Connie P. ...Yes! So I've Decided That From Now On...I'm THE ONE Who's Playing Them!!! I NEVER TXT FIRST I AM NEVER JUST 'ALWAYS' AVAILABLE WHENEVER *HE* WANTS!!! (lol) AND...NO MATTER WHAT.. I'm Always VERY Blasé About Shit!! So Far..IT'S WORKING.. LOLOL
You’re right My ex used to say he was too busy to have a conversation on the phone lol I believed him at the beginning but then I kept telling myself that no one is that busy, unless you’re working as a doctor and you keep having emergencies at the hospital lol
I'm actually really impressed with this guy. His advice is spot on, and his explanations of the people's psychology behind the texts makes perfect sense.
Except he missed the shit testing. The woman gave him a specific thing to do to see if had the intent to catch up, and he decided he didn't want to do as he was asked. Power game.
This is true ladies . Know when a guy is really interested in you . They'll give you their time even if "they are busy" . If they really like you or are interested, they'll make time . Know your worth ! 👍
That is so true, just was a relationship he never had time for me, I always. Went out of my way for him , he was always laid back. If I wanted to spend time with him he would I'm going to bed, and I would the same to him and say in the end how's if feel. This relationship is done he walked and I'm still having it go threw my head what I did wrong.
Do you genuinely want to go on a date with a guy that only changed his behaviour once you called him out for it? I had a man spend $1,000 on a plane ticket to come see me because I joked that I wanted to see him or I'd be sad. Another dude braved 2 hours in a snowstorm using public transit because his phone wasn't sending messages and he didn't want to stand me up. Those are the men I'd like to date, I'm not into Grandpa.
How this works: 1) Be welcoming and open and approachable. Start a conversation if you'd like to. Be warm. 2) Allow him to earn your subsequent attention. Don't play games. Trust your gut. Don't pander. Don't give more thought/energy/investment than you receive. Don't chase. Show appreciation. Take notice. Be congruent. Be warm. 3) Lean back and invest in yourself and other relationships. Do things that feel good. Trust yourself. Value yourself. Know your worth. Laugh. Have fun. 4) Allow him to do the work to woo you and learn how to make you happy and feeling good. Know that he needs space to form attraction and desire for you. Know that space is essential for reflection and growth. Give him both boundaries and freedom. Do not promise him anything. Your loyalty must be earned and must always be earned. Do not contract yourself to him but allow him to earn you for as long as you want him in your life. Men do not value what they do not earn. They do not treasure what they look at or engage with too frequently. Always be a valuable diamond he strives to keep safe. I hope this helps you.
Interesting and designed. I'm hesitant on the aspect he must continually have to earn..... But, in my head I read it as distrust. Rather than earning because they live and love to see you proud of them. Mutual glow.
@@melissasherriff1378 Hi Melissa , it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
He didn't respond at all when she asked him for a date, then sent an asinine emoji of an old guy days later. Am I the only one thinking that sort of rude and disrespectful behavior is a huge red flag??
@Ohai 🌸Agree. Even though Matthew gives straightforward verbal examples, I struggle with stand alone verbal explainations trying to "see" the example in practical ways in my imagination. The visual cues with the explain is perfect. The humor is bonus and will help info stick⭐
I would not have met that jack for a drink No Way. Don't Even Try Coffee shit date on me. Won't work. No thanks. I can make better free coffee at home without having to get dressed up and interviewed. PASS.
Neither a man nor woman should put up with games, bullshit or being undervalued. I'm a giver by nature but lately I just said "ENOUGH." I broke the pattern with the last guy who was lusting after me 100% but emotionally didn't give a damn. I was the only one who was emotionally involved, the only one giving, and I told him: "Your words and promises are meaningless if they're not supported by actions. I don't deserve to be undervalued. Goodbye and good luck."
Dont stop give because there are to few woman that gives only takes. Like you i have always bee the one giving and not reciving back. Just remember that its about give and take.
Omg your words just gave me goosebumps! I said almost the exact same thing to my last bf and moved on. He was SO shocked about that and didn't want to understand (because apparently after breakup i was the one not giving a shit and i was the one not having feelings for him, but he was just talking and talking all the time with no action to support his words.) crazy :D i feel kind of good not being the only one
It’s simple in my eyes. If you feel someone is stringing you along, just stop all interaction whether it be cold turkey or slowly drips away to nothing. It’s not hard when you love yourself and put yourself first. Don’t pursue, don’t push conversation and let him drift away. Make room for someone who is not a stringer. Life is too short and time is too precious to even think of entertaining something or someone who’s not serving you! Self love, self care, first. The rest will be so free and easy when you let go and watch the natural way life unfolds.
A girl has no name K but to be fair...her messages were kind of intense. If a guy did that I'd probably be less attracted to him as well. Not saying he isn't a time waster I just think you can't blame people for not being into a super eager person.
Maddy Harvey see that's the main mistake of women, we tend to give guys excuses for everything they do. But the truth is they don't care bout us, if they did you can totally see it. But an emoji? Really? Seems to me like a way of saying "hope you get my point that I'm not interested into talking to you"
Hi, please help me; for online dating how many days/ weeks should i text a girl on dating app before I ask her out if we matched on online dating app? Maybe text her on dating app for a few days or 1 week before asking her out? Thank you! 🙏
Canceling plans excuse generator: Choose an intro + choose a scapegoat + choose a delay The best advice should be a reality check: "You're just on it his harem of phone contacts list. He doesn't give a f*ck about you. You're just there in case all his other 23 alternatives reject him and he would still prefer go for a walk with his dog. If he's so horny his balls might explode he might call you to take a dump". *Block and delete*
Hi, please help me; for online dating how many days/ weeks should i text a girl on dating app before I ask her out if we matched on online dating app? Maybe text her on dating app for a few days or 1 week before asking her out? Thanks! 🙏
I used to date someone like that, he would leave me on read then give me a bunch of excuses that he's working all the damn time, ignore my messages for 3 or 4 days then cb like nothing happened .. After crying for several days and deleting his number few times, I deleted his number for the last time and our conversations as well and ignored his ass when he came back, met someone a month later and now we've been together for over a year.. Plz ladies don't settle down for guys like this
I see a lot of comments about people being confused and not knowing how to respond and play 'games' anymore, but here's the thing; if you have high standards and make an amazing life for YOU, then this response would come naturally. Then you wouldnt even need assholes like this and you can just move on because you didnt lose anything! You deserve the world girls!
If she was smart, she would have done the following: 1.) waited a week before texting back 2.) text him back with a grandma emoji 3.)block him 4.) ghost him into obscurity
Mara L if you’re single, and get ghosted. I totally understand why: 1.) you’re petty as fuck 2.) you’re a smart ass 3.) you focus on minutia instead of substance 4.) you also resort to juvenile name calling. Feel free double-check my numbers on this comment as well 😘
Hi Brenda, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends?? Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉
Matthew Hussey don't you feel bad that these girls with cognitive dissonance are acting like victims on high-horses when they're stringing countless guys along all at one time? Maybe you should focus on pre-teen girls before they become hypocritical sociopaths? Guys who don't respect a lot have careers and hobbies.
But then we wouldn't be communicating and getting to know the you-you. Don't get me wrong, I would totally do the same due to social inability. But then again it'll only take 5 minutes actually speaking to each other that the deception is usually obvious.speach patterns are individual to an extreme even with accents. ...okay. I have been caught doing this. ...it shows more intelligence to learn from other's mistakes.
@@davidhibbs3396 Maybe we need an ear piece on the actual date to receive instant phrases, until we get the gist of it.. just kidding, but it’s a nice dream tho 😄
"you have your reasons, I have my reality.." matthew thank you so much for that... that along with all the things my mother has taught me will help me so much with relationships in the future!
I'm watching this while a guy is waiting for my reply to his half-assed texts and Matthew is literally saving my life right now. 7 minutes ago I would've reacted completely differently
Seeing how distraught women are with men is confusing to me as a man who knows how distraught men are with women. Maybe we should just be honest with each other?
Because men want a woman who cares but gives them space and if you don't have a good balance he sees you as uninterested or clingy. You're testing their reactions to you that's why you can't be honest. Men may judge you
Right?. ....I sent a text just last night. If I saw this vidoo earlier I would've composed the text differently. But it's cool....this guy claimed to be Interesteda few months ago...he went from calling and texting everyday....to texting only "good morning" once a week....nothing more. He would contact me to make plans and then disappear for almost 2 weeks! Then pop back up with a normal "Hello there"...no explanation or apology...I had enough and told him I was tired of his empty promises and my time is better spent with people who knew what they want. Obviously he didn't. I asked him not to contact me anymore. He simply replied "Ok if that's how you feel"....and that was that. I had the feeling he was stringing me along for a while now....but I'm done with that. I deserve better. Moving on
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I had a guy tell me to make it “short and sweet” and immediately turned victim when I responded, “Another time then.” Here’s the deal: NO ONE tells me to make it short and sweet and receives a pass from this woman. Done.
Damn, you really hit the nail on the head. I’ve been with a low motivated boyfriend who doesn’t inspire me. Never comes up with date ideas. Always an excuse. It’s time to cut the cord.
Hahaha! So funny. He did send it on purpose because she had referred to his slow replying as grandpaesque. That was an injury to his childish ego. So when he checked into her availability he wanted to make sure if she was still ready for the same type of grandpa lol. I'd say he was a man with a huge experience on the feminine emotional frailty and its propensity to victimhood as a result; an emotional predator type that needs human flesh to cherish as narcissistic supply to feel complete for a limited amount of time. Hahaha! I've been listening to and reading Sam Vaknin's musings a lot lately.
I've never heard who this Mathew Hussey is but everything he says is right. You have to see excuses immediately. It's really simple. If a guy or girl likes you, he'll text all the time. If he or she is not into you, he won't text. Simple. No excuses.
That's not 100% right, but if they are into you they'll make a *proactive* effort to explain why they are/will be largely incommunicado - "I'm being deployed" "I'll be on stage at the conference" "Microsoft screwed up my PC again" :) The last one happened to me recently, so I installed Whatsapp to be able to keep sending/receiving texts to my lovely gf.
I CRACKED UP AROUND 2:45 WITH THE SUDDEN DRAMATIC PLOT OF THE GRANDPA EMOJI TEXT 😂😂 I LOVE HOW SOFTLY HE SAID, "a grandpa emoji". SO PRECIOUSLY AMUSING OMG
Hi, please help me; for online dating how many days/ weeks should i text a girl on dating app before I ask her out if we matched on online dating app? Maybe text her on dating app for a few days or 1 week before asking her out? Thanks! 🙏
@@wolfgirl-tf1eo no. No amount of double texting will make him interested. If he's not, you can stay on your head and nothing will change. The ball is in his court now. If he doesn't take it it really means he's not interested enough - no guy who likes you would risk losing you in such a silly matter. Besides double texting will make you seem desperate and that's not attractive to anyone. He needs to invest his part in the relationship. The question is why do you still want to be with a guy who doesn't care about you or not put any effort? Because he's a "nice guy"? Really? There are plenty of nice guys out there who would treat you better. Have some confidence in yourself as a woman. If you don't value yourself, don't expect others to do that. If you let others stomp all over you, you'll never find respect, attractiveness and love. You did your part. Now wait for his turn have patience. If he's not replying, you will have his answer and you can move on knowing that you did your all.
It’s called desperation. I felt pathetic FOR HER! Maybe in high school this is understandable, but clearly she’s not bc she can drink and the guy in this video is older too. The girls a total loser and accepted a date with a dick who is just going to give her the run around again. She messed up big time.
Death to the CCP my take on it is games are meant to be played. So play games but don’t expect to not get played! The foundation of all our external relationships is first how we treat ourselves. We attract people for a reason. When you don’t play ego mind games and are just authentic you will attract the same back.
Perfect timing for me to find this video. Two takeaways that hit home: He has his reasons. I have my reality. My new favorite text reply: “It’s all good. :-) Have a great week!”
Sasaki Umiquema i love how he talks woman. I go to this conversation with my girlfriends and we figure how to reply like crazy. Thanks matthew for this :) i appreciate him and steve harvey for sharing male perspective
I was in a similar situation and used the “all good!” response and it worked perfectly. The guy immediately started putting more effort into trying to see me
Matthew is really good with advice for us women and his videos. I can’t wait for the next video. Matthew knows what a women is worth and our values. Thankyou Matthew
If anyone didn't bother texting me back for days I'd drop them quick-smart. If they aren't interested, they aren't worth it. Now if they texted me back later that same day, it's fine 'cause their phone may have ran out of power and needed charging.
Samthesalvaje wow you're like so judgemental. How can you ascertain if this person is single or not? They could be watching the video for a psychology paper or something? It's pretty obvious why YOURE single. You're mean!
This is so relevant to my life right now! I was gonna text him asking him out because I thought "someone's gotta do the asking" but I won't do that now! Thanks Matthew!
I cut all of this by giving them my number and saying "Call me! The old fashioned way." I do not accept texts anymore. If a 23 years old has the balls to pick up the phone and ask me out, then why shouldn't a 35 years old being able to do it? You wanna see me? Call me! I want to hear the voice and excitement in it. Oh and no FB exchange anymore. Such an easy way to see all the information you seek and make your conclusions. No. Ask and hear the person talk and if you don't like what they say then don't accept the next date. Those texts are such a waste of time.
Couldn't agree more, it's very interesting to respond to text with a call!! Lol, no, text directions, a meeting place, addresses, phone numbers, but as a mode of communication, for..get..it! Call me to make plans or go away.
Baroness James I so agree with you. I just did that because I figure that . If there is some interest he will call. This texting thing is too much lol.
Bravo i couldn't agree more with you. So sick of the slow as molasses texting, public short replies online... boring... Ugh... make it STOP!! I am going to use your technique... call me 😉
@@bouncybutterfly7753 I like your answer! So I've written stories about this question but the #1 most important "secret" is this. Every spiritual being generates and creates at a particular wavelength - low, medium or high. You want to find somebody as high as you can. Of course you need a few tools to identify that.
Not only did I find the twilight phone playfulness absolutely perfect but the text message scenario was incredibly eye opening!!! I honestly could of saved so much time and effort had I realized I was investing 90% of my time and attention to someone who had only invested minimally. I can relate tremendously to this video thank you so much!! 👌🏻
"Respond to your reality, not his reasons." OMG breakthrough i've been almost-seeing this guy for far too long, and i finally got the balls to tell him if he can't make time for me then he's not worth my investment.
They're out there ! When we just met on an app my bf would text me *at least* every other day, and not mindless emojis. We got to know each other so well and 7 months later, I love our relationship. I hope you meet someone amazing ❤️
I am a man and I don't lead women along. I hate people who do that. People find me very reliable. My friends are reliable too and my clients tend to like me a lot and give me high reviews for my work. I'm decent looking and have a lot of things going for me. But women tend to flake on me and be more interested in guys who tend to flake. One of my best friends has the same problem. So why don't y ou start being interested in men who are reliable and don't flake. And don't put all the blame on men because you choose the men who flake.
i saw something similar in your previous video and i used it on my guy...worked like a charm! we kickstarted it again and though it didnt work out in the end, i learned so much more bout self worth and value. and the importance of setting the standards and deciding my investment based on what he's giving me. i saved myself from getting hurt even more. so thank you Matthew. really, thank you!
Thank you for this, I always invest 200% and just get walked over and rejected, I now realise that little or no investment from him drop it, let it go instead of desperately trying to make it work. X
I think its sad that if a woman is the organised type or just wants to keep momentum going that men are put off by that. I can't stand these games either and am happier to be single than play such games. My time is precious too.
Hi Sue, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends?? Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉.
Bruh these types of people play too many games, honesty and authenticity is the best policy out there. And it they don’t connect or resonate with you or have the same level of energy you’re giving out, they’re not it. If they want it, they’ll chase and ask for it 💀 this applies to both parties, but sadly this doesn’t happen often because of how people are conditioned to be like nowadays 💀 I’m super lucky to meet someone like my boyfriend and he’s grateful for me being with him too. Both of us are mutually grateful and happy about the existence of each-other in our lives💗
Matthew you are a GENIUS! I feel so empowered in my love life after following your advice for the past year and am now beating guys away with a stick - a playful, sparkly stick that is! ;) Even some men who strung me along before now jump at every text I choose to send. Thank you for being my guru. This is the best video yet and I just love you and your team. Cheers, Emily
I had a friend that started doing this. We never had convo issues and then all the sudden he was taking 2 weeks or more to answer. Saying he was 'busy. He gave these excuses too. I'm worth 30 seconds of time. So I finally said no hard feelings but I'm not putting any more energy into this and he disappeared completely. I'm at a point, I know my value and I'm not chasing anymore.
Hi, please help me; for online dating how many days/ weeks should i text a girl on dating app before I ask her out on a date if we matched on online dating app? Maybe text her on dating app for a few days or 1 week before asking her out? Thanks u ! 🙏
I'm just tired of the games. Anyone else with me??
Connie P. Here here!
Same here!
make better choices.. easy
Connie P. ...Yes!
So I've Decided That From Now On...I'm THE ONE Who's Playing Them!!!
I NEVER TXT FIRST
I AM NEVER JUST 'ALWAYS' AVAILABLE WHENEVER *HE*
WANTS!!! (lol)
AND...NO MATTER WHAT..
I'm Always VERY Blasé About Shit!! So Far..IT'S WORKING..
LOLOL
Connie P. Yep
My phone. Take it. I don’t even want it back... just keep me updated 😂
😂😂😂
Hahaha right?!
😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LITERALLY LMAAAOO
Uhhhhhhhgggggg dating is too complicated. Dying alone is starting to look appealing
Dont have kids..they grow up and ignore youworse then any man..save your money and have fun...dont do it!!
yess..thankyou
Hannah C. 👏🏻🤘🏻👍🏻😆🤣
For real though
Thank you 😘
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No one is THAT busy. They make time. We chase what we value.
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Absolutely
You’re right
My ex used to say he was too busy to have a conversation on the phone lol
I believed him at the beginning but then I kept telling myself that no one is that busy, unless you’re working as a doctor and you keep having emergencies at the hospital lol
facts
Big Facts! Plus that sounds like he was ghosting her
I'm actually really impressed with this guy. His advice is spot on, and his explanations of the people's psychology behind the texts makes perfect sense.
Not to mention he references the Twilight Zone
Mark Santiago sounds like for sad people who can’t accept a no and that they aren’t wanted any more.
I just can't get over how awesome his impression of Rod Serling was....
Except he missed the shit testing. The woman gave him a specific thing to do to see if had the intent to catch up, and he decided he didn't want to do as he was asked. Power game.
@@ej4672I was gonna say the same thing! 😅
"respond to your reality, not his reasons" so wise! I need this guy to be my friend.
Rachel Knows I need to shrink him and put him in my pocket
@Mara L for Your information my self esteem is good & my IQ also . Don't judge a person by it's book cover 👌✌
@Mara L I'm not going to entertain you . So have a good day!
@Mara L shuusshh you troll! Just spread the love alright? New Years are coming! Have a blessed day buddy :)
@Mara L yikes, God bless you.
This is true ladies . Know when a guy is really interested in you . They'll give you their time even if "they are busy" . If they really like you or are interested, they'll make time . Know your worth ! 👍
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Thank you for your comment. I'm older, and still learning.
True story, there is a whole world of people that are upset of you are monopolizing his time...
That is so true, just was a relationship he never had time for me, I always. Went out of my way for him , he was always laid back. If I wanted to spend time with him he would I'm going to bed, and I would the same to him and say in the end how's if feel. This relationship is done he walked and I'm still having it go threw my head what I did wrong.
Yap
If you feel like you’re being played, you probably are. Stay away!
Do not meet men from New Jersey!!
Thanks I needed that message
@@jacqulynthompson3575 - the one I met was scandalous always begging for money,!!!?!
True
Thier narcissis
How lucky she is to have you as her friend
Do you genuinely want to go on a date with a guy that only changed his behaviour once you called him out for it? I had a man spend $1,000 on a plane ticket to come see me because I joked that I wanted to see him or I'd be sad. Another dude braved 2 hours in a snowstorm using public transit because his phone wasn't sending messages and he didn't want to stand me up. Those are the men I'd like to date, I'm not into Grandpa.
bombervity you must be BOMB as fuck for men to do that for you
powerpuff ranger Lol word!
bombervity what??? How are you getting these types of men? I thought they didn't exist!
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How this works:
1) Be welcoming and open and approachable. Start a conversation if you'd like to. Be warm.
2) Allow him to earn your subsequent attention. Don't play games. Trust your gut. Don't pander. Don't give more thought/energy/investment than you receive. Don't chase. Show appreciation. Take notice. Be congruent. Be warm.
3) Lean back and invest in yourself and other relationships. Do things that feel good. Trust yourself. Value yourself. Know your worth. Laugh. Have fun.
4) Allow him to do the work to woo you and learn how to make you happy and feeling good. Know that he needs space to form attraction and desire for you. Know that space is essential for reflection and growth. Give him both boundaries and freedom. Do not promise him anything. Your loyalty must be earned and must always be earned. Do not contract yourself to him but allow him to earn you for as long as you want him in your life.
Men do not value what they do not earn. They do not treasure what they look at or engage with too frequently. Always be a valuable diamond he strives to keep safe.
I hope this helps you.
That's beautiful
Interesting and designed.
I'm hesitant on the aspect he must continually have to earn.....
But, in my head I read it as distrust. Rather than earning because they live and love to see you proud of them.
Mutual glow.
2:16
respond to your reality not his reasons. deep.
Gabby Montano That was profound, to say the very least! ;)
Gabby Montano ,
so true...so deep.
Gabby Montano True!
Loved that...need to make a reminder of that
@@melissasherriff1378 Hi Melissa , it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
Texting has simultaneously improved and ruined human interaction
Berly • D so true. But then again, I found the love of my life on tinder ;) 3 years going strong. Love him to pieces. And wedding also is planned.
Agree it’s a good and a bad thing. Makes it so much easier for guys to flake out...
Did you ever think we would live in a day that we needed a coach telling us the best way to talk to men. Wonder how Granny got her man.
@@projektbrot did you plan your divorce yet
@@redfather5342 no need to be so mean
I wish you were my best friend...you could have saved me from a lot of crap...
SimpleBrownEyedGirl word
AMEN!
@@xaviusamericus9561 Found the incel.
Im late, ans drunk but im wirh tout on this...lol
He didn't respond at all when she asked him for a date, then sent an asinine emoji of an old guy days later. Am I the only one thinking that sort of rude and disrespectful behavior is a huge red flag??
Yes, huge red flag. This kind of guy is usually skilled at being self-effacing to manipulate women.
You are right, red flag🟥
Yip, he'll be rude and disrespectful later. He only asked her out later to have the upper hand again.
I need to re-watch this every week
X2
roisin ni ghabhann same.
Same
Wheeze but true af 😂💯
Omggggggg yes!!! Hourly!!!
I think he should do more of these example text messages. This was amazing
@Ohai 🌸Agree. Even though Matthew gives straightforward verbal examples, I struggle with stand alone verbal explainations trying to "see" the example in practical ways in my imagination. The visual cues with the explain is perfect. The humor is bonus and will help info stick⭐
kii Ora me too! I need concrete examples. (I’m thinking he wants us to buy his books for those tho... lol)
He just changed my whole life now I see why my the guy stopped messaging with me 😳
I would not have met that jack for a drink No Way. Don't Even Try Coffee shit date on me. Won't work. No thanks. I can make better free coffee at home without having to get dressed up and interviewed. PASS.
2022. Totally live this!
Neither a man nor woman should put up with games, bullshit or being undervalued. I'm a giver by nature but lately I just said "ENOUGH." I broke the pattern with the last guy who was lusting after me 100% but emotionally didn't give a damn. I was the only one who was emotionally involved, the only one giving, and I told him: "Your words and promises are meaningless if they're not supported by actions. I don't deserve to be undervalued. Goodbye and good luck."
Madeleine Alba 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Boom!
Did he disappear after that?
Dont stop give because there are to few woman that gives only takes. Like you i have always bee the one giving and not reciving back. Just remember that its about give and take.
Omg your words just gave me goosebumps!
I said almost the exact same thing to my last bf and moved on. He was SO shocked about that and didn't want to understand (because apparently after breakup i was the one not giving a shit and i was the one not having feelings for him, but he was just talking and talking all the time with no action to support his words.) crazy :D i feel kind of good not being the only one
If it weren’t for this video, I never would have dated my husband. This blew my mind and changed the entire dating game for me. Thanks Matthew
Wow! Congratulations Dani!
😂😂😂
❤🎉
It’s simple in my eyes. If you feel someone is stringing you along, just stop all interaction whether it be cold turkey or slowly drips away to nothing. It’s not hard when you love yourself and put yourself first. Don’t pursue, don’t push conversation and let him drift away. Make room for someone who is not a stringer. Life is too short and time is too precious to even think of entertaining something or someone who’s not serving you! Self love, self care, first. The rest will be so free and easy when you let go and watch the natural way life unfolds.
damn.. this is all so true. self love is key.
Easily said when you're drop-dead
gorgeous 🥰💓😘💝
Thank you thank you thank you for saying this
Girl this is the TRUTH!!!
Perfect Answer 🤩
Dude after that grandpa emoji I would've left him on read, deleted the conversation and deleted his number. Freaking time waster
Sharon Vanguard attraction is not a choice. There is a person behind those messages whom she met but you haven't.
same
A girl has no name Exactly
A girl has no name K but to be fair...her messages were kind of intense. If a guy did that I'd probably be less attracted to him as well. Not saying he isn't a time waster I just think you can't blame people for not being into a super eager person.
Maddy Harvey see that's the main mistake of women, we tend to give guys excuses for everything they do. But the truth is they don't care bout us, if they did you can totally see it. But an emoji? Really? Seems to me like a way of saying "hope you get my point that I'm not interested into talking to you"
Do more text scenarios like this!!! So interesting and useful
@@goychen5212 YES!!! These are fun and "veddy interestin!!!"
Yes!! I love these, too!
Same. I like when he breaks stuff down step by step.
Hi, please help me; for online dating how many days/ weeks should i text a girl on dating app before I ask her out if we matched on online dating app? Maybe text her on dating app for a few days or 1 week before asking her out? Thank you! 🙏
@@DanielMendoza-su3ei lol
This is exactly what I've been doing! Time to stop and create different energy and get the love I deserve, not just crumbs!!
Canceling plans excuse generator:
Choose an intro + choose a scapegoat + choose a delay
The best advice should be a reality check: "You're just on it his harem of phone contacts list. He doesn't give a f*ck about you. You're just there in case all his other 23 alternatives reject him and he would still prefer go for a walk with his dog. If he's so horny his balls might explode he might call you to take a dump". *Block and delete*
Hi, please help me; for online dating how many days/ weeks should i text a girl on dating app before I ask her out if we matched on online dating app? Maybe text her on dating app for a few days or 1 week before asking her out? Thanks! 🙏
Respond to your reality not his reasons... this hit me hard
Right!? I love it, more females need to see this.
Block, delete, next.
tosca donna best comment ever LOL
Yasss sister
Single forever
Hit it quit it then forget it if she text me I ain't with it
tosca donna thank u, next
"Low investment text". I now realise I've been sent quite a few of those. Thanks Matt.
I used to date someone like that, he would leave me on read then give me a bunch of excuses that he's working all the damn time, ignore my messages for 3 or 4 days then cb like nothing happened .. After crying for several days and deleting his number few times, I deleted his number for the last time and our conversations as well and ignored his ass when he came back, met someone a month later and now we've been together for over a year.. Plz ladies don't settle down for guys like this
I see a lot of comments about people being confused and not knowing how to respond and play 'games' anymore, but here's the thing; if you have high standards and make an amazing life for YOU, then this response would come naturally. Then you wouldnt even need assholes like this and you can just move on because you didnt lose anything! You deserve the world girls!
xoxo ya sure good luck with that
xoxo - totally!!
I honestly giggled when he sent the grandpa emoji... what a dickish, but hilarious reply.
Sham Of God me too!! Haha
Same I can’t stop laughing 😂
Stop calling dickish. It makes all people with dick are rude. STOP it.
He send grandpa because she said you have grandpa ish texting skills. His excuse for not texting sooner? Sounds obnoxious
If she was smart, she would have done the following:
1.) waited a week before texting back
2.) text him back with a grandma emoji
3.)block him
4.) ghost him into obscurity
LoL, 😂
Mara L if you’re single, and get ghosted. I totally understand why:
1.) you’re petty as fuck
2.) you’re a smart ass
3.) you focus on minutia instead of substance
4.) you also resort to juvenile name calling.
Feel free double-check my numbers on this comment as well 😘
Reflect
Lol 😂😂😂 grandma emoji
But she actually liked him and wanted to see him again
"Respond to his reality, not his reasons." Good line and love the Twilight Zone theme.
Hi Brenda, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉
Literally I wish I had a book of texts to write ready at hand it would be amazing. Matthew is so educational 🙏🏼
kissablestyles I know, right!??
kissablestyles i agree thats a great idea
he has a book that s called "how to talk to men" (i think) there are a lot of those examples in it. i really enjoyed reading it
Matthew Hussey you are amazing. Spot on!
Matthew Hussey don't you feel bad that these girls with cognitive dissonance are acting like victims on high-horses when they're stringing countless guys along all at one time? Maybe you should focus on pre-teen girls before they become hypocritical sociopaths? Guys who don't respect a lot have careers and hobbies.
I wish I had a friend like Matthew.. I’d just hand him over my phone and relax 😄
I do >:)
Right??!?
And wait for your marriage date without worries😀
But then we wouldn't be communicating and getting to know the you-you. Don't get me wrong, I would totally do the same due to social inability. But then again it'll only take 5 minutes actually speaking to each other that the deception is usually obvious.speach patterns are individual to an extreme even with accents. ...okay. I have been caught doing this. ...it shows more intelligence to learn from other's mistakes.
@@davidhibbs3396 Maybe we need an ear piece on the actual date to receive instant phrases, until we get the gist of it.. just kidding, but it’s a nice dream tho 😄
That grandpa emoji killed me😂 #smartass
Met many like that guy :-/
I died
Hillariously disturbing xD
Lol he most likely is a cancer or Scorpio they play head games 😂 i was laughing so hard when he sent her that shit lmao
Traciee Alexanderia - He's a straight up player. He doesn't want her, likely her body.
"you have your reasons, I have my reality.." matthew thank you so much for that... that along with all the things my mother has taught me will help me so much with relationships in the future!
I'm watching this while a guy is waiting for my reply to his half-assed texts and Matthew is literally saving my life right now. 7 minutes ago I would've reacted completely differently
Ditto. Just responded with “all good. Enjoy your weekend!”
Ingreso how did it go ?
@@julys4307 I can’t reply for anyone else but mine worked like a charm within about 10 minutes!
@@SuchAClassicGirl-dx2ip awesome!!
Seeing how distraught women are with men is confusing to me as a man who knows how distraught men are with women. Maybe we should just be honest with each other?
Bob Jones If only it we're that simple. Most folks aren't even honest with themselves .
I wish
Honestly, honesty saves so much time.
Because men want a woman who cares but gives them space and if you don't have a good balance he sees you as uninterested or clingy. You're testing their reactions to you that's why you can't be honest. Men may judge you
@@Diasilva stupidest thing I've ever heard
Jeezus! Why do I always see his videos after I've done something stupid?
Right?. ....I sent a text just last night. If I saw this vidoo earlier I would've composed the text differently. But it's cool....this guy claimed to be Interesteda few months ago...he went from calling and texting everyday....to texting only "good morning" once a week....nothing more. He would contact me to make plans and then disappear for almost 2 weeks! Then pop back up with a normal "Hello there"...no explanation or apology...I had enough and told him I was tired of his empty promises and my time is better spent with people who knew what they want. Obviously he didn't. I asked him not to contact me anymore. He simply replied "Ok if that's how you feel"....and that was that. I had the feeling he was stringing me along for a while now....but I'm done with that. I deserve better. Moving on
😆
Best comment lol
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What has Jesus to do with it?
I had a guy tell me to make it “short and sweet” and immediately turned victim when I responded, “Another time then.”
Here’s the deal: NO ONE tells me to make it short and sweet and receives a pass from this woman. Done.
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"respond to your reality, NOT to his reasons" 😣oh yes straight to the heart
This whole thing about being nice and polite but distant at the same time works miraculously!! Thank you, Matthew!!
When he uncovers the grandpa emoji I died 😭😂😭😂😂😂 This guy is brilliant. Thank you for managing such mortifying topics with humor and creativity 🙌🏽
Omg I died😩💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤡👎🏼
Darn real! He honestly has a gift! I love giving credit where credit is due.
Genius- and perfect production quality.:)
Rebecca F Me too I was like no he didn’t !!!!!
@@TheLadykryptoniteso true. The guy is a filthy manipulator
Damn, you really hit the nail on the head. I’ve been with a low motivated boyfriend who doesn’t inspire me. Never comes up with date ideas. Always an excuse.
It’s time to cut the cord.
Not responding till Friday? Ain't nobody got time for that. #Who dis?
Dee Lewis 😂😂😂
Haha 🤣👍🏼
Lol you funny fucker
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I would do the same
YYYAAAAASSSSS 👏🏻👏🏻😂
“You have your reasons, i have my reality “ yesss👏👏👏
"Grandpa Emoji...." This is when I died 😂
He sounds like a freak.
Hahaha! So funny. He did send it on purpose because she had referred to his slow replying as grandpaesque. That was an injury to his childish ego. So when he checked into her availability he wanted to make sure if she was still ready for the same type of grandpa lol. I'd say he was a man with a huge experience on the feminine emotional frailty and its propensity to victimhood as a result; an emotional predator type that needs human flesh to cherish as narcissistic supply to feel complete for a limited amount of time. Hahaha! I've been listening to and reading Sam Vaknin's musings a lot lately.
It was funny as hell
Yeah I died too so funny 😂
He's an idiot
This man knows exactly what he's talking about. I'm learning a lot!
“respond to your reality, not to his reasons “ wow.. that’s what i exactly need to hear right now.. thank u Matt 😘
I gave up on relationships and I'm in a relationship with myself. If he wants me great if not okay whatever. I don't care anymore
Trisha chasteen this is so me right now
Damn tired 🥺
@@lindauupindi7592 yeah agreed
I can dig it I feel the same
"and u wanna know what he send..?"
*Flips the page*
".... Grandpa emoji"
i died :D
So funny 😂
😂😂😂😂 Lmaooo hes so dramatic fgs loool love him
Hilarious! I’m dying over here laughing!
liberate my mind. ....
I've never heard who this Mathew Hussey is but everything he says is right. You have to see excuses immediately. It's really simple. If a guy or girl likes you, he'll text all the time. If he or she is not into you, he won't text. Simple. No excuses.
That's not 100% right, but if they are into you they'll make a *proactive* effort to explain why they are/will be largely incommunicado - "I'm being deployed" "I'll be on stage at the conference" "Microsoft screwed up my PC again" :) The last one happened to me recently, so I installed Whatsapp to be able to keep sending/receiving texts to my lovely gf.
‘Respond to your reality, not to his reasons’. I love you, Mathew. 🙏🏻😘
I CRACKED UP AROUND 2:45 WITH THE SUDDEN DRAMATIC PLOT OF THE GRANDPA EMOJI TEXT 😂😂 I LOVE HOW SOFTLY HE SAID, "a grandpa emoji". SO PRECIOUSLY AMUSING OMG
Lmao sameee 😂
I keep coming back to this video just because it’s so friggin hilarious 😂 Please more TWILIGHT PHONE!!
SAME 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I screamed
Why can’t we just love each other and drop all the mind games ☠️
Hi, please help me; for online dating how many days/ weeks should i text a girl on dating app before I ask her out if we matched on online dating app? Maybe text her on dating app for a few days or 1 week before asking her out? Thanks! 🙏
Him texting “all good! Have a great week”
Me: *shouts* THATS SAVAGE 😂
It is savage lmao 😂😂😂
I fucking worked though 😄😄😄😄
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ugh i did this and he hasnt responded :( and he was super nice and a gentle man and now im scared should i double text and say 'good morning' ?
@@wolfgirl-tf1eo no. No amount of double texting will make him interested. If he's not, you can stay on your head and nothing will change. The ball is in his court now. If he doesn't take it it really means he's not interested enough - no guy who likes you would risk losing you in such a silly matter. Besides double texting will make you seem desperate and that's not attractive to anyone. He needs to invest his part in the relationship. The question is why do you still want to be with a guy who doesn't care about you or not put any effort? Because he's a "nice guy"? Really? There are plenty of nice guys out there who would treat you better. Have some confidence in yourself as a woman. If you don't value yourself, don't expect others to do that. If you let others stomp all over you, you'll never find respect, attractiveness and love. You did your part. Now wait for his turn have patience. If he's not replying, you will have his answer and you can move on knowing that you did your all.
LMAO I can't believe she invited him out after his slow response...
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It’s called desperation. I felt pathetic FOR HER! Maybe in high school this is understandable, but clearly she’s not bc she can drink and the guy in this video is older too. The girls a total loser and accepted a date with a dick who is just going to give her the run around again. She messed up big time.
I'm too old for these games. no thanks, would rather stay single and happy.
I'd just feel empty after playing all these mind games. Is it all there is to dating?
Death to the CCP my take on it is games are meant to be played. So play games but don’t expect to not get played! The foundation of all our external relationships is first how we treat ourselves. We attract people for a reason. When you don’t play ego mind games and are just authentic you will attract the same back.
Theres no happiness being SINGLE
@@trinijoyl1720 No happiness in dating and no happiness in being single. 😭
Lol we want to get married
She is the backup weekend girl
My thoughts too
What was the upside down face about.
@lou davey i dont have much money could u recommend a prise.
Back up WEEKDAY girl.
Perfect timing for me to find this video. Two takeaways that hit home:
He has his reasons. I have my reality.
My new favorite text reply: “It’s all good. :-) Have a great week!”
Critical analysis, very well done
*applause*
Sasaki Umiquema i love how he talks woman. I go to this conversation with my girlfriends and we figure how to reply like crazy. Thanks matthew for this :) i appreciate him and steve harvey for sharing male perspective
I was in a similar situation and used the “all good!” response and it worked perfectly. The guy immediately started putting more effort into trying to see me
that's awesome! :D
Matthew is really good with advice for us women and his videos. I can’t wait for the next video. Matthew knows what a women is worth and our values. Thankyou Matthew
You're funny and practical. Have been practicing this for the past 6 years. I now have ZERO dating life but LOADS of peace.
2:32
"do you wanna know what he sent"
*dramatic pause *
"....grandpa emoji."
I'm dying 😂😂😂
I actually cried.😂😂
If anyone didn't bother texting me back for days I'd drop them quick-smart. If they aren't interested, they aren't worth it. Now if they texted me back later that same day, it's fine 'cause their phone may have ran out of power and needed charging.
Sun Jara : And can be busy too. But days later, especially if you only get to know the person...Ugh. Doesn't feel that respectful, indeed.
He would have been blocked. Quickly! This works great for men who are emotionally unavailable. Run ladies ❤
I'd love to hand you my phone.
jamie9lynn1
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jamie9lynn1 that’s what she said
Me too!!
Me too. I wanna send him my texts history just for a good analysis lol
@@BenziitOfemme me too
"7PMISH" I was running around the room frantic hoping this girl is mentally okay and that she is not crazy. Girl, let him do the work, not you.
Samthesalvaje wow you're like so judgemental. How can you ascertain if this person is single or not? They could be watching the video for a psychology paper or something? It's pretty obvious why YOURE single. You're mean!
He needed to at least meet her half way. He wasn't even giving her that courtesy until the end.
Do not have unprotected text =)
Social Butterfly I agree... cover that phone in a condom :P
Hideous color, isn't it.
I think this dude is gonna save us all from mundane texting and bad eggs!! ❤
This is so relevant to my life right now! I was gonna text him asking him out because I thought "someone's gotta do the asking" but I won't do that now! Thanks Matthew!
Who else envies his friend for having such a useful friend??😂😂
I cut all of this by giving them my number and saying "Call me! The old fashioned way." I do not accept texts anymore. If a 23 years old has the balls to pick up the phone and ask me out, then why shouldn't a 35 years old being able to do it? You wanna see me? Call me! I want to hear the voice and excitement in it. Oh and no FB exchange anymore. Such an easy way to see all the information you seek and make your conclusions. No. Ask and hear the person talk and if you don't like what they say then don't accept the next date. Those texts are such a waste of time.
Baroness James so true texting is a big turn off
Couldn't agree more, it's very interesting to respond to text with a call!! Lol, no, text directions, a meeting place, addresses, phone numbers, but as a mode of communication, for..get..it! Call me to make plans or go away.
Baroness James I so agree with you. I just did that because I figure that . If there is some interest he will call. This texting thing is too much lol.
Bravo i couldn't agree more with you. So sick of the slow as molasses texting, public short replies online... boring... Ugh... make it STOP!! I am going to use your technique... call me 😉
Yes fucking call. Its like the mass eliminator of bullshit
So sad that dating has become such a freaking chess game.
Bouncy Butterfly, only happens if you are hanging around men of low wavelength. Avoid those types.
@@bobg344 yes!! Staying single until I find someone healthy and willing to do the work.
@@bouncybutterfly7753 good idea, but remember the best way to find that healthy, willing person is to be a healthy, willing person. :-)
@@bobg344 I am well aware and well equipped. How silly to think I would expect something I'm not 100% willing to do, myself. 😂
@@bouncybutterfly7753 I like your answer! So I've written stories about this question but the #1 most important "secret" is this. Every spiritual being generates and creates at a particular wavelength - low, medium or high. You want to find somebody as high as you can. Of course you need a few tools to identify that.
Not only did I find the twilight phone playfulness absolutely perfect but the text message scenario was incredibly eye opening!!! I honestly could of saved so much time and effort had I realized I was investing 90% of my time and attention to someone who had only invested minimally. I can relate tremendously to this video thank you so much!! 👌🏻
Karla Ruiz Thanks needed to read your comment to remember what is really important in my life.
This is so complex it's like math
Isabella lombard Chemistry
Isabella lombard math is less complicated :(
shazamanda 2708 we are not studing same math then :P
Maths is easy
Isabella lombard Facts 😂😂
"Respond to your reality, not his reasons."
OMG breakthrough
i've been almost-seeing this guy for far too long, and i finally got the balls to tell him if he can't make time for me then he's not worth my investment.
What happened?
We all need him to be our best friend and help us in situations 😭
This helped me so much even with family and friendships. I always carry the weight and care too much
Same here, I care more than they do. But I'm done. I had it. Its about me where my focus will be.
I'm done with the dating scene. It's so hard
i wanna start seeking out relationships where i aint gotta play these games.
Be honest and no one will.
They're out there ! When we just met on an app my bf would text me *at least* every other day, and not mindless emojis. We got to know each other so well and 7 months later, I love our relationship. I hope you meet someone amazing ❤️
Marie K. Thank you 🍓🍓
I am a man and I don't lead women along. I hate people who do that. People find me very reliable. My friends are reliable too and my clients tend to like me a lot and give me high reviews for my work. I'm decent looking and have a lot of things going for me. But women tend to flake on me and be more interested in guys who tend to flake. One of my best friends has the same problem. So why don't y ou start being interested in men who are reliable and don't flake. And don't put all the blame on men because you choose the men who flake.
I am with you 100%
i love this “RESPOND TO YOUR REALITY NOT TO HIS REASONS”.
@Matthew Hussey take my phone
Me too girl!
😂😂
i saw something similar in your previous video and i used it on my guy...worked like a charm! we kickstarted it again and though it didnt work out in the end, i learned so much more bout self worth and value. and the importance of setting the standards and deciding my investment based on what he's giving me. i saved myself from getting hurt even more. so thank you Matthew. really, thank you!
I died when he showed the grandpa emoji 😂😂😂💀
I lost it at the grandpa emoji 👴 😭😂😂😂😂😂😂 I was in tears of laughter
Even though the guy is clearly an idiot, I have to say, the fact that he only sent the emoji and there was nothing else was quite brilliant.
Yeah, me too...I mean...he replied on Friday with a grandpa emoji......))
Thank you for this, I always invest 200% and just get walked over and rejected, I now realise that little or no investment from him drop it, let it go instead of desperately trying to make it work. X
Those little games are so annoying , you either like this person or not, if you like someone, just make it happen!!!
lucinda alen I so agree
lucinda alen i think inconsiderate and disrespectful is more like it
I agree, that's why i don't date anymore.
I think its sad that if a woman is the organised type or just wants to keep momentum going that men are put off by that. I can't stand these games either and am happier to be single than play such games. My time is precious too.
Deanna Hart Seriously is the dating pool just full of anti social people
Ah, the joy of being with the same man for 10 years and never having to guess what he's thinking!
Hi Sue, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉.
“Low-investment message”, lol. I love it!!
Can I have Matthew as my best friend? He would solve all my texting problems with guys
DaCiJay b
masturbation is waaay easier than dealing with this.
Agreed.
Brian Mcdonald ha!!!
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Brian Mcdonald 🤣❤️
Hahaha same
Bruh these types of people play too many games, honesty and authenticity is the best policy out there. And it they don’t connect or resonate with you or have the same level of energy you’re giving out, they’re not it. If they want it, they’ll chase and ask for it 💀 this applies to both parties, but sadly this doesn’t happen often because of how people are conditioned to be like nowadays 💀 I’m super lucky to meet someone like my boyfriend and he’s grateful for me being with him too. Both of us are mutually grateful and happy about the existence of each-other in our lives💗
I might use the “it’s all good, have a good day :)” but if he replies with “you too” and ends the conversation, ima cry😤😤💀
Matthew you are a GENIUS! I feel so empowered in my love life after following your advice for the past year and am now beating guys away with a stick - a playful, sparkly stick that is! ;) Even some men who strung me along before now jump at every text I choose to send. Thank you for being my guru. This is the best video yet and I just love you and your team.
Cheers,
Emily
Emily Green - Nice for you, nice to nice women more empowered to stop being door mats for players.
I need Matthew as a friend. 😭I so need someone smart like him to guide me.
I had a friend that started doing this. We never had convo issues and then all the sudden he was taking 2 weeks or more to answer. Saying he was 'busy. He gave these excuses too. I'm worth 30 seconds of time. So I finally said no hard feelings but I'm not putting any more energy into this and he disappeared completely. I'm at a point, I know my value and I'm not chasing anymore.
Brilliant 😂😂
I think we need to have a ‘Cyber Sociology’ class in schools in the very near future
This guy needs to do it
Hi, please help me; for online dating how many days/ weeks should i text a girl on dating app before I ask her out on a date if we matched on online dating app? Maybe text her on dating app for a few days or 1 week before asking her out? Thanks u ! 🙏