Wisdom In Marriage & Divorce | Ep 8 - Hikmah in the Quran | Dhul Hijjah Series | Nouman Ali Khan

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    In Episode 8 of the Hikmah in the Quran series, Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan begins to explain how the Quran approaches marriage and relationships in light of wisdom. Why are there so few verses describing how to have a good marriage, whereas the verses in divorce are much more?
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  • @hanihayet2248
    @hanihayet2248 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I always made dua that,(Inshallah ) One day I will become so financially stable that Allah will use my pockets to bless others:) also, I asked for a good husband in my every dua. May Allah accept my dua. May my future husband loves me a lot(ameen)

    • @najibbrot3600
      @najibbrot3600 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      we both have this in common can we get married?

    • @ghinaalia5320
      @ghinaalia5320 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@najibbrot3600 Im waiting for the invitation

    • @najibbrot3600
      @najibbrot3600 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ghinaalia5320 that is great, how do i contact you? we can ask nouman ali to do our nikka, nothing spectacular,

    • @EughhBrothereughh
      @EughhBrothereughh ปีที่แล้ว

      @@najibbrot3600 yikes why do yall have to be so gross. Its not tinder. How some damn decency

    • @EughhBrothereughh
      @EughhBrothereughh ปีที่แล้ว

      Just stay single instead. Marriage isnt good. Its a slavery. Trust me I've seen my friends perish into that black hole

  • @Hundura-k3y
    @Hundura-k3y ปีที่แล้ว +64

    This guy is gifted! Masha Allah!!

  • @yehyaattarzada
    @yehyaattarzada ปีที่แล้ว +63

    i want this series to never end its sooo heartwarming and touches the heart i cantt wait for the next episode

    • @nak7673
      @nak7673 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because you are a low IQ person who can’t think critically.

  • @aromazubair6548
    @aromazubair6548 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    They way ustad is explaining the complex law with stand up comedy style... unbelievable, need more people like you on earth to make people understand, it's not hard to follow islam just take it easy and everything is possible... it cannot be forced, need to be understood..

  • @durdurdikir4021
    @durdurdikir4021 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This Lecture Was Heart Healing To Many Women Who Went Through Ugley and Painful Divorces💔 😢
    ALLAH Almighty is Super ANGERY Too Many Little Man on this Earth 🌎 And They Having Crisis in Their Lives!!
    I was Divorce with a text message without any respect on display...I Move on and Forgive Him FOREVER 💯

    • @frames999
      @frames999 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      omg 😮
      sending love & light 🙂

    • @arifaahmed5454
      @arifaahmed5454 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      allah bless u sister

  • @mymyohmyautumn8956
    @mymyohmyautumn8956 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I just divorced a month ago, after being separated for 5 years, I gave him a chance to come back and fix all the mistakes we made, I tried but he didn't then I decided to divorced him.
    I can't wait for the next episode of the lecture.

  • @peacepeace4256
    @peacepeace4256 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Divorce is like death. Feeling dead when you are alive is painful. It kills you everyday .

    • @y_wintersnow
      @y_wintersnow ปีที่แล้ว +15

      May Allah make it easy for everyone who's going through divorce, give them peace of mind and restore back their heart after being so broken and damaged. Aamiin

    • @mohmmadrafijalgaonkar8028
      @mohmmadrafijalgaonkar8028 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There there. May Allah grant you coolness of eyes

    • @Milla433
      @Milla433 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True it’s painful for us, because we were trauma bonded, means unhealthy attached to that person. It feels like an addiction with the same withdrawal symptoms. 😢

    • @LavizaMaheen
      @LavizaMaheen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm not divorced yet n I feel that way bein just fully separated and single doing it alone with children

    • @madihaqadeer4466
      @madihaqadeer4466 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes it's true

  • @UrduBedtimeStoriesForKids
    @UrduBedtimeStoriesForKids 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the way you describe every problem according to quran may Allah reward you with bestest

  • @haq786786
    @haq786786 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    MashaAllah , Ustadh's wisdom. Allah keep you and your family safe my Ustadh. Aameen🌷🌷

  • @_goc
    @_goc ปีที่แล้ว +16

    0:04 I heard a sheigh say that don't marry someone who doesn't respect religion (he meant specifically Islam) and I was like... that makes a lot of sense. Having taqwa of Allah. Having fear of Allah, having consciousness of Allah, being mindful of Allah, is so important. Of course to marry such a person one must be that way.
    4:23 La ilaha illal Allah. 3 times in total, not 3 times in a row.😭
    4:54 With decency, with dignity and goodness. SubganAllah.
    7:34 Oooooooh so that's what it means.
    8:08 A reminder for everyone in every situation
    8:50 This is a great example of how to do it halal. You cant marry with the intention to divorce A.K.A temporary marriages.
    10:03 And that's Allah's laws, SubganAllah♡♡♡

  • @Secret19236
    @Secret19236 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The way Allah give us knowledge to follow for both Male and Female is so beautiful and caring , Allah truly is the All wise and the most kind❤ Allhamdullilah Laillahaillallah

  • @Sunflowersarepretty
    @Sunflowersarepretty ปีที่แล้ว +180

    "Then she married Kareem and it turned out Kareem likes Xbox not Ps5" 😂😂😂 I've heard ustadh use the name "kareem" so many times 😂. Poor Kareem.

    • @rumanadeemkhan
      @rumanadeemkhan ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣😍

    • @jinahassan4784
      @jinahassan4784 ปีที่แล้ว

      😅😅

    • @nak7673
      @nak7673 ปีที่แล้ว

      www.google.com/search?q=nauman+ali+khan+scandal&rlz=1CDGOYI_enUS828US828&oq=nauman+ali+khan+scandal&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOdIBCTE4ODczajBqN6gCALACAA&hl=en-US&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#imgrc=7UyJt86uiCIjdM&imgdii=n7Pk4SBfOJJinM

    • @franklopez861
      @franklopez861 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahhahhah sameeee

    • @Mrbobster87
      @Mrbobster87 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And then he Married Fatima but Fatima is a femanist and Hella masculine!

  • @bayyinah
    @bayyinah  ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Did you know about the serious matter of giving 'talaq' three times?! 😬

    • @hammad1362
      @hammad1362 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes

    • @themessage3114
      @themessage3114 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yesss... Plz upload a complete detailed lecture on divorce, on which grounds divorces are valid, everything.. Bcoz that is the main thing ppl are unaware of... The families are destroyed coz of limited knowledge on such big issues...plz do make and upload it Ustadh

    • @saqulaindiwanalhind4097
      @saqulaindiwanalhind4097 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its problem going in our country India

    • @durdurdikir4021
      @durdurdikir4021 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This DIVORCE Issues is Muslim CRISIS World Wide...Unfortunately No Fear of ALLAH in Human Hearts😮

    • @gardenersdreamlandNo.1
      @gardenersdreamlandNo.1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes ustad

  • @astghferseb724
    @astghferseb724 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🌹The best Dua on Arafat🌹
    "Laa ilaaha ill-allaahu, waḥdahu laa shareeka lah, lahul-mulku wa lahul-ḥamdu, wa huwa ‛alaa kulli shay’in qadeer"
    👍Translation👍
    None has the right to be worshiped except Allah, alone, without partner. To Him belongs sovereignty and all praise and He is over all things omnipotent.

  • @bakhtawarshaikh-i9d
    @bakhtawarshaikh-i9d ปีที่แล้ว +1

    for me, its one of the most finest series of your , so much compact and meaningful...may Allah grant us hiqmah

  • @gafoorgichhi
    @gafoorgichhi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jkk ustad for the wonderful presentation.....you beautifully showed how islam takes an organic balance approach while not going into extreme of some beliefs were divorce is not an option and other extremes were it is playful matter...Alhamdulillah for Islam

  • @aisham1057
    @aisham1057 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ya RABB! Allow us not to used this word Talaq until we grasp the meaning and understanding of it. Talaq is not a joke by no means. Either get one or don't utter that word when you're angry! Only say it when you really think things are not gonna workout and that's the last result. Protect yourselves from shaytan and the evil that lies within your own souls at all times in all aspects of your lives. May الله help us all when using this word TALAQ! اللهم امين 🤲

  • @Only_Islam_is_Truth313
    @Only_Islam_is_Truth313 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I invite everyone to listen holy Quran & Islamic speech from the India🇮🇳❤😅😊

  • @DJGOAT-f7y
    @DJGOAT-f7y 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly divorce is very complicated

  • @zenabwaqas7506
    @zenabwaqas7506 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😢😢😢😢😢😢we need these types of motivater

  • @kajianjum
    @kajianjum ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG. I need this full series.inshallah will follow the guidance.

  • @asifmuhammed611
    @asifmuhammed611 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha Allah really beautiful series 💯Jasak Allah Khairan ustad

  • @dan.1016
    @dan.1016 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never understood this topic but ustad is next level ♨️

  • @salamali5099
    @salamali5099 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sooooo much! May Allah’s bless be with you!

  • @TheGentlemanCave29
    @TheGentlemanCave29 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im addicted to this series ❤❤❤

  • @themessage3114
    @themessage3114 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    JazakAllah khair Ustadh... Lots of love n respect to you
    May Allah bless you always amd u get more than the best both in this dunya and aakhirah... Ameen

  • @nooryasir6053
    @nooryasir6053 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for mentioning the source. We always miss that.

  • @seye8eyes
    @seye8eyes ปีที่แล้ว

    Correctly spelling of Religious relations understanding finishing relationships Talalaaq meaning divorce of relationship means Tallaq Amaan Aman Taklamacan Desert relationships of Faithfull

  • @frames999
    @frames999 ปีที่แล้ว

    spread *LOVE* & *PEACE* 🙂

  • @agirlfromthecountryside
    @agirlfromthecountryside ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah hu khairan katheera Ustaad Nouman

  • @hannahbes
    @hannahbes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you brother Norman I learn my religion so much more by listening to you may Allah subhanelahitealla reward you for your easy to understand explanation

  • @rehanakamran213
    @rehanakamran213 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ustad Nouman khan is just ❤️ 🔥

  • @tabassom.
    @tabassom. ปีที่แล้ว

    I loveeee these short wisdom’s seties😩🥹

  • @tahirakhan7340
    @tahirakhan7340 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very detailed information.
    Jazakallah

  • @nosheenkhan2457
    @nosheenkhan2457 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sallallahu alaihi Wa Alihi Wa Sallam❤

  • @rashidalkhalaqi5624
    @rashidalkhalaqi5624 ปีที่แล้ว

    الله يبارك في جهودكم

  • @Arwiedi
    @Arwiedi ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdulillah…Jazaakumullahu khairan

  • @hudajamil3890
    @hudajamil3890 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Divorce Laws of Quran are meant for sane God fearing people .. however in times of today where there is too much corrupt mind infiltration such laws donot apply and corrupt and conspirative minds should be dealt immediately with ruthlessness and are to be shown no mercy .. the soul, heart and spirit however should not have to bear the consequences as they in most cases have been bonded by Allah.

  • @maryambinteyahya6353
    @maryambinteyahya6353 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    SubhanAllah ❤

  • @farzeeislam2835
    @farzeeislam2835 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Poor kareem and Jobayer! Man i laughed hard at this part. Ustad is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Zakira.Rohini_Ahmed
    @Zakira.Rohini_Ahmed ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He told me talaq 3 times and he took my name, my life, I felt used, he said I haven't chosen another wife yet, I gave up my rings, I left his compensation equal to nothing to his conscience, allhamdulilla Allah provide me with job, I do not need to beg for livelihood, supposedly it was my ex-husband from the halal club, he does not eat anything that is not made by a restaurant, and I am from Mexico, the first time he Visit my country, he did not even want to meet my family, he do not accept anything that I would have prepared even if was a vegetarian, food , he only came to give me the talaq= like all my life , Dignity, or family honor was a game and so throw me out and choose a new and better wife

    • @Zakira.Rohini_Ahmed
      @Zakira.Rohini_Ahmed ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I will only say that I still can't get over it, I'm having a hard time getting ahead, here in Mexico this issue is as if we were talking about trafficking in women, as long as they get married they don't listen to how much damage they do

    • @Zakira.Rohini_Ahmed
      @Zakira.Rohini_Ahmed ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Inshallah that there are no more brothers dedicated to getting wives for other brothers , they destroy lives and sow resentment to everything we give it meaning : for Islam

    • @lizavasilyeva33
      @lizavasilyeva33 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Assalamu aleykum wa rahmatuLlohi wa Barakatuh, may Allah SWT protect you, bring calmness, peace, iman to your heart, and bless your soul in this world and the next, may Allah SWT ease your pain and struggles, and reward you for them in the next. We are from Allah, and certainly we will return to Him. Everything is temporary)

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a result of women preventing men from marrying four wives. Ever since they did that, women have become worthless, disposable.

  • @MrKhan11111
    @MrKhan11111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah Ustadh we are proud on you. Amin

  • @ruhmerakhan4767
    @ruhmerakhan4767 ปีที่แล้ว

    SubhanAllah walAhumdullilahi wallahuAkbar Allahumagfirli Allhumawaramni warzukni 💮❤

  • @preethoo5
    @preethoo5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a rank outsider but curious to know what the Quran has to say on love, divine love, between a man & woman, or, brotherly love. Enlighten me, pls

  • @aisf9741
    @aisf9741 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you please make the video on talaq

  • @aamirsvlog3706
    @aamirsvlog3706 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job

  • @randomclick911
    @randomclick911 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big love to u ustaad nauman

  • @tabassom.
    @tabassom. ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdullellah…
    I finally joined Bayyinah TV!😍🥹

  • @shafi.j
    @shafi.j ปีที่แล้ว

    Divorce is essential, who needs divorce? A woman does not have to wait for three attempts if she needs a divorce. It should be given without offending them, and if the husband needs a divorce, he should explain the need for it, and by convincing him it can be avoided twice.

  • @waheedapheerunggee8654
    @waheedapheerunggee8654 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdoulliah thanks u Ustad

  • @abdullahalfaruk1449
    @abdullahalfaruk1449 ปีที่แล้ว

    The controller of this channel please upload the whole video please,. Please.

  • @sinthiaafrin5818
    @sinthiaafrin5818 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "That woman is not a yoyo 🪀"

  • @abulali9786
    @abulali9786 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have question my friends wife on the nikkah contract she asked for her right to divorce, after few hours later we all were sitting having food then his wife jokingly said I divorce you, now I understand there is no joke when it comes to divorce if it's man or woman as she has right to divorce

  • @mohammadshinwari9643
    @mohammadshinwari9643 ปีที่แล้ว

    EID MUBARAK

  • @FatemaAkter-kp5pv
    @FatemaAkter-kp5pv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Could you please explain what if the husband said TALAK 3 times in 1 occasion.... like Talak, Talak, Talak. Will their marriage still stay valid?

  • @mod_hid
    @mod_hid ปีที่แล้ว

    as-salamu alaykum
    in this video, ustad norman discusses the topic of divorce in the quran. he emphasizes that divorce is the most detailed law discussed in the quran. while the quran doesn't provide much guidance on building a happy marriage, it extensively covers the topic of divorce. ustad norman suggests that this is because people generally know how to maintain a good relationship, but struggle with handling the situation when things go wrong
    he explains that the quran provides exhaustive explanations and guidelines on divorce to help individuals navigate this difficult process. ustad norman highlights that the quran combines both legal aspects and wisdom in its teachings on divorce. the laws of divorce in the quran are comprehensive, addressing various scenarios and offering guidance on how to handle them
    one specific aspect ustad norman mentions is the revocable divorce, where a man can divorce his wife and still have the opportunity to reconcile on two separate occasions. however, he criticizes the casual and joking attitude some people have towards divorce, disregarding the seriousness of the quran's teachings. he also refutes the misconception that divorce only counts after saying it three times, stating that such ideas have no basis in the quran
    furthermore, ustad norman emphasizes that after divorce, allah advises believers to part ways with dignity and grace. he highlights the importance of letting go beautifully and not clinging onto material possessions or seeking revenge. the quran also addresses situations where a woman may willingly give up something she owns to make the separation easier
    ustad norman briefly touches upon the concept of the third and final divorce, where the couple is permanently separated. if the man has divorced his wife three times, she is no longer permissible for him unless she marries another man and subsequently gets divorced from him
    ustad norman and his team have put in extensive effort to create these resources to help muslims understand and engage with the quran effectively
    allahu a'alam

    • @mod_hid
      @mod_hid ปีที่แล้ว +1

      found this video on divorce in the quran to be incredibly insightful. ustad norman's explanation of the comprehensive guidelines provided by the quran regarding divorce was eye-opening. it's unfortunate that some people trivialize such an important matter and make jokes about it. the emphasis on maintaining dignity and grace during divorce is a crucial reminder for all of us. i appreciate the effort of ustad norman and his team in creating resources like to help us better understand the quran. may allah bless them for their valuable work

    • @syedkabirm.j3009
      @syedkabirm.j3009 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed.

    • @IffatKhalid-sy1qp
      @IffatKhalid-sy1qp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      From his explanation it becomes clear that according to Quran no divorce can happen at one go . How many times it uttered.​@@mod_hid

    • @IffatKhalid-sy1qp
      @IffatKhalid-sy1qp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mod_hiddoes talaq three times count as one or three according to sir nauman ali khan as he doesn't follow any fiqh.

  • @angelbeige
    @angelbeige 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When will the full episode be released on the app?

  • @TheOz91
    @TheOz91 ปีที่แล้ว

    To be honest, I think there should be comic books that actually teaches Islam or specific topics in Islam. Then, Ustadh Nouman would be like "which comic book did you learn Islam from?!"

  • @everseeking60
    @everseeking60 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah😊

  • @Frindssssssss
    @Frindssssssss ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah

  • @AlaminIslam-gn3qp
    @AlaminIslam-gn3qp ปีที่แล้ว

    ...ma sha Allah...🤍🤍🤍👌

  • @xar0a
    @xar0a 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What about Islamic rulings regarding divorce that happened through court?

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      if the man signs a divorce paper then that is a talaq

    • @xar0a
      @xar0a 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@razamughal4582 in a civil court in the USA? What if the wife insist that because it was through a civil court in the States, it wasn't legit becaus eit wasn't done as per islamic rulings? gets a fatwa from a mufti in a different state and got nikkag done again by that same mufti?

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@xar0a a nikah done with who? the divorce IS a valid shari divorce when done through a western kaffir court. as long as the man signs a paper with the word divorce written on it. a judge does not have to be a muslim whether thats in court or whether that is a non muslim performing the nikah in the capacity of a judge. however in a nikah the witnesses must be muslim. witnesses are not required in a divorce. so usually the man is only given one paper that he signs to say he is divorcing his wife which makes it one talaq. if that is the case then the two can reconcile during the iddat. if they do not reconcile then when the iddat is over she is free from her nikah after just one talaq. then she is free to have a nikah with any man including her ex husband.

    • @xar0a
      @xar0a 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@razamughal4582 thank you so much for your detailed answer. nikkah with the same wife he divorced through court. The man later married another woman. but the first wife still insisting being married to the man because of getting a fatwa from a mufti and redoing the nikkah, I am not sure if they did it during iddah period.

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@xar0a it all depends on how many talaqs he gave. if he had said it three times its three and that can be easily proven.no fatwa is going to change that fact. if it was three reconciliation is not permissable in iddah. a nikah is not done in iddah because during iddah the woman remains a wife. except in the iddah following three talaqs. in other words, where reconciliation is allowed in the iddah the man reconciles with his *divorced* wife.she is divorced but can live as a wife at the same time.

  • @Jannat_bj
    @Jannat_bj ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What confuses me is the need of iddah,, if we are well aware of not being pregnant with the first husband in this modern hi tech society,, or we already have been away from that person for months together, why should we have to still be in iddah period for being able to marry another person?

    • @travelingmuslimah
      @travelingmuslimah ปีที่แล้ว +3

      iddah serves a time to reflect and think as well, in addition to making sure you are not pregnant. After the 2 talaks, you can go back to your husband, but if you dont want to, you can marry again after the iddah period is over... it gives time to reflect and think about their decision, before solidifying it...

    • @Jannat_bj
      @Jannat_bj ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@travelingmuslimah okay got it a lil bit

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because it benefits the WOMAN, she is not made homeless on the spot. She has no financial burden for her three menstrual cycles after which, had women not stopped men marrying four wives, there would be a queue of married men waiting to marry her. Pregnancy tests give false negatives all the time and there was a time when there was no such thing as a pregnancy test. If she is pregnant then the baby HAS to be born within the nikah so that it can know its identity. If the woman exits the iddah then no one would know who the babies father is. And most importantly, a nikah is broken with ONE talaq. The man has the full right to take his wife back and save himself from a colossal loss. In islam the loss in a divorce is to the man not the woman. Even after the third talaq, where reconciliation is not allowed in iddah, the woman still lives in her ex husands home.

  • @sumaiyaoosman3809
    @sumaiyaoosman3809 ปีที่แล้ว

    Assalaamu Alaykum. I need some help with an issue. How can speak to Ustad on a 1 to 1 level. Please

  • @IffatKhalid-sy1qp
    @IffatKhalid-sy1qp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How to contact to bayyinah

  • @kaneda317
    @kaneda317 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if your wife threatens you to divorce her? What if you were forced to say it three times even though you don't want to? Does it still count?

  • @khomol
    @khomol ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t particularly like NAK, although recently have been somewhat more interested in what you have to pedal. I think the message is secular and I’ve always worried and stayed away from people who sell the Deen, not to say that demands and scholars shouldn’t get paid, they should get paid most.
    However, there are hundreds and hundreds of videos that are benefiting a quarter of the worlds population, and I cannot, for the life of me, understand how food bloggers get 14 million subscribers and Bina TV only has less than 1 1/2 million. And the content is good, very good albeit secular. Strange. Other Muslim personalities who are subject to the same criticisms, barely have half 1 million. Crazy.

    • @IsaacSperrow
      @IsaacSperrow ปีที่แล้ว

      Religion related content gets 'de-promote' by TH-cam. Although I think this is mainly targeting english speaking-content, which make sense since its the language with the largest consumer. Muslim channels in other languages I believe grow faster at a shorter time.
      The unintentional side effect to this (not intentional by TH-cam) was the rise of these so-called motivational channels. Thats why we suddenly start seeing these 'charisma' or 'alpha male' or whatever types of videos the last 2-3 years. Its because TH-cam try to suppressed the theological content, which give rise to these philosophical content. Another 'loophole' is making reaction-baiting videos, which I personally don't think that is Islam, but its out there. There are Islam channels build off this type of content unfortunately.

    • @thealster370
      @thealster370 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My question to you is how is his content secular? I mean Islam is a way of life and the Quran teaches us how to live it, he simply helps with interpreting for people who don't have the time to do so themselves. While I don't agree with all his interpretations I don't find them particularly secular. As for the monetization thing, he has an entire team of people who he works with who do in fact need to get liveable wages.

    • @IsaacSperrow
      @IsaacSperrow ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thealster370 He probably just a purist. Can't really debate with those types because their interpretation tends to be 100% literal. Thats why I didn't argue about it even though I didn't agree with him either, because its kind of a pointless effort.

    • @thealster370
      @thealster370 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IsaacSperrow I was responding to OP but I think he would prolly be more receptive to your concerns or maybe not I'm not sure. But the way my dad always says it is ' take what you can accept in your heart, question the rest'

    • @KK-by1ms
      @KK-by1ms ปีที่แล้ว

      You need to go look up what secular means, try Collins english dictionary

  • @aklimadilmahamood8008
    @aklimadilmahamood8008 ปีที่แล้ว

    😢assalamualaikm I went away from my husband and come back out of fear...
    I intend to stay away ... but indirectly he forced me to come back...
    I want to go back again asking talaak...
    😢😢😢😢 am staying because of my children

    • @KK-by1ms
      @KK-by1ms ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If it’s that bad then change your thinking , and say “I need to leave because of my children” rather then stay because of them .

  • @farahdarvesh5435
    @farahdarvesh5435 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can I find the complete lectures?

    • @sohailanjumlap7158
      @sohailanjumlap7158 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      th-cam.com/users/livejx2NetMfQn8?si=iB87hmjvqnTCPan6

  • @aisham1057
    @aisham1057 ปีที่แล้ว

    Use*

  • @ZareenDevraj-mu3eo
    @ZareenDevraj-mu3eo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mankind has made religion all about them. Allah is time. And time is Allah. Allah is heaven and there is no birth, death, pain, sorrow, disease, old age. There is no attachment to anyone there. Allah is the form of infinity, each soul becomes atom, freedom from the pain of being born. Allah will divorce Himself from creation, maintenance and dissolution of the material world after He brings an end to all this hell!

  • @trinidadsafety
    @trinidadsafety หลายเดือนก่อน

    What about when the wife pronounces divorce? Is it talaq 3 times? Please explain

    • @razamughal9095
      @razamughal9095 หลายเดือนก่อน

      no. but if the man says it three times its THREE.

  • @abdulazizarmy
    @abdulazizarmy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So, telling her that I am divorcing her one will suffice and if she doesn’t come back in three months, it will conclude the divorce?

  • @bobboo2733
    @bobboo2733 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please upload longer videos

  • @hossainarafat142
    @hossainarafat142 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My family force me to say Talaq thee times at once to my wife. What should I do?

    • @razamughal9095
      @razamughal9095 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You feared your family before your love for your wife. You can’t do anything three are three. Go to a good mufti and explain what actually happened.

  • @annayahonlyonequeen
    @annayahonlyonequeen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I find it fascinating 😮when people say they believe yet allah shows to stop purchasing from the enemies let that sink in 😮.. i can spek of the experiences i wwent through yet it was never their experience.. so which which of the favors of Allah subhannah watallah azzwajal will they deny b3fore they believe yet steal peoples blessings an begging people to believe yet they commit zina thinking that the pure ones praying an believing 😢the false ones will follow an steal their blessings wow its a severe punishment for such act when people do that did they think allah wasnt watching that they will gain positions an be like well for the sake of allah ameen what is this when they didnt believe because im nothing like the false people so when every single time people have said false things about me an yet they envy because their outcome is not the same like mine because i dont boast myself an i dont compete with people an say well listen to me no no no but listen to me nonono but im right 👉 😮did they think that its the way when they failed that part because they dint want to stop sinning an winning things with black magic u see people who believe dont put others down an block their blessings an from me doing hajj right 👉 😮😢so when these failed peopled are left induldging into the sins of what they do is how they are burning in the hellfire while alive imagine what happens to them when thwy die an what happens to them in their graves astragfirullah.. so u see i forgive an i dont forget yet allah says let them be an i still pray my salah an do my charity an i help the elders an i bless the ines ive lost yet to them its funny an to me i bless an to them they destroy.. so u see why the prophet split the ummah 😢😮.. people who say they are scholars or argue just to argue to misguide people because how they fake everything to make it thats haram way. To believe is to kniw to jnow is to understand. To understand is to comprehend the message ❤ya salam send my peace an blessings 😢to pbuh prophet Mohammad (saw) asalatu wasalam ayu Han nabiyun blessed be his wives an children an the elders an the angels an the ummah. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤so which which of the signs an favors will they deny before they destroy their own self while they envy those who actually believe in allahs mercy an doesnt take advantage of allahs mercy yet spread truth an thise who envy this allah exposes them for why they perished their ways .. so your not me go find your own guidance dod they think theyd block my blessings an take it as theirs astragfirullah bless my mother an father an siblings an aunties an uncles an thise who steal my blessings as their new beganing may allah curse them for that..i forgive like i said ❤

  • @AishaBridalCollection
    @AishaBridalCollection 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If said Talaq ny deru ? Im not giving Talaq

  • @IffatKhalid-sy1qp
    @IffatKhalid-sy1qp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3 talak at once 3 or 1

  • @SamraNoory
    @SamraNoory ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam Alaicom, I have a question about this talk. Love this series btw. I'm just curious, does the same apply for men? Like if the women says talaq and wants divorce but the man doesnt. Does the law apply the same way where a woman can take a man twice but can't accept a man a third time, only unless he first choses and is with another woman? I hope this comment makes sense, idk I'm a little tired and sleepy :) I am very curious though and would love an answer. Thank you!

    • @DHOOFKA143
      @DHOOFKA143 ปีที่แล้ว

      W.A.S The same way women can’t say kabalta is the same way she can’t say talaq(kabalta ) mean’s except, Allahu Alam may Allah forgive me if I said wrong 😑. Salam

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      No. A woman has a much quicker and easier process to get out called a khula. Provided she has a justifiable reason to get out if it, and not just because she has taken a fancy to another man.

  • @queenbee8190
    @queenbee8190 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Salam I wanted to know, if a husband gives his wife the 1st talak, is she able to marry another person?

    • @tuberoses..
      @tuberoses.. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes if she completes the iddat and you didn't take her back during that time

    • @queenbee8190
      @queenbee8190 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tuberoses.. what after the talak you go back to the husband and then decide to leave the husband, can a wife marry after leaving her husband?

    • @tuberoses..
      @tuberoses.. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@queenbee8190 if you get a khula ,you can marry again to someone else

  • @sumairajan487
    @sumairajan487 ปีที่แล้ว

    If one says talaq three times once like talaq talaq talaq at one instance what is the ruling for it

  • @sulviamahbub4103
    @sulviamahbub4103 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What's the matter with onion and india?

  • @mariyamsamol3508
    @mariyamsamol3508 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @seye8eyes
    @seye8eyes ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If anyone makes a sounds three times of wording Talalaaq meaning saying divorce three times like the Terracotta army God concupines said in Mandatory courtship witnesses presented in courts this applied to only Royal courts of Terracotta Turrah Tuchering practitioners of Wedlock. It has to be a place of worship where a gathering takes place registered where the female can say Dog end of wording Sounds Talalaaq meaning End of Tallaq Relationship like the true place of Qibla Directions of Taklamacan Desert Gobi desert of God Jesus and wife Mariam

  • @misstornton3848
    @misstornton3848 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know how to keep things good :D

  • @muzammilstark4829
    @muzammilstark4829 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whether three divorces at once are considered one or three, there may be a difference of opinion, but in reality triple talaq {3 divorces at once} is Haraam, and is one of the major sins.
    May Allah protect the ummah from straying into the steps of Satan.😊

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Being haram is irrelevant. Haram actions take place, they count. And we see that every day, three are three

  • @kiranhussain5916
    @kiranhussain5916 ปีที่แล้ว

    If one person give divorce one time but saying three time then it will include divorce one time?three time?

  • @RabiyaCh786
    @RabiyaCh786 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im still confuse on one thing, does the divorce happens if a men says it at once, i mean triple talaq.

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It happens once if he says it once, and three times if he says it three times.

  • @kimlovelock2383
    @kimlovelock2383 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So if he has said I divorce you three times is the marriage over

  • @rebasingh258
    @rebasingh258 ปีที่แล้ว

    Many Muslims write Talaq three time and send it by SMS in one time and the marrige is nullified.

    • @syedkabirm.j3009
      @syedkabirm.j3009 ปีที่แล้ว

      For nullifying one pronouncement is sufficient,n which takes effect after iddat period..Its wrong to think that Talak is only effective if pronounced thrice.

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      It IS nullified. SMS is COMMUNICATION just like it is COMMUNICATION for everything else.

  • @hamid-sq4vu
    @hamid-sq4vu ปีที่แล้ว

    Molvi sb kia talaq nikah ki paidawar hai?

    • @razamughal9095
      @razamughal9095 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paidawar nai hain haqeeqat hain

  • @amnafaizan3730
    @amnafaizan3730 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Plz tell me if a husband gave his wife 3 divorced in one sitting at once is it counted one or 3.. there is the any way by quran or sunnah to remarry him.. plz tell me

  • @sanadeedahmadbaig2697
    @sanadeedahmadbaig2697 ปีที่แล้ว

    Didn't get it. For god sake someone explain the divorce matter in clear, easy and concise way.

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      I dont think there is anyone on youtube that has written an explanation more than me. I am on every divorce page on youtube. Please scroll throughthe comments on this page and if you still have a question you can ask me.

  • @charlene9638
    @charlene9638 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dad said you have to say three times I divorce you a divorce or divorce you

  • @ssardar8240
    @ssardar8240 ปีที่แล้ว

    In pakistan it is said that if you use word talaq three times and say it "i divorce you" 3 times then its 3 divorces done even if it happened in a single time?? Does it count 3 times or just one time. Because i have always thought of it like when you are angry you so badly want to get rid of the other person that in anger you want to make sure theres no way back. You would even say it 100 times in anger if needed. Thats the thing about doing things in anger. You realise it later to what extremes you have gone. Thats why there was hikmat in rujooh after one talaq. But whats the ruling on saying it three times in just one angery scenario between husband and wife. Please let me know this. I know saying it three times in one scenario is wrong but what if its done?? Will it be one talaq or three talaqs?

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It counts as three. FACT. Then man up and find another way of releasing your anger, to release it in talaq only when other ways exist is a sign of begairti and a sign of being raised by a hindu mother.

  • @sheezahafeez6202
    @sheezahafeez6202 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If a man divorced you three times in one go
    Then it will count as one pr 3 ?

  • @nak7673
    @nak7673 ปีที่แล้ว

    So Allah doesn’t care about how you treat each other in a marriage but jumps right in when it’s time to divorce?? Why not give proper instructions during the relationship so it would not lead to divorce. Preempting divorce is what’s required.

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you on cheap drugs? BLAME YOUR MOTHER. She did not teach you the abc of your OWN religion.

  • @tinkuroopa2754
    @tinkuroopa2754 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If a man dislikes his wife and divorces her and sends her away out of his house, and she goes out and marries another man, and the latter man divorces her or dies leaving her as a widow, then her former husband who divorced her is not allowed to marry his ex wife because she has become defiled by another man and this is called as adultery and prostitution. You can remarry your wife after a divorce as long as she stays pure without any contact with another man. The divorce a man gives to his wife doesn't become a real divorce if the woman remains single without any relationship with any other man. A real divorce happens only when a second man sleeps with your ex-wife and later the real divorce happens. Don't consider a relationship as a contract, consider it as a holy covenent.

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are highly confused. Divorce HAPPENS AS SOON AS A MAN SAYS IT

    • @tuberoses..
      @tuberoses.. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Which book are you reading 😬😬

  • @ShamsLit
    @ShamsLit ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You dont get to yoyo with the other person🤣🤣

  • @umeruman8372
    @umeruman8372 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If husband divorce his wife many times in a single day will it be counted as one or as final divorce plz guide me

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Three

    • @umeruman8372
      @umeruman8372 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@razamughal4582 what is your problem kyn har divorce related video mein ghusy huay ho ab mery Kisi comment Ka reply mat krna.. ajeeb

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@umeruman8372 baqwas band kar. Tu meri problem hain doh taqy ki aurat zina kar rahi hain aur harami ulad paida kar rahi ho