There Isn't One Way - Pt. 1 | After Love | S3E1

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  • Many say you're stepping into your power as a woman to make decisions about who and what you want when speaking to someone you're interested in. Codie explains her thoughts on taking the lead with Tommy on the premiere of After Love alongside Jared & Melanie and Ray & Roslyn to discuss the season 6 opener of Black Love.
    Was Codie hitting on Tommy or nah??
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  • @AllThingsSoul
    @AllThingsSoul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    What I learned is that when a man doesn't respond to pretty woman flirting with him (Codie is beautiful), it is because he's either in a relationship, emotionally unavailable, or he's not into women. I'm very that sad this is the final season of Black Love. Thank you to Tommy & Codie for bringing us this amazing show. It is one of the best and most memorable shows ever to be made! But...I need it to last at least another 6 years. Please reconsider keeping it going. Thank you.

    • @genejohnson3508
      @genejohnson3508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And if a man doesn't know a woman is flirting with him?

    • @maryluvsmusic9298
      @maryluvsmusic9298 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ Life Soul Centered…Everything u said…those parts! Amen 🙏🏾

    • @moseschesiyna4602
      @moseschesiyna4602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Pretty woman being very subjective, what if a man doesn't perceive the woman flirting with him as pretty, or he simply doesn't see much in her to want to respond..We exist..Most do..

    • @irreplacable1988
      @irreplacable1988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You forgot one action maybe she’s not Attractive to him.

    • @JM-qg9bo
      @JM-qg9bo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or he could be awkward and clueless about how to interact with the opposite sex when attracted. Not everyone is out here chasing a woman just because she's beautiful jackazz. You ppl get on my nerves always trying to put gay on someone.

  • @Wyzdom1974
    @Wyzdom1974 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Rest in paradise Roslyn.🙏🏽 Ray she's always with you in spirit 💕

    • @AlmondJoie
      @AlmondJoie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Eccl. 9:5, 6.

  • @Bubexoxo
    @Bubexoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Smiled through the entire show! The authenticity of each couple & the chemistry was amazing to watch.

    • @tboykin13tb
      @tboykin13tb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was just about to edited my comment with this comment but now since U said it I don't have to, but I had to edit this 1 🤫🤭!! 💯👍🏽

    • @sassytangel88
      @sassytangel88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m 4 mins in and I’m smiling from ear to ear

    • @trayshana
      @trayshana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you and me both! 💕

    • @oneof7billion627
      @oneof7billion627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yessss:.'-))))))))

    • @jt2930
      @jt2930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rightt!!!

  • @donnamck8324
    @donnamck8324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I’m sitting here grinning like I’m also sitting at their table. I love this soooo much. Just the energy!🥰

  • @tebhogho
    @tebhogho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    It’s the way Jared looks at her😍😘🥰👌📍

  • @kenefa7466
    @kenefa7466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love the way black people sit and talk so enthusiastically🥰

  • @1980tiffani
    @1980tiffani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is a great show… displaying real life love stories… the ups and downs and back and forth of relationships. Love and relationships aren’t always pretty… sometimes you fight, argue, hug, kiss, it’s beautiful, yet can be ugly. I love that everyone’s stories are just as unique as each couple. There isn’t one way to love another person or be married. Do what works for you and your partner!

  • @artiesha42
    @artiesha42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    All the couples are so beautiful 😍 💖.
    Sad this is the last season. I enjoy watching black love as I wait for mine to enter my life

  • @yolandalcheek462
    @yolandalcheek462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Marriage is a beautiful thing when IT'S GOD CENTERED AND ORDAINED AND IN GOD'S PLAN😇

  • @hishandmaiden718
    @hishandmaiden718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This was SO good. Honest, authentic and a genuine discourse as though there were no cameras around. Loved it!

  • @cindys2995
    @cindys2995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    People confuse being "straightforward" with being RUDE. I'm pretty direct, but I've learned not to spew out statements that flex or demean others - everything doesn't need to be said......

  • @Anointedempress
    @Anointedempress 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My gosh, watching this reminded me of why I fell in love with the Black Love series. Watched the whole video teary-eyed with a big grin on my face lol... gonna miss these for sure.

  • @whitneymoore4507
    @whitneymoore4507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I felt like I was in the room. This was awesome to watch 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @adwoaannan3104
    @adwoaannan3104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Inspirational, insightful, hilarious learnable episodes black love is giving to the community. Y’all are amazing!

  • @carenbuyanzi
    @carenbuyanzi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This was so good. Always learning a lot from these conversations. Thank you Codie and Tommy for creating this show. Sad that it's ending but it served its purpose right.

  • @D2J8
    @D2J8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    No shade to Black Love, but I’m not a fan of glorifying being a “mean girl” to someone you don’t even know. Thank God her now husband wasn’t wearing those sunglasses ‘cause he was grieving, crying, or otherwise in a bad mental state because that could’ve had horrible consequences…

    • @afarongordon
      @afarongordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @phindimoteane9904
    @phindimoteane9904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love these conversations. Sad its coming to an end. I have learned a lot from these couples. Its like therapy for us. PS: I love this season's group. I dont know why but they have a great vibe.

  • @Acon1882
    @Acon1882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I loved this discussion and I love the show. I appreciate the everyone’s transparency, as it’s definitely giving me
    clarity for a situation I’m in, lol. Wish this wasn’t the last season!☹️❤️

  • @beechannel27
    @beechannel27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this show so much. I hope the round table discussions and couch conversations continue. Our community needs to see these types of discussions.

    • @beechannel27
      @beechannel27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The whole part about one person being your peace and calming you...whew so true.

  • @stephaniemacklin4162
    @stephaniemacklin4162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This episode is entertaining. You all seem like long time friends that are reconnecting. The chemistry in this group is great!

  • @DebbieRay64
    @DebbieRay64 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely loved this show. You ladies personalities reminds me of my daughter. She is very direct and will tell people exactly how she feels about them and whatever the situation is. They never have to guess where they stand with her. Great conversation.

  • @anitaperkins7563
    @anitaperkins7563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this show, I talk about it all the time, Thank you for creating this, I’ve watched (and looked forward to) each season!

  • @beatricealexander2102
    @beatricealexander2102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So live. Ofcourse there's a part two. I appreciate you guys so much. So much reflection

  • @trayshana
    @trayshana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Black Love thanks for all of your hard work creating purposeful content. I LOVE this show!!!! Best wishes on your future endeavors. Cheers to a successful run🥂

  • @thewisdomdivatv
    @thewisdomdivatv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    With so much Black men bashing Black women and Black women “divesting” from Black men.. this is a much needed POSITIVE perspective on love and relationships. Not perfect, but positive. And I will miss it (and probably rewatch). Thank you.🙏🏽

  • @nyulawjn
    @nyulawjn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Black people are so beautiful ... so glad I'm gang!

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This episode was pure joy, loved the conversations from beginning to end!

  • @Chocolate.barbie444
    @Chocolate.barbie444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Real ones already know the Oliver's story. 🖤

  • @1LocWonder
    @1LocWonder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I see myself in this. My fiancé is “still” to my raging waters! Additionally him respecting my wishes & leaving me alone when I asked was everything!

  • @asiamonae4483
    @asiamonae4483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This resonates with me because I just walked away from someone I was dating exclusively for 6 months 29 days before his birthday.. had LOTS planned... but still I can't....

  • @rachelmkandawire9353
    @rachelmkandawire9353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i came to watch this video a second time after hearing the demise of Roslyn. May God comfort Ray. May Ros's soul rest in peace.

  • @knl5330
    @knl5330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved these couples transparency

  • @aratang2948
    @aratang2948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so much fun. Don’t want this series to end 😭

  • @ldjproperties
    @ldjproperties 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved everything about this! I love how you all complimented and supported one another genuinely! It's great to see black people thriving!

  • @carine9122
    @carine9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    omg. thank you for this episode. it is hilarious and organic at the same time.

  • @1LocWonder
    @1LocWonder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m so excited about this season. Probably because I’m engaged,& I’m all about #BlackLove

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats on the engagement!! 👏🏽🥳

  • @Therealwithrahwa
    @Therealwithrahwa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this whole series. Love the honesty and vulnerability in sharing their experiences. I often feel like if we are honest we are all living the same life. Similar highs and lows and just so much in common with these couples.

  • @jamia123xbox9
    @jamia123xbox9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RIP beautiful lady 😢

  • @audreybolling2793
    @audreybolling2793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    There is some conflict that may not ever be resolved. You just have to agree to disagree. Or you might have to accept or do some compromising for the sake of the relationship, if it is not something directly compromising, opposing, or detrimental specifically to you relationship.

  • @chiarrapeniston9387
    @chiarrapeniston9387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shout out to my little island of clouds, Bequia getting mentioned 🇻🇨 Great conversation!

  • @anndavis1142
    @anndavis1142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent show , sad to see it end

  • @bheepeey
    @bheepeey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a good one. Good job guys!

  • @drcressadaglean-brillant9739
    @drcressadaglean-brillant9739 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so sorry that this show is ending. I Absolutely love that you guys had the desire to explore and expose Black love. I love this show sooooo much

  • @yolandalcheek462
    @yolandalcheek462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    His Wife is gorgeous 😍 her smile, her hair, her personality.....Mr. Oliver is a blessed man 💙

  • @shanellstewart5750
    @shanellstewart5750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    SMILING FROM EAR TO EAR!!!

  • @dearmingmogul2010
    @dearmingmogul2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so sad you guys are leaving us..I honestly think this would be a dope show concept also moving forward…I would really love to hear more of Melanie Fiona relationship…sis is speaking to me in so many ways 💕

  • @ourbreakthroughpodcast9353
    @ourbreakthroughpodcast9353 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was sooo good...like, good good!! Man, I’ve been so invested since Day1 of the series, that I can’t believe this is it 😢.

  • @blessingigele6629
    @blessingigele6629 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode was🔥🔥🔥. It's probably my best and it was more interactive probably because Tommy and Codie joined in and were not just asking the questions but also participating.

  • @DaraVRose
    @DaraVRose ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so funny and good. 😂 The calm and the storm balance is so true!!!

  • @anclark22
    @anclark22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When Melanie Fiona said "I want to know someone is interested" I immediately said she's a Cancer then went to google and looked up her bday. Classic Cancer! I feel you sis!

  • @yolandalcheek462
    @yolandalcheek462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    No matter what I honestly believe a man knows right away if he's wants to marry you. Know one can convince me otherwise 💙

  • @siwaverleigh1574
    @siwaverleigh1574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love seeing BLACK LOVE ❤️

  • @daniellesmith4688
    @daniellesmith4688 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely loved this interview 😍 Wow just chills seeing these incredible couples, seeing the tangible love, respect and adoration and hearing the stories! God bless ❤🖤❤🖤❤🖤

  • @MrReddarling
    @MrReddarling 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    BEQUIA is the 2nd largest island of The Grenadines. Ms Mel you and your husband met and fell in love on my lovely home island. St Vincent & the Grenadines. I truly hope you guys take the opportunity to revisit BEQUIA and perhaps do an islands tours because they are all breathtakingly Beautiful.
    Love this series and sad to see it end. I’m hoping that all 6 seasons are sold as I for sure will purchase. As it is an honour to see BLACK LOVE showcased.
    All the best to all the couples featured on the series.

  • @saaraamupolo6164
    @saaraamupolo6164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg I loooooove this.... black love baby😍😍😍😍

  • @412Missy
    @412Missy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omggggg u guys can't quit,,, we need more💙💜#BLACKLOVE

  • @Balancediscipline
    @Balancediscipline 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Transparency was helpful 😊thank you!❤

  • @byeshua2533
    @byeshua2533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a wonderful and honest conversation. And they all look so beautiful

  • @biggmonie
    @biggmonie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Codie is BEAUTIFUL!

  • @creejackson1575
    @creejackson1575 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the BOMB love the after show convo

  • @melipooh1986
    @melipooh1986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Melanie Fionaaaaaaaaaaa😍😍😍😍love her!!!

  • @lucindagould3596
    @lucindagould3596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yay, so enjoyed this 😍

  • @aaliyahellis4451
    @aaliyahellis4451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m drunk and I love this shit! Beautiful couples 🤎#BlackLove

  • @MsHJones
    @MsHJones 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always luv the aftershow, and this episode did not disappoint. Still very sad this is the final season.
    OAN: Melanie I luv this sweater.

  • @Platinumcut26
    @Platinumcut26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Melanie is me! My good cancer sis lol

  • @ambermccutchen8451
    @ambermccutchen8451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow Codie amazing speak up for women and Tommy honest is amazing he was telling his story before he met his wife Codie praise the Lord sincerely yours Mrs Amber McCutchen

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favorite show❤ sad it's ending. Why all the good shows ending and the fake shows not.

  • @shannonsejour657
    @shannonsejour657 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rest on Ros 🕊️

  • @holliecharles684
    @holliecharles684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wonder why the mom didn’t like the ex wife lol cause dang momma!

    • @Honestly_Sisi
      @Honestly_Sisi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol. I’m thinking if she mean like that, I hope she got hands. 🥊🥊🥊

  • @shayj04
    @shayj04 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This might be my favorite one yet lol

  • @yandia77
    @yandia77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love every couple!❤❤🥰❤❤

  • @sadeh20111
    @sadeh20111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for visiting my country barbados 🇧🇧 ❤️ 🙏🏾

  • @ajwriter5699
    @ajwriter5699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My still water when I’m being a tsunami 🌊 Goals

  • @tswanigan69
    @tswanigan69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved it as always!

  • @ejefferson644
    @ejefferson644 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved watching this. I am these women and my husband is the men. I am an Aries on 100 always woman and my husband is so laid back. He calms me just being his chill self. It is the best balance.

  • @danyreee9992
    @danyreee9992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that everyone who believes into Him would not perish, but would have eternal life.”

  • @dineoportiamagoro3212
    @dineoportiamagoro3212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed the conversation

  • @NBnNC
    @NBnNC 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uuuuhh, can you post the actual episode please?? We gotta sign up for Hulu or philo in order to see the program!🙄

    • @snk7913
      @snk7913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The episode is for free on their app

  • @feliciajenkins4270
    @feliciajenkins4270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this! 💞

  • @GIGI-hz7ps
    @GIGI-hz7ps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this show. I only get to watch on youtube. I have to disagree with one thing.I believe in being your authentic self but not if its disguised as being rude.

  • @civicone1
    @civicone1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This CANNOT be the last!!! No!!!

  • @goldenlabelstudio
    @goldenlabelstudio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And I quote…”Oh, so you want me to fight ya momma?!” HOLLERING! It’s the 🖤BLACKLOVE🖤 for me!

  • @joannapilgrim
    @joannapilgrim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did you say Barbados? Hey!

    • @akua87
      @akua87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Think she did 😊. I had to rewind a few times to make sure I heard correctly.

  • @wyteriawilson4007
    @wyteriawilson4007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why am I just figuring out this is Melanie Fiona??? 😩😩😩😩

  • @876me7
    @876me7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m sorry the bald lady sounds like she needs therapy. Being a grown woman and referring to yourself as a mean girl is not a badge of honor. It’s actually horrible.

  • @user-xe2io2go1f
    @user-xe2io2go1f 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This lady will not let anyone else talk lol

  • @afarongordon
    @afarongordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love black love however, I personally don’t believe that Good men should peruse and allow these women to show the Dominant attitude and place expectations of “What is this”, or deadlines for “When are we getting married?”
    I love my black women but some of y’all need to pull back a bit and let the man take lead and don’t have walls up all the time.
    Disclaimer(Observations are based on narratives):
    Exhibit A: 13:19 - Feminine in balance
    Exhibit B: 19:50 - I’m direct
    Exhibit C: 21:21 - Mean Girl 🤦🏾‍♂️
    Exhibit D: 23:09 - Ready to fight (for def con 10)
    Exhibit E: 24:27 - TTG

  • @tboykin13tb
    @tboykin13tb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I missed the Frign show!!!! 😤

  • @cindys2995
    @cindys2995 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed this! I used to always be "ready to go" but as I've aged I've realized that you look like a fool. AND people crazy nowadays - may be going home in a BOX!

  • @tuute4
    @tuute4 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So, you want me to fight yo momma took me out! 😂

  • @dorothy5733
    @dorothy5733 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you recommend a good couple therapist pls

  • @niecybaby1960
    @niecybaby1960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    These women sound like they have attitudes for no reasons. In my neighborhood growing they would have gotten beat up or killed. And definitely in 2022, in the hood poppin off like that it would be a problem. And some stuff just rude. You’re introducing someone to your mom, and she says “ what does that have to do with me”. I don’t get it? Great conversation tho.

    • @Honestly_Sisi
      @Honestly_Sisi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right. I was thinking with all that attitude, I hope they got hands 🥊🥊🥊