15 years ago, my husband and I separated for 1 year. We came back together and are celebrating our 20th anniversary in may this year! Allah, swt has blessed us beyond measure. 🙏🏽
I am going through a divorce, please pray for me if this marriage is good for my duniya and akhirah then May ALLAH Subhanahuwat’ala save my marriage, AMEEN YA RABBUL ‘ALAMEEN. YA ALLAH, forgive me, my parents and whole muslim ummah Ameen.
I am all with a 14 year old son pray for me strength as I am leaving this bad relation whr I was in wrong relationship for last 15 years fr the sake of sucurities but had humiliated tht caused kidney failure n hypotension striving to get well soon and high hopes in Allaha, in this condition I was challenged to find sm1 else, he is a nonmuslim atheist, every now n then, Looking forward to marry a muslim in the name of Allaha I accepted my husbands challenge. Alhamdulillah I am more closer to Allaha. Ya Allaha Hittatun
I’m a new to being Muslim recently married to a Muslim man im American i truly love my husband I don’t want him to marry again i can’t share his body with another woman or do I want to share anything with another woman what do I do
What a great thing that we as Ummah have scollars like him on TH-cam who explain Islam in such a beautiful way. May Allah Almighty bless this man and forgive our shortcomings.
Best video of talaq , if anybody has any confusion then this is the right video to watch…May Allah give you a long life Mufti Sahab to guide us and help us to be in a straight path ❤.
Husband appreciates what all I do like house things, cooking behind my back only with his 2 close friend.. Never never said or even a little 1 sweet word to me neither to any of his family member.. Am married for 4yrs now alhamdullilah, having 1 son living in joint family. Totally 10 members. For all 10 members I cook, clean all cooking pots and vessels, sweeping moping, making food all 3 times and taking care of kids.. It's so hectic I get so tired and get severe leg pain or knee pain. But my husband no matter what he would not tell his own sister (married and divorced) to help me or atleast cut vegetables or atleast wash few plates.. Even after doing so many things he blames only me but doesn't utter single word from his mouth towards his own divorced sister or his elder brother wife.. My husband elder brother wife, she too doesn't do anything and since now she is pregnant I don't complain about her.. Since last 2 days my husband not talking to me just bcoz I made simple rice for dinner 2 days before. Since its lockdown, and I had severe leg pain I made simple but nobody had. They said saying they don't eat rice or wheat items at night but its complete wrong they have biryani, fried rice, tomato rice n all.. I got upset even though I had leg pain atleast I made simple rice but they all ordered from online. My husband also got angry on me on this. I got so upset. Since last 2 days he not taking to me and yesterday he had a huge fight with me. I don't know what to do. If it was my mistake then I would surely agree but no its not mine.. My husband always fights with me for his sister, I should not say 1 single word wrong about her though she doesn't work or do anything in home and infact he even knows his sister is not so good character. She is married and divorced her husband within a year. She is 27yr old my husband is 33 and me 28yr old. Father in law too supports her own daughter.. Mother in law expired. Though he doesn't allow her to speak bad about me or disrespect me.. If in any case she says anything wrong he gets angry on his sister. Its like he acts being diplomatic. I shouldn't saying wrong about her and she shouldn't say anything wrong about me and he doesn't take any stand too.. Earlier also my husband had huge fight with me and he had hit me so many many times. I cry and cry alot. Please help me what do I do
@@onaction9677 clearly you allowed yourself to become a maid for this socalled husband and you allowed him to abuse and mistreat you. You are a product of your culture. Nobody can tell you what to do. Allah already tells you this. He orders men to treat wives with kindness and thats why he allows divorce because sometimes the marriage doesn't work out. Either you choose Allah or culture. Why degrade yourself like this? Just leave and move on even if it may seem hard. Or you can fear divorce and stay in an abusive marriage. This is your struggle. You must make the decision.
@@onaction9677 clearly you allowed yourself to become a maid for this socalled husband and you allowed him to abuse and mistreat you. You are a product of your culture. Nobody can tell you what to do. Allah already tells you this. He orders men to treat wives with kindness and thats why he allows divorce because sometimes the marriage doesn't work out. Either you choose Allah or culture. Why degrade yourself like this? Just leave and move on even if it may seem hard. Or you can fear divorce and stay in an abusive marriage. This is your struggle. You must make the decision.
*Can everyone please make dua for my Aunty Maryam as she has sadly passed away due to Covid19, she literally sacrificed her life for her Mother, she passed away in Afghanistan may Allah forgive her*
Ya ALLAH please give me strength to hold on, because im suffering a lot and almost give up.. may ALLAH ease all pain in our hearts and help us to move on and guide us to the decision whatever it may better for thr couple who experience the difficult situation like me.. ameen ya ALLAH
Our Islam is best Allah SWT is so merciful . He olwayz gives us a chance to regret on our sins . peoples who give us the tag of terrorists actually have not understand the meaning of our Islam n Qur'an ..
I am going through a divorce, please pray for me if this marriage is good for my duniya and akhirah then May ALLAH Subhanahuwat’ala save my marriage, AMEEN YA RABBUL ‘ALAMEEN. YA ALLAH, forgive me, my parents and whole muslim ummah Ameen.
I have 8 year old daughter. But my husband is behind perfection and he complains his mother everytime about my flaws. His mother also scold me often. I was engineering college topper. I got 100% in 10 th grade. Such a confident girl and studious girl I was. But now I have become someone who can’t even speak to anyone or socialize. Always hearing my problems. I am planning for Divorce since last 8 years but scared thinking about my daughter. Still going through the pain in my heart. But how to make my heart stronger for decision. I am just tired of everything now.
Sister I've faced the same here but there's so much confusion and problems in my situation including cheating and I lose my confidence and self esteem... now I'm in a journey of healing and left his house with my two children.... currently living in my parents house....I know this is hard I can feel your pain but have faith in ALLAH....be his friend share with him He will guide you.... only he can make your heart stronger He can give you the power of imaan He will heal you and give you so much love... this test was meant to teach us a lesson this duniya is a examination hall...
I wish I had a husband who thinked like mufthi menk. His wife his luck Allahumabarik laha MashaaAllah ❤ he knows how to talk and able to calm the situation.
❣❣❣ "Verily, Allah is kind and He loves kindness. He rewards for kindness what is not granted for harshness and he does not reward anything else like it.” ❣❣❣ - Sahih Hadiths
My husband divorced me three times saying talaq talaq talaq ...then did a lil drama to have uttered by mistake in anger ...but when told to marry again he said it's not possible...but still happy to live together committing adultery because he intentionally divorced...reason was that he was seeing another woman...how easy it is to ruin someone's life ..then tell woman to not marry anyone else...but man is allowed to marry hundred times...
Are you saying you are living in sin with your ex husband? If yes, why? If no them consider the divorce a blessing. He released you. He is an adulterer, cheater and not husband material. He didn't ruin your life as much you yourself are by not remwrryinf when Allah encourages remarriage for men *and* women.
You must see an imam and tell him that. You have right in Islam et something doesn’t seem right with your story. Go see an imam now if you live again in this situation.
"May Allah (swt) solve all your challenges of life, put smile on your face, joy in your heart and May He protect you from enemies that may appear to you as friends and May His kindness and mercy be with you and your entire family now and always. Aamin. Jummaat Mubarak
I am divorce and I have a son who is two years old now but he’s father doesn’t do anything for him rather he spend all his time enjoying life doing things that are forbidden in Islam, he doesn’t respect anyone not even his parents it just breaks my heart that I got married to someone with that kind of attitude and before I knew that was happening it was already late and now am heart broken 💔
Hi so sorry to hear about your situation. I am in a very similar situation with you, with a young son too of similar age to yours. I'm trying to gain the courage to go through with the divorce right now. I am Christian but the father is going about his life in very unChristian ways and it really saddens me to be in this position. I liked your comment for both of us, because it is encouraging to know I'm not the only one in this ill-fitted shoe. I decided to check this video out because I believe I can gain knowledge from a religious speaker, Christian and Muslim.
Been through all this in my family, kids were young. Now they are teens. Their mother did a great job and she says the best thing she could have done is get rid of her husband because that way she had free control to raise them the way she wanted. The kids still saw the father and he wished that he had any importance but got a slap in the face when he saw that the mother gave him no importance, made all the decisions herself despite a court order. All he could do was moan about it.
@aliceakiky sweetheart put your broken crown back on your head. Here's a way to heal your crown. If you will listen to this very inspiring uplifting empowering video. On youtube search for ..reclaim your heart by Yasmeen Mogahed.. she been threw the queen with the broken crown issues. But she got solutions. . It helped me ..and I hope it guides you help you hear what she says about your heart. More than one time. Until you embed it in your mind. Uou will soon overcome. Become strong.. ..lord permits.. Take care.. watch it today or Satan influence will make you overlook it. Make effort and time to watch today..
SubhanAllah May Allah keep our Nikkah safe and make each other loving, caring, supportive.. Ameen Ya Allah JAZAKALLAH KHAIR MUFTI MENK MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU THE BEST OF DUNIYA AND THE BEST OF AKHIRAH AMEEN
It's pathetic that the Divorce in these days is encouraged and is being normalized just like avoiding any disliked food. It's absurd when some scholars are generalizing it, in fact playing with lives of people or at least one person involved....
I was born in Christian family,ad I was married with Christian,the we devorce,then I became Muslim,since then am single,I have one kid,may Allah bless us ad give us good husband
What if my husband is so lazy, slow and has no motivation in life. We aren't compatible at allllll and it sucks . I don't know how I can continue living with him I just don't like him anymore.
If you are a new Muslim, you dont need to fight for a marriage just because you are muslim. If you do not get rights that is the only valid reason you have to approach him for a divorce known as a khula.
Every time we have an altercation my wife demands divorce. I have reached my tether as she dares me to divorce her....this has affected me pychologicaly to the point of depression. Make a Dua for me please
I thought I’d give you another perspective; Maybe your wife is simply tired due to several issues that has happened between you in the past and she feels like the problems are never ending. Maybe she is still hurt from many things that she hasen’t been able to heal from before the next issue occurs and she finds herself no longer being able to continue a marriage that’s only bringing her sanity down. Either way may Allah make your marriage easy and solve whatever issues you may have
You need to sacrifice🌷 You need to dedicated😍 You need to compromise🥀 You need to be honest🌺 You have to be ready to take responsibility 🙏 Baaraka laahu feek sheikh Mufti
Slams Mufti my son in law is harassing my daughter her marriage is just 6 months old can she take divorce cuz she doesn't wants to go back to him an she's saying its very tough fr her plz pray dua fr her life
I and my wife are married for 2 years now, the first year she was living in another country because I had to fix visa for her to come to me. When the visa was ready I went to take her and bring her with me, then she had done a big mistake and I tried asking her If she needs to tell me something then after some days I said that I know the mistake she did and told that didnt even ask sorry about that when I told her. Then the day after she said sorry. After some time that she came to live with me, we always argue with each other because I always need to remember her things and sometimes when I talk with her she gets angry. So every time Im the one who go back to her and try to solve the issue and Im always the one at fault. So today after 8 months that we are leaving together, we once again are not talking to each other. Im very tired of this and every time is always my fault she thinks. So I dont know what to do, I have fear that if I tell her that the solution is divorce, maybe she and Allah will judge me as bad person. I dont want to be the one at fault and I dont want to hurt her feelings, but Im feeling like Im suffocating and always needs to ask sorry. Pls if you know about islam, tell me what I should do from islam prospective. 😢
Assalamualikum brother. I want to share my own story. I am married 12 years with 2 blessed children. Last year in accident I was paralized from wrists down. My wife left me immediately along with 2 sons. She flew from home with all my savings and blocked my phone calls.I didn't say anything to her. I could n't see my sons. She hurt my parents every time, when they called her to return back home. She took my FDR from where I get fixed income from bank. Even though she asked more money every month to my parents for the sack of my two sons. I really need your opinion, what I should do. She didn't talk to me, she didn't return back to my home. More over I didn't get any care from her from the day 1 of my accident.
Assalamualikum I'm a Muslim girl married to Muslim guy of different nation, but we last for 7 year together in between this beautiful journey many up and down happened this is common in every relationship but everything was going wrong, I had 2 children at that time
Assalamualikum For Allah sake i gave him a chance with knowing he his married to another girl from her 2 kids, i have sacrificed my feelings, emotions, everything for Allah sake and then for my children but it turned into black days and night of my life, he cheated me again and left me with miserable life, not accepting to his life nor giving divorce
O Allah, make it easy for me. I'm still confused. I still love my husband but he won't do his duties, he is not responsible enough to us (me & our kids). I'm tired on my everyday routine, he just sleeps at morning and wakes up on evening. Ya Allah, please give me a sign
It’s been more than four years of marriage my husband sometimes abuse me physically and emotionally I lost my first child last year I had a c section as well he is kind and a good person but when he gets angry he hits my I hve 2 months old daughter and he hit me last night in front of her and he was shouting I hated it I really wanted to hit him back but I couldn’t stop crying I really don’t want this happen and continue like this anyone give me advice what to do divorce doesn’t happen in our culture as well once you are divorced no one will like you and my husband says he won’t divorce he will kill me or kill him self but will never let me divorce or I have to go back to my country I really hate these discussions
@Ahmad Akram since that time he hit me again but one day he was holding my daughter and came to hit me I took a reaction and pushed him and told him if he hits me again I will hit him too while I was crying but then I cried again and he then later came and said sorry since that time he hasn’t done anything stupid again but at the times when he hits I really don’t want him and I don’t love him as much as I did before but I still love him. The problem was that I had forgotten where did I put my daughter’s nasal spray cause her nose was blocked and she wasn’t taking any milk so that’s why he was swearing and I got angry too and told him to stop swearing and he came to hit me that why did I shouted at him
This is one side of the story. Mostly women disrespect their husbands and start unnecessary arguments when their husband comes home from work then the fight starts.
I wish my parents were divorced i know they love each other and all but they are literally unhappy all the time..my dad works for the family my mom literally do all the house hold jobs and she has severe health problems and she doesn’t even complain about that to my dad ..But when she does my dad literally ignore her ..i feel like my mom is servant rather than a wife to my Dad ..I wish they were divorced find their own happiness but they are still going like nothing is wrong
Thats life in evry household. These problems are the womans own doing. They stopped their husbands from having four wives. The net result is that if she gets divorced she will be all alone, better to be a slave. Which is what the modern woman is anyway.
Look in what sense your mother is servant it's not about feeling . Very very very rare couple stay happy after marriage you should learn about prophet house fights also happens there . It was great lesson today we thing marriage should be perfect .
my husband is not a good muslim .... I have always asked him qhy you are not following your strict religious practices even just the prayers ........ I am ln my edge now of leaving ..... I packed my things already and left him with what he owns only...... I am on yhe point of asking my father to go and talk to him to sign the divorce papers, so I can move fast .....
What if wife’s asks for divorce, takes the kids, has the court make u pay a lot of alimony and then an insane amount of money for child support even tho She works and makes great money, Then she gets married to another man who now spends more time with your kids while you can only see them 6 days a month. Now you can barely save money and even see your kids while the wife lives so comfortably with you money, your kids and another man. How does one make peace with this?
@God Lord so you’re saying that every time this happens the person is aware that the person they married is not a good person or is at least capable of such things? What a foolish response.
I’m not going to tell you “not every women is like that” because the truth is that is female nature. , other people can say what they want but study female biology , I’ve went though this myself , it’s called hypergamy , women always look for what she perceives is better then you , in the end you’ll see your kids , that man would have used her up like noodles , bounced & she will be 30 lost her beautiful looks & telling you she wants to come back lol
Can someone make dua for my mother, she is very angry at my father cuz he has a second wife I tell her that's what's halal in islam it's allowed but she doesn't want to stay she wants a divorce but I want my mum and dad to be still together, inshallah they stick together I don't want to choose
Asalaam alaaikum warahmatulahi wabarakatu mmm I have a question on divorce according to Islam it says divorce is only in hand of the judge and the husband .So what if it's a woman who wants the divorce does she suppose to return mahr? Or maybe there is no difference between mahr and dowry
I am a Christian and I know about a couple whom I'll like to ask for clarity about their scenerio.... A lady was forcefully married to a beating husband, they got married and he still beat her, due to the beating she refused to allow him have marital intercourse...... He den divorced her and denies the fact that he divorced her and now the court has asked her to go back, but she wants a divorce and don't know how to get a divorce because she still wants to do everything Islamically
The woman can absolutely initiate a divorce known as a khula. Being hit is a valid reason in islam to take a divorce as he is not fulfilling the right that Allah gave her for kind treatment. The court might ask for evidence though, thats how courts work.
15 years ago, my husband and I separated for 1 year. We came back together and are celebrating our 20th anniversary in may this year! Allah, swt has blessed us beyond measure. 🙏🏽
What made u get back together. Any advice
Sis you look beautifullll
@dawn may Allah give you and your husband even way more happynes Ameen and may Allah keep you both happy with each other Ameen summa ameen 👍👍👍🎉
If this one happens means i will be more happy in the world 😢
Hi sister what did you do that your husband came back can you please reply me back?
I want more and more ulama like mufti menk.
No one beats mufti tariq masood
Ya Ummaty Muhammad (S.A.W) may Azza wa Jallah Grant us ease in life ...Kenyans nawasalimu
Divorce is the most hardest thing....for a lady...may it be easy for everyone Ameen
Ameen !
And s imping is so easy for many supposed muslim men right?
@You me it's also halaal for men to divorce women right?
For men too
Ameen
Islam is a balance, everything is said 🙌🏼
Allah won’t leave you empty handed. He will always replace something lost with something greater and better. copied
Indeed something lost Allah may replace if he wills., but NOT something thrown away.
May Allah help people to resolve any disagreements and avoid DIVORCE Ameen
Aamin
Aameen me tooo
Allauma Aameem
I am going through a divorce, please pray for me if this marriage is good for my duniya and akhirah then May ALLAH Subhanahuwat’ala save my marriage, AMEEN YA RABBUL ‘ALAMEEN. YA ALLAH, forgive me, my parents and whole muslim ummah Ameen.
Ameen ya Rabbal AlAmeen and today is a big day
I am all with a 14 year old son pray for me strength as I am leaving this bad relation whr I was in wrong relationship for last 15 years fr the sake of sucurities but had humiliated tht caused kidney failure n hypotension striving to get well soon and high hopes in Allaha, in this condition I was challenged to find sm1 else, he is a nonmuslim atheist, every now n then, Looking forward to marry a muslim in the name of Allaha I accepted my husbands challenge.
Alhamdulillah I am more closer to Allaha.
Ya Allaha Hittatun
Are you saying you married an atheist??? You not clear..
I can’t believe this has got so many likes, you’re clearly wrong. What Islam is this? I think people need to be more firm with their daughters.
Allah never leaves you in any condition, trust in Him.
May Allah SWT protect us all.
Aameen suma Aameen
I’m a new to being Muslim recently married to a Muslim man im American i truly love my husband I don’t want him to marry again i can’t share his body with another woman or do I want to share anything with another woman what do I do
@@maryharrison1838 yeh right. You only married him because of green card
@@AkramBaig2689 I’m American I love my husband very much
Aameen
Love Mufti Menk! May Allah protect us from Divorce, Ameen!
What a great thing that we as Ummah have scollars like him on TH-cam who explain Islam in such a beautiful way. May Allah Almighty bless this man and forgive our shortcomings.
Best video of talaq , if anybody has any confusion then this is the right video to watch…May Allah give you a long life Mufti Sahab to guide us and help us to be in a straight path ❤.
Mashallah , Allah is so kind , even in divorce or marriage is kind , he gives chances for both spouses, he indeed the most merciful!
Aameen
Alhamdulillah!!
Husband appreciates what all I do like house things, cooking behind my back only with his 2 close friend.. Never never said or even a little 1 sweet word to me neither to any of his family member..
Am married for 4yrs now alhamdullilah, having 1 son living in joint family. Totally 10 members. For all 10 members I cook, clean all cooking pots and vessels, sweeping moping, making food all 3 times and taking care of kids.. It's so hectic I get so tired and get severe leg pain or knee pain.
But my husband no matter what he would not tell his own sister (married and divorced) to help me or atleast cut vegetables or atleast wash few plates.. Even after doing so many things he blames only me but doesn't utter single word from his mouth towards his own divorced sister or his elder brother wife..
My husband elder brother wife, she too doesn't do anything and since now she is pregnant I don't complain about her..
Since last 2 days my husband not talking to me just bcoz I made simple rice for dinner 2 days before. Since its lockdown, and I had severe leg pain I made simple but nobody had. They said saying they don't eat rice or wheat items at night but its complete wrong they have biryani, fried rice, tomato rice n all..
I got upset even though I had leg pain atleast I made simple rice but they all ordered from online. My husband also got angry on me on this. I got so upset. Since last 2 days he not taking to me and yesterday he had a huge fight with me.
I don't know what to do. If it was my mistake then I would surely agree but no its not mine.. My husband always fights with me for his sister, I should not say 1 single word wrong about her though she doesn't work or do anything in home and infact he even knows his sister is not so good character. She is married and divorced her husband within a year. She is 27yr old my husband is 33 and me 28yr old. Father in law too supports her own daughter.. Mother in law expired.
Though he doesn't allow her to speak bad about me or disrespect me.. If in any case she says anything wrong he gets angry on his sister.
Its like he acts being diplomatic. I shouldn't saying wrong about her and she shouldn't say anything wrong about me and he doesn't take any stand too..
Earlier also my husband had huge fight with me and he had hit me so many many times. I cry and cry alot. Please help me what do I do
@@onaction9677 clearly you allowed yourself to become a maid for this socalled husband and you allowed him to abuse and mistreat you. You are a product of your culture. Nobody can tell you what to do. Allah already tells you this. He orders men to treat wives with kindness and thats why he allows divorce because sometimes the marriage doesn't work out. Either you choose Allah or culture. Why degrade yourself like this? Just leave and move on even if it may seem hard. Or you can fear divorce and stay in an abusive marriage. This is your struggle. You must make the decision.
@@onaction9677 clearly you allowed yourself to become a maid for this socalled husband and you allowed him to abuse and mistreat you. You are a product of your culture. Nobody can tell you what to do. Allah already tells you this. He orders men to treat wives with kindness and thats why he allows divorce because sometimes the marriage doesn't work out. Either you choose Allah or culture. Why degrade yourself like this? Just leave and move on even if it may seem hard. Or you can fear divorce and stay in an abusive marriage. This is your struggle. You must make the decision.
Aslkm wrwb,
So far this is the only video which explains in detail about Talaq...
Mashallah may allah give you the top most paradise!
Aameen!
"Receive them with kindness...or release them with kindness" Wow, that is beautiful to me!
Islam is always beautiful.. No other religion honours the women more than Islam.. I feel honoured and secured being a muslim woman alhamdulillah.
جَزَاكَ اللَّهُ خَيْرًا
My Honourable Mufti Ismael Menk
*Can everyone please make dua for my Aunty Maryam as she has sadly passed away due to Covid19, she literally sacrificed her life for her Mother, she passed away in Afghanistan may Allah forgive her*
Inna lilla hi wa inna aleyhi rajiun , sorry bro 😭
@@Animal-Reaction-Clips Jazakullahkhair brother please pray for her and all of the Umah
@@Animal-Reaction-Clips Ameen
Ameen
sister be careful it's not right to ask for dua from other people, it's better if you make it yourself and inshaa Allah will accept it.
May Allah bless you mufti menk
Ya ALLAH please give me strength to hold on, because im suffering a lot and almost give up.. may ALLAH ease all pain in our hearts and help us to move on and guide us to the decision whatever it may better for thr couple who experience the difficult situation like me.. ameen ya ALLAH
Our Islam is best Allah SWT is so merciful . He olwayz gives us a chance to regret on our sins . peoples who give us the tag of terrorists actually have not understand the meaning of our Islam n Qur'an ..
I am going through a divorce, please pray for me if this marriage is good for my duniya and akhirah then May ALLAH Subhanahuwat’ala save my marriage, AMEEN YA RABBUL ‘ALAMEEN. YA ALLAH, forgive me, my parents and whole muslim ummah Ameen.
Ameen
Ya sheikh your Qira'at is beautiful.
May Allah guide me/us to be good spouses.
Ameen ya rabb
Amen!
Aameen
It's very hard time ... May Allah show and give us right path... Ameen
I have 8 year old daughter. But my husband is behind perfection and he complains his mother everytime about my flaws. His mother also scold me often. I was engineering college topper. I got 100% in 10 th grade. Such a confident girl and studious girl I was. But now I have become someone who can’t even speak to anyone or socialize. Always hearing my problems. I am planning for Divorce since last 8 years but scared thinking about my daughter. Still going through the pain in my heart. But how to make my heart stronger for decision. I am just tired of everything now.
Sister I've faced the same here but there's so much confusion and problems in my situation including cheating and I lose my confidence and self esteem... now I'm in a journey of healing and left his house with my two children.... currently living in my parents house....I know this is hard I can feel your pain but have faith in ALLAH....be his friend share with him He will guide you.... only he can make your heart stronger He can give you the power of imaan He will heal you and give you so much love... this test was meant to teach us a lesson this duniya is a examination hall...
@@SeemaKhan-td2rx pir khula leh. Seedhi bat yeh hi hain k aurat char shadiya na rokti toh aaj is tarha doh taqy ki na hoti.
Agree @@SeemaKhan-td2rx
Run!!!
MashaAllah ✨
JazakaAllahu Khairan ✨
I wish I had a husband who thinked like mufthi menk. His wife his luck Allahumabarik laha MashaaAllah ❤ he knows how to talk and able to calm the situation.
Even he is divorced.
Masha Allah, jazakaAllah Mufti Menk
❣❣❣ "Verily, Allah is kind and
He loves kindness. He rewards for kindness what is not granted for
harshness and he does not reward anything else like it.” ❣❣❣ - Sahih Hadiths
Masha allah. Very informative video about Talaq
My husband divorced me three times saying talaq talaq talaq ...then did a lil drama to have uttered by mistake in anger ...but when told to marry again he said it's not possible...but still happy to live together committing adultery because he intentionally divorced...reason was that he was seeing another woman...how easy it is to ruin someone's life ..then tell woman to not marry anyone else...but man is allowed to marry hundred times...
Are you saying you are living in sin with your ex husband? If yes, why? If no them consider the divorce a blessing. He released you. He is an adulterer, cheater and not husband material. He didn't ruin your life as much you yourself are by not remwrryinf when Allah encourages remarriage for men *and* women.
@@saira_6151 hi I see u in alot of comments, and u have very strong opinion. I have some qstns on this matter of divorce. Can you answer me please?
@@saira_6151 I bet you hate your husband. Or divorced yourself.
You must see an imam and tell him that. You have right in Islam et something doesn’t seem right with your story. Go see an imam now if you live again in this situation.
In some fiqhs , 3 times talaq given in one session is considered one talaq
Please check with an imam
Assalamualaikum Mufti...plz do make dua for me my daughter my mom my husband my siblings and all suffering muslims please do Dua for us all
"May Allah (swt) solve all your challenges of life, put smile on your face, joy in your heart and May He protect you from enemies that may appear to you as friends and May His kindness and mercy be with you and your entire family now and always. Aamin. Jummaat Mubarak
@@Deco.Son.of.God.of.the.fatherAameen
@@Deco.Son.of.God.of.the.father ameen
I am divorce and I have a son who is two years old now but he’s father doesn’t do anything for him rather he spend all his time enjoying life doing things that are forbidden in Islam, he doesn’t respect anyone not even his parents it just breaks my heart that I got married to someone with that kind of attitude and before I knew that was happening it was already late and now am heart broken 💔
Hi so sorry to hear about your situation. I am in a very similar situation with you, with a young son too of similar age to yours. I'm trying to gain the courage to go through with the divorce right now. I am Christian but the father is going about his life in very unChristian ways and it really saddens me to be in this position. I liked your comment for both of us, because it is encouraging to know I'm not the only one in this ill-fitted shoe. I decided to check this video out because I believe I can gain knowledge from a religious speaker, Christian and Muslim.
@@prom95 salaam dear is okay may allah protect us 🙏🙏
Been through all this in my family, kids were young. Now they are teens. Their mother did a great job and she says the best thing she could have done is get rid of her husband because that way she had free control to raise them the way she wanted. The kids still saw the father and he wished that he had any importance but got a slap in the face when he saw that the mother gave him no importance, made all the decisions herself despite a court order. All he could do was moan about it.
I’m in the same situation I have a 15 month old son who has heart disease and my husband is cheating 😢 I’m broken.
@aliceakiky sweetheart put your broken crown back on your head. Here's a way to heal your crown.
If you will listen to this very inspiring uplifting empowering video. On youtube search for ..reclaim your heart by Yasmeen Mogahed.. she been threw the queen with the broken crown issues. But she got solutions. . It helped me ..and I hope it guides you help you hear what she says about your heart. More than one time. Until you embed it in your mind. Uou will soon overcome.
Become strong.. ..lord permits..
Take care.. watch it today or Satan influence will make you overlook it. Make effort and time to watch today..
Alhamdulilah thanks to Allah thank you sir may Allah bless you
Thanks for explaining it in very easy way ❤
May Allāh reward you yaa mufti ismail menk for knowledge you shared us.
Divorce is sadness may Allah make it easy
Ameen
True but there are many people.
Allah is Most kind, Most Merciful .
He loves you more than your Mother, Subhan'Allah ❤
SubhanAllah May Allah keep our Nikkah safe and make each other loving, caring, supportive.. Ameen Ya Allah
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR MUFTI MENK MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU THE BEST OF DUNIYA AND THE BEST OF AKHIRAH AMEEN
It's pathetic that the Divorce in these days is encouraged and is being normalized just like avoiding any disliked food. It's absurd when some scholars are generalizing it, in fact playing with lives of people or at least one person involved....
I was born in Christian family,ad I was married with Christian,the we devorce,then I became Muslim,since then am single,I have one kid,may Allah bless us ad give us good husband
How are u now
Are u married
Amiin
@@Sarah-jk6qn masha Allah a very good advice
What if my husband is so lazy, slow and has no motivation in life. We aren't compatible at allllll and it sucks . I don't know how I can continue living with him I just don't like him anymore.
MashaAllah! Good stuff. May Allah protect & elevate you in rank for the greater good of all, Aameen.
Allah akbar I feel it subhanaAllah
Assalamu alayikum my beloved brothers and sisters I am a strong muslim I am not giving up on the marriage ameen
If you are a new Muslim, you dont need to fight for a marriage just because you are muslim. If you do not get rights that is the only valid reason you have to approach him for a divorce known as a khula.
Masha Allah Beautifully explain.
Please pray for me i am tired with my husband behavior, pray that Allah makes him realize his mistake
Same sis
Im sad the time has come for me to watch this video..
I got divorced on the phone after been for a year he got deported to Albania and I’m so heartbroken still I love him💔
There will be another man.
May Allah SWT bless us with something that is better for us for Allah SWT is the BEST of planners. Alhamdullilah. Ameen.
Amen
Mashaa Allah May Allah bless Our Respcted Shiek
Thank you so much sir I teach from you the lots thing
I also had the idea of divorced people cant be together after separation , which seemed sad . atleast now i know i was wrong .
Nice explaning Mashallah. Thank you Mufti Menk👍🏼
My husband doesn't think I am important to him
I am doing the opposite he is the most important person in my life
Same I’m trying my best yet I don’t get anything in exchange from him.
@@mariamriaz4850 Who is your partner my partner is cheating on me
@@helenparkinson5645 if his cheating, why are you still in him? Divorce him cause he does not deserve you to be honest.
Your reward is from Allah
@@helenparkinson5645 hey helen
SUBHAN ALLAH 💕
Muslim has the best roles. Amiin
We not lucky but still love to Allah even my company am happy we are not lucky but l still be good to Allah l love Allah
Every time we have an altercation my wife demands divorce. I have reached my tether as she dares me to divorce her....this has affected me pychologicaly to the point of depression. Make a Dua for me please
May Allah ease our feeling.
She's playing with you. Be cold and let her go maybe not divorce but let her go to her parents house and don't look back.
Print a fake divorce paper, tell her to sign it. If she back paddles she is faking, if she is signing it. May as well get a real one out.
I thought I’d give you another perspective;
Maybe your wife is simply tired due to several issues that has happened between you in the past and she feels like the problems are never ending. Maybe she is still hurt from many things that she hasen’t been able to heal from before the next issue occurs and she finds herself no longer being able to continue a marriage that’s only bringing her sanity down. Either way may Allah make your marriage easy and solve whatever issues you may have
@@socialmedia2825 there is NO SUCH THING as a fake divorce paper. once divorce is written on a paper and the husband signs it, it is a VALID divorce.
Ya Allah,
Ya Rahman❤☝️
Ya Rahim ❤☝️
I am missing your food...
(By the way the men are better chefs than the women👂)😆😂
Jazak'Allah Khairyn WaBaraka Allahu Feekum Mufti Menk
MasyaAllah! Keep on teaching and speaking Brother!❤️❤️
Alxamdulilah Cala kuli xaal what is happening is not easy marriage is hardest thing in my life I need learn more about marriage
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭Sheikh it seems only women who sacrificed a lot in marriage in a country where am from
@You me some women also do the same.
💐🌷 جَزَاكَ اللّٰهُ خَيْرََا 🌺💜
You need to sacrifice🌷
You need to dedicated😍
You need to compromise🥀
You need to be honest🌺
You have to be ready to take responsibility 🙏
Baaraka laahu feek sheikh Mufti
True love is not sacrificial.
Slams Mufti my son in law is harassing my daughter her marriage is just 6 months old can she take divorce cuz she doesn't wants to go back to him an she's saying its very tough fr her plz pray dua fr her life
Well said by Mufti Menk.
Beautifully told! Jazakallah khairan❤️
I and my wife are married for 2 years now, the first year she was living in another country because I had to fix visa for her to come to me.
When the visa was ready I went to take her and bring her with me, then she had done a big mistake and I tried asking her If she needs to tell me something then after some days I said that I know the mistake she did and told that didnt even ask sorry about that when I told her.
Then the day after she said sorry.
After some time that she came to live with me, we always argue with each other because I always need to remember her things and sometimes when I talk with her she gets angry.
So every time Im the one who go back to her and try to solve the issue and Im always the one at fault.
So today after 8 months that we are leaving together, we once again are not talking to each other.
Im very tired of this and every time is always my fault she thinks.
So I dont know what to do, I have fear that if I tell her that the solution is divorce, maybe she and Allah will judge me as bad person.
I dont want to be the one at fault and I dont want to hurt her feelings, but Im feeling like Im suffocating and always needs to ask sorry.
Pls if you know about islam, tell me what I should do from islam prospective. 😢
Mashallah, alhamdulilah im single 😊🙏🏻💖
Hi
Subhanallah may Allah protect us🤲
Who should compromise and how should compromise is problem
Assalamualikum brother. I want to share my own story. I am married 12 years with 2 blessed children. Last year in accident I was paralized from wrists down. My wife left me immediately along with 2 sons. She flew from home with all my savings and blocked my phone calls.I didn't say anything to her. I could n't see my sons. She hurt my parents every time, when they called her to return back home. She took my FDR from where I get fixed income from bank. Even though she asked more money every month to my parents for the sack of my two sons. I really need your opinion, what I should do. She didn't talk to me, she didn't return back to my home. More over I didn't get any care from her from the day 1 of my accident.
Who is taking care of you? You can divorce her and send her money for the sons only. Through a third person.
@@razamughal9095 no that's wrong such women don't deserve his sons
Asalam Aleykum sheikh mufti may Allah bless you
Assalamualikum
I'm a Muslim girl married to Muslim guy of different nation, but we last for 7 year together in between this beautiful journey many up and down happened this is common in every relationship but everything was going wrong, I had 2 children at that time
Now whats your situation
So what was the experience post separation and how ur kids faced and suffered?
Assalamualikum
For Allah sake i gave him a chance with knowing he his married to another girl from her 2 kids, i have sacrificed my feelings, emotions, everything for Allah sake and then for my children but it turned into black days and night of my life, he cheated me again and left me with miserable life, not accepting to his life nor giving divorce
Mashallah...!
O Allah, make it easy for me. I'm still confused. I still love my husband but he won't do his duties, he is not responsible enough to us (me & our kids). I'm tired on my everyday routine, he just sleeps at morning and wakes up on evening. Ya Allah, please give me a sign
It’s been more than four years of marriage my husband sometimes abuse me physically and emotionally I lost my first child last year I had a c section as well he is kind and a good person but when he gets angry he hits my I hve 2 months old daughter and he hit me last night in front of her and he was shouting I hated it I really wanted to hit him back but I couldn’t stop crying I really don’t want this happen and continue like this anyone give me advice what to do divorce doesn’t happen in our culture as well once you are divorced no one will like you and my husband says he won’t divorce he will kill me or kill him self but will never let me divorce or I have to go back to my country I really hate these discussions
Assalamu alaikum
Whats your situation now
@Ahmad Akram since that time he hit me again but one day he was holding my daughter and came to hit me I took a reaction and pushed him and told him if he hits me again I will hit him too while I was crying but then I cried again and he then later came and said sorry since that time he hasn’t done anything stupid again but at the times when he hits I really don’t want him and I don’t love him as much as I did before but I still love him. The problem was that I had forgotten where did I put my daughter’s nasal spray cause her nose was blocked and she wasn’t taking any milk so that’s why he was swearing and I got angry too and told him to stop swearing and he came to hit me that why did I shouted at him
This is one side of the story. Mostly women disrespect their husbands and start unnecessary arguments when their husband comes home from work then the fight starts.
I wish my parents were divorced i know they love each other and all but they are literally unhappy all the time..my dad works for the family my mom literally do all the house hold jobs and she has severe health problems and she doesn’t even complain about that to my dad ..But when she does my dad literally ignore her ..i feel like my mom is servant rather than a wife to my Dad ..I wish they were divorced find their own happiness but they are still going like nothing is wrong
Thats life in evry household. These problems are the womans own doing. They stopped their husbands from having four wives. The net result is that if she gets divorced she will be all alone, better to be a slave. Which is what the modern woman is anyway.
May Allah bless you with
realising ur father ignorance mistake .....
Keep faith in him & pray he definitely helps you..
Allah hu akbar
Look in what sense your mother is servant it's not about feeling . Very very very rare couple stay happy after marriage you should learn about prophet house fights also happens there . It was great lesson today we thing marriage should be perfect .
جَزَاكَ اللّٰهُ خَيْرََا 💐🌸🌺🌷🌺
my husband is not a good muslim .... I have always asked him qhy you are not following your strict religious practices even just the prayers ........
I am ln my edge now of leaving .....
I packed my things already and left him with what he owns only...... I am on yhe point of asking my father to go and talk to him to sign the divorce papers, so I can move fast .....
Ameen Alhamdulilah.
Mashallah sheikh...you never fail to motivate us❤️
Allahu akbar ❤️
Masha allah❤️💚💚💚💚
Really beneficial lecture❤️❤️
Hi
Jazakumulla Khair
Mashallah❤❤
Thank you sheikh
Sometimes divorce helps you get closer with your spouse and your lord.
Especially when you realise what you may have lost permanently.
Yes I agree.
I am thinking about divorce beacuse he drinks alcohal and his family is very abusive
@@safiyasiddique7703same happened to me .. but the difference is that he leaves me ...
@@safiyasiddique7703try your best to address and resolve with him before making a permanent decision like that.
@@theempireofLuxuryHi are you from Pakistan?
Going through same 😢
What if wife’s asks for divorce, takes the kids, has the court make u pay a lot of alimony and then an insane amount of money for child support even tho She works and makes great money, Then she gets married to another man who now spends more time with your kids while you can only see them 6 days a month. Now you can barely save money and even see your kids while the wife lives so comfortably with you money, your kids and another man. How does one make peace with this?
@God Lord so you’re saying that every time this happens the person is aware that the person they married is not a good person or is at least capable of such things? What a foolish response.
I’m not going to tell you “not every women is like that” because the truth is that is female nature. , other people can say what they want but study female biology , I’ve went though this myself , it’s called hypergamy , women always look for what she perceives is better then you , in the end you’ll see your kids , that man would have used her up like noodles , bounced & she will be 30 lost her beautiful looks & telling you she wants to come back lol
@@AL-sg2jd you are one who's fool dude,why you even married then lol.
No wife in the right mind will ask for divorce if she is loved ,respected, helped by husband and has most of her financial needs fulfilled......
@@zh3156 what about her obeying him?it's her islamic duty,just like you mentioned those things are his islamic duty.
Hopefully someday, you wll
Visit gaza, and give some lecture,about divorce
Can someone make dua for my mother, she is very angry at my father cuz he has a second wife I tell her that's what's halal in islam it's allowed but she doesn't want to stay she wants a divorce but I want my mum and dad to be still together, inshallah they stick together I don't want to choose
May Allah swt make it easy for your mum Ameen 🤲🏼 I am in the same position as your mum
talk to a sheik/imam about the rulings of this because my understanding is that he cannot have a second wife if the first does not agree
@@halima4168 I don't think so he needs permission from his first wife.
U need to support your mom
Asalaam alaaikum warahmatulahi wabarakatu mmm I have a question on divorce according to Islam it says divorce is only in hand of the judge and the husband .So what if it's a woman who wants the divorce does she suppose to return mahr? Or maybe there is no difference between mahr and dowry
If the woman is right in asking for the divorce because her husband did not give her rights then she DOES keep the mahr
JazakAllah khair
I am a Christian and I know about a couple whom I'll like to ask for clarity about their scenerio....
A lady was forcefully married to a beating husband, they got married and he still beat her, due to the beating she refused to allow him have marital intercourse...... He den divorced her and denies the fact that he divorced her and now the court has asked her to go back, but she wants a divorce and don't know how to get a divorce because she still wants to do everything Islamically
The woman can absolutely initiate a divorce known as a khula. Being hit is a valid reason in islam to take a divorce as he is not fulfilling the right that Allah gave her for kind treatment. The court might ask for evidence though, thats how courts work.
SUBHANALLAH ❤️
Allah. Won't live empty handed