Women's labour is invisible because it was deliberately made so, as it is essential work, and they don't want women discovering just how invaluable it is.
It's my greatest fear. Living every moment with your opp just a breath away. This is why I hold everyone at arm's length. It's not always right, but I been hurt and seen hurt too many times not to.
Any therapist would tell you that contempt is one of the signs your relationship is going to fail. Once you feel contempt for your partner the relationship is dead.
I was hoping you would comment on this video! I couldn’t believe my ears! And the women were eating it up in the comments. This level of jealousy and contempt for your partner is scary. It’s evident he was only taking care of and playing the “good husband” for back pats and not genuine love. My ex husband was jealous of me and I didn’t know until years after our separation. It hurt so bad to come that realization because I poured everything into him and it was never enough to close the gap. Free that woman!
@ that’s very true. He claims to have to gone to therapy since our separation/divorce and I hope for his sake that is true. He’s a habitual liar so it’s hard to know for certain. Hopefully the next woman that gets involved with him gets a better man than I did.
He was mad that "he was doing what he supposed to" but because he felt that she didn't deserve it He is saying the quiet part out loud... He doesn't like women and he certainly didn't like his wife
I agree. Like most men, they don't think women deserve to be taken care of. Don't think women should have something they don't have and that jealousy shows up.
I will never understand why a husband would be jealous of his wife. I went through this with my ex-husband and am currently going through it with my husband now. Husband and wife should be a team, not an enemy.
Most men are competitive with everyone around them. It's not about what is "supposed to be" but "what is". Most men you engage in a relationship will secretly compete with you.
Envy. Nothing is more ruinous or dangerous than an envious man. Envy is different than jealousy. Envy is too lazy to put in the work, but desires all the positive outcomes. This dude was envious that he couldn’t match his wife’s results with little to no work on his part. I really hope she sees this and leaves him
He sounds so incredibly hard to deal with. He sounds like a big ass baby! His life didn't get any harder he was threatened by the upcoming success. I'm sure her life would be so much easier without him. I'd rather marry a street dude who is happy to provide before I deal with whatever this personality type is. Also, I'd bet anything he wasn't spiritual before they met. Ewwwww
He also strikes me as someone that intentionally makes every situation harder than it needs to be.. that, and he looks like the type you have to remind to bathe..😂😂
This happened to me with my ex-husband I was working in retail as a makeup artist and due to my friend circle, I was able to leave that job and begin to work in film and while doing that, I opened a makeup studio. The the whole time he was working odd jobs. Quitting them and moving on to other odd jobs. I even funded some of his pipe dreams (so did his wealthy parents) that went nowhere. He consistently tried to overstep boundaries and make decisions in my business that he had no clue about. He began to try and control me and the money And make me feel bad. I had him working 50 hours a week and I was just going to celebrity parties and such. The whole time, my friends were helping me elevate and his friends were going to jail and coming to the house to smoke and drink with him, nothing more.
@@rosaperks1873 Don't put words in people's mouths. No one said anything about therapy being a "savior". Also, in light of this whole conversation, the use of that word is embarrassingly revealing on your part. Maybe if you spent a little less time looking for a savior and a little more time using real world methods to solve problems, you wouldn't be in the comments arguing with a poorly constructed strawman. Just saying.
@@rosaperks1873 Don't put words in people's mouths. No one said anything about therapy being a "savior". Also, in light of this whole conversation, the use of that word is embarrassingly revealing on your part. Maybe if you spent a little less time looking for a savior and a little more time using real world methods to solve problems, you wouldn't be in the comments arguing with a poorly constructed strawman. Just saying.
Glad someone stated the obvious. That guy wishes he had a husband to provide for him, that's the crux of it. Any man who is jealous of women is usually DL. DL situations can be so dangerous.
She said she was favored and loved by God. Meaning she is a great woman and that's why he chose her and doesn't feel like he deserves her. He is and has always been insecure. Smh
He came online to patronize her. He really came on here to try and hit people with the reverse psychology to gain outside opinions and sympathy points from people who can’t decipher the emotional grift.
In her very last semester he allowed her to not work and he get's jealous? He's probably upset shes able to complete school. Most men hate that and try to sabotage that.
@@asiahenry7798 it’s because that’s what THEY do. When they start making more money, they want to “buy” a new woman because they’re in a different tax bracket.
This is insecurity he believes he doesnt deserve the woman so believes because of his misogyny that she is not going to stay if she has choices through a job, education, assets. Thats why they are so against feminism , equal opportunities for women then relabel it as christian values . If I remember The women who followed Jesus were respected and Mary Magdalene was preaching the gospel . It is only the apostles after Jesus that took an anti woman stance
He was jealous because he feels like women have the option to stay home and be provided for (receive the bare necessities) and they never have that option. Even though they want to do that to feel like "the man"
It sounds like he resents her. As if she made him miss out on something or made his life so much harder. This is crazy. And why can't he go to school and take a semester off?
The more I listened to it I think he was as just unhappy with himself and his life. He’s making this jealousy and favor thing the center of the discussion when it sounds like he’s deeply unhappy. Which goes back to my first comment lmao he’s GAY.
He is jealous of what he fell in love with.. she dope, God loves her cuz she dope and so do everyone. I have heard that before. Men will be irked at how much your natural nature is so dope that it drives him crazy
He is benefiting from her covering but mad because its not his covering shes benefiting from. He hates her light. This is dangerous. He is undercover the enemy. Thos is scary
He's jealous of her staying home while he works and he believes because of that she's blessed and he's not because of it. Being codependent is very scary for women.. especially when kids are involved. I think men think being codependent is sunshine and rainbows cause they can only see things from their perspective.
I thought jealousy was a sin. He stated jealousy is normal but it’s a sin. I am assuming he is religious because he keeps bringing up God. If he is a Godly man, he should know jealousy is one of the deadly sins. How can someone be jealous of their spouse and love them at the same time. Jealousy and love doesn’t go hand in hand to me. Chile, once again another deranged individual. A jealous person is very dangerous . If his wife gets tired of him and wants a divorce that jealousy will most definitely turn into aggression. Stay safe ladies
he is envious he wishes to have what she has the first sentence out of his mouth and that IS the FIRST deadly sin also through his 'Christian husband' persona he is jealous = possessive of her . they are both delusional . She is deserving of good things because she worked for her good impression on people around her , she worked hard for forward progression and left the rest to God but her husband thinks she doesnt deserve any blessings
He 100% expected her to be a 50's housewife cooking him breakfast, bringing him his slippers and newspaper in the morning as soon as he told her to stay at home.
Yeah as a Christian woman He is clearly on some B.S. my exhisband did this same thing to me. I was off for a 3 months and he couldn't handle it. I lost weight, kept the house clean, tutored his kids and my kids.
Thank you for always being respectful, I am spiritual because of my own life experiences. But I gave up on Christianity. Well almost. Part of me feels guilty
Don't feel guilty. Christianity was invented to siphon off the Jewish slaves. The Christian/ Catholic/ Mormon bibles are historically man-made make believe.
Don't feel guilty. Religion is a by-product of patriarchy, and created with real and fake references to indoctrinate people through psychological measures. The true god of humanity is a woman, and the devil is a man. That's why they say MEN must be God fearing, not women. They are LITERALLY the darkness that we created, and after doing everything for them, they betray us.
Like some women would prefer to be the dad in parenting dynamics, I firmly believe there are lots of men that would rather be the woman in the relationships because they think women have it easy.
He clearly doesn’t see them as equal partners, he’s dwelling in his feelings and coming up with the reality that fits instead of being observant and then coming to terms with his feelings as a result. What emotional support does his love look like? Maybe he’s clingy and insecure and she’s booked and busy working towards their mutual future while he doesn’t get it…
He made it about himself lmao “how much favor God showed her through me..” lmao what?? Hes GAY and doesn’t like her bc he’s forcing himself to live a lie…mad at himself projecting it onto her.
I'm glad he told the truth, but he is still very much still ih the same mindset. He needs more therapy. He has a beautiful wife. She seems to be finished with her education and working now. Now he will be jealous of her job.
I just spoke on this to my man today. I believe art of men resent theirs women. As an empath l see things about people and men scary. Thank you for the video confirm what already knew.
People always want to blame outside forces for their sins. Neither the devil nor the Lord to make you do anything. According to Jesus, defilement comes from within oneself.. if you want to invoke the Lord, do it to repent.
This new form of Christianity blaming the devil or demons for everything instead of acknowledging one’s own sin, repent, ask God for wisdom and practical ways to overcome said sin and being accountable to others is just too hard to do. Yes there are times God miraculously helps people, however, a lot of times we also have to walk out the transformation by faith, doing what needs to be done!
I commend him for speaking up but it’s definitely some deeper issues going on. The issue broader then what most people think. I do not ever and I mean ever want to get in another relationship where a man is doing things to try and hinder my growth or trying to sabotage opportunities for me because he insecure. I would be his worst enemy and leave him quickly and never deal with him again. I’m not with being controlled none of that because I’m a easy person to get along with and partner. Once I see any signs of control, envy slick comments due to his own insecurities I’m out and will let him figure out how to continue moving forward. Will go mute and ghost quick. . I have dealt with enough of that in my life to last a lifetime. If I’m trying to heal and do better that’s the type of partner I want to attract not no man who have inner demons that he cannot contain. Smh I keep saying it jealousy is mental torment within that cannot be contained outwardly. 👍🏽👍🏽
There are Christian therapists who also don’t go into the deeper parts of connecting behaviors to self reflection. They do the “God doesn’t give you battles you can’t face.” He sounds like a Southerner too, so he probably had this kind of licensed therapist.
This is what happens when men are coddled as children and women are raised to take up responsibilities early ( which is common in black households) m. Men are jealous of women who had to strive since childhood. This man is suppose his wife’s protector not competitor
He's using "love" but what he means is control. He wanted to control her (through the teachings of behaviors for women as taught in the Bible) so she would only be a dutiful wife to him AND NOTHING MORE. When she started to shine, based upon her own gifts, talents, and merit, he was angry because he felt he was losing control. Also he was losing the attention of being seen as "head of the household"
I had an old male friend in college that confessed to me he was jealous of his new born son. It was his 3rd child but her first. He told me he hated that she breastfeed, the way she would fall asleep with the baby on her chest and they way she looked at him. So I asked why does this make you jealous of your own son. This man response was she is supposed to do that for me and only me... he was arrested about a year later for abuse and child endangerment.
My “man” fell apart all over 7-8 weeks of airline training bc he had to take care of the house and kids. He silently crashed out. The house was completely filthy when I came home. My kids basically parented themselves and to add insult to injury he was so jealous and nasty at my graduation and when having to discus his responsibility while I was working and my expectations for “our” home buddy left. 🤣 😂 🤷🏾♀️ 🤸🏾♀️ ✌🏾
I want to know what “therapist “ he talked to my damn self!😂😂 I also want to know what the arguments were about. He’s also “the enemy“ tearing his marriage apart..
Pretty much he was afraid that his wife was about to boss up and leave him. Public with the word salad to just explain a normal reaction to fear of losing someone you in an relationship with.
I had a jealous husband that wanted me to work hard and didn’t want me to get educated after years of him getting educated I left cause that envy would of been there some men just want to leave they soft girl era
When I watched red pill stuff ...they really prioritized competition and to have a submissive woman. They dont want an ambitious woman at all either because its not valued and too masculine. If men prioritized competition, women value cooperation. It looks like submissive because its supporting the people who matter. Its maturity at its core to value cooperation - to be reliable to self and to be reliable to the people who matter. Shes not ambitious to be the best competing against anyone but to supprt herself with the family while wanting big vacations, a safe home in a good school system, and to enjoy their time together united. The job would carry pride of not being helpless in life while suffering in debt. She will be good with supporting her husband when he takes on school because he will be a stronger reliable partner in the process.
I think he and his wife are proof of religion's unrealistic relationship standards. If he had met his goals outside of marriage, there wouldn't be a problem.
I'm glad I was brought up in a faith Sikhi that treats women equal to men , that doesn't treat her as any less worthy of respect, expression and societal standing . Even so the surrounding major faiths with their antiwoman stance has coloured some weakminded guys to readopt the BS that is misogyny . As far as I know it is the only faith that has a positive and praising attitude towards women and it is a shame because if you believe in a perfect God then women are not a mistake neither are men they have their equal but different aspects which should be treated as complimentary not competing.
@sweetbeenatural demons are real. Those “Diddy parties” and all the other demonic stuff these celebrities do is for this very reason. To place spells and energetic attachments on to all that would bring us independence as people. And family is the cornerstone of community. Everyone is fighting demons of different sorts. Just like people suffering from corn addiction. Drugs. Promiscuity. Drinking. Gossip. Envy. Greed. The list is long. However they can attack they will. The first step to overcoming those demons is to recognize it. He’s on his way to overcoming his, while you all sit and judge. What else do you want him to do? Just snap his fingers and change? How many people do you know that can do that? You try quitting a negative pattern in your life lately? Are you without fault? You don’t have issues? It’s a process and it starts with recognizing the problem.
@ and the horrible things that are done by human beings are due to their own personal demons. I’m not a Christian so I don’t believe the “devil” is outside of us. Some man with red tights. Demons are in us and can also attach to us from outside sources. The first defense against these Low vibrational entities is to call them out. To identify them. Learn them and what triggers their presence and attacks. And then modify your life accordingly. It’s much deeper than “blame”. It’s called accountability. Your job is to judge YOURSELF and get to work on your own demons.
He is benefiting from her covering but mad because its not his covering shes benefiting from. He hates her light. This is dangerous. He is undercover the enemy. Thos is scary
She always had everything handed to her... Without acknowledging all the work she put into her life.... Wicked work.
I am in college it is work.
Women's labour is invisible because it was deliberately made so, as it is essential work, and they don't want women discovering just how invaluable it is.
If "I think I'm the prize" was a person.
This is scary. Sleeping with the enemy is by far the scariest. 😵💫
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It's my greatest fear. Living every moment with your opp just a breath away. This is why I hold everyone at arm's length. It's not always right, but I been hurt and seen hurt too many times not to.
@@HaughtyHedonist omg I have ! Definitely worth the watch.
@@TheGhostofAbigailMills same however, we have to work on not living in fear you know. Discernment is key and experiences sharpen discernment. ❤️
Any therapist would tell you that contempt is one of the signs your relationship is going to fail. Once you feel contempt for your partner the relationship is dead.
I pray his wife sees this
😂 Right
When and if she does it will be because people typically see videos online just like we are not because prayers revealed it
I can promise you, she doesn't need to see it--she's heard him say it in real time.
If she’s Christian she may not do anything.
That’s just his self hatred. He’s disguising it as hatred for his wife.
Not a disquise..he hates the woman.
I was hoping you would comment on this video! I couldn’t believe my ears! And the women were eating it up in the comments. This level of jealousy and contempt for your partner is scary. It’s evident he was only taking care of and playing the “good husband” for back pats and not genuine love. My ex husband was jealous of me and I didn’t know until years after our separation. It hurt so bad to come that realization because I poured everything into him and it was never enough to close the gap. Free that woman!
Sadly, it’s all about him and his issues. If you weren’t married to him, it would have been some other woman.
@ that’s very true. He claims to have to gone to therapy since our separation/divorce and I hope for his sake that is true. He’s a habitual liar so it’s hard to know for certain. Hopefully the next woman that gets involved with him gets a better man than I did.
@@LasBlackUnicrnthis reminds me of my ex who would say I get everything easy.
So glad you got yourself back
@@AprilTiff mine made a slick comment like that too straight up haters some of these menz
Therapy only works when you put in the work
He was mad that "he was doing what he supposed to" but because he felt that she didn't deserve it
He is saying the quiet part out loud...
He doesn't like women and he certainly didn't like his wife
I agree. Like most men, they don't think women deserve to be taken care of. Don't think women should have something they don't have and that jealousy shows up.
I will never understand why a husband would be jealous of his wife. I went through this with my ex-husband and am currently going through it with my husband now. Husband and wife should be a team, not an enemy.
That's because you still continue to think men like women, men are predatory they hunt for a reason find the reason before you choose.
Why do you put up with that
Most men are competitive with everyone around them. It's not about what is "supposed to be" but "what is".
Most men you engage in a relationship will secretly compete with you.
You still have a soul tie with your ex and transferred it to your marriage not knowing.
@CrimsonSapphire_ nope....men are socialized to dislike women...study how they ALL TALK
No, dough boy, you may not have been “really aggressive” but you’re definitely passive aggressive.
😂😅 dough boy knuckle dragger lol
Envy. Nothing is more ruinous or dangerous than an envious man. Envy is different than jealousy. Envy is too lazy to put in the work, but desires all the positive outcomes. This dude was envious that he couldn’t match his wife’s results with little to no work on his part. I really hope she sees this and leaves him
This is sooo true. And sooo sad.
This!!!! Women need to date in their own tax bracket precisely because of what this man is saying.
He sounds so incredibly hard to deal with. He sounds like a big ass baby! His life didn't get any harder he was threatened by the upcoming success. I'm sure her life would be so much easier without him. I'd rather marry a street dude who is happy to provide before I deal with whatever this personality type is. Also, I'd bet anything he wasn't spiritual before they met. Ewwwww
He also strikes me as someone that intentionally makes every situation harder than it needs to be.. that, and he looks like the type you have to remind to bathe..😂😂
This happened to me with my ex-husband I was working in retail as a makeup artist and due to my friend circle, I was able to leave that job and begin to work in film and while doing that, I opened a makeup studio. The the whole time he was working odd jobs. Quitting them and moving on to other odd jobs. I even funded some of his pipe dreams (so did his wealthy parents) that went nowhere. He consistently tried to overstep boundaries and make decisions in my business that he had no clue about. He began to try and control me and the money And make me feel bad. I had him working 50 hours a week and I was just going to celebrity parties and such. The whole time, my friends were helping me elevate and his friends were going to jail and coming to the house to smoke and drink with him, nothing more.
He been in therapy but still blaming god and the devil. 🤣🤣
Baby it must b the the counseling/ “therapy” through the church cuz ain’t no freaking way lol
@@LasBlackUnicrn I was JUST about to ask "real therapy with a licensed therapist or ""counseling" from a pastor"? HUGE difference.
Because therapy isn't a savior like yall think
@@rosaperks1873 Don't put words in people's mouths. No one said anything about therapy being a "savior". Also, in light of this whole conversation, the use of that word is embarrassingly revealing on your part. Maybe if you spent a little less time looking for a savior and a little more time using real world methods to solve problems, you wouldn't be in the comments arguing with a poorly constructed strawman. Just saying.
@@rosaperks1873 Don't put words in people's mouths. No one said anything about therapy being a "savior". Also, in light of this whole conversation, the use of that word is embarrassingly revealing on your part. Maybe if you spent a little less time looking for a savior and a little more time using real world methods to solve problems, you wouldn't be in the comments arguing with a poorly constructed strawman. Just saying.
Lazy husband
He just needs him a good man.
Exactly cause he’s feminine AF!
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Glad someone stated the obvious. That guy wishes he had a husband to provide for him, that's the crux of it. Any man who is jealous of women is usually DL. DL situations can be so dangerous.
She said she was favored and loved by God. Meaning she is a great woman and that's why he chose her and doesn't feel like he deserves her. He is and has always been insecure. Smh
Her light is bright and if she not careful he gonna put that light out, he don't sound sane
I would love to hear his wife’s side…
Yep!😂😂
She’s probably too busy packing 😂😂😂❤ One can hope!❤
He came online to patronize her. He really came on here to try and hit people with the reverse psychology to gain outside opinions and sympathy points from people who can’t decipher the emotional grift.
spot on
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Narc have secret competitions in their head because of jealousy 😅
Im exhausted just listening fo him
In her very last semester he allowed her to not work and he get's jealous? He's probably upset shes able to complete school. Most men hate that and try to sabotage that.
He wanna be the girl
Bingo!
Was looking for this insight!❤ He is so sugary 😂😂😂
It’s giving…”I ain’t gaye no mo” .. I have been delivered” 😅
@@sallyhemings2295 stop 😂😭
If that’s the case that’s fine and he can go be that. No need to hurt others though.
That is the most narcissistic thing I've ever heard 🤣🤣🤣
And He thinks he is a good man 😂. I hope he leaves him. He is selfish and doesn't know what love is.
What is this hatred men havè about women getting an education?
According to my son’s father, women engage in self improvement so they can leave their current men for “better men”😂
@@asiahenry7798projection of what he would do
@@asiahenry7798 it’s because that’s what THEY do. When they start making more money, they want to “buy” a new woman because they’re in a different tax bracket.
@@asiahenry7798..they constantly tell one another we leave for another man. We leave for our Peace and sanity.
This is insecurity he believes he doesnt deserve the woman so believes because of his misogyny that she is not going to stay if she has choices through a job, education, assets. Thats why they are so against feminism , equal opportunities for women then relabel it as christian values . If I remember The women who followed Jesus were respected and Mary Magdalene was preaching the gospel . It is only the apostles after Jesus that took an anti woman stance
Eh he is using religion as a cover for his feelings. His explanation doesn't make sense.
Very much disingenuous.
He honestly sounds like my ex. 😂 literally just wanted to be me.
He was jealous because he feels like women have the option to stay home and be provided for (receive the bare necessities) and they never have that option. Even though they want to do that to feel like "the man"
It sounds like he resents her. As if she made him miss out on something or made his life so much harder. This is crazy. And why can't he go to school and take a semester off?
Because they don’t want to do the work to be better Souls. No gumption about them.
The more I listened to it I think he was as just unhappy with himself and his life. He’s making this jealousy and favor thing the center of the discussion when it sounds like he’s deeply unhappy. Which goes back to my first comment lmao he’s GAY.
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He is jealous of what he fell in love with.. she dope, God loves her cuz she dope and so do everyone. I have heard that before. Men will be irked at how much your natural nature is so dope that it drives him crazy
The things he wants to do probably suck.
The only thing he said he aspired to was stay in bed!!!!
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He is benefiting from her covering but mad because its not his covering shes benefiting from. He hates her light. This is dangerous. He is undercover the enemy. Thos is scary
"How much favor God showed her through ME" blew me away. The level of narcissismmmmm 😳 Wtf???
He's jealous of her staying home while he works and he believes because of that she's blessed and he's not because of it. Being codependent is very scary for women.. especially when kids are involved. I think men think being codependent is sunshine and rainbows cause they can only see things from their perspective.
I thought jealousy was a sin. He stated jealousy is normal but it’s a sin.
I am assuming he is religious because he keeps bringing up God.
If he is a Godly man, he should know jealousy is one of the deadly sins.
How can someone be jealous of their spouse and love them at the same time.
Jealousy and love doesn’t go hand in hand to me.
Chile, once again another deranged individual.
A jealous person is very dangerous .
If his wife gets tired of him and wants a divorce that jealousy will most definitely turn into aggression.
Stay safe ladies
Envy
he is envious he wishes to have what she has the first sentence out of his mouth and that IS the FIRST deadly sin also through his 'Christian husband' persona he is jealous = possessive of her . they are both delusional . She is deserving of good things because she worked for her good impression on people around her , she worked hard for forward progression and left the rest to God but her husband thinks she doesnt deserve any blessings
sounds like he should have married a sugar mama to take care of him.
Or a man
Are you listening, sir? He said he was jealous of the favor God was giving her.
He is narcissistic and his wife is in DANGER
He 100% expected her to be a 50's housewife cooking him breakfast, bringing him his slippers and newspaper in the morning as soon as he told her to stay at home.
Lol. This is a lot of mental gymnastics and gas lighting hes doing to himself. Lol
Yeah as a Christian woman He is clearly on some B.S. my exhisband did this same thing to me. I was off for a 3 months and he couldn't handle it. I lost weight, kept the house clean, tutored his kids and my kids.
Smh HOT MESS!
Thank you for always being respectful, I am spiritual because of my own life experiences. But I gave up on Christianity. Well almost. Part of me feels guilty
Don't feel guilty. Christianity was invented to siphon off the Jewish slaves. The Christian/ Catholic/ Mormon bibles are historically man-made make believe.
Don't feel guilty. Religion is a by-product of patriarchy, and created with real and fake references to indoctrinate people through psychological measures. The true god of humanity is a woman, and the devil is a man. That's why they say MEN must be God fearing, not women. They are LITERALLY the darkness that we created, and after doing everything for them, they betray us.
Like some women would prefer to be the dad in parenting dynamics, I firmly believe there are lots of men that would rather be the woman in the relationships because they think women have it easy.
He clearly doesn’t see them as equal partners, he’s dwelling in his feelings and coming up with the reality that fits instead of being observant and then coming to terms with his feelings as a result. What emotional support does his love look like? Maybe he’s clingy and insecure and she’s booked and busy working towards their mutual future while he doesn’t get it…
He want a boyfirend...🤧
my thoughts
He made it about himself lmao “how much favor God showed her through me..” lmao what?? Hes GAY and doesn’t like her bc he’s forcing himself to live a lie…mad at himself projecting it onto her.
I'm glad he told the truth, but he is still very much still ih the same mindset. He needs more therapy.
He has a beautiful wife. She seems to be finished with her education and working now. Now he will be jealous of her job.
How can you be jealous of your own actions
I just spoke on this to my man today. I believe art of men resent theirs women. As an empath l see things about people and men scary. Thank you for the video confirm what already knew.
People always want to blame outside forces for their sins. Neither the devil nor the Lord to make you do anything.
According to Jesus, defilement comes from within oneself.. if you want to invoke the Lord, do it to repent.
This new form of Christianity blaming the devil or demons for everything instead of acknowledging one’s own sin, repent, ask God for wisdom and practical ways to overcome said sin and being accountable to others is just too hard to do. Yes there are times God miraculously helps people, however, a lot of times we also have to walk out the transformation by faith, doing what needs to be done!
lol @ the concept of favor
Womenz 🤣🤣
I commend him for speaking up but it’s definitely some deeper issues going on. The issue broader then what most people think. I do not ever and I mean ever want to get in another relationship where a man is doing things to try and hinder my growth or trying to sabotage opportunities for me because he insecure. I would be his worst enemy and leave him quickly and never deal with him again. I’m not with being controlled none of that because I’m a easy person to get along with and partner. Once I see any signs of control, envy slick comments due to his own insecurities I’m out and will let him figure out how to continue moving forward. Will go mute and ghost quick. . I have dealt with enough of that in my life to last a lifetime. If I’m trying to heal and do better that’s the type of partner I want to attract not no man who have inner demons that he cannot contain. Smh I keep saying it jealousy is mental torment within that cannot be contained outwardly.
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What are "teef"? 😂
3:16 he's actually describing the origins of patriarchy/misogyny...it began because men qere jealous of the spiritual favour and power of women ...
There are Christian therapists who also don’t go into the deeper parts of connecting behaviors to self reflection. They do the “God doesn’t give you battles you can’t face.”
He sounds like a Southerner too, so he probably had this kind of licensed therapist.
He started off not making sense and in the end, he still made no sense 🤷🏽♀️
This is what happens when men are coddled as children and women are raised to take up responsibilities early ( which is common in black households) m. Men are jealous of women who had to strive since childhood. This man is suppose his wife’s protector not competitor
Isn't she working now?
He's using "love" but what he means is control. He wanted to control her (through the teachings of behaviors for women as taught in the Bible) so she would only be a dutiful wife to him AND NOTHING MORE. When she started to shine, based upon her own gifts, talents, and merit, he was angry because he felt he was losing control. Also he was losing the attention of being seen as "head of the household"
You know, Pub, sometimes if you just be quiet and listen for a few minutes, every question you have will be answered.
I had an old male friend in college that confessed to me he was jealous of his new born son. It was his 3rd child but her first. He told me he hated that she breastfeed, the way she would fall asleep with the baby on her chest and they way she looked at him. So I asked why does this make you jealous of your own son. This man response was she is supposed to do that for me and only me... he was arrested about a year later for abuse and child endangerment.
Lol when he said he was jealous of how he loved his wife I and Pub said huh at the same time haha. You can’t make this up.
It’s like you can’t even have a help mate to hold each other arms up
wtf LMAOOOO
My “man” fell apart all over 7-8 weeks of airline training bc he had to take care of the house and kids. He silently crashed out. The house was completely filthy when I came home. My kids basically parented themselves and to add insult to injury he was so jealous and nasty at my graduation and when having to discus his responsibility while I was working and my expectations for “our” home buddy left. 🤣 😂 🤷🏾♀️ 🤸🏾♀️ ✌🏾
I want to know what “therapist “ he talked to my damn self!😂😂 I also want to know what the arguments were about. He’s also “the enemy“ tearing his marriage apart..
Pretty much he was afraid that his wife was about to boss up and leave him.
Public with the word salad to just explain a normal reaction to fear of losing someone you in an relationship with.
We said hmm at the same time lol.
Thank you
Stop blaming the devil!!!😠😠😠😠
I had a jealous husband that wanted me to work hard and didn’t want me to get educated after years of him getting educated I left cause that envy would of been there some men just want to leave they soft girl era
Yes, there is such a thing as faith-based therapy
😂 What?!!?
When I watched red pill stuff ...they really prioritized competition and to have a submissive woman. They dont want an ambitious woman at all either because its not valued and too masculine.
If men prioritized competition, women value cooperation. It looks like submissive because its supporting the people who matter. Its maturity at its core to value cooperation - to be reliable to self and to be reliable to the people who matter. Shes not ambitious to be the best competing against anyone but to supprt herself with the family while wanting big vacations, a safe home in a good school system, and to enjoy their time together united. The job would carry pride of not being helpless in life while suffering in debt.
She will be good with supporting her husband when he takes on school because he will be a stronger reliable partner in the process.
He was like that before marriage and church he just stared at her and was judging her
Sounds like he wants a husband
I knew this video was coming 😂
he sounds like those ppl i hear while riding the subway in NYC
I think he and his wife are proof of religion's unrealistic relationship standards. If he had met his goals outside of marriage, there wouldn't be a problem.
These days 😒 always TF
For Christians, God gets all the praises from us because without him, we are nothing but dust. Yes, the devil attacks us in marriage.
15:14 😂😂😂😂
I'm glad I was brought up in a faith Sikhi that treats women equal to men , that doesn't treat her as any less worthy of respect, expression and societal standing . Even so the surrounding major faiths with their antiwoman stance has coloured some weakminded guys to readopt the BS that is misogyny . As far as I know it is the only faith that has a positive and praising attitude towards women and it is a shame because if you believe in a perfect God then women are not a mistake neither are men they have their equal but different aspects which should be treated as complimentary not competing.
Sorry, the way you say things make me laugh. Joke's
Yes, I was laughing the entire time. 😂😂
God and God’s son Jesus is real.
Nah
He's right though. Spiritual warfare is REAL. It's good that he could take accountability and call himself on it.
Bs he is full of it
He didn't take accountability. He blamed the devil.
@sweetbeenatural demons are real. Those “Diddy parties” and all the other demonic stuff these celebrities do is for this very reason. To place spells and energetic attachments on to all that would bring us independence as people. And family is the cornerstone of community. Everyone is fighting demons of different sorts. Just like people suffering from corn addiction. Drugs. Promiscuity. Drinking. Gossip. Envy. Greed. The list is long. However they can attack they will. The first step to overcoming those demons is to recognize it. He’s on his way to overcoming his, while you all sit and judge. What else do you want him to do? Just snap his fingers and change? How many people do you know that can do that? You try quitting a negative pattern in your life lately? Are you without fault? You don’t have issues? It’s a process and it starts with recognizing the problem.
Y’all love blaming everything on the devil or spiritual warfare. Instead of just owning the horrible behavior that was done by a human being.
@ and the horrible things that are done by human beings are due to their own personal demons. I’m not a Christian so I don’t believe the “devil” is outside of us. Some man with red tights. Demons are in us and can also attach to us from outside sources. The first defense against these Low vibrational entities is to call them out. To identify them. Learn them and what triggers their presence and attacks. And then modify your life accordingly. It’s much deeper than “blame”. It’s called accountability. Your job is to judge YOURSELF and get to work on your own demons.
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The patriarchy.
In popular film 😢
😂😂😂😂😂😂RUN!
He is benefiting from her covering but mad because its not his covering shes benefiting from. He hates her light. This is dangerous. He is undercover the enemy. Thos is scary