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600+ Lb Woman's Boyfriend Leaves Her For Losing Weight | My 600-LB Life

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.พ. 2022
  • Lashanta is feeling determined to make a positive change in her life after meeting Dr Now, however, her boyfriend isn't sure if these changes are good for their relationship.
    From season 7 episode 16.
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  • @nf.m4489
    @nf.m4489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16284

    Saying " I'm attracted to bigger women " while your partner is dying in front of your eyes, is a very selfish act. She is better of without him.

    • @tatemitchell1479
      @tatemitchell1479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      Exactly. We would be horrified if someone said “I’m attracted to cancer patients”. The difference is, at least cancer is not something you can choose not to have. These leeches are only attracted to those who are at their mental and physical worst. They are parasites of society and they don’t deserve love.

    • @keyboardkween8744
      @keyboardkween8744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      *off

    • @sandrawoodward8465
      @sandrawoodward8465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@tatemitchell1479 use

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +221

      He has insurance on her trust me

    • @queensheem3337
      @queensheem3337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So true

  •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8521

    Honestly it's messed up how the guy left the woman because she was tryna get healthier he should've been supportive and been there for her

    • @MickeyGangEntGaming
      @MickeyGangEntGaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      th-cam.com/video/F2Rnxozvw70/w-d-xo.html ...

    • @GraduateJLN
      @GraduateJLN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +299

      y’all gotta know that a normal person would typically never be attracted to someone whose 600lbs…..like imagine how jarring it would be to see these people in real life let alone get intimate with them, these men have an abnormal fetish that’s why the men typically leave when they loose weight.

    • @blacknight8205
      @blacknight8205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +207

      He like her because she is over weight. He enjoys big women not her personality or health

    • @Ybw420
      @Ybw420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@MickeyGangEntGaming spamming your music on unrelated bullshit will just get you dislikes brother.

    • @foxibrown5140
      @foxibrown5140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      Some people are just controlling, insecure, assholes. He want to keep her there like a pet, doesn’t want her to live her life.

  • @ashleyhansen9009
    @ashleyhansen9009 ปีที่แล้ว +707

    "I'll still be sexy no matter how much weight I lose." What a beautiful mentality. She was too good for him anyway.

  • @optimusjanebrooks523
    @optimusjanebrooks523 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    I just read:
    As of December 2022, She has lost 133 lbs!! She is thriving 🙏🏾💯🥳 And without that Narcissistic Piece of Poo Dude 😏

    • @litespeedway6538
      @litespeedway6538 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thx for update!🤩

    • @fionaoliver7237
      @fionaoliver7237 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      He was horrible to her.

    • @MercurietteS2
      @MercurietteS2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I am so happy for her!! Thanks for letting us know.

    • @ogriss412
      @ogriss412 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So glad to hear that 💪🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @lexoflexo225
    @lexoflexo225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5343

    She seems like a sweet person. She admitted she was cheating on the diet unlike some of the other show participants. I feel so bad for her. The ex boyfriend was de@d wrong for leaving her for trying to get healthy.

    • @spookydeadite
      @spookydeadite 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      Bc he's a feeder

    • @VHale-yz7hc
      @VHale-yz7hc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      If you were dating for money then homeboy went broke you’d leave. He was only with her bc she was big

    • @foxyloxy6670
      @foxyloxy6670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      The ex has a fetish for huge women.

    • @myrthasmascary4086
      @myrthasmascary4086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am super proud of u u deserve 2 live

    • @patremagilbert8787
      @patremagilbert8787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True

  • @oonaallen9550
    @oonaallen9550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4339

    He left because of the power balance. He is a loser so he is attracted to weak and defeated women. Now that she is upgrading herself and changing her mindset it frustrates him. He is the first weight she lost. You go girl, a better man will come.

    • @JG_SmileSOBright
      @JG_SmileSOBright 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Absolutely!

    • @lydiawhyte3613
      @lydiawhyte3613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      The first weight she lost indeed

    • @sweetlikeme
      @sweetlikeme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Wonderful comment

    • @shekinasmith3927
      @shekinasmith3927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Couldn't have been said any better

    • @solostudio100
      @solostudio100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@sweetlikeme it really is! 👐

  • @wildyam474
    @wildyam474 ปีที่แล้ว +636

    It's sad that the person that was supposed to be her partner would abandon her for trying to save her own life. He clearly fetishized her instead of genuinely loving her. She deserves so much better.

  • @lena-bu1sb
    @lena-bu1sb ปีที่แล้ว +837

    she seems like such a sweet woman and she really wants to try. she just needs someone who can actually support her.

  • @miawallace2306
    @miawallace2306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5261

    She isn’t just fat. She is super-extreme morbidly obese. It is literally a death sentence and she’s trying her damndest to survive and he’s just worried about his own “attraction” to her.
    Beautiful lady, I know it hurts like hell right now, but he did you the biggest favor of your life. Keep going on the right path and get healthy.

  • @NKatz
    @NKatz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4765

    That man was disgusting! He was going to feed her until she died and would have loved every second of it. It's nuts! He loves that she can't move. Sick. So sick.

    • @alnono1743
      @alnono1743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I know eh

    • @briasworld8
      @briasworld8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Exactly.

    • @peaches44
      @peaches44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      "man" more like boy

    • @JacquelynNhi
      @JacquelynNhi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      He's worried about the weight she's lost...what weight?!!

    • @lilitulee
      @lilitulee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@peaches44 more like pig.

  • @railwaychristina3192
    @railwaychristina3192 ปีที่แล้ว +638

    I remember Zaalyn and her appalling husband dangling a burger in front of her when driving her home from surgery and telling her to eat grass if she wanted a salad. These men are into control and inflicting dependence. When their partner slims down and shapes up, they leave. They would rather the changed person keeps eating to death. Selfish and psychologically flawed.

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Obviously they both have to be mentally ill to tango. No mentally sound man would have sex with these beasts.

    • @sheilamassenburg8921
      @sheilamassenburg8921 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      In this world, there is a lot of dysfunctional and stereotypical people of all kinds. Talking about 'em ain't changing a thing

    • @It5tete
      @It5tete ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@sheilamassenburg8921um no. If anything we need to talk about it to bring awareness and warn potentially vulnerable people of leeches like him. And not just him but all the “dysfunctional and stereotypical” individuals you mentioned.

    • @aspiringladychef
      @aspiringladychef ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I remember her husband as well he was absolutely disgusting and his ways toward her before and after her surgery gives abusive vibes. He couldn’t even see that she was doing it for her health and their daughter

    • @juliebarnes798
      @juliebarnes798 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I remember that well. What a jerk

  • @veroj
    @veroj ปีที่แล้ว +749

    Love her speaking voice so sweet and innocent. Hope she’s doing well.

    • @optimusjanebrooks523
      @optimusjanebrooks523 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      The accent too ❤

    • @tinkyfox3455
      @tinkyfox3455 ปีที่แล้ว

      Had to switch off . Her voice is too annoying

    • @meatcandlepoeple5126
      @meatcandlepoeple5126 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here.

    • @toericabaker
      @toericabaker ปีที่แล้ว +40

      its a sign of childhood trauma

    • @hon6981
      @hon6981 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@toericabakermost of the people on this show suffer from that. It’s sad

  • @ShelbyEatsTheSky
    @ShelbyEatsTheSky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5001

    So watching someone you "love" slowly die, is more important to you than seeing them strive to better themselves? That's disgusting. You never deserved her.

    • @balloonboy303thegamingrail4
      @balloonboy303thegamingrail4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      It's just sad. She didn't deserve to be treated that way. I feel bad. :(

    • @armchaircritic4178
      @armchaircritic4178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She should take some responsibility for her obesity as well you know.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She never lost the weight though.

    • @offtoptv8639
      @offtoptv8639 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dcg590 FACTS. ....I BET SHE'LL SAY ITS A THYROID ISSUE

    • @missfitmissfit8918
      @missfitmissfit8918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      What makes you think he loves her?!!

  • @Chrryunique
    @Chrryunique 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2268

    HE IS PART OF THE WEIGHT THAT NEEDS TO BE LET GO!! How dare he…You will find a way baby girl don’t let that leach bring you down!

    • @RaccoonNation
      @RaccoonNation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Totally agree ♥️

    • @hellinterface6721
      @hellinterface6721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      my dad was a drog attic 2 so i eat pizza

    • @teddy7257
      @teddy7257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@hellinterface6721 oh

    • @liam5474
      @liam5474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      All we can do is 🙏 and wish her all the success 🙂

    • @D0NCH33T0
      @D0NCH33T0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This right here 👌🏾✨❣️

  • @Younggmidoriya
    @Younggmidoriya ปีที่แล้ว +216

    She sounds and seems so fucking sweet and her attitude is so great😂

    • @queenjordiisgems
      @queenjordiisgems ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hhaha totally agree. I legit love her🥰🥰🤣🥺🥰💖

  • @LouisianaCityboi
    @LouisianaCityboi ปีที่แล้ว +80

    “I’m attracted to bigger women” translates on this show to “I’m desperate for my partner disability check and use emotional manipulation to make sure they stay in a state where they can’t leave me.”

  • @CassandraMooree
    @CassandraMooree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6343

    SOO he “ worries ah lil bit “ abt her losing weight but he ain’t worrying abt her health 😭

    • @erikschiller4838
      @erikschiller4838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +247

      Exactly, if he TRULY loved her he would take her in any form .... This about her health & longevity of life!

    • @ladyofthecentury
      @ladyofthecentury 2 ปีที่แล้ว +329

      He doesn't love her. Likely, He's just loves her disability checks, food stamps, and a possibly a place to crash or money she gives him if he doesn't live there. I knew a morbidly obese girl similar to this a long time ago. She seems like a very sweet and kind person. I'm glad that he left.

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  • @JC-mj8oq
    @JC-mj8oq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1772

    Her voice is one of the sweetest voices I've ever heard. Hopefully she can talk that sweetness to herself and get her life back.

    • @TamaraGarrettAlpha
      @TamaraGarrettAlpha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      🙏💙👑💯

    • @zhaiko7479
      @zhaiko7479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I hope the best

    • @steavey301
      @steavey301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She has a Instagram singing little jingles for people

    • @realwishgamer
      @realwishgamer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      thats what happens when all you eat is cake

    • @janebrown7231
      @janebrown7231 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It's a child's voice. It would be healthier for her to be adult in every way.

  • @dleu4408
    @dleu4408 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    She has such a soft voice. I hope she is continuing her work to save her life. You don't need that mess in your life.

  • @nunya1049
    @nunya1049 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    😢 I just love her voice. She has a wonderful spirit. That guy never deserved her. Sometimes people will hold you back because they know your true potential even if you don’t. Good for you sweetheart🙏🏾💕

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Deserve her lol

  • @1Kaileegirl
    @1Kaileegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1707

    She's much better off without that loser
    Losing him was bonus weight loss
    She seems like a real sweetheart
    Hope she is doing well is very happy has her confidence back and has realised the most important thing a woman must have
    her Self Worth
    There are plenty of really good respectful men out there that will appreciate, love and respect her
    Wish her the best 💕

    • @tatscrochet2604
      @tatscrochet2604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Truee

    • @thekendrashow
      @thekendrashow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You took the words right out my mouth 👏🏾 I totally agree

    • @RoarofdalioN
      @RoarofdalioN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah most people that fall for these obese people have a fetish for them not love

    • @carmenjackson6567
      @carmenjackson6567 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope that she is still amoung US 😔😳😲😔

  • @julietteoscaralphanovember2223
    @julietteoscaralphanovember2223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2545

    Dr. Now should open up a medical facility/assisted living place where his patients who need help can go live while they're on their weight loss journey. They could have support meetings and they will be with others who are going through the same thing.

    • @terrifelton4438
      @terrifelton4438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Great Idea!

    • @vees_newlife924
      @vees_newlife924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      that sounds great

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      You know that sounds like a great idea- I’m glad you thought of it 🙂

    • @Meisha12273229
      @Meisha12273229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Tlc let them fund this !

    • @vogue_paris3106
      @vogue_paris3106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      That's a Great idea that way they can all support each other while on their journey.

  • @oburney2607
    @oburney2607 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    She have the cutest voice for a care bear character.

    • @chris7921
      @chris7921 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The voice is fake, it’s put on, it’s obvious when she’s on the phone to her friend, why are so many people so gullible!!

    • @pine-sollemonscent6391
      @pine-sollemonscent6391 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chris7921Thank you!! And it’s so annoying that she uses it to mask her heavy weight as if we can see how big she is!

  • @missadug
    @missadug ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I think her voice is so sweet! She seems like a really nice woman

  • @CamiluvsCR7
    @CamiluvsCR7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3355

    As a fat women it is messed up for him to want to keep her fat. I’m not at her size, but I can’t imagine how uncomfortable she must feel. Men can have a preference and like big, plus size, chubby women whatever you want to call it, but there’s a difference between appreciating a big women and having a fetish over her.

    • @lashaunhill3031
      @lashaunhill3031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Amen!

    • @sarahmurphy8030
      @sarahmurphy8030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      She is a fetish to him.. I hope she is successful now the feeder has gone.

    • @Kirakappukeki
      @Kirakappukeki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      Men like this keep big women because they are insecure about themselves and in their head they feel like this person won't leave them because they are so heavy. They get scared when the person wants to lose weight because they instantly feel threatened in their relationship. They feel like the only reason you're there is because you're insecure and if you lose weight you will instantly leave the person. Its sad but she will have a much better life with out someone like that.

    • @donna7049
      @donna7049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What’s to appreciate about this lady?? That she cant get up and do anything therefore he can go out and do whatever he wants lol

    • @carl2454
      @carl2454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@donna7049 besides from the feeders that probably try to intrude her life, i'm sure that some people genuinely like her for her, not her weight

  • @noodles5004
    @noodles5004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1081

    He broke up with her so she had to travel alone for the surgery making it less likely to happen this man is manipulative and abusive. Bye boy bye.

    • @mssha1980
      @mssha1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Which is horrible. I hope she keeps him away

    • @rein2430
      @rein2430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Omg I know, she can't do anything there in the house as is, did u see how she did nothing since he left? She can't, smh. She has noone to help her get to the appointment and to help her do this and that until she can make some progress, damn. Wat kind of person could do that? He was her legs right now. I know it's not his responsibility but he only left because she wanted to get healthy which is awful.

    • @wildchild1427
      @wildchild1427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@rein2430 She can do anything she puts her mind to. A chic broke both her ankles in a car accident, had too small babies at home and doctors stated she'd never walk again. She crawled around the house to take care of her babies. And when the ambulatory services were cut, she found a way to get off the 2nd floor of her apt for her appts. She WALKED in to her doctors appointment 4 months later!!!!! Don't allow the evil people in this world consume u.

    • @rein2430
      @rein2430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@wildchild1427 😲, that's crazy! Good for her 👍🏼..you're right anyone can do anything they out their minds to. It just sucks tho but you aren't wrong. The evil in this world is too much.

    • @chelseypaul4996
      @chelseypaul4996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And he was literally fetishizing her!

  • @shamekajoseph1636
    @shamekajoseph1636 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Girl, you are in my prayers. I believe in you! You can do it! And that boyfriend leaving, although it might seem like a negative is probably the best thing that could have happened to you. Stay focused and concentrate on you. Better days are ahead♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @TheContentofCory
    @TheContentofCory 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Homegirl was manipulative but sweet. I was amazed when she said she found a boyfriend in the emergency room😂😂😂

    • @Candice_Lynn
      @Candice_Lynn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She was VERY manipulative.

    • @ITS1985
      @ITS1985 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Being manipulative and denial is the nature of any addiction

    • @candyd.4398
      @candyd.4398 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The guy she “found” was a feeder and was way more manipulative than she could ever try to be. He’s the one who went and found her and wouldn’t let her lose weight. She clearly didn’t have to convince him or manipulate him into being with her. Are you watching the same video?

  • @NehNehNehNeh42
    @NehNehNehNeh42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1144

    He’s a sadist. He liked the control, he wasn’t actually attracted to her. He was attracted over the dependency he had over her. She’s going to be better off without that 🤡

    • @MariaGomez-fx6ch
      @MariaGomez-fx6ch ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Okay 👍 ❤

    • @isntshelovely5823
      @isntshelovely5823 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Doesnt make him a sadist. Google is free my dude.

    • @tommesiacooper1258
      @tommesiacooper1258 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@isntshelovely5823 my definition it actually does make him one.

    • @latoriajones
      @latoriajones ปีที่แล้ว

      Big facts

    • @1kquavia
      @1kquavia ปีที่แล้ว

      💯🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @nunurbiznis4749
    @nunurbiznis4749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1964

    He’s so attracted to bigger women he’s rather see her die than get better?? It’s so *selfish* of him to put his attraction above her health.

    • @zammmerjammer
      @zammmerjammer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      He's not "attracted to bigger women." He wants someone he can control.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@zammmerjammer exactly.

    • @ornellasigning124
      @ornellasigning124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      He wants to Dominate..so toxic 💀

    • @jessicafashionlover2148
      @jessicafashionlover2148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      HES A BUM PROBABLY WAS USEING HER

    • @Havis_Princess
      @Havis_Princess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He has the right to have a partner he's physically attracted to and she Has that same right I'm glad they broke up BC now there both happie

  • @lunchtime2960
    @lunchtime2960 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    She is such a sweetheart, I feel sad watching this.

  • @aissatacoulibaly9011
    @aissatacoulibaly9011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3960

    She has such a cute voice. Rooting for her!

    • @moremelessyou6525
      @moremelessyou6525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      So cute! I was looking for a comment like this🥰❤️

    • @aic0809
      @aic0809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      I agree. Her voice is so cute that I can't help but be touched by how sweet she seems. 🥰

    • @bubblesxo
      @bubblesxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      ikr it sounds so cute and cartoony

    • @anjistone2946
      @anjistone2946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Awww yeah, it really is. I want to give her a big hug. She reminds me of Elmo. 😁💖

    • @queensheem3337
      @queensheem3337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Foreal

  • @MacyPooh196
    @MacyPooh196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +640

    Imagine being mad that your partner is literally trying to save their own life.

    • @ericrivera8410
      @ericrivera8410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hiding greasy fried chicken under her pillow is not saving her own life.

    • @MacyPooh196
      @MacyPooh196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@ericrivera8410 Leaving your girlfriend because she’s trying to lose weight isn’t justification for what he did and her hiding chicken doesn’t detract from the point that he left her over wanting to lose weight.

    • @ericrivera8410
      @ericrivera8410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@MacyPooh196 he's with her because she's supporting him with her disability check once she loses weight becomes a contributing member of society and the check dwindles and she possibly gets s job his gravy train is over.. and she did more than sneak chicken behind her pillow she was frying a bucket of chicken in her bed where she bathes in , pisses in and has sex in..thats gross...plus she only lost three pounds ..that's the cheesy burrito she shat out

    • @jeremiahstraight6301
      @jeremiahstraight6301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ericrivera8410 😘🤣🤣🤣

    • @thebunnyfoofoo
      @thebunnyfoofoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe cooking greasy chicken in the bed turned him on XD

  • @electra7329
    @electra7329 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I really hope she’s doing better. She seems like such a great soul. ❤

  • @angelas.9717
    @angelas.9717 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She's absolutely beautiful...and the cutest voice...I hope for her a great deal of strength, self-love, and happiness.

  • @JaddeWolff
    @JaddeWolff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1349

    This reminded me of the time I lost 50 pounds and my boyfriend cheated on me with an 18 yo girl. It made no sense to me! I looked HOT, I got in shape and he cheated! Now I know why...he was controlling me with my weight just as much as he was controlling that young girl after me.

    • @keyshawnscott12
      @keyshawnscott12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      You look great but some people are just into bigger people his loss not yours

    • @JaddeWolff
      @JaddeWolff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +240

      @@keyshawnscott12 the girl he cheated with was skinny and super young. So I think he was attracted to what he considered vulnerability

    • @mystysenchantedeats
      @mystysenchantedeats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      You’re better off without him and I don’t even know you. Keep being hot lady!!! Live your life and never look back!!! 🌹🌹❤️👑

    • @keyshawnscott12
      @keyshawnscott12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@JaddeWolff you look good still

    • @JaddeWolff
      @JaddeWolff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@mystysenchantedeats awww that's so sweet. Thank you babe!

  • @ill1029
    @ill1029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +639

    I love her attitude and voice 😂 “I must confess I been cheating 🥴” lmao that was cute idk what it is with her voice but I find it so adorable lmao

    • @Zee-ob1pe
      @Zee-ob1pe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Her voice is annoying

    • @CATSWITHKYLA
      @CATSWITHKYLA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      She sounds like a baby girl

    • @sesshokitten
      @sesshokitten 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sounds like Dr Dre's ex who is a singer. Can't remember her name but she sounds similar

    • @mssha1980
      @mssha1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@sesshokitten michel’le

    • @tupacisalive1236
      @tupacisalive1236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I know 🥺🥺 she seems like a sweetheart

  • @SurahOnline
    @SurahOnline ปีที่แล้ว +18

    *She has the cutest little voice* 😊

  • @yourekillingmesmalls6034
    @yourekillingmesmalls6034 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She should call Dr now and tell him she lost about 220lbs when that loser walked out! I hope she's doing well.

  • @aceboogie2984
    @aceboogie2984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1387

    She's such a likeable person, seems like a sweetheart ❤ Her home decor is so unique and she has the perfect voice for a career in voiceovers. I really hope she stays on the journey and get rid of that loser boyfriend!

    • @irmabeans9064
      @irmabeans9064 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      She's a pretty black woman a pretty voice she thinks she probably ugly I'm going to feel my myself and I ain't going to let no man destroy my happiness all she has to do is believe in herself and talk to the Lord Jesus Christ she don't even have to go to church church is in the heart

    • @Random.338
      @Random.338 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      She does have a really cute voice

    • @chrenojallow8124
      @chrenojallow8124 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is very sad 😢😢

    • @sarawashington5485
      @sarawashington5485 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You're so right👍Her voice reminds me Officer Hooks from Police Academy, RIP 😇❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @marilyndee969
      @marilyndee969 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree with all comments. She seems like one of the sweetest, kindest people I have ever seen on the show. Her boyfriend was just awful. She doesn't realize it, but he didn't care about her or her health. Just what he liked. Dr. Now said she didn't have much time left. I hope this lovely lady made it. I would love to have someone like her for a friend. I would do everything I could to help and encourage her. I wish her all the best. The world needs people like her. I hope it all worked out for her.

  • @annajones300
    @annajones300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +602

    This woman seems so sweet and genuine she’s just been dealt a bad hand in life. She doesn’t deserve this.

    • @nnahler
      @nnahler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Man it really breaks my heart, she seemed almost childlike at points and I really feel for her. Does anyone have an update on how she did with the process?

    • @Toothless201
      @Toothless201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@nnahler she has lost weight, and she has her own youtube channel

    • @nnahler
      @nnahler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Toothless201 That is wonderful! You can tell she is a sweet spirit so I am happy to hear she is on the right path. Thank you for the update!

    • @Toothless201
      @Toothless201 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nnahler you're welcome ^-^

    • @acod24
      @acod24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No we have free will. She chose to eat more than anyone should.

  • @ipleathetv6334
    @ipleathetv6334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The friend was just like “ohhhhh” 😂

  • @Rainjojo
    @Rainjojo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Her voice sounds so adorable, I hope the best for her & her health

    • @Candice_Lynn
      @Candice_Lynn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not real. You can hear her real voice on the full episode when she let's her baby voice by accident a couple of times.

    • @daik.3535
      @daik.3535 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Candice_Lynn nobody really gaf that much , glad you noticed the most least important thing .

  • @mandolinman2006
    @mandolinman2006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    What she needs is to realize that his leaving is one of the best things that could happen to her. He was her enabler. Once she can realize that, she'll be better off in moving on and getting healthier.

  • @somebicycle6684
    @somebicycle6684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3039

    She should be a voice actor! She has a great voice!

    • @AmandaHW1984
      @AmandaHW1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@kenishabazile846 what’s her handle please?

    • @tifahxo7478
      @tifahxo7478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@AmandaHW1984 lashanta504

    • @seenonce
      @seenonce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      big girl

    • @kenishabazile846
      @kenishabazile846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@AmandaHW1984 Lashanta504

    • @MadamKitt
      @MadamKitt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is

  • @SGray-dp8yf
    @SGray-dp8yf ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Praying for her , she’s so soft hearted

  • @tysonking9582
    @tysonking9582 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    In case anyone was wondering she did lose weight, she's still in the obese category but you can tell she lost facial fat in her Instagram videos

  • @philbo2152
    @philbo2152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +555

    Unfortunately she’s a victim of domestic abuse, with her so called partner coercing her into staying big.

  • @jamessmith-bw4nb
    @jamessmith-bw4nb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    He probably got 4 or 5 other ones just like her! Getting them disability checks! The hustle!

    • @sandycheeks3473
      @sandycheeks3473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      You know he do!

    • @bakihanma1828
      @bakihanma1828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you goin to hell lmao

    • @blakehillsdale9590
      @blakehillsdale9590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lmao facts

    • @anonymous-cx7ng
      @anonymous-cx7ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @2jcward
      @2jcward 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Somebody said it! 👏👏 My uncle was doing the same thing. Never had a job, would just meet lonely women on disability and do nothing all day but lay on the couch all day watching tv and cooking.

  • @denise76
    @denise76 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He must have wanted her to stay "down" forever. He's scared she's gonna become self reliant.

  • @stefanieswontek771
    @stefanieswontek771 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She missed a phone call. Was she out for a run? 😂

    • @amariblake7783
      @amariblake7783 ปีที่แล้ว

      💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @candyd.4398
      @candyd.4398 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And I missed the joke. Was your empathy out for lunch? Or just your tactless attempt at humour?

  • @mmmfun77
    @mmmfun77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    Ladies and gentlemen this is one of the most insecure men on the planet. Pathetic. What a sweet lady

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ya, it’s his fault. Foh

    • @arganiaspinosa9122
      @arganiaspinosa9122 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@dcg590 I didn't see where the poster stated that it was his fault. Nonetheless, the lady is trying to get a handle on her health and he left her simply because she was trying to do so. No lies were spoken, he is indeed pathetic. Furthermore, I am sure most of that weight was gained before she met him but I have NO DOUBT that a large chunk was likely added to her frame while they were in a relationship because he is clearly what is known in the fetish world as a "feeder".

    • @derekmensa6959
      @derekmensa6959 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Insecure??? Lmao

    • @beeman4266
      @beeman4266 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's not insecure at all, he's just a feeder, it's a fetish for him. You gotta be super secure to be with a woman that big and not care what anyone thinks.

    • @Anthony.and.Bigsis
      @Anthony.and.Bigsis ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For real. The thing is with those types of men... I think nothing is wrong with being with a bigger person, if you have a type you have a type...but doesn't mean you watch them get to a point were they cant walk or work or enjoy life still...I feel some of those men want a lady like that so they can control them and keep them at home and not have them get out in the world and mingle with people and have their own life. I think it's a possessive and control thing too. If he cared for her, he would want her to at least lose enough so she is healthy.

  • @Kate-ld5lb
    @Kate-ld5lb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +686

    her voice is so cute...and she sounds like a great person..i feel so bad for her

    • @unicorngaby8968
      @unicorngaby8968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She Sounds like a chipmunk a very Irritating Whiny sound

    • @LoveYah1
      @LoveYah1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Her voice is the female version of Dr. Now lol soo cute

    • @awxuh
      @awxuh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@unicorngaby8968 facts

    • @cheyenne1082
      @cheyenne1082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@LoveYah1 omg so true!!

    • @CornellG
      @CornellG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She sounds like a cartoon character.

  • @Quice_Love
    @Quice_Love 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He doesnt want her to lose weight and gain confidence. Its very obvious because if hw truly loved her he'd love her no matter her weight

  • @yasminister2011
    @yasminister2011 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He boyfriend helped get her that way and left her to clean up the mess. That’s really awful 😢

  • @LoveAngelBaby
    @LoveAngelBaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +636

    Wow!!! He left her because he wants her to need him smh that’s wicked. She depended on him for everything and he knew that. Smh I feel horrible for her.

    • @2000firegirl
      @2000firegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sad she literally can not move he just leaves to feel needed.

    • @RoarofdalioN
      @RoarofdalioN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s pretty common in relationships with obese people

    • @BriaLoveElias
      @BriaLoveElias ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn he wicked smh he had this plan all along

  • @Butrcup98
    @Butrcup98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +977

    This is sadly common when women lose a lot of wgt esp after gastric surgery. While this dude split b4 the loss, it is common. I know people married 15yrs & after dropping 150 lbs & looking way good they break up & divorce. I'm in a gastric sleeve group & I was shocked to see this. Our group started 4 yrs ago & the divorced started like 18 mos - 2 yrs into the post op wgt loss. It's like the mans role was taking away & instead of finding a new identity in their relationship he splits. It's sad.

    • @MamaLinz123
      @MamaLinz123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      I had gastric bypass and was divorced 3 yrs later after 22 yrs of marriage…he said I wasn’t the same woman after! Make of that what you will!

    • @moniquejones6482
      @moniquejones6482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Most is their insecurities. If the lady gets healthy then the man will get nervous because he knows his competition has increases. Some can't take the heat so they run.

    • @noirefit5954
      @noirefit5954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      The men are probably controlling and insecure. How does your “role” get removed just because your spouse loses weight? It doesn’t make sense

    • @MsShay78
      @MsShay78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow!

    • @panzerichi3837
      @panzerichi3837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It’s Both sides to story I’ve seen were someone’s by their side while they big and once they lose all the weight they leave there partner for someone else

  • @pete6705
    @pete6705 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That’s nuts the guy left her because she was losing weight. She’s still like 600+ lbs, how big do you need her to be?

  • @TheCrippledEgg
    @TheCrippledEgg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    Losing him was no different than losing weight. She's losing something unnecessary and problematic in her life.

    • @melissagallagher8311
      @melissagallagher8311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I just feel a bit bad cuz he left her when she needed him most your right she will be better without him, but now she has no help :(

    • @maltheri9833
      @maltheri9833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@melissagallagher8311 that's my worry. She could literally up and die without a caretaker

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s the biggest problem in her life unfortunately. She never loses weight jsyk

  • @lanigreen1599
    @lanigreen1599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +766

    If a man leaves you for losing weight then that's a 100% sign they are only with you for your weight, gaining more weight and they aren't there to support you in in a weight loss journey, people like that are sickening & shouldn't be enabling people to gain weight or prevent the person who is overweight from trying to get to a healthy weight. It's horrible the lengths people will go just to fulfill a fetish of theirs in an unhealthy way. I suggest that if you are in a relationship like this is that you look for the warning signs and once those warning signs show up: Cut contact with the person, try and say no to them wanting you to eat more & stand your ground & don't make them happy if it's only going to make your life horrible emotionally and physically.

    • @dabi1769
      @dabi1769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You cant always play the victim
      Its the guys fault
      The girl trying to improve
      Have u ever considered
      The guy must have had some problems himself like he is only sexual aroused to big girls
      Coz lets be honest no1 will date her in a normal circumstances
      She's had the bf coz the bf aint normal too
      M not saying who is right or wrong
      But to dump all the fault on the guy when the girl wasnt perfect herself to begin with isnt right
      Her trying to change herself might make the guy lose his primary attraction towards her
      I hope she gets healthy and the guy find some1 else whos he happy with

    • @patriciaw636
      @patriciaw636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@dabi1769 there are people on the show who have partners who arent just fat fetishists. But the difference is this guy obviously only cares about how attractive she is to him. If he truly cared about her he would want her to be healthy and have a chance to live a happier life.

    • @dabi1769
      @dabi1769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@patriciaw636 there might be
      But can we accept that both the girl and the guy has faults
      Just coz the guy is healthy doesnt mean he doesn't have some addiction or fetishes problem.
      And lets be honest i doubt there be 1000s of guys linning up to be her bf
      Let alone many will just run away after seeing her.
      Unless they want to be on tv or something i doubt a completely normal high rating guy will drop everything to date her.
      She got the bf coz how she looked
      And if the guy wants to leave then that's his choice
      Better leave now than stay in a unhealthy relationship and cheat later

    • @shaleamontanez4591
      @shaleamontanez4591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is just as horrifying as pro Ana fetishist. Just only basing your "Love" on how attractive (and often sickly and immobile) they are.

    • @child3248
      @child3248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One of my exes hated it when I tried to make efforts to lose or maintain my weight. He once told me to get it in my thick head that I wasn't fat. Lovely, I wasn't overweight but wanted to maintain a consistent healthy weight and avoid gaining too much. And calling me thick was insulting too. But that's a story for another time. He made comments on me being 'big' when I wasn't even overweight. He wasn't a trim Jim himself, he was overweight

  • @christycapers4715
    @christycapers4715 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Her voice sounds like a little doll 💖🤲🏾🥹

  • @MedicFromTF2_REAL
    @MedicFromTF2_REAL ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love her attitude, even in the face of going through something horrible like your partner breaking up with you when you try to start bettering yourself... I honestly can't even blame her for "cheating" while going through that, almost anyone would in that position. I believe that she can really change her life, having that attitude and believing that you can do it is a huge first step!

  • @DaisyMae127
    @DaisyMae127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    The poor woman’s eyes are practically bulging out of her head and he’s got the nerve to do that?! He is so sick

    • @yasminister2011
      @yasminister2011 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol that’s funny that you thought the eyes bulging were from fatness in her face pushing on her eyeballs. Lol ❤😂 so good

  • @hilaryleachman6924
    @hilaryleachman6924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    Obsessed with her. She seems like such a sweet lady with so much light inside of her. Rooting for her!

  • @myronvalentine889
    @myronvalentine889 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He doesn't deserve her🥺she is a sweetheart 💝

  • @KimMariNJ
    @KimMariNJ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have platonic friends as well as exes telling me that I look sexy and that I carry my weight well, but I was dying from the inside out and I was almost 500 pounds. I actually had someone not want to deal with me because I want to lose weight. I had the gastric sleeve 6 years ago and I only had regain because of medication mismanagement on my treatment teams part. Saying I'm attracted to bigger women and I don't want you to lose too much weight while your partner is literally dying in front of you is a disservice to her and to everyone she loves.

  • @xysteh
    @xysteh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    Awww the way she said "I do!" was cute and the way she said "I'm gonna make you proud and show you ok" lol I hope she's doing better now

    • @yasminister2011
      @yasminister2011 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She was sweet, hey. She has a very likeable disposition

  • @krissmgvlogs
    @krissmgvlogs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    That boyfriend is wicked. Glad he's gone, hope he never returns!

  • @rebekacoleman7518
    @rebekacoleman7518 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Love her voice. She sounds like a sweetheart. Get yourself healthy and worry about yourself no man. Focus on your life and your goals.

  • @katiearellanes891
    @katiearellanes891 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Do we have an update on this sweet lady?

    • @nicolelajoi7304
      @nicolelajoi7304 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She's on Instagram. She's doing better and she lost a little weight as well. She do little singing videos alot.

    • @katrinafitch3534
      @katrinafitch3534 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dr Now gave her 2 years and she lied many times saying she's walking. She ended up losing her chances for surgery.

  • @tyrekewatson5144
    @tyrekewatson5144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    My ex girlfriend cheated on me and left 12 months ago... I was bored as hell and felt sooo bad about myself, but this corona time helped me to work on myself. My friends motivated me to work hard, they introduced me with some tips and tricks that helped me to fix my posture and eat clean as well. In the meantime, I got diet from Next Level Diet to further improve my meal planning. I lost 85lbs in 12 months, and I am strongly motivated for more!!

    • @onelovexx23
      @onelovexx23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Proud of you well done Tyreke keep going

    • @teannaabraham9090
      @teannaabraham9090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So proud of you! From a complete stranger

    • @kristy1653
      @kristy1653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep killin’ it man!

    • @heatheraucoin5832
      @heatheraucoin5832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      However much pounds the ex weighed, add that to the 85 lbs you lost, bc she was holding you back.

    • @sarcasticallyrearranged
      @sarcasticallyrearranged 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gee, it’s amazing how many people have been losing weight through Next Level and leaving comments on these types of videos. I wonder what the chances that everyone of you found this specific diet at around the same time?

  • @michellephelps1810
    @michellephelps1810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    This woman is precious. I hope she is successful and can enjoy life like she deserves. ❤️

    • @amandab8433
      @amandab8433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She seems to have the sweetest personality, and voice.

    • @iamtinaexeinmyopinion
      @iamtinaexeinmyopinion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@amandab8433 that's a Louisiana girl right there 😊

  • @xXx___xXx
    @xXx___xXx หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    she has the sweetest voice I've ever heard! she totally could get into voice acting ❤

    • @pine-sollemonscent6391
      @pine-sollemonscent6391 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s an act smh.. you can’t tell ? That’s not her natural voice.

  • @thelovely961
    @thelovely961 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She sounds so sweet, just want to hug her. He's worried about the control he will lose and how attractive she will become to other men because she already has a sweet personality/ character.

  • @annaarviso1520
    @annaarviso1520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    “I’m still going to be sexy. No matter how much I lose.” YES QUEEN! 👑❤️ I’m so glad she got rid of him. He didn’t love her. He fetishized her. What a piece of garbage. 🤢

  • @bettystiegler1702
    @bettystiegler1702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Despite all of the obstacles in her way, she’s still so determined. I hope she succeeds

  • @dazedgal
    @dazedgal ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I ballooned up 50 pounds with my ex and he insisted on cooking all my meals. I thought he was just being sweet little did I know this mf was cooking with lard and idk what else. I stopped going to his place stating I’m doing a juice cleanse and he ghosted me. It disgusts me that I’m struggling still to lose all that weight and I can’t wear any of my clothes because of him. Satan really walks among us. Who does that to their partner?!

  • @j-rodthelibrarykid1166
    @j-rodthelibrarykid1166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    "I'm still gonna be sexy" period she deserves better

  • @BcutiesWorld81
    @BcutiesWorld81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +644

    I'm touched to tears 😭 I really hope she makes it ❤, her voice touched me and her story is inspiring as hell, she didn't need that weak punk anyway, good riddance 🖐🏾

    • @jamesmccurry6753
      @jamesmccurry6753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Disturbing!

    • @LurkerBae
      @LurkerBae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I thought I was the only one who teared up at her beautiful little voice tinged with so much pain:(

    • @8080janei
      @8080janei ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@jamesmccurry6753 her voice is gorgeous but your random hatred for her voice is disturbing… you don’t like her voice but yet you spent 9 minutes and 57 seconds listening to it ? Dingbat asf 🤣

    • @yasminister2011
      @yasminister2011 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@8080janei I think he meant the boyfriend is disturbing. If you’re right tho…. I agree. Haters gonna hate. Meanies gonna mean.

    • @coym5452
      @coym5452 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea she’s so beautiful and has a sweet soul 🌸❤️

  • @unapologeticallyamy9031
    @unapologeticallyamy9031 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lashanta, You are such a lovely woman and I’m so sorry that man is too stupid to realize it. I understand heartache and how it can stop us from taking care of ourselves. Eventually we wake up from the sadness and kick ourselves for giving up. You can do this!!! Please don’t ever give up working on being healthy. You have the most beautiful soul and we need people like you on this planet. Heaven has a lot of angels already.

  • @doitfor.s
    @doitfor.s ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love her voice ❤ So sweet and innocent 😇 I hope she lost the weight she needed to for a better future ☝🏾

    • @Candice_Lynn
      @Candice_Lynn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not her real voice. You can hear her real voice in the full episode.

  • @breannajones2567
    @breannajones2567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    He wasn’t in love with her, if he was, he’d be supportive of her.
    Her getting healthier coupled with him leaving, means that she can find better. Go girl! There are millions of other people out here who support you! 💜

  • @mistynorman3172
    @mistynorman3172 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    I'm still rooting for her, I've followed her for years on Instagram and her spirit seems so beautiful and she seems so sweet. I genuinely want her to win.

    • @belovedage
      @belovedage ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What's her Instagram I wanna follow her

    • @Nonameforyou777
      @Nonameforyou777 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What's her Instagram please?

    • @arriyannamichelle
      @arriyannamichelle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Nonameforyou777lashanta504

    • @arriyannamichelle
      @arriyannamichelle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@belovedagelashanta504

    • @AneciaRichard-mr2xt
      @AneciaRichard-mr2xt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What's her Instagram

  • @sunflower78575
    @sunflower78575 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Crazy how people dont speak on jealousy of partners who dont like to see their partners succeed. Its not always jealousy about other people.
    Also I've never heard anyone from Louisiana with a baby voice. Their accent is already cute but her voice makes it adorable

  • @bsaunders5271
    @bsaunders5271 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Bless her, she's such a sweetie ❤

  • @stuff1784
    @stuff1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    I don’t understand how anyone can enable this sickness. Why would you want someone immobile as your partner?!

    • @Shan-lp2iu
      @Shan-lp2iu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      it is a fetish he did not love her only her morbid obesity. look up the term "Feeders" Its really sick because i have my own fetishes as a healthy woman with a partner but i have no idea how they can fetishize a human being. you have kinks, you dont level everything in someone on one kink! i actually think feeders should be called enablers, not just a kink bec they are dangerous

    • @LostSox
      @LostSox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same way someone enables a drug habit?

    • @briasworld8
      @briasworld8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@LostSox Right.

    • @raquelpk2
      @raquelpk2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Dependency… you need me and you can’t do anything without me . It’s that feeling and desire of being needed like a superhero’s complex . Most of these men had mommy issues too btw . Their whole lives they were raise to be like husband number 2 for mom .

    • @noirefit5954
      @noirefit5954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Because they can control everything

  • @mycampfirestories
    @mycampfirestories 2 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    I love her spirit I WANT TO SEE HER SUCCEED

  • @natirivi1717
    @natirivi1717 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sweetie it took me 3 years to lose all my weight and my husband stood by me all through it if a man really loves you he will stick by you because no matter what it's not what's in the outside inside okay so don't lose hope and keep doing what you want to do cuz that's what you want to do and he has to respect that trust me you'll feel much better about yourself it won't be easy but you will feel much better about yourself and God bless you and I hope you understand and you get back together

  • @niahbombshell8069
    @niahbombshell8069 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love her sweet and light her voice is.

  • @kaitjones1678
    @kaitjones1678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Him leaving proves he only ever viewed her as an object to be used and not as a human.

  • @fairyy0611
    @fairyy0611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    He don't want her losing weight, because he knows that once she's healthy it will catch many attention to other guys...avoid him...he ainnnn't shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit. She is soooooooooooooo sweet oh my goodness♥

  • @misterslats
    @misterslats ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love when they say about Dr. Now's diet: "I'm still trying to figure it out". The translation? "I haven't even tried it yet".

  • @tommypearson9260
    @tommypearson9260 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anyone that is leaving someone for bettering themselves is pure madness!
    Couples are supposed to take on their best form for each other it's like there's a real Psychological issue when you basically want a crippled person in your life because of a fetish or some weird obsession ,Just blows my mind......

  • @janellewright2763
    @janellewright2763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    She is so adorable! I love her voice. Quit dealing with low life, insecure men. That is what's unhealthy. He left her so she would start eating again and gaining the weight back. Women need to start loving themselves more than men.

    • @bossqueenz9339
      @bossqueenz9339 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amen. Men are not more important than us women loving ourselves first. Having a man ain't everything.

    • @netteaiken3115
      @netteaiken3115 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So her not being able to walk to wash or use the bathroom is his fault?? She was big when he met her.
      She needs to get up and do better

    • @Candice_Lynn
      @Candice_Lynn ปีที่แล้ว

      @@netteaiken3115 If you've seen the whole episode, she's actually a manipulator and she's always got an excuse. And she turns that baby girl voice off and on at will.

    • @XanderBeckett1
      @XanderBeckett1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@netteaiken3115ur a reading and judgment failure

  • @allieeeruiz
    @allieeeruiz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    she seems like such a genuinely nice person, im rooting for her to get healthier!

  • @MariaGloria-iu3fm
    @MariaGloria-iu3fm ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lashanta, nadie que deveras quiere el bien tuyo, pueda querer verte con este peso!!!!! Asi que siga con tu progreso de vida!!!!

  • @gracieladelosangeles7392
    @gracieladelosangeles7392 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's so sweet, I hope she is doing better, her man doesn't know what love means.

  • @VashtiInez
    @VashtiInez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    She may not realize it yet, but with him gone, she is now free to really focus on what she needs to do, for herself. I wish her good luck and strength, it's always an adjustment when your partner bails, but there are better days ahead.

  • @aribusg3302
    @aribusg3302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Lashanta seems like a very nice lady. I pray she's well and in good health.

  • @sychobones3788
    @sychobones3788 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This woman has to have the sweetest voice I have ever heard. I hope she found health and happiness. That guy was a creep!