not make plans ? I know we are in lockdown but before lockdown he didn’t make plans either - does he just see me as a friend -he doesn’t really flirt either just chit chat xx
This will help. you need to get out of the texting trap - th-cam.com/video/K9v_yTxjgp4/w-d-xo.html
Amy, Support team SW
He's likely bored, homely