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great video, thanks.

i just got back from hong kong after living there for a couple of months (little background 19 year old black uni student) and it was so freeing .. Everyone wore whatever they wanted and no one batted a eyelid , being ‘weird’ was encouraged and most ‘young people ‘ that you would meet were just good vibesss . That being said i think living in london forces you to be you even more in a way .. As you get to a point where you truly truly have to stop caring and focus on what matters to you .. hopefully any of that made sense what I am trying to say is stay true to you and put yourself first (even if that means relocating 😭) loved the videooo

What's your Instagram??

The arrogance looool Listen up - number 4 rating, you "encountered people who showed a genuine interest", but decided to self- sabotage. Stay in your league and you'll find a relationship. Hope this helps. 🙏🏿

Dating a white woman is like a trophy it almost becomes a requirement when you are a successful black man I couldn’t imagine sharing my wealth with a ghetto black woman like this

The worst thing about UK girl aesthetic is when you're authentic I get called 'weird' within my own community wtf... damn

And some girlies have a full head of thick hair under their wigs and I just think why??? Why don’t you show it off? It’s so beautiful!

Facts Facts!!! Why can't we all in London just be free and vibe its beyond me 🤷🏽‍♀️#1Life # NoBadVibesWithMe

Put the camera back a little

no cuz when beyonce said "london speed it up, houston rock it!" I really think she knew the bad state the UK culture was and still IS in

When I graduated I went straight in to entrepreneurship and felt so unsupported in the beginning. TH-cam randomly recommended this video to me and I loved it! Thank you both from your vulnerability.

This topic is tired. It’s the same for everywhere not just the UK you just haven’t fully lived or explored elsewhere. For you it’s bad vibes because of what you see/where you hang out etc. Yes people judge/envy each other but you’re acting as if this only happens here. And you can’t talk about uk black girl aesthetic when you look no different on your insta page. If I see something another girl is wearing or of course I’ll buy the same thing. Even with makeup. We all influence each other in some way. It’s getting boring now it’s just constant complaining. There’s the baddie aesthetic in the US don’t you not think some people judge over there? More girls are wearing bone straight wigs in Nigeria because it’s trending. The uk black girl aesthetic is trending. So let people hop on trends and wear what they want. You talking about people dressing the same is you judging and being a bad vibe. Talk about something better. Go somewhere else if you’re tired.

cool vid but back up off the mic 😂😂

I feel like this should be ‘London is bad vibes’. Cause I’ve been born and bred in Notts and I love it here

love the vid x pls get a standing mic for better audio plsss

I know what you mean by people trying to humble you. They call it 'Tall Poppy Syndrome' where, if society sees you succeeding in something or at least trying to succeed, they will cut you down and accuse you of thinking that you're better than them. I think they are just jealous. If you're different from the mainstream you are judged harshly. I should know, I am autistic and have never really fit in anywhere, but I like to do my own thing. And I wish people could feel more free here.

There are billions of people in the world that aren't even able to make a video like this because they're either too poor to have internet access or technology, or they'd be punished by their authoritarian governments for their use of free speech. Saying you 'HATE' the UK sounds like someone who is foreign to true struggle, you need to recognise you've won the lottery by having the opportunity to live here. Also I'm sure other countries have these issues, the UK isn't especially like this.

Agree with all your points. Just some friendly advice: please hold the microphone further away or turn the sensitivity down because the whooshing sound when the sound peaks is quite distracting. Keep up the good work.

Just found your channel and I love your vibe, your so real ❤

I’m not from the UK, but i’ve lived there for a year and i visit often because my dad works there. I’ve noticed that British youth are such bullies. Everyone’s trying to one up the other, the rudest comments on TikTok have the top likes, people try soo hard to humble you for no reason even when you ARE being humble. Even as a guy, you’re expected to conform to whatever trend is going on, whether it’s wearing tech fleece, listening to rap drill etc. (this is mostly in Black British culture). And if you don’t conform, you’re called a “batty boy” and singled out so badly. Honestly, this all probably stems from the coping mechanism of bearing living in the island.

People go through REAL issues day in day out. You are just ranting over small little things Also everything you have said is in your mind so stop being paranoid Also if that is how you talk about hating the uk to everyone then they will not want to be around you or watch you on media platforms, it take long time and a lot of grafting for years to get to a certain place where you want to be Just be great full you live in a decent country that has keep ped you alive othe people in other countries wound love and I mean absolutely would love

Same I’m leaving the uk soon can’t wait

Hilarious and delusional.

I love you Helena; you’ve been so consistent recently and have been working super hard ❤ Thank you for the great video 😂

You are a symptom of the problem. The U.K. was not perfect but it was a far more cohesive and efficient society pre-2000. Yea no shit the U.K. is a miserable country, it’s culture is dead, its economy is failing as its reliant solely on dirty money and foreign labour and its elites aren’t really British but belong to a class of global citizens. This isn’t unique to us, but we have owing to many factors, been hit worse than say France

Usa black girls are exactly how you described uk girls. I agree Uk is small, however as a city London is huge, one of the biggest cities in the world.

Bm keep your head up. WS and women like this will always try to paint you a certain way.

Many bm are insecure about their height because girls constantly say that guys under 6 feet can't protect. Make a video talking about that also. Don't cherry pick topics. Also stand up for lightskin bm as well.

Just think how short guys feel?

Bm have constantly been disrespected by ceratin girls in the community.

If you don’t like it here, then leave?

the worst in the UK is that everybody starts to judge u and try make u feel bad make u feel bad cpompetetion they all lyers al the same, same thing different day, they wake up and choose to waste their time on making othrs feel bad

i hate the UK and i hate england

This is so true people think that others are wet for just enjoying themselves

Sounds more like UK black culture than UK culture

OMDS ILYSM BRO UR SO REAL

Don't worry about it. Some people love to fit in. For other people trying to fit in crushes their spirit. To be fair those mean girls sound horrible. Maybe try going to different places and mix with white people and other communities. UK isn't that small but if you only stay amongst black people it is very small.

Honestly not trying to be rude but I feel black people in general when it comes to dating we need to go into black spaces where we are appreciated everyone has their type am sure their are many black men out there and your their type.

I’ll be honest topics like this are tired 😂 let’s be real yes you have some men and women who self hate due to personal experiences. But in all black men still love black women I see black men and women couples in a daily basis.

UK is an incredibly miserable place. I advice everyone under 30 to get out whilst they can.

I been knowing this since 2010 people would tell me I think too much , the black here don’t even like each other, and the carrebeans don’t like the Africans

Tbh I’ve been wanting to get out of the UK for a while for other reasons too cos I wanted to go and explore other countries and decide which country I want to leave long term.

The grass ain't greener on the other side, its the same shi everywhere ...

True

UK wants emulate the US alot ....bare insecure people. By the way London = not the UK its bigger then that.

I like your vibess and content ✨🙌🏽❤️

Yesss girll omg

Loved this vid girl and feel the same way :)

A lot of black women are very strong and independent bc of their own personal experiences. If black men don’t want to date you does not invalidate your beauty or your worth. And I see plenty of black couples, other races with black partners… the hatred can be towards the weight, no matter what culture you’re in fat is not seen as healthy- (generally! Ik people who love big women) so no matter what race you are, if you’re overweight, you will not be as respected or valued as it will be seen as lazy/unconsistent/lack of self esteem. But I really think no one nowadays has issues with trying different flavours, if you don’t get approached is because most of the population are attracted to skinnier but shapy ladies. Not because they prefer other races. I can be wrong but I really think of you lost weight you’d see the difference

I agree. I can't wait to leave this miserable country.