My Mom Charged Me For Bringing Me To Abroad, We Don’t Speak Often, I’ve Seen Her 3 Times In 5Yrs

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  • @qwekujordan7600
    @qwekujordan7600 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Nyaami, I'd like to suggest that as you're interviewing yankee people... please try and connect parents who've lost touch with their kids due to some of these travel payments and all that cos it hurts that our African parents still hold onto the old style of parenting, where kids dont have a say.... Let's see how that interview session also goes
    Big ups SVTV AFRICA ❤

    • @user-tj4qo9em9w
      @user-tj4qo9em9w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why should they connect you charged me for traveling and you want us to be family again hell no I will pay you your money but we done being family

  • @barimankansah7096
    @barimankansah7096 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Bringing your spouse, child or your parents to abroad is not that costly as they have made us believed. Even if u consult an immigration lawyer to help you file for ur spouse or child it's not that expensive. The only expensive cost in traveling is the flight tickets.

    • @traceyyeboah3034
      @traceyyeboah3034 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It’s cruel to charge your child for bringing him or her abroad , as a parent it’s your responsibility to care for them so they are not obliged to compensate you. Now see how the relationship is? Very sad, please don’t let money “rule” you

    • @D2047h
      @D2047h 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@traceyyeboah3034​Tracy even though it's their responsibility to care for their children, when the children turn into adults they don't have to expect everything to be handed over to them without any expectation. For all you know the mom took out a loan to help him out so it wouldn't be surprising that she'd want him to pay

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well my mum did not take out a loan!

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you boss 🙏

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@amanfufrank3177 My mum was a permanent resident

  • @ghanaina12
    @ghanaina12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If someone is an adult child who is working, then its perfectly okay to have them assist to pay off the debt with their travel. Someone doing it by themselves pay a lot of money and some even sale valuable properties to travel and endorse suffering abroad. Those sponsored should be grateful.

  • @SoldiersOfGodTv
    @SoldiersOfGodTv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dj Nyame pls call Jeff’s mummy and consult his uk pastor and seek to bring about forgiveness and peace.waiting for part 2

  • @maraaba6734
    @maraaba6734 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I don't condone parents charging their kids for bringing them abroad, however, if the parent took a loan, then let the child know so they can help you pay off.

    • @amaadufaboatemaa9325
      @amaadufaboatemaa9325 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They could tell u and ask u to help them pay and the kids will end up paying everything not to tell them to pay u for bringing them here

    • @wise2ashiamah511
      @wise2ashiamah511 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @frankacheampong6160
    @frankacheampong6160 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Your mom want you to be hardworking and strong in life. She's still your mom bro let everything slide one ❤

    • @kessepardmore4712
      @kessepardmore4712 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Stop that 😅 his mother be eye red

    • @donarsenaltv4168
      @donarsenaltv4168 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stop the crap

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@kessepardmore4712SERIOUS OO others are suffering than mw

    • @kessepardmore4712
      @kessepardmore4712 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jeffpoundZ it is not easy

    • @user-tj4qo9em9w
      @user-tj4qo9em9w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stupid comment

  • @amaafrifa94
    @amaafrifa94 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It two siezes,if it's connection ,she mey have taken a credit to pay that. Remember he took care of you when you were in Ghana ,it's not easy for single mothers ok.

    • @user-tj4qo9em9w
      @user-tj4qo9em9w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Masa shut up how much did she pay in Ghana you women will see no wrong with everything why will you charge your child for bringing them abroad you just like a connection person

    • @myztroogeegibson3568
      @myztroogeegibson3568 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@user-tj4qo9em9wGhanaian women are always self centred, manipulative and don't see the need of helping you out for no immediate benefits in return.
      Remember they never do favours but are always the ones to ask for favours.

  • @francistokoli8249
    @francistokoli8249 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jeff I see you my brother. That was a brilliant interview. My Sunday School colleague at The church of Pentecost, Ashaiman Chapel Square. I am so happy to know you are still serious with the things of God. I used to think Deaconess Pat Terkpetey was your Mum.

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I see u mate! How u doing?

  • @chanelone123
    @chanelone123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good interview, pls add english subtitles, you'll get loads of views

  • @emmanuelcoffie3501
    @emmanuelcoffie3501 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nyami pls try to interview some of the deportees bcs dey have more story to tell ❤️🙌

  • @Justalbi
    @Justalbi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My step father asked me indirectly to pay , when I started working they used to pay me €800 euros , this man will collect €650 and only €150 for me,aside that he’s will be asking me €10 or €20 euros every time, he just wanted to make sure I don’t have anything on me !!! Now I don’t know where’s he for over 20 years now.,that’s really sad! I feel your pain bro!

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel ur pain dear is just cruelty

    • @user-tj4qo9em9w
      @user-tj4qo9em9w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s wickness

  • @obedbaah974
    @obedbaah974 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Switzerland is one of the best in the world..

    • @myztroogeegibson3568
      @myztroogeegibson3568 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hear it's quite difficult to get there. Can you share with me the various simple ways to get there?

  • @georgekwakuowusu7718
    @georgekwakuowusu7718 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YES YES YES MY BROTHER YOU'VE SAID IT.

  • @user-tj4qo9em9w
    @user-tj4qo9em9w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If your parent charges you for bringing abroad then that parent of yours and connection people are the same you shouldn’t have any relationship with them pay the money and live your life simple

  • @user-rh3li6pg8r
    @user-rh3li6pg8r 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hmmmm my son don't blame ru mother wai is not easy especially for old people in abroad all is loan 😢😢😢

    • @ireneowusu8612
      @ireneowusu8612 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bringing ur child/ children doesn’t cost that much but if they bring u they want you to pay 3X of the price which is so wrong

    • @achiaa6407
      @achiaa6407 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If she explains its a loan,he would help,what most parents do is scam their children, some children will be paying for 3 years..5yrs...and still the parents will always complain the child owes them.

  • @janetaboaku20
    @janetaboaku20 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hmm, children of these days

  • @Ghanadiaries
    @Ghanadiaries 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In Italy, you can equally go to school and achieve your goals, but a lot of Ghanaians don't want to do it.
    Firstly, it's the language barrier and secondly it's bad advice from others.
    There are evening classes for secondary education too but Ghanaians love factory jobs and discouragement.
    They haven't tried but they will tell you, you can't make it.

  • @joshuablankson989
    @joshuablankson989 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Charging ur child just after shs is very bad. His mother has lost a future relationship 💔

  • @user-qc5kg5sc4z
    @user-qc5kg5sc4z 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Please appreciate your mum and stop judging her have you brought someone before is all expensive.

    • @achiaa6407
      @achiaa6407 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      He didn't ask to be born,it's the parents responsibility to look after your child,stop that wicked mentality. How can you charge your child??

    • @amaadufaboatemaa9325
      @amaadufaboatemaa9325 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Could he charge the mom if it was him bringing the mom and how Will people see him if he was in his mom place,charging her for bringing her instead

  • @georgekwakuowusu7718
    @georgekwakuowusu7718 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I LOVE ITALY I CAN'T LEAVE HERE SO LONG AS I HAVE JOB

    • @Ghanadiaries
      @Ghanadiaries 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay and relax aaaaa😂😂😂😂, I've been gone for 12 years, but I still miss the place.

  • @KofiAsamoah-ky2rj
    @KofiAsamoah-ky2rj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice interview more learnt🙏3mu 3d3 DJ nyame tu tu tuwa 👋nana Aqwesi Adofoasa dubai ❤️

  • @ekuanunoo7696
    @ekuanunoo7696 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The government does not pay for everything, you are giving student loan which you will pay once you graduate and start earning some amount. There is a threshold before they start deducting! Please ensure you expatiate so that people will not be misled.

  • @FranciscaOpoku-fg6vj
    @FranciscaOpoku-fg6vj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hmmmm l brought my two boys to Italy and from Italy to UK, l have not taken any money from them, and still they are being ungrateful to me, my first son own me 40,000 after helping him to bring his wife to the UK, now both are being ungrateful to me hmm

    • @myztroogeegibson3568
      @myztroogeegibson3568 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe things are not working out well for them. I surely hope you sit them down to help you out in difficult or in your old age.

    • @Ghanadiaries
      @Ghanadiaries 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      40,000 pounds to bring someone abroad. If your sons were in italy before going to the UK, don't they have passports?
      Why did they pay to bring someone again?
      Lastly,my question is, since you've lived abroad for so long and you know it's not easy to come by that money, how did you put all that into it?
      Why didn't your son pay the money himself or go for a loan?
      I'm sorry, but something isn't adding up.

  • @quarshieesther468
    @quarshieesther468 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy is telling the truth

  • @frimpongdennis6258
    @frimpongdennis6258 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Same DJ , my mum dey Germany Bielefeld but I dey work as if I don't have parents.....I dey ride okada......because we were totally Broke before she reached there so I learned something from it

  • @user-qc5kg5sc4z
    @user-qc5kg5sc4z 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So you want for free if is a lone please is wrong.

  • @Justalbi
    @Justalbi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    To those people saying he’s ungrateful,you don’t know what you are talking about,get there and you’ll know how it is!!!
    As an Italian-Ghanaian that’s how lots of parents did to their children which is very sad, some of the children don’t have a good relationship with their parents unfortunately.
    As a mother , will you charge your own child for your own responsibilities? You can ask them to help you like I did , I helped my mom every month as soon as I started working but charging them or asking them to pay for all the expenses for him to come there isn’t good at all and this is what happened !!

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My brother don’t mind those who chatting what they don’t know

  • @jenniferfrimpong7496
    @jenniferfrimpong7496 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The guy is fine ooooo! The skin is skinning

  • @djsokogh2706
    @djsokogh2706 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I get emotional at that point 37:56. It sad.

  • @solomonosei6133
    @solomonosei6133 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Galevanteeee Santu Zanziii Canzaa

  • @gladysmensah8505
    @gladysmensah8505 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Young man is not for free you'll pay back👈

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hear you boss lady!

  • @Tomsupdates
    @Tomsupdates 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dj Nyame well come back to Ghana.....

  • @pearlasilevi
    @pearlasilevi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't think that's supposed to be a barrier..😢she could have made it so you would know the essence of been there
    Because anything that is "Free" seems to depreciate it's value and you as an individual don't see the value of it so take it cool bro

  • @sheilaasare1232
    @sheilaasare1232 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wise man

  • @sbjafrica
    @sbjafrica 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dj..my father drop me totally...if couldn't work hard on my ass like now am nothing to the family

  • @solomonosei6133
    @solomonosei6133 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shout out to Nanacusa Family💯💯💯

  • @peksonetv5340
    @peksonetv5340 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Getting loan to fund your journey, your will appreciate and even pay to her plus interest to let her continuing helping others. Let the fund exist abba. D J, tell him to do the needful

    • @myztroogeegibson3568
      @myztroogeegibson3568 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      At least allow the person to establish well and there's nothing you need if you ask them to help you out till eternity...

  • @Kissmanoff3233
    @Kissmanoff3233 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah, it's very expensive, so stop that entitlement! You've seen our struggle already abroad, and our children should man up and shut the complaint. She may have borrowed the money or used her savings to bring you over, how will she pay for that loan? When she passes on, isn't anything left coming to you. You can decide to see it as saving with mum or continue with the ungrateful story! Hasn't your life changed?

    • @user-tj4qo9em9w
      @user-tj4qo9em9w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are not serious if she took loan she could have just told him hey son I took loan I want you to pay back simple you don’t let the child feel you doing your responsibility and when he comes you treat it like a job

  • @cynthiaacquah9733
    @cynthiaacquah9733 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    well i dont see myself charging anybody in my family to bring them here tho

  • @wisdomaddo8515
    @wisdomaddo8515 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ashaiman to the world 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @afuaowusuaa2865
    @afuaowusuaa2865 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If she did not file and did connection pls help him pay,she is probably tied of working

    • @amaadufaboatemaa9325
      @amaadufaboatemaa9325 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s was what she should do,let him know it a loan she’s using so when he comes he should help her pay off

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She actually filed everything

  • @amanfufrank3177
    @amanfufrank3177 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your mother's part you need to pay her ,Who told you is processing? Your mother suffered to bring you boy Italy for a woman to bring you is not easy.

  • @jacobowusumensah8161
    @jacobowusumensah8161 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Hi men . How many people have you been able to bring here after that????? Just give thanks to your mom and stop childish act. Sorry to say. Please

    • @amanfufrank3177
      @amanfufrank3177 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don't mind him he is ungrateful.

    • @achiaa6407
      @achiaa6407 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Mum is greedy and wicked,how can you charge your own child? It's the parents responsibility to look after your child. Poverty mindset amongst the older generation.

    • @stevoo209
      @stevoo209 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@amanfufrank3177well, you just do something good for your kids or future kids and later tell them to pay it back to you.

    • @stevoo209
      @stevoo209 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So after paying her, will the mother still take the credit for bringing him to Europe or it will be I paid my mom before she brought me to Europe.

    • @jacobowusumensah8161
      @jacobowusumensah8161 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please let us put our legs on the lad's shoe. A single lady working 24/7 to bring her young boy ,you have to help her settle all the bills and reward her before you make your own life.

  • @kuwornugodwin7993
    @kuwornugodwin7993 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is this gentleman
    Willing to help bring his niece or nephew to abrochie for free ?kindly ask him.

    • @user-tj4qo9em9w
      @user-tj4qo9em9w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Parents and a child are different from the example you gave which is bullshit nephew and niece are not your kids

    • @myztroogeegibson3568
      @myztroogeegibson3568 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about some of us willing to pay but these wicked ones are not willing to help?

  • @user-rn6ko7nb5d
    @user-rn6ko7nb5d 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @user-im9ic4mc3r
    @user-im9ic4mc3r 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For me. It’s a way of letting you be serious and not joke when you come there because your mom or dad would have made the same money you are paying.They don’t want you yo fool around . Will you get mad for paying a stranger who file for you? No

  • @gladysmensah8505
    @gladysmensah8505 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why can't you stay there

  • @samueltetteh3936
    @samueltetteh3936 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The young migrants keep saying what they seem to know about the goals of the older or those who migrated earlier. How did they know that? Who have they interviewed? Let us share information based on facts not on hear say...

    • @ghanaina12
      @ghanaina12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1¹11=, 8

  • @ceciliaowusu7884
    @ceciliaowusu7884 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So this woman has been there for you from the time you were born, till she was able to take you Italy. And ask you to pay for the money she spends to bring you to Italy. You think is okay. So you are in good terms with her has a son and a mother wow. And you even decide to greet your love once around and left her out. Is petty

  • @susanaosei9572
    @susanaosei9572 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Do you know how many hours your mom did to get that amount of money? Be serious please

    • @randominterestingvideos4733
      @randominterestingvideos4733 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Why would you charge your own kid for doing something for them? Assuming he became a millionaire, will his mom expect to pay rent for living in his multi million mansion?

    • @kwamedarko1141
      @kwamedarko1141 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It is not a good behavior so we shouldn't encourage it

    • @kwamedarko1141
      @kwamedarko1141 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It is not a good behavior so we shouldn't encourage it

    • @slypopo1_
      @slypopo1_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sister respect yourself, so anka when his son works and get money will u expect him to take care of the mom

    • @slypopo1_
      @slypopo1_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@randominterestingvideos4733tell her she's hypocrite

  • @delaliprince
    @delaliprince 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @georgekwakuowusu7718
    @georgekwakuowusu7718 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NYAMMI DON'T BLAME THE MUM IF YOU HAVE NOT HEARD FROM THE MUM.

    • @SVTVAfrica
      @SVTVAfrica  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did he blame the mother in the video ?

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wonder!

  • @wisdomalonso9880
    @wisdomalonso9880 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Try then solve the issue she is your mom

  • @nanaabronoma2757
    @nanaabronoma2757 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nothing is free in this world. When money was coming from abroad, you were happily enjoying "free" money. Nothing is free in this world bro. There is nothing wrong paying mom back. It teaches responsibility and accountability. And also, you will learn the value of money.

  • @cleo7592
    @cleo7592 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My brother u can never understand some Ghanaian mothers

  • @nanaantwi996
    @nanaantwi996 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tua tua tu tu tua 👍

  • @AsomaFrafra7612
    @AsomaFrafra7612 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She went and took loans to better you and you complaining masa tua na way3 ade3 ...

  • @Serenitykofi
    @Serenitykofi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jeff my guy, it's been a while.😂

    • @ING_Francis
      @ING_Francis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      forgetti

    • @opro3
      @opro3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ah forgetti sen lol

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who’s this?

    • @Serenitykofi
      @Serenitykofi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jeffpoundZthis is Chris of Astach

    • @jeffpoundZ
      @jeffpoundZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Serenitykofi what’s up ma gee!

  • @janetaboaku20
    @janetaboaku20 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Maybe you weren't even contributing towards the bills

  • @user-tj4qo9em9w
    @user-tj4qo9em9w 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just tell the person simple when you come you will pay me back my money simple