You have no idea how much this video touched me. I'm 65 and just this morning I was looking in the mirror and feeling old and invisible. I've been married 44 years and though I am blessed to have a very good husband, he no longer looks at me the way he used to or say things like "You're beautiful." Our culture is so cruel to aging women. I do love where I'm at in life though. I've gained wisdom through years of experience that I can now pass on to my grandchildren. I'm much more patient and flexible and learning to choose humility rather than pride. I will admit though, that it has been difficult to let go of the vanity years. Thank you for sharing your joys and sorrows with us. The Snowman reminds me of the Velveteen Rabbit. 💜
Oh hello Sista!!! We feel so much the same feelings and it helps so much to know we are not alone...I remember the days where I could smile at a man and his face would get red....now he turns away...and that's ok! I am happy and grateful...bt at times, still adjusting!!! Much love to you!!! Sues PS: You are still beautiful and I bet hubby is more forgetful now to tell you so!
I hear you.. sometimes i think seeing our partner getting older reminds us we too are getting older..i feel it getting older but my inside is stronger than ever..we got this..❤
Because now it’s no longer important or necessary to be told we are beautiful- what for/ I’d rather hear words like “ ur a great grandmother “ you’ve done good “ the compliments are different and welcome- look at things differently as evolving and u will see the beauty in aging and that many do not get to be this age :::: listen I was stunning a raving traffic stopper BUT as I aged I became invisible to men and guess what- I love it it’s freeing I’m no longer on Display , now they see me not my beauty. It’s fine/ I still take care of myself of course but I’m not expecting anyone to validate me! My Grandkids give me life and this too will evolve - it’s fine/ be thankful and beauty just oozes out of u❤
your story about the poor snowman reminds me of when I went to the secondhand store and noticed a little statue of Jesus, he was plastic about 7 inches tall just lying there with old junk all around him. I looked at him and said to him, Jesus you don't belong here, I'm taking you home and you will be with me. When I brought him home, I washed him and found the perfect spot, I put him on my dresser facing me when I'm sleeping. But when I turned off the lights and went to bed I noticed that he was shining bright and looking at me. I don't know what material that is, but it reminds me that in the 60's or 70's they had plastic items that glowed in the dark. Now he stands proudly and watches over me every evening. It brings me comfort!
People who are weekly viewers of your clips are here coz you are real. That was so kind of whomever sent you that quilt. Things like that restore one’s faith in humanity.
I shed a few tears when you found your snowman! I am a 79 year old man and I have a tiny,weatherbeaten chimpanzee from my childhood who goes from home to home with me. Love to you, Desi and the Snowman, James ❤❤❤
I am 67 and received a white cement cat from my mother when I was 12 years old. It's been with me always. It's a garden ornament but it has always been indoors. Cherish your little chimpanzee.
I lost everything in a flood in 2016. My children’s memorabilia , my babies photos, everything. You will make new memories. God bless you. Flooding sucks!
I'm 69 and have lived alone since 2003, I learned I don't need a man to define who I am, I do get lonely at times but relish my freedom too much to let it bother me too much, my daughter's family lives 3000 miles away, I have friends, 3 sisters, and my 93 year old mother is still alive, 2 blocks away. You have to stay strong, believe in yourself, stay busy. I love my life, except missing my daughter and grandchildren, I wouldn't have it any other way. Yes, the mirror is a disappointment, but I rose above it. I look as good as I can at this stage, go on and live my life!
May we be like Mr. Snowman. No matter how many imperfections we feel that we have, we'll shine beautifully and brightly through even the roughest times. ♥☃
Hi Susan & Desi:). I had 17 inches of water invade my home 09/28/22 from hurricane Ian and just again on I think 10/10/24 from hurricane Milton. I have lost track of the actual time because so much has been going on since this happened. I fell asleep from pure exhaustion at 3:00 am and woke at 5:30 am by a text from my son. I was sleeping on my couch because we had elevated my new bed from Ian -put my feet down on the floor forgetting my high rubber boots were there-just in case…Just barely recovering from Ian -I think I am still in a state of shock and disbelief BUT there was devastation just feet away from my backyard and side yard and a tremendous amount of high water lurking everywhere around me and I am still alive! I was also scheduled for oral surgery the day after the storm hit so of course that too was canceled. I say to myself thank the Lord that he heard my prayers🙏🙏. When I watched ur video I couldn’t believe you had such a terrible flooding and I know quite well ur feeling of losing precious items that just are irreplaceable. I’m sure many people know this loss and worse. Today my goal was to clear off my dining room table-Vintage Hitchcock furniture I had restored myself with LOTS of TLC after Ian -But one major thing I learned from you was calling Servpro. They have stated they will restore my home the way it should be only better. So I can certainly relate and feel the hurt but pray for Hope for a brighter future as I turn 73 this month:). It’s a blessing and PS my oral surgery was rescheduled and almost healed🙏. Love and hugs to all👍. Keep on going-God has a plan and whatever it is-I’m in the game 😊❤️🙏
I'm so sorry you lost so many treasures that you had collected over the years...May you find even better treasures on your hunt this week ...Love you lady and I know you will make everything so much more beautiful...Can't wait to see what you find at the thrift stores...🐾🐾🥰💜🐾🐾
Here's my "snowman" wanna be story. Years ago, when out one night, w a gal-pal, near Xmas, she swerved to avoid a small, dirty Santa 🎅 soft toy, just as I yelled from the passenger seat, "DON'T HIT SANTA."She pulled over and ran out into the road to get him. We laughed so hard. A few more years, a Rudolph was scooped up. She kept them and put them out at Xmas. ROAD KILL Santa & Rudy. 😂 My dear friend moved away a couple of years ago and I don't know if she still has them, but we'll always have the memory of two beat up, scuffy, tire marked "unwanted toys".❤ You don't have tire tracks on you Susan, but you are still loveable.
Ive come across things going thru memories, saves, things I wrote 20, 30 yrs ago...Things I couldnt wait for, things that were dreams and I just bawled..because...
Wonderful video,filled with hope as always ! Thank you as always 💗 So looking forward to your Christmas video! Love the Snowman and that you rescued him is very Special,he survived the flood Because he is a symbol of HOPE 💗🐶☃️xox
Welcome back Susan and Desi!! Missed you so much. That was so sweet of someone to send you that quilt. Such kindness is so precious. And that is one tough snowman. So glad he didn’t melt.
This video made me smile. Sometimes, I feel like the snowman nobody wants. Then, a weekend visit with my 7-year-old grandson reminds me I'm still wanted and needed.
I love your resilience! Oh, Little Poet, what a far cry from your first videos! You even look younger & more beautiful. That's the light you carry shining through. Hope, kindness & love. Thank you for spreading these gifts on your channel. It's why I keep watching! Love to you, Desi & all the lovely ladies here! 💜🌻🏡📸
Awe Susan..I could've cried right along with you again but out of pure joy. I celebrate with you the love and care someone put into sending you the quilt. There truly are good people in this world. I am sending you loads of love and gentle hugs for all you have recently endured.❤
I’m so glad everything worked out and you got your house back in order. Watching you has helped me so much in my own challenges thanks for sharing your life with us.
Thank you so much for sharing that was beautiful. This year is my first Christmas without my husband. He passed last year on December 28. I am approaching my decorations with nature, going into the yard on walks and picking up branches and berries and twigs and greenery. I’ll mix that in with some lights and some candles and I will enjoy a simple, beautiful Christmas although I will be alone and I miss him terribly. I do have family and friends that I will enjoy the holiday with.
I’m so happy to see you back in your home and things getting back to normal. I missed seeing your videos. it will be fun going shopping with you again. Love you and Desi😊
This was beautiful, as are you, Susan, inside and out. Thank you for sharing your life and yourself so unabashedly. Know that you are an inspiration and loving friend to many! 💕
What I didn’t add was that I too was a single mom all of their lives. We work together in a wonderful relationship. They were my world and now I have no living relatives just me and my pup.
God is so good! From being so devastated by all the things you lost, to having your house back better than it was before. God always works to make something good out of the bad. So happy for you!
You know I was just thinking today how irrelevant I feel!! It’s like I go out in public now and no matter how good I look and feel it’s like I get looked right through me. It makes me feel sad cause when I was younger I got a lot of attention. Not that I need that but I was just thinking as you get older you get looked at so differently and it’s just sad. But I’m lucky to have a husband of 37 years who still finds me drop dead gorgeous and says nothing has changed but I know better lol. But I can honestly say after so many years of depression this is the first holiday season that I am looking so forward too. I have 7 beautiful grandchildren youngest one 4 weeks old and I think how lucky I am. At the end of the day that’s all it’s about not the lines that’s starting on your face or your hair starting to thin it’s family and the way my little grandchildren love their grandma! My mother put so much emphasis on our looks and I struggle with aging because of it but my poor mom only lived to be 69 because of lung cancer. I am now 58 and sorry to say I still don’t think I’ll ever be comfortable with seeing changes to myself or seeing how I know longer get looked at as a babe lol but I do still get told how beautiful I am by my husband and those sweet little grandkids that say you’re the best grandma and you’re so pretty grandma as they are playing drums on grandma’s chubby belly lol. Susan you are my inspiration though because you seriously look more beautiful today than u did your very first video! And whoever got the quilt for you has to be such a wonderful person ❤. Like I’ve said you were one of the very first people I watched on TH-cam and I seriously feel lost when you’re not on the channel on Saturday and I’m always worried something has happened to you but I have a feeling and I hope you’ll be around when you’re 90 still beautiful doing your TH-cam ❤❤❤❤
I have a snowman very much like that one! I love the hapless smiles and postures of all snowperson creations. So simple, and I guess, in need of us. . .
I love you, Susan and that adorable little Desi. I feel so much empathy for you. And I can't wait to see what you put together for your house tour for Christmas. You have such great taste. Life goes on. Hugs to you and adorable Desi ❤
Taking a little anxiety medicine to help cope with aging and all the past losses is not a bad thing! Accept life, be positive and live it to the fullest. This video reminded me of the people in western NC who lost everything in that horrible flooding. Nice video. Thanks.
I'm turning 70 in a couple of weeks and that quote truly resonated. I've been struggling recently. I'm not going to lie, I had been spending a lot of time canvassing and neglecting everything else. I am weary and sad, but it's time to rest and recoup. And work on my home for the holidays. Thanks for the inspiring words. ❤
So glad to see you again. After losing my husband of 47 years last yr, I now look at possessions so differently. I care nothing about them like I used to. I have sold, donated, thrown out so many things... Things I would have never let go of before. They just don't hold meaning anymore. But I am glad you found Mr Snowman. He is special.
The Kindness of the gift of the quilt brought me to tears!... They made us all believe in HOPE for Good overcoming the evil that happens in our lives!... (We are so happy an earthly angel came forward with a little Happiness amongst all your sadness you experienced! God Bless them!).... Amen!
I think the angels were listening. They sent you that quilt. You are such a beautiful lady inside and out. I’m so sorry you lost all your collections I totally understand … I’m very sentimental about things I have from my Mom and Aunties who are with the Lord now. I wish you many blessings❤️
Oh Susan! You and that Snowman made me cry AGAIN! 😄💖 I love you both. Glad to see you smiling and on the other side of this bump in the road. Love you, too Desi, of course! 💖😄😘
I'm sitting here crying at 4:00 in the morning. I love the snowman and the story that goes with it. My Granddaughter has the same heart. She once had me buy her a little dog toy that was supposed to be robotic, but it didn't work. She wanted it because she said she knew no one else would save it. I'm glad everything is turning out ok after the flood and blessings to the person who sent you the quilt. Can't wait to see a Christmas home tour - I know it'll be great.
Thanks for your warm words! As we age, we sometimes become that snowman! You lifted him up and made in relevant again! Message: There are people out there that can lift you up when you’re feeling lost and alone! Keep the faith and hope in humanity! ❤
Hi Susan, I have followed you for the best part of four years, always looking forward to Sundays for your next video. Your wisdom and kind demeanor have meant so much to me over the years.
My dear deceased sister had a locker spaniel that only ran to her if she sung the song 'I feel pretty!!" Years ago she took him to the mall and he ran off!! She called his name to know avail until she re.embered his fav song!!! She went shop to shop singing " I feel pretty!!" She laughed as people stared at her like a nutcase. Finally hee dog heard her and ran to her happily. Lol
Susan, you have brightened my day by this video! I have missed you but know that you had so much to take care of. It’s wonderful to see you smile and know your life is back together from all you lost in the flood. You persevere so beautifully, I don’t know if I could handle it all as well as you have. I know you had your very hard times through all of this but you gave all of us who love you so much admiration for your strength. Thankfully, after all you went through it was not your responsibility to repair everything. Don’t you wonder why these things happen in our lives, what is God telling me? I do that every time I am hit with a difficult challenge. We lean to look beyond the difficult situation and somehow we do lean from these experiences. I am so happy about your Christmas quilt and your snowman. I think the quilt came from an angel who loves you! So happy to see you doing so much better, you inspire us all! Love to you and precious Desi! ❤
Hi Susan, I'm so sorry you had to go through this. We went through the "great flood of 2014" when a toilet broke open in the middle of the night and flooded the first floor and basement. Like you I learned a lot about the house and about myself. I learned about types of foundations because we have 2 types and I learned that this house is built like a tank. I learned about mold remediation. I also learned that I can manage work crews, negotiate contracts and have the ability to communicate exactly what I want and what I won't accept. I'm grateful for our insurance adjusters who were amazing. Unlike you, though, I had no emotional attachment to anything that was lost (especially the hideous tile in the kitchen, which I gleefully replaced w/ a more elegant tile that fits the design of the house). This is my mother's house so it was her things that were lost. Navigating her emotions was the hardest part, although she admitted when it was over that most of the stuff in the basement was "junk" and that it looked so much better when it was cleared out! Have a lovely week, my friend and hold onto all your desires - in the end, that's what defines us. I'm re-learning how to do that 😊
Hello Susan and Desi. This video made me cry. You touched my heart. Believe me we are all still loveable and sparkling. It's not age . We need to know we are still important. I'm 67, but not until a few years ago did I really know what it was to be cherished. When I lost all my family members and my husband I disposed of all my decorations and restarted with only my favourite colours and nature themes. I collect branches and adorn them artificial native birds and flowers. My tree follows the same theme.
You have a beautiful heart! Your story touched mine. We can expres our heart with our decorations...and I love it that you started over fresh...a new beginning..I will try to follow your lead, Love, Susan & Desi
So glad to see you and Desi back. Sometimes it’s really hard to get back on your feet when things just goes so incredibly wrong. The only way I’ve gotten through all of my losses is with prayer and prayer works because I wouldn’t have made it without
Santa Clause sent you that quilt, right? Or Santa's helper... It is the best feeling to be the recipient of such kindness.💕 Whoever sent it is an angel, for sure.
Thank you so much for this video ❤️You don’t know how much I needed this 🙏I’m 67 soon to be 68 and widowed and my only daughter is in the military far away 💙
So glad that you and Desi's home is restored. Love your choice of paint color. You give so much to all of us so I am not surprised someone is giving you something back, the person who sent the quilt must be a very kind and caring soul just like you. God is watching over you, I will continue to keep you in my prayers. Thank you for being you
You have had a rough month for sure. I am happy some of your stuff survived especially the snowman. My Mom would tell us a story about how snowmen never go away even when summer comes. They just adjust to the situation and may become dew or rain or even hail but they hang on with a smile because they know that one day they will once again be a snowman. She would tell us to never give up because like snowmen, life may have to adjust to the situation but if you hang on, life will be ok again. And dreams will never truly go away, you may just need to adjust for a bit. That is what ypu have done this past month with your basement being flooded. You adjusted and now you are back, just as you were before only this time, you have new memories and will make new ones with new Christmas Decor. Perhaps, this time, You will find a beat up used Christmas Elf that needs a home just like your Snowman. ⛄️ ❤
That little snowman served as t your shining lighthouse to bring you in from the anxiety of the flood.He got you focused on what is really important. Happy Holidays🎄🩷
Susan if we were neighbors, I know we would be best friends. You are such a lovely, warm and very special person. I cry through almost almost all your videos either because of pure joy or because the subject matter tuggs at my heart strings. ❤❤❤😊
So happy for you re-uniting with your Snowman. You have a beautiful heart, Susan. Continue on. that's what we all must do as "life happens." Keep making memories, no one and nothing can take those from you. Enjoy the coming Holidays!
Sea salt is what I have in my house. It’s my favorite. I’ve had it for nine years now and it still looks brand new and the color changes with the light in the room. It can be blue. It can be green. Hope you enjoy it as much as I do.
Susan and Desi. I missed you both last week. Glad everything is getting back to normal. I understand the love for the snowman. You thought when you first saw him no one would want him. You couldn't stand the idea no one would love him. Thank you for giving him a home. You and Desi have a great week.
Wow! That snowman is so resilient! He made it and so did you and Desi. Your home will now be better than ever. May you make wonderful memories there. The person who sent you the quilt was really such an angel! Enjoy and God Bless!
Susan, I have just discovered your channel and I've been binge watching your videos, in no particular order. You are an amazing woman and your content brings so much help to the women who are out there struggling. You are a best friend that checks in every week to see how we're doing. You are a true survivor, just like that snowman. We all have value and deserve love and compassion. You are human, I see your emotion and I see your strength, perseverance and determination to live your best life. You are an inspiration to us all. Like some magical elixir that lifts our spirits. May I say your house is gorgeous, you have an eye for creating the most serene, yet elegant home and all on a budget. I thank you for your persistence in your channel, and learning how to create inspirational and motivational content. I had to start to again too after leaving a narcissistic husband of 24 years. I had huge debt which is all now paid. I have a home and all being well will be paid for in 3 years time. I still work 5.5 days per week and I'm exhausted. I'm at the crossroads of thinking when do I stop working? When do I stop being the hamster on a wheel? My place of employment is treating me like a fossil. Put me out to pasture. I had planned retirement at age 66 which is roughly in 2 years time but I am thinking of bringing that forward a year. Being stressed and disrespected because of my age and perceived "value", isn't worth my life. I still want to be here on this earth with my family AND watching your videos with the very handsome Desi! Anyway Susan, I feel like you're a best friend to me. I'm watching from Adelaide, South Australia. Much love, Chrissy xxx
Susan I'm so happy your place is fixed..( In Everything give thanks.) even though we can't see it at the time. My husband watches with me sometimes, he thinks your lovable ha.. also feminine, beautiful smart and strong. i said i get it. ha! I just love watching you, I have been there from the beginning. What a wonderful thing for someone to do replacing your Christmas quilt , I love the one that,s on your bed now. Desi does too.he seems less stressed with his bear. that everything is back to normal. so funny about the snowman. Your such a Joy! G~xxx many blessings..
I'm so happy that you have picked up the pieces after the flood in your basement, was lovely to see your happy smiling face on your latest video, showing your strength and resilience. I cried along with you when you found your battered but beautiful snowman ⛄️ ❤️
Oh I love that snowman, he is perfection and I’m so happy he’s got a good home. He should have a name now, he deserves a name, a strong name. I enjoyed this video so much, nearly every week I cry, you are very special.
So happy to see you smiling again. The story is so poignant from the precious quilt to the snowman. Enjoy this holiday season as you venture out to find old/new items to grace your beautiful home! It will be great! Hugs all around!
Happy to see you in good spirits with your precious Desi! I have abandoned a few of my dreams. I grieved for awhile and then I pulled myself up and dreamed new dreams! I have never left my hearts desire…that still burns bright❤️
I started crying about Mr Snowman ⛄ My God, I am feeling so fragile now ♥️ I love you Susan and sweet, little Desi and your amazing community! ♥️ Thank you for being such a beautiful human being, thank you for every word, thought and emotion you shared with us! Greetings from Serbia 🇷🇸♥️
Hello my sweet froend from Serbia!!! I know I feel overwhelmed too at times..fragile..and then I feel so strong! I might even take up swearing! Much love to you and have a good new week...xxoo Susan & Dez
I’m glad things are shaping up for you. That blanket was a beautiful gift from someone so very thoughtful. For some reason I missed last weeks video. I was looking for it last week and it just showed up now. Anyway I’m happy to see your smiling face. ❤
Welcome back. This has been a week for me. I spent Thursday in 2 different ers. I was having terrible muscles spams and I was very dehydrated and extremely low potassium. I have been diagnosed with ms for 30 years. I can still walk. My veins didn't want to work and so I'm bruised terribly. The first er sent me home while I was still having spams. I have broken out with shingles for 4th time. And my finance Darryl had emergency pacemaker surgery 3 weeks ago. And I have to move. I have no energy. My hands are swelled and bruised. I'm very grateful for having someone who loves me so much. I Welcome all prayers. I need your support for sure. But on a happy note, I will be walking in a Christmas fashion show in a few weeks. I was supposed to walk a few weeks ago but came down with shingles 2nd time. Has anyone walked a fashion show?
Jesus I plead Your Most Holy and Precious Blood over @claudia and Darryl. Please put your healing hands on them. Please take any pain away and make them stronger everyday. Jesus we trust in You. ❤
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I can SO relate with the snowman! I've survived it all!!! I'm 77+ btw
You have no idea how much this video touched me. I'm 65 and just this morning I was looking in the mirror and feeling old and invisible. I've been married 44 years and though I am blessed to have a very good husband, he no longer looks at me the way he used to or say things like "You're beautiful." Our culture is so cruel to aging women. I do love where I'm at in life though. I've gained wisdom through years of experience that I can now pass on to my grandchildren. I'm much more patient and flexible and learning to choose humility rather than pride. I will admit though, that it has been difficult to let go of the vanity years. Thank you for sharing your joys and sorrows with us. The Snowman reminds me of the Velveteen Rabbit. 💜
Oh hello Sista!!! We feel so much the same feelings and it helps so much to know we are not alone...I remember the days where I could smile at a man and his face would get red....now he turns away...and that's ok! I am happy and grateful...bt at times, still adjusting!!! Much love to you!!! Sues PS: You are still beautiful and I bet hubby is more forgetful now to tell you so!
@@LittlePoetthat’s hard to believe a man would turn away when u smile ur are beautiful ❤God bless u
I hear you.. sometimes i think seeing our partner getting older reminds us we too are getting older..i feel it getting older but my inside is stronger than ever..we got this..❤
Be happy you still have him. Being old and a widow really makes you feel irrelevant.
Because now it’s no longer important or necessary to be told we are beautiful- what for/ I’d rather hear words like “ ur a great grandmother “ you’ve done good “ the compliments are different and welcome- look at things differently as evolving and u will see the beauty in aging and that many do not get to be this age :::: listen I was stunning a raving traffic stopper BUT as I aged I became invisible to men and guess what- I love it it’s freeing I’m no longer on Display , now they see me not my beauty. It’s fine/ I still take care of myself of course but I’m not expecting anyone to validate me! My Grandkids give me life and this too will evolve - it’s fine/ be thankful and beauty just oozes out of u❤
Ohhhhh, how sweet of whoever sent you that quilt. That kindness was a gift to all of us! ❤
You have said the words I was thinking too, what an angel on earth ❤️
your story about the poor snowman reminds me of when I went to the secondhand store and noticed a little statue of Jesus, he was plastic about 7 inches tall just lying there with old junk all around him. I looked at him and said to him, Jesus you don't belong here, I'm taking you home and you will be with me. When I brought him home, I washed him and found the perfect spot, I put him on my dresser facing me when I'm sleeping. But when I turned off the lights and went to bed I noticed that he was shining bright and looking at me. I don't know what material that is, but it reminds me that in the 60's or 70's they had plastic items that glowed in the dark. Now he stands proudly and watches over me every evening. It brings me comfort!
So Beautiful, and that’s from someone who not remotely religious.
😂 That's incredible ❤ Yes, I remember those from the 60s.
People who are weekly viewers of your clips are here coz you are real.
That was so kind of whomever sent you that quilt. Things like that restore one’s faith in humanity.
Thank you sweet darling friend!!!
So true
Could it have been Hal? I know you are such close friends😊
I think its Hal. ❤ Hal cares
I love Mr. Snowman, he is perfectly imperfect, just like most of us, a real survivor!
I shed a few tears when you found your snowman! I am a 79 year old man and I have a tiny,weatherbeaten chimpanzee from my childhood who goes from home to home with me. Love to you, Desi and the Snowman, James ❤❤❤
Oh thank you James for telling me this...much love to you! Susan
I am 67 and received a white cement cat from my mother when I was 12 years old. It's been with me always. It's a garden ornament but it has always been indoors. Cherish your little chimpanzee.
@suzettecooper382 thank you...I always will....the same for your cat.
I lost everything in a flood in 2016. My children’s memorabilia , my babies photos, everything. You will make new memories. God bless you. Flooding sucks!
I'm 69 and have lived alone since 2003, I learned I don't need a man to define who I am, I do get lonely at times but relish my freedom too much to let it bother me too much, my daughter's family lives 3000 miles away, I have friends, 3 sisters, and my 93 year old mother is still alive, 2 blocks away. You have to stay strong, believe in yourself, stay busy. I love my life, except missing my daughter and grandchildren, I wouldn't have it any other way. Yes, the mirror is a disappointment, but I rose above it. I look as good as I can at this stage, go on and live my life!
Desi is so precious, take care everything will be fine trust in the Lord he will provide.
THE LORD GAVE SOMEONE HER ADDRESS TO SEND HER THAT BEAUTIFUL BLANKET.. HE IS ALWAYS WITH US XO
May we be like Mr. Snowman. No matter how many imperfections we feel that we have, we'll shine beautifully and brightly through even the roughest times. ♥☃
YES!!! That was what I was trying to say but I didn't do it as well as you just did!!! I think that was the message for me...and maybe for some here?
Hi Susan & Desi:). I had 17 inches of water invade my home 09/28/22 from hurricane Ian and just again on I think 10/10/24 from hurricane Milton. I have lost track of the actual time because so much has been going on since this happened. I fell asleep from pure exhaustion at 3:00 am and woke at 5:30 am by a text from my son. I was sleeping on my couch because we had elevated my new bed from Ian -put my feet down on the floor forgetting my high rubber boots were there-just in case…Just barely recovering from Ian -I think I am still in a state of shock and disbelief BUT there was devastation just feet away from my backyard and side yard and a tremendous amount of high water lurking everywhere around me and I am still alive! I was also scheduled for oral surgery the day after the storm hit so of course that too was canceled. I say to myself thank the Lord that he heard my prayers🙏🙏. When I watched ur video I couldn’t believe you had such a terrible flooding and I know quite well ur feeling of losing precious items that just are irreplaceable. I’m sure many people know this loss and worse. Today my goal was to clear off my dining room table-Vintage Hitchcock furniture I had restored myself with LOTS of TLC after Ian -But one major thing I learned from you was calling Servpro. They have stated they will restore my home the way it should be only better. So I can certainly relate and feel the hurt but pray for Hope for a brighter future as I turn 73 this month:). It’s a blessing and PS my oral surgery was rescheduled and almost healed🙏. Love and hugs to all👍. Keep on going-God has a plan and whatever it is-I’m in the game 😊❤️🙏
@@juliefizpatrick513I am so sorry this all happend to you, sent you lot’s of Love with all my heart, greetings from the Netherlands ❤
@ Thank you for your kind message 😊💕🙏
I'm so sorry you lost so many treasures that you had collected over the years...May you find even better treasures on your hunt this week ...Love you lady and I know you will make everything so much more beautiful...Can't wait to see what you find at the thrift stores...🐾🐾🥰💜🐾🐾
Here's my "snowman" wanna be story. Years ago, when out one night, w a gal-pal, near Xmas, she swerved to avoid a small, dirty Santa 🎅 soft toy, just as I yelled from the passenger seat, "DON'T HIT SANTA."She pulled over and ran out into the road to get him. We laughed so hard. A few more years, a Rudolph was scooped up. She kept them and put them out at Xmas. ROAD KILL Santa & Rudy. 😂 My dear friend moved away a couple of years ago and I don't know if she still has them, but we'll always have the memory of two beat up, scuffy, tire marked "unwanted toys".❤
You don't have tire tracks on you Susan, but you are still loveable.
Delightful 🎉
Long live the Snowman!!!
So glad to see you...missed you
Ive come across things going thru memories, saves, things I wrote 20, 30 yrs ago...Things I couldnt wait for, things that were dreams and I just bawled..because...
Wonderful video,filled with hope as always ! Thank you as always 💗 So looking forward to your Christmas video! Love the Snowman and that you rescued him is very Special,he survived the flood Because he is a symbol of HOPE 💗🐶☃️xox
Welcome back Susan and Desi!! Missed you so much. That was so sweet of someone to send you that quilt. Such kindness is so precious. And that is one tough snowman. So glad he didn’t melt.
This video made me smile. Sometimes, I feel like the snowman nobody wants. Then, a weekend visit with my 7-year-old grandson reminds me I'm still wanted and needed.
I love your resilience! Oh, Little Poet, what a far cry from your first videos! You even look younger & more beautiful. That's the light you carry shining through. Hope, kindness & love. Thank you for spreading these gifts on your channel. It's why I keep watching! Love to you, Desi & all the lovely ladies here! 💜🌻🏡📸
Sweet Susan💖 you have been missed. Consequently, I’ve been praying for you and trusting that God was super taking care of you and Desi🙏🏽✝️💕
Awe Susan..I could've cried right along with you again but out of pure joy.
I celebrate with you the love and care someone put into sending you the quilt. There truly are good people in this world.
I am sending you loads of love and gentle hugs for all you have recently endured.❤
Good evening Susan. ❤. I have missed you and Desi. Welcome Back! ❤
I've been told, "they are just things.. "
But things make up our lives and we cherish them
I just love that the snowman survived!!
I’m so glad everything worked out and you got your house back in order. Watching you has helped me so much in my own challenges thanks for sharing your life with us.
Thank you for the kind words, I'm feeling hopeful for the future!
Thank you so much for sharing that was beautiful. This year is my first Christmas without my husband. He passed last year on December 28. I am approaching my decorations with nature, going into the yard on walks and picking up branches and berries and twigs and greenery. I’ll mix that in with some lights and some candles and I will enjoy a simple, beautiful Christmas although I will be alone and I miss him terribly. I do have family and friends that I will enjoy the holiday with.
Welcome Back! I have missed you and Desi❤
So glad you received that beautiful quilt, so sweet & kind whomever sent it to you! Enjoy!
Oh!!! Susan I'am so happy for you and Desi, that everything is back to normal, God bless you and Desi.
I’m so happy to see you back in your home and things getting back to normal. I missed seeing your videos. it will be fun going shopping with you again. Love you and Desi😊
I’ve missed you too!!!
Maybe Hal sent you the quilt 💕
This was beautiful, as are you, Susan, inside and out. Thank you for sharing your life and yourself so unabashedly. Know that you are an inspiration and loving friend to many! 💕
You are so sweet, thank you for your kind words!! 💖
What I didn’t add was that I too was a single mom all of their lives. We work together in a wonderful relationship. They were my world and now I have no living relatives just me and my pup.
You were missed! Thank goodness you are back with all things restored. I mean it, you are a breath of fresh air, Susan and Desi. ❤
How refreshing!!! You are a special Treasure. God bless you bunches.
God is so good! From being so devastated by all the things you lost, to having your house back better than it was before. God always works to make something good out of the bad. So happy for you!
I know...God is truly amazing!
You know I was just thinking today how irrelevant I feel!! It’s like I go out in public now and no matter how good I look and feel it’s like I get looked right through me. It makes me feel sad cause when I was younger I got a lot of attention. Not that I need that but I was just thinking as you get older you get looked at so differently and it’s just sad. But I’m lucky to have a husband of 37 years who still finds me drop dead gorgeous and says nothing has changed but I know better lol. But I can honestly say after so many years of depression this is the first holiday season that I am looking so forward too. I have 7 beautiful grandchildren youngest one 4 weeks old and I think how lucky I am. At the end of the day that’s all it’s about not the lines that’s starting on your face or your hair starting to thin it’s family and the way my little grandchildren love their grandma! My mother put so much emphasis on our looks and I struggle with aging because of it but my poor mom only lived to be 69 because of lung cancer. I am now 58 and sorry to say I still don’t think I’ll ever be comfortable with seeing changes to myself or seeing how I know longer get looked at as a babe lol but I do still get told how beautiful I am by my husband and those sweet little grandkids that say you’re the best grandma and you’re so pretty grandma as they are playing drums on grandma’s chubby belly lol. Susan you are my inspiration though because you seriously look more beautiful today than u did your very first video! And whoever got the quilt for you has to be such a wonderful person ❤. Like I’ve said you were one of the very first people I watched on TH-cam and I seriously feel lost when you’re not on the channel on Saturday and I’m always worried something has happened to you but I have a feeling and I hope you’ll be around when you’re 90 still beautiful doing your TH-cam ❤❤❤❤
I have a snowman very much like that one! I love the hapless smiles and postures of all snowperson creations. So simple, and I guess, in need of us. . .
They just want a hug, don't they? I love it!!
I love you, Susan and that adorable little Desi. I feel so much empathy for you. And I can't wait to see what you put together for your house tour for Christmas. You have such great taste. Life goes on. Hugs to you and adorable Desi ❤
You are so kind, I feel the love!
I am so delighted that someone replaced your quilt. ❤ Your videos always tug at my heart. ❤️ Hearing Desi sing at the end is so special. ❤️
Taking a little anxiety medicine to help cope with aging and all the past losses is not a bad thing! Accept life, be positive and live it to the fullest. This video reminded me of the people in western NC who lost everything in that horrible flooding. Nice video. Thanks.
I'm turning 70 in a couple of weeks and that quote truly resonated. I've been struggling recently. I'm not going to lie, I had been spending a lot of time canvassing and neglecting everything else. I am weary and sad, but it's time to rest and recoup. And work on my home for the holidays. Thanks for the inspiring words. ❤
So glad to see you again. After losing my husband of 47 years last yr, I now look at possessions so differently. I care nothing about them like I used to. I have sold, donated, thrown out so many things... Things I would have never let go of before. They just don't hold meaning anymore. But I am glad you found Mr Snowman. He is special.
So happy to you and Desi!
The Kindness of the gift of the quilt brought me to tears!... They made us all believe in HOPE for Good overcoming the evil that happens in our lives!... (We are so happy an earthly angel came forward with a little Happiness amongst all your sadness you experienced! God Bless them!).... Amen!
Life is back to normal now with you Susan and Desi on Saturday night. Things like our children's grade school ornaments are worth more than anything.
I think the angels were listening. They sent you that quilt. You are such a beautiful lady inside and out. I’m so sorry you lost all your collections I totally understand … I’m very sentimental about things I have from my Mom and Aunties who are with the Lord now. I wish you many blessings❤️
Oh Susan! You and that Snowman made me cry AGAIN! 😄💖 I love you both. Glad to see you smiling and on the other side of this bump in the road. Love you, too Desi, of course! 💖😄😘
That snowman is my hero!! Thank you for your sweet words....you lift my heart!
Ditto! 💗🌷💗
Oh Susan! You are so lovable! You and Desi lift my heart every time we get to share! Blessings on you both!
You are so right... You got this. The Lord never gives us more than we can handle. Plus HE is beside us along the way.
Oh my…the story of the snowman…I am sitting here laughing and crying…I can relate so so well…thank you, I needed this today 💕
I'm sitting here crying at 4:00 in the morning. I love the snowman and the story that goes with it. My Granddaughter has the same heart. She once had me buy her a little dog toy that was supposed to be robotic, but it didn't work. She wanted it because she said she knew no one else would save it. I'm glad everything is turning out ok after the flood and blessings to the person who sent you the quilt. Can't wait to see a Christmas home tour - I know it'll be great.
Thanks for your warm words! As we age, we sometimes become that snowman! You lifted him up and made in relevant again! Message: There are people out there that can lift you up when you’re feeling lost and alone! Keep the faith and hope in humanity! ❤
Ok I'm in tears now. Just a beautiful video and message! I'm glad your back. 💕
Hi Susan, I have followed you for the best part of four years, always looking forward to Sundays for your next video. Your wisdom and kind demeanor have meant so much to me over the years.
You are an angel to so many of us. You bring blessings beyond measure by simply sharing. I am sending love and prayers for you. Thank you.
That snowman is the biggest sign I've ever seen. Everything is going to be just fine, Susan.⛄♥
It felt like a huge sign....the one thing I owned that the inrnance company would say was worth nothing was precious gold to me!!!
My dear deceased sister had a locker spaniel that only ran to her if she sung the song 'I feel pretty!!" Years ago she took him to the mall and he ran off!! She called his name to know avail until she re.embered his fav song!!! She went shop to shop singing " I feel pretty!!" She laughed as people stared at her like a nutcase. Finally hee dog heard her and ran to her happily. Lol
Susan, you have brightened my day by this video! I have missed you but know that you had so much to take care of. It’s wonderful to see you smile and know your life is back together from all you lost in the flood. You persevere so beautifully, I don’t know if I could handle it all as well as you have. I know you had your very hard times through all of this but you gave all of us who love you so much admiration for your strength. Thankfully, after all you went through it was not your responsibility to repair everything. Don’t you wonder why these things happen in our lives, what is God telling me? I do that every time I am hit with a difficult challenge. We lean to look beyond the difficult situation and somehow we do lean from these experiences. I am so happy about your Christmas quilt and your snowman. I think the quilt came from an angel who loves you! So happy to see you doing so much better, you inspire us all! Love to you and precious Desi! ❤
Oh Linda your special caring makes me cry!!! I adore you beyond words!!!
I teared up with a mix of sadness and mostly joy as you shared your story. The snowman lives ❤
Hi Susan, I'm so sorry you had to go through this. We went through the "great flood of 2014" when a toilet broke open in the middle of the night and flooded the first floor and basement. Like you I learned a lot about the house and about myself. I learned about types of foundations because we have 2 types and I learned that this house is built like a tank. I learned about mold remediation. I also learned that I can manage work crews, negotiate contracts and have the ability to communicate exactly what I want and what I won't accept. I'm grateful for our insurance adjusters who were amazing. Unlike you, though, I had no emotional attachment to anything that was lost (especially the hideous tile in the kitchen, which I gleefully replaced w/ a more elegant tile that fits the design of the house). This is my mother's house so it was her things that were lost. Navigating her emotions was the hardest part, although she admitted when it was over that most of the stuff in the basement was "junk" and that it looked so much better when it was cleared out! Have a lovely week, my friend and hold onto all your desires - in the end, that's what defines us. I'm re-learning how to do that 😊
Oh my beautiful friend...we really need to talk about how we carry on....love you...
@@LittlePoet love you, too girlfriend
I love the little snowman. He lives on, just like all of us!
Hello Susan and Desi. This video made me cry. You touched my heart. Believe me we are all still loveable and sparkling.
It's not age . We need to know we are still important. I'm 67, but not until a few years ago did I really know what it was to be cherished.
When I lost all my family members and my husband I disposed of all my decorations and restarted with only my favourite colours and nature themes. I collect branches and adorn them artificial native birds and flowers. My tree follows the same theme.
You have a beautiful heart! Your story touched mine. We can expres our heart with our decorations...and I love it that you started over fresh...a new beginning..I will try to follow your lead, Love, Susan & Desi
Welcome back! We missed you both terribly🌹 love you both lots..hugs from Carol in Canada🥂🍾🎉😊❤️
So glad to hear from you and that you are ok. Was checking every Saturday.❤
Items that are sentimental are important to your memories but you always carry the real memories deep in your heart.😊
You've been missed, Sue! I'm so glad you're on the other side of the flooding and life is returning to some sense of normalcy for you.
Hello sweet friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So glad to see you and Desi back. Sometimes it’s really hard to get back on your feet when things just goes so incredibly wrong. The only way I’ve gotten through all of my losses is with prayer and prayer works because I wouldn’t have made it without
Santa Clause sent you that quilt, right? Or Santa's helper...
It is the best feeling to be the recipient of such kindness.💕
Whoever sent it is an angel, for sure.
Thank you so much for this video ❤️You don’t know how much I needed this 🙏I’m 67 soon to be 68 and widowed and my only daughter is in the military far away 💙
Love you so much, Susan. May God continue to bless you, Desi and Mr Snowman!
So glad that you and Desi's home is restored. Love your choice of paint color. You give so much to all of us so I am not surprised someone is giving you something back, the person who sent the quilt must be a very kind and caring soul just like you. God is watching over you, I will continue to keep you in my prayers. Thank you for being you
You will not be disappointed in Rainwashed, it is a beautiful color. We had our primary bedroom in this color and it was great!
Little Poet, You are the first live person i followed on u-tube love your honesty and i missed you.
Thank you for your support and love! I've missed you too!
You have had a rough month for sure. I am happy some of your stuff survived especially the snowman.
My Mom would tell us a story about how snowmen never go away even when summer comes. They just adjust to the situation and may become dew or rain or even hail but they hang on with a smile because they know that one day they will once again be a snowman. She would tell us to never give up because like snowmen, life may have to adjust to the situation but if you hang on, life will be ok again. And dreams will never truly go away, you may just need to adjust for a bit.
That is what ypu have done this past month with your basement being flooded. You adjusted and now you are back, just as you were before only this time, you have new memories and will make new ones with new Christmas Decor. Perhaps, this time, You will find a beat up used Christmas Elf that needs a home just like your Snowman. ⛄️ ❤
Christmas Quilt 🎄= Earth Angel's. ❤
Thank goodness all is well 🙏
and Mr Snow Man is still around. 😂😂❤
I missed you so much last week. So happy to see you today! God bless you Susan.
That little snowman served as t your shining lighthouse to bring you in from the anxiety of the flood.He got you focused on what is really important. Happy Holidays🎄🩷
You know, sometimes it's the little things... like a snowman... that can help us through the hard times. Thank you Connie for being here!
I’m so glad to see you and Desi! Ya’ll were missed!You have no idea how much you and this beautiful community have impacted my life for the better!💜
My little dog and I watch your videos every week. Glad you're back! ❤❤
Love seeing you weekly, Susan. It's like reconnecting with a friend. Your joyous perspective on life is inspirational.
God bless you and Desi!
You singing and Desi joining in gives me the most joy. I love your channel. Thank you...
Susan if we were neighbors, I know we would be best friends. You are such a lovely, warm and very special person. I cry through almost almost all your videos either because of pure joy or because the subject matter tuggs at my heart strings. ❤❤❤😊
Rain washed is a Perfect Color. 😊❤
So happy for you re-uniting with your Snowman. You have a beautiful heart, Susan. Continue on. that's what we all must do as "life happens." Keep making memories, no one and nothing can take those from you. Enjoy the coming Holidays!
So happy for you that you are getting settled in. Good for the snowman! He's a cutie!
The snowman touched your heart and your kindness touches ours.♥️
Sea salt is what I have in my house. It’s my favorite. I’ve had it for nine years now and it still looks brand new and the color changes with the light in the room. It can be blue. It can be green. Hope you enjoy it as much as I do.
Susan and Desi. I missed you both last week. Glad everything is getting back to normal. I understand the love for the snowman. You thought when you first saw him no one would want him. You couldn't stand the idea no one would love him. Thank you for giving him a home. You and Desi have a great week.
Wow! That snowman is so resilient! He made it and so did you and Desi. Your home will now be better than ever. May you make wonderful memories there. The person who sent you the quilt was really such an angel! Enjoy and God Bless!
Soooo happy to see you and DESI!!!! Missed you!!!🎉😊😊❤❤❤
Susan, I have just discovered your channel and I've been binge watching your videos, in no particular order. You are an amazing woman and your content brings so much help to the women who are out there struggling. You are a best friend that checks in every week to see how we're doing. You are a true survivor, just like that snowman. We all have value and deserve love and compassion. You are human, I see your emotion and I see your strength, perseverance and determination to live your best life. You are an inspiration to us all. Like some magical elixir that lifts our spirits. May I say your house is gorgeous, you have an eye for creating the most serene, yet elegant home and all on a budget. I thank you for your persistence in your channel, and learning how to create inspirational and motivational content. I had to start to again too after leaving a narcissistic husband of 24 years. I had huge debt which is all now paid. I have a home and all being well will be paid for in 3 years time. I still work 5.5 days per week and I'm exhausted. I'm at the crossroads of thinking when do I stop working? When do I stop being the hamster on a wheel? My place of employment is treating me like a fossil. Put me out to pasture. I had planned retirement at age 66 which is roughly in 2 years time but I am thinking of bringing that forward a year. Being stressed and disrespected because of my age and perceived "value", isn't worth my life. I still want to be here on this earth with my family AND watching your videos with the very handsome Desi!
Anyway Susan, I feel like you're a best friend to me. I'm watching from Adelaide, South Australia. Much love, Chrissy xxx
Susan I'm so happy your place is fixed..( In Everything give thanks.) even though we can't see it at the time. My husband watches with me sometimes, he thinks your lovable ha.. also feminine, beautiful smart and strong.
i said i get it. ha! I just love watching you, I have been there from the beginning. What a wonderful thing for someone to do replacing your Christmas quilt , I love the one that,s on your bed now. Desi does too.he seems less stressed with his bear. that everything is back to normal. so funny about the snowman.
Your such a Joy! G~xxx many blessings..
Thank you Desi. You were right on key!!!
I'm so happy that you have picked up the pieces after the flood in your basement, was lovely to see your happy smiling face on your latest video, showing your strength and resilience. I cried along with you when you found your battered but beautiful snowman ⛄️ ❤️
Oh I love that snowman, he is perfection and I’m so happy he’s got a good home. He should have a name now, he deserves a name, a strong name. I enjoyed this video so much, nearly every week I cry, you are very special.
So happy to see you smiling again. The story is so poignant from the precious quilt to the snowman. Enjoy this holiday season as you venture out to find old/new items to grace your beautiful home! It will be great! Hugs all around!
Thank you so much for all the love...it means the world to me! I'm feeling hopeful for the holidays!
Happy to see you in good spirits with your precious Desi! I have abandoned a few of my dreams. I grieved for awhile and then I pulled myself up and dreamed new dreams! I have never left my hearts desire…that still burns bright❤️
Kindest video:)! The story about the snowman...Just so precious:)! God Bless you and Desi...
thank you so much for understanding! Much Love always, Susan & Desi
Have you ever thought about , writing a childrens’ song? 🎧 for the holidays? you have a nice voice my friend
I started crying about Mr Snowman ⛄ My God, I am feeling so fragile now ♥️ I love you Susan and sweet, little Desi and your amazing community! ♥️ Thank you for being such a beautiful human being, thank you for every word, thought and emotion you shared with us! Greetings from Serbia 🇷🇸♥️
Hello my sweet froend from Serbia!!! I know I feel overwhelmed too at times..fragile..and then I feel so strong! I might even take up swearing! Much love to you and have a good new week...xxoo Susan & Dez
@LittlePoet 🌹♥️
I’m glad things are shaping up for you. That blanket was a beautiful gift from someone so very thoughtful. For some reason I missed last weeks video. I was looking for it last week and it just showed up now. Anyway I’m happy to see your smiling face. ❤
Yes Susan! You are still lovable! 😊
Welcome back. This has been a week for me. I spent Thursday in 2 different ers. I was having terrible muscles spams and I was very dehydrated and extremely low potassium. I have been diagnosed with ms for 30 years. I can still walk. My veins didn't want to work and so I'm bruised terribly. The first er sent me home while I was still having spams. I have broken out with shingles for 4th time. And my finance Darryl had emergency pacemaker surgery 3 weeks ago. And I have to move. I have no energy. My hands are swelled and bruised. I'm very grateful for having someone who loves me so much. I Welcome all prayers. I need your support for sure. But on a happy note, I will be walking in a Christmas fashion show in a few weeks. I was supposed to walk a few weeks ago but came down with shingles 2nd time. Has anyone walked a fashion show?
Oh I am so sorry you are going through this!!!! Are you ok ?
Jesus I plead Your Most Holy and Precious Blood over @claudia and Darryl. Please put your healing hands on them. Please take any pain away and make them stronger everyday. Jesus we trust in You. ❤
The little snowman that could⛄you are such a good story teller. Thanks for sharing💕