i need to stop marrying sims i just met
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- Poor Blue... (episode 96 of our legacy challenge!)
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i love now normalized speedrunning sim relationships has become, to the point that we are shocked that a sim doesn’t like their partner bringing up marriage right after their first kiss
I'm playing on normal life span and I get very in a hurry when they age up as young adults to find a partner and get some kits, because if you don't they will die before their grandkids turn into teenagers most of the time which is somehow sad...short lifespan would seriously dry me out xD
@@Liz13751 I’ve always ALWAYS played on long lifespan with the amount of time I spend playing my households I’d kill them in a week if not
@@horselover8851 I feel this. Actually I played on long lifespan for years. But somehow I got tired of that, because it is so exciting to get some new sim kids and see them growing up to adult sims and growing a personality. I played simsies not-so-berry-challenge and since than I prefer normal lifespan
I literally always try to get kids for the fear of getting a game over due to short lifespan killing my sims😃
@@Liz13751 Grandkids? My sims never make it to see grandkids due short lifespan eliminating them😂
I think Penelope and her wife want to keep having kids cuz they don't wanna die.
Smart honestly
I was literally thinking, my god they will outlive the whole legacy challenge as a whole if they keep going!
They way they're going they'll still be popping kids by the time this series end lol
I mean Pregnant = No Aging
they're just doing the 100 baby challenge nbd
someone should make a “family reunion” mod for generation challenges where you can throw a party at a park and every living sim in your selected sims family tree will come automatically
I love that idea so much
That sounds so cool!
kiarasims4mods has one! it’s a family reunion event
some of these fears they get are out of control man. my sims are freaking out all the time about unfulfilled dreams bc i didn't designate time to listen to winter holiday music
When Blake die of age, ask Grim to let them live again. Let's see how long Blake can escape death.
In Rusty's defense, Blue kissed him for the first time and then started talking about marriage
blue is just very passionate 😭😭
can you blame a person for being passionate and romantic😭😭
Rusty just doesn't like marriage, he does like Blue, I'd honestly like to see a generation where they are just common law
I don’t think it’s that Rusty doesn’t like Blue, I think it’s Rusty doesn’t like marriage! Blue doesn’t seem like they need to have a traditional marriage anyway. I think they just want to be life partners without the legal sim system getting in the way
What if he’s a sperm donor !
i like this idea but since blue has the fear of being cheated on they might feel like getting married would mean more of a commitment
A co-parent situation. Don't have to be married
It's because rusty romance bar isn't higher enough
that’s actually so cute, life partners who aren’t necessarily romantic or tied together legally i really like the idea of that for blue
There is something so wholesome about "I got my french fries. I got a kiss on the cheek." as a summary of that date.
this literally sounds like my first date with my girlfriend help
Can you give Blue a makeover since they’re an adult now?
Yes !
SHES only a YOUNG ADULT not ADULT 😂
@@carverplaysgames8035 *they
@@carverplaysgames8035 they* they're nonbinary
@@carverplaysgames8035 were you just... transphobic to a literal Sim? Why are you here? Kayla has literally expressed she doesn't want transphobes on her channel.
I think Blue is pretty clear that Romance isn't for them, could they decide to be a single parent and raise the future kid on their own without a partner?
I love this Idea!
I second this
I think that's a great idea
I vote yes.
Yes! And if romance happens later, they can always join the household.
I think the Talk About Marriage thing isn't working because of the fear. You need to get rid of the fear first.
You can still be with Rusty without being married! He’s an icon, it’d be sad to see him leave now
Blue could just adopt and be a single parent
Yeah, we haven’t had a single parent in a while!
@@jessicahunter2976 technically Pepper is a single parent though 🤔
@@christinaflach55 that’s probably what they meant 😅
But i wanna see the genes mutate
Would stop the bloodline
I think we need Blue to end things with Rusty. I think Blue should adopt their first (maybe all) their kids and spend their life enjoying parenthood. I think the story should go that Blue adopts a child and falls in love with being a parent and decides they don't need a singular life partner to be happy they can be happy with their kids both human and plant.
Exactly what I was going to post!
i don’t think that they’d adopt all the kids though. i think kayla will probably want to continue on the belles family’s genes with the heir. maybe like one bio kid and the rest are adopted?
@@k0giku Fair enough I would like it if Kayla did a non-traditional generation of non-biological family but I also get it's place in the legacy. To me the biology of the kids shouldn't matter as long as they are Blue's and I feel that Blue wouldn't care about the biological relation of them and their kids but I get the POV you're bringing forward.
@@EulogyPlagerism yeah i agree! Rusty has a kid too so Blue would end up as a step parent if they stayed with him. A blended family of step kids, adopted kids, and biological is still a family full of legacy heir options.
yeah like she could get a kid in cas and then just adopt some more!
I think Rusty does like Blue, but it's Blue's fears that make things suuper awkward. Either get rid of the fear or succumb and remain single.
It is MCCC causing the cousin to have that many kids. I have mine set to like 25 in a household max and sometimes I see households with literally 20 cats in them
omg yes! i remember i was playing a longer than usual save and wanted to see what the npcs were up to. catrine lynx had so. many. cats. just her, and the rest of the household was all cats!
@@cloudyvulpine Yes its always Caterina Lynx with the hoard of cats!
@@katiejohnson558 an icon tbh
@@katiejohnson558 I relocated all her cats and ahem "had her go on a permanent vacation to Sulani" and Turned her house into a Community Lot
The color idea where you find a sim that likes the color blue to date sounded really fun
Blue should marry someone who’s favorite color is orange because on the color wheel blue and orange are complimentary colors, thus bringing out the best in each other.
I like the idea.
And that means I hope for Rusty he likes orange :D I like that dude.
They started dating like one sims day ago, it makes sense that he wouldn’t want to talk about marriage yet lmao
Since Rusty isn’t working out maybe Blue should just go on a bunch of dates, have a few flings, and see what happens. You haven’t had a risky woohoo baby yet 😂
yes !!! Blue should have a risky woohoo baby
This is nightmare legacy. There's no time for flings! Literally! (Not unless she could speedrun three quick dates in one sim-day... then, maybe.)
That's what I'm saying! I wish Sims had an IVF option 🤣
@@cgarcia3614 I mean... technically she could make a club, put in singles make it a club activity... I got more than one sims pregnant that way😂
Terry had a risky woohoo baby but with her partner for example
I was waiting for the 8-Sim micro home you built to come out for the 7 children family 😂
To me, it looks like Rusty doesn´t like the idea the idea of marriage, maybe he and Blue could live together and be partners with a family just without the title of marriage.
Kayak having her sims get married based on their names, looks, traits, ect, is so iconic at this point 😂
Like that one guy on gen 6 or something she dumped because he was lactose intolerant 😂
@@campanda1875 Yes, Simsie called him “boring”😂
Ah yes, because how could you get married to someone because of their traits? That is just ridiculous
@@thegaytay4327 right?!?! Ridiculous 😁
@@campanda1875 MILTON !!! Yes !!!! the boring lactose intolerant dude ! I had totaly forgotten about Milton 😂
They should just be eternal romantic roommates if Rusty doesn't like marriage!
I am so impressed with the fact you've been playing with this family for YEARS!! like I can't play with one family for an hour
I would love to see a single parent situation this gen with Blue, maybe through fake IFV?
Second this 🙌🏽
third this!
I would be down for this honestly!
oh my goodness the timing is perfect, I've been freaking out and I need some other sims drama to forget about my own
who doesn't??
Hear me out, what if we put the wishing well in Blue's garden and had them wish for a spouse and then a child.
The idea of the gardener sim gaining a family through the wishing well is really cute to me. ^-^
Let's get that Ace/Aro representation in Blue! It would be iconic and fit their story arc really well.
(Also if you want buological heirs, you can create a kid in cas and just kill/delete the parent. Or use relationships to set Blue as the parent to the child for an IVF/sperm donation feel)
I think that the new fear is probably causing the marriage talk interactions to fail. Maybe get rid of the fear (build up a high romance bar again) and try the interaction once more.
Though honestly, remember that Rusty is a single parent - he might be wary of marrying someone his kid hasn't met yet.
"or we'll stay with the guy that doesn't like us..." love when i little realism sneaks into the sims lol
I wonder if the fears Blue has are causing the issue. They have a fear of failure and a fear of being cheated on. If those were resolved, I would guess things would go well with Rusty again.
I had a Sim react negatively to the marriage talk but later in the relationship he autonomously proposed (MC Command) so I think the negative reaction wasn't necessarily because he was against marriage but because it was too early in the relationship. Though I do think it would be fun for Blue to go around trying to find a partner based on their favorite color.
I’d love to see Blue be a single parent and maybe adopt. They don’t seem like the traditional type. Otherwise, maybe Rusty can be their partner without getting married bc he seems to like them but not marriage.
If that unlucky chef scenario is still around it might be cool to do that with the fear of fire
Please name one of the legacy challenge babies Adora they would be adorable!
They should have the serial romantic aspiration!
You mean…adora bell
I’ll leave
Rusty might have invited Blue to Strangerville, but the 8 Bells is fitting not gonna lie... maybe that was the plan all along.. Also Pepper and Anna woke up at the exact same time did the exact same thing, because they had to pee...
I stead of picking someone from a lineup and trying to make it work, have a party with all your friends and see who organically fits with Blue.
Yes!! I love doing this. Like a Cinderella ball.
i think you should try talking to Rusty again (maybe not about marriage this time), he's cute and i think they would make a great couple. they don't need to get married after all
we could keep pursuing rusty but just not get married. he seems to be into blue, but probably just doesn't want marriage. he and blue can just date and move in together
Blue could be aromantic and just go for raising a baby on their own, maybe adopting or something like that.
Love the idea of Blue being ace and adopting kids 😊
I think Blue should straight up ask the wishing well for a soulmate OR adopt their first kid and meet someone after
Maybe Blue realizes they’re ace? Likes the idea of marriage and kids, but isn’t actually interested? Has a kid on their own.
I think it would be fun for Blue to spend a day at the bar, park, wherever asking everyone their favorite color, then marry the first person (their age) who likes blue.
Blue should have Rusty’s baby and Rusty will feel trapped into marrying them and leave them at the alter while they’re pregnant
I suggested this like two times already, but now that Blue will probably become a parent soon I have an idea on how to name their kid. Adora/Door/Dora Bell , a scientist or engineer who’s also really into in diy’s and hand made. They can also be called Dora The Explorer if they’re a girl
Or Tinker like tinker bell?
I love this 😂
@@broccoli2572 thats actually an amazing idea!
kayla, thank you so much for these daily videos, they’re really getting me through the day
id love blue to be aroace! they could have a queerplatonic relationship w a friend and adopt a kid but idk if it would work as its a legacy challenge 😭😭😭
You could always "cheat" and make a sim for Blue and place them in their town lol. A forced meet-cute 😂
Or just stay single for now. Maybe adopt a kid and possibly marry later in life if someone comes along. Blue is a unique sim so a storyline like that would make sense for them.
i've been binging this series for a couple of weeks now, and i got really confused when i got to the end of this ep and another episode didn't start - what a journey, what a delight, loved it
Not sure if that "should not flirt with my co workers" was directed at anyone in particular lol
you should do a big birthday party for all the sims aging up next episode and invite over all the family members!
Maybe Blue could find their soul mate when they grow up to be an adult. And maybe they can have their first kid from a woohoo partner and raised it alone. ❤️
My experience with sim romance is sometimes it doesn't work out, the sims just aren't that compatible, but when you find a sim they are compatible with its magic.
I've seen the "meh vs magic" many times over the years, but in this current Not So Berry legacy I have examples galore (some I've probably commented before, apologies in advance), below for your reading pleasure if you are interested... bottom line let Rusty go and try again - maybe a little speed dating could be fun 😊? Good luck!
Gen 1: My heir got invited to a party, I turned my back for 30 seconds, and she's got a half full romance and friendship bars with some sim I'd never seen before. They had their issues but he loved her dearly.
Gen 3: I had a cute girl I wanted my heir Daisy to get with and while I was working on it she called up and asked if she should date someone else! I found another girl and by the end of their first date they were head over heels.
Gen 5: I had my sim strike up a conversation with Don Lothario on a lark (he's an immortal spellcaster in my save); they hit it off like wildfire. Never once did I see the non committal moodlet from either of them getting itchy feet (making them divorce was SO HARD 😥, but I got to remarry them so it all worked out in the end).
Gen 6: My sim Jasper and your sim Veronica from the HSY Let's Play. I put her and Allie both in my save with the intention of having my sim hit on/date Allie. Didn't even intend to befriend Veronica necessarily, just wanted her around because I thought she was cute. Allie sent them a flirty locker note then shot them down when they returned the gesture (that didn't end well for her, you don't get on Jasper's bad side). Then there's Veronica... Jasper struck up a conversation with her at lunch and that worked out amazingly. Legit one of my most favorite sim couples of all time (evil doesn't have to equal mean to everyone, Jasper is the best to those they deem worthy of their affection).
Can't wait for next episode!
One vote for Yuna. I hope Tomi's kids visit her before she dies 💀 lol. I'm so attached to this series!
In my fantasy Blue has always been aromantic asexual and just adopted kids :)
thats just whag i commented!!! it would be so cool
SAME
Aroace blue would be so cute
YES.
Aparently according to simsisies rules the heir needs to be a biological child. They could still adopt billions of children though. Blue could have a baby with rusty or someone like that and then just break up with him and adopt a full household of other children (minus the biological one of course. The heir according to the legacy logic)
Plz do Rusty! Him already having a kid will create a nice story and dynamic!
the fear of being cheated on thing is ridiculous! My sims will literally be in the middle of woohoo or something and then it'll say fear of being cheated on bc they haven't been romantic enough lately. And I'm like THEY LITERALLY ARE RIGHT NOW. I thought it'd be fun for gameplay but man with my seriously in love sims it happens too often
Give Rusty another chance, but this time maybe don’t immediately talk about marriage… they could just live together or be co parents. Also my sim got ditched at that bar a couple times too so I’m starting to think maybe there’s a glitch with the lot or Strangerville.
MCCC household size is universal. I have no idea how autonomy is calculated, but out of all married couples, the Harjos are completely nuts for me. They have NINE kids by now on a save I started when High School Years came out. All the other couples have two new kids at most.
Some settings just don't synergize well with each other and are best left turned off. More than 8 sims in a single household is just simulation lag mayhem. If you're fine with waiting 6-8 seconds between assigning a task and them actually starting to do it, good. But then you also don't notice they are on fire until they are dead, so not so good after all.
I’m always so excited for these
It would be hilarious seeing Blue looking for someone who likes the color blue, and if no one can be found- single parent all the way!
Maybe Blue can have a kid with Rusty and be a single parent. Idk, feels like dating is not for them 🤷♀️
Rusty is sill the one he just dosent want to marry! They could just be partners! Don’t give up on Rusty Bell
Try the social bunny!! We really like Rusty!
I finally caught up with the legacy challenge! I hadn't watched it since around gen 3, but i binged it this past month.
seems like blue might wanna live the single life maybe beau could be the heir?
maybe rusty could be blue’s qpr? blue being aromantic would be cool! and you be can aro without being ace B)
Blue should stay on the fave color hunt and let the universe tell them who their right match is 🙌
yeah so many people are thinking "keep them single!" and I agree. Like if something perfect happens next episode maybe but i think blue might just have to go it alone
The fact tofu had to come back by themselves
I love this series!!❤ just went back and watched every single one of them took me only 2 weeks to watch them all and I want MORE 😂😂 I wish you could post this series more often I would definitely love that!! Love the Bell family! 🥰
I think that Blue should adopt and be single for a while, just to work on themself. Plus, it might be a nice change to not have so many Sims in the household for a while once Beau moves out 💙
I play Sims strategically and rarely make spontaneous discussions. It's been fun watching you play so differently.
I knew that Sims can die from emotions but for the first time it finally but unfortunately happened to my sim, I think it was because she had the high maintenance trait... Her boyfriend sweetheart glitched out when they aged up so they had a complicated relationship but they finally patched things up and they were supposed to get married the weekend, then I don't what he did but she got so angry that she died (I was shocked I'd never seen it before) then I pleaded with Grimm (99% chance on my game it works) well that didn't happen either, I was really devastated.
They shouldn’t get married they should just be partners!
Rusty taking Blue to Strangerville and ditching them was so hilarious - like the exact perfect insult for Simsie lol
I like the family setup, but I actually kinda want to see Blue finally live on their own with their partner. Because of the ghost shenanigans the previous two gens feel like they've been around for ages, no offence but I'm kind of bored of them and I'd like to see newlyweds struggle 😌
Agreed - the ghost storyline feels like it has been going on for ages. I’d like to finally see Blue take charge in the LC!
I see a lot of comments saying that Blue wants to be single/romance isn't for them but I disagree. I think they do want the "fairy tale" for lack of a better phrase. Sadly in my opinion Rusty needs to go, I get the feeling that Blue is just a fling for him. Terry had the same bad luck with partners and then she found her knight in shining armor. :)
i’ve had a lot of trouble lately trying to get my sims to romance other people
Yeah I think the sims team made it harder honestly
i think you should pick the first sim you see at the del sol valley museum to keep with the cursed vibes
I would have closed the game right then and there! :D
simsie not flirting with the sim at 16:12 who has a blue mullet is such a missed opportunity
Maybe Blue is just aromantic and is going to adopt some children?
Aparently according to simsisies rules the heir needs to be a biological child. They could still adopt billions of children though. Blue could have a baby with rusty or someone like that and then just break up with him and adopt a full household of other children (minus the biological one of course. The heir according to the legacy logic)
@@mrcloudiesbestfriend they have adopted in the past. Just the heir has always been biological. Also the family tree wouldn’t be disrupted. It would stay the same. They still classify as their baby.
It’s the “fear of being cheated on” it hammers the relationship. You either need a fear be gone potion from the rewards or “discuss fear of being cheated on” with rusty
Hiiii
I’ve never seen “Talk about marriage” go well. Even my sims married to each other can’t talk about it without it tanking the romance bar.
I still see blue as a single parent, just saying...they don't need no partner to be happy 😊
Once, I took my sim to a bar and I made her interview 3 guys, and I chose one to be the father of her baby based on the answers. Maybe Blue could find love like that?
I love how the only reason they’re married is because of their name
I really like the idea of dating someone who’s favourite colour is blue
Rory likes blue...just saying...
and it would be cool to have a werewolf in the family...
If Blue is a single parent and maybe realizes they're asexual or aromantic (since romance doesn't seem like something they're super into) that would be great for more representation of different sexual and romantic identities (and for single parent households)!
Just don't date someone, and adopt Baby's!
Yes, MC Command Center's settings for maximum household size is game wide. It counts for both played and non-played households. Careful not to set it too high with neighborhood stories and the MC Command Center enabled pregnancies and adoptions. I sometimes got households overrunning with babies and adopted pets. I normally limit the number of kids per sim to 3 and the same for pets. This helps some, but you still have to manage households and break them up once in a while if you have a long running save.
2nd
Maybe Blue and Rust just date and don't get married. He never said he didn't want kids or to be with Blue he just doesn't wanna get married!!
Hi 2nd comment
"Will I ever find someone better for me? What about you?" 😂 Honorable Mention: "I put all my eggs in the Rusty basket" 🤣