ELONS WIFE!!!!! "WE EITHER FIX THIS OR IM DIVORCING YOU"
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Elon Musks first wife describes their relationship
The purpose of this video is NOT TO DISPARAGE ELON. I LOVE ELON DEEPLY. The purpose of this video is to highlight to people that money and intelligence quite literally does not ensure a good intimate relationship. Few of us will be able to achieve what Elon has achieved. To sacrifice ones intimate relationship, the most important relationship you will have in your life, for the HOPE! of money and success is wrong. And not a decision you should take lightly. Nothing should take precedence over loving your partner. Whatever time you have left over should be spent on changing the world.
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As the saying goes....
A Woman's Loyality is judged when the man has nothing
And
The Man's Loyality is judged when he has everything
#quote
Yup
Hmm, that makes sense.
Wow, that is soooo true (IMO)
Well said
I'll keep my hard working blue collar husband over this any day. He loves me and still makes wildflower bouquets for me when he takes our dog for a walk. No amount of money can compare to that.
Thank you for watching. Sounds like you have a special man
Better than a control freak
You lucky not every gets love from their significant other
Even
Elon is saving the world tho..
“He’s not a man who takes, ‘No’ for an answer.” Every time I hear someone say this about a man, I get chills. It’s not a flattering statement, but feels like a dire warning.
You can be a man who takes "No" for an answer because you're certain about what you want in life. That exudes confidence. And to be fucking honest: you need a level of ego to be confident. Therefore, one should pay close attention to their self, observe it at all times and care for any wrong steps as it is really easy to confuse confidence with turning yourself into a narcissist. They're not the same, but they're similar. Humbleness should be part of your life when needed.
To be fair, she came to this conclusion when he showed up with ice cream after she agreed to go on a date with him. She didn't say no, she said yes, then decided to reject him after the fact in the most inhumane way possible. That should have been his red flag to avoid her at all costs. But if you dig even a little, you'd realize this entire video is based in half truth as well as complete fabrication, so it's a moot point actually.
Read "Think and Grow Rich" and you might change your mind. It is a warning, in sorts, to get out the way. It is determination.
Of course, in many relationships "no" should mean no, though.
he is a real man. you want a man you bend with your feminist horse shit. more and more men should be like that
that's because your imagination is infected
What an awesome lady to tell her side of the story with dignity. Wow, twins, then triplets.
I admire this 1st wife for keeping her life together and keeping sight of who she is.
I think those kids might be artificially created. I'm not positive but she did mention IVF treatments. If you notice many so many celebrity Mothers have twins these days....Julia Roberts, Jennifer Lopez, Angelina Jolie, Mariah Carey, I could go on and on. None of those babies came into the world the natural way. I know 3 couples who have lost young children. One from Church, one from work and another from my childrens school. None of their marriges survived it.
Quite a tidy lady I'm thinking
First she gave birth to one son
Then birthed two sons
And finally gave birth to three sons
Sad their first son died though😞
Elon is a very gifted person and most likely very passionate and involved in his work. I think he should have married someone who would have understood this and that his all-consuming work would sometimes take him away from his family. This often happens with people like Elon. It is difficult.
I hope she finds happiness after divorce. I wish her well. It must be very difficult to be a wife of a genius and billionaire.
Couldn't help but puke a bit upon mention of the name Eve Ensler.
I was married to a Narcissistic woman and your story resonates with me. I became a dead shell of myself. I realized I could never meet her expectations, even if I hung the moon. 4 years later, I counting my blessings. Thanks for sharing your story.
Aspergers and narcissistic personality can come across quite summer. I thought my ex too have had aspergers , but no he was just irregular NPD.
Just like that you start to feel confused and ill .
So now you know that's what you're dealing with.
Never again...
Just realized this not too long ago , I don’t even know the person I used to be , seems like another life before my relationship … I haven’t worked in two yrs , I’m on medication cause I’m the one that’s depressed and crazy , I’m the problem for everything but yet all I do is lay in the bed and cook and clean and pick up after him and things like he will miss the trash can and not care cause he will call me to get him a drink but he does it by saying he can’t hear me and asks if I wana go out to eat , I always know it’s a set up … I’ve been secretly working to save money and I’m almost to the point where I can leave . I haven’t told my family yet , I play like I’m so depressed and only wana be home for him and I’ve learned to be with him and I was ok with it all til a little while ago I started waking up and seeing the reality , and the meds are working , that will be his biggest mistake is thinking the meds would do him the favor but nope they are making me see clearly ! Never again after this ! I’m glad u made it out and can find yourself and I wonder if this type of person/relationship changes u forever ?
@@honeybee6858 .. you seem ready to get out from under. Get some strength in knowing millions would support you and blast him as u do it
@@honeybee6858 I was there 4 years ago. I packed a few clothes and left, moved to another state, homeless and penny less.The healing was excruciatingly painful. I eventually found myself again and emerged on the other side of all this a new person. I can honestly say now, the pain of leaving and healing was worth it. There’s hope trust me. Stay strong 💪
It only gets better after, lived with one for 4.5 years and sometime i think I will be single till the end of my days. But rather be single than to be in a toxic relationship with a narcissistic guy. He looked perfect and in a way he was. But noone else was perfect for him and therefore he will be always like that. Alone and without love. I am very happy now.
Very refreshing to hear about someone who "had it all", but just wanted love, partnership and deep, meaningful interactions.
Why is it 'refreshing'?
This is known as “the Real Deal”
Lmao no woman wants that , when they get it they end up cheating because he was a boring nice guy she could push over 🙄
No. She wanted to be equal to him. She will never be. He wanted a wife. Not competition. She had said it herself. Her ex boyfriend’s said she was too competitive. #MGTOW
@@ajmickel2035
This is sadly so very true
My mom said this “no matter how successful you are outside, if you fail at home, you failed”. This is how I see Mr Musk.
Your mum was wise...
So Jeff Besos, Bill gates all failed.
50% or more of people have a failed marriage. I failed and felt terrible but there are new ventures you can succeed in. Failing once does not make you a failure, failing 10 times does not make you a failure. Giving up on trying to improve makes you a failure
Too much of anything equates to compulsion. In this case, being successful is a compulsion. In its course somethings have to give.
In this case it was his wife
@@lukebaker3633 There's an old saying...Failure Breeds Success.
Hearing her story, I have the utmost respect for this woman.
you don't give a respect she had here that man lose the respect not her he used her to his life style that's it he is not a man he is a cruel beast doesn't have concern
Always 2 sides I listened to his lengthy response as well.
Elon is too smart [ass]. He is also very rich, and they have 5 children, WTF fight over money, he should give her, her due. I have lost respect for Elon; he is a misogynist and all-around bed them until he's bored. F him.
Elon ,mend your ways.Why are you doing this to women all the time.
I'm always felt bad for her. While I was married 40 years I can't tell you how many times my ex wanted to leave me for someone younger and I was 4 years younger than my ex. Elana's treated me 100,000 times worse than my ex-husband. I haven't dated in 20 years. I started talking to Elon on his news platform years ago. I cannot imagine having six kids and leave me for another younger women. He never stopped there he just kept going and going and going and right now he talks to thousands of women all over the world hitting on them telling them all he loves them and wants to marry them. I would never tell someone that unless I meant it. Here's to all of Elon's ex's. Prayers.
I think the most important part of this by far is when she says "he was a driven, competitive man at work, and I found out that didn't change once he got home". The person you marry is the same you see when he's with his friends, employees, workers etc. And he may act different to you now, but that could change anytime. Choosing a generally loving and kind person as a partner is far better than choosing a loving and kind person to you only.
A loving and kind person that cannot get things done is an incredibly contemptible person.
gold digger. only got with him after the wealth and power. sad how no girls poijt that out.
EXACTLY!!!
Don’t judge a book by its cover.
They could be an extremely charming sociopath or someone with social anxiety who’s unable to open up in front of working colleagues or whatever. It’s not just black and white..
@@xtraterrestriiial-love I totally agree with you. Nothing is simply black and white. My husband is competitive when it comes to certain things and he is a very competent person with moderate success in what he’s doing but he is also so loving, kind and super patient with me, treating me like the only person in the world that he loves as he is to me. Although he and I both will never be mega rich, that is ok for us since we’re not hugely ambitious. Humans are never that simple or one dimensional, we’re all layered with multiple sides, just need to be careful what you’re looking for.
As a man listening to this, I won't lie, I teared up a little. I can be driven in my job and it's easy to forget what you have right in front of you, a beautiful life partner.
Day trading?
Don’t be tricked by a pretty face.. all legit reports on Elon is that he is the real deal, he’s not known as a jerk or greedy like Steve Jobs or Jeff bezos , think of the burden he carries as he try’s his best to improve the world, he does not want to be the king he is selfless, Justine musk (insisted on keeping his last name) is absolutely jealous of her ex husband … THIS WHOLE VIDEO IS JUSTINE THROWING A TANTRUM
@@OO_sunflower_OO Yes, as in, I dont hold positions overnight. And you?
@@MJ-wi1tc sure as if the guy marrying barely legal women right after divorcing her doesn't speak volumes already. Grow up.
@@MJ-wi1tc You dont even know him personally just "legit reports" and hear says... What burden ? that imaginary burden his cult fans claims he carries? you fanboys are crazy lol
This first wife loved him before he was rich. She loved the person he was before the money. He is such a fool to have given her up. His second wife will get millions when he divorces her. Sad that he didn’t share his wealth with the one woman who loves him for him. I don’t care if he is a genius , he is a fool. A fool with his money.
100
His mother was a model.
Hes already left the 2nd wife has he not? Hes with a musician named Grimes now. They named their baby a series of vowels. I think its name is "X Ae eA-x16". No joke.
@@Janellabelle Oh, I didn’t realize the woman who had this last child (that they names some crazy letters and numbers) was his third attempt. Hahaha. What a mess he is. He’s rich. I guess he’s happy with his money. Why should he care why a woman hangs around him. He has so much money he could give each of them several million dollars (except his first wife, he screwed her over) and it wouldn’t effect him at all.
She already did years ago
I’m so sorry that you had to grieve the death of your son alone. You are an inspiration to all who have suffered this loss and that of your marriage. I wish you the best. Stay strong.
I wish you peace 💚💚💚🙏🙏🙏
She is a bad wife, not submissive enough, hence divorce
It’s a man’s world ladies get over it
@@rg1924 gross
Sorry to hear about such a loss; I've been through; not easy at all
Stay strong
I've just learned I'm richer then Elon ....
I love my wife I wouldn't trade anything in the world for her
Thats true happiness
🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️
Bless you!! You most indeedly are richer!!!
Never take a side in one side story
Dude he loves his new wife a lot too. He just does not love his ex wife
When your husband things you grieving your son’s death is “manipulative”, it’s time for him to become an ex husband, regardless of the money. I’d never have another child with a man who did that. Heartbreaking
Elon is a good guy th-cam.com/video/yGQVR6Fojko/w-d-xo.html
Cold hearted
Creep. 😒
Absolutely
@Arthur De Souza that’s sad and painful to shun mourning and memory of the life they made together. a piece of them two. baby boy mattered. hopefully, he’ll come to FEELING that one day. 🥀 that being said, i still would never co-create with him again. Edit: Just had the thought that Master of the Universe can’t fathom that something or someone that came from him could be vulnerable or faulty in any way. Has to realize he’s only human after all.
I feel so much empathy for Justine. To be with someone prior to success and help to build them up and have 6 babies with him all while he is becoming excessively rich, only to leave you nearly penniless is heartless. I'm so sorry. Justine is brilliant though, very intelligent and well spoken.
I agree. Elon should have been better
A far cry from penniless.
@@organikpnw $16M..she blew him off until she met him again in Silicon Valley and then she fell in love..wonder why not before?🤔...🙄
@@coletanner5193 o9
BS when she left him also the worst time of his life. Justine knew her choice, dont victimize her
This young lady is much stronger mentally than elon can only dream of being. So much respect for her.
"If you were my employee, I would fire you." That is your exit sign.
fair. thank you for watching
Heartbreaking sentence :(
@@RelationshipAdvocates " I am the alpha in this relationship." While you are dancing at your reception? What would have even prompted a remark like that on the day of one's wedding? At least you got 5 beautiful children and hopefully a little financial security in the deal. Thank you for sharing. Love from Texas.
Alpha man maintaining his frame. That's what turns ladies on 😍
@@wshyangify yep
“I see myself in you”.
An early signal that he had already fallen in love with someone else - himself.
You should love yourself first.
you cant start a relationship if you dont atleast love yourself. then its just one sided you need help all the time. its why depressed people find it hard to want a relationship yet feel lonely at the same time.
@LD71 SC That’s not true you cannot fallin love or have sex with your person unless you guys are personality similar. That’s why when dating you see if you have similar interest duh 🤝
that was dramatic as fuck ..
yes love yourself and not your inadequacies I agree
I can't imagine the sadness of losing a child, rich or poor doesn't change the fact that life can be terrifyingly hard.
Absolutely. U can’t buy ur mental state or use money to make it through grief. Pain is the best equalizer for a nation.
It's painful. And then there are people who are emotionally unavailable. Rich or poor doesn't matter. Heart matters.
@Philip Madden So what, some rich people can't have kids. Some people have no kids because they never met the right person, or had other obstacles in life. Money clearly is not something negative, but it doesn't solve everything, anyone who thinks so never had a real problem. All the worst ones are those that cannot be solved with money.
I too lost a little girl to SIDS. The Lord got my husband and I through the dark days. Without Jesus there is no hope.
I cried as she spoke about her son Nevada's death. That kind of pain is raw and unimaginable, and she went through that process alone.
Elon tried to invent a machine to save his son, there's more to the story. Elon consulted with top doctors worldwide to save his son. No one had a solution.
This is what 50 shades of grey realistic "happily ever after " would've been.
In Elon’s case 50 Shades of Blonde…🤭
So true!
Their age gaps don’t seem that much. She said he was one grade above her in college. He couldn’t be that old
...if not worse.
True!!
She was rich in heart ❤️ something you can’t buy.
Wanna bet #invest #ai
You dont even know her. Maybe living with her day after day was annoying as F and he couldnt stand her anymore. She sounds a little dramatic and i think I understand how he felt after listening to her for just 20 minutes.
@@NEbluefire She sounds so attention seeking so who's the narcissist. She was an adult capable of making her own decisions of where to be and how to live her life. So if she was a victim, she was a willing one.
Money can t buy real Happiness in life
one of the things i like about elon's ex is she played piano while saying this.
Lol
That Piano & Her Soft Voice Makes You Sleepy so Nobody Will be Able to Stay Alert Till The End.
😂
lmfao im dead
😂😂😂
This woman is very brave ,and what she is still going through with the financial issues is heart breaking . But I hear in her voice she is 100 xs stronger for what she has been through. Thank you , you have helped me.
I expected a gossip piece. I did not expect to feel so many emotions. This was beautifully done.
Agreed. Thank you for watching
it was a gossip piece, nicely and cleverly done. constantly manipulating the reader. ofc average person might not catch the slight of hand and manipulation but it s there.
@@KuopioKallavesi manipulating us how? I wasn't swayed one way or another by this story. I don't think any differently of Elon Musk after having heard it. It was a bit sappy, but ok....
Perhaps you're a paranoid person whose always looking for ulterior motives.....
Me too. I teared up hearing the end.
@@RelationshipAdvocates when smart man married an averge woman it does'nt work
"Although she had dark hair when she and Elon first met, she's now blonder than I've ever been".
What a good finish and a sisterly way to warn other women.
Dye your hair blonde and live a billion dollar lifestyle.
Or don't dye your hair blonde and don't live a billion dollar lifestyle.
Pick one. It's not that complicated is it?
She also tattooed herself inspired by aliens and Elon, now they're "partially separated". I didn't know those term exists 😆
@@A.I.- That's right. If Elon Musk were a plumber or auto mechanic, he wouldn't be dating young beauties.
He doesn't have to be a hunky studhorse to pull with that kind of dough on tap. If he prefers blondes, so be it.
@@A.I.- Sounds like a great attitude that will totally get you the woman of your dreams.
Or not.
@@devilsoffspring5519 You've never seen a plumber with a hot wife? They make quite a bit of money relatively speaking.
She is a role model. Strong, intelligent, resilient, self aware, and complete. Deep inside, she knows her true worth which no money can buy.
She’s attempting to gain sympathy after her “easy street” plan FAILED. Instead of empowering women, she wants us to see her as a victim so she doesn’t have to admit she was in it for the money. You’re just as disgusting as she is for calling this pig a “role model”.
An attractive woman who gives life to the man she loves.
@@geoattoronto; Yes, indeed.
I agree, if he wanted a blonde why not get a blonde or just buy one instead of trying to "build a blonde" go all nat- ur- al funny the first wife said wife #2 was initially dark headed but eventually was more blonde than she ever was, I rest my case lol
Wow! It gives me courage that every bad relationship and divorce makes you stronger and leads you to find who you are instead of crippled you as victim. Thank you for sharing.
OMG I justread you simple short perfect explanation.. Mine was two long but the same end result.. thank you for your comment.
Only applies to women. Men lose EVERYTHING in divorce. Many kill themselves
I am so glad you found happiness. I have never been the wife of a rich man, but I have been the wife of a narcissist and understand completely.
Any man/woman who achieves anything, President, CEO, gurus, World leaders the list is long. The majority of these great achievements, takes a special personality.
Yes he is most definitely a Narc ...I was married to one ...say no more
@@AngelFace-fu2uv Yes'. I understand too Angel Face ..!
Sadly there are many of us who have lost who we are to a narcissist. We know something is not quite right, but while trying not to drown under a barrage of criticism and blame, we are steadily pulled into the event horizon of someone who must try to maintain control over everything and everyone in their lives.
Her calm recital clearly shows what a beautiful person she is and why Musk would have been attracted to her. The grace she conveys, especially in choosing to be friends with his new wife, shows that even with all of that money he ultimately could not and did not win at least this challenge.
@@laurieann6688 beautifully said ...Amen 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
My husband is a very simple person with simple goals and simple tastes. He is very loving and caring. My dad was the same.
This is the best way to be
@@RelationshipAdvocates Absolutely. : )
Lucky...actually blessed!☺️
What is the simple life?
Lucky!🌹
She is very positive, with none of her statements demeaning Elon. She is just telling her personal experience from her point of view as the wife of a millionaire. She is a classic example of relationship where you changed yourself to suit your partner's visualization of "ideal", and it never works. You might pull the act for a while but in the end, you will end up exhausted.
Thank you for watching
She received millions for that! LOL
I wish I had an ex- like her
She is positive, its sad when these things happen; I have a global business, however I still end her a little letter and a Bounty chocolate bar in the conventional post every month or throw her on the back of the motorbike and rush off into the wind; her being Vietnamese cheap village girl fears went away many years ago and she still smiles so not everyone is the same :)
She is manipulative and constantly painting Elon in bad light (Constant slight of hand), she does it very nicely and smartly, so average person simply swallows the whole thing without thinking. This is an example of subtle but toxic culture that exists. She relies on heavily on this toxic attitudes towards men.
Think what she is doing! PUBLIC attempt to shame, character assasination, etc- And you people dont even pay attention to it. " Its just her experience" wtf i wrong with u people.
When he said "I am the alpha" he meant the same thing my husband meant by "we will never argue." I thought he was being unrealistic, and he was, but later I realized he meant that I will never be allowed to disagree with him. 8 years later I can list the traits of a malignant narcissist.
There’s 2 sides of this story. Now let’s hear Elon’s before judging.
yeah, you should have married a beta male.
@The Real Paul McCartney Revealed true. women are good at hiding signs.
Narcs are highly driven and usually successful impossible to be and live with.
@@IHTLS she shulda been smarter and never signed those papers- bamboozled by the smartest man on EARTH - it was the Fairytale that lost the battle for her.
If he has to tell her he is alpha he is not.
@Ras Forbes why would he even bother in the first place if he sees his life so big, why bring another human as an extra, that's demeaning
I disagree he is. That's why it doesn't work. No one wants an alpha in a relationship. People want partnership or a yong and yang. Not control.
He'll find out in hell who's the alpha and the omega the beginning an the end...
@@达努佳 nobody want a alpha in long terma relationship..They just want his genes...😂😂
He does if she doesn’t understand her place. Where he made the mistake is not knowing this wouldn’t work with an alpha modern woman.
This is one of the most authentic genuine gentle speaking woman of truth and integrity that I have ever heard share her own life story. Your sons are blessed beyond measure to have such a brave increadable mom.
I pray God fills you and your families lives with health happiness and honest genuine caring loving family and loyal friends.
The narrator isn’t Justine
I also loved my ex-husband’s wife. She was really a good friend. In a way I was comforted that they seemed happily married. Later found out she had compromised so much she actually ended up despising him. She passed away, too young and alone in hospital. He was too tired to sit out the last hours of her life . He needed his sleep. I was away in another continent. I had contempt for him but kept my feelings to myself for the sake of the children. Give me intellect any time to brilliance which masks the incompetence of the absence of emotional intelligence. I’m South African and find Musk repulsive.
I’m American and find him repulsive! 😂
I liked Musk until this video. He sounds uncompromising and life with him horribly lonely. He hides all this
in public showing himself as the person everybody bullied.
What is the difference between intellect and brilliance?
What is your point? Obviously like in many cases brilliance does not perceive intellect but don’t understand the point of your question!
Thank you for your reply. However it’s absolute nonsense what you said. Being abusive is an emotional trait, you either have it or not.
Abuse is not a choice it’s depravity. Actually your comment is useless. Why bother?
“I am the alpha in this relationship” during your first wedding dance - how romantic.
Huge red flag
Knowing her he was probably joking and she took it seriously
@@seanbaker2577 Yes I’m sure he was joking. Elon is no alpha male. Just wait until the current wife or girlfriend gets kicked to the curb saying the same thing. Then what will you say? Stop making excuses for his bad behavior. A lot of CEOs are psychopaths so I’m sure he is too.
@@seanbaker2577 dude called a guy that rescued kids from a cave a pedo..he's wack
Ewww!
She uses very kind language for a women who probably suffered narcissist abuse from him
I don't think this is actually his wife speaking.
I have no idea whether the words are true or not. But that's definitely a random ass woman voicing over through the entire video.
Either reading a script or making shit up
She wrote an article for vogue or so, about being a starter wife. They took pieces from it and read it out loud.
Yep! And I have enough of that npd experience. Its gross 🤢😆
@Michael Fox oh we found the other narcissist, last sentence is proof🙄
This is a voice of exhaustion and of someone who has been in a long overdue journey
Men like Elon usually are very emotionally absent partners. They can be very intellectually attractive, but then you find yourself longing for a connection you will never find. Thank god she left him.
Edit: I was not talking about Autism or Asperger’s or any of those conditions. I was just talking about emotionally absent men and women that don’t prioritize their partners. This conversation got so twisted in a complete different direction.
He's like Robin William's character from the movie Flubber.
To be honest, I have two sons on the autism spectrum and Asperger's syndrome can be especially hard to recognize, especially if a person is able to excel in an area. I am not saying Elon has Asperger's. I just mean people who are highly intelligent but seem to not "get it" in relationships MAY be on that spectrum. My relationships with my sons are at times strained and I even UNDERSTAND where they're at! I greatly admire Elon and I appreciate his ex's explanation that she doesn't have a bunch of ill will toward him and still loves him. Just rather sad, I am sure!
Or a narcissist lol
What a loser he is. May have money but he seems quite a loser.
@@aquarius5719 sounds like projection 🤣
The best thing about this woman is she trashed no one but realises herself and highlighted the characters of her husband that made her couldnt cope. what a character
If this is Justine reading this, she needs to do audiobooks! She has a beautiful voice. I hope she is happy now!
Agree about voice
She has a beautiful voice !
This narrator definitely has a beautiful voice! It’s not Justine though.
Is not her
business mind lady good between these desperate ladies have a good vibe .All the commenters who hates Elon if tomorrow call him the will marry him hands up emotion emotion bla bla
I can just tell by this women's soliloquy that she is a fantastic writer. What a well written soliloquy. It really stirred up some emotions
I hope she's written some books so we can find them and get lost in them.
Talented writer,
The reality of life is different through individual eyes, but creativity of the mind can be a wonderful thing
Today’s reality would be so exciting if only creativity could be manufactured as the words are falling from her lips.
Each soul has a path and we create thoughts that help direct our destiny,
In part there is a plan also we agreed before come.
But none the less combined with the tones behind her story holding each other hand in hand enveloping us into her world for a brief moment.
One life’s experience from a moment in time.
@pipper donnie
Hi Pippa😊, Yes totally agree and also your name and stature of family play a big part too.
I have experienced this many times.
And excuse me or saying this and the words I use.
Humanity divides humanity currently and for thousands of years.
But my view unless a human show us the respect without judgement because in their eyes we’re not the same level.
We all sit down for a shit.
Again my apologies for using these words but this is how I see it.
All the way across the board of human existence.
@@nozuko333 Yea I just looked her up and it seems like she has 3 books: Blood angle, lord of bones and uninvited. Definitely have to give them a read, I'm sure they'll be great!
@@KrisKeon thank you 😁😊. I'll search for them and see if I can't get a copy on one of them....happy reading Kris🌻
Abusers often change their behavior toward you when they think they "have you." When you move in together and you can't afford to live on your own, when you get married and can't afford to get a divorce, when you have a child together and want nothing more than to give your kids a whole family. They know they can treat you progressively worse and you will just try harder.
You are on point! I see that clearly
This is so true. It's like a switch flips
Yes. There is truth in your comment.
That's how it's is.
WOW
@@tessafox1329 I agree with the first comment above because abusive people (women or men) acting exactly like this. She/he want to cut you first from your family and background etc. But it doesn't mean that Elon Musk is a narcissistic. For God's sake. Yes Elon Musk is very smart men and he is futuristic. He know exactly what he want and he get it. People are different and it's good. Me personally belive that Elon look for exactly strong and independent women like his mother. His Mom is very intelligent, never let to break her wings. Her life wasn't easy but she make the best and great of it. I think that Elon Musk women are very privileged. But it's only my opinion.
Elon is basically following the path of his father. His dad was basically missing in action, always involved with whatever he was interested in and ignored the family. People repeat what's most familiar to them and they will keep repeating the behavior unless they make a conscious decision to change their behavior. Sacrificing your family is easily accomplished if you're fixated on your own interests, it's a decision made everyday by many people. Balance is the key to a good life. In the end, all you really have in this world is your family, nurture it.
There is no time to both devote to a demanding business and your family. Creative people and workaholics like Elon should never have families in the first place. This guy works almost 15 hours a day… no time for anything else.. this applies also to artists, they are living in a universe of themselves, no one can enter that world. Basically, that is why the simple folks who follow a routine, boring life, are the happiest ones👍
@@lucius574 I agree. Elon should not have wives or children, sounds harsh but realistically he does not have the time to keep a wife and children happy, therefore he should be selfless and not have them, focus on his work and not neglect a family he only has a small percentage of his time for. Elon just wants to increase the birth rate (possibly rightly so) We shall see how close a relationship he manages to develope with his children in the time.
@@jojocool555 I agree with you and Lucious,, The one thing that we are not discussing is success has a cost.. If you get on a train to success dont expect to see the sights.. we are not sure Elon wanted children.. Who knows how she got pregnant. the first time. Not sure if he was thinking she needs something to do at home .. just a guess. but the second one he might have wanted another child to heal with the pain of a loss,. Most entrepreneurs are not thinking family. unless they have a wife. just saying..
Elons father took his boys wo hie projects and taught them everything about material world...Elons hatred for his father may have something to do with the young cousin that old Musk allegedly seduced and had a child with... but who knows. Elon is a genius problem solver but does not know history and treats people as robots, including his young new son whom he gave weird name as if he were a robot and whom he takes as a prop to get more admiration...
@@lucius574 Narcissists are highly driven and usually successful but are hell to be with and love. And everyday folks are not necessarily the happiest or divorce wouldn’t be so high. Many married women and partnered women in long term relationships suffer abuse and cheating which leads to divorce.
My ex always hated when I cried and said exactly what Elon said, “emotionally manipulative” so I stopped crying around him and was scared to and when I did it was the same thing. I’m glad I left that lonely life
So am I. More power to you.
He was abusive.
Maybe he's narcissistic
I had a very lonely life just like that, so glad I left it, as well.
It's what we call a narcissist. Those are the worst people walking on earth.
I will always say this... no one gets as rich as Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos, by being a nice person... NO ONE.
But where does that belief come from? Sounds like a belief based speculation
@@04dram04 or maybe it’s based off of the exploitation of faulty labor laws
Or maybe what about exploration of human and natural resources in hence called third world countries?
Usually they are involved with corruption through the government. Most of the richest people in history used the government to create monopolies.
Elon is basically funded by the US gov. Bezos hands over amazon data for very profitable cloud contracts and subsidised post. Amazons profit from sales is very small.
Haha that's true
I did marry this guy. And yes he made millions. But I walked away with nothing because I could not stomach the constant put downs, control and the inability to be myself.
I’m there. And I’m scared to do it.
You kept your dignity
@@emiemi6276 ⚘
@@emiemi6276 pray and ask God. He will help you! He helped me! I’m free now!
Same. I was engaged for years to a wealthy man. I left. Stuffing my identity wasn’t worth it.
So sorry to hear all this, Justine. I've had marriages like this in my past lives. That's why I chose to be single in this one as my early relationships were headed in this direction too. They too were mainly about taking, not giving. Have also had a few men around who wouldn't open up about their feelings or talk. I always recall you saying somewhere that you lost yourself in this marriage. It's commendable of you to have formed a friendship with Elon's 2nd wife. She obviously wasn't the perfect match and that marriage ended a lot sooner. Good luck to him finding his ideal woman. There aren't many of those around these days and even his money won't buy one. I wish you all the happiness and love you and your kids deserve. 😍🥰😍♥
He wont find an ideal wife, because he himself is not ideal. Nice to see another Mira!
"He didn't understand why I grieved openly [for the baby], which he regarded as emotionally manipulative."
Yiiiiiiiiiikes
I think different people deal with things in different ways, celebrity just brings it into the limelight
For real. Not only is it heartless, I can't even figure out how something like that could be manipulative even if it somehow were an act (I don't think it is at all, I'm just saying). I was expecting something like "emotionally weak". I would've disagreed 100% with that too, but at least I could've understood it.
Someone deleting comments?
I also lost a son but to the world I was strong because I took it so calmly and even went to work after his funeral. That did not mean that I did not miss or love him so very dearly. I kept it all in my heart and remember the good times we had together. I chose to forget the moment he died. I know that after life I shall surely see him again in heaven. I am trying to live a godly life to be able to qualify for heaven at last. However, life goes on and I must face the realities of everyday living. I never lost my mind over it. And there was no shoulder to cry on. So I took it with a lion heart. It still hurts up till today but the hope of meeting him in heaven gives me joy! So it is alright to grieve but not so much. Men feel vulnerable in the face of grieve and tears.
Psychopath
You can have your billionaire husbands, who worship material things more than life itself. I've been down that road where men think by handing you their credit card you should kiss their feet. When I finally did marry, I made sure it was just a regular guy who liked regular things. We were married 40 years before he passed away, but I wouldn't trade one of those 40 years. We had an apt in NYC and a sleeping bag when we started out, so what, we laughed for years about it. We ice skated in Central Park, walked hand in hand with our Sabrett Hot Dog off the street cart, and laughed the night away. We traveled and collected seashells and we snorkeled together ,and enjoyed our life. Maybe we didn't have a bunch of material things, but so what, we had love and commitment and mostly lots of laugh and love. These ''elites" have nothing but a bunch of ''stuff" as I call it, but there's always this sadness in their eyes. Years ago I hung out with the Wall Street crowd, money people that drank themselves into a stupor constantly. The people I looked up to as successful in life, I no longer looked up to, it was more like pity than anything else.
Super comment👍
Truth!
Sounds like what you had with the man you married was priceless. Some people never find love. You found a special love. God bless.
yeah i agree with you, but i also aknowledge that not everbody wants the life you want, Elon obviously is very impactfull in this world and his ideas are pushing us forward,he is a driven person , that is one of the rare oppurtunities where someone has the means, luck the stamina, focus and determination to achieve these things, and he is pushing the pedal to the max, such a relationship like yours couldn't work in his life.
such progress in the world, be it technological, scientific, medical or whaever comes from individual that sacrificed certain things you had, so i'm gratefull for such people as it always needs to be balance.
Great Post.
Thank You for sharing
The “if you were my employee, I would fire you” part prolly hit hard
He’s so detached despite having kids with her
The fact that it didn't end there astounded and saddened me
I would imagine he said it the way you would answer the question, "Do you think it's going to rain today?"
My dad said to me that one, when I was little
@@Allison_Hart best answer!
His wife is a phenomenal writer… She’s a great American writer… If she’s not already♥️
What an amazing, strong, mature and self aware woman. I respect you more than you will ever know
I do too !!
I was very much like Elon for the first ten years of my marriage. Luckily, I had a moment of clarity. I still fight the demons of narcissism and control, but I am aware of them and make a conscious effort not to give into them. I feel fortunate to have made this realization prior to our child being out of infancy.
Way to go, Bradley. Make your son/daughter and wife your priority. In the end, when you are old and gray, frail and weak, those you have loved deeply - and those who love you deeply - will be the ONLY ones there for you. That time arrives sooner than we think, as time flies.
So you gave up greatness to be a simp and someone who always agrees with your wife? Good luck mahn.
That is very unique. Prayers for your continued growth.
Brave man. Love wins.
It's fine. At least you know your weaknesses. Everyone makes mistakes. I am sure you give security to your family as a father.
Moral of the story, always love yourself more than anybody else!
No no. Comon. The moral is to give more effort to your relationship
yes ALWAYS LOVE YOURSELF MORE
@@germanher7528 and wise men don't marry, they pay a woman to have their children.
Absolutely
That's how you become a narcissistic person. It seems to me that Elon loved himself quite well. So from what you understood you want to be more like him in a relationship. Good luck with that
A very classy lady, intelligent and down to earth. Nice combination! 👏👏👏
So curious where this audio came from. She seems quite honest and down-to-earth. With lots of self-awareness. For those who think she’s a gold digger. I just don’t see it.
How can some be a "gold digger" after having children. Signing AFTER they were married, to give up any share of his assets.
Which is ridiculous, considering he made a of his money after he married her. She should get half.
@@hopeandgracetompkins3707 Amen!! 💯🎯
Everyone assumes any woman who's married to a wealthy man is only married to him for his money. As if it could never be possible that a wealthy men could actually be loveable regardless of their finances. Pfft...
@@hopeandgracetompkins3707 Anything gained after marriage is conjugal.
It wasn't this one, it was the next one who was the gold digger.
You can’t put a price tag on escaping a narcissist. Life is so precious and we often confuse wealth with happiness and freedom.
why is he narcissist the guy has been a very hardw0rking and mission driven man. if he was your ideal husband there would be no tesla or spacex. We cant have it all elon musk prioritized his dreams and ambitions thus resulting to his failed marriages but imagine if the woman he marry is as passionate and enthusiastic as him.
Elon Musk isn't a narcissist. I don't think any narcissist in history has ever achieved the success Elon has.
They're usually pretty useless people who only survive on the backs of others.
Elon has Asperger's. Not nearly the same thing.
Best leaving the psychoanalysis to those who are qualified.
Also, you seem to have a problem undertstanding this woman. Maybe you should listen again... she didn't escape him. He divorced her.
@@antonystringfellow5152 many narcissists and psychopaths are extremely successful and very wealthy. Elon is absolutely a narcissist if he resorted to sledging and focusing on flaws and faults of the other in an argument. An emotionally intelligent person with empathy does not do that to someone they love -- if they see their partner with 'faults and flaws' then they would first understand that those faults and flaws must exist within themselves first and their partner is mirroring back, and second they would suggest therapy to work on addressing those faults and flaws if they were so detrimental. A person that resorts to highlighting the faults and flaws in another in an argument rather than on the topic at hand, is someone that is avoiding responsibility of their own part they have played to reach that point.
In a healthy relationship there is no need to argue about anything, rather than arguing, healthy people will seek to resolve issues before they become pain points that cause arguments.
Dealing with a person with Asperger's is a tough call, and it's not up to their partner to absorb their shortcomings. Rather, the person with Asperger's requires the suitable therapy so that they learn how to respond in suitable, mature and healthy ways.
Whichever way a person gets away from a narcissist, whether the narc instigates the divorce or not, it's still an ESCAPE.
*other hints that he is a narcissist is the pre-nuptial agreements, expecting his wife to go blonder, etc -- he cared more about his financial position rather than equality and her welfare in and after the relationship.
You clearly like to attack women and defend a narcissist, so chances are that you are also a narcissist or an abuser of some description.
Who's the Narcissistic here? The domineering (re: hot) husband who is successful in all that he does, who just wants a wife that's at least willing to dye her hair a certain color? Or the demanding, unaccomplished, lazy and bored (her words) wife and self-proclaimed feminist who insists on equality, despite going out of her way to avoid doing the things that will make her man appreciative of her, and absolutely NOT appreciating a damn thing he's doing for her?
You go girl . Spouses always put their partners down when a relationship breaks down . Continue living your life not on fake but live your life to the fullest. You have learnt that money can not buy you happiness. I left South Africa with my 2 sons . As a single women I have grown and I am now proud of 2 doctors . The best things in life cost nothing . Enjoy a walk on the beach , hiking with your precious sons , cooking home cooked meals and doing things that you love embracing. I have embraced my life and find comfort in the Lord Jesus . Today I am a very strong, self sufficient women and I will never exchange my independence for anything or anyone in the world . I pray that you and your precious children find love and peace . Most of all I wish you a wonderful life .
Amen
@Rose Forgive her Lord for she did not know what she speaks.
ya now she is almost 50 and lonely cat lady.
Justine, YOU ARE A SURVIVOR from all that you describe in this clip. Good for you for having shared custody of your boys, that's important. Good for you for FINDING YOURSELF! Good for you for FEELING GROUNDED again. You are a beautiful person, and honey NOBODY can that away from you, YOU saved yourself. Keep a good friendship with Elon, it will do wonders for everyone, especially YOU.
Remarkable lady! Elon is a wonder but in the real basics of life, he’s not quite in par with his exceptional intelligence.
Loved her calm sensitive feminine and self realised voice. Salute.
thank you for watching
It’s not actually Justine Musk’s voice
@@monicageorgson4870 lol. Women jump to a lot of conclusions so easily.
@@elstongunn4277 Elon?
marry her simple emotional like you and make dozen babies that will be normal like you happy family but zero contribution to humanity
Imagine treating the mother of your 5 children as a leech and untrustworthy, it shows your character.
He did not want to give her anything.
@@annhans3535 She doesnt deserve anything... i mean wtf ? its not her money, its hes. Sadly law enables poorer person to steal money from the rich one.
@@KuopioKallavesi She was with him before he had all of the money and was the mother of his kids. Of course she is entitled to a percent of his wealth, hence why the law is the way it is in every 1st world country. Albeit at times it can favour women too much.
Life is meaningless, who are we to judge someone, none of us are sages. Human character is grey and different maybe that's what makes us, us.
@@LongJohnnn if the mother leaves the home she loses the rights, i think the problem is a lot more complex than this video says. Don't be naive
An 'alpha' does not tell another they are an 'alpha.' They just live as one. Anything else is a wish or a performance.
That's what people with Aspergers do. They say outrages things that other people find insulting. They can come across ass sinkholes, but it's just somthing they cant help. I'm suprised to learn he actually let the ice cream melt down his arm
@@blackmatterlives9865 not true universally. I am high functioning, but seriously autistic, and I learned to not do this while still young. This isn't a thing for most, especially an "upper class boy".
Based on this testimony, I'd say that he is seriously narcissistic. It's unfortunate.
@@timothyblazer1749 ez there sir white knight, we don't know his side of the story
@@timothyblazer1749 Allow me to reword my statement: That's how MANY people with AMS behave. Even with treatment. In some cases it's not treatable.
I must agree even tho I’ve always been an Elon fan. This makes u think tho.
I am now so impressed by what he missed in this beautiful womans emotions and mind that I am literally going to go look up every thing she's ever written. Her ability to write and exspress her feelings without name calling or mud slinging is beyond beautiful. I'm actually almost speechless. My interest in Elon has always led me to one conclusion and it's this that his own childhood pain was so great that he has become a mixture of his father and his mother. His world only exists on Mars as a evolutionary being with no words no feelings just an existence that doesn't involve any memory of anything bad. It's not about changing the conditions of earth or the human condition. However Justine is a different story and just may be the the factor that gives her 5 sons the reality of love and nurture on this planet to take both worlds and the technology and the vision and change the course of the human Spirit.
He just gave a gift to Ukraine so that they can get Internet as a generous, life saving gesture. I don't think he can be that bad. And I do think that he cares about the environment. Investing in the unknown/outer space has the potential of helping life on earth. I'd rather have a visionary exploring the unknown than the government alone.
Well said!
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interesting point about why Elon is trying to escape to Mars!
I think that you've gone a little too far into another's analysts. Better and possible, to simply ask Elon for his truth about the Mars thing as he is honest and knows the truth. Or, there are more current video's where he explains himself and vision of travel to Mars and his goals. There is also a current video where he talks opently about the divorce and the settlements. He wants and has talked on it.
Every woman in her 20's should watch this.
Totally agree
Yes!!
😂😂😂 Yeah stop thinking you're all entitled to marry billionaires
@@Englishsea24 it’s not about being an entitled billionaire... it’s about warning young women on men who like to get you pregnant and then treat you like trash. Young women can do better.
@@Englishsea24 what are you even talking about.
“If you were my employee. I would fire you” “ I’m your wife” 😬. Emotionally unavailable man with childhood trauma🤔. #Narcissists or he’s just like his father 🤔. Amen to healthy husbands/dads/men 🙏🏽♥️🌹🇬🇲
Smh, amen for sure.. 😔🙏🏾
If it were me, I would have a comeback every time. Employer/ employee is an imbalanced power dynamic with one having to usually obey orders.
Husband/ wife is an equal partnership. He should get off his high horse.
Childhood trauma...? What childhood trauma...? NOOOO! This is Genetics! Genetically malevolent!
@@saggiteightyfour8367 husband and wife depending on the relationship might be a “submissive vs dominant” Elon was pretty sure what he wanted and it was a submissive wife, doesn’t mean she’s less equal.
Amen to whatever, but you pass by hundreds of such good men everyday and all of these people are invisible to you.
Because you only have eyes for Chad 😍
He's married to someone for 10 years, shares 5 children but doesn't want to give her anything when he one the richest person in the world, how can someone be so sadistic.
He gives her 20k every months on top of paying all the expenses related to his kids. But I guess she really wants half his stuff and a jet of her own.
Yeah, this nasty scorned ex would have stopped at nothing if it weren't for the prenup. Though I feel sad that she's getting 20k per month, she deserves nothing, she needs to go to work,,,preferably in a nightclub.
@@makut4154 He has 5 kids with her though, so those 20ks are to make sure that his children can have a great standard of living when they are with her. If they hadn't have children it would be a whole different story.
@@TJ-xq7xf 20k is just for the ex-wife. Elon gives money for the kids seperately.
From what I'm reading she got $2mil cash upfront and $80,000 per month in alimony. That was pre-tesla boom way back in 2008. She hardly had to struggle financially, not to say that divorce didn't take an emotional toll. You marry a narcissist who becomes the richest person on the planet with the ambition to colonize Mars, and you dont think you gonna have to sacrifice something in other areas of his life? Really.
I have immense respect for this woman. I have some understanding about this type of relationship.
People that are highly driven should not enter intimate relationships and have children as they are obsessed with work which leaves very little time for any kind of intimacy. I was married to someone like this and was very glad to get out of it. Women like the status but they end up living separate lives as the other partner has affairs and relationships with people in the biz. To be honest its better living an authentic life even if it lacks status. We started our business together but I ended up being pushed to the end of the line and nothing I did was considered a contribution. It was over a long time ago Thank God! Please be authentic. I was always authentic and so could not continue to live around shallow, materialistic and soulless people. A place where you were only important because of what you owned and not because of your kindness, ready smile and wonderful sense of humour.
Who are you to say what someone "should" and "shouldn't" do? Just because you have had negative experiences with these types of men doesn't mean that everyone has. Also people who are highly driven make good examples out of themselves for kids as they show what a strong work ethic/inspiration actually looks like. The types of parents that are bad examples are the single mothers which talk shit about the other partner and have no idea how to raise a child outside of the frame of there femininity. Don't let your negative experience leave you idealizing how the world "should" and "shouldn't" be.
@@ballishype8780 I agree with this, it doesn't apply to all people if the wife can't keep up with the husband's lifestyle, and the husband changed when reached the status he always wanted. Then they should break up, but it does not apply to everyone.
It varies by culture. Historically, marriages have usually not been about romance.
And who deserves to have children more than someone who is positively transforming the world? You always need more such people.
Yes, I couldn't agree more; someone who makes work, money and possessions their be all and end all, whether the are male or female, shouldn't have children because they do not have the time to give them a real parent that is present in their lives and are not a good example showing their child/children in the scheme of things they come last rather than first.
@@ballishype8780 those children have attachments issues. Daddy dumped their mom because he didn't know how to be loving,kind be present and balance work and family. He then dumped his musician girlfriend after giving her one son. Let's see who is the next victim will be and how many children he's going to drop on her. It seems he's populating the world with broken children.
I grew up with a father who was a very high up supervisor. He would always tell me, my sister, and my mother “if you were my employees, id fire you.” He treated us as employees as well. It has caused tremendous issues for me as an adult. Never feeling good enough. Unable to accept love. Sabotaging my happiness. After years of therapy…I know I am good enough. I truly feel your pain.
That is terrible. This has nothing to do with being high up or successful though. This is just their personality but they feel more confident to show that personality the more power they get. Not to brag but my dad n brothers r very successful and they r very kind men. ppl try to make Elon seem like he is a douche bcos he is so busy n yadi yadi yada genius but no - there are high performing men who are kind. They r just not out there making noise about how nice they are so the public does not notice
my parents straight up told me "we're not your parents, we're your boss", along with a lot of other psychological abuse. My life is very fucked up now, many years later...
nothing worse than feeling unloved by your parents, there really isn't, it messes you up for a long time. You can get over it though. Having kids of your own puts things in perspective if that ever comes your way when you are ready. Good luck to you :)
You never to old to have a happy childhood! Don't give them room in your mind. Life is a journey, enjoy the ride. We cannot walk around still in victim hood. Don't look back you're not going that way, be happy, accept it and your life the best and fabulous one!
"If you were my boss I'd quit"
I am absolutely heartbroken that this narration is paired with pics of Elon, Elon, Elon. This should have been paired with picture of Justine, at different times of her life, sometimes with Musk. Sometimes with brown hair. Sometimes reading a book.
I was thinking the same thing. I was waiting for something other than Elon but it didn't come. What a pity. No problem with Elon, but clearly there should have been a little of Elon and more of her in her life with him then apart from him.
@@kelvinlewis3947 what did she do? Leave him in 2008 during the financial crisis and then when Elon risked his money trying to save SpaceX which failed three rocket launches, and Tesla, which did not receive a bailout with no celebrity or privileged elites invested or loaned money to Elon. She was already seeing someone. What did she do?
It is that way because it's not about her. The creator wants attention
@@superheaton I'm interested in what you say. That it's a matter of record that she was romantically linked with someone else while they were married? Sources, please? Just curious
That is part of the deal when your Married to a Narcissist. It is never about you.
Beautifully written, and I hope very healing...God Bless you and your children, all 6 of them. I can't imagine enduring the loss of your baby and treated so coldly by your husband at the time, the father. You have won my dear. You have won your life back. The Amber's, they get the money? Mind boggling...
Elon is super competitive and married to his work. It's clear that a person who works 90+ hours, sleeps in his factory, and makes millions in his early twnties, doesn't believe his family life is top priority above all others.
unfortunately we need some people to change the world
@@generovinsky Nah we don't need genius people changing the world. The majority of real changes happened over the course of decades or centuries and entail such complex societal and cultural structures that no man or woman alone could be the only agent of that. We strive and succeed as a species because we collaborate, not because we rely on genius individuals to carry on technological and scientific advancements
@@giusepino50 no car company was taking serious making electric cars, no private capital would have ever thought about creating a rocket company to go to mars, and not even NASA was looking into going there so your statement was proven wrong long ago. All this crazy things like electric cars, autopilot, rehusable rockets, hyperloop, etc...would not exist in our current reality if it wasn't because of Elon
@@toke182 My statement was proven wrong by what exactly? Do we even live in the same world? Electric cars are nowhere near the standard for automotive transportation in any country in the world. Teslas work fine but they are still rich people toys: very far from being a revolutionary product (and competition is rapidly catching up). Oh, and Musk never got to Mars either so what are we talking about exactly?
Anyways, my argument was that no man alone can revolutionise anything nowadays, and thinking that Musk came up with his ideas with no inspiration and no help from anybody is just utterly naive.
One last thing, autopilot and electric cars existed way long before Musk started making Teslas, and hyperloop, again, doesn't even exist, just like Tesla roadsters, Cybertrucks, Neuralink and Tesla Bots so far
@@giusepino50 You need a catalyst, an idol to start a movement. Just like Greta Thunberg did with the environment. People have talked about environment problems for decades and nothing has been done. It is just like Jesus, people believe in God and the divine because they need an idol to look up to. Change does not come from a group of people. Most major changes that ever happened in history was because of one or two persons actions.
This is classic narcissistic behavior they initially shower you with love, admiration and treat you like there’s no one else(love bombing). As long as you do everything they want applaud their success from the sidelines they’re happy, but as soon as you step out of a subservient role they become cold and annoyed with you. Most narcissist will always believe they’re better than you and have no problem telling you, doesn’t matter what you’ve contributed to the relationship it’s never quite enough. There’s usually a bunch of red flags though when you begin a relationship with a narcissist we just choose ignore them.
No, I think he's just got a really high IQ and big you know what, lol
Compare the two. He may have made a mistake - but likely he out grew her.
@@patrickmullane30 I am assuming all she is saying is true.. one cannot really trust anything these days.. BUT.. growth can be in many forms, right? . Money and power are two aspects, but there might be other aspects. e.g. to ponder - did HE grow in EQ, spirituality, awareness of how to raise kids, awareness of those less fortunate than him ? I doubt he had the time. So I would not agree that he outgrew her. It is possible that she outgrew him.
My ex to a tee.
@@emmyandboo most narcissist are very intelligent, so are sociopaths.
"At least she wasn't blonde, I find that refreshing"
LMAOO
lmao that was funny and hurtful since my ex husband cheated on me with a blonde
@@misa-olive F it. You’re going to be better off without him. Go rock who you are and not let the dude bring you down. Peace and healing to you.
But grimes is blonde lol stupid
You aren't stupid I meant he is
@@42TE thank you!! already progressing 10times more in life the past few months than i ever have in that 5 year relationship lol thought he was my best friend too, turned out he was slowing me down and made me feel like im doing everything wrong, kept me on the loop whenever i wanted to end it, also cheated on several blondes, from our first pregnancy up till the end xD dunno why i typed A blonde lol
Just happy he's not gonna be the next elon musk
She definitely did tell her story with utmost dignity, and poise; I hope she gets to win her rightful share of the wealth he acquired during their marriage; I wonder what his 5 sons will think of him when they become adults and learn how he treated their mother; Success should never be at the expense of one’s family; he is not as successful as I thought before hearing her side of the story.
You are a great woman. Brave yo tell it all. Money may be useful but when it destroys people it is nothing more than a curse. I hope you have moved on and your building a beautiful life.
All you virtue signalingers are unreal. HE HAS A DIFFERENT MIND SET.
His own father was very brutal and treat him badly and he said he would treat his own children better, he is a busy guy and ppl demand his time, but he does make time for his family now, but this is tragic to hear, his first wife was a rare gem that was priceless.
Elon and Justine divorced many years ago, and the five sons ARE adults now.
"I held him in my arms when he died...." this broke my heart. I cannot fathom a deeper sorrow... The fact that she could pick up after that and continue walking is in and of itself worthy of admiration.
God put his Son Jesus Christ to death so that humanity could be saved.
Remember, as we hear the story of what a big bad guy he was, he was also going through this loss
@@bill_quag I don’t know if I could go on…
@@samkunstsamsatire4432 ? Tf?
I think the loss was tremendous for both people and they handled it in their own way. Actually they were proactive if you like because they immediately got pregnant by surrogate-- I believe--
and had twins. SHE talked about multiple cesareans so what I read about surrogacy may be wrong but all I can say is they were on the SAME wavelength when they decided NOT to conceive in the usual way-- which usually results in one child-- but to go ahead and do IV --TWICE! FOR regular people IV is very expensive but I think he already had a lot of money and so Money Was No Object.
I still find that reaction a bit odd quite frankly and I believe they both had the same reaction which was NOT to let nature and God take its course but to go to the doctor; get the embryos all stacked up and put inside; and then see what happened!! 🙃 WHAT I found very strange is that they didn't just do it once-- they did it twice-- so they must have been on the SAME wavelength which was to make a lot of kids fast and not leave much to chance or to God, if u will .
SHE'D said she wanted lots of kids if wealthy and nannies galore( his comment) and so it goes. ☺He gave her what she wanted despite her knowing the marriage was on the rocks. SHE sounds like a lovely lady but she definitely is NO victim. She participated with him in having a lot of kids and while knowing that the marriage was shaky cuz she knew she couldn't carry on as a subordinate in a twenty-first-century marriage. I'm sure she has gotten a lot of money for the children so though apparently- according to the postnup-- she didn't get a lot from his massive earnings in HER name, as a dependent woman with five children she'll get a WHOLE lot of money from him for the kids til they reach majority. Not exactly a modern woman but more Victorian actually, but so it goes ☺
The other side of the coin is that he is such a smart man that I think he chose a very kind woman that would be a wonderful mother despite the fact she did NOT want to be the wife he wanted n needed-- a subordinate beta female in a 31st century marriage to an alpha male. Actually their marriage has worked out perfectly--dhe git kids n monry & he git kids n freedom yo make mobey n an extraordinary vision. AS far as I know neither have remarried--as that could reduce her child support money-- although he's had another child by an American lover and so now he has six living sons and one who has passed.
HE told her early on he was the alpha and if a man tells you that you pretty much know that you are the beta. In her case-- when not with the kids-- she appears to be an omega--passionate n intelligent--a writer of novels. SO though she didn't make the wife that he wanted, she definitely made the perfect mother for his kids & he was a pretty good sperm donor with mega bucks to boot😁. I think it was a win-win because many women who want a lot of kids would just love to have the kids & the money and let the guy go free🕊.
Prior to Lockdown, I was too busy to really have an opinion about Musk, Bezos, or any number of social media personalities.
Now I've learned that all the above were pretty much what I expected, - disappointing, selfish, and,- irrelevant,- when all is said and done.
And the story we are told isn't Tru
They are not self made but creations with a perpus pushing the beast sistem
i wouldnt say irrelevant, but all billionaries definitively has huge egos.
Its almosta pre-requisite to being so sucessful
You forgot to add Bill Gates 🤣. Oh aren't they all on the autistic spectrum by the way?
i think it was justine who divorced him
Yuuuuup and all these people are probably covid.
Money and fame amplify a person's character. These “rich” people don't change; they become more of who they are comfortably.
Most people look for love in relationships only. I look for respect and value. Do we both value and respect each other?
Sometimes I don't want everyone's love because love is just a word to some. They are often incapable of loving themselves.
Great video! I love how she didn't give any opinions or judgment of Elon. She left it up to us to decide.
Wise words.
Exactly this, she didn't judge him and that's what I liked so much about this video!
Thank you! That was exactly my thoughts! He was like that from the very beginning.
Elon has a greatest mission than be married.
@@asumpsaho8740 Then he shouldn't marry at all.
You are a real strong woman!!! Thank you for this interview. May God give you the desires of your heart and may all your passion in life be yours.
I find myself attracted to men who are smart on paper, over time I've noticed something most of them have in common is lacking an equal emotional intelligence. A friend advised me that knowing when to walk away was also being smart. That conversation is present with me every time I run into men like this, no matter how attracted I feel towards him.
It takes a man of exceptional intellect, dedication and effort accomplish what Musk has accomplished, these are the men that have pushed humanity forward, that have propelled us from living like apes.
There are people who understand this and are willing to sacrifice and support such men to see them through to achieve the impossible.
And there are others that are self-centered and only concerned about their happiness, their fulfillment, and prioritize their needs.
I suspect many women can emphasize with her perspective of this story.
I realize it is but one half the story... and a jaded one at that.
Anyone can empathize. Elon most definitely has helped push us forward but he’s not god and needs to be held responsible just like anyone else
@@crazycoolclips
Elon only cares about himself. He's hurt so many people, not just his wife. He doesn't care about people at all. He also hasn't done much of anything to push humanity forward, he just has "plans" to. He's even lied about his success and claimed other people's work as his own. Regardless, great men don't need to be assholes. There have been greater men throughout history that treated their loved ones just fine.
Emotional intelligence is an oxymoron. Emotion isnt intelligence, its emotion, what animals have and intelligence is what animals dont have. This woman wanted someone birn into money and she got it.
@@crazycoolclips musk is a con man. Do the research.
I grew up in a family of narcissists. While I've largely been a victim, it has also rubbed off on me and I sometimes catch myself with those negative traits. Luckily my wife is extremely patient and forgiving and I don't let my narcissism rage out of control like so many others.
rather than seeing people as narcisistic maybe look inward. you have some low self esteem issues to deal with
@@austinjohn8713 Don't assume all the narcissists in their story are redeemable and all they need is a new perspective, and don't be so confident when labeling a stranger with low self esteem. Just not how to help someone.
Being able to at least be aware of some of those traits showing up in you and actually caring about it is a Very wise thing. You're doing something right. 👍
Of course you don’t, because you are incomparably brilliant and a great genius right ;)
I have a cousin that asks for anything he sees in the house, His name is Narciso, and I often call him narcissus
One thing I can say about listening to you, you bring your parents honour. I think they did a great job raising you. So I believe your kids will do great. Blessings
well said :)
Her parents did a horrible job raising her. They raised a nightmare of a wife - apathetic, bored (her words), sucks as a wife (her words) and so full of her silly feminist ideology that she's unwilling to lift a finger to get her hair dyed a certain color for her man - that she has taken to TH-cam to gain sympathy from some naive and unsuspecting persons.
Hardly a model Citizen...
@@glennbartusch7310 Wow! Are you Elon Musk's clone?
Wow! She fell for him because he made her feel that she didn’t have to dumb herself down because she was a woman. That she could respected as an equal
And as soon as she marries him, he berates her into being submissive by telling her that he’s alpha in the relationship and everything must go his way… and started to dumb her down and treat her like a trophy wife!
If that’s not a manipulative ego driven person I don’t know what is. He likes the challenge of changing something into the opposite of who they aspire to be. Never be vulnerable with this man.
Typical of a narcissistic "hunter" who doe not take NO for an answer...just as his father... whom Elon considers EVIL...
@@vlastamolak1156 🎯
I beleive the man should be the dominant one in the relationship, but that doesn't mean getting your own way all the time.
@@noremac0575 Nonsense! Good relationship is between partners and does not involve domination or games... Elon clearly has problems with women, judging by his relationships after divorcing his first wife who gave him 5 sons who are now teenagers. The latest women Grimes sounds very weird...on and off again...
Perhaps Elons's father (whom Elons hates) is eight that Ellon needs to grow up. Elon Musk claims that he is looking for a good woman just as his mom... Perhaps he is mamma's boy looking for love in all the wrong places 😃🙃😇
@@noremac0575 that’s fine, but that not what he says before he married her is my point! She agreed to marry a man that saw her as intelligent, dynamic, and equal.
I love your story. I'm so sorry about your son. That must have been a horrible, heartbreaking time in your life .💔 Thank you for being honest and I hope you and your boys are thriving and happy. 🌷 🌼 💕
She wasn't honest. Much of this is false or half truths. Its a bitter narcissistic point of view as if she did nothing wrong she admitted she had no interest in doing anything he liked. She wouldn't even change her hair color??? Thats not love.
❤❤❤
My heart goes out to anyone who has ever lost a child.
God bless you, life is very different forever
That I can't even imagine. What a pain. What a senseless sense of guilt. Maybe I did something wrong. If I only...
@@El_Eru it's a battle to not do the what ifs.
"If you _were_ my employee, I would fire you" - I can't describe why, but that feels so much more hurtful than most things he could say.
Tough love. Shouldn't you be honest with your partner? If they can't handle that honesty without it destroying them they aren't very mature.
He was obviously joking/bantering with her. In my experience girls like it when you are jokingly mean to them. It's almost a requirement for a relationship.
@@orionishi6737 No, because it's not constructive feedback. She isn't his employee, she never will be his employee, it's just an unpleasant comment.
@@orionishi6737 tough love doesn't equal I can say everything I want to without respecting you, your feelings or your boundaries. There's a difference between being honest and being rude. And listening to your words, it seems to me that you are at an immature stage of your EQ journey. That is, without realising so.
Sounds like something trump would say
Your maturity over the entire situation is so sublime. Keep up the great work!
When I heard Elon call his wife’s grief over the death of their son as “emotionally manipulative,” I thought this is what a psychopath says.
He's now said he's is on the Autism spectrum, it's actually common for NT's married to ASD's to experience gaslighting, emotional neglect & constantly dealing with behaviour that is frustrating & self-focused.
@@lynettepettitt655 I think he used that to be relatable, I do believe he’s a narcissist and a connected to sinister things
@@kuriouskitty3084 hard to know without a diagnosis...
@@kuriouskitty3084 it's a common mistake to perceive Aspergers men as Narcissistic.
@@lynettepettitt655 but not all aspies gaslight and emotionally abuse the other. You can be both autistic & have ASPD. Judging by his own father’s domestic violence, that’s also a possibility since personality is easily passed down.
Without empathy, equality and partnership there is no true health in a relationship.
You're so right or true wealth...
Yes relationships have to be cared for, they have to be nurtured or they will die off
Every relationship I've ever seen where the female runs the show fails miserably
@@seanbaker2577 who said anything about “anyone” running the show? That is literally the definition of the antithesis to equanimity. Also, that was an extremely misogynistic statement and vastly unenlightened.
@@seanbaker2577 I have proof! My mother who is 84 and sick is still running the show. She will leave behind many bad decisions.
So when the media says "they remain close and co-parent" they mean that Justine deals with the assistant and never has contact with Elon. Got it.
She is amazing and and deserves someone better who can understand her perspective on life and relationships.She is literally me.
She sure does cling to that name tho
As a husband, Elon has failed miserably and is not respectable. Money can get him women and houses but not a wife and a home.
and who told you he wants a wife.
Man..that gave me chills. So very fucking true.
@@austinjohn8713 well, I would imagine the woman he married and had five children with.
I don't think he cares in the slightest
Grimes is too young to realize he will leave her someday and move on..!
Those poor kids. Imagine Elon Musk being your dad; a chief Engineer at Space X, trying to colonize Mars, and then simultaneously the guy that left your mom and makes her deal with his assistant in matters regarding you. 😒
What happens when you go for a chad
on the other hand you will have lot of siblings ;)
@@per2 😂 At the rate he’s separating from women every 3-5 years? For sure. Lol
how can they respect him when they grow up????a
@@debrafrakes6479 why wouldnt they respect him?
The greatest gift you can give your children is to love their mother or dad
I agree so much. you sound like my target audience. I hope you've subscribed. ive got a lot of useful content coming. you should watch some of my longer from podcast interviews on relationships. you might enjoy the1
@@RelationshipAdvocates Thank you n I will Happy Easter!!
Also; billions
I don't agree. Such a statement from a mother or father sounds even a bit selfish to me. Obviously a mother wants to be loved just like a father does as long as they're together. Life is richer in various setups, though. Therefore, I believe that the greatest gift that you can give your children is actually YOUR time.
@@mojekonto9287 Love is greater
It's a torture being married to someone who doesn't consider you worthy to be loved unless you are perfect in his eyes...
My ex boyfriend told me once: “Who’s the boss?” and tried to sell it as a joke. My answer to him was: “I don’t need a boss, I need a man. If you want to be someone’s boss then build your company.”
I remember how confused I was and tried to brush it off (as we always do) but deep down I knew that’s not the person I see myself having home and family with. I’m glad I relied on my intuition and didn’t go too far with this relationship because slowly he showed more and more signs of his controlling nature.
When a man says that he’s the boss or the alpha in the relationship = CONTROLLING = RUN …because it is programmed to fail
I think there is good alpha and bad alpha. My wife ripped through her inheritance after the death of her professor father in less than a year. She is the spending alpha of our relationship.
Someone who is a real alpha does not need to be the boss.
When women say controlling = He doesnt let me do things that may jepredize our relationship. And doesnt let me select potential suitors for my next relationship.
If you really love a man, you will follow his leadership. (I know 10% men are douche and women should screen them out even before the relationship)
@@Nirvanaattainer54 As someone who has never lied to or cheated on a man I highly disagree with that statement. A controlling man is toxic and me as a woman, I don’t need a leader. I need a partner who is honest, loyal, loving and carrying. That’s all.
@@Venus-gn5oi So very true..A genuinely strong man Or woman, has no need at all to Be controlling...such a person respects the path and choices their partner makes and always give them the space in a relationship to evolve without trying to shape that delicate process.
Its a path 2 people in a relationship walk together, helping each other along the way ..
Elon Musk is too inflexible to be in a relationship with anyone.
His first wife was wonderfuland really empathic and the one who
stayed with him the longest. Also she gave birth to his 6 sons and raised and cared for the 5 living son remaining. Even after marriage she remain civil with him.
And if he continues to be an asshole to their mom all his boys will resent him. I understand why he works so hard. His mine is better kept occupied with his professional life than his personal one. At the end of the day the world needs people like both of them. Too bad it ended up being a sad ending to their relationship.
Elon is an evil pos who shouldn't be a free man.
That is what you are *supposed* to do. Remain civil. People have the right to not be in love with you anymore and leave, no matter how many new tiny humans you pushed through your birth canal
A dying breed . They don't make women like her anymore
@compik Okie doke. If your too lazy to look into it you'll eventually see when his transgressions come to light. That fuck hasn't founded a single company and has significantly lowered the quality of life for millions of people. He didn't start paypal, didn't start tesla, didn't start spacex. Just has litigation that requires the founding members of those companies to refer to him as so. He is a womanizing and abusive father and husband, and he has single handedly destroyed americas economy...most likely on purpose.
Keep worshipping your trump 2.0 though, you will eventually be keen to his atrocities.
And by the way: when your partner has a habit to “look at your flaws through a microscope” when you have a disagreement on some point is a very straight indicator of an abusive relationship that will get only worse. I’ve been there and I was so relieved when it ended. And I was so surprised when in next relationship I felt so secure knowing that I am fully accepted as a person including my body, and when we disagree we discuss only the matter of disagreement but not our personalities. That turned to be the right way.
I am glad you are happy now. :)
" and when we disagree we discuss only the matter of disagreement but not our personalities" love that quote
Does that apply to women as well? You know how many of them start talking about a man's penis whenever they're angry?
@@thegoodlydragon7452 Maybe your penis is very interesting or you're so perfect that the angry woman can only criticize it or maybe you pay so much attention and give it so much value that's the easiest thing to offend to hurt you :p Since my hubby doesn't identify with any of the above when I am angry I do not talk about his penis xd
@@thegoodlydragon7452 Of course it does apply to women. Just because a couple of women do something, doesn't mean that every woman does. It's not cool to shame someone for their body no matter what gender and any decent person knows that. Stop pretending all women shame men for their dick size.
I am so disappointed in Elon now. I want to hear that he's done right by his children and by the mother of his children. She deserves better than this.
It's not money grubbing, it's about justice and respect.
I hope his children learn empathy and care about others feeling, unlike their father.
If he was capable of doing that, no need for divorce. Most women don't get it. YOU ARE NOT THE CENTER OF MEN LIKE THIS. Why fault him, for being himself? He can't help being who he is...same as YOU. I read once what said. His mind flashes ideas , ALL THE TIME. He can't turn that off.
How were you not disappointed in him before?
She met him when he did not have his money and he was supportive.
I totally agree 💯
Unfortunately, the type of person that can accomplish what Elon has, probably doesn't make for the best husband
She gave birth to 5 of his sons. She deserves better than this.
True
Okay well considering she was part of his life since the beginning he should have known better than to pursue her at the level that he did. To hook up and move on maybe but to pursue her to marry her then he fucked up.
@@Lissieraebaby He has Asperger's Syndrome, like so many males. Thinking about feelings and how one's actions affects other feelings is the weakest skill of this type of brain.
@@sallyho146 theyre also her sons. Youre making it sound like its a gift from her to him.