"One day when you are walking down the aisle, looking at the love of your life. You'll be thankful and you'll realize why it did not work with anybody else." ☹❤
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
How to really move-on? By Real Talk Darbs Here are the key points to remember: 1. Feel the pain and don't be scared 2. Make a decision 3. Focus on yourself 4. Realized your self-worth 5. Give yourself a time to be alone 6. Allow yourself to be selfish in order for you to be selfless 7. Don't find the right one be the right person to someone Thank you so much for this on point advices. I've learnt a lot from this. New subscriber here. More power po.
Hindi ko akalain, aabot ako dito. Sana madali lang ang lahat! 😭 bumalik lang siya para iparamdam sakin yung ganitong heartache. 💔😭 walang gabing hindi ako naiyak. Makakamove on din tayo, dahan dahan. 😭
My Girlfriend just broke up with me earlier this day.. I'm so devastated, Just like what other people been thru.. I'm glad I Found this video it made me cry on the earlier part realizing forgiveness and acceptance and the fact she is gone now.. without the assurance of coming back, after finishing this content, I feel lot better now and learned a lot as well, I'll be going to take this lessons to heart , step by step little by little, I'll be the best version of myself for myself and for the people's around me as well, mark this day "February 11 2023" I'm going to back in this comment section when I'm fully healed.
Love yourself now. Only you and God are the best allies you can rely on during this tough time. Have faith and this is only temporary. You deserve to be happy. Whatever the reason of the separation, you have to find yourself.
Legit yung kapag mag isa ka tapos doon ka aatakihin ng pag iisip . Legit yung akala mo na nakakalimot ka pero mali pala. Legit yung mas pipiliin mong tulog kesa gising para mabantayan lg sarili mo sa pede mong magawa dahil sa lungkot. Legit yung sama ng loob na naiipon sa dibdib mo. Legit yung sakit na ipapaalala ng mga bagay bagay sa paligid mo kahit piliin momg h'wag na umalala pa Legit yung kahit isang minuto di sya nawawala sa pag iisip mo Legit yung mga oportunity na nasayang dahil lang nasa estado kapa na gusto mo kumalimot at Legit yung kumakalimot ka nang taong minsan naging mahalaga sa ala-ala mo.
Honestly di ko namalayan na nakamove on na pala ako. I returned to school immidiately after break to make myself busy... slowly I put myself together and become a strong independent woman. Pasalamat pa nga ako kase kase nakawala ako sa toxic relationship.. I can't imagine na madami pala akong pwedeng gawin.. And pwed din palang maging happy kahit wala akong partner. Thanks to RTD and I really enjoy listening to your advices..🌻🌻🌻
Mei Donoghue hello mei! Im happy kasi nalampasan mo na pinkamahirap na part. Learn to love being alone ksi that will be your foundation that would lead you to the right relationship
This is my first time listening to you, sir. We broke up this January. We've been together for 8 years. Thank you so much! I finally have the courage to let go and move forward. Thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement 🙂
Going through an extreme heartbreak right now that i just had to shut myself off from friends and family. This video helped me a lotttt. Thanks for this RTD! sobrang nakakatulong ka.. 1. Feel the PAIN and go through it. 2. Make a DECISION 3. Focus on YOURSELF 4. Realize your SELF WORTH 5. Learn how to be ALONE 6. Be SELFISH to be SELFLESS 7. Do not find the right one, be the right person for someone Kudos. ~ keep em coming, keep inspiring!
Thank you Kuya Darbs, I've been watching most of your videos. It helps me a lot in overcoming the pain day by day caused by someone whom I loved for 2 years. Not fully healed pa, I know it's very difficult to move on, I know naga struggle pa ako today, but hoping to reach that point na magiging okay na ako. Sending virtual hugs to all na kagaya kong naga move on. Makakaya natin to 🤗
Kaya madami ang traumatised sa pag ibig dahil sa lintek na pain and sufferings na naranasan in the past relationship. Healing is really a long process.
Saw this for the first time. Broke up with my bf of 3 years. Not actually break up kasi iniwan na lang nya ko bigla. I’m so down and broken. Feeling ko iniwan nya ko sa era. Sobrang sakit kasi feeling ko binigay ko lahat kahit di ako perfect. Making a promise to watch this video everyday until I become better. Thank you so much Kuya Darbs. This video really spoke to me. I know this would help me heal. God bless you! 6.13.22
EXATLY, 7 months na nung nag break kami, masakit pero isipin natin SELF WORTH NATIN. IN THE LONG RUN, magpapasalamat rin tayo na naka move on tayo. I have learn na never beg, just please never beg. SELF WORTH AT MAGDEVELOP NG IBANG SKILLS NA MAG EEXCELL TAYO.
Its happening now s akn. 4 yrs n kau dmi n plano tpoz nlmn mo nlgn mg 4 mnths n pla cla ung subrng mnhl mo xa kla mo xa n ung ksma mo hbng buhay nd pla Then i ask him he full nlove with that grl sbi ms mahal nya aq Anung claseng tao un
Sobrang realtalk. Always kase natin natatanggap yung mga advices na tanggapin mo nalang, hayaan mo nalang. It's like sobrang daling gawin non. We're almost 5 years na before she fell out of love. Nagsawa, hindi na niya kaya maging masaya. I admit naman na may mistakes ako, but I changed and she knows it. It's just that I'm too late I guess. I tried to fix it naman, tinanggap ko padin siya despite of everything she has done to me. But yun nga, I was too late na. So I decided to stop nadin. Pero ngayon sobra kong nahihirapan knowing na may iba nang nagpapasaya sakanya. Mas nananaig padin yung pagmamahal ko, hindi ko kayang magalit. Mas gusto ko padin siyang mahalin, mas gusto ko padin siyang tanggapin. I rely my happiness to her by a large scalee. Like what you said, ginawa ko siyang mundo. But after watching thiss I really think na hindi ko na alam yung self worth ko to the point na sisirain ko yung sarili ko for her. So this is a big helpp as in. I'll try to follow the steps. Thankyou. Goodluck sa healing process ko and to all the pips na nakakaranas ng situation as of this moment. Kaya natin to.
same story as mine.. 5yrs in a relationship before being dumped.. it's been almost 4yrs since he left me pero until now i'm still hurting.. it isn't easy to move on.. 😕 😪
Gusto ko un sinabi niya, instead of clinging to your emotions of being hurt, focus on your career or self development and prepare your self for the right one for you. Kasi past is past kahit anung pagiiyak mo jan di kana babalikan , ayusin mo sarili mo para kay the one na darating sa future, definitely pagkakataon na lang ang inaantay!
1. Feel the pain 2. Make a decision 3. Focus on yourself 4. Realize your self-worth 5. Learn to be alone 6. Be selfish to be selfless 7. Do not find the right one. Be the right one.
I'm on the process na. Moving on from 7 years relationship is not easy, but it's not impossible to do so din :) Ang sarap lang makapakinig ng perception ng lalaki. Salamat dito! :)
Same tayo, at the age of 47 wala p rin asawa. Ang tanong ko din, bakit lagi ako iniiwan or ung mahal ako nawawala din s huli.. inisip ko nlang may plan si God para s kin.
This message is for me. I'm on a healing process. 🌻🌻 I can't afford again to lose someone just because I'm not that totally healed. We need to go through the process, so that next time we can offer the best version of ourselves to someone that God is appointing us to be with for the rest of our lives.
I hope one day when I come back to this video, I have already apply the words you’ve said. Slowly, I know I will be okay. My love will be gone for 4 years to pursue his dreams, and I will be stuck here in our place, our city, our dreams for each other striving to move on and find courage again to fight. The moment we get the results from the academy I know that there’s nothing I can do anymore but to accept the fact that we both love each other but it won’t last because we both need to grow and learn on our path. I really pray that he’ll get accepted because I know how much he has to sacrifice the things he love the most to pursue his dreams. And i’ll always remember his favorite quote, “ the hardest choice requires the strongest will.” We might have promised each other to not leave each other’s side but I know that God has a better plan for the both of us. I just have to keep reminding myself that if he is the one for me, no matter how far I will travel and venture, our love will always find us both. But if he’s not the one and we’ll just forget each other in the span of his study in the academy, that’s God’s way of telling me that I am not the one he is supposed to end up with, God has prepared a girl so much better than me, and eventually I have to accept it because I, myself always wants whats better for him even though I am not that person. I just really have to let him go, to grow and learn, and while he create his own path and venture on his journey, here in my place, I will focus on myself and on the things that I love. So when the time comes that the person who’s meant for me will come, I am ready to accept him wholeheartedly and I will be able to give all the love that he deserve. P.S my grammar might not be on its best form, but this is how I really feel right now. Hope i’ll be better soon.
He wasn’t able to attend the academy, and we both ended things brutally. Now, I’ll be watching this video and rereading my comment, realizing that we weren’t meant for each other. No pursuing of dreams or different schedules, it was the internal conflict that wasn’t communicated made us end things between us. I am ready to take a step in my new journey. You are all in my past, I have to welcome my present. Thank you, and good bye.
Sarap umiyak habang nakikinig.Feels like im talking to my kuya. Thank you po. Nakakagaan ng pakiramdam😊 It is really easy to forgive but to forget? It's the hardest part. It's my first heartbreak and i don't have regrets. Thank you so much po sa lahat ng payo.
Yes, it's true. It happened to me. It took me a long time to grasp everything. Healing and moving on is a long process. As time goes by you will realize you have finally moved on with the person and with the situation. Matatawa ka na lang kapag maaalala mo... Now following you. See you around. Take care and keep safe.
I was in a very bad situation 4yrs ago and im thankful i have moved on for quite a long time now. And watching your video now made me smile because i actually did all what you said and moving on was the best journey i had after the break up💜💜💜
Araw-araw kotong pinapanood lalo na pag matutulog na ako sa umaga galing work. Napaka laking tulong po ng message mo sir. Sobrang thankful ako nakita ko tong channel mo. Araw-araw ko tong pinapanood para magising ko sarili ko, then para ma improve kopa yung ako. Hahaha natatawa lang ako minsan kasi nakakatulog nadin ako kagad pag napapanood koto. Hinde ako nag oover think.🙌 kudos sayo sir. MARAMING SALAMAT. God blessed 🙏
Yes sir darbs napapahanga talaga sa mga wisdom talks mo♥ skl my past relationshp was 5 yrs ago. And instead na maghanap ako ng iba i focus my self pano ba maging worthy, nag focus ako how to finish my studies naging strong independent woman ako to be exact. At madami ang naka appreciate don. Nakita ko na ang worth ko na hindi ako basta bastang babae. Ngayon i have this someone na special sakin and he treated me as a his ideal girl.😇
This is the 3rd time that I listened to this video and it really hits me. 1month already since we broke up and I can still feel the pain. This advice of Kuya Darbs, help me a lot to go through the pain that I am feeling and realize my worth. Thank you Kuya Darbs, I pray that more people will be inspired the way you give advices. Mauubos ko na po sa kakapanood ung videos mo dito sa youtube. God bless you!
Experiencing so much pain right now, feeling the pain and loneliness, It's so hard telling oneself that he's gone and I need to live and build myself alone, the trauma of cheating repeated, that causes so much pain in my heart🥺, Thanks for the advice Real Talk Darbs, I do hope everyone who experience being broken will find it's peace and worth someday, We deserve to be love, Everything happens for a reason, maybe God has a plan and put us in this situation because something good is about to come.♥️Amen
@@RealTalkDarbs its a matter of accepting the fact that your not meant to be together po. You both deserve better. Feel the pain, forgive then move on😊
Jayvie-Ann Guade fair enough. But easy to say. Most people know that but why it os difficult to do? Coz they dont know where to start? Accepting, telling them to move. How? If ill tell to be in a place where youve never been before and say you asked me how to go coron island palawan (for example) ill tell you ride a plane from manila then when you land ride boat. Easy to say right? And my answer was not wrong. But thats a macro advise, you need specifics on how to buy a plane ticket and where in palawan you need to land. You also need which boat to ride, where to find them and the costs. All of that is necessary. So when giving advise and we tell them you need to accept the fact. That doesnt make the advise wrong but the question is how?
@@RealTalkDarbs I feel you but I just broke up with my 7yrs relationship last april 17 he cheated on me twice but then I accepted the fact that where not meant to be that's why I let him go freely to find his own happiness and contentment that he didn't see/feel towards me😊💚
Madaling sabihin kasi hindi ikaw yung nasaktan..or kasi hindi ikaw yung tunay na nagmahal sna na madali lang iaccept..sna nga bukas makalawa wla na yung sakit..yung sakit na parang halos araw araw papatay sau dahil sa bigat na nararamdaman mo..😢😢😢
Breaking up with her is so painful and so hard to accept, kala ko first and last love ko siya. Slowly accepting narin and forgetting memories na kasama ko siya para matulungan ko sarili ko to step forward. Thank you sa 28 months na nakilala kita at nakasama. Goodluck to both of us. Only memories will be forgotten, but not you. Farewell~, My Kariman "I loved you and I wish you would have done the same. I am not sad because you broke up, I am sad because you found reasons to break things up."
My 5yrs relationship ended because he cheated on me, he got another girl pregnant and when i ask him about it, seems like he's blaming me for everything. 🙃 It's devastating, considering the fact that I did nothing but to love him with my whole heart and accept everything he is. It's so heavy that i found myself crying every night, overthinking. I pity and feel sorry for myself for letting them ruin me, emotionally. I had a lot of questions in my mind for the past months. I'm so happy I came across to this video. It's like all of my questions have answers now. 🙂 I'm still in the healing process and hoping to feel better soon. Thankyou for this. 👍
Ang hirap mag move on lalo na kung sa umpisa ng relationship nyo nag live in na kayo agad tapos after 2 years nagka anak na kami kasi hiniling nya sakin na sana bigyan ko daw sya ng anak pero nung lumabas na yung baby namin after 1 month nakipag hiwalay na sya dahil lang sa mababaw na away. Siguro naghanap nalang sya ng dahilan para maging malaya. Hirap na hirap ako mag move on kasi ayaw ko lumaki yung anak ko sa broken family dahil ako mismo lumaki ako sa broken fam at sobrang hirap non. Kahit may bago na sya hanggang ngayon umaasa at pinag dadasal ko pa rin na sana balang araw maisip nya na mas masarap umuwi sa mag ina nya na laging nandyan sa hirap at ginhawa para sa kanya kahit pinagtabuyan nya ng paulit ulit.
@@cartoonstv9464 nakalimutan ko nag comment pala ako ng ganito hahahaha nababaduyan na ko sa comment ko 😂😂😂😂. Btw, masaya na ko ngayon. Time heals all wounds 🙏🥰
10yrs with a daughter plus an incoming one but all going down the drain because of this new woman. x Self worth, x self love and + self doubt. Pero I know hangga't may hininga ako, hangga't binebless ako ni Lord ng buhay, I know I can go through this pain. Hindi lang healthy sa baby but kakayanin. KAKAYANIN PO! :)
Kuya Darbs Thank you for this advice. Reality hits me, its easy to say the word acceptance but I carry this for almost 8 months and I'm still stalking her on social media. (nagmahal kami ng walang label then bumalik siya, naiwan ako sa ere :)) But now I'm ready little by little, ayoko ng biglaang pagbitaw. 1. The only way to get out, is to feel and go through it. 2. Make a Decision. 3. Focus on yourself and find yourself worth. 4. Learn to be alone 5. Be selfish in order to be selfless. 6. Do not find the right one, be the right person for someone 7. Be the right person for someone.
Naway soon ang 6yrs para sakin is a number na lang. I'm praying for my healing talaga and accept also. Naway talaga maaccept ko na wala talaga. Dahil iniyak ko naman na to sa Lord, Pinag pray ko na, gumawa ko ng efforts para samin kaso wala na talaga lalo lang ako nasaktan dahil pinipilit ko yung sarili ko sa taong hindi na ko gugustohin pa at mamahalin pa. Naway talaga maaccept ko na hindi kami para sa isat isa.
Totally agree with every step. feel the pain and don’t pretend that you’re okay kasi mas mahihirapan ka lang. its okay to be sad and hurt you’re allowed to feel that way because that means you really loved that person and its part of the healing process.
I'm currently at my lowest point once again. Pero this time, i want to help myself. I want to be better, to heal without doing self harm. I want to move forward pero ido not know my next step. Then i saw this video...THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
Sobrang helpful po..Thank you so much, he broke up with me during my lowest moment in my life..It was like its crashing to the bones, I always cry speciaally during night..I always stalk his account in dating site if he is online there thats how stupid I am for him! And now im trying to live my life on my own by learning new things and Pray as well but its still painful when I think about our happy times and his good qualities..
Ang hirap gawin lahat ng yan pero kapag nagawa ko to ang sarap siguro sa pakiramdam .. Focus on yourself ito muna prioritize ko step by step matatapos din kung anuman yung narramdaman ko.
@@RealTalkDarbs thank you po 😘yeah usually naman alam na naten ung tama pero matigas lang tlaga ulo mas pinipili yung complicated heheh .. sa tamang panahon cguro magiging okay din ang lahat 😥
thank you for advice kuya darbs :( still crying right now, someday he will realized how important i am :'(, nandon nako sa point na obsess napo talaga, diko kaya :( looking forward .
napaka real talk mo po... 😊 justified ung name ng channel niyo... the wisdom is so high... salamat po... napakareal talk po... decide whether to realy move on or u still hope to be together after break up... dats the stage most cant get over with... salamat po... its an eye opener...dats the jump start that most dont know... thank you for teaching me... salamat po kuya darbs...
Its been a week since we broke up. weve been to together for 3 years.I was living in their house na and i thought i had the family na that i do not have. You cant imagine how hard it is to live there tas nagbreak up kayo. and since i dont know how to drive and pandemic im stuck there for days and believe me it is heart breaking on how she treats me like a stranger, My first three days was literally hell there was a time where i cant breath due to my anxiety so i need to walk outside 4am in the morning, cant eat, cant sleep, for the longest time di talaga ako umiiyak, but everynight it happens. Our break up was so fast cant even imagine na nasa state na kami na ganito.In just one day she became a different person a stranger kumbaga, your dreams together nawala ng ganon lang, bumili na nga kami ng kotse eh, dalawa pa and each time i see my car sobrang sakit kasi its our goal na ipamana namin sa future children sana. Our issues up naman is fixable but she choose not to.Once you put her in the center of your world, its her that youll always remember from little things even your achievements, so moving on is really hard.Even so all i wish for her is to find someone na katapat nya, yung d nya kaya iwan same goes to him.I still love her and all i want is her happiness and i accepted the fact that we cant be together anymore. Your video helped me alot boss me pinagdadaanan pero stronger than before.
Exactly the same scenario here, but the other way around, both our families and him are living together sa bahay ng parents ko until now. Dami na naming plano, we were already engaged since last year, sure na talaga kami, pero wala eh. Sobrang sakit sa pakiramdam yung bigla nalang iba na yung trato niya sayo, nearly 4 years of being together was thrown out the window. I'm still in disbelief.
I'd lost a man, a friend, and a partner, but not myself. So I set out on a journey to recover myself, to use this breakup as an opportunity for development and self-discovery rather than an excuse to dwell in self-pity. I find it difficult, especially because I don't know where to begin, but I know it's a worthwhile process.❤️
Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. I have a broken relationship for 3years, but now I we are back together through his help. He can really help you as he helped me.
Maraming salamat Po Real Talk Darbs,Sir! Satisfied Po Ako sa lahat na advice mo Ngayon uu,,Hulog ka Ng langit para makatulong sa Amin na Hindi nakaalam kung paano mag move on,,now alam ko na how to move on uu,,Ang Ganda mo mag advice idol,,So, again and again a Million thanks of you,,God,bless u always
im almost falling in love now while im in a relationship. but i need to be strong to get away from this. magdasal lang tayo at iasa natin ang araw araw natin sa diyos n malagpasan lahat ng bigat at sakit na nararanasan natin.. kailangan natin piliin lagi ang tama. masakit pero dapat lamang ang isip natin sa mga ganitong sitwasyon,. dont be blind to a new feelings for someone. dont be too selfish by choosing your own happiness while others is misserable.... sabe nga Let go and Let God . si lord parin ang ang nakakaalam ng nararapat sayo. just trust him...
3 years ago, this helped me. This is what I send to my friends who are going through what I went through. It took years and a lot of therapy pero laban lang.
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him.
This is the best advise. I like most the part that once you make a decision it should be final. And make yourself best for yourself not for others. I like that. I always listen to this to remind myself always if I became weak. This make strong
“Because of pandemic, we broke up" No. Hindi dahil sa pandemic. You broke up with that person not because of pandemic but because hindi talaga kayo ang para sa isat-isa. I mean hindi kayo ganun katatag para lampasan ang pandemic na ito.
1 buwan na kmi break. Ewan ko ba kung bakit ako nag search ng how to moveon. Pero tama lahat ng advice ni kuya. Sa ngayon nasa no. 1 process na ako iniiyak ko lahat kpag naaalala ko sya. Nag ppaka busy ako sa trabaho para sa pmilya at sarili ko. Kung ano yung ayaw nya sakin yun babaguhin ko para sa sarili ko at para sa pang habang buhay ko na mamahalin. Sa ngayon mag heheal muna ako bago mgmhal ulit
Same tayo na 1month break up pa lang pinagpalit ako tapos nag post na ng picture nila ng bago niya 9years kame😢.. hnd ko alam bat ko tinaype ung move on
Yung limang beses mong nahuli at pinatawad pero paulit ulit ka lng dn niloloko. Yung binigay mo lahat para sa kanya pero kulang parin. Yung tinatanong mo sya kung ano bang pagkkulang at pagkakamali mo pero wala syang maisagot. Yung iniwan kana lang bigla na parang wala kayong pinagsamahan. Yung sumama sya sa ibang lalake ng gabe na hndi mo alam. Yung sobra kang nasasaktan kasi tinatanong mo sa sarili mo ano bang pagkkulang mo. No choice kundi mag paubaya nalang move on tuloy ang life. Marami pa naman iba. Makakahanap parin naman din. Hay buhay.
Ang galing, andito ko sa point na to eh pero mostly nagagawa ko lahat ng advise felt the pain now, I am thinking this was a blessing in disguise thanks na napadaan ako dito I know that I am doing good and what happened was right.
Not just to set us apart, doesn't mean that I don't love you. I'm just helping myself to find my importance, my worth as a father on our daughter. I want you to realise that it's hard to appreciate my worth my value as a father. It takes two to tanggo. Tandaan mo ito, hndi habang buhay matutumbasan ng iyong magulang ang pag mamahal na kaya kng ibigay sainyong mag ina ko. Balang araw lilipas din mama mo sa mundo, at hahanapin mo ang pag kukulang na meron ako ngunit sa ibang tao, at yun ay ang PAMILYANG BUO!!
Kuya darbs salamat po lalot nasa stage ako ng moving on talaga. This helped me to accept everything. Ngayon I do have clear vision on how to see myself this year 2023.
Ang daming #feels nitong video na to... Moving on process, self respect, self love, 80/20 rule, San ka pa, galing rtd keep it up... And congrats for making the RTD FAM, our growing family... Thank you RTD
Thats why i always end up broken because i always find the right one without asking myself if i am the right person to someone. Thank you kuya Darbs for the advice🙏
Darbs' words really comforts me. I've been trying to move on for 7 months now and still counting. Ang hirap pag gustong gusto mo na syang makalimutan kasi hirap na hirap ka na sa lungkot and pain but the memories are still there haunting you for almost every day, no matter where u go, no matter what u do lagi mo pa din syang naaalala. The worst is namimiss mo sya pero hindi mo man lang alam kung ano ng buhay nya, na sana nasa mabuting kalagayan sya. Ipapasadyos ko nalang talaga🥹
Yong pag move on para lang den yan laro kung mag patalo ka sa lungkot talo ka talaga pero kung bumangon ka at wag isip yong sakit at mahalin yong sarili jan tayo panalo😊😊😊
First time ko to pinanood ang video na to dahil naghahanap ako ng way how to move on...hindi paman kami formal na break pero ramdam ko sa sarili ko napunta na kami dun...maraming alibi kung bakit hindi sinasagot mga tawag at chats ko , laging seen lang pero walang reply ..maraming nagsasabi na meron na yang iban pero gusto ko sa kanya parin galing ung salitang yun ...almost 5yrs in a relationship ngayon ko lang naramdaman ang bigat sa dibdib ko , mayduda na ako kahit hindi naman ako ganun dahil malaki trust ko ...kaya ngayon gusto ko unti untin mawala ung pagmamahal na yun😥
I fell in love with someone 2 years ago and I still haven't moved on from it. Kasabay nung time that I give up on him, naghiwalay parents ko and I realized na napabayaan ko na din studies ko. It's an Unrequited love and this person really hasn't given me much attention but he became the center of my universe. Watching this video rn, I think nasa level palang ako ng making decisions. I haven't healed yet and I sometimes caught myself stalking him in social media, Sa dahilan na I'm still stuck at the part of What If it was just wrong timing? Pero thank you...I will really be serious in letting this person now who also has been the reason for me to be clinically diagnosed of BPAD.
@@zyragr Mahirap pero alam ko na dadating ka din sa point na tatanggapin mo nalang na hindi ito yung kwento na may chance pa. (If it's like unrequited love) Nonetheless, I hope you heal as well.
Ngayon ko lang narealized na kaya nahihirapan ako mag move on sa broken marriage namin that lasted for 11 years is because of unrequited love. This kind of love causes deep heartbreak/pain kaya pla more than a year na hindi pa din ako naghi-heal. 🥺
I really need this kind of thinking right now. My kids needs their mom now more than ever. It is really not that easy going through this process. Thank you so much for this Kuya darbz 👍👍
relate ako sau sis.i have kids who need me kailangan ko maging malakas at matatag para sa kanila.it's been one week andito pa rin ang pain.i dont have someone to talk to.im praying for my healing and i will start loving myself..uunahin ko nman ang sarili ko kc naubos ako.
Sheeeyyt shakkkeet Gusto ko mgtambay lage dito parang Ang sarap sa pakiramdam,natauhan agad thank you kuya darbs sa advice sa mga broken vow este heart like us ,pag bumabalik sa isip ko ung mga nangyari pinapanood ko ulit to 😅para ipamukha sa self ko 😅apaka outch tlaga
Thanks for this! im going thru pain myself now, ended an almost 2yr relationship because i became selfish and decided to fix myself alone.. now i regret it :( it really hurts that she pick to be alone rather than building herself back with me but i cant blame her because ive been toxic for a long time now im healing and hopefully one day ill be back in my comment here and just laught off everything :) and i promise to be a right person to the next person i will love
WOW ITS BEEN A YEAR? HAHAHA NOW THINKING BACK, IF IT DIDNT ENDED WILL I BE IN THE SAME SITUATION RIGHT NOW? MAYBE ITS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE TBH, SOMETIMES RELATIONSHIPS HAD TO END FOR YOU TO HAVE A SELF REALIZATION AND KNOW YOUR SELF WORTH so to those who are still moving on, kaya nyo yan :) nakaya ko nga laban lang!
I've fall in love with the wrong person but i will fall in love again with the right person and the right person will fall in love with my soul and we will live forever.🙏
Go through all those pain and cry it all until you get tired crying and you will feel better through the process. That number one advice is really how I get over a love ones 🥺.
Salamat paps.. naka tulong sakin yung mga sinabi mo pra mkpag decide.. 6 months ago simula ng piniit ko na mag balikan kme ng wife ko kahit may mahal na syang iba.. lahat ng nakikita at nababasa ko na masakit tinitiis ko dahil sobrang mahal ko sya at gusto ko maayos at hindi masira ang family ko... like yung mababasa mo na chat nya sa friend nya na mahal na mahal nya ung guy and sakin wala na syang nararamdaman.. 10 years kme and we already have a two kids.. sobrang nakaka durog ng pagka tao pero pinili ko na tiisin.. but ngaun nag decide na ko na mag let go.. total wreck na ko physically and mentally wla na kong tinira na pag mamahal sa sarili ko, lahat binigay ko na pero wala parin.. 😭💔
Same feeling right now. 5-yr relationship kami at lahat ng firsts namin ay mula sa isa't isa. Kasalanan ko talaga aminado ako. Yun nga lang, tatlong linggo lang at naka move on na siya sa ibang lalaki. Triny ko siyang habulin at ipaalala lahat ng 5 years namin, pero napagod na agad siya. Akala ko may pag-asa pa, pero ngayon kasama na palagi niya yung rebound niya. Ngayon mamahalin ko na muna ang sarili ko. Sobrang tumigil ang pag improve ko ng pagkatao ko mula nung naging kami
Thanks for helping me move on tito darbs. Lablab! Your words are my guide to self-love and hopefully in time I can be full of love again that I have no room for it but to share it out to the world.
Real Talk Darbs I'm glad. Eto real talk. now, if I feel that I'm about to do something stupid, (like texting my ex) I all of a sudden hear your voice in head saying "Wag mo na ulitin, bes!" 🤣 kudos to you and your craft. Salamat sa inspirasyon 💜
Thank you. After months of emotional and mental torture at sobrang pangddegrade sa pagkatao ko, even ending with the line na hindi na ako mahal ng ex ko, umabot ako sa point na hindi ko na alam kung ano yung worth ko kasi sobra akong nagmahal at dumepende. I was not perfect, it was my first time learning kung ano yung mga bagay na nagmamanifest sakin pagpapasok ako sa isang relationship. I tried so hard to change pero walang nagiging enough. This time I finally decided to heal first kahit mahirap kesa araw-araw pa na ipagsiksikan yung sarili ko sa taong ayaw naman na sakin. This video is right, instead of looking for someone na kayang iaccept yung current flaws and issues ko, I should overcome them first by myself so I can be the right person for someone else. Tinatry ko na tingnan pa kung bakit palagi akong naanxiety at takot na takot mawalan. Planning to see a psychiatrist to help me deal with it. Pero for now, I'll spend some time accepting the pain. Even though lagi akong naanxiety at hindi makahinga ng maayos tuwing naiisip ko lahat ng nangyari, I will try na lumaban lang and focus on the things that I missed out while I was in a relationship. This is my day 1. I hope I can come back to this after I started to feel better.
There is no specific way to move on. Each person has his or her own way to move on. Its your choice of how long you will move on or not. Mind over matter. I agree, feel the pain and eventually you will get tired of crying. Its okay to cry and mourn. You will wake one day, you have moved on. You will just laugh about everything. Always remember, to start moving on, one should forgive. Forgiving someone is actually forgiving yourself. That will give you peace. Focus on yourself. Improve yourself. #SelfWorth
IBA KA TALAGA NAPAKATALINO AS IN THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE NA NARINIG KO WHEN IT COMES TO MOVING ON KASI PANG GENERAL NA UNG WALK AWAY KALIMUTAN MO NA SYA AT HINDI SYA GNUN KADALI
Natapos ang limang taon. Akala ko sya na. Sobrang bigat nang nararamdaman ko. Kahit anong oras o saang lugar bigla ka nalang maiiyak pag maaalala mo. Sana matapos na to napapagod na ko. Sana mawala na yung sakit..
sa lahat ng nagmomove-on,sama sama tayo sa pagiging best version ng mga sarili natin.. hnd mn madali, pero walang susuko
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sad but true
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"One day when you are walking down the aisle, looking at the love of your life. You'll be thankful and you'll realize why it did not work with anybody else." ☹❤
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How to really move-on? By Real Talk Darbs
Here are the key points to remember:
1. Feel the pain and don't be scared
2. Make a decision
3. Focus on yourself
4. Realized your self-worth
5. Give yourself a time to be alone
6. Allow yourself to be selfish in order for you to be selfless
7. Don't find the right one be the right person to someone
Thank you so much for this on point advices. I've learnt a lot from this. New subscriber here. More power po.
💜💜💜love yourself more ..acceptance is the key for everything..life goes on ..
Thankyou
@@hannahfernandico6153 🙂
Totoo kailangan talaga e feel ang pain at e iyak mo para ma relieve, saka mo ma tanggap na wala na sya.. 100% accurate👍
Salamat po.
Di mo ksalanan, ngmahal ka lng. If u are not valued. Walk away, dont look back. Move on...
Hindi ko akalain, aabot ako dito. Sana madali lang ang lahat! 😭 bumalik lang siya para iparamdam sakin yung ganitong heartache. 💔😭 walang gabing hindi ako naiyak. Makakamove on din tayo, dahan dahan. 😭
"do not find the right one, instead focus to be the right person to someone"... 👏👏👏👏
My Girlfriend just broke up with me earlier this day.. I'm so devastated, Just like what other people been thru.. I'm glad I Found this video it made me cry on the earlier part realizing forgiveness and acceptance and the fact she is gone now.. without the assurance of coming back, after finishing this content, I feel lot better now and learned a lot as well, I'll be going to take this lessons to heart , step by step little by little, I'll be the best version of myself for myself and for the people's around me as well, mark this day "February 11 2023" I'm going to back in this comment section when I'm fully healed.
Love yourself now. Only you and God are the best allies you can rely on during this tough time. Have faith and this is only temporary. You deserve to be happy. Whatever the reason of the separation, you have to find yourself.
Halos sabay pa po tayo ng healing process but little by little magiging okey rin po tayo.Get up!and Love our self❤
Fully healed naba?
Sir ano po balita sa moving on mo?
Naka move ka po ba sir o naging kayo ulit ? 😢
Legit yung kapag mag isa ka tapos doon ka aatakihin ng pag iisip .
Legit yung akala mo na nakakalimot ka pero mali pala.
Legit yung mas pipiliin mong tulog kesa gising para mabantayan lg sarili mo sa pede mong magawa dahil sa lungkot.
Legit yung sama ng loob na naiipon sa dibdib mo.
Legit yung sakit na ipapaalala ng mga bagay bagay sa paligid mo kahit piliin momg h'wag na umalala pa
Legit yung kahit isang minuto di sya nawawala sa pag iisip mo
Legit yung mga oportunity na nasayang dahil lang nasa estado kapa na gusto mo kumalimot at
Legit yung kumakalimot ka nang taong minsan naging mahalaga sa ala-ala mo.
I really feel it
super true
Tama sir .
Depression nga po nllbanan ko ngaun. Hrap ipilit ung srili s hndi tkga nagmmhal ng totoo .
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@@charlesborromeo1735hayyyyyyy .
How r u na po
Ngayon ang nararamdan ko ngyon
Honestly di ko namalayan na nakamove on na pala ako. I returned to school immidiately after break to make myself busy... slowly I put myself together and become a strong independent woman. Pasalamat pa nga ako kase kase nakawala ako sa toxic relationship.. I can't imagine na madami pala akong pwedeng gawin.. And pwed din palang maging happy kahit wala akong partner. Thanks to RTD and I really enjoy listening to your advices..🌻🌻🌻
Mei Donoghue hello mei! Im happy kasi nalampasan mo na pinkamahirap na part. Learn to love being alone ksi that will be your foundation that would lead you to the right relationship
Sana ako di'
Darating din ako sa sitwasyon na ganyan wag ko lang hayaan tlg bumalik uli.
Hindi ko alam kung bakit bigla ko nalang sinearch yung "How to moveon" at pinanuod to. Pero it really helps me, selfworth is the key. ❣️
kamustaaaa
I'm on the process of moving on I hope this will help, thank you Kuya Darbs!!! Yakap sa lahat ng sinusbukang mag move on! 😔
Fighting tau sis😢
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❤ yes move on its so hard 😢
Ang sakit sakit.
This is my first time listening to you, sir. We broke up this January. We've been together for 8 years. Thank you so much! I finally have the courage to let go and move forward. Thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement 🙂
potek matindi to 8 years. kami nga 1 year lang hirap na e. this month lang
Thanks for the advices, selfish pko talaga at hindi pa maka move on ..16yrs relationship. Para akong namatayan...
grabe i feel you,, we broke up this january, 4 years together, napakahirap tanggapin pero wala ka nang magawa,
Kung 8 years to kami going 4 years. Kaya ko din! Laban lang tayo. 🥺✊🏻
Awww. Same. We broke up din last january and we've been together for 6 years. And i dont know how to start again
Going through an extreme heartbreak right now that i just had to shut myself off from friends and family. This video helped me a lotttt. Thanks for this RTD! sobrang nakakatulong ka..
1. Feel the PAIN and go through it.
2. Make a DECISION
3. Focus on YOURSELF
4. Realize your SELF WORTH
5. Learn how to be ALONE
6. Be SELFISH to be SELFLESS
7. Do not find the right one, be the right person for someone
Kudos. ~ keep em coming, keep inspiring!
cassandra filasol i am so glad you took it to the heart! Amazing! thank you for watching!
Experienced and still going through a heartbreak. But I am confident that it wont last any longer
It really is not easy to move on, and I may be struggling today, but i know i'll be better in time... 😭
i feel you ate its not easy to move on
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I feel u .. Its not easy ..
Me too 😭😭😭 akala ko hiwalay na sila putang ina he only used me
4yrs na nga ako nagmomove on e😂 (6yrs kami) . Mag aasawa na at lahat lahat c ex e, d pa ako totally nakakalimot😅. Kapit lang.
I fell you po 😭😭😭kaya natin to
Thank you Kuya Darbs, I've been watching most of your videos. It helps me a lot in overcoming the pain day by day caused by someone whom I loved for 2 years. Not fully healed pa, I know it's very difficult to move on, I know naga struggle pa ako today, but hoping to reach that point na magiging okay na ako.
Sending virtual hugs to all na kagaya kong naga move on. Makakaya natin to 🤗
Amen
Kaya madami ang traumatised sa pag ibig dahil sa lintek na pain and sufferings na naranasan in the past relationship. Healing is really a long process.
Saw this for the first time. Broke up with my bf of 3 years. Not actually break up kasi iniwan na lang nya ko bigla. I’m so down and broken. Feeling ko iniwan nya ko sa era. Sobrang sakit kasi feeling ko binigay ko lahat kahit di ako perfect.
Making a promise to watch this video everyday until I become better. Thank you so much Kuya Darbs. This video really spoke to me. I know this would help me heal. God bless you!
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Same here 😭😭😭
Break up this time of pandemic is so hard😭😭
EXATLY, 7 months na nung nag break kami, masakit pero isipin natin SELF WORTH NATIN. IN THE LONG RUN, magpapasalamat rin tayo na naka move on tayo. I have learn na never beg, just please never beg. SELF WORTH AT MAGDEVELOP NG IBANG SKILLS NA MAG EEXCELL TAYO.
Its happening now s akn. 4 yrs n kau dmi n plano tpoz nlmn mo nlgn mg 4 mnths n pla cla ung subrng mnhl mo xa kla mo xa n ung ksma mo hbng buhay nd pla
Then i ask him he full nlove with that grl sbi ms mahal nya aq Anung claseng tao un
Same mi sissy pro tnangp qn its so hard pro icipin mo nlng nd nya dserve pgmmhl mo
totoo po yan.sobrang sakit.kami ng asawa ko kahapon lng nghiwalay.ang hirap mgmove on.lalo n pinagpalit nya ng anak nya sa my perang tao.
True ive been there 😔
Sobrang realtalk. Always kase natin natatanggap yung mga advices na tanggapin mo nalang, hayaan mo nalang. It's like sobrang daling gawin non. We're almost 5 years na before she fell out of love. Nagsawa, hindi na niya kaya maging masaya. I admit naman na may mistakes ako, but I changed and she knows it. It's just that I'm too late I guess. I tried to fix it naman, tinanggap ko padin siya despite of everything she has done to me. But yun nga, I was too late na. So I decided to stop nadin. Pero ngayon sobra kong nahihirapan knowing na may iba nang nagpapasaya sakanya. Mas nananaig padin yung pagmamahal ko, hindi ko kayang magalit. Mas gusto ko padin siyang mahalin, mas gusto ko padin siyang tanggapin. I rely my happiness to her by a large scalee. Like what you said, ginawa ko siyang mundo. But after watching thiss I really think na hindi ko na alam yung self worth ko to the point na sisirain ko yung sarili ko for her. So this is a big helpp as in. I'll try to follow the steps. Thankyou. Goodluck sa healing process ko and to all the pips na nakakaranas ng situation as of this moment. Kaya natin to.
Totoo. Umikot angvmundo sa kanya but in the end iniwan ka pa din. Sabi nila..you dont destroy the person you love
How are you na po?
same story as mine.. 5yrs in a relationship before being dumped.. it's been almost 4yrs since he left me pero until now i'm still hurting.. it isn't easy to move on.. 😕 😪
same po tayo subra hirap mag move on lalo na may nag papasaya na sa kanya
Its been 3 years since nag comment ka po dito.
I hope you're better right now❤
Gusto ko un sinabi niya, instead of clinging to your emotions of being hurt, focus on your career or self development and prepare your self for the right one for you. Kasi past is past kahit anung pagiiyak mo jan di kana babalikan , ayusin mo sarili mo para kay the one na darating sa future, definitely pagkakataon na lang ang inaantay!
1. Feel the pain 2. Make a decision 3. Focus on yourself 4. Realize your self-worth 5. Learn to be alone 6. Be selfish to be selfless 7. Do not find the right one. Be the right one.
I'm on the process na. Moving on from 7 years relationship is not easy, but it's not impossible to do so din :) Ang sarap lang makapakinig ng perception ng lalaki. Salamat dito! :)
Musta Ang pag move on?
Musta na boss?
How are you na po?
How are you po? Were on the same page right now. Same 7 years. 😢
Must sir??
If you know what you bring to the table, you will not be afraid to eat alone. 👏🏼
Same tayo, at the age of 47 wala p rin asawa. Ang tanong ko din, bakit lagi ako iniiwan or ung mahal ako nawawala din s huli.. inisip ko nlang may plan si God para s kin.
This message is for me. I'm on a healing process. 🌻🌻 I can't afford again to lose someone just because I'm not that totally healed. We need to go through the process, so that next time we can offer the best version of ourselves to someone that God is appointing us to be with for the rest of our lives.
I hope one day when I come back to this video, I have already apply the words you’ve said. Slowly, I know I will be okay. My love will be gone for 4 years to pursue his dreams, and I will be stuck here in our place, our city, our dreams for each other striving to move on and find courage again to fight. The moment we get the results from the academy I know that there’s nothing I can do anymore but to accept the fact that we both love each other but it won’t last because we both need to grow and learn on our path. I really pray that he’ll get accepted because I know how much he has to sacrifice the things he love the most to pursue his dreams. And i’ll always remember his favorite quote, “ the hardest choice requires the strongest will.” We might have promised each other to not leave each other’s side but I know that God has a better plan for the both of us. I just have to keep reminding myself that if he is the one for me, no matter how far I will travel and venture, our love will always find us both. But if he’s not the one and we’ll just forget each other in the span of his study in the academy, that’s God’s way of telling me that I am not the one he is supposed to end up with, God has prepared a girl so much better than me, and eventually I have to accept it because I, myself always wants whats better for him even though I am not that person. I just really have to let him go, to grow and learn, and while he create his own path and venture on his journey, here in my place, I will focus on myself and on the things that I love. So when the time comes that the person who’s meant for me will come, I am ready to accept him wholeheartedly and I will be able to give all the love that he deserve.
P.S my grammar might not be on its best form, but this is how I really feel right now. Hope i’ll be better soon.
He wasn’t able to attend the academy, and we both ended things brutally. Now, I’ll be watching this video and rereading my comment, realizing that we weren’t meant for each other. No pursuing of dreams or different schedules, it was the internal conflict that wasn’t communicated made us end things between us. I am ready to take a step in my new journey. You are all in my past, I have to welcome my present. Thank you, and good bye.
Sarap umiyak habang nakikinig.Feels like im talking to my kuya. Thank you po. Nakakagaan ng pakiramdam😊
It is really easy to forgive but to forget? It's the hardest part.
It's my first heartbreak and i don't have regrets. Thank you so much po sa lahat ng payo.
.hrap tkga mkapag forget. Ako hlos iniiwan for how many yrs. And now gnun prin .
Yes, it's true. It happened to me. It took me a long time to grasp everything. Healing and moving on is a long process. As time goes by you will realize you have finally moved on with the person and with the situation. Matatawa ka na lang kapag maaalala mo... Now following you. See you around. Take care and keep safe.
napaka tanga ko ngayon 😭🥲 lahat binibigay ko.
@@erlindarobis5958 Fresh from break up po ako kahapon lang masakit pero kakayanin he was my first bf but now i need to let him go
I was in a very bad situation 4yrs ago and im thankful i have moved on for quite a long time now. And watching your video now made me smile because i actually did all what you said and moving on was the best journey i had after the break up💜💜💜
how long did ittake foryou to finally movedon?
Araw-araw kotong pinapanood lalo na pag matutulog na ako sa umaga galing work. Napaka laking tulong po ng message mo sir. Sobrang thankful ako nakita ko tong channel mo. Araw-araw ko tong pinapanood para magising ko sarili ko, then para ma improve kopa yung ako. Hahaha natatawa lang ako minsan kasi nakakatulog nadin ako kagad pag napapanood koto. Hinde ako nag oover think.🙌 kudos sayo sir. MARAMING SALAMAT. God blessed 🙏
Yes sir darbs napapahanga talaga sa mga wisdom talks mo♥ skl my past relationshp was 5 yrs ago. And instead na maghanap ako ng iba i focus my self pano ba maging worthy, nag focus ako how to finish my studies naging strong independent woman ako to be exact. At madami ang naka appreciate don. Nakita ko na ang worth ko na hindi ako basta bastang babae. Ngayon i have this someone na special sakin and he treated me as a his ideal girl.😇
Racky Alob im happy you got over it😉 see after all the, may happiness parin
Sana all... 😊
Need someone that can relate s story ko..😔 Im glad you made it.. Congrats 😊
sana alllll.... i hope ako din in the future🙈🙈🙈
@@RealTalkDarbs but now he broke up with me kasi nakahanap ng malapit HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA utas🤣
This is the 3rd time that I listened to this video and it really hits me. 1month already since we broke up and I can still feel the pain. This advice of Kuya Darbs, help me a lot to go through the pain that I am feeling and realize my worth. Thank you Kuya Darbs, I pray that more people will be inspired the way you give advices. Mauubos ko na po sa kakapanood ung videos mo dito sa youtube. God bless you!
Kumusta ka na now, ma'am. I need words huhu
Experiencing so much pain right now, feeling the pain and loneliness, It's so hard telling oneself that he's gone and I need to live and build myself alone, the trauma of cheating repeated, that causes so much pain in my heart🥺, Thanks for the advice Real Talk Darbs, I do hope everyone who experience being broken will find it's peace and worth someday, We deserve to be love, Everything happens for a reason, maybe God has a plan and put us in this situation because something good is about to come.♥️Amen
Once you find the right person, sasabhin mo na lng.. " thank god nag kahiwalay kami" just enjoy the pain and the process, then you will see the magic.
Acceptance is the real secret of moving on😊💚
Jayvie-Ann Guade yep pero thats a macro advise. How do you arrive to the feeling of acceptance?
@@RealTalkDarbs its a matter of accepting the fact that your not meant to be together po. You both deserve better. Feel the pain, forgive then move on😊
Jayvie-Ann Guade fair enough. But easy to say. Most people know that but why it os difficult to do? Coz they dont know where to start? Accepting, telling them to move. How? If ill tell to be in a place where youve never been before and say you asked me how to go coron island palawan (for example) ill tell you ride a plane from manila then when you land ride boat. Easy to say right? And my answer was not wrong. But thats a macro advise, you need specifics on how to buy a plane ticket and where in palawan you need to land. You also need which boat to ride, where to find them and the costs. All of that is necessary. So when giving advise and we tell them you need to accept the fact. That doesnt make the advise wrong but the question is how?
@@RealTalkDarbs I feel you but I just broke up with my 7yrs relationship last april 17 he cheated on me twice but then I accepted the fact that where not meant to be that's why I let him go freely to find his own happiness and contentment that he didn't see/feel towards me😊💚
Yes, accept the FACT that it is FINISHED.
Silent Guy yessir
Ikaw ba toh??
Madaling sabihin kasi hindi ikaw yung nasaktan..or kasi hindi ikaw yung tunay na nagmahal sna na madali lang iaccept..sna nga bukas makalawa wla na yung sakit..yung sakit na parang halos araw araw papatay sau dahil sa bigat na nararamdaman mo..😢😢😢
Hindi madali pero wala ka nmn choice dmu mapilit ang isang tao kung dina masaya sayo...
@@annecherrysantos5821 same here
It's been a year but it still hurts. This is what I needed the most, thank you 💙
Breaking up with her is so painful and so hard to accept, kala ko first and last love ko siya. Slowly accepting narin and forgetting memories na kasama ko siya para matulungan ko sarili ko to step forward. Thank you sa 28 months na nakilala kita at nakasama. Goodluck to both of us. Only memories will be forgotten, but not you. Farewell~, My Kariman
"I loved you and I wish you would have done the same. I am not sad because you broke up, I am sad because you found reasons to break things up."
Same po 5 years na kami 😭😭😭
My 5yrs relationship ended because he cheated on me, he got another girl pregnant and when i ask him about it, seems like he's blaming me for everything. 🙃 It's devastating, considering the fact that I did nothing but to love him with my whole heart and accept everything he is. It's so heavy that i found myself crying every night, overthinking. I pity and feel sorry for myself for letting them ruin me, emotionally. I had a lot of questions in my mind for the past months. I'm so happy I came across to this video. It's like all of my questions have answers now. 🙂 I'm still in the healing process and hoping to feel better soon. Thankyou for this. 👍
Miss Hope happy to help. Hopefully your healing starts soon
i think same ng mga reason yong boys na tayo yong bini blame..
fuck I know the feeling
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Sme 4 yrs kmi pngplit aq hbng kmi p 4 mnths n pla cla. Peo pg mga gnyn ng cheat nd yn mgttgumpay s bgo nya relationship
sa 16k people na kelangan talaga e search sa youtube kung pano mag move on, WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS 😊😘
Ang hirap mag move on lalo na kung sa umpisa ng relationship nyo nag live in na kayo agad tapos after 2 years nagka anak na kami kasi hiniling nya sakin na sana bigyan ko daw sya ng anak pero nung lumabas na yung baby namin after 1 month nakipag hiwalay na sya dahil lang sa mababaw na away. Siguro naghanap nalang sya ng dahilan para maging malaya. Hirap na hirap ako mag move on kasi ayaw ko lumaki yung anak ko sa broken family dahil ako mismo lumaki ako sa broken fam at sobrang hirap non. Kahit may bago na sya hanggang ngayon umaasa at pinag dadasal ko pa rin na sana balang araw maisip nya na mas masarap umuwi sa mag ina nya na laging nandyan sa hirap at ginhawa para sa kanya kahit pinagtabuyan nya ng paulit ulit.
Sending virtual hugsss ate🥺😔
@@cartoonstv9464 nakalimutan ko nag comment pala ako ng ganito hahahaha nababaduyan na ko sa comment ko 😂😂😂😂. Btw, masaya na ko ngayon. Time heals all wounds 🙏🥰
@@daebautista4532 Ate relate kasi ako ngayon hahaha kaya nagreply tuloy ako. Btw I'm happy for you po♥️
10yrs with a daughter plus an incoming one but all going down the drain because of this new woman. x Self worth, x self love and + self doubt. Pero I know hangga't may hininga ako, hangga't binebless ako ni Lord ng buhay, I know I can go through this pain. Hindi lang healthy sa baby but kakayanin. KAKAYANIN PO! :)
Kuya Darbs Thank you for this advice. Reality hits me, its easy to say the word acceptance but
I carry this for almost 8 months and I'm still stalking her on social media.
(nagmahal kami ng walang label then bumalik siya, naiwan ako sa ere :))
But now I'm ready little by little, ayoko ng biglaang pagbitaw.
1. The only way to get out, is to feel and go through it.
2. Make a Decision.
3. Focus on yourself and find yourself worth.
4. Learn to be alone
5. Be selfish in order to be selfless.
6. Do not find the right one, be the right person for someone
7. Be the right person for someone.
"stop finding happiness in the same place you lost it" ❤️
Naway soon ang 6yrs para sakin is a number na lang. I'm praying for my healing talaga and accept also. Naway talaga maaccept ko na wala talaga. Dahil iniyak ko naman na to sa Lord, Pinag pray ko na, gumawa ko ng efforts para samin kaso wala na talaga lalo lang ako nasaktan dahil pinipilit ko yung sarili ko sa taong hindi na ko gugustohin pa at mamahalin pa. Naway talaga maaccept ko na hindi kami para sa isat isa.
umokay ako bigla. panoorin ko nalang ulit to when i get sad.
THANK YOU SA LAHAT NG ADVICE. NGAYON MASASABI KO NASA TAMANG PROSESO LANG AKO ❤️
Move-on na guys!!! be yourself!! love yourself first!!
Totally agree with every step. feel the pain and don’t pretend that you’re okay kasi mas mahihirapan ka lang. its okay to be sad and hurt you’re allowed to feel that way because that means you really loved that person and its part of the healing process.
Do you need help??
I'm currently at my lowest point once again. Pero this time, i want to help myself. I want to be better, to heal without doing self harm. I want to move forward pero ido not know my next step. Then i saw this video...THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
same situation ,,i dont know where to start again. hirap kc need na bitawan tlga😔😔😔
Sobrang helpful po..Thank you so much, he broke up with me during my lowest moment in my life..It was like its crashing to the bones, I always cry speciaally during night..I always stalk his account in dating site if he is online there thats how stupid I am for him! And now im trying to live my life on my own by learning new things and Pray as well but its still painful when I think about our happy times and his good qualities..
Ang hirap gawin lahat ng yan pero kapag nagawa ko to ang sarap siguro sa pakiramdam ..
Focus on yourself ito muna prioritize ko step by step matatapos din kung anuman yung narramdaman ko.
Mhe sy usually the right thing to do is the most difficult. Whats important is you already know what you have to do
@@RealTalkDarbs thank you po 😘yeah usually naman alam na naten ung tama pero matigas lang tlaga ulo mas pinipili yung complicated heheh .. sa tamang panahon cguro magiging okay din ang lahat 😥
Mhe sy trust the process
Ang hirap . But im on the process . Thank you for your word of wisdome .araw araw koto papanoorin HANGGANG sa mahimasmasan at mataohan ako❤
I agree po. Sabi nga, let's love ourselves in such a way that others would know how we should be loved. 😊
Focus on being the right person. This really made a lot of difference on how I feel right now. Thank you Kuya Darbs ❤
thank you for advice kuya darbs :( still crying right now, someday he will realized how important i am :'(, nandon nako sa point na obsess napo talaga, diko kaya :( looking forward .
napaka real talk mo po... 😊 justified ung name ng channel niyo... the wisdom is so high... salamat po... napakareal talk po... decide whether to realy move on or u still hope to be together after break up... dats the stage most cant get over with... salamat po... its an eye opener...dats the jump start that most dont know... thank you for teaching me... salamat po kuya darbs...
Its been a week since we broke up. weve been to together for 3 years.I was living in their house na and i thought i had the family na that i do not have. You cant imagine how hard it is to live there tas nagbreak up kayo. and since i dont know how to drive and pandemic im stuck there for days and believe me it is heart breaking on how she treats me like a stranger, My first three days was literally hell there was a time where i cant breath due to my anxiety so i need to walk outside 4am in the morning, cant eat, cant sleep, for the longest time di talaga ako umiiyak, but everynight it happens. Our break up was so fast cant even imagine na nasa state na kami na ganito.In just one day she became a different person a stranger kumbaga, your dreams together nawala ng ganon lang, bumili na nga kami ng kotse eh, dalawa pa and each time i see my car sobrang sakit kasi its our goal na ipamana namin sa future children sana. Our issues up naman is fixable but she choose not to.Once you put her in the center of your world, its her that youll always remember from little things even your achievements, so moving on is really hard.Even so all i wish for her is to find someone na katapat nya, yung d nya kaya iwan same goes to him.I still love her and all i want is her happiness and i accepted the fact that we cant be together anymore. Your video helped me alot boss me pinagdadaanan pero stronger than before.
Exactly the same scenario here, but the other way around, both our families and him are living together sa bahay ng parents ko until now. Dami na naming plano, we were already engaged since last year, sure na talaga kami, pero wala eh. Sobrang sakit sa pakiramdam yung bigla nalang iba na yung trato niya sayo, nearly 4 years of being together was thrown out the window. I'm still in disbelief.
I'd lost a man, a friend, and a partner, but not myself. So I set out on a journey to recover myself, to use this breakup as an opportunity for development and self-discovery rather than an excuse to dwell in self-pity. I find it difficult, especially because I don't know where to begin, but I know it's a worthwhile process.❤️
Thank you. I need it right now. Kudos sir !
Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. I have a broken relationship for 3years, but now I we are back together through his help. He can really help you as he helped me.
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I just finished praying and saw this video. Thank you, I needed this.
Maraming salamat Po Real Talk Darbs,Sir! Satisfied Po Ako sa lahat na advice mo Ngayon uu,,Hulog ka Ng langit para makatulong sa Amin na Hindi nakaalam kung paano mag move on,,now alam ko na how to move on uu,,Ang Ganda mo mag advice idol,,So, again and again a Million thanks of you,,God,bless u always
im almost falling in love now while im in a relationship. but i need to be strong to get away from this. magdasal lang tayo at iasa natin ang araw araw natin sa diyos n malagpasan lahat ng bigat at sakit na nararanasan natin.. kailangan natin piliin lagi ang tama. masakit pero dapat lamang ang isip natin sa mga ganitong sitwasyon,. dont be blind to a new feelings for someone. dont be too selfish by choosing your own happiness while others is misserable.... sabe nga Let go and Let God . si lord parin ang ang nakakaalam ng nararapat sayo. just trust him...
Same situation.
Sino pinili mo?
Ending this year with a pain.... Feel the pain first.
Same here iniwan din ako ng minahal ko pra sa ibang lalake 🥺
Same :(
3 years ago, this helped me. This is what I send to my friends who are going through what I went through. It took years and a lot of therapy pero laban lang.
It's really hard to move on from someone you gave every part of yourself.
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him.
Whtsaap him**.
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32k lang to nung nagpunta ako dito , NGAYON 99K na haha. Dami pala nag break up ngayong pandemic.😅
Hahahahaha 😅
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Feel the pain and go through it. Solid kuya Darbs. Sampal pero magheheal parin. Salute you for advise.
Marco Manoriña thank you! Just go through it. Dont delay
@@RealTalkDarbs Salamat po darbs. I still want to feel the pain and proceed in making a decision.
Pangalawang basted ko na ngayon taon hahaha pangalawang nood ko na din. Nakaka relieve talaga panoorin to. Salamat sir Darbs
This is the best advise. I like most the part that once you make a decision it should be final. And make yourself best for yourself not for others. I like that. I always listen to this to remind myself always if I became weak. This make strong
“Because of pandemic, we broke up"
No. Hindi dahil sa pandemic. You broke up with that person not because of pandemic but because hindi talaga kayo ang para sa isat-isa. I mean hindi kayo ganun katatag para lampasan ang pandemic na ito.
Tama. Ako din iniwan during the pandemic. At some point gusto ko sisihin yung nangyayari pero hindi e. May chioce ang mga taong nang iiwan.
1 buwan na kmi break. Ewan ko ba kung bakit ako nag search ng how to moveon. Pero tama lahat ng advice ni kuya. Sa ngayon nasa no. 1 process na ako iniiyak ko lahat kpag naaalala ko sya. Nag ppaka busy ako sa trabaho para sa pmilya at sarili ko. Kung ano yung ayaw nya sakin yun babaguhin ko para sa sarili ko at para sa pang habang buhay ko na mamahalin. Sa ngayon mag heheal muna ako bago mgmhal ulit
Same tayo na 1month break up pa lang pinagpalit ako tapos nag post na ng picture nila ng bago niya 9years kame😢..
hnd ko alam bat ko tinaype ung move on
Yung limang beses mong nahuli at pinatawad pero paulit ulit ka lng dn niloloko. Yung binigay mo lahat para sa kanya pero kulang parin. Yung tinatanong mo sya kung ano bang pagkkulang at pagkakamali mo pero wala syang maisagot. Yung iniwan kana lang bigla na parang wala kayong pinagsamahan. Yung sumama sya sa ibang lalake ng gabe na hndi mo alam. Yung sobra kang nasasaktan kasi tinatanong mo sa sarili mo ano bang pagkkulang mo. No choice kundi mag paubaya nalang move on tuloy ang life.
Marami pa naman iba. Makakahanap parin naman din. Hay buhay.
Ang galing, andito ko sa point na to eh pero mostly nagagawa ko lahat ng advise felt the pain now, I am thinking this was a blessing in disguise thanks na napadaan ako dito I know that I am doing good and what happened was right.
I fake moving on in front of people, but once I'm alone the sadness overwhelms me again.
From the bottom of my healing heart,thank you❤❤
Ling Saga happy to help
Not just to set us apart, doesn't mean that I don't love you. I'm just helping myself to find my importance, my worth as a father on our daughter. I want you to realise that it's hard to appreciate my worth my value as a father. It takes two to tanggo. Tandaan mo ito, hndi habang buhay matutumbasan ng iyong magulang ang pag mamahal na kaya kng ibigay sainyong mag ina ko. Balang araw lilipas din mama mo sa mundo, at hahanapin mo ang pag kukulang na meron ako ngunit sa ibang tao, at yun ay ang PAMILYANG BUO!!
Kuya darbs salamat po lalot nasa stage ako ng moving on talaga. This helped me to accept everything. Ngayon I do have clear vision on how to see myself this year 2023.
Ang daming #feels nitong video na to... Moving on process, self respect, self love, 80/20 rule, San ka pa, galing rtd keep it up... And congrats for making the RTD FAM, our growing family... Thank you RTD
Evelyn Cabulera thank you evelyn! Nakaktuwa alam mo na yung core pillars na tinuturo ko
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Thats why i always end up broken because i always find the right one without asking myself if i am the right person to someone. Thank you kuya Darbs for the advice🙏
Exactly!self Love,Be Content and Happy First to be into another relationship again…if ever man.Pray to God for Guidance this time.
Darbs' words really comforts me. I've been trying to move on for 7 months now and still counting. Ang hirap pag gustong gusto mo na syang makalimutan kasi hirap na hirap ka na sa lungkot and pain but the memories are still there haunting you for almost every day, no matter where u go, no matter what u do lagi mo pa din syang naaalala. The worst is namimiss mo sya pero hindi mo man lang alam kung ano ng buhay nya, na sana nasa mabuting kalagayan sya. Ipapasadyos ko nalang talaga🥹
Let me cry one last time 😭
You're the best teacher RTD
Evelyn Cabulera thank eve!
Yong pag move on para lang den yan laro kung mag patalo ka sa lungkot talo ka talaga pero kung bumangon ka at wag isip yong sakit at mahalin yong sarili jan tayo panalo😊😊😊
First time ko to pinanood ang video na to dahil naghahanap ako ng way how to move on...hindi paman kami formal na break pero ramdam ko sa sarili ko napunta na kami dun...maraming alibi kung bakit hindi sinasagot mga tawag at chats ko , laging seen lang pero walang reply ..maraming nagsasabi na meron na yang iban pero gusto ko sa kanya parin galing ung salitang yun ...almost 5yrs in a relationship ngayon ko lang naramdaman ang bigat sa dibdib ko , mayduda na ako kahit hindi naman ako ganun dahil malaki trust ko ...kaya ngayon gusto ko unti untin mawala ung pagmamahal na yun😥
I fell in love with someone 2 years ago and I still haven't moved on from it. Kasabay nung time that I give up on him, naghiwalay parents ko and I realized na napabayaan ko na din studies ko. It's an Unrequited love and this person really hasn't given me much attention but he became the center of my universe. Watching this video rn, I think nasa level palang ako ng making decisions. I haven't healed yet and I sometimes caught myself stalking him in social media, Sa dahilan na I'm still stuck at the part of What If it was just wrong timing?
Pero thank you...I will really be serious in letting this person now who also has been the reason for me to be clinically diagnosed of BPAD.
Same po :((( May part sakin na kumakapit pa kahit sya parang bumitaw na talaga :(
@@zyragr Mahirap pero alam ko na dadating ka din sa point na tatanggapin mo nalang na hindi ito yung kwento na may chance pa. (If it's like unrequited love) Nonetheless, I hope you heal as well.
@@itsalright1569 thank you so much po, kaya natin ito magiging okay din tayo in time :)
currently experiencing this right now , unrequited is a special kind of hell that i wouldn't wish even on my worst enemy
Ngayon ko lang narealized na kaya nahihirapan ako mag move on sa broken marriage namin that lasted for 11 years is because of unrequited love. This kind of love causes deep heartbreak/pain kaya pla more than a year na hindi pa din ako naghi-heal. 🥺
I really need this kind of thinking right now. My kids needs their mom now more than ever. It is really not that easy going through this process. Thank you so much for this Kuya darbz 👍👍
relate ako sau sis.i have kids who need me kailangan ko maging malakas at matatag para sa kanila.it's been one week andito pa rin ang pain.i dont have someone to talk to.im praying for my healing and i will start loving myself..uunahin ko nman ang sarili ko kc naubos ako.
@@spencersadueste1021 i feel this
Thank you Kuya Darbs. 💓 I will be back commenting on your videos once I am fully healed.
Sheeeyyt shakkkeet
Gusto ko mgtambay lage dito parang Ang sarap sa pakiramdam,natauhan agad thank you kuya darbs sa advice sa mga broken vow este heart like us ,pag bumabalik sa isip ko ung mga nangyari pinapanood ko ulit to 😅para ipamukha sa self ko 😅apaka outch tlaga
Thanks for this! im going thru pain myself now, ended an almost 2yr relationship because i became selfish and decided to fix myself alone.. now i regret it :( it really hurts that she pick to be alone rather than building herself back with me but i cant blame her because ive been toxic for a long time
now im healing and hopefully one day ill be back in my comment here and just laught off everything :) and i promise to be a right person to the next person i will love
I really fell you 😭😭😭
kamusta?
kamusta?
Kamusta?
WOW ITS BEEN A YEAR? HAHAHA NOW THINKING BACK, IF IT DIDNT ENDED WILL I BE IN THE SAME SITUATION RIGHT NOW? MAYBE ITS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE TBH, SOMETIMES RELATIONSHIPS HAD TO END FOR YOU TO HAVE A SELF REALIZATION AND KNOW YOUR SELF WORTH
so to those who are still moving on, kaya nyo yan :) nakaya ko nga laban lang!
7 years of relationship ended up just today💔 I’m so broken now. Listening to this somehow gives me the calmness i need now.
Sending hugs.
@@rebirth3254 thank you. I needed it. Thank you ❤️
do you feel better na po?
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R u ok now?
I've fall in love with the wrong person but i will fall in love again with the right person and the right person will fall in love with my soul and we will live forever.🙏
Go through all those pain and cry it all until you get tired crying and you will feel better through the process. That number one advice is really how I get over a love ones 🥺.
Salamat paps.. naka tulong sakin yung mga sinabi mo pra mkpag decide.. 6 months ago simula ng piniit ko na mag balikan kme ng wife ko kahit may mahal na syang iba.. lahat ng nakikita at nababasa ko na masakit tinitiis ko dahil sobrang mahal ko sya at gusto ko maayos at hindi masira ang family ko... like yung mababasa mo na chat nya sa friend nya na mahal na mahal nya ung guy and sakin wala na syang nararamdaman.. 10 years kme and we already have a two kids.. sobrang nakaka durog ng pagka tao pero pinili ko na tiisin.. but ngaun nag decide na ko na mag let go.. total wreck na ko physically and mentally wla na kong tinira na pag mamahal sa sarili ko, lahat binigay ko na pero wala parin.. 😭💔
Okssi lang yan tol, parehas na parehas tayo
Same feeling right now. 5-yr relationship kami at lahat ng firsts namin ay mula sa isa't isa. Kasalanan ko talaga aminado ako. Yun nga lang, tatlong linggo lang at naka move on na siya sa ibang lalaki. Triny ko siyang habulin at ipaalala lahat ng 5 years namin, pero napagod na agad siya. Akala ko may pag-asa pa, pero ngayon kasama na palagi niya yung rebound niya. Ngayon mamahalin ko na muna ang sarili ko. Sobrang tumigil ang pag improve ko ng pagkatao ko mula nung naging kami
Thanks for helping me move on tito darbs. Lablab! Your words are my guide to self-love and
hopefully in time I can be full of love again that I have no room for it but to share it out to the world.
You know what, hearing that from you makes everything i do worth it! Self worth since day one😃
Real Talk Darbs I'm glad. Eto real talk. now, if I feel that I'm about to do something stupid, (like texting my ex) I all of a sudden hear your voice in head saying "Wag mo na ulitin, bes!" 🤣 kudos to you and your craft. Salamat sa inspirasyon 💜
Kuwento PH hahah naging boses ng konsensya mo na pala ako😂😝 keep it up! Wag na maging marupok
Thank you. After months of emotional and mental torture at sobrang pangddegrade sa pagkatao ko, even ending with the line na hindi na ako mahal ng ex ko, umabot ako sa point na hindi ko na alam kung ano yung worth ko kasi sobra akong nagmahal at dumepende. I was not perfect, it was my first time learning kung ano yung mga bagay na nagmamanifest sakin pagpapasok ako sa isang relationship. I tried so hard to change pero walang nagiging enough. This time I finally decided to heal first kahit mahirap kesa araw-araw pa na ipagsiksikan yung sarili ko sa taong ayaw naman na sakin. This video is right, instead of looking for someone na kayang iaccept yung current flaws and issues ko, I should overcome them first by myself so I can be the right person for someone else. Tinatry ko na tingnan pa kung bakit palagi akong naanxiety at takot na takot mawalan. Planning to see a psychiatrist to help me deal with it. Pero for now, I'll spend some time accepting the pain. Even though lagi akong naanxiety at hindi makahinga ng maayos tuwing naiisip ko lahat ng nangyari, I will try na lumaban lang and focus on the things that I missed out while I was in a relationship. This is my day 1. I hope I can come back to this after I started to feel better.
Kumusta kana po?
There is no specific way to move on. Each person has his or her own way to move on. Its your choice of how long you will move on or not. Mind over matter. I agree, feel the pain and eventually you will get tired of crying. Its okay to cry and mourn. You will wake one day, you have moved on. You will just laugh about everything. Always remember, to start moving on, one should forgive. Forgiving someone is actually forgiving yourself. That will give you peace. Focus on yourself. Improve yourself. #SelfWorth
need this now 😢😢😢
Kapag iniwan tayo ok lang masaktan wag mo lang tambayan 😂
IBA KA TALAGA NAPAKATALINO AS IN THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE NA NARINIG KO WHEN IT COMES TO MOVING ON KASI PANG GENERAL NA UNG WALK AWAY KALIMUTAN MO NA SYA AT HINDI SYA GNUN KADALI
Natapos ang limang taon. Akala ko sya na. Sobrang bigat nang nararamdaman ko. Kahit anong oras o saang lugar bigla ka nalang maiiyak pag maaalala mo. Sana matapos na to napapagod na ko. Sana mawala na yung sakit..