Pain wether in normal delivery or c section both are same the stiches you get in your private part is not normal you cant even sleep all night dur yo pain your legs wont move because of stiches. Every delivery wether it is normal or c section is not easy. Those who say normal delivery is easy u get pain for that time only , have u experience the labour pain you will understand what is death. You cant say that you dnt hav to suffer in normal delivery. Being a mother is not easy delivering a baby wrthrr through c section or normal both are tough but women does this as a warrior.
@@kaikashashaikh5096I experienced both pain comparatively C section is better. I delivered my baby in UK my pregnancy was high risk though they tried to deliver the baby normally. I had labour pain for 40hours and the pain was intense that affected baby as well because my baby was tiny and I had emergency c section I literally felt heaven after having spinal injection and I didn’t felt any pain before that I was dying outta pain. Also I recovered soon within two weeks my stitches pain gone now my baby is two months I am doing all household chores avoiding few things like lifting heavy weights. Started hitting the gym. I literally feel c section is painless and the stitches will be little sting only when we sneeze or cough otherwise you don’t feel anything at all no discomfort that too for two three weeks.
I delivered my son via c-section and they handover to me only at night. No one allowed to stay inside hosp with me. That night, wity 1 hand holding my urine bag, with the wound stitches of the c-sec, i got down from the bed just to see him, hold him and even cleaned his poops. At the same time, my period blood dropped on the floor due to the urine bag which i myself have to wipe. Its not easy to be in that situation! Am proud and happy as a mom❤️
Those who say, moms giving birth by c-section don't know the pain , i feel like cutting through their abdomen n then put stitches in 7-8 layers of abdomen n then ask them, how painless is that??
@@no.one3528 true, those who know, they know how painful it is for almost 3-4 weeks till it heals. At that time when some nonsense creature comes n tell you you don't know the birthing pain, it hits you so bad.
And abt pain .. My friend gave birth - a water birth in upright position, so she was able to control speed of how her baby is coming out and was able to understand n see how her baby was guiding it's way All she had was nausea, and vomits during labour but not pain, yet she was screaming n weeping during her water birth not by pain, but cos of extreme pressure that comes on ur perineum during birth, n ofc she,was first time mom so she screamed a bit After her baby was born n she was breastfeeding Her nurse scolded her saying "Good women don't scream during childbirth, she is dishounourable n water birth is NEVER DISCOMFORTABLE', but as first time mom she did experience a bit discomfort, why to shame her? Isn't it natural 😑 Women shaming women intead of helping is age old
Recently my mother in law was comparing how c section was easy than normal delivery. I am an emergency c sectioned mother. I went through a hard time.😢 the prayers and the pain i had was unexplainable.But when she easily tells that c section is nothing🤬 wish to give a nice slap and ask her to stop the bullshit 😤
Such a danger woman she is,,,,......those who feel both pain strong labour pain nd then c section ,,,such a sad feelings ,,,.I also face the same situation
I was born through an emergency c-section cause we are twins... I m very proud of my mom, for caring us for 8 months and dn giving birth by cutting 7 layers! And then those stiches and restless nights after losing so much blood yet gave up on her body to feed us... And still taking care of us.. Thank you Mommy, I love youuu❤
Its true... everyone thinks c-section delivery is a painless procedure but its really not true. Exactly 40 days back, I went through emergency c section after 22 hours of labour pain and i am still not recovered from the surgery. The pain that we have post the surgery cant be described. I am grateful to God that he has blessed us with a beautiful baby 🙏
I had my first baby c section and second baby normal delivery. For both i suffered same pain before delivery and after delivery too. A bit more care required for c section mothers, but both are same for me. I am happy and proud for having experienced both.
@@biobytes1124yes it is. It's called VBAC(Vaginal Birth After C-section) In this case, a lot of criteria is considered to go for vbac, like your placental position, scar density during last trimester, your current health condition during final trimester, reasons why you had c section before,etc each and everything matters. Also basically according to American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, gap required between c section and vbac is 18 months, however, it depends upon your body and what your obstetrician advise. My doctor said 3 years , whilst my sis in law's doc said 5 years, so it depends. You can opt for prepregnany counseling if you are skeptical,to get an clear idea. Plus exercises, and intake of good food does matter to have a vbac.❤
My mom went through 3 c-sections and her first and 2nd c-section was not even a year apart. My mom was never ashamed to say that she had a c-section and I'm glad to have a warrior mother❤
No one can take care of a baby all by themselves, it a takes a community of support to make the work joyous and fun, rather than overwhelming and stressful. Thank you for speaking out on so much, it's so important for breaking down the stigma
Most people don't realize a c section is major surgery, got to cut through abdominals to get to uterus. I had to have an emergency C-section because I was preeclamptic and baby and I were struggling. Most people do not elect to have this surgery, recovery time is much longer than giving birth vaginally in most cases. Not to mention scar tissue builds up and can cause issues over time. My mom's c-section scar tissue adhered her ovary to her appendix. It caused her lots of pain.
@@shreyadesai6960 I did c section.. Its been six week.. The first few weeks were a little tough.. Cause you need help carrying baby.. My family helped me alot ☺️... If you can hire someone go for it...
Whether it is c-sec or normal...most of the women go through a lot of pain before or after delivering a baby...some women after a c-sec live their daily life so comfortably like nothing has happened to their body...few normal deliveries are also there where the mother suffered a lot before or after giving birth...I had an emergency normal delivery using forceps after completing all the procedure of c-sec.
Everyone thinks that normal delivery is more painful and c-section is not but I think both have their own pain n stress . I have a request never differentiate on this.please make a video on this 😊
Exactly...I had c section too..couldn't get up from bed but doctors insist you to get up from bed and walk the same day or next day ....your life can't be normal for few days and you will be in immense pain with stiches on abdomen....pain killers will be given but that doesn't mean that u don't get pain . You will feel pain when getting up, getting down from bed or bending while lifting the baby.. and c section takes few weeks to get over from pain... Some people take longer to heal...you may have to take care of the baby as well as you ...
Don't say c section is more painful than normal.. both are painful both have lasting impact.. imagine having cuts n stitches in the private part and peeing (salt water). Delivery itself is painful..
Have you wxperienced labour pain if u will exp it you will get to know what is death. Being a women dnt ever conpare c sec n normal delivery both have pain. Delivering a baby is not an easy task in any of these procedures.
Both are painful....we all have to go through whatever it takes... whatever it is, if you have supporting family and in laws to take care of, this journey will be very beautiful and happy to go through...
I think this shaming might be common in limited areas and basically due to lack of education (lower middle class or lower class often say this). But in our circle, never heard this comparison. In fact, it depends on the situation whatever the doctor suggests. The goal is to have a healthy baby and keep mom's health intact.
I believe both normal and c section pain were same, it depends on individual health and recovery time. The back pain bcoz of injection such a myth blabbered n lots of ppl believe it is true. After pregnancy take good rest and take good care of mothers who had normal or c section especially their mental health. Love and care can heal this pain.... Etc utmost needed. Not these kind superstitious beliefs. Love to all women's who had gone through a pregnancy hope you all recover soon
The fact that modern medicine allows us to safely perform c sections greatly reduces the dangers of giving birth. I don't understand why anyone would judge that course of action. I think we're so lucky to be able to do that
Thank you to voice out the problem of a woman facing during pregnancy or related to other issues still women are facing in this 75th independent country
I had two normal deliveries but my mom in law says big babies have c sections, yours are small babies, no big deal. A toxic mom in law will hurt you no matter what 😂
@@_gossipwale She has no soul, for mother in laws daughters in law are robots. They don't bleed, C section is more painful and needs time. If the mom in law is evil she will wake you up even if you are dead and make you cook😅😅😅
@@_gossipwale it's not easy, just play bhajans and draw strength from your baby 👶give her a massage yourself, gradually you will feel strong. Call your mom if possible for support and if not possible then at least hire someone to hold the baby for sometime till you can take a poo or a bath. Ignore the toxic people around you and be confident.
Please do short on postpartum stomach, everybody says that u have stomach is there another baby inside like that they will ask, one women will point to another women. This is proof that enemy of women is another women. My doubt , it is possible that c- section stomach will reduce or not. Technology and generation is going fast but people r still not growing in some things.
Love yourself.everyone will keep on judging us.I’m also facing this but I don’t care at all because I love my body..all these changes are for our little baby. Consult with your gynaecologist for postpartum exercises for pregnancy belly and weightloss. Happy motherhood ❤
C section or vaginal delivery giving birth to a baby is not a joke. Body changes, weight fluctuations, hormonal changes, mood changes, physical and mental changes throughout pregnancy, growing a new life inside is a miracle. People who comment are just insensitive and indifferent. All that the new mother needs is love, reassurance, motivation, support, care and appreciation nothing more. Salute to all the mothers 🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏 people who keep passing insensitive comments will keep doing that. JUST FOCUS ON YOUR HEALTH AND BABY'S HEALTH. 👍👍❣️
nothing to be proud about c-sec. i had a c-sec and i have bavk pain since then. i cant bend or lift anything not even my baby. always opt for normal delivery.
I have both experience c section and normal delivery.. my first delivery was normal and my second delivery was c section… mark my words c section is harder and painful delivery.. normal delivery is painful for few hours.. c section gives you pain and scars 😢
I delivered naturally & I’ll tell u one thing. Whether c-sec or natural or adoption, nothing is easy. & we all should be taking care of our clan & support each other mentally & physically . Hail motherhood ! I love you my mommy sisters ❤
But one thing same happened in normal delivery also but people used to say that ohh it's normal delivery everything is easy yu can get up and work on the same day yu have to take care of your baby and especially comparing with c section delivery
Madam, I am a great fan of your videos... could you please put a video on peripartum diseases like peripartum cardiomyopathy? So that people can be aware of.... I hope you will see this comment and respond ❤
Not only that, but cesarion section is a major surgery that saves lives, but allso takes time to heal. I had two vaginal births and i bow to the women that had to have c-sections!
C sections hurt just as much. It's a nightmare to get out of bed and go for your first walk following surgery. I started working from day five of my C section. Everyone who predicted a protracted recuperation was surprised to see me getting back on my toes so quickly. Thus, certainly, both delivery methods have an impact on our bodies in the same way. It is never simple or easy. Yes, your body is the only factor that determines how you heal. No one procedure works for everyone.
One things after reading nearly 10 comments i can say I. Will. Never. Give. Birth. In. My. Life. And my repsect for mothers who have gone through pain like this is increased by 100%
My mother had us all three through 3 C- section. Then at 60 she had hysterectomy. So she has had 4 operations. Nowadays the caesarean scar is a small transverse one, while mother has a huge vertical scar.
Actually I was a C-section born baby, where I was improperly positioned. Those wounds after stitches got septic due to lack of rest. Because of these consequences, her uterus also got eventually, where the formation of second baby was actually improper but had heartbeat. So, she took hormone injections on the advice of a gynec., which lead to excess weight gain, but not the development of foetus. So, just don't criticize someone for having a C section and pull in the old stories.
My MIL even told me that since i gave bith via c sectio, I dont have real motherly feelings for the baby, infact she claimed to understand the baby better as she had delivered 3 children normally
Giving birth is not abc doest matter how the baby came out through surgery or pushing ,moms are risking their life to carry another human being and given birth . some noisy aunties or uncle or human being should shut up and keep your intrusive uneducated thoughts to yourself and start educating yourself for better understanding and have compassion towards other
In day 10 recovering from c section and omg anyone who says its the easy way out 🙄🙄-ive never experienced pain like this-the first walk trying to pee after the catheter is taken out is almost unbearable believe me its not the easiest way out at all. Dont let anyone put you down if you had a c section its incredibly hard amd not for the weak at all ❤❤ shout out to all mums (and new dads) out there we're amazing ! xx
My daughter was born through emergency c-section..Now my second one's on the way, As i have asthma my doctor has advised me to go for c-section only😢.. People who have medical conditions like me are also given a chance to give birth
Well no one can escape the pain be it normal or c-section. Its not like you got an expedited parcel delivered to you via amazon prime. Its gonna be painful no matter what and no one should shame a mom which ever way she gives birth at the end she is a mother and deserves lots of care and respect for going through all of it.
Ilage normal delivery ki kuda support ga o vedio cheyandi madam, chalamandhi " mekem normal delivery ne, aa tharvatha pains em undavu, Nadumu noppe undadhu, stitches em pains undavu" adhi idhi ani mataltho edusthu untaru. But pade vaallaki thelusthundhi kadha
Really I was searching for this comment same here with me , normal delivery kadha em pains undao antaru but by the time of giving birth how much pain we have to go through nly we know this
Ala normal delivery vaalledho sukapadipothunnatlu matladi badha pette vaalla norlu musela , maku badha ni edhoka rupam lo express chesela oka vedio chesthe na whatsapp status ga send chestha madam
My mom raised us single-handedly. All 3 of us are born via c section. C section doesn't mean you have a weak body tho. My mom had small hips and hoped for a vaginal delivery but it wasn't possible. She is a petite woman and we were big babies. I would never understand the stigma of c section. According to my mom, It's never the easy way of giving birth as it also very scary. Me and my sisters wouldn't be here right now because of C section.
I had 5 vaginal births and was okay within a few days. Last baby was c section. I am 2 months postpartum and I still have pain. Of course vaginal delivery is painful but c section recovery is too.
My first born was with an epidural, I was told I was "less of a woman" because I did not have him naturally. The second born there was no time, she came naturally and was born in the ER. It shut the person who told me I was less of a woman up lol. 3rd was an emergency c-section for my very ill daughter (who unfortunately passed a few months after). The C-section was the hardest to recover and I remember passing out on the bed from the trauma while they cut me open (i didn't feel a thing though). It absolutely does *not* make you any less of a woman to not feel pain or to have a c-section! Even now, 9 years later, once in a while I am still having pain from the C-section and side effects, like bloating.
painless? I had 3 pain medications at once and couldn't move an inch the first two days. let alone the aftercare. it's doable with help and everybody is different. Some people recover faster than others and I have to say it doesn't matter at all. It's all worth it :)
My first baby normal delivery...but second pregnancy is c section because of MCDA twins....compared to my first delivery c section is most painful.....
@@zionmoses1839 if you are a man, please don't marry someone, save a girl's life...when you are unfit to understand someone's pain, you are unfit to stay in a relationship even 😊
@@gayathriram8119 are you on your periods while writing this comment 🤔 you too please don't marry a man and sit on his and his parents chest ...spare men from your torture 👊👊👊
I had two caeserians myself, no questions asked, no answers given to any one. This is only much ado about nothing. Yes I do have back pain, and weakness, but I try to do my work myself without much help. I don't think we need to harp much about it unless the lady in question is bedridden.
I am very proud bcas I am two kids fr c section and two kids take care only my ✋ I cannot give other person.i give mother feeding fr two kids 3 age .I have backpain still but my kids smile seeing boostup fr me.
Wow... I Never thought that in some places this kind of thing was an issue.... Here in Brazil nobody cares how you got your baby... And c-sections are very very very very common... I did 2. I am very proud of my scar... and I really thought that it was automatic... like its a mark of your pregnancy. Strengh to all women around there that deal with this.
Painless....? Who is framing all these, I simply don't understand.... Delivery, whether normal or C section is painful... But the thing is, the mom should have the courage, strength and moral support to overcome that.... My first one is C section, 2nd one normal... But sometimes, the back pain which I go through, is awful, i agree.... But, things around making me more stronger.... 😊
I have had one baby vaginaly and one via c-section. Both came with complications. If I were to choose, I would rather have another vaginal birth. But regardless, the most important for me was living to see my baby alive. I am forever gratefull for my hospital making that happen twice.
I think, mom with c section is much stronger. I feel pain just when i delivered my daughter, and one week after that. But my c section friend feel pain in years after delivering her baby. Don't look down on others, we just don't know how difficult their way are.
Im only a teenager but I’d rather have a c-section i feel Like its a more controlled inviroment i also have bad anxiety so if be more at peace knowing if anything happens im Getting cut open anyway so… idk I’d rather have a c-section
Put back belt and do household work while sleeping put out belt. It will help to reduce back pain. Use belt atleast 6 montgs or do ayurveda treatment for backpain. I also am suffering with back pain becoz my both childen are c section
Yes, of course, all👵 are telling this words And it's very pain full but I'm face the same situation😊because I'm proud to tell c section😊 and u are very good job 🥰
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I had a c section and faced mild discomforts in my stomach after.after 8yrs I came to know about something called c section tummy massage ( search on youtube) I tried it on my tummy felt so good. They say it helps reducing the tummy pouch.
I wanna know, the person who says C section is painless , let’s chop open their abdomen and sew it back, and make them take care of a baby. See what they say after
Why do we compare all they ways to give birth? C-section, natural, natural with pain management, natural and then emergency c -section...I mean seriously. We are mothers, we all sacrifice no matter how our little ones come into the world. It's not a competition and shouldn't be treated as such. We are all blessed in our ways, God bless mamas and babies no matter the path of the journey to the earth side. 🙏
If you don't have a job, then there is no problem having nomal or c section child because you living stay home old women say but if you have a job, having a child.its the big problem if you have any problem.
there will be back pain for normal delivery as well, I don't know why people don't get it . yes normal is better but then c section is just the same. in my case there was no chance for normal delivery because my cervix dint get dilated that is due to my cervical hole being small and my baby's head being bigger doctors didn't wanted to risk it even if i have tried so they had to go for c section which is fine and iam doing good . people should stop shaming about the c section deliveries.
Well but us child do suffer though since I born in winter by surgery. I suffer temperatures related things. Cold and allergies never leave me and my lungs are easily caught up with cough and mucus. And my eldest brother is also weak he also born by surgery.
I was also born by surgery. And my immunity is very strong. I don't think that's related. My immunity is stronger than my husband who was born vaginally.
Ipdilam yarum solrathu illa sis, enakum c section than, romba neram ethachu work panna apuram back pain iruku nu sonna, ellarukum apdi than irukum unaku matuma valikuthu nu ketkuranga😂😂😂,
C section is very painful and u need to take painkillers and u cant seeze or hold your child and very month u have very painful time the month I not say that women who their own child natural is hard on them we are all doing THE SAME THING TO OUR CHILDREN SAFELY
Who said there is no pain? In case of normal delivery, the pain lasts till the delivery but in case of C-section, the pain lasts up to 6 months.
Pain wether in normal delivery or c section both are same the stiches you get in your private part is not normal you cant even sleep all night dur yo pain your legs wont move because of stiches. Every delivery wether it is normal or c section is not easy. Those who say normal delivery is easy u get pain for that time only , have u experience the labour pain you will understand what is death. You cant say that you dnt hav to suffer in normal delivery. Being a mother is not easy delivering a baby wrthrr through c section or normal both are tough but women does this as a warrior.
Exactly, mera baby breech position me h muje to cesarian se dr lg rha h, kase hoga sb
Even more than 6 months
For me the csection pain lasted for only 15 days. May be everyone's body responds differently!
@@kaikashashaikh5096I experienced both pain comparatively C section is better. I delivered my baby in UK my pregnancy was high risk though they tried to deliver the baby normally. I had labour pain for 40hours and the pain was intense that affected baby as well because my baby was tiny and I had emergency c section I literally felt heaven after having spinal injection and I didn’t felt any pain before that I was dying outta pain. Also I recovered soon within two weeks my stitches pain gone now my baby is two months I am doing all household chores avoiding few things like lifting heavy weights. Started hitting the gym. I literally feel c section is painless and the stitches will be little sting only when we sneeze or cough otherwise you don’t feel anything at all no discomfort that too for two three weeks.
I delivered my son via c-section and they handover to me only at night. No one allowed to stay inside hosp with me. That night, wity 1 hand holding my urine bag, with the wound stitches of the c-sec, i got down from the bed just to see him, hold him and even cleaned his poops. At the same time, my period blood dropped on the floor due to the urine bag which i myself have to wipe. Its not easy to be in that situation! Am proud and happy as a mom❤️
😮 More power to you mam, hope you get better sooner❤
@@Veena2429 ❤️
Wow.. That's a mighty woman right there
You're such a brave woman and a brilliant mom ❤
@@jeroyjoe883 ❤️
Those who say, moms giving birth by c-section don't know the pain , i feel like cutting through their abdomen n then put stitches in 7-8 layers of abdomen n then ask them, how painless is that??
True
ohh that pain 😢😢😢😢
Then why to spread legs during bedroom action 😅
@@no.one3528 true, those who know, they know how painful it is for almost 3-4 weeks till it heals. At that time when some nonsense creature comes n tell you you don't know the birthing pain, it hits you so bad.
And abt pain ..
My friend gave birth - a water birth in upright position, so she was able to control speed of how her baby is coming out and was able to understand n see how her baby was guiding it's way
All she had was nausea, and vomits during labour but not pain, yet she was screaming n weeping during her water birth not by pain, but cos of extreme pressure that comes on ur perineum during birth, n ofc she,was first time mom so she screamed a bit
After her baby was born n she was breastfeeding Her nurse scolded her saying "Good women don't scream during childbirth, she is dishounourable n water birth is NEVER DISCOMFORTABLE', but as first time mom she did experience a bit discomfort, why to shame her? Isn't it natural 😑
Women shaming women intead of helping is age old
Recently my mother in law was comparing how c section was easy than normal delivery. I am an emergency c sectioned mother. I went through a hard time.😢 the prayers and the pain i had was unexplainable.But when she easily tells that c section is nothing🤬 wish to give a nice slap and ask her to stop the bullshit 😤
Her opinion about c section would have changed if her daughter or herself went through c section 😂
@@nargeezsulthana8763exactly... Monster in laws breaks family and act innocent
Such a danger woman she is,,,,......those who feel both pain strong labour pain nd then c section ,,,such a sad feelings ,,,.I also face the same situation
Really . They are bullshit who tells like this
Go and give reply to your mother in law "you only gave birth of a child but didn't become a mother yet"
I was born through an emergency c-section cause we are twins... I m very proud of my mom, for caring us for 8 months and dn giving birth by cutting 7 layers! And then those stiches and restless nights after losing so much blood yet gave up on her body to feed us... And still taking care of us.. Thank you Mommy, I love youuu❤
Its true... everyone thinks c-section delivery is a painless procedure but its really not true. Exactly 40 days back, I went through emergency c section after 22 hours of labour pain and i am still not recovered from the surgery. The pain that we have post the surgery cant be described. I am grateful to God that he has blessed us with a beautiful baby 🙏
I had my first baby c section and second baby normal delivery. For both i suffered same pain before delivery and after delivery too. A bit more care required for c section mothers, but both are same for me.
I am happy and proud for having experienced both.
How many years gap did u take between 2 pregnancies?
4 years
After 1 c section is it possible to deliver normal for the 2nd one
@@biobytes1124yes it is. It's called VBAC(Vaginal Birth After C-section)
In this case, a lot of criteria is considered to go for vbac, like your placental position, scar density during last trimester, your current health condition during final trimester, reasons why you had c section before,etc each and everything matters. Also basically according to American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, gap required between c section and vbac is 18 months, however, it depends upon your body and what your obstetrician advise. My doctor said 3 years , whilst my sis in law's doc said 5 years, so it depends.
You can opt for prepregnany counseling if you are skeptical,to get an clear idea.
Plus exercises, and intake of good food does matter to have a vbac.❤
Sister what is the reason for first baby emergency lscs
i was born through a c section, and im very proud of my mother. thank you for making this!
Im surprised they didn't kill u because you were a girl child
Me too!
Me too... Even my daughter was born through emergency c section and I m proud of it
My mom went through 3 c-sections and her first and 2nd c-section was not even a year apart. My mom was never ashamed to say that she had a c-section and I'm glad to have a warrior mother❤
How many years gap between c sections
No one can take care of a baby all by themselves, it a takes a community of support to make the work joyous and fun, rather than overwhelming and stressful. Thank you for speaking out on so much, it's so important for breaking down the stigma
Most people don't realize a c section is major surgery, got to cut through abdominals to get to uterus. I had to have an emergency C-section because I was preeclamptic and baby and I were struggling.
Most people do not elect to have this surgery, recovery time is much longer than giving birth vaginally in most cases. Not to mention scar tissue builds up and can cause issues over time.
My mom's c-section scar tissue adhered her ovary to her appendix. It caused her lots of pain.
I am 8 month pregnant but I am hoping for a c section... Natural delivery scares me 😢
@@HakunaMatata-gr9mm I am in my last week...aapne kya karvaya...I am so confused..I am scared of c sect
@@shreyadesai6960 I did c section.. Its been six week.. The first few weeks were a little tough.. Cause you need help carrying baby.. My family helped me alot ☺️... If you can hire someone go for it...
To all the moms who hear this, people who say this are not your well wishers
Whether it is c-sec or normal...most of the women go through a lot of pain before or after delivering a baby...some women after a c-sec live their daily life so comfortably like nothing has happened to their body...few normal deliveries are also there where the mother suffered a lot before or after giving birth...I had an emergency normal delivery using forceps after completing all the procedure of c-sec.
Everyone thinks that normal delivery is more painful and c-section is not but I think both have their own pain n stress . I have a request never differentiate on this.please make a video on this 😊
Agreed
Exactly...I had c section too..couldn't get up from bed but doctors insist you to get up from bed and walk the same day or next day ....your life can't be normal for few days and you will be in immense pain with stiches on abdomen....pain killers will be given but that doesn't mean that u don't get pain . You will feel pain when getting up, getting down from bed or bending while lifting the baby.. and c section takes few weeks to get over from pain... Some people take longer to heal...you may have to take care of the baby as well as you ...
True
Recovering from my C-section was the most painful thing I’ve ever gone through. It was four weeks ago and I’m barely starting to feel normal again.
Very much strength for so many mother's like us😊😊
C section is more painful than normal. Don’t say unnecessary things without knowing the pain
Don't say c section is more painful than normal.. both are painful both have lasting impact.. imagine having cuts n stitches in the private part and peeing (salt water). Delivery itself is painful..
@@musicnme9914agree... Thats why I am hoping for a c section
Have you wxperienced labour pain if u will exp it you will get to know what is death. Being a women dnt ever conpare c sec n normal delivery both have pain. Delivering a baby is not an easy task in any of these procedures.
Both are painful....we all have to go through whatever it takes... whatever it is, if you have supporting family and in laws to take care of, this journey will be very beautiful and happy to go through...
I think this shaming might be common in limited areas and basically due to lack of education (lower middle class or lower class often say this). But in our circle, never heard this comparison. In fact, it depends on the situation whatever the doctor suggests. The goal is to have a healthy baby and keep mom's health intact.
I believe both normal and c section pain were same, it depends on individual health and recovery time. The back pain bcoz of injection such a myth blabbered n lots of ppl believe it is true. After pregnancy take good rest and take good care of mothers who had normal or c section especially their mental health. Love and care can heal this pain.... Etc utmost needed. Not these kind superstitious beliefs. Love to all women's who had gone through a pregnancy hope you all recover soon
Good job voicing out things.. You do have a long list to voice out am sure.. All The Best!!!
The fact that modern medicine allows us to safely perform c sections greatly reduces the dangers of giving birth. I don't understand why anyone would judge that course of action. I think we're so lucky to be able to do that
Thank you to voice out the problem of a woman facing during pregnancy or related to other issues still women are facing in this 75th independent country
Being a mother is not easy.. All the mothers are a warrior ❤
Imagine having an incision nearly from hip to hip and being told you gave birth without pain?! People are just uneducated, I'm sorry.
I had two normal deliveries but my mom in law says big babies have c sections, yours are small babies, no big deal. A toxic mom in law will hurt you no matter what 😂
Monster in law😂
My mother in law said.... I had 4 kg baby ...ur is too small and now days c section is nothing.. people start to do work next day
@@_gossipwale She has no soul, for mother in laws daughters in law are robots. They don't bleed, C section is more painful and needs time. If the mom in law is evil she will wake you up even if you are dead and make you cook😅😅😅
@@Kahani2613 how was your postpartum?? Plz tell me ....I feel like ...failing
@@_gossipwale it's not easy, just play bhajans and draw strength from your baby 👶give her a massage yourself, gradually you will feel strong. Call your mom if possible for support and if not possible then at least hire someone to hold the baby for sometime till you can take a poo or a bath.
Ignore the toxic people around you and be confident.
Please do short on postpartum stomach, everybody says that u have stomach is there another baby inside like that they will ask, one women will point to another women. This is proof that enemy of women is another women.
My doubt , it is possible that c- section stomach will reduce or not.
Technology and generation is going fast but people r still not growing in some things.
Stop eating like a hungry pig...your stomach will automatically become small😅
It will reduce mam... We should do some workouts after 1 year
Love yourself.everyone will keep on judging us.I’m also facing this but I don’t care at all because I love my body..all these changes are for our little baby. Consult with your gynaecologist for postpartum exercises for pregnancy belly and weightloss. Happy motherhood ❤
@@SaiHarish1621 thank you
@@baghyakaviyarasi3755 sure, Thank you
C section or vaginal delivery giving birth to a baby is not a joke. Body changes, weight fluctuations, hormonal changes, mood changes, physical and mental changes throughout pregnancy, growing a new life inside is a miracle. People who comment are just insensitive and indifferent.
All that the new mother needs is love, reassurance, motivation, support, care and appreciation nothing more. Salute to all the mothers 🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏 people who keep passing insensitive comments will keep doing that. JUST FOCUS ON YOUR HEALTH AND BABY'S HEALTH. 👍👍❣️
I had 2 c sections. My hips weren't wide enough. Both babies were very healthy
nothing to be proud about c-sec. i had a c-sec and i have bavk pain since then. i cant bend or lift anything not even my baby. always opt for normal delivery.
I have both experience c section and normal delivery.. my first delivery was normal and my second delivery was c section… mark my words c section is harder and painful delivery.. normal delivery is painful for few hours.. c section gives you pain and scars 😢
Whatever may be the mode of delivery
Childbirth is painful
People who say c section is painless don’t have any knowledge
I delivered naturally & I’ll tell u one thing. Whether c-sec or natural or adoption, nothing is easy. & we all should be taking care of our clan & support each other mentally & physically . Hail motherhood ! I love you my mommy sisters ❤
But one thing same happened in normal delivery also but people used to say that ohh it's normal delivery everything is easy yu can get up and work on the same day yu have to take care of your baby and especially comparing with c section delivery
Madam, I am a great fan of your videos... could you please put a video on peripartum diseases like peripartum cardiomyopathy? So that people can be aware of....
I hope you will see this comment and respond ❤
Not only that, but cesarion section is a major surgery that saves lives, but allso takes time to heal. I had two vaginal births and i bow to the women that had to have c-sections!
I am proud for bearing the SCAR❤
C sections hurt just as much. It's a nightmare to get out of bed and go for your first walk following surgery. I started working from day five of my C section. Everyone who predicted a protracted recuperation was surprised to see me getting back on my toes so quickly. Thus, certainly, both delivery methods have an impact on our bodies in the same way. It is never simple or easy. Yes, your body is the only factor that determines how you heal. No one procedure works for everyone.
Our society is so full of misconceptions and what's worse they don't bother to know about it. They'll just throw their opinions at you😒
The way you're throwing your pointless opinions here in the comment section 😅
@@zionmoses1839 same to you
@@zionmoses1839their opinion is not pointless at all,,,but yours definitely is. Smdh
@@SS-ui7by are u on your periods...if not then why this comment from your end 🤡🤡🤡
One things after reading nearly 10 comments i can say
I. Will. Never. Give. Birth. In. My. Life.
And my repsect for mothers who have gone through pain like this is increased by 100%
So crazy!! I went through 18 hours of labour before and emergency c section, without the surgery both baby and I would be dead.
My mother had us all three through 3 C- section. Then at 60 she had hysterectomy. So she has had 4 operations. Nowadays the caesarean scar is a small transverse one, while mother has a huge vertical scar.
Actually I was a C-section born baby, where I was improperly positioned. Those wounds after stitches got septic due to lack of rest. Because of these consequences, her uterus also got eventually, where the formation of second baby was actually improper but had heartbeat. So, she took hormone injections on the advice of a gynec., which lead to excess weight gain, but not the development of foetus. So, just don't criticize someone for having a C section and pull in the old stories.
Absolutely correct 😂❤👌👍
My MIL even told me that since i gave bith via c sectio, I dont have real motherly feelings for the baby, infact she claimed to understand the baby better as she had delivered 3 children normally
Mam plz post more videos for the husband and in laws family who blame women for c section
Giving birth is not abc doest matter how the baby came out through surgery or pushing ,moms are risking their life to carry another human being and given birth . some noisy aunties or uncle or human being should shut up and keep your intrusive uneducated thoughts to yourself and start educating yourself for better understanding and have compassion towards other
In day 10 recovering from c section and omg anyone who says its the easy way out 🙄🙄-ive never experienced pain like this-the first walk trying to pee after the catheter is taken out is almost unbearable believe me its not the easiest way out at all.
Dont let anyone put you down if you had a c section its incredibly hard amd not for the weak at all ❤❤ shout out to all mums (and new dads) out there we're amazing ! xx
My daughter was born through emergency c-section..Now my second one's on the way, As i have asthma my doctor has advised me to go for c-section only😢..
People who have medical conditions like me are also given a chance to give birth
Prayers for a safe delivery sister
Well no one can escape the pain be it normal or c-section.
Its not like you got an expedited parcel delivered to you via amazon prime.
Its gonna be painful no matter what and no one should shame a mom which ever way she gives birth at the end she is a mother and deserves lots of care and respect for going through all of it.
Ilage normal delivery ki kuda support ga o vedio cheyandi madam, chalamandhi " mekem normal delivery ne, aa tharvatha pains em undavu, Nadumu noppe undadhu, stitches em pains undavu" adhi idhi ani mataltho edusthu untaru. But pade vaallaki thelusthundhi kadha
Avunu andi meeru annadi nizame. Ye delivery ayina daniki pade badhadu daniki vuntayi
Really I was searching for this comment same here with me , normal delivery kadha em pains undao antaru but by the time of giving birth how much pain we have to go through nly we know this
Ala normal delivery vaalledho sukapadipothunnatlu matladi badha pette vaalla norlu musela , maku badha ni edhoka rupam lo express chesela oka vedio chesthe na whatsapp status ga send chestha madam
Ikkada inko badhakaram ayina vishayam entate, A matalu kuda malli saati adavalle antaru andi..
@@jaisriram9505yes, exactly.
God is faithful for the two
epdinga correct ah en life la nadakradhae solringa 😀😀😀
My mom raised us single-handedly. All 3 of us are born via c section. C section doesn't mean you have a weak body tho. My mom had small hips and hoped for a vaginal delivery but it wasn't possible. She is a petite woman and we were big babies. I would never understand the stigma of c section. According to my mom, It's never the easy way of giving birth as it also very scary. Me and my sisters wouldn't be here right now because of C section.
My first delivery is normal and second is c section... I have both experience... in my opinion C section is more painful than normal delivery 😢
I had 5 vaginal births and was okay within a few days. Last baby was c section. I am 2 months postpartum and I still have pain. Of course vaginal delivery is painful but c section recovery is too.
My first born was with an epidural, I was told I was "less of a woman" because I did not have him naturally. The second born there was no time, she came naturally and was born in the ER. It shut the person who told me I was less of a woman up lol. 3rd was an emergency c-section for my very ill daughter (who unfortunately passed a few months after). The C-section was the hardest to recover and I remember passing out on the bed from the trauma while they cut me open (i didn't feel a thing though). It absolutely does *not* make you any less of a woman to not feel pain or to have a c-section! Even now, 9 years later, once in a while I am still having pain from the C-section and side effects, like bloating.
painless? I had 3 pain medications at once and couldn't move an inch the first two days. let alone the aftercare. it's doable with help and everybody is different. Some people recover faster than others and I have to say it doesn't matter at all. It's all worth it :)
My first baby normal delivery...but second pregnancy is c section because of MCDA twins....compared to my first delivery c section is most painful.....
❤❤ I fully agree with you 💯
Thank you for this ❤❤❤
Mam you are such nice person... 😊
So true...nd u didn't bear any pain is the response we get
I had normal delivery but i can feel the pain of c-sec.. Every delivery is unique and painful
Want to have more bedroom action with husband 😅
@@zionmoses1839 if you are a man, please don't marry someone, save a girl's life...when you are unfit to understand someone's pain, you are unfit to stay in a relationship even 😊
@@gayathriram8119 are you on your periods while writing this comment 🤔 you too please don't marry a man and sit on his and his parents chest ...spare men from your torture 👊👊👊
@@gayathriram8119👍
C section is more painful than normal delivery
I had two caeserians myself, no questions asked, no answers given to any one. This is only much ado about nothing.
Yes I do have back pain, and weakness, but I try to do my work myself without much help.
I don't think we need to harp much about it unless the lady in question is bedridden.
I am very proud bcas I am two kids fr c section and two kids take care only my ✋ I cannot give other person.i give mother feeding fr two kids 3 age .I have backpain still but my kids smile seeing boostup fr me.
Wow... I Never thought that in some places this kind of thing was an issue....
Here in Brazil nobody cares how you got your baby...
And c-sections are very very very very common... I did 2.
I am very proud of my scar... and I really thought that it was automatic... like its a mark of your pregnancy.
Strengh to all women around there that deal with this.
Yeap ,I live i. Brazil too
@@abichalam sério? De que lugar do Brasil você é?
@@amandaferrareli2632 foz do Iguaçu and you
@@abichalam Uruguaiana, Rio Grande do Sul
@@amandaferrareli2632 que bom
That's dammm true sis....has went through c section and can very well relate to ur video
Painless....? Who is framing all these, I simply don't understand.... Delivery, whether normal or C section is painful... But the thing is, the mom should have the courage, strength and moral support to overcome that.... My first one is C section, 2nd one normal... But sometimes, the back pain which I go through, is awful, i agree.... But, things around making me more stronger.... 😊
I have had one baby vaginaly and one via c-section. Both came with complications.
If I were to choose, I would rather have another vaginal birth. But regardless, the most important for me was living to see my baby alive. I am forever gratefull for my hospital making that happen twice.
C-section requires takes longer to recover than natural birth so they are definitely not weak
I think, mom with c section is much stronger. I feel pain just when i delivered my daughter, and one week after that. But my c section friend feel pain in years after delivering her baby. Don't look down on others, we just don't know how difficult their way are.
All ur kurtis are awesome. Can you give me link mam
C section num painful than, andha stitches pain oda taking care of baby, feeding ellam very hard than
Im only a teenager but I’d rather have a c-section i feel Like its a more controlled inviroment i also have bad anxiety so if be more at peace knowing if anything happens im Getting cut open anyway so… idk I’d rather have a c-section
Tq sis please teach how to manage back pain of C section
Put back belt and do household work while sleeping put out belt. It will help to reduce back pain. Use belt atleast 6 montgs or do ayurveda treatment for backpain. I also am suffering with back pain becoz my both childen are c section
Yes, of course, all👵 are telling this words
And it's very pain full but I'm face the same situation😊because I'm proud to tell c section😊 and u are very good job 🥰
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We have self-claimed Judges, Doctors and 'know it all' around us.
So true, people just discourage
I had a c section and faced mild discomforts in my stomach after.after 8yrs I came to know about something called c section tummy massage ( search on youtube) I tried it on my tummy felt so good. They say it helps reducing the tummy pouch.
I wanna know, the person who says C section is painless , let’s chop open their abdomen and sew it back, and make them take care of a baby. See what they say after
Why do we compare all they ways to give birth? C-section, natural, natural with pain management, natural and then emergency c -section...I mean seriously. We are mothers, we all sacrifice no matter how our little ones come into the world. It's not a competition and shouldn't be treated as such. We are all blessed in our ways, God bless mamas and babies no matter the path of the journey to the earth side. 🙏
If you don't have a job, then there is no problem having nomal or c section child because you living stay home old women say but if you have a job, having a child.its the big problem if you have any problem.
Mam which pad is best for c-section delivery
What to do for lower back pain after c-section in winter and rainy season? I'm facing severe lower back pain in morning during rainy season
Mam aapka c section huaa h.
Kya yeh safe hota h.
Kitne din mein recovery ho jaati h plz tell
there will be back pain for normal delivery as well, I don't know why people don't get it . yes normal is better but then c section is just the same. in my case there was no chance for normal delivery because my cervix dint get dilated that is due to my cervical hole being small and my baby's head being bigger doctors didn't wanted to risk it even if i have tried so they had to go for c section which is fine and iam doing good . people should stop shaming about the c section deliveries.
Well but us child do suffer though since I born in winter by surgery. I suffer temperatures related things. Cold and allergies never leave me and my lungs are easily caught up with cough and mucus. And my eldest brother is also weak he also born by surgery.
I was also born by surgery. And my immunity is very strong. I don't think that's related. My immunity is stronger than my husband who was born vaginally.
Paati solluraanga becoz they are old age but @shanmuslife ivungala enna soldrathu
Love you for those words❤ cesarean mom
Mam pls pragnancy ke bad ke purane vicharo Or unki bhrantiyo ke bare me btaye
But all these comments are genuine....
Are you kidding?? Or really an asshole?
When we start exercise or yoga wt kind of exercises and yoga we will do aft c sec plz post mam
Oh my God!! I wanted c section delivery because hospital service is so bad but now I feel like helpless
Ipdilam yarum solrathu illa sis, enakum c section than, romba neram ethachu work panna apuram back pain iruku nu sonna, ellarukum apdi than irukum unaku matuma valikuthu nu ketkuranga😂😂😂,
delivery after periods eppo mam...agum...one year aachi ennum perids agala ...explain pannuga
When to wear postpartum belt after c section
Not only c section women get back pain..i had normal delivery but i have been having back pain still..my son turned two..
C section is very painful and u need to take painkillers and u cant seeze or hold your child and very month u have very painful time the month I not say that women who their own child natural is hard on them we are all doing THE SAME THING TO OUR CHILDREN SAFELY