My brain broke with voice-over "this bride and her cousin are extremely close" and subtitles alone. " My husband and her boyfriend grew up together." I'm closer to figuring out quantum physics than I am figuring out this part, so I'm electing to ignore and just enjoy the humanity. And if you try and explain it to me, "Son, just don't..."
"My husband and her boyfriend" and "bride had been planning something with her boyfriend..." further broke my brain. My brain and his girlfriend are running away together, by the way...
❤❤❤ *THIS bride & groom are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING humans! They allowed such a SPECIAL moment at THEIR OWN wedding, and to me, that just proves how AWESOME this couple truly are❣️* *🎉 Congratulations 🎉 to the Bride & Groom, AND to the newly engaged couple! Blessings for 2 wonderful marriages!*
definitely! personally i don’t see a problem w it if it was my wedding i know some people would think differently and that’s totally fine people go into it expecting it to be their last wedding. but typically the flower toss is typically one of the last things to happen at a wedding before the couple leaves. i’d still be absolutely ticked off though if it wasn’t cleared by me and groom.
I'm wondering how the BF would even bring this up to the bride to be. Its a bit disrespectful to ask to take the limelight off her. But There could be other things in play that we don't know.
@@mariayazbeck7112I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@superGirlpower-eg4oxI am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I understand why a bride would not want this. But this brings me to tears. It’s the simple fact that she loves this women so much she would be honored to share the happiest days of their lives together. I’m crying. I miss my bestie. ❤
This was the comment I was looking for. I saw someone comment on how selfish they would be to even ask of this but this bride wouldn’t have done this if she didn’t want to… especially the way she did it.. you can tell she loves her cousin/ bestie so much…. Some people will never understand the gratitude and happiness it brings to have close people in your life where a day like this wouldn’t be complete without sharing it with the ones you love…
Why do you miss your bestie? Did bestie die? Did bestie move away? Did bestie suffer a horrible accident and is brain dead? Did you and bestie simply grow apart? Details please.
This was planned and the couples were on board. This is such a wonderful gesture for her cousin. This is a fantastic bride and human. Much love to you all.
I personally don't see a reason not to accept a request like this. One must be so selfish and rude to say no. This is already a happy day and another proposal just makes everything happier for everyone witnessing it. You either have to be stupid not to see this or so selfish not to feel happy for the other couple
I wish more poeple understood this. A bride and groom who are incapable of sharing such a special day and giving someone else some of the spotlight are narcissistic assholes. The dude marrying this girl is one lucky guy to be marrying such a selfless person.
@@princeofgreece9054Bro no? If you’re in a wedding and some friend proposes on YOUR DAY that you spent over 1,000$s of dollars on and a specific date then they are the assholes. You clearly don’t make sense.
@@lucas.p.fhow is that selfish? If anything, proposing in a setting that both the bride and groom payed for is more selfish because you’re using their special day to make it about yourself. Also, using someone else’s decorated set up that you didn’t pay for shows laziness
@@elistewart3435 no. If the couple who’s wedding it is doesn’t approve of it, do not steal their day. They have spent months and thousands of dollars on that day. It’s theirs. If you don’t have their approval, don’t do this. If the bride and groom are cool with it like this couple then go ahead but if you haven’t checked with them and do it anyway, you’re a selfish horrible human.
@@DarcMagikian obviously. My comment was a sort of psa. I’m saying unless the couple agrees (like this couple did) don’t do it. I’ve heard of it happening more than once (I even saw it happen at a wedding I was at) where the bride and groom were not involved or informed and someone proposed during their reception and it was incredibly rude and the bride was PISSED.
I love it when the brides pass the torch! It’s so sweet and the perfect time to propose. “Hey I just watched my best friend during the happiest time in their life! I want that for myself too.” Perfect time.
Lol women. She "gave" her a few moments to get proposed to. Given the unending possibilities for drunken kerfuffles that you won't see coming this is pretty harmless, sweet and affirms the entire concept of marriage - much better.
That was very sweet of her to share her special day. She didn’t have to. But she wanted to. Very beautiful of this woman to allow and go along with this.
It’s rough because this is a forever moment that will be captured in her family’s photo book. Hopefully her groom was cool with it too. I’ve seen wedding photos with ex-boyfriends/girlfriends of family members and it looks terrible down the road.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
Why is it about her and her cousin's happiness?? What about that boyfriend and the groom.....it's disgusting how you feminists leave out half of human beings just because they are biologically males
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@@scottpeoples5996I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
The fact that when the flowers were handed to her all the other ladies were excited for her instead of being a bad sport 😊 Edit: why r y’all so pressed 😭, I’ve seen some of the flower throwing ss in real life and people get very salty about it. Thanks 🥰
@@yunosdoll yes I heard it in the video I'm just saying that in most proposals that happen at a wedding they don't ask permission, this is one of the few times when people ask for permission
@@yunosdollCan you not read? Maybe reread the comment because they never said the pride DIDN'T give permission. Some people do it without permission that's what their talking about
sharing happiness like this requires a level of empathy and connection most people simply refuse to develop. i’m so happy for these girls 🥹 i wish them a lifetime of happiness, and love with their spouses.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@@mochimonster3880I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
This makes the bride shine even more. The cousin and bride even have a similar shimmy dance move. Kudos to the photographer for capturing the moment of proposal acceptance too.
I absolutely love these stories. The generosity of love the bride and groom have in these situation is so inspiring. And people who are saying "don't do this at someone else's wedding", these scenarios are usually, if not always PLANNED IN ADVANCE BY THE BRIDE AND GROOM AND "PROPOSER". Stop looking for any and every reason to insert negativity into things. My goodness. Just be happy for them. This is a beautiful moment.
@@gracegallimore4580I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@@madnessarcade7447it’s not selfish to not want someone else to propose at your wedding, the married couple spends so much money on their wedding day and some people just think that they can use the venue that is nice and is already paid for instead of planning their own special proposal, if the bride and groom are fine with it then yeah go ahead but it’s not selfish to want you wedding day to be focused on you and your partner
This actually made me cry. The look on the other women’s faces is priceless - you can tell how much love there is in that room. Whoever you folks are, God bless you all. 💖
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
It’s so sweet to see moments like these. It’s not okay to steal the spotlight from somebody during their wedding, but when the groom & bride have discussed it and are okay with something like this? It’s so very pure and beautiful. A truly amazing day for everybody.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@@MW-ov8wiuh what? Im pretty sure a wedding is about the married couple and not someone else’s relationship. If the married couple is okay with a proposal at their wedding then thats all good but i dont think its selfish to want the day to be about you and the person you’re marrying
This was the best way to word it because like yeah the moment was sweet but the narrator made it sound like the bride (and presumably her groom) were the best for not being "selfish" when it's like... yeah it's their wedding, they can choose to want the day they paid for and set up to be about their love and that doesn't make them bad guys or unreasonably selfish.
I disagree. I couldn’t imagine not letting a friend our cousin getting proposed to if they asked me first. It has to be planned. They clearly showed respect by asking and for me, I wouldn’t mind sharing the spotlight at all. Actually, I would love that and prefer it. The more the merrier and make for an unforgettable night between the wife and cousin/friend too! Some people are too self absorbed. Even at their own weddings but I understand if a bride and groomed declined others to propose at their wedding. I just wouldn’t be that type and don’t see why more can’t be as open to that.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
Toxic?? Nono, the BRIDE planned this. It was clearly her idea, her cousin didn't have a clue. It's her day, she spent the money, she's not obligated to share it with anyone ekse unless she wanted to (same with birthdays/ anniversaries)
Honest question... why are all people in america obsessed with having the full attention on them during their wedding? Like not outshining the bride with better outfits or doing something like this. All the comments are talking about that. I don't understand, are you guys doing weddings for the attention?
@@holylambmediaI am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
This made me emotional. These two are clearly best friends and the bride wanted to share the happiest day of her life with her cousin and that's beautiful
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@@Professor-Scientist The bride has the right to her spotlight on HER wedding day. Assholes who do not discuss with the bride/groom and steal the spotlight by proposing to their girlfriends without permission from the people WHO SPENT THOUSANDS ON THEIR OWN WEDDING are narcissistic scum. The bride in the video gave PERMISSION to her cousins bf to do it. And people who want THEIR wedding day to be about THEMSELVES, have the right to be the centre of attention. And they have the right to be upset against sabotagers. Only people who are selfish crap would steal someone else's day and spotlight and think it's alright to do so.
@@Professor-Scientistcan’t blame them, your wedding is suppose to be YOUR day not someone else’s, so if someone proposed at there wedding without there approval, they are allowed to be upset.
@@Professor-Scientist I mean, who wouldn't? I spent alot of time and money into making my day special, and you're going to cheap out on proposing to your partner properly by doing it at MY wedding? Nahhhh, get your broke ass home.
@lena6827 no you're supposed to be an adult before you get married. You sound like a toddler "but its my birthday 😭 nobody else is allowed to have anything on my birthday".🤣 Whats the big deal. Your wedding is not special for the guests, it will blur into every other party and nobody will remember it after a few months. However if thats when a couple get engaged, that couple will remember "your day" for the rest of their lives.
@@GD-xc4wgI am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@@ArmaniIntoParanormalI am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
This type of scenario should be shamed. I understand that it’s her cousin but proposing at someone’s wedding is the laziest, most tactless way to ask someone to be your partner. Not only does it upstage a wedding someone spent thousands of dollars on, its also less sentimental for the couple and forces the fiancé to say yes since it’s in front of a large crowd. I wouldn’t blame someone who rejected this event from happening at their wedding.
@@stephaniecobian725If the bride and groom wanted to do it why should it be shamed? So any big proposal is bad because the girl can't say no (which is total bs)? Sounds like you're just judgy and can't let people enjoy something.
@@nouraal-hazzani9615I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
That’s so cool of the bride. Almost no one would want to share their wedding day with someone proposing. That fact that she did that makes her a keeper.
That is beautiful ! The bride was WILLING to share HER day wih her cousin with that proposal, it's just so amazing ! When it's done with CONSENT, those moments are so important, and so pretty... It's an amazing gift, for both of them
@@saraforbesbro stfu he mentioned nothing about money And if you’re talking about how he said “gold mine” instead of money, I hope you know that it’s just a simple expression Next time, shush
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
This shows so much of who the bride is ❤ Allowing her cousin to have such a special moment on her day was amazing! Many brides would never allow this...I can already feel the eye rolls 😂
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
The turn around walk up, the way he slid in, how the ladies reacted then took a step bad and how the bride ran off… LITERALLLLLLLY that of a movie. PERFECT
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
This has GOT to be the best wedding ever. Whoever married the bride rest assured you made the correct decision. Anyone willing to share the spotlight on a day like that is a wonderful person.
My God this is something I would _love_ to be able to do. Making my wedding day even more unforgettable and beautiful, if it was even possible, by sharing it and doubling down on the happiness with someone I love this much... Good job, bride. Good job. Bless you all ❤️😊
As long as the bride and groom is in on it like here, absolutely go for it. There's so incredibly many stories on Reddit of the opposite and many with bridal party revenge on the spotlight hoggers. If permission is given, you're golden. Repay the selfless act with bringing the spotlight back to the bride and groom when you've had your moment, at least try so there's less chance of any regrets.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
Not being big on public engagements, THIS was awesome! The element of gobsmacking surprise, a selfless bride sharing the spotlight, love it, love it, love it! Well done!! Here’s wishing both couples as much happiness in their marriages as I’ve had in my 30+ years!💕
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
Why would the guy even think to ask the bride and groom if it was okay to do this on their wedding day? Luckily the bride and groom were okay with it. But like seriously c'mon man! Why would he want to do it at that moment? It's their one day let them have that! That bride and groom were so generous and sweet for letting him do that!
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
This bride is a REAL ONE for not being a bridezilla and letting someone else have a special moment on her special day. (I read a lot of horror stories on Reddit about bridezillas going crazy over the smallest stuff, so this just tickles me 🥰)
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
Some people are secure enough not to need the spotlight constantly on them and enjoy making others as happy as they are. We all need positive people like her in our lives
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
coming from someone who has catered hundreds of weddings there's several tacky things that happens at a lot of weddings, this happens to be one of them the sooner this trend fades away the better.
@@saramarie9678 it takes away the authenticity of both the wedding and proposal lacks any kind of originality and meaning. to me something like this should have some sort original thoughtfulness and personalization about it. I just see it as lazy and tacky.
@@craigcook6300 I never really thought about like that. Usually the argument comes from other women saying they want all the attention for themselves, which I find to be a bit narcissistic…but looking at it from the proposing couple point, I can see what you’re saying
I just commented the same thing. It's tacky and lazy. Essentially, the guy doesn't have to plan or pay for anything - not even the photographs. Just piggyback off someone else's day.
It was the bride's idea to do this. Just back off with this pagentry tackyness please. It's her day. Therefore she gets to do whatever she wants. Capiche?
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My brain broke with voice-over "this bride and her cousin are extremely close" and subtitles alone. " My husband and her boyfriend grew up together." I'm closer to figuring out quantum physics than I am figuring out this part, so I'm electing to ignore and just enjoy the humanity. And if you try and explain it to me, "Son, just don't..."
"My husband and her boyfriend" and "bride had been planning something with her boyfriend..." further broke my brain. My brain and his girlfriend are running away together, by the way...
Ok
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*THIS bride & groom are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING humans! They allowed such a SPECIAL moment at THEIR OWN wedding, and to me, that just proves how AWESOME this couple truly are❣️*
*🎉 Congratulations 🎉 to the Bride & Groom, AND to the newly engaged couple! Blessings for 2 wonderful marriages!*
I’m so glad the boyfriend discussed it with the bride instead of doing it without permission that was very nice
definitely! personally i don’t see a problem w it if it was my wedding i know some people would think differently and that’s totally fine people go into it expecting it to be their last wedding. but typically the flower toss is typically one of the last things to happen at a wedding before the couple leaves. i’d still be absolutely ticked off though if it wasn’t cleared by me and groom.
I'm wondering how the BF would even bring this up to the bride to be. Its a bit disrespectful to ask to take the limelight off her. But There could be other things in play that we don't know.
@@ducatidarmah122it wasn't his idea. it was the brides
ya idk where u got that the bf discussed this with the bride. the bride was the one who discussed it with him.
@@DarkCelestialConsciousnessPeople wanna assume the worst
She really said “double it and give it to the next person”
lol
lmao
😂😂
🤣
LMAO 😂
She really said "Take my happiness, double it, and give it to the next person".
That’s what I call making peace in the world
I know, that's what I love🥰🥰
Underrated 😂
@@frankdurango8538the boomer doesn't understand 😂
@@Moth-Erflynot really to me as they cant have boubdaries at their very special day ! Ouf 😮
Bride is beautiful inside and out. Definitely a gem.
So true. With a big heart. Not everybody accepts thay attention is shifted to someone else in your big day.
Not really...she didn't have self respect else she wouldn't have let that happen
@@mariayazbeck7112I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
k, weird flex
@@Logicalsaneweird flex, but that says just as much about your character as it does theirs
I’m glad this was discussed before hand and the bride got to share her special day with her cousin
Right, thats so sweet.
Fr❤
It’s so sweet ❤
@superGirlpower-eg4oxI am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@@Logicalsanesounds like you should have your license revoked and taken to court 🤔
I understand why a bride would not want this. But this brings me to tears. It’s the simple fact that she loves this women so much she would be honored to share the happiest days of their lives together. I’m crying. I miss my bestie. ❤
I miss my bestie too. They're always in our hearts ❤
This was the comment I was looking for. I saw someone comment on how selfish they would be to even ask of this but this bride wouldn’t have done this if she didn’t want to… especially the way she did it.. you can tell she loves her cousin/ bestie so much…. Some people will never understand the gratitude and happiness it brings to have close people in your life where a day like this wouldn’t be complete without sharing it with the ones you love…
I also get why she would cuz it’s two happy events on one day that’s double the excitement plus the plan is too good not be apart of
Why do you miss your bestie? Did bestie die? Did bestie move away? Did bestie suffer a horrible accident and is brain dead? Did you and bestie simply grow apart? Details please.
@@firstnamelastname7708 NO! We need no details but u need CUTHE! WTF!
Even the bride left the scene with so much grace .. the bride's beautiful and the kindest. Their circle of friends are full with positive vibes
Not really...she didn't have self respect else she wouldn't have let that happen
@@Logicalsaneso what’s wrong with sharing a moment with someone u care about
Just say you’re lonely, don’t you?
This was planned and the couples were on board. This is such a wonderful gesture for her cousin. This is a fantastic bride and human. Much love to you all.
This.
This.This.
The fact the bride is willing to share her special day shows how important family is to her and she is definitely a keeper.
Absolutely and God bless them all.i pray that God blesses them each eveey day of there lives.
I personally don't see a reason not to accept a request like this. One must be so selfish and rude to say no. This is already a happy day and another proposal just makes everything happier for everyone witnessing it. You either have to be stupid not to see this or so selfish not to feel happy for the other couple
I wish more poeple understood this. A bride and groom who are incapable of sharing such a special day and giving someone else some of the spotlight are narcissistic assholes. The dude marrying this girl is one lucky guy to be marrying such a selfless person.
@@princeofgreece9054Bro no? If you’re in a wedding and some friend proposes on YOUR DAY that you spent over 1,000$s of dollars on and a specific date then they are the assholes. You clearly don’t make sense.
@@lucas.p.fhow is that selfish? If anything, proposing in a setting that both the bride and groom payed for is more selfish because you’re using their special day to make it about yourself. Also, using someone else’s decorated set up that you didn’t pay for shows laziness
Unless you have the couples blessing, NEVER do this at someone else’s wedding.
@@elistewart3435 no. If the couple who’s wedding it is doesn’t approve of it, do not steal their day. They have spent months and thousands of dollars on that day. It’s theirs. If you don’t have their approval, don’t do this. If the bride and groom are cool with it like this couple then go ahead but if you haven’t checked with them and do it anyway, you’re a selfish horrible human.
@@NikkiDoesStufff Always get permission.
@@NikkiDoesStufff i mean if they didn't have her approval the bride wouldn't have agreed to it. The bride agreed to it, hence this video.
Yupppppp
@@DarcMagikian obviously. My comment was a sort of psa. I’m saying unless the couple agrees (like this couple did) don’t do it. I’ve heard of it happening more than once (I even saw it happen at a wedding I was at) where the bride and groom were not involved or informed and someone proposed during their reception and it was incredibly rude and the bride was PISSED.
I mean, how could you possibly make the day any more special and memorable than this?
I love it when the brides pass the torch! It’s so sweet and the perfect time to propose. “Hey I just watched my best friend during the happiest time in their life! I want that for myself too.” Perfect time.
This bride willing to gave her best day to her friend is wholesome
@AnienoAgadaskill issues
Lol women.
She "gave" her a few moments to get proposed to.
Given the unending possibilities for drunken kerfuffles that you won't see coming this is pretty harmless, sweet and affirms the entire concept of marriage - much better.
i think instead of "gave" share is a more befitting word for your comment ❤❤
@@mnomadvfxWtf r u even saying
@@toro736-m2iGibberish🤣
That was very sweet of her to share her special day. She didn’t have to. But she wanted to. Very beautiful of this woman to allow and go along with this.
Hmmm
@@mochimonster3880 all I said was it was sweet of her. But at the end of the day I still wouldn’t do it.
Yep
It’s rough because this is a forever moment that will be captured in her family’s photo book. Hopefully her groom was cool with it too. I’ve seen wedding photos with ex-boyfriends/girlfriends of family members and it looks terrible down the road.
@@AndorranStairway both valid points. I hope they did ask him. It’s just as much his day as it’s hers.
The Bride shared her special day. Pretty sweet & memorable.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
The bride is so wholesome for sharing her special day with her cousin. Such a sweetheart! And the cousin looked so happy. I love this.
Why is it about her and her cousin's happiness?? What about that boyfriend and the groom.....it's disgusting how you feminists leave out half of human beings just because they are biologically males
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
That’s an amazing unselfish person
I think selfless means unselfish
There is also nothing wrong with not doing it either
@alexisissobaepookie 😂 dam it’s been while since I’ve seen / heard that
@@Micah_YTOf weddings you mean????
@@Micah_YT.. Did.. Did it once occure to you that multiple people can do and go through the same thing..? This isn't that rare..
this bride is a straight up angel and literally so sweet 😭😭
whoever married that amazing and generous woman is a lucky man
Yeah she said fuck the rest of you.🤣😂🤣
she is, but the guy asking her at a wedding is a dumbass lowlife. Proposal at wedding brings bad luck + its so cringe.
look up what "literally" means
@@s1nnocensewe know what it means. And we ain’t changing our minds.
What a loving unselfish young woman. God bless her and her marriage.
Can we all agree that the brides dress is STUNNING 🤩
That's exactly what I was thinking
@@scottpeoples5996I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
um... wtf@@Logicalsane
@@Logicalsanewhere did that come from
The fact that when the flowers were handed to her all the other ladies were excited for her instead of being a bad sport 😊
Edit: why r y’all so pressed 😭, I’ve seen some of the flower throwing ss in real life and people get very salty about it. Thanks 🥰
Im guessing they were also in on it
@@zoe9190i don’t think so! They look shocked! It doesn’t surprise me that they are happy for someone else, they’re not monsters.
@@dougspidermanhappylol it doesnt make you a monster if you dont want you friend to propose at your wedding 😂
Well duhhh 😂😂😂😂 Wtf are they supposed to do, cry about it? 😅😅😅😅wtf?😊
They all knew it already
always ask the married couple if you're going to propose at a wedding
Clearly he did ask her. He said that the bride even walked over and directly handed her the bouquet. Y’all need to learn how to listen sometimes
@@yunosdoll yes I heard it in the video I'm just saying that in most proposals that happen at a wedding they don't ask permission, this is one of the few times when people ask for permission
@@yunosdollCan you not read? Maybe reread the comment because they never said the pride DIDN'T give permission. Some people do it without permission that's what their talking about
They obvious did
right... that's obviously not the issue here
sharing happiness like this requires a level of empathy and connection most people simply refuse to develop.
i’m so happy for these girls 🥹 i wish them a lifetime of happiness, and love with their spouses.
How incredibly sweet of the Bride! Talk about a bond with her cousin to share her day with her cousin! What love she has for her! 😮
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
That girl is the sweetest cousin anyone could ever have
Hmmm
@@mochimonster3880I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
This makes the bride shine even more. The cousin and bride even have a similar shimmy dance move. Kudos to the photographer for capturing the moment of proposal acceptance too.
You liked that shamny
Your comment makes me think of, "It's your golden hour!!!!"
@@Donald_j-trump648 yeah but it was clear it was with her permission which i think is the most important aspect
Bingo!! You just said it! Makes the bride shine even more!!!! That's been my whole point!✌️😎🎶
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I absolutely love these stories. The generosity of love the bride and groom have in these situation is so inspiring. And people who are saying "don't do this at someone else's wedding", these scenarios are usually, if not always PLANNED IN ADVANCE BY THE BRIDE AND GROOM AND "PROPOSER". Stop looking for any and every reason to insert negativity into things. My goodness. Just be happy for them. This is a beautiful moment.
A lot of people do them without asking the couple first, that's why they're saying that. It's a respect thing.
@@gracegallimore4580I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
WOW most gracious bride EVER. What a sweetheart.
You just know that bride is an amazing person and loves her cousin very dearly. Not many brides would let this happen on their wedding day.
Every man would though 😅
And nothing is wrong with the brides that wouldn’t want this done at their wedding
@@josecortes7170because most men are emotionally superficial
would literally do it just to ruin the day. cause how stuck up you gotta be that you'd allow this to ruin it anyway!
This is rare...
She has a big and sweet heart...
The fact that the bride took a moment of her and her husband’s day to let her best friend feel the saame joy❤❤❤❤❤
Cousin not best friend
@@Yeeeet344cousins can be friends
@@Yeeeet344cousin, and best friend
@@Yeeeet344 a cousin can also be a best friend.
@@Yeeeet344 NOBODY would do this for their cousin, unless said cousin was their best friend.
The joyful look of shock from the other girls was priceless!
Never propose at a wedding without the blessing of the bride and groom.
Glad things worked out
I believe this is something 99% of brides can't or won't do . This was wholesome
Most of them are selfish
@@madnessarcade7447it’s not selfish to not want someone else to propose at your wedding, the married couple spends so much money on their wedding day and some people just think that they can use the venue that is nice and is already paid for instead of planning their own special proposal, if the bride and groom are fine with it then yeah go ahead but it’s not selfish to want you wedding day to be focused on you and your partner
Because it should not be done. The wedding is about the married couple, jot about other people.
@@hazelka1 I didn't say it should be about other people, I just said a few brides would do this, and that's why it's wholesome .
@@madnessarcade7447it’s absolutely not selfish, not even slightly. That’s moronic thinking.
This actually made me cry. The look on the other women’s faces is priceless - you can tell how much love there is in that room. Whoever you folks are, God bless you all. 💖
DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT DOING THIS AT ANOTHER WEDDING YOUNG LADY.
THE BRIDE WOULD BE MOODY FOR MONTHS
@@Professor-Scientistbut the bride was involved with this?
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
That’s such a selfless act of kindness and love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥲A beautiful bride inside and out. I 🙏🏽 her cousin appreciates her as much. 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
It’s so sweet to see moments like these. It’s not okay to steal the spotlight from somebody during their wedding, but when the groom & bride have discussed it and are okay with something like this? It’s so very pure and beautiful. A truly amazing day for everybody.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
Two real queens can always share the stage as they're confident in their positions ❤ congrats ladies!!
Amen
Well said.
You can be confident and not share the spot light
@@Milk-ck1wvyou can be wholesome and share it.
@@ijustwanttosleep234 not wanting to share the spotlight on YOUR special day doesnt mean youre not wholesome.
It is not selfish not to want to share a day you spent hundreds if not thousands on. Glad they had this moment. Very cute and sweet
It's really unselfish to want to share it
@@MW-ov8wiuh what? Im pretty sure a wedding is about the married couple and not someone else’s relationship. If the married couple is okay with a proposal at their wedding then thats all good but i dont think its selfish to want the day to be about you and the person you’re marrying
@@MW-ov8wiwedding =/= marriage
This was the best way to word it because like yeah the moment was sweet but the narrator made it sound like the bride (and presumably her groom) were the best for not being "selfish" when it's like... yeah it's their wedding, they can choose to want the day they paid for and set up to be about their love and that doesn't make them bad guys or unreasonably selfish.
I disagree. I couldn’t imagine not letting a friend our cousin getting proposed to if they asked me first. It has to be planned. They clearly showed respect by asking and for me, I wouldn’t mind sharing the spotlight at all. Actually, I would love that and prefer it. The more the merrier and make for an unforgettable night between the wife and cousin/friend too! Some people are too self absorbed. Even at their own weddings but I understand if a bride and groomed declined others to propose at their wedding. I just wouldn’t be that type and don’t see why more can’t be as open to that.
Now why are you making me hold my tears in. That bride is a very good person!
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I love how that other girl in black just falls to her knees in shock
Love how everyone just stepped back and gave them their shine
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
A non-toxic bride sharing the love with family. PROOF that good people exist. I LOVE IT!!!!!!
yeah but if you dont have permission of the couple do not do this
Non-toxic? Okayyyy...
nah,it's my day not theres.
Toxic?? Nono, the BRIDE planned this. It was clearly her idea, her cousin didn't have a clue.
It's her day, she spent the money, she's not obligated to share it with anyone ekse unless she wanted to (same with birthdays/ anniversaries)
@@uu878-xu6ljThen don’t do it tf??😂😂 no one’s forcing u
The screams of shock in the back 😂
Is no one talking about her DRESS. ABSOLUTE BEAUTY!!
The fact that it was her wedding and she still gave all her attention to he cousin 😭❤️ literally the sweetest thing
Edit : TYSM for the likes
But hopefully not too much attention, if you know what I mean.
@@RyanZacharko yeah
@@RyanZacharkoFr, hope so as well
no one can truly outshine the bride on their day. but also definitely don’t do this unless the bride and groom gives you full permission to do so.
Honest question... why are all people in america obsessed with having the full attention on them during their wedding? Like not outshining the bride with better outfits or doing something like this. All the comments are talking about that. I don't understand, are you guys doing weddings for the attention?
That's a real friend. She was willing to share the her most important day with someone else.
i mean, theyre not friends, theyre family, but yea
You always have a favorite cousin...sometimes cousins are close as siblings
Wedding days are overrated
That's not a big deal...you are selfish and egoistic if you have a problem with sharing.
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@@holylambmediaI am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
Wow very gracious bride!!!!👏👏👏
I love this bride and I don't even know her...I watch way too many bridezilla stories 😂
This made me emotional. These two are clearly best friends and the bride wanted to share the happiest day of her life with her cousin and that's beautiful
@UCJVudggtpMxH0NZ28EL3n0w more like, imagine being invited to a wedding in the first place
Yeah fr I felt something too wtf.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I love how they all planned this out together! That she felt close enough to want to make her cousin's day special, even if it was her own day! ❤🎉
I know, any other bride would be emotional/moody for months or years after
@@Professor-Scientist The bride has the right to her spotlight on HER wedding day.
Assholes who do not discuss with the bride/groom and steal the spotlight by proposing to their girlfriends without permission from the people WHO SPENT THOUSANDS ON THEIR OWN WEDDING are narcissistic scum.
The bride in the video gave PERMISSION to her cousins bf to do it.
And people who want THEIR wedding day to be about THEMSELVES, have the right to be the centre of attention. And they have the right to be upset against sabotagers.
Only people who are selfish crap would steal someone else's day and spotlight and think it's alright to do so.
@@Professor-Scientistcan’t blame them, your wedding is suppose to be YOUR day not someone else’s, so if someone proposed at there wedding without there approval, they are allowed to be upset.
@@Professor-Scientist I mean, who wouldn't? I spent alot of time and money into making my day special, and you're going to cheap out on proposing to your partner properly by doing it at MY wedding? Nahhhh, get your broke ass home.
@lena6827 no you're supposed to be an adult before you get married. You sound like a toddler "but its my birthday 😭 nobody else is allowed to have anything on my birthday".🤣
Whats the big deal. Your wedding is not special for the guests, it will blur into every other party and nobody will remember it after a few months. However if thats when a couple get engaged, that couple will remember "your day" for the rest of their lives.
What a lovely gesture of the bride’s love for her cousin. So sweet (and the bride looked stunning!!).
I agree the bride is beautiful
@@GD-xc4wgI am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@@Logicalsane whats the thing with you telling everyone the dirty person you are?
@@GD-xc4wgfr I seen this guy said the same thing like 6 times
@@agenshinweeb5100 I know I saw it twice too. Attention seeker but for no good reason. Lol
Why would you even do this or say this. Gross
This was so beautiful and shows that the brides heart showed that beauty in her heart .❤
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
This is so far the only wholesome proposal at a wedding I’ve seen ❤
✨But also very sweet of the bride too do that for her cousin was really nice of her tho because most people won’t do that ✨💖
@@ArmaniIntoParanormalI am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
@@Logicalsane that’s is just your own bad experience lol why would you even let them do it?
the brides dress when she was running omg... i think i just changed my dress preferences. she looked like a princess!
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
God Bless The Cousins ❤
For her to share her day like that is amazing. Shows just how much she loves her best friend. ❤❤❤
lmao bride ran away happy for causing more madness
That was her cousin
@@StoopyXPyour cousin can be one of your best friends too
@@user-ws5vv1wp8dI love how you just nipped that in the bud 😂 .. this person knows TH-cam comment sections.
@@tomato.sandwich right like it’s just not worth even looking at the door handle
Woooooow a bride that actually let someone else take the spotlight for a second on her big night. That's a good woman.
You're also a good women if you don't want to share
@@Milk-ck1wv no
Sure, great. Doesn't make you a bad person if you don't want this
This type of scenario should be shamed. I understand that it’s her cousin but proposing at someone’s wedding is the laziest, most tactless way to ask someone to be your partner. Not only does it upstage a wedding someone spent thousands of dollars on, its also less sentimental for the couple and forces the fiancé to say yes since it’s in front of a large crowd. I wouldn’t blame someone who rejected this event from happening at their wedding.
@@stephaniecobian725If the bride and groom wanted to do it why should it be shamed? So any big proposal is bad because the girl can't say no (which is total bs)? Sounds like you're just judgy and can't let people enjoy something.
I love how all the other bridesmaids backed away so she could have her moment❤
When done in collaboration with the bride and/or groom, proposals are absolutely wholesome.
This is beautiful , what a good person to share her moment so openly and willingly
She didn't share her moment, she made it much more memorable, a bigger shine than it already was. God bless the kind ones 😊
They're gonna share alot more than that later.
@@nouraal-hazzani9615I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
That so sweet, it just shows how much of a wonderful relationship they both have as cousins for the bride to even share some moments with her cousin 😭
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
That’s so cool of the bride. Almost no one would want to share their wedding day with someone proposing. That fact that she did that makes her a keeper.
This was very wholesome and proof that people related to each other can be nice to each other
That is beautiful ! The bride was WILLING to share HER day wih her cousin with that proposal, it's just so amazing ! When it's done with CONSENT, those moments are so important, and so pretty... It's an amazing gift, for both of them
You don’t need consent when you’re over 18
@@mkhanman12345Of course you need the consent of the bride to make a PROPOSAL at HER wedding, otherwise it's just RUDE
@@mkhanman12345what a weird thing to say. what kind of loser is against consent lol
@@mkhanman12345 Sounds like something a rapist would say....
@@tonoornottono Well, I'd say rapists but hey
You know the husband got the gold mine if a girl can give her special day to another person she has a heart of gold never loss this girl.
I don't think money was the deciding factor here, but hey at least we know where YOUR mindset is 🤷🏼♀️
@@saraforbesbro stfu he mentioned nothing about money
And if you’re talking about how he said “gold mine” instead of money, I hope you know that it’s just a simple expression
Next time, shush
@@saraforbesno I think they meant by gold mine a win like she is really sweet
💯
@@saraforbes 😅
That bride is a worthy bride, dude is lucky for her to be willing to share her day like that super wholesome and compassionate
You are the complete opposite of a bridezilla. Everyone should have a best friend like you. Such a touching moment to share.💕
The bride ramped up this wedding to something beyond beautiful and romantic!
This woman is the BEST BRIDE EVER !! Sharing her special day with her cousin !! She is definitely 1 in a million!!
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
This shows so much of who the bride is ❤ Allowing her cousin to have such a special moment on her day was amazing! Many brides would never allow this...I can already feel the eye rolls 😂
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
This was so beautiful and her cousin was such a sweetheart for sharing her day. Family is forever family is love. 🥰
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
Just loving the reaction of the two girls in the back, one break down and the other stumbles back in shock, so funny and sweet!
Oh my I didn't see that at first they were more floored than the girl getting proposed to! 😂
The turn around walk up, the way he slid in, how the ladies reacted then took a step bad and how the bride ran off… LITERALLLLLLLY that of a movie. PERFECT
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
@@Logicalsane Thats fuckin wild lmao. I wanna get into your position
This is awesome one king wedding that host a coming wedding. Beautiful way to express love in all its shapes. Legendary bond made between the couples
I absolutely love when this happens at weddings I think it's so sweet for the bride to share the day
This has GOT to be the best wedding ever. Whoever married the bride rest assured you made the correct decision. Anyone willing to share the spotlight on a day like that is a wonderful person.
A lot of people would’ve done the same thing. A lot of wonderful people out there, that is why you respect everyone
My God this is something I would _love_ to be able to do. Making my wedding day even more unforgettable and beautiful, if it was even possible, by sharing it and doubling down on the happiness with someone I love this much... Good job, bride. Good job. Bless you all ❤️😊
It's a mindset like this that allows these moments to happen
❤
Agreed 150% this is awesome
As long as the bride and groom is in on it like here, absolutely go for it.
There's so incredibly many stories on Reddit of the opposite and many with bridal party revenge on the spotlight hoggers.
If permission is given, you're golden.
Repay the selfless act with bringing the spotlight back to the bride and groom when you've had your moment, at least try so there's less chance of any regrets.
What an amazing bride with a huge heart. Kudos to the now fiancé for checking with the wedding couple first.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
I love people who don’t make everything about themselves. That was absolutely beautiful.❤️❤️❤️
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
Not being big on public engagements, THIS was awesome! The element of gobsmacking surprise, a selfless bride sharing the spotlight, love it, love it, love it! Well done!! Here’s wishing both couples as much happiness in their marriages as I’ve had in my 30+ years!💕
The bride is SO thoughtful ❤
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
Beautiful. Selfless. Pure.
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
That is friendship and a bride who really loves her husband to share her day. That Groom has a lovely wife. He and she should do well together.
R we gonna talk about how gorgeous the brides dress is? ❤❤❤
fr it’s gorgeous😭
IKR!!
No
I was thinking the same thing and I'm a dude.
Why would the guy even think to ask the bride and groom if it was okay to do this on their wedding day? Luckily the bride and groom were okay with it. But like seriously c'mon man! Why would he want to do it at that moment? It's their one day let them have that! That bride and groom were so generous and sweet for letting him do that!
He didn’t. The bride went to him and suggested the idea.
They asked him shut up you obviously don’t know everything
Love the brides dress and the bridesmaids dresses too
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
This bride is a REAL ONE for not being a bridezilla and letting someone else have a special moment on her special day.
(I read a lot of horror stories on Reddit about bridezillas going crazy over the smallest stuff, so this just tickles me 🥰)
This is so wholesome I’m glad she was able to do something so sweet for her cousin, how kind and caring the bride is!
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care....
Now that's not only original and classy, but selfless and loving ❤️😊 God bless that family.
How is it originall? This happens nearly every day.
its not original
@@Milk-ck1wv Thank you for your opinion. Blessings to you.
@@HeyThatWeirdGuy Thank you for your opinion. Blessings.
@@jedihljones8574its not just an opinion. I've seen several videos with it happening..
This is how a proposal at a wedding should go if done at all. With the full support of the newlyweds
Oh the goosebumps! What a selfless bride! 🥰🥰🥰
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
Ooooooo I hope my favorite cousin does this at my wedding. I would probably be crying tears of joy the whole time. This was beautiful!
Plan it now then! It's actually nice to see families being supportive with each other like this.
The bride's the one handing off the bouquet so you should reach out lol
You got the best in the world. Beautiful bride. God bless you beautiful heart and your wonderful home.❤❤❤
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
Anyone gonna talk about a how pretty the bride is? Not that I am saying what she did for her cousin wasn’t wholesome.
Damn for a sec I thought u said petty but yeah she is looking beautiful like any bride would be
When the bf walked over to the cousin, you can see one of the bridesmaids backing everyone else up, letting them have their moment. ❤️
That one person is underrated in this video.. SHE NEED TO GET MENTIONED
Wow, the bride was ok with sharing her moment with someone else. That's a great human being
Some people are secure enough not to need the spotlight constantly on them and enjoy making others as happy as they are. We all need positive people like her in our lives
That’s beautiful what a selfless woman
I am a wedding planner and also do makeup.people have no idea how many women have slept with me just days and even hours before getting married to their grooms....... ..since they are the cheats,I don't really care...
coming from someone who has catered hundreds of weddings there's several tacky things that happens at a lot of weddings, this happens to be one of them the sooner this trend fades away the better.
Why is it tacky?
@@saramarie9678 it takes away the authenticity of both the wedding and proposal lacks any kind of originality and meaning. to me something like this should have some sort original thoughtfulness and personalization about it. I just see it as lazy and tacky.
@@craigcook6300 I never really thought about like that. Usually the argument comes from other women saying they want all the attention for themselves, which I find to be a bit narcissistic…but looking at it from the proposing couple point, I can see what you’re saying
I just commented the same thing. It's tacky and lazy. Essentially, the guy doesn't have to plan or pay for anything - not even the photographs. Just piggyback off someone else's day.
It was the bride's idea to do this.
Just back off with this pagentry tackyness please.
It's her day. Therefore she gets to do whatever she wants. Capiche?