I Learned How To Dance In 30 Days

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  • @SwitchSilver
    @SwitchSilver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22393

    “Don’t be afraid to touch yourself; it’s your body.”
    WHY DOES THIS FEEL LIKE A REVELATION TO ME.

    • @ItsSimplyZoe
      @ItsSimplyZoe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Same!

    • @mariejhenanedolly
      @mariejhenanedolly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

      He genuinely said that. Love him

    • @taehyung9848
      @taehyung9848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      sameeeeeee

    • @supperfuntime36
      @supperfuntime36 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Lol the number of times I’ve had dance teachers tell teenage me that

    • @drewbranch7700
      @drewbranch7700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @CatCatCat Cat th-cam.com/video/wv-34w8kGPM/w-d-xo.html 😂

  • @annastorey8328
    @annastorey8328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10449

    Dude... the CONFIDENCE she gained is just magical.

    • @k8ball666
      @k8ball666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      It’s true when they say confidence is the best accessory. :)

    • @rachael5611
      @rachael5611 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God loves you! He wants to have a relationship with you! Repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! He can give you so much mercy, joy, peace and love!

  • @NativeNomad
    @NativeNomad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3574

    Awe! I love how he “saw” her fear and played grooves. There was such kindness in that. Just so sincere and focused on getting getting her comfortable. The essential key to a gentleman

    • @Blackthorne369
      @Blackthorne369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      It is a sign of a good teacher as well.

    • @mrzmorphine
      @mrzmorphine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯💯🖤🖤

  • @peacecful
    @peacecful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2464

    Can I hire Kyle to be my life coach!? What a genuinely nice human being.

  • @zcox1173
    @zcox1173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13298

    My dance teacher is CONSTANTLY telling me "Dance is 90% confidence"

    • @ashlee8480
      @ashlee8480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +421

      I couldn't agree more but its also about body movement which i lack most of the time djshdh

    • @lala-nx5pv
      @lala-nx5pv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      Ash Lee same I can’t even do a body roll properly I just flop all over the place 😂🤣

    • @bettys7298
      @bettys7298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nice to know. Thanks for sharing this!

    • @amaliastoican33
      @amaliastoican33 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it Mina Ashido?

    • @ambilyks9552
      @ambilyks9552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Billie_Carter1 Kacchan🥺

  • @catbus7824
    @catbus7824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10122

    "It breaks my heart when people don't have the confidence to just do what they want to do,"
    well dang, why you gotta call me out like that.

  • @purple_universe4329
    @purple_universe4329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1666

    We really need people like Kyle as our teachers who dont mock us but helps us to be better and comfortable being awkward. They both really worked hard and it turned out to be the best ! I wish I could do this .

    • @jimjam5353
      @jimjam5353 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly mine was like why you don't know anything ? So they basically made fun of me constantly.

    • @kanika.28
      @kanika.28 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jimjam5353 same lol

    • @Ajgsydodkdlclcjjs
      @Ajgsydodkdlclcjjs ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mine was like lose weight then only then you'll be able to dance. I was just 4 kgs overweight

  • @donner8322
    @donner8322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1977

    It's so cool that she kept trying when she just got thrown into that large group. I would've panicked and try to find the nearest wall or corner or surface to hug against😅

    • @hiiammona462
      @hiiammona462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      SAAAME, that’s exactly what I was thinking, I was like girl ruuuunn

    • @nataliac.m.1775
      @nataliac.m.1775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      LOL me too, I took once a class, left in the middle super embarrased!

    • @zb1planet
      @zb1planet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I would have cried.

    • @salami5922
      @salami5922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @charl6681
      @charl6681 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know I'm late but I woulda been right there with you.

  • @blazejp2854
    @blazejp2854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4805

    "The version of me that was sexy at the end was me all along"
    That hit hard.

    • @JessBess
      @JessBess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I KNOW RIGHT

    • @siberiasian
      @siberiasian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I almost cried

    • @CiciliaTifany
      @CiciliaTifany 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i read this and i cried

  • @riyapatelwrites
    @riyapatelwrites 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14585

    “It breaks my heart to see people who don’t have the confidence to just do what they want to do”
    That hit different, man 👀

    • @serenaowens2875
      @serenaowens2875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Blue I was literally looking to find this comment to see if anyone felt that like I did 😳

    • @somyajindal
      @somyajindal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      I just feel like her...I relate to this so much...seeing the first half of this really made me emotional because I'm just the same...I want to dance too...

    • @_Phoenixrise_
      @_Phoenixrise_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      very true i get scared to dance in public, i do dance but not to the fullest i know i can when i am at home. Career too and other things

    • @gurpreetchoongh1365
      @gurpreetchoongh1365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Yeah... Its hard because you miss SO many good chances because of yp8r lack of confidence and because sometimes you think you wernt good enough for it anyways like you'll mess up.... And you end up hating your self because you didn't have the guts...But then you think that maybe it was for the best even though it hurt... Alot...And sometimes it makes you emotional.. because everything you went through...

    • @GenesisUrquijo96
      @GenesisUrquijo96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I feel the same. Can we be a support group?? 😭

  • @FlRELAlR
    @FlRELAlR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +686

    I was a little teary eyed with how well she did, and so excited to see her transformation as she became more confident. When she said "it was me all along," my heart really went out to her. But then Eugene at the end had me burst out laughing, and I lost it, LOL

  • @diechaoshueterin3186
    @diechaoshueterin3186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1469

    I feel so happy for every everyone who feels confident while dancing. I tried dancing for myself and ended up crying, because I felt so uncomfortable lol

    • @Lili-sc6ck
      @Lili-sc6ck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      It's Okay !! Keep Going , U can Do It

    • @muskanraj4641
      @muskanraj4641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Hey, you are gonna find your style and be comfortable with yourself! Just please don't give up on that...I hope you're still trying and if you are I know you're doing great🖤🥺

    • @akumi3276
      @akumi3276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yeah i used to love dancing n thought i was better than average but nowadays i have realized i was never good at it. I just thought i was

    • @evalinacesarcassule5097
      @evalinacesarcassule5097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@trixieloveaquila record yourself. Your progress will be the"something" encouragement to you.

    • @wilburscoot4621
      @wilburscoot4621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      okay im just gonna say this. its completely normal to feel uncomfortable when starting. you gotta start somewhere, you know? you're not gonna get any better without making mistakes!

  • @saraschneider6374
    @saraschneider6374 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16183

    “Something’s missing right here.”
    “Yeah, the boobs.”
    -killed me

  • @myrtillemorel9465
    @myrtillemorel9465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15285

    it's incredible: when a woman has confidence in herself, she is immediately more beautiful

  • @berrymeringue
    @berrymeringue 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    seeing ash talk about his struggles with his body/being himself from 6 years ago vs seeing him now on instagram post-transition and feeling confident in himself is so great

    • @Eudorcas88
      @Eudorcas88 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What’s his instagram

  • @taylorj6038
    @taylorj6038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    As a fellow awkward girl, I got chills and definitely teared up during her final performance 😭💕✨

  • @Refreshadas
    @Refreshadas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4430

    I cried when she said: "The version of me that was sexy at the end was me all along. It was just me being confident with who I am."

    • @randomperson6659
      @randomperson6659 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nobody like this comment anymore, it’s at 666 likes

    • @poojalarouxja
      @poojalarouxja 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bruh me tooooo

    • @eden-she-her3668
      @eden-she-her3668 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hahaha me too, actually welled up seeing her become so confident with herself!

    • @fhardz8670
      @fhardz8670 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      When she said that, I immediately remember Agatha from TSGE by Soman Chainani

    • @SilverLinings72
      @SilverLinings72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad I wasn't the only one getting choked up 😓😩

  • @supriyapuntambekar4550
    @supriyapuntambekar4550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12793

    "I don't like my body,okay!"
    Sis I felt that.

    • @bassymichaelis2244
      @bassymichaelis2244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Ikr
      It felt as if I'm the one who said it

    • @drazoboskov771
      @drazoboskov771 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Funny thing about my body is,I spend so much time hating it,but it never said a bad word about me-Tim Minchin

    • @ArmoredPetals
      @ArmoredPetals 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      It’s sad how so many of us can relate to this :(

    • @shi7212
      @shi7212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ikr

    • @Hx_jamie
      @Hx_jamie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too

  • @hanna9308
    @hanna9308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +840

    “idk how dancers do what they do to their bodies”
    me, a dancer: *looks at my yellow and purple knees*
    welp-

    • @bennyvineethagmail8148
      @bennyvineethagmail8148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Well you are good by your own body, personality. So love loveyourself. If you still cant love yourself go to see some bts songs and bts inspirational quotes😄

    • @shenenigans2037
      @shenenigans2037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too! When she popped the picture of her knees up on screen, I looked down at my own, even more bruised dancer knees. We match, lol!

  • @annikakaufer4490
    @annikakaufer4490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    Her progress is unbelievable. The gain of confidence is insane, it looks so good!!!

  • @clickclackbadabingbadaboom3738
    @clickclackbadabingbadaboom3738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6098

    "DON'T BE AFRAID TO TOUCH YOURSELF IT'S YOUR BODY"
    He really..... I'm speechless

    • @clickclackbadabingbadaboom3738
      @clickclackbadabingbadaboom3738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      PS: I really like him ever since 2017.. He's handsome and knows how to dance. Why would I not fall? 😍

    • @clickclackbadabingbadaboom3738
      @clickclackbadabingbadaboom3738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Literally getting addicted watching his dance videos -- my guilty pleasure specially when he's dancing. I never had a boyfriend so he helps me get through my thirst days

    • @dds1828
      @dds1828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@clickclackbadabingbadaboom3738 lmaoooo. Also, AYYYYYY U A BLINK LETS GOOOO

    • @user-cq8lo7tx1r
      @user-cq8lo7tx1r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      ikrr and we need him to choreograph blackpink againn

    • @bennyvineethagmail8148
      @bennyvineethagmail8148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I am an army helli blink

  • @fabyv5966
    @fabyv5966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5082

    When Kyle said that she had a certain awkwardness but that's what's makes her great and he looked so proud, I died of love

  • @Katie-md7mh
    @Katie-md7mh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    She took the lessons so well. As an insecure shy person I wouldve made so many self deprecating jokes, excuses, and have given up super quick. I probably wouldve cried. The eye contact thing genuinely terrified me I'm also tryna learn how to dance. And watching her look so darn good really inspired me

    • @caseycat
      @caseycat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am exactly the same

    • @ruumuur
      @ruumuur 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yo, it's been 2 years, are you dancing?! you'd better be! even if just for fun at home ^-^

    • @Katie-md7mh
      @Katie-md7mh 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ruumuur LMAO I never reply to comments but I was literally just dancing to Sugar Rush by BIBI and I opened youtube to get dance move inspirations. I don't consider myself a dancer cuz i really only know 1 full dance. but I've danced in front of my friends to be silly and they said it was good. I've also grown into a much more confident and out going person. This comment was really wholesome so thank you! I hope you're having a great day wherever you are! 🌷

  • @tafnyferreira
    @tafnyferreira 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Ash saying "I don't like my body, okay?" makes so much sense now that we know that "she" was actually a handsome "he". Love seeing him happy as he is now.

  • @daisymorrison8237
    @daisymorrison8237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8245

    Julianne : “There something missing here”
    Ashley: “Yea the boobs”
    😂love Ashley

    • @EmiPellegrinoMusic
      @EmiPellegrinoMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Dais mo Felt that hard 😂

    • @yusuffadillah725
      @yusuffadillah725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Damn 5.5k likes with only 1 comment? Im gonna be 2nd comments

    • @tannie.i4073
      @tannie.i4073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao

    • @hongsami.
      @hongsami. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i felt that LMAO

    • @indeedical26
      @indeedical26 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why only 4 replies lol

  • @seliyoon
    @seliyoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4505

    "something is missing right here"
    "yeah the boobs"
    I'm pretty sure she didn't mean it like that

    • @bellacarlin4880
      @bellacarlin4880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      STREAM SOTY DYNAMITE ayeeeee armyyyy💜💜

    • @seliyoon
      @seliyoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @BTS FOREVER hi!!!

    • @seliyoon
      @seliyoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @BTS FOREVER yeah it's @monochxldd

    • @joseycraig686
      @joseycraig686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      yall really be everywhere

    • @togetherbulletproofinyoura2706
      @togetherbulletproofinyoura2706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bellacarlin4880 ayee army💜💜

  • @missydeyoreads
    @missydeyoreads 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    She could really benefit from daily affirmations. I thought it was bogus or silly, but it has really helped me realize all the negative language I use on myself and changing the things you say to and about yourself really makes such a difference!

  • @michellemah2674
    @michellemah2674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    "And my body wasn't a joke" "and I was confident with who I am" makes me so sad and so happy at the same time

  • @SubswithNovideos-qj8mq
    @SubswithNovideos-qj8mq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4814

    “It’s hard being Beyoncé”
    Idk I just loved this line

    • @prabhjyotkaur9169
      @prabhjyotkaur9169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Can you tell the timestamp of it 😄

    • @womp9465
      @womp9465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@prabhjyotkaur9169 8:47 :)

    • @pretty948
      @pretty948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It do be hard tho

  • @destinyfaith6759
    @destinyfaith6759 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I genuinely cried whilst watching this, I loved seeing Ashley improve day by day - both mentally and musically!! Very very inspiring for me who's just beginning my dance journey at 22

  • @chubs1419
    @chubs1419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    *it breaks my heart when people just dont have confidence to do what they want to do*
    he is so sweet..m cryin

  • @manuelamejia7670
    @manuelamejia7670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5993

    Why is no one talking about how supportive everyone was?

    • @kingdeviljin7195
      @kingdeviljin7195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I was thinking about the same thing

    • @nadiademchuk7658
      @nadiademchuk7658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yesss

    • @rainsies
      @rainsies ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All I heard was “I”

    • @Raj.Sakaria
      @Raj.Sakaria ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dance communities are always like that. Unless they’re boomers

    • @chickenbreast7016
      @chickenbreast7016 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Raj Sakaria Nah even oldies who dance got that positive vibe, especially the ones doing it for health. Most toxic dance community I gotta say is ballet.

  • @vixvaporub
    @vixvaporub 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4823

    “and my body wasn’t a joke” i love that

    • @pinky2566
      @pinky2566 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hi morty

    • @maisiewuh
      @maisiewuh 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brother

    • @maisiewuh
      @maisiewuh 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lets work together to buy way to much rick and morty merch

    • @rosemarie3009
      @rosemarie3009 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Morty Smith o

  • @aqualucy_4817
    @aqualucy_4817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Ashley: I have no idea what to wear dancing
    Kyle: dance clothes
    ...

  • @-gf-
    @-gf- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    geez what an era of buzzfeed. this is the only regular buzzfeed video i'll come back and watch after all these years.

  • @bxhija7898
    @bxhija7898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12929

    this has to be the most motivational dance video i’ve ever seen

    • @shwethadharmalingam8931
      @shwethadharmalingam8931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yaaaaay fellow army saranghaeeee💜💜💜💜💜┌(・。・)┘♪

    • @bluesoul1260
      @bluesoul1260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yass truee

    • @cassandrashaw1924
      @cassandrashaw1924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      So freaking true. I'm that awkward girl who has never been comfortable with her own body as well. But this......so much motivation and inspiration!

    • @bxhija7898
      @bxhija7898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Cassandra Shaw same sis! i always felt really frigid (still do, but not AS much anymore) and just literally couldn’t dance for the life of me. however, watching this video motivated me to get into dancing to kpop songs as there’s so many dances and easy access to tutorials, and now ive improved so much over time of practicing.

    • @cassandrashaw1924
      @cassandrashaw1924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@bxhija7898 that's amazing! I'm so glad you were able to do that and I'm glad I'm not the only one inspired by this video

  • @zaynshakeela9472
    @zaynshakeela9472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6719

    The fact that she learnt how to dance that well in heels within a month is unbelievable. The confidence be showinggggg

  • @prjdghyt
    @prjdghyt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I felt happy seeing her perform. She nailed the sexiness even while smiling. Also, the choreography is BEAUTIFUL. I love it!

  • @CatherineJones7
    @CatherineJones7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I literally cried at the end when you said that this version of you was inside yourself the whole time!! Sooo inspirational, beautiful, thank you for sharing this!!

    • @mydogeatspuke
      @mydogeatspuke 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well now she believes a boy was inside her the whole time, which means she didn't mean any of the things she said here. You're inspired by lies.

  • @YouTubeusername5285
    @YouTubeusername5285 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1356

    “And my body wasn’t a joke” hit me

  • @IshanAli
    @IshanAli 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19192

    Ashley’s transformation is inspiring

    • @i22y
      @i22y 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Ishan Ali I’ve seen a comment of yours at least 10 times today. I swear you’re everywhere

    • @mollyworkman384
      @mollyworkman384 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi same

    • @naylani8620
      @naylani8620 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ishan Ali I agree

    • @maisiesmith9800
      @maisiesmith9800 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ishan Ali I see you in every comment section I swear 😂😂

    • @djungelskogz
      @djungelskogz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Her name is Ashly not Ashley.

  • @veronicameeks9056
    @veronicameeks9056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Watching this video is really interesting to see how we are all going through different journeys. I grew up dancing and being told how to look pretty/ cute and then sexy with what shoes and clothes to wear to accentuate feminine features. I went through the opposite problem with feeling over sexualized and having everyone look at me in that way but just wanting to be seen as the fun/ goofy person. I’m happy to see she got what she wanted out of this. Dancing can be a great way for expression but I will take the well balanced high top sneakers and hard beat moves any day over the club grinding music and “sexy” bunion causing heals. =P

    • @daisysweets1794
      @daisysweets1794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow, you're so not like other girls 🙄

    • @chickenfoot2423
      @chickenfoot2423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@daisysweets1794 you clearly have no idea what that means and, ironically, bashing women for no reason is what ‘not like the other girls’ is about

  • @daliavega3156
    @daliavega3156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I need this in my life! I need a professional choreographer to teach me to just let go and flow with the beat !!!!

  • @juicy.bug.carcus9319
    @juicy.bug.carcus9319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2998

    The fact that she learnt this in 30 days and I still cant dance after 3 years hits different...

    • @raghugorla2423
      @raghugorla2423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Learn one move a day master that move on that day

    • @wouldyoulikesomewiessedtea8757
      @wouldyoulikesomewiessedtea8757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      She has dance teachers and stuff
      I have been dancing for 2 yrs
      Not dancing just you know like ..a joke dance ?
      Idk but I haven’t gotten that gud

    • @tyrakristiansen7188
      @tyrakristiansen7188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      Well i mean she's worked on a single choreography for 30 days. The teacher didn't try to teach her to dance, he tried to teach her to dance THIS dance. It's easy to learn a choreography, but it's extremely difficult to learn the dance

    • @holyghostgirl98
      @holyghostgirl98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂 right

    • @fairy5668
      @fairy5668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me with guitar lol. I stopped guilting myself over it tho

  • @uncuriousaj9458
    @uncuriousaj9458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2079

    Kyle looked like a proud dad when she finished.

    • @gloss2132
      @gloss2132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hair Care And Share your pfp I-

    • @Kris.krisis
      @Kris.krisis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awe

  • @purplesan603
    @purplesan603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    i felt the eye contact thing so hard lmao

  • @beachesbonfires2536
    @beachesbonfires2536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    2021 and just seen this video. I love how supportive and nice everyone is when someone doesn't know how to dance. This was mainly about her self confidence and she definitely found it. She did awesome!

  • @_unknown_9170
    @_unknown_9170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3932

    "My body wasn't a joke"
    I felt it so much
    I used to take dance classes for 5 years and I loved dancing, till one time that I danced in front of my classmates and they made fun of me, I stopped dancing and today I miss it so much.
    Don't let anybody make fun of what you love.
    (Sorry for my bad English)
    Edit- thank you so so much everyone 🥺❤️ gained my confidence back thanks to you guys 💕
    And Remember, the only way to dance right is to have fun.

    • @topsyturvy8674
      @topsyturvy8674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Damn, felt thissss

    • @monieslife4877
      @monieslife4877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Really needed this,thank you

    • @_Calliegraphy_
      @_Calliegraphy_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Go back!! Start dancing again!!!! Do what you love!!!!

    • @alexandriavictoria1220
      @alexandriavictoria1220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      I know it's easier said than done, but if you love something, don't let others get in the way. It'll take time, but I know if you go for what you want then you can achieve your dreams.
      You can do this!

    • @_unknown_9170
      @_unknown_9170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@alexandriavictoria1220 thank you so much!!! I really appreciate it!💕

  • @aestheticwhale2803
    @aestheticwhale2803 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13545

    Makes me wanna take dance classes now

    • @aayushaneupane5242
      @aayushaneupane5242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +296

      Aesthetic Whale
      Same, my parents always wanted me to dance but I never had the confidence. Not the most confident person here.

    • @gracetuxen9202
      @gracetuxen9202 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Aesthetic Whale so do i

    • @jackiesanchez6546
      @jackiesanchez6546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aesthetic Whale right

    • @gabija9407
      @gabija9407 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same

    • @annika1795
      @annika1795 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aesthetic Whale same

  • @angelicavales555
    @angelicavales555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This takes a lot of energy and motivation to do. Dancing ain’t my thing as well and you doing it makes me realize sometimes u need a little push from people around you and must supports you. I’m glad they were there until the end. 😊

  • @DivaDivine88
    @DivaDivine88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yasssssss Queen!! I teared up a lil bit at the end there.. seeing you smile and your confidence rise as everyone cheered you on was absolutely beautiful! That freedom in doing something you love and enjoy, and then getting cheered for it is what performers live for - as well as making people feel something.. People love it when you live out loud, even if they never say it to your face! Props girl, u major inspo!

  • @Kelshehe
    @Kelshehe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8626

    The progression of her confidence makes me SO HAPPY

  • @teide9954
    @teide9954 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1413

    she was so insanely good at the end omg
    *edit: thanks for the likes i did not know i had*

  • @natc05
    @natc05 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video is so old but I just found it now while binge watching a bunch of dance choreography videos. I’ve been wanting to dance or do something “productive” for a while but always thought I was to awkward and that it’s so late. I lacked so much self confidence and I absolutely hated my body. I still have the same problem but after watching this I feel like it’s never to late. It’s given me the motivation to go do something like take hip hop dance classes, take Zumba classes or even just exercise.

  • @biskwet6092
    @biskwet6092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    to think from 0 experience to 30 days of practice. DAMN! You did a great job! One of my dreams is to become a dancer too, coz my heart really beats so fast whenever I dance and see myself in front of the mirror. I'm just too scared to show it publicly. I have this kind of feeling and really it kills me and makes me regret I didn't do what I wanted. :(

    • @lexshadle5606
      @lexshadle5606 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey yo, I totally feel your comment ^ I have felt the exact same way as you before... then I got introduced to YouDance. It's an online dance platform that really helped me gain confidence and skill :) Check out the link I think you're gonna love it! youdance.com/3

    • @dgcfgvvgb6555
      @dgcfgvvgb6555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I say go for it!

  • @koriethegiraffe
    @koriethegiraffe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4423

    "dont be afraid to touch yourself its your body!"
    😂😂😂

    • @jnk5790
      @jnk5790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      They always say that to us😅

    • @misskalea631
      @misskalea631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      No Nut November would beg to differ-

    • @Jecykshaji
      @Jecykshaji 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @haileelast9227
      @haileelast9227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @gaylordbalmes1557
      @gaylordbalmes1557 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@misskalea631 eh

  • @eiiie5737
    @eiiie5737 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2094

    “It’s hard to be Beyoncé” 😂😂😂

  • @candicefaithv
    @candicefaithv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ashly, this inspired me so much 😭 I identify with you so much, I don't own a pair of proper heels either which people were surprised by, and I really really really want to learn how to dance and I identify so much with the non-sexiness, and the awkwardness, and the frustration and getting used to my body. Thank you so much for your realness, your authenticity and this whole video ❤️

  • @Kay-kp3mk
    @Kay-kp3mk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This helped me so much! I have dance tryouts in 2 weeks and I am self conscious about my self when dancing. I worry about what others think and get anxious then I forget everything. This made me realize it’s my body and to not care what others think. Just be yourself when dancing. Tysm!

  • @alicelacson7616
    @alicelacson7616 6 ปีที่แล้ว +599

    Lowkey wish I worked at Buzzfeed so I can openly try to unlock certain aspects of myself and be able to say that I’m doing it for work without feeling awkward and saying I’m doing it for myself irl

    • @ananyasahay
      @ananyasahay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alice Lacson same

    • @youngbluntandmizguided
      @youngbluntandmizguided 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I dead feel the same tho, plus is it free since it's for work lol 🤔🤔🤔

    • @Diana8Matienzo
      @Diana8Matienzo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally me!!!! 😂

    • @Louffydances4life
      @Louffydances4life 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Alice Lacson me too!! I was literally just googling how to apply at buzzfeed but then im like..: i don’t think 16 years old can work there but then im like maybe i can do intern but then again id have to travel to ny all the time

    • @alicelacson7616
      @alicelacson7616 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nubian Lolita I had the same realizations 😭😂

  • @ZombieFaceClause
    @ZombieFaceClause 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2114

    Lol. I like how the outfits got progressively sexier as she built her confidence

  • @yeimysavoie4813
    @yeimysavoie4813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This comment is 4 years late, but this was so much fun to watch! You just inspired me to go back to those dancing classes and HAVE FUN! No matter if I slay the moves on that particular day, I just need to approach this in a different way and your entire video was just the best reminder that, yes, I can have fun, yes, I can have confidence while dancing and being me. Thank you so much for having shared your experience! You were absolutely amazing to watch ***!!

  • @marmalade2358
    @marmalade2358 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OMG! The performance was absolutely beautiful! ❤ I just started dancing not to long ago, and I am still at that awkward phase. I feel like I have no control over my body. This gave me sooo much motivation and hope that I can get better and more confident in myself. I am so glad you gained so much confidence from your experience, and I feel so proud seeing that you never gave up! You are so beautiful and inspirational! 😊

  • @thayssabassut1348
    @thayssabassut1348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2431

    ok but like she worked with the best dancers and choreographers in LA, i'm so jealous
    YAAASS GIRL

    • @dvbgnn4379
      @dvbgnn4379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too😭😭

    • @cassandrashaw1924
      @cassandrashaw1924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She had to come out of that shell and defeat her own insecurities. She could have had the best dance instructor in the world but if he hadn't gotten her to that point then she never would have felt that.

  • @KevinMAbraham
    @KevinMAbraham 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3587

    NOW I WANT EUGENE AND ASHLEY TO DO A DUET DANCE

    • @violetmoon825
      @violetmoon825 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      OMG YESSSS

    • @hannahclark3380
      @hannahclark3380 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I LITERALLY SAID THE SAME THING WHEN I FINISHED THE VIDEO

    • @jowieman1960
      @jowieman1960 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YASSSSSS

    • @adrianamiranda3232
      @adrianamiranda3232 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMGGG YEEESSSS

    • @LA-sh9jh
      @LA-sh9jh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      YASS PEOPLE KEEP LIKING THIS SO THEY WILL SEE

  • @harpermccurdy6255
    @harpermccurdy6255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this was so inspiring and the performance had my jaw dropped it was SO GOOD this is making me want even more to get better at dancing even though i've already taught myself choreos and do "just dancing" on my own it amazes me how much you can see the improvement and see how she was genuinely loving what she was doing 💖💖

  • @GabGirl93263464
    @GabGirl93263464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    16:56 “My favorite part is when she slammed the floor with her chooch OMFG that was funny!!

  • @kylehanagami
    @kylehanagami 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47076

    It’s so weird watching myself on camera. Lol. But Ashly, I’m so proud of you! You definitely found your inner sexy. 💃🏽

    • @jasmine7373
      @jasmine7373 6 ปีที่แล้ว +779

      A KING IN THE COMMENTS SECTION OH AND THANK YOU FOR THE AMAZING PEEK A BOO CHOREO IT WAS GREAT DJKFNJKDNK

    • @adrianmaxwell5857
      @adrianmaxwell5857 6 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      You did so good with her, Kyle!!

    • @amandasmith511
      @amandasmith511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      kyle!!!!!!! you and hayley are my favorite ahhhhhhh❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍

    • @laurensbison1410
      @laurensbison1410 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Teach me too!!

    • @korokseed1037
      @korokseed1037 6 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      KYLE HANAGAMI I'm going to play grooves with my friends that looks super fun!!

  • @laurawight6923
    @laurawight6923 6 ปีที่แล้ว +409

    "My body wasn't a joke" that sentence broke me.

  • @mari9564
    @mari9564 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This video has helped me in so many ways over the past 5-6 years. I've gotten into my schools marching band and started dancing with my Satin Divas (flag girlies) and its forced me out my bubble. Never thought it was possible, but this video of Ashly showed me otherwise. Thank you, guys, for putting out this video!!!!

  • @VeeMeee
    @VeeMeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow!!! When I saw her perform my whole face lit up, like, it honestly makes me so happy to see her glow from those 30 days of hard work! (well, 29 days, and then final day of performance). Attaining confidence through an amazing supportive dancers and oooof! Now I am inspired, thank you for sharing your story, Ashly!

  • @ElenaTaber
    @ElenaTaber 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18246

    I was literally smiling through the whole damn performance because that right there is an empowered women oozing with confidence and I'M LIVING FOR IT

  • @aiaru7561
    @aiaru7561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1854

    Kyle is like a sweet grandma.

    • @j.a.2232
      @j.a.2232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Liv _uwu thanks for make me laugh 😂

    • @multistannerbitch7109
      @multistannerbitch7109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jgkh Jxjwtj yeah, a hot one, omg wait-

    • @victoriasmith7004
      @victoriasmith7004 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is Kyle’s last name?

    • @TheTigereye22
      @TheTigereye22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@victoriasmith7004 Hanagami :)

  • @Chronicler9
    @Chronicler9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This video was *everything* for me right now. Thank you, girl! Thank you, Kyle and everyone who helped boost her confidence! and boost my own!

  • @natalishakhray
    @natalishakhray 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    wow, she did an amazing job. I wanna watch more of these, this is so much inspiration!

  • @devinbagnell8079
    @devinbagnell8079 6 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    "and my body wasn't a joke, and I had fun, and I had the best time" what a beautiful statement towards the end. I'm obsessed with this transformation, congratulations ashly! girl you did the damn thing and then some

  • @tiki-tots
    @tiki-tots 6 ปีที่แล้ว +647

    The best thing about this is that she probably gained so much confidence she never knew she had after this.

  • @bexc348
    @bexc348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this video, I can re-watch it at any point, it's amazing just seeing the transformation in how you feel about your body and yourself. Should be so proud of this! You are incredible.

  • @slippere4263
    @slippere4263 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I remember being so inspired by this video when it first came out and wanting to be a dancer so bad because of it 😭😭

  • @Littleloulotus1964
    @Littleloulotus1964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1370

    I love how the background dancers during the final performance sometimes sneaked a peak at her and kinda smiled proudly seeing how she was enjoying herself. That's how I interpreted it at least :)

    • @xbluekidx
      @xbluekidx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i also saw that, it was so darn freaking cute.

  • @omelasbaby
    @omelasbaby 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2982

    wow she KILLED IT. It makes me wanna do a 30-day dance challenge myself lmao

    • @cassiadsouza709
      @cassiadsouza709 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      PrincessM yeahhh same. I have no confidence! I can't dance lol. I would love to try the 30 days challenge

    • @yams8665
      @yams8665 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ikr

    • @aaurar
      @aaurar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      STAN Kim chungha uwu yEs we stan a queen 😭😔💞

    • @monomo5830
      @monomo5830 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should totally do it! It’s not really that hard like physical wise but what’s important is you have to confident

    • @alfa8277
      @alfa8277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I really want to dance sexy and challenge myself but I'm totally bad at dancing.
      Can't learn within coach.
      I learn to dance from youtube. and i was so cringey of myself.

  • @anshenajanu5452
    @anshenajanu5452 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So proud of you Ashley! The confidence you had in yourself to go through this journey, I really appreciate it. This is so motivational and keep going at it. ♥️🌸

  • @anniechang1556
    @anniechang1556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loooove the confidence she gained afterwards.
    I was in an after-school hip-hop dance class in middle school and as shy as I was(still am) my dance teacher was always so supportive and encouraging. I wish I had continued after middle school because after seeing my nieces’ dances shows and performances, it made me realize how much I missed dancing ❤️

  • @FlatEarthLuvr
    @FlatEarthLuvr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1532

    Kinda cried when she nailed it

    • @hazydazy1561
      @hazydazy1561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too, hahaha, I was crying in front of the laptop)

    • @annakarenpena
      @annakarenpena 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      FlatEarthLuvr p p n n

  • @windsong4948
    @windsong4948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2570

    6:23 "It breaks my heart when people don't have the confidence to just do what they want to do"
    SO TRUUUE! thank you for that words, especially being an experienced choreographer and still that open as a person

  • @Dottie1975
    @Dottie1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    THIS is EXACTLY WHY dance should be mandetory in schools !
    it teaches yo so so so much about confidence (i never learned that anywhere else, but DANCE conected me to me!
    dancing is so so so frikking important i life .. it teaches you so much

    • @RachelLaReina
      @RachelLaReina ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree! Unfortunately the parents will be fighting against moves that are too “sexy”. I support ballroom dance styles!!!

  • @amyswallow742
    @amyswallow742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this was so beautiful and inspiring. honestly I feel your self esteem situation so much as it's the same issue I face and I never felt like i was worthy of dancing. this video just makes me want to go out and do it and also start learning to walk in high heels

  • @caylinalise6667
    @caylinalise6667 6 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    Eugene looks like a proud momma at the end performance 😂

  • @ThandoHlophe
    @ThandoHlophe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2054

    "The version of me that was sexy at the end was me all along."

    • @octopuswiggle4933
      @octopuswiggle4933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eleane Lin no but u can! Confidence is sexy!

  • @gaurikasharma7505
    @gaurikasharma7505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    this is actually so damn motivating cause i recently just started dancing and i never have the confidence when im on the camera but this made me realise that honestly all u gotta do is believe in yourself and just put it out on the stage

  • @aliciawise3331
    @aliciawise3331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yesssss!! I love this! I also had a hard time dancing in front of others, and didn't feel comfortable dancing in front of people for like 10 years. My current bf taught me ballet and some basic pole work, and over the past two years I've had the same transformation you experienced in 30 days! It's so powerful and uplifting to see you get more comfortable with yourself in this video. Not gonna lie, I cried a little (':

  • @samminicksm
    @samminicksm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    Eugene’s whole ramble at the end was great.

  • @IDk-st5ep
    @IDk-st5ep 6 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    The fact that she did improve so much in 30 days makes me want to start dancing so that I can also gain confidence

    • @caoimhem2510
      @caoimhem2510 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I D k You definitely should!!😄

  • @helllllloworld
    @helllllloworld ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this has become my comfort video, i watch it once a year

  • @rachaelb9164
    @rachaelb9164 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OMG I totally relate to everything you said. I have always been terrified of dancing. I’m so painfully self conscious and in my head that I completely don’t know how to be in my body. I was a tall girl and developed young. I was also incredibly shy and awkward.
    Martial arts did help build some self confidence and give me spatial awareness but I think dance is probably a level above that. Thank you for helping us awkward gals feel less alone.

  • @tumblrwinks03
    @tumblrwinks03 6 ปีที่แล้ว +562

    The ballerina who was teaching her seemed so sweet and encouraging!!

  • @PhiladelphiaMeteKingi
    @PhiladelphiaMeteKingi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1577

    Probably the most un-cry-worthy video, but I cried because seeing the confidence burst out of this amazing woman was unbelievable. We need more female advocates like this promoting how important it is to be confident in your own skin. Thanks Ashly xx

  • @androetie
    @androetie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was honestly amazing, I’m so impressed. You rocked that show!!

  • @princessanjlol2871
    @princessanjlol2871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This makes me want to cry in the best of ways. Happy for you and thanks for the inspiration!

  • @treesuh587
    @treesuh587 6 ปีที่แล้ว +591

    After she said 4 years no heels I expected a baby giraffe...but noooo!!! Ashley can work them heels! SLAYYYYY