My Mom Charged Me For Bringing Me To Abroad, We Don’t Speak Often, I’ve Seen Her 3 Times In 5Yrs
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Nyaami, I'd like to suggest that as you're interviewing yankee people... please try and connect parents who've lost touch with their kids due to some of these travel payments and all that cos it hurts that our African parents still hold onto the old style of parenting, where kids dont have a say.... Let's see how that interview session also goes
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Why should they connect you charged me for traveling and you want us to be family again hell no I will pay you your money but we done being family
Bringing your spouse, child or your parents to abroad is not that costly as they have made us believed. Even if u consult an immigration lawyer to help you file for ur spouse or child it's not that expensive. The only expensive cost in traveling is the flight tickets.
It’s cruel to charge your child for bringing him or her abroad , as a parent it’s your responsibility to care for them so they are not obliged to compensate you. Now see how the relationship is? Very sad, please don’t let money “rule” you
@@traceyyeboah3034Tracy even though it's their responsibility to care for their children, when the children turn into adults they don't have to expect everything to be handed over to them without any expectation. For all you know the mom took out a loan to help him out so it wouldn't be surprising that she'd want him to pay
Well my mum did not take out a loan!
Thank you boss 🙏
@@amanfufrank3177 My mum was a permanent resident
If someone is an adult child who is working, then its perfectly okay to have them assist to pay off the debt with their travel. Someone doing it by themselves pay a lot of money and some even sale valuable properties to travel and endorse suffering abroad. Those sponsored should be grateful.
Dj Nyame pls call Jeff’s mummy and consult his uk pastor and seek to bring about forgiveness and peace.waiting for part 2
I don't condone parents charging their kids for bringing them abroad, however, if the parent took a loan, then let the child know so they can help you pay off.
They could tell u and ask u to help them pay and the kids will end up paying everything not to tell them to pay u for bringing them here
Exactly
Your mom want you to be hardworking and strong in life. She's still your mom bro let everything slide one ❤
Stop that 😅 his mother be eye red
Stop the crap
@@kessepardmore4712SERIOUS OO others are suffering than mw
@@jeffpoundZ it is not easy
Stupid comment
It two siezes,if it's connection ,she mey have taken a credit to pay that. Remember he took care of you when you were in Ghana ,it's not easy for single mothers ok.
Masa shut up how much did she pay in Ghana you women will see no wrong with everything why will you charge your child for bringing them abroad you just like a connection person
@@user-tj4qo9em9wGhanaian women are always self centred, manipulative and don't see the need of helping you out for no immediate benefits in return.
Remember they never do favours but are always the ones to ask for favours.
Jeff I see you my brother. That was a brilliant interview. My Sunday School colleague at The church of Pentecost, Ashaiman Chapel Square. I am so happy to know you are still serious with the things of God. I used to think Deaconess Pat Terkpetey was your Mum.
I see u mate! How u doing?
Good interview, pls add english subtitles, you'll get loads of views
Nyami pls try to interview some of the deportees bcs dey have more story to tell ❤️🙌
My step father asked me indirectly to pay , when I started working they used to pay me €800 euros , this man will collect €650 and only €150 for me,aside that he’s will be asking me €10 or €20 euros every time, he just wanted to make sure I don’t have anything on me !!! Now I don’t know where’s he for over 20 years now.,that’s really sad! I feel your pain bro!
I feel ur pain dear is just cruelty
That’s wickness
Switzerland is one of the best in the world..
I hear it's quite difficult to get there. Can you share with me the various simple ways to get there?
YES YES YES MY BROTHER YOU'VE SAID IT.
If your parent charges you for bringing abroad then that parent of yours and connection people are the same you shouldn’t have any relationship with them pay the money and live your life simple
Hmmmm my son don't blame ru mother wai is not easy especially for old people in abroad all is loan 😢😢😢
Bringing ur child/ children doesn’t cost that much but if they bring u they want you to pay 3X of the price which is so wrong
If she explains its a loan,he would help,what most parents do is scam their children, some children will be paying for 3 years..5yrs...and still the parents will always complain the child owes them.
Hmm, children of these days
In Italy, you can equally go to school and achieve your goals, but a lot of Ghanaians don't want to do it.
Firstly, it's the language barrier and secondly it's bad advice from others.
There are evening classes for secondary education too but Ghanaians love factory jobs and discouragement.
They haven't tried but they will tell you, you can't make it.
Charging ur child just after shs is very bad. His mother has lost a future relationship 💔
Please appreciate your mum and stop judging her have you brought someone before is all expensive.
He didn't ask to be born,it's the parents responsibility to look after your child,stop that wicked mentality. How can you charge your child??
Could he charge the mom if it was him bringing the mom and how Will people see him if he was in his mom place,charging her for bringing her instead
I LOVE ITALY I CAN'T LEAVE HERE SO LONG AS I HAVE JOB
Stay and relax aaaaa😂😂😂😂, I've been gone for 12 years, but I still miss the place.
Nice interview more learnt🙏3mu 3d3 DJ nyame tu tu tuwa 👋nana Aqwesi Adofoasa dubai ❤️
The government does not pay for everything, you are giving student loan which you will pay once you graduate and start earning some amount. There is a threshold before they start deducting! Please ensure you expatiate so that people will not be misled.
Hmmmm l brought my two boys to Italy and from Italy to UK, l have not taken any money from them, and still they are being ungrateful to me, my first son own me 40,000 after helping him to bring his wife to the UK, now both are being ungrateful to me hmm
Maybe things are not working out well for them. I surely hope you sit them down to help you out in difficult or in your old age.
40,000 pounds to bring someone abroad. If your sons were in italy before going to the UK, don't they have passports?
Why did they pay to bring someone again?
Lastly,my question is, since you've lived abroad for so long and you know it's not easy to come by that money, how did you put all that into it?
Why didn't your son pay the money himself or go for a loan?
I'm sorry, but something isn't adding up.
This guy is telling the truth
Same DJ , my mum dey Germany Bielefeld but I dey work as if I don't have parents.....I dey ride okada......because we were totally Broke before she reached there so I learned something from it
So you want for free if is a lone please is wrong.
To those people saying he’s ungrateful,you don’t know what you are talking about,get there and you’ll know how it is!!!
As an Italian-Ghanaian that’s how lots of parents did to their children which is very sad, some of the children don’t have a good relationship with their parents unfortunately.
As a mother , will you charge your own child for your own responsibilities? You can ask them to help you like I did , I helped my mom every month as soon as I started working but charging them or asking them to pay for all the expenses for him to come there isn’t good at all and this is what happened !!
My brother don’t mind those who chatting what they don’t know
The guy is fine ooooo! The skin is skinning
Someone is thirsty AF
I get emotional at that point 37:56. It sad.
Galevanteeee Santu Zanziii Canzaa
Young man is not for free you'll pay back👈
I hear you boss lady!
Dj Nyame well come back to Ghana.....
I don't think that's supposed to be a barrier..😢she could have made it so you would know the essence of been there
Because anything that is "Free" seems to depreciate it's value and you as an individual don't see the value of it so take it cool bro
Wise man
Dj..my father drop me totally...if couldn't work hard on my ass like now am nothing to the family
Shout out to Nanacusa Family💯💯💯
Getting loan to fund your journey, your will appreciate and even pay to her plus interest to let her continuing helping others. Let the fund exist abba. D J, tell him to do the needful
At least allow the person to establish well and there's nothing you need if you ask them to help you out till eternity...
Yeah, it's very expensive, so stop that entitlement! You've seen our struggle already abroad, and our children should man up and shut the complaint. She may have borrowed the money or used her savings to bring you over, how will she pay for that loan? When she passes on, isn't anything left coming to you. You can decide to see it as saving with mum or continue with the ungrateful story! Hasn't your life changed?
You are not serious if she took loan she could have just told him hey son I took loan I want you to pay back simple you don’t let the child feel you doing your responsibility and when he comes you treat it like a job
well i dont see myself charging anybody in my family to bring them here tho
Ashaiman to the world 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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If she did not file and did connection pls help him pay,she is probably tied of working
That’s was what she should do,let him know it a loan she’s using so when he comes he should help her pay off
She actually filed everything
Your mother's part you need to pay her ,Who told you is processing? Your mother suffered to bring you boy Italy for a woman to bring you is not easy.
Hi men . How many people have you been able to bring here after that????? Just give thanks to your mom and stop childish act. Sorry to say. Please
Don't mind him he is ungrateful.
Mum is greedy and wicked,how can you charge your own child? It's the parents responsibility to look after your child. Poverty mindset amongst the older generation.
@@amanfufrank3177well, you just do something good for your kids or future kids and later tell them to pay it back to you.
So after paying her, will the mother still take the credit for bringing him to Europe or it will be I paid my mom before she brought me to Europe.
Please let us put our legs on the lad's shoe. A single lady working 24/7 to bring her young boy ,you have to help her settle all the bills and reward her before you make your own life.
Is this gentleman
Willing to help bring his niece or nephew to abrochie for free ?kindly ask him.
Parents and a child are different from the example you gave which is bullshit nephew and niece are not your kids
What about some of us willing to pay but these wicked ones are not willing to help?
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For me. It’s a way of letting you be serious and not joke when you come there because your mom or dad would have made the same money you are paying.They don’t want you yo fool around . Will you get mad for paying a stranger who file for you? No
Why can't you stay there
The young migrants keep saying what they seem to know about the goals of the older or those who migrated earlier. How did they know that? Who have they interviewed? Let us share information based on facts not on hear say...
1¹11=, 8
So this woman has been there for you from the time you were born, till she was able to take you Italy. And ask you to pay for the money she spends to bring you to Italy. You think is okay. So you are in good terms with her has a son and a mother wow. And you even decide to greet your love once around and left her out. Is petty
Do you know how many hours your mom did to get that amount of money? Be serious please
Why would you charge your own kid for doing something for them? Assuming he became a millionaire, will his mom expect to pay rent for living in his multi million mansion?
It is not a good behavior so we shouldn't encourage it
It is not a good behavior so we shouldn't encourage it
Sister respect yourself, so anka when his son works and get money will u expect him to take care of the mom
@@randominterestingvideos4733tell her she's hypocrite
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NYAMMI DON'T BLAME THE MUM IF YOU HAVE NOT HEARD FROM THE MUM.
Did he blame the mother in the video ?
I wonder!
Try then solve the issue she is your mom
Nothing is free in this world. When money was coming from abroad, you were happily enjoying "free" money. Nothing is free in this world bro. There is nothing wrong paying mom back. It teaches responsibility and accountability. And also, you will learn the value of money.
My brother u can never understand some Ghanaian mothers
Tua tua tu tu tua 👍
She went and took loans to better you and you complaining masa tua na way3 ade3 ...
Jeff my guy, it's been a while.😂
forgetti
Ah forgetti sen lol
Who’s this?
@@jeffpoundZthis is Chris of Astach
@@Serenitykofi what’s up ma gee!
Maybe you weren't even contributing towards the bills
Just tell the person simple when you come you will pay me back my money simple