Tips for Finding Button-ups for a Bigger Chest (masculine style)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ค. 2024
  • This video is to help people of masculine center with bigger boobs to find button-ups that fit the way you like. More tips to come, and please keep in mind this is what I'm thinking of when shopping for button-ups. There's a chance it will not work for you, but keep shopping around to find the clothes you LOVE.
    ~Places I've Bought Button-Ups~
    Banana Republic
    Wildfang
    Old Navy
    J Crew
    Uniqlo (fave)
    ~Other resources~
    3 Tips for Mastering Button-Down Shirts When You’re Busty:
    bit.ly/3eATr2X
    Androgynous Button-ups for Masculine People:
    kirrinfinch.com/collections/a...
    www.peaudeloup.com/
    Video edited by @soundlyawake on IG
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    BRA SIZE: 34DD
    DRESS SIZE: 6 -8
    MEN'S SIZE (pants): 30 - 32
    MADEYOULOOKS is a platform, ran by Jade Fox, for masculine-presenting women to explore fashion and style. New videos every Wednesday, and sometimes MONDAY.

ความคิดเห็น • 105

  • @iamchannellingjoy
    @iamchannellingjoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    The hips be telling the truth and nothing but the truth 😄

  • @domy6827
    @domy6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    actually, the best masculine looking shirt I've ever had was from a shop that tailored exclusively to large busted women
    I could wear a shirt that accommodated my breasts without everything else being disproportionate (like the collar, or shoulders, etc.)

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      was it a local store? im trynna see something 👀

  • @Slicedpineappple
    @Slicedpineappple 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I find it reaaally tricky being 5ft1, hourglass shape with a large chest and equal hips BUT ALSO a tummy. I try to go for more androgynous/masc tops but no matter what the chest is so painfully noticeable.

  • @iriskaiden
    @iriskaiden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    super high femme here just enjoying the content 🥰

  • @aVAness
    @aVAness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Here is a comment for the algorithm.

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      appreciate you

    • @aVAness
      @aVAness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@madeyoulooks no u 😊

  • @Simply_Me.
    @Simply_Me. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    See I binge watched this channel even tho I don’t have these issues like that
    ITS THE OUTFITS FOR MEE !!

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      you'll be happy with what i got coming next week =)

    • @Simply_Me.
      @Simply_Me. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@madeyoulooks My good sis said CONSISTENT !!

  • @domy6827
    @domy6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    also the darts thing, I actually stay away from garments that don't have them because I would have to go up lots of sizes not to have the weird stretching about to pop out of the buttons look, which I think draws more attention to the breasts.
    in clothes with the darts, I only have to size up one or two sizes to fit without looking like I'm about to bust out

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      damn, bodies are so unique. might try them to see if i see any changes from the last time i tried them.

  • @rittj.1303
    @rittj.1303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    If you have a big bust and button ups tend to gap and strain between buttons on the chest (even when the rest of the short fits great), look for button-ups with hidden buttons that face the opposite direction. You may have to look in places that specialize in big-busted fashion. I got one from the Lane Bryant brand that has these, and I never worry about gaps when I wear it! If you have a sewing machine and a little know-how, you can even add these buttons yourself!

    • @DG-ze5yd
      @DG-ze5yd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      omg, I never thought to add a button to the opposite side! Thank you, I've turned down so many tops I liked cuz of the boob gap T.T

    • @SabrinasDigitalLife
      @SabrinasDigitalLife 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dannnng I forgot about Lane Bryant! They still open?! 🤣

  • @kennap445
    @kennap445 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If you are getting a gap when the shirt is all the way buttoned up, just adding an extra button (I do it on the inside) fixes it and makes the shirt look a lot cleaner.

  • @boohooang296
    @boohooang296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I am masc presenting and 4'11 so I've been shopping in the "boys" section but only for tops because hips lol

    • @Dreamer7est
      @Dreamer7est 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg finally someone to relate with! 😂

    • @danielleancira6762
      @danielleancira6762 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m 5’02. I get my box flannels from forever 21 when they go on clearance. The ones with the hoody’s that detach. I have broad shoulders and bigger deceits than the average woman who buys those shirts so I size up to an XL. I do have hips but the shirts stop right at the widest point in my hips so they give a smaller hip illusion. As for pants, I buy the tech chinos from target and get them tapered after the knee. I don’t wear casual clothes due to work during the week so I’m usually in chinos or sweat pants.

  • @nybergr2
    @nybergr2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Been tryin so hard to not go straight for the men's section. I have some relief that it is still allowed 😂 thanks for the tips!

  • @ukkugoodasfidem
    @ukkugoodasfidem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I’m looking 👀. Jade is so fine.

  • @kimelbert3347
    @kimelbert3347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm femme and team Tiny Chest but I watched this whole video because Jade is the fave and this was actually pretty interesting

  • @Bella-kk4go
    @Bella-kk4go 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i dress pretty femme but wanna start diving into masc looks a lil bit so i’m taking notes🧚

  • @DG-ze5yd
    @DG-ze5yd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Thank you, this is exactly the kind of hand-holding I need right now for some gender-affirming style! I've lived in thrifted lesbian staples forever but want to invest in retail pieces with all the intent of a lesbian with good taste

  • @beeb6730
    @beeb6730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Super useful tips. I have broad shoulders (manual wheelchair user so I've got a lot of arms) and finding things to fit properly is always a struggle. I used to just go fairly girly but in wanting to try out more masc styling and very much appreciate your helpful videos.

  • @giuliazanini2181
    @giuliazanini2181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the yt channel I've been searching my whole life, so hard to navigate fashion when you're a masculine girl with a big chest, and in my case I am also really small so it's hard to find things that fit in the man's section, but I tend to not like thing in the woman's section

  • @owlislike
    @owlislike 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am a 36C with wide shoulders and long arms. I have found that knowing what your actual measurements ( like with a tailors measuring tape) are really helps with online shopping for button ups, especially if you are doing the ebay/ poshmark route. EX: My actual bust measurement is 37" so if I see the measurements for a button up are 37 or below in the chest, I am moving on. There are a bazillion videos on TH-cam on how to take the measurements correctly and I highly recommend it.

  • @sweetcarahmel
    @sweetcarahmel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm coming back to watch again to take notes. I wanna buy my gf a few nice button ups. Thx JadeFox!

  • @priscaa8
    @priscaa8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I really needed this video! I stopped wearing button-downs casually because of my bust. For work: I find that the buttons downs that are made with mostly polyester fabric are more stretchy and accommodating for larger busts. And it's less likely to wrinkle, but it can be clingy depending on the fit. The fabric of the shirt matters a lot too.

  • @samscott6963
    @samscott6963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Also check reviews. There may be clothes in your size but reviews says they run small and they don’t fit in person.

  • @ChocHo0o
    @ChocHo0o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Great video as always! My tips from personal experience are these:
    1) it is worth investing in shirts made from predominantly if not completely natural fabric - the improvement in terms of quality, longevity and overall feeling of comfort is massive
    2) shirts with hidden buttons in the chest area! - some shirts have extra buttons that button facing inward so you don't have these pockets open up when you move and stretch

    • @ChocHo0o
      @ChocHo0o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Your shirt size doesn't reflect your body shape! Be comfortable to having shirts spanning 2,3 or more different sizes in order to get the look you want. And lastly, women's shirts just like any other item of clothing are made from fabric with lesser thread count than men's clothing because the industry wants you to be on display. So even if something is 100% cotton, in comparison to the same item from the men's section, that shirt will be somewhat transparent. It may show an outline of your bra, etc. So if you go for the fitted look, it might be worth going up a size to give yourself more room when wearing the shirt.

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      the hidden button tip! yes! i used to have a shirt like that and i loved it

    • @phira360
      @phira360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ChocHo0o the transparency is so annoying 😒

  • @ChicagoClout
    @ChicagoClout ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lane Bryant's boyfriend's button-ups and blazers are nice also. I'm a heavyweight so it works for me

  • @jayclark7200
    @jayclark7200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you struggle finding clothing that fit broad shoulders, slim fit button ups from the men’s section are usually a good option. Just look out for how they fit your chest if you are going for a more boxy look.

  • @saratrue10
    @saratrue10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can we talk about how annoying it is when sites only take pictures of the clothes on the hangers, or laying flat? I know it's probably due to Covid, but it makes things that much harder.

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YESSSSSSS throw the whole store away

  • @abadira
    @abadira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm 5'2 and thick so the work clothes struggle is real 😫 thank you for the knowledge

  • @sheherme3712
    @sheherme3712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Jade look like ✨a meal✨👀 she happy and healthy and we love to see it.

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      healthy? i haven't pooped in 3 days 🙃

    • @sheherme3712
      @sheherme3712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@madeyoulooks oof.

  • @A_H_V
    @A_H_V 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I struggle with buttons up bc im long torso’d however my chest fairly small (40AA) my hips and ass are huge i know my ass is huge bc its always the first part of my body to hit the wall when trying lean against one for long torso’s girls i do recommend going with mens but get the smallest size you can fit so it does not has as much lose fabric but mens tend to have slightly longer torso then women

  • @MariameB
    @MariameB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You should make a video on how to find good jeans as well

  • @cindycarter199457
    @cindycarter199457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Darts are also there to accommodate for the bust. They stop the fabric from gathering in the wrong areas so the shirt doesn't pull tight around the bust making or an awkward fit and causing that annoying gap between the buttons. If you want to buy shirts without darts its best to size up. There are also ways to deal with the button gap, like a smaller hidden button in the gap that some shirts are constructed with or you can DIY yourself.
    I'm sure someone else commented something to this effect, not trying to be annoying just wanna boost your engagement

  • @buffalosummers
    @buffalosummers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yesss this was all so helpful thank you 🙏 quarantine made me realize that I was really only dressing so femme (pencil skirts, dresses) at my office job because that's what the other women were wearing, and I really feel more confident in more masc officewear, so these tips are a godsend!

  • @domy6827
    @domy6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the model wears x size doesn't help me bacause i don't look like the models at all

    • @babyv2992010
      @babyv2992010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same! I'm on the curvy side and short. There's never anyone that looks like me modeling clothes

  • @loserspud4504
    @loserspud4504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The formatting of the online shopping part of the video was just pleasant to watch

  • @lavishjules1886
    @lavishjules1886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The video I need! I'm not that that busty busty but in a button up I am.😅

  • @SK-tk5lc
    @SK-tk5lc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its a holiday day AND a MadeYouLooks upload day 🎉🎉

  • @nikkiep23
    @nikkiep23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Jade I'm loving this channel. So informative. I also like masculine and more tailored fits on my partner.

  • @illegitiminoncarborundum1323
    @illegitiminoncarborundum1323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dialogue Guru🧘🏽‍♂️

  • @jeannebarbeau3204
    @jeannebarbeau3204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is sooo helpful! Thank you Jade!

  • @titiafolabi2445
    @titiafolabi2445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    TYYY this video was so helpful

  • @LMMariszcka
    @LMMariszcka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    absolutely love how precise you are about these things, it's super helpful!

  • @ashleyk5132
    @ashleyk5132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been waiting for this!!💯🔥🗣️ I'm just here shamelessly taking all my fashion tips from Jade😂🔥

  • @eswan7329
    @eswan7329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Super good info. I am not large chested, so I don’t generally have problems with the chest being too tight on men’s. I also don’t often actually button up my long sleeve button ups. I really like Target men’s long sleeve button ups, especially their flannels. I usually only like one color that they come out with every other season or so tho. I personally hate darts/fitted button ups, it’s just not my look. I can imagine being okay with it in a more formal situation, but I’ve yet to try it!

  • @softdroid1655
    @softdroid1655 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    so glad u started this channel!! time to binge all the videos and take notes ✍🏾

  • @annenjuguna1044
    @annenjuguna1044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate the ways your edited and formatted the video/information Thank you for another informative one! 🥳

  • @adrianaiello1608
    @adrianaiello1608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your whole channel is saving my life rn

  • @sydney2181
    @sydney2181 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    these videos are saving my life. thank you so much.

  • @janeeharris5015
    @janeeharris5015 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for these tips! I'm excited for the blazers

  • @emery-leoneswirska4028
    @emery-leoneswirska4028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly, thank you for that. I am very much confused when it comes to shopping online ( I kinda hate it when it comes to shirts) and I am specific in what I am looking for, and this video helped me sort of figure out my way around what I need to look out for

  • @hildaegyima
    @hildaegyima 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    great tips! also loving all the jewelry pieces

  • @SK-tk5lc
    @SK-tk5lc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are such good tips

  • @juliasola9197
    @juliasola9197 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video, Jade! I just subscribed a few days ago and have been binge watching all of this good content haha I looked through the other comments to make sure someone else hadn't already mentioned this (correct me if I'm wrong), but Hollywood Fashion Tape has been a game changer for me with button ups that have gapping. I didn't know about shirts with the secret backwards buttons, that's also great and very clever, but for shirts that don't have those, Hollywood Tape is the way to go to make button ups work when everything else fits nicely except the chest area and you want it buttoned up all the way. And I like to cut the tape strips in half because that's usually all you need for taping between shirt buttons, and then I get twice the amount of uses!

  • @laurelcunningham2215
    @laurelcunningham2215 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this content!!

  • @meredithguido4775
    @meredithguido4775 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so helpful!!! I would love to see a video about formal wear in general for masc leaning people.

  • @Anxbis666
    @Anxbis666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I recently gain some weight I’m 19. was 123-128 for my whole teenage years but recently due to medication since June I weigh 153-155 and although my breast haven’t grown my shirt feel slightly tighter and my waist has definitely grown because my pants are very fitted and I’ve noticed they nearly squeezing me to death. So even tho I’m not huge in the chest this video helps me figure out how to shop now because I definitely need a size or two up in pants and shirts

  • @Beyourself_dope
    @Beyourself_dope 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Grandad color is my fav types of button downs , especially from ASOS

  • @wastetanz
    @wastetanz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love thissss

  • @jamieruwen4204
    @jamieruwen4204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you jade

  • @Sara-uq6km
    @Sara-uq6km 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could really use some fashion advice if anyone with big hips and bottoms have some 😅

  • @sydney2181
    @sydney2181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    can you make a video of formal outfit ideas for more masculine people? im starting to switch up my style and i have some events coming up where i previously would have just worn a dress, but the idea of doing that isnt for me anymore.

  • @oooladip
    @oooladip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not even big-chested but this was very informative. I had no idea about darts.

  • @clarissaepps2659
    @clarissaepps2659 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @fatimaalzaabi7568
    @fatimaalzaabi7568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    can you do a video about what to wear in summer and outfits for going to the beach

  • @aspiringtentacle
    @aspiringtentacle 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Banana Republic's return policy is pretty good in case you get an order you don't like!

  • @royalblue6747
    @royalblue6747 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That Hilary wig, I wasn’t ready 😂

  • @JC-yy8iv
    @JC-yy8iv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man I enjoy these videos so much even though I’m a femme amab person and the advice is not for me... You could read the phone book and make it entertaining. I also just enjoy learning... like so I’m not dumb when I’m talking to my butch and transmasc friends, I have some understanding about their lives and struggles

  • @Karla-ok9qd
    @Karla-ok9qd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am here because I am sick and tired of button ups always fitting my waist and as soon as it gets to my chest it looks like the button and about to explode and I go a size up and its too big. Please tell me I am not alone on this.

  • @jlbeeen
    @jlbeeen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm also just going to put this out there if anyone sees, but don't get stretch fabrics, as those are often made to be tighter, and stretch stuff often lays really weird. Think of wearing leggings that are too big and how weird that looks. Yeah, don't do stretch unless it's like a sweater.

  • @thefairieattornie
    @thefairieattornie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to say, not to go against the good advice, I’ve had success with old navy’s long sleeve men’s dress shirts in the “regular” fit rather than the “slim” fit. As a bigger boned 5’5” woman, broader shoulders, working in a law office, it’s not given me a lot of those awkward fit issues and not too long either

  • @hexx2211
    @hexx2211 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you _really_ insist on concealing your bust in fitted shirts, consider getting a compression bra (or even a chest binder! You don't necessarily have to be trans) to help smooth things out.

  • @dlennon2
    @dlennon2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pins are my best friend! #avoidthegap

  • @kylaknight3655
    @kylaknight3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i like the shadow with the circle... really makes the video pop and focus on you while you were scrolling. idk random, but ya button ups are terrible for me to try to find. I love mens flannels over women's 100% they are normally thicker and hide the curves.

  • @annasmith6879
    @annasmith6879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I looooove you hahah

  • @JC-yy8iv
    @JC-yy8iv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol “Steve Harvey in quarantine” and “pajama set”... Guess you favor the thicker fabric and more structured fit

  • @plumbumpoisoning
    @plumbumpoisoning 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what about using binding or trans tape?

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i’ve never tried it BUT i was actually thinking about doing a video where i do

  • @ourportuguesehomestead
    @ourportuguesehomestead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate those darts so much

  • @SomeRandomBlackWoman
    @SomeRandomBlackWoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My name is Busty Spice and, as a femme, I avoid button ups because I just cannot with these 38DDD and I need the tea. Also commenting for the algorithm 🏳️‍🌈🤟🏾

  • @NICKASAURWORLD
    @NICKASAURWORLD 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shakira was right when she said “Hips don’t lie.”

  • @Joy35
    @Joy35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NOW THIS IS THE CONTENT I NEED !!! cisgender hetero female with a chest that gets in the way lol.

  • @shauxnough1244
    @shauxnough1244 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Strap in... LOL

  • @bendemare5270
    @bendemare5270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Algorithm

  • @ariel5841
    @ariel5841 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    my hips are the problem

    • @bendemare5270
      @bendemare5270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The male gaze's hypers*exualisation of Women's and Females bodies are the problem.
      Also the erasure of Masculinity in Women is the problem.

  • @lebo5613
    @lebo5613 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This didn’t help at all. You basically said’just shop around’