What is worse is when OP explained in the comment section. She had jumped off the stairs (age 5) because she believed her cape would make her fly and she hurt a limb. Other commenters bluntly say if her mom wants to play that game then by her own logic, her mom killed OP's dad by refusing to pay for an ambulance. This story hurt to read especially with more context.
when rslash gets serious, you know op's parents f*****d up (story 1) story 3: if the parents don't intervene, their son will evolve into a "nice guy" permanently
Oh, this made me very angry immediately. First story OP absolutely is being abused in a lot of ways, and their "parents" need to be reported immediately.
I partialy couldn't believed what he was reading. This is something i would expect from the seaquel of the Babadook, not a real story. Humans like that shouldn't live outside cinema creations yet here we are. It so frustraiting.
And even worse than that, it makes the demanding sister look like she doesn't care at all about her child. If she did, she'd be taking care of the woman carrying it.
@@Avistew I think the sister needs to go see a therapist and work through her issues before she tries to raise a baby. I don’t feel comfortable with the idea of someone like her raising a baby.
@@mask938 I hope she does get therapy. Being uncomfortable about some people having kids is the price we have to pay so we don't live in some dystopia where the government decides who can or can't have kids, but it's always hard when we hear stories about abused or neglected children. I do wish we had better systems in place, like counseling and therapy widely offered to everyone who wants it.
op shouldve said "you want this baby then dont let me become to stressed or exhausted as that could hurt the baby", some people are just stupid, and personally you gotta wonder if the sister would even be a fit parent
the fact that she said "and it really is my fault" just broke my heart. Unless she actively cut the brakes it could never be her fault and she shouldn't think so. After that, ccs should've come and looked into the family
Honestly I don't think they deserve getting shot or death penalty, that's too good for them, rotting in prison knowing they will never see the light of day again will just about do.
It was heartbreaking to listen to. Someone needs to put that sorry excuse of a mother in her place. If her head is so far up her own ass where she's completely delusional to see her blatant abuse, she needs to have all of her kids taken from her.
I hate going all conspiracy nut but does her blaming op is a distraction for something she is hiding other then deflecting blame? It feels like it when I hear this story.
i think op is just as or worse than his little brother. instead of explaining why his behavior is off putting to other people op just insulted him a 13 year old kid. What makes him YTA is that 1 op is acting like his is the victim 2 the op smells of jealousy, resentment and hatred. op thought that every thing his brother did was wrong. he talks about himself to much then he ask his crush about her it is quizzing. Op's little brother was just a regular immature teenager. what was OP's excuse?
@@tookitogo I think it's probably less "intimidated by their superior intellect" and more "wow, we have nothing in common". The only people who use the word "intimidated" are the ones getting rejected to make themselves feel better.
@@k70freeman Nope not really. For some reason a lot of younger siblings act that way. The parents usually spoil the youngest child and this was made worse from the fact that OPs little brother was some prodigy. I have a little brother and he acts the same way except he isn't a genius.
The pregnancy story is like something out of "The Handmaid's Tale". The pregnant lady gets treated like trash while the "mother" craves foot massages and support...
That's why surrogacy can be so messed up. The woman who wants to be the mother wants to have all the "perks" of being a mother while the woman who is actually carrying the other woman's child has her needs ignored or trampled over.
that first story was difficult to listen to. thank god for the grandparents. the parents need to be reported, for the sake of the other children in the house. i can’t believe how terrible people can be.
The worst part is that the mother blames OP for the dad dying. Meanwhile she couldn't even be bothered to call an ambulence and instead sent the dad to take OP to the hospital. The dad's death is entirely the mom's fault.
I almost started crying listening to that first story. The amount of guilt that disgrace of a mother has placed on a CHILD is disgusting. I really hope her grandparents help her heal from the abuse and teach her that nothing was her fault!
That mother is the very definition of a Narcissist. Delusional, arrogant, prideful, grandiose, oblivious to her mistakes, falsely self-righteous, picks a family scapegoat to lie about, gaslighting the daughter severely, blame-shifting (like attempting to shift THE MOTHER causing the accident onto the innocent child), abuse against an innocent victim, emotional abuse, physical abuse, medical abuse, verbal abuse.... Literally every form of abuse that exists (except sexual abuse) -the mother was abusing her daughter with. And the mother sounds so self-delusional about the accident that she’s denying reality. She shouldn’t have custody of ANY children, in such an unstable mindset. She clearly lives in a fantasy world she created and not the real world. To claim it’s a 5 year olds fault that they crashed a car they weren’t even driving... that’s so illogical. It’s obviously 0% the child’s fault. I cannot even fathom the wacky fake logic she might use to claim that it was the child’s fault. Like, even in crazy-land, a crazy person usually has a slight piece of reason for their crazy theory. This doesn’t even have a slice of logic or reasoning. She’s crazy even for crazy narcissism. What does the Narcissist mother tell herself was the role that supposedly was the 5 year olds fault here??? That the 5 years old wasn’t driving better??? That the 5 hear old didn’t grab the steering wheel from the father when they started crashing and steer for herself or something??? Like, where does she even form this mindset from??? It’s obvious that the mother is delusional to the level altering her perception of reality and events. She lives in Imaginary Land. This is super dangerous. ..... The poor disabled girl has clearly been the family scapegoat her whole life. And the poor girl has clearly been gaslight and psychologically bullied into believing the accident was somehow her fault. It breaks my heart. This girl will need years of therapy to recover from such thorough psychological torture. Her mother has her completely undermined her sense of ability to protect herself and have self love and say, “Hey that isn’t true! I’m innocent! You’re abusing me!” She’s so gaslighted, she actually thinks she deserves the mother’s abuse. Poor thing. The whole 9 yards.
@@Christian-Pickles I think the reasoning the mom managed to convince herself it's the child's fault, and the reason OP agrees, despite the inaccuracy stems from the reasoning that if the 5 year old didn't need to go to the hospital, the dad wouldn't have been driving, therefore incapable of getting in an accident. A 5 year old obviously wouldn't even be capable of considering anything they do might result in a really unlikely series of events they don't even know is possible, when they probably don't even know that EMT's exist and they've only gone to the hospital for a flu shot, as well as the fact that their weakness(because they're 5) would naturally lead them to think that a car cannot be destroyed, and probably wouldn't even wonder the question. The reason the mother believes that is very well outlined in your comment, but the OP believes it because of a self-guilt complex. She's been gaslighted, which hurts, but she can't even realize it's not even close to being her fault, when her mom, someone fully capable of complex thought and is aware of how the world works, didn't call an ambulance and sent a panicked man fearing for his 5 year old child's safety instead; because she's got a bias that leads to her trying to blame the crash on herself subconsciously. She won't be able to accept that she's not to be blamed even if she sees very similar examples and places blame on those correctly, because in her instance, she's never known anything else. A more extreme version of this can be found in communities of the misinformed, nazis thought what they do is right because no one told them otherwise, slave owners thought slavery was fine for that same reason, KKK too, and any other cult as well. It's not that all those people are straight up evil(there are those a**holes who are aware what they're doing is wrong, but don't care) but that they literally can't even imagine that there's a possibility what they're doing is wrong, because everyone they know agrees with it. Her grandparents, and the post, should hopefully help her break out of that cycle, but it might be too late for that to happen fast. That formed the guilt complex, but removing it might not destroy it. I feel immense guilt over things that I've been forgiven for, told by everyone around me that I'm going way overkill, and I know, as a fact, that I have a guilt complex about it, but I still can't get myself to believe that it's not my fault. I can't even begin to imagine what she must've gone through when I'm feeling guilt over something trivial, and she's been forced into guilt over such a traumatizing event. If you're reading this OP, or anyone else actually, get a psychologist, and change the psychologist if you don't immediately feel better, psychologists who are good at their jobs are amazing, and everyone, traumatized or not, needs to see one.
As a lifelong disabled person i totally agree that taking someone's aids is one of the worst things a person can do! A guy once took my wheelchair in a pub (complete stranger to boot) "as a joke" and then got annoyed when i chewed him out in front of the whole pub. He got barred and i got a free drink. Its not enough that we need these things to live as close to normal lives as we can but then to have people act like its no big deal to belittle us. 🙄😑 i've had my wheelchair leaned on by strangers and even been physically moved by a rando because I was in their way. Sorry for the lengthy comment just needed to vent. This crap gets me peeved! Oh and while i'm angry... the mum MADE HER HUSBAND DRIVE! Op didn't kill her dad his pos wife did! She also caused her daughter's disability. Internet hugs to op and those epic grandparents xxx
I'm extremely sorry that you get harassed/looked down on for something you can't control, I can't even pretend to know what that's like. Although, I do agree with you that the parents are disgusting and abusive. The mother definitely had a hand in the fathers death (although obviously the fault falls on whoever caused the crash) and for the step-dad to make such awful "jokes" about how she's a black widow, and how she's a father-killer is disgusting. Even worse is the fact that she believes them.
I honestly think OP's "mother" is just putting the blame on her. The mom didn't want to pay for a ambulance, so she just says it's OP's falut. Maybe she just doesn't want to feel like it's her fault, but that's still fucked up. I'm gald up is out of that situation, although I'm worried about her half siblings.
I honestly hope that every last comment in that thread is telling her that what happened with her dad never has been and never will be her fault and that if her father could talk to her he would say that he wouldn't blame her.
@@tiana_andherbooks I'm not defending the Mother, but if this story takes place in America an ambulances cost waaay, to much money to call they could charge you thousands Most people would rather go to a hospital themselves than fall into that kind of debt, the American health care system is about lining their pockets not helping people So no its not about being cheap its about how stupid expensive it is if that story takes place in America But the mother is still a terrible human being
I was sad for the OP and my blood boil at the “parents” How dare you blame your husband’s death on a child you are disgusting and don’t deserve to be a mother.
Physically wanted to reach through the screen and beat her parents asses. Anyone with that type of personality doesn’t deserve to parent or be left responsible of ANY child.
@@sailorstar3148 no details on the crash here. Could be the kid was somehow the cause. No details = no presumptions. She needs theorpy ad the mother's constant blaming her daughter on this won't let her move on. She isn't that 5 year old girl anymore and shouldn't have that haunting her. I think she isn't talking about the crash for a reason, especially if she somehow caused it, as she doesn't want it distracting from her story. I hate this sort of thing as there can be ways to help cope and the mother is the worst. The girl has injuries from the crash, so it was a bad one. And that won't make things better as she may be wearing the scars of her guilt. I wish this girl all the help she needs, regardles of the situation. A teenager shouldn't be beaten mentally or otherwise over something that happened so long ago that its something she'd barely remember. It pains me that it is possible she is saying its her fault for a reason as this is not a easy subject for people to get over and help can be hard to find.
@@ahstiasummers5583 The number of times I've wanted to scream at people that just because you allowed someone (or *was* that someone) that nutted in a vag doesn't mean you've achieved some sort of hard won blood, sweat and tears accomplishment. Nobody has to bow down and praise the results of your 5 minute bedroom tango. Kids are cool and they're not easy to care for sometimes but they're not a personal achievement, nor a beacon of their parents purity. If anything, if kids are your only achievement in life then it's obvious you've not done much else with your life besides being a brood mare or sperms donor which is just kind of sad. 🙃
To the last story: OP, the heart of the problem here isn't that your sister can't get pregnant. It's that she's taking out her resentment with her inability to get pregnant and her jealousy of you being able to on you, which is super not okay. It sounds like she didn't really think of how this would make her jealous when she agreed to this arrangement, and now she's letting her jealousy get the best of her and lashing out at you.
She just mad because she isnt the center of attention!!!! She cares nothing of how her sister feels being the pregnant one... in her eyes the world revolves around her as it's her baby!!!! She doesnt understand that by treating her sister who is pregnant with her child the way she is, she could very well be hurting the health of her own child which is what shows me she only really wanted a baby for the pregnancy part the attention part and because she cant have that she lashes out...
It's even less okay because the kid OP's having will be the sisters kid, which bothers me quite a lot due to her personality and actions, but I guess people can change...
@@chevellepavlock2879 whether you are right or not, she is obviously struggling with the fact that she isnt able to get pregnant and should be going to therapy to help with it. I dont know if she is just an attention seeker or if she is genuinely struggling to accept that she cant have the child herself, but either way she needs a therapist to help her through whatever is causing the issues.
Well, the actual problem here is the fact that OP got pregnant and is giving the baby she's having to her sister because her sister can't have kids, which I will admit, it's very kind of OP to help out her sister like that, but the fact that OP's sister keeps pretending that SHE'S the pregnant one. It's like she wanted the experience of having a baby growing inside her, but can never do so, and so, they tries to live this experience, even though OP is the real pregnant one and the child will be her sister's. Couldn't her sister at least help her out with the pregnancy since it will be her child in return for doing this favor for her sister?
They clearly also don't realize that book smarts and street smarts are two completely different things and that their kid will definitely not have the required street smarts if it follows that pattern
I have a feeling that the kid may have Asburgers; he's incredibly intelligent in the traditional sense, but doesn't fully understand other human beings and their emotions. Can't say for sure because there's not enough detail, he could easily just be a spoiled brat who's only just now being exposed to how average people interact on a daily basis.
@@PyroRoadScout It could be both. Even if you don't 100% understand other peoples emotions, a parent can still guide them to knowing when they are rude or dismissive to others. I have aspbergers too and my parents always ensured I was polite to others.
@@Persholm1 Huh, did not know that. That actually makes a lot of sense when a good portion of sociopaths/psychopaths have genuis levels of IQ. Idk what percentage of geniuses would have a disorder like aspd, so maybe bringing them up is irrelevant, but that's what your comment reminded me of (btw thanks for teaching me something new)
100 percent, at the moment the first story started I was like oh hell..... then I hear rslash go off and then again and again and no lie... I was cheering and clapping while driving with my windows down and people staring at me like I am crazy, and i gave no cares because in that moment rslash proved himself to not just be like most youtubers out to make money off others stories.... this man truely 100 percent cares and Hope's and wishes his advice and the advice of us posting in here reaches all these posters
@@That_Isabelle Yes I knew he was a daddy and he sounded very much like a protective daddy would. It is very respected and appreciated by all. Since it's been a couple months, I had to go back and relisten to this one.
All I have to say is hearing Rslash get angry over the first story makes me feel safe as someone who grew up also being abused by two narcissistic parents. I’m glad Rslash is so open with us.
made me feel safe too and i wasnt even abused. well by family. and not physically. i just hope youre out of that stuation now, i'm sorry that happened to you, by your parents no less
Story about the cane: The mother didn't wantto pay for an ambulance (I get they can be expencive) but she blames OP for her dad's death. I feel like it could be somewhat the mom's fault but she's trying to gaslight her to think it's her fault which seems to have workef
I didn't even think about that. I just knew it wasn't OPs fault but if her "mom" wants to look at it the way she does then technically it's the mom's fault.
This. EXAXTLY, this. She's definitely projecting HER guilt on OP. The mother could have saved her daughter but, and even if I'm being too rude here, she killed her husband and damaged her daughter. And now shes trying to convince OP that this is her fault, not the mother's. To me, it sounds like she was abusive even before the accident. Yes, ambulances are expensive, but you cant just let whoever is in need of one, just lay there. Theres a reason why driving someone to the hospital is different than having an ambulance to get you there. An ambulance has the equipment to help you while you get there, has (at least in my country) laws for them to facilitate their movement (such as, all the cars have to move to the sides to let the ambulance to get faster), and yes I find outraging just how expensive they are in the USA, but this is still the mothers fault. I completely agree with you.
Parents are supposed to be kind, caring and there for you. OP’s parents in the first story are none of those. They are abusive and honestly I think OP would be better off on her own. Even though it would be challenging, it would be better than staying with those jerks. I agree with rSlash, they are disgusting.
@@smashrosa8111 or took the daughter herself, or was in the car and able to tell the father to slow down. It's the butterfly effect. Any changes that day would've changed what happened. I'm sorry but a child that young isn't responsible for her actions.
Mom needs serious therapy too, it's very clear that the mom is NOT over her husband's death, even though she remarried. She has some deep-seated anger and loss and unfortunately it looks like she's taking it out on her daughter.
The sister’s jealousy is getting ahead of herself. She could give her own sister a miscarriage by how selfish she was being. I can imagine how OP was tired, I’ve seen the FEET. It’s worrisome and scary real once you see a friend with those feet. I’m friend was a cashier at a grocery store. Of course I was considerate towards her a 100% while making sure she didn’t feel guilty or belittlied by myself or others by being to “helpful”. I get why her sister was upset but she’s overlooking the fact that her baby is inside OP and not her.
Exactly. Carrying a child takes a huge toll on the carrier and the sister is failing to realize that. I understand she's hurting. It's okay to hurt over such things. However, when you begin causing harm to others it's a huge issue that can't go unchecked. People have lost teeth, hair, weight, suffered horrible illnesses, and more simply from being pregnant. The fetus literally leeches all the nutrients it can and the parent/carrier gets the scraps. Some folks have fainting spells while pregnant due to not having enough nutrients to keep stable. The sister has a right to be upset, but not a right to deny the one carrying her f*cking baby care. If she wants that baby healthy she needs to go to therapy and stop treating her sister like a little creature meant to live in the shadows of her sadly twisted reality.
I do think OP's not innocent in all this though. OP should not have snapped that at her, saying: "she is not actually pregnant and she can't understand how exhausting it can be." Yes, she cannot understand, because she CAN'T get pregnant (without risking her life). That's a harsh thing to say to someone with fertility issues. Yes, the sister was very unreasonable and deserves (more) asshole points. She's going overboard, and risking her baby's health for the experience of being pregnant. But OP also deserves one or at least half a point for that comment. If the people in the store were looking at her "like she was a monster" I don't think her comment wasn't as tame as she made it it out to be. Saying: "You will never know what it's like to be pregnant!" is a heartless thing to say to a woman with fertility issues (she never stated the exact wording and depending on that it could be very hurtful). I think they just need to sit down and have a heart to heart conversation, maybe with a therapist present to act as a mediator and to keep them calm.
Wasn't it the story before that was basically telling all women that their only "value" is being able to birth children? Yes, the sister is behaving badly, but the story doesn't give all the details of the infertility issues (which is completely understandable) but I can imagine how desperate that must feel for the sister to want to be a mother and fundamentally failing (that is exactly how some people see it). She must be in a terrible place mentally, knowing that her longed-for child is there but unable to feel it move and grow and be the source of all that child needs. It's a horrible story that neither comes out well in.
As a former "gifted child", I learned REAL quick that intelligence isn't a personality and that being "smart" without a reason is stupid. My parents encouraged learning and education but REFUSED to let me be in the "gifted" programs because my dad was a social worker and knew how depressed "gifted" kids got if they peaked before their peers... I was also poor and HATED backhand compliments about my class and intelligence and race...
I was a gifted kid in the gifted program and I can't tell you how rough it's made the rest of my life. You get this complex where you don't want to do anything if you're not immediately good at it, and it's REALLY been a fight to unlearn that. I've only recently even started learning how to actually enjoy things without trying to give them some kind of academic or monetary merit.
As a person who was in the gifted program as a kid I wish my parents had done the same. Its made life so much more difficult than if I had just been treated and socialized like a "normal" kid.
That last story is also scary. The sister needs help asap. I honestly don't think she should have the baby for her until she was better but it's too late... and ik there was no way to tell beforehand really. But the sister is (rightfully) grieving that she can't get pregnant but she's turning it into toxicity. She's delusional that she is actually in fact pregnant to a dangerous degree that she wants you to suffer and endure it but for her to get all the attention to feed her delusions. Her husband and mother are enabling it by giving in to what she wants. She needs help before the baby arrives.
Just think when the child gets here and starts taking the spot light. They need to get the sister into therapy or she might hurt or do much worse to the baby. This is just the seed for something a lot worse to grow.
I agree but depending on how OP said what they did they deserve ahole points as well. I couldn't imagine going to someone who's going through that and dealing with those issues and saying something so horrific. If even the women in the shop looked at her like a monster I doubt what she said was really all that tame. The sister needs help and the people around her need to point to that help not make things worse by putting her down for the thing she's currently suffering with. It's a hard thing to go through and many people with untreated issues turn toxic. Its not like that can't change either so to say she shouldn't have the baby after is really pathetic.
@@squishy2368 i didn't say she shouldn't have the baby. I'm saying she should of gotten help first before trying to bring a baby into the world. Also saying she should try to get the help she needs before the baby is born. When the baby is here everything is going to need to go to the baby and things will be hectic.
@@anjafrohlich1170 no she just needs therapy and that was a pretty tame outburst in her end tbh. She needs to learn but to say that she shouldnt be a mother at all is just sad.
The pregnancy story always makes me feel sooooo bad for OP. Her sister needs help because OP is the one actually pregnant, and should be treated as such. She didn't have to offer to carry the baby for her sister. She could've refused completely. It's horrible, how they treat her.
Yes but honestly I feel really bad for the sister and I can kinda understand her, that doesn't mean I'm on her side but it's understandable. I really feel like the sister pretending to be pregnant is a coping mechanism to deal with the fact she can't have her own child. I can't even imagine the pain the sister felt when she had found out she wasn't able to carry a child it's making me tear up just thinking about it. The majority of men/people who don't want kids won't understand the sister's pain, wanting a child and then finding out it isn't possible to have one of your own is one of the most soul-crushing things for women(Adoption may or may not be an option depending on the situation). Obviously, the sister was in the wrong but you can't really blame her, the outburst of the sister was most likely out of jealousy, it's honestly sad how jealousy makes us humans act.
@@snowsprin793 while that is true it is still disgusting how she treats her sister and gets mad when her sister who is offered to carry her baby has obvious needs caused by pregnancy. I get it she can't have kids but the fact her sister stepped up and did this should make her feel ashamed for treating her sister like garbage. or even worse like she's nothing more then a broodmare. What's next she's going to demand her sister carry all her kids in the future and tell her to stop bragging about her needs?
“AITA for telling my brother that his crush dislikes him because he’s an asshole, not because he’s ‘too smart’?” _I smell another living fedora walking among us again…_
If my wife was acting this way to my sister-in-law who is carrying my baby, I'd slap her with a big dose of reality and might even consider divorce. Maybe that's extreme, but you can't treat people doing you a HUGE favor like this.
ive never heard rslash get legitimately upset, and honestly im living for him standing against abuse im an emotional abusive victim, and it makes me really happy to know other people feel very strongly about this too.
@@bostonrailfan2427 Please provide some evidence to back up your ridiculous claim. I'm more inclined to believe someone who regularly talks about his family life with a place of compassion than someone trying to throw out claims without any real backup to them.
Unfortunately, their are the women out their who only want babies for the pregnancy part.. as they then feel they are the center of attention, and once the baby is born they feel a form of post partum, but it's actually just jealousy of the attention now all being on the baby!! Those type of mothers, or human incubators as I call them are horrible, self center people who dont deserve the children they have.
@@ItsyagorlEKKO honestly id say the step dad is worse. He married into that family. And abused a child. Every abuser is a shitty person, but abusing someone who isn't even related to you is a whole new evil. Fuck the mom, and step dad
Oh God the first story. I had flashbacks to middle school when my "friends" would take my cane and run away with it and hold it above my head while I limped after them. Hearing her blame herself for her dad's death broke my heart.
I'm genuinely worried about the sister in the last story. She definitely sounds like she needs therapy. She has developed a deep denial about her inability to carry a child to term. I'm also 100% certain she will want to hide the fact that her sister carried the baby from the child. This sounds like a 'family secret' in the making.
So, there are guys who have sympathy pains and weight gain when living with a pregnant woman. But, pregnancy is actually a medical condition, and can go horribly wrong, ESPECIALLY when the PREGNANT woman is stressed.
@@FearMyLadyBits Phantom pregnancy is a medical condition too, there have been cases of different species experiencing it, sometimes not just with stomach swelling but to the extent of milk production. However, it's most likely that infertility and the feelings of failure that gives her is more of the issue for the sister.
You know, technically, the mom is responsible for the dad's death since she didn't want to pay for an ambulance. The whole thing could have been avoided if she was just willing to get a damn ambulance when her kid needed to go to the hospital. They didn't explain what happened to cause it but if your kid needs to go to the hospital that's going to have many people already on edge.
Basically, what OP's mom is saying is her father would still be alive if OP never hurt herself, resulting in needing to go to the hospital. It's horrible, blaming someone who needed the hospital for the parent's death because you don't want to pay for an ambulance, basically, making it your fault. It actually shows that she's cheap and if something that she caused to happen happens, she doesn't want to be blamed for it, she instead blames the person who needed to go the hospital for it.
I'm actually quite worried about the last story with op carrying their sisters child, I may be looking too much into it but is the sister going to be in the proper mental state to actually take care of a child?
Exactly my question. Some women really get whacko over having kids and become downright unstable about it. If she can't even cope with her envy over not being able to carry her own child, then I seriously worry about what kind of mother she'll be. They need an intervention and mental help professionals, not kidding. She needs to work through this before she gets that baby in her life.
I think they should really get professional counselling for her if they haven't already. Infertility is a difficult emotional situation all on its own and the way she's reacting seems like it's only escalating. At this rate she's going to demand a bed in the delivery room next to OP and want the medical team to pretend to deliver the baby from her. I have friends who've gone through surrogacy and had really lovely and nurturing experiences in tandem with the surrogate mamas - it's a shame things are so messed up in this case cause you'd think it would be easier having it be your own sister.
At the very least I feel like this mom is going to undermine OP being the pregnant one or maybe lie saying OP didn’t carry the baby. This is probably crass but I could see OP pulling a Little Fires Everwhere and just hightailing it away from her sister
7:17 I've had a couple guys "flirt" with me like this. Say how great they are, and shut down all of my ideas and aspirations. I don't get why guys do that. If you don't like hearing the person talk, if you don't like the person's interests, how can you say they like them?
Wanna know the best part about owning a white cane, I can use it as a whacking stick. Full disclosure completely blind but no one expects a blind person to know self-defense more specifically be one rank away from brown belt in mixed martial arts.
I agree. I lived kinda similar (I didn't use a cane at the time of living with my family though). But I was in marching band, and I worked at a restaurant, and was on the main floor at the time. There were days I was on my feet for almost 14 hours in a day with minimal breaks. The next days it was impossible for me to walk out if the pain. I was getting yelled at for "being lazy" but as soon as I tried to take a step and fell they would say I was over reacting. The only times they actually acknowledged my disability was when it was to manipulate me. But when they needed me, I was lazy as I wasnt getting out of bed. Now I use a cane every now and then as my ankle is slowly getting worse. But I feel for OP in the first story. I get so angry as disabilities are hard as is. We don't want to be disabled, and we don't want to struggle more than we do. But it happens and I wish OP the best, along with anyone else with disabilities
@@anjafrohlich1170 those kids are being raised to think its ok to make fun of disabled people. What if they tried to take a teachers cane and think its fun? Or a classmates ear .. things...? (Sorry i dont know what deaf ppl use to hear).
As proud of them as I am, and as wonderful, talented, smart and well-adjusted as my children are, they aren't my greatest accomplishment either. It's okay to feel this way. Ive been a mom for 17 1/2 years, and I can't remember at this point what the best thing ever was.
My heart sank when rSlash read that OP in the first story blamed themselves for their father's death. And to hear that the stepdad and mother guilt trip them for it? OH MY GOD, that poor kid!
I can’t help but think the mother is projecting. Cuz OP said “she didn’t want to call an ambulance” so she’s projecting her guilt onto OP. Which is even worse IMO
The first story; ya’ll noticed that the mom didn’t want to call an ambulance, so the dad had to drive her to the hospital... if the mom called an ambulance the accident wouldn’t have happened. Do technically it’s the mom’s fault. Btw those parents are the most disgusting people to treat their child like that. And it’s no one’s fault, accidents happen.
I guess she could be justified since ambulances are fucking expensive in the US. Idk where they are but I don't blame her as much for not calling an ambulance. If they are in another country, then yes fuck her
I hope that first girl's grandparents take her to a good trauma therapist. I'm worried she's just going to end up dating people who are like her parents. She needs some serious abuse education and healing asap!
Have to wonder if the non-expectant mother expects her sister to take care of the newborn as well as carry and birth it, because if she thinks she deserves a chair even when not pregnant, actual maternal duties are going to be a real shock to her.
The real irony in story 1 is that- going by the monster’s logic (I REFUSE to call that piece of filth a mom)-SHE was the one who refused to pay for an ambulance for OP so technically it’s HER fault OP’s dad died!
It sounds like OP's mom is a money hungry and doesn't think it might be her fault, she blames OP, the person who needs to go to the hospital that she refuses to pay for, for the death of her father. It's stupid. What she's pretty much saying is OP's dad would've lived if OP had never injured herself, resulting in her needing to go to the hospital.
First story: I’m SO glad OP’s grandparents decided to step in, take them away and call their parents out on such disgusting and illegal behaviour. Also to see RSlash that serious scared me for a second, he seriously went dad mode for OP and laid down what was going on plain and simple. It’s abuse
I could hear Rslash's anger and emotion after that first story, even more than usual which says a lot. That mother is abusive and so is that stepdad, I really hope OP is out of there and living a better life, for her sake.
12:32 best answer ever!! I'm 39 and have never once never in my life have I wanted to have kids. It would be like a death sentence and I can't imagine living life that way. I also have some pretty significant trauma in my past surrounding the topic. It's not the end-all be all for every woman.
I relate to the guilt complex the first OP faces. I’ve cPTSD and PTSD because of my mother and brother. My mother knew my brother physically beat me and psychologically tortured me, she told me I’d deserved it somehow. She didn’t want to care for her 2 kids and left that job to me, because it was my fault she didn’t want to parent. She would regularly tell me it was her fault she was suicidal and I was the reason she wanted to kill herself. As adults my brother constantly stole from me, lied, was still extremely psychologically abusive, and my mother just enabled him. She complained about him privately to me, but never once said anything too him and wondered when he’d “mature”. She continued her psychological abuse, and wondered why I was distant. When I got the chance to move to an entirely different city, away from them, I did, and I got housed by an agency who helped move 16-24 y/o who’d come from abusive backgrounds. Apparently I was one of the most independent because I could fully care for myself, and were depressed to learn I’d been doing that since I was a kid, because growing up I didn’t have a normal childhood, I was my brothers carer and mother’s carer, I cared for the household, I did the shopping, I rarely managed to go to school because my mother didn’t want to care for either of us. It was a lonely life of neglect and abuse, so the agency offered me some therapy, where they tried to teach me none of it was my fault, but that feeling sticks with you, especially when you’ve been gaslight since early childhood to believe it’s all your fault. I cut off all contact a few years ago, when I did I got nothing but abuse from both of them, especially attacking me for my disabilities and claiming my very real permanent nerve damage, that I’ve had multiple surgeries on, an entire medical team, a walking stick for when I can walk, probs around 30 pills a day, and 90% bedridden, was “made up” for “sympathy”, which solidified my decision to cut all contact. Whenever it’s my birthday she posts to her Facebook “Happy birthday to my daughter, who’s selfish because she still won’t talk to me” to garner sympathy from her followers. My Grandmother knows the full reasoning, understands exactly what happened, has seen the receipts from me, and is disgusted by her daughters behaviour. Whenever my mother complains to my Grandmother she’s told it’s 100% her own fucking fault, and if she just tried treating me as a normal human being, I’d still talk to her. But I still feel guilty that I’ve ruined my family by putting my own mental health first, my cPTSD and PTSD could no longer handle talking to my mother or brother. I would have a mental breakdown every few days, now they’re rare, last had one in January during a bad trigger date. So whilst I’m happier in life, I still feel a lot of guilt, it’s really hard to let go of. It messes with you mentally and it’s hard to get over.
Hey, it might not mean much from a complete stranger but I'm really proud of you for cutting contact, I know it couldn't have been easy but you did the right thing, you're important and so are your needs and mental health.
You're crying over a fake story?? Jesus dude, use your brain. A chimp could tell you none of that really happened. It's a fucking writing prompt. A generic sob story. It's rage bait written by a bored teenager. None of those people are real. IT'S FAKE.
Last story honestly sounds like the sister is on the verge of a psychotic break... I have a sad feeling that she's going to want to be laid out in the delivery room too, like she is the one giving birth... Its sad too, after the birth, there's a real possibility that the "mom" will resent the poor kid.
yeah i feel bad for op having a sister that is like that. the sister needs counseling because this behavior is not normal. I will be honest OP needs to keep the sister out of her babies life until she gets counseling. I feel once the sister sees her newborn that she will take entitlement on OP's baby and start treating it like her own and make it out to be her own daughter.
@@scotthill6632 oh, I think you misunderstood a bit. The baby *is* the sister's child, OP is carrying the baby as a surrogate because the sister is unable to do so. The problem is that the sister is behaving as though she is *physically* pregnant and wants all the accommodations that are offered because of pregnancy to be offered to her and not OP.
@@Hawkmoon1981 O Thanks for clearing that up but the sister is a little crazy. Like come on man just let OP have the damn chair and if she keeps doing this shiz then OP can just not give her the baby. Also I never understand surrogacy because why not adopt? Also I know some people who have figured out their aunt was their biological mother and seperated from their own mother literally. That is sort of rare but I think that I would just adopt and it can kinda mess up a kid and his family because he realizes that his own aunt is his mother. Kinda weird right?
@@scotthill6632 I dunno, I guess some people really want the kid to be biologically theirs? Personally I think more people should adopt, or think of adoption before having their own children. So many kids are in care that need loving homes. I can’t have children because of a lot of sex related health issues, so I can’t get pregnant nor can I carry to term, I also have cPTSD and PTSD from serious childhood abuse, so combine all of that together and I can’t have kids. Even if I wanted to? I’d adopt, because too many are stuck in the care system
@@ZombieSazza Yeah I guess but don't you think its kinda fucked up when the kid learns his aunt is his bio mother? I have known people with surrogate aunts and it fucked them up. They couldn't look their aunt or mother in the eye any more. He kind of separated from them a few years ago and last I heard he doesn't really talk to them anymore.
I’ve always liked how Rslash will use a softer tone when discussing something that is sensitive or tough to deal with , and a louder and harsher tone when it comes to the entitled or rude part. Absolute 🐐
Cane: That crash isn’t OP's fault. Those parents are abusive villains for blaming OP. *NTA* Check Privilege: Ok, that sounds like an invasion of privacy from that privileged girl. What a classist. *NTA* Disliked by Crush: What an absolute narc. Someone needs to give him a reality check. *NTA* Greatest Accomplishments: Never make fun of other people's accomplishments. There is clear jealousy and sexism. *NTA* False Pregnancy: OP is the pregnant person, and she has needs, too! Sister definitely needs a bit of help. *NTA*
It's sad how abuse canwarp someone's perpective so much, like in the first story, to any sane person on the outside it's obvious that OP's parents were horrible, but to her she thinks she's somehow in the wrong.
I’ve been listening to this channel for over a year, possibly close to two if not two. Hard to tell with the COVID and everything, what even is time anymore? My point, however, in all that time, never have I heard Rslash go off like this. What OPs parents did is beyond despicable and unacceptable and I hope OP receives, the love, support, and therapeutic care she deserves to help her overcome this.
I genuinely have never heard a story that made me more infuriating then that first story. OP, get yourself out of that toxic household the moment you can
@@ollehkacb unfortunately that’s true! But is the JOB of any parents to the best they can to raise their child well!! The kid they choose to have or at least to keep (adoption is here for someone who thinks that they can’t raise their kids)! Unfortunately that’s a lot of crappy parents, but they are failures!!! Raise your kid well should be the norm!!!
@@talitafranco7230 I don't think you know what the word "accomplishment" means, but honestly, I would *love* to hear what you believe is a bigger accomplishment which the average person is capable of.
For some reason, when rSlash gets angry and protective of children, it makes me feel safe like he's protecting me even though I, in no way, relate to the person he's usually actually talking to.
3:45 You forgot to mention the bit that the reason the father and OP was in the car in the first place was cus the mother REFUSED to pay for an ambulance
Imo it feels like it's the mom's fault (in some ways, but not hers completely) and she might feel so guilty that she's trying to place blame on OP to take blame away from her cheap self
@@jessymcgowan3494 Not an impion. its fact. Had the mother not refused to pay for an ambulance both OP and the dad whould not have ben in the car. thus whould have ben uninvolved with the crash.
@@BeHasU Its weird for me to like the state where I live we don't pay for an ambulance but in the other states in the country I live in have to pay $5,000
Who doesnt call a ambulance after a car accident 😐 how else are they supposed to get medical help to be honest not calling for one is probably the reason her dad sadly died and the reason she needs a cane now 😕 i found this story heartbreaking 😢
The first f'ing story pissed me off just how disgusting can those people be like wtf not only did she blame her of her dad's death but she also uses that experience to guilt trip her. What a garbage human being.
Yeah. Honestly. Im glad she got out of that house. Messing with a disabled persons mobility aid is NOT OKAY. Even if its at home, and for a game. The only time you should ever be allowed to mess with mobility aids is if you are explicitly being asked to. Im glad most people (besides work) respect my disability currently in my life. But holy shit I know that experience of "well it isnt THAT important". Along with being blamed for a parents death. That was 100% the mothers fault for not wanting a fucking ambulance. Yeah it was an accident that happened, but just think. If the mother said "yes let's call an ambulance" the father would still be alive. Part of me is thinking the mom planned something to get rid of the dad without having a divorce. Wouldnt be the first time in history. But im not saying it is what happened. I blame myself for my dads death (I relate a LOT to the first story holy shit) because after I was born my mom went into a massive bipolar episode and they ended up getting into a divorce. Well my dad wasn't the brightest of people and 5 years after I was born he got mixed into the wrong crowd and passed. But I know it wasn't really my fault, but I just constantly blame myself because, if I wasn't born, my older brothers may have a dad, and be living a better life. I cried reading this omg.
Again. as I said to others, just bare in mind she didn't say the crash cause. And kids have been the causes of crashes. But this was when she was 5, its over a decade later, she's older, wiser, smarter. She isn't that girl who may have been the reason her father died. The crash was horrorific based on her injuries and its likely her father was fatally wounded so badly it was obvious from on sight he was going to die. I don't think she' be able to get an image of her father's death out of her head, especially if he was bleeding or had serious injuries. No kid shoudl have to see that sort of thing, cause of the crash or not. The girl has her reasons for not saying the details of the crash, I think its best we accept that and just offer our sympathy. She needs help and her asshole mother isn't helping by reminding her she cause the crash. As fo rthe ambulance, I'm presuming as I said elsewhere they live in America. Ambulances are $4000+ at their cheapest to be called and a lot of Americans' opt out even if they can be saved. And this is without the other healthcare stuff, if he needed healthcare, they could have faced a bill in the thousands, if not hundreds of thousands. And if the wounds were fatal upon sight, the mother likely deemed it not worth the money to call an ambulance for someone about to die anyway. Its the reality of the American healthcare system. If its not, thinking about it there may be other reasons we don't know like he never had a license to begin with or their illegal imigrants, etc. ITs kinda bad to have a story where details are left out as we don't have thousands of details needed to be a fair judge. For the moment, what we do know is that in present day, the girl is being beaten over something that happened a long time ago. And that she is basically being domestically abused for something thats no longer her control. The mother is doing nothing to stop the step father the the step-father is an asshole. The girl needs help in multple ways, if it was her fault, there is theraphy for this to help her move on. If she didn't, she needs to understand she didn't and needs to talk it out with someone, maybe theraphy again. As I've noted elsewhere, saying something isn't someone's fault without knowing details can make it worst as strangers are presuming the best of a situation and it cam make guilt worst. I wish her well and hopes some day someone takes her thorugh the processes to heal, so she just can move past all of this.
@@AngelEmfrbl so, she did in a comment say she didn't cause the accident. She blames herself for needing to go to the hospital. As for the costs of an ambulance ride, I still blame the mother. I know not all families are the same, but for my family at least, we struggled financially and I had to have many surgeries on my ankle. But if we needed an ambulance to make sure we got to a hospital safely. They would do it. Even if it was for a small thing like a dislocated arm. And I do agree she needs to go to therapy, and she has said in another comment that she is planning on going to therapy. But the mother is 100% at fault. The mother is the reason she believes it was her fault for her dads death. Imagine constantly being blamed for something for 12 years, from before you can truly comprehend a situation to being basically an adult. And I hope the mother didn't plan anything, but part of me still believes the mother planned to take her husband out to not deal with divorce papers. Ive heard of stories happening similar. Hell ive heard of people actually getting into "affairs" so the divorce would be easier. Both parties are aware but just to make it go by faster. Of course I don't want to believe that, but it dealt with narcissistic people before, and they show HEAVY signs of wanting to do things like that.
Agree about the car crash. Absolutely disgusting that the mom blames the daughter for killing her father, when it was the MOM who refused to pay for an ambulance. She is obviously projecting and throwing her daughter under the bus to hide from her own guilt. What a terrible person.
I saw this story in another video and many commenters were giving OP their support and tell her it wasn't her fault her dad died but OP kind of kept on blaming herself and even when people suggested she go to therapy she said that she was afraid to be a burden on her grandparents and make them pay for more stuff for her.
@@demonqueen5301 Textbook abuse case. It’s really difficult to get the victims to go of their own will, I hope the grandparents convince her because she *really* needs it.
@@tebthecat The way my friends convinced me to seek help was by saying that they’d be more upset if I didn’t go to therapy, and that if I can’t do it for myself, then I’d do it for them. Not sure if that would work in their case but it worked for me.
@@mcaeln7268 that’s good, I’m glad you got help. Sadly, there really is no way to tell what’ll work. I wish all people could talk about their problems and seek help without being afraid of judgement or being a burden.
Exactly. It's OK to feel that way about your kids and be a proud mom, but it is false to assume that kids are the only point of a woman's existence. And just because a woman defines herself as beeing a "doctor" for example rather than a "mom" when asked doesn't mean she automatically doesn't love her kids. On that note, not every woman wants kids in her life, and that doesn't make her any less of a woman. A woman has enough reason to be alive and happy, with or without kids.
I 100% agree that the intent of the comments about her kids been the highest accomplishment was entirely sexist, but she really should be proud that she rised well behaved children, thats really hard. Moreover if someone says that in their eyes you are accomplished because you rised children, why take it the wrong way, it might not be that they want to define you only by that aspect, it might be just a complement!
That story seemed like a textbook example of mansplaining. Like "now that we're talking about our greatest accomplishments, before you have a chance to open your mouth, let me tell you little woman what you should think on this topic". He sounded rather ridiculous.
i never will understand why the "i had unprotected sex and here are 3 walking proofs of that" is an accomplishment. sure being pregnant and giving birth sucks, but thats as natural as taking a dump. maybe rasing super good kids is one accomplishment, but if you have zero own personality because you have kids thats kinda sad.
Not gonna lie, that first story, the mom and step-dad deserve more than 5/5. What kind of monster does that to their own daughter?!? I would give them 100/5. Maybe it's extreme, but so are the parents. I'm so sorry for the OP.
Hmm... I don't think you can really upset rSlash, he just always seems happy........Story: "So my mom says I killed my dad and they took my cane" rSlash: Morphs into The Hulk
if everyone tells you all your life that youre ugly you start to believe it. same with this. everyone blamed her so much that she started to actually believe it
I hope OP in the first story was able to see the huge amount of people on her side, who care about her and her well-being and are giving her truly amazing advice. I hope she's able to learn she didn't cause her fathers death, nothing is her fault, and her mother and stepfather are trash
I’m so thankful that in the first story OP’s grandparents were NOT like her mother, that is absolutely amazing, I love her grandparents Second video: just because your sheltered doesn’t mean you can be a bitch
The sister needs to go into therapy immediately. She has based her entire identity around her infertility and being able to have a baby so much it's drastically altered her mental health. It's gotten to the point where she's prioritizing living out her fantasy vicariously through OP than the well being of everyone around her. The family must stop enabling her unless they want her to sink further into her delusions to the point of no return. I feel sorry for OP and the child after they're born. The sister will likely try to ostracize OP from the family to hide the fact that OP's the surrogate mother, why else would she be acting like she's pregnant and OP isn't? No rational and sane person would throw a fit over a pregnant woman who's clearly in her third trimester needing to sit down for understandable reasons.
God massive respect for Rslash here, hearing him get emotionally involved in story 1 and get genuinely pissed shows he cares. Prodigy story is basically how you raise a Joffrey from GoT.
He sounded so pissed and defeated at the end. Like he was completely done. It was kinda chilling. But he’s completely right. Hell I also got heated at that damn story. They’re disgusting.
The first story makes me remember that not all people have great parents and they have no way out of their abusive parents sometimes, but they should definitely go live with their grandparents, I think it’s a much better life for them. I also think CPS should be called to take away that mother’s children, they need to be spared from some horrible fate filled with abuse as well.
It hurts to see how bad the 1st OP has been gaslighted and manipulated. I really hope she gets help cause she probably feeling worse than she leads on.
As a parent, and a single father at that, I can personally say if I lost my life doing what is right for my kid, I would die proud. I would only pray that they live a long life and don't blame themselves for surviving when that was the whole point. If I go down helping my kids rise up, I couldn't be more blessed. Your father was amazing. Be his kid. Be amazing.
those grandparents of the first story are the MVPs and that mother and step-father are monsters
It's a fake story dude. None of them are real
@@randomboys1000 oh, was it verified to be fake?
Agreed
@@randomboys1000 the you are fake
Those parents are complete trash.
That first story makes my blood boil in anger. Rslash's outrage is completely justified, this mother and step-dad don't even deserve to be parents.
Does anyone have a glock
not just urs bud i think every sane persons blood boiled over to the 1st one
I'm honestly astounded Rslash managed to convey the horror of the situation, with not a single swear word.
That first story was dreadful, it made my blood boil too
What is worse is when OP explained in the comment section. She had jumped off the stairs (age 5) because she believed her cape would make her fly and she hurt a limb. Other commenters bluntly say if her mom wants to play that game then by her own logic, her mom killed OP's dad by refusing to pay for an ambulance. This story hurt to read especially with more context.
I won’t lie, that poor girl with the cane blaming herself for her father’s death damn near made me start crying
I just want to give her a hug.
Same. Also I have some really sharp Rocks for the mother and a shotgun for the step dad
Really, what kind of a monster makes a child believe that. The wrong parent died.
@@KashyaCharsi ur not wrong. Jeez I kinda want Karma to hit the parent so hard that death by cancer seems like a mercy kill
One thing I don't get is how is an accident caused by her dad driving her in anyway her fault?
when rslash gets serious, you know op's parents f*****d up (story 1)
story 3: if the parents don't intervene, their son will evolve into a "nice guy" permanently
it's the first time I've genuinely seen him yell at someone out of anger. I've watched nearly all of his video so yeah.
If it keeps up he could become the real life Sheldon Cooper.
worse, he'll become an incel
devolve*
Yeah that's shit you don't want
Oh, this made me very angry immediately. First story OP absolutely is being abused in a lot of ways, and their "parents" need to be reported immediately.
It made me angry too. Especially them blaming themselves. And the mother blaming them as well.
The grandparents realized it immediately upon being called.
I'm glad that the grandparents weren't like OPs parents
I partialy couldn't believed what he was reading. This is something i would expect from the seaquel of the Babadook, not a real story. Humans like that shouldn't live outside cinema creations yet here we are. It so frustraiting.
@@tratanlightbreaker6029 Even if the story is made up (we never have any way of really knowing ) abuse like this is really really common.
Imagine carrying around a whole human being for your sister so she can have kids only to be yelled at for sitting down when you’re tired...
And even worse than that, it makes the demanding sister look like she doesn't care at all about her child. If she did, she'd be taking care of the woman carrying it.
@@Avistew I think the sister needs to go see a therapist and work through her issues before she tries to raise a baby. I don’t feel comfortable with the idea of someone like her raising a baby.
@@mask938 I hope she does get therapy. Being uncomfortable about some people having kids is the price we have to pay so we don't live in some dystopia where the government decides who can or can't have kids, but it's always hard when we hear stories about abused or neglected children. I do wish we had better systems in place, like counseling and therapy widely offered to everyone who wants it.
op shouldve said "you want this baby then dont let me become to stressed or exhausted as that could hurt the baby", some people are just stupid, and personally you gotta wonder if the sister would even be a fit parent
She should not let her sister anywhere near that perfect innocent baby. She's not fit to be a mother......
The girl in the first story seriously deserves better. Her mother and stepfather are absolutely vile.
the fact that she said "and it really is my fault" just broke my heart. Unless she actively cut the brakes it could never be her fault and she shouldn't think so. After that, ccs should've come and looked into the family
The first story made me cry. That poor girl has been gaslight and abused to the point she blames herself for her father dying...
Honestly I don't think they deserve getting shot or death penalty, that's too good for them, rotting in prison knowing they will never see the light of day again will just about do.
It was heartbreaking to listen to. Someone needs to put that sorry excuse of a mother in her place. If her head is so far up her own ass where she's completely delusional to see her blatant abuse, she needs to have all of her kids taken from her.
I hate going all conspiracy nut but does her blaming op is a distraction for something she is hiding other then deflecting blame? It feels like it when I hear this story.
"Intimidated by my superior intellect" isn't actually a thing. "Repelled by my obnoxious personality" absolutely is.
Actually I think both are real things!
i think op is just as or worse than his little brother. instead of explaining why his behavior is off putting to other people op just insulted him a 13 year old kid. What makes him YTA is that 1 op is acting like his is the victim 2 the op smells of jealousy, resentment and hatred. op thought that every thing his brother did was wrong. he talks about himself to much then he ask his crush about her it is quizzing. Op's little brother was just a regular immature teenager. what was OP's excuse?
@@tookitogo I think it's probably less "intimidated by their superior intellect" and more "wow, we have nothing in common". The only people who use the word "intimidated" are the ones getting rejected to make themselves feel better.
@@k70freeman Nope not really. For some reason a lot of younger siblings act that way. The parents usually spoil the youngest child and this was made worse from the fact that OPs little brother was some prodigy. I have a little brother and he acts the same way except he isn't a genius.
Oh, it is a thing, but usually in a boss/employee relationship. I will say I've never seen it in any romantic relationship.
The pregnancy story is like something out of "The Handmaid's Tale". The pregnant lady gets treated like trash while the "mother" craves foot massages and support...
That's why surrogacy can be so messed up. The woman who wants to be the mother wants to have all the "perks" of being a mother while the woman who is actually carrying the other woman's child has her needs ignored or trampled over.
that first story was difficult to listen to. thank god for the grandparents. the parents need to be reported, for the sake of the other children in the house. i can’t believe how terrible people can be.
If her mother doesn't want people to think she is a bad mother maybe she should stop being a bad mother.
The worst part is that the mother blames OP for the dad dying. Meanwhile she couldn't even be bothered to call an ambulence and instead sent the dad to take OP to the hospital. The dad's death is entirely the mom's fault.
I said the same thing, CPS needs to get involved after a certain point.
The other kids are fine, they're not disabled and didn't "Kill" their father.
I almost started crying listening to that first story. The amount of guilt that disgrace of a mother has placed on a CHILD is disgusting. I really hope her grandparents help her heal from the abuse and teach her that nothing was her fault!
So the mom didn’t want too pay for an ambulance, and when OP’s father died in a car crash she blamed Op? Are we sure she’s not a narcissist?
That mother is the very definition of a Narcissist.
Delusional, arrogant, prideful, grandiose, oblivious to her mistakes, falsely self-righteous, picks a family scapegoat to lie about, gaslighting the daughter severely, blame-shifting (like attempting to shift THE MOTHER causing the accident onto the innocent child), abuse against an innocent victim, emotional abuse, physical abuse, medical abuse, verbal abuse....
Literally every form of abuse that exists (except sexual abuse) -the mother was abusing her daughter with.
And the mother sounds so self-delusional about the accident that she’s denying reality.
She shouldn’t have custody of ANY children, in such an unstable mindset.
She clearly lives in a fantasy world she created and not the real world.
To claim it’s a 5 year olds fault that they crashed a car they weren’t even driving...
that’s so illogical.
It’s obviously 0% the child’s fault.
I cannot even fathom the wacky fake logic she might use to claim that it was the child’s fault.
Like, even in crazy-land, a crazy person usually has a slight piece of reason for their crazy theory.
This doesn’t even have a slice of logic or reasoning. She’s crazy even for crazy narcissism.
What does the Narcissist mother tell herself was the role that supposedly was the 5 year olds fault here??? That the 5 years old wasn’t driving better??? That the 5 hear old didn’t grab the steering wheel from the father when they started crashing and steer for herself or something??? Like, where does she even form this mindset from???
It’s obvious that the mother is delusional to the level altering her perception of reality and events. She lives in Imaginary Land. This is super dangerous.
.....
The poor disabled girl has clearly been the family scapegoat her whole life. And the poor girl has clearly been gaslight and psychologically bullied into believing the accident was somehow her fault. It breaks my heart.
This girl will need years of therapy to recover from such thorough psychological torture. Her mother has her completely undermined her sense of ability to protect herself and have self love and say, “Hey that isn’t true! I’m innocent! You’re abusing me!”
She’s so gaslighted, she actually thinks she deserves the mother’s abuse. Poor thing.
The whole 9 yards.
@@Christian-Pickles I think the reasoning the mom managed to convince herself it's the child's fault, and the reason OP agrees, despite the inaccuracy stems from the reasoning that if the 5 year old didn't need to go to the hospital, the dad wouldn't have been driving, therefore incapable of getting in an accident. A 5 year old obviously wouldn't even be capable of considering anything they do might result in a really unlikely series of events they don't even know is possible, when they probably don't even know that EMT's exist and they've only gone to the hospital for a flu shot, as well as the fact that their weakness(because they're 5) would naturally lead them to think that a car cannot be destroyed, and probably wouldn't even wonder the question.
The reason the mother believes that is very well outlined in your comment, but the OP believes it because of a self-guilt complex. She's been gaslighted, which hurts, but she can't even realize it's not even close to being her fault, when her mom, someone fully capable of complex thought and is aware of how the world works, didn't call an ambulance and sent a panicked man fearing for his 5 year old child's safety instead; because she's got a bias that leads to her trying to blame the crash on herself subconsciously. She won't be able to accept that she's not to be blamed even if she sees very similar examples and places blame on those correctly, because in her instance, she's never known anything else.
A more extreme version of this can be found in communities of the misinformed, nazis thought what they do is right because no one told them otherwise, slave owners thought slavery was fine for that same reason, KKK too, and any other cult as well. It's not that all those people are straight up evil(there are those a**holes who are aware what they're doing is wrong, but don't care) but that they literally can't even imagine that there's a possibility what they're doing is wrong, because everyone they know agrees with it. Her grandparents, and the post, should hopefully help her break out of that cycle, but it might be too late for that to happen fast. That formed the guilt complex, but removing it might not destroy it. I feel immense guilt over things that I've been forgiven for, told by everyone around me that I'm going way overkill, and I know, as a fact, that I have a guilt complex about it, but I still can't get myself to believe that it's not my fault. I can't even begin to imagine what she must've gone through when I'm feeling guilt over something trivial, and she's been forced into guilt over such a traumatizing event.
If you're reading this OP, or anyone else actually, get a psychologist, and change the psychologist if you don't immediately feel better, psychologists who are good at their jobs are amazing, and everyone, traumatized or not, needs to see one.
You forgot the fact that OP was 5 when the crash happened. The mother literally blamed a 5 yrs old kid for he husband's death.
@@satsujin4027 Disgusting.
@@Christian-Pickles That insulting excuse for a mother needs to be locked in a loony bin where she can’t hurt anyone ever again!
As a lifelong disabled person i totally agree that taking someone's aids is one of the worst things a person can do! A guy once took my wheelchair in a pub (complete stranger to boot) "as a joke" and then got annoyed when i chewed him out in front of the whole pub. He got barred and i got a free drink. Its not enough that we need these things to live as close to normal lives as we can but then to have people act like its no big deal to belittle us. 🙄😑 i've had my wheelchair leaned on by strangers and even been physically moved by a rando because I was in their way. Sorry for the lengthy comment just needed to vent. This crap gets me peeved! Oh and while i'm angry... the mum MADE HER HUSBAND DRIVE! Op didn't kill her dad his pos wife did! She also caused her daughter's disability. Internet hugs to op and those epic grandparents xxx
I'm extremely sorry that you get harassed/looked down on for something you can't control, I can't even pretend to know what that's like.
Although, I do agree with you that the parents are disgusting and abusive. The mother definitely had a hand in the fathers death (although obviously the fault falls on whoever caused the crash) and for the step-dad to make such awful "jokes" about how she's a black widow, and how she's a father-killer is disgusting. Even worse is the fact that she believes them.
post this on r/rants, it's an amazing subreddit for those moments where you need to vent. I am so sorry that happened at you.
I honestly think OP's "mother" is just putting the blame on her. The mom didn't want to pay for a ambulance, so she just says it's OP's falut. Maybe she just doesn't want to feel like it's her fault, but that's still fucked up. I'm gald up is out of that situation, although I'm worried about her half siblings.
By barred did you mean banned?
@@crossbowmeat in the uk it means being banned from a pub and such.
You can't blame yourself for what happened to your father. He was doing his job and trying to look out for his little girl.
If anything, it's the mother's fault if the dad died since she refused to pay for an ambulance.
@@wargamesmaster exactly. What a cheapskate, except this woman was SUCH a cheapskate she LITERALLY COST HER HUSBAND HIS LIFE
I honestly hope that every last comment in that thread is telling her that what happened with her dad never has been and never will be her fault and that if her father could talk to her he would say that he wouldn't blame her.
The father died being a good father. The mother is the bad one
@@tiana_andherbooks I'm not defending the Mother, but if this story takes place in America an ambulances cost waaay, to much money to call they could charge you thousands
Most people would rather go to a hospital themselves than fall into that kind of debt, the American health care system is about lining their pockets not helping people
So no its not about being cheap its about how stupid expensive it is if that story takes place in America
But the mother is still a terrible human being
"it is my fault after all"
That saddened me so much...
I was sad for the OP and my blood boil at the “parents” How dare you blame your husband’s death on a child you are disgusting and don’t deserve to be a mother.
Physically wanted to reach through the screen and beat her parents asses. Anyone with that type of personality doesn’t deserve to parent or be left responsible of ANY child.
It saddened me for a moment...then pissed me off for that kid. I hope she can learn to forgive herself.
@@sailorstar3148 no details on the crash here. Could be the kid was somehow the cause. No details = no presumptions.
She needs theorpy ad the mother's constant blaming her daughter on this won't let her move on. She isn't that 5 year old girl anymore and shouldn't have that haunting her. I think she isn't talking about the crash for a reason, especially if she somehow caused it, as she doesn't want it distracting from her story. I hate this sort of thing as there can be ways to help cope and the mother is the worst. The girl has injuries from the crash, so it was a bad one. And that won't make things better as she may be wearing the scars of her guilt. I wish this girl all the help she needs, regardles of the situation. A teenager shouldn't be beaten mentally or otherwise over something that happened so long ago that its something she'd barely remember.
It pains me that it is possible she is saying its her fault for a reason as this is not a easy subject for people to get over and help can be hard to find.
It's sad that a fake story is fooling so many people
"Children aren't accomplishments, they're people" FUCKING THANK YOU!
Scream that to all the entitledparents of the world who think procreating makes them a saint
Because a woman can cure cancer but she’s nothing without crotch goblin
@@ahstiasummers5583 The number of times I've wanted to scream at people that just because you allowed someone (or *was* that someone) that nutted in a vag doesn't mean you've achieved some sort of hard won blood, sweat and tears accomplishment. Nobody has to bow down and praise the results of your 5 minute bedroom tango.
Kids are cool and they're not easy to care for sometimes but they're not a personal achievement, nor a beacon of their parents purity.
If anything, if kids are your only achievement in life then it's obvious you've not done much else with your life besides being a brood mare or sperms donor which is just kind of sad. 🙃
First story feels like "Am I the Butthole for telling Hitler he's not a very nice guy ?"
Lmfao Hahahahahahah hahahahahahah
Yes, if anything it seems too over the top to be real.
@@joshduthie3401 Truth is often stranger then fiction.
@@Dragoness-si2xr Yeah, but why post it to r/AITA? It’s clear who’s in the right, so why post it there?
Mhm
To the last story:
OP, the heart of the problem here isn't that your sister can't get pregnant. It's that she's taking out her resentment with her inability to get pregnant and her jealousy of you being able to on you, which is super not okay. It sounds like she didn't really think of how this would make her jealous when she agreed to this arrangement, and now she's letting her jealousy get the best of her and lashing out at you.
She just mad because she isnt the center of attention!!!! She cares nothing of how her sister feels being the pregnant one... in her eyes the world revolves around her as it's her baby!!!! She doesnt understand that by treating her sister who is pregnant with her child the way she is, she could very well be hurting the health of her own child which is what shows me she only really wanted a baby for the pregnancy part the attention part and because she cant have that she lashes out...
It's even less okay because the kid OP's having will be the sisters kid, which bothers me quite a lot due to her personality and actions, but I guess people can change...
@@chevellepavlock2879 whether you are right or not, she is obviously struggling with the fact that she isnt able to get pregnant and should be going to therapy to help with it. I dont know if she is just an attention seeker or if she is genuinely struggling to accept that she cant have the child herself, but either way she needs a therapist to help her through whatever is causing the issues.
Well, the actual problem here is the fact that OP got pregnant and is giving the baby she's having to her sister because her sister can't have kids, which I will admit, it's very kind of OP to help out her sister like that, but the fact that OP's sister keeps pretending that SHE'S the pregnant one. It's like she wanted the experience of having a baby growing inside her, but can never do so, and so, they tries to live this experience, even though OP is the real pregnant one and the child will be her sister's. Couldn't her sister at least help her out with the pregnancy since it will be her child in return for doing this favor for her sister?
I've never heard RSLASH get so angry before. But his tone speaks volumes about those evil people. Those grandparents are truly kind.
He has began to swear again in these videos. I think rSlash ha gotten a lot more protective since he had a kid.
it’s faked for the reaction, he doesn’t care one bit about the OP or the story just the reaction that he gets from viewers
@@bostonrailfan2427 just because some people do doesn’t mean everyone does
@@bostonrailfan2427 leave this channel then if you think he doesn't have actual feelings and emotions because we don't want you here
@@bostonrailfan2427 He is literally a caring, loving father himself. GTFO
Prodigy story: they are 100% raising a narcissist. Being smart is one thing, having a superiority complex is a whole other thing
They clearly also don't realize that book smarts and street smarts are two completely different things and that their kid will definitely not have the required street smarts if it follows that pattern
I have a feeling that the kid may have Asburgers; he's incredibly intelligent in the traditional sense, but doesn't fully understand other human beings and their emotions. Can't say for sure because there's not enough detail, he could easily just be a spoiled brat who's only just now being exposed to how average people interact on a daily basis.
@@PyroRoadScout It could be both. Even if you don't 100% understand other peoples emotions, a parent can still guide them to knowing when they are rude or dismissive to others. I have aspbergers too and my parents always ensured I was polite to others.
@@PyroRoadScout He may also be a genuine genius. They, more often than not, have a very low EQ when compared to their IQ.
@@Persholm1 Huh, did not know that. That actually makes a lot of sense when a good portion of sociopaths/psychopaths have genuis levels of IQ. Idk what percentage of geniuses would have a disorder like aspd, so maybe bringing them up is irrelevant, but that's what your comment reminded me of (btw thanks for teaching me something new)
Can we just appreciate how much he cares about people... you can hear him getting genuinely angry at how the first girls parents treated her
Yes I agree you can hear in his voice how serious and angry he is
He does not often stop to make comments. In this case, it was important. He sounded like a protective father. 👍👏
100 percent, at the moment the first story started I was like oh hell..... then I hear rslash go off and then again and again and no lie... I was cheering and clapping while driving with my windows down and people staring at me like I am crazy, and i gave no cares because in that moment rslash proved himself to not just be like most youtubers out to make money off others stories.... this man truely 100 percent cares and Hope's and wishes his advice and the advice of us posting in here reaches all these posters
@@SilentEcho9194 he does have a daughter actually. That may be where some of it comes from. But either way, respect for him.
@@That_Isabelle Yes I knew he was a daddy and he sounded very much like a protective daddy would. It is very respected and appreciated by all. Since it's been a couple months, I had to go back and relisten to this one.
All I have to say is hearing Rslash get angry over the first story makes me feel safe as someone who grew up also being abused by two narcissistic parents. I’m glad Rslash is so open with us.
Hope that you’re okay!
made me feel safe too and i wasnt even abused. well by family. and not physically.
i just hope youre out of that stuation now, i'm sorry that happened to you, by your parents no less
@@coleywareham6377 thank you ❤️
@@ginathecookie unfortunetly no, I’m not out yet, but hopefully I will be soon. Thank you for the kind words ❤️
Story about the cane:
The mother didn't wantto pay for an ambulance (I get they can be expencive) but she blames OP for her dad's death. I feel like it could be somewhat the mom's fault but she's trying to gaslight her to think it's her fault which seems to have workef
Agree. She feels guilty and tries to make OP feel worse. Deflecting the blame.
Exactly. 💯
I didn't even think about that. I just knew it wasn't OPs fault but if her "mom" wants to look at it the way she does then technically it's the mom's fault.
This. EXAXTLY, this. She's definitely projecting HER guilt on OP. The mother could have saved her daughter but, and even if I'm being too rude here, she killed her husband and damaged her daughter. And now shes trying to convince OP that this is her fault, not the mother's. To me, it sounds like she was abusive even before the accident. Yes, ambulances are expensive, but you cant just let whoever is in need of one, just lay there. Theres a reason why driving someone to the hospital is different than having an ambulance to get you there. An ambulance has the equipment to help you while you get there, has (at least in my country) laws for them to facilitate their movement (such as, all the cars have to move to the sides to let the ambulance to get faster), and yes I find outraging just how expensive they are in the USA, but this is still the mothers fault. I completely agree with you.
I 100% blame the mom. Yes they're expensive but when someone's LIFE is on the line money should be the LAST fucking thought
Parents are supposed to be kind, caring and there for you. OP’s parents in the first story are none of those. They are abusive and honestly I think OP would be better off on her own. Even though it would be challenging, it would be better than staying with those jerks. I agree with rSlash, they are disgusting.
The mom is even worse. She blames her daughter for the death of her dad but if she payed for an ambulance maybe he would not be dead.
My mother acts just like the mother in the first story :(
@@smashrosa8111 I hope that pitiful excuse of a mom lives long because her trip to the other side is going to be vile.
@@smashrosa8111 or took the daughter herself, or was in the car and able to tell the father to slow down. It's the butterfly effect. Any changes that day would've changed what happened. I'm sorry but a child that young isn't responsible for her actions.
Mom needs serious therapy too, it's very clear that the mom is NOT over her husband's death, even though she remarried. She has some deep-seated anger and loss and unfortunately it looks like she's taking it out on her daughter.
"Children aren't accomplishments, they're people." Louder for those in the back 👏
Every child deserves a parent. Not every parent deserves a child.
- I don't know who made this
@ -probably
-Some random wise dude
-Vinod Kapri
@@andromieda1465 it was sead hitler
u fricking legend
The sister’s jealousy is getting ahead of herself. She could give her own sister a miscarriage by how selfish she was being. I can imagine how OP was tired, I’ve seen the FEET. It’s worrisome and scary real once you see a friend with those feet. I’m friend was a cashier at a grocery store. Of course I was considerate towards her a 100% while making sure she didn’t feel guilty or belittlied by myself or others by being to “helpful”. I get why her sister was upset but she’s overlooking the fact that her baby is inside OP and not her.
Exactly. Carrying a child takes a huge toll on the carrier and the sister is failing to realize that. I understand she's hurting. It's okay to hurt over such things. However, when you begin causing harm to others it's a huge issue that can't go unchecked.
People have lost teeth, hair, weight, suffered horrible illnesses, and more simply from being pregnant. The fetus literally leeches all the nutrients it can and the parent/carrier gets the scraps. Some folks have fainting spells while pregnant due to not having enough nutrients to keep stable. The sister has a right to be upset, but not a right to deny the one carrying her f*cking baby care. If she wants that baby healthy she needs to go to therapy and stop treating her sister like a little creature meant to live in the shadows of her sadly twisted reality.
I do think OP's not innocent in all this though. OP should not have snapped that at her, saying: "she is not actually pregnant and she can't understand how exhausting it can be." Yes, she cannot understand, because she CAN'T get pregnant (without risking her life). That's a harsh thing to say to someone with fertility issues.
Yes, the sister was very unreasonable and deserves (more) asshole points. She's going overboard, and risking her baby's health for the experience of being pregnant. But OP also deserves one or at least half a point for that comment. If the people in the store were looking at her "like she was a monster" I don't think her comment wasn't as tame as she made it it out to be. Saying: "You will never know what it's like to be pregnant!" is a heartless thing to say to a woman with fertility issues (she never stated the exact wording and depending on that it could be very hurtful).
I think they just need to sit down and have a heart to heart conversation, maybe with a therapist present to act as a mediator and to keep them calm.
Wasn't it the story before that was basically telling all women that their only "value" is being able to birth children? Yes, the sister is behaving badly, but the story doesn't give all the details of the infertility issues (which is completely understandable) but I can imagine how desperate that must feel for the sister to want to be a mother and fundamentally failing (that is exactly how some people see it). She must be in a terrible place mentally, knowing that her longed-for child is there but unable to feel it move and grow and be the source of all that child needs. It's a horrible story that neither comes out well in.
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The basic thing I think OP should have said is that what she was doing at that point might hurt the baby. That could have stopped her sister.
As a former "gifted child", I learned REAL quick that intelligence isn't a personality and that being "smart" without a reason is stupid. My parents encouraged learning and education but REFUSED to let me be in the "gifted" programs because my dad was a social worker and knew how depressed "gifted" kids got if they peaked before their peers... I was also poor and HATED backhand compliments about my class and intelligence and race...
Good on your parents- I enjoyed the gifted program I was in while I attended, but now that I'm out...
I was a gifted kid in the gifted program and I can't tell you how rough it's made the rest of my life. You get this complex where you don't want to do anything if you're not immediately good at it, and it's REALLY been a fight to unlearn that. I've only recently even started learning how to actually enjoy things without trying to give them some kind of academic or monetary merit.
As a person who was in the gifted program as a kid I wish my parents had done the same. Its made life so much more difficult than if I had just been treated and socialized like a "normal" kid.
That last story is also scary. The sister needs help asap. I honestly don't think she should have the baby for her until she was better but it's too late... and ik there was no way to tell beforehand really. But the sister is (rightfully) grieving that she can't get pregnant but she's turning it into toxicity. She's delusional that she is actually in fact pregnant to a dangerous degree that she wants you to suffer and endure it but for her to get all the attention to feed her delusions. Her husband and mother are enabling it by giving in to what she wants. She needs help before the baby arrives.
Agree. It's also turning into narcissism.
Just think when the child gets here and starts taking the spot light. They need to get the sister into therapy or she might hurt or do much worse to the baby. This is just the seed for something a lot worse to grow.
I agree but depending on how OP said what they did they deserve ahole points as well. I couldn't imagine going to someone who's going through that and dealing with those issues and saying something so horrific. If even the women in the shop looked at her like a monster I doubt what she said was really all that tame.
The sister needs help and the people around her need to point to that help not make things worse by putting her down for the thing she's currently suffering with. It's a hard thing to go through and many people with untreated issues turn toxic. Its not like that can't change either so to say she shouldn't have the baby after is really pathetic.
@@squishy2368 i didn't say she shouldn't have the baby. I'm saying she should of gotten help first before trying to bring a baby into the world. Also saying she should try to get the help she needs before the baby is born. When the baby is here everything is going to need to go to the baby and things will be hectic.
@@anjafrohlich1170 no she just needs therapy and that was a pretty tame outburst in her end tbh. She needs to learn but to say that she shouldnt be a mother at all is just sad.
The pregnancy story always makes me feel sooooo bad for OP. Her sister needs help because OP is the one actually pregnant, and should be treated as such. She didn't have to offer to carry the baby for her sister. She could've refused completely. It's horrible, how they treat her.
Yes but honestly I feel really bad for the sister and I can kinda understand her, that doesn't mean I'm on her side but it's understandable. I really feel like the sister pretending to be pregnant is a coping mechanism to deal with the fact she can't have her own child. I can't even imagine the pain the sister felt when she had found out she wasn't able to carry a child it's making me tear up just thinking about it. The majority of men/people who don't want kids won't understand the sister's pain, wanting a child and then finding out it isn't possible to have one of your own is one of the most soul-crushing things for women(Adoption may or may not be an option depending on the situation). Obviously, the sister was in the wrong but you can't really blame her, the outburst of the sister was most likely out of jealousy, it's honestly sad how jealousy makes us humans act.
@@snowsprin793 while that is true it is still disgusting how she treats her sister and gets mad when her sister who is offered to carry her baby has obvious needs caused by pregnancy. I get it she can't have kids but the fact her sister stepped up and did this should make her feel ashamed for treating her sister like garbage. or even worse like she's nothing more then a broodmare. What's next she's going to demand her sister carry all her kids in the future and tell her to stop bragging about her needs?
“AITA for telling my brother that his crush dislikes him because he’s an asshole, not because he’s ‘too smart’?”
_I smell another living fedora walking among us again…_
If my wife was acting this way to my sister-in-law who is carrying my baby, I'd slap her with a big dose of reality and might even consider divorce. Maybe that's extreme, but you can't treat people doing you a HUGE favor like this.
Yep. It's astonishingly bad behaviour.
"I know you're tired from carrying a baby, and your body will never be the same again. So GET UP IM THE MOM HERE!"
That first Story was so annoying... Go off Rslash! 😂
E a sports its in the game
How did I make a spelling error
Hello storytime I eat cheese cake
Storytime you would never believe this, but I got the lego Millennium Falcon Set
I messed up again
ive never heard rslash get legitimately upset, and honestly im living for him standing against abuse
im an emotional abusive victim, and it makes me really happy to know other people feel very strongly about this too.
he puts on an act, it’s not sincere
@@bostonrailfan2427 bro what
@@bostonrailfan2427 Please provide some evidence to back up your ridiculous claim.
I'm more inclined to believe someone who regularly talks about his family life with a place of compassion than someone trying to throw out claims without any real backup to them.
To anyone who thinks that being pregnant makes them "the star of the show," I question their worthiness to be a parent in the first place.
I pray to God that no one ever starts a trend where women get pregnant for clout.🙏🏻
@@mask938 That is already kinda a thing. I recently aged out of foster care and pregnant/baby clout was definitely a thing among the teen girls.
@@walfman100 Everyday, I loose more of my faith in humanity...
gatorboymike They are not worthy, and never will be. I grant you the permission to go 1000% overkill on this.
Unfortunately, their are the women out their who only want babies for the pregnancy part.. as they then feel they are the center of attention, and once the baby is born they feel a form of post partum, but it's actually just jealousy of the attention now all being on the baby!! Those type of mothers, or human incubators as I call them are horrible, self center people who dont deserve the children they have.
The first OP needs two things. One, a hug and two, her “mother” to get sent to prison.
And the step dad, he was just as bad.
And also get the other kids out of that household, it isn’t healthy for them to be taught that disabled people are objects or toys to be played with
@@ItsyagorlEKKO honestly id say the step dad is worse. He married into that family. And abused a child. Every abuser is a shitty person, but abusing someone who isn't even related to you is a whole new evil. Fuck the mom, and step dad
That mother doesn't deserve to go to prison, she deserves to go to the electric chair.
Smooth brain people on Reddit: bUt fAmiLy?
Oh God the first story. I had flashbacks to middle school when my "friends" would take my cane and run away with it and hold it above my head while I limped after them. Hearing her blame herself for her dad's death broke my heart.
First story got me heated... Not going to lie what kind of parents does that to someone you brought into the world. Holy hell
Right! Who blames their 5 yr old for that? I knew Rslash was about to pop off though when he said
OP 👏 OP 👏 👏 LISTEN👏LISTEN LISTEN
For real
@Atan weng no mane i dont speka spanis
Calm down, it's a fake story. None of it really happened
I'm genuinely worried about the sister in the last story. She definitely sounds like she needs therapy. She has developed a deep denial about her inability to carry a child to term. I'm also 100% certain she will want to hide the fact that her sister carried the baby from the child. This sounds like a 'family secret' in the making.
That's what i was thinking too
Worse than that, I can see the sister going low or no contact once she has the baby due to her misplaced resentment
So, there are guys who have sympathy pains and weight gain when living with a pregnant woman. But, pregnancy is actually a medical condition, and can go horribly wrong, ESPECIALLY when the PREGNANT woman is stressed.
@@FearMyLadyBits Phantom pregnancy is a medical condition too, there have been cases of different species experiencing it, sometimes not just with stomach swelling but to the extent of milk production. However, it's most likely that infertility and the feelings of failure that gives her is more of the issue for the sister.
Medical student here, would recommend some cognitive behavioral therapy.
You know, technically, the mom is responsible for the dad's death since she didn't want to pay for an ambulance. The whole thing could have been avoided if she was just willing to get a damn ambulance when her kid needed to go to the hospital. They didn't explain what happened to cause it but if your kid needs to go to the hospital that's going to have many people already on edge.
Basically, what OP's mom is saying is her father would still be alive if OP never hurt herself, resulting in needing to go to the hospital. It's horrible, blaming someone who needed the hospital for the parent's death because you don't want to pay for an ambulance, basically, making it your fault. It actually shows that she's cheap and if something that she caused to happen happens, she doesn't want to be blamed for it, she instead blames the person who needed to go the hospital for it.
I'm actually quite worried about the last story with op carrying their sisters child, I may be looking too much into it but is the sister going to be in the proper mental state to actually take care of a child?
Exactly my question. Some women really get whacko over having kids and become downright unstable about it. If she can't even cope with her envy over not being able to carry her own child, then I seriously worry about what kind of mother she'll be. They need an intervention and mental help professionals, not kidding. She needs to work through this before she gets that baby in her life.
I think they should really get professional counselling for her if they haven't already. Infertility is a difficult emotional situation all on its own and the way she's reacting seems like it's only escalating. At this rate she's going to demand a bed in the delivery room next to OP and want the medical team to pretend to deliver the baby from her. I have friends who've gone through surrogacy and had really lovely and nurturing experiences in tandem with the surrogate mamas - it's a shame things are so messed up in this case cause you'd think it would be easier having it be your own sister.
At the very least I feel like this mom is going to undermine OP being the pregnant one or maybe lie saying OP didn’t carry the baby. This is probably crass but I could see OP pulling a Little Fires Everwhere and just hightailing it away from her sister
That was the most angry I've heard rSlash....
Second time for me
This is the first time I've heard rSlash be so angry.
He can get more mad than this...
When I heard i was like yes go off 😩
Damn he really got heated
7:17 I've had a couple guys "flirt" with me like this. Say how great they are, and shut down all of my ideas and aspirations. I don't get why guys do that. If you don't like hearing the person talk, if you don't like the person's interests, how can you say they like them?
Grab your pitchforks and torches everyone, we’re gonna go fight the parents from the first story
Let’s go!
OK. **(Reloading AK-47 Redline) **
Wanna know the best part about owning a white cane, I can use it as a whacking stick. Full disclosure completely blind but no one expects a blind person to know self-defense more specifically be one rank away from brown belt in mixed martial arts.
I'm sending Katanas, Glocks, Corridor Digitals and Yandere cat heads that make you fly and going round and round will kill weebz near you
We be needing 100000000 ammo kay
The mother in the first story has no moral right to have children, neither does the step-dad. Less than worthless people.
I agree. I lived kinda similar (I didn't use a cane at the time of living with my family though). But I was in marching band, and I worked at a restaurant, and was on the main floor at the time. There were days I was on my feet for almost 14 hours in a day with minimal breaks. The next days it was impossible for me to walk out if the pain. I was getting yelled at for "being lazy" but as soon as I tried to take a step and fell they would say I was over reacting. The only times they actually acknowledged my disability was when it was to manipulate me. But when they needed me, I was lazy as I wasnt getting out of bed.
Now I use a cane every now and then as my ankle is slowly getting worse. But I feel for OP in the first story. I get so angry as disabilities are hard as is. We don't want to be disabled, and we don't want to struggle more than we do. But it happens and I wish OP the best, along with anyone else with disabilities
@@anjafrohlich1170 those kids are being raised to think its ok to make fun of disabled people. What if they tried to take a teachers cane and think its fun? Or a classmates ear
.. things...? (Sorry i dont know what deaf ppl use to hear).
@@Dartkitten Hearing aids, thought it's generally not deaf people but the hard-of-hearing that use them.
They don't even exist in the first place. It's a fake story
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As proud of them as I am, and as wonderful, talented, smart and well-adjusted as my children are, they aren't my greatest accomplishment either. It's okay to feel this way. Ive been a mom for 17 1/2 years, and I can't remember at this point what the best thing ever was.
1st story: There's a special place in Hell for the mother and step-father.
But they don't exist. None of that writing prompt actually happened. Fake af
@@randomboys1000 Will you shut up already?
@@randomboys1000 What's your proof of that?
@@randomboys1000 Sources please?
*proceeds to get some popcorn for the duel*
My heart sank when rSlash read that OP in the first story blamed themselves for their father's death. And to hear that the stepdad and mother guilt trip them for it? OH MY GOD, that poor kid!
I can’t help but think the mother is projecting. Cuz OP said “she didn’t want to call an ambulance” so she’s projecting her guilt onto OP. Which is even worse IMO
The first story; ya’ll noticed that the mom didn’t want to call an ambulance, so the dad had to drive her to the hospital... if the mom called an ambulance the accident wouldn’t have happened.
Do technically it’s the mom’s fault.
Btw those parents are the most disgusting people to treat their child like that.
And it’s no one’s fault, accidents happen.
I guess she could be justified since ambulances are fucking expensive in the US. Idk where they are but I don't blame her as much for not calling an ambulance. If they are in another country, then yes fuck her
I hope that first girl's grandparents take her to a good trauma therapist. I'm worried she's just going to end up dating people who are like her parents. She needs some serious abuse education and healing asap!
Have to wonder if the non-expectant mother expects her sister to take care of the newborn as well as carry and birth it, because if she thinks she deserves a chair even when not pregnant, actual maternal duties are going to be a real shock to her.
The real irony in story 1 is that- going by the monster’s logic (I REFUSE to call that piece of filth a mom)-SHE was the one who refused to pay for an ambulance for OP so technically it’s HER fault OP’s dad died!
It sounds like OP's mom is a money hungry and doesn't think it might be her fault, she blames OP, the person who needs to go to the hospital that she refuses to pay for, for the death of her father. It's stupid. What she's pretty much saying is OP's dad would've lived if OP had never injured herself, resulting in her needing to go to the hospital.
First story: I’m SO glad OP’s grandparents decided to step in, take them away and call their parents out on such disgusting and illegal behaviour. Also to see RSlash that serious scared me for a second, he seriously went dad mode for OP and laid down what was going on plain and simple. It’s abuse
I could hear Rslash's anger and emotion after that first story, even more than usual which says a lot. That mother is abusive and so is that stepdad, I really hope OP is out of there and living a better life, for her sake.
Doesn't matter, the story is fake af
@@randomboys1000 :/ your not allowed to post fake stories there so no.
@@randomboys1000 how?
12:32 best answer ever!! I'm 39 and have never once never in my life have I wanted to have kids. It would be like a death sentence and I can't imagine living life that way. I also have some pretty significant trauma in my past surrounding the topic. It's not the end-all be all for every woman.
The “pregnant” sister part would be super creepy. Imagine having to give a child you carried for 9 months to a psychotic person.
Yea, that story is a long way from over.
I'm literally in tears over the first story, those things acting as her guardians are not fit to be parents or called humans. I am disgusted.
Same, I am disgusted by that fact that there are people that think that disabled people are objects and then treat them as such
I relate to the guilt complex the first OP faces. I’ve cPTSD and PTSD because of my mother and brother. My mother knew my brother physically beat me and psychologically tortured me, she told me I’d deserved it somehow. She didn’t want to care for her 2 kids and left that job to me, because it was my fault she didn’t want to parent. She would regularly tell me it was her fault she was suicidal and I was the reason she wanted to kill herself. As adults my brother constantly stole from me, lied, was still extremely psychologically abusive, and my mother just enabled him. She complained about him privately to me, but never once said anything too him and wondered when he’d “mature”.
She continued her psychological abuse, and wondered why I was distant. When I got the chance to move to an entirely different city, away from them, I did, and I got housed by an agency who helped move 16-24 y/o who’d come from abusive backgrounds. Apparently I was one of the most independent because I could fully care for myself, and were depressed to learn I’d been doing that since I was a kid, because growing up I didn’t have a normal childhood, I was my brothers carer and mother’s carer, I cared for the household, I did the shopping, I rarely managed to go to school because my mother didn’t want to care for either of us. It was a lonely life of neglect and abuse, so the agency offered me some therapy, where they tried to teach me none of it was my fault, but that feeling sticks with you, especially when you’ve been gaslight since early childhood to believe it’s all your fault.
I cut off all contact a few years ago, when I did I got nothing but abuse from both of them, especially attacking me for my disabilities and claiming my very real permanent nerve damage, that I’ve had multiple surgeries on, an entire medical team, a walking stick for when I can walk, probs around 30 pills a day, and 90% bedridden, was “made up” for “sympathy”, which solidified my decision to cut all contact. Whenever it’s my birthday she posts to her Facebook
“Happy birthday to my daughter, who’s selfish because she still won’t talk to me” to garner sympathy from her followers.
My Grandmother knows the full reasoning, understands exactly what happened, has seen the receipts from me, and is disgusted by her daughters behaviour. Whenever my mother complains to my Grandmother she’s told it’s 100% her own fucking fault, and if she just tried treating me as a normal human being, I’d still talk to her.
But I still feel guilty that I’ve ruined my family by putting my own mental health first, my cPTSD and PTSD could no longer handle talking to my mother or brother. I would have a mental breakdown every few days, now they’re rare, last had one in January during a bad trigger date. So whilst I’m happier in life, I still feel a lot of guilt, it’s really hard to let go of. It messes with you mentally and it’s hard to get over.
Hey, it might not mean much from a complete stranger but I'm really proud of you for cutting contact, I know it couldn't have been easy but you did the right thing, you're important and so are your needs and mental health.
"You shouldn't take someone's cane, it's like taking someone's arm or leg."
*Rocket Raccoon has left the chat*
i mean, that dude was well compensated
@@harshsrivastava9570 think it was something like 35,000 credits
*Op has left the chat*
I had to read it a few times before I finally understood that😂
Having a disability is bad enough. Having people bully you over it is even worse
Speaking from experience, you are damn right.
Having your OWN PARENTS BULLY YOU OVER IT...AS WELL AS THE DEATH OF YOUR ACTUAL DAD...
Having your own blood torture you over it is Hell
@@ArcanineEspeon Is 10 times the hell
It makes me wanna disable them
The Parents on the first story exist:...
Rslash: DO YOU WISH TO BE CHILDLESS
So they have chosen, death.
The first story has me in tears...I feel so horrible for OP. I want to hug her so so bad.
It’s almost definitely fake
@@doge8825 think what you want.
It really gonna my blood boiling
You're crying over a fake story?? Jesus dude, use your brain. A chimp could tell you none of that really happened. It's a fucking writing prompt. A generic sob story. It's rage bait written by a bored teenager. None of those people are real. IT'S FAKE.
@@randomboys1000 Just because you think someone’s abuse story is fake that doesn’t mean to is. Keep thinking is fake all you want man.
Last story honestly sounds like the sister is on the verge of a psychotic break... I have a sad feeling that she's going to want to be laid out in the delivery room too, like she is the one giving birth... Its sad too, after the birth, there's a real possibility that the "mom" will resent the poor kid.
yeah i feel bad for op having a sister that is like that. the sister needs counseling because this behavior is not normal. I will be honest OP needs to keep the sister out of her babies life until she gets counseling. I feel once the sister sees her newborn that she will take entitlement on OP's baby and start treating it like her own and make it out to be her own daughter.
@@scotthill6632 oh, I think you misunderstood a bit. The baby *is* the sister's child, OP is carrying the baby as a surrogate because the sister is unable to do so. The problem is that the sister is behaving as though she is *physically* pregnant and wants all the accommodations that are offered because of pregnancy to be offered to her and not OP.
@@Hawkmoon1981 O Thanks for clearing that up but the sister is a little crazy. Like come on man just let OP have the damn chair and if she keeps doing this shiz then OP can just not give her the baby. Also I never understand surrogacy because why not adopt? Also I know some people who have figured out their aunt was their biological mother and seperated from their own mother literally. That is sort of rare but I think that I would just adopt and it can kinda mess up a kid and his family because he realizes that his own aunt is his mother. Kinda weird right?
@@scotthill6632 I dunno, I guess some people really want the kid to be biologically theirs? Personally I think more people should adopt, or think of adoption before having their own children. So many kids are in care that need loving homes.
I can’t have children because of a lot of sex related health issues, so I can’t get pregnant nor can I carry to term, I also have cPTSD and PTSD from serious childhood abuse, so combine all of that together and I can’t have kids. Even if I wanted to? I’d adopt, because too many are stuck in the care system
@@ZombieSazza Yeah I guess but don't you think its kinda fucked up when the kid learns his aunt is his bio mother?
I have known people with surrogate aunts and it fucked them up. They couldn't look their aunt or mother in the eye any more. He kind of separated from them a few years ago and last I heard he doesn't really talk to them anymore.
I’ve always liked how Rslash will use a softer tone when discussing something that is sensitive or tough to deal with , and a louder and harsher tone when it comes to the entitled or rude part. Absolute 🐐
Cane: That crash isn’t OP's fault. Those parents are abusive villains for blaming OP. *NTA*
Check Privilege: Ok, that sounds like an invasion of privacy from that privileged girl. What a classist. *NTA*
Disliked by Crush: What an absolute narc. Someone needs to give him a reality check. *NTA*
Greatest Accomplishments: Never make fun of other people's accomplishments. There is clear jealousy and sexism. *NTA*
False Pregnancy: OP is the pregnant person, and she has needs, too! Sister definitely needs a bit of help. *NTA*
It's sad how abuse canwarp someone's perpective so much, like in the first story, to any sane person on the outside it's obvious that OP's parents were horrible, but to her she thinks she's somehow in the wrong.
I’ve been listening to this channel for over a year, possibly close to two if not two. Hard to tell with the COVID and everything, what even is time anymore? My point, however, in all that time, never have I heard Rslash go off like this. What OPs parents did is beyond despicable and unacceptable and I hope OP receives, the love, support, and therapeutic care she deserves to help her overcome this.
I genuinely have never heard a story that made me more infuriating then that first story. OP, get yourself out of that toxic household the moment you can
It's fake dude. None of it really happened
@@randomboys1000 how do you know
"Children aren't accomplishments- they're people."
But raising children correctly is an accomplishment.
@@ollehkacb Actually is not!! Is an OBLIGATION!!!! You choose to have kids and is your JOB to raise them right!!!
@@talitafranco7230 simply cause it is ones obligation does not mean most are able to do it.
@@ollehkacb unfortunately that’s true! But is the JOB of any parents to the best they can to raise their child well!! The kid they choose to have or at least to keep (adoption is here for someone who thinks that they can’t raise their kids)! Unfortunately that’s a lot of crappy parents, but they are failures!!! Raise your kid well should be the norm!!!
@@talitafranco7230 I don't think you know what the word "accomplishment" means, but honestly, I would *love* to hear what you believe is a bigger accomplishment which the average person is capable of.
For some reason, when rSlash gets angry and protective of children, it makes me feel safe like he's protecting me even though I, in no way, relate to the person he's usually actually talking to.
3:45 You forgot to mention the bit that the reason the father and OP was in the car in the first place was cus the mother REFUSED to pay for an ambulance
Imo it feels like it's the mom's fault (in some ways, but not hers completely) and she might feel so guilty that she's trying to place blame on OP to take blame away from her cheap self
@@jessymcgowan3494 Not an impion. its fact. Had the mother not refused to pay for an ambulance both OP and the dad whould not have ben in the car. thus whould have ben uninvolved with the crash.
@@BeHasU yup
@@BeHasU Its weird for me to like the state where I live we don't pay for an ambulance but in the other states in the country I live in have to pay $5,000
Who doesnt call a ambulance after a car accident 😐 how else are they supposed to get medical help to be honest not calling for one is probably the reason her dad sadly died and the reason she needs a cane now 😕 i found this story heartbreaking 😢
The first f'ing story pissed me off just how disgusting can those people be like wtf not only did she blame her of her dad's death but she also uses that experience to guilt trip her. What a garbage human being.
Yeah. Honestly. Im glad she got out of that house. Messing with a disabled persons mobility aid is NOT OKAY. Even if its at home, and for a game. The only time you should ever be allowed to mess with mobility aids is if you are explicitly being asked to. Im glad most people (besides work) respect my disability currently in my life. But holy shit I know that experience of "well it isnt THAT important".
Along with being blamed for a parents death. That was 100% the mothers fault for not wanting a fucking ambulance. Yeah it was an accident that happened, but just think. If the mother said "yes let's call an ambulance" the father would still be alive. Part of me is thinking the mom planned something to get rid of the dad without having a divorce. Wouldnt be the first time in history. But im not saying it is what happened.
I blame myself for my dads death (I relate a LOT to the first story holy shit) because after I was born my mom went into a massive bipolar episode and they ended up getting into a divorce. Well my dad wasn't the brightest of people and 5 years after I was born he got mixed into the wrong crowd and passed. But I know it wasn't really my fault, but I just constantly blame myself because, if I wasn't born, my older brothers may have a dad, and be living a better life.
I cried reading this omg.
Again. as I said to others, just bare in mind she didn't say the crash cause.
And kids have been the causes of crashes. But this was when she was 5, its over a decade later, she's older, wiser, smarter. She isn't that girl who may have been the reason her father died. The crash was horrorific based on her injuries and its likely her father was fatally wounded so badly it was obvious from on sight he was going to die. I don't think she' be able to get an image of her father's death out of her head, especially if he was bleeding or had serious injuries. No kid shoudl have to see that sort of thing, cause of the crash or not.
The girl has her reasons for not saying the details of the crash, I think its best we accept that and just offer our sympathy. She needs help and her asshole mother isn't helping by reminding her she cause the crash.
As fo rthe ambulance, I'm presuming as I said elsewhere they live in America. Ambulances are $4000+ at their cheapest to be called and a lot of Americans' opt out even if they can be saved. And this is without the other healthcare stuff, if he needed healthcare, they could have faced a bill in the thousands, if not hundreds of thousands. And if the wounds were fatal upon sight, the mother likely deemed it not worth the money to call an ambulance for someone about to die anyway. Its the reality of the American healthcare system.
If its not, thinking about it there may be other reasons we don't know like he never had a license to begin with or their illegal imigrants, etc. ITs kinda bad to have a story where details are left out as we don't have thousands of details needed to be a fair judge. For the moment, what we do know is that in present day, the girl is being beaten over something that happened a long time ago. And that she is basically being domestically abused for something thats no longer her control. The mother is doing nothing to stop the step father the the step-father is an asshole.
The girl needs help in multple ways, if it was her fault, there is theraphy for this to help her move on. If she didn't, she needs to understand she didn't and needs to talk it out with someone, maybe theraphy again. As I've noted elsewhere, saying something isn't someone's fault without knowing details can make it worst as strangers are presuming the best of a situation and it cam make guilt worst. I wish her well and hopes some day someone takes her thorugh the processes to heal, so she just can move past all of this.
@@AngelEmfrbl so, she did in a comment say she didn't cause the accident. She blames herself for needing to go to the hospital.
As for the costs of an ambulance ride, I still blame the mother. I know not all families are the same, but for my family at least, we struggled financially and I had to have many surgeries on my ankle. But if we needed an ambulance to make sure we got to a hospital safely. They would do it. Even if it was for a small thing like a dislocated arm.
And I do agree she needs to go to therapy, and she has said in another comment that she is planning on going to therapy.
But the mother is 100% at fault. The mother is the reason she believes it was her fault for her dads death. Imagine constantly being blamed for something for 12 years, from before you can truly comprehend a situation to being basically an adult.
And I hope the mother didn't plan anything, but part of me still believes the mother planned to take her husband out to not deal with divorce papers. Ive heard of stories happening similar. Hell ive heard of people actually getting into "affairs" so the divorce would be easier. Both parties are aware but just to make it go by faster.
Of course I don't want to believe that, but it dealt with narcissistic people before, and they show HEAVY signs of wanting to do things like that.
Lmao bro it's fake. Can you seriously not see the formulaic bullshit? It reads like a middle school sob story
Ugh. I don't want to mention the 69 likes joke because of the story.
Agree about the car crash. Absolutely disgusting that the mom blames the daughter for killing her father, when it was the MOM who refused to pay for an ambulance. She is obviously projecting and throwing her daughter under the bus to hide from her own guilt. What a terrible person.
The story about OP getting blamed for the dad's death outraged me. Is there a way to get an update? I'm praying she got a better home permanently.
I saw this story in another video and many commenters were giving OP their support and tell her it wasn't her fault her dad died but OP kind of kept on blaming herself and even when people suggested she go to therapy she said that she was afraid to be a burden on her grandparents and make them pay for more stuff for her.
@@demonqueen5301 oh my god. OP really needs therapy
@@demonqueen5301 Textbook abuse case. It’s really difficult to get the victims to go of their own will, I hope the grandparents convince her because she *really* needs it.
@@tebthecat The way my friends convinced me to seek help was by saying that they’d be more upset if I didn’t go to therapy, and that if I can’t do it for myself, then I’d do it for them. Not sure if that would work in their case but it worked for me.
@@mcaeln7268 that’s good, I’m glad you got help. Sadly, there really is no way to tell what’ll work. I wish all people could talk about their problems and seek help without being afraid of judgement or being a burden.
I love the anti-mombie lady. Please don't let people think that you don't love your kids because you didn't make them into your entire identity.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK!
Exactly. It's OK to feel that way about your kids and be a proud mom, but it is false to assume that kids are the only point of a woman's existence. And just because a woman defines herself as beeing a "doctor" for example rather than a "mom" when asked doesn't mean she automatically doesn't love her kids. On that note, not every woman wants kids in her life, and that doesn't make her any less of a woman. A woman has enough reason to be alive and happy, with or without kids.
I 100% agree that the intent of the comments about her kids been the highest accomplishment was entirely sexist, but she really should be proud that she rised well behaved children, thats really hard. Moreover if someone says that in their eyes you are accomplished because you rised children, why take it the wrong way, it might not be that they want to define you only by that aspect, it might be just a complement!
That story seemed like a textbook example of mansplaining. Like "now that we're talking about our greatest accomplishments, before you have a chance to open your mouth, let me tell you little woman what you should think on this topic". He sounded rather ridiculous.
i never will understand why the "i had unprotected sex and here are 3 walking proofs of that" is an accomplishment. sure being pregnant and giving birth sucks, but thats as natural as taking a dump. maybe rasing super good kids is one accomplishment, but if you have zero own personality because you have kids thats kinda sad.
12:07
What's with all the mysoginy in the friend group? OP can't feel fulfilled unless she has kids but the man can't?
I've never in the years of watching rslash seen him get this angry. But it's totally right of him too
Years is plural so I've been watching him from the beginning
@@lightningj8954 Well that’s still years I guess
It's his fault for not recognizing a fake story
Not gonna lie, that first story, the mom and step-dad deserve more than 5/5. What kind of monster does that to their own daughter?!? I would give them 100/5. Maybe it's extreme, but so are the parents. I'm so sorry for the OP.
Me too. I oughta make them disabled!🤬 Idk what body part. But they deserve it as damn well!
Honestly, if anyone deserves -5/5, it's first story's OP. S/he is a saint for putting up with those parents.
The first story's Mother and StepFather, are not parents. They're actual monsters.
Hmm... I don't think you can really upset rSlash, he just always seems happy........Story: "So my mom says I killed my dad and they took my cane" rSlash: Morphs into The Hulk
That first story made me so sad. So much abuse and OP still thinks that it is all her fault and in the wrong.
if everyone tells you all your life that youre ugly you start to believe it. same with this. everyone blamed her so much that she started to actually believe it
And that's why it's 100% fake. Coke on dude, this shit reads like a middle school writing prompt. None of it really happened
"OP, *clap clap* op listen" lmao let's go
Story 3 I've said before is a proto-incel. Stop him now before it gets there. No one wants to be alone and bitter.
If you have a child with a disability and they're being picked on, you damn well better be ready to go to war for them against ANYONE!!!
I hope OP in the first story was able to see the huge amount of people on her side, who care about her and her well-being and are giving her truly amazing advice. I hope she's able to learn she didn't cause her fathers death, nothing is her fault, and her mother and stepfather are trash
I was yelling "WHAT!?" at the top of my lungs as the first story kept progressing. Holy fucking shit that is so fucking horrific
**Mom calls OP names and accuses her for turning her family against her**
OP: "You have done that yourself!"
Ah I see a fellow prequel fan
I’m so thankful that in the first story OP’s grandparents were NOT like her mother, that is absolutely amazing, I love her grandparents
Second video: just because your sheltered doesn’t mean you can be a bitch
That first story really broke my heart for OP. I’m surprised that the parents hasn’t had a good dose of karma yet. Maybe that day will come
It won't because it's a fake story
This is one of my favorite subreddits
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Op's mother: *refused to call an ambulance for her husband*
Also op's mother to op: "it's your fault your father died"
“It’s like taking a arm or leg, it’s just disrespectful!”
-rslash 2021
And then he stabbed me, and tortured my wife and kids, which was extremely rude.
i dont get it... its just a quote from the video? is this like supposed to be funny or?
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... Yeah, that shit is a bit more than just rude.
Well how am I sopposed to eat my victims then huh?
THATS A CRIME
The sister needs to go into therapy immediately. She has based her entire identity around her infertility and being able to have a baby so much it's drastically altered her mental health. It's gotten to the point where she's prioritizing living out her fantasy vicariously through OP than the well being of everyone around her. The family must stop enabling her unless they want her to sink further into her delusions to the point of no return. I feel sorry for OP and the child after they're born. The sister will likely try to ostracize OP from the family to hide the fact that OP's the surrogate mother, why else would she be acting like she's pregnant and OP isn't?
No rational and sane person would throw a fit over a pregnant woman who's clearly in her third trimester needing to sit down for understandable reasons.
God massive respect for Rslash here, hearing him get emotionally involved in story 1 and get genuinely pissed shows he cares.
Prodigy story is basically how you raise a Joffrey from GoT.
Honestly I’ve never seen rslash that angry on the first story. It was kinda scary.
He made me proud tho
Lowkey
Yep
He sounded so pissed and defeated at the end. Like he was completely done. It was kinda chilling. But he’s completely right. Hell I also got heated at that damn story. They’re disgusting.
Right? Imagine getting so worked up over such a fake story. Lmao he dropped his brain for this video
That first story. I'm gonna fight OP's egg donor and egg donor's spouse and adopt her. Please dear god let the grandparents take her.
The first story makes me remember that not all people have great parents and they have no way out of their abusive parents sometimes, but they should definitely go live with their grandparents, I think it’s a much better life for them. I also think CPS should be called to take away that mother’s children, they need to be spared from some horrible fate filled with abuse as well.
this is maybe the most serious episode of this i’ve ever watched. i welcome it, it really brought me down to earth.
It hurts to see how bad the 1st OP has been gaslighted and manipulated. I really hope she gets help cause she probably feeling worse than she leads on.
As a parent, and a single father at that, I can personally say if I lost my life doing what is right for my kid, I would die proud. I would only pray that they live a long life and don't blame themselves for surviving when that was the whole point. If I go down helping my kids rise up, I couldn't be more blessed. Your father was amazing. Be his kid. Be amazing.
I ABSOLUTELY LOOOOOVE the fact that you got pissed off at first op's parents
Kinda got mixed feeling About your comm3nt
@@chranenaveverka3537 lol
The fact that he lost his video voice and went off on them says a lot.