ESTPs are the best for doing 'naughty' things with for that very reason -- so non-judgemental! Also, the combination of open and direct makes it easy to get along with them, so long as you have thick skin, because they aren't afraid to tell it like it is and tell you what they want (once they figure out what they want lol). Just don't expect them to commit to lots of overly structured long-term plans. And don't smother them.
Estps are pretty awesome friends to have. My closest friend is actually an estp! She knows more about me than I actually know about myself I feel lol. I also have a long distance estp friend that we may go months without texting or anything like that and out of the blue she just sends me an invite to go visit or whatever and we just chat as if we were just hanging out a few min ago. It’s impressive honestly.. it’s almost like she forgets that we haven’t talked in months lol. In her mind, despite not talking for a while we are still as close as friends as the last time we spoke. It’s great. Great video (as always)
INTP with an ESTP brother. Finally having learned more about mbti / cognitive functions, i actually understand him a little bit more. Growing up we had a lot of issues, and with Si child I remember a lot of it. He however doesn't. I've been holding onto my grudge towards him for a while, always frustrated that he never seemed to understand why I was distant and what he's done to hurt our relationship. Learning to realize he genuinely does not hate me and loves me as his brother has been challenging.
thewisestguy1 awww I have an intp brother, and I adore him! Strong chance he might still be bitter at me too, and def can’t say I remember exactly why. Our brains really are in the here and now. Glad you are working on moving past it!
Omg, it is super true! I was thinking it is just a normal thing when you meet cool people: you build good connection, then you don't chat for years, then meet up and everything goes as it was... now I realise, maybe it is just for me (estp) is like that haha I agree that we trust everyone until they proof we shouldn't. Yes, people often open up quickly with estp and because we love to listen and we are really interested (at that moment), people want to be heard and they think they are special for us. But it is not always. Sometimes we listen because we want to collect those experiences, but we don't really care much about that person. Learning! Yes :D I personally experience some difficulties with "not said words", non-verbal unclear communication, because sometimes, while talking about very intimate things I just really want to know about the situation, but my curiosity is taken by another person as sexual suggestive. Pretty annoying sometimes when you just wanna experience world through knowing how people feel and they instead think you want relationships or intimate experience :D Thanks for making videos about ESTP
1:09 YESS! Texts and calls! I hate them! Its like someone is controlling me and expecting me to be available when they find suitable. I’ll not respond to a call or text that is just interrupting my schedule. I will only reply if its work or family. But people who come to just chat! Ugh NO!. I tend to hate social media too.
I still need to find that meme again, where it a great white shark jumping out of the water and a velociraptor ridding on its back with a machine gun in one hand and dynamite in the other and it’s captioned “ESTP and ISTP Friendship,” where on the internet is it?! Anyways, I love ESTPs as friends. They are usually down for anything and like you said, super non judgmental. They really make me relax in a certain way few other types can, because they just let things move and flow.
Hannah Mathilda cool! What type are you? How was it having an estp mom? I have an istp mom and it was and still is a rather chilly thing to have as another figure, and I don’t think made the feelings department any easier for me lol
Kati Bird Well, my mom is kind of like Lu, where people think she’s a feeler more than a thinker, but it’s actually just her Fe. At home her Ti is evident❄️. My sister is an ISTP, my dad an ISTJ, and myself an ENTP.
(INFP) For as simple as you say ESTP's are, you describe the contrast and dynamic between yourself and xNFP's well. Be it through research or experience, you demonstrate understanding and empathy; both of which require some level of depth. Check your account, your "self credit" score should have just gone up a few points. 💳
Pedro Rubio lol If you listen to me very long I will say a lot of contradictory things, one of the probs with living in the moment. Def simple in some ways. A lot of my *nfp empathy has come from studying this stuff
Hey there Kati and Lu! I relate a lot to this. I do like to eat popcorn and watch people’s drama - that’s one of the wonders of PoLR Fi. The Ne -Si bring some notable differences though. I like shiny new things, but not necessarily when it comes to who I spend time with. I enjoy meeting new people, but I’d prefer to spend time with old friends. If I could see my high school friends every day, that would be ideal. I get super attached to people. I have tons of acquaintances and I can find something to talk about with ANYONE, anytime, but I don’t make friends easily. I need to connect on a deeper level so I can be reserved for a long time while I assess whether someone is friend material. And I almost never pursue a friendship because I’d rather they come to me, so I know they are interested. I don’t think I’m seen as fun or approachable by strangers. I only want that when I want it, otherwise I think I’m fairly antisocial where the general public is concerned. I’m not up for anything. I guess that’s my Se serving my Ne. I want to be up to what interests me in the moment, not riding along on someone else’s whim. But, when I do, it’s fun. ESTPs have been known to get me into trouble, lol.
I'm an INFJ and I always usedto think ESTPs were just "gimmicks" or sleazy or something until I got to know them better. I actually find twoESTPs I know to be every bit as insightful as INFJs and think us both being double deciders is helpful as we understand the sudden shifts from serious to "play" mode. I really want to meet more ESTPs and see how that might look in a romantic relationship.
I can relate a bit as an ENTP lady (same middle functions I guess). Not really judging or caring much, and I can be fascinated with something one minute and then barely glance at it the next. It’s never personal, just Ne-Ti (and Se-Ti in your case). As a social chameleon I can seem like a totally different person each time someone meets me, like I’m completely aware that I’m not acting exactly the same was as last time we met. Do ESTPs get this?
klj788986sbb no I don’t think I act very different. I like to say there is clown me and ice queen me that happen in public. You’re going to get one of those more than likely hahaha. Ppl I love get squishy me too but that’s not for everyone. But I have def noticed this different day different personality thing in entps
My extrovert counterpart is so cool... love y’all. I know an ESTP, a confirmed one, and I really want to be friends with them but idk how to approach her because she’s always surrounded by a big group of people -ISTP
[ESTP] i've been dating an ENFP for 2 years and a lot of my friends are ENFP. apart from some value conflicts which we resolve, we get along pretty well :) hopefully you find one of us soon!
I have a best friend who is enfp and dated one once, and have sworn them off bahahah. I feel like it’s really hard for them to get me and I constantly hurt their feelings, even if they say they get me.
ESTPs are the best for doing 'naughty' things with for that very reason -- so non-judgemental! Also, the combination of open and direct makes it easy to get along with them, so long as you have thick skin, because they aren't afraid to tell it like it is and tell you what they want (once they figure out what they want lol). Just don't expect them to commit to lots of overly structured long-term plans. And don't smother them.
Heather Bryant preach!
Estps are pretty awesome friends to have. My closest friend is actually an estp! She knows more about me than I actually know about myself I feel lol.
I also have a long distance estp friend that we may go months without texting or anything like that and out of the blue she just sends me an invite to go visit or whatever and we just chat as if we were just hanging out a few min ago. It’s impressive honestly.. it’s almost like she forgets that we haven’t talked in months lol. In her mind, despite not talking for a while we are still as close as friends as the last time we spoke. It’s great.
Great video (as always)
Adrian Artiles enfps are pretty cool too, bruh 🤔
INTP with an ESTP brother. Finally having learned more about mbti / cognitive functions, i actually understand him a little bit more. Growing up we had a lot of issues, and with Si child I remember a lot of it. He however doesn't. I've been holding onto my grudge towards him for a while, always frustrated that he never seemed to understand why I was distant and what he's done to hurt our relationship. Learning to realize he genuinely does not hate me and loves me as his brother has been challenging.
thewisestguy1 awww I have an intp brother, and I adore him! Strong chance he might still be bitter at me too, and def can’t say I remember exactly why. Our brains really are in the here and now. Glad you are working on moving past it!
this has mega Chaotic Neutral vibes
Meri Lochhead chaotic neutral?
Kati Bird alignment chart. look it up. it’s a DnD thing
Omg, it is super true! I was thinking it is just a normal thing when you meet cool people: you build good connection, then you don't chat for years, then meet up and everything goes as it was... now I realise, maybe it is just for me (estp) is like that haha
I agree that we trust everyone until they proof we shouldn't.
Yes, people often open up quickly with estp and because we love to listen and we are really interested (at that moment), people want to be heard and they think they are special for us. But it is not always. Sometimes we listen because we want to collect those experiences, but we don't really care much about that person. Learning! Yes :D
I personally experience some difficulties with "not said words", non-verbal unclear communication, because sometimes, while talking about very intimate things I just really want to know about the situation, but my curiosity is taken by another person as sexual suggestive. Pretty annoying sometimes when you just wanna experience world through knowing how people feel and they instead think you want relationships or intimate experience :D
Thanks for making videos about ESTP
We do love other people's shit shows lol
Flow State gotta stay entertained somehow
“We’re going to not text you, like a normal person,” too true, the one I know communicates mostly in meme stickers instead of text messages
This is literally me... I showed this video to some of my friends and they were like... wow, even her attitude is just like yours when speaking.
Andrés Alejandro Castro Cortés well hey then Estp friend!
Wow thats beeeaaautiful what youre saying, such a beautful personality wtf!!
Justyna Micota 🤤🤤
1:09 YESS! Texts and calls! I hate them! Its like someone is controlling me and expecting me to be available when they find suitable. I’ll not respond to a call or text that is just interrupting my schedule. I will only reply if its work or family. But people who come to just chat! Ugh NO!. I tend to hate social media too.
I still need to find that meme again, where it a great white shark jumping out of the water and a velociraptor ridding on its back with a machine gun in one hand and dynamite in the other and it’s captioned “ESTP and ISTP Friendship,” where on the internet is it?!
Anyways, I love ESTPs as friends. They are usually down for anything and like you said, super non judgmental. They really make me relax in a certain way few other types can, because they just let things move and flow.
Jess Britvec 💜💙
Jess Britvec 🔫🧨
🦈🦖🦅
Kati Bird 🤯
ESTP here, crazy like listening to myself.
Haris Krajina good!!
fun fact! I have 2 ESTP friends named Kati, hahahaha
Hannah Mathilda make me #3?
Kati Bird
Yes 😂😂😂
My mom’s an ESTP as well ;)
Hannah Mathilda cool! What type are you? How was it having an estp mom? I have an istp mom and it was and still is a rather chilly thing to have as another figure, and I don’t think made the feelings department any easier for me lol
Kati Bird
Well, my mom is kind of like Lu, where people think she’s a feeler more than a thinker, but it’s actually just her Fe.
At home her Ti is evident❄️. My sister is an ISTP, my dad an ISTJ, and myself an ENTP.
#relate to the texting. Im the same. 😂
Goddamnit I was almost first
My enfp always texts back ASAP cuz he doesn’t want anyone to think anything is wrong lol
@@katibird166 Wow, you found a rare ENFP then lmao. My ENFP friends and I included suck at texting each other and other people ha!
Flow State muahahha
Kati Bird thats really interesting!
4:42 yesss
She's so awesome!
Lsmih1405 😏😎😘
(INFP) For as simple as you say ESTP's are, you describe the contrast and dynamic between yourself and xNFP's well. Be it through research or experience, you demonstrate understanding and empathy; both of which require some level of depth.
Check your account, your "self credit" score should have just gone up a few points. 💳
Pedro Rubio lol If you listen to me very long I will say a lot of contradictory things, one of the probs with living in the moment. Def simple in some ways. A lot of my *nfp empathy has come from studying this stuff
damn im an Estp thank you gorgeous i liked and subscribe to your channel
The Weak Hen welcome!
Hey there Kati and Lu! I relate a lot to this. I do like to eat popcorn and watch people’s drama - that’s one of the wonders of PoLR Fi.
The Ne -Si bring some notable differences though. I like shiny new things, but not necessarily when it comes to who I spend time with. I enjoy meeting new people, but I’d prefer to spend time with old friends. If I could see my high school friends every day, that would be ideal. I get super attached to people.
I have tons of acquaintances and I can find something to talk about with ANYONE, anytime, but I don’t make friends easily. I need to connect on a deeper level so I can be reserved for a long time while I assess whether someone is friend material. And I almost never pursue a friendship because I’d rather they come to me, so I know they are interested.
I don’t think I’m seen as fun or approachable by strangers. I only want that when I want it, otherwise I think I’m fairly antisocial where the general public is concerned. I’m not up for anything. I guess that’s my Se serving my Ne. I want to be up to what interests me in the moment, not riding along on someone else’s whim. But, when I do, it’s fun. ESTPs have been known to get me into trouble, lol.
KarenV ENTP trouble is our game 😜
I'm an INFJ and I always usedto think ESTPs were just "gimmicks" or sleazy or something until I got to know them better. I actually find twoESTPs I know to be every bit as insightful as INFJs and think us both being double deciders is helpful as we understand the sudden shifts from serious to "play" mode. I really want to meet more ESTPs and see how that might look in a romantic relationship.
I can relate a bit as an ENTP lady (same middle functions I guess). Not really judging or caring much, and I can be fascinated with something one minute and then barely glance at it the next. It’s never personal, just Ne-Ti (and Se-Ti in your case). As a social chameleon I can seem like a totally different person each time someone meets me, like I’m completely aware that I’m not acting exactly the same was as last time we met. Do ESTPs get this?
klj788986sbb no I don’t think I act very different. I like to say there is clown me and ice queen me that happen in public. You’re going to get one of those more than likely hahaha. Ppl I love get squishy me too but that’s not for everyone. But I have def noticed this different day different personality thing in entps
My bestie is an ESTP & I'm an ISFJ. Kinda odd right? lol But I love her!
Haha, you share the "we'll just tell ya" with us INTJs. Except we are up to something. We're always up to something. ;-)
ESTP + ESTP = Possible Nuclear disaster. Been there done that.
My extrovert counterpart is so cool... love y’all. I know an ESTP, a confirmed one, and I really want to be friends with them but idk how to approach her because she’s always surrounded by a big group of people -ISTP
Nice sunglasses over sunglasses. Or is it electrical tape?
Its been awhile since this one came out... but can you pls make one with ESFJ, that would be very interesting!
I really want an ESTP best friend!!
Rue Oakwood we’re around!!
[ESTP] i've been dating an ENFP for 2 years and a lot of my friends are ENFP. apart from some value conflicts which we resolve, we get along pretty well :) hopefully you find one of us soon!
I have a best friend who is enfp and dated one once, and have sworn them off bahahah. I feel like it’s really hard for them to get me and I constantly hurt their feelings, even if they say they get me.
Jordi Cruyff see above lol
5:51 Nah I never tell people anything about me.
Where did you get your earrings?!!
Ruth Veldhuizen sphera Milano 😘
I ALWAYS text right back!! - ESFP!!
Apparently I’m ESFP not ESTP!
MamaWarriorPrincess ESTP! Wow never heard of it lol
I wish I had more ESTP friends. They seem so cool and fun but idk if I'd be interesting enough for them 😅 ENFJ
The female extraverted version of myself... nice
Bakary Dembélé 👌👌
My personality changed to estp after my amnesia tho
Jeeezzz...i was confused am I, ENTP or ESTP...this video confirms...damn so accurate!
truest fucking vid
Lol I am ✨disturbed✨
Kati! Kati! Kati! Kati!
Your are def estp
But Luann is a feeler
Breath of fresh air