What Women Want In A Man - 5 Factors That Hook Women Like Crack
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- What Women Want In A Man - The 5 key factors that magnetically attract all women, and the other 4 factors you should never, ever use.
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After all these eons, men are often still baffled by trying to figure out what women want. Studying and interacting with women should reveal some clues about them. Unfortunately, listening to what a woman says she wants doesn't usually help that much, because a man's understanding will likely never be what she means. Every woman wants the whole package, but most know that's not realistic. And so the negotiation begins. The most critical requirement is that women want deep emotional intimacy.
Some things that folks assume women want -- which aren't necessarily true -- are: good looks, security, social status, and loyalty. Society believes all four of these to be important -- and it definitely won't hurt any man to meet these criteria -- but lacking one or more isn't usually a deal breaker. Some men are missing all four, and still plenty popular with the ladies.
The more critical minimum manly requirements, however, are confidence, a sense of humor, being detached as well as "edgy" and providing great sex. Any man who exhibits these characteristics shouldn't spend much time without a woman in his life. - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
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Actualized.org So far to what ive observed elsewhere. you dont have to look good be wealthy or educated to get a girl due to some dude i personally know...but hopefully you can give me a quick brief summary on what I should mainly do to get a girl friend....ill wait patiently.. thanks...at times I am still wondering how the pros do it.
Tin Vo See my video called How To Get A Girlfriend.
Actualized.org you are an immoral person. And i say this because you endorse and promote immoral and unfair female behaviour.
I believe life is always about a balnce, an equilibrium...and that means that what you give is what you recieve.
You can NOT give 1$ and expect to recieve 100$. this immoral mentality is basically being selfish and cheating the equilibrium i mentioned before (which others will have to overcompensate for your lack of input but exagerated output benefits), and it is exactly what you are forcing men to accept as normal/standard female behaviour.
And ill give you an example:
why do women like humor in men? because they typically lack humor themselves. Almost no succesfull standup comedian is a woman, and it's very easy to see how women usually are the first to get offended and dont understand humorous jokes.
So is it moral for a woman to expect to recieve something she can not give herself? according to you it is...and when you accept this immoral premise as valid, in this un-important example, you open the gates for this unfairness to be extrapolated to more important fields such as:
-requesting from the man to have intimate dirty sex but then be unattached with said woman...
First of all those 2 characteristic are mutually exclusive in a healthy human mind. How can you expect someone who isn't that focused in you, who has your interests at a secundary level of importance, to then be extra intimitate with you?
Second of all, is it fair for a woman to ask a man this but be unable to give it in return herself? Its almost always the woman who is clingy and overattached to the man in a healthy functioning relationship, so how can she morally expect from you to be the total opposite?... she can't
you are, as many woman, asking for everything you potentially can without noticing that you can't get all of those characterisitics from ONE healthy sane human, because they are mutually exclusive in many cases.
And i admit you are not the only type of men doing this, Pick UpArtists do the same, WITH THE BIG DIFFERENCE that they know at every second that they are faking all of those female requisites to get in their pants, and once they have achieved this goal, they stop faking and dump this delusional and immoral woman, to repeat the deed again and again...
Perpetuating(as you do) this delusional dream/unrealistic expectations of finding a functioning healthy man with all the mutually exclusive characteristics, and setting the bar so high up, no legitimately interested man will ever be even given the time/chance because of the unralistic expectations woman have been promoted to have
try to rebattle my comment points if you can, you seem like a rational man and i dont understand how can you still flow with the socialmedia delusional BS
allnamesarepicked Women are most attracted to detached men. Why? Because that's exactly what makes a man strong.
Your problem is that you haven't yet accept this and you're trying to turn men into women. If you want a healthy relationship with men, you have to understand how masculinity works. How it actually works! Not how you wish it would work.
The more you refuse to understand men, the bigger problems it will create for you with men.
Actualized.org ... you barely responded to any of my specific points... besides im a white MAN, not a woman as you have wrongly assumed.
I still have a moral issue with your advice, the overburden of responabilities you condone to put on men, and the lack if such on women. You sound literally like the average mainstream leftist media, the young turks for example, who rally for a only woman controlled wrold instead of equality between both sexes
It’s also important to note that some men enjoy the emotional stimulation too, I was dating a girl for a few months who was by far the hottest girl I’ve been with, but she just had a bland personality. Didn’t joke much nor did she appreciate my attempts to make her laugh and I got super bored with her and left. So some of those points are important for both men and women!
The problem with advice sometimes is that the human beings often take it to one extreme or the other. Yes men do care about personality. the same way that women do care about looks. Especially if you're looking for more than just a one-night stand. If you're looking to develop a relationship with someone yes you want them to have a good personality.
The problem is you're taking the advice from one extreme to the other. An epiphany that I realized recently that I sort of realized before but I realize even more right now how true it is in life in general, is that life is all about being balanced and things in life are not one way or the other. Men are not completely masculine women are not completely feminine. Men don't care only about looks and women don't care only about confidence.
I came to this conclusion recently when watching a video on TH-cam about do you need to be an a$$hole to led. It's free on TH-cam I recommend watching it pretty short and it's entertaining. There was a documentary about directors and if they need to be a$$holes to be a director. Ultimately the video comes to conclusion that everybody has their own style. However I think they missed a very important point which is that balance is key if you're too much of an a$$hole you need to be nicer if you're too nice you won't be forceful enough.
This combined with other things that I've learned over the years like different balance between different things. For example ideas such as should you be yourself or should you work on yourself. Should you be arrogant or should you be humble. Leo has a whole video that talks about contradiction like this. An answer I believe is balance.
In fact I would say this is a major Epiphany that I came to because balance is the answer to almost every problem that we have. If we're too far one way we often over correct and go the complete opposite way. Instead we should just go a little bit more over to the other side until we find a balance that works for us.
She doesn't like you? Too bad. Don't get stuck on her. Move on
Gladly!
or just play danganronpa
@@oumardiop1 🤣
Not really relevant to the content of the video.
exactly
Deal Breaker qualities:
1-Confidence
2-Humor
3-Detachment
4-Edginess/Adventurness
5-Intimate Dirty Sex
Likeable Qualities:
1-Good looks
2-Financial Security/provider role
3-Social Status
4-Loyalty
EXCELLENT JOB WELL DONE 👏✔👍😀👌🙌👏
What does detachment mean?
@@sanataj 13:17
Berlin Why is this in the danganronpa playlists?...
"Women, they're not that difficult to understand."
HEAD = EXPLODE!
9/ good looks 8/ security 7/ social status 6/ loyalty 5/ confidence 4/ humor 3/ detachment 2/ edgy guys (adventurous) 1/ intimate dirty sex
That is what only the slimy primitive organisms that live under stones are obsessed with.
lots of (good) sex
funny how most guys think good looks is the only thing that matters. in my experience confidence, charisma, and humor 100% are cheat codes.
One additional thing is that when a girl sees you with other attractive girls it can short circuit the whole thing and make them attracted to you regardless of all the "key factors"
you are exactly right...my wife is "stunning"she's a 10+, not bragging I can't stand her, but ppl were nicer to me, I seemed to get more respect, hell the girls would check her out more than the guys would and talk about a slob, I'm an eddie van halen lookin' jeans and t shirt type guy with long hair!
even I would say , when she sees you with not that beatiful girls .
Wooooo, 'm ugly, poor and I live in my parents basement. Call me ladies.
That’s what I like! Honesty! Well done, mate!
You are super desired
Lacking in the confidence department, man.
Hold on, this isn't Danganronpa
No one cares about whatever that is.
No man it is. This is a character who uses attraction to manipulate and set up the perfect murder and win
What? This isn't Danganronpa Goodbye Despair Episode 32. This is What Women Want In a Man.
I really think you nailed it here. the thing guys forget is that putting up a front of confidence isn't the same as feeling confident. as you said, for the most part women are far more emotional intelligent than guys. emotions don't have words, they are felt. words are like a third party observation from the logical side of the brain.
confidence is not arrogance. today we are bombarded with imagery of the arrogant man winning the fair maiden. sure, you may peak her interest with your peacocking and loud manner but this is merely exciting to her, it tickles her danger button. it is not a display of confidence. it's a cheap trick.
confidence is knowing yourself at the very deepest level. it's the stillness when you are completely comfortable with what you find there and an unwavering in your statement "I am". it's the coolness in the eyes of a predator. the peace made with our own mortality.
know yourself without reserve or apology and bring this to the relationship. she will have more than just a passing interest. she will want to follow you.
peace.
My last girlfriend said one of the things that attracted her to me first was the fact that I wasn't overly confident and was humble about my own talents. She was sick of guys over-playing their abilities. I'd rank humility pretty high if you want to attract a woman that is actually worth attracting.
Obnxious arrogance can be a turn-off, sure. Core confidence is still a must. But I find girls fall in love even with obnoxious arrogance. I play arrogant a lot with girls and they eat it up. You just gotta do it in a playful way so she knows you don't take yourself too seriously.
+Actualized.org A core sense of confidence sure, I agree with that. But I never play anything except being my true self, its the only way to find a really good match. Quality over quantity for me. A girl attracted to arrogance is not attractive for me, and looks are but one tiny aspect of what makes a woman attractive in my world.
+Actualized.org find one with some money so you can retire from your shit clown-job...
@@1wibble2Do you have your own world? Sounds like something a woman would say.
You actually don’t need to show _confidence per say._ You just need to avoid saying or do things that display insecurity. It doesn’t sound like there was anything you did that expressed insecurity.
It's quite simple I recently realized. As a man, do this :
- Own your shadow, your dark side. You'll become dangerous, but in control.
- Stop being a victim. Stop blaming others.
- Take personal responsibility for your life. Realize that your life is 100% your responsibility. You will gain your personal power back and your emotional independence.
What are the offspring of these things ? Confidence and detachment from the outcome. These things will naturally allow you completely and utterly stop objectifying women as the source of your sense of self-esteem or self-worth. You will stop demanding, expecting, controlling or manipulating THEM to make YOU happy. She will be free and you'll be unconditionally yourself.
You'll be able to just be who you are. You will become indifferent basically to rejection. You will then be able to be completely in your masculine core, be comfortable in your truth and women will naturally react to you in a very positive way.
I was the typical nice guy and I got often rejected. Lately, I've learned these things and at my job, I am constantly flirting and vibing with some of the hot waitresses. To a point where I feel now the other guys are starting to feel a bit jealous of me cause the girls respond super well to me. Since learning these things, I'm even kinder. I'm even more sweet, but I'm genuinely confident and authentic. Because I'm not objectifying them, even as I flirt with them, it's not creepy. They are very comfortable with me. Send me kisses, tell me sweet nothings, jokes, are being cute, do me little favors, tell me compliments, etc.
Am I getting laid by them ? No, but I don't need to to feel good as a man. That's the key. Your manhood is 100% your responsibility. When you are indifferent to the outcome, that's when you get good results. That will tell the girl that you are independent and that she won't need to "mother" you. You won't be needy or clingy with her. What happens is that mentality will not only help you with women, but with life and everyone.
Amazing mate, this is 👌👌
None of this matters if you’re fucking black.
I like that, apart from your dark side. What on does that mean? It makes me think of paedophiles, rapists and serial killers or other fetishes.
1750 Humor is obviously NOT a deal breaker. Looks are FAR more important than humor, get real. Most guys don't have a great sense of humor, and a lot of girls don't even like Mr. Funny Guys. Think Chris Farley got more chicks than Leonardo Di Caprio? Or even Justin Irritating Bieber? And besides...how is someone supposed to have a better sense of humor, practice your stand up? How much do women like posers? She will read your desperation and no matter what you wont be able to keep it up.
***** Nah....not being uptight and boring all the time is not the same as having a good sense of humor. This boy is talking out of his ass is whats up.
***** Yeah.....uptight people don't get chicks. Then pretty much every boxer on the planet would be childless, and Im pretty sure that isn't the case.
***** Jesus you're a dumb fuck. Have you even considered what you are saying, or are you just a follower of this skinny guru?
Big R no. humour over looks any day
As FART that im concern your RIGHT GUARD on your material; not everyone likes a JOKER in the room. Specially if your BATMAN.
Men's range of emotions: "We're either happy, sad, angry, or horny" -- I laughed my head off. This is so true. I always thought I was a very emotional guy, but this pretty much hits the whole range for me. Too funny, but true.
Berleezy we caught you🤣 wtf
Maybe he’s just strugglin’ you know?
I'd like it to be known that I just left a guy who was that edgy emotionally stimulating guy because he was not enough of the practical, loyal guy. I agree with what you're saying Leo, but balance is still key.
+Actualized.org Leo are you single I keep asking but you haven't responded to me yet haha ;b
You're correct Minah. A guy who is confident, is loyal as well as a good solutions provider, plus he shows kindness and a healthy sense of ambition and humor...he's probably a keeper.
@@minah2480 he too busy getting high af off of them shrooms
Hey I'm single ?
Why should we go through all that? why can't women do it for a change? we've been trying to impress women since the stone age. It's their turn now.
+Leon Reaper hahahahah it will never happen until you looks like your picture , women is beautifull and she is always taking the advantage of it in this world
+Leon Reaper nowadays they arise on the street and call us to do......but costs 30 euro
+Leon Reaper wheres the fun in that
+Leon Reaper Bumble dating App :D
+Leon Reaper if you want a girl and she does nothing, its your job to do something
whenever i hear “every woman...” i lose a reason to keep listening
Is a person who seeks validation from others really "actualized"? Would a Buddha seek to "hook women like crack"? lol. Will you finally love yourself once you have women "hooked" on you like desperate crackheads? Free yourself from the desire of such an outcome and be happy. You are here in this moment and that is enough.
The moment is just a little nicer when you got a hot girl in it ;)
...only if you are still at the stage in which you receive superficial validation from external forms, i.e., not really "actualized". Do you believe that healthy mature human relationships really involve one party being hooked on another "like crack?"
wulf67 Lol, that's a marketing slogan! What do you want me to say, "Watch this video and you will never care about having sex again?"
The question was, do you believe that healthy mature human relationships really involve one party being hooked on another "like crack?"
wulf67 No, but it is in a girl's nature to fall for the guy. Guys do it to. That's the nature of romantic love. The better man you become, the more women will get hooked on you. Cause you're just too awesome! But what I am supposed to do? Not be awesome?? Love comes up with ups and downs.
I agree with many of your points, you're hitting emotional connection right on target. In the beginning, what attracts a woman (from my view point) is truly a genuine personality, confidence, (it's so attractive) financial stability, moral ethics, sexual compatiblity, etc.. We are overwhelmed emotionally in the beginning from all of these things and the new relationship. Once all of the "new" wears off we have an OVERBEARING demand for emotional intimacy and support from the man we are with. This can be a tulmutuous time because men do not always know how to provide deep emotional support and women don't know how to proactivley ask for it. Women need emotional and physical bonding without sexual intimacy; holding hands, looking up at the stars, walks on the beach, etc. Men truly jeopardize the relationship when they stop courting us and stop spending personal intimate time with us.
Did Berlin Accidentally put this in this playlist (wow this blew up)
That's what's I'm Here to find out
Lmao I was coming here to see if anyone else saw
@@valentinmoscatello3282 ayyyyy Nagito
Our boi struggling 😔
I’m fr asking the same thing, what happened here 😂
Q. What do women want?
A. HIS Money, so she can buy the life she wants without earning it.
why was this in a berleezy danganronpa playlist-
I know right!
🤣
This apllies to low value women. Detachment is the worst thing for women, if you think we want that, you will always lose.
But detachment attracts men. I know it, I did it.
hey wait a minute
Berleezy my guy wtf is this doing here
Do you want to be a woman magnet? KNOW YOURSELF AND FOCUS ON YOURSELF! PERIOD!
false
+edymasta true
+Cabdalla Cabdi if that happened RSD wouldnt have been successful for 10 years, you could be true in some cases though, onle youve established a social base
I like how half the comment section is about berleezy having this in his dangan playlist and like half way of them didn’t even watch the video on top of that😂
Dude you've got even less hair than me, this give me renewed hope.
I'm done trying to figure them out!!!
+TheDrunkerKing hahahahaha
Kazuichi Soda probably put this in the playlist
Sounds like sumn he'd do 😔
😂
*wheeze 😂
I find that women often want opposing or nonsensical characteristics in a man. Funny but also serious. Confident but not cocky. Outgoing and adventurous but stable and secure. Ambitious but still wants him to pay attention to her. Wealthy and charitable but you better spend money on her. Good looking but she doesn't want to feel like she has to compete with other women for you. There is no "win" in any of this. I'll never understand it, I don't think anyone ever will.
A B it's called balance and acting according the situation
This is solid gold!! Wow!! I've been studying and applying male to female social dynamics and attraction for 8 years and he is nailing some of the core fundamental aspects to it all. Take notes!! Seriously take notes! Get a notebook or journal and write down everything you learn from others and your own experiences, over time, you'll be amazed by how much better you get with women.
I didn't think YT ads could get any worse than Tai Lopez. But now there's Scientology. LOL
+LorenzoNW I blocked Tai cause ya'll are whining about him. Oh the irony.
That's so funny! Sometimes ya just can't win. Haha
This guy knows what he talks about. Good video. Thanks.
man wtf do u even have a life i see u in every of his vids replying to anyone "you dont fuck" "you will fuck"
iLoveDianabol1995 hahaha truuuuue!
iLoveDianabol1995 He acts like the determining factor of people's lives or something!? Lmao fortune teller I suppose 🙄
He better he did all this research
I've been told that the answer is: EVERYTHING
Famous with alot of money and skills so he can cary her ass ...
That’s right!
Only money
Introduction to What Women Want in a Man (00:00)
Why It's Important to Understand What Women Want (01:01)
The Importance of Not Asking Women Directly (01:51)
Women Want Deep Emotional Intimacy (03:15)
Understanding Women's Social and Emotional Dynamics (03:29)
What Women Look for in Men: The Complete Package (05:01)
Market Dynamics in Relationships (05:59)
Women's Ideal Traits in a Man (07:06)
Detailing Core Traits Women Desire (08:33)
Surprising Traits That Aren't as Important as Expected (08:52)
Core Deal Breakers for Women (11:15)
Critical Importance of Confidence and Humor (12:02)
The Value of Detachment and Edginess (13:14)
The Significance of Intimate and Adventurous Relationships (14:23)
Traits That Are Less Critical But Desired (17:15)
Focusing on What Really Attracts Women (18:09)
Improving Essential Traits to Attract High-Quality Women (19:22)
Summary of Ideal Traits for Attracting Women (22:27)
The Ideal Scenario Women Dream About (23:06)
Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Personal Growth (23:58)
Call to Action and Introduction to the Newsletter (24:15)
Simple truths are the hardest to accept
The reason why it is so hard for so many men is simply because a woman subconciously compares us to the dozens and dozens of other men they know in their lifes at the same time.
It's natural that then it is very hard to be the one they want. You really have to proof to be the best of them. Sometimes this is not even possible with the hardest amount of work because there still remains auch a thing as a talent for leadership, provider and a mentally quick witted person who is able to act very quickly and kick down possible family threateners like James Bond if the don't stop when the confident stands in front of the family!
I am sorry guys if I disappoint some of you now, but it is really naive to belief that for a really extraordinary pretty women (which you would call "a 10") it is enough to be just good at "game". Look at the thousands and thousands of offers they get each day from extraordinary rich and influencial guys. If you don't have a VERY(!) ambitious goal where she can really feel DEEP INSINDE her, that you are dilegently and quickly improving and getting closer towards your goal, YOU HAVE NO CHANCE TO BEAT THESE SUPERGUYS!!
im not caring, im not spontaneous, im not emotional, im not nurturing, am i a man?
Hi emina
What's up with you today 🤔😏👀🙂😉☺🤔
Confidence and detachment are what I personally find most attractive
You love narcissists don't ya. You need my younger brother, such an arrogant successful narcissistic idiot.
@ Rachel... from your aura you seem to have a cute and rare personality!
you don't know what you want
The Truth is HARD to believe The Lord alone knows who you are referring to.
Saxon Greene ha ha ha
Great video thank you! I'm a woman and still watched it out of curiosity and all you said is really true! Keep up the good work man, you're amazing! :)
Good to see women who understand.
This is a pretty good list. I do think that both the male and the female should strive for self embetterment. I noticed a bunch of guys in the comments section were like "why should I change myself?" You are right. You should be liked for who you are. The foundation does not have to change but why not make better the things you already have? Everyone should have goals, a sense of humor, deep connections with people, and good communication. Some of these will be intuitive and others you can learn and improve. It won't just help in relationships, but also in the quality of your life which is in my opinion, a bit -and by a bit I mean a significant amount-more important. The other stuff can come later.
+Maryann G. (MU QT) I agree. It should be two sided. I quite sad when Leo said 'supermodel' & 'pornstar' stuff... Yeah, that's the first thing, chronologically---same as woman isn't it? But absolutely not the most important thing.
so women dont care about moral ethics. it wasnt listed. It makes sense though. You see it all the time.
Informative, accurate, insightful, practical, valuable, applicable...
All women care about in a man is how much he has in the bank. That's why they do not go for looks, only the zero's behind all the other numbers in his bank account. Truth.
Have all of the 4 dealbreakers down except needyness. I didn't know this was a character trait in me, and need to solve it ASAP. Had a really good woman leave me because of this. Thanks Leo!
I am a woman and... this is totally correct
I'm a very "self-aware" woman and you are brilliant and super insightful. I have to say that character/substance/values are number one....Kindness. Integrity. Intelligence. Honesty. Let's be honest...any woman worth her salt requires those things in a man, and will give so much in return. A man that comes through for her....is there for her...for both security and her emotional needs...is her hero...and she will adore him and give all of herself in return...all the love, attention, affection, and adoration he could ever want.
You are a real man! The bitter guys, so rampant these days, are total wimps. You have handled the pitfalls and disappointments you have experience with women like a man. The bitter guys are incredibly unattractive. You are not a whiner, you are not bitter or anger...You're a real man Leo! :-)
Total Rubbish and you can see proofs everywhere.
There are many women who are with guys with no money, sense of humour, confidence etc.
Just look around yourself, your friends, colleagues, fellow workers etc.
According to top psychologists women choose partners who remind them relations they had at home while they were children.
It seems familiar to them and they feel safe (even if they come from bad families)
That`s why people from pathological families very often end up having toxic partners and relations and vice versa.
These women attract the same type of men all the time because they choose them subconsciously.
Yes, they can change that but it will take some work
Guys do not watch rubbish videos like this as it creates confusion and your knowledge will be based on rubbish later.
Just, for example, buy a best seller book from an expert in this area (no from YT guru) and you will be fine.
It is quite visible that the guy in the video is not the type (bald, very skiny,..)
whom attractive women would like so he is probably trying to find explanation to...
I see on my right that he has a video about the confidence. It is very interested because on this video he choking on air from time to time which is the very first sign
of luck of confidence. Typical theoretical guy.
Remember there is a big difference between what women want and choose!
Just be honest and yourself and you will meet (if you did not meet already) a partner who will appreciate you.
This guy shaves his head. In my book, that must mean he is automatically some kind of brilliant Guru. How can you have a shaved head and not be the coolest dude ever?
100% agree!
He looks like The Mask
That's why they call them enlightened; their heads are shining!
Absolutely correct for American women. Women in other countries, the mix differs. Great video! I don't know how you talk that long without notes.
If you want to get women focus on yourself and they will recognize it and flock to you, or don't put them on a pedestal when you talk to them because if she thinks that she is better than you its over.
You mean woman actually want to be worse than men? Shocking!
we want a man that takes responsibility for his actions, commitments - who has the ability to show his emotions when needed, a responsible person and a person who works full time to provide for his woman or family. Qualities I do not see in the men from the years 1985 till now...
That's not who you're initially attracted to though.
Terri Robison
then quit demanding equality...
***** Yes Johnny B. I know exactly what you are saying. Unfortunately, these girls and grown-ups do not realize this until it is too late. I myself passed up these great qualities in guys while I was in high school and I actually married a guy who was the tall, dark handsome guy but with no MORAL CODE. Divorced him after 3 years... I am aware....
Terri Robison Women take NO responsibilities for anything.... they use their VAGINA and a get out of jail free card.
Terri Robison Were you able to nail down a beta provider after that?
I’m just looking for kindness. Genuine kindness and someone who inspires me to be the best version of myself.
I agree completely. However, in reality, giving women the "whole package" even the five (confidence, humor, sex etc.) over the long term (years) is exhausting. You're better off putting your energy into being a Navy Seal or Astronaut.
The whole package isn't for them, it's for you!
@@ActualizedOrg is this apply in country like India?
im here bc berlin accidentally put this in the playlist LMAOOO 😂😂
I think what all women may agree on are those:-
We want from a man
1- honesty and loyalty
2- good communication skills / no anger issues
& willing to compromise and cooperation
3- respect and appreciation
4- know how to express his love to her
5- to be very attracted to her
6- Ambitious & passionate about What he like to do
Shortly...
make her feel good about her self
& be unique and interesting person
Yes!
I have someone just like this, he is no longer friend zoned.
Hope this gives someone a little hope, be her friend first. But be a genuine friend. Took him 6 years.. but he got me.💜🙂
"never listen to a women abt what she wants from a man"
My experience is that men and women with shopping lists aren't worth having. Don't listen to this guy, he's wrong. Work on your character - examine yourself and where you find flaws - change them. True confidence comes from knowing who you are and facing yourself with honesty. You will attract like kind. Decent worthy women are attracted to real men of character -- period. Shallow women who are not worthy can be prey to the same kind of man. Who are you? Find out. This guy is kinda pathetic really. For long term happiness, with or without a woman, develop your character -- bottom line.
"Work on your character - examine yourself and where you find flaws - change them...."
well thats what the video is trying say!!
All these experts on women posting videos on how to get laid. I have an idea: Why don't you put up some pictures of you hanging out with a bunch of hot chicks?? Then you'll have my attention.
a stupid question here but does the name you reference rsdtylersnpics...does he have rsd by any chance?
OMG , I can`t say how much i thank you for this video . I met that amazing girl, and we like each other , in the procces of knowing each other thing started to get a little bit numb , i knew i did something wrong . Then i found your video , i realized i`m missing 4 of your dealbreakers , i only had the looks and the humor part ... but i was soo needy and atached to her , made her the center of my everyday ... So i started to get more detached from her and not being so needy. I had some work i started kind of ignoring her .... she didn`t stop calling me after that and be much more interested in me , i`m still working on the others , but i think i`m going in the right way ! THANK YOU SO MUCH ! (sorry for my bad english)
Women and men are both human beings we are not a different species. The idea that "all woman" think a certain way is ridiculously sexist and stupid. Be fulfilled in your own life before looking for a relationship and when you meet someone take a genuine interest in who that individual is and just be yourself- simple. Goes for men and women.
I am a woman and this is more than 200% accurate. Definitely explained some relationships in my life.
I need it B a d how about you
Always found it interesting to know how women felt about Leo's teachings. I always imagine his audience to be 100% men
Thank you for sharing!
@@edkuehn4007 - Slither back under your stone quickly, before another slimy organism takes it.
But where does that leave all the average girls, or lower than average girls? It's not very nice language. What is the majority of males - average or way lower than the average women going to do? There are not enough top hot women for all of them.
I'm very happy to have found you. You make sense. No games needed. Straight masculine quality.
It's true that women desire deep emotional intimacy, are social creatures, are free flowing, spontaneous and relationship bound creatures. And, it's true that though good looks, security and social status draw a women to a man it's not what will keep her in his life. These traits may get her attention to come closer and take a look, but they are not the qualities women seek. I appreciate you putting into categories what awakens a women's spirit and soul. I agree that we seek men of confidence & detachment, mental strength, one who will lead and provide options for her when she's lost in her emotions and dysfunctional relations. We seek Humor and Adventure, as you say, but truly it's emotional stimulation, so that we may keep in touch with our delicate feminine nature to be able to reciprocate a mans desire for intimacy, closeness, and being the provider/protector. And finally, I agree that we long for the dirty & intimate sex because, I think, it's means of connecting both needs: physical and emotional. Thank you for your work. I personally thinks it's awesome! Keep it up.
LMAOOOO BERLIN WAS FR WATCHING THIS I CANT-
I'm gonna be honest: the only way I would ever go PUA is to attract a girl and treat her like sh*t just like every woman has consistently treated me.
There was a time when I would have treated a girl like gold... now I don't believe women even deserve that. Consequently, I'm never going PUA.
Asshole = Nice Guy + Time.
+LynnJynh9315 Very true
Everyone knows this by default. You are born with this knowledge (we'd have gone extinct by now if that wasn't the case) and it gradually unlocks with puberty. It's just that some are unluckier than others, get sad and/or frustrated with their bad luck and click videos like this where someone tells them "the secrets you aren't aware of". That is the sad but true reality.
It doesn't mean that you should sulk and never care about it again, but it also doesn't mean that your frustration is unjustified and you're just doing everything wrong (like this video suggests).
In most first world societies the younger generations, especially millenials, (not just women) are incredibly biased towards certain sterotypes, because that's what they're told they should be looking for. And if you don't fit the (incredibly shallow and boring in my eyes) norm, you're often already disqualified before you even get a chance.
_"Any man who exhibits these characteristics shouldn't spend much time without a woman in his life."_
I would testify under oath that this is complete and utter bullshit.
This video would've worked 20 years ago, but today's society is way different mate.
“guy are calm and stoic. we're either this or that or horny.“ I had to stop the video and laugh.
oh and... loyalty is on top of my list. to be honest, i think every woman has her own list/order, even if you say we don't psychoanalize ourselves that much.
These points are the result and the reflection of inner process. Also they are interrelated. If you are confident, you are free to choice any interesting activity, that becomes a passion. In that, you’re detached. That creates joy, and a good ground for humour and making friends. Which leads to sex and sexual skills. All that keeps that lifestyle going.
But there is the vibe, the initial energy behind that.
The problem with this video is that it talks only about the first encounter / initial stages of a relationship. So unless you plan to date around until you're freaking 70 or go through 5 marriages taking another approach will be necessary. Sorry, but while learning how to "get" women can be actually achieved, being in a good relationship is a pretty different thing. There's a qualitative leap between the two, if you know what I mean.
12:20 Not all guys are a flat line emotionally. I'm a highly sensitive person to the extent that I'm also an empath; I am very complex emotionally and can sense the emotional energies of others and what they're feeling. I know you're generalizing, but there are still far more highly and deeply emotional guys out there than you would be led to believe. The problem is, like women and their love of sex, men are pressured by society to keep quiet about their sensitivity. Unfortunately, because everyone seems to equate vulnerability with weakness and effeminacy, there are very strong social stigmas against sensitive men.
Jeremy Burleson 💀
The Ultimate Mario Fan good for you
Frédéric Chopin you are correct!😜
Highly sensitive person??? What sort of guy refers to themselves in this way?? You are screwed sunshine and are going to be taken to the cleaners, it sounds like you will put a woman on a pedestal and will then be shocked when she doesn't respect you for kissing her arse.
When I think back to Uni loads of the female teachers to be were the worse for playing around and getting laid and these are to be teaching the next batch of kids. God help us, the age of internet dating, selfies etc. etc. means people can be choosey and constantly looking for better things, trading up. The look at me, entitled women of today are hard work and it's getting worse and if you get married, have kids and things go south you are taken to the cleaners like my brother and one of my best mates and have to start from scratch.
Modern day feminism blurs with man hating far too much. Bad times all round.
My scores on these traits, the important ones first!
Confidence: 7/10
Humour - high energy: 5/10
Detachment - non neediness: 6/10
Adventurous - Boldness: 6/10
Sex: 6/10
Looks: 8/10
Social Status - celebrity: 6/10
Security - financial security: 8/10
Loyalty: 7/10
You ain't. No celebrity
@@ManiNassah that's why he said 6/10... do you know his social circle?
Flawless analysis.
Please lord let berleezy return back to this video and see all of these comments 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh man as a woman this really helped me understand the problems I’m experiencing in my relationship. My man is a provider but there’s a couple other guys who have stimulated my emotions 😂
R u really a man 👨 ?
This is a real nice video of Berlin playing Danganronpa
BERLIN THIS ISNT DANGAN!! YOU GOOD??
"You don't even need to be loyal to the girl." It's a good thing you've figured out how not to care what other people think, or else you would feel like an ass.
berlin, you wanna tell us something?
He's not just telling you, he's screaming it at you by putting something like this on the playlist 😂
As a woman I have to disagree in one crucial respect: fidelity/loyality. Once a man has been unfaithful to me (no matter how deep my feelings and how long we've been together) it's completely over and I never look back. Some women may take back a cheater, but others like me will not. Also men who are 'detached' are almost always narcissists. Big red flag!
Speaking as a female, I am completely agree and I don't know one female who likes a "detached" guy. That a HUGE sign that the guy is a complete scumbag who will screw around on you and not care. This guy said in the beginning of his video he figured out the answers himself about what women wanted, and never actually asked a woman. Maybe he should have asked a woman. This is about as inaccurate as those "what a man wants" articles written by women in a womans magazine.
*****
exactly! I feel sorry for the men who follow this advice, or worse who believe that "all" women are a certain way (i.e. they want men with large penises and a ton of cash). This is simply NOT TRUE, there are many good women out there who just want decent men.
absolutely right...you forgot to mention men who are detached are usually screwing around.
Women like power and vulnerability.
That's it, those two cannot exist at the same time so you need to have one or the other.
The rest of the points are fleeting and are things that change over time, you don't want your woman to divorce you when you get older and ruin the future of your children.
This thought process is faulty.
So when I was checking out all of the videos...
There was *all the Danganronpa videos* in that playlist!
So, there was no extras?
Nope, there was *no extras*
TRUTH BULLET> PLAYLIST ACCOUNT
NO THATS WRONG!
B R E A K ! !
Actually, that’s not so true... what was found in there was a video on 5 steps to becoming a man. You would’ve only knew that had you checked Berleezy’s playlist!
He hit them points tho. Thanks for sharing :)
1. good looks
2. loyalty
3. social status
4.security
5. Confident
6. humorous
7. not needy detached
8. Edgy adventurous
9. Intimate dirty sex with..
I'm still lacking what's wrong with me ?
this is what a woman wants
Intimate ..And Dirty. Got it! Thanks.
Is that a picture of Bas Rutten?
Don't shit in her mouth Qamar, we went over this, thats not what dirty means.
LMAO
@@colloredbrothers what if she says "please shit in my mouth"?
Berlin going thru it😭
Women will say to each other things that they will never tell any man. One is that when the man "knows" what she wants without asking or being told its a home run for them. Figuring out the "wiring" differences between men and women helps both. Women do want a man they respect and have many many ways to "test" men to determine this. Knowing these tests ahead of time and making sure you have the proper response every time is a necessity. Your vid is hitting upon the science of this, good job!
BERLEEZY HAHAHAHA
Oh but uh, good luck with the women, bro
Did this guy have any girlfriends at all? It's all about money and power. Nothing else matters that much.
Seems like you are dating the wrong kind of girls. JMO
***** If you are paying women to like you then you are doing it wrong. When I hear guys say "women only want money" then it's usually the case that they are trying to date women that are out of their league. The man that is superficial will look for a superficial woman.Try going deeper and looking for some substance of character..If you see her as a pretty face and a nice ass then don't be shocked if she sees you as a bank account and a free lunch.
There is no substance or character in women.This guy is correct.Women want money and power in a men,thats all.
how old are you?
Desert Trekker yes obviously all 3.52 billion women around the world want exactly the same things.
I watched this video 5 years ago and still going back to it in 2021
Yes Leo is the Best
He's the Bomb 💣💣💣
What women need, Danganronpa episode 32
Lol you're 100000% right
My ex was funny and good in bed that's about it, and I kept him around for way too long
I had the same thing happen...to the extreme, she was a manipulator deluxe not to mention a succubus, I tried so hard with her, I guess she thinks "her toy broke" "not man enough to handle a severe toxic event, beat it only to contract crps...that took me down, but I had just beaten a poisoning which caused kidney failure, stroke, encephalitis and near heart failure and beat it ALL w/o 1 single side effect/affect, that was nothing compared to CRPS!
you didn't hear ? he was funny and good at bed that's good but he wasnt rich i think maybe this is why she didn't like him ?
The Truth is HARD to believe my moneys on you truth...
The Truth is HARD to believe lol you have no idea but no that's definitely not why. he wasn't rich but had a good job making a decent amount of money. the issues we had are to long to say here
very well explained...maybe its the best video on youtube
omg! liked your other videos about finances~ but not this! what I watched of it at least!
The best factors arer to: live a full life, create time for your creative endeavours daily, love yourself deeply, release all the old beliefs holding you back, take 100% responsibility for your life/world/and what you create, be honest, and then again learn to love yourself so much that you bring in a person that loves themselves too and you can create magic! Like attracts like!
This episode of dangan is fucking fire.
Confidence, Detachment, Humor, Edginess and Sex.
I think every body needs to learn and improve those five features to have more interesting and happy life. Great video. I learned something Today.
stop chasing after women!!! dont try to impress a women. let them make the move.
And end up being an incel !! .
Don't chase a woman? Ok...good luck living the rest of your life alone Mr. Beta Male 😂😂
This is the dumbest thing I’ve ever read