I have walked away from toxic people. I have never used anyone for anything. Genuine relationships mean trust and I would rather have somebody trust me then do them wrong and it’s not right.
Forgiveness does not mean reconciliation,if they did commit to changing their poor behavior. Conitnually grow,educate yourself,,heal and demand your respect by blocking them and let go and let God! Karma is patient gangster b*tch!
You can still forgive them. Don't have to hang with them. And you do t have to throw shade on them. Just forget it for your sske. Unless they change for the better, (time will tell)don't allow them accuse you of not forgiving them. If it's family love them outside of your home. Meet with them in their home where you may leave if things go south. Keeps negativity out of your home. Forgiveness is for you. NOT them.
Forgiveness is more for you and not the one who hurt you or did you wrong. Holding grudges and unforgiveness only hurts and holds you back. Ask God to help you move forward with wisdom. Set healthy boundaries 🙏🏾
We are waking up to all the trauma we have endured. We are seeing how messed up this world is including some of the people and many of us including myself are craving deep connections with genuine people. We want more than superficial people around. I rather be alone than surround myself with people I can sense are just around me because I’m convenient for them. Unfortunately, this world has produced more takers than givers.
It's hard and it takes a lot of practice. I have been in training with Trent for three years now. The most important lesson he taught me when it came to protecting my peace... No Response Is a Response. That silence can be deafening and it works! I've mastered that part of Trent's programs. I protect my peace using this tool 75% of the time.
I am super introverted at work. I sit back and listen and see everything that most people don’t. People always always always reveal their true character.
Forgiveness starts with self and forgiveness of others allows you to let go and move on with or without them. Victimology is holding on and letting people to leave your life without checking self first!
This depends on motives and intentions, not everyone remain in low vibrations, we all change including you. Therefore it’s about searching for evidence in silence! My partner and I ended, he did a lot of growth and so did I. We are in a much better place and we are thriving in couples therapy. Trent you changed over time, so can others!
Great video! Thank you for sharing! So called ''friends'' were doing me wrong. They are very Insecure and would act Jealous and Envious of me. They turned out to be narcissist. Cut them off and never looked back.
Building myself back up right now... gullible, naive, too kind...people aren't always who or what they present themselves to be. I'm breaking out of the mindset that people in general are genuinely good, like God good, from the core, from the heart 🤦🏾♀️...I've learned by stab wounds that people can be such monsters...and it's totally a choice. Ones actions, behaviors, and patterns can speak much louder than anything that comes from the mouths...though the Bible reads that words spoken are from the heart. 🤷🏾♀️ Learning as I grow. Everybody ain't for me, and I ain't for everybody...I guess that's just the way the cookie crumbles. My team has consisted of me and the girl in the mirror since I was like 7🤷🏾♀️😔 I've learned to be good with that 🥰
We can forgive but we don’t have to forget. We move on.. and we learn from that experience. Forgiveness is for us. I forgive for me. If I hold a grudge, it’s going to affect my entire life & make me miserable !! I can find a healthy new path or way to move on & grow.. in that new soil. We can all find good relationships, & we can still be kind, but we won’t let ourselves be used, abused or stepped on. Learn to say “no” and walk away! That’s my lesson.. saying “no” and meaning it! Never ever say “yes” when you mean “no”!!!
U helped me since forever * I have a Best Friend Phili & Abigail * & of course I have my son Michael & my puppy 🐶 & my furry Grandkids **it’s so true ** I only have my son, My puppies 🐶 * & my Best Friend Phili *** We support each each other ** I’m happy to just have my few love ones ** & I have you * Trent Shelton ** we’re about to go for a walk on the Great Highway in SF!! Thank you Trent
I'm someone that needs to hear your words. It's amazing how people change in a bad way, when a person is dealing with long term illness. Illness is almost over. Life certainly isn't the same. Those who watch from above, have given me a 2nd chance at life, by the grace of God. I'm looking to start again with eyes wide open.
I love me and ppl don't want me to do that bc they hate theirs. I'm sorry but that problem won't be dumped on me. God gave me my precious life and I love it. The haters getting on my nerves but God says count it all joy❤
It very hard for me as well I have spent 43 yrs used and I kept forgiving them and let them. Multiple times until listening to your pod cast and studying the word and praying I set up boundaries and I tell you what they don’t have the same love and it hurts friends and family lost 😢
Your Mother was Right may she Rest Easy. I have very Good Judge 🧑⚖️ of Character. I can meet someone today and Trust me I could see Right through em with my eyes 👁️ Close ❤
Oh this hit me hard. I wanted to believe they were real too. They promised to take care of me but they took instead of gave after they gained access into my life. ❤❤❤
Good morning! Trent, I just wanted to say thx a million for the knowledge that you pass on. I hear you speak words that your mother stoned into you. That alone is a legacy. ❤😊❤😊
I've pushed the button way too many times because I have always been a person of optimism for everyone. But this time I pushed it too much.And it took me to the point where God said I will take the blessing I promised you and give it to someone else
This has hit me really hard.. and it’s so true!! So much more strength in loyalty over numbers.. (I was kinda being silly thinking Survivor last night) … but yes it’s true. Loyalty is huge!! ❤ I feel so many people have not been loyal to me that I have been loyal to.
Wow this is the truth cause I've been there so I've move on protecting my peace thank God feel more at ease Thank you my friend and mentor strong words but facts Amen 🙏❤️🙏❤️ God bless you
God bless you Trent I understand you totally. And I too have great decrement. God has always blessed me, and I Am so thankful. Thanks for the reminder of your words of wisdom for such a time as this. May you and the family continue to have a blessed and loving day that's filled with an Abundance of unconditional love joy peace and laughter in the Miraculous Healing Loving Forgiving Powerful Peaceful Protecting and on time name of Jesus. Always Love Rev Almeta Bowman 🙏🏿❤️
I have no animosity because I know in my heart 💜❤️ that I have learned to not give up on people. They built the walls this time.And that part is a very good plus for me this time because I used to be the one that caused the the wall to be built
I have walked away from toxic people. I have never used anyone for anything. Genuine relationships mean trust and I would rather have somebody trust me then do them wrong and it’s not right.
People who want to see you win will help you win. Remember that. ❤
The more times you forgive= The less respect you will get
Yikes 😬 that's real!
That's a fact 💯
Forgiveness does not mean reconciliation,if they did commit to changing their poor behavior. Conitnually grow,educate yourself,,heal and demand your respect by blocking them and let go and let God! Karma is patient gangster b*tch!
You can still forgive them. Don't have to hang with them. And you do t have to throw shade on them. Just forget it for your sske. Unless they change for the better, (time will tell)don't allow them accuse you of not forgiving them. If it's family love them outside of your home. Meet with them in their home where you may leave if things go south. Keeps negativity out of your home. Forgiveness is for you. NOT them.
Forgiveness is more for you and not the one who hurt you or did you wrong. Holding grudges and unforgiveness only hurts and holds you back. Ask God to help you move forward with wisdom. Set healthy boundaries 🙏🏾
We are waking up to all the trauma we have endured. We are seeing how messed up this world is including some of the people and many of us including myself are craving deep connections with genuine people. We want more than superficial people around. I rather be alone than surround myself with people I can sense are just around me because I’m convenient for them. Unfortunately, this world has produced more takers than givers.
OK now I understand. They hate their life and they're jealous so they wanna mess up my life.
It's hard for me to not give someone a second chance. Every time I have, I've been burned and wish I'd trusted my gut instincts from the start
It's hard and it takes a lot of practice. I have been in training with Trent for three years now. The most important lesson he taught me when it came to protecting my peace... No Response Is a Response. That silence can be deafening and it works! I've mastered that part of Trent's programs. I protect my peace using this tool 75% of the time.
I am super introverted at work. I sit back and listen and see everything that most people don’t. People always always always reveal their true character.
My mother used to say misery loves company.
Just trying to find my peace back
STRAIGHT UP TRUTH 💯💯🥰🥰😇😇🙌🙌✌️✌️✌️✌️
Forgiveness starts with self and forgiveness of others allows you to let go and move on with or without them. Victimology is holding on and letting people to leave your life without checking self first!
SO TRUE TREN. WHEN I CHOOSE ME. THIS PERSON START ACCCUSING ME WHY HE WAS STRUGGLING.
My mother used to say if you gonna do some for someone don't talk about it.And do it out of the kindness of your heart. Amen
This is so true. What do we do when it's a sibling. ?? Other people I don't care about. The sibling stuff is what gets to me.
This depends on motives and intentions, not everyone remain in low vibrations, we all change including you. Therefore it’s about searching for evidence in silence! My partner and I ended, he did a lot of growth and so did I. We are in a much better place and we are thriving in couples therapy. Trent you changed over time, so can others!
Playing this on repeat all day every day! ❤❤❤❤❤
Very true!!!!😮😮😮 Some people are witches..warlocks and wizards so be careful of witchcraft too!!!!!😮😮😮😮❤😮😮😮
I don't have any body helping me or on my side
Bless your heart I been there
Some of these people are just clouds on my sunny day.
God's using you
You made me cry. Thanks, I needed this Trent
Yes!!!!! I’m learning this!!!! 💯💯
Great video! Thank you for sharing! So called ''friends'' were doing me wrong. They are very Insecure and would act Jealous and Envious of me. They turned out to be narcissist. Cut them off and never looked back.
When people see you as an opportunity, they will act like their on your side, but really, they're in it for themselves only.
Yes ma'am
MOST PEOPLE'S LIVES GET RUINED BY NARCISSISTS
You help me sooooooooooooo much. Blessings for Family
Have a wonderful blessed day everyone
When thy don’t take u as an opportunity, thy don’t even say hello to you like ur a nobody.
Building myself back up right now... gullible, naive, too kind...people aren't always who or what they present themselves to be. I'm breaking out of the mindset that people in general are genuinely good, like God good, from the core, from the heart 🤦🏾♀️...I've learned by stab wounds that people can be such monsters...and it's totally a choice. Ones actions, behaviors, and patterns can speak much louder than anything that comes from the mouths...though the Bible reads that words spoken are from the heart. 🤷🏾♀️
Learning as I grow. Everybody ain't for me, and I ain't for everybody...I guess that's just the way the cookie crumbles. My team has consisted of me and the girl in the mirror since I was like 7🤷🏾♀️😔 I've learned to be good with that 🥰
Motivation
That's exactly what happened in my life right at this moment
I have one person in my life that fits that description.
And it almost destroyed my happiness and I thank God and you to give me that split second to snap and take my peace back
Great Video Bro so much truth! Very refreshing
Thank You 🥰
Thank you for this! I had to remove so called ''friends'' out of my life that turned out to be narcissist.
Dropping a ❤ cuz I'm guilty of letting some in who have ruined my life
Don’t wish you didn’t have discernment people just aren’t walking right be glad you are
Protecting my peace
We can forgive but we don’t have to forget. We move on.. and we learn from that experience.
Forgiveness is for us. I forgive for me. If I hold a grudge, it’s going to affect my entire life & make me miserable !!
I can find a healthy new path or way to move on & grow.. in that new soil. We can all find good relationships, & we can still be kind, but we won’t let ourselves be used, abused or stepped on. Learn to say “no” and walk away!
That’s my lesson.. saying “no” and meaning it! Never ever say “yes” when you mean “no”!!!
You are telling it like it is!!! REAL TALK!!! We must have discernment!!! Wise advice!!! Thank you so much for this message!!!🙏🙌❤️
My ex wants to mess up my life so bad, but I set my boundaries, no more, I've had enough, I'm protecting my peace.
U helped me since forever * I have a Best Friend Phili & Abigail * & of course I have my son Michael & my puppy 🐶 & my furry Grandkids **it’s so true ** I only have my son, My puppies 🐶 * & my Best Friend Phili *** We support each each other ** I’m happy to just have my few love ones ** & I have you * Trent Shelton ** we’re about to go for a walk on the Great Highway in SF!! Thank you Trent
I just love you!@❤😊
I'm someone that needs to hear your words. It's amazing how people change in a bad way, when a person is dealing with long term illness. Illness is almost over. Life certainly isn't the same. Those who watch from above, have given me a 2nd chance at life, by the grace of God. I'm looking to start again with eyes wide open.
I love me and ppl don't want me to do that bc they hate theirs. I'm sorry but that problem won't be dumped on me. God gave me my precious life and I love it. The haters getting on my nerves but God says count it all joy❤
Thank you so much for posting this. You never know who you’re helping and how deep it is.
Thank you for saying what you said. Open app my eyes but I gotta do what I gotta do even though I don't want to.
Let's see how it is.
It very hard for me as well I have spent 43 yrs used and I kept forgiving them and let them. Multiple times until listening to your pod cast and studying the word and praying I set up boundaries and I tell you what they don’t have the same love and it hurts friends and family lost 😢
Your Mother was Right may she Rest Easy. I have very Good Judge 🧑⚖️ of Character. I can meet someone today and Trust me I could see Right through em with my eyes 👁️ Close ❤
Oh this hit me hard. I wanted to believe they were real too. They promised to take care of me but they took instead of gave after they gained access into my life. ❤❤❤
Thank you for being here tonight, Trent!!
Yes Thank You
I've got no room at this point to even have room for anyone else right now and that's being 💯💯
I have discernment, my guard, always up.
I'm at the point where if you aren't for me you are against me
💜
Thank You
Good morning! Trent, I just wanted to say thx a million for the knowledge that you pass on. I hear you speak words that your mother stoned into you. That alone is a legacy. ❤😊❤😊
So true all your saying I really needed to hear this can’t wait till your audiobook protect your peace comes out
Amen I am just thankful that He still loves me
That’s facts I used to be a cheer mom
God Bless You Always Trent Shelton🙏🙏🙏 You Are Awesome, Keep Doing What Your Doing🥰
Hello coach lovely to see you again
I have that gift too but sometime you make a mistake...❤
And now I have to get back to the morals values and goals that were embedded in my heart ❤️❤️ as a child
Nice to have something nice to look on while eating breakfast bro🎉
Hey Trent I hope you are doing well.
Amen thank God for all he does for us all Amen.
Thank God for discernment and the class. I appreciate you !!!!
Hey Trent, i appreciate you sharing that message!
Your doing amazing job
Absolutely 💯 Amen 👏 💯 🙏 🙌 ❤️
I've pushed the button way too many times because I have always been a person of optimism for everyone. But this time I pushed it too much.And it took me to the point where God said I will take the blessing I promised you and give it to someone else
Ok cool thank you I got it now brother Trent I appreciate you
Love you loads your such a amazing kind coach
I’m so blessed to come on today and hear this word Thank you Abba that you are a marvelous God there nothing like you
This has hit me really hard.. and it’s so true!! So much more strength in loyalty over numbers..
(I was kinda being silly thinking Survivor last night) … but yes it’s true.
Loyalty is huge!! ❤
I feel so many people have not been loyal to me that I have been loyal to.
What people make you feel good in life? I hope i can find those people two❤
I needed this....Thank you ❤
Yesss You Speak The Truth
Me & My Kids Going Through This With Ppl
Lord We Need You Now
True
Wow this is the truth cause I've been there so I've move on protecting my peace thank God feel more at ease Thank you my friend and mentor strong words but facts Amen 🙏❤️🙏❤️ God bless you
Im the same way you are. we have to be there for each other with no conditions on LOVE
I love your inspiration. Thank you for everything you do
And I have to start taking better care of myself so I can give the world 🌎 my best
Speaking truth and fact some people won't understand this part 💯
❤️ Ruined currently
🔥 Trent!
You are so right
Brother please keep me in your prayers because I know without any doubt in my being that I have no room for era
Exactly, no doubt! 👌🏽✌🏽
God bless you Trent I understand you totally. And I too have great decrement. God has always blessed me, and I Am so thankful. Thanks for the reminder of your words of wisdom for such a time as this. May you and the family continue to have a blessed and loving day that's filled with an Abundance of unconditional love joy peace and laughter in the Miraculous Healing Loving Forgiving Powerful Peaceful Protecting and on time name of Jesus.
Always Love Rev Almeta Bowman 🙏🏿❤️
I really needed to hear this
I've had to learn this the hard way and I will be a much better person to get to get off the canvas and fight through it
Yep straight up! 🧡
Love your videos Trent Shelton ❤❤
You are on 🔥 💜
Ty!! 💜❤️💜
I have no animosity because I know in my heart 💜❤️ that I have learned to not give up on people. They built the walls this time.And that part is a very good plus for me this time because I used to be the one that caused the the wall to be built
I had to leave my parent in my past that tried to blow up my life and succeeded it's breaking my heart
My saying is believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see ..