It's all about ego, the ego in western world is so preponderant, like we desperately need to say something, to be something, to achieve something, forgetting to just be, and not project on others our ego.
by the grace of ALLAH THE ONE AND ONLY GOD. OUR PURPOSE HERE ON EARTH IS : To Pray to the One and Only God ALLAH , Jesus is a servant and prophet of ALLAH, ALLAH IS THE ONE AND ONLY GOD, and Jesus is a prophet just like all other prophets (Moses, David, Noah, Jacob, Muhammad, etc...) . THERE IS ONE AND ONLY GOD : ALLAH , AND HE HAS NO COMPANIONS ,NO SONS, HE IS DIVINE !!!Don't allow yourselves to talk this disrespectfully about GOD . Jesus is a servant and prophet of ALLAH , he was born without a father just like Adam was created without parents. It was one of his miracles . The first thing he said in the craddle is : { (19:30) The child cried out: "Verily I am Allah's servant. He has granted me the Book and has made me a Prophet (19:31) and has blessed me wherever I might be and has enjoined upon me Prayer and Zakah (purifying alms) as long as I live; (19:32) and has made me dutiful to my mother. He has not made me oppressive, nor bereft of God's blessings. (19:33) Peace be upon me the day I was born and the day I will die, and the day I will be raised up alive." (19:34) This is Jesus, the son of Mary; and this is the truth about him concerning which they are in doubt. (19:35) It does not befit Allah to take for Himself a son. Glory be to Him! When He decrees a thing He only says: "Be" and it is. (19:36) (Jesus had said): "Indeed Allah is my Lord and your Lord, so serve Him alone. This is the Straight Way." } Don't let the mecreants who falsified the original Bible mislead you into falsehood and lead you in hell with them. Look up Dr.Zakir Nayk about the subject, he has learned the original Bible by heart, see the truth with your own eyes unstead of believing some mecreants who's destiny in the hereafter is HELL
And as we strive to "be someone" and idolize prominent figures, we gradually erase the value of countless others throughout history who simply lived. It's truly sad.
I needed to hear this. If I focus on MY tasks life becomes much more simpler. I can't control what other people are expecting me to do. Thank you for sharing your tidbit of what you read in the book.
The thing you understand as you communicate with people is - very rarely will you change their way of thinking or mode of operation through being overbearing and interrupting their 'tasks'. People are largely stubborn and it takes too much energy enciting them for change.
Was doomscrolling on youtube, watched first 13 seconds of the video until the author said the book’s title where I decided to read it by myself, and I am so grateful to something that dropped that video in my recommendation and something that forced me to read this book without literally any reason. thank you for creating this video, without you, I would never find this book
You are such a cool, self aware guy! It‘s so rare to find people like you who are able to talk freely and reflect about their mistakes. Your videos are such high quality, I really hope your channel gets more attention.
I read it half first and took an year break to realise that all whats said in that book and the philosophy shared is so practical and the a very positive perspective of life . What i could conclude was that its our choice whether we want to be liked , disliked or happy or unhappy . Happiness is a choice . If you are sad in maximum cases it means you want yourself to be sad , and want yourself to feel like victim and play the blame game onto life cuz its feels quite easy and non judgemental to do that ... But positive is somewhat beyond all this stuff and thats what this japanese philosophy book was about ! Long comment gotta say !
It is great of you to reflect on your past behaviour and change the bad stuff. If someone texted me a million times and I don't answer for whatever reason, it just tells me, that they are very impatient and they don't think before texting. I'm gonna avoid them, but I tell them that. A good advice for situations like that is: did the recipient read the message at all? If not, don't text until they answer.
Ive been insecure and a bit needy with a friendship lately and alsow letting myself get squished with other's lives so this really helps to hear right now thank you ❤
great video !!!!! i’m currently learning about what is my “task”, what am i responsible for and are others ppl task and responsibilities in therapy , it’s kinda hard to me to make a division between lines since ive been always taking care of others and trying to not be hated but this way of seeing things is really life changing and it takes a weight off your shoulders. i’ll definitely read this book, in fact this book popped up in my amazon recommendations lol
Been going thru this, detaching from the narcissists in my life and trying to create a life that I actually like, you put into words something I knew to be true, but because I was brought up to feel shameful for having basic human needs, its been difficult to fully embody. I really appreciate the way you've described this philosophy, I will definitely read the book.
Bro if you sign up for Amazon affiliates, you can link the book in your description or comments section. When your fans purchase the book using your link, you’ll receive a small commission. Just a suggestion, loved the video.
I have this on my shelf, will definitely reading it soon. I’ve seen the book on audiobook sites and there I think he also have a book called The courage to be happy or something, I remembered that he have two books, since I’ve heard a lot of good things about the one you talk about here.
4:42 I wish people would stop looking at it like that. I give advice because i want to help. If they assign a hierarchy off that then that's their own issue. If someone wants to disregard my advice completely that's fine, hell even tell me why it wouldn't work for you. That's okay too. But don't assume my intentions. And if you want to know my intentions just ask. 5:19 For me conforming is the same as death. Issue is that i am pressured to conform so that i can make money to live. I'd be fine never having a job and making stuff for fun all my life but eventually I'd starve. So I'm not sure what to do with any of it anymore. I can't live the way they want but if i don't i won't live at all.
It's a statement for people doing shit with their lives. Not those of us who spend all day typing online or doing nothing but act pessimistic and see rational feedback as "hate".
I think there are sometimes where people just cant do their tasks and they need your help and its okay to go out of your way to help them with their lives at times. But ultimately yes you each learn to manage your own.
Great job, summarizing one part of this excellent book, it's a good formula. Since you love unsolicited advice: If you haven't run into it yet, you might also be interested in Integral Theory and AQAL, by Ken Wilber, particularly the quadrants. They are another form of task separation but instead draw the notion of subjective vs objective aspects and individual vs collective into a four box matrix. When you introduce another, you just duplicate the individual areas, one set for each participant. This results in considering what our own minds, behaviors, our culture and our physical environment contribute to any given interaction and offer a nice tool for reflection or prediction.
Great concepts dude. Thanks for sharing. If I may, please... if you switch that camera from af-c to af-s it'll help the talking head portion be silky smooth and not jumpy... Sorry, that's my unsolicited advice for the day...... Wait, did I just miss the message here?
Thing about unsolicited advice, is that 99.3% of the time, the things you want to say that could actually make a difference and could be incresibly relevant won’t ever be solicited, and the pre disposition to them is rarely an open minded receptivity. I mean, if we only spoke when someone asked our opinions on something, how quiet would you be throughout your life?
Damn ive been a bad friend. Ive been trying to get a connection with my friend who seems a bit lost but really hes just being him and ive been pretending like his way is wost then mine and ive been meddling and giving unwanted advice to him. Ive been wanting him to avoid mistakes but those are for him to learn and i need to just let go and be there if or when he falls down. I shouldnt be his guide i just need to be the rock on the side of the road so he knows where he is.
Wow man you doubled your subscriber count in less than a week? That's pretty impressive. You deserve it, great video and I can't wait to watch what you've made already
Read this book, got me out of myself spiraling out from my surrounding, I also read it twice.
It’s free on youtube as audiobook.
Awesome i'll pin this so people know, thanks for sharing :)
It's all about ego, the ego in western world is so preponderant, like we desperately need to say something, to be something, to achieve something, forgetting to just be, and not project on others our ego.
too true :)
by the grace of ALLAH THE ONE AND ONLY GOD. OUR PURPOSE HERE ON EARTH IS : To Pray to the One and Only God ALLAH , Jesus is a servant and prophet of ALLAH, ALLAH IS THE ONE AND ONLY GOD, and Jesus is a prophet just like all other prophets (Moses, David, Noah, Jacob, Muhammad, etc...) . THERE IS ONE AND ONLY GOD : ALLAH , AND HE HAS NO COMPANIONS ,NO SONS, HE IS DIVINE !!!Don't allow yourselves to talk this disrespectfully about GOD . Jesus is a servant and prophet of ALLAH , he was born without a father just like Adam was created without parents. It was one of his miracles . The first thing he said in the craddle is : { (19:30) The child cried out: "Verily I am Allah's servant. He has granted me the Book and has made me a Prophet (19:31) and has blessed me wherever I might be and has enjoined upon me Prayer and Zakah (purifying alms) as long as I live; (19:32) and has made me dutiful to my mother. He has not made me oppressive, nor bereft of God's blessings. (19:33) Peace be upon me the day I was born and the day I will die, and the day I will be raised up alive." (19:34) This is Jesus, the son of Mary; and this is the truth about him concerning which they are in doubt. (19:35) It does not befit Allah to take for Himself a son. Glory be to Him! When He decrees a thing He only says: "Be" and it is. (19:36) (Jesus had said): "Indeed Allah is my Lord and your Lord, so serve Him alone. This is the Straight Way." } Don't let the mecreants who falsified the original Bible mislead you into falsehood and lead you in hell with them. Look up Dr.Zakir Nayk about the subject, he has learned the original Bible by heart, see the truth with your own eyes unstead of believing some mecreants who's destiny in the hereafter is HELL
And as we strive to "be someone" and idolize prominent figures, we gradually erase the value of countless others throughout history who simply lived. It's truly sad.
Just be.
i can’t even explain how perfectly this was timed with my life. i feel like the universe is directly speaking to me.
I was having the exact same thought. I hope a lot of people are having the same feeling - learning this is unbelievably life-changing.
The cinematography omg, I’m so glad I stumbled across this, so well written filmed and made
Thankyou!! I have to give credit to my location it did most of the work haha
me too, these are really youtube gems (and i love the content, it's beautiful)
Thanks for the “unsolicited advice” man! Just keep going!
My pleasure :)
I needed to hear this. If I focus on MY tasks life becomes much more simpler. I can't control what other people are expecting me to do. Thank you for sharing your tidbit of what you read in the book.
I’m 69 and have a great life but it took me ages to learn your wisdom
The thing you understand as you communicate with people is - very rarely will you change their way of thinking or mode of operation through being overbearing and interrupting their 'tasks'.
People are largely stubborn and it takes too much energy enciting them for change.
very true :)
Was doomscrolling on youtube, watched first 13 seconds of the video until the author said the book’s title where I decided to read it by myself, and I am so grateful to something that dropped that video in my recommendation and something that forced me to read this book without literally any reason. thank you for creating this video, without you, I would never find this book
Glad you liked it :)
I'm in a gaslighting situation that has all but ruined me for wanting to be liked by everyone...
This is priceless info
Hope it helps
Get ready for this to go viral!
Fr
The algorithm has found it!
You are such a cool, self aware guy! It‘s so rare to find people like you who are able to talk freely and reflect about their mistakes. Your videos are such high quality, I really hope your channel gets more attention.
Exactly what I needed to hear at exactly the right moment.
Thank you for the great video and the book recommendation. Look forward to reading it.
I read it half first and took an year break to realise that all whats said in that book and the philosophy shared is so practical and the a very positive perspective of life .
What i could conclude was that its our choice whether we want to be liked , disliked or happy or unhappy .
Happiness is a choice . If you are sad in maximum cases it means you want yourself to be sad , and want yourself to feel like victim and play the blame game onto life cuz its feels quite easy and non judgemental to do that ... But positive is somewhat beyond all this stuff and thats what this japanese philosophy book was about !
Long comment gotta say !
Love the insight :)
It is great of you to reflect on your past behaviour and change the bad stuff.
If someone texted me a million times and I don't answer for whatever reason, it just tells me, that they are very impatient and they don't think before texting. I'm gonna avoid them, but I tell them that.
A good advice for situations like that is: did the recipient read the message at all? If not, don't text until they answer.
the quality is wild! Thank you for the video, food for thought 100%
that is really really eye-opening! we gotta focus on ourselves more than what is thrown at us by others
Ive been insecure and a bit needy with a friendship lately and alsow letting myself get squished with other's lives so this really helps to hear right now thank you ❤
love your videography and editinggg!! Amazing book as well
Your high school story is all of us at one point in our lives.
Simplify your life.
Build better relationships by respecting boundaries.
Live authentically without being tethered to others' opinions or actions.
Well said and well done! Let us all do our best on our tasks
This is some solid stuff dude. Thanks!
Profundity: deep insight; great depth of knowledge or thought.
Thanks
great video !!!!! i’m currently learning about what is my “task”, what am i responsible for and are others ppl task and responsibilities in therapy , it’s kinda hard to me to make a division between lines since ive been always taking care of others and trying to not be hated but this way of seeing things is really life changing and it takes a weight off your shoulders.
i’ll definitely read this book, in fact this book popped up in my amazon recommendations lol
It's not always obvious to me either, but i'm glad it's helping best of luck :)
I dont mind having the unpopular opinion life is too short to pretend
True
Thank you for this man, it's what i needed to hear
No problem :)
I'm a 4th generation American Japanese but learned a little Japanese growing up. The term for this attitude is called "fuku-u-ne"!
Been going thru this, detaching from the narcissists in my life and trying to create a life that I actually like, you put into words something I knew to be true, but because I was brought up to feel shameful for having basic human needs, its been difficult to fully embody. I really appreciate the way you've described this philosophy, I will definitely read the book.
I recommend taking a deep look into the concept of wabi-sabi next. It's intimately connected.
yeah dude. i love wasabi
I'll check it out thanks :)
@@LukeDashwood Yugen too :)
This is incredible, I only watch 53 seconds & already our experience of the book is extremely similar!
Brilliant, the self awareness on display with the little comments and texts haha love it!
That was actually helpful, will read.
A really good summary of the book; actually makes me want to read the book and tells me more than what a summary would
you should!!
I am grateful for this video.
I am already deeply shaken by the word profundity ... now I have to have this book 💖
Amazing video man, I'm glad this video appeared in my feed
Great video brother. The music, the views, the life lessons - everything came together perfectly. Subbed.
Thanks man appreciate it :)
Bro, keep it up with your tasks and don’t give up!
Great video. Surprised you have less than 600 subs. Wish you the best, I learned a lot from this video. Thanks :)
Loved the video! Keep it up 👍
500 to 3.9k!!! New sub dope vid keep it up. Also thank you for the fresh reminder to channel my ego and focus on my self.
I love these kinds of videos! Thank you for the unsolicited advice :)
you're very welcome :)
Exactly what I wanted to hear at the moment ❤ thank you
thank you for this video! needed it right now. keep making videos
Thank you! Will do!
Bro if you sign up for Amazon affiliates, you can link the book in your description or comments section. When your fans purchase the book using your link, you’ll receive a small commission. Just a suggestion, loved the video.
New subscriber. Great deep down the rabbit hole info. Can’t wait to read the book.
I have this on my shelf, will definitely reading it soon. I’ve seen the book on audiobook sites and there I think he also have a book called The courage to be happy or something, I remembered that he have two books, since I’ve heard a lot of good things about the one you talk about here.
4:42
I wish people would stop looking at it like that.
I give advice because i want to help.
If they assign a hierarchy off that then that's their own issue.
If someone wants to disregard my advice completely that's fine, hell even tell me why it wouldn't work for you. That's okay too.
But don't assume my intentions.
And if you want to know my intentions just ask.
5:19
For me conforming is the same as death.
Issue is that i am pressured to conform so that i can make money to live.
I'd be fine never having a job and making stuff for fun all my life but eventually I'd starve.
So I'm not sure what to do with any of it anymore.
I can't live the way they want but if i don't i won't live at all.
Thank you, for this. Keep it coming!!
Thank you. Very clear, articulate and funny. Good job being you, and sharing.
onmagad this is mind-blowing! don’t worry this is no unsolicited advice, i watched your vid out of my own will and everythin’s up to me💕💕
I'm glad you liked it, you should really read the book :)
Dont think i have your courage yet Luke, but this was def inspiring!
Literally meaning "you don't have to be a people pleaser" 😉
A great video! Definitely going to check this book out, thanks.
this is a good video, thank u bro
I had a fight with someone last night, and this was the cause. Thanks for helping me to put it into words
This is old woman thanks you for sharing your insights. You have helped me.
Such a great video guy!! This was good for me to hear and I think ill go buy that book. Appreciate it!
its interesting how i got this video recommended now, right after i ordered that book like 4 days ago after randomly browsing amazon.
Tbh i'm more than grateful.
Beautifully said, stoked to read this book
i love this book so much!
I'm currently reading this book and I already love it💗
Thanks for this video. It was just what I needed to hear today. Best of luck with your tasks!
Cool video and attitude, thanks. Subscribed, looking forward to your next!
It's a statement for people doing shit with their lives. Not those of us who spend all day typing online or doing nothing but act pessimistic and see rational feedback as "hate".
Great book encouraging others to find the courage to be themselves.
I think there are sometimes where people just cant do their tasks and they need your help and its okay to go out of your way to help them with their lives at times. But ultimately yes you each learn to manage your own.
wow, how tf did i bump into this shit ? at only 200 some views, bravo on the insight homie 💯
Appreciate you :)
Brilliantly said my man.
this might be just what i needed
My mom gave me this book. I’m thankful she did. It’s a wonderful read!
Great job, summarizing one part of this excellent book, it's a good formula. Since you love unsolicited advice: If you haven't run into it yet, you might also be interested in Integral Theory and AQAL, by Ken Wilber, particularly the quadrants. They are another form of task separation but instead draw the notion of subjective vs objective aspects and individual vs collective into a four box matrix. When you introduce another, you just duplicate the individual areas, one set for each participant. This results in considering what our own minds, behaviors, our culture and our physical environment contribute to any given interaction and offer a nice tool for reflection or prediction.
Thanks, that sounds interesting i'll add it to the reading list :)
This was absolutely beautiful!
Glad you liked it :)
Getting your oxytocin from feeling genuinely >>connected>yourself
This Was Certainly Helpful. Thank You.
Dude. YES. This is wisdom.
I bought the book because of this video ^^ Thanks
This video is brilliant! Thank you! Subscribed.
it changed my life too, i read it in 2024 i think it's the only thing i accomplished last year
I LOVE THIS VIDEO SO MUCH
Much Love from India❤❤
I was here before it went viral (421 views)
Thankyou !!
you deserve more subscribers. well shot and good ambience.
Thank you
Geeat video funny humor awesome cinematography, subbed
Great concepts dude. Thanks for sharing. If I may, please... if you switch that camera from af-c to af-s it'll help the talking head portion be silky smooth and not jumpy... Sorry, that's my unsolicited advice for the day...... Wait, did I just miss the message here?
I love this video. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻
Wow you have really good eye for cinematography
This is so good! Thank you!
Dang I also read this book. It really changed my lifestyle a lot, Highly recommend it
I love youtube videos that are less than 10 minutes !
great vid! thank you for sharing, really enjoyed it.
Thing about unsolicited advice, is that 99.3% of the time, the things you want to say that could actually make a difference and could be incresibly relevant won’t ever be solicited, and the pre disposition to them is rarely an open minded receptivity.
I mean, if we only spoke when someone asked our opinions on something, how quiet would you be throughout your life?
I just finished reading this, best book ever.
You earned a new sub brother :)
Alongside japanese philosophy( zen or chan buddhism), I've gotten into actual buddhism, and now im gonna make myself have an addiction to meditation.
Damn ive been a bad friend. Ive been trying to get a connection with my friend who seems a bit lost but really hes just being him and ive been pretending like his way is wost then mine and ive been meddling and giving unwanted advice to him.
Ive been wanting him to avoid mistakes but those are for him to learn and i need to just let go and be there if or when he falls down. I shouldnt be his guide i just need to be the rock on the side of the road so he knows where he is.
Wow man you doubled your subscriber count in less than a week? That's pretty impressive. You deserve it, great video and I can't wait to watch what you've made already
Thankyou much appreciated
Wonderful! Thanks!
Needed to hear this. Thx `bro