My thoughts EXACTLY!😩😭 What are these men DOING??? The level of confusion when it comes to faith and what it TRULY means to be a Christ follower is wild. 😮
just because other people are lukewarm and doing sinful things doesn’t make it ok,or change the fact…fornication is lukewarm among other things, regardless of what others are doing.
@@lastnamefirst9423 I’ve addressed it in a video all about “The Spirit of Confusion” man. He is running rampant out here today. 🤦🏽♀️ He wants what he CANNOT provide to a woman.
Loved the episode guys! One suggestion from a marketing perspective, maybe have one round where you are actively picking a question from the card game.
I see a lot of “professing Christians”, but they live in the world, and walk in flesh. Ie “can’t wait till marriage “ or reference to zodiac signs. I pray that they start to work out their salvation,with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12.
I relate to Mia, its soo hard to find a genuine man, they can look nice but the moment you hear them speak, they sound no different than the average 16yo boy. I wish you well Mia ❤
Leon's body language from the the beginning until he got elimated spoke "i dont want to be here, this is not what i thought it would be and none of these women are really my type"
I'm half way through the show. Married for a long time and just enjoying what I'm hearing. What I love most is how the ladies are encouraging uplifting to one another. Beautiful.
This content has great potential if executed well. Using your hardly in love cards during the show would be great promo and good fun. I think each episode should have panelists from different states e.g. NY panel, ATL panel, TX panel etc (obviously baring in mind time difference). Maybe down the line, more audience engagement e.g. super chats get to ask the daters a question they must all answer, or the audience votes who they think match the best and those two get pulled into a room for further conversation, bringing audience backstage to contribute, audience gets to boot someone off etc. This may be out there but throwing Ryan into the mix every now and then, you never know if his future wifey might pop up 😂 There are many ways to go about this so I'm excited to see what this channel will bring to these ratchet relationship content streets looool
I find it interesting that the ladies were on equal playing field regarding their bodies, the difference was their face and features, and personality. Mia had the worst energy out of all the ladies, and said she was a former cheater. Yet was the #1 draft pick amongst the guys. It really goes to show how men definitely gravitate toward a certain aesthetic while charecter and personality come secondary to that.
Ya'll need to ask that kid question from the start. Also, can we get an on screen timer for the sessions on this channel and the other HI channel with the debates. ❤ Love you all
It's the hypocrisy for me. Men seem to like to use the term " God fearing woman" as a way to describe how they would want godly values to keep her in line. Not necessarily what they choose or plan on living by.
Great new show, guys; thanks for keeping it fresh for us 🤍 Thoughts: I perceived two of the ladies were very eager and forward towards the man all 3 liked. I find that energy tends to turn men away. It was interesting to observe. Mia called the guy into pursuit with her comment about men asking the women for a one on one. That's when things went more in her direction. I think she stood out more after because of that approach. The friend seemed best suited to the guy overall (age and disposition wise on paper), but people like who they like. If he was attracted, her zodiac comment would've sparked follow up questions instead of a decision on his part. Jas would benefit from scrubbing her socials of all the relational quotes/advice. It comes across very aspirationally opinionated...much how the single male influencers who give dating advice come across--aspirational. She seems like a tender sweetheart underneath, though a bit inexperienced & perhaps guarded. Overall, I respect all of them for having the courage to put themselves out there.
Suggestions: It could be a good idea to show everyone's social media, let men choose 1-on-1's since they are the leaders in the relationship, and to focus on why the match chose one another rather than why they didn't choose one of the other individuals
The real reason behind divorce is not first finding the right connection with another person and two not asking God if this is the right person for you
We need date updates on the connections to see if the sparks turned into a flame or not. Also will those who didn’t make a connection return to other shows?
Exactly because they say men are visual, so are women… ain’t nobody on here blind 🤦🏽♀️😂. Men sometimes always wanna see what a woman has going on first. I feel like people use Instagram to judge you to a degree without getting to know you or spending time. I don’t have pictures up, so I’m not giving a man nothing to lust or desire after. If other women want to do that, fine but I’m not doing that for no man. This is just my experience with the men I’ve encountered…, I find that some black men they always want to see me, even with seeing me in person like at the supermarket. I’m not giving you my IG handle, so you can look at me and decide whether or not you’re interested. It’s clear you don’t want to get to know me. Men outside my race they don’t do that to me. Caucasian men don’t do that to me or Latin men or other races. Black men, tend to be fixated on that, unless he’s a Godly man. Worldly men want to see everything. A man should respect the fact that I’m modest and don’t want to put myself online for other men to desire me…. But they see it as, oh she must be hiding something… And ya know what… actually I am hiding something… I’m hiding myself from lusting preying eyes 😂 I’m not like other young women or vain and need to take cute pics and make up and all that stuff for likes or whatever. I’m old school and my mindset is different. 😊
Yeah that was deeply problematic havibg the women being examined like auction cattle for these lackluster disinterested men . Like who are they supposed to be and why cant we examine them?
@@lastnamefirst9423 You said “having the women being examined like auction cattle” 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 for real😆😆😆😆😂😂😂😂 like yeah, she’s fit, she’s into Pilates or travels… just because a person does something or has a certain lifestyle doesn’t mean they’ll be equally yoked. People use the wrong things to determine the kind of person they want. I know they were low-key judging the woman with two kids from two different men. But yet they can have kids from several different women. Remember that episode with Iyanla Vanzant and all those men that had kids by different men. It was that episode where the guy had 33 kids. Another guy had 16 kids 8 different women. And why the woman gotta relocate🤔… you relocate 😐😂… as much as some men say they want a Godly woman, they really don’t. They want in the lyrics of Prince “the most beautiful girl in the world” then they’ll take everything else after and try to tweak it.
@rondaykhamard8224 ,So true, still heavily misogynistic like women need to keep a standard and qualify for men and men just need to show up...I just realized the one guy is even topless in the thumbnail 🫠🥴 very unserious...
I agree with his mom too! I am a woman and she exhausted me. Unless he's as anal and argumentative as she and thats his thing her attitude and issue with everything will grow old real quick!...These guys chose off of preferencial appearance only, the other two ladies didnt stand a chance, the guys made their mind up on the superficial. Mia gave off disgruntled attitude the whole time, the other two ladies were pleasant, smiling seeming to have a good time and the men paid them dust. The other two girl seemed like theybwould provide peace Mia, struggle, but men fall in love with difficult women everyday....time will tell
I’ve been waiting for 15 years. No sex, no dating, nothing. So it’s hard because my own men keep trying to sleep with me but I haven’t talked to any man at all. I have no interest. I want a godly man, I want a discipline man.
Churches are claiming God is against premarital sex. That's is bullshit. St Augustine wrote Christian doctrine for the church. He was sleeping with prostitutes and one got pregnant. Later swore premarital sex is fornication. In a whorehouse or in public...still in civil law in the US. Has nothing to do with God!
this was a really good interview i really like the plot here inviting these singles. And taysean held back that laugh ( the zodiac thing ). yo i would have lost it !!
I enjoyed this, and I love this platform. We all have our own journey to Christ and some are not there yet, and some need help in the relational aspect of their life. Not hard to believe some Christians make great community in church but are horrible socially and relationally. I was starting to think Tiphani was going to take over the whole platform, respectfully. THANK YOU FOR BRINGING BACK THE YOUTHFULNESS OF THIS CHANNEL. (Still will be tuning in to Hardly Initiated to be fed spiritually!)
Jaz is my girl!!! I think her and jay had chemistry and compatibility but like she said if he ain’t choosing me I’m not choosing him💥Great episode. Love the fact that Mia mentioned the men doing the choosing.
Healing is an ongoing journey, so for him to say “come healed” when he literally just got out of a relationship Is unrealistic. Healing is something that is constant, you’re ever changing and growing from things and people that no longer serve you; I think he needs to spend more time with himself instead of searching for the next young lady to pursue.
I checked out ... as mentioned already in comments but you can't be saying you won;t wait but you want a God fearing women and claim the same but won't upholding waiting until marriage.
Jay was the favorite?? The Hardly Initiated audience isn't too smart. His intro was super shaky. No wonder women are having trouble in dating lol, they're choosing the secretive man.
Valid valid, but notice I gave more information about myself than any of the other guys. I tell you about myself opposed to telling who I think I am or who I think I want. Maybe that is what is troubling women. The intro isn’t as important as what people say when you probe them.
Jay was the favorite by default I think. He came off more serious and self assured than the rest and when he went hard for abstinence that really excited the girls. I found him to be a bit full of himself, coming off a bit hard nosed and maybe a bit arrogant/attitudinal. Like he wasnt very personable at all. I also didnt like how he played the girl that asked him for a one on one he made it abundantly clear he was not interested and patronizingly talked to her about music and dancing when she asked him for the one on one he couldnt even crack a polite smile. It was evident he had his eye on the blonde girl esp when you contrast how he lead the conversation on meaningful things.
Good question! But the reality is that no man on this panel is waiting for marriage to have sex. They didn't have to say it at all, even if they did "say it". That's the key indicator that it's easy said than done calling yourself "a Christian", especially as a man.
Keep this structure and I think y’all should have more basic questions for alignment reasons. As far what they value and where they are on their spiritual walk. It was a bit disappointing to hear some of the young men’s and the one lady’s perspective especially with what you guys have inspired in the initiate community.
As soon as I heard about sex part I knew who was going fo match. The line up for the men was ridiculous. Only the most attractive lady girl got her match. I am sick of this. Get more godly men next time, so that other godly women have their chance to match, and not only the light brighter girl...
Great first show! I think this is a true depiction of our world today.. for every 4 women you'll have 3 truly submitted/on various walks with God & for every 4 men you'll have 1 truly submitted to God.
I have to disagree. Godly Men and women are at the same ratio. The women are just better at pretending to be celibate ! Celibate until the right price/motivation!!
For clarity, I was nervous and said Scorpio but it was in reference to my bday being In November b/c everybody knows November is Scorpio lol. I don’t practice or believe in horoscopes or zodiac symbolisms. My identity is in Christ and nothing else. The confusion was they asked Jay about Jas and he mentioned Sagittarius while he was taking about her. Surely my faith was made clear for the remaining hour & a half of the show.❤ All love
As a 12 year abstinence coach, written two books. On my 3rd. Women honoring the Lord get few dates. Coffee dates are a must because men only receive a kiss on the cheek in return. 😂
Feedback: create sections throughout the show for more structure. Let the singles be revealed one by one in the call. Let everybody get a one on one from the very beginning so the match game goes more smooth in the last round. That way the people that they were interested in don’t just sit all the way to the end to only put up a ‘0’
Believe it or not, there are plenty of Married folks that practice abstinence too for several reasons. Married doesn’t automatically mean “doing it”. I know Asexual folks that are Married, impotent folks that are Married… or just not equally yoked like she wants it daily and he wants it monthly… it’s interesting out here.
Not to mention high risk /sick pregnant wives, sick husbands, wives that recently gave birth a grieving spouse, a spouse going to care for a sick relative. Being married does not mean you have no holds barred sex at all times. There will still be times of abstinence, and self control is still needed. To show love you cannot demand sexual gratification no matter the circumstance. This is why in part why many marriages are riddled with infidelity. I dont know why men think they're going not show self control their whole life then get married and magically remain monogamous. Then they'll talk about the divorce rate when the wife gets tired of his mess...oohh chile
Nothing theyre justvmaking excuses. People act like social media is mandatory. There are people leading perfectly healthy and productive lives without social media
I think you guys should've shown the men's IG too to see what they post as well. Love the new dating show it's a safe place for people to meet ❤️
im so confused how these people talkin about needing to be spiritually mature but not standin on waiting till marriage
I thought that also
I thought the exact same thing
It’s the “Spirit of Confusion” running rampant in men today. They refuse to accept that life is about trade offs. You CANNOT have it both ways.😑
It’s sad that a lot of “Christians” in modern day times are very wishy washy and lukewarm 🙏🏾
Luke warm Christians. Anybody serious about their faith would abide by God's standards.
I feel bad for women. You had 1 guy waiting until marriage and everyone called themselves Christian that’s crazy
Speaks volumes about the modern dating pool
We have to remember to judge by fruit not by someone calling themselves Christian. Also it’s important we don’t hold someone’s past against them 😊
@@azariaamariee fruit is fruition....product of what has been practiced
My thoughts EXACTLY!😩😭 What are these men DOING??? The level of confusion when it comes to faith and what it TRULY means to be a Christ follower is wild. 😮
That’s how it is 😭. Dating and waiting is tough, but I’m gonna honor God with my mind, body, and spirit regardless 💯
If you’re not waiting for marriage, you’re lukewarm.
just because other people are lukewarm and doing sinful things doesn’t make it ok,or change the fact…fornication is lukewarm among other things, regardless of what others are doing.
FACTS‼️
@@Christystcyrallen that part!!!
@@BetterLoveMovement Would like for you to do a think piece on this about men.
@@lastnamefirst9423 I’ve addressed it in a video all about “The Spirit of Confusion” man. He is running rampant out here today. 🤦🏽♀️ He wants what he CANNOT provide to a woman.
It's not so simple dating when your a true kingdom woman
Loved the episode guys! One suggestion from a marketing perspective, maybe have one round where you are actively picking a question from the card game.
I see a lot of “professing Christians”, but they live in the world, and walk in flesh. Ie “can’t wait till marriage “ or reference to zodiac signs. I pray that they start to work out their salvation,with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12.
Amen. 🙏🏽
I relate to Mia, its soo hard to find a genuine man, they can look nice but the moment you hear them speak, they sound no different than the average 16yo boy. I wish you well Mia ❤
Thank you ❤
Leon's body language from the the beginning until he got elimated spoke "i dont want to be here, this is not what i thought it would be and none of these women are really my type"
THIS‼️
The dude out of a relationship 3 months ago is talking about people being healed 🤣
And from his response about divorce shows he still has some healing to do . Ugh lol
That's a good thing about you giving yourself 10yrs to heal and learn what you want out of life. Great job on the loving God being a deal breaker!!
I'm half way through the show. Married for a long time and just enjoying what I'm hearing. What I love most is how the ladies are encouraging uplifting to one another. Beautiful.
These people saying I’m not waiting into marriage but still Christian is just a lie
🎯🎯🎯
I’m glad these Christian women got rid of all the men that said they weren’t waiting until marriage but called themselves Christian just dumb
This content has great potential if executed well. Using your hardly in love cards during the show would be great promo and good fun. I think each episode should have panelists from different states e.g. NY panel, ATL panel, TX panel etc (obviously baring in mind time difference). Maybe down the line, more audience engagement e.g. super chats get to ask the daters a question they must all answer, or the audience votes who they think match the best and those two get pulled into a room for further conversation, bringing audience backstage to contribute, audience gets to boot someone off etc. This may be out there but throwing Ryan into the mix every now and then, you never know if his future wifey might pop up 😂 There are many ways to go about this so I'm excited to see what this channel will bring to these ratchet relationship content streets looool
He has my head throbbing talking about sex being a tool
The more he talks the worse it gets
I find it interesting that the ladies were on equal playing field regarding their bodies, the difference was their face and features, and personality. Mia had the worst energy out of all the ladies, and said she was a former cheater. Yet was the #1 draft pick amongst the guys. It really goes to show how men definitely gravitate toward a certain aesthetic while charecter and personality come secondary to that.
That’s exactly what happened
Smh
I noticed that too. I couldn't help to think of the show with Dr. Umar who shared that black men are naturally
bias towards dark-skinned women.
She definitely said she was A Scorpio and when u follow God u don’t do signs
it’s her relationship with GOD some people combine spiritual with religion. God is not only for christian religions.
Ya'll need to ask that kid question from the start. Also, can we get an on screen timer for the sessions on this channel and the other HI channel with the debates. ❤ Love you all
Y’all kept me laughing 😂Congratulations to Jay and Mia making a connection 😊
Heartfelt Hallelujah has been my SONG this month! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Suggestion - I don't think the audience vote should be taken so early in the show. It can influence the participants.
Now we see how tough it is for single WOG. The pool of true MOG is tiny.
What is WOG?
@@zee7130 Woman of God
Women of God and Men of God. She took the acronym he said earlier and didn’t spell it out. I just happen to remember 😊
😭😩
It's the hypocrisy for me. Men seem to like to use the term " God fearing woman" as a way to describe how they would want godly values to keep her in line. Not necessarily what they choose or plan on living by.
Loved this !! Also love how there wasn’t judging and everyone spoke their truth but great first episode
Alright. Jay and the classy lady above him with the beautiful tree!
Great new show, guys; thanks for keeping it fresh for us 🤍 Thoughts: I perceived two of the ladies were very eager and forward towards the man all 3 liked. I find that energy tends to turn men away. It was interesting to observe. Mia called the guy into pursuit with her comment about men asking the women for a one on one. That's when things went more in her direction. I think she stood out more after because of that approach. The friend seemed best suited to the guy overall (age and disposition wise on paper), but people like who they like. If he was attracted, her zodiac comment would've sparked follow up questions instead of a decision on his part. Jas would benefit from scrubbing her socials of all the relational quotes/advice. It comes across very aspirationally opinionated...much how the single male influencers who give dating advice come across--aspirational. She seems like a tender sweetheart underneath, though a bit inexperienced & perhaps guarded. Overall, I respect all of them for having the courage to put themselves out there.
This was so good! I can’t wait to see more
Suggestions: It could be a good idea to show everyone's social media, let men choose 1-on-1's since they are the leaders in the relationship, and to focus on why the match chose one another rather than why they didn't choose one of the other individuals
Yeah I really didn't understand heavily scrutinizing the women snd not the men especially when the guys presented way more red flags.
Love this ❤ it was a feel good show.. great content for us singles great job fellas 👏🏿
This was so fun to watch. Keep this going!
Thank you for watchinggg
The real reason behind divorce is not first finding the right connection with another person and two not asking God if this is the right person for you
I believe Jay and Tori would have been a better match. Mia seems a bit offended throughout the show. Tori is more mellow and humble.
having met Tosin in real life “high energy” is an understatement 💀💀
I loved this not to mention top tier people up here. I can’t wait to see this evolve and grow over time
I'm subscribed to the new channel! Keep up the great work!
We need date updates on the connections to see if the sparks turned into a flame or not. Also will those who didn’t make a connection return to other shows?
I wish all men were like Jay. Jesus Christ calls his followers to have self, discipline and obedience.If you don't got that , but what do you have.
No disrespect but he has a whole kid out of wedlock, we can’t just skip over that like he’s some perfect being…..
I love this keep expanding brothers this was very entertaining
They showed the women ig’s why not the men?
Exactly because they say men are visual, so are women… ain’t nobody on here blind 🤦🏽♀️😂. Men sometimes always wanna see what a woman has going on first. I feel like people use Instagram to judge you to a degree without getting to know you or spending time.
I don’t have pictures up, so I’m not giving a man nothing to lust or desire after. If other women want to do that, fine but I’m not doing that for no man. This is just my experience with the men I’ve encountered…, I find that some black men they always want to see me, even with seeing me in person like at the supermarket.
I’m not giving you my IG handle, so you can look at me and decide whether or not you’re interested. It’s clear you don’t want to get to know me. Men outside my race they don’t do that to me.
Caucasian men don’t do that to me or Latin men or other races. Black men, tend to be fixated on that, unless he’s a Godly man. Worldly men want to see everything. A man should respect the fact that I’m modest and don’t want to put myself online for other men to desire me….
But they see it as, oh she must be hiding something… And ya know what… actually I am hiding something… I’m hiding myself from lusting preying eyes 😂 I’m not like other young women or vain and need to take cute pics and make up and all that stuff for likes or whatever. I’m old school and my mindset is different. 😊
Yeah that was deeply problematic havibg the women being examined like auction cattle for these lackluster disinterested men . Like who are they supposed to be and why cant we examine them?
@@lastnamefirst9423 You said “having the women being examined like auction cattle” 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 for real😆😆😆😆😂😂😂😂 like yeah, she’s fit, she’s into Pilates or travels… just because a person does something or has a certain lifestyle doesn’t mean they’ll be equally yoked. People use the wrong things to determine the kind of person they want.
I know they were low-key judging the woman with two kids from two different men. But yet they can have kids from several different women. Remember that episode with Iyanla Vanzant and all those men that had kids by different men. It was that episode where the guy had 33 kids. Another guy had 16 kids 8 different women.
And why the woman gotta relocate🤔… you relocate 😐😂… as much as some men say they want a Godly woman, they really don’t. They want in the lyrics of Prince “the most beautiful girl in the world” then they’ll take everything else after and try to tweak it.
Because they would then be revealing that they aren't the Christians they say they are, even what's in their browsing history.
@rondaykhamard8224 ,So true, still heavily misogynistic like women need to keep a standard and qualify for men and men just need to show up...I just realized the one guy is even topless in the thumbnail 🫠🥴 very unserious...
I agree with Tysean’s mom 😬 (Mia was commenting on every negative word that was said) but hoping her and Jay work out!!
I agree with his mom too! I am a woman and she exhausted me. Unless he's as anal and argumentative as she and thats his thing her attitude and issue with everything will grow old real quick!...These guys chose off of preferencial appearance only, the other two ladies didnt stand a chance, the guys made their mind up on the superficial. Mia gave off disgruntled attitude the whole time, the other two ladies were pleasant, smiling seeming to have a good time and the men paid them dust. The other two girl seemed like theybwould provide peace Mia, struggle, but men fall in love with difficult women everyday....time will tell
Loved this... love from London Town x
I liked this first episode, I know the show is going to grow! I kind of think no one should have been eliminated, I like Ya Ya
I’ve been waiting for 15 years. No sex, no dating, nothing. So it’s hard because my own men keep trying to sleep with me but I haven’t talked to any man at all. I have no interest. I want a godly man, I want a discipline man.
Churches are claiming God is against premarital sex. That's is bullshit. St Augustine wrote Christian doctrine for the church. He was sleeping with prostitutes and one got pregnant. Later swore premarital sex is fornication. In a whorehouse or in public...still in civil law in the US. Has nothing to do with God!
I agree with Jay 100%
You all need to have a 50+ show also
this was a really good interview i really like the plot here inviting these singles.
And taysean held back that laugh ( the zodiac thing ). yo i would have lost it !!
I enjoyed this, and I love this platform. We all have our own journey to Christ and some are not there yet, and some need help in the relational aspect of their life. Not hard to believe some Christians make great community in church but are horrible socially and relationally. I was starting to think Tiphani was going to take over the whole platform, respectfully. THANK YOU FOR BRINGING BACK THE YOUTHFULNESS OF THIS CHANNEL. (Still will be tuning in to Hardly Initiated to be fed spiritually!)
Tori did mention being a Scorpio when introducing herself..it wasn’t Jaz lol
😅 I knew someone said something zodiac
@ yea you weren’t tripping lol. I was like hmmm myself
This was enjoyable fellas! Keep it up
Love this idea you guys! 🫶🏽💕👌🏽
Wait a minute 2 years is a long time without a relationship? Dang, they don't want to hear my answer.
Love all of your guys content, but this was especially fun to watch lol! I can’t wait to see next weeks episode! 🙂↕️
Wow this going be good!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
Make sure yall have a show for seniors 60+ sometimes
I am Christian, and I regret not testing the car before I brought it home.
Finally got a chance to rewatch this..hmm looks like I dodge some bullets… Thank you father God🙏🏽
Hey Host... Put the names on the screen
Jaz is my girl!!! I think her and jay had chemistry and compatibility but like she said if he ain’t choosing me I’m not choosing him💥Great episode. Love the fact that Mia mentioned the men doing the choosing.
Thank you Beautiful❤
Fantastic Show…please consider ALL AGE GROUPS!!!
Why they acting like they don’t know the definition of sneaky link or side piece 😂
Ok Tysean and Ryan are hilarious with the commentary on their instagram pages hahahahahaha
Sis I’m with you on the last “REAL” relationship 10 yrs as well intentionally for me…..after a long marriage
I love hearing everyone saying God fearing person ♥️🥰
Do a UK edition! This was fun.
Yes! I'm loving this setup 🙏
Let YaYa and Leon go off together. They do match
Speak Jay !!!!💯💯💯💯
Healing is an ongoing journey, so for him to say “come healed” when he literally just got out of a relationship Is unrealistic. Healing is something that is constant, you’re ever changing and growing from things and people that no longer serve you; I think he needs to spend more time with himself instead of searching for the next young lady to pursue.
Hard fought Hallelujah is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
That was a great point to have the men pick!!
I checked out ... as mentioned already in comments but you can't be saying you won;t wait but you want a God fearing women and claim the same but won't upholding waiting until marriage.
Great for Jay!! That should be a deal breaker for everyone if they don't follow God. That's the only way a relationship work.
i’m definitely going to be tuning in every thursday. ❤
i’m a single 33 year old woman in the dmv 👀
Really enjoyed this ❤
So excited for this!!
Jay the ONE SIS GET HIM
Excellent show❤
I'll be the first to comment.... Excellence!!
Jay was the favorite?? The Hardly Initiated audience isn't too smart. His intro was super shaky. No wonder women are having trouble in dating lol, they're choosing the secretive man.
Valid valid, but notice I gave more information about myself than any of the other guys. I tell you about myself opposed to telling who I think I am or who I think I want. Maybe that is what is troubling women. The intro isn’t as important as what people say when you probe them.
Jay was the favorite by default I think. He came off more serious and self assured than the rest and when he went hard for abstinence that really excited the girls.
I found him to be a bit full of himself, coming off a bit hard nosed and maybe a bit arrogant/attitudinal. Like he wasnt very personable at all.
I also didnt like how he played the girl that asked him for a one on one he made it abundantly clear he was not interested and patronizingly talked to her about music and dancing when she asked him for the one on one he couldnt even crack a polite smile. It was evident he had his eye on the blonde girl esp when you contrast how he lead the conversation on meaningful things.
@@jaybarbosa553Yea Jay💪🏾 lol
@ the internet is undefeated lol
What if nobody’s interested in marrying you? Are you going to stay abstinent for the rest of your life?
Good question!
But the reality is that no man on this panel is waiting for marriage to have sex. They didn't have to say it at all, even if they did "say it". That's the key indicator that it's easy said than done calling yourself "a Christian", especially as a man.
Keep this structure and I think y’all should have more basic questions for alignment reasons. As far what they value and where they are on their spiritual walk. It was a bit disappointing to hear some of the young men’s and the one lady’s perspective especially with what you guys have inspired in the initiate community.
I just wanted to clean Lo’s screen off! 😩
As soon as I heard about sex part I knew who was going fo match. The line up for the men was ridiculous. Only the most attractive lady girl got her match. I am sick of this. Get more godly men next time, so that other godly women have their chance to match, and not only the light brighter girl...
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 my dating game just got upgraded
Ty and Ryan are funny!!!
Jay seems decent. I don't mind the wait. *wink wink*
Great first show! I think this is a true depiction of our world today.. for every 4 women you'll have 3 truly submitted/on various walks with God & for every 4 men you'll have 1 truly submitted to God.
I have to disagree. Godly Men and women are at the same ratio. The women are just better at pretending to be celibate ! Celibate until the right price/motivation!!
After hearing all that I see why he was quiet 😳🫢
Nah TORI SAID SHE WAS A SAGITARIUS
She DEFINITELY did, lol
@@Journeythirtiesyes she said Scorpio
For clarity, I was nervous and said Scorpio but it was in reference to my bday being In November b/c everybody knows November is Scorpio lol. I don’t practice or believe in horoscopes or zodiac symbolisms. My identity is in Christ and nothing else. The confusion was they asked Jay about Jas and he mentioned Sagittarius while he was taking about her. Surely my faith was made clear for the remaining hour & a half of the show.❤ All love
@@latoriac7638 understood.
As a 12 year abstinence coach, written two books. On my 3rd. Women honoring the Lord get few dates. Coffee dates are a must because men only receive a kiss on the cheek in return. 😂
Feedback: create sections throughout the show for more structure.
Let the singles be revealed one by one in the call.
Let everybody get a one on one from the very beginning so the match game goes more smooth in the last round. That way the people that they were interested in don’t just sit all the way to the end to only put up a ‘0’
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣. Yooooo bring on Ty’s Mom
Believe it or not, there are plenty of Married folks that practice abstinence too for several reasons. Married doesn’t automatically mean “doing it”. I know Asexual folks that are Married, impotent folks that are Married… or just not equally yoked like she wants it daily and he wants it monthly… it’s interesting out here.
Not to mention high risk /sick pregnant wives, sick husbands, wives that recently gave birth a grieving spouse, a spouse going to care for a sick relative. Being married does not mean you have no holds barred sex at all times. There will still be times of abstinence, and self control is still needed.
To show love you cannot demand sexual gratification no matter the circumstance.
This is why in part why many marriages are riddled with infidelity. I dont know why men think they're going not show self control their whole life then get married and magically remain monogamous. Then they'll talk about the divorce rate when the wife gets tired of his mess...oohh chile
Number two is on point. 😊
Liking the show! Suggestion, add a lil royalty-free romantic background music to help set the mood😉
Omg Jay is 100% right 2:01:00
What does social media and accessibility have to do with one’s own personal convictions and decisions?
Nothing theyre justvmaking excuses. People act like social media is mandatory. There are people leading perfectly healthy and productive lives without social media
How one presents themselves to the public does tell a lot about them
The young lady def said her zodiac sign lol
That was Tori not me (Jaz) lol❤
@ I should have said her you are right.
I like Leon’s voice
Loved it!
How is she saying Scorpio and Jesus in same sentence? Lol
You gotta have the holy ghost to succeed