Dougherty Dozen Shades D's Bio Mom While She Spends 10's Of Thousands On His Birthday!
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I was adopted at birth and my mom always told me that my birth mom loved me so much that she did the most unselfish thing a parent could do. Now I know that I was one of three children adopted at birth because I guess she didn’t learn her lesson the first time but anyway, I really appreciate my mom raising me to think the best and not grow up with a negative attitude surrounding my adoption.
Your mom sounds like a wise and kind soul. What a beautiful message to give you about your birth mom. Even if birth mom “didn’t learn her lesson,” it doesn’t mean that it wasn’t hard for her to give you up. I imagine it still was.
But your mom is awesome ❤
its crazy bc as someone who works in childcare, she is always ALONE. normal kids would be all over everything she’s doing begging to help or participate. no way in hell i could wrap a single gift without 4 kids walking up to me begging to help. shes ALWAYS alone even when her kids are there
she’s alone on camera… not ever alone with all of her children, just when she’s shopping or attempting to cook.
she for sure has help. bc there’s no way she’s able to film all of this (without cuts.. maybe a cpl) with all of the kids she has. doesn’t make sense
@@anessaaaaare u delusional? She films her life the ENTIRE time and the kids don’t want anything to do with her. They are too busy eating candy and gaming on their 600 switches computers or PlayStations.
Imagine if she put $30,000 towards D’s education. Crazy how materialistic they are.
She's bribing him to stay!
I have never heard the children ever say Thank you…..No respect at all 😡
@@valtoton2982 True 😂
She said she doesn't think most of them aren't smart enough to get into college anyways (it's not their fault they have learning disabilities.) That's why she focuses on sports, let them pay for their own education so she can keep making money and spending it on useless things.
@@MsLizzieGurlI thought I remember her saying something like that...sounds like setting them up for failure so they always feel like they need her. And didn't she say that she doesn't think they are capable of a lot of things because of trauma? Correct me if I'm wrong but if that's true it sounds like she wants their entire life and sense of self worth and limits in life to be defined by trauma...
I feel so bad for James, I just wanna adopt him and give him the love he needs.
Also if I were one of the foster kids, I’d be selling all the extra crap she buys and saving the cash to be able to take with me when I left.
Same 🙏🏻
Me too!!! He is such a sweet kid 😢
Alicia has already said she won’t let the kids take anything if/when they leave. I assume she’s including the proceeds from selling the things.
Are kids allowed to sell things on their own in USA?
I feel the same for James. He's the only child that helps around the house. I'm still fuming he literally had his wisdom teeth removed the day prior, and Alicia made him come out and help her carry everything inside. All the while everyone else was home including Josh, Dayshawn, and Alex. Poor James. He never got his trout or steak he asked for either.
I commented on the birthday video that this was "sinful shopping". Amazed that some called me jealous of her being rich. Alicia is rich from selling her kids on the internet , without their consent. Making underage children work from their home (that should be a place of sanctuary). Who would be jealous of that? Alicia is a Sinful Shopper in every sense of the word.
Exactly she wouldn’t have that money without exploiting her kids. Her kids are making the money for her!
Her fans are crazy. They love to attack.
Her " fans" are like cult members, you can't really try to open people's eyes, because they label you " negative " or accused you to " ripped kids apart" 😂😂.People are fascinated by " influencers" they think they can't do no wrong.
Yeah...that's the standard response from her stans. It's so old. I am not one bit jealous if Alicia. Maybe some people are. I don't have the money she has but I live a very comfortable and blessed life. I'm a richer than she'll ever be.
Haha I've had that happen, she's just amazing in their eyes. They don't like it when you point out facts 😂
If that is what Alisha will say on camera about D’s mom, imagine what she’s saying about her in private, in front of him. That is parental alienation, and potentially sibling alienation too
Yup she’s definitely doing that. But hey couldn’t expect kindness from an narcissist
N was placed in a mental hospital over Alicia making hateful comments about their mother. N was tortured by this woman. Can't see how a judge would allow her to keep Ns'' little brother knowing this
@@lindadhillholy shit 😮
@@lindadhill where did this information come from?
Yeah and he may be feeding her info too but still a good person just says it’s your mother and let’s hope she gets help
One thing I learned in my foster parent classes is that you don’t talk negatively about your children’s family, because everyone sees themselves as a reflection of their family and vise versa in some aspect. It’s always good/OK to validate your children’s feelings - if THEY want to say they feel bio mom is “mean” or has a mean heart etc., then there are affirming ways to validate that. “Thanks for letting me know that’s how you feel, I absolutely understand why you’re saying that, I see what you mean. Just know, you are made from love and came from love and are still so, so loved.” Something like that. Her dumbass “you is kind you is smart” affirmation shit is not where it’s at.
Happy CHRISTMAS season!! 🎄🎅🏼❄️
Well said 👏
As soon as I saw the title of the video that’s exactly what I came to say. If I was a social worker she’s the last person I’d think would have a good home for an adopted, foster, kinship or bio child.
I always remind my adopted son that no matter how frustrated he is, or I am with his bio mom we are always thankful for her. We talk about how she made the hardest and most selfless decision to let him find his forever home. The choices she made while we were working the foster case drove me up the wall, but I would never let my son see the negative opinions I had of her. She brought him into their world, and for that we should be thankful. I never speak negatively of her, and when he does I try to redirect to a positive attribute.
"You is kind you is smart" that was funny 😂
So you're supposed to say that you also think the mother has a mean heart? Ok.
D thanked them for every present and was excited about his clothes and items. When he opened the shoes, he was like “another pair?!” He was super surprised and it seemed like he was like wow that’s a lot. I think that was fast forwarded through. His bio mom is responsible for him being grateful and saying thank you. He’s a good kid…not from any of her doing!!
You notice that D wants all fast food for his birthday. He doesn’t like Alicia’s cooking. 🤣🤣
LOL!!!! we c why,not a good cook LOL
DD has lost her tik tok page finally🙏
Really? wow! Do we know what happened?
@@valtoton2982 I don't know why but I'm guessing it's because of mass reporting😳🤷🏼♀️🤣
@@valtoton2982 I'm so happy though as she had over 6million followers
James deserves so much better. Alisha does him no favors. Especially the food she buys and serves.
Yes he does, so much better.
Iagee! I wish I could adopt him. He’s a great kid with a huge heart.
Me too!
I get the impression that James has kinda fallen out of favor, we saw him so much more in 2022...and when we do catch sight of him he looks so down...it's heartbreaking 😢
May DeShawn and Neveah be reunited, and their mother get back on her feet.
Agreed 100%
That would be in incredible, but unfortunately, I believe that Alicia has caused too much damage between D and his bio mom. Add that she spoils him rotten, I think he'll fight to stay with Alicia.
So many times with kinship they take the child's wishes into consideration.
That would be great if bribery wasn't being used to sway their decision.
According to his mother, Alicia talks bad about her and tells her things she shouldn't, just so she stays to continue profiting from him.
Are you kidding? Their mom is a piece of work and should never have been allowed to have children. I feel so sorry for N and D and what their bio mom put them through! I think Alicia and Josh are amazing parents.
We don’t love you because of your gifts, but we appreciate them a lot thank you. My granddaughter sent me this text, this year. She is 13. I felt blessed that she told me that.
This makes me so proud of my 4 kids, we've been so broke that I couldn't afford shoes for myself n I'd have to wait for them to be home to go shopping so I could wear their runners, and now that some of them are in their mid 20s they said they NEVER felt poor ❤, they were always appreciated even a 5 dollar gift from the dollar store. My husband works his but off to keep food on the table and I had to retire to be home for our extra needs child, seeing lush waste so much and we struggle to keep food in our home is so sooo sad 😢
Much people have struggles and test, when time is hard you get broken or more connected with family. Struggle and kids don’t notice because they remember love and time not money, they grow up in mentally healthy persons so bravo parents 🤗
Bad time just make your family stronger ❤️
You sound like a good parent and I'm really damn proud of you.
@jgzaz kids, remember your presence, not the presents.
Watching this makes me appreciate my parents even more, for having "nights to stay up" for each of us 7 kids - each of us got to stay up late and have uninterrupted time with them for board games, ice cream, whatever.
Oh, and letting each of us pick a night performance at the Minnesota State Fair to attend alone with just them🤗🌌
It didn't occur to me until I was older that nights to stay up with 7 kids left them without a night off😬
That was a really smart way for your parents to give you all one on one time. I've never heard of larger families doing this. Your parents are amazing and obviously knew the logistics of having seven kids. 😊❤
Thank you for sharing. I only have one child right now but we aren’t decided on a number of kids yet and I like seeing things like this to give insight and input on how to give kids in large families equal love and attention
Id love to see a video comparing the kids birthdays! I’ve watched all those individuals in the past, but I think it would be interesting to have like one of each kid compiled into one video to compare how he treated each one differently!
That would be quite the analysis!
I remember at the start of her channel, Bree had a birthday and Ali is solicited most of the gits from viewers via an Amazon wish list! She got a realistic amount of gifts, the strange part was most weren't from Alicia they were from strangers!
Also, the very first video she did on the twins birthday she got slaughtered! That's one part of the reason I believe she over does it for the twins now.
I think also the contrast between a 2020 birthday vs a 2022 or 2023 birthday would be very interesting!
Yet no working toilets? A house that needs major work. She is the definition of a priority failure.
Kids in designer clothes using the neighbours toilets and showers cos they haven’t fixed the sanitation system. 🤦♀️
It is so sad when patents use their kids for money but it is even more sad when adoptive parents use their kids grief and rocky past and expose it for “fame”
When are her Stan’s going to realize she’s toxic!!!!
@@Ryanireland444 Probably never. She never does anything wrong in their eyes
@@kris27332oh yeah they're just as crazy as her, I've had them pounce on me for saying stuff that is totally true and obvious haha 😂
I don't think she should be revealing her children's traumatic past at all, children can't consent to it and it's nobody's business. I hope she doesn't abuse her kids in any form because some of them really don't have alternate homes to go to.
Makes me wonder how and what her and her husband said to be able to adopt that many kids when I thought it was the law that it was 5 kids per adult and you hardly ever see anybody at home but Alicia.
There is a family vlogger on here called "life with beans" and they have nine kids with one on the way making ten. Anyhow, each birthday the kid gets one thing to wear, one thing to eat(example- special birthday meal usually homemade plus a small cake), one thing to read and one they they want and one thing they need. That's it. And each time these kids are so thankful and excited for their gifts and the other children are excited for the birthday child. Then they usually go to a park or museum and that's the day. Same with Christmas. These kids are some of the most gracious, happy loving kids. They don't have all this tech and tvs. They read tons of books, have tons of intellectual toys that stimulate their mind and also fun toys like play kitchen etc. They have gotten big gifts for Christmas which is for example little scooters, tennis rackets etc. These kids play with their items time after time on video and are always taken to parks, libraries museums. The parents feed them such wholesome meals and snacks. It's so different from Dougherty dozen
That comment putting down his bio mom made me want to throw up. That was plain cruel
not only is she a bad mother she is a bad human
The most shameful thing she's done is broken up a sibling group 😢 that right there tells she she doesn't give a crap about kids!
Totally. This.
I dont like her either but that's a bit reachy. If a sibling decides he wants to stay with the family and one doesn't that's not the foster's fault.
I don't think so, in this situation it's 100% her fault Nevaeh left. @@sian3840
Exactly! She should be ashamed of herself.
She could have done better with the way it was handled. She should be trying to “foster” the relationship between D and N. Instead she uses gifts to sway D to stay. And N saw right through her.
Josh I was literally listening to this video in the car when I was the victim of an attempted car jacking in front of my house where they literally shot at me while my 11 month old was in the car with me. I cant believe i lived through this. Just wanted you to know you were a part of my life during one of the scariest moments
I think she bought him a dog to make him feel anchored to their house. If he leaves he won’t be able to take the dog. Everything she does it out of selfish greed never for the wellbeing of the children. Real parents make hard choices in the best interest of their kids even when it means saying no. Alicia doesn’t parent - she houses kids and teaches them horrible habits that include being dependent on her. Gross
I saw that when N left. She needed a phone. So much for A being a great person who helps everyone. She takes a phone away as a punishment for not putting up with her BS!!!
Yeah I thought a dog was a strange gift for a foster child since it’s not a permanent situation (or not supposed to be). Also a dog should be a whole family effort and gift. NOT for a child alone. Especially a puppy. Thats a lot of work and responsibility. That is a living creature- basically a wild animal- in your house. I hope it’s an easy going dog.
I had the exact same thought. She didn’t want N to take her PS5. She ended up taking it. She knew if he has a girlfriend he can see whenever he wants and now this dog. He won’t be going anywhere. If he doesn’t get out and goes to college I really worry about him.
Josh,when you were in Syracuse,you were only 86 miles away from a lush a’s house. You could have paid her a surprise visit.
Alisha would shit a brick if he.showed up at her house😅😅😅
She loves her chickens so much because all they care about is food 😂 They speak the same love language as Alicia 😂
They also get rid of evidence for her lol... They eat all the leftover fruit and salad the kids won't!
and all the shitty cold cooking.
@@valtoton2982 That too!! 🤣
@@valtoton2982 Lol😂
I have 5 children, and I could NEVER treat them differently or favor one more than the other. A good parent loves their children equally & treats them equally. Makes me sick that she behaves like this towards her kids & hurts my heart, and she’s doing these kids no favors by spoiling them like this, because it doesn’t teach them the value of working hard for things you want, and to be proud when you save & buy those things 😞 She’s a pos & horrible person and should never have been allowed to adopt or take in any children, because there’s no way they aren’t aware of her exploiting these kids, and that makes them just as bad. I was adopted at birth and wanted for nothing as a child, but my parents work so hard, and showed me how to work hard & make it on my own, and that’s the best thing you can do for your children so they’re ready when it’s time to fly the nest.
She has moved J and P in the basement room N had. Both are older than D , so how does D rate his own room, the room that used to be Js' alone.?
Maybe better working smart than working hard?
@lindadhill so James and Patrick are sharing a room? Dayshawn has is his own room now or was he sharing. She did a house tour and it's crazy how the other kids had to share with younger siblings.
Right. My kids get the same amount of money on gift for Christmas and birthdays. My older child wants more expensive things so he gets a little less gifts but it is the same amount of money.
It’s strange how she’s said she wants to be good terms with the bio families of the kids she’s adopted, she lets them see the kids, yet she’s constantly throwing them under the bus by talking about what they’ve done in the past, flexing how much money she has, giving the twins’ bio parents her old disgusting tree, basically alienating D and N against their mom. She is so gross, those homes may have been unsafe and unstable, but she’s not helping the kids AT ALL. She’s not even caring for her bio kids who also have issues but she only cares about the money they make her. HEINOUS
I think it’s pretty disgusting how often she’s publicly degraded the twins parents. Ex. The paper chain countdown for their father’s release date and blaming any health conditions the twins have on the bio parents. Also this is just a conspiracy at this point but I think her favourites are tied around who contributes to her content and gets the most views.
Also letting their bio families pick through her “empty” pantry for food,exposing their financial struggles while she’s doing a $1000+ grocery shop.
@@ALRDT Wow that is just…she is just disgusting 😡 Thinking she’s Miss High and Mighty while everyone else grovels. And she complains when she can’t buy things at the store and is ‘too terrified’ to ask for help. Well lady look in your storage unit at home!
@@jaimelynn4341 Sorry but the twins have FASd? It is feral alcohol syndrom of course it is on the parents! Only one to blame is theirs mother! She damaged them for life, you saying otherwise is just stupid.
@@nataliealice05 True but maybe the twins don’t want that out on the Internet. It’s their story. Theirs to share when they’re ready if they even choose to.
Her new son? Like she just collects kids and got him on sale at the store recently 💀 She’s unhinged.
I just dont understand why she wont spend her money on her home
I totally agree. I don't live in a mansion,but her kitchen is a joke
She needs all new kitchen. Floors. Get rid of that nasty carpet. She makes enough money to have a nice house not painted orange and blue
lol 😂😂😂 She JUST had it painted like that by choice a few months ago lol! Even the kitchen cabinets. 😬😬😬
Right?! She could have fixed the septic issue ages ago.
@@Gigi4LLE oh I agree. She doesn't care about her house. It's so not appropriate for that amount of people. The kitchen is the size for one/ two people. The dining area looks like an Amazon warehouse.
When I was about 14 I was really into Bam Margera, I had also mentioned to my Mum that I didn't want much for easter because chocolate had been making me feel sick. I woke up to an Element hoody instead of eggs that easter. It was my very first ever name-brand piece of clothing. I remember thinking Mum must have spent a whole paycheck on just me. Looking back now it probably cost around $50 but it meant so much and Mum knew what to get, not because it was on trend but because she listened to me when I spoke to her.
I’m from Rochester and my mom always grilled in to our head be great full for what you receive no matter if it’s small or big be grateful it’s said that this family doesn’t know the meaning of being happy for what they get not everyone is as rich and wealthy to afford stuff like that
Josh, you are such a good dad. I understand what it’s like to grow up with very little too. I believe when people like us become parents one of three things happen. These are: they become great, loving parents. They do not have children, or they pass along the abuse and dysfunction. You are one that’s overcome so much and are an awesome human. Kudos to you and Kathy
Back when I was in 3rd grade my bio mom was actually around that year… she threw me her 1st and only birthday party… we invited a few kids from school. I was made fun of because she served kool aid instead of soda. That was 36 years ago. I still feel the feelings I felt that day. For myself and for her she didn’t do much for my brother and i but she did her best that day but was made fun of by 9-10 year olds because she couldn’t afford soda for a bunch of children. But know that was the one and only time she tried to put one of her kids first for a change is sad…. Her saying that crap about her adopted kids or foster kid’s parents is disgusting and so hurtful forever. It will not only make the parents feel bad but that child will carry that as well.
Isn’t it incredible how we carry those feelings with us forever.. 🥹 I hope your life is amazing today 😊
Christmas was a discusting materialistic nightmare too. Most the kids didn't even say thank you except for James. And those mini fridges???? How ridiculous!!!
Thousands on football game, thousands on dog flown out, thousands for food for 2nd party, thousands for more birthday gifts
Absolutely ridiculous….
I took my girls shopping for each other when they were littles. They were always so excited to pick a gift for each other. At Christmas I took them to buy gifts for aunts, uncles and cousins. We have a very large extended family so a trip to the dollar store for this shopping was all I could afford but I was able to tell them they could pick anything they wanted in the store. It makes good kids when they are involved like that.
Her only moment of happiness is when she's shopping alone, that's a fact.
For sure and vlogging
Just wanna say hell yeah man its great to have good neighbors and to be a good neighbor it seriously makes all the difference in your environment and I've also had some bad ones and for the last couple years have had good ones. I'm happy for you and your family Josh!! God bless you all 😊
She did a halloween short w/ Dash dressed as Gordon Ramsey. I feel like he was also channeling his inner Josh. I was dying because what he was saying was 100% true, but she thought it was just jokes. 😂😂
I thought it was awful.
He took a bite and put it back. Disgusting.
We have an old couple as neighbors that always bring us vegetables from the garden every year. They even brought over Halloween goody bags for my kids because they weren’t going to be home for us to trick or treat at their house.
Notice he requested breakfast, lunch and dinner all from restaurants? None of Alusha’s delicious home cooking for him!!
I hate what she does to these bio families. I don't know what they did to lose their kids but if they atone for their mistakes and clean their act up, then that's good. But imagine doing that and then you see this witch buying tens of thousands of dollars of stuff for the kid and you can only afford a $20 gift. It would make you feel inadequate, maybe the child won't want to leave because they'll lose that fancy lifestyle, and maybe you'll feel like the child is better off without you and will stop trying to get them back. It's awful. She should not he doing this. And then to comment about missed birthdays? We dont know why he missed birthdays if it was for a legit scummy reason or they just couldn't afford it.
It's awful. She should be raising these big parents up if they are trying to be better. She should not be trying to outshine them and foster the child having a relationship and wanting to go home to his bio family if they are safe.
Josh, you crack me up, you were in rare for today. Hope you have a nice weekend.😊 my sons birthday was October 30th, he got choice of dinner(homemade) and 200 bucks towards a new computer. He was thrilled.
Dayshawn is still a child and he loves his birth mom and Alicia should understand that. If he watches this video he will never be able to get over that statement about past birthdays. Poor kid
I was so upset and disgusted when she made those comments
She is really DISCUSTING this is the real person she is
One day, she's going to make the wrong comment to the right person and they will make her cry.
B 1 t [ |-| !!!! I gotta watch I keep getting my comments turned off for “cYbEr bUlLyInG” 🙄
I think she’s just trying to make DayShawn feel loved and just a part of the family like all the other kids.
@@RedBunnybaby that has nothing to do with love, you can't buy love
She went to LA because she is part of TH-cam shopping program. She said she's been in the program for some time and that her channel is not a family channel, but a shopping channel. She shares this in the video where she is unboxing the bag she received at the event.
These kids have zero idea what normal is anymore because she has given this screwed up reality where you get thousands of dollars in presents for nothing. They have no idea what it means to be grateful because they aren’t taught that. We would get like one bigger present for Christmas and maybe two or three little things, and there would be a big family gift like a new computer. These kids would be so much better off they just spent the day with them, showed them love, and kept it simple.
This vlog reminded me of my own family way too much.
My parents have a favourite child: my brother. I am the first born (girl) and my brother has always gotten everything he wanted and more. He never had to work or do chores or anything to get what he wanted. My parents taught me to give all of my things to other people and to be ready to be disappointed because you can’t get everything in life.
My parents separated me and my brother and our relationship was ruined by my parents when I turned 14. They kept us apart so much that now at 25 I don’t know what he likes, who he really is. We don’t talk.. nothing.
I hope D and N won’t end up like me and my brother. This whole giving gifts, talking badly about the mom, separation of the siblings that is so disgusting. I never realised that they separated us this badly and treated us completely differently (I was neglected and abused) before I went to therapy now as an adult.
My mental health problems were a huge shame to my parents and they didn’t want me to “ruin” my brother. I heard that N had some troubles too so this just gets way to familiar ….
Also the fact how Alicia now is praising D and favouring him so much is just like my dad. even now he says how much he loves my brother and he has him as his wallpaper (my brother has my dad and him as wallpaper).
This really breaks my heart to hear and see Alicia act like this…
D seems to be a lovely child and I really hope he won’t be ruined by her and especially his relationship to his sister and mother (if he wants to be in contact with her)
She removed J from his bedroom to let D have it alone though D is younger than J and P, and neither of them have their own room with space for a gaming chair and friends over for sleepovers.
@@lindadhill that’s just horrible😨 all of them deserve privacy and they should all be equal.
My son is so thankful and sweet when he gets anything and it is so sad to see these kids.
One thing about Alicia I’ve noticed is, she has no friends! Never has a girlfriend over for coffee, never has lunch or dinner outings with the girls. She buys her kids love and who knows why Josh is with her, but he seems gutless.
Totally agree Josh needs to grow a pair, I mean Dougherty not our DCP Josh!
$30K on 14th birthday…imagine the vehicle he is going to get for his 16th 🙄🤦🏻♀️
Why does that matter he’s not gonna be able to bring it with him later
Lamborghini?
@@valtoton2982 PROB
@@valtoton2982 💯
@@sandraabrahamsson6677 It DOES matter bc of the other kids!!! YOU are ABSOLUTELY right tho…BC as soon as she can’t make $$$ off of them & exploit them anymore…she doesn’t give AF about them!!! 💯
my heart breaks for her other kids that she doesn’t spend 30k on for their bday. what also makes me sad is that everyone is always around when opening presents but not one person was on bree’s bday when she opened hers.
those kids are going to have a rough life because they teach nothing. just constantly give them everything.
buying someone’s love only goes so far till it doesn’t anymore.
but for her to make that comment, was so uncalled for. but again she did on purpose cause she wants the reactions from people.
she most certainly has favourites and isn’t shy about showing that either.
I can't imagine how they most feel.
It's really messed up how Alicia throws so much shade on the woman who CHOSE her to take kinship placement of her children!
What a disgusting woman to speak that way about D’s mom 😢so gross!!
Wait a minute. She got a puppy for that boy knowing that he could possibly go back to his mother? She's nasty for that
It's worse than that N asked Alicia if she could get a puppy 🐶 obviously Alicia said no. Now that N is gone what does Alicia do...buy D his dream puppy. Alicia is a straight up c***
Your absolutely right. She’s a angry piece of soul. She tries to rub things in faces, like see , you should have stayed. The lush can’t stand any one wanting to leave her “gorgeous “ presence
I was wondering why James as the second oldest didn’t get his own room but D does? It doesn’t seem right. They are so fortunate to have James he’s such a great young man I just with they could see that.
James is not the favorite
It's really very sad. He's the sweetest kid and deserves so much better!
I'm assuming it's the same pathetic reason that Alicia bought James a $200 mattress the same day she ordered a $2000+ Purple mattress and new bed frame for Naveah!
Did you see when she talked about how much she missed the chickens……. Not her husband or her kids. The chickens 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️😂
Just came to say, i noticed anger and true compassion for these kids when she said shes making up for his past. Love what you do and hope it reaches the people it needs to ❤
Im new here! But I did go back and binge watch a ton of the old snark videos and I CANNOT WAIT for this years snarkmas! Let's goooo! you are hilarious
Welcome!
Yes, yes he is! 😂😂
I agree with you Josh. That comment she made in reference to past birthdays really reflects her true character. This woman has claimed she is a Christian yet I see no Christ like values reflected in her or in what she teaches her children and those in her custody. I also agree about spoiled, entitled rich kids, but I also have to say that I know many wealthy folks who would NEVER indulge their children to this degree. These kids will have no understanding of the value of a dollar or to appreciate things. There is something very wrong here - I feel like she is searching for meaning or something because there is an emptiness with her that I can’t quite put my finger on. But it’s strong and even pervades through her social media channel. Honestly, she needs prayer. I’m going to try to pray for her as the spirit leads, but I thinks she is sad. Also sad that’s she is such a poor steward of the wealth dropped into her lap…
I agree!! And yes I see it too - an emptiness about her.
That house is filled with anger, sadness, loneliness and consumerism. I can’t imagine living there.
I hate to say it but DAYSHAWN IS THE CHILD THEY ALWAYS WANTED, BUT NEVER HAD!
Yeah josh probably wanted a strong football player son, Alex does play football too but I think he maybe behind the scenes is fed up with all that bs but is also clear 2nd favourite. Then when they had their bio sons one has I believe like a easily worn out, insomnia or something can’t fully remember and the younger one is autistic so probably wouldn’t end up a popular star football popular kid.
This is so true!! 😢
I believe that!!! D is like a dream in their eyes. They’re a family in chaos but d is not chaos. So they like him.
D is very popular on TH-cam and brings in the views. That scene with Joshua and D walking away at football game and the comment she posted , how do you think Alex feels about that? D had good manners and was appreciative when he first came there but you can tell he is slowly being corrupted by all the things, he still says thank you but even he seems to expect all this and more now.
My daughter just turned 38, and when I add up all the stuff I probably ever got her for her birthdays they don’t add up to $35,000. I never had that kind of money. But I do have the best girls in the world who love me because I’m me.
I feel so sorry for the kids she doesn't favour (Z, Bo and J being just a few)😓
Imagine the Christmas presents will be over 100k at this rate. These kids won't get the excitement opening their Christmas present cause what could they possibly have left to want or need, such a shame. 😞👎
Z has Alicia's number and will call her out on her BS! She's done it before.
Z is also very smart, she participates in Odyssey of the Mind and I feel Alicia sees her as a threat!
I agree, Z, Bo, especially sweet J, and I feel even P too.
Nov 30 my dad's bday. He was a marine badass and a good man. I knew you were a genuine soul
My mom used to schedule my dentist appointments the day after Halloween- it still is my nightmare LOL
hahaha what a great memory, we had spaghetti for halloween night ! its was brilliant as it takes forever to eat spaghetti so it slowed us down to go out later, as in a proper time , unlike NOW? kids are out at 5;30pm way to early IMO. Cheers !
@@tas22222even 4:30 here in CA
@@tas22222I think it’s for the younger kids with earlier bedtimes I think
That's funny😂😂😂
I’ve been paying attention, and I agree, James has been MIA lately, from various things, the last video I saw him in was the video of him helping bring in the groceries from Costco.
I feel like she is subtly trying to tell the world that she has adopted him without actually coming out and saying it. In one of her shorts, she posted all of the years she was pregnant or adopted a kid and she had 2023 on it.
I seen that as well
Yes! I've been asking if anyone else noticed. Something is up, I have to go back and figure out which videos but there were a few recent comments that he's permanent now! I know if Josh saw it he would have said something... now I'm on a hunt!
I think it may have been in comments section on one of her shorts!
@valtoton2982 I saw it too and ai believe it's the shorts of D and Josh on the football field
Thanks Michelle!
I’m mid 30’s and to this day my parents fill my stocking and I still get excited over it. (Always has chapstick, nail polish remover, my fav candies etc.)
I was feeling down, but thank you for giving me motivation to start decorating for Christmas 😆 nice to take my mind off things while listening to a good snark, and decorating!
I never comment but I gotta say, Josh, you always make me laugh out loud and I just adore you for it. I’m an advocate for individuals with disabilities for work and each day can be a new level of sadness and frustration. It is rewarding work but can also be so emotionally draining, so I appreciate you and your humor immensely.
I agree what do these kids need for Christmas? They literally get everything they want how can they want for anything else?? It’s mind blowing to me.
She needs to spend money on her house! Why doesn't she care about updating her home, that absolutely needs work
I noticed she hasn’t shown J at all lately and I truly hope he’s ok. She already had let social media run their lives, but it should never ever be allowed to be more important than any child, but an adopted child who was taken from trauma and then gets retraumatized by the family who promised to protect his wellbeing. Man, she better not get worse than she’s already been. He’s the caring person he is despite being raised by her and having to take a caretaker role because she chooses not to parent her kids anymore.
I was thinking the same. J is such a sweet genuine kid and I feel so bad for him. I'm hoping it's his choice to back off of social media.
@@valtoton2982oh me too but I don’t think Josh would have mentioned it the way he did if it was his choice. Unless he saw what N did and decided to follow her lead and said “don’t show me at all or….” Whatever the reason, I pray it’s his choice and he’s not ostracized even more in his home than we already saw.
@jlow27 ... I just want him to be okay, and happy in his home, I'm with you!
Alicia is like the government when there's something she wants to hide she throws a distraction our way.
Josh you made me cry talking about your pup. I feel that way about my Bella. I’ve had several dogs pass and I loved them all. Bella got sick and had diabetes and after the fact we think cancer. But I fought so hard to keep her healthy and happy. She had so many issues and I would fight so hard against them. Ugh heartbreaking. After her I said do not do that to yourself again. Ever. It hurts too much. But here I am with 2 labs and they are life. Dang you got me with that.
Sperm balloons! 🎈 I can’t even catch my breath! 🤣
On a serious note, you are so spot on about EVERYTHING! I pray for those kids every day. Thank you for doing what you do. You’re giving those voiceless children a voice. Keep it up! ❤
Nana, that SOB takes the gift bags home! lol
This is how she "proves" her worth to these kids. She has to buy them coz she cant spend actual time with them
Why didn't James get his own room as he's older.
It had to hurt him and he is so sweet he would never say it did. It’s just like the Jeep Alex got and then look at the car James got.
Just like that day Alicia was shopping with Josh at Costco for 2 mattresses, she bought James a $200 mattress at Costco and went home and ordered Nevaeh a $2000+ Purple brand mattress and a new bed frame!
James is such a sweetheart, I HATE how she treats him! It's so heartbreaking!
I was WAITING for this video!!😂😭
So was I lol
It’s my daughters 14th Birthday today and she got a pair of Dunks, some socks, body spray and exercise band! She was thrilled and grateful….the excess these kids deal with is insanity and I can’t wait till she comes crashing down from this spending Bs
That sounds like a reasonable and normal birthday to me.
That sounds great! I always give my teenage kids useful gifts because lets face it it’s hideously expensive, and i don’t have the means to just pour out luxury items.
My daughter recently turned 14 and all she wanted was a diamond painting (the one she wanted was $4.99), a diamond painting organizer, a pair of shoes and a pencil case for some of her art stuff.
She was so happy and appreciative of everything.
Its sad that he couldn't see his sister for his birthday. My Halloween was spent at home because it was super cold and snowy!!!
She's probably trying to "stuck it to " N. Trying to make her jealous of the life her brother has. What Alicia doesn't get is that N didn't want anything from her, D is going to regret allowing this psychotic woman to use him to hurt his mother and sister. Shoes, clothes, and things wear out, break and get outgrown ....family should be forever.
So wait? Did I hear her say coffee smell "was probably a good thing since she took the red eye home and it's been a week" ? Has she not showered in a week????? 😂
Hey josh love your vids! Just to clarify something when she says she has custody it means the county they live in no longer has custody and she’s his legal parent, awarded by court. meaning she can make educational/legal/medical decisions for that child and is legally responsible for him. In NY there is a way for family/fictive kin (she’s fictive kin meaning she knows the mom but not biologically related to them) to gain full custody of a child after 6 months of foster care placement because adoption usually takes a much longer time (you have terminate both parents rights) this option is called KINGAP. I’m 99% sure this is what happened with this kid. Before making this official people assumed she had “temporary custody” because it was a kinship placement, no. placement vs custody are two different things, placement means yes they live with you while in foster care but you are not permanently legally responsible for that child, the local DSS county is. They’re just staying with you until the system decides what to do with that kid permanently. Now KINGAP is a much faster route to permanent custody and faster route to get the child out of foster care. His bio mom later down the line can re-file for custody if she can prove that she’s finished her services has gotten her life together but I highly doubt she will get it if the child doesn’t want to return because the system doesn’t force teenagers to go back home if they don’t want to. So yes I’m assuming (as of recently) that legally he is her son even though she did not adopt him. Hope this gives some clarification as to his legal status. Again this is my guess, obviously I’m not 100% but I also work in NY foster care so I know how the system works.
Thank you so much! I've been wondering because Alicia has made some comments stating that he is permanently with them now, yet surprisingly she didn't make a video exploiting the situation, just made some passing insinuations and a response in the comments on one of her short videos.
@@valtoton2982 no problem! I saw those same comments about him being her permanent son now. & when she used the word permanent vs adopted I knew that it had to be permanent custody (KINGAP)
I just find it odd that she didn't exploit the situation... But, I'm so glad that she didn't.
@@valtoton2982 yea same.
If J doesn't have his own room, then he's probably sharing with D and little B, because the twins are sharing a room now. That poor kid.
She’s literally insane!!! I have two kids born in October. They each got 4 gifts. The good ones are coming for Christmas
I really hope that N is ok in her new home and that Alicia isn’t still bothering her
kids aren’t dumb they know love is superior to bribing this will backfire for sure
Her mini wegmans haul threw some shade you should have a look 😂
I cant believe she said that about the birthdays he's had in the past. My jaw dropped! You dont have to be a parent to know you cant say stuff like that. It's horrible!
Are you gonna make a video on Oscar’s new video with his girlfriend? She seems so sweet!
YES
Why would Josh make a video about that. Give them privacy.
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If she invested the money really well and created trusts instead of spending and spending, she could set her children up with generational wealth. It's sad to watch these sorts of things because it's a lot of brokenness manifesting itself and the children will pay the price in the future
3 pairs of 'Hey Dudes' as we are going into winter...
I have a question regarding the pit bull. Forgive me if this has been addressed previously…but how does the state of NY allow foster parents to have a pit bull in the home? In Massachusetts they won’t even consider you to become a foster parent if you have a pit bull. Is that not a thing in NY?
I don’t get why she can’t save the friggen birthday bags!? Why continue to buy and waste them 🤦♀️ at least re-use them when u have many birthdays in 1 month
I'm NOT sticking up for Alicia lol, but Josh ff through it...Nana, that SOB, takes the bags home with her because she has like 18 grandkids lol, so Alicia keeps buying them and Nana reuses them.
She's addicted to buying things
I just spent $50 for my 8 year olds birthday tomorrow and I feel guilty because we are hurting for money but I wanted to make her day special. Makes me feel sad to not be able to get a few nice things and she spends THOUSANDS
Do not worry. Your child will enjoy whatever you do for them. There are ways to make it special.
#1 Bake a cake. Put a base layer of frosting and let the birthday child add sprinkles and colored icing and candies.
#2 A special outing like a trip to a favorite park or place. Some places like museums have free and discount days.
#3 Set limits. One book to read. One outfit. One treat. One toy to play. Do not get into the habit of going overboard because on future birthdays the child will expect more.
Have fun and enjoy the day with the birthday child.
I can't wait for Josh to realize that is NOT what she fed them for Halloween! That short popped up for me today and it's everything you would expect!
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Exactly!! He covered "muffin board Monday", Halloween was on Tuesday. Oh the sugar, made my guts hurt watching it all!!!
Haha i was like no josh ur wrong haha
So, by saying “new son”, does that mean they legally adopted him?
they have permanent custody of him, but he’s not adopted
@@haremfucker249 so in order for them to have “permanent” guardianship, does that mean his bio mom had to give up her rights?
@@brantlie_boone i don’t know, that’s a question you’ll have to ask people who fostered.
@@haremfucker249 gotcha. I will have to do my research. How do you know Alisha has permanent custody?
Anyone else find it hysterical that D choose to eat out every single meal 😅🤣🤣. Usually a kid will pick their most favorite dish their parents make. D didn't choose any food for lushy to make lmfao😅
Josh, all your comments have me cracking up!
Me too!! He is hilarious 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
Oh my goodness, did you see when he wore the eyeliner, cheetos for eyebrows and wig?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 So funny!!!