Pero ang tanong, sa three years naging loyal ba kayo sa isa’t isa? Wala ka bang ginawa kahit isang beses o siya mahirap mapatunayan kung pareho kayong sinungaling
communication + trust + be a mature + be understanding+ show your effort even you're in a far in your own way how** say sorry if your wrong, Communicate when you have things to discuss..plus forgive with it has valid explanations. And Trust the process. And you Must be mature enough to understand in all matter..because were just human can make mistake in any way. At anytime☺☺☺ thats it. Lastly give time each other is a Must☺☺ and till your GF all i say and its work and worth it☺
It works.. but it doesnt mean it is not hard. Its hard. But we just have to think also that it is temporary.... ang pangit lang ngayon, covid is making it harder haha ❤️ but love, effort, commitment and trust is the key.
For me it does work...I'm in LDR and we are almost 16 years happily married...if you both have Trust ,Respect, love and loyalty to your partner.... always pray for guidance and I'm grateful and bless ...
It does work. My husband and I came from a 5 years LDR before we got married. Aside from open communication, love, effort and commitment, compromise is also a key for this kind if relationship.
12 years LDR 🥰 it works but it hard its never gonna be easy sa true lang. It takes Love,Trust,open Communication,effort and Honesty. At dapat parehas kayo ng pinipicture in the future. Parehas kayong nag lulook forward na kayo hanggang pagtanda. Parehas ninyong pangarap ang makasama habang buhay ang isat isa.
Ldr really works but Subrang daming mo kailangan isakrepisyo since mag boyfriend kami ng husband ko until now na kasal na kami ldr pa din kami.. subrang hirap pero masasanay kana din ang kailangan nyo lang talaga ay magtiwala sa isat isa at be honest and open kau palage sa lahat ng bagay kahit magkalau kau at mag fucos sa goal nyo as couple.. ang mga tukso nandyan lang yan palage kaya pag enintertain Mo ang tukso na yan wala talagang mangyayari..12 years na kmi ng husband ko at may isa kaming anak at ngaun kasalukuyan sya na nasa barko.. Ang pnaka importante sa lahat2 always pray and huminge palage ng guidance at bigyan pa kau ng tatag na malagpasan ang mga arW hndi kau magkasamang mag asawa. And last always make time to talk to ur husband or wife.
I am already in an LDR.. and yung tip lang is Trust... Honesty and being committed... But if you have already the RED FLAGS .. it isn't worth it.. But so far masaya kami ni bebe ko. We respect each other.. well, communication din kc yung hindi nawawala sa amin.. kahit may work ako ng gabi at may work sya ng umaga.. we always find time to video call whenever we can. Pag break time ko tsaka ako tumatawag sakanya. Pag off ko.. i will wait na makauwi sya.. we don't focus on the distance .. instead we focus on each other. We share everything.. we teach each other.. we help each other whenever we can help.. Meron yung time na I crave for more of his time. But i know and understand yung situation namin so I am just grateful of what we can offer to each other. Basta trust and respect yung foundation. Dapat din mahaba ung understanding mo. At patience..
Currently on LDR for almost 3 years now. Its hard but if both parties commits to it then it can work. For me and my partner we agreed have an open communication, trust and understanding as well as time on our own. Important thing also is for both of you to have plans or goals to look forward to.
i met my boyfriend 2013, 2015 umakyat sya ng barko para maging seaman, since then nagkakaroon lang kmi ng communication every after 4months, kasi sa cargo ship sila. fast forward 2019, we met again after a very long time. after 4yrs. the very first time we met again after that years of being in a LDR, he proposed to me infront of my parents. fast forward the same year June 2019 we got married. aug 2019 til now we are back to LDR, umakyat na sya ulit ng barko. i think for me, just believe in love, believe into your partner, both of you shud believe that LDR will work. and most important always put God in the center or your relationship.
im in a LDR right now.. and i was amaze how our relationship works na napapa omg ako kung panu kmi nag kiclick.. bcoz before i really dont believed that LDR will work for me.. but u cant blame destiny sometimes bcoz even if you have bf right by your side if he's not really meant for you relationship will not trully work dba.. but now im happy bcoz even if he's miles and miles away from me im contented and happy kuya.. its maybe bcoz trust ,understanding and love is present in both of us.. our relationship is actually effortless bcoz we are both willing to wait for each other when the time comes.. ty kuya 💛
ive been married with my LDR partner for almost 4 years now..it's just a matter of effort, constant communication, sacrifice and trust on your partner..halos 4 years naming kasal, bale 2months lang kaming magkasama physically pero we communicate literally every hour of everyday kahit na tulog na kami magkafacetime padin..we never fight, we make it a point na kapag may kinaiinisan kaming bagay, hindi namin binabaling sa isa't isa yung inis rather sinasabi namin kung bakit at ano yung nakakainis na bagay na nararamdaman namin..LDR nagwowork lang yan kung parehas kayong willing maging malayo sa isa't isa at the same time willing din kayong gumawa ng effort na hindi mafeel na malayo kayo or yung feeling na magkasama parin kayo palagi..
Currently im in this ldr situation . Mahirap lalo na ang mag trust. Mas madaling ibigay ang love kesa sa trust. Sometimes I feel pity kasi sobrang hindi ko maramdaman na mahalaga ako. I know busy sya Sa work pero Bakit ganun kahit nakikita ko na online sya minsan hindi sya mag chachat. Sometimes wanna give up na.
LDR is kinda hard lalo na nga jan sa Love Language. But stil wag lang sumuko. If you love the person then pray for it. Only God Can make impossible things possible to happen❤️ Ldr for almost 2yrs now😊
I agree! In LDR love language should be talk first. I've been in a recent break up and everything was so smooth and so real. He can give my language of love which is quality time but since we are in an LDR I can't give his language of love which is physical touch. We never fight and not gonna ven argue but one day he change towards me. He lessen our talk time and I don't get any message anymore when I wake. I was the only one who's trying, until I felt something is wrong already. I asked him to be honest why he change and his answer was the most painful reason I ever received in my history of break-up (char), he said he can't feel any romantic feeling towards me because he haven't know me personally. The way he said it hit me so hard that the past flashback. I was so overwhelmed and confused on how are those days feel so real and how he can said "I love you" when he not feel anything towards me. His word made it like I am a total stranger, as if I'm stranger on street he never know intimately. So piece of advice, before jumping in an LDR ask the person about their language of love. It is easier to fall in love but breaking up gives you an awful feeling that it is bad mentally and emotionally.
I believe in the saying.. absence makes the ❤💙 grows fonder...before after my first ldr ended up in a nightmare...a shorten period of 1 year and 3 months..gang doon na lang pla talaga... Hell dammed difficult....not everybody has endurance...nailed it..until my second relationship last 9years as we are ldr...and still counting🤞👏🙏..crossfinger clap sa amin.. Salute to my husband his a churchmen ...not saying na lahat faithful.. My case is different.
It works, 5yrs ldr na kami ng bf ko. Tiwala lang at higit sa lahat yung pagmamahal nyo sa isa't isa dapat nandudun.. Pagmahal mo handa kang magsacrifice .. Hindi kami kasal walang anak, pero nagwowork kasi may goal :) :) :)
It does, but it's very difficult. Need ng matinding patience, matinding trust, matinding Faith. ❤ I'm in a long Distance relationship, 3 years na, pero kung parehas kami naging mahina baka matagal na kami hiwalay, 1st Year palang namin dami na naming naface na problems but we didnt expect we overcome together ng magkahawak ng kamay and syempre with Faith in God. Until now ganun padin. Depende parin sa person talaga. Thanks Kuya darbs. ❤
At first I don’t believe that LDR can actually work until such time na I met him and see that it does work. Lagi tanong sakin ng iba,hindi ba kami nagsasawa paulit ulit lang ba daw pinaguusapan namin..well actually it is not like what it looks like..hindi nga kami nauubusan ng pinaguusapan kasi we both have life sa buong maghapon,since we are not together,we tells everything to each other.And we both agreed na it does work or anything will works kung tatlo kayo 😁kasi kasama ninyo si LORD sa relasyon ninyo 😇
Im in LDR for more than 2yrs. He's working in UAE and I am here in PH. It's not easy pero laban lang!❤ Always pray for the relationship. Trust each other. Communication always and let them feel your love everyday.🙏❤
Hi, new subscriber here. I like most of your topic and I admire most of your thoughts and point of views. Just want to share my experience and My take about LdR. I would say its a no, not gona work! Cause Ive been in a LdR twice. My first LDR was completely nonsense, and the second was alright and become the last relationship untill now. But I still say LDR won't gona work, because my 2nd and last LdR was a hell stressful, we both struggle during those times were a part, there is misunderstanding, jealousy, arguement every now and then, break up and make up and those sh*t's lasted for years, it was a very unhealthy relationship that made me realise the time and life I've wasted for no assurance. I was ready to walk away and just give up then when we both decided to put an end on our LDR, lucky he chose to do something and he Left his country and moved in here with me. And We're now on our 6 years, Hopefully forever..😘👏 If he didn't chose to come and live with me here, definitely I'm moving on alone..🙃
Just because it didn't work for you doesn't mean it never works. It worked for alot of people, including me. We've been together for 3 years now and next year i will be moving to his country. His parents are both filipino btw. He was just born and raised outside ph.
I'm in an LDR situation too, I can say na hindi din nmn madali, cyimpre maraming pagdadaanan, lalo pa this time na pandemic, mas lalong nakakachallenge. Patience to wait kilangan at samahan dapat ng takot ky God, pra yung focused nd ka madistruct. Yung kahit family pa lng ng fiance ko ung nakakasama ko ayos din nmn. Til now extended uli ang pgstay nya sa NZ, so antay2x lng kg kilan bubukas boarder, dahil I know someday magkakasama din kmi ng taong mahal ko. At mahal din ako. Really blessed.
..it works..but you need to sacrifice alot of things..tiwala lang tlga..pag mahal nyo isat isa pagka2tiwalaan nyo ang bawat isa..take risk gnun tlga more challenge will come but in the end kung tiwala kang mka2ya nyo,malalagpasan nyo yan..
Number 2, COMMITMENT, PURE LOVE AT UNAWA. basta, ang sarap sa pkiramdam na alam mong Khit malayo kayo nd napapagod mangarap yung partner mo pra sa inyo. And napakabuti nyan tao
I'm in a LDR for almost 2 years now. Well siguro sobrang swerte ko lang sa partner ko kasi understanding siya at sobrang haba ng pasensya. And yes key to LDR is love, communication, trust, patience and you both need to compromise.
Communication/trust/cometment and understanding is the key.., let that person feel that u love her/him everyday... Araw araw mo cyang mahalin at tagapin kung anu mayron kayo ngayon...
LDR is hard to do because of bereavement to each other.Each individual needs a good communication with patience, understanding, trust and sacrifices to fullfill each goal and dream for their future.If they stay in their relationship it will work.Because they love each other.
I've been in a long distance relationship for 7 years. I think we just really have to know each other's love language and to think na our love language is "PHYSICAL TOUCH" Kagaya nga ng sinbi nia, you have to make it work. ☺️ Just to share. ❤️
LDR works. I'm from North, he's from South and this my first time to have a LDR. It really needs a lot of effort both ways. Before, both of us was unsure kasi nga malayo kami sa isa't isa. Trust, love and communication, makes LDR stronger. Now, were living in one roof. So I believe, LDR really does work. :)
No, it doesn’t work. Though you stayed for 5-6 years, ang isa dyan there is someone talaga. Sadness and loneliness kalaban nila dyan. They will find someone to fulfil sa kulang. It’s hard and wala ng peace of mind.
Sir darbs it depends po sa dalawang magkasintahan kung paano nila I handle ang kan ilang relasyon kc para sakin first to ko magkaroon ng ldr at para sakin ito yung d best kc nung previous relationship ko na kasama ko yung tao feeling ko I'm alone but now even na ldr kami ng bf ko I always feel happy we always have a good conversation at yung communication namen ay always active,, naniniwala tlga ako na kapag may tiwala kayo sa isat isa napag uusapan nio yung mga bagay na ayaw ng bawat isa it will work po and firsof all yung faith nio pareho kay God because only God can make a good plan for us 😍
Hi I still believe in LDR, kahit na ika apat kuna tong LDR still kicking pa rin ako 💪🏻 1st LDR - foriegner (2years) 2nd LDR - cruiseship (5years) 3rd LDR - teacher ( 3months) 4th & hope will be my last LDR -seaman Laban pa rin huwag kayo susuko, LDR works just do your very best 👍🏼
For me, Ldr will work basta andun lng palagi ang trust, respect, love & commitment with each other & put God in the middle of it. Always have a communication wid each other para maibsan ang lungkot.
It takes loyalty, faith, trust, understanding, comunication to be in LDR relationship to work out. To be strong together. My myself i believe in LDR. And proud to say i am in a relationship with Turkish for almost 3yrs now. We haven't meet in person yet. In the future hopefully. LDR is true it does exist yes but indeed not easy. I just hold on to faith and destiny that somehow one day we will meet each other.
I'm in the ldr so far worth it still we love each other and we have a good communication and we trust each other you are true Tito darbs trusting some you love is very important specially in ldr.we are 1 year and 11 months I'm in Kuwait and he in the Philippines. Thank you and more power God bless
Still believing LDR does work! I am on LDR he is in USA and am in Dubai. I guess it depends on the couple’s age if you are matured enough and been in the relationship for longer years already it can work. May social media naman we talk we chat everyday despite the time difference. So basically it is up the both of you to find time. Sabi nga kung gusto may paraan, kng ayaw madami dahilan! It takes two to tango, pwde magwork ang LDR kng pareho kayo mag eeffort. Trust din is the key!
Yow guys, i think im in this situation of LDR right now, i just met a girl and shes miles and miles away from me, but it seemed like we really like each other, and the only bonding we have is playing ML, chatting and VC sometimes, i feel so attracted to her and shes so special to me... Do you guys think its worth a shot? Coz i really really like her... A lot...
the best talaga mga payo mo kuya darbs, kahit anong topic nabibigyan mo ng hustisya❤️ marami kang natutulungan sa wisdom na naibabahagi mo para ma improve pa namin ang aming mga sarili, hulog ka ng langit kuya darbs, God bless po❤️❤️❤️❤️
LDR is so hard lalo na kung there's a lot of temptation surrounds you, but if you and your partner looking forward the future with each other and you're ready to sacrifice a lot of things, sa tingin ko pwede, but I'm not saying this will work for every LDR relationship just have trust and faith to each other and a lot of prayers.
LDR works! I was married to a man I had an LDR relationship for 4 years. It depends on the level of committment, patience and LOVE to each other. He passed away 2.5 years ago. But our love story is a proof that LDR works. ❤️
For me ...it works 6 yrs na kami ng BF ko at hindi pa kami nag kita In Person ..as in hndi talaga madali kasi nandyan ung mga tampuhan,awayan lahat nandyan na pero na aayos din naman.basta may tiwala lang kayo sa isat isa at sabayan nyo ng PRAYER maging maayos din ang lahat. Love,trust and commitment
My 1St LDR it works for 8 months bfire we've met in personal.. We've live in one roof in 1 months but when I went to Macau and his going back to saudi we lost our communication .my 2nd ldr we've broke were only 6 months kse babaero sya.. Now my 3rd ldr the same again ifound out na I'm not the only one.. Nagbago sya after 4months,,nd na sya lage magcall sken.. Minsan nalnh nag chat sken.. Until one day napagod nko mag reach out sa knila.. Nakikita ko sya online 4 hrs hinhayaan ko nlng sya...
2 years of being LDR, it's hard pero basta loyal lang sa isa't isa , communication and willing to fight for each other , lastly may goals sa buhay , it works. Now we are already married although we had only 4 months being together. I thank God kasi binibigyan kmi ng lakas. Sa mga ldr jan fight lang po.
Sincerely thank you kuya Darl. I was in pain rn but by listening to your words of wisdom lalo na sa last made me feel comfort. And now naintindihan ko na why my past rs didn't work & i can finally let it go. ❤️
True, as I experienced it. Kala ko madali as a first timer, kaya lang di nag work out di naki Cooperate, kala ko he shared it with me since he's already experiencing always this kind of Relationships. Honesty lang ang solusyon and Open communication.
Just see this video…. And for me 👍 yes LDR works … me and my husband for 6 years and still together… we just have our love.. faith… respect and most importantly trust… to makes it work…❤️ Watching in Saudi……
Yes i have 1yr and 3months LDR we build a honest foundation and soon we meet this sept.LDR is the hardest relationship but if both of you is honest and have fear of god nothing is imposible ❤
4 yrs relationship and 3yrs LDR for within that yrs on and off kme pro hindi nmin kayang bitawan ang isat isa at pinipili nmin na mg stay pa dn at naniniwala kme na at the end kme talaga.ang importante lng nman ay my communication kayo at my tiwala sa isat isa ay mg wowork talaga😊💪🏼.
I think you have to meet the person first before u judge it.. Pandemic kase so ldr is really beautiful if you r being optimistic but it's really hard suntok sa buwan talaga.. Para bang fantasy and feelings well at least u can do ur priorities while at long distance Hindi kase ako ligawin ever since. Madaming other in ldr mga foreigner ang jowa pero happy naman sila
Totoo ang sinabi mo kuya Darbs.hiwalay na ako sa ex husband.at dhil maskit nranasan ko i crossed my fingers not get into LDR.ive meet guys and date them but i dont feel special on them.and one day i met a guy in online dating..i didnt thought mainlove ako.yes! We cant chooose whom to fall inlove tlga.this man makes me feel im special,respect and love my flaws and accept my baggage..but its hard even he is devoted on me dhil may insecuritiez at trust issues and my top emotional need is honesty..its ready hard but he said we must had faith in our relationship..actually kuya Darbs i want to win this...is my goal..and im holding on his words. Hope we will have happy ending!
For me, ldr works after 4yrs of being together with my boyfriend now he is on board nasanay ako in that 4yrs together na lagi kaming kaming magkasama sobrang hirap at first but as the time goes on you need to trust your boyfriend constant communication and always pray to god to be centered of your relationship ❤️
For me it works.....kasi 3months palng kaming naging mg on ..ng ldr na kami agad for 3 years..until ngsama kami ulit...ngayong 10years na kami and stil strong...now ldr kami ulit kasi im ofw here at hk..its all about trust and contentment......
LDR kami for 5 years bf/gf once a month lang nagkikita. Long distance relationship work when both are mature enough to handle the relationship. Now we are looking forward to celebrate our 10th year anniversary its worth the wait.
My love language is touch i love to be touched from the one i love not from anyone. But if u love the person with your soul and is far away u embrace that situation. Yes there is a spicific connection to that person na wala sa paligid o sa mga lugar na pinupuntahan mo o sa mga taong nkakasalamuha mo walang ganong connection or energy na tulad sa the one mo. Mabuhay ang ldr may forever sa wagas na pagmamahal💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
last month, I turned down a good guy because of our distance though I'm starting to like him too. I am so afraid that it won't workout but I am missing him so much right now and after watching this I am planning to reconnect with him. Wish me luck :))
Before i thought it will not work but then till now we are still together with my husband. 6years of relationship, not perfect but working nicely. 2 years of being LDR couple and 4years as married couple with our 2 years old baby (2 year LDR now as married couple). It works even we r n LDR relationship, and even we have diffrent culture and belief since we r different nationality it still work. For me Commitment and communication is very important in LDR. It will work if both of you will do everyway to make it work no matter how hard it is. maybe it work for those risk takers and is not afraid to be broken and to fail. Its worth a try and even it will fail take it as lesson learned at list you know you did your very best to make it work. If even it havnt work That will made you as a better person and a better partner as well. After that you know better yourself what fits you, what will work for you and what can manage to work. See always the positive side for each situation.
Yes LDR works for some and not to others. I'm in a long distance relationship for 4 yrs now and I can't say that it's easy. It is very hard but if you love each other, you will always find a way to work it out. I think one of the keys to a long distance relationship is communication. Since you are far from each other, it is crucial for the both of you to communicate especially when you have misunderstandings.😊
@@clarencepablo8439 I can't say it was easy. Honestly, it was pretty hard. Our time difference was 9 hrs. My shift starts at 9:30am(NZ time) so he is awake until 12:30am(UAE time). Then I finish at 5:30pm so we will talk for only 20-30mins before he goes to work. It was really hard actually. And we don't have the same day off. It did work for 4 years but it didn't last coz he cheated on me.
@@ronz5763 im so sorry to hear that. rn im just really trying to assure myself. im really trying to make myself good with LDR, hoping our relationship will work when my partner goes out of the country. it sucks bc rn we are starting to lose each other just because we always think of the future.
@@clarencepablo8439 I think you just need to trust each other. Don't worry too much. Sometimes it's not the distance. It's how you value each other. Communication is very important. Try to see your schedule and her schedule first, then try to work it out. It is very important to have quality time with each other especially if you're in a long dstance relationship.
@@ronz5763 i believe we trust each other. i just don't think it's enough since everything is a new experience for us. rn we can't talk about him about this w/o arguing. it's just sad that he didn't get to decide for himself. i thought that i could help him to insist to his parents what he wants. it sucks when we can't decide for ourselves just bc our whole lives have been planned by our parents.
LDR doesn't work for everyone. I am in a LDR relationship m here in UAE and my bf is in Afghanistan working 13 hours a day And we just celebrated our 2nd anniversary it takes a lot of effort but it works for us it is painful because u long that ur partner is near you. But if you guys wants to make it work and if you value the relationship you guys will find a way to make u feel loved even you are a thousand miles away. Try to be part of each other lives daily, communicate, think of ways like eat together as if ur a date with him / her. If both of u want to make it work it will work and if you trust one another and respect it will work.
I think it will work Give time Give effort Give true happiness Give truthful love Be loyal faithful One should understand the short coming of another One will be patient Another should understand Everybody has short comings Understand and if you love your partner u will forgive and say sorry n love from the heart with effort..
I'm in LDR for 2 yrs now but we went on vacation last yr..we are engaged now..We bought our home last yr & car just this month & have our business..Im in the US he was in Qatar when we started now he's been back to Philippines for 10months.. Besides all those things We are committed,respect each other,we have good communication, no ego,patience & love for each other.. So yes LDR works for us.. LDR is not for everyone..
First 3mos LDR namin nag break kami. 😅 we’ve been together for 3yrs when I decided to go abroad. After 6mos, umuwi ako ng Pinas. And then nag kita kami tapos naging kami ulit hahaha (marufok) Nung bumalik ako ng ibang bansa naayos naman namin ung issues before. Mag tu 2yrs na since umuwi ako. Eto kami pa din!! 😊 Patience and Trust lang talaga, syempre love din and always pray 😁
I’m in LDR for 4mos.. we started from scratch, he’s in Qatar and I’m in Dubai..I actually dont believe in LDR espcially I’m a clingy person that I just wanted to cuddle,kiss all the time, but as per this video yes, it’s all about the feelings towards that person that you actually realize that you want to take the risk and be with this person especially if you can feel that this is something that is worth it. ❤️
After 7yrs before km nagkita ng partner ko☺️ it works! We are together na here in abroad last july and we wl celebrate 8yrs next month😊 Love trust and commitment❤️
Yes it works but you and your partner must have understanding and patience. Kung too touchy ka talaga I think there will be a problem about it. That is what I'm experiencing right now! Because of pandemic we might not see each other for a year or so, even when we are on the same country. It's just sad not having him by my side. But we are trying very hard not to break this relationship.
LDR here and we are married may 1 anak din kami, iniwan nya ko sa ere wala na sya pakinabang sakin eh kung kelan iniwan ko yung work ko para alagaan yung anak namin na lang bglang “napagod” dw ang kapal ng muka, ako yung may chance na mapagod sa totoo lang dahil everytime na nasa abroad sya eh nagcheat sya sken for the third time and lahat yun may evidence ako at wala syang lakas ng loob sbhin sken yan puro text lng na hiwalay na kami. nakakagago sobra but then ayoko na to the point na sobrnag traumatic even anak namin naabsorb lahat yan.
Currently on LDR for a year an half now. It is my first time but for my partner is not. I AM NOT HAPPY and I AM NOT RECEIVING THE respect and trust that I should be getting since day 1. Problem is my partner has a trauma of his past x , all of them cheated on him and some of them they caught them in action talaga. Like , when they are in call , the x girl has another phone and talking to other someone and he caught it. It is not good that he is putting it on our relationship , he is so afraid na lokohin ko sya kahit hindi naman ako ganun. We always fight everyday , everyday nya ko sinasabihan at pinagdududahan. It is so hard. Sometimes iniisip ko hiwalayan nalang sya kase he is not fully recovered with his past experiences. But tumagal kami now kase pilit kung iniintindi na soon if pag magkita kami baka maniwala nasya sakin.
I'm on LDR with my bf. Already engaged but recently got difficult days. I became busy and the time he needs me, he found someone else.But still, we are trying to save our relationship especially during this time.so hard, so difficult to deal but hoping it works..
Yes, LDR only works depending on the person's love language. For those with love language na quality time or physical touch, mahirap and I learned it the hard way. You stay in the relationship by choice kahit na you're yearning to see that person. However, in this kind of situation na biglang nagka pandemic tapos mas tumagal ung months na di kayo nagkikita, meron at merong bibigay. In my case, it was my bf. Pareho kami ng love language pero ndi nia lang talaga kinaya..
Since the day we met ldr na kami.. province ako makati sya.. till now kami pa din ang guest what.. always sya nasa barko.. oh di ba.. LDR hits but still worth it nmn.. lalo na kung kaya nyo nmn punan mga pagkukulang nyo sa isat isa.. di pwedi ito sa mga mahaharot.. char..
I been in ldr 7months, mahirap po pero kaylangan nang tiwala at sana lang po wag mag patuloy at lumalim pa yung love namen sa isat isa nag kakaroon nang poblema pero mas pinipili po namen ausin my bf is from uk, praying and hoping na mapag tagumapyan po namen ang ldr, thank you
LDR works. It didn't worked out for me dahil sa third party but I know for some, it will. Depende na lng talaga sa tao yan. Lalong lalo na if you're both on the same page. Kung parehas kayo ng pananaw sa relasyon niyo. Same goals, efforts, energy lahat. Cheers sa mga nsa LDR pa din tiwala lang, it will work out.
Been LDR for 1 year at never pa nagkita pero feel pa rin namin ung parang nong una lang kami nagkita,I believe it will work if both of you are keeper,both respect kung ano ung ayaw ng bawat isa na nakakasira ng relationship
Sobrang hirap ng LDR lalu Kung yung Isa may trust issue! And yan yung part ko ako yung may problema, may trust issue ako and daming napasok sa isip ko na baka naglolokohan lang kami nito, baka Hindi mag work kasi sobrang layo niya! Umaga dito tapos dun Gabi! Like yung adjustment namin! Ako talaga Yung may problema kaya Hindi nagwork... Andun na Siya sa part na uuwi Siya ng pinas to meet me and my family , after ng lockdown last year , December 2020 yan yung plano na uuwi Siya para dito mag christmas and new year samin.. Sobrang sure na Siya samantalang ako , ang dami Kong what if😔😔 Until now Hindi ko paden mahanap yung sarili ko, I'm longing for him, kasi he was there nung time na may mga pinagdadaanan ako.. sobrang comfort niya sakin, alam niya yung mood ko if galit na ko.. Di ko alam baket bumitaw ako! Ang tanga ko! Nasa hulu talaga ang pagsisi... Minsan iniisip ko nalang baka Hindi pa talaga Siya yung para saken kaya ganun... Yun nalang inisip ko kasi sobrang na mental block ako sa mga nangyare like.. nung time na Siya naman may pinagdadaanan nawala ako sa focus! Naging self centered ako... Wala na sigurong third chance! Kasi second chance na namin yun, we've separated 4 years ago tapos nagkachat ulet kami last January 2020 2 days before his 34th birthday. Inamin naman niya na malilimutin Siya and yun yung Ayoko , kaya ganun hahhah
LDR would work with a goal. For example to be together after 3 years, to get married after 3 years etc. But without a specific goal, probably would be lost.
my boyfriend and i are together for so long and this pandemic happen thats when we experience LDR its very unexpected. As the time goes by i realized we can make it work because we have a very strong foundation. No promises but we know to ourselves this is just temporary and we will be together soon and no more LDR.
Ldr for 7 yrs and now we are together here abroad... we will celebrate our 8yrs next month😍
Trust, faith, love, commitment.
Wow sana all.
Wow so my pagasa pa pala kmi mag 4 years na kmi ldr 🥰🥰
tsana olz, hehe SS :)
Me 4 yrs of LDR.una mahirap at maraming pagsubok.
Wow!! This gives me hope 😍
for me, it does work. communication, trust, commitment and LOVE are the key to LDR..
#teamabroad
I agree.i have now LDR for almost 2yrs. Communication,trust, and LOVE is there!
I agree
True..and also a long patience as well😘
Hi ir new subscriber from jeddah
Been in Long Distance Relationship for 3 years and yes, LDR really exist! WE'RE ENGAGED NOW and planning to get marry this 2021.❤️❤️
Did you get married?
Pero ang tanong, sa three years naging loyal ba kayo sa isa’t isa? Wala ka bang ginawa kahit isang beses o siya mahirap mapatunayan kung pareho kayong sinungaling
paano niyu na handle po?
communication + trust + be a mature + be understanding+ show your effort even you're in a far in your own way how** say sorry if your wrong, Communicate when you have things to discuss..plus forgive with it has valid explanations. And Trust the process. And you Must be mature enough to understand in all matter..because were just human can make mistake in any way. At anytime☺☺☺ thats it. Lastly give time each other is a Must☺☺ and till your GF all i say and its work and worth it☺
It was traumatizing ! It will only work if both of you are committed & consistent to the promises that you’ll both have each other no matter what!
It works.. but it doesnt mean it is not hard. Its hard. But we just have to think also that it is temporary.... ang pangit lang ngayon, covid is making it harder haha ❤️ but love, effort, commitment and trust is the key.
For me it does work...I'm in LDR and we are almost 16 years happily married...if you both have Trust ,Respect, love and loyalty to your partner.... always pray for guidance and I'm grateful and bless ...
It does work. My husband and I came from a 5 years LDR before we got married. Aside from open communication, love, effort and commitment, compromise is also a key for this kind if relationship.
Relationship in general not only LDR really works if God is at the center of it ☺️
12 years LDR 🥰 it works but it hard its never gonna be easy sa true lang. It takes Love,Trust,open Communication,effort and Honesty. At dapat parehas kayo ng pinipicture in the future. Parehas kayong nag lulook forward na kayo hanggang pagtanda. Parehas ninyong pangarap ang makasama habang buhay ang isat isa.
I couldn't agree more!!!!
I totally Agree with you!
Wow
Agree
LDR works if you found a matured man/woman
Ldr really works but Subrang daming mo kailangan isakrepisyo since mag boyfriend kami ng husband ko until now na kasal na kami ldr pa din kami.. subrang hirap pero masasanay kana din ang kailangan nyo lang talaga ay magtiwala sa isat isa at be honest and open kau palage sa lahat ng bagay kahit magkalau kau at mag fucos sa goal nyo as couple.. ang mga tukso nandyan lang yan palage kaya pag enintertain Mo ang tukso na yan wala talagang mangyayari..12 years na kmi ng husband ko at may isa kaming anak at ngaun kasalukuyan sya na nasa barko..
Ang pnaka importante sa lahat2 always pray and huminge palage ng guidance at bigyan pa kau ng tatag na malagpasan ang mga arW hndi kau magkasamang mag asawa. And last always make time to talk to ur husband or wife.
This channel really deserves a million likes and subscriber. Napakagaling mag advice! 😍💕💕
I am already in an LDR.. and yung tip lang is Trust... Honesty and being committed...
But if you have already the RED FLAGS .. it isn't worth it..
But so far masaya kami ni bebe ko. We respect each other.. well, communication din kc yung hindi nawawala sa amin.. kahit may work ako ng gabi at may work sya ng umaga.. we always find time to video call whenever we can. Pag break time ko tsaka ako tumatawag sakanya. Pag off ko.. i will wait na makauwi sya.. we don't focus on the distance .. instead we focus on each other. We share everything.. we teach each other.. we help each other whenever we can help.. Meron yung time na I crave for more of his time. But i know and understand yung situation namin so I am just grateful of what we can offer to each other. Basta trust and respect yung foundation. Dapat din mahaba ung understanding mo. At patience..
Currently on LDR for almost 3 years now. Its hard but if both parties commits to it then it can work. For me and my partner we agreed have an open communication, trust and understanding as well as time on our own. Important thing also is for both of you to have plans or goals to look forward to.
i met my boyfriend 2013, 2015 umakyat sya ng barko para maging seaman, since then nagkakaroon lang kmi ng communication every after 4months, kasi sa cargo ship sila. fast forward 2019, we met again after a very long time. after 4yrs. the very first time we met again after that years of being in a LDR, he proposed to me infront of my parents. fast forward the same year June 2019 we got married. aug 2019 til now we are back to LDR, umakyat na sya ulit ng barko.
i think for me, just believe in love, believe into your partner, both of you shud believe that LDR will work. and most important always put God in the center or your relationship.
Been in LDR for almost 8 years.. I believe in the saying that absence make love grow fonder. I see how time ang distance change us😔
Same🥺
im in a LDR right now.. and i was amaze how our relationship works na napapa omg ako kung panu kmi nag kiclick.. bcoz before i really dont believed that LDR will work for me.. but u cant blame destiny sometimes bcoz even if you have bf right by your side if he's not really meant for you relationship will not trully work dba..
but now im happy bcoz even if he's miles and miles away from me im contented and happy kuya.. its maybe bcoz trust ,understanding and love is present in both of us.. our relationship is actually effortless bcoz we are both willing to wait for each other when the time comes.. ty kuya 💛
ive been married with my LDR partner for almost 4 years now..it's just a matter of effort, constant communication, sacrifice and trust on your partner..halos 4 years naming kasal, bale 2months lang kaming magkasama physically pero we communicate literally every hour of everyday kahit na tulog na kami magkafacetime padin..we never fight, we make it a point na kapag may kinaiinisan kaming bagay, hindi namin binabaling sa isa't isa yung inis rather sinasabi namin kung bakit at ano yung nakakainis na bagay na nararamdaman namin..LDR nagwowork lang yan kung parehas kayong willing maging malayo sa isa't isa at the same time willing din kayong gumawa ng effort na hindi mafeel na malayo kayo or yung feeling na magkasama parin kayo palagi..
I love LDR,and it really works for me.
It's so sweet when I'm thinking about him,and when we meet,
Currently im in this ldr situation . Mahirap lalo na ang mag trust. Mas madaling ibigay ang love kesa sa trust. Sometimes I feel pity kasi sobrang hindi ko maramdaman na mahalaga ako. I know busy sya Sa work pero Bakit ganun kahit nakikita ko na online sya minsan hindi sya mag chachat. Sometimes wanna give up na.
Same to you
Same I feel it..
Same I feel you 🥺🥺
same :(
Same
LDR is kinda hard lalo na nga jan sa Love Language. But stil wag lang sumuko. If you love the person then pray for it. Only God Can make impossible things possible to happen❤️
Ldr for almost 2yrs now😊
I agree! In LDR love language should be talk first. I've been in a recent break up and everything was so smooth and so real. He can give my language of love which is quality time but since we are in an LDR I can't give his language of love which is physical touch. We never fight and not gonna ven argue but one day he change towards me. He lessen our talk time and I don't get any message anymore when I wake. I was the only one who's trying, until I felt something is wrong already. I asked him to be honest why he change and his answer was the most painful reason I ever received in my history of break-up (char), he said he can't feel any romantic feeling towards me because he haven't know me personally. The way he said it hit me so hard that the past flashback. I was so overwhelmed and confused on how are those days feel so real and how he can said "I love you" when he not feel anything towards me. His word made it like I am a total stranger, as if I'm stranger on street he never know intimately.
So piece of advice, before jumping in an LDR ask the person about their language of love. It is easier to fall in love but breaking up gives you an awful feeling that it is bad mentally and emotionally.
I believe in the saying.. absence makes the ❤💙 grows fonder...before after my first ldr ended up in a nightmare...a shorten period of 1 year and 3 months..gang doon na lang pla talaga...
Hell dammed difficult....not everybody has endurance...nailed it..until my second relationship last 9years as we are ldr...and still counting🤞👏🙏..crossfinger clap sa amin..
Salute to my husband his a churchmen ...not saying na lahat faithful..
My case is different.
It works, 5yrs ldr na kami ng bf ko.
Tiwala lang at higit sa lahat yung pagmamahal nyo sa isa't isa dapat nandudun..
Pagmahal mo handa kang magsacrifice ..
Hindi kami kasal walang anak, pero nagwowork kasi may goal :) :) :)
Eto inaantay ko sa YT ko. Tapos napansin ko yung bell button, naka-personalized lang, so i turn it into "all". Solid talaga advice mo sir!🙌🏼
It does, but it's very difficult. Need ng matinding patience, matinding trust, matinding Faith. ❤
I'm in a long Distance relationship, 3 years na, pero kung parehas kami naging mahina baka matagal na kami hiwalay, 1st Year palang namin dami na naming naface na problems but we didnt expect we overcome together ng magkahawak ng kamay and syempre with Faith in God. Until now ganun padin. Depende parin sa person talaga.
Thanks Kuya darbs. ❤
At first I don’t believe that LDR can actually work until such time na I met him and see that it does work. Lagi tanong sakin ng iba,hindi ba kami nagsasawa paulit ulit lang ba daw pinaguusapan namin..well actually it is not like what it looks like..hindi nga kami nauubusan ng pinaguusapan kasi we both have life sa buong maghapon,since we are not together,we tells everything to each other.And we both agreed na it does work or anything will works kung tatlo kayo 😁kasi kasama ninyo si LORD sa relasyon ninyo 😇
i really truly love listening to your real talks kuya 💛 daming lessons and reality talaga n nangyayari... thnk you kuya godbless
Im in LDR for more than 2yrs. He's working in UAE and I am here in PH. It's not easy pero laban lang!❤ Always pray for the relationship. Trust each other. Communication always and let them feel your love everyday.🙏❤
Hi, new subscriber here. I like most of your topic and I admire most of your thoughts and point of views. Just want to share my experience and My take about LdR. I would say its a no, not gona work! Cause Ive been in a LdR twice. My first LDR was completely nonsense, and the second was alright and become the last relationship untill now.
But I still say LDR won't gona work, because my 2nd and last LdR was a hell stressful, we both struggle during those times were a part, there is misunderstanding, jealousy, arguement every now and then, break up and make up and those sh*t's lasted for years, it was a very unhealthy relationship that made me realise the time and life I've wasted for no assurance. I was ready to walk away and just give up then when we both decided to put an end on our LDR, lucky he chose to do something and he Left his country and moved in here with me. And We're now on our 6 years, Hopefully forever..😘👏 If he didn't chose to come and live with me here, definitely I'm moving on alone..🙃
Just because it didn't work for you doesn't mean it never works. It worked for alot of people, including me. We've been together for 3 years now and next year i will be moving to his country. His parents are both filipino btw. He was just born and raised outside ph.
I'm in an LDR situation too, I can say na hindi din nmn madali, cyimpre maraming pagdadaanan, lalo pa this time na pandemic, mas lalong nakakachallenge. Patience to wait kilangan at samahan dapat ng takot ky God, pra yung focused nd ka madistruct. Yung kahit family pa lng ng fiance ko ung nakakasama ko ayos din nmn. Til now extended uli ang pgstay nya sa NZ, so antay2x lng kg kilan bubukas boarder, dahil I know someday magkakasama din kmi ng taong mahal ko. At mahal din ako. Really blessed.
..it works..but you need to sacrifice alot of things..tiwala lang tlga..pag mahal nyo isat isa pagka2tiwalaan nyo ang bawat isa..take risk gnun tlga more challenge will come but in the end kung tiwala kang mka2ya nyo,malalagpasan nyo yan..
LDR doesn't work, unless it does.
Self worth since day 1❤️ love it!.
Number 2, COMMITMENT, PURE LOVE AT UNAWA. basta, ang sarap sa pkiramdam na alam mong Khit malayo kayo nd napapagod mangarap yung partner mo pra sa inyo. And napakabuti nyan tao
Ldr can work basta both of you are willing to reach your goal to be with each other when the time comes.
I'm in a LDR for almost 2 years now. Well siguro sobrang swerte ko lang sa partner ko kasi understanding siya at sobrang haba ng pasensya. And yes key to LDR is love, communication, trust, patience and you both need to compromise.
It depends on how they do just to make their relationships work💕 If you want to work that kind of relationship put a trust in everything...
Communication/trust/cometment and understanding is the key.., let that person feel that u love her/him everyday... Araw araw mo cyang mahalin at tagapin kung anu mayron kayo ngayon...
LDR is hard to do because of bereavement to each other.Each individual needs a good communication with patience, understanding, trust and sacrifices to fullfill each goal and dream for their future.If they stay in their relationship it will work.Because they love each other.
I've been in a long distance relationship for 7 years. I think we just really have to know each other's love language and to think na our love language is "PHYSICAL TOUCH"
Kagaya nga ng sinbi nia, you have to make it work. ☺️ Just to share. ❤️
LDR works. I'm from North, he's from South and this my first time to have a LDR. It really needs a lot of effort both ways. Before, both of us was unsure kasi nga malayo kami sa isa't isa. Trust, love and communication, makes LDR stronger. Now, were living in one roof. So I believe, LDR really does work. :)
No, it doesn’t work. Though you stayed for 5-6 years, ang isa dyan there is someone talaga. Sadness and loneliness kalaban nila dyan. They will find someone to fulfil sa kulang. It’s hard and wala ng peace of mind.
Sir darbs it depends po sa dalawang magkasintahan kung paano nila I handle ang kan ilang relasyon kc para sakin first to ko magkaroon ng ldr at para sakin ito yung d best kc nung previous relationship ko na kasama ko yung tao feeling ko I'm alone but now even na ldr kami ng bf ko I always feel happy we always have a good conversation at yung communication namen ay always active,, naniniwala tlga ako na kapag may tiwala kayo sa isat isa napag uusapan nio yung mga bagay na ayaw ng bawat isa it will work po and firsof all yung faith nio pareho kay God because only God can make a good plan for us 😍
Hi
I still believe in LDR, kahit na ika apat kuna tong LDR still kicking pa rin ako 💪🏻
1st LDR - foriegner (2years)
2nd LDR - cruiseship (5years)
3rd LDR - teacher ( 3months)
4th & hope will be my last LDR -seaman
Laban pa rin huwag kayo susuko, LDR works just do your very best 👍🏼
For me, Ldr will work basta andun lng palagi ang trust, respect, love & commitment with each other & put God in the middle of it. Always have a communication wid each other para maibsan ang lungkot.
It takes loyalty, faith, trust, understanding, comunication to be in LDR relationship to work out. To be strong together. My myself i believe in LDR. And proud to say i am in a relationship with Turkish for almost 3yrs now. We haven't meet in person yet. In the future hopefully. LDR is true it does exist yes but indeed not easy. I just hold on to faith and destiny that somehow one day we will meet each other.
I'm in the ldr so far worth it still we love each other and we have a good communication and we trust each other you are true Tito darbs trusting some you love is very important specially in ldr.we are 1 year and 11 months I'm in Kuwait and he in the Philippines. Thank you and more power God bless
This is hard,effort and commitment are needed.
I wish we had overcome but unfortunately😔for 7years almost 8,we gve up.
Still believing LDR does work! I am on LDR he is in USA and am in Dubai. I guess it depends on the couple’s age if you are matured enough and been in the relationship for longer years already it can work. May social media naman we talk we chat everyday despite the time difference. So basically it is up the both of you to find time. Sabi nga kung gusto may paraan, kng ayaw madami dahilan! It takes two to tango, pwde magwork ang LDR kng pareho kayo mag eeffort. Trust din is the key!
Yow guys, i think im in this situation of LDR right now, i just met a girl and shes miles and miles away from me, but it seemed like we really like each other, and the only bonding we have is playing ML, chatting and VC sometimes, i feel so attracted to her and shes so special to me... Do you guys think its worth a shot? Coz i really really like her... A lot...
It worked for me... 6 years LDR now happily married and living together
It's works for me.. Basta you have Trust, Love and Communication.
the best talaga mga payo mo kuya darbs, kahit anong topic nabibigyan mo ng hustisya❤️ marami kang natutulungan sa wisdom na naibabahagi mo para ma improve pa namin ang aming mga sarili, hulog ka ng langit kuya darbs, God bless po❤️❤️❤️❤️
kathlyn joy carbonell thank you kath! Sana po tulou tuloy lang ang supporta mo
Hello po ...
Ang galing nyo po mgbigay paliwanag MAGLILIWANAG TLGA ISIP NG MAKIKINIG SA IYO . MRAMING SALAMAT po Sir 🤲
LDR is so hard lalo na kung there's a lot of temptation surrounds you, but if you and your partner looking forward the future with each other and you're ready to sacrifice a lot of things, sa tingin ko pwede, but I'm not saying this will work for every LDR relationship just have trust and faith to each other and a lot of prayers.
LDR works! I was married to a man I had an LDR relationship for 4 years. It depends on the level of committment, patience and LOVE to each other. He passed away 2.5 years ago. But our love story is a proof that LDR works. ❤️
For me ...it works 6 yrs na kami ng BF ko at hindi pa kami nag kita In Person ..as in hndi talaga madali kasi nandyan ung mga tampuhan,awayan lahat nandyan na pero na aayos din naman.basta may tiwala lang kayo sa isat isa at sabayan nyo ng PRAYER maging maayos din ang lahat.
Love,trust and commitment
My 1St LDR it works for 8 months bfire we've met in personal.. We've live in one roof in 1 months but when I went to Macau and his going back to saudi we lost our communication .my 2nd ldr we've broke were only 6 months kse babaero sya.. Now my 3rd ldr the same again ifound out na I'm not the only one.. Nagbago sya after 4months,,nd na sya lage magcall sken.. Minsan nalnh nag chat sken.. Until one day napagod nko mag reach out sa knila.. Nakikita ko sya online 4 hrs hinhayaan ko nlng sya...
2 years of being LDR, it's hard pero basta loyal lang sa isa't isa , communication and willing to fight for each other , lastly may goals sa buhay , it works. Now we are already married although we had only 4 months being together. I thank God kasi binibigyan kmi ng lakas. Sa mga ldr jan fight lang po.
Sincerely thank you kuya Darl. I was in pain rn but by listening to your words of wisdom lalo na sa last made me feel comfort. And now naintindihan ko na why my past rs didn't work & i can finally let it go. ❤️
For me it works. 2 years na kami e. No explanation you will just know if you are there and you love each other.
True, as I experienced it. Kala ko madali as a first timer, kaya lang di nag work out di naki Cooperate, kala ko he shared it with me since he's already experiencing always this kind of Relationships. Honesty lang ang solusyon and Open communication.
Trust, honesty, loyalty, understanding, patience is a must but most of all let the love alive in LDR relationship...
I agree - it depends on the person’s love language. LDR is not gonna work for people with physical touch as their love language
Just see this video…. And for me 👍 yes LDR works … me and my husband for 6 years and still together… we just have our love.. faith… respect and most importantly trust… to makes it work…❤️
Watching in Saudi……
Yes i have 1yr and 3months LDR we build a honest foundation and soon we meet this sept.LDR is the hardest relationship but if both of you is honest and have fear of god nothing is imposible ❤
4 yrs relationship and 3yrs LDR for within that yrs on and off kme pro hindi nmin kayang bitawan ang isat isa at pinipili nmin na mg stay pa dn at naniniwala kme na at the end kme talaga.ang importante lng nman ay my communication kayo at my tiwala sa isat isa ay mg wowork talaga😊💪🏼.
I think you have to meet the person first before u judge it.. Pandemic kase so ldr is really beautiful if you r being optimistic but it's really hard suntok sa buwan talaga.. Para bang fantasy and feelings well at least u can do ur priorities while at long distance Hindi kase ako ligawin ever since. Madaming other in ldr mga foreigner ang jowa pero happy naman sila
Totoo ang sinabi mo kuya Darbs.hiwalay na ako sa ex husband.at dhil maskit nranasan ko i crossed my fingers not get into LDR.ive meet guys and date them but i dont feel special on them.and one day i met a guy in online dating..i didnt thought mainlove ako.yes! We cant chooose whom to fall inlove tlga.this man makes me feel im special,respect and love my flaws and accept my baggage..but its hard even he is devoted on me dhil may insecuritiez at trust issues and my top emotional need is honesty..its ready hard but he said we must had faith in our relationship..actually kuya Darbs i want to win this...is my goal..and im holding on his words.
Hope we will have happy ending!
For me, ldr works after 4yrs of being together with my boyfriend now he is on board nasanay ako in that 4yrs together na lagi kaming kaming magkasama sobrang hirap at first but as the time goes on you need to trust your boyfriend constant communication and always pray to god to be centered of your relationship ❤️
For me it works.....kasi 3months palng kaming naging mg on ..ng ldr na kami agad for 3 years..until ngsama kami ulit...ngayong 10years na kami and stil strong...now ldr kami ulit kasi im ofw here at hk..its all about trust and contentment......
LDR kami for 5 years bf/gf once a month lang nagkikita. Long distance relationship work when both are mature enough to handle the relationship. Now we are looking forward to celebrate our 10th year anniversary its worth the wait.
My love language is touch i love to be touched from the one i love not from anyone. But if u love the person with your soul and is far away u embrace that situation. Yes there is a spicific connection to that person na wala sa paligid o sa mga lugar na pinupuntahan mo o sa mga taong nkakasalamuha mo walang ganong connection or energy na tulad sa the one mo. Mabuhay ang ldr may forever sa wagas na pagmamahal💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
last month, I turned down a good guy because of our distance though I'm starting to like him too. I am so afraid that it won't workout but I am missing him so much right now and after watching this I am planning to reconnect with him. Wish me luck :))
LDR works, until he keep secrets HAHAHAHA
Before i thought it will not work but then till now we are still together with my husband. 6years of relationship, not perfect but working nicely. 2 years of being LDR couple and 4years as married couple with our 2 years old baby (2 year LDR now as married couple). It works even we r n LDR relationship, and even we have diffrent culture and belief since we r different nationality it still work.
For me Commitment and communication is very important in LDR.
It will work if both of you will do everyway to make it work no matter how hard it is. maybe it work for those risk takers and is not afraid to be broken and to fail. Its worth a try and even it will fail take it as lesson learned at list you know you did your very best to make it work. If even it havnt work That will made you as a better person and a better partner as well. After that you know better yourself what fits you, what will work for you and what can manage to work. See always the positive side for each situation.
Yes LDR works for some and not to others. I'm in a long distance relationship for 4 yrs now and I can't say that it's easy. It is very hard but if you love each other, you will always find a way to work it out. I think one of the keys to a long distance relationship is communication. Since you are far from each other, it is crucial for the both of you to communicate especially when you have misunderstandings.😊
hi, how do you manage to communicate with your partner despite probably the time difference?
@@clarencepablo8439 I can't say it was easy. Honestly, it was pretty hard. Our time difference was 9 hrs. My shift starts at 9:30am(NZ time) so he is awake until 12:30am(UAE time). Then I finish at 5:30pm so we will talk for only 20-30mins before he goes to work. It was really hard actually. And we don't have the same day off. It did work for 4 years but it didn't last coz he cheated on me.
@@ronz5763 im so sorry to hear that. rn im just really trying to assure myself. im really trying to make myself good with LDR, hoping our relationship will work when my partner goes out of the country. it sucks bc rn we are starting to lose each other just because we always think of the future.
@@clarencepablo8439 I think you just need to trust each other. Don't worry too much. Sometimes it's not the distance. It's how you value each other. Communication is very important. Try to see your schedule and her schedule first, then try to work it out. It is very important to have quality time with each other especially if you're in a long dstance relationship.
@@ronz5763 i believe we trust each other. i just don't think it's enough since everything is a new experience for us. rn we can't talk about him about this w/o arguing. it's just sad that he didn't get to decide for himself. i thought that i could help him to insist to his parents what he wants. it sucks when we can't decide for ourselves just bc our whole lives have been planned by our parents.
LDR doesn't work for everyone. I am in a LDR relationship m here in UAE and my bf is in Afghanistan working 13 hours a day And we just celebrated our 2nd anniversary it takes a lot of effort but it works for us it is painful because u long that ur partner is near you. But if you guys wants to make it work and if you value the relationship you guys will find a way to make u feel loved even you are a thousand miles away. Try to be part of each other lives daily, communicate, think of ways like eat together as if ur a date with him / her. If both of u want to make it work it will work and if you trust one another and respect it will work.
I think it will work
Give time
Give effort
Give true happiness
Give truthful love
Be loyal faithful
One should understand the short coming of another
One will be patient
Another should understand
Everybody has short comings
Understand and if you love your partner u will forgive and say sorry n love from the heart with effort..
For me it works.. We've been 3 yrs.. Trust, respect and understanding. 😊
I'm in LDR for 2 yrs now but we went on vacation last yr..we are engaged now..We bought our home last yr & car just this month & have our business..Im in the US he was in Qatar when we started now he's been back to Philippines for 10months..
Besides all those things We are committed,respect each other,we have good communication, no ego,patience & love for each other..
So yes LDR works for us..
LDR is not for everyone..
Yes ot does po 15 years ldr proud here it takes a lot of effort and sacrifice as well. That is 😍😍 communication is the key
First 3mos LDR namin nag break kami. 😅 we’ve been together for 3yrs when I decided to go abroad. After 6mos, umuwi ako ng Pinas. And then nag kita kami tapos naging kami ulit hahaha (marufok)
Nung bumalik ako ng ibang bansa naayos naman namin ung issues before.
Mag tu 2yrs na since umuwi ako. Eto kami pa din!! 😊
Patience and Trust lang talaga, syempre love din and always pray 😁
I’m in LDR for 4mos.. we started from scratch, he’s in Qatar and I’m in Dubai..I actually dont believe in LDR espcially I’m a clingy person that I just wanted to cuddle,kiss all the time, but as per this video yes, it’s all about the feelings towards that person that you actually realize that you want to take the risk and be with this person especially if you can feel that this is something that is worth it. ❤️
What hits me the most is that I can't choose someone to fall in love with. Sobrang layo niya sakin and alam ko lang ay totoong iniibig ko siya.
Yung bestfriend ko almost 5 years na sila ng jowa nya pero never pa sila nagkikita 💖
After 7yrs before km nagkita ng partner ko☺️ it works! We are together na here in abroad last july and we wl celebrate 8yrs next month😊 Love trust and commitment❤️
Really for 5 years? Ako naman mag 2 years na never pa kami nagkita ng gf ko
Hindi ko pa siya nakikita pero umabot Lang Kami Ng 6months. Ngayon may anxiety na ko at na trauma ako
ugh same 2 yrs. no meet ups pero kami parin ❤️❤️❤️mahirap lang yung journey pero keri. skl
Yes it works but you and your partner must have understanding and patience. Kung too touchy ka talaga I think there will be a problem about it. That is what I'm experiencing right now! Because of pandemic we might not see each other for a year or so, even when we are on the same country. It's just sad not having him by my side. But we are trying very hard not to break this relationship.
LDR here and we are married may 1 anak din kami, iniwan nya ko sa ere wala na sya pakinabang sakin eh kung kelan iniwan ko yung work ko para alagaan yung anak namin na lang bglang “napagod” dw ang kapal ng muka, ako yung may chance na mapagod sa totoo lang dahil everytime na nasa abroad sya eh nagcheat sya sken for the third time and lahat yun may evidence ako at wala syang lakas ng loob sbhin sken yan puro text lng na hiwalay na kami. nakakagago sobra but then ayoko na to the point na sobrnag traumatic even anak namin naabsorb lahat yan.
Kuya darbs .. sobrang nkakainspire un mga videos mo .. lalo na don SA ldr ,un SA feel ghosted ska un why men scared to commit
Jehnn Teves thank you jen!! Dont worry more videos pa po soon
Currently on LDR for a year an half now. It is my first time but for my partner is not. I AM NOT HAPPY and I AM NOT RECEIVING THE respect and trust that I should be getting since day 1. Problem is my partner has a trauma of his past x , all of them cheated on him and some of them they caught them in action talaga. Like , when they are in call , the x girl has another phone and talking to other someone and he caught it. It is not good that he is putting it on our relationship , he is so afraid na lokohin ko sya kahit hindi naman ako ganun. We always fight everyday , everyday nya ko sinasabihan at pinagdududahan. It is so hard. Sometimes iniisip ko hiwalayan nalang sya kase he is not fully recovered with his past experiences. But tumagal kami now kase pilit kung iniintindi na soon if pag magkita kami baka maniwala nasya sakin.
It works for a period of time. Walang forever sa LDR. Unless you stop the LDR for good and choose to be together.
I'm on LDR with my bf. Already engaged but recently got difficult days. I became busy and the time he needs me, he found someone else.But still, we are trying to save our relationship especially during this time.so hard, so difficult to deal but hoping it works..
Yes, LDR only works depending on the person's love language. For those with love language na quality time or physical touch, mahirap and I learned it the hard way. You stay in the relationship by choice kahit na you're yearning to see that person. However, in this kind of situation na biglang nagka pandemic tapos mas tumagal ung months na di kayo nagkikita, meron at merong bibigay. In my case, it was my bf. Pareho kami ng love language pero ndi nia lang talaga kinaya..
I feel you..we have the same experience..today he broke up with me..But last week we are together..So sad..😔😔
Since the day we met ldr na kami.. province ako makati sya.. till now kami pa din ang guest what.. always sya nasa barko.. oh di ba.. LDR hits but still worth it nmn.. lalo na kung kaya nyo nmn punan mga pagkukulang nyo sa isat isa.. di pwedi ito sa mga mahaharot.. char..
Hoping for your succesful relationshop😉
I been in ldr 7months, mahirap po pero kaylangan nang tiwala at sana lang po wag mag patuloy at lumalim pa yung love namen sa isat isa nag kakaroon nang poblema pero mas pinipili po namen ausin my bf is from uk, praying and hoping na mapag tagumapyan po namen ang ldr, thank you
LDR kami and now 4yrs na kami mahigit 🥰 yeah it works ♥️♥️♥️
LDR works. It didn't worked out for me dahil sa third party but I know for some, it will. Depende na lng talaga sa tao yan. Lalong lalo na if you're both on the same page. Kung parehas kayo ng pananaw sa relasyon niyo. Same goals, efforts, energy lahat. Cheers sa mga nsa LDR pa din tiwala lang, it will work out.
Been LDR for 1 year at never pa nagkita pero feel pa rin namin ung parang nong una lang kami nagkita,I believe it will work if both of you are keeper,both respect kung ano ung ayaw ng bawat isa na nakakasira ng relationship
Sobrang hirap ng LDR lalu Kung yung Isa may trust issue! And yan yung part ko ako yung may problema, may trust issue ako and daming napasok sa isip ko na baka naglolokohan lang kami nito, baka Hindi mag work kasi sobrang layo niya! Umaga dito tapos dun Gabi! Like yung adjustment namin! Ako talaga Yung may problema kaya Hindi nagwork... Andun na Siya sa part na uuwi Siya ng pinas to meet me and my family , after ng lockdown last year , December 2020 yan yung plano na uuwi Siya para dito mag christmas and new year samin.. Sobrang sure na Siya samantalang ako , ang dami Kong what if😔😔 Until now Hindi ko paden mahanap yung sarili ko, I'm longing for him, kasi he was there nung time na may mga pinagdadaanan ako.. sobrang comfort niya sakin, alam niya yung mood ko if galit na ko.. Di ko alam baket bumitaw ako! Ang tanga ko! Nasa hulu talaga ang pagsisi... Minsan iniisip ko nalang baka Hindi pa talaga Siya yung para saken kaya ganun... Yun nalang inisip ko kasi sobrang na mental block ako sa mga nangyare like.. nung time na Siya naman may pinagdadaanan nawala ako sa focus! Naging self centered ako... Wala na sigurong third chance! Kasi second chance na namin yun, we've separated 4 years ago tapos nagkachat ulet kami last January 2020 2 days before his 34th birthday. Inamin naman niya na malilimutin Siya and yun yung Ayoko , kaya ganun hahhah
LDR would work with a goal. For example to be together after 3 years, to get married after 3 years etc. But without a specific goal, probably would be lost.
my boyfriend and i are together for so long and this pandemic happen thats when we experience LDR its very unexpected. As the time goes by i realized we can make it work because we have a very strong foundation. No promises but we know to ourselves this is just temporary and we will be together soon and no more LDR.