The SECRET To Make Your Ex REGRET Leaving You

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  • If you’re thinking how to do you make your ex regret leaving you, first you need to know why you want to make her regret leaving you.
    Thinking about how to make your ex regret leaving you is a slippery slope. It can show that you haven’t moved on if you’re obsessing over how to make your ex regret dumping you.
    How to make your ex regret breaking up with you is all about context. What frame of mind are you coming from when you’re thinking of ways to make your ex regret leaving you? Is it fear? Is it anger from a lack of closure? Is it jealousy? It could actually be jealousy, especially if you want to know how to make your ex regret leaving you for someone else.
    Whether you’re interested in how to get an ex back or you’ve mostly moved on from the relationship, in today’s video we’re going to break down how to make your ex regret leaving you.
    There’s a right way to do it and a specific mindset you need to have-and we it explain it…the Black Book Basics way.
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  • @hot2def30
    @hot2def30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    The way to get back at your ex's. is to be silent and let your success talk

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      #Truth

    • @colinmorgan6439
      @colinmorgan6439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Message me on WhatApp.

    • @jbthajugganaut793
      @jbthajugganaut793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And fall off the grid. I deactivated my Facebook (my only social media) too.

    • @chrisanderson3875
      @chrisanderson3875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts.

    • @michaele.francis
      @michaele.francis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay away from mutual friends/acquaintances. They'll report all your business to your ex.

  • @JaeWall
    @JaeWall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I have been married for 12 years with a 5 year old son. Out of no where my wife decides she wants a separation and I end up finding out that she was seeing someone else. I immediately started no contact, 3 weeks later she calls crying talking about how she’s depressed and misses me. No contact worked like a charm. Her family is texting and calling me too. I’m still going to keep no contact going. Lol. I’m not a doormat.

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You got the juice now Jae! 👊🏾

    • @LukeyB777
      @LukeyB777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sorry to hear that but at least you know your worth! No contact forever.

    • @flamesurfer
      @flamesurfer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Never take her back

    • @chrisds3484
      @chrisds3484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      fuck, im doing 2months already of no contact, dont send depressing insta stories and stuff, work on myself

    • @DNikos7
      @DNikos7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Reconcile after a breakup...maybe yes. Take a cheater back? NEVER!

  • @karmaluvandlight
    @karmaluvandlight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Stop being the chaser and become the one being chased..law of attraction..

  • @Giovanni-01
    @Giovanni-01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    The silence is deafening, even if you did abit begging ,when you switch and just go full cold on her, thats what gets to them.
    Happened to me , I just stopped talking to her,she ended up calling me , but it had been like 3-4 month's,I wasnt even interested in her anymore (I was blunt) , I think she could sense it. So it's been about a month since ,and I'm feeling better everyday. Back to myself, but an even better version.
    Big up from London my guys👍🏾

    • @markmitchell2282
      @markmitchell2282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Big up front Nottingham. 🤜🏻

    • @Giovanni-01
      @Giovanni-01 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@markmitchell2282 love my bro 💙

  • @IndiansAuto
    @IndiansAuto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Shit i have a house, make 100k/year but still got left lol. I got comfortable. N i thank her for leaving. Woke me up!

  • @Napoli41482
    @Napoli41482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    26 days of no contact for me and it's starting to become easier for me to stick to my guns. I rather chase my money than to chase a honey. ✊💰

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s good, I might use that line. 😂💀

    • @Napoli41482
      @Napoli41482 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All good with me! 😁 Anyway, I dig your videos. keep that good content going. 👍

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks homie 🦈💪🏽

  • @christindell6893
    @christindell6893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Im at the point where I'm enjoying my single life

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes !!! Now make sure this new year is better then the last !!!

    • @Arcange93iam
      @Arcange93iam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How long did it take you to get there?

    • @christindell6893
      @christindell6893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Arcange93iam about a year

  • @gaddammitkyle
    @gaddammitkyle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This year is going to be our year. We will prevail. Thank you, Black Book Basics

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Respect !!! 🙏🏽

    • @jdouce6074
      @jdouce6074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go get 'em sir(s) 💜🙌🏾

  • @bradymac2158
    @bradymac2158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You know how HARD it is to find a good woman with no kids that isn't in a relationship or completely messed up from previous relationships? Or bar hopping every weekend. It's impossible. My ex just left me & she had 2 children. She was a good woman but had the 2 kiddos. There's not many out there without kids

  • @chrisds3484
    @chrisds3484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    i dont want revenge, i only wanna make her realise how good i was for her..and how much i love her

    • @B1GK1NG
      @B1GK1NG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You can bro. The only way to get over is to level up. Karma is always bitch and a woman done you dirty.

    • @chrisds3484
      @chrisds3484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@B1GK1NG especially it was on her bday, got her present back (so i was stunned more) and she told me i was very good for her + she never checked upon me, but i done it few times to her

    • @kingztv4112
      @kingztv4112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@chrisds3484 cut all contact with her

    • @chrisds3484
      @chrisds3484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kingztv4112 i am, since end october im in no contact (7weeks at the moment)

    • @Mr_Jonez
      @Mr_Jonez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Don’t worry about wanting to make her realize it. She will on her own

  • @CowboyEkim
    @CowboyEkim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    NO LIES were told in this video 💯👍🏽

  • @terronb
    @terronb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The boyz back with another banger. Always keep me thinking and laughing too lol

  • @benjamminuk
    @benjamminuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great vid guys keep going very true don’t think it will be to long before your subs start going up rapidly!

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Respect! Just a matter of time

  • @Arcange93iam
    @Arcange93iam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just discovered you guys today🙌🏽💯, New subscribeer here🖐🏽

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the support brotha !!! 💪🏽

  • @mudduck754
    @mudduck754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I just carry on with my normal daily routine, she's at the coffee place when I go for coffee in the morning parked like she expects me to pull up next to her like I used to, or at the gas station when I go to fuel up. Always at where I go. And its like she don't exist to me. Like we never met. And its driving her crazy. From what friend's say.

  • @predragsindjelic6524
    @predragsindjelic6524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You two are great. Thank you!!

  • @pjSoCal23
    @pjSoCal23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I agree success is the best revenge and also working out but if the woman doesn’t work out herself she won’t really care if you do. I’m a runner and I know that I need a man who can keep up with my energy. Running and weights clear my head.

    • @brianc5186
      @brianc5186 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please stop. Dont be a runner that broadcasts that you run to youtube comment section viewers. People cant stand those that talk about their running habits. I run 30 to 40 miles a week and I never talk about it. Ohhhh shoot!!😮

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have a 10 year goal to be a millionaire, 1/10th of the way there, financial success and living life through ones purpose will make them regret leaving no doubt

  • @kyrongeorge6468
    @kyrongeorge6468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good advice thanks guys stay hard

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for ur support brotha !!! 🦈💪🏽

  • @mariotaylor9659
    @mariotaylor9659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That’s going to happen automatically facts

    • @samelaaben8885
      @samelaaben8885 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @samelaaben8885
      @samelaaben8885 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wh'atsapp him for help*🙏.香港 香港 香港

  • @chadrice7982
    @chadrice7982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Me and my wife have been together for 7 years brought me over from America to Australia got married been great for 5 years bought a new house a few months ago and then all the sudden she got made at me for saying something small like no biggie then she wanted me to go back to the states saying she needs time and wants a separation she started sleeping in the other room she was leaving and getting caught sleeping over somewhere then come to find out it was a guys house and she moved out completely avoiding me got a rental and posted of Facebook she was in a new relationship 2 weeks after she left me and now it’s been 2 months and she is still with him but contacts me like can you talk and stuff I have been in no contact for a little over a week. She royally mess up big time she had it all money a new house a great husband her family and friends and gave all that up for this guy and drugs yes drugs and the grass is definitely not greener where she is I’m taking care of myself focusing on myself working out making that money just living

  • @lancedamons5175
    @lancedamons5175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    South Africa Cape Town Sleazeball gang ✌

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hell yeah, big ups to Cape Town !!! 🙌🏽

  • @JoJo-vz5yh
    @JoJo-vz5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dope video

  • @akoteng
    @akoteng 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn, youtube brought me here. I fw this channel now.

  • @mckinleymcintyre3892
    @mckinleymcintyre3892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Y’all guys are awesome! Keep on providing great content!!!

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much appreciated McKinley 👊🏾

  • @chrisharvey5437
    @chrisharvey5437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Solid video brother’s 💪🏾🔥💯

  • @Officialcg79
    @Officialcg79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yo these guys are the coolest mfs

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks brotha !!! 😂🙌🏽

  • @lucasaveyard6282
    @lucasaveyard6282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My fiance left me after 13 years bcos i like to just disappear when i have a drink and not come home til next day sometimes i call it a blow out she calls it disrespectful i was always well behaved just very drunk this would happen once every couple of months all the rest of the time i did all my duties to the highest level that can b asked more fool her i would have done anything for her at the drop of a hat no questions asked some women just like to control every aspect of your life bless em not up in here ya not seeya 👋

  • @Moto619films
    @Moto619films 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a particular situation That has happened 2 weeks ago We were supposed to move to a different state and she left me in the middle of the night and I woke up to a text message she took my truck and everything And she Blocked Me on everything and now she is in a different state. Need some help on this one

    • @KiDSteeZev
      @KiDSteeZev 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Report your vehicle stolen is the first thing

  • @davidwhyman1189
    @davidwhyman1189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At 2:37 I think you say "CORTOSOL", if so then I think you got the chemistry wrong. As far as I know CORTOSOL doesn't actually change how one feels. Maybe it should be DOPAMINE. Is that correct?

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, I’m correct. Cortisol is a stress hormone. Excess cortisol can lead to high blood pressure, depression, anxiety attacks, etc.

    • @daspam6526
      @daspam6526 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@opusandtarquez just looked it up - can confirm it does help regulate stress.

  • @ryan8271
    @ryan8271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I wanna keep leveling up regardless of if I ever hear from my ex again. She was more of a headache than anything. She actually TOLD ME she was a narcissist....🤦‍♂️😂 Its on to other badder and cooler females for me. And I still want to play video games. You ever played Call of Duty? It's fun af. Who needs a woman when you can play Call of Duty.....😂 just playing....kinda. lol

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂

    • @jdouce6074
      @jdouce6074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😸
      Whatever helps you cope
      Just keep it healthy (mentally & physically)

    • @ryan8271
      @ryan8271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jdouce6074 fa sho. 💪💯

    • @jdouce6074
      @jdouce6074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ryan8271
      Yessir🤙🏾✨

  • @sharoonalven2336
    @sharoonalven2336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    BangBros rocked, exes shocked. 🙏
    Love from Pakistan ❤🥳🇵🇰

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂
      Big ups to Pakistan !!! 🙌🏽

    • @sharoonalven2336
      @sharoonalven2336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Means alot ❤
      Shoutout: PAKISTAN zindabad 🙏

  • @jasondeb
    @jasondeb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    anotha one ✅✅✅

  • @mrmarcusdmorgan
    @mrmarcusdmorgan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Cheers to another great video !!!! 🍻

  • @bryansmith2755
    @bryansmith2755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Igood video my friend s but I say just move on in say the hell with her life don't wait on no on in ain't no point trying to prove something to no one guys out here just to suck it up in get over it

  • @paaruxd9679
    @paaruxd9679 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super guys😍lov from India

  • @javiersaucedo2042
    @javiersaucedo2042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WhhhT they got the xbox 2? Uuggh my heart hearts they leveled up on me. 😂

  • @AmirZ1
    @AmirZ1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if you have a holiday booked for surgery purposes right and then you called bc you have surgery together as in evegrbtinf booked etc right but you are the one who hadn't been initiating contact at all, but I said that I don't have another accomedation but everything is sorted lmao

  • @chancewilkerson63
    @chancewilkerson63 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Flapjack nipples like cardi b 😂🤣 jk jk , but seriously I’m just now getting back into working out

  • @bartzeegers3663
    @bartzeegers3663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The left Guy sounds like samual l Jackson 💯

  • @sriramprarmy
    @sriramprarmy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    8:03🎉

  • @davidwhyman1189
    @davidwhyman1189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wrong. And watch BOBBY RIO, he does this stuff better.

  • @karmaluvandlight
    @karmaluvandlight 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Opus👀😊