When we talk about being a “prostitute” at 13 years old - we are actually talking about a child who has been a victim of child sexual exploitation. We should be making this clear in our terminology. A pimp is an organised criminal who should be prosecuted and the clients jailed. Children cannot consent when they are being enforced to do something. Hoping she can find the help/support she needs to find freedom from this oppression!
Exactly. Half of the people out there don't have a clue what it's like to be exploited as a kid or teen. I don't wish I'll will on anyone. But if the shoe was on the other foot half of the people out there would get a rude awakening.
The phrases “child prostitue” and “teenage prostitute” shouldn’t exist. There’s no such thing as either. They’re both just children being abused, call them that.
it is a sanctimonious lie to say children and teenagers don't and can't make choices. about sex or anything else. she ran away from tons of stuff, but not from prostitution.
They can make choices, and they can even have favorites! But they can't give informed consent. Look at this girl! You think she looks like she made an informed choice?
@@maxbooth179 true. it was her decision to run away. sucks she choose the route she choose. all though i do believe someone at such a young age is easily manipulated and coursed in to things.
What’s with the foster care system destroying individuals? She deserved to be sheltered and protected. I hope she can leave this lifestyle, she’s so young and well-spoken, there are so many opportunities out there for her.
@Joanna Parra My mom is a foster parent in MI and she's adopted 8 kids. I then adopted my niece and nephew. I can say from first hand experience... The system is supppeerrrr fucked up and they don't have the best interest of the kids at all.
I grew up in and out of foster care for almost 10 years of my childhood Over half of my foster siblings are dead or in and out of jail. Fortunately I'd say about 30% are doing decently well but more than not get into hard drugs and crime
The foster care system and other agencies could care less. They will leave these kids in foster care knowing they are being abused and raped and the child gets tired and run away.
As a mother to a daughter, my heart aches that she wasn't given the opportunies and protection every child deserves. She is so beautiful and dignified despite how harshly life has treated her.
Yes, my daughter is just about her age and I can’t even imagine. She is trapped in a horrible situation. If I could get in touch with her I would absolutely help her get out.
My daughter is almost her age too. I wish she could have the opportunity to get well away from everyone and everything she knows. She needs to be somewhere with her Grandma and children where she can get help with drug addiction and be given a job that’s worthy of her. No one deserves that life style and I hope her niece that’s her advice and stays away from it all. Such a beautiful, intelligent lady, it’s such a waste. I would love her the get help xxxx
I just can't get over this. I really LIKE this girl. She articulates her points so well, she's so open and honest about her feelings. She's also so so pretty. SMDH. She's a mountain of potential.
True. She seems like a decent person. Someone watching this should offer her an opportunity to work. There should be programs in place for those looking to get out and make an honest living.
As Denzel Washington said it best, "It all starts in the home", and feminists are making it harder for men as well, there are soo many contributing factors, BUT its mainly absent FATHERS that make these types of women sadly, and its crappy mothers who think they dont need a man to raise a child without help, therefore this is the primary result of what happens to people like her. WE NEED OUR PARENTS TO RAISE US to stop this from happening. CDC had a report that majority of homeless women and stuff like that are the result of fatherless homes.
Ending the futile, insane prohibition on prostitution would be a relatively easy step in the right direction too. The law should be protecting them not punishing them. Unfortunately toxic religions and indoctrination prevents such acceptance.
@@theshanamaster you really think women end up like this because their mothers are so “feminist” they kick the fathers out of the house because they “don’t need a man”…? you’re completely delusional. how about men start taking responsibility for their own children instead of hightailing it out of there as soon as they find out about the pregnancy and refusing to pay child support, forcing the mother to either work several jobs or turn to stripping/prostitution just to get any money to be able to feed their kids with no child support or father in the picture
She talked about herself and acknowledged how tough her life is and yet I didn't sense any victim speak from her. There is dignity in her, acceptance and honesty about the circumstances. My heart broke when she said her brother died 3 years ago and a minute earlier she said she started taking drugs about 3 years before. Take care Exotic, I hope life turns for you and you achieve the goals you have set for yourself.
I guess you don't know the whole story she had a pimp the whole time Mark got her an apartment gave her a monthly allowance bought her a car and she gave it all to the pimp!!
I had to pause the video when she said that bc what that tells me is that if he was born a femaIe instead, he’d more likely be here (given that his sister is). With vvomen, at least they get some sort of social support & acceptance.
I was still playing with dolls at 13, sheltered and clueless. Crazy how different a life I could have had if I was born into a different family. I hope she gets out of this cycle.
@@lettiegrant9447 You are so cruel if you think what you've commented is correct. No one chooses abuse. I hope you find it in yourself to heal so that you're able to sympathize with other people.
Raped starting at the age of 13. I can't fathom the horror she had to go through being abused by grown men when she was a baby. It hurts to know so many young women are used and tossed aside. I hope that somehow her life can turn around for her benefit and for her kids. She deserves it, her strength is commendable.
@@blacksilverchair3315 you act like you were the one who's out money for an apartment. Take your outrage somewhere that matters. Your legit on almost every fkn comment.
I came across her most recent video and became invested lol. So I had to come find the first video… I will now go down the rabbit hole. I will say, I’m rooting for this sweet soul. ❤❤
Everyone talking about the pimps and drugs but let’s talk about the childhood trauma that started all of this for her. The real root of the problem is America’s foster care system. Maybe if we started by fixing that then we can prevent more of this in the future. Update: I’m glad that I was able to start a meaningful discussion wether or not you agree with where the “root” of the problem is. One thing I want to address is the question of how to fix the foster care system. Here’s my suggestion 1. Lee siblings together 2. Reduce, eliminate or demand more accountability when it comes to financial assistance to foster patents. So many children are abused in the system because the foster parents took in a child for the money and not because they genuinely want to help a child. Some foster parent get anywhere between $400- $600 per month for each child. Either reduce or eliminate that and there won’t be an incentive for people to invite children into their homes that they don’t want. Or Have foster parents to present receipts and bills to account for every dime they receive on behalf of the child. 3. Wellness checks inside the home on a monthly basis. Or require that each child in foster care see a therapist or a regular. Therapist and psychiatrist must report any abuse and it’s a great way to check the wellness of the child. If I’m not mistaken foster care children can get free medical. Not sure though. And for those who say the bio parents are the root. I say I partially agree but have to disagree because if that were true then children adopted as babies would have the same trauma. Or every child who had divorced parents or a single parent would have the same trauma. Point is if you watch enough of these interviews you will find that foster care is the common denominator. Children who have been physically, sexually, and emotionally abused in foster care have a very high chance of being in a situation like this. These are just some suggestions. Let’s keep the conversation going. How can we make our foster care system better?
Yes, you can trace nearly everyone's problems to childhood trauma, which often times childhood trauma happens because parents are suffering from mental illness and addiction (which go hand in hand), take the kids away and put them with strangers, move from place to place, never feel secure, never feel loved and then you wonder why they reach to drugs. they weren't safe with their parents, they weren't safe in the system. how can we help these kids from becoming drug addicted prostitutes?
The safety net failed her but the root issue is PARENTS, I believe that if she grew up in a family BIO or otherwise with two engaged loving parents I’m positive we wouldn’t be watching her story - under these circumstances anyway
@@markmorton2519 Yes, I agree and its an inter-generational thing. Her parents had trauma and possibly mental illness and their parents and so on. Maybe if her parents had gotten some help before they had kids things would of turned out differently. Lets hope she is aware enough to net let the same thing happen with her kids but with them growing up in such an environment, it almost seems inevitable. very sad.
I could see this girl being like a ballerina in another world, raised properly. She has a grace about the way she carries herself despite being rough around the edges, and a certain appearance which is lovely. Even her tats are placed and designed so lovely.
@@mrsssmlllaie4402 anyone can be poised and graceful. there are people in high places who act like 5 year olds. crazy how much society has warped our perception of human beings in terms of success.
@@aimforlifenow I just meant that eventhough she is from the streets and has had a rough life she still maintains poise and grace that's just how she is. She would be that way no matter what way her life may have went.
I immediately zoned in on her poise and grace just based upon the thumbnail. After the video started it is abundantly clear this gal is naturally a "lady". She may be a prostitute to make her living....it does not define her though. No more than a plumber's character is defined by their work. She presents her as a Lady (tattoos and all), therefore she IS A TRUE LADY. After listening to her, the tattoos seem to disappear leaving HER TRUE INNER BEAUTY.
She only got shocked and broke down when he mentioned that she might die and leave her kids behind. Not once when she talked about all her own suffering. She has so much love in her heart for them.
But does she really? She isn't really raising them. If it weren't for her grandmother her kids would grow up exactly how she did. And even if she would keep them by her side, do you think that would end well? People that have this fate end up having kids with the same fate. That's the issue. Who's fault is it? It's humanity's fault. Because people are mostly bastards, coated bastard with bastard filling. How can you stop it? You probably can't, but you can diminish it by educating people. Her too.
If she really cared about her kids, she would leave this lifestyle all together. Check out the follow-up video. She hustled Mark, and she hustled all of the viewers. You guys fell for her act.
This girl is so unbelievably strong. I don’t know how she spoke with such confidence and honesty it made me really tear up. Praying for her to make it out and get a better life because she truly deserves it
Most times, these girls say what they want people hear to make them feel a type of way. Trust me, when you get close, you'd understand why society tries to distant themselves from these types of individuals..
Oh bs!! You know she probably has told this story so many times to so many clients and they end up feeling sorry for her and they give her more money this is the kind of girl that will rob you blind
@@dansavka7648 if they are clients they are giving her money for sex right?? You are full of BS. You are the kind of coward who thinks theat everybody is after you.
Well back in the day The age of being married was 10 years of age we put restrictions on ourselves government wise so they can capitals on the revenue.
@@JoseRodriguez-kp2hs wdym “back in the day” bro this woman is only 25 so she basically was 13 in 2010☠️☠️ thats like 12 yrs ago im pretty sure we still have the same rules applied to underaged ppl☠️ not u tryna justify that mfs actions plus ur comment makes zero sense at all
Just for the record, I think most people would think that you've had a rough life and you're just doing the best you can. I think most decent people wouldn't judge you. I admire your tenacity to still be here after all that you've obviously been through. I hope you get some peace and the healing you need.
It’s crazy to think at 13 I was going to watch the latest twilight film with my mam yet across the world this girl was going through things I can’t even imagine! Really puts into perspective how lucky we are to be born into the families and lives we have. I don’t know how she survives the environment she has had to endure since birth but I admire her greatly for it.
I felt that too cos she and I are the same age. It made me think about how our family and environment has a really big influence on us, and how our lives would be different if major influences in our lives were different. She is such a strong woman and I genuinely wish her the best. ❤️
Trafficked at 13…absolutely devastating. The trauma experienced prior is all the more traumatic. I hope she can find the courage and strength to leave this lifestyle behind her. Truly a gut wrenching interview.
Blame it on ridiculous tax system, bad culture and when money is worshiped like god. We need money for sure but it shouldnt be used to pay for prostitution, drugs and strip clubs
@@helraiserlastdaysofhell1795 I think rape culture, pedophilia, misogyny, drugs/addiction and money. The stats too of Foster kids ending up being trafficked and then homeless or worse murdered is staggering.
I’m at a loss for words . This young lady has layers of trauma like an onion, each layer makes you want to cry more. I pray that she will listen to her inner voice and have the resources to thrive, not just survive.
Well said. She would need support from non-profit agencies that help victims like her as well as intensive counseling to prevent relapse. This is why it's so important to support nonprofits.
She made a great quote at 26:25 The most important lesson she has learned in her life- "let my guard down too soon. It's okay to tell people some things about you. But not everything everybody should know. Because some people don't have the same intentions and will use it to their benefit, and your weakness."- I didn't figure that last part out until much later in life
She seems very intelligent, and has a spark in her eye that let’s you know she is also empathetic. Society definitely failed her, but she’s surfing the wave. I hope she remains safe.
@@digitaljosh_ When she looks at you, there's something there to connect with. I am surprised everyone is so hard on her. It doesn't seem like this was a choice for her. She was a child & running from something when she was seized on by her friends pimp. Then that became all she knew.
This is so heartbreaking. I wish I could have taken her at 2 months old. God bless her for coming forward and being honest. I will pray she has a bright future and gets the help and support she needs.
She is a good person. You can tell her situations took control of her future. She is very feminine and it's her feminine nature that is also hindering her.
I literally wanted to reach through this phone and give her a hug. This poor woman was failed from the start. She’s so smart, bright, and genuine. I really pray she is able to turn her life around and tap into all her potential.
She looks like a beautiful ballerina. I hope she finds a way out of this life. She deserves so much better and seems like such a nice person. My heart breaks for her
@@colleenwelch2330 what is your problem? Why is showing kindness to someone who is suffering such an issue for you? She DOES look like a ballerina despite the tattoos. You can resemble someone or something without fully adhering to the “look.”
@@colleenwelch2330 I think you want to have her compliment 😂 it’s hers to keep. She does lol like a ballerina regardless of the face tattoos. She’s an angel
This tattoo branding thing is so gross. Imagine someone using and abusing of you for filthy things like that and branding you like cattle. It's surreal how evil some people can be.
This broke my heart a million times. She is so strong and poised and it's so important for people to hear the stories of others so that we can have empathy for each other. Thank you Mark for making this video.
Exactly When she was a little girl she never thought about prostitution. AND they should make it legal giving these girls a little better life, at least safer
her story is so heartbreaking, it’s sad how society paints prostitutes as bad people when they don’t know what they’ve been through. she seems like such a sweet girl too :(
They're not bad people. It's the sex buyers, Johns, and pimps who willingly exploit and coerce these often impoverished and underprivileged women/girls. As young as 13 like this woman once was. Yet most of these low lives get away with it because society thinks it's a man's "right" to have access to women/girl's bodies and have sex with any woman/girl. Think about it.
Thank you, Exotic for sharing your experiences and your story. And you should be proud of making something of your life despite all the hardships. It’s so hard that more support isn’t available in the US for children leaving the care system. In the UK, children leaving care at 18 are entitled to support from their local authority until they are at least 21. This can be through being paid each month to stay in further education, accommodation, free education and continued advise and support. ❤ I really hope the US brings in more care and support for children in care and leaving care.
When she talked about her kids, it's hard not to get emotional. She is just like anyone else and I'm ashamed of myself for judging her/anyone in a different lifestyle then me. Thank you for both of you for this interview.
Its only sad that its because of her kids you begin to respect her. I dont need kids for give respect to women and man who are prostitutes. Life is not fair. I have more respect to prostitutes than to surogat mothers .
that goes for the men who engage in these services! we do not have systems to protect prostitutes and therefore engaging in services is ALWAYS exploitation
you cannot consent if you have a pimp and therefore all Johns are culpable for their exploitation. So these men joking about eliciting her services are the reason there is a business for these pimps to create a "business" with
There is sometimes when she talks, and you can see the pain she keeps locked behind her eyes. My heart goes out to this girl, and I genuinely hope that she achieves her goals.
Poor thing, such a beautiful, honest, well-spoken woman. My heart breaks for her. I hope she gets the help that she needs and can live the life that she deserves with her kids.
@@scarebear9898 oh i do, and i didn't mean it that way, i more meant that she's gotten enough pity. I relate to this situation in a way and i'm so sick of walking down the street hearing people whisper 'poor thing' or 'i'm sorry'. Even tho they usually don't mean to be mean, the pity really is hurtful and disrespectful and sometimes even dignity destroying in a way. And she really seems like someone who dosen't want to be called a poor thing and I think we all can relate.
@@laura-gd3gy Gotten pity from whom exactly? The Johns? The pimps? The cops? The system that failed her? Your comment makes no sense in your context, she wasn't asking for sympathy obviously, but being a human and sympathizing with someone who's had trauma since childhood is not wrong. I feel like you're just looking to interject and argue about my opinion; here's an idea, go make your own 👌🏿
The way she holds herself so high even what she was going through is amazing like she doesn’t beat herself up and I love that !!! You’re changing a lot of lives by sharing your story !! You’re beautiful, smart, and bright❤️ I can see big things coming your way love don’t ever give up! You’re so brave for doing this interview!
This video opened my eyes to a reality I never imagined could be real. It also made me realize the importance of adoption. Powerful video. Thank you, Exotic. Wishing you love, stability, and new life from now on. I see the views on this video and can't help but wonder: Does some of the adsense income generated from this video go to getting her help, rehab, child support, street protection, etc.? ❤🙏
I was thinking the same!! I wanted to look her up so i can send her sumthing so she can buy her kids sum xmas gifts .. but it would b great if they can get her help ect.. jersey gives everyone medicaid why i am in rehab bcuz bk in texas there is no help for anyone struggling n no medicaid there.. thats why i moved up here even thou its hard out here! N i imagine cali is expensive too! I hope she gets help its hard doing it without help or motivation or professional help ect
Wow i never would had expected you to watch this kinda stuff. Im surprised and excited to see someone with your following taking notice. Maybe you could start a program you do have the resources in the sence of followers
@@karinaortega4887 to the time you sent the money, she already make enough for her kids. She doesn't want to leave this life. She already passed so many situations with her life and jeopardy, but she continues. I wish she quit this kind of "work" for her good, her grandmother that takes care of her kids, and her children.
It broke my heart to see the stunned shock on her face when she realized she's mirroring her mother's life. I wish this young woman all the courage and strength to face her demons and lay them to rest so that she can be free to live a life full of love, safety, and abundance with her loved ones. She deserves that and so much more.
It's not true, she is not mirroring her mother's live at all, but she stuck in it and don't know where to move. You are so wrong. She not deserves that and you very angry, very cruel, very stupid person.
I noticed that stunned look and body language too at that point in the interview. Who knows, maybe that is what will help her get out of this lifestyle.
My heart breaks for her. She was born with practically every disadvantage you can imagine, and yet she's still making her way through life as best she can. Our country is better than this, yet society still refuses to help people like her.
Your country has never been better, this is just how life hits certain individuals, It’s all in her whether she will keep her steps up and aim high which I have full belief she will. She’s got soul she’s something else she’s got a brain.
I haven’t cried in so long, but the second she said she started when she was 13, I started sobbing. It’s not that I don’t know of this reality, but rather that I know too well just how much of a reality it is. I think society, in general, is vaguely aware of these things happening, but I don’t think most people actually process it and think about it. Everyone has known a 13 year old. Can you imagine that 13 year old going through all of that? It’s shocking and nauseating. This girl is stronger than 99.9% of people. The amount of hell and bull shit she’s been through… she’s incredible.
Why would you ? If she put herself in that predicament . She’s trash . Feel bad for the innocent kids that get kidnapped or innocent animals that get abuse .
@@carlosdnutz3918 so sorry to hear about your microscopic penis 😔 and not even a personality to make up for it! Man, that’s rough. You’d think you’d be more empathetic when you’re so miserably disadvantaged yourself.
I have a 13 year old. I can’t even imagine her on the streets. This poor girl breaks my heart. I hope she can pull herself out of the hell hole she’s currently in.
@@carlosdnutz3918 she put herself in that predicament, because she had no choice. Her father was in prison and her mother was strung out on drugs.. she had no place to go and she didn’t have any family. She was young at the time, so she didn’t know what to do. Until she was put in a foster care, which she was in and out of and obviously that didn’t work. You gotta give it no her for being so brave can’t imagine, all the pain and suffering she’s been through :((
When he asked 'what do you wish people knew about what you do' as a woman who was also prayed upon as a young child and made to work i wanted to scream 'WE DON'T ENJOY WHAT WE DO, WE DONT WANT TO BE DOING WHAT WE ARE DOING' most the time it is about survival we learn early the only person we can rely on is ourselves. We have been exploited abused and sexualized at such a young age we believe there isnt a way out and this is easy money
She comes across as a very intelligent young woman despite only having a middle school education. My heart hurts for her and hearing the sorrow she's walked through all her life. She's very honest and well spoken. As a mom and grandma, I just want to hug her and hope someone gives her a chance to see her precious value. Her label doesn't have to be "prostitute. " She deserves the labels of " courageous " and " survivor."
Imagine what could she have become if she had a chance! Maybe a scientist, an engineer, a doctor - even a nurse would be excellent. She never had a proper chance in her life. Many other children do not get a chance. At the same time there are people so wealthy that fly into space for fun. And nobody cares!
How I wish I had the means to help her.. man if I won the lotto I would be compelled to reach out, mentor her, help her with her education etc. It is truly heartbreaking she never experienced true love from her real family.
She’s very well spoken for someone who had so little education. It’s a pity that the system failed her early on, and so she didn’t have the basic opportunities that so many of us take for granted. She’s still young though, and I hope that she’ll be able to create a better life for herself and her kids.
@@ibetrollintheybehatin6857 You're not trolling. There are all kinds of girls with happy families who might even be wealthy and they are intentionally living this kind of life style because they want to. Nobody really does it in the street anymore though, they don't even have to leave the house to have an onlyfans. In a way society in general failed her because too many women are looking up to her in this video like some kind of role model.
The fact that she can live this life for 10 years and go on camera and answer these questions is a testament to her strength, self confidence, and love for herself and others. The sad thing is that she probably does not see that in herself.
We are our worst enemy. Her story started as a lost cause from the begining, and with so many cards stacked against her the drug's don't make possible ending any happier. So pretty and so sad.
You are trippin hard. She has no self love at all. She's desensitized to the life. It's her normal. Is it courageous of her? Yes it is. And it takes some strength for sure, but it's not because she loves herself... Though I hope she learns to.
This poor woman deserves so much better. She is beautiful inside and out. I sincerely hope she is able to get out of that life. We all need to pray for her ❤
I want to hug this young lady and just let her weep. She appears so strong, but looks like she’s one incident away from her breaking point. I appreciate her candor, but my heart aches for her.
You gotta be tough in the streets. She has sadly learned so early on how life is in the streets and it's clearly hardened her. There is still a soft spot in her heart I'm positive of it.. And no doubt she can get out of this life---she is still so young, intuitive clearly, and I can see she's a fighter and will figure out a way..not only that but she will be successful and help others get out. I have a feeling, can't describe it, but I KNOW for a fact she will. You are a beautiful soul.. Mark is there a go fund for each person or a mutual fund ? I've donated previous to people you had on here but just wondering how you do that part as far as when you setup.. Thank you.
What people in these comments don’t realize is that the interviewer is very smart with the way he asks his questions. He doesn’t “say much” or give advice because these people leave with their own answers replaying in their head. When they answer these questions out loud, and hear it out loud, it may have been the first time they said those things, and therefor it opens their eyes to reality without the interviewer giving his peace of mind at all. Sometimes all it takes for a person to flip their life around is to realize where they are at in the first place and people can tell them they are not in the right place all they want. But it takes them thinking it on their own to make change. This interview wasn’t to give the girl advice, it’s to help her look into herself further, and THAT can change a persons life.
Absolutely! I'm an Occupational Therapist and we do this all the time when providing coaching or counselling, its the moments of silence that allows a person to let out what they need to say in its entirety. So powerful.
I work in coaching with people who have complex needs and you always let them talk 80% of the time and use silence as one tool. It's very powerful and really helps.
Exotic is the only 1 story out of so many that had the same life set up as her. Everybody deserves respect regardless of their story. I will never understand people who judge unknowingly.
I agree and those people like her are survivors and their humanity is just stripped away in the way they get treated… This must upset a human being right?
She needs respect for herself, there is no happy ending down her road. Easy money it seems, but in the end you will sucumbe to emotional scars, she should get an education and make something of herself.
She talks about her and what happened to her almost without any emotions, but she cracks immediatelly when she only thinks that something similar might happen to her kids. That shows how much she cares about them, it's such a pity she couldn't be the mother she wants to be, but let's hope she will soon. And that she meets someone who she can really trust.
I think she’s responding in kind, just like the guy who keeps firing questions at her with no feeling or emotion either. Tragic ones. Horrific ones. Ones of extreme sadness. Boom boom boom boom boom boom boom nothing funny about any of it bro
Just because your right dosent make it any less sad. In Victor Hugo's book; after Val- Jean went to prison trying to feed his sister and her starving children; the question is rhetorically asked about " what ever happens to those leaves left behind after the tree has been cut down?" In answer those leaves ( his loved ones) go to the wind; like this unfortunate child. She could be any of our daughters, sister; someone you love. However to simply voice it; i wish there was an actual solution; for now i think all i have is a deep sympathy that i feel as heart ache. I think the song by the cranberries : zombies about sums it up. Good night
@@seansaylock3575 There’s lots of things we can do. First we need to change the culture. Single parenting is not the goal, or even ok - it’s a tragedy that needs to be avoided. Of course, there will always be circumstances beyond our control, but as a general rule we want to promote stable family’s and the family unit as an institution. We need to reject degeneracy as a society and promote positive values (rather than the other way around as it is now). These are just two things. There’s more, but these are big. Just these two things would have a huge positive affect of adoption and foster care too.
Its frustrating to see because she is now an adult living in America which means she can have a better life however her past keeps her for the streets. Very unfortunate...
Dear society, this is why we need more services for children. Having worked with parolees and people with substance disorder I know a few things to be true: high instances of child abuse, high instances of being raised and abused in foster care. I watch these videos and they just reinforce what I've seen. It's a sickening and sad truth. Please lets do more to help these abused adult children.
@@Lloyd23Man You're a loser. For real. A loser. You have so little in your life that you have to post crap like that for even a tiny amount of satisfaction. You are right... people don't like you.
Yes she has a beautiful soul ❤ God send your Angels of Heaven your protection over her and her children .Send good people in her path to bless her and get her out of this lifestyle. 🙏 ❤
Life can be so unfair. She had everything stacked against her from the beginning. The mental strength it must take to live through these experiences. I have no idea what the future holds for her but I hope she is able to find a way out of this life.
How can the US government give away billions of dollars for wars while not seriously taking care of babies and children with no parents ? That's disgusting, nobody derserve that ...
Trillions are already spent on welfare and such, without much return. But America is an empire, that's where its influence and wealth comes from, and an empire has to fulfill its imperial obligations otherwise it is poised to collapse. It's easy to be a populist and cry about foreign spending but protecting its allies and influence and weakening its enemies is some of the most effective and crucial way any government spends its resources, especially the US which is so reliant on its financial dominance over world trade. The return on investment is simply huge.
This whole interview I felt like she was on the verge of tears. When she finally broke & talked about having her kids… I cried with her. She just sounds SO battered and defeated. I hope she gets out.
Oh my god, I cried the whole time watching this. My heart goes out to this beautiful girl and I pray she fulfills her goal of getting out of that life 🙏🏽
Halfway through the interview I am amazed at how eloquent and nuanced her vocabulary is. Despite the lack of education she is a naturally intelligent person. I hope and pray her life turns around the best way possible.
I had the same kind of feeling. She's subtle and has a very clear view about the world around her, and herself. If she had an opportunity to go to a school's bench of some sort, she'd catch up very rapidly and probably surpass many people. That's the potentiel I feel in her.
Why is there this constant notion that someone needs an 'education' to be intelligent? Especially in today's world, it actually holds you back. You do not need a formal education if to be intelligent, you are innately insightful and articulate or you aren't. Say it with me.
@@WhiteWolf-- Intelligent and educated are certainly two different things. Being educated in formalities and language though can make it easier to portray intelligence to others in a way that makes it more apparent.
A beautiful soul lost in an ugly world. I hope she'll find her way out of it. The silent sorrow in her eyes speaks tons about how fragile we really are without a love net, without a friend. My heart breaks for her and for the millions that like her walk such rough paths. It took a miracle to save me from heroin even though I had a mother who against all odds never gave up on me. I'm not a religious man, but seeing this child all alone in this world makes me beg the Gods to throw a miracle her way.
She is actually a very sweet girl. My heart hurts to think of how hard she has to work at prostitution just to survive. I hope she finds a way to survive and thrive without having to sell what remains of her lovely self. So young, so beautiful, so much potential for something better. I wish you well, dear girl. Life can hold so much more for you.❤❤❤😢
Her entire life was stripped away from her because she was unlucky to have such vile parents. It’s crazy to think that you can bring a child into this world and if you neglect them the way her parents did, their life can be unimaginably messed up. It’s not fair. She didn’t ask to be brought into this world. It’s like she was just thrown into the pit, to fend for herself. My heart goes out to her. I wish her all the best. She deserved and deserves better.
This one killed me 😭 she is so gorgeous and well spoken. Smart even with the lack of education. She talks about how people judge her for how many men she’s laid down with but all I see is innocence in her eyes. I just wanna save her 💔
It's beautiful to feel this way Haley. But you can't save em all. I'm sure you know and not saying don't try. But I've tried and probably failed every single time, I've dealt with many woman like this. Loving them and catching feelings for the person within- but sinking myself in the process. A desire to change ones lifestyle is dependent on one's self. May God Bless her soul and your soul for such empathy. Like Ye says, Empathy is the new glue.
I'm half way through and feeling so sad for this young woman's situation. It's such a stark contrast to the interview I just watched with "sex artist" Frenchie, who got into it as an adult. Asriah was only 13 when she started. She's still so small and vulnerable. It's very worrying. I hope she's able to move on from this lifestyle, though I suspect she'll need a lot of support. Stay safe, young lady.
At 13 and having to learn how to survive is heartbreaking. I took that for granted from my parents who protected me, sheltered me, and loved me. I hope she finds something that breaks her from this and she can move on. She deserves so much more!
There are many ways to "survive" it's a matter of choice. This woman chose the easy way...she could be doing something else just to survive...washing dishes ('we talking about "survival", yes she was 13) at a restaurant, attending tables, or simply go to social services for help but there was a choice!!! Do not feel sorry for this woman. Now she is a cunning predator ...easy money!!! No shame anymore in this world? Excuses, excuses! Do not be sorry. There are younger girls working in factories just to make a living but not chose to sell their body for fast money! There is always a choice!!! Hypocrisy and shameless prostitutes!!!
You are speaking like this only because she made it onto a youtube video with a high amount of views. If you saw her on the street you would not be encouraging like this lets be real
Damn, she told her niece “go to college, go make something of yourself…” SHE CAN STILL DO THE SAME!! It’s not too late!!! I hope she can somehow find a way out… she deserves better…
I agree ,but going back to school costs plus she has the responsibility already of her two kids and the grandma. it's sad tht it s really not easy to support and study kids complicate everything if u r not ready for them it's really heartbreaking i hope and i will pray for her to find help or support
@@rehamibrahim3437 It's a tough situation no doubt, I think she needs to do a GoFundMe, she's so beautiful in body, mind, and spirit, there is SOMEone out there that is right to be a truthful companion to this woman, it's just so difficult to find and connect the two.
@@beantownbushcraft6451 except the fact that shes under the control of her recent pimp who is a crip which is unfortunate. The follow up video sounded like she was doing great, but then the 3Rd video came out and she was hustling mark for money because she’s back with her pimp. So sad I was really hoping not to see that video 😕
She does deserve better but her childhood has told her she is not . Mom isn’t around . I was a throw away kid and Obviously her Mom did that to her . I hope to God , she goes back to school and get into a job . Maybe a job to help other Women in the same situations . She is young still .
“If you’re unhappy… leave your family.. they don’t deserve that.. they didn’t ask for that” is the realist thing she said…I hope God blesses this girl and her kids.
When she started crying I started crying. God please help this beautiful soul. Never judge people always pray for them instead. We have one life this isn’t a practice life. She deserves better and you can see she wants better. She is beautiful and I’m not just saying that she’s beautiful inside and out . Such a well spoken, honest, real person. I thank her for this interview it lets others see how blessed we are and how thankful we should be, life could be worse. It makes us see that so many people need help. God bless you 🙏🏽
For a girl who didn't even make it in to high school AND is addicted to meth she seems quite intelligent and put together. I would have no idea she was in to meth if she didn't say so. I wish I could help her🥺
@@exotic6917 no, your very articulate, seem to have a really good head on your shoulders and capable of so much more. You are bright and seem to have a loving heart. I really hope u can get out the game b4 drugs and the life kill your spark.
@@exotic6917 nah, don’t let your past define you, its a big part of you but You can do whatever You want when you dedicate into it, God Bless You and Help you do right decisions
1) It’s clear that mandatory rehabilitation programs should be instituted for people in these situations. This is a health and public safety issue, and people in this situation have a definitive set of health/ mental health issues that need to be addressed. 2) The video describes human trafficking. Plain and simple. This entire criminal subculture has massive negative repercussions for the rest of society, and the resulting criminal behavior puts the wider public at risk. Literally every day of the year there are crimes committed in major cities by individuals (in some way) affected by the subculture portrayed in the video. 3) A first world developed society shouldn’t have these issues as a pervasive issue. Instead of the $100 billion+ in taxpayer dollars going towards corporate welfare (subsidies and tax breaks for companies that eventually mostly benefit the wealthy individuals with multimillion dollar stakes in each company), taxpayer dollars should be instead dedicated to fixing the healthcare system and preventing criminal activity.
The Interviewer treats her like it was her choice to get into sex work. Saying “is your lifestyle for everybody” is such an insult as if it was a choice
she would make a great counselor for young girls. she is so likeable. it would be great if we could fund her education and set her up with the right advocates
She can make 2k a day on the streets. She knows how to make money, but where she's spending it is not on school. Money doesn't solve the problem, unfortunately. She has a drug addiction, plus face tattoos, which will be a challenge to get a professional job. She stopped school in junior high and two kids being raised by her grandmother. She would have to want to get her GED and want to go to college and work on her addiction issues. She needs a positive mentor or person in her life, not money. She knows how to make a lot more money than most of us make in a day. She can be an exotic dancer, and make a lot of money in a day too without sleeping with anyone. She has money, but maybe is making poor choices how to spend it. She's probably addicted to the lifestyle as well so to just give her money to go to school, it won't work. She would have to want it and to want a more legal / straight path and positive mental health to rewire her brain from the abuse she's suffered. Not an easy solution.
@@mindbodyandsoul81 ..I can understand the pimp game but also understand topless dancers. She's more than qualified to dance legally for money and meet men on her own terms for money. I do understand stripping and the money that can be made and it also allowa time to go to school. But if you use it to buy drugs vs school or a nicer lifestyle, then money is not always a solution to a better lifestyle. Growing up with neglect, around drugs, or any type of abuse is a challenge to overcome especially for those who don't have an innate inner fight or joy. Setting up gofunds and giving people a large sum of money, imo, does not change a person to suddenly get out of a negative pattern they grew up with.
@@vickij8417 exactly, it's easy to say, do this or that, get clean, fix the tattoos, get an education. It sounds so easy, but it's not. She has her own demons to fight with and those probably tell her she isn't worth it, she can't do it, then when she hits a hard spot where not only is it hard emotionally because people judge her, she judges her, it gets hard financially, everything seems to be falling apart, it feels safe and comforting, she has a sense of control because she understands it. She needs an advocate to be there for her when times get tough, when she feels like she can't do it, when she's scared, to keep her from turning back to familar patterns. Unfortunately, it is almost impossible to find someone who can and is willing to dig another person out of the pits of dispare in the long term.
This young woman is intelligent, well spoken, and has a very mature introspective awareness of her situation. The things she could accomplish had she been afforded the opportunity of a stable life and education are vast. It makes me so sad that as a culture (and human beings) that we do not invest in lifting up those (especially children) who have life situations that are not reflective of their worth as a human being. I hope that her goal of changing her life is met quickly for her and her children. Thank you Mark for this series. Your work is a reminder to be thankful for everything I have been afforded in life.
She very much looks like a real estate agent I know who wears a black pencil skirt and white business shirt everyday. They could be twins aside from the tattoos… Crazy.
But she has the power as well to become more than this lifestyle. Will It be difficult as hell? Of course! People who are born into a good family, lifestyle get help, their foot in the door in becoming successful. People her situation don't get any kind of help instead they have to start from ground zero. They have to do It all themselves and guide themselves which is sad. But It is so possible that she can become successful and have a different lifestyle.
I came from a wonderful family. Fell into prostitution and stripped for 20 years. Drugs alcohol total insanity. Raped, bitten, lit on fire, beat up, guns to my head and knives to my throat and left for dead. It's a life that just gradually happened to me and then it was the norm. I was able to switch off emotions whenever I needed to. I had a madam for years until I went out on my own. Lived that life for 20 years. Thank God I survived. Now I am a proud woman in recovery and I wouldn't change a thing about my past. I get her totally.
Good for you to change your life around ! Most are not capable. I will add with much love and care, that rarely happens after a good and solid childhood. Often our brains remove what we cannot handle and that's a ok ! If anything pops up ever, take it for what it's worth and know the brain has handled it all so far and will assist in any healing it shows is needed. Big hugs and soo proud of you !
As a victim of sexual assault this interview really stuck with me. People you’d never expect will take advantage of you and hurt you. I really hope she is able to get away from this life.
Sadly in a few months from this interview Mark does try to help her and moved her away and gives her money for her and her children and a whole new life and she stabbed him in the back ripped him off for quite a bit of money and gave it straight to her pimp.. I mean Mark bought her a car relocated her and gave her several thousand dollars but she would not change her phone number as Mark asked her to and then we found out why. One time he goes to visit in the house is full of sex toys and lingerie no kids or kids stuff in sight and she admits she gave it all to her pimp who lives in the house with her that Mark paid for she sits there like a silent coward and doesn't even ever say she sorry... she had a very shitty life but that is absolutely no reason to screw him over like she did specially without any remorse or apology she's a hopeless waste so sorry for her kids if she even has any probably just a lie to get more money out of Mark
My mum died because of the streets and now me and my siblings have a gaping void in our lives. This young woman has so much more purpose about her - I pray she can leave all this pain and misery behind that she’s had to endure because it will be the death of her eventually. She is worth so much more than all of this. I wish her all the luck in the world and I hope to see her progress one day. Positive thoughts, prayers and love from the UK
I'm so sorry about your Mom. You seem like a very nice man. You understanding Exotic's path due to your Mom's experiences and wish her a better, happier life. Bless you.
Someone needs to tell her how beautiful she is as a person and that she’s worth the life she came make happen. This one made so sad. She’s so young and can accomplish anything
@@stonedecatur6602 if she could just have someone educate her on crypto or other types of investment or money strategies she can buy herself out of that life quick .
Nobody is forcing her to do anything what she will do is use whoever comes in contact with her because she choose that lifestyle society never make women take responsibility for their actions it's all ways someone manipulated them never they manipulated others 🤔
She has a sadness about her. Such a beautiful articulate young woman. I pray she finds her strength because she could be an inspiration to so many young lost women.
It just breaks my heart. She missed out on so many opportunities because other people failed her. And now she’s in this industry that thrives off of disadvantaged women through abuse and exploitation. This woman is my age. And our lives couldn’t have been more different and it’s incredibly unfair. I hope one day she does get out and make a life she loves.
@@exotic6917 you are loved, special and worthy of a better life. I don’t know you but I can tell you have a beautiful heart! I’m so sorry you’ve gone through what you have and I wish the absolute best for you my girl 🤍🤍🤍🤍
@@Littlewrenhenzen I was once a prostitute and an addict. I’m a mommy, a wife, and a business owner. We make it out. Prayers work. Jesus saves and redeems! Believing a full turn around for her! In Jesus name!
What I can not understand is why does prostitution have to be the route? Historically, its like painting yourself in a corner or digging a hole so deep that you can’t get out of it. Once it rains you drown in that hole. She has ten finger and I assume ten toes like the rest of us. Why not go into the labor market? Pick up two Security guard job! Drive for amazon! Baby sit! Sort package for FedEx or UPS! If you going break you back working then fine but don’t give up your soul in the process. No one is coming to recuse her from the life! She is her own savior. How much therapy is she going have to go through in order to connect with an health, loving adult male. Lets not mention the kids and where they fit in this mess of a situation.
Not that I disagree she's a physically beautiful person, but I wonder if she'd get this much sympathy if she was not physically attractive. The proof is in the view counts of these interviewees on this channel. Those who are attractive get far more view counts than those who are not.
@@Neanderthal_yardy She was 'born' into that lifestyle. "Exotic" is not a lady that grew up in a middle class/upper middle class background with a normal childhood and upbringing, who one day fell in with the wrong crowd. Her mother was working the streets, and her dad was in prison. She became a product of the system since she was an infant, going from group home to group home, foster care, and even juvenile hall. It's easy for us to judge her and her lifestyle choices, but not fair to Exotic in particular since she was basically exposed to and raised in that lifestyle practically since the day she was born.
“Don’t let my guard down too soon. It’s okay to tell people some things about you, but not every thing. Because some people don’t have good intentions and will take advantage of your weaknesses.” Damn. This is powerful and true.
When we talk about being a “prostitute” at 13 years old - we are actually talking about a child who has been a victim of child sexual exploitation. We should be making this clear in our terminology. A pimp is an organised criminal who should be prosecuted and the clients jailed. Children cannot consent when they are being enforced to do something. Hoping she can find the help/support she needs to find freedom from this oppression!
New update isn't good news
Exactly. Half of the people out there don't have a clue what it's like to be exploited as a kid or teen. I don't wish I'll will on anyone. But if the shoe was on the other foot half of the people out there would get a rude awakening.
Truth! 😢
Her pimp was trafficking a child for pedofiles, child cannot consent
@@melodybrooke1376 and yet there's these crazy sickos out there claiming that they can. Mostly leftists.
The phrases “child prostitue” and “teenage prostitute” shouldn’t exist. There’s no such thing as either. They’re both just children being abused, call them that.
well said. i got so sad and angry when she said 13.
it is a sanctimonious lie to say children and teenagers don't and can't make choices. about sex or anything else. she ran away from tons of stuff, but not from prostitution.
Absolutely. The correct term is "child trafficking victim" or "teenage rape survivor".
They can make choices, and they can even have favorites! But they can't give informed consent. Look at this girl! You think she looks like she made an informed choice?
@@maxbooth179 true. it was her decision to run away. sucks she choose the route she choose. all though i do believe someone at such a young age is easily manipulated and coursed in to things.
What’s with the foster care system destroying individuals? She deserved to be sheltered and protected. I hope she can leave this lifestyle, she’s so young and well-spoken, there are so many opportunities out there for her.
well it is usa.
The amount of predators working at these foster homes is astounding.
@Joanna Parra My mom is a foster parent in MI and she's adopted 8 kids. I then adopted my niece and nephew. I can say from first hand experience... The system is supppeerrrr fucked up and they don't have the best interest of the kids at all.
Foster care is very shitty - pedophiles and more have infiltrated that /
Yea and get rid of all those nasty tats she has.
If she had a pimp when she was 13 she’s not a prostitute… she’s a victim of human trafficking 😤
She's a victim of human trafficking at her current age
So what about the older women is that still human trafficking? Regardless of age
@@HairyKnuckles222They are also victims.
@@HairyKnuckles222yes? If they are being pimped that is trafficking
@@christinaskittle thanks it was just a question. What’s your question after yes lol ?
She may not be well educated...but she has more wisdom, heart and empathy than a lot of well educated people...
Touche.
She's streetwise.
Y'all females who give "words" like this are just sick. She chose the easy way out and now expect everyone to feel bad for her. 0 accountability.
@@cipryan96 everyone has to be held accountable unless someone put her in the streets at 13 just disgusting
Yes she does
Hope she finds true happiness in this world
Yeah :/
...me to .
She won’t. Its over for her.
She and all of us can only be made whole in Jesus Christ...
Everybody deserves that
She's describing slavery. She escaped 6 times. She is strong.
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@@janetwestwood9194 Why are you spamming this in the comments? Stop it.
Big facts 💯
That is very true.
Nothing like slavery you SIMP!
This is what foster care produces. This is a story I've heard a million times over. My sorrow is deep for these poor souls.
That's a very good point of view, I agree well said
I grew up in and out of foster care for almost 10 years of my childhood
Over half of my foster siblings are dead or in and out of jail. Fortunately I'd say about 30% are doing decently well but more than not get into hard drugs and crime
The foster care system and other agencies could care less. They will leave these kids in foster care knowing they are being abused and raped and the child gets tired and run away.
@deecee2174 wow, thank you for sharing ❤️ 🙏 💕 I hope you're OK and healing
Agree! Foster care is a for profit child trafficking organization.
As a mother to a daughter, my heart aches that she wasn't given the opportunies and protection every child deserves. She is so beautiful and dignified despite how harshly life has treated her.
Amen 🙏🏽
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Yes, my daughter is just about her age and I can’t even imagine. She is trapped in a horrible situation. If I could get in touch with her I would absolutely help her get out.
My heart is broken into pieces right now
My daughter is almost her age too.
I wish she could have the opportunity to get well away from everyone and everything she knows. She needs to be somewhere with her Grandma and children where she can get help with drug addiction and be given a job that’s worthy of her.
No one deserves that life style and I hope her niece that’s her advice and stays away from it all.
Such a beautiful, intelligent lady, it’s such a waste.
I would love her the get help xxxx
I just can't get over this. I really LIKE this girl. She articulates her points so well, she's so open and honest about her feelings. She's also so so pretty. SMDH. She's a mountain of potential.
True. She seems like a decent person. Someone watching this should offer her an opportunity to work. There should be programs in place for those looking to get out and make an honest living.
As Denzel Washington said it best, "It all starts in the home", and feminists are making it harder for men as well, there are soo many contributing factors, BUT its mainly absent FATHERS that make these types of women sadly, and its crappy mothers who think they dont need a man to raise a child without help, therefore this is the primary result of what happens to people like her. WE NEED OUR PARENTS TO RAISE US to stop this from happening. CDC had a report that majority of homeless women and stuff like that are the result of fatherless homes.
Ending the futile, insane prohibition on prostitution would be a relatively easy step in the right direction too. The law should be protecting them not punishing them. Unfortunately toxic religions and indoctrination prevents such acceptance.
@@theshanamaster you really think women end up like this because their mothers are so “feminist” they kick the fathers out of the house because they “don’t need a man”…? you’re completely delusional. how about men start taking responsibility for their own children instead of hightailing it out of there as soon as they find out about the pregnancy and refusing to pay child support, forcing the mother to either work several jobs or turn to stripping/prostitution just to get any money to be able to feed their kids with no child support or father in the picture
@@ShreadsEBS Most of them wouldn't even take the chance to work anyway.
She just turned 23, so we're almost the same exact age.
Can't believe how different our lives are.
Wishing all the best for her.
And still we complain 🙏
I’m 24 and have been in prostitution since I was 15 years old.. about ready to move on.
@@jayrose4748 me too im still in it
@@jayrose4748 aw 😭
@@jayrose4748 keep your head up dear ♥️
She talked about herself and acknowledged how tough her life is and yet I didn't sense any victim speak from her. There is dignity in her, acceptance and honesty about the circumstances. My heart broke when she said her brother died 3 years ago and a minute earlier she said she started taking drugs about 3 years before. Take care Exotic, I hope life turns for you and you achieve the goals you have set for yourself.
"Victim speak"? What does that even mean? You sound brainwashed.
I guess you don't know the whole story she had a pimp the whole time Mark got her an apartment gave her a monthly allowance bought her a car and she gave it all to the pimp!!
@@stayfreetv6311probably the pimp forced her to
"Victim speak" what is wrong with you? What a horrible thing to say!
I had to pause the video when she said that bc what that tells me is that if he was born a femaIe instead, he’d more likely be here (given that his sister is).
With vvomen, at least they get some sort of social support & acceptance.
I was still playing with dolls at 13, sheltered and clueless. Crazy how different a life I could have had if I was born into a different family. I hope she gets out of this cycle.
That's up to her.If she wants to get out she could.The choices you make in life are all up to you.
@@lettiegrant9447 You are so cruel if you think what you've commented is correct. No one chooses abuse. I hope you find it in yourself to heal so that you're able to sympathize with other people.
But she was born white. She's had many privileges according to democrats
@@lettiegrant9447 you are not the smartest. So stupid
@@DuMaMayDewLay whats wrong w you
When she started crying I just wanted to hug her .. I pray she finds happiness for her and her children .
The fact that people on Twitter will compare working a 9-5 to this (prostitution) pisses me off. This poor girl is suffering.
@diamond_1111 😭🙏🙏🙏
maybe she she should work hard in a 9 to 5 then selling her body lol
@@uncomfortabletruths7990 maybe you shouldn't spew bs in comments, but here we are
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Raped starting at the age of 13. I can't fathom the horror she had to go through being abused by grown men when she was a baby. It hurts to know so many young women are used and tossed aside. I hope that somehow her life can turn around for her benefit and for her kids. She deserves it, her strength is commendable.
Absolutely cus a 13 year old can't consent
@@blacksilverchair3315 you act like you were the one who's out money for an apartment. Take your outrage somewhere that matters. Your legit on almost every fkn comment.
In what way he is being raped somehow worse because the woman has a baby ? 😡
@@alucylu9714 no one said that unless you're under the wrong comment. They said when she WAS A BABY, not when she HAD a baby. Relax
@@blacksilverchair3315 you seem like an incel, incel
I came across her most recent video and became invested lol. So I had to come find the first video… I will now go down the rabbit hole. I will say, I’m rooting for this sweet soul. ❤❤
Everyone talking about the pimps and drugs but let’s talk about the childhood trauma that started all of this for her. The real root of the problem is America’s foster care system. Maybe if we started by fixing that then we can prevent more of this in the future.
Update: I’m glad that I was able to start a meaningful discussion wether or not you agree with where the “root” of the problem is. One thing I want to address is the question of how to fix the foster care system. Here’s my suggestion
1. Lee siblings together
2. Reduce, eliminate or demand more accountability when it comes to financial assistance to foster patents. So many children are abused in the system because the foster parents took in a child for the money and not because they genuinely want to help a child. Some foster parent get anywhere between $400- $600 per month for each child. Either reduce or eliminate that and there won’t be an incentive for people to invite children into their homes that they don’t want.
Or
Have foster parents to present receipts and bills to account for every dime they receive on behalf of the child.
3. Wellness checks inside the home on a monthly basis. Or require that each child in foster care see a therapist or a regular. Therapist and psychiatrist must report any abuse and it’s a great way to check the wellness of the child. If I’m not mistaken foster care children can get free medical. Not sure though.
And for those who say the bio parents are the root. I say I partially agree but have to disagree because if that were true then children adopted as babies would have the same trauma. Or every child who had divorced parents or a single parent would have the same trauma. Point is if you watch enough of these interviews you will find that foster care is the common denominator. Children who have been physically, sexually, and emotionally abused in foster care have a very high chance of being in a situation like this.
These are just some suggestions. Let’s keep the conversation going. How can we make our foster care system better?
Yes, you can trace nearly everyone's problems to childhood trauma, which often times childhood trauma happens because parents are suffering from mental illness and addiction (which go hand in hand), take the kids away and put them with strangers, move from place to place, never feel secure, never feel loved and then you wonder why they reach to drugs. they weren't safe with their parents, they weren't safe in the system. how can we help these kids from becoming drug addicted prostitutes?
The safety net failed her but the root issue is PARENTS, I believe that if she grew up in a family BIO or otherwise with two engaged loving parents I’m positive we wouldn’t be watching her story - under these circumstances anyway
@@markmorton2519 Yes, I agree and its an inter-generational thing. Her parents had trauma and possibly mental illness and their parents and so on. Maybe if her parents had gotten some help before they had kids things would of turned out differently. Lets hope she is aware enough to net let the same thing happen with her kids but with them growing up in such an environment, it almost seems inevitable. very sad.
But also sick people taking advantage of that trauma so yes it’s still the pimps fault because they targeted her based off that trauma
It starts before foster care. It starts with people who have no business having children, who casually create life and then discard or abuse it.
I could see this girl being like a ballerina in another world, raised properly. She has a grace about the way she carries herself despite being rough around the edges, and a certain appearance which is lovely. Even her tats are placed and designed so lovely.
WOW 😲 I thought that
I can see that too. She's very poised and graceful eventhough she is from the streets
@@mrsssmlllaie4402 anyone can be poised and graceful. there are people in high places who act like 5 year olds. crazy how much society has warped our perception of human beings in terms of success.
@@aimforlifenow I just meant that eventhough she is from the streets and has had a rough life she still maintains poise and grace that's just how she is. She would be that way no matter what way her life may have went.
I immediately zoned in on her poise and grace just based upon the thumbnail. After the video started it is abundantly clear this gal is naturally a "lady". She may be a prostitute to make her living....it does not define her though. No more than a plumber's character is defined by their work. She presents her as a Lady (tattoos and all), therefore she IS A TRUE LADY. After listening to her, the tattoos seem to disappear leaving HER TRUE INNER BEAUTY.
She only got shocked and broke down when he mentioned that she might die and leave her kids behind. Not once when she talked about all her own suffering. She has so much love in her heart for them.
You can tell....
I see so much shame in her she can make a choice to just quit but she is to attached what she does
But does she really? She isn't really raising them. If it weren't for her grandmother her kids would grow up exactly how she did. And even if she would keep them by her side, do you think that would end well?
People that have this fate end up having kids with the same fate. That's the issue.
Who's fault is it? It's humanity's fault. Because people are mostly bastards, coated bastard with bastard filling.
How can you stop it? You probably can't, but you can diminish it by educating people. Her too.
@@DaMensch86 MAJOR disappointment; her and that 30 yo looser that dresses like he's 15.
If she really cared about her kids, she would leave this lifestyle all together. Check out the follow-up video. She hustled Mark, and she hustled all of the viewers. You guys fell for her act.
This girl is so unbelievably strong. I don’t know how she spoke with such confidence and honesty it made me really tear up. Praying for her to make it out and get a better life because she truly deserves it
She is beautiful and deserving of a wonderful life!
All the girls on here ya say is strong...everyone is strong in their own individual way
Everyone deserves it. No one deserves this.
Most times, these girls say what they want people hear to make them feel a type of way. Trust me, when you get close, you'd understand why society tries to distant themselves from these types of individuals..
@@chukaemejulu5366 I wonder how you know this?
I like this girl. Not too many people can sit there and talk so honestly. She’s genuine. I truly hope she finds her way. Blessings to her babies.
Oh bs!! You know she probably has told this story so many times to so many clients and they end up feeling sorry for her and they give her more money this is the kind of girl that will rob you blind
@@dansavka7648 if they are clients they are giving her money for sex right?? You are full of BS. You are the kind of coward who thinks theat everybody is after you.
@@dansavka7648 WTH? Yeah, I am sure all her clients ask about her personal life. As if. You sound like a nutjob.
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😂 😆 it’s too funny!!
I do agree. Whatever I can do I'll be glad. Society should really support people like her. And really and truly they all need our help.
The men who hire 13-year old “prostitutes” are vile. This girl was a child!!! Her story is heartbreaking. She deserves better.
Well back in the day
The age of being married was 10 years of age we put restrictions on ourselves government wise so they can capitals on the revenue.
@@JoseRodriguez-kp2hs wdym “back in the day” bro this woman is only 25 so she basically was 13 in 2010☠️☠️ thats like 12 yrs ago im pretty sure we still have the same rules applied to underaged ppl☠️ not u tryna justify that mfs actions plus ur comment makes zero sense at all
@@JoseRodriguez-kp2hsback in what day pedo? It was never okay to marry a 10 year old. I hope the FBI is watching you. Disgusting
@@JoseRodriguez-kp2hs keyword, back in the day. Back in the day people were cleaning their buttholes with corn on the cobs, whats your point?
She is 13?
Just for the record, I think most people would think that you've had a rough life and you're just doing the best you can. I think most decent people wouldn't judge you. I admire your tenacity to still be here after all that you've obviously been through. I hope you get some peace and the healing you need.
It’s crazy to think at 13 I was going to watch the latest twilight film with my mam yet across the world this girl was going through things I can’t even imagine! Really puts into perspective how lucky we are to be born into the families and lives we have. I don’t know how she survives the environment she has had to endure since birth but I admire her greatly for it.
Omg yes literally 🥺
Yeah..... Sometimes I feel bad too and i need more but after this I'm grateful and make my own better life on my own
I felt that too cos she and I are the same age. It made me think about how our family and environment has a really big influence on us, and how our lives would be different if major influences in our lives were different. She is such a strong woman and I genuinely wish her the best. ❤️
At her age I was clueless and still to this day
Her experiences has molded her into a person stronger than most of us
Trafficked at 13…absolutely devastating. The trauma experienced prior is all the more traumatic. I hope she can find the courage and strength to leave this lifestyle behind her. Truly a gut wrenching interview.
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Blame it on ridiculous tax system, bad culture and when money is worshiped like god. We need money for sure but it shouldnt be used to pay for prostitution, drugs and strip clubs
@@helraiserlastdaysofhell1795 I think rape culture, pedophilia, misogyny, drugs/addiction and money. The stats too of Foster kids ending up being trafficked and then homeless or worse murdered is staggering.
@@MsVshizzle there is not rape culture. She consented to have sex for money
@@brandonjablasone7544 sure Brandon 🤪🙄
I’m at a loss for words . This young lady has layers of trauma like an onion, each layer makes you want to cry more. I pray that she will listen to her inner voice and have the resources to thrive, not just survive.
Omg, yes! Your comment is the most insiteful of all!
I’ve never heard anyone put it that way. Wow.
Well said. She would need support from non-profit agencies that help victims like her as well as intensive counseling to prevent relapse. This is why it's so important to support nonprofits.
Wise words!!!🙏🇬🇧
Agreed! This is so depressing. She was someone's baby once. Nobody wants this. I pray someone will reach her and truly give her another chance.
She made a great quote at 26:25
The most important lesson she has learned in her life- "let my guard down too soon. It's okay to tell people some things about you. But not everything everybody should know. Because some people don't have the same intentions and will use it to their benefit, and your weakness."- I didn't figure that last part out until much later in life
Very true‼️ Not everyone has the best intentions so be mindful when you’re running your mouth 😐 sharing your stories
I was 54 when I figured this out
Definitely.
I definitely agree with this one. I didn’t learn until later in life also how true that is.
She seems very intelligent, and has a spark in her eye that let’s you know she is also empathetic. Society definitely failed her, but she’s surfing the wave. I hope she remains safe.
She failed herself! I don't feel sorry for her at all whatsoever she chose her path in life! I have absolutely ZERO empathy for her!
Lol what a joke. This chick is nasty as f
@@nuclearblast119
Damn you have zero empathy.
Fair enough but what the fuck do you mean spark in her eye
@@digitaljosh_ When she looks at you, there's something there to connect with. I am surprised everyone is so hard on her. It doesn't seem like this was a choice for her. She was a child & running from something when she was seized on by her friends pimp. Then that became all she knew.
This woman is a victim of human trafficking. My heart goes out to her.
She isn't. She's had several chances to get out of that lifestyle.
Her pimps name is slickback slickback slickback…
@@HFH-Official I don't think you understand how drug addiction and abuse affects people's mentality
CHILD TRAFFICKERS
Human trafficking is forced. She's a volunteer.
This is so heartbreaking. I wish I could have taken her at 2 months old. God bless her for coming forward and being honest. I will pray she has a bright future and gets the help and support she needs.
She is a good person. You can tell her situations took control of her future. She is very feminine and it's her feminine nature that is also hindering her.
I literally wanted to reach through this phone and give her a hug. This poor woman was failed from the start. She’s so smart, bright, and genuine. I really pray she is able to turn her life around and tap into all her potential.
AMEN
SAME
Stunning & intelligent lady
I just wanna give this women a hug, she’s very strong and doesn’t know it. I hope she gets outta the life style and finds her home forever.
$5 a hug
@@tonysoprano9754 😂😂
@@tonysoprano9754 bruh💀
@@tonysoprano9754 IM CRYING
She is so beutiful!
She looks like a beautiful ballerina. I hope she finds a way out of this life. She deserves so much better and seems like such a nice person. My heart breaks for her
no she does not. She looks very rough. Ballerinas don't have tats on their face. Stop it.
@@colleenwelch2330 what is your problem? Why is showing kindness to someone who is suffering such an issue for you? She DOES look like a ballerina despite the tattoos. You can resemble someone or something without fully adhering to the “look.”
@@colleenwelch2330 I think you want to have her compliment 😂 it’s hers to keep. She does lol like a ballerina regardless of the face tattoos. She’s an angel
She has a beautiful face and a body type which ballerinas typically have. Shut up
This girl is literally stunning and could have easily been a model had her life gone a different direction..
This tattoo branding thing is so gross. Imagine someone using and abusing of you for filthy things like that and branding you like cattle. It's surreal how evil some people can be.
My thoughts exactly!
This broke my heart a million times. She is so strong and poised and it's so important for people to hear the stories of others so that we can have empathy for each other. Thank you Mark for making this video.
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omg me too
Never confuse strength with survival skills!
Tara Collalti she’s pretty just had no guidance just sad
@@RekoneInkings how are you but strong if you are out there surviving??? Get real
This whole interview just broke my heart you can tell how strong she is . She just wanted to be loved
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Exactly When she was a little girl she never thought about prostitution. AND they should make it legal giving these girls a little better life, at least safer
@@TheCybertiger9 us that are safe should never tolerate these things to happen and thus try our best for the system to not allow it.
You dont know what strong means. Its sad.
Ohhh shut up
Seeking attention
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her story is so heartbreaking, it’s sad how society paints prostitutes as bad people when they don’t know what they’ve been through. she seems like such a sweet girl too :(
she's not.. she scammed him.
@@edwardo1987 how you know that
They're not bad people. It's the sex buyers, Johns, and pimps who willingly exploit and coerce these often impoverished and underprivileged women/girls. As young as 13 like this woman once was. Yet most of these low lives get away with it because society thinks it's a man's "right" to have access to women/girl's bodies and have sex with any woman/girl. Think about it.
Prostitutes are horrible people
Didn't know you knew her personally. Don't be judgemental, but don't be naive either.
Thank you, Exotic for sharing your experiences and your story. And you should be proud of making something of your life despite all the hardships. It’s so hard that more support isn’t available in the US for children leaving the care system. In the UK, children leaving care at 18 are entitled to support from their local authority until they are at least 21. This can be through being paid each month to stay in further education, accommodation, free education and continued advise and support. ❤ I really hope the US brings in more care and support for children in care and leaving care.
When she talked about her kids, it's hard not to get emotional. She is just like anyone else and I'm ashamed of myself for judging her/anyone in a different lifestyle then me.
Thank you for both of you for this interview.
Not hard to me. I can't relate to being a whore with kids. lol
@@ebogar42 yeah and you never will. you’re a male.
@@ebogar42 - you are part of problem. Have you no empathy?
@@andylane3739 Not really but I don't see how that's a problem. I'm not in your life.
Its only sad that its because of her kids you begin to respect her. I dont need kids for give respect to women and man who are prostitutes. Life is not fair. I have more respect to prostitutes than to surogat mothers .
No dude. No pimp is out there trying to “help” the prostitute. They’re ALL predatory POS’s.
that goes for the men who engage in these services! we do not have systems to protect prostitutes and therefore engaging in services is ALWAYS exploitation
you cannot consent if you have a pimp and therefore all Johns are culpable for their exploitation. So these men joking about eliciting her services are the reason there is a business for these pimps to create a "business" with
@@daelynnmoore8232 blame the government for not allowing legal brothels. Almost every other country allows them.
What's a pimp ?
What about her ex boyfriend who was willing to be a bodyguard for her?
There is sometimes when she talks, and you can see the pain she keeps locked behind her eyes. My heart goes out to this girl, and I genuinely hope that she achieves her goals.
Poor little girl. She breaks my heart. I wish someone would take her away from this dangerous life. Praying God will protect her and make a way out!
Poor thing, such a beautiful, honest, well-spoken woman. My heart breaks for her. I hope she gets the help that she needs and can live the life that she deserves with her kids.
Do you dance? Writing and singin im sure
Idk i dont wanna be rude or something, but in this kind of situation you dont wanna be called poor thing
@@laura-gd3gy Not my fault if you don't understand empathy 😑.
@@scarebear9898 oh i do, and i didn't mean it that way, i more meant that she's gotten enough pity. I relate to this situation in a way and i'm so sick of walking down the street hearing people whisper 'poor thing' or 'i'm sorry'. Even tho they usually don't mean to be mean, the pity really is hurtful and disrespectful and sometimes even dignity destroying in a way. And she really seems like someone who dosen't want to be called a poor thing and I think we all can relate.
@@laura-gd3gy Gotten pity from whom exactly? The Johns? The pimps? The cops? The system that failed her?
Your comment makes no sense in your context, she wasn't asking for sympathy obviously, but being a human and sympathizing with someone who's had trauma since childhood is not wrong.
I feel like you're just looking to interject and argue about my opinion; here's an idea, go make your own 👌🏿
The way she holds herself so high even what she was going through is amazing like she doesn’t beat herself up and I love that !!! You’re changing a lot of lives by sharing your story !! You’re beautiful, smart, and bright❤️ I can see big things coming your way love don’t ever give up!
You’re so brave for doing this interview!
Yes, I thought the same!
This video opened my eyes to a reality I never imagined could be real. It also made me realize the importance of adoption. Powerful video. Thank you, Exotic. Wishing you love, stability, and new life from now on. I see the views on this video and can't help but wonder: Does some of the adsense income generated from this video go to getting her help, rehab, child support, street protection, etc.? ❤🙏
I was thinking the same!! I wanted to look her up so i can send her sumthing so she can buy her kids sum xmas gifts .. but it would b great if they can get her help ect.. jersey gives everyone medicaid why i am in rehab bcuz bk in texas there is no help for anyone struggling n no medicaid there.. thats why i moved up here even thou its hard out here! N i imagine cali is expensive too! I hope she gets help its hard doing it without help or motivation or professional help ect
Wow i never would had expected you to watch this kinda stuff. Im surprised and excited to see someone with your following taking notice. Maybe you could start a program you do have the resources in the sence of followers
@@karinaortega4887 to the time you sent the money, she already make enough for her kids.
She doesn't want to leave this life.
She already passed so many situations with her life and jeopardy, but she continues.
I wish she quit this kind of "work" for her good, her grandmother that takes care of her kids, and her children.
Wow I love your channel ants Canada! Can't believe your watching this too! :) x
@@karinaortega4887 Texas is the worst state when it comes to social programs. Smh.
It broke my heart to see the stunned shock on her face when she realized she's mirroring her mother's life. I wish this young woman all the courage and strength to face her demons and lay them to rest so that she can be free to live a life full of love, safety, and abundance with her loved ones. She deserves that and so much more.
She doesn't seem to have any demons. Somehow, she seems completely sane and normal and pragmatic.
It's not true, she is not mirroring her mother's live at all, but she stuck in it and don't know where to move. You are so wrong. She not deserves that and you very angry, very cruel, very stupid person.
@@NigelTolley It's because she is completely sane unlike you two!!!
@@anuta789 I agree with your original comment & the latter.
I noticed that stunned look and body language too at that point in the interview. Who knows, maybe that is what will help her get out of this lifestyle.
My heart breaks for her. She was born with practically every disadvantage you can imagine, and yet she's still making her way through life as best she can. Our country is better than this, yet society still refuses to help people like her.
Every disadvantage ? Imagine how much harder it would be for her if she was ugly…
"Our country is better than this" hhahahah
@@cristobal6721 right America is fucking traaashhh
stop blaming the others, when people doesnt want to help themselves
Your country has never been better, this is just how life hits certain individuals, It’s all in her whether she will keep her steps up and aim high which I have full belief she will. She’s got soul she’s something else she’s got a brain.
I haven’t cried in so long, but the second she said she started when she was 13, I started sobbing. It’s not that I don’t know of this reality, but rather that I know too well just how much of a reality it is. I think society, in general, is vaguely aware of these things happening, but I don’t think most people actually process it and think about it. Everyone has known a 13 year old. Can you imagine that 13 year old going through all of that? It’s shocking and nauseating. This girl is stronger than 99.9% of people. The amount of hell and bull shit she’s been through… she’s incredible.
Why would you ? If she put herself in that predicament . She’s trash . Feel bad for the innocent kids that get kidnapped or innocent animals that get abuse .
@@carlosdnutz3918 so sorry to hear about your microscopic penis 😔 and not even a personality to make up for it! Man, that’s rough. You’d think you’d be more empathetic when you’re so miserably disadvantaged yourself.
@@carlosdnutz3918 why would u say that? Drug addicts are dangerous and both needed help
I have a 13 year old. I can’t even imagine her on the streets. This poor girl breaks my heart. I hope she can pull herself out of the hell hole she’s currently in.
@@carlosdnutz3918 she put herself in that predicament, because she had no choice. Her father was in prison and her mother was strung out on drugs.. she had no place to go and she didn’t have any family. She was young at the time, so she didn’t know what to do. Until she was put in a foster care, which she was in and out of and obviously that didn’t work. You gotta give it no her for being so brave can’t imagine, all the pain and suffering she’s been through :((
When he asked 'what do you wish people knew about what you do' as a woman who was also prayed upon as a young child and made to work i wanted to scream 'WE DON'T ENJOY WHAT WE DO, WE DONT WANT TO BE DOING WHAT WE ARE DOING' most the time it is about survival we learn early the only person we can rely on is ourselves. We have been exploited abused and sexualized at such a young age we believe there isnt a way out and this is easy money
She comes across as a very intelligent young woman despite only having a middle school education. My heart hurts for her and hearing the sorrow she's walked through all her life. She's very honest and well spoken. As a mom and grandma, I just want to hug her and hope someone gives her a chance to see her precious value. Her label doesn't have to be "prostitute. " She deserves the labels of " courageous " and " survivor."
Imagine what could she have become if she had a chance! Maybe a scientist, an engineer, a doctor - even a nurse would be excellent. She never had a proper chance in her life. Many other children do not get a chance. At the same time there are people so wealthy that fly into space for fun. And nobody cares!
No she does not sound very intelligent at all.
@@DaBeezKneez Rude and unnecessary
@@xrayban2 its a fact.. not even trying to be rude.
How I wish I had the means to help her.. man if I won the lotto I would be compelled to reach out, mentor her, help her with her education etc. It is truly heartbreaking she never experienced true love from her real family.
She’s very well spoken for someone who had so little education. It’s a pity that the system failed her early on, and so she didn’t have the basic opportunities that so many of us take for granted. She’s still young though, and I hope that she’ll be able to create a better life for herself and her kids.
HER PARENTS FAILED HER! Why blame the system? Now she has created children in the same exact situation.. Not the "system's" fault at all.
@@ibetrollintheybehatin6857 You're not trolling. There are all kinds of girls with happy families who might even be wealthy and they are intentionally living this kind of life style because they want to. Nobody really does it in the street anymore though, they don't even have to leave the house to have an onlyfans. In a way society in general failed her because too many women are looking up to her in this video like some kind of role model.
Im 14 and quit school 1 year ago I can talk just fine I don't need a stupid school telling me what to do I'm a boy though lol
Her parents failed her. The breakdown of families is a primary reason for the collapse of our civilization. It is heartbreaking to see.
@@chasehall6393 mmkay.
The fact that she can live this life for 10 years and go on camera and answer these questions is a testament to her strength, self confidence, and love for herself and others. The sad thing is that she probably does not see that in herself.
We are our worst enemy. Her story started as a lost cause from the begining, and with so many cards stacked against her the drug's don't make possible ending any happier. So pretty and so sad.
Does she go another 10 years learning a new trade, or learn how to become a better prostitute in that time?
You are trippin hard. She has no self love at all. She's desensitized to the life. It's her normal. Is it courageous of her? Yes it is. And it takes some strength for sure, but it's not because she loves herself... Though I hope she learns to.
Completely agree
@@amberscottcmt7400 You see what you see, I see what I see. Hopefully one day you have the ability to look deep into a person.
This poor woman deserves so much better. She is beautiful inside and out. I sincerely hope she is able to get out of that life. We all need to pray for her ❤
I want to hug this young lady and just let her weep. She appears so strong, but looks like she’s one incident away from her breaking point. I appreciate her candor, but my heart aches for her.
Word up😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
Send her some money, help her like you say you want to.
This ain't no lady 🤣😂🤡
You gotta be tough in the streets. She has sadly learned so early on how life is in the streets and it's clearly hardened her. There is still a soft spot in her heart I'm positive of it.. And no doubt she can get out of this life---she is still so young, intuitive clearly, and I can see she's a fighter and will figure out a way..not only that but she will be successful and help others get out. I have a feeling, can't describe it, but I KNOW for a fact she will.
You are a beautiful soul.. Mark is there a go fund for each person or a mutual fund ? I've donated previous to people you had on here but just wondering how you do that part as far as when you setup.. Thank you.
Yep. I completely agree.
What people in these comments don’t realize is that the interviewer is very smart with the way he asks his questions. He doesn’t “say much” or give advice because these people leave with their own answers replaying in their head. When they answer these questions out loud, and hear it out loud, it may have been the first time they said those things, and therefor it opens their eyes to reality without the interviewer giving his peace of mind at all. Sometimes all it takes for a person to flip their life around is to realize where they are at in the first place and people can tell them they are not in the right place all they want. But it takes them thinking it on their own to make change. This interview wasn’t to give the girl advice, it’s to help her look into herself further, and THAT can change a persons life.
Yaaas. To rise above ones socioeconomic standing it takes soneone outside that’s more powerful then those around to really invoke change.
Absolutely! I'm an Occupational Therapist and we do this all the time when providing coaching or counselling, its the moments of silence that allows a person to let out what they need to say in its entirety. So powerful.
I work in coaching with people who have complex needs and you always let them talk 80% of the time and use silence as one tool. It's very powerful and really helps.
The interviewer gives me a bad vibe 🤷🏻♂️
Very true
She deserves so much more
She’s an angel, I wish she had someone to watch over her and care for her from early on
You can tell she’s so sweet ❤
Exotic is the only 1 story out of so many that had the same life set up as her. Everybody deserves respect regardless of their story.
I will never understand people who judge unknowingly.
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Amen 🙏🏻💙
I agree and those people like her are survivors and their humanity is just stripped away in the way they get treated… This must upset a human being right?
They deserve a way out of this crap
She needs respect for herself, there is no happy ending down her road. Easy money it seems, but in the end you will sucumbe to emotional scars, she should get an education and make something of herself.
She talks about her and what happened to her almost without any emotions, but she cracks immediatelly when she only thinks that something similar might happen to her kids. That shows how much she cares about them, it's such a pity she couldn't be the mother she wants to be, but let's hope she will soon. And that she meets someone who she can really trust.
It is heartbreaking. I wish there was something that could be done.
I think she’s responding in kind, just like the guy who keeps firing questions at her with no feeling or emotion either. Tragic ones. Horrific ones. Ones of extreme sadness. Boom boom boom boom boom boom boom nothing funny about any of it bro
Just because your right dosent make it any less sad. In Victor Hugo's book; after Val- Jean went to prison trying to feed his sister and her starving children; the question is rhetorically asked about " what ever happens to those leaves left behind after the tree has been cut down?" In answer those leaves ( his loved ones) go to the wind; like this unfortunate child. She could be any of our daughters, sister; someone you love. However to simply voice it; i wish there was an actual solution; for now i think all i have is a deep sympathy that i feel as heart ache. I think the song by the cranberries : zombies about sums it up. Good night
@@seansaylock3575 There’s lots of things we can do. First we need to change the culture. Single parenting is not the goal, or even ok - it’s a tragedy that needs to be avoided. Of course, there will always be circumstances beyond our control, but as a general rule we want to promote stable family’s and the family unit as an institution. We need to reject degeneracy as a society and promote positive values (rather than the other way around as it is now).
These are just two things. There’s more, but these are big. Just these two things would have a huge positive affect of adoption and foster care too.
who in their right state of mind would take that woman? it can only be a deviant who will perpetuate the vicious cycle
This story gets more and more heartbreaking. The worst thing is, she's just one girl speaking the voice of millions around the world.
well said
Fr its hard to watch. I'm like.. Ima play some video games to get my mind off it.
Who cares?
Its frustrating to see because she is now an adult living in America which means she can have a better life however her past keeps her for the streets. Very unfortunate...
@@imhoteptheunsullied3000 me
Dear society, this is why we need more services for children. Having worked with parolees and people with substance disorder I know a few things to be true: high instances of child abuse, high instances of being raised and abused in foster care. I watch these videos and they just reinforce what I've seen. It's a sickening and sad truth. Please lets do more to help these abused adult children.
The first step is to completely tear down the evil CPS system, and start over. This time they don't get absolute power!
As a father of a daughter her age, this is heart braking. I could not imagine failing my daughter this bad, she's my entire life.
pimp would die.
@@Lloyd23Man someone must have hurt you real bad for you to become such a lowlife.
@@Lloyd23Man kay why s
@@Lloyd23Man You're a loser. For real. A loser. You have so little in your life that you have to post crap like that for even a tiny amount of satisfaction. You are right... people don't like you.
@@Lloyd23Man Guys like you are why kids like mine beat the shit out of them for disrespecting women.
I wish her safety, protection and the love that she deserves. Such a genuine soul.
I agree and wish the same for her 💗
Yes me 2🙏
Yes -I agree with you. She deserves Love wrapped around her 💜
Yes she has a beautiful soul ❤ God send your Angels of Heaven your protection over her and her children .Send good people in her path to bless her and get her out of this lifestyle. 🙏 ❤
@@exotic6917 you got only-fans?
Life can be so unfair. She had everything stacked against her from the beginning. The mental strength it must take to live through these experiences. I have no idea what the future holds for her but I hope she is able to find a way out of this life.
How can the US government give away billions of dollars for wars while not seriously taking care of babies and children with no parents ? That's disgusting, nobody derserve that ...
cuz their politicians love to treat everyone who isn't a normal family like criminals
Trillions are already spent on welfare and such, without much return. But America is an empire, that's where its influence and wealth comes from, and an empire has to fulfill its imperial obligations otherwise it is poised to collapse. It's easy to be a populist and cry about foreign spending but protecting its allies and influence and weakening its enemies is some of the most effective and crucial way any government spends its resources, especially the US which is so reliant on its financial dominance over world trade. The return on investment is simply huge.
The government is the one who funds this travesty.
This whole interview I felt like she was on the verge of tears. When she finally broke & talked about having her kids… I cried with her. She just sounds SO battered and defeated. I hope she gets out.
Completely broke my heart I cried too 😩🙏🏾
I know. I want everything for her. I have so many feelings. And none of them are helpful to her...ugh.
this woman deserves so much more than what she was given, her strength got me in literal tears my babys been through so much -
Oh my god, I cried the whole time watching this. My heart goes out to this beautiful girl and I pray she fulfills her goal of getting out of that life 🙏🏽
Halfway through the interview I am amazed at how eloquent and nuanced her vocabulary is. Despite the lack of education she is a naturally intelligent person. I hope and pray her life turns around the best way possible.
Yes this girl has the grace and beauty of a ballet dancer. Despite her poor start in life she radiates intelligence and startling eloquence.
Onlyfans? More money and no sex :)
I had the same kind of feeling. She's subtle and has a very clear view about the world around her, and herself. If she had an opportunity to go to a school's bench of some sort, she'd catch up very rapidly and probably surpass many people. That's the potentiel I feel in her.
Why is there this constant notion that someone needs an 'education' to be intelligent? Especially in today's world, it actually holds you back. You do not need a formal education if to be intelligent, you are innately insightful and articulate or you aren't. Say it with me.
@@WhiteWolf--
Intelligent and educated are certainly two different things. Being educated in formalities and language though can make it easier to portray intelligence to others in a way that makes it more apparent.
A beautiful soul lost in an ugly world. I hope she'll find her way out of it. The silent sorrow in her eyes speaks tons about how fragile we really are without a love net, without a friend. My heart breaks for her and for the millions that like her walk such rough paths. It took a miracle to save me from heroin even though I had a mother who against all odds never gave up on me. I'm not a religious man, but seeing this child all alone in this world makes me beg the Gods to throw a miracle her way.
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L.A is a tough place. not like the media depicts it.
If she was ugly you wouldn’t give two fucks. Stop pretending
A beautiful soul indeed.
Amen
My mother ran away from her family at 12 years old to live in Manila. She was human trafficked from 12 to 22. It gave her a lot of problems.
My heart goes out to this child. Heartbreaking. She is smart, articulate, and clearly has so much potential.
That’s not a child
No she is not a child but I think we feel protective over someone in this place in life
She is actually a very sweet girl. My heart hurts to think of how hard she has to work at prostitution just to survive. I hope she finds a way to survive and thrive without having to sell what remains of her lovely self.
So young, so beautiful, so much potential for something better.
I wish you well, dear girl. Life can hold so much more for you.❤❤❤😢
She’s a full grown woman. Your compassion is warranted but she deserves to be viewed as an articulate adult.
That’s a grown woman who scammed mark who tried to help her, y’all watch a video and think y’all really know these people lmao
Her entire life was stripped away from her because she was unlucky to have such vile parents. It’s crazy to think that you can bring a child into this world and if you neglect them the way her parents did, their life can be unimaginably messed up. It’s not fair. She didn’t ask to be brought into this world. It’s like she was just thrown into the pit, to fend for herself. My heart goes out to her. I wish her all the best. She deserved and deserves better.
Yeah, you’d be surprised how many were dealt those cards… :/
She still made bad choices
@@浪人-v2l she was 13 bro
@@浪人-v2lYou don't get it. You don't know they're bad choices when you don't learn that. Or, you have no other option. Life isn't black and white.
And who knows what her parents’ lives were like. Perhaps they experienced abuse and neglect too.
This one killed me 😭 she is so gorgeous and well spoken. Smart even with the lack of education. She talks about how people judge her for how many men she’s laid down with but all I see is innocence in her eyes. I just wanna save her 💔
Girl have you looked in the mirror? You’re gorgeous too
Same!!
She can only save herself.
It's beautiful to feel this way Haley. But you can't save em all. I'm sure you know and not saying don't try. But I've tried and probably failed every single time, I've dealt with many woman like this. Loving them and catching feelings for the person within- but sinking myself in the process. A desire to change ones lifestyle is dependent on one's self. May God Bless her soul and your soul for such empathy. Like Ye says, Empathy is the new glue.
She would rob you and probably leave you for dead . Thank your family for giving you a better life
I'm half way through and feeling so sad for this young woman's situation. It's such a stark contrast to the interview I just watched with "sex artist" Frenchie, who got into it as an adult. Asriah was only 13 when she started. She's still so small and vulnerable. It's very worrying. I hope she's able to move on from this lifestyle, though I suspect she'll need a lot of support. Stay safe, young lady.
At 13 and having to learn how to survive is heartbreaking. I took that for granted from my parents who protected me, sheltered me, and loved me. I hope she finds something that breaks her from this and she can move on. She deserves so much more!
@@rickhammond2473 😧 you’re a weird guy.. your perv is showing bud, better cover up real quick
I am from Jamaica I feel you pain hun but hold the faith you will come out of it one day 💯💕
Everyone can make something of themselves no matter their background
There are many ways to "survive" it's a matter of choice. This woman chose the easy way...she could be doing something else just to survive...washing dishes ('we talking about "survival", yes she was 13) at a restaurant, attending tables, or simply go to social services for help but there was a choice!!! Do not feel sorry for this woman. Now she is a cunning predator ...easy money!!! No shame anymore in this world? Excuses, excuses! Do not be sorry. There are younger girls working in factories just to make a living but not chose to sell their body for fast money! There is always a choice!!! Hypocrisy and shameless prostitutes!!!
You are speaking like this only because she made it onto a youtube video with a high amount of views. If you saw her on the street you would not be encouraging like this lets be real
Damn, she told her niece “go to college, go make something of yourself…” SHE CAN STILL DO THE SAME!! It’s not too late!!! I hope she can somehow find a way out… she deserves better…
I agree ,but going back to school costs plus she has the responsibility already of her two kids and the grandma. it's sad tht it s really not easy to support and study kids complicate everything if u r not ready for them it's really heartbreaking i hope and i will pray for her to find help or support
@@rehamibrahim3437 It's a tough situation no doubt, I think she needs to do a GoFundMe, she's so beautiful in body, mind, and spirit, there is SOMEone out there that is right to be a truthful companion to this woman, it's just so difficult to find and connect the two.
Absolutely she's only 23. Her Future can still be ahead of her. Its Hard to change that life though, especially if she's homeless 🍀
@@beantownbushcraft6451 except the fact that shes under the control of her recent pimp who is a crip which is unfortunate. The follow up video sounded like she was doing great, but then the 3Rd video came out and she was hustling mark for money because she’s back with her pimp. So sad I was really hoping not to see that video 😕
She does deserve better but her childhood has told her she is not . Mom isn’t around . I was a throw away kid and Obviously her Mom did that to her . I hope to God , she goes back to school and get into a job . Maybe a job to help other Women in the same situations . She is young still .
😭The fact that someone would force her to tattoo her face never even crossed my mind. OMG
Like branding an animal
These poor girls.
@@spacewombat6174 Exactly. I pray some removal company will help people like her
The first thing I noticed.
Shockingly sad when you allow yourself to consider the reality of the act.
It's what pimps do to "brand their girls"
“If you’re unhappy… leave your family.. they don’t deserve that.. they didn’t ask for that” is the realist thing she said…I hope God blesses this girl and her kids.
When she started crying I started crying. God please help this beautiful soul. Never judge people always pray for them instead. We have one life this isn’t a practice life. She deserves better and you can see she wants better. She is beautiful and I’m not just saying that she’s beautiful inside and out . Such a well spoken, honest, real person. I thank her for this interview it lets others see how blessed we are and how thankful we should be, life could be worse. It makes us see that so many people need help. God bless you 🙏🏽
Are you working the streets too? Thinking you advertising in that picture.
@@jwhite3830 shut up
@@jwhite3830 Lol
@@jwhite3830 come on man
What the hell is wrong with you
For a girl who didn't even make it in to high school AND is addicted to meth she seems quite intelligent and put together. I would have no idea she was in to meth if she didn't say so. I wish I could help her🥺
Yes, ms behaving
@Andrew Torres happy for you:)
@@exotic6917 no, your very articulate, seem to have a really good head on your shoulders and capable of so much more. You are bright and seem to have a loving heart. I really hope u can get out the game b4 drugs and the life kill your spark.
@@exotic6917 nah, don’t let your past define you, its a big part of you but You can do whatever You want when you dedicate into it, God Bless You and Help you do right decisions
@Andrew Torres Congrats Andrew, much continued success and God bless you🙏
This girl is obviously special. She's totally captivated millions of us.
I just clicked to see the terrible tattoos.
@@two-bit8502 congratulations
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1) It’s clear that mandatory rehabilitation programs should be instituted for people in these situations. This is a health and public safety issue, and people in this situation have a definitive set of health/ mental health issues that need to be addressed.
2) The video describes human trafficking. Plain and simple. This entire criminal subculture has massive negative repercussions for the rest of society, and the resulting criminal behavior puts the wider public at risk. Literally every day of the year there are crimes committed in major cities by individuals (in some way) affected by the subculture portrayed in the video.
3) A first world developed society shouldn’t have these issues as a pervasive issue. Instead of the $100 billion+ in taxpayer dollars going towards corporate welfare (subsidies and tax breaks for companies that eventually mostly benefit the wealthy individuals with multimillion dollar stakes in each company), taxpayer dollars should be instead dedicated to fixing the healthcare system and preventing criminal activity.
@Adam Peterson that’s a pathetic comment.
The Interviewer treats her like it was her choice to get into sex work. Saying “is your lifestyle for everybody” is such an insult as if it was a choice
He talks down on the women but doesn’t to the men, it’s gross.
yeah I don’t like him
Agreed
Lord, protect this woman. Give her your mercy, grace, and generosity to lead her to a better life for her and her children. Bless her grandma too.
Amen to that brother, I'll be praying for her too.
Lord? If there is one I guess he didn't do his job.
@ why should he help those that don't follow him?
Amen🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@BlastoBoi Love should never be conditional- especially from “God”
she would make a great counselor for young girls. she is so likeable. it would be great if we could fund her education and set her up with the right advocates
Lea thank you!
She can make 2k a day on the streets. She knows how to make money, but where she's spending it is not on school. Money doesn't solve the problem, unfortunately. She has a drug addiction, plus face tattoos, which will be a challenge to get a professional job. She stopped school in junior high and two kids being raised by her grandmother. She would have to want to get her GED and want to go to college and work on her addiction issues. She needs a positive mentor or person in her life, not money. She knows how to make a lot more money than most of us make in a day. She can be an exotic dancer, and make a lot of money in a day too without sleeping with anyone. She has money, but maybe is making poor choices how to spend it. She's probably addicted to the lifestyle as well so to just give her money to go to school, it won't work. She would have to want it and to want a more legal / straight path and positive mental health to rewire her brain from the abuse she's suffered. Not an easy solution.
@@vickij8417 you obviously don't know the pimp game lol.
@@mindbodyandsoul81 ..I can understand the pimp game but also understand topless dancers. She's more than qualified to dance legally for money and meet men on her own terms for money. I do understand stripping and the money that can be made and it also allowa time to go to school. But if you use it to buy drugs vs school or a nicer lifestyle, then money is not always a solution to a better lifestyle. Growing up with neglect, around drugs, or any type of abuse is a challenge to overcome especially for those who don't have an innate inner fight or joy. Setting up gofunds and giving people a large sum of money, imo, does not change a person to suddenly get out of a negative pattern they grew up with.
@@vickij8417 exactly, it's easy to say, do this or that, get clean, fix the tattoos, get an education. It sounds so easy, but it's not. She has her own demons to fight with and those probably tell her she isn't worth it, she can't do it, then when she hits a hard spot where not only is it hard emotionally because people judge her, she judges her, it gets hard financially, everything seems to be falling apart, it feels safe and comforting, she has a sense of control because she understands it. She needs an advocate to be there for her when times get tough, when she feels like she can't do it, when she's scared, to keep her from turning back to familar patterns. Unfortunately, it is almost impossible to find someone who can and is willing to dig another person out of the pits of dispare in the long term.
This young woman is intelligent, well spoken, and has a very mature introspective awareness of her situation. The things she could accomplish had she been afforded the opportunity of a stable life and education are vast. It makes me so sad that as a culture (and human beings) that we do not invest in lifting up those (especially children) who have life situations that are not reflective of their worth as a human being. I hope that her goal of changing her life is met quickly for her and her children. Thank you Mark for this series. Your work is a reminder to be thankful for everything I have been afforded in life.
th-cam.com/video/Linup3HVJCc/w-d-xo.html hey babe 😘
She can still do so much!
She very much looks like a real estate agent I know who wears a black pencil skirt and white business shirt everyday.
They could be twins aside from the tattoos…
Crazy.
But she has the power as well to become more than this lifestyle. Will It be difficult as hell? Of course! People who are born into a good family, lifestyle get help, their foot in the door in becoming successful. People her situation don't get any kind of help instead they have to start from ground zero. They have to do It all themselves and guide themselves which is sad. But It is so possible that she can become successful and have a different lifestyle.
This was a sobering video. My heart goes out to the girl. Nicely-produced interview, btw.
I came from a wonderful family. Fell into prostitution and stripped for 20 years. Drugs alcohol total insanity. Raped, bitten, lit on fire, beat up, guns to my head and knives to my throat and left for dead. It's a life that just gradually happened to me and then it was the norm. I was able to switch off emotions whenever I needed to. I had a madam for years until I went out on my own. Lived that life for 20 years. Thank God I survived. Now I am a proud woman in recovery and I wouldn't change a thing about my past. I get her totally.
Good for you to change your life around ! Most are not capable. I will add with much love and care, that rarely happens after a good and solid childhood. Often our brains remove what we cannot handle and that's a ok ! If anything pops up ever, take it for what it's worth and know the brain has handled it all so far and will assist in any healing it shows is needed. Big hugs and soo proud of you !
wow! wishing you healing and success
Keep coming back always. Your experience strength and hope is needed.
Glad your here Dana. Sending LOVE and appreciation to you !
May God bless you
As a victim of sexual assault this interview really stuck with me. People you’d never expect will take advantage of you and hurt you. I really hope she is able to get away from this life.
So sorry that this happened to you. God bless.
Sadly in a few months from this interview Mark does try to help her and moved her away and gives her money for her and her children and a whole new life and she stabbed him in the back ripped him off for quite a bit of money and gave it straight to her pimp.. I mean Mark bought her a car relocated her and gave her several thousand dollars but she would not change her phone number as Mark asked her to and then we found out why. One time he goes to visit in the house is full of sex toys and lingerie no kids or kids stuff in sight and she admits she gave it all to her pimp who lives in the house with her that Mark paid for she sits there like a silent coward and doesn't even ever say she sorry... she had a very shitty life but that is absolutely no reason to screw him over like she did specially without any remorse or apology she's a hopeless waste so sorry for her kids if she even has any probably just a lie to get more money out of Mark
How do you know?
@@justiceBustamante terrible
@@margaridarodrigues3834 I watched the update
My mum died because of the streets and now me and my siblings have a gaping void in our lives. This young woman has so much more purpose about her - I pray she can leave all this pain and misery behind that she’s had to endure because it will be the death of her eventually. She is worth so much more than all of this. I wish her all the luck in the world and I hope to see her progress one day. Positive thoughts, prayers and love from the UK
Whereas about in the UK you from I'm from Middlesbrough
I'm so sorry about your Mom. You seem like a very nice man. You understanding Exotic's path due to your Mom's experiences and wish her a better, happier life. Bless you.
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Bless this woman who clearly feels and thinks decades ahead of her own age,wise beyond her years. May she be protected always.
He asks her questions, then answers them himself. Missed opportunity to hear what she was going to reply at times
Someone needs to tell her how beautiful she is as a person and that she’s worth the life she came make happen. This one made so sad. She’s so young and can accomplish anything
Almost right, she needs someone to help her believe that.
She makes 1500 a day. It takes me two weeks to bring that home
@@stonedecatur6602 Shoot it takes me a little more than a month to bring that home.😳
@@stonedecatur6602 if she could just have someone educate her on crypto or other types of investment or money strategies she can buy herself out of that life quick .
Nobody is forcing her to do anything what she will do is use whoever comes in contact with her because she choose that lifestyle society never make women take responsibility for their actions it's all ways someone manipulated them never they manipulated others 🤔
She has a sadness about her. Such a beautiful articulate young woman. I pray she finds her strength because she could be an inspiration to so many young lost women.
This is really unfortunate. She’s clearly smart and in a lot of pain. I wish her all the best with her kids and getting out of this rough situation
just dealt a lousy hand in life
It just breaks my heart. She missed out on so many opportunities because other people failed her. And now she’s in this industry that thrives off of disadvantaged women through abuse and exploitation. This woman is my age. And our lives couldn’t have been more different and it’s incredibly unfair. I hope one day she does get out and make a life she loves.
th-cam.com/video/nWwKePTgECA/w-d-xo.html Have a look....she fails herself with poor choices. It's no longer everyone else's fault....just hers.
Yeah
If she were born somewhere else life might have been different for her
Me too. So sad to see this stuff… 13 years old… The world we live in now is a cruel one. And a sick one…
If you succeed on other people you’ve failed anyways.
california?
You definitely have to do an update with her. She is so raw and real. Good interview Mark!
She is super real. A lot of ppl can’t say that. She has no agenda she just is truthful and real. That’s a huge quality. And super smart. I agree.
Exotic, do you have any contact info?
@@exotic6917 Do you have any social media’s ? Lots of people would love to help you :) your amazing! And your life can change with the help of others.
@@exotic6917 you are loved, special and worthy of a better life. I don’t know you but I can tell you have a beautiful heart! I’m so sorry you’ve gone through what you have and I wish the absolute best for you my girl 🤍🤍🤍🤍
She carries her self like she’s been through nothing. Much respect
She said she’s numb.
@@CC-pu6qn what u say isn’t how You carry yourself.
What are you even talking about?
@@CC-pu6qn I understood what they said. Sounds like you just need to go back to school
She’s drop dead gorgeous. She’s still young and has time to make a huge impact in life
Yes. Praying this lovely young woman gets out of this life very soon.
You ain't never lied. She's hella fine. Much potential too. Wish her the very best in life!
Yea but she wont. They never do
@@Littlewrenhenzen Just because “they never do” doesn’t mean she can’t
@@Littlewrenhenzen I was once a prostitute and an addict. I’m a mommy, a wife, and a business owner. We make it out. Prayers work. Jesus saves and redeems! Believing a full turn around for her! In Jesus name!
She's a very beautiful person. The brokenness in her eyes is heartbreaking.
This is so insanely sad.
What I can not understand is why does prostitution have to be the route? Historically, its like painting yourself in a corner or digging a hole so deep that you can’t get out of it. Once it rains you drown in that hole. She has ten finger and I assume ten toes like the rest of us. Why not go into the labor market? Pick up two Security guard job! Drive for amazon! Baby sit! Sort package for FedEx or UPS! If you going break you back working then fine but don’t give up your soul in the process. No one is coming to recuse her from the life! She is her own savior. How much therapy is she going have to go through in order to connect with an health, loving adult male. Lets not mention the kids and where they fit in this mess of a situation.
Not that I disagree she's a physically beautiful person, but I wonder if she'd get this much sympathy if she was not physically attractive. The proof is in the view counts of these interviewees on this channel. Those who are attractive get far more view counts than those who are not.
@@Neanderthal_yardy She was 'born' into that lifestyle. "Exotic" is not a lady that grew up in a middle class/upper middle class background with a normal childhood and upbringing, who one day fell in with the wrong crowd. Her mother was working the streets, and her dad was in prison. She became a product of the system since she was an infant, going from group home to group home, foster care, and even juvenile hall.
It's easy for us to judge her and her lifestyle choices, but not fair to Exotic in particular since she was basically exposed to and raised in that lifestyle practically since the day she was born.
@@Neanderthal_yardy I agree. I thing one reason is how our society has glamorized sex and cheapened it.
“Don’t let my guard down too soon. It’s okay to tell people some things about you, but not every thing. Because some people don’t have good intentions and will take advantage of your weaknesses.”
Damn. This is powerful and true.