Emotional control is so masculine. A masculine man is built biologically to handle stress. Stress ages women!! Stress builds a man!! A real test of a man is when s*** hits the fan. Yes!! How he handles stress and hard times. I love this video. ❤
I love chivalery men, i really appreciate it, it is so precious and oldfashioned. To support eachother in a healthy balanced way is the best loving feeling
I try to be more feminine and feminine energy not only by listening to these kind of valuable lectures but also practicing it in daily basis. The thing is.. i haven’t found (yet) any men who has these six characters. It’s so hard nowadays. But i keep on nurturing my femininity and praying every single day that one good man will come and show up and our energies match. Wish me luck!!
Thank you so very much! I am 76 and he is 78. Widow and Widower. Dating. I have a lot to learn. I am LEARNING a lot from YOU. I was married to my husband 53 years and he always led! A very masculine man! My new man is masculine too. But I didn't realize anything about mothering and nurturing until now. Nurturing, I found out, is fine, but mothering is a no no. As I said, I have so much to learn that I just didn't know. I hear stuff about proper balance etc and my mouth just falls open, like WHAT??? I DIDN'T KNOW THIS OR THAT. You would think by the time you're 76 or 78 ya know it all, but NO NO NO!!! 💗
The ladies need to hear this. Especially us hyper independent ladies out here. I thought I’d met masculine men before, boy was I wrong. Believe me when you meet a truly masculine man it will trigger everything inside of you and the temptation is to run from this but that will only keep you in your masculine energy. You have to make space for a man to come in and take care of you. That’s the reality of finding a healthy relationship. I’ve never been able to be this feminine before, I’ve completely softened and it’s honestly beautiful to experience. I feel so comfortable here, it’s like I finally feel safe to truly open and bloom 🥰🌹
With every point he made, I was nodding along and saying 'omg yes please'. Emotional intelligence. Staying calm. Quiet but potent confidence, not arrogance...Decision making and drive. Protectiveness and humility. Gorgeous stuff.
Hi! I found a lot of value in this video. It made it so simple to understand why all those points are what attract me to a man. And I now understand why, when they are not present within a man, I don’t feel safe around him to just be me. Very much appreciate you and your direct clarity.
You are saying truthful and valuable things,as a woman, also related to your own advice 😊, less swearing and less anger would make this video even more enjoyable 😉
This is so amazing thank you so much for talking about it. I resonated so much to many things you said. This popped up in my TH-cam suggestions and i was divinely guided to listen. ❤🙏
ur transformation is amazing ...just looking at ur thumbnail pics i can tell that u have dramatically changed from less healthy masculine to more healthy masculine.. and that is why i know that ur advice is actually correct. if i see a very emasculated looking and sounding man tell me stuff about relationships, I ALREADY KNOW ITS NOT VERY GOOD ADVICE lol... my brother likes u a lot too . we both agree that u are really speaking truth and embodying it as well. ❤
Jake, your recent videos have been fantastic. Please keep making them because they’re full of truths and it helps us women to understand how we can take part into the shift back to healthy fem/masc balances
My ex had NPD(narcissistic personality disorder)...he hated when I asked him for help with anything.🚩If it was only his idea, he was all about it but it was almost never for myself or our kids... only for people outside of us.💔
Same! I'm in the process of divorce from the same and worse treatment. He still thinks I'm the problem. I'll just let him continue to think that as long as I can be free of him.
I’m in my mid 20’s and most men my age are not masculine. I dated someone 11 years older than me, and still very very feminine. I’ve done a lot of work on myself from a place of self love but it’s not a walk in the park finding a man that’s in his masculine majority of the time.. 😊 it’d be really nice if more men started to work on themselves and harnessing this energy bc most are devoid of it.
It has been systematically hijacked with Instant gratification through easy cheap supply with hardly any inputs/efforts. Men striving for princess treatment
I had a male therapist with all this qualities, worst experience in therapy of my life. He ended rejecting me as a patient. There are professions that no matter ir you are a man or a woman, you need feminine qualities. Now Im watching all this information because I have to contact him once more wich is awful for me. Being with a man like this in therapy was me behaving like a stupid girl (you became too emotional when you are with men like this) and the situation going nowhere. The level of attraction was incredible high (because of the polarity) but completely useless in that context.
@@JakeWoodard so he does a lot of therapy and has learned to communicate his emotions… I understand that this is very mature and great for our relationship but his language has become more feminine… he says I feel…. Or how do you feel about this… him talking about his emotions lowers my attention for him but I feel a lot of respect and admiration towards him … I’m not sure why I feel this way and it makes me confused about the whole situation… am I the toxic one here? 😂
@@soudehayanifard9576 I'd love if my husband worked thru this emotional issues and took therapy to heart by implementing what he's learned in real life interactions and scenarios. I say kudos to him for embracing healing! I'm curious why this seems feminine and is a turn off for you?
What would u suggest a wife do when a husband resorts to hitting, punching, biting himself (leaving bruises and marks) when the wife tries to bring up topics to discus and work thru? No matter how gentle, loving, and understanding I try to frame things, he tries to shut down the conversation, then resorts to hurting himself, and then demands hugs. It scares me and he knows it's a childhood trauma for me.... He started to do it shortly after I divulged this to him, saying that I gave him the idea. He is not a fan of therapy, and hasn't had a good track record w it. Idk what to do... He says he does it to punish himself, but he only does it when I'm trying to work thru issues w him, thus we can never work thru anything and the issues remain Any insights or advice? Idk if this is an adhd overwhelm behavior, or if he does it to avoid topics, change, and accountability?
This is not even feminine behavior, this is toddler behavior. Whatever you do, don’t give him attention when he does this. Let him know that these behaviors will result in you disengaging. However, you will be disengaging with your original issues still unresolved, which means that there was a wedge between you that he had an opportunity to remove through mature conversation, but he chose to do that shit instead. So how does he expect you to stay? You must refuse to mother him and absolutely do not give him a hug when he does that.
He's manipulating you. As you said - the behavior didn't start until you told him it's a childhood trauma of yours. He is using it against you to achieve whatever goal he has - in your case, to avoid working on issues, or for you to even bring up subjects that are uncomfortable for him. He is selfish, and I would consider this actually as abusive.
Emotional control is so masculine.
A masculine man is built biologically to handle stress. Stress ages women!! Stress builds a man!!
A real test of a man is when s*** hits the fan. Yes!! How he handles stress and hard times.
I love this video. ❤
Thanks for watching!!
I love chivalery men, i really appreciate it, it is so precious and oldfashioned. To support eachother in a healthy balanced way is the best loving feeling
I try to be more feminine and feminine energy not only by listening to these kind of valuable lectures but also practicing it in daily basis. The thing is.. i haven’t found (yet) any men who has these six characters. It’s so hard nowadays. But i keep on nurturing my femininity and praying every single day that one good man will come and show up and our energies match. Wish me luck!!
Prayers for all the best for you 🙏 ❤
So clear!
I have a son and I am going to apply this to be him a masculine man
It is nice to see an example of a masculine man!
YES! I have been in survival mode for many years
Thank you so very much! I am 76 and he is 78. Widow and Widower. Dating. I have a lot to learn. I am LEARNING a lot from YOU. I was married to my husband 53 years and he always led! A very masculine man! My new man is masculine too. But I didn't realize anything about mothering and nurturing until now. Nurturing, I found out, is fine, but mothering is a no no. As I said, I have so much to learn that I just didn't know. I hear stuff about proper balance etc and my mouth just falls open, like WHAT??? I DIDN'T KNOW THIS OR THAT. You would think by the time you're 76 or 78 ya know it all, but NO NO NO!!! 💗
The ladies need to hear this. Especially us hyper independent ladies out here. I thought I’d met masculine men before, boy was I wrong. Believe me when you meet a truly masculine man it will trigger everything inside of you and the temptation is to run from this but that will only keep you in your masculine energy. You have to make space for a man to come in and take care of you. That’s the reality of finding a healthy relationship. I’ve never been able to be this feminine before, I’ve completely softened and it’s honestly beautiful to experience. I feel so comfortable here, it’s like I finally feel safe to truly open and bloom 🥰🌹
Sooooo true - Thank you Jake!
With every point he made, I was nodding along and saying 'omg yes please'. Emotional intelligence. Staying calm. Quiet but potent confidence, not arrogance...Decision making and drive. Protectiveness and humility. Gorgeous stuff.
I like this guy. Very insightful. Thank you!
Thank you!
Hi! I found a lot of value in this video. It made it so simple to understand why all those points are what attract me to a man. And I now understand why, when they are not present within a man, I don’t feel safe around him to just be me. Very much appreciate you and your direct clarity.
God bless you, you brilliant lightworker! Thank you for opening our eyes! Bless your family! 👏🏻😍💯
You are saying truthful and valuable things,as a woman, also related to your own advice 😊, less swearing and less anger would make this video even more enjoyable 😉
This is so amazing thank you so much for talking about it. I resonated so much to many things you said. This popped up in my TH-cam suggestions and i was divinely guided to listen. ❤🙏
Loved it, thank you Jake 🙏🏼 Such a detailed explanation of a very important matter ✨
Thank you!
ur transformation is amazing ...just looking at ur thumbnail pics i can tell that u have dramatically changed from less healthy masculine to more healthy masculine.. and that is why i know that ur advice is actually correct. if i see a very emasculated looking and sounding man tell me stuff about relationships, I ALREADY KNOW ITS NOT VERY GOOD ADVICE lol... my brother likes u a lot too . we both agree that u are really speaking truth and embodying it as well. ❤
Thank you Jake for this detailed video ✨
I appreciate you being here!
Love this!!!❤
Jake, your recent videos have been fantastic. Please keep making them because they’re full of truths and it helps us women to understand how we can take part into the shift back to healthy fem/masc balances
I appreciate you, Marleen! 🔥
Top notch by the way 😁
💥BEST VIDEO ON TH-cam💥
I appreciate you! 🙏🏼
My ex had NPD(narcissistic personality disorder)...he hated when I asked him for help with anything.🚩If it was only his idea, he was all about it but it was almost never for myself or our kids... only for people outside of us.💔
Same! I'm in the process of divorce from the same and worse treatment. He still thinks I'm the problem. I'll just let him continue to think that as long as I can be free of him.
I’m in my mid 20’s and most men my age are not masculine. I dated someone 11 years older than me, and still very very feminine. I’ve done a lot of work on myself from a place of self love but it’s not a walk in the park finding a man that’s in his masculine majority of the time.. 😊 it’d be really nice if more men started to work on themselves and harnessing this energy bc most are devoid of it.
It has been systematically hijacked with Instant gratification through easy cheap supply with hardly any inputs/efforts. Men striving for princess treatment
It's common sense.
I had a male therapist with all this qualities, worst experience in therapy of my life. He ended rejecting me as a patient. There are professions that no matter ir you are a man or a woman, you need feminine qualities. Now Im watching all this information because I have to contact him once more wich is awful for me. Being with a man like this in therapy was me behaving like a stupid girl (you became too emotional when you are with men like this) and the situation going nowhere. The level of attraction was incredible high (because of the polarity) but completely useless in that context.
I can relate to that. Had a similar experience, had more progress with some female therapists who were professional with clarity
What do you think about a man who says they only provide or take care of things once they’re married not while dating ?😂😂
Oh, Jake, if only you could be cloned. 😊
Thank you ❤
But what if he has all the masculine qualities but a bit emotional?
Define a bit emotional lol. Every man has emotions, it's HOW he processes them.
@@JakeWoodard so he does a lot of therapy and has learned to communicate his emotions… I understand that this is very mature and great for our relationship but his language has become more feminine… he says I feel…. Or how do you feel about this… him talking about his emotions lowers my attention for him but I feel a lot of respect and admiration towards him … I’m not sure why I feel this way and it makes me confused about the whole situation… am I the toxic one here? 😂
@@soudehayanifard9576 I'd love if my husband worked thru this emotional issues and took therapy to heart by implementing what he's learned in real life interactions and scenarios. I say kudos to him for embracing healing! I'm curious why this seems feminine and is a turn off for you?
What happens if you are a highly intelligent female and rich because you listens to Gods word?
What would u suggest a wife do when a husband resorts to hitting, punching, biting himself (leaving bruises and marks) when the wife tries to bring up topics to discus and work thru?
No matter how gentle, loving, and understanding I try to frame things, he tries to shut down the conversation, then resorts to hurting himself, and then demands hugs. It scares me and he knows it's a childhood trauma for me.... He started to do it shortly after I divulged this to him, saying that I gave him the idea. He is not a fan of therapy, and hasn't had a good track record w it. Idk what to do... He says he does it to punish himself, but he only does it when I'm trying to work thru issues w him, thus we can never work thru anything and the issues remain
Any insights or advice? Idk if this is an adhd overwhelm behavior, or if he does it to avoid topics, change, and accountability?
Escape maintained behavior.. he is using it to escape the conversation
This sounds like a very toxic situation that you are in, and you cannot convince a man who is not ready to.
@@JakeWoodard thank u for chiming in! We've been separated to 3 years and it's scary to contemplate the next steps.
This is not even feminine behavior, this is toddler behavior.
Whatever you do, don’t give him attention when he does this. Let him know that these behaviors will result in you disengaging. However, you will be disengaging with your original issues still unresolved, which means that there was a wedge between you that he had an opportunity to remove through mature conversation, but he chose to do that shit instead. So how does he expect you to stay? You must refuse to mother him and absolutely do not give him a hug when he does that.
He's manipulating you. As you said - the behavior didn't start until you told him it's a childhood trauma of yours. He is using it against you to achieve whatever goal he has - in your case, to avoid working on issues, or for you to even bring up subjects that are uncomfortable for him. He is selfish, and I would consider this actually as abusive.