You live and you learn. Life is always the TEACHER. Been through this also Chi, I had to learn to cut people off who don’t value my time. One thing u can’t get back is your TIME.
@@marshellethe1andonly356 can’t get it back so how we spend it and who we spend it with is so important. I’m happy you’re creating boundaries and removing people who don’t respect or serve a purpose in your life.
I’m going to be sooooo honest. You rubbed me the wrong way at FIRST. But I tuned into your podcast because I wanted to give you that chance to change my opinion & you did! EVERYONE HAS THE CHANCE TO LEARN AND GROW. I initially found out about you from the pop the balloon but seeing you raw and uncut. You’re REAL AF. You’re just being yourself and no one can ever fault your for that ❤. You’re beautiful, and I’m pretty sure you’ll get far in life. YOU GAINED ANOTHER SUBSCRIBER, Another supporter, and trust that they’ll be plenty more!!
"Shouldn't have to think for an adult" is ironic considering how many women want this in regards to dating and romantic relationships. "Soft life, "turn my brain off" etc.
Hey love! So happy this was your third podcast because as my life and where it is currently with the B.S I’ve been enabling (let’s be honest) IVE been enabling has turned @ and bit me in the butt. Not even 2025, I’m talking Dec. 19 2024 FULL STOP, I will no longer allow people to blame shift and be defensive. This leaves no room for adult conversation and no room for growth and perspective which translates to. People love to be selfish, I’m almost convinced that people love to be a victim more than to be heard. And that’s my Ted Talk lol. Also, idk if you were practicing the “umm” thing I suggested, but you did very well, I saw in moments you paused and continued on with your thought. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤ see you in the next one!
Yea Ted Talk the victim mentality is rooted in lack of accountability too. Yes no ums 😂 and I wasn’t trying that hard this time I was just so sad and upset I feel like I didn’t think much I was just talking lol. I definitely told myself to stop umming on my love streams and pause like you said and I think it will translate everywhere I speak I continue to pause and process lol. Thank you for the suggestion. 💚✨🤣
I've been listening to your podcast for 3 weeks, and I fkn love it. 💯✔️ You're beautiful, smart, and a true REAL one. You got potential and you got style, keeping shining beautiful one. ✨️ From a fellow American born Nigerian igbo dude, I stand with you Chi. 👍🏾💯✔️
Hi Chi Chi, if this is truly tour best friend try to hash it out but if they are not respecting you, if they are not supporting you, if they are not loving you keep it moving. I've learned to not make permanent decisions off of temporary feelings. On another note, as a subscriber,supporter I would love to see Danny as your first guest. And if there is anyone that can make it happen I know you can.
How I feel I find you on pop the balloon 🎈🎈🎈💭 show or dating show be calm okay and relax a little I love your podcast I was hoping you was going to find a match or invite Danny on the show you can get your point across without arguing
Another fire episode.. in the words of the immortal DMX. "Preacher tellin the truth and it hurts".. rating me as an 11..u know.. My biggest beneficial boundry I set is my Time with subsection A being enjoying it no matter what the circumstances are, and B making sure others respect it. There is nothing in this world that cant be replaced or regained whether it be money, possessions, friends or family relationships, etc. Except for one thing. TIME, so make the most of it❤
Drinking at that time in the morning is OK Chi it is 5pm somewhere around the world.. The way you hustle and grind Chi is such an inspiration to me personally because it shows us that you can do what ever you put your mind to.. You just got to focus and keep moving forward no matter how big or little your step is as long as you are walking the path you are focused on walking.. I respect the way that you stay focused on what you want to achieve.. I also admire the way you drop at the blink of an eye for those who you Love whole heartedly.. That trait on it’s own is hard 1 to find now days and you hold that with your head held high.. You also don’t expect anything in return all you expect is to be treated the way you treat them🫶🏽..Yes you really need boundries because some people use and abuse your time and energy and the time and energy you put out towards people you want to also get the same time and energy back in return.. As a best friend how can you not listen and support your best friend in her endevours what sort of best friend is that?? You are growing and watching this growth through your podcast Chi is such an amazing accompishment on it’s own.. It is fully ok to let go of those that no longer serve a purpose in your life.. My day is a 10 today so I am having an amazing adult day.. I have set a goal for myself and that is to not let anyone in my space that I can tell is not good for my own energy 💚.. Also Chi I am so proud of you and how much you have grown in each episode from being hella nervous in the first ep to this 1 is just WOW!! This is by far my favourite I can’t wait for next episode 💚
Setting boundaries of one hour before and after recording is very generous of you.
You live and you learn. Life is always the TEACHER. Been through this also Chi, I had to learn to cut people off who don’t value my time. One thing u can’t get back is your TIME.
@@marshellethe1andonly356 can’t get it back so how we spend it and who we spend it with is so important. I’m happy you’re creating boundaries and removing people who don’t respect or serve a purpose in your life.
I’m going to be sooooo honest. You rubbed me the wrong way at FIRST. But I tuned into your podcast because I wanted to give you that chance to change my opinion & you did! EVERYONE HAS THE CHANCE TO LEARN AND GROW. I initially found out about you from the pop the balloon but seeing you raw and uncut. You’re REAL AF. You’re just being yourself and no one can ever fault your for that ❤. You’re beautiful, and I’m pretty sure you’ll get far in life. YOU GAINED ANOTHER SUBSCRIBER, Another supporter, and trust that they’ll be plenty more!!
Thank you for the uplifting words and genuine support. 💚🫶🏾✨ thank you for accepting me for me‼️
One of my boundaries I have set is that the approval of others who have no authority over any part of my goals has no value.
I LOVE THAT‼️✨💚🫶🏾
Thanks for another GREAT podcast💚💚
@@marshellethe1andonly356 thanks for always supporting 💚✨🥹
"Shouldn't have to think for an adult" is ironic considering how many women want this in regards to dating and romantic relationships. "Soft life, "turn my brain off" etc.
@@AcerbicOrder everyone’s different if that’s what someone wants that’s their desire. I like my brain working 🤣
Hey love! So happy this was your third podcast because as my life and where it is currently with the B.S I’ve been enabling (let’s be honest) IVE been enabling has turned @ and bit me in the butt. Not even 2025, I’m talking Dec. 19 2024 FULL STOP, I will no longer allow people to blame shift and be defensive. This leaves no room for adult conversation and no room for growth and perspective which translates to. People love to be selfish, I’m almost convinced that people love to be a victim more than to be heard. And that’s my Ted Talk lol. Also, idk if you were practicing the “umm” thing I suggested, but you did very well, I saw in moments you paused and continued on with your thought. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤ see you in the next one!
Yea Ted Talk the victim mentality is rooted in lack of accountability too.
Yes no ums 😂 and I wasn’t trying that hard this time I was just so sad and upset I feel like I didn’t think much I was just talking lol. I definitely told myself to stop umming on my love streams and pause like you said and I think it will translate everywhere I speak I continue to pause and process lol. Thank you for the suggestion. 💚✨🤣
I've been listening to your podcast for 3 weeks, and I fkn love it. 💯✔️
You're beautiful, smart, and a true REAL one. You got potential and you got style, keeping shining beautiful one. ✨️ From a fellow American born Nigerian igbo dude, I stand with you Chi. 👍🏾💯✔️
Thank you so much 🫶🏾💚🇳🇬 I appreciate the love and light in your words. Thanks for the support.
Hi Chi Chi, if this is truly tour best friend try to hash it out but if they are not respecting you, if they are not supporting you, if they are not loving you keep it moving. I've learned to not make permanent decisions off of temporary feelings. On another note, as a subscriber,supporter I would love to see Danny as your first guest. And if there is anyone that can make it happen I know you can.
Thanks for the support 💚✨ it’s truly appreciated.
I like ur jacket hoodie thing
You are really pretty 🙌
@@katedemenok thank you beautiful ✨🫶🏾
The first word I’m relationship is “relate”
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I’m Proud of you. So dope. Keep podding up
Thanks Spiffy!!!
💯 you on point
💯🫶🏾✨💚 thank you
How I feel I find you on pop the balloon 🎈🎈🎈💭 show or dating show be calm okay and relax a little I love your podcast I was hoping you was going to find a match or invite Danny on the show you can get your point across without arguing
😊 thank you 💚✨
Another fire episode.. in the words of the immortal DMX. "Preacher tellin the truth and it hurts".. rating me as an 11..u know.. My biggest beneficial boundry I set is my Time with subsection A being enjoying it no matter what the circumstances are, and B making sure others respect it. There is nothing in this world that cant be replaced or regained whether it be money, possessions, friends or family relationships, etc. Except for one thing. TIME, so make the most of it❤
TIME‼️ One thing we can’t get back ✨💚 thanks TDUB for the support and feedback
Merry Christmas I want to send you an hug sorry about your experience Put. It in God hands okay first time watching your podcast
Thank you 💚✨
👏🏽💯🤞🏽
💯💚✨🫶🏾
You deserve Respect
💚✨ thank you
Drinking at that time in the morning is OK Chi it is 5pm somewhere around the world.. The way you hustle and grind Chi is such an inspiration to me personally because it shows us that you can do what ever you put your mind to.. You just got to focus and keep moving forward no matter how big or little your step is as long as you are walking the path you are focused on walking.. I respect the way that you stay focused on what you want to achieve.. I also admire the way you drop at the blink of an eye for those who you Love whole heartedly.. That trait on it’s own is hard 1 to find now days and you hold that with your head held high.. You also don’t expect anything in return all you expect is to be treated the way you treat them🫶🏽..Yes you really need boundries because some people use and abuse your time and energy and the time and energy you put out towards people you want to also get the same time and energy back in return.. As a best friend how can you not listen and support your best friend in her endevours what sort of best friend is that?? You are growing and watching this growth through your podcast Chi is such an amazing accompishment on it’s own.. It is fully ok to let go of those that no longer serve a purpose in your life.. My day is a 10 today so I am having an amazing adult day.. I have set a goal for myself and that is to not let anyone in my space that I can tell is not good for my own energy 💚.. Also Chi I am so proud of you and how much you have grown in each episode from being hella nervous in the first ep to this 1 is just WOW!! This is by far my favourite I can’t wait for next episode 💚
Thank you for the support, insight and encouragement Sheesh‼️ It means a lot, you’ve been cheering for me every step of the way from TikTok ✨💚