@@jakeb6043 if you want a money baby or a wh*re follow her advice but if you want a real woman trust me she'll make it clear she wants you because she's already decided you're hers.
@@prefix253 most of it the first and last one take with a grain of salt, woman like to be reminded that her man thinks she's beautiful and if you ignore a woman long enough she'll cut you out because she doesn't have the time to play games.
@@purplemoon72 That is true. Never giving validation only gains a woman's attention temporarily, eventually she'll force herself to leave. U should give women attention based on how they compliment ur life, the problem is when dudes give all their time and energy into girls who don't deserve it and treat the dude like shit.
@@DevinGroves93 uhh...the step before all is...only women, children, and dogs are loved. Men are only considered for they can offer. So stop being a simp and be a man.
Being a high value men cuz that’s what god wants you in which you would use your value to benefit society including your family, wife and kids and friends.
What she's saying is true too. LMS is what sparks the interest then game(what shes saying) matters. Without Looks or Money or Status nothing will work. LMS is what gets you in the door and in order to get to the finish line you'll have to be good at the game
@@aj7978 uhm you actually do. This is the issue alot of guys are not aware of, but if you have to resort to being rich in order to attract vvomenn then they dont want you theyre after your resources alone. You're gonna be walking atm who they won't give a.f. about.
@@SamsungGalaxy-ib7dy I'm just saying you can easily get women if you're loaded. Being a walking ATM is a given and something good looking guys face too with women, but my point was if you just wanted to 'get a woman' then you don't need to worry what you look like because you're rich. If you're looking for real love, not materialistic love, then being rich shouldn't be necessary.
Well some of these things are true. A bit of ignoring, doing your own stuff and no constant validating is true. The lingering kiss sounds interesting cause i like that and most good ones start this way.
Yea... that's a lesson I had to learn as a young Upstart. That thinking you can beat out another guy is a fool's errand, as if she wanted you, there wouldn't be any other guy. Let alone multiples. Which is kind of funny to me (Not "Haha" at their expense, just strange) when I have to dispense this advice to guys in their 30s.
Don’t listen to her kings. Every man knows that love isn’t a competition. Either she likes you or she doesn’t. Don’t allow her to think you have to compete with other guys. If she’s playing those games, move on!
That isn’t what she is saying. But other guys will be trying and we are only human. If you make little effort after you have her, how should she react?
@@GaryAJMartin than she should show why she is supposed to be "worthy" of doing any effort for her at all. i dont want to waste my time on entitled thots that would try to replace me just because she is "bored".
Here's how to make her weak: "don't speak to her, ignore her". Also how to make her weak: "you're gonna have to work as hard as the line of guys working to get her"
Crazy contradictions going on there. If you have to play into that many mind games in order to be with a certain woman then she’s a boat load of trouble and not worth anywhere near the effort you’d be putting in to entertain her
The latter only complements the first. If you're going to work hard for a woman who's pretty and you love, you will not have time to speak to her. The point of 'ignoring" a girl is only to create intrigue and mystery. "Oh, what is he doing, I bet he's working on big projects, omg.. what if he's going to get me a gift! Omg" That's what's going on in her brain.
@@andrewq159 she's targeting the nice guy simp incels since they're her main audience unfortunately. And unfortunately they're too busy putting women on pedestals as opposed to actually focusing on self improvement.
@@SamsungGalaxy-ib7dy no not comforting lies but having a bunch of guys in line while in a relationship is why it gets toxic. I guess if you want the tone of your relationship to be like that. That's the problem nowadays. Women keep so many options. She's for the streets. Gtfoh
Lads - go to the gym, build a better body, get out the front door You'll improve , get more confident- you won't be chasing women, they will chase you I know, I did it
Same but the biggest secret is , true internal confidence in yourself. If you have this then it will show in the way you carry yourself to the way you walk..and everything else is just secondary . trust
It's a sad world when complements become something someone doesn't want... if a compliment is truly from the heart and not fake there is never too much of them imo. And if you really love someone there is always something to compliment genuinely.
Men. The one you want as your wife does not sound like this. Holly crap unreal. This is a red flag girl. Get to know them well so you can avoid them at all costs .
This is not “red flag” behavior This is desirable woman behavior. If she’s attractive and seems to have something going for herself…. She’s dealing with dudes every day trying to get her attention and flooding her with compliments and attention If you want to stand out… you’re not going to stand out by doing the exact same thing as everyone else There is a difference between pursuing and chasing. Pursue her. Engage her to get her attention. But treat her like you don’t “need” her and you’ll be happy to move on if things don’t go anywhere It automatically makes you appear as if you have more going on and more to offer than all of the dudes who basically worship at her feet If you have half an idea how to attract her and get her spending real time with her… it won’t take but a handful of encounters together before she’s doing 90 percent of the chasing anyhow Different game if you’re going after the woman that isn’t nearly as desirable and isn’t chased all the time
She's actually right 😂. Fitxfearless already confirmed everything she's saying. Trust me everything she saying in this video is shockingly true. Would you rather have her tell you comfirting lies? If you want a hassle free vvoman then get an a.i. one. 😂
@@1gregmoreira She contradicted herself in the video. One minute she says to not constantly validate her and to not chase, then the next she says the man needs to work twice as hard after the ONS to secure her since there’s a line of men waiting for her. Well which is it? Also a woman who has a one night stand with a man is not a wife. She’s a street walker
She advises men to play games with women, like women play games with men. I can't be bothered with all that. Besides, it is intrinsically dishonest and cannot lead anywhere good.
I actually reply super quick most times because I don’t want my mental energy clouded and take care of things quickly and effectively. When women who think that means my life revolves around them, they walk quickly and effectively out of my life! Problem solved. Quickly and effectively.
@@XxWolfman5584xX you ain't gonna learn your way out of that. This woman doesn't have some mysterious secret that is going to make it so you can magically talk to whatever woman you want. That's on you. Someone else said a few comments up: work out a little (get in shape and healthy), build a better life which helps build self esteem and confidence and get out of the house more than once a week. Women will noticed you if you do those things. So the rest of this bullshit she's going on about will work itself out.
@@Robbie1075 if by get out of the house you mean go too work. 5 days use the other 2 for laundry and not dealing with people. Then im pretty sure I am good on that note. As far as working out I get enough of that at my work. I have dealt with enough bullshit from woman I never dated to understand that it is not worth my time to even consider a relationship in my life ever.
This is why men don't take advice from women . Men be straightforward. If you are excited to text her as soon as you see her msg, DO IT. don't play mind games, so you don't look " desperate ". If she sees that as you don't have other priorities... then move on. You'll find a woman that is excited to talk to you as much as you are excited to talk to her. Don't do any of these stupid things. Is exhausting and is NOT YOU.
Being overly enthusiastic isn't working hard. It's being needy. You should have other things going on in your life, women want to share in your journey, not be your journey. They can't handle that kind of expectation and instead of realising it's their own insecurity they'll tear you down as if there's something wrong with you. But you shouldn't be making a woman your journey. This high value man shit is dumb, but what you should do is have life goals that don't require or include a female but one can tag along for the ride if she's good enough. That's what women want, but they'll never admit to out loud. So she's not saying don't work hard when she's saying ignore her, she's saying don't make your life all about her. Which is actually harder to do than to answer the text straight away.
Yeah... the things that matter? More than a person? Like... money, fame and that crap? She's preaching to play the narcissist game instead of realizing you win by not playing.
they call it codependency now a days.. and it is apparently unacceptable and puts excess pressure on you and your partner when you’re mood is depending on someone else’s.. because your world is revolving around them instead of yourself
@@DrumFFx I mean. Humans are co-dependent to en extent. That's healthy is a creates a healthy bond. If someone you care about, is mean to you -- you're especially upset. Humans are meant to co-exist and usually not un-feeling by nature. So-
@@Zellymackintosh lol no you should just ask the girl your trying to get with what she likes and doesnt like, or just pay attention its not complicated.
Mame, your advice is not horrible, in fact a good bit of it is insightful and good. Speaking as a married man and someone who doesn’t lack self confidence. I like how you focus your advice on these young boys Manning up. The only advice I would give you is a high value man is not gauged by his job or ambitions anymore then a high value woman is gauged her ability to cook and be a stay at home mom. Focus instead on the way a man makes you feel and what he is willing to do for you and I don’t mean financially. As for guys like me Money has no value outside of the fact that it is a tool to survive. I show I care and value a woman by my action and things I do for her. If all I provide is money then I don’t value her or care for her.
@@starlight055 as much as women want to know a man is dependable they are attracted to uncertainty as well because a guy who cannot be locked down quickly is a man they have to work for. And everything of value gains more value when work is required to attain the desired goal/person/outcome.
@@Kevinleehiltonjr I think it's since it creates an addictive pattern to an extent as well. A part of that is uncertainty. I wouldnt say it's healthy -- anything good hasn't worked like this I think. Especially in the long term. But you do totally have a point; and thank you for your explanation.
@@starlight055 I would agree. I doubt it will ever be healthy. Also my first comment was pure sarcasm. And thank you for not being offended and thinking I was talking down to you.
"Here's how to make her weak: join forces with her mom to get her to think she's fat so she starves herself to the point of malnutrition." -Sun Tzu, The Art of War
Honestly ironic, I was thinking about this today. I always respond to everyone as soon as I can, regardless of where I am. Ain't my fault she ego trips on whether or not I text.
I think it’s nice that she is trying to help guys. It shows she has the best intentions at heart, but I think she needs to figure out where her strengths are in doing that and where her weaknesses is in doing that. This dating advice that she giving is a weakness that she needs to work on if she still want to give dating advice to help guy.
'just be because you secured a one night stand doesn't mean you can stop trying '. The second you give it up to him, is the literal second you lose the power in the relationship....
Here's another way to say it: A girl will be swayed by the tactics she uses to try and get guys to date her. A girl who plays games will be persuaded by games, not because what she thinks about guys affects her own preferences, but because her own preferences affects what she thinks about guys. The ways a girl expressed love is a sign of what she thinks love is and what she will be receptive to.
Well said, you can never know where you stand with women nowadays, and that leads to anxiety and depression, at least with university you know that if you study hard enough you’ll succeed.
If your doing this right, it's women that work to keep the man around not the man trying to keep the woman. She has to work to improve his life since hes providing for her in the end. Men are the prize and know your worth, the only power a man has over a woman is to show her the door when she starts to disrespect you and hopefully you own that door!
Honestly she is pretty spot on. She said she was joking. of course don't ignore her by playing games. But yeah when someone is on your beck and call it can feel weird it's like you are living life and someone is always there ready for your response it gets weird. Just because you like someone you should still be busy with other stuff. Like family, reading, working, hobbies. I don't respond to anyone fast unless i'm actually not doing anything which happens but not always. Yes she got a long line of men waiting for their chance but I got a line of women hoping to get as chance as well. I'm not settling for low standards so I have expectations of what I'm looking for in a woman as well. Now I'm older now and figured those things out and it makes the girl lucky to be able to live up to my standards as well and becoming better together. Yes consistently validating her is anti challenge there is no chasing for her because you are always always there ready to validate all her feelings and insecurities. If you never give her a chance to wonder if you still like her just as much she will take it for granted. It doesn't mean holding back but it means to have some space from each other as well and not being co-dependent on each others validation. Still you are two different people. When she misses you and you affection she will come to you and ask for it and she will feel so great and lucky when you give her that validation.
Hey BRB - excellent points, “Chica Hermosa” ‼️❤️❤️. The gaps in text-time-responses : Right on, girl! - It translates nicely to her as “he’s non-needy” The close-pause b4 the kiss - So true, yet an acquired skill. It takes focus and the urge to enjoy the moment; like watching a slow-mo reel.
It's the whole point. Saying toxic things makes people mad. Mad people post comments. More comments = more engagement. More engagement means the algorithm will push her videos to a wider audience and she'll rack up the views
"Ya haven't secured a wife." Hah, gents, if you're the one pressing for marriage, or a relationship for that matter, she probably doesn't respect you. It's a woman who needs to secure a husband or bf, not the other way around.
Ignore her. Just find a girl that looks good has a decent personality and isn't talking to other dudes nor have been with lots of them. When you find someone that makes you actually happy and doesn't distract you from the life you want to live, you found the one.
Easiest way to win a woman. Is simply by listening to her. Give her what she needs, then she’ll give you more in response. Once you have her, take control and lead. If she ain’t willing to follow, don’t look back.
I agree with everything apart from when she said you need to be ready to work harder than the line of guys for her trust me it’s better to not enter the rat race and invest your energy into yourself coz that’s the only thing that’ll stick around with you your whole life
Please, do what you do! I am thankful for your advices. And please, don't listen these many negative comments. These comments are from guys, which want to rescue their ego.
This helps a little i used to text an ex girlfriend a lot and she took me for granted a long time! When i started working and couldn't do that anymore, she got way more loving and scared to lose me! She's still an ex so there's that but it's worth mentioning 😂
She is a prime example of why men don't take advice from women....
Everything she's saying facts bro. It's kinda sad that this is the way it is, but this is how it is
It’s bullshit but she’s right. Don’t be too nice. Don’t act like she’s your entire world. Chase excellence.
@@jakeb6043 if you want a money baby or a wh*re follow her advice but if you want a real woman trust me she'll make it clear she wants you because she's already decided you're hers.
@@prefix253 most of it the first and last one take with a grain of salt, woman like to be reminded that her man thinks she's beautiful and if you ignore a woman long enough she'll cut you out because she doesn't have the time to play games.
@@purplemoon72 That is true. Never giving validation only gains a woman's attention temporarily, eventually she'll force herself to leave. U should give women attention based on how they compliment ur life, the problem is when dudes give all their time and energy into girls who don't deserve it and treat the dude like shit.
I've ignored my crush so hard she doesn't even know I exist. I'm so in there.
Yep...i always have to laugh at the advice to "ignore a girl to get her attention". Only works for the 1% man in the room...
Nice Playa. The real Casanovas and Chads remain strangers to the lass they have their eye on
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@@janthonydrivenpatienStep one complete! Step two is watching her fall in love with the guy that isn’t afraid to shower her he cares
@@DevinGroves93 uhh...the step before all is...only women, children, and dogs are loved. Men are only considered for they can offer. So stop being a simp and be a man.
Biggest SIMP in the world is to become a high value man for the sake of women.
if hes trying so hard to be a high value man for a woman is not a high value man
Being a high value men cuz that’s what god wants you in which you would use your value to benefit society including your family, wife and kids and friends.
whats wrong with being high value? I dont get it
@@neemayaz1113I don’t think there’s an issue with making yourself high value. The objection I think is doing it just to get a woman.
Nah, you need break ups to become better. And I believe a woman who really broke your heart can make you the coldest motherfucker in the World.
4 easy ways to make her love you:
1. Be hot
2. Be rich
3. Don’t be average looking
4. Be rich.
What she's saying is true too. LMS is what sparks the interest then game(what shes saying) matters. Without Looks or Money or Status nothing will work. LMS is what gets you in the door and in order to get to the finish line you'll have to be good at the game
If you're rich, you don't have to be hot.
@@aj7978 uhm you actually do. This is the issue alot of guys are not aware of, but if you have to resort to being rich in order to attract vvomenn then they dont want you theyre after your resources alone. You're gonna be walking atm who they won't give a.f. about.
@@aj7978 work on your looks 1st then worry about building your finances
@@SamsungGalaxy-ib7dy I'm just saying you can easily get women if you're loaded. Being a walking ATM is a given and something good looking guys face too with women, but my point was if you just wanted to 'get a woman' then you don't need to worry what you look like because you're rich.
If you're looking for real love, not materialistic love, then being rich shouldn't be necessary.
If it was a night stand she was never meant to b wifed to begin with.
Xavier back at it again
Thank you
True.
If I know a guy has had one night stands my respect for him drops
@@streeda6501 That’s fair. One night stands are not the way to go.
"Strange game. The only way to win is not to play."
That is what I am thinking
And I choose not to play.
War Games with Matthew Broderick for us gen-Xers.
I just lost the game
the one night stand means that HE has already won, it’s 100% on the woman at that point to retain the man
Thats true , and no man wants a wife that speaks that much .
💯
Facts
Word to the wise
Yeo
If she has a line of men and she’s not choosing you, walk away.
Well some of these things are true. A bit of ignoring, doing your own stuff and no constant validating is true. The lingering kiss sounds interesting cause i like that and most good ones start this way.
Yea... that's a lesson I had to learn as a young Upstart. That thinking you can beat out another guy is a fool's errand, as if she wanted you, there wouldn't be any other guy. Let alone multiples. Which is kind of funny to me (Not "Haha" at their expense, just strange) when I have to dispense this advice to guys in their 30s.
When a 19 year old speaks from a lifetime of experience, and wisdom
she is the epitome of someone I wouldnt want to be involved with
Don’t listen to her kings. Every man knows that love isn’t a competition. Either she likes you or she doesn’t. Don’t allow her to think you have to compete with other guys. If she’s playing those games, move on!
That isn’t what she is saying. But other guys will be trying and we are only human.
If you make little effort after you have her, how should she react?
@@GaryAJMartin than she should show why she is supposed to be "worthy" of doing any effort for her at all. i dont want to waste my time on entitled thots that would try to replace me just because she is "bored".
Haha I basically just commented the same thing. Stay toxic King
Here's how to make her weak: "don't speak to her, ignore her". Also how to make her weak: "you're gonna have to work as hard as the line of guys working to get her"
Ya straight contradiction 😂
Woman level of coherence
Lmao fr, what line of guys?
Crazy contradictions going on there. If you have to play into that many mind games in order to be with a certain woman then she’s a boat load of trouble and not worth anywhere near the effort you’d be putting in to entertain her
The latter only complements the first. If you're going to work hard for a woman who's pretty and you love, you will not have time to speak to her.
The point of 'ignoring" a girl is only to create intrigue and mystery.
"Oh, what is he doing, I bet he's working on big projects, omg.. what if he's going to get me a gift! Omg"
That's what's going on in her brain.
as a wise man once said "you don't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman how to catch a fish"
fishermen don't give a @#$& 🦥
And that’s why you’re single lmfaoo
@@aabahdjfisosososos says the person watching these videos 💀
Well the fish gets killed and eaten the women actually wanna be in relationships.💀
@@prabhnoorsingh3150 Hey, I was going to say that! It is definitely NOT an applicable axiom for the reason you stated.
Guy's usually don't want to secure that girl; she's a liability.
Exactly - millions of us much prefer casual. Why does she think we all want wives?!
@@andrewq159 she's targeting the nice guy simp incels since they're her main audience unfortunately. And unfortunately they're too busy putting women on pedestals as opposed to actually focusing on self improvement.
It's not our job anymore.
She lost me when she said don't be to comfortable. "There's a long line of guys waiting in line" Toxic female behavior
She's actually right though, would you rather hear comforting lies? Fitxfearless already confirmed everything shes saying....
@@SamsungGalaxy-ib7dy no not comforting lies but having a bunch of guys in line while in a relationship is why it gets toxic. I guess if you want the tone of your relationship to be like that. That's the problem nowadays. Women keep so many options. She's for the streets. Gtfoh
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She belong to the streets
Lads - go to the gym, build a better body, get out the front door
You'll improve , get more confident- you won't be chasing women, they will chase you
I know, I did it
Mans spitting pure facts
Same but the biggest secret is , true internal confidence in yourself. If you have this then it will show in the way you carry yourself to the way you walk..and everything else is just secondary . trust
Don't forget to get educated as well
@@ivanpetakov don't forget to learn being a kind person. Otherwise you're just a fit person who's hated around for being condescending.
Going to the gym in itself is aint sh*t.
Don't put up with a woman's bullshit. If she wants to play games, send her away.
Watching this woman hit the wall faster than a drunk driver
🧐…😂
she still waiting for the call back after a one night stand 🤣
Y'all so mad boohoo 💀
@@sophiesleeps12cry harder fembot
Men don’t NEED to secure wives. Women NEED to secure husbands. Think about it!
It's a sad world when complements become something someone doesn't want... if a compliment is truly from the heart and not fake there is never too much of them imo.
And if you really love someone there is always something to compliment genuinely.
Men. The one you want as your wife does not sound like this. Holly crap unreal. This is a red flag girl. Get to know them well so you can avoid them at all costs .
100000000% right she is a moving red flag
she's the kind of girl you bang once and never see her again
This is not “red flag” behavior
This is desirable woman behavior. If she’s attractive and seems to have something going for herself…. She’s dealing with dudes every day trying to get her attention and flooding her with compliments and attention
If you want to stand out… you’re not going to stand out by doing the exact same thing as everyone else
There is a difference between pursuing and chasing. Pursue her. Engage her to get her attention. But treat her like you don’t “need” her and you’ll be happy to move on if things don’t go anywhere
It automatically makes you appear as if you have more going on and more to offer than all of the dudes who basically worship at her feet
If you have half an idea how to attract her and get her spending real time with her… it won’t take but a handful of encounters together before she’s doing 90 percent of the chasing anyhow
Different game if you’re going after the woman that isn’t nearly as desirable and isn’t chased all the time
She's actually right 😂. Fitxfearless already confirmed everything she's saying. Trust me everything she saying in this video is shockingly true. Would you rather have her tell you comfirting lies? If you want a hassle free vvoman then get an a.i. one. 😂
@@1gregmoreira She contradicted herself in the video. One minute she says to not constantly validate her and to not chase, then the next she says the man needs to work twice as hard after the ONS to secure her since there’s a line of men waiting for her. Well which is it? Also a woman who has a one night stand with a man is not a wife. She’s a street walker
"you may have secured a one night stand, but you haven't secured a wife"
lmao that's true, but not for the reason you think it is
Too many rules.....too many games.....no thanks. They can have you.
LMAO!!!!
Hate the game not the players or just die as virgin
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She advises men to play games with women, like women play games with men. I can't be bothered with all that. Besides, it is intrinsically dishonest and cannot lead anywhere good.
Um.. she’s not the only girl in the world. They all think like this bro 😂 betta listen or be a loser
if she already gave it up on a one-night stand, she already put herself in the "non-wife" category
That's funny. I have ignored tons of women and never once have they tried to get in contact with me.
Facts. This only works if the woman has desire for you.
I actually reply super quick most times because I don’t want my mental energy clouded and take care of things quickly and effectively. When women who think that means my life revolves around them, they walk quickly and effectively out of my life! Problem solved. Quickly and effectively.
Same. These bitches are insane
Total bs 💀 sincerely, a woman
As much as i enjoy you talking about these matters, the more i listen to you the less i want to date women at all 😂😂😂
Headache inducing hey.
that's because about 30% of the shit she says is actually worth listening to, and the rest is shit you should run from if you hear any woman say.
With me its not even that I don't want to date women I cant even talk to them
@@XxWolfman5584xX you ain't gonna learn your way out of that. This woman doesn't have some mysterious secret that is going to make it so you can magically talk to whatever woman you want. That's on you. Someone else said a few comments up: work out a little (get in shape and healthy), build a better life which helps build self esteem and confidence and get out of the house more than once a week. Women will noticed you if you do those things. So the rest of this bullshit she's going on about will work itself out.
@@Robbie1075 if by get out of the house you mean go too work. 5 days use the other 2 for laundry and not dealing with people. Then im pretty sure I am good on that note.
As far as working out I get enough of that at my work.
I have dealt with enough bullshit from woman I never dated to understand that it is not worth my time to even consider a relationship in my life ever.
This is why men don't take advice from women .
Men be straightforward.
If you are excited to text her as soon as you see her msg, DO IT. don't play mind games, so you don't look " desperate ". If she sees that as you don't have other priorities... then move on. You'll find a woman that is excited to talk to you as much as you are excited to talk to her.
Don't do any of these stupid things. Is exhausting and is NOT YOU.
Advice #1: go overseas and find yourself a kind, beautiful lady that respects you as you are.
Be careful or ladyboy 😂
@@bridgerlee7478 100% safe recipe. All that girls need is money anyway. Doesn’t matter what girl in this case.
@@bridgerlee7478I see this as an absolute win
On behalf of all women, everywhere, ignore her, she's wrong
YES
"Don't work super hard to get her but also work super hard to get her"
I'll work hard coz I know I have promising future. And my dreams are investment and valuable.
Being overly enthusiastic isn't working hard. It's being needy. You should have other things going on in your life, women want to share in your journey, not be your journey. They can't handle that kind of expectation and instead of realising it's their own insecurity they'll tear you down as if there's something wrong with you. But you shouldn't be making a woman your journey. This high value man shit is dumb, but what you should do is have life goals that don't require or include a female but one can tag along for the ride if she's good enough. That's what women want, but they'll never admit to out loud.
So she's not saying don't work hard when she's saying ignore her, she's saying don't make your life all about her. Which is actually harder to do than to answer the text straight away.
Just be a Sigma. Workout. get a decent job. Talk to girls but don't case them. Then they will chase you.
Most are a waiste of time
@@snky6995Can you explain it more simply!!!
Her: dont try to hard
Also her: outwork the line of guys willing to do anything
This girl has no brain.
Bingo
"Work smarter, not harder" definitely applies here.
Earlier
"Stop playing texting games"
Now
"You have to play texting games"
You know normally when someone’s world revolves a person, it is usually taken as a compliment not desperate or creepy
Yeah... the things that matter? More than a person? Like... money, fame and that crap? She's preaching to play the narcissist game instead of realizing you win by not playing.
Yeah. I really wouldn't mind if a guy I liked responded on time. Like. Sure. Live your life. Dont go waiting, "3 mins passed -- i can respond now"
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Yeah but girls these days and she's a prime expample of them they think that
they call it codependency now a days.. and it is apparently unacceptable and puts excess pressure on you and your partner when you’re mood is depending on someone else’s.. because your world is revolving around them instead of yourself
@@DrumFFx I mean. Humans are co-dependent to en extent. That's healthy is a creates a healthy bond. If someone you care about, is mean to you -- you're especially upset. Humans are meant to co-exist and usually not un-feeling by nature. So-
Girls like this will tell u to ignore them then cry when u don’t text after 2mins😂
Jesus. How old are they? 12?
These are good motivational videos for the guys who want to stay single.
😂😂😂 right, dont take advice from the fish , take advice from the fisherMEN !!! Emphasis on MEN cus wth do girls know
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@@Zellymackintosh lol no you should just ask the girl your trying to get with what she likes and doesnt like, or just pay attention its not complicated.
@@Zellymackintoshin other words, this world needs Jesus, because he was a fisher of men 😂
Mame, your advice is not horrible, in fact a good bit of it is insightful and good. Speaking as a married man and someone who doesn’t lack self confidence. I like how you focus your advice on these young boys Manning up.
The only advice I would give you is a high value man is not gauged by his job or ambitions anymore then a high value woman is gauged her ability to cook and be a stay at home mom. Focus instead on the way a man makes you feel and what he is willing to do for you and I don’t mean financially. As for guys like me Money has no value outside of the fact that it is a tool to survive. I show I care and value a woman by my action and things I do for her. If all I provide is money then I don’t value her or care for her.
Nice!👌👏
Did I actually just read an insightful and tactful reply on the internet? Maybe there is hope.
It's hot and cold. Respond immediately for thirty minutes and ignore her for three days. Works like a charm.
ogod. eventually interest will be lost tho LOL. but, guy got a point ngl.
@@starlight055 as much as women want to know a man is dependable they are attracted to uncertainty as well because a guy who cannot be locked down quickly is a man they have to work for. And everything of value gains more value when work is required to attain the desired goal/person/outcome.
@@Kevinleehiltonjr I think it's since it creates an addictive pattern to an extent as well. A part of that is uncertainty. I wouldnt say it's healthy -- anything good hasn't worked like this I think. Especially in the long term.
But you do totally have a point; and thank you for your explanation.
@@starlight055 I would agree. I doubt it will ever be healthy. Also my first comment was pure sarcasm. And thank you for not being offended and thinking I was talking down to you.
"Here's how to make her weak: join forces with her mom to get her to think she's fat so she starves herself to the point of malnutrition."
-Sun Tzu, The Art of War
This is good advice if you’re trying to pick up a rental pig
This one is a true definition of "PUMP N DUMP"
Why you so mad lmao
She’s saying the same shit all your redpill TH-camrs say except she’s a woman, you a lost cause
@@DeezN1892 cuz your mum gave me gonnorhia :(
You’re wrong about that
As long as we can treat you like shit too.🙂
It’s giving daddy left at a young age
The way she belittles men is kinda sick . I'd run from this one
She is right ! Just ignore her and focus on your purpose and God. It’s all you gotta do
So responding fast while I’m eating makes me a beta 🤣
Honestly ironic, I was thinking about this today. I always respond to everyone as soon as I can, regardless of where I am. Ain't my fault she ego trips on whether or not I text.
That's the thing if I don't text right away I'll forget to text back for days.
Same. It’s because it’s rude not to. It’s not just with girls I’m interested in. I reply to everyone as soon as I see their message.
“Just because you had a ONS, it doesn’t mean you have secured a wife”
Me: Thank God 🙏😩
This girl is great. One of the few on TH-cam I actually watch from beginning to end..and prob a couple more times again before I scroll on.
I think it’s nice that she is trying to help guys. It shows she has the best intentions at heart, but I think she needs to figure out where her strengths are in doing that and where her weaknesses is in doing that. This dating advice that she giving is a weakness that she needs to work on if she still want to give dating advice to help guy.
I consider myself a high 'value' man. You seem attractive enough but couldn't afford to Keep me faithful. If the gifts stop flowing- I'm going!
Coolidge effect
Correction on the title: How to expose an already weak girl
She’s a red flag
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Underated comment!!!
If she puts out for a one-night stand, leave!
Present behaviour is a guide to future behaviour.
Not right away! Get some free pu$$i, Then leave.
She, whoever it is, isn't worth dealing with, even for a minute.
“But you haven’t secured a wife.” We don’t care, it’s not our job to retain the relationship. 😂
Wow. It’s up to BOTH. A relationship takes effort.
Seems like the human race is fucked, from this kind of attitude on both sides.
@John Martin 3galit4riaи spotted.
Run as fast as you can from this woman
'just be because you secured a one night stand doesn't mean you can stop trying '. The second you give it up to him, is the literal second you lose the power in the relationship....
Here's another way to say it:
A girl will be swayed by the tactics she uses to try and get guys to date her. A girl who plays games will be persuaded by games, not because what she thinks about guys affects her own preferences, but because her own preferences affects what she thinks about guys. The ways a girl expressed love is a sign of what she thinks love is and what she will be receptive to.
As a 61 year old early retiree, my idea of getting lucky is walking into a room and remembering WHY I'm there!
I wish you a lot of health.
@@GreyDeathVaccine thank you!
Example of why i'm done with relationships
An university exam or starting a new work makes me less anxious ffs
Well said, you can never know where you stand with women nowadays, and that leads to anxiety and depression, at least with university you know that if you study hard enough you’ll succeed.
She said to get a wife, but where’s your husband? You can’t say something and don’t have it or haven’t done it beforw
I’m right here! Jk..😢
Whoever ends up with this one…Uffff good luck my guy
If your doing this right, it's women that work to keep the man around not the man trying to keep the woman. She has to work to improve his life since hes providing for her in the end. Men are the prize and know your worth, the only power a man has over a woman is to show her the door when she starts to disrespect you and hopefully you own that door!
If I ignore her I ain't going back.
"Have you been getting lucky lately?"
"Actually yea-"
"Yeah, I didn't think so"
You know. My wife actually loves me replying in 5 seconds 😂
You got the right one brother
That's real love 🙂👍
That's ur wife shes talking about the talking stage 🤦♂️ what's your point 💀
If you ignore she dates another one. Times where ignoring worked have passed decades ago, 90% of girls have adhd anyway.
"Ignore them" is not the way. Reframe the idea. I think boundaries and establishing trust and open communication with honesty
Honestly she is pretty spot on. She said she was joking. of course don't ignore her by playing games. But yeah when someone is on your beck and call it can feel weird it's like you are living life and someone is always there ready for your response it gets weird. Just because you like someone you should still be busy with other stuff. Like family, reading, working, hobbies. I don't respond to anyone fast unless i'm actually not doing anything which happens but not always.
Yes she got a long line of men waiting for their chance but I got a line of women hoping to get as chance as well. I'm not settling for low standards so I have expectations of what I'm looking for in a woman as well. Now I'm older now and figured those things out and it makes the girl lucky to be able to live up to my standards as well and becoming better together.
Yes consistently validating her is anti challenge there is no chasing for her because you are always always there ready to validate all her feelings and insecurities. If you never give her a chance to wonder if you still like her just as much she will take it for granted. It doesn't mean holding back but it means to have some space from each other as well and not being co-dependent on each others validation. Still you are two different people. When she misses you and you affection she will come to you and ask for it and she will feel so great and lucky when you give her that validation.
If I get a one night stand I’m sorry hun. But it’s you that’s going to have to do the chasing afterwards lol
This girl has been reading a whole bunch of PUA lingo and is just regurgitating it. Lol
5 best qualities about this girl.
1. Her hair
2. See #1
3. See #1
4. See #1
5. See #1
Hey BRB - excellent points, “Chica Hermosa” ‼️❤️❤️.
The gaps in text-time-responses : Right on, girl!
- It translates nicely to her as “he’s non-needy”
The close-pause b4 the kiss - So true, yet an acquired skill. It takes focus and the urge to enjoy the moment; like watching a slow-mo reel.
Being a man means being reliable and available whilst ignoring your woman's texts. Makes perfect sense!
dang i wonder how she is able to cope with all the hate 😭
It's the whole point. Saying toxic things makes people mad. Mad people post comments. More comments = more engagement. More engagement means the algorithm will push her videos to a wider audience and she'll rack up the views
"Ya haven't secured a wife." Hah, gents, if you're the one pressing for marriage, or a relationship for that matter, she probably doesn't respect you. It's a woman who needs to secure a husband or bf, not the other way around.
Rule 1: ignore her, rule 2: don’t stop trying. Got it
Not just don’t stop trying but try harder than any other man wow, no contradiction there.
I think the real message is keep grinding and work on yourself. Then you answer on your own time cuz she ain’t shit
Ignore her. Just find a girl that looks good has a decent personality and isn't talking to other dudes nor have been with lots of them. When you find someone that makes you actually happy and doesn't distract you from the life you want to live, you found the one.
As a woman i think you should just tell her you like her and dont play games. If she didnt like you before then its just gonna annoy her.
You just told me to ignore her, and try my best to show her I care cause theres a line of guys....
She literally contradicts herself.. you want a guy that works hard to impress you but also ignores you?
Women contradict themselves all the time. As a general rule, never take dating advice from a woman.
If you can't figure it out, you ain't the one
Women never know wtf they want.
@@t_train3796 yeah i can't figure out the contradictions, because it is piss poor advice.
@@ElementVoidXbingo . Woman 👠😊
Easiest way to win a woman. Is simply by listening to her. Give her what she needs, then she’ll give you more in response. Once you have her, take control and lead. If she ain’t willing to follow, don’t look back.
Being a high value man and willing to do everything that the guys in line for her are willing to do contradicts.
If you secured the one night stand it’s her job to keep you around, you already got what you wanted
gahdamn
the hell is this bro
most people on this platform are kids
1st and last one are so.... strange. Hope no one follows this advice
And to think that I haven't been on a date for the last 6 years. Listening to her advice, I don't feel like I'm missing out.
If a woman has a line of guys and she's making me compete. I'm walking away. Woman like that know not the concept of loyalty.
I dont like this advice at all 😶
The Waffle House has found its new host
I don’t want to sound strange to current pop culture, but what is the Waffle House in reference to? A lot of comments make reference to it.
@@lechanneldemysterieuxmante1807 The waffle house in a shitty restaurant
I agree with everything apart from when she said you need to be ready to work harder than the line of guys for her trust me it’s better to not enter the rat race and invest your energy into yourself coz that’s the only thing that’ll stick around with you your whole life
Please, do what you do! I am thankful for your advices. And please, don't listen these many negative comments. These comments are from guys, which want to rescue their ego.
"I look so fat?" . . .Me: " Well. . . Now that you mention it..." 😂😂😂
I get a kick out of an unmarried woman trying to educate men on how to secure a women. A fisherman doesn't learn how to fish from a fish.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This video made as much sense as saying “breath, but don’t inhale air” 😅
Thank you for the extra motivation to stay single
This helps a little i used to text an ex girlfriend a lot and she took me for granted a long time! When i started working and couldn't do that anymore, she got way more loving and scared to lose me! She's still an ex so there's that but it's worth mentioning 😂
I understand this. It's an anxious attachment style, which means you're not a secure man.