Woman’s Saving Obsession Is Affecting Her Love Life | Extreme Cheapskates

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  • @shelleysuewho
    @shelleysuewho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3809

    I'm glad that the fabric lady kind of set her straight. There is a line between trying to get a bargain and then just being flat out rude and trying to get a product for basically for free

    • @lourdesmercedes
      @lourdesmercedes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      Fr like she said that’s less than what she paid for it. She has to make money to keep her business going and to pay her bills.

    • @ydn289
      @ydn289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      And that's why she said that "I hope she never comes here again". 😅

    • @TffanyBarnes12791
      @TffanyBarnes12791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Don't give me any more guff about it!!!

    • @nashthompson2713
      @nashthompson2713 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      For real

    • @nikereebokpuma3406
      @nikereebokpuma3406 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If I was there in the store, I would have paid for it for her!

  • @Thathummuschick
    @Thathummuschick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +634

    The really messed up part about these people is the fact that they’re walking into small businesses most of the time to haggle prices.. normally you’d support smaller businesses but they just take advantage. Really disturbing.

    • @sandy80334
      @sandy80334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      This is such an important comment. It’s like you’re trying to stiff people who have already fair prices

    • @annietribble3062
      @annietribble3062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That's where it is NOT okay. She's taking advantage and hurting small businesses. The way they haggle is just downright awful

    • @Eddi3xBac0n
      @Eddi3xBac0n ปีที่แล้ว +1

      small business scalps their prices. i rather go to alds or winco

    • @hayleykiyokoisbae1776
      @hayleykiyokoisbae1776 ปีที่แล้ว

      I completely agree

    • @360_brat
      @360_brat 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      "really disturbing" ok lil bro 💀

  • @mybubblegum33
    @mybubblegum33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4676

    I actually feel so sorry for him. Clearly the only reason he is staying with her is and I quote “she’s my first and only girlfriend”. He’s obviously not happy and wants to leave but is worried he’s not going to find someone else. Dude, just leave her!

    • @slicksavage9839
      @slicksavage9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Well that’s his fault lol no need to feel sorry for someone who’s deliberately putting themselves in a tough situation, given the circumstances(I.E ,her obsession).

    • @alistairbarkus
      @alistairbarkus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@slicksavage9839 not really, bro prolly wanted his relationship to be normal

    • @slicksavage9839
      @slicksavage9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@alistairbarkus I mean i get that and that’s cool but he’s pretty much settling because he feels that’s the only girl he can get.

    • @LucaDavoli_
      @LucaDavoli_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@slicksavage9839 Makes him a victim of his own insecurity, but a victim nonetheless.

    • @snakeocelot4153
      @snakeocelot4153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@slicksavage9839 Doesn't work that way, many people stay with people like this because they want them to get better, not because they haven't got anyone else to go to.

  • @divinhaquem
    @divinhaquem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    "I want you to get out of here" The man from the school sale was so disgusted by her offer that even jaw dropped, he accepted it just to vanish her away from his sight.

    • @brazyuniverse4221
      @brazyuniverse4221 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      um did you see those mattresses

  • @liddlekiddle1962
    @liddlekiddle1962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3333

    If she ends up getting bed bugs from some of her free / cheap things, it will cost her a lot in the long run to get rid of them.

    • @jonathanvanlimbergen5230
      @jonathanvanlimbergen5230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +245

      She'd probably 'learn' to live with it as it's too expensive to get rid of

    • @prettydisabled9060
      @prettydisabled9060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      She'll probably up and move to a cheaper place by then.

    • @jayredmond6140
      @jayredmond6140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Free bedbugs?
      Monique: I'll take it!

    • @boundariessetinstone5893
      @boundariessetinstone5893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      You can get bed bugs from warehouses that send new stuff. Key is to check everything first before bringing it in your home. Than once in your home cover mattresses and pillows in asthma/bed bug covers. I never have bought used mattresses but I’ve bought second hand furniture many times. But my grandparents never in their lives bought new anything they were hoarders. And they never got bedbugs I believe because they did fumigate inside and outside grounds 3-4 times a year. But even thrifting we can bring bugs home just need to check everything first and wash first.

    • @notkaitlyn5368
      @notkaitlyn5368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      She’d prob eat them

  • @karenvonbargen4472
    @karenvonbargen4472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    She went to a quilt shop. As a person who sews this astonished me. She could have gotten a coupon from Joann’s and bought markdown fabric for SO much less. Or gone to the thrift and done it right

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I swere these people get a high of saving on the most reduculis way or something. She probably could have found a free mattress off of Facebook marketplace to but decided to argue with some guy over a disgusting one.

    • @cynthianaylor9514
      @cynthianaylor9514 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She sews with duct tape.

    • @moreruffles89
      @moreruffles89 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@cynthianaylor9514 😂 I was thinking, she can spend money on duct tape and tape together the fabric. But she cant get thread and sew it together so that it’ll last. She obviously has the time to sew if she can spend time blowing up an air mattress.

    • @cynthianaylor9514
      @cynthianaylor9514 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@moreruffles89 They actually have manual foot pumps for inflatables.

    • @moreruffles89
      @moreruffles89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cynthianaylor9514 yeah but I’m the video sure was blowing it up with her lungs 😆

  • @emshaps
    @emshaps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6952

    her explaining blowing up the air mattress manually instead of with electric with the editing of her heaving her whole soul into it had me in tears. it's like a meme 💀

    • @serenairiy7574
      @serenairiy7574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      on soul that had me ROLLINNNN ! 🤣

    • @shessupersalty
      @shessupersalty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      It was to much. Her staring into the camera man's past lives 🤣🤣🤣

    • @risharddaniels1762
      @risharddaniels1762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Someone needs to tell her what a hand pump is

    • @fatimaguilford8645
      @fatimaguilford8645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I can't stop laughing, Holly molly, out of no where she started manually started blowing the mattress up 😂😂😭😭😭

    • @Eve-hb
      @Eve-hb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@fatimaguilford8645 the cuts in between her talking and blowing 💀 the side eye too

  • @TactiWolf
    @TactiWolf ปีที่แล้ว +67

    “Joseph and I have been together romantically for 3 years”
    My condolences to you Joseph 💐

  • @lilyg1537
    @lilyg1537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1470

    It’s about control in my opinion, not saving money. If you look at the way she interacts with people you can tell.

    • @chaddy2409
      @chaddy2409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Supressed trauma, coping mechanism

    • @Mooodyyhhh
      @Mooodyyhhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      You’re right. She wants to “win” the bargain. Definitely would stay far away from her

    • @nora.3598
      @nora.3598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Mooodyyhhh FRR

    • @adriancrevan
      @adriancrevan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@chaddy2409 I wonder what happened to her

    • @antonovromanov7412
      @antonovromanov7412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      How she talks to them yes exactly

  • @SophieXena
    @SophieXena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I know she is his first and only girlfriend but he seems like a nice guy, he can do better and maybe save himself the turmoil of being in a relationship with her

  • @jem5789
    @jem5789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6177

    After watching this depressing video, I’m going to go online shopping just to spite this woman in spirit, lol.

  • @sungenik5226
    @sungenik5226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Her whole lifestyle suggests she's not ready for a relationship.

  • @krislatoya7556
    @krislatoya7556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2207

    Poor guy looks so uncomfortable and willing to put up with that just because...😩

    • @raineedaytinyfilms
      @raineedaytinyfilms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      What is HE contributing to the relationship? Why doesn’t HE buy a bed?

    • @julieoliva8615
      @julieoliva8615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      @@raineedaytinyfilms I think because that is her place he has his own home I think

    • @krislatoya7556
      @krislatoya7556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@raineedaytinyfilms In a relationship, it should go both ways yes and I don't know if this is scripted or what but he seems very unsure of her and that lifestyle or even overstepping. So what is he contributing? Who knows? 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @danielaahedo9803
      @danielaahedo9803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Cause he knows he can’t get any other girl

    • @iamcalifornia7968
      @iamcalifornia7968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He need to get on pof ASAP

  • @VccTayla
    @VccTayla 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    This must be completely embarrassing for him. I’m sure it is cause it’s giving ME second hand embarrassment

  • @ft9kop
    @ft9kop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4278

    If she's so obsessed with saving money, why didn't she study finance or accounting?

    • @nightslasher9384
      @nightslasher9384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      So you want her to go beyond her cheapskate mode, DON’T YOU?! 😠

    • @King-dt4gi
      @King-dt4gi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      If she studied finance. Probably would invest the money that she's saving. But I don't think she's doing it.

    • @tamb7587
      @tamb7587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Cause she’s mentally ill... This is just a form of OCD

    • @OFFICIALNADESHMENGWI
      @OFFICIALNADESHMENGWI 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol

    • @mitorresc
      @mitorresc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She will. Never find what she wants unless she looks inside her 👳‍♀️

  • @ThereIsNoGod.
    @ThereIsNoGod. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This poor guy propably thinks that he does not get a better gf than this. Boy you can do better and you deserve better.

    • @luckystone2293
      @luckystone2293 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It doesn't work like that. Better on paper means nothing if you don't want to be with that person.

  • @cod410
    @cod410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    Fabric store lady is right. This does become disrespectful

  • @adamcain1362
    @adamcain1362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    When shes going round the shops buying stuff to try and get her boyfriend back is nothing but beyond embarrassing

  • @susan8576
    @susan8576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    Its all about planning. Saving $85 a month could buy her a $1000 bed at the end of one year. A bed she can use for the next 10 years. Be cheap if you want to but plan and live well for goodness sake.

    • @tanyawashington6996
      @tanyawashington6996 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She needs therapy

    • @jjryan2007
      @jjryan2007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      RIGHT! that’s what confuses me. they say, “i’ve saved $6,000 this year”, WHERE DOES THAT MONEY GO?? like being cheap for lights and water is one thing, but a mattress? no.

    • @kittencutie7074
      @kittencutie7074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah being cheap is alwags bad, what you said in your comment is being smart and efficient not cheap

  • @laurennichole161
    @laurennichole161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’ve moved three times in the past three years (with a van/SUV type vehicle) and there is NO WAY she can fit all of those belongings into 1 vehicle, let alone in 15 minutes.

  • @sunflowerbaby1853
    @sunflowerbaby1853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1695

    She doesn't buy food that has to be cooked to save on electricity? Really?
    I have no words.

    • @alejahkeyes3919
      @alejahkeyes3919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      With the way she had the light on in her room in the middle of the day, you would think she doesn’t care about electricity costs 😂

    • @eliser19
      @eliser19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Eating a raw food diet will result in dental issues so she will unfortunately pay for this big time in the future

    • @empty-sky
      @empty-sky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The "raw veg only" diet sounds more like an eating disorder.

    • @aeliciaallen8268
      @aeliciaallen8268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But the fridge pulls more🤣

    • @blessedbeyoutubeministries5267
      @blessedbeyoutubeministries5267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well, it's healthy (she's skinny), her fridge isn't hoarded and we are living an energetic/environmental crisis (most megabiodiverse área of planeta Earth Is being exploited for oil), so -weirdly- she being ethical about electric energy consumption

  • @gravyz2cute4u
    @gravyz2cute4u 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    This lady needs to learn about second hand shops or thrift stores, even buy, swap sell events. She could have gotten a decent mattress and sheets from one on the cheap. Why go to all the trouble of buying a car and rarely using it? You're just spending money on registration for no reason and letting the battery go flat. She's just way too selfish. Man needs to run while he still can. She's just trying to control everything and get her own way. Please dude, date someone normal for your own sanity. No point in saving money if you're going to live miserably. Cheaper does not mean better, especially when it comes to accommodation.
    Also, she's moved so many times. Moving is so expensive, even when you do it yourself. She's better off just staying in one place, even if the rent isn't the absolute lowest in the area.

  • @khrp7174
    @khrp7174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1804

    Ok, there's no way she can get all her stuff into a car in 15 min.

    • @AmberV1978
      @AmberV1978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Its no living like this :(

    • @Mcvargass
      @Mcvargass 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      1 hour to me

    • @charlottec158
      @charlottec158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Exactly what I was thinking - definitely not on her own anyway

    • @samjaxwhistler
      @samjaxwhistler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'd bet her my PS4 she couldn't do it.

    • @Peacelily22
      @Peacelily22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Does the car in belong her? Thought she didn’t own one 😅

  • @christiecat5367
    @christiecat5367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Run dude run. Red flags everywhere. The fact she's not willing to compromise means she doesn't care. It's all about a sense of control - run

  • @angelcontreras3814
    @angelcontreras3814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5857

    I died when she said 3 cents for each post sticker was expensive ☠💀

    • @wildmeoww2753
      @wildmeoww2753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +216

      & They were on sale for 1 cent haha

    • @billythetaco6002
      @billythetaco6002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@wildmeoww2753 they were buy one get one free

    • @darlenebuck7825
      @darlenebuck7825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      I nearly fainting when she said 1cent was too much.

    • @kaileyllewellyn
      @kaileyllewellyn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I could never live the way she does and I don't think anyone can.

    • @veesancez
      @veesancez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They were stamps which are already expensive so she's getting the best deal at 1cent each

  • @KingsDaughter.
    @KingsDaughter. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How embarrassing for him.
    And she is absolutely rude.

  • @ajgreen9289
    @ajgreen9289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1383

    This lady is nuts! She wanted those rank mattresses for cheap even though they were full of stains🤮🤮🤮 Some things are worth paying full price for and mattress/bedding is one of them

    • @gorgeousfrazier5903
      @gorgeousfrazier5903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      But why were they selling them in the first place? In a school
      ..just weird

    • @kimlee205
      @kimlee205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Let's be real 20 bugs for those were overpriced
      I would want to get paid for the effort to throw them away

    • @Tweetypi16
      @Tweetypi16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She didn't even ask what those green stains were !!! 🤢🤮🤮🤮

    • @kfitz192
      @kfitz192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Tweetypi16 Maybe they were an art project. LOL

    • @Tweetypi16
      @Tweetypi16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@kfitz192 picasso !

  • @longseafirerybell2030
    @longseafirerybell2030 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think it's wise to cut costs when you can, without having to compromise comfort and living. The main thing is treating other people with courtesy and respect when it comes to purchasing items. Especially from small business owners, they don't owe you more than what you pay for.

  • @0002Jordan
    @0002Jordan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    Is it just me or does that guy look like he wants to be put out of his misery?

    • @user-jb7tq7ko7e
      @user-jb7tq7ko7e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He can do that himself by dumping her so I haven't got sympathy for him.

    • @elizzzasanti9599
      @elizzzasanti9599 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @CT-od5dl
    @CT-od5dl ปีที่แล้ว +12

    There's something VERY psychological going on here. Even if I loved someone, I couldn't live like that. She need therapy. I thought it was very telling when she said 'I can have my car packed up in 15 minutes.' This seems like a deep trauma masquerading as quirkiness.

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. I'd leave even if I loved them. I'm not compromising my happiness and since of self for no one

  • @jcmorales1448
    @jcmorales1448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1507

    She could’ve just went to a thrift store for linens. They’re like $2-$3 bucks lol

    • @gbriellazoe
      @gbriellazoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      She got them for free 😒

    • @stabletocity3976
      @stabletocity3976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      But that’s too expensive 😭😭😭

    • @JD-ln7vw
      @JD-ln7vw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@gbriellazoe with bed bugs 😷😂 these motel linens have seen A LOT also 🤣🤣🤣

    • @abishekr1992
      @abishekr1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      But those syphilitic motel sheets were free!

    • @BabyBugBug
      @BabyBugBug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Could've gone

  • @silvermacfarlane2742
    @silvermacfarlane2742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    you can literally get a mattress at IKEA for like $300 and move it in for free 💀

  • @thoughtsintowords
    @thoughtsintowords 2 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    The solution is therapy. She's needs therapy. The relationship will not change if she doesn't get help.

    • @chaddy2409
      @chaddy2409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Honestly if i was the man id probably just have my own appartment and come over the weekens to see her, so she can live her cheap life and i can live mine. Cant expect to change a person.

    • @rufflxs6733
      @rufflxs6733 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its mostly scripted dummies

  • @cathtf7957
    @cathtf7957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    FYI. : People who are cheap with money, are also cheap emotionally. You won't get much affection from them. Ever.

  • @vandaangellozzi1990
    @vandaangellozzi1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2824

    I met this woman on her way to JFK on the subway. She asked me for directions and we started talking. I paid for something to eat and some coffee for the both of us once we got to JFK. I remember that we had some free time to spend and I told her I was going to have some coffee. She initially said no as she did not want to pay for it, so I said that I was going to pay and she therefore stayed at the coffee place at the airport with me. I did feel a bit sorry for her but I honestly do not care about money when it comes to food. I remember she told me she wanted to be an actress and was doing auditions... I would have never thought of seeing her again on this channel. I am not sure she is acting or she is really cheap or both. Such a bad way of leaving memories of yourself in this way. Ciao Monique from the Italian woman at JFK.

    • @vandaangellozzi1990
      @vandaangellozzi1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +284

      @mika lane I kind of regret it now after having watched the episode to be honest, but I never mind paying when it comes to food...

    • @vandaangellozzi1990
      @vandaangellozzi1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

      @mika lane I never deny food. I am glad to provide food, if I can, I do the same with the homeless...

    • @ghostpenguin4444
      @ghostpenguin4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

      Of course she has free time to spend because it’s free

    • @prettydisabled9060
      @prettydisabled9060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +299

      @@vandaangellozzi1990 Don't beat yourself up about it, it's just a cup of coffee. You were kind and that's what matters most.

    • @djanime317
      @djanime317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Honestly, don’t feel bad, I’m the same exact way, I will never not give someone food, even if I don’t know them or I can’t stand them, I’m always going to offer food, for kudos to you for doing the right thing 👏👏👏

  • @devonm44
    @devonm44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    she had me until she was blowing her own air into her air mattress. that draws the line 💀

  • @Angie-kq8nd
    @Angie-kq8nd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    "I hope she never come back" best line ever.

  • @mariecampbell3373
    @mariecampbell3373 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have saved $7000 !!?? And can't buy a bed !! Baby, you are special.

  • @icequeen917
    @icequeen917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    The way that woman rides a bike tells me that she probably hasn't ridden one since she was a child! Gimmie a break!

    • @tyeshamccoy7577
      @tyeshamccoy7577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Exactly she does not ride a bike everyday

    • @AmberV1978
      @AmberV1978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thats what i thought 🤣🤣

    • @MyrdindeLeeuw
      @MyrdindeLeeuw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dutch gal crying right here

    • @ginnar8702
      @ginnar8702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MyrdindeLeeuw Dutch guy joining you😭 niet aan onze fietsen komen!

    • @UserName-ts3sp
      @UserName-ts3sp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @G B or better yet she can just live in her car instead of spending money on rent

  • @myda1984
    @myda1984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3405

    The fabric lady was too funny lol 😂

    • @witchypoo7353
      @witchypoo7353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      That poor lady, I wanna give her a hug

    • @Shakira555
      @Shakira555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Frr

    • @black76561
      @black76561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Definitely

    • @tinaoruadhagain3171
      @tinaoruadhagain3171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      She said, I hope she never comes back. 🤣 That was great!!!

    • @Sabrinasee02
      @Sabrinasee02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Bargain of the century 🤣😂

  • @RachelNathalie1
    @RachelNathalie1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "Monique has been my first and only girlfriend, so I'm willing to give her one more chance" 😭

  • @jenniferholmes6644
    @jenniferholmes6644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +995

    She's so ridiculous. She's choosing her obsession over love.

    • @hannaelkotni194
      @hannaelkotni194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I would choose love any day

    • @sunnytheboxer.
      @sunnytheboxer. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@hannaelkotni194 yeah it’s hard to find people who genuinely care.

    • @Corapaslemagasin
      @Corapaslemagasin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It’s not really a choice. It’s the problem with « obsession ». you can't take them out of your life easily

    • @themagicisinyou3711
      @themagicisinyou3711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most people do sadly

    • @abbiealverez2960
      @abbiealverez2960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Don't think it's that simple obsession is a psychological problem

  • @frotedflake4054
    @frotedflake4054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The laugh he gave when she said I brought my change. 😂😂

  • @luismaldonado3317
    @luismaldonado3317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    Dude if the air mattress bothers you that much, just buy her a bed and your problem is solved!

    • @jesusismysavior8964
      @jesusismysavior8964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @moosehead1183
      @moosehead1183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I was thinking the same thing!

    • @disneygirl8694
      @disneygirl8694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Honestly I think it would enable her. She wants things for free. I tho I he just needs to escape.

    • @luismaldonado3317
      @luismaldonado3317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@disneygirl8694 you're absolutely right!

    • @PolinaLyseko
      @PolinaLyseko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Exactly or he can invite her to his place, what is point to force people do something that they are not up for

  • @madliberal7710
    @madliberal7710 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Monique definitely has some kind of mental disorder possibly from a traumatic event or by being raised that way as a child. Run, Joseph, run away from this woman while you can.
    She should move to Slab City, USA.

    • @lonniemcguire1343
      @lonniemcguire1343 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well I think maybe Joseph's also at a picnic without the basket...huh😅

  • @krislatoya7556
    @krislatoya7556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +799

    Only 1 question: they save all this money to do what with exactly?

    • @raineedaytinyfilms
      @raineedaytinyfilms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      What is HE contributing to the relationship? Why doesn’t HE buy a bed?

    • @krislatoya7556
      @krislatoya7556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@raineedaytinyfilms Generalised question for cheapstakes. What is their goal when they penny pinch like that?

    • @sophitsa79
      @sophitsa79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      @@raineedaytinyfilms I'm guessing they don't live together and he has a bed at his place. I don't think the bed is the issue, it's her cheapness and refusal to budge at a very reasonable request. He feels that their lifestyle and values don't match

    • @adaywithlon3914
      @adaywithlon3914 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dr

    • @Alex-uo4qq
      @Alex-uo4qq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      It's a mental illness

  • @jessicadarlin6893
    @jessicadarlin6893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If I ever think I’m being little cheap by buying generic brands. I’ll I gotta do is watch this and know I’m living the high life

  • @copout510
    @copout510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    Love the fabric woman - I really don’t think they think or care that other people spend their hard earned money and this is not a necessity for you it’s something you want. Insulting

    • @nunurbiznis4749
      @nunurbiznis4749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Precisely. I noticed lots of these cheapskates rip off small business owners, and (even if fake) it’s *super* disrespectful.

    • @mysterylovescompany2657
      @mysterylovescompany2657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah, for something who is willing to bring so little to the table, they always have a remarkable sense of entitlement.

    • @kfitz192
      @kfitz192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The woman at the fabric store was too nice! I've had people try it at garage sales. And love when they walk away empty handed.

    • @mariaw.4780
      @mariaw.4780 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      well said

  • @elizabethb834
    @elizabethb834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    fabric lady was done with her right when she walked in the door 😂

  • @ayzc4164
    @ayzc4164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    I’m glad the fabric lady told her something. These cheapskates are just too much! Lol

  • @poetaenlaluna
    @poetaenlaluna ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If a bed was a deal breaker he could have gifted her one, nothing's cheaper than free, sounds likr he was just wanted a way out

  • @prettydisabled9060
    @prettydisabled9060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    When I saw her hassle the lady to buy 8 whatever it was and seeing her home full of stuff, I think it's not so much about saving though taking advantage of others. Like why does she need 8 for someone who's apparently trying to spend less. I feel sorry for the people she's hassling. 😫

    • @b4rs629
      @b4rs629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is why I hate dealing with hagglers / low ballers.

    • @cook6462
      @cook6462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Right. The lady already did lower it for her. She was being rude.

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I work at a grocery store and I hate these people. They act so entitled. It's practically stealing when they just bother you so much until they get what they want.

  • @No-sv6mu
    @No-sv6mu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you google their names you will see both are actors and then realize this is very very fake

  • @nellyrose941
    @nellyrose941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +649

    I can’t believe the school is even attempting to sell mattresses like that?! 😂

    • @savannahmancuso2965
      @savannahmancuso2965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I wouldn’t even let my dog sleep on that lol

    • @mumto2monsters737
      @mumto2monsters737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      They were trash. She paid too much.

    • @toriladybird511
      @toriladybird511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Staged utterly staged

    • @Ms.Omerta
      @Ms.Omerta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@toriladybird511 exactly 😂😂

    • @alfiemcginnity3990
      @alfiemcginnity3990 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@mumto2monsters737 It looks like the kids used it to paint but there was only green paint 😂😂😂😂

  • @whitesand5050
    @whitesand5050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That grandma is so
    calm and cool.

  • @julieoliva8615
    @julieoliva8615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I would find someone else if he marries her he will be so unhappy

  • @youngtrucker2555
    @youngtrucker2555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's the point of saving that money if your not going ever at spend it or touch it

  • @R4derx2735
    @R4derx2735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    "I think Joseph is going to be impressed with this special bed"
    Joseph: 👁️👄👁️

  • @Kkkk-ep3ev
    @Kkkk-ep3ev ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She could of bought sheets at Walmart for 5 bucks 😂

  • @teeew89
    @teeew89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Who’s gonna tell her she can get a bed for 200 or less

  • @damongirl66
    @damongirl66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That new bed is just so inviting. Now, to consider how she is going to get cut-price contraception. He would have to just pull out until then.

  • @smorphous8928
    @smorphous8928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    If she thinks 3 cents is too expensive then 10 cents must be considered 1000 bucks to her. 😂

    • @jennifermarques6159
      @jennifermarques6159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They were 3 cent stamps being sold for 1 cent she's ridiculous. Essentially she could mail a letter for a penny I'd all the three cent stamps were enough.

    • @ValexrockerX29
      @ValexrockerX29 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s like the real life Mr. Krabs

  • @devinowens2166
    @devinowens2166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tbh I haven’t heard the word guff before and to learn it means nonsense or foolish talk…it perfectly describes Monique’s behavior Toward the fabric women

  • @raineedaytinyfilms
    @raineedaytinyfilms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    Why doesn’t he take her to his place? What is he offering?

    • @rayanali4991
      @rayanali4991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Fax like why don’t they go to his house, that’s why I think this show is fake cause that’s common sense and If ur a cheapskate it’s a win win, u get to save electricity, and whatever by going to someone else’s house, and their partner is happy

    • @rayanali4991
      @rayanali4991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And also at like the fabric store he coulda gaven here like an extra dollar or two when she needed it this show is so bad I can’t stop watching it’s also so fake

    • @jrhulkyolo2105
      @jrhulkyolo2105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@rayanali4991 why tf would he have to give a dollar or 2 to her? This girl is getting all this stuff 75% off to begin with😂

    • @SoloCityTravels
      @SoloCityTravels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@rayanali4991 but she has money she’s just being cheap! She should be able to split with an extra dollar without the guy having to pay.

    • @raineedaytinyfilms
      @raineedaytinyfilms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Chad Mathew hahaha

  • @claymac7895
    @claymac7895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s an addiction like any other. It isn’t about saving money, it’s about the high she gets from thinking she’s “saving money”.

  • @jazzyjaz9108
    @jazzyjaz9108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Why can't they stay at his place? Does he even have a place ?

  • @kimle190
    @kimle190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If he has such a huge problem with the bed, then why doesn't he buy one?

  • @gothicherie6691
    @gothicherie6691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Ok I’m definitely someone who rather spend and enjoy life than save nonstop, but she lives in LA and make 2400 a month, of course she’s like this as she’s lucky she’s not homeless. I basically pay her entire monthly paycheck on just rent

    • @macygraythecomfortqueen4473
      @macygraythecomfortqueen4473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same! I’m here wondering why she’s living in one of the most expensive cities in America! She’s a sub, she can do that literally ANYWHERE ELSE!

    • @ryans413
      @ryans413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea but with some savings 2400 a month in LA is doable and that’s cheap for LA

    • @themonicameza
      @themonicameza 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Cherie Exactly. That's why she chooses to save. Duh!

  • @ahimsa6791
    @ahimsa6791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wait...so she can live in L.A. in her own apartment for less than $600, but a new mattress is going to cost $1,000?

  • @Aklove_Foreign
    @Aklove_Foreign 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I’m surprised she doesn’t have bed bugs already 🤮🤮

  • @sevrinaanastasia
    @sevrinaanastasia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's honestly pretty rude to go into someone's shop and try to bargain on something way lower then it even costs to order it. I get wanting to pay wholesale (so the shop owner wouldn't make any money) but to go under that is so rude! I would turn her away in the future if she ever came back.

  • @kimi950
    @kimi950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I know how to be thrifty sometimes but won't go extreme cheapskate. I also want to experience finer things in life bc we only live once, might as well live it to the fullest.

    • @Michael-gs8og
      @Michael-gs8og 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am definitely a cheap person, but that lady definitely could have used some adjustments to still live cheap, but to also have better quality of things. I guess that one has to have a creative way of living thrifty. She should have done that, then she'd be much better off, lol.

  • @KeepingupwiththethiounesA
    @KeepingupwiththethiounesA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    $2400 a month and especially in L.A!? I could see why she would be cheap top.She makes no money!

  • @sakurafiction7163
    @sakurafiction7163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    She's litteraly robbing a small business......tf-

  • @martylesnick2032
    @martylesnick2032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I FIND IT HARD TO BELIEVE SHE CAN PUT ALL THOSE BOXES IN A CAR!!!

  • @wastedtalent666
    @wastedtalent666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    3:34 "what we're doing is charging a penny for the three cent stamps"
    Her: *TOO EXPENSIVE* 😂

    • @joelpineda4414
      @joelpineda4414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So in real life, I guess 3 cents is TOO EXPENSIVE????!!!!

    • @shanellecooper2981
      @shanellecooper2981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is hilarious! I'm crying with laughter right now 😆

  • @cjhoward409
    @cjhoward409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She reminds me of a lady who came to my garage sale one time and walked around pointing to things saying, I’ll give you 10 cents for this, and .25 cents for that. I had shirts for .50 and 1.00 and she wanted them each for .10 and .05 ! 🙄😳😡. I said no. To me, that was just insulting

  • @omgitsmariah
    @omgitsmariah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I hope she knows she can’t take that money to the grave 🤣🤣

  • @isayulirodmez9809
    @isayulirodmez9809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She should of got that mattress for free 🤮🤣🤣

  • @thisisnotmyname1469
    @thisisnotmyname1469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This is the complete opposite of a compulsive spending disorder. Like, I'm actually pretty concerned about her

    • @thaliacrafts407
      @thaliacrafts407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Two complete opposite sides of the same spectrum

  • @ellamarie9429
    @ellamarie9429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ugh, getting a used bed at a school rummage sale? Paying in change from a plastic bag for bargain linens? Then getting spare used sheets from a hotel? Then duct taping the linens to the bed laying on the floor? This man can do better.

  • @pabloescobarez6818
    @pabloescobarez6818 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i feel terrible for the guy, he’s clearly uncomfortable but is afraid of being alone

  • @eileenm.1413
    @eileenm.1413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Would love to see her bank account. If she's not spending, hopefully she's saving.

  • @Sunflower-uy4yw
    @Sunflower-uy4yw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only thing she did right was her decision to take the bike rather than the car, soo much better for the environment!

  • @cinm9565
    @cinm9565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    She needs professional help. I am surprised that she even turns on her refrigerator. He needs to run the other way if she doesn’t accept help and change. Right now her obsession is more important than her relationships.

    • @Thatkimm
      @Thatkimm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      These are essentially paid actors, their “obsessions” are greatly exaggerated or completely made up for tv

    • @jrhulkyolo2105
      @jrhulkyolo2105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Thatkimm the comment is most likely talking about the situation

  • @eyeland68
    @eyeland68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This lady is the reincarnation of a person from the great depression lol

  • @michellestella7477
    @michellestella7477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    That was some terrible acting...where did they find these people? 😬
    The air mattress part and the half eaten apple in the fridge 😂

  • @lincolnlawellington3285
    @lincolnlawellington3285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dating her or even being married to her would honestly drive me insane to the point where topping myself would be the only option.

  • @dessajooo5856
    @dessajooo5856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This is an exaggeration, she really needs to seek professional help. She does not feel uncomfortable even when everyone around her is uncomfortable because of her behavior. I support a sustainable lifestyle but this is the other extreme. Why wouldn't she live in a car then? There is simply no rent. Men, run!

  • @nickgenre1
    @nickgenre1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You live one life.... Why not choose to live it comfortably???...

  • @NYMusic89563
    @NYMusic89563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    The things that man put up with, just for some tail is hilarious 😂

    • @blessedbeyoutubeministries5267
      @blessedbeyoutubeministries5267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Way to talk about another woman...

    • @christytdale8225
      @christytdale8225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Except he isn't getting any. He stayed three yrs or so with no intimacy. If this isn't scripted, they both need therapy.

    • @igot5onit423
      @igot5onit423 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christytdale8225 A lot of it is scripted.. I'm sure she is cheap but they give her ideas and then she plays it up

    • @bubignr
      @bubignr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christytdale8225 I bet there’s no intimacy cause protection is not free

  • @MrHubb1
    @MrHubb1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    There is a difference between being sensible with money and being unreasonable. If her boyfriend was that upset with her over the sleeping arrangements that tells me she is probably hard to deal with in other ways also. She works. The point of working in part is so you can afford to buy nice stuff for yourself. Life is too short to be this hard to live with and if she is that stubborn be single and don't drag your partner down with you. She obviously was effecting her boyfriend with her lack of willingness to spend any money.

  • @Emberbernal
    @Emberbernal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Aren’t people giving away furniture for free? Like can’t she go on Craigslist and find something for free

  • @cwaltzmusic
    @cwaltzmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think at the core of some of these extreme cases is people just not letting themselves be happy as I think it comes down to self worth so it stems from a sense of low self-esteem. Who wants to be with somebody that doesn't think they're worthy of Love or happiness. It gets old after a while so I don't blame this guy. A lot of these are extreme cases of forms of OCD

  • @makaylaandhenry9160
    @makaylaandhenry9160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The only reason they ever dated is because he never had another girlfriend before

  • @silly_hue-wheat
    @silly_hue-wheat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel so embarrassed when the fabric lady was talking about her cheapness

  • @googlyeyedcat
    @googlyeyedcat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I would refuse to sleep on that mattress

  • @ludwiglanestudios
    @ludwiglanestudios ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She could learn a bit of spanish and go to the remate (swap meet). Everyone there can call her "gringa loca" and laugh at her.

  • @riajetter8738
    @riajetter8738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is real life. My dad suffers this way, but he's also a high functioning alcoholic..

  • @commonnonsense.
    @commonnonsense. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1:24 🤣🤣 This f00l is so light-headed she's high 🤦🏽‍♂️