Black Men's Self HATRED Towards Black Women.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ต.ค. 2024
- Incoming comments from the men as expected but again this is for those who can strongly relate and understand. Again this is not ALL black men, this is towards all the black men who have time to degrade bad women.
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The black men in the comments are proving your point, and with the Fuhad and James controversy happening right now, your video was well-timed. There is a massive anti-black issue in the black community and the denial is an attempt to gaslight you and to make you feel like the issue is with you. We all know that the issue isn't with us (as in it's not because we are ugly), the issue is that we are "ugly" in this environment and the perception of what is beautiful is persuaded by Euroscentirc ideals of beauty. It's why most Somalis don't claim being black or AFrican because they feel they don't have typical African features. Take a likkle trip to Africa or the Carribean and the story will change - you are the beauty standard, I have seen the treatment men give to LS women vs DS women, you don't have to be a rocket scientist to see this but I don't expect perpetrators to acknowledge their crimes.
If only you girls kept the same energy for the sisters that constantly talk down on lightskin bm. Colorism goes both ways. Yet the outrage is 1-sided. You never listen to bm when they call out the double standards.
@LOVELYLONDONGURL you haven't seen it. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen often. Especially on dating shows online. Lightskin bm constantly get demonized by sisters.
@LOVELYLONDONGURL I know that you are against bm and support WS but let's stop with the double standards. Notice how you ignore sonya masseys situation.
@LOVELYLONDONGURL since you wanna demonize bm, then stop asking bm to agree with you.
@@LOVELYLONDONGURL you are the same girl that sided with Zimmerman. You uplift WS and say rac!st things towards bm.
As a white guy who dated white, asian and black women, in terms of arguing, lack of accountability, self-entitlement black women have been the worst by far.
That’s your personal experience 🙏🏿
Nobody asked, bozo
My experience informed me that black women can be the most argumentative, but they're not the most unaccountable. White women own that one by far! They literally have no ability to apologize or accept that they made a mistake. And if they do make a mistake and the man tells her about it he will pay a price for it!
Preciate the honesty bruv, Blk Men understand your pain lol
Feel you chief alone of black women can be unpleasant. However another of them think it's charming or somehow endearing 😂😂
You know I’m light skin and short I’ve been treated differently All my life because in the black community you need to be tall and dark for women to take you seriously Do I complain? No at the end of the day I’ll choose to be with who appreciates me I won’t force anyone to appreciate me there’s someone out there for everyone
As you should
@@braag710 your comment is like telling black people not to acknowledge and “complain” about racism. That they should just take it and accept their lot in life. Your personal expeirnce being a LS shorter male is one bi product of colourism whether you’d like to admit it or not. Because dark skin is seen as inherently masculine, DS black women and LS men get the shorter end of the stick but in different ways. You’re seen a “soft” and we are seen as manly. The other end of the spectrum is that DS men are seen as manly and alpha but LS women are seen as the epitome of femininity. And it goes beyond “preference” because you have to start asking yourself what influences people’s preferences. We do not live in a vacuum and can’t deny our society influences what we deem to be attractive. For example: it’s not a coincidence that majority of women prefer tall men (even the short ones- which is another discussion altogether). Why? They are taught indirectly or directly that tall men are more attractive, more mainly etc. It’s no different with skin tone but for some people because BW are speaking out- people want to invalidate their experiences.
@@LOVELYLONDONGURL how would you go about fixing the issue? More media representation?
Asking cause I’m also lightskin and short,so he’s definitely not wrong that we get treated differently by women it’s like you need to prove yourself 😭then again being a darkskin girl isn’t any easier
@@DANTESDEMISE being a dark skinned woman is also tough. Yes we need better representation but also the idea that dark is masculine, light skin is feminine and short men are not manly need to change. But that may take decades. We have to continue talking about it if we want to see a shift though.
Yh but you need to understand we love black women just the ones we find attractive lol but that’s for everyone like it’s just the women that always talk on these subjects just be unattractive and it’s like bruh are you forcing us to find you attractive
You only love black women you think are attractive ? you don't have them as friends?
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A lot of black women are very strong and independent bc of their own personal experiences. If black men don’t want to date you does not invalidate your beauty or your worth. And I see plenty of black couples, other races with black partners… the hatred can be towards the weight, no matter what culture you’re in fat is not seen as healthy- (generally! Ik people who love big women) so no matter what race you are, if you’re overweight, you will not be as respected or valued as it will be seen as lazy/unconsistent/lack of self esteem. But I really think no one nowadays has issues with trying different flavours, if you don’t get approached is because most of the population are attracted to skinnier but shapy ladies. Not because they prefer other races. I can be wrong but I really think of you lost weight you’d see the difference
I’ve been treated like trash by several women never thought black women have an issue
Heal just heal
When it comes to your weight and self esteem, you CANNOT separate the 2! The same goes for men when it comes to their success and self esteem! A man's self esteem is tied to his success just as a woman's self esteem is tied to her beauty. And, when those things fall out of order then excuses start surfacing! The point is to get beyond making the excuses and becoming accepting of yourself and others. Men need to stop using beautiful women to raise their status when they don't have any. And below average looking women need to stop putting on a whole mask to make her beautiful in order to get a man when she's not remotely beautiful!
Basically what I'm saying is get in your lane and if you don't like the lane you're in then make real changes rather than cosmetic ones and that goes for men and women. When you do that, your self-esteem will automatically rise, but it cannot go up when you're cosmetically trying to become something that you're not!
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I just dont get how colorism is a thing. Most black men i know love natural hair. I always encouraged my ex wife to wear her hair natural. We cant be responsible for everything you are when you arent doing anything we ask. For someone asking to be seen for more you sure focused on the most shallow aspects of people. Sexual attraction compatibility and respect all together. Without one of these it doesnt work.
So the few men you know means that millions of women's experiences are somehow invalidated or not real? even light skinned women and men acknowledge that colorism is real. Have you ever heard about the house slave and the field slave - did you know what they was predicated on? Have you heard of the statistics that show the dark skin black men get longer prison sentences than light skinned black men? Have you been living under a rock for the past like 20 years regarding all the controversies in this area from people with platforms? I find it hard to believe that deep down you think the colorism is just a figment of people's imaginations. It's really like a white person gaslighting black people about prejudice and racism.
I’ll be honest topics like this are tired 😂 let’s be real yes you have some men and women who self hate due to personal experiences. But in all black men still love black women I see black men and women couples in a daily basis.
If it’s tiring for you, you shouldn’t have clicked on this video 😗
@@talkswithhelena😂 I didn’t mean it in a bad way chill 😆 calm down sis
@@Chaz15 I said what I said, there was no impression given that I need to “chill” or “calm down”.
@@talkswithhelena ok sorry if it came across that way I was just saying that it’s not true that black men have a self hatred towards black women maybe some but a very small percentage do.
Hence why I kept repeating in the video SOME! Black Men. Did you watch the whole video before making this comment??
Many bm are insecure about their height because girls constantly say that guys under 6 feet can't protect. Make a video talking about that also. Don't cherry pick topics. Also stand up for lightskin bm as well.
Why don’t you make the video, you seem passionate.
@talkswithhelena this just proves that the sisterhood is very 1-sided and bias towards bm.
6:21 Talk Ya Shit Helen! We Like You Back🫶🏾🫶🏾
It’s the opposite for me I’m a darkskin woman and it guys that are always darker than me who judge you or make sly comments. Lightskin men and yt men don’t hate us how they do. Imo
you sounded silly soon as you said “yt men don’t hate us how they do” 400 years of opression, systematic racism and global antiblackness to this day says others; delusional
Not true you sound like a divestor yt men like us what are you in about 😂
@@Chaz15 no what are you talking about. Read it properly. I said darkskin black men hate us. Yt men are better in my opinion. And yes I am a divestor.
@@mlove8158 no their not and that’s not true keep lying to yourself 😂😭 just say your a divestor instead of putting black men down.
I agree with ur video as a black man. Black women are the most oppressed in society. However there is also opportunity - if u are a black women u just need to play the game smarter. When I have a family I am going to teach my black daughters how to get ahead, same way I teach my sons. Inadequate parenting is the cause of ALL the black communities issues
You need to heal
We all need to heal 😢
We all do!
Shut up man we all need to heal. Who’s to say sis speaking her truth ain’t helping her heal ❤
They’re all triggered🥺
You need to shut up 🙄
Go to the gym😂😂😂😂😂😂
Haha 😂
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