Lots of guys out here are like him or have similar thoughts, then later come out or finally decide they have a different interest. At least he's honest about it. Pretty cool!
@@eduardochavacanoEXCUSE ME ! HE DIDN'T WASTE HER LIFE HE MADE WISE DECISION! FOR HIMSELF. RATHER THEN STAY INVLOVED WHERE PROBLEMS BEGIN TO PERSIST!!!!! TAKE A PILL AND GET OVER IT! COPY THAT!!
Also, I know a lot of guys who did the opposite. They "experimented" with guys AND girls when they were young. After a few years, they "decided" that they were "totally straight." Most of them made that decision when they found "the one" (a woman).
I loved this interview. He's inherently honest and holds his own esteem in (what seems to me to be) appropriately tempered regard. It made his responses simple and raw in the best ways; we were easily able to relate to his human experience in some shared way.
This is so much better than the “men” I’ve encountered who would rather break other men’s hearts and drag girls into a life long lie in the process rather than just owning they want men. His confidence and decisiveness is sexy
Always be who you really are and be careful of be in a relationship with someone that you don't want. I'm Gay and I would never have a relationship with a woman.
97% of gays know that at the age of 3. All these so called bisexuals are just cowards. Real bisexual men dont think of themselves as bisexual. most of all they dont go around talking about being bisexuals. 98% of those who are so loud about being sexual, have only been with a woman once and was too drunk to tell oysters from sausages.
Well this cleared up two cases for me. One who couldnt get it up at all and watched shemales on his phone, was 40+ and a virgin and one who never wanted to look at me during sex and 9 Times out of 10, rejected me. Most Ive had, only wanted to once a month aswell... That cant be normal.
I think it is confusing because most of us are somewhere in the spectrum and it’s easy to have a crush on someone you find attractive and or nice regardless. It’s just the question of how far does that aspect of sexual attraction go?
Agreed I think we all fall somewhere in the middle. But due to the religious n societal expectations, people don’t explore those options. I also due to religion and cultural values said I was bi until I finally learned to accept the fact that I wouldn’t never be sexually attracted to a woman. Once I realized n accepted im gay, I felt so free as a person
I did honestly love her without a doubt. Our relationship just ended like many do and I dated a guy after. But have dated girls after too. But I learned that I prefer men more. But I think women are incredibly beautiful all the time. Also there really isn’t acceptance in the bi community. Gays don’t usually like to deal with bi guys. Similar happens when dating women and identifying that way.
Thanks for sharing this. It was the other way around for me. I came out as gay because it was just easier at the time, but deep down I knew I was attracted to women as well. Most often or not, labels can be restrictive when it comes to exploring one's sexuality, however, for convenience's sake I just say I'm Bi. @@Matticusx
People don’t understand the definition of words. He is bisexual. He didn’t leave his girlfriend to be gay. Learn your words he left his girlfriend to be with a man. He left his girlfriend to be bisexual. Will always be bisexual whether he’s with a woman or a man.. and it’s not worth arguing but it’s very annoying that people misunderstand something so simple.
💯 I definitely agree with you! He needs to stop running around claiming he’s gay when he’s clearly bi. He wrote a long comment explaining himself. Another user called him out underneath his post, which I’m glad they did.
@@Finneas22 I get what you are saying but, labels are ambiguous. When sexuality is spectrum it is difficult to put a label on it. if someone says they are XYZ i just accpet it and respt
@@user-yn2yr1tp5t Being gay or straight is not on a spectrum bro. It’s quite the opposite they are the end of the spectrum. Bisexuality is on a spectrum. A person can heavily prefer men over women or vice versa, they are still bi. It doesn’t matter what they identify as, as long as they’re attracted to both sexes.
It was hard because I still had what I thought were feeling for her. Figuring out how to distinguish them was not easy. But I didn’t want to waste her time. I didn’t leave her for another person. I just set her free. From me. ❤
Bcps de mecs..n acceptent pas leur homosexualité .ou la cachent...ou veulent avoir des enfants .donc.ils font comme monsieur tout le monde....se maquent avec une nana...mais ça le fait pas..donc..après cette expérience retour a la case départ. .
I was nearly 4 years old. I had a crush on my male cousin. Then in kindergarten, I had a crush on a boy. In first grade, I fell in love with two boys standing in line, before school the first day.
If he had been with her for 5 years or more he would ended up looking scummy for wasting her time. And lucky for her that she realized he wasn’t the one for her as well.
I never trick a woman to hide my closet homosexuality and pretend to love her, alot of women suffer from straight men they don't us gay men to fool them, if you uncomfortable of your sexuality there's always church or therapy 😇😀
Don't understand a word you're saying. Leave church out of this. No religion will ever approve of homosexuality. A therapist or just having a friend of who you can talk to is enough. No-one should ever pretend to be gay or straight - You are who you were born into. Just live your life authentically to it's fullest.
@@sakuraitonen5886 In an ideal world only. Have you ever been forced to live among roughnecks in certain parts of the American West or deep South? Those are just a couple of examples - not to mention many ultraconservative parts of the world - where antisocial behavior against gay men is not only tolerated but encouraged? "No one should ever pretend to be straight" - unless they live in an unsafe environment and want to drastically reduce their chances for bodily harm.
@@richardherdman2121It is supposed to be that way. All of us should be able to live our lives without being bullied, oppressed from the heteronormative views of the world (majority) etc. Finland is also pretty conservative country. It's where I was born and the only country where I will ever live. I have faced constant oppression just for being gay. Be it when I was still in the school or really just throughout my entire adult life. The gay marriage here was legalized back in 2017, but only to votes 105/92.
@@sakuraitonen5886 Yup, as I said, in an ideal world that would be the case. I was pointing out that your statement "No-one should ever pretend to be gay" negates the reality that living undercover is, even today, still the most sane choice for some men depending upon where they live in this world and/or who lives amongst them. Being able to "live as your authentic self" is only great if you're actually alive. Alive and well - not recovering from a violent beatdown, or living in constant fear of one while looking for work in a community that completely despises you.
@@john.premose that’s called sexual attraction bud. He was describing himself being gay. Ever heard of it? Gosh it can’t be that hard… it’s an lbgtq+ channel interviewing the experiences of lgbtq+ people and their experiences finding themselves. It’s not hurtful at all to speak about your experiences and your sexual attraction. Or else anyone that says they aren’t attracted to women because they can’t get hard are offending them in general? Pls educate yourself.
@@cosmicbeesechurger5907 you don’t have to put it in such a cruel way. That is the point I’m trying to make here. If you don’t get what I’m saying then you just don’t get it.
@@john.premose grow up. He’s just being honest. Not to mention he is being interviewed and specifically asked about these matters. And so he answers them and details them in full honestly cuz he can. If that’s too much for you then you’ve got a long way to go in this world my guy.
Is it much easier to come out today than it was in the 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s,and 80’s? If so why are these men still taking the “beard” route? If it’s because of what societal issues and pressures, just imagine what Black LGBTQ youths have to go through.
@@seanian8986 Oh yes I get that if we are speaking regionally. But probably extremely difficult in place like Uganda and Russia. Unless you truly are bisexual, why go through the mental anguish and falsehoods of being with a person that is of the opposite sex, that there is no doubt you do not want your be with? It seems cowardice considering what the past generations have had to go through.
@@LonelyCinderella123Ever hear the song “ Small Town Boy”? My Brother came out at the age of 16 during high school in the early 80’s in the Midwest, with a strict religious family, not to mention the area he grew up in was racist at the time. The town used to be a “sundown town” just five years before he came out. His bravery not to lie and pretend to be someone he is not holds high expectations.
Thanks to religious oppression and vilification of those outside the realm of religious cultism, religion has destroyed so many lives. I grew up Christian and I lived in Utah for decades and saw how destructive religion (Christian and Mormonism) destroyed lives. So many "straight" men we self-forced into marriages, create families and live a lie to ultimately come out, and decimate their families, wife and children. Had they not been fearful of shame, ostracization and violence, all these issues would have never happened. At the root of it all, you have religion as the common denominator of all discontent.
That was a very frank & insightful interview
100% FACT !!!
Here here!
Right! I hate it when they beat around bush use any innuendo he was very straightforward with his answers.
That guys was as gay as gay can be.
We need more riding with eye contact! 😂
مرحبا❤انت كم عمرك❤من اي بلد❤
R u ok ? @@user-my4uq6bd5j
Dem diddies jiggling would be a turn off for any gay man with dignity
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*ARTS INTERVIEW SKILLS ARE IMPROVING. He gets better with each interview. Great content!* ♥️♥️♥️
Lots of guys out here are like him or have similar thoughts, then later come out or finally decide they have a different interest. At least he's honest about it. Pretty cool!
That's hot!! They break something all right.
honest, 😂😂😂😂. Really? 😂😂😂. Bisexual? 😂😂😂. Wasted a woman's life and claims to have not known he likes sausages. 😂😂😂
@@eduardochavacanoEXCUSE ME ! HE DIDN'T WASTE HER LIFE HE MADE WISE DECISION! FOR HIMSELF. RATHER THEN STAY INVLOVED WHERE PROBLEMS BEGIN TO PERSIST!!!!! TAKE A PILL AND GET OVER IT! COPY THAT!!
@@eduardochavacano it takes two to tango, my friend.
Also, I know a lot of guys who did the opposite. They "experimented" with guys AND girls when they were young.
After a few years, they "decided" that they were "totally straight." Most of them made that decision when they found "the one" (a woman).
I loved this interview. He's inherently honest and holds his own esteem in (what seems to me to be) appropriately tempered regard. It made his responses simple and raw in the best ways; we were easily able to relate to his human experience in some shared way.
Thank you for your kind and well thought out response. ❤
Nice looking guy too
Artie is a good interviewer who asks the right questions. Plus he's cute too.
This is so much better than the “men” I’ve encountered who would rather break other men’s hearts and drag girls into a life long lie in the process rather than just owning they want men. His confidence and decisiveness is sexy
Always be who you really are and be careful of be in a relationship with someone that you don't want. I'm Gay and I would never have a relationship with a woman.
97% of gays know that at the age of 3. All these so called bisexuals are just cowards. Real bisexual men dont think of themselves as bisexual. most of all they dont go around talking about being bisexuals. 98% of those who are so loud about being sexual, have only been with a woman once and was too drunk to tell oysters from sausages.
Lie. If you're male you'd sleep with a hot enough for you woman
Same here! I guess I know myself a lot more than most of these gay men.
the very thought of being intimate with a woman just repulse me
Sadly, so many "straight" men don't follow that.
I'd say he is man enough to admit he's fully gay. His heart 💕 is for men. That's it.
Or he was never bu, but played along for social reasons. Some of us are actually bi, and will be for life.
Honest questions lead to honest answers. Great job, nice to see this guy be so open about his experiences
Thank you ❤❤
I love Matticus! His tiktoks are amazing!
Please share his tik tok
@@gaberz22he literally did! Matticus
@@Marco_Fabian37I think he said "I'm Atticus" but it sounded like Matticus (Atticus is an actual name)
Thank you! I appreciate your support. Love keeping you guys entertained! ❤
@@gaberz22it’s MatticusX ❤
This sounds like a plot for a spicy gay rom-com {with an even spicier happy ending}
With him ending up marrying her brother, with her as his "best man" at the wedding.
Well this cleared up two cases for me. One who couldnt get it up at all and watched shemales on his phone, was 40+ and a virgin and one who never wanted to look at me during sex and 9 Times out of 10, rejected me. Most Ive had, only wanted to once a month aswell... That cant be normal.
I appreciate the honesty herr, there is nothing wrong with being bi, but it doesn't work for everyone
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Art, you are so cute when you interview people
wow, he is actually really HONEST....
Thank you ❤
Sometimes this guy asks amazing questions. Im floored
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Protect him at any cost
OMG !!! He told us so much in such a short period of time I wish he could have talked to him longer
Thank you ❤❤
I think it is confusing because most of us are somewhere in the spectrum and it’s easy to have a crush on someone you find attractive and or nice regardless. It’s just the question of how far does that aspect of sexual attraction go?
Agreed I think we all fall somewhere in the middle. But due to the religious n societal expectations, people don’t explore those options. I also due to religion and cultural values said I was bi until I finally learned to accept the fact that I wouldn’t never be sexually attracted to a woman. Once I realized n accepted im gay, I felt so free as a person
@@kunalahuja5073 Happy for you.♥️
I did honestly love her without a doubt. Our relationship just ended like many do and I dated a guy after. But have dated girls after too. But I learned that I prefer men more. But I think women are incredibly beautiful all the time. Also there really isn’t acceptance in the bi community. Gays don’t usually like to deal with bi guys. Similar happens when dating women and identifying that way.
Thanks for sharing this. It was the other way around for me. I came out as gay because it was just easier at the time, but deep down I knew I was attracted to women as well. Most often or not, labels can be restrictive when it comes to exploring one's sexuality, however, for convenience's sake I just say I'm Bi. @@Matticusx
Wow this one was actually rather profound. I'm glad Atticus opened up.
Thank you ❤❤
Nice interview Art. The message is be your self I guess 😊
He didn’t leave to be…… he already was! That caption ain’t it! 😂😂😂
A Victoria Secret model and with a boyfriend secretly thinking about Victor's model 😅 No wonder she lost confidence.
I love the first question like from a disney channel character “Areee youu gaaaay?” 🥹
Art, you do such an AWESOME job of interviewing. You ask all the "right" questions.
People don’t understand the definition of words. He is bisexual. He didn’t leave his girlfriend to be gay. Learn your words he left his girlfriend to be with a man. He left his girlfriend to be bisexual. Will always be bisexual whether he’s with a woman or a man.. and it’s not worth arguing but it’s very annoying that people misunderstand something so simple.
Dam I wish more people thought like this. I'm married to a woman and for the most part, people assume i'm straight. It gets annoying.
💯 I definitely agree with you! He needs to stop running around claiming he’s gay when he’s clearly bi. He wrote a long comment explaining himself. Another user called him out underneath his post, which I’m glad they did.
@@Finneas22 I get what you are saying but, labels are ambiguous. When sexuality is spectrum it is difficult to put a label on it. if someone says they are XYZ i just accpet it and respt
@@user-yn2yr1tp5t Being gay or straight is not on a spectrum bro. It’s quite the opposite they are the end of the spectrum. Bisexuality is on a spectrum. A person can heavily prefer men over women or vice versa, they are still bi. It doesn’t matter what they identify as, as long as they’re attracted to both sexes.
How about we let people define themselves and stop claiming we know better than them
The name “Matticus” sounds like a Roman gladiator. I love it! Might have to name my firstborn Matticus
Awww, I appreciate it. I love my name too. ❤
@@Matticusx😅❤
I think I love You right now ❤❤😊❤❤
@@franciscopetraglia7486 aww so sweet. ❤️
Aw i hope you find company and quality friends so that you feel happy and no longer have a dry phone, this is a great video!
He is cute ❤
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I love Art. The way he talks to people is charming.
Shit...at least he was honest, I can totally respect that👏🏽👏🏽
He's adorable with an amazing name 😍 💕 great interview 👏
Thank you ❤
@@Matticusx you're very welcome 🙏 🤗 happy 2024
Hi Art, love the interview 😊
Hey! Great interview ❤
Wow, she judged a dishonest bullet.
Art interviewing skills is becomig better. Good job
Yes I could not find the candy I wanted , in her store .
So honest! 👏
Thank you ❤
Beautiful View! 🤩
The best thing is to thy own self be true.
Very nice!!!😊
There must have been at least one Matticus amongst the ancient Romans.
There where Atticus’ but not Matticus. My name was mixed from Atticus and Matthew.
good interview
Interesting story. 🎤🤔
Thank you ❤
Mattikus?? 🔥🔥🔥
Matticus. Thank you ❤❤
Thanks. Love his openess.
Thank you 🙏🏼 ❤
Sounds like he can place an order for sexual preference like fast food....🤷
Good choice, Matticus, I salute you, ummm just like you, I'm no more interested in girls when I was 15, adore men instead
It was hard because I still had what I thought were feeling for her. Figuring out how to distinguish them was not easy. But I didn’t want to waste her time. I didn’t leave her for another person. I just set her free. From me. ❤
I like your polo. What brand is that?
I can relate dude
God he is gorgeous.❤❤❤❤❤
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Bcps de mecs..n acceptent pas leur homosexualité .ou la cachent...ou veulent avoir des enfants .donc.ils font comme monsieur tout le monde....se maquent avec une nana...mais ça le fait pas..donc..après cette expérience retour a la case départ. .
Matticus ia a nice name.
Thank you ❤
Lovely One!!!! Always!!!! With Lovely People!!!!
When I see your comment on EVERY ONE of Art's videos, that's when I quit reading and watching and close the video. You kill the vibe! 😒👎
😊😊😊😊
he is hot!!! both internally and externally.. not hot but damnnnn hoottttttt!!!!
I was nearly 4 years old. I had a crush on my male cousin. Then in kindergarten, I had a crush on a boy. In first grade, I fell in love with two boys standing in line, before school the first day.
Good Interview @artiomboy 👍-💛
Sounds very familiar. A lot of men seem to be like that. He’s cute
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Speaking TRUTH❤
What's the name of the song in the background?
Love you
What's your name? Máricas 😂😂😂😂😂 con el nombre ya lo dijo todo
Saranku Next Week KWH International Dari Berbagai Negara di Dunia YA WAK 'NAD'..... 👍-💛
Love you Matticus🥰🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗🤗
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If he had been with her for 5 years or more he would ended up looking scummy for wasting her time. And lucky for her that she realized he wasn’t the one for her as well.
Lovely
He reminds me to Jeremy Irvine
😮 WOW madtigus is very cute.
I did that when I watched straight corn I imagine myself as the female that’s what I know I was into
Yes of course he says
Love is love 🌈🌈🌈🌈
Left her to be gay? He was gay period.
he was bisexual...he said he was getting hard and having sex with the girl..that's bisexual.
Comme on dit chassez le naturel.il revient au galop...😅
Tão fofinhos ❤️😛❤️
Seriously gonna get married after only a year 😂😂😂
When you’re young and all on your own without anyone else in your life it’s pretty normal I’d think to want to be with someone.
That's y they say desiring a man as a man is a feminine attribute lol
Dude just told as he is a bottom 😅❤🎉
I never trick a woman to hide my closet homosexuality and pretend to love her, alot of women suffer from straight men they don't us gay men to fool them, if you uncomfortable of your sexuality there's always church or therapy 😇😀
Don't understand a word you're saying. Leave church out of this. No religion will ever approve of homosexuality. A therapist or just having a friend of who you can talk to is enough. No-one should ever pretend to be gay or straight - You are who you were born into. Just live your life authentically to it's fullest.
First of all, leave the church and get into lit lessons cuz that was torture to read 😭
@@sakuraitonen5886 In an ideal world only. Have you ever been forced to live among roughnecks in certain parts of the American West or deep South? Those are just a couple of examples - not to mention many ultraconservative parts of the world - where antisocial behavior against gay men is not only tolerated but encouraged?
"No one should ever pretend to be straight" - unless they live in an unsafe environment and want to drastically reduce their chances for bodily harm.
@@richardherdman2121It is supposed to be that way. All of us should be able to live our lives without being bullied, oppressed from the heteronormative views of the world (majority) etc.
Finland is also pretty conservative country. It's where I was born and the only country where I will ever live. I have faced constant oppression just for being gay. Be it when I was still in the school or really just throughout my entire adult life. The gay marriage here was legalized back in 2017, but only to votes 105/92.
@@sakuraitonen5886 Yup, as I said, in an ideal world that would be the case. I was pointing out that your statement "No-one should ever pretend to be gay" negates the reality that living undercover is, even today, still the most sane choice for some men depending upon where they live in this world and/or who lives amongst them.
Being able to "live as your authentic self" is only great if you're actually alive. Alive and well - not recovering from a violent beatdown, or living in constant fear of one while looking for work in a community that completely despises you.
That question kills me are you gay..hello
I couldn't see it.
Am I the only one who feels kind of bad when they say things like that? It's kind of insulting to girls and more hurtful than it needs to be.
Probably tbh. How exactly is he hurting or insulting “girls”?
@@cosmicbeesechurger5907 by saying if he has to look at them he can't stay aroused. Obviously. It's not rocket scienve dude.
@@john.premose that’s called sexual attraction bud. He was describing himself being gay. Ever heard of it? Gosh it can’t be that hard… it’s an lbgtq+ channel interviewing the experiences of lgbtq+ people and their experiences finding themselves. It’s not hurtful at all to speak about your experiences and your sexual attraction. Or else anyone that says they aren’t attracted to women because they can’t get hard are offending them in general? Pls educate yourself.
@@cosmicbeesechurger5907 you don’t have to put it in such a cruel way. That is the point I’m trying to make here. If you don’t get what I’m saying then you just don’t get it.
@@john.premose grow up. He’s just being honest. Not to mention he is being interviewed and specifically asked about these matters. And so he answers them and details them in full honestly cuz he can. If that’s too much for you then you’ve got a long way to go in this world my guy.
I like over 25 top bears❤
Handsome 😍😍😍🔥
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@@Matticusx hi there how are you?
واو مثلي ❤جميل ❤وحلو❤
His name please, or his ista id
MatticusX ❤❤
Hi lm Rifat
Is it much easier to come out today than it was in the 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s,and 80’s?
If so why are these men still taking the “beard” route?
If it’s because of what societal issues and pressures, just imagine what Black LGBTQ youths have to go through.
It's easier in some ways but only in some places
@@seanian8986 Oh yes I get that if we are speaking regionally.
But probably extremely difficult in place like Uganda and Russia.
Unless you truly are bisexual, why go through the mental anguish and falsehoods of being with a person that is of the opposite sex, that there is no doubt you do not want your be with?
It seems cowardice considering what the past generations have had to go through.
Or you know... he was just 17.
@@LonelyCinderella123Ever hear the song “ Small Town Boy”? My Brother came out at the age of 16 during high school in the early 80’s in the Midwest, with a strict religious family, not to mention the area he grew up in was racist at the time. The town used to be a “sundown town” just five years before he came out.
His bravery not to lie and pretend to be someone he is not holds high expectations.
@@Dimi374I also came out at 16 back in 2001. Just a year earlier I still thought I was bisexual.
❤❤❤ Hello gayyyy
Love is gay!!!🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🌞✋✌️👍💞
Thanks to religious oppression and vilification of those outside the realm of religious cultism, religion has destroyed so many lives. I grew up Christian and I lived in Utah for decades and saw how destructive religion (Christian and Mormonism) destroyed lives. So many "straight" men we self-forced into marriages, create families and live a lie to ultimately come out, and decimate their families, wife and children. Had they not been fearful of shame, ostracization and violence, all these issues would have never happened. At the root of it all, you have religion as the common denominator of all discontent.
Can u imagine saying to someone : i made my ex gay 🤷
She most definitely didn’t make me gay. I was openly bi when we started dating.
That's just sad
Well damn
Whamen are drama. That's why I ignore them.
💀 when he is watching p**n he imagine he was the women
Let’s start off by changing his name to other than Matticus
Why, whats wrong with my name?
l was looking for partner could you please help me guys
Love
I need a top boyfriend can you help me find one