"A woman doesn't want a man that doesn't have control of his emotions." More men need to hear this, regardless of the pursuit of a woman or not. Without emotional control, you get smashed by the smallest amount of adversity. Great video, Issa!
Control your emotions for God, yourself and your people. If you do it for a woman, you are faking it. Most women will call anything that you do that isn’t what they want “uncontrolled emotion” and weakness. When most women want you to control your emotions, what they are really saying is “Control yours so I don’t have to control mine” and “Control your emotions so my emotions can control you without reprisal”.
Better advice than mine 🙌 I think in the beginning every guy starts to do it because of the girl and then they realize how the entire process is for them and making the girl regret losing you is just the cherry on top. Honestly, I didn't care about the girl that broke my heart after focusing on myself.
@@Giovanni-rh1pw karma, God, call it how you want, it exists and ppl get crushed by it one day in their life, most of the time karma comes when you think life is going easy, u get punished and something breaks, relationship, car, career, you cant escape karma
As a 62 year old man, I have had my heart broken a few times. I agree, you should focus on your physical, emotional and financial well being, but dont do it to get back at her. Let it go. Dont give her another thought.
@@IssaIbrahim1 same, i blew it and gave her my power when she was eating out of the palm of my hand before that. Never again, i learned those lessons within my 20 months of suffering with her.
Just wanted to make it clear to all my fellow guys out there, don’t fight your feelings, accept that what happened, happened and work through the pain like how you do when you workout. This will allow us to express our emotions without stonewalling and going cold for any future relationships. Peace ✌🏼
YES! Thanks for sharing this! YOUR EMOTIONS ARE VALID EVEN IF YOU ARE A MAN DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER! OWN THAT SHIT! BE WITH IT! ACCEPT IT EMBRACE IT! IF YOU CANT EMBRACE YOUR OWN FEELINGS YOU WONT BE ABLE TO EMBRACE HER AND GUESS WHAT?! YOU ARE GOING TO PUSH HER AWAY!!!!!!! #FACTS
I’ve been going through this for the past 9 months, I’ve been doing exactly what you stated within this video. I’ve ghosted on all social media, quit smoking and drinking. Been building my business and training in the boxing gym consecutively and I’ve built a level of mental fortitude, but hear and there thoughts do ponder about my ex but I allow myself not to surrender to these negative thoughts. I’ve been indulging in cold showers EVERYDAY and started to meditate, I will keep the momentum up and use this anger and pain to fuel the fire.
Yo bro, how are things now? I'm 8 months in after a 6 year relo and it's sorta surfacing again idk why. I went no contact and deleted everything from day 1 and didn't think of her for a couple of months but it's gotten worse lately. Hope you're well my g
“Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.” - Charles Bukowski
I agree with you. That's the ultimate goal. On the other hand, rejection can give one fuel to show her that she did a mistake in her decision, which is ofc based on some things of you. I think it's not a bad thing in having the confidence and belief to think that it's her loss, because that's also related to your sense of self-worth and respect, which should always be high and prioritized. So taking the steps to focus on yourself after a rejection, whether it's based on fuel to "show her" or more about self-improvement, would both serve to heal you in the process and build yourself up again.
Yeah, I feel it is at odds with "creating your own value", because ultimately you won't until you let go of such "revenge". You are still basing your self worth based off of someone else, and what's more - by making them feel bad. Why be so cruel? This toxicity will eat you alive in the end. Next day you will be doubting yourself just the same.
Good man, just got told by a girl who I’ve been talking to constantly for the last month that she ‘can’t see it working out’. Feeling down but you are right, the energy and drive I’m getting from this is genuinely amazing. Great things are about to happen
Watching your vids made me realise how much of a dick i was to my ex, if i was her I would've left too. You've helped me come so far and actually become a better person over these last few months. I appreciate it alot brother.
he writes that she will regret because you will become strong (if you start taking steps towards this), and you write that she was right to leave you (because you were bad). The message of the video is different.
Dont think like that i think a relationship should be ended only when cheating is involved or daily fights that will not get better no matter how much happened or stuff like rape or such evil things but it is normal to fight to argue to scream to cry to laugh to ignore eachother no matter what love should always be the first thing in the relationship if love is not felt or shown and received… its over
I was cheated on in a 8 year relationship , a relationship which we had a kid together, I’m 27 and feel as if I’ve ran out of time to build a new me, it’s the first time in my life I’ve felt heartbreak, videos like this is giving me hope, to all the men out there dealing with heartbreak I feel yah.
6 years yesterday. It's a pretty fucked feeling to look back on every time a hunch made more sense, but eyes forward. Time for a new beginning and a new me
Going through a tough divorce myself, found your videos and they are amazing and very helpful, this videos are filled with fire, wish I'd seen this videos years ago, but I guess it's never too late, keep up the good work, greetings from México ❤
I just went through a crushing break up, and I needed to hear this.. because of this video, I've subscribed to your channel. Keep making good content, bro.
Left me after three years of our relationship , she wants to come back five months after we decided to broke up. truly loved her , to the point of chasing her. And yes , she got rejected from my side now. Remember a real lover will be next to you , ups and lows. Keep the grind everyone
Good advice to take a break from females in general to work on yourself. After like my 5th heartbreak I was done talking and interacting with girls and just put my energy into myself. Ended up going back to school, I found a much better job that allowed me to save up for some nice cars and mod them to death. Changed my entire wardrobe with high quality clothing. Fixed by teeth with braces. Fixed my physique, my mental became stronger. Grew my hair out and got a new style, got a consistent and rigorous hygiene routine to stay fresh, got into the habit of always carrying chapstick and gum too lol. I’m much different and much better after taking a break and focusing on myself. This video is 100% factual and I’m glad you’re spreading the word to other men who get lost after heartbreak cause we will all go thru it eventually, it’s inevitable.
There's a lot of videos regarding this topic on youtube but I found this one the most motivating and down to earth. No BS just the truth. Awesome video!
Man, These are the words I needed to hear right now. Im in a deep pain, suffering from a breakup of a 9years relationship thankyou for the message. keep it up ❤
18 months after a 17 year relationship break up ( including 2 children ) I am still broken ! It’s not her anymore ! Just having a broken family is the real pain !
Stay strong, I been there and it’s so hard to deal with I wish I knew more about how to deal with all this but instead I drank and cry a lot didn’t get me no where was 15 years marriage.. it’s been 9 year since my divorce and all I tracked was toxic women.. I’m broken again but now it time to get back on my feet.. wish you the best bro !!
@@IssaIbrahim1 with a auditory of 12k people brother responded as fast as possible. damn you really want to help men who need it. If I ever would be in the situation like that this video would help alot but I learned all by my own and what you do should be respect G. Have a good one mate.
Ghost mode : Doing fine for almost 4 months now and happy to say that I cut off everyone including social media, and friends and started a whole dopamine detox routine. Believe me this feels like after life. Things take time so keep going and have some discipline.
Hey man I’m on the first week after a breakup. This is definitely very tough but I’m not quitting. I cried many times already but I’m on it. I applaud you my man because 4 months is serious dedication
This is exactly what I had to hear. My gf of 3 years broke up yesterday with me. This is after she has said she wanted to be married/spend the rest of her life with me less than a month ago. I had to take some work abroad for a year, and it was too much for her in the end. While I understand and it’s fair, I definitely want to invest in myself more now. Workout more, get into things I’ve wanted to do, take care of my mental health after many years of not paying attention to it. Thanks bro. I appreciate your words and advice.
Sorry to hear man. Reminds me of my ex from last year that broke up with me after I moved away for school. She was supposed to move near-ish to me but didn’t end up following through. She then proceeded to tell me that I was the one who couldn’t handle the distance yet her being the one to initiate the break up and literally saying “I’m not going to do long distance in the future.” It sucks, but if she can’t deal with you being away for some time, you’re better off without. All relationships have tough times, distance being one example of that. She just showed you that she wasn’t going to stick it out through the rough times with you, and that’s valuable information to have, as much as it hurts. Like you said, enjoy your freedom now. Do the things you want to do without having to appease someone who wouldn’t put the same energy as you did into them and the relationship. You’re better off without and will come out the other end better for it.
Eyo just wanted to say love the video, this is defintiely what i needed to hear. I loved my best girl friend that i knew for 5 years and got rejected but i kept on chasing her all those years and basically wasting a lot of time on her. In June she got her first boyfriend and now im standing here all alone feeling nothing but pathetic about myself. I basically stopped growing these last years because i was only chasing her. This month i already improved on so many levels: i started with praying, reading and no fap and havent stopped a day since. Im in a way better situation now but i still lack confidence. For now tho i will just keep doing what you say is best: grinding my ass off. Im tired of being soft and i know i have a lot of potential thats just keep getting waste if i stay like this. So Sir thank your for the video i really appreciate the message and to others reading this: Stay hard and never give up. Everything happens for a reason. - Tim
I’m 36 and work as a social worker. I can tell you first hand, that more young men need to hear your message. Just talking with the younger Millennials and Gen Z as often as I do, they don’t have a f***ing clue on what it means to be a man in today’s society. Not all of them, but certainly a disproportionate amount of them act as such. They are lost. Confused. They hate the “normal” we’ve allowed to exist but also don’t know how to function otherwise. They have almost every song, film, book and tv show telling them to bow in the presence of females and worship them and that by doing so, they will get what they want in kind. Then they do that, and are more often than not, left with nothing. We NEED to create dangerous but good men again. Men that are strong. Balanced. Powerful enough to gentle but dangerous if messed with. Without intervention, if the young men that I work with are a sign of what’s coming, in less than a decade, we are going to be in very VERY deep trouble.
Bro you fucking get me so much the first part was so fucking relatable I gave her too much attention and love and she got sick of it. And even then she didn't say much and I felt extremely empty and sad
Im doing both ways to deal with heartbreak, enjoying my time by being with friends(smoking, drinking,etc), but also leaving time for myself to grow as an individual(the gym, healthy eating,etc) but also, dont do any of this for revenge, do it for yourself
Earned my sub. Well spoken and valid points. Really connected with what you said. I've quit caffeine, nicotine and drinking. Started going for runs. Going to make myself proud this year. Thank you for your motivation
Great video. 100% facts. This applies to anything in life. Use negativity as fuel and focus on working on yourself. You will become unrecognisable and they will ALWAYS regret losing you.
Very powerful & Intelligent words. I recently suffered a painful and humiliating breakup. I was obsessed with getting revenge on her until I came across this video. Im giving myself a year to rise up from my ashes.
Thank you brother. I also webt through this and its really wonderful advice. I really gave this girl attention and it turned out to be toxic to the extent of abusind me,plus being disrespectful and I regretted all the wonderful things I did for her.May GOD reward you abundantly.
Bro this is spot on. After my divorce I went the opposite way and turned to Alcohol and self destructive behaviours. I need this video now more than ever. Ive been self destructing for 2 years since my breakup its killing me. I wish I had your motivation. I can still do it.
As a man who’s subliminally implemented each of these pillars, this is a video every young influenceable mind should watch. advice I wish I had years ago I had to learn each of these skills the hard way.
Like Tristan tate said you shouldnt make your life about revenage on your ex. It should come from you deep down the change your crave the successful life you want apart from that you spot on bro
Lost my baby momma and I feel like a failure as a father and now all I can think about is her moving on and another man being around my child more then me. Regardless I'm going to be the best version of myself so I can one day make my daughter proud.
She will regret leaving me, after I put in 3 years of my life to try to satisfy her. I was devastated and couldn’t hold back the tears, but now that all the tears are out, it’s grinding time. I will level up, and when I’m completely on a whole new level and mindset, I know someone new, better and more accepting will come along and my ex will be left in the past, only looking at my life through a glass at what she could’ve had, had she stuck it out with me. Mindset first, now it’s time for action. Thank you for this video bro, a good reminder to me to keep chugging along.
Thanks for this. I just got rejected by a girl hat i still am in love with. But now I'm on self-improvement and its my mission to become a better man and to make her regret rejecting me.
this video is very timely, i suffered a very bad breakup last year and since then i've gotten in shape, bought a property, invested in my mental health, and booked trips to places i've wanted to go. recently i got rejected by a woman i really liked, i accepted the suck for 1-2 days but your video helped alot in reframing, and now im back on the path to becoming even stronger.
My world was crushed for the last month and a half. Started drinking again and barely scraped by with help from family. I am seeing from a diff Perspective now though. It can only get better but it hurts and I blocked her on all social media immediately. She was a thirst trap and one month she confessed to doing only fans content. I hated it but i let it go and I should have just broke it off there. Tried to change everything about our lives and forgave her thinking she would be a good woman but she was disrespectful and eventually the fights got really bad and we split
Just recently was blindsided broken up with by my girlfriend of 4 years. Have a ring, was planning on proposing next month. She told me, her family,my family and all our friends how excited she was to marry me. Then out of nowhere she dumped me. Didn’t really give a reason either. It’s been about 3 days and I have been all over the place emotionally by myself. Trying to start my healing process. This video has felt like a good first step in getting my self worth back
I'm going through this phase right now, it really shaked me to core when my ex brokeup with me , i then realized i didn't had a purpose my only job was then to somehow satisfy her. After the breakup it really hit me hard, no one respected me and even my ex didn't bother to ask when i was hospitalised. I started doing self care, it didn't go well at first i was not seeing any results but i did it cuz i built it as a habit. After 1 year when i checked my old photos with current me, i was shocked how my appearance has changed I went from a 4 to 5, DELAYED GRATIFICATION. Don't stop guys, keep hustling one day you'd see results
First time commenting on something like this. I met a girl in new zealand really clicked. Felt amazing then she went back to the US due to the visa. We spent 14 months apart and she sent me a text at 4 in the morning when i got up for work saying she went home with a workmate. And kisses. She kept saying it was nothing. We ended up splitting and i stalked ( wrong move aye) and found out shes with the same guy. It destroyed me. Put me back into self harming mode. But i gotta remind me of the good shit in life. Im working out 3-4 times a week with some boxing thrown into the mix. Have bad days mentally but i gotta keep keeping on.
100% I'm just encouraging men that feel down about a breakup to use it as fuel instead but the beauty is that you transition to doing it for yourself so thank you for bringing that up!
I have made some HUGE mistakes since the break in February. We spent the whole summer together, basically acting as a couple still without being one. And I think we both did it cuz it blocked out the emotions. And I did start off ghosting her but she dragged me back in. Here in July and I realize I should have stuck to that. So we’re starting over. I lost 20 lbs from working out, I never drink or smoke so I got that figured out. Now it’s time to build up my success, become more productive and self sufficient. I want to be able to make myself happy on my own accord and not need someone else to have that happiness. We got this fellas💪
After my brokeup last year i lost 14kg and i won the 3 place in italian national KARATÈ tournament. I'm so fkn proud of my inner strength that i didn't imagine to have. I tought i was uncapable to keep on living, but guess what i'm here with a lot of achievements to reach. I'm ravenous and determined to devour anything on my path. Be strong guys, sometimes to reach for grateness you need to be shattered❤.
Ive litrally split with my ex after a long relatuonship, i supported her through her bereavements and gave her everything i coukd emotionally and mentally. She litrally ended on a text wattsaap and then ghosted me when she got a job. I was left complety lzost and no idea what i had done. Your video came on at the right time. Back to the gym first thing in the morning and ive gotta save my money. Thanks dude, brilliant vid
The gardener doesn’t chase the butterflies, he just takes care of the garden and plants the flowers and the butterflies come by themselves. And even if they don’t, then he still has a very nice garden :)
@@IssaIbrahim1 i didn’t date for 2 and a half years after I left my abusive ex, and it was hard being single…stumbled across this one a week ago and it really helps me with my current breakup
Came across your video after my gf ended things off. We met in the gym through a friend, she had an abrasive personality & would talk down to me. There were times where I would call her out & ghost her. 1 day we had an episode and she knocked on my door and told me it's over. Women can never take accountability for their wrong doings.. Now i'm picking up the pieces hitting the gym even harder & focused on my mental and money. She lives in the same condo building as me which sux
What kills me the most is that we were building each other up. What ended up happening, was we eventually broke each other down. I regret being so weak, and letting my emotions get out of control, letting myself become emotionally unavailable. 4 years, and multiple tries after those 4 years, all gone down the drain. It fucking hurts, but I know i was the best thing for her, and she let that go.
@@IssaIbrahim1 that's the plan brother. Thank you for the advice in this video. I want her back, and hopefully she grows mentally and comes back level headed. Not throwing herself away for other men who won't give her the same things i would. But if she does let herself fall into the category of a 304, then I will have built myself up enough not to need that energy. I just hate knowing that we let go of something that had so much potential. I knew the potential and i feel like i failed as a man. But each loss is a lesson, and we gotta keep fulfilling our duty
Excellent video brother! I just got my heart broke by a single mom lol...I broke all my rules and dated one 😟 But now I hit the gym like a boss 6 days a week and I'm starting my trucking company! I can't wait for her to hit me up after I've made it and all I'm gonna say is "sorry you're not my type anymore" dope vid bro 👌
Haha man me too. I’m a single dad so I tried dating a single mom even though everyone says not too but I learned my lesson. I broke up with her but she basically left me no choice. It’s still hard and I’m suffering but doing all the positive things and being productive
It's funny, I got this video a few weeks after my breakup like TH-cam knew lmao, but it feels good that I've already been doing a lot of stuff to help my mental health meditation, journaling etc. This is a great video by the way keep it up man
Whether it was acceptable for her or not, I am in touch with my emotions. She was uncomfortable with her own, that's why she couldn't understand mine. I won't bury myself for anyone's approval, especially for that reason.
If you do this for revenge, you will fail. Do it for yourself. Revenge is just an added bonus if it happens to work out that way. But you need to do it for you, not for anyone else.
I don't know about the "a woman will want you more when you don't pay attention to her" stuff. As a woman, I was really into this guy *because* he paid so much attention, because i felt like he cared. We were spending so much time together that i slowly fell for him. If someone doesnt pay attention to you/acts as if their not interested, why waste your time on them?
Guys, listen up. She will not regret anything at all, why? because if someone treat her bad, she will start to be vulnerable, she will start to remember how good you treat her, but when the "there's someone else" replace you, she will instantly forget you, she will no longer need you, trust me. if she left you, she's probably in a good state of acceptance with the break up, she might care about your feelings, but she's more focused on how to adapt in this situation rather think about how you will, she's 100% sure about what she wants. She will ignore your feelings atp, if she's trying to help you and have a "healthy" break up. ill promise you that she is doing that for herself, she wants you to have some fake hopes, be a delusional. If you truly love her, u aint gonna stop have hopes for her. sad truth, she knows exactly how you feel, you never wanted to break up with her, you never wanted to fight (*bad fights*) with her, you always loved her like she was your fucking soulmate, but trust me brother. you might be a delusional, you might be overreacting, cause she treated you like no one else did. thats why you probably "loved" her. Thats why is hard tho, the love bombing made you feel that way. The "i want you forever" broke your fucking heart. Dont lose your guard, be low-key, you need to be more careful with your feelings, dont fall to this trap of love bombing, YOU will regret falling in love with her, YOU will learn to be a better person after this break up, and guys dont go back, there's a slight chance that it might work but, dont risk it, move on, grow yourself alone, be better, alone. Make loneliness your comfort, but not for long, you need people in your circle, you have to communicate with people, we are all in the same page if you clicked on this video, take your time to adapt ALONE, bro, she's probably with her friends, laughing and trying to forget you, you are fucking raging atp, make this your own cope of mechanism, made yourself better while she's trying to have the male-validation, the any type of validation, but you are stronger than her, she haves EVERYONE to help her, simp her. You? you got yourself, maybe 2-3 true friends, maybe your family, but mostly you got YOURSELF. Dont stalk her, ghost her. Go dark, you deserver better, trust me brother. **My english is bad, i know. but atleast you can get the point, if someone wants to chat and have a convo about this topic, if that will make you feel better, i can help.
Happen to me recently. Damn it really harsh man. But it's so wonderful. I join kickboxing after and fix my financial issue, everything went up after. Only a man going thru this would really understand the harsh reality of woman. They punish you really hard, for slightly weakness in you, man it can even impair your brain and physic. Making you depressed and you can't move doing everyday stuff. Emotional control really helps here. Women are wonderful. People saying otherwise never experienced true power of woman affection and tenderness. We are in this together king 👑 Pain and suffering is all we need to get through this.
This is amazing. Resonates with me completely. I went through a breakup 3 years ago and I spent a year recovering and the past two years partying. I quit drinking in November and now I think I’m done going out at least for now. Before I entered this last relationship, I had the most money I ever had and it all went quickly afterwards. I made mistakes and have learned. Also I like the point you made when presenting the two paths. I had a few rebound girls but it wasn’t the same. I’m taking the more difficult path now.
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"A woman doesn't want a man that doesn't have control of his emotions." More men need to hear this, regardless of the pursuit of a woman or not. Without emotional control, you get smashed by the smallest amount of adversity. Great video, Issa!
Couldn’t have said it better than that Nick!
This comment here 💯
This is exactly why most men don’t feel comfortable showing emotions lol
Control your emotions for God, yourself and your people. If you do it for a woman, you are faking it. Most women will call anything that you do that isn’t what they want “uncontrolled emotion” and weakness. When most women want you to control your emotions, what they are really saying is “Control yours so I don’t have to control mine” and “Control your emotions so my emotions can control you without reprisal”.
Big facts!!!!
You were completely fine before she came into your life and you will be completely fine after she leaves your life.
You got it bro 💪
I'm extremely fine now that I've left .
I was more peaceful with out her
@@wBrewsterboyjr92 Me too bro... had much much peace in my life before her. After her, everything went down...
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Don't do it for her. Do it for you.
Better advice than mine 🙌 I think in the beginning every guy starts to do it because of the girl and then they realize how the entire process is for them and making the girl regret losing you is just the cherry on top. Honestly, I didn't care about the girl that broke my heart after focusing on myself.
Use her as the fuel to boost you
The best revenge is none .heal, move on with your life , and let karma deal with it
Ah yes
But It takes so long to heal
This, you are still losing if youre trying to get "revenge" Improve yourself for YOU
Karma doesn't exist
@@Giovanni-rh1pwyou’re wrong bro
@@Giovanni-rh1pw karma, God, call it how you want, it exists and ppl get crushed by it one day in their life, most of the time karma comes when you think life is going easy, u get punished and something breaks, relationship, car, career, you cant escape karma
As a 62 year old man, I have had my heart broken a few times. I agree, you should focus on your physical, emotional and financial well being, but dont do it to get back at her. Let it go. Dont give her another thought.
The girl that rejected you is definitely going to regret losing you after seeing this video 🤯😮
It’s okay, I don’t care about her anymore 😉
@@IssaIbrahim1 my man
@@IssaIbrahim1 same, i blew it and gave her my power when she was eating out of the palm of my hand before that. Never again, i learned those lessons within my 20 months of suffering with her.
@@IssaIbrahim1you shoulda replied "who?"
Yeah but what if your face is ugly. Plus your not ugly yourself bro
Just wanted to make it clear to all my fellow guys out there, don’t fight your feelings, accept that what happened, happened and work through the pain like how you do when you workout. This will allow us to express our emotions without stonewalling and going cold for any future relationships. Peace ✌🏼
Great insight bro 🙏
YES! Thanks for sharing this! YOUR EMOTIONS ARE VALID EVEN IF YOU ARE A MAN DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER! OWN THAT SHIT! BE WITH IT! ACCEPT IT EMBRACE IT! IF YOU CANT EMBRACE YOUR OWN FEELINGS YOU WONT BE ABLE TO EMBRACE HER AND GUESS WHAT?! YOU ARE GOING TO PUSH HER AWAY!!!!!!! #FACTS
@@thomasgrabowski2202I'm the reason why we broke up, i cheated by stalking other girls on instagram and watching girls on tiktok. How should i feel?
She doesn't deserve to let you think about her at all. Break all contact, let her be alone, find someone who deserves you.
I’ve been going through this for the past 9 months, I’ve been doing exactly what you stated within this video. I’ve ghosted on all social media, quit smoking and drinking. Been building my business and training in the boxing gym consecutively and I’ve built a level of mental fortitude, but hear and there thoughts do ponder about my ex but I allow myself not to surrender to these negative thoughts. I’ve been indulging in cold showers EVERYDAY and started to meditate, I will keep the momentum up and use this anger and pain to fuel the fire.
Good shit bro, sounds like you’re crushing it. Keep us updated on your journey 💪
Thats the right thing !! You are becoming stronger than ever
Go get what’s yours bro. There’s no stopping you 💪🏻
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Yo bro, how are things now? I'm 8 months in after a 6 year relo and it's sorta surfacing again idk why. I went no contact and deleted everything from day 1 and didn't think of her for a couple of months but it's gotten worse lately. Hope you're well my g
“Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.”
- Charles Bukowski
“Some people are going to leave, but that’s not the end of your story. That’s the end of their part in your story.”
Heartbreak makes you stronger, for something to heal it first has to break for it to comeback and grow stronger.
Your mission shouldn’t be to make anyone regret anything. It should be to become whole again so you can understand where things went wrong.
I agree with you. That's the ultimate goal. On the other hand, rejection can give one fuel to show her that she did a mistake in her decision, which is ofc based on some things of you. I think it's not a bad thing in having the confidence and belief to think that it's her loss, because that's also related to your sense of self-worth and respect, which should always be high and prioritized. So taking the steps to focus on yourself after a rejection, whether it's based on fuel to "show her" or more about self-improvement, would both serve to heal you in the process and build yourself up again.
Nah fuck that! Bas!!! She gonna regret!
Yeah, I feel it is at odds with "creating your own value", because ultimately you won't until you let go of such "revenge". You are still basing your self worth based off of someone else, and what's more - by making them feel bad. Why be so cruel? This toxicity will eat you alive in the end. Next day you will be doubting yourself just the same.
The best revenge is no revenge, pursh yourself to be best version of yourself, be okay without her, and she’ll hate it.
Good man, just got told by a girl who I’ve been talking to constantly for the last month that she ‘can’t see it working out’. Feeling down but you are right, the energy and drive I’m getting from this is genuinely amazing. Great things are about to happen
Great things are about to happen brother. Put your head down and do the work. 💪
Watching your vids made me realise how much of a dick i was to my ex, if i was her I would've left too. You've helped me come so far and actually become a better person over these last few months. I appreciate it alot brother.
Thank you for your support brother I wish you the best 🙏🏽
he writes that she will regret because you will become strong (if you start taking steps towards this), and you write that she was right to leave you (because you were bad). The message of the video is different.
Dont think like that i think a relationship should be ended only when cheating is involved or daily fights that will not get better no matter how much happened or stuff like rape or such evil things but it is normal to fight to argue to scream to cry to laugh to ignore eachother no matter what love should always be the first thing in the relationship if love is not felt or shown and received… its over
Damn I felt that part when he said “when she leaves you she has options n you just gotta grind it out” 💯💯💯
I was cheated on in a 8 year relationship , a relationship which we had a kid together, I’m 27 and feel as if I’ve ran out of time to build a new me, it’s the first time in my life I’ve felt heartbreak, videos like this is giving me hope, to all the men out there dealing with heartbreak I feel yah.
6 years yesterday. It's a pretty fucked feeling to look back on every time a hunch made more sense, but eyes forward. Time for a new beginning and a new me
I'm almost 31 and building my life again. It's never too late.
Going through a tough divorce myself, found your videos and they are amazing and very helpful, this videos are filled with fire, wish I'd seen this videos years ago, but I guess it's never too late, keep up the good work, greetings from México ❤
I just went through a crushing break up, and I needed to hear this.. because of this video, I've subscribed to your channel. Keep making good content, bro.
Sorry to hear that bro. Glad you found the message helpful 🙏
Left me after three years of our relationship , she wants to come back five months after we decided to broke up.
truly loved her , to the point of chasing her.
And yes , she got rejected from my side now.
Remember a real lover will be next to you , ups and lows.
Keep the grind everyone
Beans and sharknut tuna. We come over such , t
Keep your head up bro and keep on the grind 🙏
It is just so hard and painful. Hopefully it will help me go through. Great content, bro.
I hope you get through it bro, stay strong 🙏
Good advice to take a break from females in general to work on yourself. After like my 5th heartbreak I was done talking and interacting with girls and just put my energy into myself. Ended up going back to school, I found a much better job that allowed me to save up for some nice cars and mod them to death. Changed my entire wardrobe with high quality clothing. Fixed by teeth with braces. Fixed my physique, my mental became stronger. Grew my hair out and got a new style, got a consistent and rigorous hygiene routine to stay fresh, got into the habit of always carrying chapstick and gum too lol. I’m much different and much better after taking a break and focusing on myself. This video is 100% factual and I’m glad you’re spreading the word to other men who get lost after heartbreak cause we will all go thru it eventually, it’s inevitable.
Man you Said The truth. Rejections is a powerfull motivator.
You got it bro 💪
There's a lot of videos regarding this topic on youtube but I found this one the most motivating and down to earth. No BS just the truth. Awesome video!
Glad it was helpful! Appreciate your support on my channel brother 🙏
Man, These are the words I needed to hear right now. Im in a deep pain, suffering from a breakup of a 9years relationship thankyou for the message. keep it up ❤
Sorry to hear that bro, keep your head up. Good things will come 🙏
Same here its sucks
God bless you brother.. don't worry
18 months after a 17 year relationship break up ( including 2 children ) I am still broken !
It’s not her anymore ! Just having a broken family is the real pain !
Stay strong, I been there and it’s so hard to deal with I wish I knew more about how to deal with all this but instead I drank and cry a lot didn’t get me no where was 15 years marriage.. it’s been 9 year since my divorce and all I tracked was toxic women.. I’m broken again but now it time to get back on my feet.. wish you the best bro !!
dunnno why I am here, but you talk facts brother. always put yourself first and no one eelse
Respect bro 🙏
@@IssaIbrahim1 with a auditory of 12k people brother responded as fast as possible. damn you really want to help men who need it. If I ever would be in the situation like that this video would help alot but I learned all by my own and what you do should be respect G. Have a good one mate.
Ghost mode : Doing fine for almost 4 months now and happy to say that I cut off everyone including social media, and friends and started a whole dopamine detox routine. Believe me this feels like after life. Things take time so keep going and have some discipline.
Keep up the good shit bro 💪
Hey man I’m on the first week after a breakup. This is definitely very tough but I’m not quitting. I cried many times already but I’m on it. I applaud you my man because 4 months is serious dedication
@@whitewolf9547 Hold on bit more, you'll get there I believe in you. Trust yourself. Oh and appreciate your compliment.
@@xgiha this is my only option. I am ready for all the ups and downs. Thank you my friend
I don't think you should ever cut off your social circle, your friends are extremely important for living a mentally and physically healthy life
Do it for yourself, never for others.
This is exactly what I had to hear. My gf of 3 years broke up yesterday with me. This is after she has said she wanted to be married/spend the rest of her life with me less than a month ago. I had to take some work abroad for a year, and it was too much for her in the end.
While I understand and it’s fair, I definitely want to invest in myself more now. Workout more, get into things I’ve wanted to do, take care of my mental health after many years of not paying attention to it.
Thanks bro. I appreciate your words and advice.
Sorry to hear man. Reminds me of my ex from last year that broke up with me after I moved away for school. She was supposed to move near-ish to me but didn’t end up following through. She then proceeded to tell me that I was the one who couldn’t handle the distance yet her being the one to initiate the break up and literally saying “I’m not going to do long distance in the future.”
It sucks, but if she can’t deal with you being away for some time, you’re better off without. All relationships have tough times, distance being one example of that. She just showed you that she wasn’t going to stick it out through the rough times with you, and that’s valuable information to have, as much as it hurts.
Like you said, enjoy your freedom now. Do the things you want to do without having to appease someone who wouldn’t put the same energy as you did into them and the relationship. You’re better off without and will come out the other end better for it.
rejection wakes you up
Eyo just wanted to say love the video, this is defintiely what i needed to hear. I loved my best girl friend that i knew for 5 years and got rejected but i kept on chasing her all those years and basically wasting a lot of time on her. In June she got her first boyfriend and now im standing here all alone feeling nothing but pathetic about myself. I basically stopped growing these last years because i was only chasing her. This month i already improved on so many levels: i started with praying, reading and no fap and havent stopped a day since. Im in a way better situation now but i still lack confidence. For now tho i will just keep doing what you say is best: grinding my ass off. Im tired of being soft and i know i have a lot of potential thats just keep getting waste if i stay like this. So Sir thank your for the video i really appreciate the message and to others reading this: Stay hard and never give up. Everything happens for a reason. - Tim
Keep up the grind bro! Everything happens for a reason 🙏
I’m 36 and work as a social worker. I can tell you first hand, that more young men need to hear your message. Just talking with the younger Millennials and Gen Z as often as I do, they don’t have a f***ing clue on what it means to be a man in today’s society. Not all of them, but certainly a disproportionate amount of them act as such. They are lost. Confused. They hate the “normal” we’ve allowed to exist but also don’t know how to function otherwise. They have almost every song, film, book and tv show telling them to bow in the presence of females and worship them and that by doing so, they will get what they want in kind. Then they do that, and are more often than not, left with nothing. We NEED to create dangerous but good men again. Men that are strong. Balanced. Powerful enough to gentle but dangerous if messed with. Without intervention, if the young men that I work with are a sign of what’s coming, in less than a decade, we are going to be in very VERY deep trouble.
Bro you fucking get me so much the first part was so fucking relatable I gave her too much attention and love and she got sick of it. And even then she didn't say much and I felt extremely empty and sad
Im doing both ways to deal with heartbreak, enjoying my time by being with friends(smoking, drinking,etc), but also leaving time for myself to grow as an individual(the gym, healthy eating,etc) but also, dont do any of this for revenge, do it for yourself
Love this
Earned my sub. Well spoken and valid points. Really connected with what you said. I've quit caffeine, nicotine and drinking. Started going for runs. Going to make myself proud this year. Thank you for your motivation
That's amazing bro, keep it up! Appreciate the support. Send me an email if you want to stay accountable. You can find it on my about page.
Great video. 100% facts. This applies to anything in life. Use negativity as fuel and focus on working on yourself. You will become unrecognisable and they will ALWAYS regret losing you.
Very powerful & Intelligent words.
I recently suffered a painful and humiliating breakup. I was obsessed with getting revenge on her until I came across this video.
Im giving myself a year to rise up from my ashes.
At the end of the day, we all need time (patience) to see things get better if we refocus our energy towards these positive changes
@@IssaIbrahim1 Keep up the great work. Your message saved me from a serious drama. Thanks again my friend.
Trust me your success will be your revenge she will regret it. And thank her for making you a better person and breaking you to build yourself up
In order to become a man, we have to go through trials of heartbreak. So true man.👍
You got it bro
You don’t need hir! We need eachother! That’s the difference
The goal is to form a community to support each other 🙏. Appreciate it bro!
Absolutely fire of advice man!! Rejection hurts but using it as fuel is so important.
You got it bro 💪
Thank you brother. I also webt through this and its really wonderful advice.
I really gave this girl attention and it turned out to be toxic to the extent of abusind me,plus being disrespectful and I regretted all the wonderful things I did for her.May GOD reward you abundantly.
Man, these are the words i wanted to hear right now...🔥🔥
Love to hear it bro, let’s kill it 💪
LOVE heals the heart and the fastest and best way of healing comes from loving yourself. 💙💎💙💎💙💎💙💎💙💎
Bro this is spot on. After my divorce I went the opposite way and turned to Alcohol and self destructive behaviours. I need this video now more than ever. Ive been self destructing for 2 years since my breakup its killing me. I wish I had your motivation. I can still do it.
It’s never too late to start bro, keep us updated on your progress! I want to hear about it 💪
1 step at a time in the right direction at a time, NOW. Just start & perfect it as you go.
you can do it! be the man everyone needs in their life
@@michaelmich00 Thank you. This actually means a lot. 🙏
As a man who’s subliminally implemented each of these pillars, this is a video every young influenceable mind should watch. advice I wish I had years ago I had to learn each of these skills the hard way.
Respect bro! 💪
The strongest people are the ones that fell or been rejected so many times but still got back and kept on pushing
We don't belong to anyone and no one belongs to us we came alone and we are gonna leave alone
You earned a subscriber from INDIA
thank you.
Like Tristan tate said you shouldnt make your life about revenage on your ex. It should come from you deep down the change your crave the successful life you want apart from that you spot on bro
Lost my baby momma and I feel like a failure as a father and now all I can think about is her moving on and another man being around my child more then me. Regardless I'm going to be the best version of myself so I can one day make my daughter proud.
Make your daughter proud 🙏
Don't worry your daughter will always see you as her dad. F the other guy. He won't be around forever. He'll leave or be discarded.
She will regret leaving me, after I put in 3 years of my life to try to satisfy her. I was devastated and couldn’t hold back the tears, but now that all the tears are out, it’s grinding time.
I will level up, and when I’m completely on a whole new level and mindset, I know someone new, better and more accepting will come along and my ex will be left in the past, only looking at my life through a glass at what she could’ve had, had she stuck it out with me. Mindset first, now it’s time for action. Thank you for this video bro, a good reminder to me to keep chugging along.
It’s grind time bro 💪
Great video bruh and good advice be a chad and stop simping for all men💯
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I thought this was a gay comment at first
I’m so happy that god made you for your existence and purpose
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Thanks for this. I just got rejected by a girl hat i still am in love with. But now I'm on self-improvement and its my mission to become a better man and to make her regret rejecting me.
You got this bro 💪
Needed this video right now.....She fucked up my head but i only blame myself. Working on myself and i think im slowly getting better
Keep your head up bro
this video is very timely, i suffered a very bad breakup last year and since then i've gotten in shape, bought a property, invested in my mental health, and booked trips to places i've wanted to go. recently i got rejected by a woman i really liked, i accepted the suck for 1-2 days but your video helped alot in reframing, and now im back on the path to becoming even stronger.
Come back will be stronger than ever 💪 keep it ip
rejection can be a powerful motivator but love will always be the best motivator you can have
I needed this. It's been a difficult month. Thank you
You got this brother 🙏
My world was crushed for the last month and a half. Started drinking again and barely scraped by with help from family. I am seeing from a diff Perspective now though. It can only get better but it hurts and I blocked her on all social media immediately. She was a thirst trap and one month she confessed to doing only fans content. I hated it but i let it go and I should have just broke it off there. Tried to change everything about our lives and forgave her thinking she would be a good woman but she was disrespectful and eventually the fights got really bad and we split
Just recently was blindsided broken up with by my girlfriend of 4 years. Have a ring, was planning on proposing next month. She told me, her family,my family and all our friends how excited she was to marry me. Then out of nowhere she dumped me. Didn’t really give a reason either. It’s been about 3 days and I have been all over the place emotionally by myself. Trying to start my healing process. This video has felt like a good first step in getting my self worth back
My new gym hype vid
Kill it bro 💪🏼
I'm going through this phase right now, it really shaked me to core when my ex brokeup with me , i then realized i didn't had a purpose my only job was then to somehow satisfy her. After the breakup it really hit me hard, no one respected me and even my ex didn't bother to ask when i was hospitalised. I started doing self care, it didn't go well at first i was not seeing any results but i did it cuz i built it as a habit. After 1 year when i checked my old photos with current me, i was shocked how my appearance has changed I went from a 4 to 5, DELAYED GRATIFICATION. Don't stop guys, keep hustling one day you'd see results
Delayed gratification is the way 🙏
Love this bro!! Looks like this one is popping!! Time for ghost mode 👻
hahaa respect bro
this honestly made me tear up because it just brought memories of wat we had but some way or another i have to accept wat it is.. thanks man
Keep your head up bro 🙏
This was so helpful for me to get back into the groove I didn’t do 2 years but almost and then fell for it again
Let’s get it bro! 💪
First time commenting on something like this. I met a girl in new zealand really clicked. Felt amazing then she went back to the US due to the visa. We spent 14 months apart and she sent me a text at 4 in the morning when i got up for work saying she went home with a workmate. And kisses. She kept saying it was nothing. We ended up splitting and i stalked ( wrong move aye) and found out shes with the same guy. It destroyed me. Put me back into self harming mode. But i gotta remind me of the good shit in life. Im working out 3-4 times a week with some boxing thrown into the mix. Have bad days mentally but i gotta keep keeping on.
rejection is the ultimate motivator! I needed this video. thank you Issa. Subscribed!
Better ourselves for ourselves and others . Be a gift .
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you dont need a heart break to improve yourself, make the difference
100% I'm just encouraging men that feel down about a breakup to use it as fuel instead but the beauty is that you transition to doing it for yourself so thank you for bringing that up!
@@IssaIbrahim1 Heart breaks suck but great work bro
Thanks for the video, love it Bro.
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Thank you brother
lets keep grinding and conquer the world💪
Stay on that grind brother 💯
I have made some HUGE mistakes since the break in February. We spent the whole summer together, basically acting as a couple still without being one. And I think we both did it cuz it blocked out the emotions. And I did start off ghosting her but she dragged me back in. Here in July and I realize I should have stuck to that. So we’re starting over. I lost 20 lbs from working out, I never drink or smoke so I got that figured out. Now it’s time to build up my success, become more productive and self sufficient. I want to be able to make myself happy on my own accord and not need someone else to have that happiness. We got this fellas💪
After my brokeup last year i lost 14kg and i won the 3 place in italian national KARATÈ tournament.
I'm so fkn proud of my inner strength that i didn't imagine to have. I tought i was uncapable to keep on living, but guess what i'm here with a lot of achievements to reach.
I'm ravenous and determined to devour anything on my path.
Be strong guys, sometimes to reach for grateness you need to be shattered❤.
Ive litrally split with my ex after a long relatuonship, i supported her through her bereavements and gave her everything i coukd emotionally and mentally.
She litrally ended on a text wattsaap and then ghosted me when she got a job. I was left complety lzost and no idea what i had done. Your video came on at the right time. Back to the gym first thing in the morning and ive gotta save my money. Thanks dude, brilliant vid
The gardener doesn’t chase the butterflies, he just takes care of the garden and plants the flowers and the butterflies come by themselves.
And even if they don’t, then he still has a very nice garden :)
Love this quote 🙌
@@IssaIbrahim1 i didn’t date for 2 and a half years after I left my abusive ex, and it was hard being single…stumbled across this one a week ago and it really helps me with my current breakup
Came across your video after my gf ended things off. We met in the gym through a friend, she had an abrasive personality & would talk down to me. There were times where I would call her out & ghost her. 1 day we had an episode and she knocked on my door and told me it's over. Women can never take accountability for their wrong doings.. Now i'm picking up the pieces hitting the gym even harder & focused on my mental and money. She lives in the same condo building as me which sux
Get on the grind bro and level up 💪
@@IssaIbrahim1 u already kno my g. monk mode comin soon
What kills me the most is that we were building each other up. What ended up happening, was we eventually broke each other down. I regret being so weak, and letting my emotions get out of control, letting myself become emotionally unavailable. 4 years, and multiple tries after those 4 years, all gone down the drain. It fucking hurts, but I know i was the best thing for her, and she let that go.
Get back on the grind and she will regret letting you go 💪
@@IssaIbrahim1 that's the plan brother. Thank you for the advice in this video. I want her back, and hopefully she grows mentally and comes back level headed. Not throwing herself away for other men who won't give her the same things i would. But if she does let herself fall into the category of a 304, then I will have built myself up enough not to need that energy. I just hate knowing that we let go of something that had so much potential. I knew the potential and i feel like i failed as a man. But each loss is a lesson, and we gotta keep fulfilling our duty
Deleted all my social media and dropped 24 lbs in the past month. Im motivated to get better and learn from my recent breakup.
Let’s get it bro 💪
She done went and had a baby on me y’all 😭 lend me your strength brothers! I’m going to the gym!
Excellent video brother! I just got my heart broke by a single mom lol...I broke all my rules and dated one 😟
But now I hit the gym like a boss 6 days a week and I'm starting my trucking company!
I can't wait for her to hit me up after I've made it and all I'm gonna say is "sorry you're not my type anymore" dope vid bro 👌
Haha man me too. I’m a single dad so I tried dating a single mom even though everyone says not too but I learned my lesson. I broke up with her but she basically left me no choice. It’s still hard and I’m suffering but doing all the positive things and being productive
@@whitewolf9547 stay active..stay busy is the best advice I ever got.
excellent video, subscribed
Appreciate the support 🙏
It's funny, I got this video a few weeks after my breakup like TH-cam knew lmao, but it feels good that I've already been doing a lot of stuff to help my mental health meditation, journaling etc. This is a great video by the way keep it up man
I hope you get through your breakup and triumph all your battles!
Great Video
Subscribed
Thanks for the support bro 🙏
Whether it was acceptable for her or not, I am in touch with my emotions. She was uncomfortable with her own, that's why she couldn't understand mine. I won't bury myself for anyone's approval, especially for that reason.
I had two mentally ill girls that ghosted me. Hurts every day.
Keep your head up bro 🙏
If you do this for revenge, you will fail. Do it for yourself. Revenge is just an added bonus if it happens to work out that way. But you need to do it for you, not for anyone else.
I don't know about the "a woman will want you more when you don't pay attention to her" stuff.
As a woman, I was really into this guy *because* he paid so much attention, because i felt like he cared. We were spending so much time together that i slowly fell for him.
If someone doesnt pay attention to you/acts as if their not interested, why waste your time on them?
Excellent Video Bro
Guys, listen up. She will not regret anything at all, why? because if someone treat her bad, she will start to be vulnerable, she will start to remember how good you treat her, but when the "there's someone else" replace you, she will instantly forget you, she will no longer need you, trust me. if she left you, she's probably in a good state of acceptance with the break up, she might care about your feelings, but she's more focused on how to adapt in this situation rather think about how you will, she's 100% sure about what she wants. She will ignore your feelings atp, if she's trying to help you and have a "healthy" break up. ill promise you that she is doing that for herself, she wants you to have some fake hopes, be a delusional. If you truly love her, u aint gonna stop have hopes for her. sad truth, she knows exactly how you feel, you never wanted to break up with her, you never wanted to fight (*bad fights*) with her, you always loved her like she was your fucking soulmate, but trust me brother. you might be a delusional, you might be overreacting, cause she treated you like no one else did. thats why you probably "loved" her. Thats why is hard tho, the love bombing made you feel that way. The "i want you forever" broke your fucking heart. Dont lose your guard, be low-key, you need to be more careful with your feelings, dont fall to this trap of love bombing, YOU will regret falling in love with her, YOU will learn to be a better person after this break up, and guys dont go back, there's a slight chance that it might work but, dont risk it, move on, grow yourself alone, be better, alone. Make loneliness your comfort, but not for long, you need people in your circle, you have to communicate with people, we are all in the same page if you clicked on this video, take your time to adapt ALONE, bro, she's probably with her friends, laughing and trying to forget you, you are fucking raging atp, make this your own cope of mechanism, made yourself better while she's trying to have the male-validation, the any type of validation, but you are stronger than her, she haves EVERYONE to help her, simp her. You? you got yourself, maybe 2-3 true friends, maybe your family, but mostly you got YOURSELF. Dont stalk her, ghost her. Go dark, you deserver better, trust me brother.
**My english is bad, i know. but atleast you can get the point, if someone wants to chat and have a convo about this topic, if that will make you feel better, i can help.
Happen to me recently. Damn it really harsh man. But it's so wonderful. I join kickboxing after and fix my financial issue, everything went up after.
Only a man going thru this would really understand the harsh reality of woman. They punish you really hard, for slightly weakness in you, man it can even impair your brain and physic. Making you depressed and you can't move doing everyday stuff. Emotional control really helps here.
Women are wonderful. People saying otherwise never experienced true power of woman affection and tenderness.
We are in this together king 👑
Pain and suffering is all we need to get through this.
🥰🥰 nice video bro
Thank u man. 6 yrs she left me for another guy. Theres an internal war going on insid3 me. Should use this as fuel in the gym
I'm sorry to hear that bro. Go crush the gym!
My bro,wishing that she will regret loosing you,means she is still living in your head..
Best to just wish her well in life,and let her go.
going through one crushing break up right now, this gives me direction and strength. Good content.
The end hits hard
Respect bro 💪🏽
Lol my sole purpose is to keep bettering myself, cant be caught up trying to impress a ghost lol
This is amazing. Resonates with me completely. I went through a breakup 3 years ago and I spent a year recovering and the past two years partying. I quit drinking in November and now I think I’m done going out at least for now. Before I entered this last relationship, I had the most money I ever had and it all went quickly afterwards. I made mistakes and have learned. Also I like the point you made when presenting the two paths. I had a few rebound girls but it wasn’t the same. I’m taking the more difficult path now.
I discovered your channel two days ago and I love it. I’m a big supporter now
Thanks for your support brother 🙏🏽 glad to have you on this journey
This made me go harder at the gym today
Let’s go bro!!! 💪💪💪
Damn amazing dude…may u stay blessed bro
Appreciate it bro 🙏