You're right. But they were both using each other. She used him because she wanted a man there to take care of her, and he was there for the disability check.
Savanna Violets I’m not trying to justify his cheating but he was lupe for ten long years. She didn’t give him any love or pleasure. He has been treated more of a Slave than a lover
Then he gon’ say “I love you” and break down crying like he didn’t just reap what he sow?! 🤨So glad she saw the value in herself and ended it. Proud of her and her strength! ❤️
Him “taking care” of her, was enabling her. How coincidental is it that he was fine with their relationship for an entire decade, but when she starts to become independent, he’s unhappy.
I notice he keeps saying "10 years together you can give me one chance." Let me make this clear. NO ONE is obligated to stay with someone who is unfaithful just because of how long they have been together for. That is so toxic
@@user-pp6kd7ut4k I mean, look, to each their own. If you aren't attracted to something, then thats cool! But if he was all grossed out n shit, why didn't he leave? If he wasn't attracted to her, why didn't he bounce? Why cheat??? I would have more respect for him as a man, if he just said "I'm walking away. I can't do this. I don't love you anymore. It's over." But he didn't, and now he's crying for her back. To me, that's a weak individual. Just be honest.
@@yvonnedowns2068 Cause then she would die and that's a lot of pressure. Cheating is never okay, all I'm saying is I see his side and how he could feel pressured to stay with the cow
sesshokitten no surprising, the power dynamics change as the person gains independence and many relationships fail after that kind of upset...there also the factor that some people are genuinely attracted to large people and when they’re no longer large the attraction is no longer there.
Yes.because the caregiver realizes he or she is not going to draw that gov check of over 1000.00 month and move on.thats what they are there for the money.and being dependent these ppl think they really care
Dr. Now is always quite blunt, doesn't sugar coat. So to hear his gentler humanity in telling Lupe that "this time next year, your life will be completely changed" is so heartwarming
@@organizedchaos4559 from the interviews and where are they now’s she’s done it seems as though she tried to get him help even while he was helping her and he refused the help. She also mentioned that when he became heavily intoxicated that’s when he would become physically abusive toward her.
QuinnValentine I have an ex named Gilbert...the first person I felt love for. It was 9th grade...he used me so much, did really fucked up shit to me. I was such a sweetheart then I can even say that. He totally destroyed that person I was at one time. Then he cheated on me with my only friend and best friend ,same girl. He did so many things like that and I was so pure hearted it broke me down, I missed periods, I was infertile for a time from all the stress and worry and anxiety. Few years later he was apologizing for the past saying he wants me bad...saying he needs me and wants me to be his so i finally agree after a year cause the love of my life and i split up ..(i moved)..he changed in a good way..but he was still the same...wasnt showing he wanted me ..leaving me on read..id always have to text him first..he was choosing to be a dumbass than support me. Weed over me..Anyways....yeah never trust a gilbert.
Jeyah Price try wiping a man's shitty ass for over 10 years and tell me how you would feel. Most women talk shit about men that do this even though most women would do the same shit in that situation.
Lupe is so strong! I’m so proud of her for knowing her worth, and not letting a man get in the way of her goals! 9 years is a long time, I can’t imagine the hurt she went through. ❤️
That's what I'm talking about, Lupe grabbed her things and was out in the middle of the night! No more arguing, just action. And bravo to the cousin for pulling up in Lupe's time of need. That's the type of family we ALL need, not an enabler but someone that assists us as we actively help ourselves!
My ex cheated on me after our baby was born because I’d gained weight during the pregnancy, after seven years together. I’d gone from 107 lbs to a “massive” 150 lbs (still within a normal bmi, even if at the max). I’d already lost about half of it when he cheated. The stress of finding out he’d cheated caused me to lose the remaining weight VERY quickly. He wanted me to stay with him. I told him to get lost.
@@heidilefevre2680 I know!! I wasn’t even overweight, according to BMI 🤷♀️ Hilariously, he’s put on a good bit of weight in the years since & I’ve remained between around 107, but I would never be so cruel as to comment on it.
Jade Helm You dont need sex. He wanted. I dont really blame him either, cause he probably wanted that closeness you get through sex and his wife couldn't give that.
Same! that makes me want to leave their sorry ass more. I mean if you can jeopardize our relationship for some meaningless sex do you really think i will care?
Georgia Skinner he was wasting his life away taking care of that woman because of her own incompetence and her inability to control her eating. He shouldn’t have to suffer because of a woman that doesn’t appreciate all he has done.
The audacity this man has, "10 years together", you didn't think about that when you were messaging these other chicks. She looks great by the way. So proud of her.
Majority of the comments are about the cheating but she's one of the most successful people on 600 pound life. Some people just give up but she's pushed through.
As soon as he said “10 years!” That reminded me of my ex when we split he kept saying “6 years! C’mon 6 years! Don’t throw it away! 6 years!” It literally gave me a flashback. I’m disgusted. This poor woman... I’m glad she’s moving on with her life and continuing to improve!
Same for me. Got cheated on a week after our one year anniversary and proposal, I decided to leave him and move out the same day I found out. He told me “how could you just throw away a whole year” like what?
@@winterr.m Kinda seems like he’s the one who threw away the whole year the moment he got into bed with another woman. I’m sorry you went through that, and I hope you’e doing much better, because you deserve so much better!
Exactly the same with my abusive ex. He kept wanting us to be together after 5 years even though he even said he wasnt attracted to me anymore....and he cheated...
Pandora Santos Well the way I see it there's the two sides and the truth he drinks and cheats from a direct cause from her because of her bad choices that she brought eventually a man will seek another he took care of her and she couldn't give him another chance lessons learned and move forward never think you have to impress people God is the only one you need to worry about be a genuine good person donate tennis balls to animal shelters be the change and stop making excuses no one will change for someone your past will not define you everyone can do better like me and my father......I'm no better than no one and neither is anyone else :)
I don’t either but when you’re stuck with someone who’s a fat sack of shit I would’ve done the same. Then again I wouldn’t have stuck around to wipe their ass. Fuck that shit
Charlotte's Web It's funny how you put it cause the woman just got home with a surgery but he rushed getting on top of her and that's how the wound got infected .Because of sex.. She needed to go through surgery again and cure and close the wound. Just because " I am a man,I have my needs" while at the same time was cheating too.
This is the first clip I’ve seen of Lupes journey and I’m BEYOND proud of her. Lost over 400 pounds in two years, taking more control of her life, says what she CAN do and doesn’t tolerate abuse? I’m officially a fan of Lupe! ♥️
@@nolanharris4111 You don't know her. This woman clearly shows some determination for her cause. Even if he left her early on or never came into her life at all, I'm sure there would of been a event maybe like a sever health scare that make her finally change herself. She would of probably contacted a home aid to get in home care or family willing to stay with her. So,Yes he's been a cheap back bone but that doesn't mean he's do or die 🙄
He couldn't leave her or she'd probably die. If you didn't watch the original episode. She almost died three times. He was her caregiver. He did everything for her and she was always yelling at him and everything was all about her. I honestly, don't know how he delt with the stress. It's wrong to cheat but most people would've callled somebody to take care of her and leave.
He took care of her needs for 10 years because he loved her , and she completely ignored his own.. Love is a two way street and she got mad at him for recognizing that
Princess Ari either that or leave her on her own. I mean come on he had needs that she couldn't give him. Not only sex but a real emotional connection because he turned into her babysitter no longer lover.
vasilis stylianou She could lift herself to the wheelchair at that point and there are van taxis that are able to transport wheelchair in their rear section. Go figure...
He also physically abused her and cheated on her. NEVER okay. 🙄 He did hold her back, she needed motivation to lose weight. Seemed like he just enabled her
Because he was enabling her, not taking care of her! If I did everything for my junkie husband including cooking up all his shots, im not "taking care" of him.
Bridgy Hairston OK so she’s not a person anymore Who deserves to still be treated with some dignity? He had the choice to leave those entire 10 years. He chose to stay, he chose to take care of her, he chose to abuse and cheat on her. Stop making excuses for abusers. Dumbass.
Big deal! Small price to pay for having him be her servant and destroy his quality of life for many, many years. He went above and beyond for her, so what does she expect? She's alive because of him. She's an ungrateful gross pig that wants empathy from him, but is seemingly incapable of being empathetic towards him.
Can’t believe you guys taking up that he cheated and gets physical with her. Because his stanky ass jealous!!! She’s doing good, it’s hard work loosing weight so fuck him and you’ll find a man with your new look
First of all good for her for sticking with it and losing the weight. And I commend him for caring for her for years. The way this looks is that he liked when she was so dependent on him cuz he knew she wasn’t going anywhere cuz she needed him to care for her, also she literally couldn’t go anywhere cuz of her weight. It’s a power thing. Now that she’s becoming more independent, he’s becoming insecure.
I ADORE her cousin for this!! And way to go Lupe for being an incredible example to others who are in a toxic relationship and deserve to get out and move on in life❤
Luietoons G Fuck cheating!!! If I had a girl that let herself go that bad I would just kick her to the curb all together and move on to somebody more attractive that takes care of herself!!! She is not sexy at all!!!
@@Angry.General1461 lmaoooo i wouldnt date someone that size either... Not even because looks but i dont wanna worry about my girlfriend or boyfriend dying bc their size
He should have left her ass immediately and let her suffer then?? No, instead you'd rather him be the slave and both hit rock bottom together. They both have cravings, she got the food and he was still emotionally drained.
@@SteveB-nx2uo, The traditional line is "in sickness and in health". Unless you wrote your own and specifically excluded that, "in sickness" would include being bedridden.
Being the caretaker in this situation is a huge sacrifice and she hasn’t been able to contribute in his needs and that has taken a toll on the relationship. It’s sad but true.
That's what I thought. He's fowl for cheating, but all he did was take care of her, wash her butt and feed her. She wasn't able to do anything for herself.
I’m glad you said this and I feel like NO ONE can see that and it pisses me off. I can find somebody to like me. She lied to him in the beginning and he still stuck around and wiped her ass. I’m pissed FOR him. RIDICULOUS
1:42, she said I deserve better, but so does your husband. For 10 years he's been more of a father in that marriage then a husband. He bathed her, dressed her, fed her... Of course that he wants to have some nice times also after all that, he got nothing in return from her.
Then you are kinda in a right mind. ;) jk As I watched this show, I noticed that a lot of them are spoiled, depressed and they need help with everything, so her husband was more like a hired help. With all that I can understand that he wants to have a little fun time for relaxing. :) That's my opinion.
Shouldn’t have cheat but honestly I wouldn’t have started the relationship in the first place. It might come off as shallow but I’m not entering a relationship to fix someone and I hold my self to the same standards, I don’t want someone trying to fix me. A relationship should be about supporting each other and getting better together, this was unbalanced from the beginning. I wouldn’t want someone who would want me in that condition.
@@zolablair1294 if he has these "needs" then he should have left, stop excusing the actions of cheaters. The vow is in sickness and health, so cheating is inexcusable in any circumstance.
It’s not right to cheat but it’s also not right to expect someone to stay and take care you until your death just because your married. They’re both at fault.
nyrryl cadiz In this situation it was okay, imagine spending 10 years of your life only to help another person that doesn’t give you anything back? He didn’t want to hurt her either so he did the right thing.
Mikel Landa He didn’t do the right thing. He was an enabler and allowed her to her more and more unhealthy, never stopping her. He put himself into the situation and now everybody feels poorly for him despite the fact that he’s a cheating bastard and never did anything to prevent any of it from happening. Love and obesity do not combine because if you love somebody, you will not enable them. It’s the same as a drug addiction, except its food.
A E N the bad ones are. The 50/50 ones are symbiotic, and are usually the ones that end in divorce. A marriage is built on God and requires 100% effort from both husband and wife. Government got involved in the affairs of the church including marriage, blurring the lines between responsibility and entitlement.
I don't blame him. I hate cheaters but this is justified in a way, he spent 10 years wiping her ass and having no intimacy at all, and for her to up and leave just because he needs his needs met too is honestly kinda selfish.
Doctor Bitchcraft same with me if I cheat it's because I can't get any at home I'm a good dog but if you don't pet me once in a while it's hard to keep me under the porch
I think if you read between lines he was actually saying "ok yeah you have problems, but focus on what you're doing and don't let the break up make you binge eat out of anxiety again". Dr. Now has seen a fucking load of these motherfuckers gain a lot of weight again because their pet rock died and they're too depressed to go on with their diet.
Lupe’s friends and family should be EXTREMELY proud of her!! More importantly, she should be extremely proud of herself!!! Great job sticking to your weight loss goals and for staying committed every step of the way over such a long stretch of time. You are super inspirational. Please keep up making good choices for yourself and for those around you.
@@atroll4160 Get to know who are evil, how they communicate with one another and EXPOSE them. Love truly your Neighbors. Don+t just say you do, SHOW IT that you do Ephesians 5:11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood,= not against human beings. All humans are our Neighbors, whom we are called to LOVE not hate not abuse, LOVE. And what is LOVE? John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Love = laying down ones own life for their loved ones and giving out RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT. How many amongst us LOVE? - FEW How many amongst us HATE? - MANY
ofc he did, he really didn't love this women nor loved her looks so he decided to cheat even during her surgery. he aint shit, she need to let that mango
I do too to some extent... but the dude would literally feed her a huge box full of doughnuts for her when she was at her heaviest. The person you love is in that condition and you feed her that shit? Even if she wanted that shit he was the one that was in control of what she ate. Makes me think he got her to that stage in the past 8-10 years they were together.
I might be bad for saying this but for some cheaters I can't blame them for the situation their partner threw them into they didn't sign up for certain things she didn't have to get that fat to the point he had to take care of her...
He said he *needed* her to *help* him. That's common for someone who uses someone else for financial needs to say. He missed her social security checks
"In sickness and in health" if Gilbert needed something else he should've been man enough to leave instead of use her for her unemployment and disability checks.
Captainkerrfluffle She shouldn’t have gotten those “disability checks” in the first place I can’t believe now in the 21st century, you eating until you’re hideously obese means you’re classified as “disabled”. How pathetic have people got.
How can you not use someone else's money when they won't let you get a job and make you their nurse for some reason fat acceptance has made y'all blind if I was her I'd be ok with him cheating until I better myself
I hope this woman gets surgery to get rid of the extra skin on her body/face. I do not say that not out of meanness. I would like to see this woman with confidence, that she deserves! She's already looking like a different person. Kick that guy to curb and she will go nothing but up.
So proud of her ! And he’s nothing without her literally that man probably has no income just living off of her ! Keep on pushing your so beautiful girl 😍💙
Exactly! Why do we see old people still married and very much in love when all looks fade away and the intimacy no more. Because as they get older their love grows with time. Other wise it's conditional love. As we get older and we get use to someone we have eyes to see someone younger, hotter,, attractive, etc, but real love is not an emotion it's a decision. Love is an action.. Kind of like God's love.
If you think about it she used him....as soon as she lost weight she's ready to leave him if he was so terrible the entire time and she respected herself she would of left him when she was overweight but she needed him to take care of her the whole situation is them using each other..Just saying
She had no love or respect for her self at her biggest. She should have left him. Who cares if she used him he cheated on her. She never cheated him she did love him
he's doing the same thing tho, some people will stay with disabled partners so that they feel useful but once they can start taking care of themselves they start cheating
Tina D'Imperio no, she stated very clearly that as she was losing more and more weight he was getting more insecure and jealous and he started turning physical it sounds as if he wasn’t doing that before because he liked having her fat and immobilized were basically no one was probably going to want her, that makes a lot of sense
Lmao, yeah because she'd just walk away and have somebody else wipe her ass. Are you stupid? That advice could only really be helpful to a small percentage of women in the world.
I'm annoyed that people are saying he gets a pass for cheating because he took care of her for 10 years and blah blah blah. he did NOT have to stay if he wasn't happy about not having sex for so long & he definitely did not have to take care of her. It's not like he was the ONLY one that could do it. If he didn't do it, someone else would of. He's an idiot. I understand that he was unhappy, but he stayed for 10 years. He knew what he was doing. He knew that he wasn't going to be able to sleep with her & do all the things married couples do. You can't blame her for being mad either! It's one thing to stay in the relationship for a few months to see how things go, but 10 FUCKING YEARS?! of course Lupe thought he'd still be loyal. So fuckkkkk him! He should've left.
Pffft. So he can leave her because she can't satisfy him sexually and have everyone jump on him for being shallow. Or he can fuck other women while still taking care of her and get called a dog. He really couldn't win for losing.
Lynnie Shaw You're a nut and you probably let your "man" treat you like shit. He didn't come into the relationship with a size 6 woman, he knew what he was getting so Gtfoh with that dumb excuse.
I was quoting from Canon Law. She lied to get him to marry her. She blasphemed by saying it was the word of GOD that they marry. Initially, she mailed him photos of herself when she was thinner/younger. She cannot share in sexual relations with her husband.
People don't have to dedicate their lives to someone who doesn't dedicate their lives back. She clearly isn't taking care of herself... Why should he be 100% responsible for her?
Blue Shell true love is when both people show affection and care for each other equally the guy is clearly taking care of her more then she is that's not true love
If you have no job cause you are not able to, they can sign up with the government to get money and free food also known as a food bank. Once they do get a job the government cuts off the deal and they have to provide for themselves.
@@dididjfhjshsoruufddffdffyt7931 they would have to live in the south or Midwest to be able to afford a house with social security checks. No way she could have a house here on the east coast or in California
I feel so bad for Gilbert. He's been taking care of her for almost 10 years, cleaning her, feeding her, all of that. If you're gonna leave him at least give him you're thanks for taking care of you for so long.
Aja Nguyen are you crazy? She doesn’t owe him anything, he was cheating on her and in the end he became physically abusive, and as far as taking care of her and stuff that’s your job when that’s your spouse, if I was married and my husband had a massive stroke or some type of disability and I had to take care of him that’s what I’m supposed to do I don’t deserve special extra gratitude if I cheated on him and abused him and then he had to leave
Marriage is 50/50, not 90/100! I don’t justify cheating but I think he could have left and take care of himself. In a relationship you need to care for each other and when you don’t the other person might feel a bit left out.
no one deserves to be cheated on, i would rather someone break up with me rather than cheat
You're right. But they were both using each other. She used him because she wanted a man there to take care of her, and he was there for the disability check.
Savanna Violets ur probably not 600 pounds
Jack Bosco not what i meant, just in general
Savanna Violets I’m not trying to justify his cheating but he was lupe for ten long years. She didn’t give him any love or pleasure. He has been treated more of a Slave than a lover
Me too..I'd rather be heartbroken, than cheated on and heartbroken
I love that he cheats, he lies, he hurts her, then tells her “You gone throw 10years away?!!” Nah my guy... YOU threw it away
seriously though 😭
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Then he gon’ say “I love you” and break down crying like he didn’t just reap what he sow?! 🤨So glad she saw the value in herself and ended it. Proud of her and her strength! ❤️
I don't wrong my guy
There was probably no sex life prior to her weight loss
@@sagekevo3285 still not a reason to cheat
Him “taking care” of her, was enabling her. How coincidental is it that he was fine with their relationship for an entire decade, but when she starts to become independent, he’s unhappy.
Tacarra M amen
Tacarra M him taking care of her was the only reason she lived. Him not helping her lose weight was enabling.
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I've met her in person, she is doing so well for herself. I was so proud of her when I saw it. :)
That's absolutely wonderful to hear💘
She left him?!
I met her before when she was 600 pounds
Gilbert with another 600 pound girl.
@@aliceandwonderland8611 how do you know?
Man, she has lost a TON of weight! Proud of her!
Blue Turtle literally! She’s so amazing , it takes so much strength to do that .
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I notice he keeps saying "10 years together you can give me one chance." Let me make this clear. NO ONE is obligated to stay with someone who is unfaithful just because of how long they have been together for. That is so toxic
Also he ruined the chance he got already. This wasn't "one chance" 🤦
Not only that. It's not her fault. Yeah they've been together for 10 years, but HE was the one who ruined it!
@@user-pp6kd7ut4k I mean, look, to each their own. If you aren't attracted to something, then thats cool! But if he was all grossed out n shit, why didn't he leave? If he wasn't attracted to her, why didn't he bounce? Why cheat??? I would have more respect for him as a man, if he just said "I'm walking away. I can't do this. I don't love you anymore. It's over." But he didn't, and now he's crying for her back. To me, that's a weak individual. Just be honest.
@@yvonnedowns2068 Cause then she would die and that's a lot of pressure. Cheating is never okay, all I'm saying is I see his side and how he could feel pressured to stay with the cow
@@user-pp6kd7ut4k No need to call her a cow
Anybody notice how majority of these relationships fall apart after the weight starts coming off?
sesshokitten no surprising, the power dynamics change as the person gains independence and many relationships fail after that kind of upset...there also the factor that some people are genuinely attracted to large people and when they’re no longer large the attraction is no longer there.
@@Cangeltibon *surprised pikachu face*
Your so right, it brakes my heart
Yes.because the caregiver realizes he or she is not going to draw that gov check of over 1000.00 month and move on.thats what they are there for the money.and being dependent these ppl think they really care
HE BEEN TAKING CARE OF HER SHE TREATS HIM LIKE A SERVENT
Dr. Now is always quite blunt, doesn't sugar coat. So to hear his gentler humanity in telling Lupe that "this time next year, your life will be completely changed" is so heartwarming
She said “his cheating his drinking and his abuse” so clearly it’s not just other women y’all missing the point🤧
I caught that too so not only is he cheating but he may be physically abuse when he's drunk.
So she can eat but he can’t drink? Keep holding up the double standard
@@organizedchaos4559 she worked to change herself for the better you should see her now. Maybe Gilbert should do the same💯
@@aspiringladychef that’s great but is she going to support him on his journey to better himself?
@@organizedchaos4559 from the interviews and where are they now’s she’s done it seems as though she tried to get him help even while he was helping her and he refused the help. She also mentioned that when he became heavily intoxicated that’s when he would become physically abusive toward her.
The first red flag should've been the name Gilbert.
QuinnValentine *YAAAAAAAS* kmsl 😂😂
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Same name as caillou s cat
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QuinnValentine I have an ex named Gilbert...the first person I felt love for. It was 9th grade...he used me so much, did really fucked up shit to me. I was such a sweetheart then I can even say that. He totally destroyed that person I was at one time. Then he cheated on me with my only friend and best friend ,same girl. He did so many things like that and I was so pure hearted it broke me down, I missed periods, I was infertile for a time from all the stress and worry and anxiety. Few years later he was apologizing for the past saying he wants me bad...saying he needs me and wants me to be his so i finally agree after a year cause the love of my life and i split up ..(i moved)..he changed in a good way..but he was still the same...wasnt showing he wanted me ..leaving me on read..id always have to text him first..he was choosing to be a dumbass than support me. Weed over me..Anyways....yeah never trust a gilbert.
why was he acting like the victim when he cheated 💀
Jeyah Price try wiping a man's shitty ass for over 10 years and tell me how you would feel. Most women talk shit about men that do this even though most women would do the same shit in that situation.
Imagine having to wash that monsters shit stained ass everyday
She was bed ridden for 10 years that man Is a hero an deserves to get another woman
That's what cheating people do
@@tumalditamadresita LMFAO damn you cold lol
Because that's what abusers do. They try to make everything your fault. Been there, got the fuck out after years of it. No more, I'm done.
Lupe is so strong! I’m so proud of her for knowing her worth, and not letting a man get in the way of her goals! 9 years is a long time, I can’t imagine the hurt she went through. ❤️
Man I am really proud of her, for dropping the dead weight, oh and her weight loss!
Lol
he still took care of her for a long time though:// she also was some “weight” to him
cherry uwu doesn’t mean she deserves to be cheated on just because he was wiping her ass. Ridiculous.
@@frutcakes6370 exactly and she said he physically abused her 🤬
DC Virgo seriously? That’s horrible
That's what I'm talking about, Lupe grabbed her things and was out in the middle of the night! No more arguing, just action. And bravo to the cousin for pulling up in Lupe's time of need. That's the type of family we ALL need, not an enabler but someone that assists us as we actively help ourselves!
I was looking for a comment about her cousin. She’s a rockstar!
She dipped in the middle of the night, I was like daaaaaaannnng
I'm not usually the praying type, but I'm sending prayers and good vibes to Lupe and her amazingly lovingly supportive cousin
What a lady that cousin is 🥰
You made a terrific point! Lupe said- FU Gilbert! Hurray for you Lupe!!!
No matter how big she is, she didn’t deserve to get cheated on and treated that way!
man what
jerik de jesus what?
Kiara Cumby what was he supposed to do those 10 years
Mahly mahl At law are you stupid or just fucking dumb?! No one big or small, deserves to be treated like that and cheated on
Preach sister
My ex cheated on me after our baby was born because I’d gained weight during the pregnancy, after seven years together. I’d gone from 107 lbs to a “massive” 150 lbs (still within a normal bmi, even if at the max). I’d already lost about half of it when he cheated. The stress of finding out he’d cheated caused me to lose the remaining weight VERY quickly. He wanted me to stay with him. I told him to get lost.
A massive 150? What a joke
@@heidilefevre2680 I know!! I wasn’t even overweight, according to BMI 🤷♀️ Hilariously, he’s put on a good bit of weight in the years since & I’ve remained between around 107, but I would never be so cruel as to comment on it.
Good for you. I hope youre doing good. ❤
@@White-ny4ws Thank you! Yes, I’m still grateful every day that I shed the weight of his cheating ass 😂
Sorry to hear! Good for you for making the right decision for yourself!
Gilbert: "We've been together for 10 years, do you really want to throw that away?"
Also Gilbert: *cheating*
If he was so miserable, why is he trying to keep her from leaving?
This right here is the best sum up of the situation! Bravo good sir/madam
Yep and crying at the same time
She found a whole husband at 500+ lbs and im over here wit a lil cellulite on my thighs, single af. 🙄
You talked me into it, I'll be your boyfriend. You're a girl, right?
JckSwan nigga
Me too, im 22 this year and single since 3/4 years ago 😂😂😂
Accurate 😅
@@JckSwan nigga you cringey as fuck
I hate when people who cheat try to use how long you’ve been together. You should have thought about that before cheating
Georgia Skinner he needed sex.. I would not blame him
Exactly
Jade Helm You dont need sex. He wanted. I dont really blame him either, cause he probably wanted that closeness you get through sex and his wife couldn't give that.
Same! that makes me want to leave their sorry ass more. I mean if you can jeopardize our relationship for some meaningless sex do you really think i will care?
Georgia Skinner he was wasting his life away taking care of that woman because of her own incompetence and her inability to control her eating. He shouldn’t have to suffer because of a woman that doesn’t appreciate all he has done.
The audacity this man has, "10 years together", you didn't think about that when you were messaging these other chicks. She looks great by the way. So proud of her.
well, she didnt think much of the marriage when she decided food was more important.
no one deserves to be cheated on.... stay strong lupe
Cu Nt you don’t know her life... easy to say behind a keyboard
l g some people deserve to
ItsPainting Purple so because she is fat she deserves to be cheated on.....nice.
l g i didnt say that, i meansome people are bad people and deserve that.
l g so stop putting words in my mouth
Majority of the comments are about the cheating but she's one of the most successful people on 600 pound life. Some people just give up but she's pushed through.
Random ness Yeah that’s definitely amazing
Most people don't overeat till they weight more than 600 pounds in the first place. Most peopl are more amazing than her.
@@BermuAlex most people aren't actual trash yet you exist :D
@@amberhoward2137 yeah and you were able to post a TH-cam comment without shitting your pants. Impressive.
@@BermuAlex ikr. Hopefully one day you'll accomplish it too
her cousin “wanna go sit down”
*already sitting in a wheelchair* 😂
XD
😅
Angelina Montes that’s what I was thinking 😂😂😂
Angelina Montes 🥶🥶
Angelina Montes lol stop 🛑 😂
It is hard to leave a toxic relationship that has been going on for nearly a decade. Good for her. I hope she lives a long, happy life.
SHE'S LOST SO MUCH WEIGHT WOW
Ikr! When I clicked on this video from the last one of watched I was like "is this even the same girl??"
@@bethany2134 whr is tht video
You look like if Mrs. Doubtfire was a fuck boi. 🎶You look like a lady🎶
@@jlivb look up "lupes story, bedridden for 10 years" Do you like white guys my little Nubian princess?
@@bethany2134 its totally the same fat fuck
As soon as he said “10 years!” That reminded me of my ex when we split he kept saying “6 years! C’mon 6 years! Don’t throw it away! 6 years!” It literally gave me a flashback. I’m disgusted. This poor woman... I’m glad she’s moving on with her life and continuing to improve!
Same for me. Got cheated on a week after our one year anniversary and proposal, I decided to leave him and move out the same day I found out. He told me “how could you just throw away a whole year” like what?
@@winterr.m Kinda seems like he’s the one who threw away the whole year the moment he got into bed with another woman. I’m sorry you went through that, and I hope you’e doing much better, because you deserve so much better!
Exactly the same with my abusive ex. He kept wanting us to be together after 5 years even though he even said he wasnt attracted to me anymore....and he cheated...
It’s her fault though
@@kyleboyles9563 How in the world is it her fault? Explain this to me and everyone else.
That cousin is so supportive. Cheers to supporting cousins!
i would kill all my cousins batlaff style in the ring kirk and spock style dannanananananananananananananaaa dananananananananananananananananaaaa
Edward LaFlamme lol
Kylisha Mckinney I’m the 666 like😂
Skim Milk omg
She did the right thing leaving him. Also, love to her cousin! She is so sweet and supportive
They clearly have no respect for one another.... They are better off apart !
*off
Pandora Santos Well the way I see it there's the two sides and the truth he drinks and cheats from a direct cause from her because of her bad choices that she brought eventually a man will seek another he took care of her and she couldn't give him another chance lessons learned and move forward never think you have to impress people God is the only one you need to worry about be a genuine good person donate tennis balls to animal shelters be the change and stop making excuses no one will change for someone your past will not define you everyone can do better like me and my father......I'm no better than no one and neither is anyone else :)
Pandora Santos *off* Dumb ass
Samuel Hernandez fuck off then !
I don’t either but when you’re stuck with someone who’s a fat sack of shit I would’ve done the same. Then again I wouldn’t have stuck around to wipe their ass. Fuck that shit
“Wanna go sit down?” To the person on the wheel chair?
Misael Meraz I think she mean that as sitting down and talking
what he means is go sit down and talk, not literally go and sit.
I was thinking the same shit lol
Misael Meraz
Yo you know you're talking about a disabled woman right? I it is kinda of weird that happened but you don't have to be a bitch right?
I HATE cheaters but then I also feel bad for this guy. Better off he should have left her before get into another relationship.
The Angry General Stop goddamn spamming every comment you twit.
The Angry General You wouldn't have to worry about that. I highly doubt any girl would want you.
SAK- SOON Again with you
The Angry General Lol wtf
The Angry General lol the sims 3 doesn’t count dude
Lupe is a strong woman. He practically trapped her with food when you go look at the episode. She's amazing. Incredible.
he is just worried about where he will get money from now ..im sure he was being paid to care for her .
DAS I’m not sure if I should say fuck off, or ikr
fuck off
DAS true and also he fed off the fact that she needed him
Charlotte's Web It's funny how you put it cause the woman just got home with a surgery but he rushed getting on top of her and that's how the wound got infected .Because of sex.. She needed to go through surgery again and cure and close the wound. Just because " I am a man,I have my needs" while at the same time was cheating too.
She probably can polish poles like nobodies business... I'd pass still but just saying
This is the first clip I’ve seen of Lupes journey and I’m BEYOND proud of her. Lost over 400 pounds in two years, taking more control of her life, says what she CAN do and doesn’t tolerate abuse? I’m officially a fan of Lupe! ♥️
Same!!! ❤️❤️
@@vez5663Lupe is my inspiration to lose weight.
I think they’re both pretty toxic.
Culture of Wellness so are you?
@@luledx6586 Is this another way of saying "no u"?
pretty sure he is the toxic one
shrewii They’re both toxic. He cheated and She basically put him thru so much shit by him taking care of her
U is dumb
Her and the cousin talking together is so wholesome im so proud of her!
If he's so unhappy he should have just left. Cheating wasn't the answer.
True, but it may not have been that simple. If he left, she probably wouldn't have survived this long.
@@nolanharris4111 You don't know her. This woman clearly shows some determination for her cause. Even if he left her early on or never came into her life at all, I'm sure there would of been a event maybe like a sever health scare that make her finally change herself. She would of probably contacted a home aid to get in home care or family willing to stay with her. So,Yes he's been a cheap back bone but that doesn't mean he's do or die 🙄
He was too busy wiping her ass and cleaning her folds to leave.
He couldn't leave her or she'd probably die. If you didn't watch the original episode. She almost died three times. He was her caregiver.
He did everything for her and she was always yelling at him and everything was all about her. I honestly, don't know how he delt with the stress. It's wrong to cheat but most people would've callled somebody to take care of her and leave.
Swan Kelly That’s what he should have done. He shouldn’t have stayed if he was unable to be faithful.
His name is Gilbert, he's already cancelled
Madeleine lol I love your comment 😂
Madeleine anytime I hear the name Gilbert, I automatically think of the cat from Caillou. I'm pretty sure the cats name is Gilbert too. Haha 😂🤣
match in the gas tank boom boom lol what's eating gilbert grape
Madeleine Lol, his name reminds me of caillou's cat
Madeleine ummm excuse me? 😢😢
a cheaters favorite line is “ give me one more chance “
Omg i hate hearing
I'm not defending him but everyone makes mistakes
Shiiiitt when i cheat I never ask for another chance
@@3star2nr exactly. Theres no reason to
@@freeee8853 lmao ikr
A guy chooses to cheat
Stella is amazing!! She jumped on the first chance to help Lupe and that’s wonderful!!
“Ten years of me taking care of you”
Playing that card, are you?
Madison Lynn yeah he needs to suck it up and be a man
Madison Lynn ten years is a lot
He took care of her needs for 10 years because he loved her , and she completely ignored his own.. Love is a two way street and she got mad at him for recognizing that
Garik Takoushian that’s not an excuse to cheat on someone
Princess Ari either that or leave her on her own. I mean come on he had needs that she couldn't give him. Not only sex but a real emotional connection because he turned into her babysitter no longer lover.
Cousin: you wanna go sit down?
Me: .............lol.
Rachel Combs Like bitch I can't stand 😂
Rachel Combs lmaaaaoo hahahhah
Rachel Combs your right she already sat down
I would've been hysterically laughing and then crying and then laughing and then crying again if my cousin said that to me 😂
I thought the exact same thing 😂
She has lost such weight! She looks so good! Way to go Lupe!!!!!!
Amazing! Wow! How can a person get like that? Sloth.
Strategic Thinker you can consider a person as a sloth. It's like calling a fat guy a pig.
Uganda Knuckle Shut the fuck up, bruh.
Phragment Science Let him be stupid, lmao.
Kayla Deonne. He's right though.
can we just take a comment to appreciate her cousin 🥺 like she’s so sweet and has dope tats
i got 2 questions
A) how did she get away
B) how can u not realise her leaving
vasilis stylianou exactly
vasilis stylianou 😭💀
vasilis stylianou 😂😂
vasilis stylianou
She could lift herself to the wheelchair at that point and there are van taxis that are able to transport wheelchair in their rear section.
Go figure...
Bruh i was thinking the same thing, she finally had a reason to get up or maybe she lost weight..hopefully the 2nd one
*takes care of her for 10 years while she is bedridden* .. “now I know how guilbert has been holding me back all these years” like WTFFFF woman
Though i was the only one thinking that. She is so ungrateful. She deserve better what a joke !
He also physically abused her and cheated on her. NEVER okay. 🙄 He did hold her back, she needed motivation to lose weight. Seemed like he just enabled her
Because he was enabling her, not taking care of her! If I did everything for my junkie husband including cooking up all his shots, im not "taking care" of him.
Bridgy Hairston kno Bilbao kabob police. Kmloo
Bridgy Hairston OK so she’s not a person anymore Who deserves to still be treated with some dignity? He had the choice to leave those entire 10 years. He chose to stay, he chose to take care of her, he chose to abuse and cheat on her. Stop making excuses for abusers. Dumbass.
“I deserve better” the man literally wiped your shit for 10 years I don’t think in your situation you are gonna find better.
Doesn't change that he CHEATED
Kurstin Duncan true true
Big deal! Small price to pay for having him be her servant and destroy his quality of life for many, many years. He went above and beyond for her, so what does she expect? She's alive because of him. She's an ungrateful gross pig that wants empathy from him, but is seemingly incapable of being empathetic towards him.
@@nickfoster9350 FACTS......
Can’t believe you guys taking up that he cheated and gets physical with her. Because his stanky ass jealous!!! She’s doing good, it’s hard work loosing weight so fuck him and you’ll find a man with your new look
Her cousin is an AMAZING support for her! I ❤️ her positive attitude!!
@2:08
"you wanna go sit down?"
Lupe : bitch I'm already sitting down.
Pedro Ornelas 😂😂😂😂😂
Pedro Ornelas LMFAO! I thought no one was going to point that out until I came across your post. *chuckle*
🙄😂
Pedro Ornelas lol I watch ur channel ur a hottie
Pedro Ornelas lmfaooo
haha
When people take care you, they feel like they own you.
True.
So true .
Yes they're freakin wrong
Jim Kalt yep u right
Jim Kalt Ive seen that I must admit but Ive also seen where the carer is treated like an indentured servant.
First of all good for her for sticking with it and losing the weight. And I commend him for caring for her for years. The way this looks is that he liked when she was so dependent on him cuz he knew she wasn’t going anywhere cuz she needed him to care for her, also she literally couldn’t go anywhere cuz of her weight. It’s a power thing. Now that she’s becoming more independent, he’s becoming insecure.
Ash A this is so accurate 👌👌👌
If there was another cuz in that run on sentence I would have had a seizure.
Maxwell Stephens lmao!!
Ash A i like your hair color
Ash A nope. .. he has no access to her welfare cheque now. .so his lazy ass is crying for that
I ADORE her cousin for this!! And way to go Lupe for being an incredible example to others who are in a toxic relationship and deserve to get out and move on in life❤
This dude basically said “i know I cheated but I didnt think she would leave me “ lmaoo i bet he didnt think her bigass would get up and leave 😂😂
Luietoons G 😭😭😭🤣😂😅
Luietoons G bahaha you're a dumb fool 😂 😂 😆 😆
😅omfg I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Luietoons G Fuck cheating!!! If I had a girl that let herself go that bad I would just kick her to the curb all together and move on to somebody more attractive that takes care of herself!!! She is not sexy at all!!!
@@Angry.General1461 lmaoooo i wouldnt date someone that size either... Not even because looks but i dont wanna worry about my girlfriend or boyfriend dying bc their size
If you're in a relationship with someone you have agreed to be loyal to that person. Period
lit edits exactly
Exactly
He should have left her ass immediately and let her suffer then?? No, instead you'd rather him be the slave and both hit rock bottom together. They both have cravings, she got the food and he was still emotionally drained.
if you have gained weight to the point you are bed ridden that voids your marital vows.
@@SteveB-nx2uo, The traditional line is "in sickness and in health". Unless you wrote your own and specifically excluded that, "in sickness" would include being bedridden.
NEVER WASTE YOUR FEELINGS ON PEOPLE DONT VALUE YOU !
Siok Oey I learned that the hard way.
Really?
Siok Oey Truth
She should value her self more then maybe other will value her too.
Siok Oey dude the fat bitch should b to blame if she didint let herself get tht fucking fat her husband wouldn't have cheatead
Being the caretaker in this situation is a huge sacrifice and she hasn’t been able to contribute in his needs and that has taken a toll on the relationship. It’s sad but true.
One of the FEW honest comments
That's what I thought. He's fowl for cheating, but all he did was take care of her, wash her butt and feed her. She wasn't able to do anything for herself.
Big facts!
I’m glad you said this and I feel like NO ONE can see that and it pisses me off. I can find somebody to like me. She lied to him in the beginning and he still stuck around and wiped her ass. I’m pissed FOR him. RIDICULOUS
Gilberto is scared that he's going to have to get a job for the first time in ten years
Lets be honest he was only there for her disability check.
He not messing with no random periodt
So true.
Nope! For the sh** he does he deserves more pay. He obviously loves her
@@JAngel-sv2zh oh yea him cheating is definitely proving that he loves her. Keep in mind he's been cheating on her MULTIPLE times.
He wipes her ass ya’ dumbfuck
1:42, she said I deserve better, but so does your husband. For 10 years he's been more of a father in that marriage then a husband. He bathed her, dressed her, fed her... Of course that he wants to have some nice times also after all that, he got nothing in return from her.
He also wiped her ass too so I don't blame him..
No one in a right mind can blame him. :)
I kinda blame him and her
Then you are kinda in a right mind. ;) jk
As I watched this show, I noticed that a lot of them are spoiled, depressed and they need help with everything, so her husband was more like a hired help. With all that I can understand that he wants to have a little fun time for relaxing. :) That's my opinion.
so True
So so proud of her. She is such a sweet heart. She deserves everything good in life!
They're both better off now. They used each other and both are to blame.
Nope he is. She left for a reason. She was right for that.
Agreed my boi
Nathan Chung I would love to know how the fuck he used her
Shouldn’t have cheat but honestly I wouldn’t have started the relationship in the first place. It might come off as shallow but I’m not entering a relationship to fix someone and I hold my self to the same standards, I don’t want someone trying to fix me. A relationship should be about supporting each other and getting better together, this was unbalanced from the beginning. I wouldn’t want someone who would want me in that condition.
I believe the relationship was more of a caregiver one.
I agree
That is 100% fact yes he cheated but he has need as well
@@zolablair1294 if he has these "needs" then he should have left, stop excusing the actions of cheaters. The vow is in sickness and health, so cheating is inexcusable in any circumstance.
Perioddd
Lupe: "Im tired of his cheating, his drinking, and his abuse"
Gilbert: "Im tired of her eating, her shitting, and shes obtuse"
validate my existence LMAOO
validate my existence LOL
Dude I'm 💀☠️!!! LMFAO!!
Best fucking comment
validate my existence lmao
How lucky she ist to have such a caring and supportive cousin! Thank god!
It’s not right to cheat but it’s also not right to expect someone to stay and take care you until your death just because your married. They’re both at fault.
nyrryl cadiz
In this situation it was okay, imagine spending 10 years of your life only to help another person that doesn’t give you anything back? He didn’t want to hurt her either so he did the right thing.
Actually you make an agreement upon marriage to do just that
2inchfromtheground Marriage is symbiotic.
Mikel Landa He didn’t do the right thing. He was an enabler and allowed her to her more and more unhealthy, never stopping her. He put himself into the situation and now everybody feels poorly for him despite the fact that he’s a cheating bastard and never did anything to prevent any of it from happening. Love and obesity do not combine because if you love somebody, you will not enable them. It’s the same as a drug addiction, except its food.
A E N the bad ones are. The 50/50 ones are symbiotic, and are usually the ones that end in divorce. A marriage is built on God and requires 100% effort from both husband and wife. Government got involved in the affairs of the church including marriage, blurring the lines between responsibility and entitlement.
I don't blame him. I hate cheaters but this is justified in a way, he spent 10 years wiping her ass and having no intimacy at all, and for her to up and leave just because he needs his needs met too is honestly kinda selfish.
Doctor Bitchcraft cheating is never justified. if you unhappy you can leave a relationship.
Ether way he should just talk to her about how he feels instead of hoeing around behind her back that's just fucked up just leave the relationship.
He should've broke up with her. Cheating is not okay
truebloodish he loves her that’s why he’s with her but she’s ignoring his needs so he got it somewhere else, doesn’t change the fact that he loves her
Doctor Bitchcraft same with me if I cheat it's because I can't get any at home I'm a good dog but if you don't pet me once in a while it's hard to keep me under the porch
Dr now savage af "we'll I'm sorry to hear that but you're doing great"
😂😂😂
Falco Burke No affection at all 😂 Literally me
I think if you read between lines he was actually saying "ok yeah you have problems, but focus on what you're doing and don't let the break up make you binge eat out of anxiety again". Dr. Now has seen a fucking load of these motherfuckers gain a lot of weight again because their pet rock died and they're too depressed to go on with their diet.
Right!! lol
He's a weight loss doctor. Want to talk about your screwed up life? Go see Dr. Phil.
Lupe’s friends and family should be EXTREMELY proud of her!! More importantly, she should be extremely proud of herself!!! Great job sticking to your weight loss goals and for staying committed every step of the way over such a long stretch of time. You are super inspirational. Please keep up making good choices for yourself and for those around you.
I absolutely adore Lupe's Cousin, she took time to comfort her and make sure she stays on track. We need more people like her❤❤
I think her cousin is pretty as well as sweet.
@@atroll4160 Get to know who are evil, how they communicate with one another and EXPOSE them.
Love truly your Neighbors.
Don+t just say you do, SHOW IT that you do
Ephesians 5:11
And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.
Ephesians 6:12
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood,= not against human beings.
All humans are our Neighbors, whom we are called to LOVE not hate not abuse, LOVE.
And what is LOVE?
John 15:13
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
John 7:24
Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
Love = laying down ones own life for their loved ones and giving out RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT.
How many amongst us LOVE? - FEW
How many amongst us HATE? - MANY
ofc he did, he really didn't love this women nor loved her looks so he decided to cheat even during her surgery. he aint shit, she need to let that mango
QueenLee I love mangos
Jalen Edwards 😂😂pun
Mangos don’t cheat
I love Hey Paris
Hoenstly, the guy needed some. He wiped her ass, cared for her for 10 fucking years. If she can't fulfill his needs, then good for him for cheating
I don't usually feel bad for cheaters, but I feel bad for him
Jhopes Hopers army!!😀😀😀
jhanavi rajesh hi!! 😁😁😀
I do too to some extent... but the dude would literally feed her a huge box full of doughnuts for her when she was at her heaviest. The person you love is in that condition and you feed her that shit? Even if she wanted that shit he was the one that was in control of what she ate. Makes me think he got her to that stage in the past 8-10 years they were together.
I might be bad for saying this but for some cheaters I can't blame them for the situation their partner threw them into they didn't sign up for certain things she didn't have to get that fat to the point he had to take care of her...
He said he *needed* her to *help* him. That's common for someone who uses someone else for financial needs to say. He missed her social security checks
Lupe is the toughest person on this show not only mental but physical trauma and she's still keeps winning.
Fake crocodile tears. He doesn't love her. Uhh, I hate cheaters.
love_sarah25
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
love_sarah25 actually you don't know how the person felt about another person! You don't know what he feels about her so yea
"In sickness and in health" if Gilbert needed something else he should've been man enough to leave instead of use her for her unemployment and disability checks.
Captainkerrfluffle taxpayer money shouldn't go towards morbid obesity
Don't eat yourself to death then?
Nah he should've gotten a second phone
Captainkerrfluffle
She shouldn’t have gotten those “disability checks” in the first place
I can’t believe now in the 21st century, you eating until you’re hideously obese means you’re classified as “disabled”. How pathetic have people got.
How can you not use someone else's money when they won't let you get a job and make you their nurse for some reason fat acceptance has made y'all blind if I was her I'd be ok with him cheating until I better myself
Wow! She lost a lot of weight!!!
Jäger i know i feel so proud of her
Wowww she lost madd weight
I’m proud of her
Jäger I know. I’m so proud of here!
Jäger yeah it’s really great.
I am so proud of you Lupe ❤❤❤ Great job! You are such an inspiration ❤❤
Let's face it,he crying over losing that disability check.😂
azucar 24 how much is that check? It better be 20k a month to take care of her at least.
Facts
Emerald Dragon you be suprised,what dudes with no J.O.B will deal with to be supported. He don't want that meal ticket to leave!😂😂
azucar 24 disability check isn’t that much
Bitch!💀😂😂😂
I hope this woman gets surgery to get rid of the extra skin on her body/face. I do not say that not out of meanness. I would like to see this woman with confidence, that she deserves! She's already looking like a different person. Kick that guy to curb and she will go nothing but up.
Amandalynn1416 she said she is but she wanted her hip surgery first so.she could be mobile.again
Amandalynn1416 One step at a time❤️she’s so strong !!
Lex- Doesn’t mean he owns her, if the relationship you’re in is that toxic and detrimental to you just walk away.
I agree! I know my recent comment was kind of mean but I truly do hope the best for her!
True i agree with u
how u cheat then wanna cry🤨...
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Girl won’t they do it! 🤣
Sahara city of a century is not an option to live up the other way but I don't want
@@GeorgiaBuff ate his ability I have a great time
@@GeorgiaBuff Angel Flores Mr
So proud of her ! And he’s nothing without her literally that man probably has no income just living off of her ! Keep on pushing your so beautiful girl 😍💙
He just wants that social security check 🙄 so messed up
Favi92xo facts!
Good, that's the only thing she's got to offer.
😂
What else is she good for?
@@bmc9504 Oops... I spot a male gold digger in the comments 👀
Skinny or fat, NO ONE EVER DESERVES TO BE CHEATED ON
Exactly! Why do we see old people still married and very much in love when all looks fade away and the intimacy no more. Because as they get older their love grows with time. Other wise it's conditional love. As we get older and we get use to someone we have eyes to see someone younger, hotter,, attractive, etc, but real love is not an emotion it's a decision. Love is an action.. Kind of like God's love.
Lol clown
@@BustaBunny3045imagine praising someone for cheating. loser activity
If you think about it she used him....as soon as she lost weight she's ready to leave him if he was so terrible the entire time and she respected herself she would of left him when she was overweight but she needed him to take care of her the whole situation is them using each other..Just saying
I kind of agree
She had no love or respect for her self at her biggest. She should have left him. Who cares if she used him he cheated on her. She never cheated him she did love him
he's doing the same thing tho, some people will stay with disabled partners so that they feel useful but once they can start taking care of themselves they start cheating
Tina D'Imperio no, she stated very clearly that as she was losing more and more weight he was getting more insecure and jealous and he started turning physical it sounds as if he wasn’t doing that before because he liked having her fat and immobilized were basically no one was probably going to want her, that makes a lot of sense
No one else in their right mind would want to take over the maid job for Jabba the hut
bro was literally wiping her booty cheeks....
I say he got a cheating pass. CTFUUUU🤣🤣🤣🤣
Fax
Ladies no matter how insecure you are PLEASE DON'T STAY IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
irock yayy you do know lupe is the toxic one right?
There wasnt even a relationship to begin with lol
irock yayy
She was the one with the fat ass being wiped and taken care off and thinking she deserved better
Right. No rest or peace. Your mind will be very busy and you will become tired. Dont do it ladies. And this goes for me too
Lmao, yeah because she'd just walk away and have somebody else wipe her ass. Are you stupid? That advice could only really be helpful to a small percentage of women in the world.
I mean he been there taking care of her for 10 years he deserves a better life too
He cheated....he deserves nothing.
he cheated....he doesn't deserve anything
@@wowzers2051 he still help her with everything for TEN YEARS!!!
Nah, he deserves better, her fault.
Natalie Hernandez Maybe she will stop overeating now he's gone? He is a feeder and enabler , after all.
I'm annoyed that people are saying he gets a pass for cheating because he took care of her for 10 years and blah blah blah. he did NOT have to stay if he wasn't happy about not having sex for so long & he definitely did not have to take care of her. It's not like he was the ONLY one that could do it. If he didn't do it, someone else would of. He's an idiot. I understand that he was unhappy, but he stayed for 10 years. He knew what he was doing. He knew that he wasn't going to be able to sleep with her & do all the things married couples do. You can't blame her for being mad either! It's one thing to stay in the relationship for a few months to see how things go, but 10 FUCKING YEARS?! of course Lupe thought he'd still be loyal. So fuckkkkk him! He should've left.
Pffft. So he can leave her because she can't satisfy him sexually and have everyone jump on him for being shallow. Or he can fuck other women while still taking care of her and get called a dog. He really couldn't win for losing.
Judith Pepper when your man has to wipe your ass for 10 years, he gets a pass. I can’t blame him. Learn how to treat your fucking man!
ShockaSlim nah he wanted her fat and big, so he could continually cheat on her. She got thin and dumped his ass thank goodness he was a loser,
Lynnie Shaw You're a nut and you probably let your "man" treat you like shit. He didn't come into the relationship with a size 6 woman, he knew what he was getting so Gtfoh with that dumb excuse.
Judith Pepper *******TRIGGERED*******
Dont blame him for cheating. Everybody has a breaking point...
Lol “wanna go sit down”
*pushes her wheelchair
tyler boehne 😂😂😂😂😂
Lmaoo
I died
tyler boehne lmao
tyler boehne Ik i was like where?!!
She has lost 430+ pounds!!! I am so impressed and inspired! If she can do that, anyone can do anything they work hard at!!!
Gilbert did EVERYTHING FOR YOU. Remember you lied to him, to get married.
molarmama32 lmao once she didn’t need him anymore, she waved goodbye to Gilbert
In The Catholic Church he has valid grounds for an annulment. He should dump her, get a job and find a good women and have a family.
he cheated she doesn't have to stay with him
molarmama32 Gilbert used her for her disability benefits.
I was quoting from Canon Law. She lied to get him to marry her. She blasphemed by saying it was the word of GOD that they marry. Initially, she mailed him photos of herself when she was thinner/younger. She cannot share in sexual relations with her husband.
I’m so proud of you lupe. You did it girl. I’m sitting here crying tears of joy for you.
Her self respect is rock solid..respect earned ❤
Frrrr because she finally feels some self worth after losing a heap of weight ❤
🙌🏾🙏🏾💯💜YES
People don't have to dedicate their lives to someone who doesn't dedicate their lives back. She clearly isn't taking care of herself... Why should he be 100% responsible for her?
gunslingergirl axl because that’s what true love is.
Blue Shell you're hilarious
gunslingergirl axl she lost 400 pounds. She’s clearly taking care of herself now
Blue Shell true love is when both people show affection and care for each other equally the guy is clearly taking care of her more then she is that's not true love
Are they married I thought marriage was sickness and health. And don't cheat just leave if ur not happy. And there's no excuse for physical abuse.
My question is: how can all these people on these shows afford to live in houses when none of them have jobs
tristan good ??
I’d like to know too
Government/show I think
If you have no job cause you are not able to, they can sign up with the government to get money and free food also known as a food bank. Once they do get a job the government cuts off the deal and they have to provide for themselves.
@@dididjfhjshsoruufddffdffyt7931 they would have to live in the south or Midwest to be able to afford a house with social security checks. No way she could have a house here on the east coast or in California
"It's what needs to be done for me to become the person I want."
I love that. 💖
she lost so much weight keep it up lupe
I feel so bad for Gilbert. He's been taking care of her for almost 10 years, cleaning her, feeding her, all of that. If you're gonna leave him at least give him you're thanks for taking care of you for so long.
Aja Nguyen boi. He cheated tf. No.
Aja Nguyen are you crazy? She doesn’t owe him anything, he was cheating on her and in the end he became physically abusive, and as far as taking care of her and stuff that’s your job when that’s your spouse, if I was married and my husband had a massive stroke or some type of disability and I had to take care of him that’s what I’m supposed to do I don’t deserve special extra gratitude if I cheated on him and abused him and then he had to leave
I saw you on another 600lb video did you get heartbroken or something? You seem to be projecting your own problems on people you don’t know
Agreed, she made him a maid. Jabba the hut isn't known for being nice tho 😆
He is crying because without her disability he will have to get a job
Marriage is 50/50, not 90/100! I don’t justify cheating but I think he could have left and take care of himself. In a relationship you need to care for each other and when you don’t the other person might feel a bit left out.
Giving 50/50 is the same as giving 100/100. But I get your point, marriage is a both side commitment.
I would have cheated too
YaFlayedYourself messed up
Tatyana Elmore I understand his point tho. The guy has been taking care of a morbidly obese woman for 10 years that doesn’t do shit for him.
DJ Regina yeah i see what you saying
3:47 Doctor: "Sorry to hear that but I don't really give a shit. I'm a doctor, not a therapist"
lol