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Bree won’t remember the gifts she got but she will certainly remember opening them alone. This shit will have an impact.
As a psychologist I say when bree opened gifts & excitedly showed to the CAMERA but then suddenly lowered her excitement coz NOONE is RECIPROCATING that EXCITEMENT is heartbreaking! & It's definitely gonna impact her mentally in the future consciously/subconsciously!
sooo upsetting!!
So sad, they should all be Clapping and excited for her. Meeting her level of excitement...
@beckylg8176 That's what you do when you love someone and they're excited so you get excited too!! That's what you are supposed to do and what you should do, it should make you happy just to see them being happy!! This is really just so sad and depressing
I’d be on the floor with her, playing with all the dolly stuff!!
Sad
The thing that hit me the hardest was this poor child thanking a camera for spending her birthday with her. BECAUSE LITERALLY NO ONE ELSE celebrated her birthday with her. She thanked an effing camera 🤬 my heart hurts for her
^^^ this right here. It's heartbreaking. There's constant noise and chaos in that family and no one would celebrate this little girl? Not even her dad? It's unacceptable. She should feel loved every day but feel it ten fold on her birthday. 💔
Her friends didn’t even watch her they went and played
DCP was spot on with how these kids see Alicia ( with a camera in front of her face).
Bree breaks my heart💔. She’s such a sweet child. I’ll take her. She’d have her own room and bathroom and tons of attention and love.
@@Steph568 I’ve said all along that zoey is not a nice child at all .she’s learned some horrible ways from adults and the care system can’t be blamed for that one .She knows what she’s doing honestly poor bree .
Bree seems like a kid with a heart of gold. I hope she never lets anyone change her. Bree and her brother Patrick are a credit to themselves.
The fact that B chose pizza for dinner and thanking the camera was both heartwarming and heartbreaking at once. Alicia has said in the past that pizza is not something B loves, yet the family always has pizza on Fridays. She seems like such a polite sweetheart.
I don't know if Bree even chose pizza. The Altitude park here in my area only offers pizza for parties. I'm not sure if you can bring anything else in besides cake.
Yes, she is very considerate of others. Poor thing. I wish she could've been adopted by a better family. 💔
I love Bree plays with dolls. Shows some kids still have innocence at that age.
well lush is now apparently going to dress her out off kids clothes now let’s see how this goes,let kids be kids why rush them to look older maybe for content Mmmmmm
Yes! Although i was born in ye old 1992, I was still playing with dolls at 12 years old (2004) and so were my friends. I loved Polly Pockets and Barbies, dreamed of owning American Girl dolls and on my 13th birthday my parents let me pick out a Build-a-Bear and two outfits. I grew up poor so that was A BIG DEAL. I knew a girl who still collected American Girl dolls at 16. Let kids play with age appropriate toys instead of screens and tech!
Additionally, when modern parents use the crutch of “Oh but in _this day and time_ it’s _normal_ for little kids to have smartphones, iPads, MacBooks and tiktok accounts” NO, it’s not, it’s not normal and it shouldn’t be normalized. Be a parent and say no. My kid is 10 and she doesn’t have a phone. We have a family iPad. I set a 15 minute screen timer in accessibility mode and I’m sitting with her watching and listening to what she’s doing. She gets no unsupervised internet access. I watch the Kid’s TH-cam app videos through the whole video before she’s allowed to watch it. I’m a filter. Parents are supposed to be filters between the danger of the world and our innocent children.
Our parents couldn't afford Barbie Dolls when we were growing up and while at a friend's house she had a HUGE bin of Barbies... i was in secret heaven, playing with them at age 15... really solid memory for me!
My little boy turned 12 today and all I could do was buy him a present, we got cupcakes, and pizza. And, his eyes lit up when he saw his little 20 dollar gift. She thinks that she has to spend thousands on birthdays or everyone will stop loving her. She once said it’s because these kids came from places where they weren’t celebrated. News flash! You don’t have to spend a ton of money to celebrate your child, it’s about putting down the camera and spending that one on one time with them, cuddle with them and watch a movie, take them out to a special meal with just mom and dad, there are so many ideas. I cried because my son was celebrated all day at school and when you are a single parent and feel like your kid isn’t made to feel special enough on his birthday, it means the world when a teacher goes out of the way to make their day special. She just teaches these kids to be materialistic instead of learning there are more important things than presents. On a different note, we should do a video from the point of view of what it’s like for a baby being raised by parents with cameras and phones in their faces all day, maybe someone will take notice
Good job momma ❤ so much this!
I'm a single mom of two myself and it always feels like my son's father's side is always trying to compete on who's bought more and more expensive stuff for the holidays... It makes me feel crappy sometimes honestly. But I know how much thought goes into every present I get him and that I'm the one who plans every birthday party... Hopefully those are some memories he keeps, along with the expensive gifts he gets.
Gifts and spending money on someone does not equal love. Love isn't something you buy, it's something you earn. Your son is so lucky to have a mom like you ❤
i worked at a kids play place in pennsylvania (us) and we had a family vlogger who came there... at first we thought she was just taking pics, then more she came back, the more the other customers and staff realized what she was doing.
we asked her to stop, she got creative.. hidding the camera... until finally she was told she couldnt be on her phone, or we would no longer allow her in.
she showed up with the police!! this woman wasted police officers time to come throw a fit that we wouldnt allow her to film other peoples children in a private business.
we showed the cops her videos that were online, and that she was showing other children . the cop basically said "its this man's business. if he doesnt want to allow you in bc you cant follow the rules, thats his decision.
this chic was BIG mad. she tried to sit outside and tell people not to come in bc "we were crazy about phones" not realizing they were our regulars and didn't want her there!! hahahaha
👏👏👏 Go, you guys! I wish more people would do this.
yeah the owner was great. he was not having any of her shit. haha
and the cop was pretty awesome too
That’s awesome. Do you know who it was?
Can you tell us who it was? 😁
hi josh! i am a child welfare worker in illinois. there are some pretty crazy rules that we have to live by including not being able to help pregnant women who have no children but are actively using drugs. because the baby is not born yet and there are no other kids child welfare workers just have to hope the baby makes it. so in regards to family vloggers there is not a lot that child welfare can do. being exploited is not a “safety” concern in the eyes of the law. a safety concern would be a caregiver intoxicated while being the soul provider and that should absolutely be reported! but overall these children have little to no chance of being removed from the care of any family vlogger. if child welfare services would be involved it would remain an intact case and the parents would have to complete services like parenting classes, substance abuse treatment, domestic violence services, etc. but ultimately they wouldn’t change their ways. unfortunately there is not much that child welfare can do in regards to vlogging due to the rules in place. though i think it’s incredibly important to advocate the need to change laws calling social services often just take away resources from other families that could need the services. just my perspective being in child welfare. keep up the good work!!
Thank you for what you do!
I’m in California and same rule here - dcfs can’t intervene if baby isn’t born
Thank you for the insight. It is sad to know there is so little that can be done. It would be great if there was someone to advocate for them and actually know that a difference could be made.🧡
@@robertathompsonzellmer2027 i totally agree! breaks my heart watching moms and dad do what they do! best thing we can do is keep talking about the problems
this is extremely sad someone needs to hold Alicia countable to the damage she has and is causing these kids,people have done jail for less abuse a judge needs to look into her parenting and I hope N and D aren’t adopted into this.Enough of N including her underwear with anxiety of taking her period that is Ns private business this is out there for life,it’s disgusting to home these kids with someone who is only interested in posting kids private issues for content = DOLLARS.
Josh didn’t even go to her party. Imagine your dad missing your birthday party. I’d be crushed
Especially when she doesn't trust men due to her past, the poor girl
truly believe each day their spirits are crushed all children deserve parents to love them,spend time listening to them, being affectionate and it’s important keeping their life private and offline keeping them as safe as you possibly can.
@@sarahweld4533 And a grandparent couldn’t do that?? Or, an older sibling? Come on now.
And he also wasn't there apparently the next morning when she opened her gifts.
@@DogHairRules - Maybe his employer has suggested he refrain from being in these videos so much… after driving students home and all that jazz… just a thought.
I yearned for my mothers love.
I remember being about Brees age and I’d get ready for bed, going upstairs, saying “I love you mom.” And I’d get no response.. so I’d say again, “I love you mom..” and still nothing. I make it a point to be present for my kids and tell them I love them whenever I can. I feel for these kids. It’s so sad.
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That's so sad, im really sorry u went through that. Makes me appreciate my mum. I don't have my own kids but I tell my nieces I love them all the time, it's important!
I’m sorry you experienced that :( I tell my boys that I love them everyday!!
Damn. I feel this. My mom did the same thing to me. I also dislike giving her hugs it’s like I’m hugging a stranger that doesn’t want to be near me. Odd lonely feeling. But good on you for breaking the cycle. You are strong and you deserve so much love! ❤️ ❤
When I was a kid if I got too close to my mother she would jerk away and say "get away from me" very angrily. She was verbally and emotionally abusive.
I noticed, she does last minute birthday shopping for the kids she least favors, but her $ maker favorites get a head start and very well planned for their birthday shopping!
And everyone even wearing the birthday child’s favorite color. I saw her do that with N. They were all dressed in red and black and honestly I thought that was a lovely idea. She certainly didn’t do the for B.
Didn’t one of the kids or maybe the twins get this huge party where they hired vendors to come to their house, etc.? This is wild. Kids notice favoritism.
Yes, yes they did!
It also encourages bratty kids to bully the ones they notice are the least favourite.
Yeah it’s ridiculous. She’s ridiculous. I have five kids OK so I understand full well. and anything I do for one child goes to the other. Yes, I have daughters, and obviously at the age that they’re at we have more in common. There’s more things for us to do together, whereas when my sons were little before, my daughters were born, they probably got a lot of money spent on them, however, any dollar amount that I spend on one child even if the other child doesn’t participate in the same activity because of their age or their gender or whatever they get that paid forward in money. For example, if I take my girls and we go and get pedicures and get our nails done, my sons, get that money, put into their bank account for shopping or whatever the case may be whatever it is that they want whatever it is that they choose to do but they get the same thing. It’s all equal I don’t do more for one then I do for the other, it Hass to all be equal that goes without saying if you can’t afford to buy a jeep for every single one of the children, then none of them should have a Jeep. Point blank.
I'm pretty sure almost all of them at least got the Kona Ice Truck. Plus they all wore the birthday kids favorite colors for the day.
@@andreawhite1496they ALLLLLLLL got that ice truck yes . Even ones during the week .
Bree is the only kid who didn’t get the ice truck, have her siblings there when she opened her gifts, her siblings standing there singing really loud, her father, her bio brother wasn’t there, who is also adopted by them, where was nana she is at every party too. This family is so so so so rude to Bree. She deserves so much better.
Stop saying all this I already cried watching the video 😭😭😭😭
Well it's no wonder Bree is being treated like this, because she's the most thankful, warmest and sweetest one in the family. We can take for granted the people like that, especially in a cold, materialistic centered family.
This is genuinely so sad. All kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids. Poor Brie - she doesn't deserve that
Now that’s the truth
I can't believe this happened to Bree. This family is ridiculous. She doesn't deserve that at all. I will tell you one thing. Karma is coming. And I do hope and pray that Alicia documents it
Yes to 12 year olds playing with dolls/toys..let them be children for a little bit longer! We live in a world where being a child is embarrassing. Ugh it just hurts to think about what a world our children grow up in! My favorite childhood memories are by far playing outdoors with my cousins, getting muddy, being creative with the little bit of toys we had or made ourselves! I hope I can still do my part so my kids get to at least somewhat experience a childhood without to much technology! I think it's so important!
Yes, I agree! I played with Barbies until when I was 12 and was out and about on the dairy I grew up on! Best years of my life. True joy!
I'm in the UK I had a baby born when I was in the first 2/3 years of High school asked my mum to look after it while I was at school, we start high school here at 11, but you wouldn't catch many doing that now its sad! Kids need to be kids!
Bree is the best! She deserved to have her family around her to open her gifts. Broke my heart!
Washington State is in the process of passing a bill protecting minors from online influencers and advertising. Let's hope other State's follow suit.
Excellent comment!!
I heard about that through Josh actually he talked about this in a recent video ❤️
@@ErinR0618 You should be! From what I read. It just has to pass the Senate. 🤞
@CaveraDeMonteFamily Awesome!
@@caverademontefamily I live in Utah. This makes me very happy. I hope it curbs some of the explotation of Not Enough Nelsons. Mom is so bad.
I have never seen her being affectionate with the kids.
That is exactly what i have said!! Never hugs or kisses them. I was all over my girls.
She fawns over her chickens though.
She never was or is!!!!! Loser!
nope
Not ever is so sad!!!
I still remember my family forgot my 10th birthday. I reminded them the day after. I got a card 2 days late. A bag of M&M's 4 days after. That was really sad, but what I wanted most was their time.
I’m sure everyone on this feed would be happy to adopt B and treat her like the incredible survivor (and princess) she is!!❤❤
I agree! 💯 I would adopt her instantly! I was in tears watching her open her presents all alone!🥺 That truly broke my heart!💔
I would!❤ she is a precious soul.
I just love Bree, she is a sweetheart.
My girls are 23 and 20. My oldest just got her first "real job" as a biologist and my youngest is in nursing school. Both still live at home. They would have no problem bringing this sweet girl into our family. They would never have left her have birthday without being right with her. In fact, I think B would go running away saying, "Enough love already!"🤣. My oldest just had her birthday in January. My youngest started working her first job as a care aid for elderly while she is doing school. She only works a couple days a week to focus on studies, but she took part of her small paycheck and spent the day with her sister for her birthday. They had lunch and she bought her a finch, cage etc that she had been wanting. B would get TIME in other house holds. She needs that more than 1K worth of dolls. God Bless 🥰
@@anonymousone2843 the sad thing is these kids are always going to have their privacy invaded online and once it out there it will forever circulate and it’s wrong they needed protection.
That was truly sad seeing Bree open her presents alone, the day after her birthday and the 1 person there was Alusha stood behind a camera.
I felt emotional watching that part. Poor Bree! If you read this one day dear Bree remember that you are one special, strong, sweet, thoughtful, amazing person. You deserve all the very best in your life. Blessings!
If you watched the video, there were people around her when she was opening presents at home. I had a hard time noticing that on here, so I went to watch the actual video to check. They just weren't on camera except when I think D grabbed a game to look at. Definitely not all 12 kids, but some were around. I can't speak for all the kid's B-days, but I've seen that before with the other kids, and even when Josh opened presents. Not everyone is around. Weird, but maybe it's for chaos reasons.
Adopted kid here... This is soul crushing. Mom didn't even take the time to have her siblings watch her open her presents at the party, then no one to experience her gifts at home either... Might as well have written her a check and told her to figure it out herself. And the final thank you at the end broke me... Thank you, random internet people, for hanging out with me on my birthday when even my dad couldn't.
If you watched the video, there were people around her when she was opening presents at home. I had a hard time noticing that on here, so I went to watch the actual video to check. They just weren't on camera except when I think D grabbed a game to look at. Definitely not all 12 kids, but some were around. I can't speak for all the kid's B-days, but I've seen that before with the other kids, and even when Josh opened presents.
When Lushy wrapped Bree's gifts, she said that 3 of the gifts would not be shipped in time. She waited until 1 week before Bree's birthday to shop because she had to "pace herself." She explained that January had so many birthdays and so much shopping that she had to wait until the last minute to be able to buy Bree's gifts. What a joke! And the Reborn dolls she always buys Bree are not legit Reborn dolls but Chinese knockoffs.
she could afford to buy those OAAK dolls and a stroller that she can actually use B is a tall 12yr old and that cheap stroller was for a 5yr old Lush just doesn't think or care
I can't be the only parent who orders well ahead of time for her kids birthday,my son's birthday is in April & I've already got some stuff,only little bits like a book,plush & t-shirt,he's asked for a switch (he's only 6 but his cousins have 1) so he's getting that & maybe 3/4 games,that will be it nothing much more & I'm ordering his switch at the beginning of march to be organised. He had a bake sale in school the other day & had biscuit cake for the first time so he requested that for his cake 🤣 ,I try be super organized esp for their birthday though I only have 2 👩👦👦
I agree with what you said.. James and Bree are 2 of the sweetest kids. But I'd also like to add Patrick to that group.. Bree's biological brother. He's a sweet boy with a great attitude and shows affection to his brothers and sisters. 💙
Oh my . My Mom cooked our favorite meals for our birthday. Anything you want. It is still a tradition today. Looking forward to my baked ziti my birthday is coming up.
Same! My adult daughter usually "reminds" me weeks before hand even though I know that request inside and out! Sticky chicken, mashed potatoes, green beans with caramelized onion, cranberry relish and cheesecake. No fast food and donut breakfast will ever taste as good as your favorite meal prepared with love.
Enjoy that Ziti!
My birthday is Christmas day, I always had family around me. I'm very lucky I know. But they always made a special fuss of me. Bree opening her presents on her own broke my heart, she was told to 'play to the camera'. This bloody woman boils my p**s 😠
My mom did that and I do it for my kids
Watching her sat there opening presents on her own 🥺😭 bless her lil heart ❤
She so polite when she was opening her presents though, she says thank you
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I swear it is like she expects things to make up for the lack of love, just heartbreaking. I want to wrap my arms around those poor babies
Bree is the sweetest little girl in the world, she needs one on one sooo bad, watching her be so grateful for all her gifts made me cry.
I’m glad the kids are using her cards online. Its actually money they’re entitled to from being exploited for years.
We should not even know these children’s birthdays PERIOD!
We know what medications they take. It’s sickening
Middle names, favorite foods, height, school names.......
We know their whole life which is scary.
Any child but especially a child from Foster care or adoption should never have their whole life on the Internet. It's sickening and very sad.
This tugs at my heart. The ENTIRE family should be there while she opens the presents!!!!!!😢
James Bree and Patrick are really sweethearts x
They are, I hope the best for them! I hope their future will be bright and good.
Bree is a sweet little girl my heart breaks for her. Proves you can be filled with a house of people and be alone. Poor sweetheart.
Heavy words there and you’re so right!! Poor kids! 😢
I'm keen to know how her subscriber count rises so fast yet her views are plummeting!?!? Make it make sense.
Crazy looking eye balls
Paid subs
Probably buys subs
The buy blocks of subs
Not only did she dump all the unwrapped clothes in one bag. BUT notice how she never took the price tags off items
37:39…I actually cried over this. Why is no one watching this sweet girl open her gifts!?!
Same dude. Same.
She probably felt like a zoo animal too - just her being filmed by Alisha, and only for the content 😢
Bree is such a sweetheart!! I wish there had been more people or even just some of her close friends there to celebrate and watch her open her gifts. You can tell she is truly thankful for her gifts.
I really wish Alicia would take your advice....like getting (was it James?) a specific brand of shirt that will fit him well and boost his confidence! He is such a sweet guy and would love to see him looking suave and feeling good!
If you watched the video, there were people around her when she was opening presents at home. I had a hard time noticing that on here, so I went to watch the actual video to check. They just weren't on camera except when I think D grabbed a game to look at. Definitely not all 12 kids, but some were around. I can't speak for all the kid's B-days, but I've seen that before with the other kids, and even when Josh opened presents. ......J really does need better fitting shirts, it would be such a confidence boost. As a mom, I would want that for my son.
It hits you because Bree is one of the most vulnerable kids there, yet she shows so much compassion to the others, she is thankful and appreciates everything so much. It hits because she would probably be the one who'd love a shopping date with mom to pick out a few cute clothes. She'd love some attention, she'd love to spend time with family.
Bree deserves it to be showered with love and kindness.
It's so sad!
PS: in the easter video from a year ago one of the twins skipped the egg hunt and then was sad he was left without any eggs to open. Guess who gave him one of hers? Bree.
I love how much you genuinely care for these children and how much you love your pets ❤❤❤
Good Morning America is talking about TikToc and Child Exploitation today (02/17/2023)
Leaving B sitting in the middle of the floor on her own is such a cold thing to do to such a sweet child. If you insist on filming it set up the camera and sit in the frame with your child as she opens her gifts. 😒
If you watched the video, there were people around her when she was opening presents at home. I had a hard time noticing that on here, so I went to watch the actual video to check. They just weren't on camera except when I think D grabbed a game to look at. Definitely not all 12 kids, but some were around. I can't speak for all the kid's B-days, but I've seen that before with the other kids, and even when Josh opened presents.
I can't stand her !!! Those poor kids! If i hear their voices, I get sad for them. The sweet kid who just turned 16 is so ignored it makes me sick. She is not giving any of them the love and support they need, so they might end up going out and seeking negative attention out in the world. All because their "mom" doesn't know how to be present. It's heartbreaking. These kids need support from all avenues, and this woman needs serious help. Laws should be in place to monitor the number of children in one house. Adopted or not, there should be limits, people!!
@@Raya-ir4tm limiting the amount of kids you can foster/adopt for their safety is in no way controlling family size 😒
The pure joy and gratitude on B's face when she opened gifts from her friends was lovely to see. Sadly the family gifts were not the same, B tried to look excited cause she's a caring child but nope the joy wasn't there
Has anyone ever noticed how the siblings never buy each other or their parents presents?
Yeah we siblings never started buying each other present until we were adults, but then again as kids we had no sort of money or pocket money and our solo parent didn't even buy us birthday or xmas presents as kids, so don't know if it's normal or not, but I don't think so. I've seen people around me with kids though buy presents for the other parents birthdays from the kids
@@gameplaygirl3268 Agreed but we gave a card to the birthday sibling.
They can at least say happy birthday or be there for the siblings presents opening. 😊
stuff will never replace the feelings of being loved. I feel so bad for her after being the left out kid too.
That face is the true Alisha. Only cares about herself and what she wants, doesn’t care what she has to do to get it and who gets hurt. You have to wonder if she didn’t receive any love when she was a child but the way she treats her kids is unforgivable and it needs to stop
Yep and they’re going to grow up to resent tf out of her !
@@HeyItsKayJayBae That’s for sure, if they don’t already !
So true I'm trying to understand why she's so selfish.
Thank you!!! I been saying too....poor kids
@@angelpurcell3156 You’re welcome. Hopefully all of her misdeeds will be revealed and she’ll be shut down. I’m surprised she continues to spend so much on stuff they already have when apparently her cards keep maxing out. She’s still making a lot, but she needs to spend it on her kids to get them the help they need and deserve since they’re struggling so much and all she’s doing is distracting them with screens and sugar. They need real human interaction, not drugs
She claims they are allowed ONE hour of screen time in the evenings 😂 so for that one whole hour they can choose from their personal flat screen tv, their iPad, their iPhone, their switch, plus I know two of the kids have gaming laptops. James got a gaming laptop for Christmas and then a gaming pc for his birthday less than a month later.. they must REALLY look forward to that hour! She’s such a liar
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I've also noticed a hint of favoritism in the family. I was hoping I was wrong, but obviously I'm not. Josh, it brought tears to my eyes when you paused the video and spoke about Bree being lonely and you know how she feels. I hope some day the kids will realize this isn't how a family should be. Put the camera down, put the crap away and enjoy each other! I found myself taking that deep breath you mentioned at the end of the video. The way you go through her videos gives me anxiety, not because of you, but because I'm waiting to see 'what's next'. Take care, Josh and have a great time in Cali!
I made the comment on her page that it was a birthday, NOT Christmas,, and the shoes and clothes were to old for her! Boy did that piss people off!
As a pet professional I always say "everyone thinks they have the best dog. And I agree." Gus's shooting star is sooo cute.
super cute
Not true, my dog's an as**ole 50% of the time 🤣
@@RealityEscapeeMeeeeeee my shepherd is allergic to every protein source but kangaroo,crocodile/alligator, wild hunted boar, and can sometimes tolerate wild m venison. She’s also a police drop because of it. That means she’s 10000% an arse 24/7, but is absolutely the best dog ever 🤧 so is her older chihuahua brother who is also, coincidentally, the best dog ever. Our starling is learning to bark too, so he too, will be the best dog ever soon 🤣😩
@@RealityEscapeeMeeeeeee We said the same about our last German Shepard -Chuck Norris, lol. He was just a jerkface majority of the time lolol. We have 2 new Shepards and our beast is the male and is a giant 🐔 💩 while our female is our new arse 🕳 lol. Shepards have that high iq and learn ways to be giant doodyheads.
Lucky for them we happen to love jerkface arse 🕳 around here. Love ‘em to pieces! 🥰
I definitely do NOT have the best dog. 😂 She pees and poops inside, usually right after being out. She bites us if she is not in her enclosure, so she has to stay in it 24/7, unless on a walk or at the dog park. She also screeches/squeaks for usually no reason late at night or around 2am, waking me and giving me an instant headache (I've had to sleep on the couch for months, which is right next to her).
She's cute, but causes so much anxiety and stress.
Br is one of the sweetest kids she has. I do wish her party was more attentive though.
My heart breaks for Bree. She seems like a sweet little girl with a stellar personality. I hope she can move past this heartbreak.
You are the reason that I made a new years resolution to drink more water 💧 I bought a special water bottle and I've been killing it! I feel so hydrated, thanks 😊
Oh man. This got me at the same time it got to you Josh. Just tears welling up. I was like this girl. Just pushed to the side. Begging to be remembered and I still am this way sadly. It sticks with you in the worst way somtimes and the parents cannot rewind this time and do it again. Lush will regret this.
I just left a similar comment and saw yours. I completely understand. It is difficult as a child to understand and it completely destroys you. I still see the effect of these on myself. I am not wanting their love anymore, but you don't develop emotionally as you should. One situation can make you feel like this young girl again that is completely destroyed by the reality.
I hope you are doing well 🌸
So true, Bri and James only say thank you. Sometimes Patrick. These poor kids are screwed!
Oh god! Kidney stones! I’m a woman that had both of my kids all natural, of course, that pain is worse than a kidney stone. But, it’s not too far off. My dad (who’s pretty tough) use to get on the floor and cry like a baby when he had one, I always thought he was overreacting but, nope. I had one about 5 months ago and it was the most hellacious pain. I have seizures, but they’re pretty much controlled with meds, the pain sent me into back to back seizures. I feel your pain. They told me I had 10 in one and 6 in the other. I’m not sure what I’ve passed since that initial colic episode. I pray to God I never have it again. You never know the pain until you go through it yourself.
Edit: I stopped drinking coffee I while ago, because when I was a nurse, it use to make my heart rate go up way too high during work, It then made me way too jittery and dizzy headed to function. But, when I did drink it I wouldn’t ever give Dunkin’s Donuts the time of day. Their coffee is disgusting! I was a coffee snob then.Starbucks didn’t get my business either. I made my own coffee at home, it tasted 99% better.
Also, Thanks for the Snarkety Bish suggestion. She’s fabulous! Her accent makes it 10x’s better.
This hurt my heart more then I expected. I have such a low bar for her. This is a new window into just how dysfunctional, self serving, and horrific the commodification of family content is.
Watching your heart break, watching this little girl opening her gifts alone 😪 how sad that you, a complete stranger, feels more for this child than her own "family"......
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You are absolutely right about screen time. I caught my son on his phone at 2:00 am on a school day! He doesn’t bring his phone in his room anymore.
We have a small tv in our older two’s room. Found that they were turning on their tv in the middle of the night if one of them got up to use the bathroom or get water. We now take the remote when they’re tucked in at night
Is it just me or does it seem like the kids who's bio family attends the birthdays get huge parties and crazy expensive gifts?
VERY good point! Never thought of that but yeah dude, you’re kinda on on to something here…
Ok I just commented but I am commenting again bc I REALLY think you hit the nail on the head with this one.
Alisha knows she isn’t a good mom, so the best she can do is make herself look good by indirectly putting another mother down (bio moms).
@@missyelliot6237 yes it feels like she's just trying to look good to the bio families. Maybe to keep them from whistle blowing?
So right!!! She shows off for the family it’s has nothing to do with the kids! It’s gross these people have had struggles like no other and your kids adoptive mom rubs money in your face!! Disgusting 🤮
I am the same!! When you order a cake, Josh, ask for buttercream icing instead of whipped topping or if you are getting a layer cake, tell them you want buttercream in the middle instead of custard.
My heart breaks for these children, its just getting worse and worse! Especially the nice and sweet kids, they're always overlooked!
How are her kids getting her debit card info on every device in the house? I think she's lying. The lady spends more than she makes. I know she makes a lot but she spends way more. She's got a problem. It's never enough more and more more. She needs rehab
I agree with this. I mean, yeah, she’s an idiot, but is she really idiotic enough to allow access to her debit cards on her kids’ devices? That would be nuts. And I 100% think she has a serious spending problem , which explains why they were already on a debt consolidation plan before we saw all the compulsive shopping she posts. She literally NEVER pays attention to the price on anything. She just says “I want this” or “we need this” and buys it. It is actually kind of scary to watch.
Alicia gave her child access by putting a credit card or debit on the device so the children just go in and buy whatever they want.
That is not fraud. I already warned y'all that the children were going to run up bills on the cellphones and iPads.
So sad, Bree is a lovely girl and one of probably 3 of the children that actually shows gratitude.
It was sad. Alicia just thinks of herself. But it was great to see Bree actually saying Thank you after opening gifts. Somebody taught her right
The favoritism and her ignoring them has to be really hard for the kids who remember more of her actually paying attention to them when they were younger.
You can tell in her earlier videos that she used cared more and tried harder.
It has to be so hard and triggering for the kids who remember and see the difference.
No bs the amount of joy I receive from seeing a new DD video from you is embarrassing 😂
Can we take a moment to shout out Amber Fillerup Clark for showing just how easy it is to make positive change in regards to child exploitation. She’s a famous influencer with 1.3 million followers who used to share hundreds of photos of her kids (beautiful family photography, no personal info etc). She’s recently changed her stance on this due to educating herself and no longer shares their faces or much about them at all. This hasn’t affected her following at all because her brand is based on her and her achievements alone!! Let’s start highlighting those positive influences who prove how easy it is to do!
There was a shopping video she did last year where she was grocery shopping and Alex text her asking for gift cards and she picked up like $80 worth just randomly like it was nothing. That is not the next day after her party, look at her nails at her party, painted dark, look at the nails opening gifts, so she took her for a manicure overnight or before giving the kid her gifts? Plus she already knew what she was getting and Dash seen them and shouts about the colour of her switch.
Josh you are so caring and you are so caring and affectionate towards your pets priceless!
My daughter is 11 going on 12 later this year. She has an iPad (sadly needed for schooling) and a switch that her and I share… between myself and my daughter we have like four or five games, most of which are multiplayer that we tend to play together.
I can’t believe how many screens these kids have… and it will be a case of “leave me alone so I can do this crappy editing, go on your iPad” it is 100% baby sitter screens…
Alicia favours the kids she can get the most content out of. The twins seem to be the most favoured because of their back stories and health issues and what not. She can’t seem to help mentioning them in every video.
Also, as someone in the reborn community, who paints custom dolls to look realistic, imma rant a little on the dolls Bree got. Not that it really matters for anything lol. The cheap dolls from Amazon are stolen fakes. The dolls used for real reborn dolls are actually sculpted by real artists then made into moulds and yadda yadda. Then a factory in China will buy one or two, make fakes and sell them cheap. Alicia has more then enough money to get Bree a beautiful, hand painted, one of a kind doll.
Very true. I get the vibes that Alicia doesn't like the dolls or respect Bree's interest in them and she is probably looking forward to getting rid of them first chance she gets.
Another lush video! Yeah! Your great!
Josh, urology tip that the physician I worked for would give: submerge yourself in a warm bath up to your neck for about 20-30 mins. Repeat if needed. It helps pass the stone. Also, ask your dr for Flomax(tamsulosin) that’s a medication that helps pass the stone!
I have a 12 year old and a 1 year old. I am a stay at home mom, mostly.. I volunteer for an organization on weekends. Anyway, I can barely sit an comment on these TH-cam videos without getting interrupted. It's hard to believe she would be able to keep up with all of that without either hiring someone behind scenes to do majority of the work or completely ignoring her kids all day.
If I was her kid I’d be racking up that card too, considering I’m an employee taking what’s mine 😂
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Bree is so sweet, I hope she does have good teachers who look out for her at school etc.
I didn't know she actually called it a snackerty board 😂I thought it was something you made up 🤣
I just got my first car at 28. We didnt have a car growing up. But then again I grew up in Germany and we have functioning public transportation.
Breaks my heart.. Thanks for doing what you are doing DCP. You are appreciated.
I have 3 grandchildren and we get them on the weekends and thy don't bring, phones, I pads, no games at all and we watch Andy Griffith all weekend. We love your channel 😇🇺🇸
I was just watching your video on the Twins Birthday with their bio family there. Its very sad to see how in the twins party they have every member of the family, grandparents, Josh, all their siblings there. Then you watch this video for Brees birthday, her sat alone, with her mum and a camera... Its so sad to watch! Whats even worse is the fact that Bree is only one of the very few children (if not 1 out of 2- her and james) to be appreciative and genuinely excited to open her gifts!
When my oldest was turning 8 we had a bowling party for her and no one showed up not even her father's faimly who live in the same city. Then when my son turned 8 no one came to his party too this time it this time it was at home. I finally got lucky when my last child turned 8 she actually the family and her friends who came to her party. I still feel so bad for my kids and it's been 22 years since my oldest was 8. That is such a crap feeling.
I’m almost 29 and I’ve still never bought a car. I don’t currently work but I worked for 7 years and saved a few thousand but I’ve never had more than 4 digits in my bank account. I’m currently changing career by studying again and so I don’t really have a chance to work. I try to when I can but it’s hard. I have bad physical and mental health issues so I can’t overload my system. Some people might look at me as lazy but they have no idea what I’ve gone through to even be where I am now. The fact I’m even at University is life changing. Alisha is setting up these kids for failure in life. They won’t know the value of hard work or appreciate anything they’re ever given. They’ll expect everything served up to them on a silver platter. That creates dysfunctional people.
'Come shopping for sleep apnea machines with me and my 12 children ' 😒😒😒
Love what you do! When it comes to people exploiting children. I hate when people do that
OMG i had surgery today and when you said you’re “birthing the KISS costumes” I laughed so hard it hurt, 🤣
That child screeching in the video literally woke my cat up. Who is a rescue cat and traumatized. Thanks Alusha…. Abusing children and animals everywhere!!
I have a child who is ADHD and Autistic. I can’t even imagine feeding my child the pure SHIT she feeds her children who also have special needs. That’s child abuse within itself. Heartbreaking 😖 these children deserve better. Your children need your PRESENCE not PRESENTS and utter shit food. Do better for your children! They didn’t ask to be brought into this world! Absolutely Infuriating 🤯🤬
Bree is the sweetest and so thankful this breaks my heart ♥
Definitely needed today’s video. Hanging on by a thread this week between hubby having knee surgery, our baby not sleeping from teething and not having the help I usually get from him. So I’m a little sleep deprived and frazzled at this point! Thank god it’s Friday and could get some laughs in to keep my sanity 🥴
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Hope the sleep deprivation passes, it is so so hard!!
I cannot stand all this waste in this family, starting from food, electronic devices, and everyday stuff among others. My eyes used to bleed when I watched her videos, thankfully only for a couple of months! I feel honestly healthier now that I have unsubscribed from her channel! :) What kind of respect does she teach her kids? Does she ever teach them not to waste, to be careful about what to eat, and to respect the environment? The list is endless. I feel really, really sorry for these children. They deserve much better!
I saw on the Dougherty snarkety page that she staged the present wrapping and Bree's opening. That's why the kids knew what she had and why they weren't around.
I've just thought as well... This kid is the one who celebrates the others birthdays so hard for them. She is always stood right next to them, cheering for then and congratulating them. She celebrates the loudest for her siblins, and not one of them gave that back to her, for her...! Very very sad, I really feel for her. Lovely girl
I am at the part of B on the floor opening presents.. I can hear it in her voice.. the over joy to mask the sadness 😔
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Yes 100% 12 year olds should be playing will dolls! I played with dolls with my little sister until I turned 13! So thankful for my almost screen free childhood
I literally want to cry for Bree.. i felt this sooo much growing up. All my family there for my siblings or cousins but nothing for me. It was sad and i strive for my son to grow up filled with respectful siblings and family. 38:43
Once again another great video about the DD 👏🏼
Josh, have you seen the videos of the autism family sending their daughter to prom? For some reason it showed up on my "shorts" and I was so annoyed by the title of the video vs what I saw in the video.
Imo the daughter clearly loves the red dress but the parents push the green dress on her and then act like it's her telling them that (the green one) is her favorite.....it's crazy how they act like we aren't watching the video with our own eyes. We can see one thing, yet, they try to convince us we're seeing another and the ENTIRE comment section was agreeing with them...
I know I'm not delusional but apparently I was the only person seeing what I was seeing. SOOOO hopefully you can cover it and help me either slap myself into reality-or- confirm to myself that I knew that issssh was exploitative as hell