VLOG: My first date after my breakup, Reclaiming what was mine BEFORE & FULL GRWM | Tarek Ali

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    what’s your name? Tarek Ali (Tuh-reek Ali)
    are you muslim? no but kind of? I'm omnist/perennialist
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    how old are you? 24 ( birthday 11/11/97)
    What's your sign? Scorpio (virgo rising, aries moon)
    how tall are you? 6'1"
    what’s your ethnicity? African-American
    where are you from? childhood in 757, middle school years in Richmond/Chesterfield, high school in PG Maryland (DC area)
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  • @TarekAli
    @TarekAli  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My podcast is HERE!!!! go to thatconvopod.com to stream or search "THAT conversation tarek ali" wherever you get your podcasts!! we are live on every platform!

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    “I don’t want to say what I’m done with I want to say what I’m ready for” YESSSS I love this 👏🏽👏🏽 this is growth and I love that for you 💚💚

  • @jaiyesims
    @jaiyesims 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Can we just take a moment to really appreciate how beautiful Tarek is?!?!?!?! And when I say beautiful, I’m speaking of his spirit not just looks because we ALL know that you GIIIIIVVVVVEEEE okay lol. Like omg

  • @mautoanemosia666
    @mautoanemosia666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    “Reclaiming what was mine before “ by Tarek Ali

  • @jacquelinepruden
    @jacquelinepruden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    “You know what I’m going to stop asking” lmao You two exchanging words was so sweet. What a beautiful thing to do for you. You know how to treat you best.

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I love your honestly and transparency throughout this breakup. It makes us feel less alone in those feelings. So happy you’re starting to get past it ☺️💜

  • @elvisjoelle
    @elvisjoelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    the toast you made to yourself, for yourself was so meaningful and heartfelt. i wanted to cry 😢 love this growth and high quality nourishment you’re giving to yourself.

  • @lamore5054
    @lamore5054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Honestly Tarek, you encourage me with every single one of the videos you put out. You are such a huge inspiration for me to grow, to heal, to love! This channel has touched me in so many ways and helped me learn about myself. You have really impacted me to make a change in my life, thank you so much and I hope you continue to prosper!

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ugh. this touched my heart. im so so so so so happy to help!!!

  • @nonjabulobuhle7431
    @nonjabulobuhle7431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Tarek low-key asked her if the ex had been to the restaurant prior😂❤️

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Hdmshdjsjsjs SHHH!!!

    • @msmiami212
      @msmiami212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Girl she was fishing for details too!😂😂😭😭😭

  • @qicle
    @qicle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Period. Reclaiming my time! and FRENCH lol

  • @Yourrrr
    @Yourrrr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Your interaction/conversation with the hostess made my heart so full and joyful 😂 ❤️ also I loveee being a regular at places - brings me joy and comfort when I see a service person I know and they know me a we’re invested in how each other’s days are

  • @mambamed8345
    @mambamed8345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Leave it tarek to help me through a breakup and my body dysmorphia. Love you man ❤️❤️💕✨

  • @Mayo-hv3lw
    @Mayo-hv3lw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This video really helped me feel less lonely today 🥺 thank you so much for being honest about your journey. Also YESSS this was luxury and I loved to see it 😭❤️

  • @msmiami212
    @msmiami212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    For me it’s maintaining what I brought into my life for someone else. I’m the type of person who doesn’t feel the need to be cute at all when there’s no one to impress. We all take care of ourselves a bit more when there’s someone there and I’m learning I’m NEVAH going back to the basic package. Loving this new glow up, and reclaiming it for me! Nails done hair done everything did, all 4 seasons BIH😌💅🏾

  • @angeljohnson234
    @angeljohnson234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I absolutely LOVED this video! I'm going to reclaim a restaurant that I used to go to with my ex.

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes!!!! I love to hear it!!!!

  • @NamiiitheDon
    @NamiiitheDon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I can see how much that relationship meant to you and I see so much growth in you already ❤️I know you’ll eat this journey up

  • @taylornevils8507
    @taylornevils8507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You just make me so happy. Your videos are so helpful because while you are healing yourself, you are helping me heal. Sending you virtual hugs!

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s literally the goal 😭😭😭 I’m so happy !!!! Thank you!!!

  • @Jabari-vm6jq
    @Jabari-vm6jq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The best dates are those with me, myself, and I. I took myself out on a 1 month "date" to Panama, Colombia, and Ecuador for the entire month of February. Currently in Ecuador. Yeah it be giving that sometimes.

  • @lezatandavong
    @lezatandavong 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I am just so obsessed with you. Your energy, your personality, your humor, just your being and it isn’t on some creepy vibe. I just feel drawn to you and I’ve learned to draw myself to those who reflect my own heart. So if how I am seeing you is a true reflection of my own self. I’d like to humbly say I am honored ❤️ keep being you you beautiful human being

  • @brip0091
    @brip0091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been watching a few of your videos and I love your energy. New subbie!

  • @Jajo2616
    @Jajo2616 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this video Tarek! You’ve inspired me, I’m taking myself out this weekend!💖

  • @honeybobv
    @honeybobv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved everything about this video ❤ Reclaiming everything, I love it!

  • @k.b2457
    @k.b2457 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you look so great! im so happy you are reclaiming your spots and getting back to you!

  • @redshoefive3234
    @redshoefive3234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sorry that you are going through that!

  • @itsannjay
    @itsannjay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this for you! Keep healing. You are glowing.

  • @jordanstewart5663
    @jordanstewart5663 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was sooooo healing thank you so much for being you and real in all of it

  • @sumermonique7029
    @sumermonique7029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow I really love this! Spoke to me on a soul level ❤️ keep growing and glowing love

  • @zh1408
    @zh1408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love this ! Self care and luxury okay ! Reclaim your time boo and learn your lessons from your past situation ! Hopefully that heals any wounds that remain 💕

  • @abrownbrown191
    @abrownbrown191 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was really relaxing to watch. Keep it up Tarek!! ♥️👏🏾

  • @dazzlinggene
    @dazzlinggene 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so happy you’re doing this for you Tarek. This is so important and that food looked delicious 🥹👏. Love your videos so so much 🦋

  • @jayys7745
    @jayys7745 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely love this , miss the vlogs so much. I’m so proud of you for putting yourself in an uncomfortable situation & getting through it. Stay beautiful ❤️ !!

  • @kataviawest
    @kataviawest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tarek you are UHMAZin, and you’re growth has been a best process. Glad you gettin out! You deserve it boo!🤍

  • @sydlaw2941
    @sydlaw2941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Solo dates are the SHIT!! I love them so much. Glad you enjoyed yourself.

  • @TheKing-rb6jo
    @TheKing-rb6jo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good for you Tarek!

  • @vonnalatrice
    @vonnalatrice 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok reclaiming❕ yesss 🤎 love this

  • @brie2191
    @brie2191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the look!! ❤️❤️

  • @Edward_Strong1982
    @Edward_Strong1982 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The editing though!!! Your videos are very high quality !

  • @mkmanu4253
    @mkmanu4253 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re such a light and your laugh is so darn cute! I love it 🤍😂✨

  • @thrivingwithtrae9797
    @thrivingwithtrae9797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg! I’ve felt this! My ex was East African and he introduced me to Ethiopian food and this one place was our spot. I loveee the food and ppl there! After the breakup I felt so sad because I felt like I didn’t want to go there anymore because it reminded me of him. I eventually adapted the same mindset as you! Thank u for sharing love ❤️

  • @ketsiamungaba
    @ketsiamungaba 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so proud of you and thank you for sharing your light. 🤍✨

  • @Phoenixrising09
    @Phoenixrising09 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very grown! I love it!

  • @tremainepinnock6965
    @tremainepinnock6965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy for you!

  • @LickBamboo
    @LickBamboo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m going through a break up too, it’s hard to separate but it has to be done to move on with life! I’m standing with you in the feels 💚

  • @sydneyalford7706
    @sydneyalford7706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have the most radiant personality and energy ✨ I’m wishing you continued growth and joy on your journey to reclaiming your peace!

  • @kennethjewels1280
    @kennethjewels1280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video really helped understand my emotions going through my breakup, you're a ray of sunshine and I truly appreciate the honesty

  • @973kam
    @973kam 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time watcher. You seem like a beautiful and genuine person. I'm glad you are rediscovering you for you!

  • @tonyamoore2762
    @tonyamoore2762 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You go for it!!Yessssss!

  • @theapocalyptichippie
    @theapocalyptichippie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so inspired by you!! Keep going!

  • @jametcalf2166
    @jametcalf2166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    No this video made me feel so proud of you for take it back to things that you almost lost in the breakup tarika my older guy I've been following you and I just want you to know that you are an amazing person I love watching your videos I love the transparency that you give continue to be true to you and I know that you will be blessed abundantly stay safe

  • @theplaylistpapi
    @theplaylistpapi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was fantastic! I loved how you constantly hyped yourself up while getting ready and throughout the day. It's something I honestly need to do for myself. Thank you for being so authentic with us - it's hella inspiring! ALSO: LMAO at 15:56! CRIIIIIIIIEEDDDDDDD LAUGHING!

  • @JadeAshly
    @JadeAshly 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this sm ! 🧡

  • @kinderswat5337
    @kinderswat5337 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Je te regardes depuis Paris ...gros bisous à toi 💙🤍❤️!!

  • @SosoWedge
    @SosoWedge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your smile is everything ✨ so pure

  • @inspiredbyjamiyah
    @inspiredbyjamiyah 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So I definitely went to the restaurant and it’s SUCH a vibe! They said that they know you and everyone is SO SWEET! Definitely will come back so much more. I’ve past this place so many times it’s kinda ducked off but 10/10!!!

  • @DP-ls1tb
    @DP-ls1tb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing Tarek its ok to claim what you already had without feeling bad. Always make yourself happy first, because if you’re happy you can pass it on. Don’t get stuck on talking about your ex so much unless you want to rekindle and that’s ok it’s your life God Bless.

  • @colorfuldivinity
    @colorfuldivinity 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    omggg yess i crave your videos!!!!!!!

  • @TheRandoms234
    @TheRandoms234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel you 100% when you were saying how hard it was to create a new life and move on from your past relationship. It’s honestly so hard, but your wisdom resonated so much with how I feel!

  • @ImaniBailiee
    @ImaniBailiee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    First of all the Zara bag is GIVING, they have the cutest bags! I enjoyed watching this so much!

  • @lashaydexter5399
    @lashaydexter5399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is so cute ur on a date with yourself🥰🥰🥰 your awesome!!!

  • @simplymeno4960
    @simplymeno4960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your journey. The growth. 😮‍💨🤌🏾

  • @yamiaquino2069
    @yamiaquino2069 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVE this for you!! 💞

  • @kjh576
    @kjh576 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was amazing and you are hilarious omg!! I'm so happy you were able to reclaim things that were and still are yours to have. You deserveeeeee

  • @itgirlBeaG
    @itgirlBeaG 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. This was most def contagious for me. I feel hella good on this sunny day, so I’ll use this feeling good moment to do something fun before it passes lmao. Love you, T and thank you! ❤️❤️

  • @MajinxDrolta
    @MajinxDrolta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To watch your journey tarek is very captivating and to see someone with as much self discipline as you is very admirable I’m almost envious

  • @AShantijanae
    @AShantijanae 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was everything I got chills when you said first choice oooo childdd a prayer

  • @latrellmccoy7463
    @latrellmccoy7463 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this video reminded me of the old days. I loved this so happy to see you loving on yourself. 🥲🤎 We love you Tarek.

  • @sunnyyy2369
    @sunnyyy2369 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This really helped me feel less lonely 😭recently went through something similar, loved the video 💜❤️

  • @tatyananachelle4684
    @tatyananachelle4684 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ONE I completely agree with you when it comes to it being hard to move on, I just ended my 3.5 year relationship. Like my first love, he helped me heal through a lot of shit and was there for me when family wasn't. But he was also a source of all my low vibrational energy. I needed to leave bc I couldn't grow in that environment even though I still love him but you gotta do what you gotta do for you boo. I love this new chapter for you babes!🤗
    TWO same HK speaker lol 🔥🔥🔥

  • @MrKEYBOARDMATTERS
    @MrKEYBOARDMATTERS 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I soo loved this video for it sheer transparency and honesty. I too have recently ended a relationship, therefore so much of what you said was familiar, regarding the challenges of moving forward and reclaiming that part of you that you lost or neglected in the relationship. So thank you, sir. This was definitely worth viewing. Peace and blessings!

  • @patricejackson4124
    @patricejackson4124 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it! 💕

  • @adventuresofdiam7106
    @adventuresofdiam7106 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video. This was so fun. Showing everyone that it is okay to enjoy ourselves 🖤✨

  • @mztricky6
    @mztricky6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I couldn't pass your channel your look was so inviting & than the beginning of the video when you started talking got me clutched I'm here for the Good Energy and Vibes I'm never to old to learn something I didn't know before 💯
    New Subciber 💕

  • @nafeebanks
    @nafeebanks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love this for you 🥺🤎 definitely vlogging my solo day for valentine’s day! also, what kind of dog do you have? 👀

  • @Prosper927
    @Prosper927 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this! Tarek you have such a beautiful spirit and yes you do look good 😜. Love from the UK💛👌🏿😁

  • @Kaylamacc
    @Kaylamacc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to do this so badly !!! I love you Tarek, always so insightful. I hope I can have some time to focus on myself 🥺🙏🏽 That fear of finding yourself after a relationship is REAL.

  • @lorenzoclark3616
    @lorenzoclark3616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great to see you enjoying Yourself. Its was funny watching you giggle while buzzed talking to the server..I've never seen you like that, It was so adorable I had to LOL..Stay true to self and all things will continue to work out in your favor. Keep enjoying LIFE.

  • @alexisstaroneal
    @alexisstaroneal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    when I clicked on this video I was hoping you'd be taking yourself on a date!! I'm so happy you're in this space of healing and actively doing you ♡
    I am in an almost 6 year relationship and although I see no breaking up in the near future, I still have been planning to take myself on a date just purely out of self love.
    Whether in or out of a relationship, I think dating yourself should always be a normalized thing! No one can love you like you love you and I truly believe that. Personally, I am the dopest, most fun person to hang out with (and I love hanging out with my man or my friends so no offense to them lmao) and I hope we all feel that way about ourselves and actively do it!

  • @londonthecreator
    @londonthecreator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yayyyy we are going on a date ❤️❤️❤️

  • @syazamidori3891
    @syazamidori3891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love seeing your confidence when you were trying on those outfits... that's how it should be, you should celebrate your body and you should always tell yourself that you're cute. you look good!

  • @apriceroks
    @apriceroks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you look so cute talking into the camera with this big anxious smile on your face

  • @faboo300
    @faboo300 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    PERIOD TARIKKKK DATE YOURSELF!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ give your self that love and reclaim all of the things you love!

  • @colorfuldivinity
    @colorfuldivinity 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    can you do a video on how to get better at french btw i’m taking some french classes this semester of college ?😩

  • @MichaelLesesne
    @MichaelLesesne 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look is amazing. I’ve never in my life seen that hair eye brow color combination. 🤴🏾

  • @jahvarmclean3061
    @jahvarmclean3061 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of my last few relationship made me a wreck. Olivia Rodriguez sour album was on repeat. Your videos about self love and self care helped a lot.

  • @MichaelJohnson-os2hp
    @MichaelJohnson-os2hp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Moi, je parle le francais. Continuez a l'etudier et faites de bien. Prends soins de vous.

  • @ibeonit1259
    @ibeonit1259 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This made me cry 🥺 you’re beautiful

  • @tjjohnson1151
    @tjjohnson1151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I felt that prayer in my spirit✨ You have given me the courage to take myself out on a date😊

  • @Cheyennelonise
    @Cheyennelonise 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    TAREEKKKKKK I LOVE YOU!! KEEP BEING DIVINE ✨✨❤️

  • @ChelseaAriel
    @ChelseaAriel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look so good! 😍

  • @smiley7240
    @smiley7240 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm here for it!!!! Why did I really feel like I was there getting ready with you! hahahah I was AS excited!

  • @starrgarner.
    @starrgarner. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this! I’ve been wanting to start dating myself for a while and I feel like I just have to jump into it

  • @tanya3900
    @tanya3900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this for you tarek

  • @MIRACLEDIKE
    @MIRACLEDIKE 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really miss your vlogs and I want to say a very big welcome back to you❤️

  • @undertone9195
    @undertone9195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is so interesting your doing that I just so happen was thinking that I have change so much and don’t do thing I use to either but it’s more because of a family relationship dynamic

  • @ivraporter6940
    @ivraporter6940 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved your blonde hair, it complimented your skin tone....

  • @inerkathe
    @inerkathe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Literally my favorite person on youtube!!! Ahh I am rooting for you!! Every time there is a new video, I am CHEESEINN !!!! Ahhhhh💫✨💫

  • @bobby24love
    @bobby24love 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tarek, you're so cute...like a little boy.
    All the best for your continued healing🤗

  • @k_harvey
    @k_harvey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You crack me up. Go off

  • @ElizabethAxoxo
    @ElizabethAxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah there were things I let go of because of that person and I was scared to go back to it. Reclaiming that back neoooow! 💓💓

  • @MrCookiemunster216
    @MrCookiemunster216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES THE SPONSOR TRANSITION WAS PUUURFECT