Hi everyone! 👋We just want to say thank you all so, so much for all of your comments here. Sorry we can't reply to you all, but we are reading as many as possible. We can't get over the love and support you lovely bunch are sending our way right now!!🥰It means so much to us! Seems you all love Alan as much as we do! 🥲B & E xx
Best decision. Animal lovers always put their pet's needs first, and you have. Alan will have her second half of life in quiet retirement, and you will always be part of her life. ❤❤❤
You have done the absolute right thing for Alan. I understand very much how sad you both are and how much you miss her. We love our furbabies and understand them. Alan will be happier now in her older years. Thank you for being so good to her. She is one of a kind and a super pusscat. Well done both of you and thanks to your mum and step dad. Xx Pru
I’ve never commented before but I have watched every video!! You have done the right thing !! Don’t cry Emily you’ll start us all off ! She’ll be happy in Norfolk ( I am !! ) you can see her when you visit , you’ll get used to the boat with out her hard though it is ! Sending hugs !
Aww thanks so much 🥰I've just been crying again reading the comments 🥲Yeah she's relaxed, happy and content now, we couldn't be happier for her, it's just hard for us humans 😌x
So true Clare my sediments to Emily and Ben as well… I have a little family of cats and Home 22 since I moved and built this house here… I kept to Lord Grantham and Lady Edith to keep precious. My one eyed cat that looks a lot like Allen company. But then I got two new puppies with my little Chihuahua and she likes to stay up on the kitchen table. I’ve asked her if she’d like to be a boat cat. I don’t think so. She can’t even face the puppies and she used to wander all over the place and sleep with me. It’s difficult adjustment for animals especially cats. Don’t feel bad Emily you did the right thing. It is hard on us because we love them. It’s like when Wes and Amy lost their sweet little bunny. You will adjust and yay for MoM because I am a mom and the more we get to see our babies the better we are. Blessings all over you both. ❤
Hi guys, I am a "stuck in with you guys" person, and finally have to comment on your collective decision to give Alan a better life. Pets are like part of your body, you get to know their personalities, their feelings and whether they are "off" or not, much like having children but better! I know from how you present yourselves that you have made an incredible sacrifice by giving Alan a home that is still within reach for you, and having to do without her yourselves. How careful and unselfish is that?, to give up someone who is family at the cost of missing the input of loving her and be loved right back like a child would and being yourselves regarded as her property! That decision must have hurt in a way that would have you doubt your love for her! The good thing is that Alan can love her new family which she would do naturally anyway, and have a healthier existence and probably live longer. I talk alot when I'm unchained lol. You have done a beautiful thing in making the decision to give her back her health! And you can still see her to boot! You have my respect for your respect for Alan, and God will lick the pencil tip and mark you down for a blessing, he does wonderful things for wonderful people. May He bless you richly for your kind concern for Alan! A follower to the hilt! Music included. John.
Who would take a cat and make it live on a small boat which moves all the time in deep water and is constantly under the threat of random dogs and members of the public? You messed up, no big deal, we all do sometimes. Just own it instead of trying to wordsmith a teary story about how its sad for you.
I took my mothers cat after my moms passing. That cat had been in the family for years. I was working so much to pay the bills, the cat was alone all day. I gave her to a neighbour. It hurt so much, BUT that cat is so spoiled with love and fuss now throughout the day! I made the right choice and so have you. It's a non selfish act that you've both made.
Oh Emily, I really felt for you when you started to cry. Let them be happy tears as you have so done the right thing for Alan. Hard decision for you both but right for Alan. Sending you both the biggest hugs. Clare & Roy xxxx
If Alan could speak to you I am sure she would say Thank You for loving me so much to let me go and live where I am happiest. Good Luck with the transition, it takes time.
I've often marveled at the fact she is never disappears when you're in a new place as cats establish a territory. She seamed to love cruising but cats are strange and I guess she was ready to stay in one place. I had a cat for 16 years before he died and it is hard to face life without them. I'm happy she is in a place she loves and you can visit her.
I shed a tear for you both seeing how upset you are. 😢 You have done what is right for Allen, so please don’t be so hard on yourselves. She will have a lovely happy retirement with your mum & step dad, and the best part is, you will be able to visit her & give her cuddles & belly rubs. If anyone wants to unsubscribe, it will be their loss. You are such a lovely caring couple, & your travel & music vlogs are a delight. So chin up, keep doing what you are doing & keep smiling. We love you! 💕🇨🇦
I regularly tell people about the video where she sat in the bowl with the dough in! It's a shame but at least she's somewhere you know she's happy and cats do prefer a routine and security when they get older. All of our cats growing up would end up at my nans house out in the countryside when they got older and I think many of them actually lived a lot longer because of it! You'll just have to get Ben in an Alan coloured furry suit and he can be stand-in Alan on quiet content days! :D
Ben and Emily - you definitely made the right decision and for the benefit of Allen . Cats do like their fixed terra firma territory ,consistent and familiar surroundings . Youve been lucky for a good few years .. but with dogs on towpath it was always a threat that one day .. a dog off a lead could lunge for Allen and possibly kill her and that was clearly stressing her . Shes at your Mums and that is another reason to see more of your Mum - Emily . So killing two birds with one stone with seeing your mum , stepdad and Allen . I guess youre folks could do videos and link it to your site - to show how shes doing . To conclude , I know you both are going through it emotionally , but its the right choice .. just think if she was hurt by a dog .. you would have been beside yourselves ... and shes with your mum .. she will live a very long healthy life ! Chin up and keep smiling !
Crumbs I for one am so relieved Alan is fine! I was worried something awful had happened regards her health… and all the time she was purring her head off at your mums living her new best life I think its very brave of you both to let her stay there given how much a part of your lives she is… best decision ever for her..I am petrified of dogs and can’t imagine being 10 inches tall and dealing with them.. hugs to you all 😻
What breaks my heart even more about this video is that you felt you felt you needed to worry about how we would all react. That there are people in this world who would say anything nasty about it is so sad. You are one of my top three favorite TH-cam channels to watch, and still will be. We’ll all be so sad and miss Alan terribly, but you did exactly the right thing. She looks so happy in her little hedgehog garden! ~an introvert making her first TH-cam comment… this was important. Lol!
Such a shock, I held it together until that last shot of Alan purring and then the tears flowed. God bless, Alan - and thank you for all the adventures we have had with you.
I’m so sorry to hear the sad news about Alan but I’m glad she’s not ill, I was worried that she’d got some horrible illness. She will be missed in the videos but at least you’ll still be able to see her. Cats are territorial and she hadn’t really got one traveling around, maybe as she’s got older she senses that she’s going to be less able to escape from dogs on the towpath. She looks very happy at your mums, and I feel so sorry for you both, you’re both very good cat parents to put her first. I look forward to seeing updates as and when you’re able to. Take care, lots of love. xxxx
Oh guys... my heart goes out to you both, and Emily you're making me cry 2 ❤️ You've 1000% made the right call... after all, isn't that what love is, putting another's needs before you're own... you've done this, and we'll keep enjoying watching you both because you are both such lovely/ groovy human beings and so so enjoyable to watch. Thanks for opening up your lives for us to be a part of. Lots of love you two x
I am convinced that you did the right thing when it comes to Alan, 100% ! ❤ Something I wanted to tell you for a long time is that we had a cat looking exactly like Alan., and the funny thing is that her name was Alan's name backwards.... namely Nala ❤ Always felt related to the three of you because of that 😅😅❤
Totally smart decision! We know you'll miss having her around... But knowing she's happy at mum's will give you the peace of mind you need to continue your travels ... We totally support you guys! Hugs to Alan from all of us! Love you guys! p.s. Didn't know Ben was allergic!
❤ my heart is with you. ❤but I am so so so happy she’s with your family. Right now your mom is giving all the love she has for you to your cat. It may very well be good for booth your mom and your cat. ❤ so your cat is also giving love from you to your mom. I love you booth so much more.
Thank you, Phil. Our batteries are just over 4 years old and with declining solar this Autumn, we noticed a deterioration in capacity for the first time. I have to say we’ve looked after them fastidiously, never letting them drop below 12.4 volts. I reckon if we can nurse them through the winter.(No ‘fridge, only candles and fairy lights and only charge devices during the day) they’ll get through to next summer. Fridge can then go back on but next Autumn probably looking at new batteries🙁
Hi Ben and Emily. It’s the right decision for Alan that’s what matters. You’ll miss her but you know she’s much happier. Sending you both hugs 🥰 Take care. Nick
Look on the bright side, Alan’s in a safe place and will be loved. Yes it’s hard for you two and you will miss her, but all things come to an end, but you’ve had ten happy years being owned by Alan. She has had a wonderful time afloat and seeing lots of different places.
Grandies love being with their grandparents and Alan is no different. You are both true pet owners, thinking what is best for your pet. Alan is going to love her twilight years with your mum and you can visit and FaceTime😊. Hugs❤
As someone who has cared for cats all through my life I totally understand how you feel. But you have made a brave and right decision in Alan’s best interest. Would love to see the occasional Alan update. Much love to you both.
Loved meeting Alan a couple of years ago and she's such a character. It's sad that she no longer enjoys her boat life, but you've put Alan's mental and physical health first and for that I applaud you. I so glad to hear she's feeling settled and happy at Emily's mum's. 😸
I'm sure that 'Alan updates' would be greatly appreciated by everyone. She will be sorely missed! 😢 We all ❤ Alan (me especially, what a lovely, quirky character!) Please post regular updates- or as regular as possible.❤
It's so good to hear that you are looking at the situation from the cat's point of view, responding to her needs. There are so many people who have cats and don't understand them. Heart-warming to hear.
I know I will miss seeing Alan, but you have done what is best for her. She had an wonderful life as a boat cat and has now retired to a sunny garden to nap and relax. Best wishes for all three of you.
You did the right thing. You scarifced your love and happiness for Allen's happiness. She is still alive and thriving. We lost our dog last year and will never be able to hug him again. You got lots of ywars to hug Allen every time you visit him ❤
Ben and Emily, I would hazard a guess most of your long term fans including myself know you’re both genuine human beings and therefore fully understand and praise you for putting Alan first… I must admit last week after your “we have some news” blog I worried Alan had a terminal illness or something horrible, I’m relieved that isn’t the case… hopefully in the near future when you visit your mum again Emily you could give us an update how Alan is… bless you both for being sensitive and caring toward such a little creature.. ❤
My cat came within a whisker of getting torn apart by a couple dogs. You’ve made a brave and compassionate decision and I will certainly keep watching! You may end up with another boat-cat now that Alan has retired.
What a really, really tough decision, but absolutely well done for putting her needs before your own. As a registered veterinary nurse, I absolutely applaud you 👏 putting pets' needs before your own is incredibly selfless and something many don't do. I'm so sorry to see the impact it's having on you. But please, please congratulate yourselves on doing such a lovely thing for Alan. Sending lots of love ❤️ xx
Oh dear, well, while it would tear me apart to have to give a pet up too, I absolutely feel you have done the very best for Alan. It’s also just so lucky she can live with family so she’s still a part of yours to see when you can. I’m a cat lady from way back and when they reach middle age they know their senses and body aren’t top notch and it does make them nervous because they feel less secure. It’s no different with most people, like myself, lol. You know you have slowed a bit. They need routine and a feeling of safety and she’ll get that at your mom’s. I doubt anyone would think it’s a reflection of your ability or responsibility as a pet owner. She is obviously healthy and lavished with love and attention. Sending you both great big hugs. You did good! I’m looking forward to all three of your new adventures. Much love ❤❤❤
That's a great decision and so glad it wasn't a serious Allan health issue - but as cats get older they do develop stress related illnesses - which affects their kidneys and blood pressure and then that has more negative knock on effects - I have a 14 year old Allan (Tortoiseshell called Lola) with high blood pressure and its affected her vision and kidneys - so you are doing the right thing now to help lower that blood pressure and to save her from that...rock on Allen!
You're doing the right thing for Alan and that's what's most important. Much as you will miss her, it be less stressful for you, knowing she is somewhere that she loves and none of you will be worrying about dogs or roads etc. We would love updates and occasional Alancam :)
Aww. We love watching your videos and will miss Alan in them with you. She's a senior kitty now but healthy and cudos to you for being excellent cat parents and making this decision as hard as it's been for you both. ❤
It is such a joy watching you. You are both such kind, loving, compassionate people - at least that's how it comes across 😉. I have an senior cat, 14 years old, only one eye, and only 4 teeth. This past July, he was diagnosed with Stage 3 kidney disease. I know what it's like to have a cat in your life and how much we love them. Jack, my cat, is now on a special diet and has improved to a Stage 2! I know that his days with us are numbered, but we accept that. Jack was my daughter's cat (so I guess that makes me Jack's grandmother), and when she had to move into a place that didn't accept cats, he come to live with us. I laughed when you said that you only saw your mum 2 twice a year, but would be seeing more of her now. Cats can be good collateral for getting visits. I don't have grandchildren, but I have 2 other grandcats, Judy and Bean. My hubby is not a tv watcher (and I watch TH-cam on the tv), but Jack is on my lap, or sitting beside my in the chair when I do. He and I will continue to follow you on your adventures and we wish Alan a very happy retirement in the garden. Watching you, and others like you, make the world we live in a little bit smaller and connected. Warmest wishes from me, and Jack, in Victoria BC Canada PS Benny, the soundtrack you provide is beautiful as the views that you show us on your travels.
That was very loving of you both to let Alan move in with your mum so that she can be in an environment that she feels relaxed in, rather than feeling stressed by the frequent uprooting that's part of the narrow boat life. Cats really like their routines, as you both well know as cat lovers. I'm relieved to hear that her physical health is not the problem, yet I know this was quite a painful decision for you to make, but you did the right thing for Alan's sake. With loving support, take good care! ❤😺 Jenny
A real tearjerker. Bless you both. We love Alan and we love you two as well. You've got her best interest at heart and you've definitely done the right thing. Sending lots of love 'n' hugs. Take care ❤❤❤
Oh, what a relief!! I thought it was going to be the worst news. You've done the right thing. You can give a little update now & then. Cats are territorial, so she'll be much happier having a place of her own. 😊
What a lovely thing to do for Alan. When you love your animals, you do the best for them, and you certainly have. I shed a tear for you both but Alan's having the best life hope you do to. Xx
We will all miss Allen's antics and lovely purrs. But her safety and well being are most important. You are good pet parents to let her live with your folks❤
Aaw, I'm just so relieved that Allan is well, I've been worried. You are absolutely doing the right thing, you're going to miss her like crazy but you know she is being well looked after and loving life where she is. It's lovely that she's gone to family who love her too and you'll still see her. You are both amazing people, thanks for being great pet parents xxx
I do feel sad for you both.But at the end of the day you have done the best thing for Alan.yes will I will miss Alan but like you said when you can you will get videos and keep us all updated on how she is doing.sending big hugs to you both.🩷🩵
Sometimes the best decision for our furbabies is the hardest decision for us. I'm sure Alan will be loving her dog-free retirement. Big hugs for you both. A tough decision but the right one. ❤
Aww I got quite emotional watching you both! I know how hard that decision must have been and it shows your love for Alan that you were able to act in her best interests. Maybe we could have the occasional update, maybe an Alan postcard from time to time? Happy travels to you both, I love watching your videos. Love from Ellie (the human) and Bert (the cat).
I feel for you, it's heartbreaking having to wake up without her but you've done the best thing for Alan, she'll be warm & safe & happy to live in a house. Xx
Hi. As a cat lover I share your pain. It`s not always easy to make the decision to do what is best for your pet as it`s natural that you want to keep them with you and continue to cherish them as part of your family. At least in this case you know she will be much loved and cared for, as you have done for the past ten years, but in an environment that will be more relaxing for her as she grows older. The bonus of course is that you can see her whenever you want. Best wishes to you both.
You did the right thing and are crying along with you, animals have a way of worming their way into our hearts and souls. Hugging our cat Kevin with tears in our eyes, Alan comes first and foremost love you guys and love Alan in her boat retirement home with your mum xxx from my mum and me xxxxx will watch in anticipation of the Alan updates xxx
You've done the right thing. It is upsetting but at least you can still visit her. She looked very content and happy in that last sleepy, purring clip and that is the most important thing.
Well done you two to realise it is more important for Alan to be happy and content in another familiar environment. Always hard to say goodbye to a pet but be happy with the thought of having a more relaxed surroundings👍
You guys being good parents! It will take time to not think of Alan every time you are on the boat. I lost my Tigger suddenly and was devastated. Cried buckets. I had a trip that week and I was going to cancel, but I have to say that was the best medicine for me to leave. I didn't have to "see" him around every corner in the house. Over time you won't feel that way on the boat. Thankfully you will be able to see her enjoying her life and know she is being loved just as much as you guys loved on her.
I'm so happy for Alan, she is living her best 🐱 life. She's had her travels and is now in her retirement! I've been fostering a stray dog, my son (lives in another state) has agreed to be his forever home and I'm so thrilled for them, but it's going to be a very hard adjustment for me.😢
You definitely made the right decision for Alan. As they get older it’s like all of us, we become more fragile. No one should unsubscribe or be hateful when you are doing the best for her ❤
You're very good pet parents - so sorry that you had to make this difficult decision, but happy that you have a good place for Alan to live a happy stress free life. Watching your vlogs gives us all so much joy. Thanks for your work, and I look forward to many more vlogs for as long as you two want to share them with us.
❤ she’s happy, she’s healthy, she’s safe & she is with wonderful loving people & as hard as it is on you at the moment you have done the correct thing for Alan & she will love 🥰 you for that & the bonus is you will still get to see her. Hugs & love xx
Oh bless you both! I have loved watching Alan but that goes along with loving you guys and your videos too! Alan updates will be brilliant, definitely sticking with you both, it is great that you can still see her. I have a cat companion too so I feel the sadness but you have definitely done the right thing for her ❤, keep the vlogs coming x
Such a selfless act , putting her well being before your needs just goes to show what a loving couple you are . Rejoice in the great times spent together . I pray your hurt gets easier.🙏🙏 Alans happy yey.👏
You have done the kindest thing. So hard for you both, and how lovely that you will be visiting your Mum more now. ❤ You're lovely, and I won't stop watching...
Absolutely not unsubscribing due to the loss of Alan from one of my favorite channels. Couldn’t be happier that you both thought so much of your fur baby to let her go and live her best life. Pets are such an amazing part of our lives in that they enrich us and add so much joy to our existence. I feel your pain of loss. Few would’ve made this decision to benefit an animal over their own needs and wants. Very commendable! Go see Holly, get a cake and coffee. I follow 3 narrowboat channels on TH-cam from Texas, and one, Cruising the Border, quit the platform. That leaves you and Holly the boat cafe. I won’t leave you. Please don’t leave me. Much love to you both in this difficult time!
Bless you both ❤ Definitely the right decision. We had an indoor cat a while back. He seemed so lonely looking out of the windows 2 floors up. We re homed him (Cosmo). To a nunnery 😀 If anyone does unsubscribe....shame on them. Hugs from the rainy isle of wight ❤
Hi everyone! 👋We just want to say thank you all so, so much for all of your comments here. Sorry we can't reply to you all, but we are reading as many as possible. We can't get over the love and support you lovely bunch are sending our way right now!!🥰It means so much to us! Seems you all love Alan as much as we do! 🥲B & E xx
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Best decision. Animal lovers always put their pet's needs first, and you have. Alan will have her second half of life in quiet retirement, and you will always be part of her life. ❤❤❤
You put Alan’s health first, so you have most definitely done the right thing 🫡😟😥
Thank you ❤️
You made the right decision, because an animal's welfare should always come first. Well done for being two absolutely top human beings. Love to you.
Thank you ❤
So true, it is very important and these guys are amazing humans ❤
You have done the absolute right thing for Alan. I understand very much how sad you both are and how much you miss her. We love our furbabies and understand them. Alan will be happier now in her older years. Thank you for being so good to her. She is one of a kind and a super pusscat. Well done both of you and thanks to your mum and step dad. Xx Pru
I’ve never commented before but I have watched every video!! You have done the right thing !! Don’t cry Emily you’ll start us all off ! She’ll be happy in Norfolk ( I am !! ) you can see her when you visit , you’ll get used to the boat with out her hard though it is ! Sending hugs !
Aww thanks so much 🥰I've just been crying again reading the comments 🥲Yeah she's relaxed, happy and content now, we couldn't be happier for her, it's just hard for us humans 😌x
So true Clare my sediments to Emily and Ben as well… I have a little family of cats and Home 22 since I moved and built this house here… I kept to Lord Grantham and Lady Edith to keep precious. My one eyed cat that looks a lot like Allen company. But then I got two new puppies with my little Chihuahua and she likes to stay up on the kitchen table. I’ve asked her if she’d like to be a boat cat. I don’t think so. She can’t even face the puppies and she used to wander all over the place and sleep with me. It’s difficult adjustment for animals especially cats. Don’t feel bad Emily you did the right thing. It is hard on us because we love them. It’s like when Wes and Amy lost their sweet little bunny. You will adjust and yay for MoM because I am a mom and the more we get to see our babies the better we are. Blessings all over you both. ❤
Hi guys, I am a "stuck in with you guys" person, and finally have to comment on your collective decision to give Alan a better life.
Pets are like part of your body, you get to know their personalities, their feelings and whether they are "off" or not, much like having children but better!
I know from how you present yourselves that you have made an incredible sacrifice by giving Alan a home that is still within reach for you, and having to do without her yourselves. How careful and unselfish is that?, to give up someone who is family at the cost of missing the input of loving her and be loved right back like a child would and being yourselves regarded as her property! That decision must have hurt in a way that would have you doubt your love for her!
The good thing is that Alan can love her new family which she would do naturally anyway, and have a healthier existence and probably live longer.
I talk alot when I'm unchained lol. You have done a beautiful thing in making the decision to give her back her health! And you can still see her to boot!
You have my respect for your respect for Alan, and God will lick the pencil tip and mark you down for a blessing, he does wonderful things for wonderful people.
May He bless you richly for your kind concern for Alan!
A follower to the hilt! Music included. John.
Who would take a cat and make it live on a small boat which moves all the time in deep water and is constantly under the threat of random dogs and members of the public? You messed up, no big deal, we all do sometimes. Just own it instead of trying to wordsmith a teary story about how its sad for you.
I took my mothers cat after my moms passing. That cat had been in the family for years. I was working so much to pay the bills, the cat was alone all day. I gave her to a neighbour. It hurt so much, BUT that cat is so spoiled with love and fuss now throughout the day! I made the right choice and so have you. It's a non selfish act that you've both made.
Don't be sad. You are giving Allen the best life for her. That shows how much you care for her. 💖😺⛵🐬
Oh Emily, I really felt for you when you started to cry. Let them be happy tears as you have so done the right thing for Alan. Hard decision for you both but right for Alan. Sending you both the biggest hugs. Clare & Roy xxxx
So sorry guys, loved seeing Alan’s adventures with you. Happy to hear how well settled she is with Emily’s Mum ❤
Thanks so much ❤️ Yeah, she is doing so well now 😻
If Alan could speak to you I am sure she would say Thank You for loving me so much to let me go and live where I am happiest. Good Luck with the transition, it takes time.
I've often marveled at the fact she is never disappears when you're in a new place as cats establish a territory. She seamed to love cruising but cats are strange and I guess she was ready to stay in one place. I had a cat for 16 years before he died and it is hard to face life without them. I'm happy she is in a place she loves and you can visit her.
I shed a tear for you both seeing how upset you are. 😢 You have done what is right for Allen, so please don’t be so hard on yourselves. She will have a lovely happy retirement with your mum & step dad, and the best part is, you will be able to visit her & give her cuddles & belly rubs. If anyone wants to unsubscribe, it will be their loss. You are such a lovely caring couple, & your travel & music vlogs are a delight. So chin up, keep doing what you are doing & keep smiling. We love you! 💕🇨🇦
I regularly tell people about the video where she sat in the bowl with the dough in!
It's a shame but at least she's somewhere you know she's happy and cats do prefer a routine and security when they get older. All of our cats growing up would end up at my nans house out in the countryside when they got older and I think many of them actually lived a lot longer because of it!
You'll just have to get Ben in an Alan coloured furry suit and he can be stand-in Alan on quiet content days! :D
The best fur parent is always the one that looks out for what is best for their fur baby.
Absolutely the right decision for Alan. Well done for prioritising what is best for her. Happy retirement Alan😊
Happy retirement, Alan, Glad you're enjoying fun at grandma's! xxx
Ben and Emily - you definitely made the right decision and for the benefit of Allen . Cats do like their fixed terra firma territory ,consistent and familiar surroundings . Youve been lucky for a good few years .. but with dogs on towpath it was always a threat that one day .. a dog off a lead could lunge for Allen and possibly kill her and that was clearly stressing her . Shes at your Mums and that is another reason to see more of your Mum - Emily . So killing two birds with one stone with seeing your mum , stepdad and Allen . I guess youre folks could do videos and link it to your site - to show how shes doing . To conclude , I know you both are going through it emotionally , but its the right choice .. just think if she was hurt by a dog .. you would have been beside yourselves ... and shes with your mum .. she will live a very long healthy life ! Chin up and keep smiling !
Crumbs I for one am so relieved Alan is fine! I was worried something awful had happened regards her health… and all the time she was purring her head off at your mums living her new best life
I think its very brave of you both to let her stay there given how much a part of your lives she is… best decision ever for her..I am petrified of dogs and can’t imagine being 10 inches tall and dealing with them.. hugs to you all 😻
I will miss seeing her. You have done the right thing.
A new chapter in Alan's wonderful long life. She now the queen of your mum house. Just like she was/and still is the queen of the canal
What breaks my heart even more about this video is that you felt you felt you needed to worry about how we would all react. That there are people in this world who would say anything nasty about it is so sad. You are one of my top three favorite TH-cam channels to watch, and still will be. We’ll all be so sad and miss Alan terribly, but you did exactly the right thing. She looks so happy in her little hedgehog garden! ~an introvert making her first TH-cam comment… this was important. Lol!
❤️ Thats very kind of you to say, we really appreciate it! 🥰✨
Such a shock, I held it together until that last shot of Alan purring and then the tears flowed. God bless, Alan - and thank you for all the adventures we have had with you.
I’m so sorry to hear the sad news about Alan but I’m glad she’s not ill, I was worried that she’d got some horrible illness. She will be missed in the videos but at least you’ll still be able to see her. Cats are territorial and she hadn’t really got one traveling around, maybe as she’s got older she senses that she’s going to be less able to escape from dogs on the towpath. She looks very happy at your mums, and I feel so sorry for you both, you’re both very good cat parents to put her first. I look forward to seeing updates as and when you’re able to. Take care, lots of love. xxxx
think of it like this Alan has retired
Hehehe, yes thats what we've been saying 🥲She seems to be having the best retirement so far! 😻
Alan’s health comes first, loved seeing Alan but hey guys we love you two as well xx
Just think of Alan with her paws up relaxing and chilling out.
Oh guys... my heart goes out to you both, and Emily you're making me cry 2 ❤️ You've 1000% made the right call... after all, isn't that what love is, putting another's needs before you're own... you've done this, and we'll keep enjoying watching you both because you are both such lovely/ groovy human beings and so so enjoyable to watch. Thanks for opening up your lives for us to be a part of. Lots of love you two x
I am convinced that you did the right thing when it comes to Alan, 100% ! ❤
Something I wanted to tell you for a long time is that we had a cat looking exactly like Alan., and the funny thing is that her name was Alan's name backwards.... namely Nala ❤
Always felt related to the three of you because of that 😅😅❤
Totally smart decision! We know you'll miss having her around... But knowing she's happy at mum's will give you the peace of mind you need to continue your travels ... We totally support you guys! Hugs to Alan from all of us! Love you guys! p.s. Didn't know Ben was allergic!
So sad, but the best for Alan. 😢
❤ my heart is with you.
❤but I am so so so happy she’s with your family.
Right now your mom is giving all the love she has for you to your cat. It may very well be good for booth your mom and your cat. ❤ so your cat is also giving love from you to your mom.
I love you booth so much more.
Thank you, Phil. Our batteries are just over 4 years old and with declining solar this Autumn, we noticed a deterioration in capacity for the first time. I have to say we’ve looked after them fastidiously, never letting them drop below 12.4 volts. I reckon if we can nurse them through the winter.(No ‘fridge, only candles and fairy lights and only charge devices during the day) they’ll get through to next summer. Fridge can then go back on but next Autumn probably looking at new batteries🙁
Hi Ben and Emily. It’s the right decision for Alan that’s what matters. You’ll miss her but you know she’s much happier. Sending you both hugs 🥰 Take care. Nick
Look on the bright side, Alan’s in a safe place and will be loved. Yes it’s hard for you two and you will miss her, but all things come to an end, but you’ve had ten happy years being owned by Alan. She has had a wonderful time afloat and seeing lots of different places.
Grandies love being with their grandparents and Alan is no different. You are both true pet owners, thinking what is best for your pet. Alan is going to love her twilight years with your mum and you can visit and FaceTime😊. Hugs❤
As someone who has cared for cats all through my life I totally understand how you feel. But you have made a brave and right decision in Alan’s best interest. Would love to see the occasional Alan update. Much love to you both.
Shed a tear with you watching this. Love cats and so glad the news wasn’t a health issue.
Loved meeting Alan a couple of years ago and she's such a character. It's sad that she no longer enjoys her boat life, but you've put Alan's mental and physical health first and for that I applaud you. I so glad to hear she's feeling settled and happy at Emily's mum's. 😸
Sorry for you both. We have happy memories of Alan’s antics over the years especially sitting on top of sour bread dough prep.🙏❤️🇦🇺 10:35
You've done EXACTLY THE RIGHT THING! Sad for you, but happy for Alan, and in the end that's all that matters. ❤️🐾😺
I'm sure that 'Alan updates' would be greatly appreciated by everyone. She will be sorely missed! 😢 We all ❤ Alan (me especially, what a lovely, quirky character!) Please post regular updates- or as regular as possible.❤
Awe! It's OK kids. 🙏🩷🩵🐾😺🌸🌼💐
It's so good to hear that you are looking at the situation from the cat's point of view, responding to her needs. There are so many people who have cats and don't understand them. Heart-warming to hear.
I know I will miss seeing Alan, but you have done what is best for her. She had an wonderful life as a boat cat and has now retired to a sunny garden to nap and relax. Best wishes for all three of you.
You did the right thing. You scarifced your love and happiness for Allen's happiness. She is still alive and thriving. We lost our dog last year and will never be able to hug him again. You got lots of ywars to hug Allen every time you visit him ❤
Ben and Emily, I would hazard a guess most of your long term fans including myself know you’re both genuine human beings and therefore fully understand and praise you for putting Alan first… I must admit last week after your “we have some news” blog I worried Alan had a terminal illness or something horrible, I’m relieved that isn’t the case… hopefully in the near future when you visit your mum again Emily you could give us an update how Alan is… bless you both for being sensitive and caring toward such a little creature.. ❤
My cat came within a whisker of getting torn apart by a couple dogs. You’ve made a brave and compassionate decision and I will certainly keep watching! You may end up with another boat-cat now that Alan has retired.
What a really, really tough decision, but absolutely well done for putting her needs before your own. As a registered veterinary nurse, I absolutely applaud you 👏 putting pets' needs before your own is incredibly selfless and something many don't do. I'm so sorry to see the impact it's having on you. But please, please congratulate yourselves on doing such a lovely thing for Alan. Sending lots of love ❤️ xx
Oh dear, well, while it would tear me apart to have to give a pet up too, I absolutely feel you have done the very best for Alan. It’s also just so lucky she can live with family so she’s still a part of yours to see when you can.
I’m a cat lady from way back and when they reach middle age they know their senses and body aren’t top notch and it does make them nervous because they feel less secure. It’s no different with most people, like myself, lol. You know you have slowed a bit. They need routine and a feeling of safety and she’ll get that at your mom’s.
I doubt anyone would think it’s a reflection of your ability or responsibility as a pet owner. She is obviously healthy and lavished with love and attention.
Sending you both great big hugs. You did good! I’m looking forward to all three of your new adventures.
Much love ❤❤❤
That's a great decision and so glad it wasn't a serious Allan health issue - but as cats get older they do develop stress related illnesses - which affects their kidneys and blood pressure and then that has more negative knock on effects - I have a 14 year old Allan (Tortoiseshell called Lola) with high blood pressure and its affected her vision and kidneys - so you are doing the right thing now to help lower that blood pressure and to save her from that...rock on Allen!
You're doing the right thing for Alan and that's what's most important. Much as you will miss her, it be less stressful for you, knowing she is somewhere that she loves and none of you will be worrying about dogs or roads etc. We would love updates and occasional Alancam :)
Aww. We love watching your videos and will miss Alan in them with you. She's a senior kitty now but healthy and cudos to you for being excellent cat parents and making this decision as hard as it's been for you both. ❤
You did the right thing because you care so much for Allen's well being. Blessings and peace to you both.
Awe, you’ve done the right thing. I’ll still shout ‘Ahoy Alan!’ when we see you!
It is such a joy watching you. You are both such kind, loving, compassionate people - at least that's how it comes across 😉. I have an senior cat, 14 years old, only one eye, and only 4 teeth. This past July, he was diagnosed with Stage 3 kidney disease. I know what it's like to have a cat in your life and how much we love them. Jack, my cat, is now on a special diet and has improved to a Stage 2! I know that his days with us are numbered, but we accept that. Jack was my daughter's cat (so I guess that makes me Jack's grandmother), and when she had to move into a place that didn't accept cats, he come to live with us. I laughed when you said that you only saw your mum 2 twice a year, but would be seeing more of her now. Cats can be good collateral for getting visits. I don't have grandchildren, but I have 2 other grandcats, Judy and Bean. My hubby is not a tv watcher (and I watch TH-cam on the tv), but Jack is on my lap, or sitting beside my in the chair when I do. He and I will continue to follow you on your adventures and we wish Alan a very happy retirement in the garden. Watching you, and others like you, make the world we live in a little bit smaller and connected. Warmest wishes from me, and Jack, in Victoria BC Canada
PS Benny, the soundtrack you provide is beautiful as the views that you show us on your travels.
I hope nobody sends you hate messages. You are clearly doing what's best for Alan which deserves respect. I'm sending you both a hug 🫂. xx
You absolutely did the best thing for Allyn. You are being the best parents to your cat, even though it’s hard for you!💜🤗
Doing the right thing for someone who you love is never wrong. I have rescues so giving them peace is the best gift.
That was very loving of you both to let Alan move in with your mum so that she can be in an environment that she feels relaxed in, rather than feeling stressed by the frequent uprooting that's part of the narrow boat life. Cats really like their routines, as you both well know as cat lovers. I'm relieved to hear that her physical health is not the problem, yet I know this was quite a painful decision for you to make, but you did the right thing for Alan's sake. With loving support, take good care! ❤😺 Jenny
A big hug from us. Heartbreaking for you but doing what you have done proves how much you love her. You have definitely done the right thing xxx
Bless you both!
You’re top pet owners putting her needs before your own even when it hurts
Sending love and hugs 🧡🫂
A real tearjerker. Bless you both. We love Alan and we love you two as well. You've got her best interest at heart and you've definitely done the right thing.
Sending lots of love 'n' hugs. Take care ❤❤❤
Oh, what a relief!! I thought it was going to be the worst news. You've done the right thing. You can give a little update now & then. Cats are territorial, so she'll be much happier having a place of her own. 😊
What a lovely thing to do for Alan. When you love your animals, you do the best for them, and you certainly have. I shed a tear for you both but Alan's having the best life hope you do to. Xx
Awwwww guys the fact your cat is at your Mum's for her well being says it all! It's ok guys❤
We will all miss Allen's antics and lovely purrs. But her safety and well being are most important. You are good pet parents to let her live with your folks❤
You guys are awesome for making this heartfelt decision!
Such a hard decision for you guys but completely the right one. You have put her needs first and that makes you the best cat parents. ❤
youve done the right thing for alan guys
Can totally understand u being so sad. We had 2 cats and miss them every day. Uv done the right thing. Keep going . Big hugs xx
Aaw, I'm just so relieved that Allan is well, I've been worried. You are absolutely doing the right thing, you're going to miss her like crazy but you know she is being well looked after and loving life where she is. It's lovely that she's gone to family who love her too and you'll still see her. You are both amazing people, thanks for being great pet parents xxx
We all love Alan and this is the best thing for her , Hope we still see her in future videos...love you guys .❤
I do feel sad for you both.But at the end of the day you have done the best thing for Alan.yes will I will miss Alan but like you said when you can you will get videos and keep us all updated on how she is doing.sending big hugs to you both.🩷🩵
Sometimes the best decision for our furbabies is the hardest decision for us. I'm sure Alan will be loving her dog-free retirement. Big hugs for you both. A tough decision but the right one. ❤
Aww I got quite emotional watching you both! I know how hard that decision must have been and it shows your love for Alan that you were able to act in her best interests. Maybe we could have the occasional update, maybe an Alan postcard from time to time? Happy travels to you both, I love watching your videos. Love from Ellie (the human) and Bert (the cat).
I feel for you, it's heartbreaking having to wake up without her but you've done the best thing for Alan, she'll be warm & safe & happy to live in a house.
Xx
It's the right call. We had a rescue cat, and we had a very unsettled 9 months without a settled home - it basically broke her heart.
Hi. As a cat lover I share your pain. It`s not always easy to make the decision to do what is best for your pet as it`s natural that you want to keep them with you and continue to cherish them as part of your family. At least in this case you know she will be much loved and cared for, as you have done for the past ten years, but in an environment that will be more relaxing for her as she grows older. The bonus of course is that you can see her whenever you want. Best wishes to you both.
You did the right thing and are crying along with you, animals have a way of worming their way into our hearts and souls. Hugging our cat Kevin with tears in our eyes, Alan comes first and foremost love you guys and love Alan in her boat retirement home with your mum xxx from my mum and me xxxxx will watch in anticipation of the Alan updates xxx
Aww it's so sad and I really feel for you. But Alan must come first and she's obviously very happy at your mums. Sending hugs xx
You've done the right thing. It is upsetting but at least you can still visit her. She looked very content and happy in that last sleepy, purring clip and that is the most important thing.
Well done you two to realise it is more important for Alan to be happy and content in another familiar environment. Always hard to say goodbye to a pet but be happy with the thought of having a more relaxed surroundings👍
You guys being good parents! It will take time to not think of Alan every time you are on the boat. I lost my Tigger suddenly and was devastated. Cried buckets. I had a trip that week and I was going to cancel, but I have to say that was the best medicine for me to leave. I didn't have to "see" him around every corner in the house. Over time you won't feel that way on the boat. Thankfully you will be able to see her enjoying her life and know she is being loved just as much as you guys loved on her.
I'm so happy for Alan, she is living her best 🐱 life. She's had her travels and is now in her retirement!
I've been fostering a stray dog, my son (lives in another state) has agreed to be his forever home and I'm so thrilled for them, but it's going to be a very hard adjustment for me.😢
it might have been when Alan finally found out that you had given her a blokes name , you know how other cats talk .
Aww, you've both made the right decision for Alan. I look forward to hearing how she's doing. You two are amazing caring people xx
You definitely made the right decision for Alan. As they get older it’s like all of us, we become more fragile. No one should unsubscribe or be hateful when you are doing the best for her ❤
You're very good pet parents - so sorry that you had to make this difficult decision, but happy that you have a good place for Alan to live a happy stress free life. Watching your vlogs gives us all so much joy. Thanks for your work, and I look forward to many more vlogs for as long as you two want to share them with us.
I'm also a cat lover. And I lost my 18 year old cat two years ago. So I understand your sadness. Hugs to you both from Dublin
❤ she’s happy, she’s healthy, she’s safe & she is with wonderful loving people & as hard as it is on you at the moment you have done the correct thing for Alan & she will love 🥰 you for that & the bonus is you will still get to see her. Hugs & love xx
Oh bless you both! I have loved watching Alan but that goes along with loving you guys and your videos too! Alan updates will be brilliant, definitely sticking with you both, it is great that you can still see her. I have a cat companion too so I feel the sadness but you have definitely done the right thing for her ❤, keep the vlogs coming x
Such a selfless act , putting her well being before your needs just goes to show what a loving couple you are .
Rejoice in the great times spent together .
I pray your hurt gets easier.🙏🙏
Alans happy yey.👏
You have done the kindest thing. So hard for you both, and how lovely that you will be visiting your Mum more now. ❤
You're lovely, and I won't stop watching...
So glad that Alan's ok and happy, she will be missed. Thanks for letting everyone know who.
It’s very hard giving up anything you love, but at the end of the day you have done the right thing for all, who could not understand😍
Absolutely not unsubscribing due to the loss of Alan from one of my favorite channels. Couldn’t be happier that you both thought so much of your fur baby to let her go and live her best life. Pets are such an amazing part of our lives in that they enrich us and add so much joy to our existence. I feel your pain of loss. Few would’ve made this decision to benefit an animal over their own needs and wants. Very commendable! Go see Holly, get a cake and coffee. I follow 3 narrowboat channels on TH-cam from Texas, and one, Cruising the Border, quit the platform. That leaves you and Holly the boat cafe. I won’t leave you. Please don’t leave me. Much love to you both in this difficult time!
Love you guys, I shed a tear when you cried Emily x you have done the right thing for Alan 😊 loved her purring ❤
No hate, all love. You have shown true love for your baby. The things we do for our fur kids!
Your doing right for alan x
Bless you both ❤
Definitely the right decision.
We had an indoor cat a while back.
He seemed so lonely looking out of the windows 2 floors up.
We re homed him (Cosmo). To a nunnery 😀
If anyone does unsubscribe....shame on them.
Hugs from the rainy isle of wight ❤
Absolutely no need to worry, you have done the best for Alan.