Why I Don’t Date Men With Kids!

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
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    In this clip of our live we discuss the struggles with dating men with kids. Some men brought up the concept of marrying later in life due to the high demands of the average woman. Have you dated someone with kids? If not would you?
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  • @ronkomro7759
    @ronkomro7759 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Remember that it works both ways. I refused to date a woman who has kids especially when she has 5 by different daddies. I'm 60 and chosnot to have kids when I was 33 years old( I got a vasectomy). Believe me when I tell you when women find out ( especially when they coming back after we have had sex 2 or 3 times oh I'm pregnant, it's happened 3 times) they start scolding and shaming that I'm a monster and I have the responsibility to tell them ( mind you we had only dated for a couple of months and had sex 3 or 4 times). I've have gotten older, wiser, childless,wifeless and I'm very happy and have my sanity.

    • @aishamohammed1888
      @aishamohammed1888 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We aren’t talking about women with kids tho sweetheart . The twins don’t have kids so they can’t relate . A lot of yall men have children and alot of women don’t . We don’t want to come second place . We don’t do baby momma drama nor are we babysitters for u guys and we want to be the first to have a man’s kid . Not be like summer walker being the 4th baby momma . I advise yall do like Kevin Samuel’s said and go back home to ur family and work it out

    • @garymoore3384
      @garymoore3384 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@aishamohammed1888------ 54% of black men are single and childless. I don't know where u get ur statistics from.

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aishamohammed1888 if a man has children chances are those kids aren't under his roof.
      He is not raising the kids.
      Only 15% of men with kids are single dads.
      Most men with kids don't have custody.
      So it's not like you will ever have to deal them kids..

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I rather a chick who has had abortions or gave her children up for adoption or even lost her children to the state.
      So she has more time for me.
      I don't want a woman with crumb snatchers running around.
      I prefer a woman who has the freedom and time of child free woman.
      Child free or childless

    • @aishamohammed1888
      @aishamohammed1888 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what kind of men are u dealing with who don't have joint custody or see their kids.... thats a bad reflection on your part@@genovasquez8361

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If a woman has one kid. Ill do a situationships but nothing more ever

    • @EJIMANnenaNgozi
      @EJIMANnenaNgozi  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Interesting. Do you have kids?

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EJIMANnenaNgozi nope. No kids
      But the same doesn't apply for 90% of men.
      Men who make kids usually aren't single dads.
      I don't mind a woman having children.
      The issue is if the kids live under her roof.
      Single fathers and single mothers belong together only.
      A man with kids who doesn't have custody is not the same as a single mother.
      Those kids ain't under his roof..

    • @EJIMANnenaNgozi
      @EJIMANnenaNgozi  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your right. Unfortunate but real.

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EJIMANnenaNgozi I don't like kids.
      If a woman has no kids but she adopts her sister kids I have a problem with that
      I'm 47 I have ghosted women who are grand mothers because every weekend they got they grand kids.
      I'm good on them too.
      They lack the time availability I require.
      Plus women who are taking care of kids be it there's or someone else's can't give you her all.
      If I can't have your all. I'm not short changing myself by giving you more than you can give me in return.
      Sex only every blue moon if she is dealing with kids to any capacity.

    • @EJIMANnenaNgozi
      @EJIMANnenaNgozi  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow

  • @user-po9ex6cx3e
    @user-po9ex6cx3e 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want the basic woman 😢

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What is your definition of a basic woman

    • @user-po9ex6cx3e
      @user-po9ex6cx3e 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@genovasquez8361 one whose life isn’t heavily influenced by social media essentially

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-po9ex6cx3e how old are you?