How To Start a Band: A Survival Guide

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  • @thegrindcoreenthusiast7293
    @thegrindcoreenthusiast7293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5027

    1:13 Phase One: Getting Ready
    3:42 Phase Two: Assembeling The Band
    4:44 Phase Three: First Practice
    6:16 Phase Four: Continuous Practices
    7:52 Phase Five: First Gig
    9:11 Phase Six: Continuous Gigs
    13:43 Phase Seven: Recording
    14:53 Phase Eight: Release/Publicity
    16:23 Phase Nine: Fast Tips
    18:19 Phase Ten: Closing Remarks

    • @loganeast8248
      @loganeast8248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Unappriciated Successful Anarchists I’m guessing you had the time to do this because your in quarantine

    • @thegrindcoreenthusiast7293
      @thegrindcoreenthusiast7293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@loganeast8248, I Did This BEFORE Quarantine To Be Honest

    • @valdemarhammer5981
      @valdemarhammer5981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@thegrindcoreenthusiast7293 big brain. but for real tho, this was probably helpful for many people

    • @YaBoyRascal
      @YaBoyRascal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Phase 11: Split up
      Phase 12: Make a solo
      Phase 13 get bad reviews on the solo
      Phase 14: Drugs???
      Phase 15: get back together

    • @AlejandroPerez-xl2nm
      @AlejandroPerez-xl2nm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Winner of a video, I've been looking for "zombie survival guide max brooks" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Ryanzon Survival Genie - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my colleague got amazing success with it.

  • @menelaos2554
    @menelaos2554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4002

    i really hope someone sees this and think "I dont care if Im successful! I just wanna have FUN!" and then become like the band who changes the whole music history

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  5 ปีที่แล้ว +631

      That's the point dawg ✊

    • @diegonapoles2469
      @diegonapoles2469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Eek

    • @teageamusic2033
      @teageamusic2033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Thats​ cause​ they​ play​ for​ music​ not​ money, and​ in​ doing​ so​ theyre​ good

    • @melanierubio3663
      @melanierubio3663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Basically modern Beatles?

    • @oobernoober7617
      @oobernoober7617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      THAT, THAT'S WHAT I WANT TO BE. Have a nice form of rock and play some shows, get a guy looking to be our manager one day down the line, play larger gigs all while still having fun

  • @winterishopeless
    @winterishopeless 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5454

    even if I'm never famous and am stuck in small bar gigs, making music with my friends would mean the world to me

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1031

      That's the mindset you should have

    • @fv8399
      @fv8399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Yep just playing with your pals after school and having a good time is enough to make me happy 😆

    • @basedswede7147
      @basedswede7147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Same here, but I don't really havw any friends lmao

    • @drpepper694
      @drpepper694 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I cant rly do that but I desperately want to. I can barely write a song but there's one I've been working on since June which I work on every week sometimes.
      I'm definitely not old enough to get in bars and clubs but I hope my college music section let's me mesh with their students.

    • @PercabethLovernot
      @PercabethLovernot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same :’)

  • @kakashihatake6176
    @kakashihatake6176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6082

    "And dont play smells like teen spirit"
    *Plays come as you are*

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  5 ปีที่แล้ว +826

      I mean if you wanna put your audience to sleep go for it

    • @justaladTaken
      @justaladTaken 5 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      NateIsLame as a Nirvana fan, your not wrong. Come As You Are is a really boring song and I frequently skip it.

    • @captainsunshine3d
      @captainsunshine3d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      @@justaladTaken but its gooood

    • @eeshsinger
      @eeshsinger 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      kakashi hatake play songs from bleach

    • @erlangga-fabian7040
      @erlangga-fabian7040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      In Indonesia, jus go ahead play smell like teen spirit.

  • @alternatelifee
    @alternatelifee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +768

    As the vocalist for my band, here’s tips for beginner vocalists:
    1: KNOW WHAT GENRE YOUR BAND IS! This helps a ton when you are figuring out your range
    2: You don’t need to add unnecessary adlibs to everything
    3: don’t be cocky or full of yourself. Just because your the “singer” of the band does NOT mean you’re the most important

    • @LargoeEmbargo
      @LargoeEmbargo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      yeah, nobody listens to a capella, but alot listen to instrumental

    • @totallyfrozen
      @totallyfrozen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Very, very true. My sister is an excellent singer and even released an album. She can’t play ANY instruments. So as far as I’m concerned, she’s not a musician.

    • @TamWam_
      @TamWam_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      i have a very disorganised "band", like no one here takes it seriously and apparently 2 members have beef 💀💀

    • @alternatelifee
      @alternatelifee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@LargoeEmbargo when I said you’re not the most important if you’re the vocalist that doesn’t mean you aren’t important at all, it just means don’t try and be better than everyone. Being apart of a band is a team effort and not one guy and his backup dancers

    • @alternatelifee
      @alternatelifee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@totallyfrozen being a vocalist still means you’re a musician. I play instruments as well as sing HOWEVER if you ONLY sing you’re still a musician because you’re making music with your voice. You don’t have to play an instrument to be musical

  • @SuperCooperGaming
    @SuperCooperGaming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5073

    I'm only starting a band with people who stand with loded diper

    • @sicc9893
      @sicc9893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      CoopStu Yes

    • @_am_i_ell_
      @_am_i_ell_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Can I join I was forced to learn how to play the recorder because, school and stuff

    • @SuperCooperGaming
      @SuperCooperGaming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      @@_am_i_ell_ the recorder will be the lead instrument

    • @_am_i_ell_
      @_am_i_ell_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      CoopStu yay I just about know the mii channel music

    • @SuperCooperGaming
      @SuperCooperGaming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@_am_i_ell_ perfect!

  • @roentjen
    @roentjen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4647

    “give the drummer a break”
    thank you.

    • @CaptainSloth
      @CaptainSloth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      I would have agreed on this a few years back, but...
      Having good stamina as a drummer is really important, it will make playing easier, especially faster songs are easier to nail. Another big benefit is, is that you can be better on stage, instead of sweating your balls off trying to hit the final bars of your 240BPM deathmetal song you can move your body around, swing your sticks, look into the crowd, and believe me, being a good showman is totally worth going running twice a week. Being a good showman is 50% of being a 'succesfull' band.
      So yeah, go to the gym a few times a month or run a few times a week, even just drumming for long periods of time will boost your stamina. Beleive me, It'll help you a lot trying to get shows at decently sized venue's.

    • @roentjen
      @roentjen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      CaptainSloth I work out my arms everyday, and I run for school. I meant nobody knows that the drummer gets tired, unless you’ve been playing too long and then you complain. then they call you lazy and they say you complain too much, when they’re just moving their fingers a little

    • @CaptainSloth
      @CaptainSloth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@roentjen True, and taking a break is fine, but I've seen a few drummers that need breaks every 2-3 songs. imo you should be able to play atleast 30-60 minutes at a time depending on the genre.

    • @madisonlea2222
      @madisonlea2222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      i agree. i exercise my arms everyday to keep my strength for band practice. people are like where do u get ur muscles?? and i’m like *oh i got them from playing the drums*

    • @amburgerwithches
      @amburgerwithches 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr

  • @user-uj9ld6hs7e
    @user-uj9ld6hs7e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3348

    my dreams were crushed within the first 40 seconds of this video.

    • @lofer9138
      @lofer9138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      -`, Sukeruton shit if u believe in it then do it honestly

    • @scythe1269
      @scythe1269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      -`, Sukeruton Samee

    • @Benjamin_Lees_
      @Benjamin_Lees_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      That's the problem with being in some generic heavy metal band. Be original, and it shouldn't be hard to do

    • @nehemiahzo_
      @nehemiahzo_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s.. why he’s here

    • @marlonwaardenburg654
      @marlonwaardenburg654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Checkmate ukulele players

  • @PunkMarioBros
    @PunkMarioBros 2 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    Or, different option for Phase 1: Become friends with the musicians at your school, find the best ones and ask them to join your band

    • @Zack-bl2gg
      @Zack-bl2gg ปีที่แล้ว +28

      doesn't work if you're in your 20s haha

    • @caitlingill
      @caitlingill ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Zack-bl2ggI went on various “find a band” websites plus local Facebook groups and found members through that method!

    • @TamWam_
      @TamWam_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      literally what i did (sort of). one of my besties isnt a musician but is learning guitar so im helping her, my other two friends dont take the "band" seriously so its mainly us two practicing

    • @chordsofsteel-i4j
      @chordsofsteel-i4j 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Doesn't work if your homeschooled 😭
      (Someone help me...)

    • @アリス-e8v
      @アリス-e8v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I tried but they already had their own band and hogged all the best musicians so only losers are left available

  • @shoebill13
    @shoebill13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2744

    nate: "your first show sucked, but your next few aren't,"
    me: yes, i too love grammar.

    • @uninspiredhaven7893
      @uninspiredhaven7893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Humm, yes, the floor here is made out of floor.

    • @Alexander-vm2ox
      @Alexander-vm2ox 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      grandma**

    • @shoebill13
      @shoebill13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ReBeL oh.

    • @archie7225
      @archie7225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      My second show aren't sucked

    • @akiani
      @akiani 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Peeps explain

  • @twilightexabyte
    @twilightexabyte 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1733

    How to start a band in two easy steps:
    Step one: Start the Band
    Step Two: End the band

    • @starberriiemmy4382
      @starberriiemmy4382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Twilight Exabyte lOL

    • @athestya
      @athestya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Repeat the process until it works

    • @asadtrashcan6663
      @asadtrashcan6663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      *My Chemical Romance has left the chat*

    • @collingreen600
      @collingreen600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ok my chemical romance

    • @slashstophat1152
      @slashstophat1152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My chemical frickin romance

  • @crybabyhorror9484
    @crybabyhorror9484 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2305

    Not even a minute into the video, and I've been attacked

    • @ellesaulsbury2614
      @ellesaulsbury2614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Michael Taylor Oh no I'm scared

    • @dennysopen2477
      @dennysopen2477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Not even 20 seconds into the video and I've been attacked

    • @TonyExists
      @TonyExists 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well i lasted the longest it took me about 5-6 minutes (his statement about cover bands) since i do plan to write my own songs but i plan to cover njrvana songs as more like a passion project secondary draw

    • @maxkerbert612
      @maxkerbert612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I actually got a pink ukulele a Month ago so imagine how I felt

    • @bloodstainedrosarymusic460
      @bloodstainedrosarymusic460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lemme guess, you like Billie Eillish and you diagnosed yourself with depression?

  • @CunchwapSupeme
    @CunchwapSupeme ปีที่แล้ว +381

    I always tell people two pieces of advice when starting a band:
    1. Demonstrate your value first.
    -Start demoing out ideas
    -Record videos of you playing
    -If you want quality candidates for band members you need materials to prove yourself.
    2. Go to local shows and network.
    -It’s a massive gesture to other bands in your scene just to do the bare minimum and show up. Local bands are deprived of attention.
    -You are most likely to find like minded musicians at these small local shows. Tell people you’re starting a band and looking for members.

    • @ITSTIMETOSAYGOODBYE
      @ITSTIMETOSAYGOODBYE ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yeah I have advice for the songs.
      - Songs must have 2-4 verses, and 3 choruses maximum.
      - Outros are very cool, especially shorter ones like the end of Trapdoor by twenty one pilots.
      - Use digital instruments if you have to!

    • @worsethanhitlerpt.2539
      @worsethanhitlerpt.2539 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Once I tried to start a Dead Kennedys cover band easy right? I played everything except the bass so I only needed 1 other person. Ended up with some hippie stoner guy
      who couldnt learn even 1 SONG from smoking too much dope

    • @lastcupofsorr0w
      @lastcupofsorr0w หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What if the local science is non-existent cause I live in the middle of nowhere? I'm not trying to be a smartass, just curious. The nearest club is an hour away from my house lol

  • @theguyof360
    @theguyof360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2199

    "Bass players should know Seven Nation Army"
    **plays literally nothing**

    • @nekozombie
      @nekozombie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      too true, but I guess it would still work on a bass guitar

    • @theguyof360
      @theguyof360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@nekozombie Yea, when I play it with my friends, the guitarist only comes in for the solo and instrumental, but bass is played the whole song. White Stripes was only comprised of Jack and Meg, so rip bass

    • @SCP-963-1
      @SCP-963-1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      As someone who played bass this is true

    • @thetravelingmarauder1777
      @thetravelingmarauder1777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@nekozombie it was the second song I learned on bass. First song was another one bites the dust

    • @bclover761
      @bclover761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@thetravelingmarauder1777 lol yeah everyone's first song is Another One Bites the Dust

  • @thenewlifecrisisvault2211
    @thenewlifecrisisvault2211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3240

    8 years full timer with tips to add.
    Building your set list:
    1. Pick a song(s)
    2. Everyone learn your parts individually
    3. Run thru at soundcheck (goal is to get this down to 'once')
    4. Don't be the one who didn't learn your part
    Also, there are only 4 reasons to pull a 'no show' for a gig, session, rehearsal:
    1. Your personal death
    2. Hostage
    3. Hospitalization
    4. Jail
    If you can find a group of people to honor this simple rule set (even if you can't stand each other) you'll have established the trajectory needed to maintain and improve your craft.

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  3 ปีที่แล้ว +281

      GOOD TIPS

    • @tomney4460
      @tomney4460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      I wouldn’t agree with the “can’t stand each other” part. If you want to start a band, make sure you’re on good terms. A band that doesn’t have good chemistry won’t be able to succeed.

    • @vcl_andre
      @vcl_andre 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@tomney4460 Well Cobain changed his drummer at least 3 times and The Beatles had a stroke finding Ringo...

    • @tomney4460
      @tomney4460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@vcl_andre What I meant was that the problems start when people try to form a band without making any changes to improve their chemistry.

    • @caballodebatalla5561
      @caballodebatalla5561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I can clearly see a fellow musician skipping a gig cos he' s/she's in jail hahaha

  • @willschutte3996
    @willschutte3996 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10493

    You forgot to add that your band mates NEED to disrespect the bass player. (I play bass)

    • @cocainestupor1206
      @cocainestupor1206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +319

      wullum888 same im so disrespected it makes me want to die

    • @zachjollimore4339
      @zachjollimore4339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +735

      @@cocainestupor1206 You guys need better bandmates, its a common misconception that you need to disrespect the bassist, it's the drummer... lets be real.

    • @3sjstill438
      @3sjstill438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      Haha you play bass because you can’t play guitar :p

    • @zachjollimore4339
      @zachjollimore4339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      @@3sjstill438Hey don't pool me into this shitpile. I'm a Guitarist/Vocalist who respects my bassist

    • @3sjstill438
      @3sjstill438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Zachary Jollimore no 😂

  • @solus5635
    @solus5635 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    I think covers aren't so bad necessarily; sometimes people just want to hear the music they like live. And it's soo much easier to get gigs with a repertoire that people actually wants to hear

    • @electricfishfan
      @electricfishfan ปีที่แล้ว +49

      My opinion has always been that covers are expected wherever food is served. Nobody wants to be stuck eating while a band debuts lyrics that make eyes roll off heads. Prioritize playing covers if your audience can’t escape or else be really really sure your material fits the venue.

    • @tsdmft6638
      @tsdmft6638 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@electricfishfan Agree with this. Covers are for venues where most people want some familiar background noise. At the local punk scene you can play originals as long as it is fast and fun and nobody cares.

    • @reese4379
      @reese4379 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      fully agree. My band’s first show was 100% covers, partially because we didn’t have any full originals, but also because the most fun i have at local shows is hearing them play songs i know and being able to sing along and see how they put their own spin on it. Especially at local shows where any loud music tends to just sound generically “hardcore” i think knowing the song and hearing how it deviates in their performance is much more entertaining

    • @vermillion2023
      @vermillion2023 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I mean covers can be great if you try to put your own spin on them, but covers will probably never make people actually remember you.

    • @reese4379
      @reese4379 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@vermillion2023 I mean at a small club venue 90% of what you need to do to get remembered is stage presence because 90% of what you plat is gonna sound like a muddied mess of distortion and cymbals lmao. But also I feel like covers are more memorable because they show off the actual skill of the band (if there's any sort of decent sound control going on) if that makes sense.

  • @cesarethesomnambulist.
    @cesarethesomnambulist. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +742

    Says people who swear by AC/DC and Led Zeppelin
    Shows people wearing nirvana and guns and roses shirts

    • @troycrann3933
      @troycrann3933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jonathan Melgoza same energy

    • @Michelle-iy2nx
      @Michelle-iy2nx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@troycrann3933 Not even close.

    • @troycrann3933
      @troycrann3933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Michelle you mean to tell me you don’t categorize guns n roses and AC/DC together

    • @thomasradford9830
      @thomasradford9830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@troycrann3933 ye but not zeppelin

    • @JohnDoe-jq4re
      @JohnDoe-jq4re 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I had a slight aneurism with that 😖

  • @bobross8424
    @bobross8424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +912

    “AC/DC and Led Zeppelin”
    **PROCEEDS TO SHOW NIRVANA AND GUNS AND ROSES**

  • @kingryall
    @kingryall 5 ปีที่แล้ว +695

    Imagine looking for band members when you can just clone yourself

    • @Thecleetus
      @Thecleetus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      bruh

    • @TBA968
      @TBA968 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Thecleetus huhuhhu its funni becuase you said bruhh hehehehehehehhehehehehehehrhehehhehrhehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehrheheheeheheheheehehhehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehheheheheehehehehehehheehhehehehehehehheeheh

    • @lukezotos
      @lukezotos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      STEVEN AND THE STEVENS WE’RE GONNAAAA MAKE YOU SMILLLLLLEEEEEEE

    • @captainjirk9564
      @captainjirk9564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Steve got kicked out of the band though for playing 035 too much

    • @miguelpoky2
      @miguelpoky2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What if someone played every instrument and also did vocals and then put them together for songs. And made a whole thriving band this way. You couldn't play live but, you could do only vocals for example.

  • @Jipwell
    @Jipwell ปีที่แล้ว +237

    I don’t know if anyone needs this to hear this, but I just played my first gig yesterday evening. I remember seeing this a few months after it coming out and thinking I could never sing/learn an instrument and that music was just something I would have to stick to consuming rather than actually doing myself because of my dyspraxia (a hand-eye coordination disorder) and also my general insecurity. Then, a couple of months after I turned 14 I decided to get serious with learning guitar and singing in earnest. A bit under a year and a half later and I sang and played to a crowd of about 40 cheering people. I still can’t play or sing by the way!

    • @seeitall8921
      @seeitall8921 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Congrats on getting your first gig!!

    • @philipepessoa2042
      @philipepessoa2042 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I don't get it. You said that you can't play or sing, but you played and sang for 40. How was that?

    • @TamWam_
      @TamWam_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      im 15, and started piano since i was 5. but i quit after 8 yrs, at 13yo. i mean i can still play piano obvi, but i cant sight read instantly, i dont have perfect pitch either, etc. my friend (not a musician but is taking guitar lessons rn) and i are more serious about this band, idk who else to really 'recruit' cause most people i know are pianists and i cant really do anything other than piano 😭😭 i do know a bassist and drummer but im not really close to them

    • @jjhaya
      @jjhaya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TamWam_ As others suggested and in this video, you should probably attend local events maybe you can find people you can form a band with; you'll probably see the bassist and drummer you know in an event; it's important to be able to communicate though because people won't know you're interested unless you told them so. Good luck .

    • @stitchgor3
      @stitchgor3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congrats! I’ve just turned 13 and looking to get a guitar when I move :)

  • @elisiumlol
    @elisiumlol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4704

    Nate: "If you're a drummer you should know how to play..."
    Me, a drummer who is only able to play Come Together: *holds breath*
    Nate: "...Come Together."
    Me: *exhales*

    • @angel66_jh14
      @angel66_jh14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      lmaooo n i c e

    • @elisiumlol
      @elisiumlol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Henry Bushell yes luckily

    • @forever_spiteful
      @forever_spiteful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Henry Bushell ik ur not talking to me, but i learned SOAD toxicity

    • @decimateeviscerate
      @decimateeviscerate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@forever_spiteful yes very good sir

    • @forever_spiteful
      @forever_spiteful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Henry Bushell why thank you

  • @brennanhales8225
    @brennanhales8225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +473

    When he said give the drummer a break cause he's killing himself while you tweedle your fingers, I felt that

    • @riessclark5015
      @riessclark5015 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Brennan Hales Ah yes a fellow stick wielder

    • @zac1192
      @zac1192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Stick wielder gang

    • @danielxdrumming
      @danielxdrumming 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@zac1192 ayyyy

    • @antianti328
      @antianti328 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gang gang

    • @sponggg_7096
      @sponggg_7096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But my forearm gets tired too when i tweedle my fingers :(

  • @pirateswiggity5278
    @pirateswiggity5278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1484

    Drummer: plays chop suey
    Bass: plays seven nation army
    Guitar: plays margaritaville (Jimmy buffet)
    Vocalist: "and the rain will kill us all, throw our selves against the wall"

    • @longinuscyclone213
      @longinuscyclone213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      why do I have a feeling if these songs were played together at different parts it would lowkey be a bop..?

    • @pirateswiggity5278
      @pirateswiggity5278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@longinuscyclone213 bop?

    • @merilynne1548
      @merilynne1548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@pirateswiggity5278 a good song, essentially

    • @emmabalfour1931
      @emmabalfour1931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *throw

    • @pirateswiggity5278
      @pirateswiggity5278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@emmabalfour1931 thx

  • @HarmonicHewell
    @HarmonicHewell ปีที่แล้ว +130

    You should play in a band because it’s fun. The goal of art isn’t to be good, it’s to enjoy yourself. Play with your friends, practice until you have at least half an hour of material down as perfect as you can get it. Then, ask to play some shows. The money will be bad. You shouldn’t think about the money. 100% of the people that come to see you will have no investment in your music whatsoever, they just want to see live music. If you are good, which you probably aren’t, you might get noticed by someone. Don’t get your hopes up. Your band sucks, and that’s ok. It’s good, even. It means you have nothing to lose, you’re only doing it because it’s fun. That’s what it’s all about.

  • @radcat8550
    @radcat8550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1620

    *when you can’t yet afford a decent bass so you buy a children’s ukulele to practice*
    i still feel attacked

    • @icantthinkofausername2605
      @icantthinkofausername2605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I just bought my first bass but for the last year I've been practising on a uke that can't keep it's tune

    • @hi-t6635
      @hi-t6635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I had one and my teacher made me play bass since i habe an ukulele

    • @Ravioli_-vd4wb
      @Ravioli_-vd4wb 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep me too bass is so different to a ukulele

    • @litigatedparadox8946
      @litigatedparadox8946 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      1000th like (and yes I know most people don’t care)

    • @JacksonDang04
      @JacksonDang04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That really reminds me of something:
      Me: Can I have a *BASS* at home
      Mom: We already had a *BASS* at home
      *BASS* at home: *UKULELE*

  • @bethmarie3206
    @bethmarie3206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +543

    I really could have used some of this advice a few months ago, but my band figured it out. Some more tips:
    • make sure the name is original and MEMORABLE
    • don’t take any gigs you’re not ready for. even if it sounds like a lot of fun, it probably won’t be if you get up there with two covers and nothing else.
    • get a good long set so you’ll be prepared for anything
    • this shit takes a lot more time and energy than you might think. make sure you’re not too busy with other commitments
    • talk to people. as a person with a fair amount of anxiety, it can get really hard. but you gotta
    thank y’all for coming to my ted talk

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      FANTASTIC tips!!!

    • @alfredmuller6626
      @alfredmuller6626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I got to my first gig with two covers of the same band and people liked us

    • @thehamd9299
      @thehamd9299 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      beth marie hey bro you tryna give me some in detail tips? My friends and i have been thinking we should start a band considering we all play different instruments, bass drums guitar vocalist. We all have at least one of those skills. And we all like the same thrash metal music. But hey for real though what should we expect coming into this

    • @larvaedadindex
      @larvaedadindex 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's get this guy to 1k likes

  • @iamwatchigyou1260
    @iamwatchigyou1260 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    5:54 . This is really relatable. I had a 6 hour session once, and at the end I went to see the drummer and he was laying out on the floor, completely shattered.

  • @SomeoneYouDontKnowOfficial
    @SomeoneYouDontKnowOfficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    "If you want be performing in front of 9 people at a time.."
    Wow, setting the expectations high

    • @boyscoutguitarist3921
      @boyscoutguitarist3921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol

    • @YeOldeKamikaze
      @YeOldeKamikaze 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      This. 5 people is a large crowd on your first gig. You better be grateful if you manage to squeeze a round of applause out of them.

    • @jjhaya
      @jjhaya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There's an anime titled "Bocchi The Rock!" which encapsulates that feeling of playing your first gig with several people in the audience you can count on your two hands. I don't mind playing for a few people but I definitely would invite people I know to check us out to get at least two claps .

  • @TooManyEditsProductions
    @TooManyEditsProductions 5 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    "Is the drummer's time signature a little bit off?"
    The rest of the band was in 4/4, but I think the drummer was around 15/16.

    • @Kaonashimusic
      @Kaonashimusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Actually! There's this band called chon and their song "no signal" was basically the drummer playing 4/4 beat while the guitars and bass play 15/16 (fun fact)

    • @TooManyEditsProductions
      @TooManyEditsProductions 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Very interesting song. The beginning almost sounds like it's using microrhythms, and you get a bit of that phasing effect you have with polyrhythms when the drums come in. I like it

    • @joebacon6817
      @joebacon6817 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Kaonashimusic 827/9176

    • @sypwer
      @sypwer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pecuman wow this totally works, thanks for this song

    • @benfennell6842
      @benfennell6842 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Led zeppelin did something like this in black dog

  • @martes9128
    @martes9128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    "Give the drummer a break"
    [Happy drummer noise]

    • @milkfgc
      @milkfgc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This put an image of the dog from the original meme but with drum sticks in my head

    • @mrscientific4956
      @mrscientific4956 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Martes, youre a person with actual heart, not prosthetic, thank you

    • @doomerius1300
      @doomerius1300 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ba dum tsss

  • @B4CKWARDS_CH4RM
    @B4CKWARDS_CH4RM ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The fun part about starting a band is that you meet new people, make friends, and become really part of a scene

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You got it 100%

  • @d0mi3000
    @d0mi3000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +549

    "do not sleep with fans"
    *pierce the veil comes up*
    dammit mike!

    • @soraka7698
      @soraka7698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      whats happened tho ive been away from ptv for so long

    • @madisonkoskiven605
      @madisonkoskiven605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@soraka7698 ion remember exacts but he slept with a fan and she accused him of sexual assault I think

    • @kitkatqueen214
      @kitkatqueen214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Broo there coming back this year thooo

    • @BlahBlah-cm1os
      @BlahBlah-cm1os 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kitkatqueen214 one can dream

    • @JudyOlivares
      @JudyOlivares 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      *Motley Crue enters the chat*

  • @Laniiiiiiiiiii
    @Laniiiiiiiiiii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    So I see a lot of people in the comments saying that the intro crushed their dreams or something like that, but in all honesty that intro made me want to try one million times harder to get my music career going. I love ya Nate!

  • @TheShaitan2000
    @TheShaitan2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1473

    Girlfriends in rehearsal are forbidden.
    FOR-BI-DDEN

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  5 ปีที่แล้ว +349

      I don't know if this is politically correct or not, but significant others generally don't know when to sHUT UP during practice.

    • @hannahdylan1853
      @hannahdylan1853 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@NateIsLame Good god you are mean.... I love it! Lol :)

    • @felisszerjin9073
      @felisszerjin9073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      What if she is a member of your band 0_o

    • @kyotosghost
      @kyotosghost 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      scott the pilgrim reference i love it 😌

    • @tarotfiend
      @tarotfiend 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Feel Lord unless you are Scott Pilgram.

  • @GarfieldLover959
    @GarfieldLover959 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    literally everything you said made me more motivated to actually make a band. wish it wasnt 2:30 am because now im motivated to learn the bass more but instead i should definately be sleeping.

    • @nobodyspecial7759
      @nobodyspecial7759 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      did you ever start one?

    • @GarfieldLover959
      @GarfieldLover959 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nobodyspecial7759 my friends and me were gonna but we live across the country from each other so its kinda hard lol

    • @eliasmsv3156
      @eliasmsv3156 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GarfieldLover959 Go to shows, make friends

  • @jaziferret1138
    @jaziferret1138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1715

    "Bass players should know seven nation army"
    ExCuSe mE sIr tHat Is ofFEnSiVe.

    • @boseifrit5480
      @boseifrit5480 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Seinfeld theme

    • @woresor
      @woresor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      The "bass" in seven nation army is a vintage acoustic guitar

    • @Ellie_R.
      @Ellie_R. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      As a drummer that’s the only song I can by heart...

    • @SpeedStrike
      @SpeedStrike 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah well don’t stop believing is on piano, not keyboard, so y’know.

    • @joebacon6817
      @joebacon6817 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Ellie_R. *bum bum bum bum bum bum bum bum bum bum bum bum*

  • @schomoticoffical669
    @schomoticoffical669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1502

    im starting a band.
    im a sophomore in high school.
    i have 12 songs written atm for 1 of 2 albums.
    ill be back in 4 years with an update.

  • @rowan2086
    @rowan2086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +747

    Ok. To all teens wondering how to start a rock band when you don’t know anyone who plays an instrument that likes rock: join a rock camp! It sounds stupid, but i know a group of girls, ages 13-16, who started out at a rock camp when they were ten, and they just got off their summer tour around america. i joined a rock camp a year ago and im playing a festival with my band in may. Seriously, go find a local rock camp.

    • @MichaelTurner856
      @MichaelTurner856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What do you do there

    • @serobeats8014
      @serobeats8014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      can you learn to play gutiar there? Electric gutiar? (I can never spell gutiar lmao)

    • @davesargent8748
      @davesargent8748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      SERO BEATS oh yeah! I go to this program called school of rock and I get lessons as well as group rehearsals

    • @coopsxo5877
      @coopsxo5877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@davesargent8748 omg school of rock!!! the memories

    • @name-vl7mg
      @name-vl7mg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@davesargent8748 Ayyy I go to School of Rock! I met 2 of the members of my band there.

  • @bruv9164
    @bruv9164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Watched this a bunch in 2020 and with 100% certainty he's right. It's hella hard and super discouraging to play in a band. Thankfully I (mostly) pulled it together and now have a band with a single released, a show and an upcoming EP. So gotta thank this dude for the motivation

    • @rusty3572
      @rusty3572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's the name of your band ?!

    • @bruv9164
      @bruv9164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rusty3572 Toxic Madness. We're a crossover punk band. We just released our EP today. If you'd like i can post a link

    • @rusty3572
      @rusty3572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bruv9164 i found it, that's great !!!

    • @bruv9164
      @bruv9164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rusty3572 thanks! I really appreciate it

    • @lyndsayrylance9902
      @lyndsayrylance9902 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@bruv9164which instrument is it your playing?

  • @probablyahorse1389
    @probablyahorse1389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1125

    The reality of whats its like to be in a band is exactly what I want. I don't wanna perform on some huge stage or play halftime at the superbowl. I just wanna play inspired music at local places and have fun.

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      Sounds like you're better poised than most to succeed.

    • @worsethanhitlerpt.2539
      @worsethanhitlerpt.2539 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I know Musician Lingo- "Lets do only IMPROV" means "Im too stoned to learn actual songs" .... So if you hear that phrase, RUN.

    • @caitlingill
      @caitlingill ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My dream is warped tour but that doesn’t exist anymore, I’m still perfectly content if I one day get to playing to a few hundred people in a park or something

    • @elecklyle8408
      @elecklyle8408 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same bro

    • @bag_of_cheeto_puffs
      @bag_of_cheeto_puffs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      the worst thing that could happen to you is having your song go viral on tiktok and ur instantly popular. i wouldnt want that

  • @miguelmendoza9711
    @miguelmendoza9711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +718

    I'm 16. I'm latin. I can play the guitar. I'm teaching my friends bass and drums.
    I'll be back in 4 years with an update.

  • @croay
    @croay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    "Bass player should know Seven Nation Army"
    Bass player of White Stripes:

    • @justaamateur6533
      @justaamateur6533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Its a bass riff, and you cant change my mind

    • @ArbiterBrick
      @ArbiterBrick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      just a amateur it’s literally w guitar pedal riff

    • @Anna-fc5pk
      @Anna-fc5pk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It’s a guitar thing but any band you ever see do a cover of it will almost definitely use bass

    • @justaamateur6533
      @justaamateur6533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ArbiterBrick i know, but its for the bass, you cant change my mind

    • @ALLMETAL1970
      @ALLMETAL1970 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justaamateur6533 its for guitar with a pedal, jack plays a guitar not a bass

  • @cottonwhite4049
    @cottonwhite4049 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    As a salty band veteran I loved this video! You’re doing a beautiful thing here. Help the kids keep live music alive! I found everything in this rather spot on. I’m here still trying to further my education on the band life.

  • @Moxy_1984
    @Moxy_1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    As someone who DID get a ukulele for Christmas, I never really touched it, and I picked up the electric guitar instead (I have also played piano for a decent minute. 13 years!). I've named my band Timeless, and it's gonna be full on glam metal. Wish me luck besties.

    • @atomicpunkkk
      @atomicpunkkk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Good luck! I used to be in a glam metal band, I miss it a lot. Hope things work out for yours

    • @SodaCrewClub
      @SodaCrewClub ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How is it going?

    • @emmab5838
      @emmab5838 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Have you made some music? Where can I hear it?

    • @GreenpeaThe_Rat
      @GreenpeaThe_Rat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey, just checking in. How’s it going?

    • @Moxy_1984
      @Moxy_1984 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @GreenpeaThe_Rat made some great friends/bandmates, went to a lot of shows, those friends all turned out to be jerks, but I'm still playing! Still love that same old rock and roll!

  • @natalya-0964
    @natalya-0964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +874

    nates declassified band survival guide

    • @Blackout_1692
      @Blackout_1692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Reworked title of Ned's Declassified School Survival Guide man I loved that show

    • @robin586
      @robin586 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Blackout_1692 gosh, me too

    • @Ewr42
      @Ewr42 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yay found other nedders

    • @AbsoluteAbsurd
      @AbsoluteAbsurd 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg i loved that

    • @uninspiredhaven7893
      @uninspiredhaven7893 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@same_as_above he has a new one, simian Jimmy

  • @arvidwallesten4995
    @arvidwallesten4995 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1404

    The real question:
    How to find people that play instruments nowadays and like rock music
    Update: i found a drummer and a bassist

    • @mybandpigvomithas3sales200
      @mybandpigvomithas3sales200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Youuuuuu save up to make a home studio, program every instrument except yours and invite other small creators to sing with you.

    • @jack-uf6vv
      @jack-uf6vv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      lmao fr i’m 13 and got my first fender strat the other night and i’ve been progressing pretty fast and good but since i’m 13 in 2019 everyone listens to shitty rap and new wave hip hop .. it’s gonna be hard for me to find jam buddies but next year i’ll be in high school and hopefully i can find some cool people there. have a good day

    • @morganlovelock2396
      @morganlovelock2396 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@jack-uf6vv hey, 14 here, same problem

    • @mateo-seekthevoid1321
      @mateo-seekthevoid1321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@jack-uf6vv It takes some time. It took me a while to pull together a vocalist and two guitarists (I'm the drummer). Finding a bassist will be a bigger pain. But in 2019, I managed to find a group of kids that play instruments and like metal for my band. Keep at it brother, you'll make it.
      Ps. High school is a way better place to find people who share your interests. Good luck bro.

    • @nickn2794
      @nickn2794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      yes, and people that like your same types of rock and not just metal or pop rock...

  • @thatonedrummaboy
    @thatonedrummaboy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thank you for releasing this video. I watched this 4 years ago and I've been working hard and played my first thrash metal concert last night for 100 people in the middle of nowhere idaho. I owe you everything Nate, thank you.

  • @modernqueen9243
    @modernqueen9243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1268

    “You’re probably watching Emo bands”
    No, I just watched the movie of diary of a wimpy kid and wanna start a band.

    • @lovely_me6440
      @lovely_me6440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Roderick is the king of rock bands change my mind

    • @phantomflame0658
      @phantomflame0658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      loded diper baby

    • @snaggle2012
      @snaggle2012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lovely_me6440 I can't-

    • @cartermartin2887
      @cartermartin2887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Rodrick is who inspired me to get into rock n roll😎🎸

    • @jamesr6866
      @jamesr6866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah I’ve been listening to megadeth and felt like a band might be fun maybe

  • @mattpunk931
    @mattpunk931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1437

    "how to start a band"
    intro is about how you will never be a successful band.

    • @gyan8002
      @gyan8002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      it's still a band, even though it isn't successful

    • @mrlevinielsen
      @mrlevinielsen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Gyan success is different for other people

    • @larvaedadindex
      @larvaedadindex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think it was a bit, buddy

    • @grapefruit3581
      @grapefruit3581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I don’t even wanna be a rockstar i wanna be a tattoo artist and that still made me depressed

    • @ethanproffitt3196
      @ethanproffitt3196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fr though

  • @justinsuffer8576
    @justinsuffer8576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Watching this after my band just recorded our first album. very. very, accurate.

    • @milest1240
      @milest1240 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What's y'alls name?

    • @Deeegenerate
      @Deeegenerate 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@milest1240 yeh i want to know too dudes

    • @isadora1727
      @isadora1727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Deeegenerate me 2

    • @Alexander-vm2ox
      @Alexander-vm2ox 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tell us the name we'll listen

    • @justinsuffer8576
      @justinsuffer8576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hey sorry have been busy at work. The bands called, Matterhorn - Eyes in the sun. Hope you all like it!

  • @GNARical
    @GNARical ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Couple of extra bits that I've learnt from experience.
    1) if you are lucky enough to fall into a scene, as much as you like the genre or what came before to create the genre, try to bring something new to it.
    2) spend the money in your recordings. There are very very many "paywalls" within the music world. If you pour your money into anything, it should be recording. For a point of reference, the first album I recorded was with an 8 piece and we spent over 5 grand on it. Don't rush it, but do make sure you know your material back to front, know your dynamics and know what you want. If you want samples, bring your samples or either pre record some or bring what you want to record. Research the studio you record at. What work have they put out before? What caliber of bands are they recording. Will they understand what you are going for? Remember your recordings are forever and will always last longer than the band. It should be the best representation of you long term.
    3) along with the hardships and struggle (boy is there alot of that) do you still enjoy it? If not what can you all do to change that? If not, time to move on. All clinging on to something because it used to bring you joy and that time being precious to you won't bring those feelings back. Those times will simultaneously always be with you, but also never be relived again. Be proud of what you did and work out your next step. Clinging on to something that you baby that is dead, will only taint it amd make you bitter with each other. Moving on is important and an invaluable tool to becoming a better musician. Your mistakes are for learning from.
    Final part - my band UNFUNFAIR are accessible through TH-cam, spotify, bandcamp and Instagram. Go check us out and see what ridiculous shit we get up to.
    Good luck out there!

    • @worsethanhitlerpt.2539
      @worsethanhitlerpt.2539 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I tried to start a band with a guy who claimed to be a Virtuoso Guitarist and he couldnt learn the easiest songs. Then I started one with a guy who "Owned 2 houses" and yet he was homeless when his girlfriend kicked him out !!!!! haha

  • @TeddyJayO1
    @TeddyJayO1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +689

    No intention in joining or creating a band, and have no musical interest whatsoever. Still watching.

    • @classicpinball9873
      @classicpinball9873 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      7he Flying Dutchman Y I K E S

    • @ohheylads
      @ohheylads 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      7he Flying Dutchman H A L L O

    • @samotoole7712
      @samotoole7712 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I liked your comment because, same, and also now you're on 420

    • @classicpinball9873
      @classicpinball9873 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samotoole7712 epic weed number hehaha yes man

    • @danielshafir9704
      @danielshafir9704 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe its a sign to start playing guitar or bass or drums or sing whatsoever

  • @AC-INTENIONS
    @AC-INTENIONS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    Just did my first real local gig last night, and this dude is bang on right.
    Only thing I would say that I disagree with is about merch at your first gig, bring Demo CD's & any other little cheap things you can make, BUT GIVE THEM AWAY!
    Everybody LOVES FREE SHIT, and 90% of the world has the ability to play CD's, so if you make something decently listenable (not a phone recording... or any raw recording) chances are they will throw it in the car and give a listen on the way home or the next day or whatever.

    • @jaberjjr
      @jaberjjr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      How'd your gig go?
      (also thanks for the advice, if I ever get to the point of performing live I'll bear it in mind)

    • @AC-INTENIONS
      @AC-INTENIONS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@jaberjjr
      Very rushed.
      The guy organising all the musicians (2nd band), not gonna name names, didn't send everyone a copy of the set times that the venue wanted. (Would've saved a lot of hastle!)
      So we thought we were getting there an hour early, turns out we were nearly an hour late so we had to set everything up asap, half our friends missed our show, and everyone had to shave a bit off their set.
      So yeah, when organising a gig make a group chat with every performer for the night, and put the definitive set times there for everyone to see.

    • @Greg-in-Orange
      @Greg-in-Orange 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Free stickers are easy, cheap, effective, and people want them.

    • @_-emoperson-_4709
      @_-emoperson-_4709 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What's your band called? I would love to hear some of the music

    • @mrcooterman
      @mrcooterman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      as someone who also has performed live, this is true. another bit of advice is how important stage presence is. don’t just stand on the stage looking at the ceiling, jump around and have fun. it gets the crowd going more if they can tell that you are having fun. if you don’t know what to do specifically, the ol reliable is to just headbang
      edit: i didn’t watch the whole video before commenting, and he just talked about it

  • @smoke1forthedeadhomies837
    @smoke1forthedeadhomies837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    I’m shocked to discover that you are a popular youtuber. We went to school together at Initial Point. I always loved you playing your Ukele and it’s cool to see you have some recognition for your talents. Keep up the good work buddy!

  • @arthurdurham
    @arthurdurham ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I always say: Everyone who can play an instrument wants to start a band, but few want to do the work it takes to start a band. The boring stuff is the most important part.
    The biggest issue I always had is that when it comes to actually practicing, coordinating our playing and sound, writing, etc you can get them to focus. You don't want to leave any tiny detail up to chance.
    Even improvised things need to be practiced in a sense. Remember, how everyone else plays reflects on you. No one is going to notice you're playing well when your drummer can't keep time.
    Everyone always gives crap to the Paul McCartney's of groups who they act like are stick in the muds that don't have fun, but their incessant nagging to get the fundamentals is why you sound decent at all.

  • @jcan0822
    @jcan0822 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    “They have this weird thing called dignity.”

  • @imbabywild6033
    @imbabywild6033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +826

    The bass player is always available for practice lmao

    • @tylerrose1943
      @tylerrose1943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Zombies AF as a bass player, i am always bored and always available to practice lmao

    • @user-xw6uh3yp7g
      @user-xw6uh3yp7g 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tyler Gutierrez same I’m literally never busy

    • @yacy5954
      @yacy5954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Tyler Gutierrez lmfao lonely bass player gang gang

    • @shannonoliver9665
      @shannonoliver9665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @_jimmythesaint
      @_jimmythesaint 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bands don't need bass players anymore really

  • @doidinhodasilvabr5321
    @doidinhodasilvabr5321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1490

    "How to end a kids whole dream"

    • @Tangerine2600
      @Tangerine2600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      How to tell kids to be realistic

    • @damf5488
      @damf5488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Tangerine2600 ....im realistic

    • @maxmeyers6729
      @maxmeyers6729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@Tangerine2600 how to not have any motivation or drive to do anything

    • @dannyxkai
      @dannyxkai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Tangerine2600 you do realize that most famous rock bands were told to “get real” “it’ll never happen” “that’s a childish dream” we need more motivation in this world, you sound like the stereotypical chad dad telling his son he’ll never make it as a rockstar

    • @illfather7066
      @illfather7066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah no shit

  • @robertortega8093
    @robertortega8093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Back when I got done with active duty and went home in late 1970. I decided to look for other individuals that wanted to help me put a band together. Okay, some might think I'm the leader and yes I helped start this venture. The night , we, as a group played intermission for Little Joe and Familia, when introduced at half time show, the announcer stated "Robert's band," in which I corrected him quickly to announce, "Los Indio Mexicanos," even thou we were hard rock players and that is what we played: from Black Sabbath to Credence Clear Water Revival plus other popular tunes of that era. Yes, maybe I search out members and choose the music, teaching them the songs, but it was the efforts of the Band named Los Indios Mexicans consisting of; Willie Earl McDonald - singer, Alex Che Abrigo - drummer, Jessie Sepidia - Bassist, and myself Robert Ortega - guitarist to create music as a group. As a group I refuse to take sole credit because each of the mentioned artist were (in my opinion) equally essential that we did play for 5 of the top artistic Hispanic Groups intermission in 1971's at the only Spanish dance hall in Dimmitt, Texas. Those were fun days and I will always remember how good we were, and I emphasize "We!"

    • @robertortega8093
      @robertortega8093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The singer was Willie Earl McDonald, the Bassist was Jessie Sepedia, and drummer was Alex Che Abrigo.

  • @Joseph-li3df
    @Joseph-li3df 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1380

    Imagine living somewhere with a "scene"

    • @anakinspruce141
      @anakinspruce141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I feel this

    • @maureeng.obrien9259
      @maureeng.obrien9259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      THEY DESTROYED EVERYTHING

    • @christiantuttle544
      @christiantuttle544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Lucky me i get to live in washington dc the one upside from the constant rioting and crime is that we got a great music scene with dave grohls music club

    • @michaelfeeney9147
      @michaelfeeney9147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You most likely do but it’s just not as cut and dry as you are imagining it

    • @Joseph-li3df
      @Joseph-li3df 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@michaelfeeney9147 I mean I live in a town of 20,000 people where the nearest city is 3 hours away, and also I'm a metalhead in the year 2021, I've never someone in a band in my entire life. What would this hypothetical scene you're describing even look like?

  • @grayishgalaxy9126
    @grayishgalaxy9126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    Don’t wear logos:
    Me having pretty much all Metallica shirts: FFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUU

    • @hotcheesestick2828
      @hotcheesestick2828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      *shows a mcr t-shirt*
      me: *looks down at my mcr shirt that i'm wearing*

    • @coltz-pun7871
      @coltz-pun7871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Turn it backwards wit wear it inside-out lmao

    • @mr.fahrenheit347
      @mr.fahrenheit347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      well fuck i always wear band shirts during performances lmao

    • @FuraFaolox
      @FuraFaolox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most of my shirts are band shirts lol
      The one I'm wearing rn is Mayhem

    • @lakelighterfluid2682
      @lakelighterfluid2682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my 3 favorite shirts: q-q

  • @turtleturtle9120
    @turtleturtle9120 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thanks for the drummer love man! Here's a fun tip for making sure the drummer is the star of the show, put them on a platform. We have a 3 foot platform in our garage where the drums go, and up there you're always the center.

  • @willisegan3342
    @willisegan3342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +415

    I'm 13, Im learning guitar,
    and i want to start a band
    I'll be back in 4 years with an update

    • @theneverlandfairy4832
      @theneverlandfairy4832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right there with u!

    • @crazykosiarka
      @crazykosiarka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I'm 13 too and i'm learning drums, maybe we can jam sometime?

    • @theneverlandfairy4832
      @theneverlandfairy4832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@crazykosiarka imagine starting a band over a yt comment section lol

    • @crazykosiarka
      @crazykosiarka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@theneverlandfairy4832 lol

    • @crazykosiarka
      @crazykosiarka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@theneverlandfairy4832 That would be funny actually

  • @Chiickiienuggiies
    @Chiickiienuggiies 5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Drummer here, tried to start a band with a guitarist (figured it would work, bands have succeeded with only two people). We were pretty good friends, talked every day, had some good laughs, all of it.
    Despite popular belief, I, the drummer, didn't cause many problems, save for being a bit of a grouch during some rehearsals due to staying up until 4 AM. Anyway, we were going to do a few covers for a show.
    He flaked less than a WEEK away. Pissed me off so badly. He was really starting to annoy me with how he would behave (he was one of those "I'm insecure but oh wait I'm not, but I AM depressed."
    What sucked is that he blamed me for everything. Saying that my attitude made him feel puny and whatever. His attitude described above was what I figured was why he thought that. He gave little to no explanation other than "Hey I'm not going to do this ok byee". And then when friends asked what happened to the gig after I told them not to come, and explained my side, as I said, HE acted like I was that bad guy.
    The dude annoyed me to no end, so I'm glad I dropped him and found a better musical partner :)

    • @christopherhollis7022
      @christopherhollis7022 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      "I'm insecure but oh wait I'm not, but I AM depressed.", I just became a better person, how dare you!

    • @Chiickiienuggiies
      @Chiickiienuggiies 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christopherhollis7022 ?

    • @christopherhollis7022
      @christopherhollis7022 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Chiickiienuggiies That's totally me and it made me look at myself

    • @Chiickiienuggiies
      @Chiickiienuggiies 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@christopherhollis7022 oh well, good for you :) (I swear I mean it positively lol)

    • @dylanbaldwin7934
      @dylanbaldwin7934 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Im a drummer and i am also a hothead lol. I will take a lot of crap and not say anything for a long time and thats the problem they kniw they are able to get away with it until i explode and cant hold it in anymore

  • @sofiavelarde109
    @sofiavelarde109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +591

    THIS VIDEO WAS SO INFORMATIVE AND GOOD AND I DONT EVEN WANT TO START A BAND

    • @sophiah3855
      @sophiah3855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      my thoughts exactly wtf skhfghskjdfsd

    • @silentwolf5368
      @silentwolf5368 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME I THOUGHT THIS WAS JUST GONNA BE A PARODY THINGY

  • @2474official
    @2474official 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Im a lot more of a hip hop guy, but i’ve started a band with people who swear by bands like My Chemical Romance. So far its been pretty fun, not really any band-politics or anything like that too. This experience has given me many great memories. And that would have never happened if I never watched this video. Thank you Nate. 🙏

  • @nickb8507
    @nickb8507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I’m very glad to have learned music theory. It makes writing much easier. 10/10 would recommend

    • @MrAVENGER901
      @MrAVENGER901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How long did it take you to learn theory?

    • @nickb8507
      @nickb8507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      MrAVENGER901 just a few months for the basics, like knowing progression such as I, IV, V. I,V,vi,IV(every pop song ever). I was in a band set up through the place I work, and we had a really great band coach who told us a little about that stuff. I recently learned my triads, scales numbers, 7th chords, and solfeg(do ri mi, I can’t remember how it’s actually spelled) this school year in a community college intro to theory class. I started when I was 16 and I’m 18 now so it took me around 2 years, but I went slow. If you were really serious about learning it, you could probably figure it out in a few months

  • @Adi-zx8ce
    @Adi-zx8ce 4 ปีที่แล้ว +719

    NateIsLame: Go to at least 15 local concerts
    COVID-19: You’re going to have a bad time

    • @Adi-zx8ce
      @Adi-zx8ce 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this seems early but whoever like the comment... thanks, I appreciate it

    • @Camigga
      @Camigga 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      oops. Guess ill wait

    • @behindthemask2399
      @behindthemask2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me: finally realizes, that my high school friends suck at showing up AT ALL
      Me: wants to go to concerts to maybe find some people to play with
      Covid-19: I'm about to end this man's whole PLANS FOR 2020

    • @ricksanchezito8972
      @ricksanchezito8972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Covid did NOT let this comment flop

    • @jxynothere
      @jxynothere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update, 1 year later:
      Covid: You’re STILL going to have a bad time.

  • @ZannzibarMcFate
    @ZannzibarMcFate 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I’ve been a professional full time musician for 14 years, I’ve played well over 1,000 shows in multiple bands and I can confirm that this is very good advice. Here is my addition: don’t go to school for music and make it your passion only to play in a bunch of cover bands for 14 years because it’s the only way to make a living in this business. Get a day job doing something more lucrative, make one band and just get the right people and the right music in that one band and go all out with it, have fun. You’ll be happier in the long run.

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is phenomenal advice

  • @bedtimeted
    @bedtimeted 4 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    me: has no interest in starting a band
    also me clicking on this video:

    • @luish8056
      @luish8056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Juli RIGHT!

    • @marcopolio6591
      @marcopolio6591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We don’t need no shit like you here.

    • @BlahBlah-cm1os
      @BlahBlah-cm1os 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@marcopolio6591 dude chill, let them watch mindlessly in peace.

    • @ninaout5504
      @ninaout5504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      THIS

    • @marcopolio6591
      @marcopolio6591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Blah Blah
      I’m chill and i’m just joking lol

  • @VepiumOfficial
    @VepiumOfficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Whoa I’m a bass player and I know seven nation army and I know music theory I might not be hopeless after all.

    • @larsbernemann4677
      @larsbernemann4677 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ace of Spades too?

    • @failureacademia
      @failureacademia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ew bass players

    • @will-ck6ey
      @will-ck6ey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Zoe Campbell have fun with no rhythm asshole

    • @kwlks6
      @kwlks6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Zoe Campbell even tho i'm a guitarrist i think that bass is important to create a rythm

    • @failureacademia
      @failureacademia 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@will-ck6ey I think bass is important I just don't like the people who play bass

  • @lucasthybeck-soderberg3056
    @lucasthybeck-soderberg3056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +873

    I remember watching this when my band first started out. Now we're about ready to record a 7-8 song ep and we are really hyped to play our first gig (when corona is over). Just figured i would tell everyone in the comments somewhat of a sucess story.
    Do start a band, it's really fun but it's a lot of hard work.

  • @suburbanvibes3466
    @suburbanvibes3466 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I used to rewatch this video nearly everyday a few years ago because I really wanted to start a band but I knew no instrument people, now me and my friend are starting a synth pop project. Thanks for that!

  • @fridaynightsaturdaymorning849
    @fridaynightsaturdaymorning849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +727

    "Give the drummer a break"
    I will but why doesn't he have a break while im TRYING TO TUNE MY BASS
    Edit: i'd say lots of likes is a good thing but it's just people relating to my pain. I still appreciate it though.

    • @Jenny-ec6bb
      @Jenny-ec6bb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      LMAO SO TRUE AND IM NOT EVEN THE BASSIST (btw gj being a bass player is probably difficult-)

    • @aqib4925
      @aqib4925 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@Jenny-ec6bb no shit, everytime im trying to hear my bass sound the drummer just comes in and hitting everything

    • @burningthefields
      @burningthefields 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      As a guitarist I have a tip, don't wait the whole hour it takes to set up a drum kit to tune your bass/guitar.

    • @fridaynightsaturdaymorning849
      @fridaynightsaturdaymorning849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I normally practice in my schools practice rooms though so the drums are already set up oof

    • @agustinfernandez5115
      @agustinfernandez5115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@fridaynightsaturdaymorning849 in my experience. Drums are "never in tune" According to the drummers i've seen.
      Always waste half an hour trying to get a sound from a yt video they watched.

  • @Bready3000
    @Bready3000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    My friend and I are gonna start a band and I'm so happy this came up
    I'm gonna be the bassist

    • @theresnomich5954
      @theresnomich5954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Keep In Mind Try to Be an Exception To Rule #2

    • @denny.h776
      @denny.h776 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As one bass players to another, if you Haven't learned the cycle of fifths and fourths, DO IT. It makes life so easy, if you know the notes on the fretboard, then your literally the greatest bass player around.

    • @Bready3000
      @Bready3000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@denny.h776 no worries, I've already have, I even memorized my notes in different tunings like drop D and drop DG

    • @Bready3000
      @Bready3000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@denny.h776 and it's especially helpful to me as a fan of Chris Wolstenholme to learn octaves, his stuff is fun as hell and cool as hell to play

    • @reinbox_
      @reinbox_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish you good luck! 😁

  • @lord_of_the_lucid_dreams8266
    @lord_of_the_lucid_dreams8266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Starting a rock or metal band:
    Lead guitarist
    Rhythm guitarist
    Bassist
    Drummer
    Singer with really high or really low vocal range

    • @birdsaresinners3373
      @birdsaresinners3373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Reggae Rasta no

    • @quacktastic
      @quacktastic 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm curious, isn't lead guitar easier than rhythm? Or?

    • @quacktastic
      @quacktastic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Swag Man Figured, since rhythm is riffs and the like and lead has more solos- am I right there?

    • @diegoramos4432
      @diegoramos4432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      BillboardFurry some Rhythm guitars are harder to play than some vocals

  • @gog0boots
    @gog0boots ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I got my first bass guitar for my 16th birthday this year. I want to start a band and have some fun with it. Wish me luck guys!! :)

    • @1tiger_172
      @1tiger_172 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How’s that going?

  • @Julia-qo3ow
    @Julia-qo3ow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    The only family friendly alternative content that matters

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      this is good shit

    • @Mr__Joe
      @Mr__Joe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He said boobs once in the video

    • @Julia-qo3ow
      @Julia-qo3ow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@NateIsLame I hope ur grandma sees this😡😡

    • @tarotfiend
      @tarotfiend 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Julia Acosta woah woah woah woah woah. Woah.

    • @marythomas29
      @marythomas29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      CrankThatFrank has left the chat

  • @blu4875
    @blu4875 5 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    "No matter the dumb racist tangent the bass player goes on."
    I feel personally attacked.

    • @fattyjaybird7505
      @fattyjaybird7505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Gotta hold it down man!

    • @dudeperson2037
      @dudeperson2037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's ok bass players r easily replaced

    • @JohnDoe-jq4re
      @JohnDoe-jq4re 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You would

    • @nicoanony
      @nicoanony 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same 😢😢😢

    • @coltz-pun7871
      @coltz-pun7871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@dudeperson2037 except for the fact that there's barely any bassists compared to guitarists

  • @AdamLivesayCovers
    @AdamLivesayCovers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    As someone who’s been in plenty of bands over the years it’s nice seeing someone putting almost all the life lessons you learn into one condensed video. Some other tips I’d personally give as someone who just started another band 6 months ago with an EP out:
    1. Songwriting for us isn’t always someone having a riff ready. We usually play a La Dispute cover and then just sort of jam until we stumble on something we like. As soon as it catches our ear, we hit record for like 20 minutes going through different things that do and don’t work with it. This makes it easier for me to flesh out recording into my DAW later to make a cohesive song that ultimately still goes through changes.
    2. Staying active in your local scene is most important. Make sure you get to know plenty of people locally. BUT don’t go to bigger shows and think you can’t make connections. You most certainly can make connections at bigger shows and it may pay off one day. Never underestimate making a good impression on the right people. If I hadn’t given an impression, I wouldn’t have been able to take pictures on the last 3 years of Warped Tour. Don’t be pushy, try to make an impression, and maybe you’ll catch a number, an email, or a Facebook account.
    3. Run your songs by others in the music world before release. You’ll hopefully get honest feedback, whether it’s “more dynamics here” or “make that solo really rip” or “I can’t hear the rhythm guitar in the mix.” Working well off of constructive criticism is something that will take you from a good to a great band.
    4. This was said but it needs to be said louder for the people in the back: STAGE PRESENCE. If I go to one more show where you plebs are just standing still and expecting all 8 people who showed up to enjoy it you’re dead wrong. In my experience, grab a drink to loosen up (if you’re old enough). Don’t misunderstand me here, I never have nor ever will go onstage absolutely plastered, as that is a route for disaster. One or two beers before a show drank casually can really loosen you up to not care about your social anxiety like me and just let go. Be someone else on stage. Prove you love doing it. It can take time as well. My first performances onstage in high school were particularly disgusting. As you get more comfortable with the craft, you become more open onstage.
    4. As your band will inevitably suck at first, when playing shows, I give you the advice my 6th-12th grade band teacher always gave us: PLAY THROUGH THE MISTAKES. Nothing will kill your set faster than one person switching to the chorus too soon or the drummer playing the wrong beats and then everyone comes crashing down like a pile of bricks on a foundation of crap. If someone messes up, it is up to you as a band to hopefully mesh well enough to recover and power through. NEVER stop playing the song. This happened to me twice in one set at a decent venue opening for SayWeCanFly and The Icarus Account, but because we were all capable musicians, we recovered and made it seem like it was part of the song. If you can do that with your band mates then you’re all doing something right.
    5. If you’re in a college town (such as myself) then check out if you have any student radio stations and shoot them an email. They generally deal with smaller and independent acts and are more likely to play your songs, run a story about or an interview with you.
    6. Don’t waste your time sending demos to record labels. They won’t open them. This is advice from my Music Industry professor. They see your music as a legal liability if they even open the package. Imagine you send a major label a song, never hear anything back, and then a few months later you hear a song on the radio impeccably like yours. You lawyer up and it’s time to sue. If the label never opened your package, you likely have no case. Ergo, don’t waste your time. If people like your stuff, the labels will come to you.
    7. This band stuff is a lot of work and responsibility, and some of you will undoubtedly pull more weight than the rest of your band members but at the end of the day, JUST HAVE FUN. If you keep your head out of the clouds and just roll with having a blast then I guarantee you get more out of it than killing yourself and selling your soul trying to “make it.” You’ll get burnt out and discouraged quick like that. Keep it fun, run it like a business, and you’ll feel much better for it.
    Thank you for coming to MY ted talk, as another user has already gave his.

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ^^^^^^ Listen close kids

    • @karldizon3780
      @karldizon3780 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude this comment is Waaaaaayyy too short

    • @AdamLivesayCovers
      @AdamLivesayCovers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@karldizon3780 Okay but how was I literally just re-reading this after a month right before you replied

    • @fbyoutube3656
      @fbyoutube3656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whenever I'm on a stage for a show, I disassociate. I am not me on stage I'm a character built purely as a mean to entertain. It's hard but it makes me a pretty good actor.

    • @AdamLivesayCovers
      @AdamLivesayCovers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FBTH-cam this is a solid way to put it as well, I’d say the two or three beers really just put me in that place

  • @lanakrajcer
    @lanakrajcer ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I remember watching this video when it came out thinking "That's so cool. I wish this could be me in a band. But there's no way." And here we are, my band releasing our first single in a couple of days :)
    During our whole journey this video has been in the back of my mind.
    As I joined a band, I remembered this video, but thought "No way. We're just playing around, badly covering grunge."
    As we worked on our first original song, I remembered this video, but thought "Yeah, still, this is probably just a one time thing, and it isn't even that good."
    As we organized our first gig, I remembered this video and thought "Hm. We've gone through a lot of phases."
    As we finished recording our first single a few days ago, I remembered the exact line from the video that most bands don't reach the recording stage. And I thought "There."

  • @lokiibakaa
    @lokiibakaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    I watched K-On and was like "I wanna do dat"

    • @arekvoid8663
      @arekvoid8663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      We're all in the same boat

    • @kamekomiyamora
      @kamekomiyamora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Join me! I've been playing guitar (late beginner, but I've played other instruments through my life) and I'm rewatching it now for inspiration. I want to make a Jrock/Anime cover band 😁 I wanna play with other late beginners or intermediates so we can learn and grow together

    • @ририка-э2в
      @ририка-э2в 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @bouncybird2331
      @bouncybird2331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup

    • @fairlyathleticquail9641
      @fairlyathleticquail9641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sameee

  • @yahmhararry1943
    @yahmhararry1943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    "Don't sleep with fans"
    Me: *glares at Pierce the Veil*

    • @SundaeEditz
      @SundaeEditz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Vince neil?

    • @elizacumbie341
      @elizacumbie341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      don't forget Gerard Way because originally Frank was a fan

    • @DatMetalBoi75
      @DatMetalBoi75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@elizacumbie341 did Gerard and Frank do the Hebidy Dibbidy?

    • @fatee_jab
      @fatee_jab 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *laughing in 5 seconds of summer

    • @singularmile
      @singularmile 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmaoooo

  • @olaffescobar8785
    @olaffescobar8785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    “Don’t sleep with fans” *Pierce The veil pops up*

  • @yaboiN3O9
    @yaboiN3O9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As a drummer, I can confirm that I end up fcking dead after playing a couple of death metal tracks

  • @themoonman9721
    @themoonman9721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +618

    “Make sure you actually practice”
    After School Tea Time: *intense sweating*

    • @Anna-fc5pk
      @Anna-fc5pk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Is that a K-on reference lmao

    • @fairlyathleticquail9641
      @fairlyathleticquail9641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmaoo

    • @kiruka9899
      @kiruka9899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      oh God i

    • @animetoonshd3889
      @animetoonshd3889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Polgarity it was Mugi’s fault! Azunyan did nothing wrong :”c

    • @FuraFaolox
      @FuraFaolox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lmao I was just thinking about K-ON

  • @Link-ji7kx
    @Link-ji7kx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    I’ve played sold out shows and I’d say it’s not THAT hard to get the point of success my bands have gotten to.
    The main thing is:
    “1.” BE UNIQUE. Don’t be band that just wants to sound like _____________.
    “2.” Are you actually willing to travel and play shows - even if no one shows up to watch you play? Willing to sleep in a van?
    “3.” Are you always willing to get better? Are you willing to evolve your sound? If so, and if you have a brain, you will eventually get good at what you’re good at.
    “4.” Don’t ever mess with hard drugs or pills. They will not only ruin your band, it will ruin your life every time.
    “5.” The main reason bands don’t make it is because they break up. And the main reason bands break up is: YOU CHANGE. So... don’t change? I guess?
    Not tryin’ to undercut anything Nate said. Most everything he said was pretty much spot on!

    • @drpepper694
      @drpepper694 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Is charisma on live shows also important? I'm sure it helps

    • @legatomisterioso7
      @legatomisterioso7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dr Pepper 69 Definitely, don’t do anything stupid but be energetic and jump around.

    • @lilly7550
      @lilly7550 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait, what band(s) are you in?

    • @lilrejct
      @lilrejct 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Alexander Supertramp Step 3 has to do with the sound of the music and you're abilities on your instrument. Step 5 pretty much refers to being a person aside from a musician

    • @PK-hk7ne
      @PK-hk7ne 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marc Meier “Survival of the fittest” doesn’t mean the strongest, but the one most adaptable to change. Learn to adapt to change so you’ll survive.

  • @INeedAttentionEXE
    @INeedAttentionEXE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    1.) get band members who you trust to learn their parts
    2.) learn photoshop for album covers
    3.) tone

    • @everclearevelyn4999
      @everclearevelyn4999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      4: get signed by a record label
      5: make a hit album
      6: make another self-titled album that gets ~4 fans
      7: cry because you peaked in high school
      8: sleep for 5 consecutive days
      9: cry again
      10: break up the band
      11: do some solo work
      12: move to Chicago
      13: rent out an apartment
      14: get a job at a mattress firm
      15: create a TH-cam channel dedicated to nateislame
      16: start an uprising against RHCP fans
      17: get stabbed in the arm by Mr. Chili Pepper himself.
      18: riot in the streets
      19: spend the rest of your days watching cheesy romantic comedies on Netflix

    • @NovaAnimations
      @NovaAnimations 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes

    • @mac5895
      @mac5895 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Stained Glass Canvas my life goals

    • @everclearevelyn4999
      @everclearevelyn4999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mac5895 mine too!!

    • @eliasmorales6950
      @eliasmorales6950 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      INeedAttention exe TONE

  • @jacketslut8546
    @jacketslut8546 5 ปีที่แล้ว +813

    temporary setlist
    1. sugar we goin down
    2. the heck parade
    3. sins, tragedies, gay
    4. piano concerto no. 2 in c minor, o.p. 18: 1 moderato by sergei rachmaninoff
    yeah thanks for the laugh

    • @SuzukiHalwende
      @SuzukiHalwende 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      "Sins, Tragedies, Gay"

    • @jamweeb6168
      @jamweeb6168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      THE HECK PARADE
      PPPPFFFFT

    • @yuna_sodapop
      @yuna_sodapop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok, that's it, mate! R to the fricken double E. Disrespectful...lmao

    • @josie5073
      @josie5073 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

  • @bunsenn5064
    @bunsenn5064 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I have a lot of trouble finding a bass player. Not because I can’t find someone who’s willing to pluck a string over and over, but because I actually want an honest-to-god bassist who understands their instrument well. I have an amazing drummer and I’ve put in my hours on piano and guitar, but the bassist is the missing piece, and arguably the most important one.

  • @changedmyname2601
    @changedmyname2601 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1259

    *"Treat these like social events, go to as many as you can"*
    Social Anxiety:
    Me:
    Social Anxiety:

    • @RUClassicallyTrained
      @RUClassicallyTrained 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Literally my thoughts

    • @sabrinahardin9115
      @sabrinahardin9115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      SAME

    • @BauhausBarbie
      @BauhausBarbie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same

    • @Shigzmi
      @Shigzmi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yea then its just not for you.

    • @Shigzmi
      @Shigzmi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      evie thats good for you, I’m glad. But theres always those kids that are like haha i have social anxiety but don’t put any effort in bettering it

  • @boyscoutguitarist3921
    @boyscoutguitarist3921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    Most Guitarist should know sweet home alabama
    Let me get some white out on the script
    Here is the edited script: "...all guitarist should know smoke on the water..."
    Okay my work here is done.

    • @nickj7335
      @nickj7335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      BoyScoutGuitarist bro everyone knows smoke on the water, guitarist should know stairway to heaven

    • @levibrousseau7608
      @levibrousseau7608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES

    • @levibrousseau7608
      @levibrousseau7608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And, If you are from Washington (which I am from Washington), you should DEFINITELY know 'Smells Like Teen Spirit'.

    • @nickj7335
      @nickj7335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Levi Brousseau oh of course

    • @nickb8507
      @nickb8507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      0 3 5 0 3 6 5

  • @esodevulpes6435
    @esodevulpes6435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    15:00
    Pro tip: /r/fakealbumcovers has a wealth of people experienced in PS and particularly albums covers who would be more than willing to accept pay to make a real album cover

    • @nick42085
      @nick42085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is actually incredible advice. Thank you

    • @esodevulpes6435
      @esodevulpes6435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@nick42085 your welcome, I'd hate to see that sub's talent go to waste

    • @dwarfchicken
      @dwarfchicken 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank 🙂

    • @fabianvanderelst9643
      @fabianvanderelst9643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That sounds great if you're not a creative person! I would just make the artwork myself :)

    • @myadyth7048
      @myadyth7048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pro tip: I am one of those people, and I do in fact want money.
      This is a great comment.

  • @ihaverabies17
    @ihaverabies17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Giving this a rewatch now that i have an actual band. Im only 16 and we’re doing our first show (at an actual venue, no less) this Saturday!

  • @web2.0typebeat
    @web2.0typebeat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    Ha, jokes on you, I have my out of tune BASS by my bed

    • @coledoucette5116
      @coledoucette5116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @peepers811
      @peepers811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have my out of tune GUITAR AND DRUMS in my room

    • @kaitlynf230
      @kaitlynf230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      E P I C

    • @reb6453
      @reb6453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      E P I C O

    • @evaturnquist1218
      @evaturnquist1218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have an out of tune kazoo

  • @blametheinternet9983
    @blametheinternet9983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    I watched this video 1 year ago with my band when we just started and my drummer now said his dads friend owns a studio and thinks we’re ready to record a album. I never would have got here without you!

    • @NateIsLame
      @NateIsLame  4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      THAT'S AMAZING

    • @blametheinternet9983
      @blametheinternet9983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Elijah So! My bass players sister got COVID and my drummers mom said we can’t come over till she’s better... so.... it will be delayed but in the meantime you can check out are channel

    • @ironspiderlink3652
      @ironspiderlink3652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@blametheinternet9983 How's it going and what's your band name?

  • @moony3041
    @moony3041 5 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Intro:
    Me: *checks for hidden cameras in my house*

  • @comotellamas9045
    @comotellamas9045 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is really, really well put together. Alot of putting together a band is persistence and observation. The first band I formed took alot of trial and error but once you get the idea it gets alot easier.

  • @nataliem863
    @nataliem863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    “And ukulele players need to know every single twenty øne piløts song ever written” lol