How Do Children Change a Marriage | S3 E3 | Couch Conversations

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  • How Do Children Impact Marriage
    For couples Percy & Jontille and Kari & Antonio having kids brought dramatic changes in their lives - in good and challenging ways. They talk with Tabitha and Chance about navigating these shifts and even Chance potentially being jealous of the affection Tabitha showed their daughter Choyce when she was born.
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  • @LaRennEstherTV1985
    @LaRennEstherTV1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I am not married yet, but I love watching “ Couch Conversations “..

  • @britneynathan2295
    @britneynathan2295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I'm soooooooo proud of Chance! From barely wanting to speak on Fridays with Tab and Chance to dropping gems left and right as a host! Tab you always knew it was in him and I'm so glad that you both motivated each other to get here! You both make a great team!😊😊😊❤

    • @bj1959
      @bj1959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And spreading so much knowledge that will help alot of people 🔥

    • @blessingsbest6838
      @blessingsbest6838 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @roziebaybe1626
      @roziebaybe1626 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow! Didn't know this coz I don't follow them like that...but their #shots keep popping up and I've watched several and always wonder why she speaks more...almost like "he's spoken for" but I get it now

  • @D_A_Marv
    @D_A_Marv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    My girl said the dismount and his pull out game🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Great conversation as usual

    • @donnawash
      @donnawash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right!😂😂😂

    • @monawilliams286
      @monawilliams286 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣 thank you cause I didn’t know what she said, especially when I saw the other couple laughing I really wanted to know

  • @lynwilson9259
    @lynwilson9259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I loved hearing Antonio and Kari's experience on him being an excellent example at being a stay at home Dad. You don't hear this too often. Good stuff! 👏

  • @ncdiva919
    @ncdiva919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    By chance... I found this in the midst of a parenting issue. God has a funny way of showing and giving you direction

  • @ariesapril6785
    @ariesapril6785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    This was great to see our young black MEN be so open and honest about how they feel, and how to show it's ok to be real about their transition in life as a man.

  • @DesignsASR
    @DesignsASR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    As someone who is preparing for marriage and children if the Lord allows..this was so beneficial. Thank you for this amazing show!

  • @19915105
    @19915105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I believe it’s important to let our kids know that no marriage is 100% perfect. I never saw my parents argue. I thought their marriage was perfect. This affected my relationships coz I couldn’t stand disagreements.. anytime I got into any disagreements with the person I was dating, I called it quit

    • @beancheese3148
      @beancheese3148 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah me too on the calling it quits part. I wasn’t raised by either parent. The tv shows and movies created my vision of relationships. If I had a disagreement with my partner I just assumed that they weren’t my person because that wasn’t supposed to happen with someone you love. It wasn’t until I met someone who read me like a book that I realized how flawed I am and sometimes need to be the one to change.

  • @shondafinley5502
    @shondafinley5502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Tab got mad skills and is one of the best interviewers EVER! She and Chance are so relatable in every way! 🏆 🏅 👌 ✔

  • @arayofhope3573
    @arayofhope3573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    No shade to the other couples or episodes, but I really loved the maturity of the couples this episode. The husbands were so loving and invested in their wives. I love to see that. We need to see that so thank you!

  • @AfroMillennialMomma
    @AfroMillennialMomma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I had HG once and it took 4 years for me to get over the trauma and get pregnant again. She's a superhero

  • @JenniferJones-db5jx
    @JenniferJones-db5jx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ayeee, Antonio! I used to drive that young man and his flag football team to there tournaments when he was in college. And I remember telling him that his mom raised him well and him telling me about how it was his dad that raised him to be the awesome gentlemen he grew up to be. It's so cool seeeing him sitting on the couch with one of my favorite couples discussing his kids and marriage and being the same example to his kids that his father was to him! Way to go Antonio and Fam! I love Tab and Chance!

  • @atoznotaryss5820
    @atoznotaryss5820 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so proud to see and hear black families working and staying together to raise their families well ❤

  • @eshycmwangi
    @eshycmwangi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Tab & Chance bring out the BEST in each other…Interesting relationship & marriage Conversations…💯!!!

  • @anonymoustube1
    @anonymoustube1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    wow chance got alot of growth and wisdom. him and tab together is so great to see. and these other husbands stepped up for their wives i love it

  • @janenegibbs489
    @janenegibbs489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Can I just say, I love the Browns!!!! The honesty, truth, and willingness to allow their guest to speak!!!

  • @FinishTheRaceVL7
    @FinishTheRaceVL7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Love the transparency throughout this conversation. Especially with Chance setting the tone for the younger couples to know its okay to be open and honest about real challenges grown folks experience throughout their marriage.

  • @nafeesanasir524
    @nafeesanasir524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was a great episode to see the husband's show so much compassion towards their wives during complicated times.

  • @eloiseramsey9276
    @eloiseramsey9276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    One beautiful thing about being married is my husband knows my heart and I know his better than anyone. We have hard exteriors but he as I can see the softness and vulnerbility, that's why he's my best friend as I am his.

  • @nyalove6327
    @nyalove6327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    This is wonderful, so very needed and Tab & Chance are wonderful hosts. The conversations are authentic. Each couple has major insight about the dynamics of parenthood. The growth and changes through out the years of both parents & children to adulthood happen very quickly My advice is to enjoy it & cut yourself slack as needed! Many blessings❤️🙏🏾. Can't wait for the next episode... 🍿

  • @lc476
    @lc476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I love the conversation. This show is the couple friend group I need!!!

  • @lizah6343
    @lizah6343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    This was a great episode. Transparent, vulnerable, and authentic to the parenting experience.

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Absolutely love all of Couch Conversations episodes, Tab & Chance always bring energetic, loving energy to the room!

  • @bzzzkim
    @bzzzkim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tab /Chance…may EVERYTHING you touch be successful. Seeing you both in any setting is truly inspiring. I am filled with pride. Cheers to you and to your continued success.

  • @roslyndouglas2184
    @roslyndouglas2184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I appreciate Chance's transperancy.

  • @TweetsyCk
    @TweetsyCk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing how one looks like Regina Hall & the other looks like Kelly Williams- beautiful brown queens 👸🏾💕

  • @adrianejackson3077
    @adrianejackson3077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Hi Tabitha. This conversation is very straight to the point about marriage and the truth about having children in a marriage. I like what Chance said about the change in the marriage involving children, feelings are involved in that situation. Feelings can easily change.

  • @nubi688
    @nubi688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    GOODNESS this conversation was very Healthy, Honest, Transparent, Loving, Giving and so much more! There is nothing like being able to communicate no matter what type of situation may arise without any type of ill will towards each other. Thank You All for taking the time to share and love on us all. Have a Blessed Day.

  • @lindatongo3206
    @lindatongo3206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how Tabitha say "and this is my husband chance" ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @1browngirl29
      @1browngirl29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She always beams when she introduces him
      That’s how you confirm their marriage’s Authenticity

  • @demikafoster-smith691
    @demikafoster-smith691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Glad to see you Tabitha and your husband on a show over due.

  • @HoneyWealthMix
    @HoneyWealthMix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What an episode! I am so amazed as to how young men are so vulnerable and hands on in their marriages and parenting... Once again, hope is alive...

  • @adelitenyamhanga7823
    @adelitenyamhanga7823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Chance was spilling the beans honey

  • @sherrybrown8608
    @sherrybrown8608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The conversation was very interesting and informative. I really enjoyed this!!!

  • @antoniothompson5514
    @antoniothompson5514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I need even MORE of these conversations!

  • @pamelapolk7128
    @pamelapolk7128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being a Parent to Adult Children is by far more challenging to me than any stage my children have been.

    • @gbatimabonney579
      @gbatimabonney579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Phew that is one of the toughest stages of being a parent. A lot things I didn't see coming!

  • @yellagirl419
    @yellagirl419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im so in love with these episodes I dont wanna miss not one 😂😂😂

  • @shawndavis9354
    @shawndavis9354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely LOVE these episodes!! They are so powerful for so many reasons!! Can’t wait until the next one drops!!!

  • @theartofcrochetbychandra3079
    @theartofcrochetbychandra3079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Chance got me choking😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mrs.edwards7310
    @mrs.edwards7310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you all for sharing your experiences… all of this was relatable!

  • @haz3ls
    @haz3ls 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please keep the conversations coming !! I love it.

  • @miamia7633
    @miamia7633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was the best episode YET!!!! Loved this. Continue blessings to these beautiful unions.

  • @oedivci
    @oedivci 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG Thank you for show casing these beautiful couples, these amazing men and fathers!!! So much support and strength in these men!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Keonna.A
    @Keonna.A 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was a great conversation! Love the transparency ❤️

  • @CetteJolieFille
    @CetteJolieFille 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is the realist conversation. I’m glad y’all are talking about this.

  • @patriciashort7106
    @patriciashort7106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tabitha Brown I'm so proud of You and Chance, keep up the good work

  • @deas9410
    @deas9410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely love these episodes. They are excellent hosts, and you can tell it helps the guests open up. Keep them coming! Hopefully my husband and I will be in there one day 🥰

  • @sage3955
    @sage3955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Very interesting and insightful conversation...good job Tab and Chance!!!

  • @364anw
    @364anw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow great conversation. I really appreciated the different point of views. I also liked how the ice was broken right in the beginning. It really allowed the conversation to dive into a vulnerable but safe space which gave more authenticity to the conversation!

  • @trinnateixeira9115
    @trinnateixeira9115 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    AWESOME SAUCE!!!!! I love these episodes!!! I am learning so much🌟

  • @jutuanford6666
    @jutuanford6666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this! Sharing different issues experiences and situations with marriage is definitely needed

  • @driveng8845
    @driveng8845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was amaaaaaaazing! Thank you so much!

  • @Sunshine94533
    @Sunshine94533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was amazing!! Tab and Chance were great facilitators of the I need sedation and the couples did such a great job sharing their marriage and parenting stories. Best one so far!

    • @lindataylor5704
      @lindataylor5704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sunshine 94533 Especially not interupting the other while talking.

  • @SweetTeaDarling
    @SweetTeaDarling 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😄😄😄😄♥️♥️♥️Love these couch conversations so much!! This one ☝️ was Soooo good 😌!

  • @GiGi-wm9ec
    @GiGi-wm9ec 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks to Black Love for bringing resources to our relationships. I'm glad we have this platforms to show the healthy side, the real side, and relationship reform to our community.

  • @thebritneylashaun
    @thebritneylashaun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Loved this episode! ❤

  • @maloree.kendall
    @maloree.kendall 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode has been very helpful for my husband & I, we have been married almost a year and don’t have kids yet so listening to your stories made us sit down and talk even deeper about children.

  • @MaeBank610
    @MaeBank610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Tab , Chance
    I Love the couch conversations
    It’s a great show
    I really enjoy hearing the couples speak on their relationships
    Keep more coming
    I look forward to Thursday s😊
    Love you Tab

  • @cydy121
    @cydy121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Look at Tab, Donna & Thundercat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @aletheajohnson9269
    @aletheajohnson9269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These types of conversations are very helpful. Than you so much.

  • @tboykin13tb
    @tboykin13tb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was another AMaZing Show, Loving Them!! 🤩😇

  • @tonyajohnson3450
    @tonyajohnson3450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great conversations and awesome hosts and guest!!

  • @keepingitrealwiththebrowns
    @keepingitrealwiththebrowns ปีที่แล้ว

    This was awesome and loved the transparency. Teamwork is key when parenting and still prioritizing your marriage. Thanks for sharing and blessings to you all!

  • @feliciabailey4477
    @feliciabailey4477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really enjoyed this episode 👍

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is my free therapy. Thanks 😊 🙏

  • @lynnpearson4933
    @lynnpearson4933 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a WONDERFUL conversation! I enjoyed this so much.

  • @johnbar32
    @johnbar32 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats on the new channel great vid 👍 best of luck all involved

  • @hawtcaramel8015
    @hawtcaramel8015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love these black men stepping up.

  • @alexandriahatten2167
    @alexandriahatten2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless all three of these beautiful couple's. Thank you for sharing your marriage experiences with us.

  • @itstheandrews
    @itstheandrews 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wow. We can relate!
    I suffered with hyperemesis gravidarum with my daughter too & vowed to not have more because it was life or death for us both. I’ve never felt so low in my life.
    TOUCHED OUT!! That’s what it is. Lol! It’s tough.
    I absolutely love this series! We would love to join. 🥺

    • @Hi-jx5oe
      @Hi-jx5oe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I went through that until I had my first child.

    • @theamberbrooks7066
      @theamberbrooks7066 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had it as well. before it was well known, with both of my youngest children.

    • @Sulanboujetbeauty
      @Sulanboujetbeauty ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

  • @VRMcK
    @VRMcK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really enjoyed this!!

  • @andrene_mck7704
    @andrene_mck7704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These conversations are so amazing 👏 thank you guys for sharing.

    • @andrene_mck7704
      @andrene_mck7704 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tabithabrown3449 I been watching on Facebook from your cooking video and when I saw you and chance on couch conversations I had check it out but genuinely 👌 thank you for everything you share with us, you have the most amazing personality,you are always happy positive and inspirational and always smiling ❤️ God bless you hun and continue being that amazing person you are.

    • @andrene_mck7704
      @andrene_mck7704 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tabithabrown3449 and been a fan for about 3 yrs now

  • @bngittens3450
    @bngittens3450 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bumped into this conversation by accident, loving it. Thanks.

  • @spaxdlamini6254
    @spaxdlamini6254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this show, I have grown so much. 💪🏾💯

  • @TweetsyCk
    @TweetsyCk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great topic! Love these couples and sharing

  • @LiliansGardens
    @LiliansGardens 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so wonderful. Thanks for all the different topics. I've seen the othe rhost cople as well. Please be blessed. I'm waiting on theLord for a spouse for my child.

  • @ErinMBlack
    @ErinMBlack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I loved this episode 😭😭

  • @nataleeparkes7878
    @nataleeparkes7878 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everytime I listen to Chance I hear wisdom from a man who has obviously learned and changed for the better. I like the fact he is so open.

  • @AshleyOnuoha
    @AshleyOnuoha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best one yet! Chance is hilarious

  • @jadelyncampbell_Ilovemygirls
    @jadelyncampbell_Ilovemygirls 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me and my fiance are definitely going to add this to our healing and spiritual connection journey as we make our way to marriage and the altar we have been together 2 years in our blended family with one child from previous relationships we are 20 years apart and love each other and that's everybody and their own relationships we have our issues and go through stuff and I feel like y'all have said a lot of life and advice and experience that a lot of people go through my fiance is learning how to take accountability for his actions as well as becoming more emotionally connected and evolved and me I am working on not talking so many bombs LOL and learning to not be so angry at little things and big things so thank you guys because we both want black love and to celebrate them

  • @latoyacouncil1001
    @latoyacouncil1001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great episode!

  • @theartofcrochetbychandra3079
    @theartofcrochetbychandra3079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This so good 💞💞💞

  • @cshell75
    @cshell75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great episode. I wish there had been more about being a bonus parent and how that impacts things, especially from Tab and Chance. However, I love how all 3 sets of parents delved into the partnership dynamic of parenting.

    • @oneof7billion627
      @oneof7billion627 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think they spoke around the relevance of the couples there( no outside children)...Maybe a future episode soon.

    • @andreawillingham2750
      @andreawillingham2750 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree…every interview I’ve seen where they discuss the children they never share their experience with Chance 1st born. I’m sure they will in time. It’s important and relevant in many relationships today. But great show I adore Tab and Chance what an amazing couple!

  • @TeeBabyXOXO
    @TeeBabyXOXO 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this conversation!

  • @paulajohnson420
    @paulajohnson420 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just beautiful. Thanks for sharing.

  • @dorothydiggs
    @dorothydiggs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful, thanks for sharing

  • @deborahbenjamin7723
    @deborahbenjamin7723 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am happy that I tuned in to this show I'm learning alot. Thank you.

  • @nepps6766
    @nepps6766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed listening to Percy! I want to hear more of his perspective on being ready to be a father vs. being ready to be a husband.

  • @gracedavis5587
    @gracedavis5587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tab & Chance are the best host, these 3 couples are my fav, great
    personalities 🙂

  • @MeganAlexandriaSpeaks
    @MeganAlexandriaSpeaks ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this!!!

  • @ArmandyLaPearl
    @ArmandyLaPearl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a blessing

  • @jakey4192
    @jakey4192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my first time here. I am amazed and Thankful for this contribution if knowledge you all shared. Beautiful families.

    • @jakey4192
      @jakey4192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tabithabrown3449 I started following a few months back and just playing catch up on the videos. I've chosen your videos as go to's for the most relative vegan meal ideas. The munkfruit was truly a hit with my child who still doesn't realize she wasn't eating a pork taco. 😂 I love it. Thanks again.

  • @ashunt29
    @ashunt29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This group brought up some unexpected life experiences and problem solving. I felt the togetherness from every couple. Is one of the men on this panel an actor? His face seems familiar.

  • @marquesamoore3823
    @marquesamoore3823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Each couple here is just beautiful. I love Chance almost as much as I love Tab lol

    • @marquesamoore3823
      @marquesamoore3823 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tabithabrown3449 Since I started following you on instagram. I love your positivity and way of uplifting others. Also I lived in Eden for about two years lol

  • @Mrs.KyreeB
    @Mrs.KyreeB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My husband and I have a baby thats due in less than a month! So this was definitely right on time !

  • @lotusstormz
    @lotusstormz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love these so much

  • @prettychunks1011
    @prettychunks1011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally agreee🤗and love the blessing that Tab has come into and I love that she shares so genuinely. I still walk around sing the theme song 😄 "Frriidaaayyss , friiiddaayyys friiidaaayss wit Tab and chance"

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great conversation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕black love

    • @carolynlong8701
      @carolynlong8701 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tabithabrown3449 I been watching you since Covid-19’s started ❤️🙏🏾may God continue to bless you and your family.

  • @tierrasardine562
    @tierrasardine562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Absolutely fave ❤️

  • @CalmQuiet30
    @CalmQuiet30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good!

  • @suzannebooth5196
    @suzannebooth5196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful black men God bless these families