Thoughts on Interracial Marriage
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- Another episode with the three of us! If you can get past our messin’ around footage, you’ll enjoy this next episode as we bring to you a conversation, controversial to many, on interracial marriage, from a mixed child’s point of view. As we have stated before, we have much to learn, but this is all of the learning process, so feel free to add anything your heart desires in the comment section. We enjoy going through and reading and learning from you all, even if we can’t always reply immediately. Sit back and enjoy! ✌🏽❤️🪮
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You ladies somehow popped up in my recommendations, and I said "let's see what they're on about". I'm glad that I did. You all have very engaging and optimistic personalities.
I also love that you're not apologists for either view.
May your channel and families prosper.
Same and I second that!❤🙏
Wow! You, girls, are very informed, articulate, & intelligent. I must admit I was worried about what you girls were going to say because mix raced women with yt moms and blk dads usually have messed of views of blk women. I think I’ll watch on. You girls keep it up! ❤
I was initially worried about what would come out of these ladies mouths because many times children of Yt woman/ Black Man dynamics many times skews very anti Black, especially against Black women, but I was refreshed at their consciousness and insight. Bravo girls, keep educating yourselves and stay positive!❤
It’s the opposite actually. Black women with white men HATE themselves and by extension hate black people that’s why the aim to distance themselves by submitting to white men. It’s disgusting
Whenever I watch stuff in this realm, I always find a new way to say or refer to white😅 Is it a new slur or a 'he who shall not be named' situation?
I can tell from your comment you’re a hypocrite and a negative person
You saying your mom's are the biggest black activists made me smile. As a mom we fight for our children and loved ones. They are going to do anything for you and i love that you see it
They not like us😂😂😂
So you're a black woman with a biracial daughter too?
The best way to advocate for black people is to advocate for the black family the way to do that is to advocate for black men to marry black women.
That's a lie
Biggest blackest sellout 😂😂😂...Man all skin folk ain't kinfolk 😂😂
This is some good content. Third wheel Camille came with the flavour of depth. 😊😊
You ladles are great. Just randomly had your channel come to my feed and started watching, and I am amused by the level of maturity, objectivity, clarity, and the openness with and by which you handle and discuss a complex subject. Continue and I see a future of a bigger platform to communicate your ideas and ideals to America
I really appreciate y’all’s perspective.. I appreciate y’all being intelligent, classy, and I really appreciate the love you have for yourselves, your parents and each other!
I’m a fan of your channel
Thank you! Your support is greatly appreciated by us all ✌🏽❤️🪮
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If you follow the bible and jesus, you must follow and fight for truth .You follow the one drop rule, that teaches black blood is sub human. You're biracial, not simply black. Why let racist evil people dictate who you are ?
The one drop rule basically states 1 drop of black makes you black. What it actually means is black blood is seen as a taint and sub human, thus one drop corrupts superior blood and the child assumes the inferior parents racial stock. The reason why this racist ideology still exists is because partly, people like you defy science, logic and reason says otherwise. Be proud of who you are entirely. Why listen to racist people, break free from jim crow laws. Black people are literally the only race of people that say black plus anything is black. Chinese dont do this, whites dont, Mexicans don't, Indians dont. Its a self esteen issue. All groups of people, including Africans have clear definitions on who they are. Anyone who follows it lacks self esteem, suffers from inferiority complexes with no sense of logic.
Fight against true oppression, stop following and adhering to racist, jim crow ideology. Biracial is biracial. Dont let racist people identify who you are, if you simply identify as black, youve lost the fight on racism and assumed your place.
These young ladies are bringing more freedom to humanity. Beautiful platform, Beautiful reality.🍇🌻🌿 🙏🏿
I hope this channel blows up. You have no idea how important this message is. Thank you ladies.
Race baiting and self hate
I don’t know how I missed this video, but as a young mixed black man myself I’m so glad I watched it. Y’all are definitely the best at these discussions and it behooves me to see the negative comments on some of your videos. It’d be a dream of mine to be able to discuss this with you all further. Stay blessed ladies!
Calm down young man; take it easy...😂
Love Camille coming on! You all did amazing on this podcast ❤
I think that would be an excellent ideal to have your parents on the podcast to speak from their experience on interracial
marriage. I love this channel. Keep up the good work
Colorism in the Black community is a real thing too, just as there is white privilege, there is light skin privilege too.
Same with Indians (Asia) they prefer to date lighter skin. It always messed with the girl I was with who was darker skin.
No one has ever been able to tell us what light-skinned people get and dark-skinned people don't. Do they get a better American Express interest rate because of their light skin or a better seat at red lobster?
Most times you are just not attractive to the other party.
There sure is, and I hate it. So does the Lord. We need to stop this ungodly mess.
Mixed race individuals enjoy the luxury of being able to identify either way without too much trouble. Unambiguous black women can’t be or present anything other than black. Which is a beautiful thing in its own right-except we live in a world that highly values whiteness along with any perceived proximity to whiteness. So, light skinned mixed race ppl get to be the palatable version of “black” to the majority. You see this very clearly in media, where mixed race actors are cast to represent a black character. It’s more digestible for people who feel some kind of way about unambiguous black people being in leading roles. Mixed race is closer to the prevailing standard of beauty.
There are beautiful dark skinned women AND gorgeous light skinned women. There is room for all of us! But we can’t overlook the reality of the difference in how we are perceived.
Yes there’s a book calked caste that talks about this.
As a black woman in an interracial relationship I would NEVER speak negatively about black men to my significant other to make him feel superior. In my experience I cannot say the same about black men. Ladies I appreciate your candid discussions from your life experiences.
Yeah I don’t get what you’re saying here. FBA men may speak on white supremacy but speaking down on white men for no reason. Nah. White supremacy is a huge problem and we will discuss it.
@@Babiluv2001 P.s. My two cents fortunately, all Black Men are not the same.
Yall do it all the time lmao have you heard of divestors? Ofcourse you have
As a black man in a IR relationship, I would never speak ill of black women. My mother and sisters are black, many previous relationships have been with black women, and my next situation if this doesn't work out may be with a black woman.
People that aren't open to dating their own race are wierd to me. Either self hate or fetishism.
I’m a black man who has tried interracial dating nd I have never talked down on black women … but I will say that when I did try it , it was some fetishizing going on on her end nd racial things that were said that I tried to ignore nd look past but i couldn’t . All in all it’s not for me. You will always be reminded of the difference between you two.. even in the times we live in.
You need to keep dating outside your race, it’s best and perfect option for BM. There’s also no proof that “you’ve never talked down on BW” or fetishized the others…. You should try dating Hispanic/Latina or Asian. I think yall should give BW a break so they can find peace without BM. BW deserve to be at peace, tranquility and their rest, and the no one deserves the magical love of BW, or to be in a BW presence or essence, the world does not deserve BW. Please, Keep dating out and don’t look back….
@@Melanated483blk american males love dating n wanting a mixed lighter children
why would you attempt to ignore such behaviour in the first place?
I only did it one time but from my experience you just ignore it because it’s nothing that’s necessarily offensive but then eventually it becomes slightly offensive due to the frequency of occurrences. I would try again but it would have to be a much more organic interaction than I’ve experienced
I am so proud of you intelligent, loving, happy, proud, Gen Z teenagers soon to be adult Black Women. Continue striving to be better human beings and change the world!!! Thank You!
Another interesting and great conversation ladies! I'm so happy the TH-cam algorithm worked...love you guys' channel!
As a Christian black woman adopted into a loving white family in rural Ohio, who found my black family when I was 25, I am married to a white man, with mixed children and 2 white bonus sons in the PNW - I loved this so much 🩵 wish I could know you all in real life! Looking forward to more content.
Self hate
I love what you young ladies do, and your ability to be so insightful at such a your age is refreshing. You folks raised good kids.
Insightful?
@@ramoeneg7874insightful about knowing that they're still a "work in progress" and still have alot to learn.
Very well spoken and multiple points of reference every interracial child with melanin in their skin can relate to. Keep the conversations going ladies🙌🏽
I applaud you young ladies for having these conversations at a young age the quicker you can navigate through all of messiness of the world the better it'll be living a better life
You are well versed and well educated. I have enjoyed listening to your perspective.
I am going to support your page because you young ladies are so very refreshing
Thanks for being here!!
I will be honest, I really enjoyed this episode. You ladies are intelligent, and this video was an eye-opening conversation that helped me think about some of the things I have going on. I can't wait to dive into more of your content… Keep it going ✊🏾🔥
Such beautiful girls!!! And they don’t need to be “naked” to be so gorgeous. Just pure beauty!!
yes very amazing and sincere comments 👏. YEAH I really love your comment ❤ 😀.
Is that what you secretly fantasize about seeing them *'naked'*
So why would you bring that up then being *'NUDE'* if that's not what you want to secretly see?
Love the modest garment. Would love to hear a talk on Modesty Today
@@EM-vb8gx being naked is a part of American culture right?
@@EM-vb8gx being naked is a part of American culture
Thanks!
Thank you so much! ✌🏽❤️🪮
I like these young women whoever raised them, raised them right and laid a solid foundation of how children are supposed to be raised in an American culture with biracial parents mixed couples in interracial dating and marriages. I love the godly perspective that they bring to it as well as a practical one with a lot of common sense and good judgment, God bless their parents, and God bless whoever listens to these children take heed they’re telling the truth
I am a 60-year-old black woman. I am so encouraged by You three beautiful young biracial black women. You are a ray of hope for the younger generation. Keep doing. what you are doing. Though you guys are both black/white, you are absolutely right. If you present in any way as a black person, skin color, hair texture, or facial features, you will be considered a black person by both black and white people.
I'm glad i found this channel fir real. I have been binge-watching the older contents you guys put out and they are amaaaaazing!
Thanks guys for your take on topic. Very much needed. My bf is mixed raced like you guys and he says the same things you guys do and it hits a little nerve with the some of the things he said some times but hearing from you guys perspective, I now have a better understanding of his viewpoint. Thanks ladies keep up the AWESOME work ❤
You ladies did great…great topic (I’m a black woman from Canada) who is part of a huge multiracial and multigenerational mixed family (nieces, grandparents,nephews, aunts, uncle, cousins all of it etc…not just black and white either Indian, Cuban, Arab,Asian) I wrote this to say with the interracial couples I’ve encountered some are truly in love and they just where meant to be together…however ALOT of the others are dealing with a heavy dose of colourism and wanted bi-racial or “light skinned” children . I would also like to add I’ve noticed in my family who comes from a mixed country (we are South American Guyanese different races and skin colours) …let’s say we have 20 interracial couples only 1 out of the 20 is a black female who married a non-black male , All the others are the male being fully black marrying /dating another race… it’s really peculiar because you even see within siblings the daughters/sisters will marry black(their own race)and the brothers will marry or date non-black. Lots of families look this…I find the black men tend to date outside the black race way more(western society). Im not trying to start a bm vs bw debate to anyone reading … its just an observation (respectfully speaking).
Being an adult woman who have a biracial mother, it was refreshing to see and listen to these beautiful young women conversation. I quickly subscribed to thier channel. We need more conversations like this and these young ladies make me proud. Keep up the great work and keep the conversations going!!!
Glad to have you here! ✌🏽❤️🪮
Camille getting brave 😁 Keep going girls, loving the videos.
Thanks so much for your support! ✌🏽❤️🪮
@@GottaBMePodcast
If you follow the bible and jesus, you must follow and fight for truth .You follow the one drop rule, that teaches black blood is sub human. You're biracial, not simply black. Why let racist evil people dictate who you are ?
The one drop rule basically states 1 drop of black makes you black. What it actually means is black blood is seen as a taint and sub human, thus one drop corrupts superior blood and the child assumes the inferior parents racial stock. The reason why this racist ideology still exists is because partly, people like you defy science, logic and reason says otherwise. Be proud of who you are entirely. Why listen to racist people, break free from jim crow laws. Black people are literally the only race of people that say black plus anything is black. Chinese dont do this, whites dont, Mexicans don't, Indians dont. Its a self esteen issue. All groups of people, including Africans have clear definitions on who they are. Anyone who follows it lacks self esteem, suffers from inferiority complexes with no sense of logic.
Fight against true oppression, stop following and adhering to racist, jim crow ideology. Biracial is biracial. Dont let racist people identify who you are, if you simply identify as black, youve lost the fight on racism and assumed your place.
Thank you for another thought-provoking video. I was very happy to see Camille (third wheel). Please inform her that she gives the videos lots of depth i.e. “She is the icing on the pastel”. My observation, Asian women looking for white men is an economic one. I lived in Mindanao Philippines for about 3 years and found the people of the Philippines to be very hospitable. The girls from the rural area because of poverty have limited ways to better themselves and help their families. A Filipina woman does not discriminate but will bet on the man who is most likely to help her and usually this is a white man. When you talk about black women in America it is important not to use ghetto urchins as a point of reference. Black women are all gifted with something called “mother wit”. When things are about to hit the fan, for your safety follow those black women. Again, thank you all and best wishes, a gold star for Camille.
Well said.
Thank you so much for your consistent support! You always know exactly what to say to keep us going! We love you so much! ✌🏽❤️🪮
@@GottaBMePodcastI like the way you all dress what is your religion?
Love the content sisters, keep it up!
I really appreciate the subject matter....the openness...the honesty and also how you guys are conducting the conversation.
Good Stuff....
And you guys are also bringing up a lot of valid points....
This Is Honestly the best Presentation I Saw in A Podcast in General. I can feel the Light in that Room. Now I haven’t watched a Full video I just seen one of the shorts. But I definitely Subscribed🦋
Glad you’ve enjoyed! Thanks for the kind word and for being here! ✌🏽❤️🪮
@@GottaBMePodcastI would love to know what are you guys beliefs. What is your faith in
Hearing from Both sides!!! YES!!!
How can a 9 year old think of black women in such a hateful way? This hatefulness has to have come from an adult or some brainwashing social media channel that the child is allowed to watch.
Probably a parent
Maybe he’s just expressing a bad attitude regarding his Mothers or another black relatives rules and regulations.
@@theresasmith5934 He's nine years old, a child. If he has a bad mom, he would express his feelings about his mom, and not about dating and marrying someone by race or color.
@@theresasmith5934 Incorrect! He's already psychologically conquered, and his Eurocentric ideologies will worsen with time! He's on track to becoming Officer Tatum, Clarence Thomas, Tim Scott, Larry Elder, or Thomas Sowell
@@DrUmarJohnson1
So being “black” is being a Democrat.🤭 Also, those men have never said a word about black women…except for maybe Tatum.
😊 Well isn't this an interesting platform. This is refreshing to watch and hear. Not sure yet about who they are and the foundation of their purpose. I read the description. But loving they are unique and positive in their dialog. No foul expletives. These are beautiful, intelligent ladies. Hmmm... I need to hear more to grasp what everyone is commenting on.☺ Thank you ladies!
Ladies very interesting! I love your topic that you bring to the table❤
Fearless. Funny. Smart. Beautiful. Transparent & Truthful.
Y’all are Queens
I also don’t get why people say being mixed allows you to enjoy more than one culture. I’m not mixed but one of my parents is a black American and the other is black from the Caribbean. That’s literally two different cultures and we’re all black lol loving these kind of conversation though. Keep up the good content 🙌🏾
It’s something that has drawn me to Payton I don’t know what it is. But you all are great and discussing things about race that people believe disappear and haven’t . So thank you I enjoy your guys views and perspectives. Shout out to your parents moms especially.
I love this so much! I’m mixed and almost 50. I’m still learning what it is to be a black woman in the US. I am definitely showing these videos to my granddaughters. ❤❤❤
Absolutely great conversation!! Thank you ladies so much. Btw, you all are very beautiful!
Can i say and acknowledge how refreshing it is to hear a conversation about this and its no anger, bitterness, arguments, clashing or any other negativity! Unlike alot of others who do videos on this topic you all really did in such a mature and respectful manner also not trying to convert or make someone change their mind about it that i wish others would. I just had to give credit for that because for you all to be able to do so at a young age is a testament when people that are older seem to miss.
But don't those very same "older" people of color have the right and reason to be angry and think a certain way from their experience with the different treatment because the color of their skin to get the rights and freedoms that were automatically given to its white citizens and immigrants?
In my opinion, it was well earned because of what they had to go through in this country. I'm not sure if it was intentional or not but your comment has taken on some racist undertones . Anytime that people of color express their opinion or emotion in the forthright manner they get attached with the same negative attributes that you just mentioned above. For some reason this comment coming from a person of color just proves how the negativity of colorism and has affected you. As far as I'm concerned we should not be looked down upon because of our passion when discussing this topic. A lot of people, typically NPC's, have the same opinion when we demand respect or express ourselves or emotions.
I would never try to convert a black man who find black women unattractive over to the “other side”.😂 More so it’s the need to put down black women to uplift whom ever you prefer that is problematic. I would like for that to stop but honestly even that doesn’t inherently bother me. It is what it isn’t. I wish you a lifetime of frolicking in Becky’s!
@@beatrixxkiddo3572 black men get hate no matter what they do. i say its best for a man to do whatever he wants when the whole doesnt like him anyway.
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Not sure what algorithm brought you to my feed but you are all so intriguing and brilliant - liked and subscribed 🙏🏾
Hi ladies! You caught my interest with the topic of this show. Thank you for expressing yourselves on this topic. I would not have known what you all are navigating through. Let me say, from a black man (I'm about the same age as your fathers), who is a product of an interracial marriage, you young ladies have nothing to worry about. You all are beautiful. And, black men love women in all colors, shapes and sizes. Don't worry about the narratives in society. Yes, it's good to know what they are and address them as needed. Just be confident with who you are and what God has in store for your lives. You ladies are going to be fine. FYI: My grandfather was Portuguese and my grandmother was black.
Are you Nigerian?
Don't minimise their experience. Everyone in the world knows black men hate black women
@@randomsarcasm2022 No. I am not.
😂😂 I love how y'all are keeping it real.
First time here WOOOOOW ❤❤❤ 43 year old and i am impressed
Tough topic. Great topic as well. I feel like In a perfect world, you can have the mentality that we're all one race., but this world isn't that. Inequality exists, systematic racism, etc. I think Black love and black people marrying black is good. I think for Black Americans, that's important because the black household is in jeopardy. Black Marriage can strengthen and benefit us financially, mentally, emotionally, etc. Interracial marriage is fine, but some black Americans might go that route out of self-hate...not love.
Sadly a lot of men and women do that because of terrible reasons i just wish ppl would think with their hearts and not with what ignorant ppl think
@@jassiesworld A Black spouse indicates consciousness, racial pride, strength, and a high self-image
A non-Black spouse indicates isolation, shame, weakness, and a poor self-image
@@jassiesworldI use to think that way due to experiencing racism growing up & living in the South, but I realize I can't risk going to hell because of these types of feelings about black men dating other races. It is a trick from the enemy & I had to get rid of this offense. I have to die daily to the flesh & see when my black pride has turned into something ungodly.
@@jassiesworldit ignorant to think dating out is good for black ppl. It not
Great TOPIC!! I just subscribed due to this one topic . I have a son who says the same thing ….it was surprising as well
I APPRECIATE the Chasteness and the Modesty. It is Gloriously Refreshing. . And It Restores Hope in Me. Thank You Peace and Blessings
Extremely intelligent girls, beautiful too, keep doing your thing.
Just joined you ladies and very impressed with your content!!!! Keep up the good work,I’ll be viewing!!!👀
You ladies are very sharp for your ages...
MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL RICHLY FOR YOUR LOVING PERSONALITY.
Awesome conversation ladies. I'd love for you to include some non-interracial women into the conversation. I think they would bring a valuable perspective. It would also be interesting to hear from your parents. Keep up the great work!!!
Hello beautiful, intelligent ladies. I am happy you randomly showed up in my feed.
I have seen that even mixed race individuals are preferred by alot of men before they would look at a “black “ person to date. So there are still preference that lighter is more preferred …. its hard out here to be accepted for being black by your own men
if the internet is your entire life then of course black men are thugs and dont like black women. everyone actually paying attention to the average people, which is the majority if you didnt know, would realize that black men have always liked black women. feminism and the "I dont need no man" narrative has basically made the majority invisible. All the black community pays attention to is black men on their screens who are athletes, rappers, or popular twitch streamers. The minorities of the black community with perceived high value are being lumped with the entire black male community whenever they make it clear they like non black women more. black women are accepted by almost all black men but they choose not to see all black men so they can complain about something. this narrative needs to stop. the stats that debunk this narrative already exist.
I am so glad this channel came across my feed. I grew up around all black and hispanic. Now my daughter will be in an environment completely different from mine and i worry...because she will stand out as different being a minority which could cause teasing etc. Love hearing u guys experiences!
great video ladies, amazing subject matter too. i gotta say, as a man, i absolutely love the 💅on all three of you ladies, nice, shortish, very nicely manicured they are 🔥can't wait to see the video when you bring on your parents and talk about todays subject matter; that, will be an interesting view for sure.
So proud of you young ladies, keep up the good work ❤
I am smiling so hard; I am one of your first subscribers, and I smile every time I catch one of your new videos.
America will never meet its true potential until it resolves the genocide of Indigenous people and makes recompense, then acknowledges that the business of slavery, the enslaving, the brutalization, and the dehumanization, was all done for profit. These two great sins need to be acknowledged, history needs to be rewritten, and these events need to be taught in schools. Then come reparations; a person should be paid/compensated for the work they performed.
This is a very bold and weighty topic you are speaking on today. There is something so refreshing about the young wrestling with these weighty subjects. As a senior Black woman, it took time for me to value my worth and beauty. No one ever said I was ugly. However, what's so striking is that it took someone who was so completely different from me, mainly in color, who would repeatedly tell me that he loved the richness of my color and how springy my hair was. It took someone outside of my own race to show me a different way to look at myself without a mirror.
There is a fight to keep the status quo, with the majority who's afraid to become the minority. Even with all the power they still have, they want to keep a foothold on the neck of the coming majority. As for that very young boy, he is still wet behind the ears and sadly, he's only repeating what he hears without any real experience.
We Black folks are generous to a fault, and we love our God. However, there is always room for improvement in our own communities. You three are bright and thoughtful/introspective. Please keep that energy going.
I’m so glad that they are talking about blackness and how it’s affect on families that have mixed children from the shared relationship between black and white parents, too often we hear the argument from our dark brothers and sisters. Bravo for these young mix women to have a platform and speak their experience.
Very good show ladies, i just subscribed to your channel 👸🏽🥰👌🏽💯💯💯💯💯
Not going to lie… I didn’t automatically think Mormon etc… I was thinking handmaid’s tale… but I love your channel. This is so wholesome and needed! I think you only popped up because I’ve been watching videos on women of God ( clothing, presentation, etc) ❤❤❤ I appreciate your presence on TH-cam!
I like women of good character with solid morals, no matter the race.
This is a bit of a misnomer from you. Whether you like women of good character- there are definitely things that are going to help in having a strong relationship. We often don't like to think about these things as we go into interracial relationships- but shared cultures, shared values, shared self respect and shared empathy - are also very important. For example- a Nigerian woman may be of good character but she may have certain cultural practices, she may like to cook certain cultural foods- that may seem strange to you. You articulating those feelings- may seem innocent to you but she may not take it as such. It is much easier if you get with a good woman of character that was raised in a similar way to how you were raised.
@@Bonbob626 thanks for your consideration and your time to reply to my comment.
You're so right my friend!!!!
@@bihmthethirdself hate mentality
@@DerrickBradshaw-u5hself hate
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic! I think one way to answer the question of why it’s so prevalent amongst AA, is to ask your Father’s why they chose your Mothers 🤔 if they are honest, they may give you some insight as to what their mindset was when choosing their spouse.
I’m a black man didn’t know I was black until I got to Australia. I moved from Kenya. At one point yeah black men question the skin colour as it gets in the way of achieving success.
When I hear you guys speak and hold yourselves it reminds me of my blood and spiritual sisters! It would be a dream to see you guys collaborate with the Cartier Family or Candance Owens! Much love from MI!
We need more videos with Camille!
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I am I black male who was married to a black woman for 10 years. After that and several other experiences I personally gave up on being with black women. But I must say that after viewing you alls channel and listen to your thoughts and personalities I can honestly say that I have never encountered more beautiful young ladies in my life. You have restored my faith. I thank you and I thank your parents
You're easily persuaded, it sounds, to me. I hope you find your faith and dig in. There is peace in knowing who you are and consequently, not allowing others to minimize your view of certain people. Blessings
Topics always interesting 👍🏽!
I liked Camille! Great show guys
Hey lovelies. 1) I’m white, obviously, but I agree 💯 with y’all 2) I’m in an interracial marriage so if I had kids they would look like yall which is a beautiful thing! But that doesn’t mean there wouldn’t be struggles for the children and definitely doesn’t mean that my husband and I didn’t have struggles on both ends of the spectrum. 3) we need more white people who are black activists, I love that your moms are. I’m not tooting my own horn at all but according to my friends I have been one as well. Tbh I wish I was more so of one, it comes naturally to me but I'm sure there are times where I wasn’t and I should’ve been. But I’ve definitely used my privilege to speak out. 4) I loved this discussion. We need more discussion about this. You ladies are awesome!
God bless yall ❤
It is not obviously you are white my GoGo has blue eyes, blonde hair and very very light fair skin tone ( but, we are from the Asian Continent, my country is India )
White people being Black activists means they support Black Families, Black woman Black man and Black child.
@@KV45355 the definition of activism does not say this at all. a black activist is someone who is performing actions that are in the best interests of black people socially or politically. Both of those things have nothing to do with having a monoracial marriage or having monoracial black children. Essentially, she is an ally to a further extent. This is nothing new though. Throughout history, there has always been some yt people who stood out and were even lynched for taking the risks to help black people in any way possible. To define black activism yourself is ignorant, if not arrogant.
BLACK LOVE MATTERS
@@coreythomas3633 love matters in general. Agape, philio, and sturge.
You guys have a lot on your hands if you will centre on Inter Racial Marriage. You will deal with an overdose of conservatism, prejudice, ignorance and you name it but am happy that you are young, intelligent, energetic, well informed and enthusiastic🤔So please keep it up! Nigerian 🇳🇬 subscriber here!
There are many black men who do not date black women and then there are black men who definitely will not date a white woman, it goes both ways. If a man is good to me I don't care what colour he is. Honesty and sincerity 💯
Very good conversation ladies! I watched a documentary the other day on Peacock entitled "LIGHT GIRLS" that I believe is a must watch. I think it sheds more light on this topic. There’s also a book entitled "White Like Her" that may peak your interest as well. #GreatVideo #Respect
My question is, what does your fathers say about dating black women and falling in love with a white woman then to marry? Just a question..respectfully. Also, I think that should have been a teachable moment for that little boy instead of inside laughter. I'm not sure where the humor comes from about a mixed boy calling a black girl "ugly".
They are 9y/o kids. Kids always have been rude to their classmates (obviously not all). It’s not a big deal if the parents boosted the child’s self esteem. You can’t expect teachers to do everything.
Oooooohhhhh mmmmmyyyy LAWD… this was REFRESHING! Watching women chat in their normal tone. NOT YELLING and getting ratchet etc. This and that hanging out. This is SO POSITIVE. I hope this grows but only negative podcasts grow unfortunately 😔. Ladies, keep up the work and pushing 💪🏽
Let black men be with who they wanna be, let black women be with who they wanna be. Amen
Yes 👏
You can't have a black family without a black man and a black woman.
@@brachelleh252 A Black spouse indicates consciousness, racial pride, strength, and a high self-image
A non-Black spouse indicates isolation, shame, weakness, and a poor self-image
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That’s your opinion that you’re pulling out of your @&$.
Also, “BLACK” is not a race, culture, ethnicity, and or nationality…it’s a caste system identifier.
Thank you ladies for sharing your storys, thoughts, and experiences. Loved the MLK jr. quote too btw.
All my little sisters,blessings always.
...I like listening to you guys iron out your thoughts. I like your content.
(also when you get there please have Candace Owens on your show lol)
I appreciate you working through it. You are biracial, not Black. Even the lens of “the struggle” of being Black being something you have to be prepared to fight is loaded. As a Black woman, I don’t appreciate biracial women positioning themselves as the face of the Black community. Especially those who identify their “strong pro Black militant” mindset comes from the white parent. The ideas and concepts they’d be fighting for are essentially coming from the ideas of their white mother. I’ll add a response to the anticipated Malcolm X rebuttal, which is he became militant as a result of his own lived experiences and not things fed to him by a white mother who, I suspect has her own issues to work through . I believe biracial people are their own group and should work within it to address and conquer their challenges.
This is my opinion, with all due respect.
Sis. When a biracial woman gets called the n word or even faces extreme physical or verbal abuse, do you still look at them as not being allowed to be not the face but being able to speak about their experience as victim of racism?!!! I think as a black woman you are just hiding your jealousy and you are being emotional. We all these biracial sisters are not full blackwomen. However should we deny that as biracial women (which means they have a whole half of their family is full blown black like you and me) they are going through attacks for having that half black heritage in them?!! Like look at their hair! Their smile, their (loud lol) laugh. They are more black than anything (even tho still mixed), black being genetically dominant as you may know. These sisters never said they were the face of black women. It's Hollywood that says that not these sisters. You are just speaking out of jealousy and emotions for being a blackwoman who feels some type of way about biracial women (I know u gonna deny it but I don't care). These women are not being arrogant looking down upon you full blown black sisters. So show some love. Respectfully.
And don't get emotional talking about I'm being a colorist putting lightskinned and biracial women on a pedestal because that's not the issue. I love all black women of all shades and I would also argue that one being solely attracted to darkskinned women could also fit the definition of being labeled a "colorist" if you ask me 🤷🏽♂️buf anyway. These sisters are beautiful and do a good job. Plus they are dressed in a very modest and biblical manner which makes them even more attractive. We are not attracted to sisters with leggings, and very provocative attire always eager to twerk in public for the whole neighborhood to see. We tired of that mess!!!!
What are you talking about Malcolm having a white mother!!! ARE YOU ON CRACK?!!! MALCOLM mom wasn't white?!!! She had white Irish ancestry (like many of us due to the race mixing in slavery) due to one of her grand mothers being raped by a whiteman. But she was super lightskinned like some of our sisters but she wasn't a biracial woman! What are you talking about?!! It's crazy it's people like you misleading the people with false or inaccurate information. So what Malcolm, Muhammad Ali , louis farrakhan, huey Newton, Elijah Muhammad, all lightskinned brothers were biracial now?! 😂😂😂😂
curious to know what biracial women you know of who've positioned themselves as the face of the black struggle?
Depends on the race of the mothers when it comes to mixed race ppl.
Theres many mixed races ppl who have black mothers. Black mothers who feed there mixed children their lived experiences. And even if they do not subscribe to black rights (possibly a coconut) they are a source of blackness that the child will primary learn from. These mixed children are included in the black struggle in my opinion.
Its the mixed race children white white mothers who need to be excluded from the terminology ‘black struggle’. For obvious reasons that their white mothers can never teach them from experience and give them mis informed education unless they educate themselves upon race in tremendous depth, which most dont.
Mixed children with white mothers have allot racial barriers as their white mothers failed to educate themselves. Hense why ppl say they are lost. Which, they are due to this.
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I thought you guys were Seventh Day Adventists! I resonate and love your message! You guys remind me of when I talk with my homies or my sister! From a black man with love!
Young Black women are some of the most self affair women out there. The one thing I see more of, is that they seem to open to dating outside of their race. I have seen so many mixed couples where the woman is black, so the narrative of black men not wanting to be in relationships with black woman, I don’t think the black women are fussed or stressed, at all 🤷🏽♀️
It’s the mixed kids I fear for😢
The numbers don't show respect to reality. I don't think black women have ever been so pro black they wouldn't date other races but the reality is pretty much every other race on the planet has a beauty standard for women and men that is typically based on being closer to light and not dark. Not to say its impossible but compared to the opposite its much less likely especially if she isn't attractive
Is it that random? I also saw this as a totally random suggestion and just wanted to see what they were about and i was surprised and have no regrets about discovering their very level views. Keep this up, ladies, for all of us humans out there who need more of these types of discussions
You girls are the future of this country, most people here will look like you in the ages to come. Create your own identity and pass it on.
That's not going to happen...
@ Are you kidding??? There’s Black, Asian and Hispanic Amish people now. They all marry within their religion. If they’re mixed, trust me everyone is going to be mixed.
When I sleep, my dreams have always been about marrying a black woman and having black children. This is not to say that any other group is unattractive; it is simply what I desire. I could marry someone from a different group, but this would come with a list of questions that would help bring the realization of what is rather than what I wish it to be. I find you ladies very intriguing, and this line of questioning is at the forefront of this conversation. I feel that some people may act selfishly and not think beyond their own needs. This is acceptable only if children are not involved. I believe that if parents are willing to enter an interracial relationship, they must devise a strategy to help their children navigate these conversations. Meaningful conversations stem from the parents' ability to provide their children with a broader perspective, beyond tribal or social constructs that often fuel negative systemic ideas over positive ones. P.S. You ladies are gorgeous, and please do not think you would not exist if your parents never met. Time and energy do not work as such.
Hello Ladys, I enjoy listening to yall talking about interracial marriage. it's a subject that needs to be talk about. yes, please talk to yall's parents. I would to be in on that talk.
Black dude here, I love this picture of BW that you display on this channel. Clean,Well dressed,well spoken,educated
God bless y’all
I hope this become a trend in the black community
I am black and my ex husband is white ( European) .Our daughter is mixed just like you. I love listening to you, and I encourage my daughter to listen to you. We face racism but also “ culturalisme” not sure it is a word. I am originally from Africa( born and raised). My ex husband is Italian ( born and raised). Our daughter was born in the US and is being raised here. I have my experience as a black woman in the US, but also as a foreigner. Her dad is totally chocked by my experience and our daughter’s. Our daughter claims her blackness, and whiteness but lately she emphasizes her dad’s and I background(countries )to identify herself. She is really at 14 trying to define who she is. I realize that she is different than me. Her identity is different than both her dad and me, while being both of us. Growing up I never thought about who I was and never had to fight to be respected/ accepted. The former is something I learned to do in the US. It is at time tricky to navigate. Your thoughts?
These girls are pathetic. All biracials should embrace their full heritage, regardless of what some ignorant people think. Please raise them to acknowledge both sides
The one drop rule basically states 1 drop of black makes you black. What it actually means is black blood is seen as a taint and sub human, thus one drop corrupts superior blood and the child assumes the inferior parents racial stock. The reason why this racist ideology still exists is because partly, people like you defy science, logic and reason says otherwise. Be proud of who you are entirely. Why listen to racist people, break free from jim crow laws. Black people are literally the only race of people that say black plus anything is black. Chinese dont do this, whites dont, Mexicans don't, Indians dont. Its a self esteen issue. All groups of people, including Africans have clear definitions on who they are. Anyone who follows it lacks self esteem, suffers from inferiority complexes with no sense of logic.
Fight against true oppression, stop following and adhering to racist, jim crow ideology. Biracial is biracial. Dont let racist people identify who you are, if you simply identify as black, youve lost the fight on racism and assumed your place.
You're a swirler
This is awesome, guys!
Hey enjoyed the topic on interracial y'all personal thoughts on it.😊 Maybe you guys should invite your fathers on and ask them why they choose your mothers as wives. I am kinda of curious of there mindset on this topic. 🤔 If it isn't to personal.
I’d like to see this as well!
Great convo love it ❤
I don’t think interracial marriage is wrong but being a black women and hearing from black men negative things about why they wouldn’t marry a black with hurts. I am blessed there Lord blessed with a black husband who loves me. I didn’t marry until I was 40 because I lived somewhere where black men didn’t like Black women. We couldn’t win!
God in the bible warned isrealite to marry only their people
You have such a unique voice and i was looking forward to your point of view . You could have done some research rather than make sweeping statements. I wish you could revisit the discussion- with some research ❤❤❤ . Love your topics and your energy