Sorry but Chikkas tweets were very disgusting, very anti black. She saw two black girls & to her they're automatically bastards and created as a result of promiscuity as opposed to being created out of love. Dont agree with the body shaming she went through but she needs to leave peoples kids alone.
Whew Justin I usually agree with you but she went too far Then tried to weaponize her mental health to get sympathy. I ain’t never seen you do this.. I ain’t never saw Lizzo, Angie Stone, or any other fat black woman do that.. I ain’t saying it’s right but the fact she did that but then had a total different conversation with the aunt about the kids was wild. Everybody wrong honestly🤷🏾♀️
I was a fan of Chika from the time she did that Calvin Klein Ad. But I recently had to unfollow her on a number of platforms because of the hat3full, bizarre and disrespectful things she would say and post. She stay trying to drag people then play victim. When you put out negativity, it comes right back to you. It’s sad that people automatically criticize her based on her looks first. But respect starts within.
I honestly want her to chill on the drinking & get the help she needs. I know she has mental health struggles, but as someone who also has MH things to overcome, you must be intentional in your healing or this shit will pour out of you in a way you don’t want. For me, alcohol makes it all worse. But she’s also much younger than me & might have to figure it out with time.
She is way too negative. I understand justin trying to defend her but she constantly does this. She blocking for speaking positive. I didn't curse her out or anything. I was talking to someone else under her comment.😂
This is a conversation we need to have. Quite a number of people harbor a terrifying hatred of children, which is probably tied to the way they were raised. It still doesn’t justify the ugliness hurled at babies.
@@Zim24DivaI don’t think it’s an overall hatred for children but I think it’s the noise more than anything else. I wouldn’t go spewing vitriol against toddlers but i am gone be annoyed AF, if they are crying for hours non stop especially in a metal tube in the sky.
Fat phobia and all aside. Speaking as an overweight dark-skinned woman who has suffered with Major Depression Disorder for well over ten years. The main topic in this video shouldn’t have been focused on her appearance which clearly triggered you because it correlated with your own personal life experiences. It should have been a read on how dangerous it is for a black woman to constantly cry wolf with her mental health whenever she’s nasty to others! She could have employed so many other healthy ways to cope with those beautiful black babies crying. Instead, she spent over 34 dollars to purchase wifi and called them and their mothers everything but children’s of God. Instances such as this minimizes mental health within our community.
I think it's valid for him to talk about how it correlates to him and how it triggered him because it's illustrating how fatphobic and colorist comments when dragging someone hurt people it didn't intend to and ppl need to be more mindful of that. But I do think he also should've talked more about how her behavior was disgusting.
@@ddneq677I think him ignoring the mental health part lessened his overall view in my eye. However, after reading your comment I see where his intent laid. Thanks for the response.
I agree with you! I would further say I can see why people automatically went to dog pile her because this isn’t the first time she’s went to attack people, kids to be specific people that cannot protect themselves. It’s all weird to make numerous tweets about kids and call them all these names. I look at it as you spew vile and hate you better be ready to get it right back .
Chika is COMPLETELY unhinged and I wish she would sit down and get medicated somewhere. All of that towards CHILDREN was unnecessary and so was the doubling down on it until she realized it was T.I.’s child..
Intersectionality is key here and two things can be true at once. Before I offer my critique I will 100% state that I'm sure Chika is being vilified to a more severe degree because of colorism, anti-Blackness and anti-fatness. People who don't experience these types of discrimination have gotten away with worse. It's never okay to counteract anything with bigotry. If I punched a white person and they called me a slur as a reaction, it wouldn't be justified. Bigotry is bigotry, period. With that being said I feel as though you are downplaying Chika's tweets as her just inappropriately ranting about being annoyed when it was more than that. Chika publicly participated in the dehumanization of Black children. Apparently she has a history of this. Calling Black children bastards isn't okay. Apparently there are other tweets circulating showing this pattern, like the one where she compared a little Black girl to a skeleton. Additionally, she was ableist. Asking if someone is "mentally delayed" isn't okay, irritated or not. It reinforces the dehumanization of disabled folks, and in this case folks with intellectual disabilities. Ableism is often downplayed or not discussed at all in this discussions. I know this hits close to home for you and the point you were getting at is that people take any opportunity they can to dehumanize fat Black folks whether they have done something wrong or not. I just feel like this could've been discussed in a way that didn't seemingly downplay the bigotry that was present in Chika's tweets as well.
Tbh I don’t believe that she’s being vilified more severely due to her look, but to her own colorism, self hate and bullying comments made to a child and their parents to boot! Nobody has a soft spot for disgustingly rude behavior . That’s it that’s all.
If you put your hands on somebody what they do or say is a reaction to what you did and you do not get to tell them how to react because they wouldn’t have done it if you didn’t put your hands on them. That is not a good example. I do agree that the criticism she is getting is based on her being fat, dark skin and black…that’s clear. I actually saw some of the comments and they were mentioning her size, her body odor, her skin color, comparing her to animals etc….it was bad and it was clearly overkill however you do not get to do the kind of thing she did and expect everyone to not say anything about it. The harsh criticism is…like I said…a reaction to what she did…the other part that is not being mentioned is that a lot of these people tearing at her are fans of TIP and Tiny. They are very well known celebrities. The other part is people get pissed off when you talk bad about babies…also she’s in first class complaining…that is also a turn off for people. None of TI’s kids are married. So if they have children…they are literally bastards…just saying 🤷🏾♂️
I love you Justin but will have to respectfully disagree with you on this one babes. Although people were hyper focusing on her appearance- she deserves the dragging that she’s getting. Let’s not forget that this isn’t her first time saying nasty and ugly things about black children. She once compared a picture of a deceased little black girl to a picture of a skeleton. She’s also very anti black herself with the language she uses when describing any other black person. Shoot, her tweets about this very situation were very anti black with the way she talked about those babies and who she assumed to be their mother. You can’t vent about people using anti black toward her whilst disregarding her own anti blackness this time and the many times before that.
Yes, I'm starting to see that, myself. It's definitely made me back up off Chika. Like, yes, a lot of women who look like Chika are held back because of their looks and how society is, but she's also coming off as a horrible person. Kids are kids. I don't have them for my own reasons, but I would never be this disgusting to kids being kids. They're freaking kids.
So because she’s “unattractive “ we’re supposed to give her a pass? Lol naw. She shouldn’t have recorded those babies and publicly said those disgusting things.
The point was to call homegirl out on her behavior. Her being fat and dark skin has nothing to w the situation. Justin stated clearly that he doesn't agree w what she did so I'm not sure where u got the idea of her deserving a free pass...
I will agree to disagree. Chika deserves the same GRACE she gave those poor babies. I’m sadly surprised you feel she can use being dark and fat as a shield for people calling her out. She’s a horrible person when it comes to what’s she chooses to promote as part of her “brand”. Ppl aren’t dogpiling her because of this particular incident but more so because Chika’s mouth and attitude continues to get her into conflict. She should reread the GOLDEN RULE: “People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.”
I don’t think that’s what Justin was saying. Hold her accountable for her horrible words; Just don’t make it about her being fat and dark/skinned. We can talk about how she is a bad person with a terrible twitter streak without bringing up her physical attributes. We are supposed to be better than that.
Y'all will watch and sub to fat/dark skinned people and have all of their critiques on systemic bigotry go right over your heads. How is colorism and fatphobia ever gonna help little Black girls? You're not prioritizing kids by upholding systems that harm them. You are prioritizing your anger.
Justin you tend to center yourself in everything and never dissect the problem at hand. She was being a villain. You have come at celebs for just coughing the wrong way. She also weaponized her mental health to delete herself, had she not been able to spew all that stuff online.
Although the hate Chika's been getting is very extreme, she wouldn't be going through all that if she didn't post that rant in the first place. What did she think was going to happen coming for anybody's kids like that?
Yup. Talk about a self-inflicted L. All of her draggings have happened because of something she hopped on Twitter to post, plus she's dragged Black children prior to this but she really took it a step too far this time around and her response to it all was trash.
As a dark-skinned woman who has dealt with colorism all of my life, I don't see the correlation between the two. I think it's completely asinine to make her out to be the victim. 90% of communication online is with Bots, so who's to say that these weren't Bots attacking her. People don't get mad about these issues until it directly affects them. As a mother who has taken flights with children including a 4-year-old toddler flying can be a nightmare. Imagine how the mother felt in that moment she is unable to console and bring Comfort to her child due to the circumstance. Who is to say that the mother wasn't embarrassed? So to take a situation and publicly humiliate her is disgusting! We can compare apples to oranges but what about Mom shaming? That woman called that child a bastard! A bastard is a child born out of wedlock, she's very intelligent so I'm quite sure she knew how deep that went as a black woman. If you had that much energy to spend $40 on Wi-Fi connection just a tweet something disgusting about a baby , she needs to add another hundred dollars and go see a therapist. She claims to be woke right? This is narcissistic behavior and it's very much self-inflicted. I'm going to sit this one out because I'm a mother first
I get that rant was too much. At the same time, none of it was aimed directly at the kids or the mom and the only reason they even know is because it went viral. People are acting like Chika said these things directly to them when she stated she was polite to them in person and just venting online. Granted, she should've saved that for a group chat or left it in the drafts but folks are dragging it.
@@EargasmEnt But it got back to the mom lol or did you miss that? The babies were TI’s grandkids. Putting something heinous online doesn’t absolve you of the responsibility. She never banked on the woman seeing it because she likely didn’t bank on going viral. She’s a celebrity with a public social media account, that comes with responsibility.
@@TheSomethingnew1 yes I’m aware it got back to her which is why I said “the only reason they know is because it went viral.” Her not banking on them finding out was my exact point. She said that herself. Lol. & them being TIs grandkids is irrelevant to be honest. Y’all think bringing nuance to the conversation is absolving her of accountability. No one said what she said wasn’t wrong & she shouldn’t have said it. We are just saying the response is disproportionate & rooted in desirability as Chika is fat and dark skinned. Multiple truths at one time
I hate how we can’t call a thing a THING anymore. Chikka was wrong and that’s that. I’m not babying her bc she got hate tweets back for saying disgusting things about children. Talking about block her and move on… Justin, it’s giving hypocrite bc if this was someone else who you don’t see yourself in, you would be going on for 40 days and 40 nights!!! The fact the this girl was able to sit with what she did and STILL got online saying she won’t apologize and f tha babies. Y’all get on my nerves constantly moving the goal post!! She deserves the backlash period. Every action has a reaction and you cannot choose what reaction you gonna get! This is the real mf world not our circles.
agreed, her rant was antiblack. the question is how is it productive to try to hold her accountable to that and the harm she caused to the family by also engaging in antiblack, colorist, fatphobic language?
Exactly. She basically went with the entire board of talking points from the black manosphere. There is the “f” the kids remarks. There is the hatred toward what she thought was poor black single mothers. I have no problem letting her see the rest of that chalkboard and what it has to say about dsw and overweight women. If she wants to engage in that bs then let her suffer from the same philosophies.
Justin this is starting to get exhausting, honestly. Her comments were disgusting and you're telling us that even though she didn't watch her mouth everyone else should watch theirs? Had she been "desirable" (I hate when you say this by the way because it lends to the idea that people like us are not)... but had she been desirable YOU WOULD HAVE LIT INTO HER! Even your admission that she was out of line was still coddling. You lend empathy and sympathy to those in the same visual class as you because you believe they have no support or voice ... when in fact they be wrong as h-e-11. The comments here alone support this but your opinion is starting to appear more and more like a superhero complex and not a real checking ... as you would with those you do not identify with. Is that not the very thing you say you don't believe in?
PREACH! I could this any better! I really hope Justin heals one day bcz it’s clear he will go *INNN* on skinny people, “desirable” people and I won’t even mention fairer skin shades..🥴. He enjoys going in on them and coddling people he more so physically relates to.
This reminded me of back when Justin was setup to interview Lil Nas X and never fully addressed Lil Nas X old tweets and extended grace to him in another video he made easily than other celebrities he has dragged who tweets couldn’t have compared to how vulgar Lil Nas X was. Justin has a habit of coddling those who align with what he can identify. When having discourses on these platforms there is a responsibility to call out right from wrong and not be as biased as he continuously does on this channel.
Her being "ugly" is just another excuse she was wrong, period. Being honesty the ugliest thing about is her her attitude. Has nothing to do with her being dark or fat. Her hate wasnt unwarranted, kinda what she gets. Granted if she was more "Attractive" they would of juts fiund some other short coming to use to attack her
That's what I was thinking when KOR opened with that....her tweets were just as heinous and judgmental as what came at her--- consequence of promiscuity --- sounds like some of that stuff those men on those other channels believe and preach. She was wrong...
I was thinking that. Chika could’ve been racially ambiguous and skinny and everyone still would’ve dogpiled on her because her tweets were disgusting. Granted, the responses didn’t have to mention her weight or appearance but it’s hard to extend grace to anyone that comes at children sideways.
She is, and it's always for her mouth. I felt sympathy for her in the past, but she uses mental health when things hit the fan. Seems like bs to me now.
Fatphobia and colorism is something he faces on the regular so of course he's going to take it personal when ppl are resorting to that to call someone out on their bs. It's really not that hard to get. Those types of comments don't just hurt the targeted person.
Justin Chika is always talking about somebody's blk kids there are old tweets of her doing that. Chika is not innocent and that is why ppl are dragging her. There are a lot of old tweets of her talking about other ppl's blk kids
I appreciate that you addressed this with class and sympathy for Chika. I honestly do not feel bad or think she deserves grace as she has done times before and using mental health is not an excuse for dragging children. I don’t think people were using the children to drag Chika either, I think people were genuinely upset that she would double down and not apologize for calling unknown black child bastards. Love your videos but respectfully disagreeing with this take.
You're absolutely defending her and it's gross. Her tweets were hateful and anti black, yet your problem is she got the same hate she put out? Nah. We not with you on this one. She IS the villain. She said she went out her way to pay $34 for wi-fi to spread her hate. Well hope it was worth it. It don't matter what she looks like. She's not above reproach just cuz she's plus size.
As much as I get that ( this is coming from a person who hasn't sent he tweets) it's very telling hat when mever a person a marginalized group doesn't some terrible hateful shit the same ppl who claim to be allies start using slurs and derogatory language to said person . Like for ex Ezra Miller they are a pos and the only reason they ass is not in jail is bc they are white however them being a disgusting human being doesn't now mean I get to misgender them or use slur agains them , I think the biggest problem I have with Comme ts like yours is it propetuated the idea that it's OK to basically be anti black / discriminatory in the face of anti blackness , like ut just feels unproductive bc you end up propetuation he same thing you claim to be against . Critique these ppl all you want , go in on they ass if need be but don't use the same discrimination their putting out back at them it's use less .I hope I sound coherent. * no hate to u I just been thinking about this for a while.
Thank yooouuuu… he is defending this girl when she is very anti black herself. She called those children bastards and their mother mentally incompetent. Im not understanding how she didn’t deserve the drag she put out
Why do ppl act like noise cancelling headphones don't exist? Crying babies on public transportation are a given. How u can get your ass on a plane not prepared for that is beyond me.
2 things can be true at once. Should Chika have said those things? NO. Should people be attacking her appearance or weight? NO. We still need to hold her accountable, rather than coddle her and use mental health and being “fat and Black” as a covering. Let’s be real. It witnessed, and participated, in a BOATLOAD of constructive criticism that had nothing to do with her looks or weight. I really hope one day my faves can stop projecting this way bcz they relate to her. Chika makes it hard to stan/defend her bcz what incident number is this from her? When she’s seemingly lost her grip and went wild online with her very strong vocabulary.
If you feel like ppl shouldn't be attacking her for her appearance or weight then why is basically saying that ppl should attack her character rather than her identity coddling?
I agree with you 100%, critique her behavior and not her appearance. As a dark skinned black woman it truly sickens me how brainwashed our people are into believing that lighter skin equates to beauty, we must get out of that way of thinking.
I don’t know. This would usually be my take but I think this is a “you get what you give” type of situation. I could argue that Chika’s tweets were excessively rooted in classism and anti blackness. Then the cherry on top for me was weaponizing mental health. So for me I’m looking at this whole situation as anti blackness vs anti blackness 🤷🏿♀️
@@lomix1106 That maybe the issue, this is such a touchy topic and conversations need to be had but sadly not too many of us are willing to have that conversation.
But Chika herself has disparaged the appearance of countless black people and children using anti black language. She’s getting back the same hate she gives at this point
I agree. Drag Chika because she has a nasty habit of attacking younger black girls while crying for protection herself. BUT, her looks, her size, her shape, her acne, etc. is not it.
Look at the degree on how far Chika went with insulting those kids and mom. She is reaping. I wish you would stop bringing color and her weight into this. Those kids couldn’t defend themselves and the media went off on her
Why do people feel entitled to quietness in public places? I never understood this. If i get on a bus or train with a screaming baby.... 🤷🏾♀️ It’s just my unlucky day. I’m not going to shame the baby or parent. Babies cry, and it’s not my house. I don’t have the right to dictate the atmosphere. People are so entitled.
I agree. People especially hate black mothers. So vile attacks on black women with children triggers me in the same way that vile attacks on fat dark skinned people triggers others. Luckily for that mom she is rich and meets American beauty standards. If not, their would probably be more people agreeing with Chika.
Don’t let your unwillingness to address your mental health in a positive way write a check you can’t cash. What she did was irresponsible, audacious, and reprehensible. She thought this would be a nameless faceless person who she drug and thought she’d get away with it. She got her ass handed to her, Rightfully so. She learned a hard lesson that day: when you go low, some people will go to hell. The moment you get to talking about people’s kids the gloves come off and all bets are off.
This. I have my own mental health issues, but I try hard to never blame them for the way I react and do things, so it hits me hard when I see people doing really shitty stuff, then saying "my mental health"... no, it's YOU. Unless you have a mental health issue that's out of control AND cannot be treated, then not getting any treatment and then doing shitty things means it's ALL YOU.
I think the majority of ya'll commented before listening. I'm trying to find out which part of the video shows him justifying what Chika said?? What she said was extremely trash AND the response was vitriolic and anti-fat as hell. BOTH things can be and are true. Like let's stop the bullshit, at the end of the day ya'll know that she wouldn't have gotten this much of a disgusting response had she been lighter, and skinnier. This shit is exhausting and I'm tired of ya'll trying to justify this. Drag her for what she said, NOT for how she looks. That's it.
@@mrhyoung it’s more so about having the maturity to address the issue at hand. Which was what she said about that mother and those children. What does her appearance have to do with what she said?
Chika’s tweets were anti-black, anti-black women, and elitist af. You’re on a plane babies cry 🤷🏾♀️ maybe airlines can start charging extra for child free flights, but that’s just life. She was out of line with how she responded, and you can’t control how people respond once you escalate a situation to that level of disrespect 🤷🏾♀️
Once you go in on a CHILD, there are no more rules. Idc about your feelings, or nothing of the sort. I will give you the same grace you gave those children, which is none.
I love him but its always about fatphobia or ppl hating fat black ppl. She deserves the dragging. Whether she's fat & black or not. She should've kept her mouth closed.
Hold up wait a minute. You’re telling me you have empathy for someone who attacked innocent children for no reason. The public didn’t drag her for no reason Justin. You can’t disrespect people especially children and expect to not be violated.
1) Justin never said she was being attacked for no reason. 2) He's just speaking to the fact that the fatphobia and colorism really got to him which is valid. 3)When you attack a person's identity, you're attacking everyone of that group whether you mean to or not. Which is why you attack the character, and most ppl aren't doing that.
Honestly I feel like everyone lost here. Chika’s comments were absolutely vile and she should be called our for it. She has a history of attacking black children and more black specifically black little girls. However, the comments about Chika’s appearance were just as vile & disgusting, but also hypocritical. Chika’s comments were anti-black & people were rightfully calling her out about it while also being anti-black at the same time. I didn’t really have much compassion for Chika & I still think she needs to apologize, but when she talked about her mental health I just felt bad. I think Chika needs help and she should stay off social media until she gets the help she needs but I also think people have to be mindful of how they engage people with mental health problems. At one point Chika was saying how she felt like she would’ve unalived herself had she not vented like she did, and while that may sound ridiculous to some people, that might’ve been the gods honest truth. This was when I started feeling like people needed to stop because with all this going on this could have literally been her final straw and she could’ve actually ended her life. I hope Chika gets the help she needs AND I hope she realizes that the things she said were disgusting and not needed.
We all know that some of us have deep self hate and we love to attack what reminds of us ourselves. If she has a history of this, then it's on her that she finally said something and she was rightfully dragged for it. Maybe it'll help her seek help for her own issues.
Yall cant talk about her without bashing her appearance?! Like where is The constructive discussion, where is talking about her behavior, but not using anti black language?? Yes! What she did was wrong, but for people to turn around and critique her an appearance instead of addressing her behavior and how she can do better. Is absolutely egregious!!
Does Justin not call Tory Lanez short & bald headed leprechauns whenever he is addressing Tory? Why is fatness & dark skin the only physical attributes off limits?
She was wrong. Deadass. No question. But what she received back was out of pocket. And granted, we can’t control the nastiness of a response from others after you are also nasty, but those others are, indeed, responsible for their nasty behavior too. Everybody sucks here except the kids. They’re literal toddlers & if there’s one thing little kids are gonna do on a plane, it’s cry. Everybody to therapy, do not pass go, do not collect $200. Edit: Thank you for also covering the Deviant issue. I’ve never been to one of their events (I realized there weren’t any queer AFAB women in attendance, so didn’t think it was my space to be in), but they look fun.
Is grace only extended to those you can relate to or have favor for🤔.. you have extended grace to cardi and I have witnessed her be anti-black, fatphobic, and weaponize HIV/AIDS …something is not adding up here 🤔
Chicka's behavior bears resemblance to that of Azelia Banks, as both individuals exhibit a tendency to freely express their opinions about others while being less receptive to criticism directed towards them. It is notable that Chicka has sometimes attributed the backlash she receives to colorism, despite her problematic behavior being the root cause. It is also important to acknowledge that Chicka's appearance, specifically her weight, may unfortunately be used against her. However, it is concerning that she persist on publicly sharing offensive opinions about others, only to becom upset when facing similar scrutiny herself .
y’all how in the world are we gonna hold someone *actually* accountable to the antiblack language they publicly leverage against a mother and her children….by recycling that same rhetoric?? what does that do except reify that that language and the violence behind it is acceptable? yes, her behavior was abhorrent….WHAT DOES HER BODY HAVE TO DO WITH THAT? useful convo would’ve been centered on extending sympathy to the mother for the difficulties of traveling with kids, how black kids especially are seen as an inconvenience if not a downright threat in public spaces, how “wench” and “bastard” were misogynoir coded words to use and that chika was wrong asf for that, her ableist language in the tweet, etc. all these things could’ve and should’ve been addressed without calling chika a “gorilla” and “linebacker” 😒 it’s not even about trying to give her “grace” or being kinder to her than she was to that family
THANK YOU! If I came for somebody's looks it would be irrelevant and my argument would be weak and it would result in a useless back & forth, so why do we act like it's necessary😬 Chika was clearly wrong and they still couldn't clearly address just that. It had to be colorism & fatphobia involved as if that does anything productive🙄 Chika ain't gonna learn anything but that people are still anti-black and fatphobic. They're acting like Justin said we shouldn't criticize Chika. What he really said was that we CAN criticize her and what she said about Black children, without bashing her body. *Big sigh*
You love a fat phobic/colorist conversation because it relates to you; meanwhile, this was about her throwing rocks and hiding her hand. That could’ve been any child she spoke about and she spoke about the WRONG one! She got what she deserved 🫶🏽
Oh you look so good in this green top!! 💚 I also saw the latest In the Middle and I really appreciated the Chika convo. All three of you are so brilliant.
Naw Justin...talking about kids in the manner she did is not acceptable and down right abusive. She should have gotten dragged. I hate that everytime a dark skinned person exhibits bad behavior it goes to colorist and fat shaming, but if it was light skinned person or white person you would drag them. Be fair she is miserable with HERSELF and she constantly lashes out and chalks it to mental illness..naw she just mean!! She made her bed...
Exactly! I saw nothing about that slick comment. As if she’s been flying first class all her life. People can afford first class maam, maybe by a jet next time🙄
Yes! Let’s talk about it! The first class vs coach comment was also disgusting since sue implied if they were in coach, they could inconvenience others and not her
I get it and chika was wrong for talking about them kids, however where was all this uproar and face/body shaming-when cardi B called a black woman's deceased child a roach or a monkey it was one of those horrific things She Said. I think if chika was so called pretty or what people deem to be pretty no one would have went in on her like that... let's just be real🤷🏾♀️
While 2 things can be true at once... This is not Chika's first rodeo with out of pocket behavior, and I've witnessed (as a former follower) time and time again Chika try to explain it away with her mental health. That's not cool. Period. The conversation that needs to be had is the utilization of disabilities to exempt people from consequences
I think you should’ve opened this talking about her history of dragging little black girls not her being ate up because she’s “fat & dark skin” she doesn’t deserve grace after all the names she called those sweet babies. She’s a meanie end of discussion, and what you put out there may get you ate up so 🧏🏾♀️.
So Chika can wish someone to choke and die as well as slut shame but her image is offlimits? What about the person and children on the receiving end of Chika's attacts? Its wrong on both ends. But Chika welcomed all the smoke, and unfortunately some ppl go low, and travel the same road traveled to attack them. Chika has to do better to receive better because at the end of the day, the focus is truly on her anti-Blackness vs her appearance, giving she's a beautiful woman ...
Im so proud of you for getting out of the headspace of needing to one-up someone or get out of your character when they come at you. That is a lifelong journey some people NEVER reach the destination of. God bless you Justin.
I completely disagree with you totally ! Chika got what she asked for. You play stupid games you win stupid prizes. It has nothing to do with her being fat & dark skin. She talked shit called them black babies bastards & bitches. You can’t compare your trauma with hers. Plus this ain’t the first time that Chika talked out the side of her neck. & she wanna throw mental illness in there. Like please she deserved what she got.
This girl acted a fool because she took public transportation and was mad that THE PUBLIC was present. You can’t throw out hateful comments and then pick and choose how people respond to it. She needs to fly private or stfu
She called the mother a hoe, told her to choke, and the baby bitches and bastards…. Bffr. Very disappointed in the bias. I think that’s weird to relate to someone like that.
I agree with majority of what you said, when ppl call out/critique others they need to remain on topic. Being bigots/problematic back just worsens everything.
I do not for the life of me understand how in 2023, a year where state of the art noise cancelling headphones exist, people still whine about crying kids. ORDER THE GOD DAMN HEADPHONES.
I feel for you and have supported your channel for years. We have to seperate our trauma from others. She asked for what she got. She put the toxicity out on social media and got back exactly what she put out, toxicity. I can't defend her this time. Do not make this about you.
Y’all not getting it. For example: Idc what Justin does. I’m never gonna make HIV jokes to put him in his place. Even if i dont like him why does everyone else with HIV have to catch a stray.
Ok but 2 things can be true at once and that’s what you are not getting. Yes, the fat phobic comments were wrong. But let’s not negate the harm she attempted to cause to innocent black children. Let’s not forget that this isn’t her first time being hateful and anti black toward children on a public platform. Black children are already marginalized and not protected as they should be. So to see a grown adult willfully and intentionally trying to inflict more harm is disturbing. I refuse to allow anyone to gas light the situation and flip it around on the people who are upset about how children were talked about and make us the villains. The comments about her appearance were bad, but her comments were downright AWFUL. You can’t control how people respond to your foolish ways. Oh well
@@featherplucker it’s wild that folks keep acting like anyone is justifying her comments or saying she is above critique. Idk how Justin can say verbatim that she was wrong and you conclude that he doesn’t say that. Genuinely confused how that happens. No one negated the harm or her history. We’re just saying don’t use antiblackness to critique anti blackness.??? I can’t make it any more simple than that. If you think some folks deserve anti blackness then just stand in that.
Love ya, Justin. But, I don't really like how we're making Chika the victim here. Yes, she's fat and darker skinned and is receiving harsher repercussions because of that, and of course that's worthy of conversation. And yes, critiquing her body is uncalled for and not okay. HOWEVER, I really wish we wouldn't downplay the fact that Chika has a pattern of saying vile, problematic stuff online then throwing out the mental heath reasoning as an excuse. Chika has proven herself to be a very problematic person and if she's being dragged for her REPEATED problematic behavior, that's a consequence of her chosen actions. Again, dragging her looks is obviously out of line, but dragging her behavior is deserved. She's the villain because she's repeatedly choosing villain behavior. There's a reeeeeally fine line between acknowledging fatphonia and antiblackness and excusing behavior because you empathize with someone's identity. 😬
Yall, he's not saying not hold her accountable. Did we watch the same video? Ppl saying she got what she deserved, but when she did the Calvin Klein ad, she was getting the same anti-black and fatphobic hate. Yes, hold her accountable, but attacking her appearance is doing nothing but justifying colorist and fatphobic language. You're not hurting her, but you're hurting ppl that don't align w/ what's desirable. Ppl be so ready to attack, they not thinking/caring about others that can be hurt by their words.
Seriously, it seems like he has has some internal issues within himself that he’s projecting. Not everyone views fat and dark skin as negative. But he does.
Multiple things can be right: No one should ever feel like deleting themselves. No one should attack children. No one should weaponize someone's looks. No one should weaponize mental health. Mental Health is an explanation, not excuse. KoR is a bit biased in the video because he relates more to Chika. Others are a bit biased because they relate more to the mother.
Would you have made this video if Chika was light skinned or.......Chika been disrespectful on twitter for years and we supposed to chill on her cus she fat and dark skinned? LOL
But from what I gather, Chika's has an issue with black kids...that's anti-black behavior that should be called out, right? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. So I have no problem with her being dragged for going after innocent children, especially black kids. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Chika doesn't deserve to be vilified for simply having a body and being dark skin. She is an easy target in that regard and I agree with you on that point. However, Chika is also a grown woman who isn't above critique or opinion. She was calling black babies bastards and bringing a first world problem to Twitter was never a good idea. #1 Talking about black children in that manner and then to use your mental health as weapon to defend the bigotry is wild. Two things can be true... Mental health≠ Asshole
I understand exactly what you're saying.. as a collective we all can stand to learn how to correct people and educate them without automatically declaring war all at once. Every conversation doesn't have to be combative and we definitely should be more mindful about the way we hurt ourselves and participate in our own oppression when we are trying to call ourselves educating someone or are mindfully flat out attacking them.. I also want to add. That we also as a collective need to become more aware and accept another fact that the energy that you put out comes back to you one way or another. So while many of the problematic things that were said to chica and the problematic energy that was transferred in the process was not okay and is not right. And definitely deserves a conversation for correction. We also have to get real with ourselves and other people about the energy that we are putting out. Chica was going to get some type of nasty response one way or another simply because of the energy that she put out. She put out toxic energy & toxicity came back to her. I do agree that it was a specific form of chaotic & problematic because she is dark skin plus size and a woman.. But thee toxicity that she put out was going to get back to her one way or another whether It was people online that dragged her or some other way.. I also want to add that perhaps because you are not a woman. You didn't pick up on or linger on the stigma charged energy that Chika was dishing out to another black woman.. A Mother at that.. and how triggering that is for black women who are mothers. Along the lines of implementing and emphasizing the narrative that black women are the downfall of the family structure and cannot take care of their kids.. That's another layer as to why it was such a dog pile because much like you are able to relate to the anti blackness specifically anti-dark skin and the anti-fatness of it all. Many women were able to relate to the blows that Chika dished out with her stigmatizing antics. She offended a very large group that has their own many layers of oppression, stigmas, stereotype & mental health attacks.. which feeds into the size of the dogpile & feeds into the lack of sympathy & restraint they'd have for her.. Great Vid ! Great Points ! Im glad i didnt let the Comments or any mindless subconscious biases keep me from listening with Higher Senses.. I appreciate thee Msg. 💯👑
Justin, we can drag her for saying this horrible shit AND clock the people who are being fatphobic and colorist towards her. This reminds me of how you responded to the Gorilla Glue Girl situation, just making excuses for bad/idiotic behavior, just because they have certain identities 🙄
Justin, I don't think I've ever commenting on your videos but I am a long time supporter. Like you, I am someone who stands up against anti-blackness, interethnic conflict (mainly colorism) and systems of oppression in my everyday life so I'm well read on these topics. I fee l like you tend to project your own insecurities and use desirability, colorism and fat phobia as a base for every issue. It can be a bit off putting because everything isn't always predicated on colorism. Sometimes you speak as if all dark skin folks face constant bullying online and I just don't know it thats true. Dark skin people can have "gym bodies" (using your example from the video) and are just as desirable and benefit from pretty privilege because hell, I do. Chicka was wrong and literally made anti-Black comments about a Black mother and two little Black girls. Were her comments not anti-Black because Zonique and the little girls are not dark skin?
I don't know what this person on top of my comment was talking about, but as a dark-skinned mother of two black daughters and a black son I totally agree with this comment. I'm a mother first and at the end of the day she was so annoyed by those babies she could offer that woman help. Maybe she's needs to invest in some noise cancelling headphones I don't know. The same people that clean this woke narrative are always so narcissistic and they Gaslight everything. She's still a new mom she is still learning where is the mothers Grace?
@@SunflowerVibe329 lol you seem like the type that wouldn't know. 👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽 And I really have to question a dark skin person so quick to gaslight another dark skin person talking about colorist comments getting to them, by agreeing that he's "making everything about colorism." Then accuse THEM of doing the gaslighting. Silly.
Noise canceling headphones are an amazing investment and in these days essential. Not only do I not want to hear kids on my flights I don't want to hear the adults either and I do my sign language to the flight attendants if I need them which usually I don't cause I don't want to be bothered by them either. We need to share space but people in general are wildly inconsiderate of others. PS....nah $1,000 first class flight and I got to listen to a baby crying the whole flight....🤣🤣🤣 that is wild is the flight attendants passing out extra drinks and snacks even in coach. 🤷🏾♂️ Are the parents trying to find out why the baby crying? I love my noise canceling headphones. I don't know nothing....I don't hear nothing. 🕺🏾🎵 PS I live in NYC I keep my headphones on especially on the train where their is way worse than crying baby.
I’m a long time subscriber of yours Justin you have said some messed up stuff to me you even called another TH-camr fat I won’t say no names cause you will delete and you also made fun of disabilities just because she happen to be dark skinned and big don’t mean y’all can get away with saying stuff like that I feel you’re using that as an excuse for people to not go in
Critiquing her apperance is not okay. What's also not ok is her to pay $34 to tweet nasty, vile thing about Black children. She put extreme negative energy out there so she was going to get that back. You can't use your mental health and appearance as an excuse.
Anyone saying she “deserved” the comments Justin was talking about, missed the point of Justin’s entire video. People are trying to defend what was inappropriately said without acknowledging that it was VERY CLEARLY STATED that WHAT CHIKA SAID WAS WRONG AND DISGUSTING. You all do not give the same energy to people that are “societally acceptable” when it comes to weight and skin tone and THAT is equally wrong. You aren’t vindicated just because she’s a troubled person. If you want to attack her character; do so-but that’s not what is being focused on and attacked when it domes to Chika and people that look like Chika. That’s the point. Chika’s weight and skin tone are more viciously attacked than what she actually said. That’s what’s wrong. Why is that so difficult to see or admit to? A lot of you in the comment section are fatphobic and/or colorist and you’re trying to defend yourselves by saying “what she said was wrong” when no one was disputing that. It hurts but do the work and heal your hate. Have the discussion without demonizing her darkness and weight. Be accountable for your internalized biases.
I never complain about children crying, you never know the reason why, maybe they’re on the spectrum, maybe they have a a chronic illness or maybe they’re just tired, just leave the kids alone
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Sorry but Chikkas tweets were very disgusting, very anti black. She saw two black girls & to her they're automatically bastards and created as a result of promiscuity as opposed to being created out of love. Dont agree with the body shaming she went through but she needs to leave peoples kids alone.
Right!!! She crossed the line on so many levels
@@diandrawilliams1444 I hate to say it, but a lot of black immigrants have anti black attitudes. I say this cause I'm an immigrant to & I see it.
She got back the hate..she put out. All this coddling…you can keep that.
Exactly. The “promiscuous” and “bastard” code language was super anti black woman. I have no sympathy for her.
Seriously. Justin only has a problem with anti blackness if it comes from certain people.
Whew Justin I usually agree with you but she went too far
Then tried to weaponize her mental health to get sympathy. I ain’t never seen you do this.. I ain’t never saw Lizzo, Angie Stone, or any other fat black woman do that.. I ain’t saying it’s right but the fact she did that but then had a total different conversation with the aunt about the kids was wild. Everybody wrong honestly🤷🏾♀️
I was a fan of Chika from the time she did that Calvin Klein Ad. But I recently had to unfollow her on a number of platforms because of the hat3full, bizarre and disrespectful things she would say and post. She stay trying to drag people then play victim. When you put out negativity, it comes right back to you. It’s sad that people automatically criticize her based on her looks first. But respect starts within.
I honestly want her to chill on the drinking & get the help she needs. I know she has mental health struggles, but as someone who also has MH things to overcome, you must be intentional in your healing or this shit will pour out of you in a way you don’t want. For me, alcohol makes it all worse. But she’s also much younger than me & might have to figure it out with time.
She is way too negative. I understand justin trying to defend her but she constantly does this. She blocking for speaking positive. I didn't curse her out or anything. I was talking to someone else under her comment.😂
She called the kids bastards…why are people so irritated by babies and kids being kids and babies…the tweets were hateful
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This is a conversation we need to have. Quite a number of people harbor a terrifying hatred of children, which is probably tied to the way they were raised. It still doesn’t justify the ugliness hurled at babies.
@@Zim24DivaI don’t think it’s an overall hatred for children but I think it’s the noise more than anything else. I wouldn’t go spewing vitriol against toddlers but i am gone be annoyed AF, if they are crying for hours non stop especially in a metal tube in the sky.
@@tjjohnson136 apparently they cried for 1 minute on the flight
You do know what bastard means?😂
Fat phobia and all aside. Speaking as an overweight dark-skinned woman who has suffered with Major Depression Disorder for well over ten years. The main topic in this video shouldn’t have been focused on her appearance which clearly triggered you because it correlated with your own personal life experiences.
It should have been a read on how dangerous it is for a black woman to constantly cry wolf with her mental health whenever she’s nasty to others! She could have employed so many other healthy ways to cope with those beautiful black babies crying. Instead, she spent over 34 dollars to purchase wifi and called them and their mothers everything but children’s of God. Instances such as this minimizes mental health within our community.
I think it's valid for him to talk about how it correlates to him and how it triggered him because it's illustrating how fatphobic and colorist comments when dragging someone hurt people it didn't intend to and ppl need to be more mindful of that.
But I do think he also should've talked more about how her behavior was disgusting.
@@ddneq677I think him ignoring the mental health part lessened his overall view in my eye. However, after reading your comment I see where his intent laid. Thanks for the response.
I agree with you! I would further say I can see why people automatically went to dog pile her because this isn’t the first time she’s went to attack people, kids to be specific people that cannot protect themselves. It’s all weird to make numerous tweets about kids and call them all these names. I look at it as you spew vile and hate you better be ready to get it right back .
You better preach the truth and shame the devil!
You betta preach 🙌🏽
Chika is COMPLETELY unhinged and I wish she would sit down and get medicated somewhere. All of that towards CHILDREN was unnecessary and so was the doubling down on it until she realized it was T.I.’s child..
Intersectionality is key here and two things can be true at once. Before I offer my critique I will 100% state that I'm sure Chika is being vilified to a more severe degree because of colorism, anti-Blackness and anti-fatness. People who don't experience these types of discrimination have gotten away with worse. It's never okay to counteract anything with bigotry. If I punched a white person and they called me a slur as a reaction, it wouldn't be justified. Bigotry is bigotry, period.
With that being said I feel as though you are downplaying Chika's tweets as her just inappropriately ranting about being annoyed when it was more than that. Chika publicly participated in the dehumanization of Black children. Apparently she has a history of this. Calling Black children bastards isn't okay. Apparently there are other tweets circulating showing this pattern, like the one where she compared a little Black girl to a skeleton.
Additionally, she was ableist. Asking if someone is "mentally delayed" isn't okay, irritated or not. It reinforces the dehumanization of disabled folks, and in this case folks with intellectual disabilities. Ableism is often downplayed or not discussed at all in this discussions.
I know this hits close to home for you and the point you were getting at is that people take any opportunity they can to dehumanize fat Black folks whether they have done something wrong or not. I just feel like this could've been discussed in a way that didn't seemingly downplay the bigotry that was present in Chika's tweets as well.
Tbh I don’t believe that she’s being vilified more severely due to her look, but to her own colorism, self hate and bullying comments made to a child and their parents to boot! Nobody has a soft spot for disgustingly rude behavior . That’s it that’s all.
This is a fair point. Chika’s wildin’ with the “mentally delayed” comment. I didn’t know she said that. Shaking my head🤦🏾♂️…
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Thank you for putting this into words so well-I feel the same. Two things can be true.
If you put your hands on somebody what they do or say is a reaction to what you did and you do not get to tell them how to react because they wouldn’t have done it if you didn’t put your hands on them. That is not a good example. I do agree that the criticism she is getting is based on her being fat, dark skin and black…that’s clear. I actually saw some of the comments and they were mentioning her size, her body odor, her skin color, comparing her to animals etc….it was bad and it was clearly overkill however you do not get to do the kind of thing she did and expect everyone to not say anything about it. The harsh criticism is…like I said…a reaction to what she did…the other part that is not being mentioned is that a lot of these people tearing at her are fans of TIP and Tiny. They are very well known celebrities. The other part is people get pissed off when you talk bad about babies…also she’s in first class complaining…that is also a turn off for people. None of TI’s kids are married. So if they have children…they are literally bastards…just saying 🤷🏾♂️
I love you Justin but will have to respectfully disagree with you on this one babes. Although people were hyper focusing on her appearance- she deserves the dragging that she’s getting. Let’s not forget that this isn’t her first time saying nasty and ugly things about black children. She once compared a picture of a deceased little black girl to a picture of a skeleton. She’s also very anti black herself with the language she uses when describing any other black person. Shoot, her tweets about this very situation were very anti black with the way she talked about those babies and who she assumed to be their mother. You can’t vent about people using anti black toward her whilst disregarding her own anti blackness this time and the many times before that.
Thank you. This woman is anti black her damn self.
Yes, I'm starting to see that, myself. It's definitely made me back up off Chika. Like, yes, a lot of women who look like Chika are held back because of their looks and how society is, but she's also coming off as a horrible person. Kids are kids. I don't have them for my own reasons, but I would never be this disgusting to kids being kids. They're freaking kids.
She needed a journal not social media
So many do…
Or a group family/friends/team members who are able to cater to Chika. She’s a celebrity not a regular person💯
Those are so important. More people need to journal.
Exactly!! What happen to just writing things in a journal. Not everything should be on social media.
A burner account at the very least
So because she’s “unattractive “ we’re supposed to give her a pass? Lol naw. She shouldn’t have recorded those babies and publicly said those disgusting things.
No. You don’t need to be anti Black to call her out.
The point was to call homegirl out on her behavior. Her being fat and dark skin has nothing to w the situation. Justin stated clearly that he doesn't agree w what she did so I'm not sure where u got the idea of her deserving a free pass...
right
If she felt physically unattractive, she made herself even more unattractive with her comments
She recorded it?😮 what theck heck?
I will agree to disagree. Chika deserves the same GRACE she gave those poor babies. I’m sadly surprised you feel she can use being dark and fat as a shield for people calling her out. She’s a horrible person when it comes to what’s she chooses to promote as part of her “brand”. Ppl aren’t dogpiling her because of this particular incident but more so because Chika’s mouth and attitude continues to get her into conflict. She should reread the GOLDEN RULE: “People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.”
You took the words right outta my mouth
I don’t think that’s what Justin was saying. Hold her accountable for her horrible words; Just don’t make it about her being fat and dark/skinned. We can talk about how she is a bad person with a terrible twitter streak without bringing up her physical attributes. We are supposed to be better than that.
Right!
She got exactly what she gave those babies. She publicly embarrassed that family and they returned the favor
Children are never prioritized and it’s so disappointing. What she said was disgusting. Her backlash was warranted.
Y'all will watch and sub to fat/dark skinned people and have all of their critiques on systemic bigotry go right over your heads. How is colorism and fatphobia ever gonna help little Black girls? You're not prioritizing kids by upholding systems that harm them. You are prioritizing your anger.
Justin you tend to center yourself in everything and never dissect the problem at hand. She was being a villain. You have come at celebs for just coughing the wrong way. She also weaponized her mental health to delete herself, had she not been able to spew all that stuff online.
I started to tune out once he started comparing his treatment to what she is experiencing..
This! It’s always personal with him and the analysis is tainted
Is this not his channel and his opinion on the matter? Are y'all dumb?
Although the hate Chika's been getting is very extreme, she wouldn't be going through all that if she didn't post that rant in the first place. What did she think was going to happen coming for anybody's kids like that?
Facts Shatonda. Chika should’ve thought twice before posting all of this online. She’s not a regular person🫡.
Yup. Talk about a self-inflicted L. All of her draggings have happened because of something she hopped on Twitter to post, plus she's dragged Black children prior to this but she really took it a step too far this time around and her response to it all was trash.
Right, what does her weight and skin color have to do with anything. It’s crazy how some people are making excuses for her disgusting trash behavior.
As a dark-skinned woman who has dealt with colorism all of my life, I don't see the correlation between the two. I think it's completely asinine to make her out to be the victim. 90% of communication online is with Bots, so who's to say that these weren't Bots attacking her. People don't get mad about these issues until it directly affects them. As a mother who has taken flights with children including a 4-year-old toddler flying can be a nightmare. Imagine how the mother felt in that moment she is unable to console and bring Comfort to her child due to the circumstance. Who is to say that the mother wasn't embarrassed? So to take a situation and publicly humiliate her is disgusting! We can compare apples to oranges but what about Mom shaming? That woman called that child a bastard! A bastard is a child born out of wedlock, she's very intelligent so I'm quite sure she knew how deep that went as a black woman. If you had that much energy to spend $40 on Wi-Fi connection just a tweet something disgusting about a baby , she needs to add another hundred dollars and go see a therapist. She claims to be woke right? This is narcissistic behavior and it's very much self-inflicted. I'm going to sit this one out because I'm a mother first
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I get that rant was too much. At the same time, none of it was aimed directly at the kids or the mom and the only reason they even know is because it went viral. People are acting like Chika said these things directly to them when she stated she was polite to them in person and just venting online. Granted, she should've saved that for a group chat or left it in the drafts but folks are dragging it.
@@EargasmEnt But it got back to the mom lol or did you miss that? The babies were TI’s grandkids. Putting something heinous online doesn’t absolve you of the responsibility. She never banked on the woman seeing it because she likely didn’t bank on going viral. She’s a celebrity with a public social media account, that comes with responsibility.
@@TheSomethingnew1 yes I’m aware it got back to her which is why I said “the only reason they know is because it went viral.” Her not banking on them finding out was my exact point. She said that herself. Lol. & them being TIs grandkids is irrelevant to be honest. Y’all think bringing nuance to the conversation is absolving her of accountability. No one said what she said wasn’t wrong & she shouldn’t have said it. We are just saying the response is disproportionate & rooted in desirability as Chika is fat and dark skinned. Multiple truths at one time
Why didn’t they fly private since they’re rich rich.
I hate how we can’t call a thing a THING anymore. Chikka was wrong and that’s that. I’m not babying her bc she got hate tweets back for saying disgusting things about children. Talking about block her and move on… Justin, it’s giving hypocrite bc if this was someone else who you don’t see yourself in, you would be going on for 40 days and 40 nights!!! The fact the this girl was able to sit with what she did and STILL got online saying she won’t apologize and f tha babies. Y’all get on my nerves constantly moving the goal post!! She deserves the backlash period. Every action has a reaction and you cannot choose what reaction you gonna get! This is the real mf world not our circles.
Agreed
Now Justin stop it. Chika's whole rant was anti-black , so she deserves everything she got
His point is that it doesn’t justify being anti-black back.
agreed, her rant was antiblack. the question is how is it productive to try to hold her accountable to that and the harm she caused to the family by also engaging in antiblack, colorist, fatphobic language?
Exactly. She basically went with the entire board of talking points from the black manosphere. There is the “f” the kids remarks. There is the hatred toward what she thought was poor black single mothers. I have no problem letting her see the rest of that chalkboard and what it has to say about dsw and overweight women. If she wants to engage in that bs then let her suffer from the same philosophies.
Why can’t we hold both accountable, in the beginning he even says the tweets were disgusting. This whole situation is wrong
@@carrington2949 you are part of the problem. Just say you don't like fat black women & go to bed
Justin this is starting to get exhausting, honestly. Her comments were disgusting and you're telling us that even though she didn't watch her mouth everyone else should watch theirs? Had she been "desirable" (I hate when you say this by the way because it lends to the idea that people like us are not)... but had she been desirable YOU WOULD HAVE LIT INTO HER! Even your admission that she was out of line was still coddling. You lend empathy and sympathy to those in the same visual class as you because you believe they have no support or voice ... when in fact they be wrong as h-e-11. The comments here alone support this but your opinion is starting to appear more and more like a superhero complex and not a real checking ... as you would with those you do not identify with. Is that not the very thing you say you don't believe in?
PREACH! I could this any better! I really hope Justin heals one day bcz it’s clear he will go *INNN* on skinny people, “desirable” people and I won’t even mention fairer skin shades..🥴. He enjoys going in on them and coddling people he more so physically relates to.
THIS
This reminded me of back when Justin was setup to interview Lil Nas X and never fully addressed Lil Nas X old tweets and extended grace to him in another video he made easily than other celebrities he has dragged who tweets couldn’t have compared to how vulgar Lil Nas X was. Justin has a habit of coddling those who align with what he can identify. When having discourses on these platforms there is a responsibility to call out right from wrong and not be as biased as he continuously does on this channel.
PREACH! And it’s so disappointing because I love me some Justin. But this right here ain’t it. Your comment should be pinned
I said the same thing. He looking as if it was him. But Justin don't put out negativity like that so he can't put himself in her shoes.
Her being "ugly" is just another excuse she was wrong, period. Being honesty the ugliest thing about is her her attitude. Has nothing to do with her being dark or fat. Her hate wasnt unwarranted, kinda what she gets. Granted if she was more "Attractive" they would of juts fiund some other short coming to use to attack her
That's what I was thinking when KOR opened with that....her tweets were just as heinous and judgmental as what came at her--- consequence of promiscuity --- sounds like some of that stuff those men on those other channels believe and preach. She was wrong...
I was thinking that. Chika could’ve been racially ambiguous and skinny and everyone still would’ve dogpiled on her because her tweets were disgusting. Granted, the responses didn’t have to mention her weight or appearance but it’s hard to extend grace to anyone that comes at children sideways.
I could be wrong but it seems like shes always in mess
Right same thing I was thinking smh
She is! Shes in the media for mess more than her music.
She is, and it's always for her mouth. I felt sympathy for her in the past, but she uses mental health when things hit the fan. Seems like bs to me now.
She is.
Did not the “dark skinned black woman” say horrible things about kids? You took this personal and I’m confused.
Fatphobia and colorism is something he faces on the regular so of course he's going to take it personal when ppl are resorting to that to call someone out on their bs. It's really not that hard to get. Those types of comments don't just hurt the targeted person.
@@ddneq677 Me as a mother, Im triggered as well. i get it
It's anti black to look at a black woman with children and automatically assume she's promiscuous.
Justin Chika is always talking about somebody's blk kids there are old tweets of her doing that. Chika is not innocent and that is why ppl are dragging her. There are a lot of old tweets of her talking about other ppl's blk kids
I appreciate that you addressed this with class and sympathy for Chika. I honestly do not feel bad or think she deserves grace as she has done times before and using mental health is not an excuse for dragging children. I don’t think people were using the children to drag Chika either, I think people were genuinely upset that she would double down and not apologize for calling unknown black child bastards. Love your videos but respectfully disagreeing with this take.
Chika is ruining her career by not shutting her mouth
You're absolutely defending her and it's gross. Her tweets were hateful and anti black, yet your problem is she got the same hate she put out? Nah. We not with you on this one. She IS the villain. She said she went out her way to pay $34 for wi-fi to spread her hate. Well hope it was worth it. It don't matter what she looks like. She's not above reproach just cuz she's plus size.
Not with him at all!
As much as I get that ( this is coming from a person who hasn't sent he tweets) it's very telling hat when mever a person a marginalized group doesn't some terrible hateful shit the same ppl who claim to be allies start using slurs and derogatory language to said person . Like for ex Ezra Miller they are a pos and the only reason they ass is not in jail is bc they are white however them being a disgusting human being doesn't now mean I get to misgender them or use slur agains them , I think the biggest problem I have with Comme ts like yours is it propetuated the idea that it's OK to basically be anti black / discriminatory in the face of anti blackness , like ut just feels unproductive bc you end up propetuation he same thing you claim to be against . Critique these ppl all you want , go in on they ass if need be but don't use the same discrimination their putting out back at them it's use less .I hope I sound coherent. * no hate to u I just been thinking about this for a while.
Thank yooouuuu… he is defending this girl when she is very anti black herself. She called those children bastards and their mother mentally incompetent. Im not understanding how she didn’t deserve the drag she put out
Just because someone is worthy of criticism does not mean that all criticisms of them are valid
Why do ppl act like noise cancelling headphones don't exist? Crying babies on public transportation are a given. How u can get your ass on a plane not prepared for that is beyond me.
2 things can be true at once. Should Chika have said those things? NO. Should people be attacking her appearance or weight? NO. We still need to hold her accountable, rather than coddle her and use mental health and being “fat and Black” as a covering. Let’s be real. It witnessed, and participated, in a BOATLOAD of constructive criticism that had nothing to do with her looks or weight. I really hope one day my faves can stop projecting this way bcz they relate to her. Chika makes it hard to stan/defend her bcz what incident number is this from her? When she’s seemingly lost her grip and went wild online with her very strong vocabulary.
If you feel like ppl shouldn't be attacking her for her appearance or weight then why is basically saying that ppl should attack her character rather than her identity coddling?
So where just going to ignore Chika’s anti blackness 😅. The projections in this video is unreal.
UNREAL
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Chile his insecurities about being dark skin and a bigger individual jump out every single time. He needs to heal.
I wish i could know how many people going in on Chika for disrespecting kids were criticizing Blue Ivy just last week🤔
MESSAGE!!!
And criticizing black kids for having an extravagant prom
I agree with you 100%, critique her behavior and not her appearance. As a dark skinned black woman it truly sickens me how brainwashed our people are into believing that lighter skin equates to beauty, we must get out of that way of thinking.
I don’t know. This would usually be my take but I think this is a “you get what you give” type of situation. I could argue that Chika’s tweets were excessively rooted in classism and anti blackness. Then the cherry on top for me was weaponizing mental health. So for me I’m looking at this whole situation as anti blackness vs anti blackness 🤷🏿♀️
@@lomix1106 That maybe the issue, this is such a touchy topic and conversations need to be had but sadly not too many of us are willing to have that conversation.
Shes ugly on the inside ! So why is she exempt from scrutiny absolutely not !
But Chika herself has disparaged the appearance of countless black people and children using anti black language. She’s getting back the same hate she gives at this point
@@featherplucker Well I don't know anything about her, I'm just going off of what he said.
I agree. Drag Chika because she has a nasty habit of attacking younger black girls while crying for protection herself. BUT, her looks, her size, her shape, her acne, etc. is not it.
Look at the degree on how far Chika went with insulting those kids and mom. She is reaping. I wish you would stop bringing color and her weight into this. Those kids couldn’t defend themselves and the media went off on her
Why do people feel entitled to quietness in public places? I never understood this. If i get on a bus or train with a screaming baby.... 🤷🏾♀️ It’s just my unlucky day. I’m not going to shame the baby or parent. Babies cry, and it’s not my house. I don’t have the right to dictate the atmosphere. People are so entitled.
Amen!
If you don’t have children you shouldn’t try to dictate how one responds to blatant, public , bullying of a child. You truly don’t understand.
Girl be quiet!
@@Nappy2theRoot 😂😂😂😂☠️
Im with everything from “you shouldn’t..”
Girl bye! 😂😂😂😂
I agree. People especially hate black mothers. So vile attacks on black women with children triggers me in the same way that vile attacks on fat dark skinned people triggers others. Luckily for that mom she is rich and meets American beauty standards. If not, their would probably be more people agreeing with Chika.
Don’t let your unwillingness to address your mental health in a positive way write a check you can’t cash. What she did was irresponsible, audacious, and reprehensible. She thought this would be a nameless faceless person who she drug and thought she’d get away with it. She got her ass handed to her, Rightfully so. She learned a hard lesson that day: when you go low, some people will go to hell. The moment you get to talking about people’s kids the gloves come off and all bets are off.
This. I have my own mental health issues, but I try hard to never blame them for the way I react and do things, so it hits me hard when I see people doing really shitty stuff, then saying "my mental health"... no, it's YOU. Unless you have a mental health issue that's out of control AND cannot be treated, then not getting any treatment and then doing shitty things means it's ALL YOU.
I think the majority of ya'll commented before listening. I'm trying to find out which part of the video shows him justifying what Chika said?? What she said was extremely trash AND the response was vitriolic and anti-fat as hell. BOTH things can be and are true. Like let's stop the bullshit, at the end of the day ya'll know that she wouldn't have gotten this much of a disgusting response had she been lighter, and skinnier. This shit is exhausting and I'm tired of ya'll trying to justify this. Drag her for what she said, NOT for how she looks. That's it.
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He's not responding with the vitriol they want him to so he's justifying it, in their dumb logic.
Also sorry, just realized that Chika goes by they/them. Unintentional misgendering so I’m sorry about that, but my point still stands!
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Just because a fat dark skinned person is imperfect does not mean they deserve colorist and anti-fat backlash.
You do not tell people how to respond to disrespect
And just because they are imperfect doesn’t make them immune to criticism! Especially when you’re the one who initiated the hate!
This is fair. Chika needs to chill though. Her track record of being anti-black is looking lengthy for what I been reading in the comments😭!
@@mrhyoung it’s more so about having the maturity to address the issue at hand. Which was what she said about that mother and those children. What does her appearance have to do with what she said?
Chika’s tweets were anti-black, anti-black women, and elitist af. You’re on a plane babies cry 🤷🏾♀️ maybe airlines can start charging extra for child free flights, but that’s just life. She was out of line with how she responded, and you can’t control how people respond once you escalate a situation to that level of disrespect 🤷🏾♀️
Chika needs to stop playing victim all the damn time and take accountability. I told feel sorry for her no matter what her skin complexion is.
Once you go in on a CHILD, there are no more rules. Idc about your feelings, or nothing of the sort. I will give you the same grace you gave those children, which is none.
Leave Black children ALONE..... That's all I got 🤷🏿♀️
Justin I’m going to be honest, this take was so wack.
I love him but its always about fatphobia or ppl hating fat black ppl. She deserves the dragging. Whether she's fat & black or not. She should've kept her mouth closed.
Hold up wait a minute. You’re telling me you have empathy for someone who attacked innocent children for no reason. The public didn’t drag her for no reason Justin. You can’t disrespect people especially children and expect to not be violated.
1) Justin never said she was being attacked for no reason.
2) He's just speaking to the fact that the fatphobia and colorism really got to him which is valid.
3)When you attack a person's identity, you're attacking everyone of that group whether you mean to or not. Which is why you attack the character, and most ppl aren't doing that.
Honestly I feel like everyone lost here. Chika’s comments were absolutely vile and she should be called our for it. She has a history of attacking black children and more black specifically black little girls. However, the comments about Chika’s appearance were just as vile & disgusting, but also hypocritical. Chika’s comments were anti-black & people were rightfully calling her out about it while also being anti-black at the same time.
I didn’t really have much compassion for Chika & I still think she needs to apologize, but when she talked about her mental health I just felt bad. I think Chika needs help and she should stay off social media until she gets the help she needs but I also think people have to be mindful of how they engage people with mental health problems. At one point Chika was saying how she felt like she would’ve unalived herself had she not vented like she did, and while that may sound ridiculous to some people, that might’ve been the gods honest truth. This was when I started feeling like people needed to stop because with all this going on this could have literally been her final straw and she could’ve actually ended her life.
I hope Chika gets the help she needs AND I hope she realizes that the things she said were disgusting and not needed.
We all know that some of us have deep self hate and we love to attack what reminds of us ourselves. If she has a history of this, then it's on her that she finally said something and she was rightfully dragged for it. Maybe it'll help her seek help for her own issues.
Yall cant talk about her without bashing her appearance?! Like where is The constructive discussion, where is talking about her behavior, but not using anti black language?? Yes! What she did was wrong, but for people to turn around and critique her an appearance instead of addressing her behavior and how she can do better. Is absolutely egregious!!
Does Justin not call Tory Lanez short & bald headed leprechauns whenever he is addressing Tory? Why is fatness & dark skin the only physical attributes off limits?
She was wrong. Deadass. No question. But what she received back was out of pocket. And granted, we can’t control the nastiness of a response from others after you are also nasty, but those others are, indeed, responsible for their nasty behavior too. Everybody sucks here except the kids. They’re literal toddlers & if there’s one thing little kids are gonna do on a plane, it’s cry. Everybody to therapy, do not pass go, do not collect $200.
Edit: Thank you for also covering the Deviant issue. I’ve never been to one of their events (I realized there weren’t any queer AFAB women in attendance, so didn’t think it was my space to be in), but they look fun.
Is grace only extended to those you can relate to or have favor for🤔.. you have extended grace to cardi and I have witnessed her be anti-black, fatphobic, and weaponize HIV/AIDS …something is not adding up here 🤔
At this point yea... he's gaslighting just like she was. She's wrong and I don't understand how she became the victim
Oop… now this is the question!
Yeah cardi is really anti-black? Yall just being saying stuff and why is cardi on yall mind so much?
@@hinata365247 read it slow 😂😂😂
Literally don’t have anything for her. The way she has discussed kids who can’t defend themselves in the past and present is disgusting
Chicka's behavior bears resemblance to that of Azelia Banks, as both individuals exhibit a tendency to freely express their opinions about others while being less receptive to criticism directed towards them.
It is notable that Chicka has sometimes attributed the backlash she receives to colorism, despite her problematic behavior being the root cause.
It is also important to acknowledge that Chicka's appearance, specifically her weight, may unfortunately be used against her.
However, it is concerning that she persist on publicly sharing offensive opinions about others, only to becom upset when facing similar scrutiny herself .
y’all how in the world are we gonna hold someone *actually* accountable to the antiblack language they publicly leverage against a mother and her children….by recycling that same rhetoric?? what does that do except reify that that language and the violence behind it is acceptable? yes, her behavior was abhorrent….WHAT DOES HER BODY HAVE TO DO WITH THAT?
useful convo would’ve been centered on extending sympathy to the mother for the difficulties of traveling with kids, how black kids especially are seen as an inconvenience if not a downright threat in public spaces, how “wench” and “bastard” were misogynoir coded words to use and that chika was wrong asf for that, her ableist language in the tweet, etc. all these things could’ve and should’ve been addressed without calling chika a “gorilla” and “linebacker” 😒 it’s not even about trying to give her “grace” or being kinder to her than she was to that family
🎯 she deserves to get dragged about this. I just think the fatphobia and anti blackness should've been left out...
THANK YOU! If I came for somebody's looks it would be irrelevant and my argument would be weak and it would result in a useless back & forth, so why do we act like it's necessary😬 Chika was clearly wrong and they still couldn't clearly address just that. It had to be colorism & fatphobia involved as if that does anything productive🙄 Chika ain't gonna learn anything but that people are still anti-black and fatphobic. They're acting like Justin said we shouldn't criticize Chika. What he really said was that we CAN criticize her and what she said about Black children, without bashing her body. *Big sigh*
@@fae3821 exactly, it’s giving “I agree that she’s fat black and nasty and how dare she” 🙄
You love a fat phobic/colorist conversation because it relates to you; meanwhile, this was about her throwing rocks and hiding her hand. That could’ve been any child she spoke about and she spoke about the WRONG one! She got what she deserved 🫶🏽
Oh you look so good in this green top!! 💚 I also saw the latest In the Middle and I really appreciated the Chika convo. All three of you are so brilliant.
Naw Justin...talking about kids in the manner she did is not acceptable and down right abusive. She should have gotten dragged. I hate that everytime a dark skinned person exhibits bad behavior it goes to colorist and fat shaming, but if it was light skinned person or white person you would drag them. Be fair she is miserable with HERSELF and she constantly lashes out and chalks it to mental illness..naw she just mean!! She made her bed...
And this video is so contradictory because it is ADULTS like Chika that is the issue and the reason girls end up like her...stop it!!
This is cherry picking, Justin
She lost me when she called the kids bastards. And she really is classist af to think us broke people in coach should have to deal with the crying.
Exactly! I saw nothing about that slick comment. As if she’s been flying first class all her life. People can afford first class maam, maybe by a jet next time🙄
Wow… Chika said that? Shaking my head🤦🏾♂️…
Yes! Let’s talk about it! The first class vs coach comment was also disgusting since sue implied if they were in coach, they could inconvenience others and not her
Yes, that was terribly classist. Like, why do poor people need to deal with the "undesirable" stuff? Like, her ENTIRE take was just bad.
I get it and chika was wrong for talking about them kids, however where was all this uproar and face/body shaming-when cardi B called a black woman's deceased child a roach or a monkey it was one of those horrific things She Said.
I think if chika was so called pretty or what people deem to be pretty no one would have went in on her like that... let's just be real🤷🏾♀️
Nah not on this one , kids really should be off limits
and what about the little black girls she targetted?
To many excuses being made for chika
While 2 things can be true at once... This is not Chika's first rodeo with out of pocket behavior, and I've witnessed (as a former follower) time and time again Chika try to explain it away with her mental health. That's not cool. Period.
The conversation that needs to be had is the utilization of disabilities to exempt people from consequences
I think you should’ve opened this talking about her history of dragging little black girls not her being ate up because she’s “fat & dark skin” she doesn’t deserve grace after all the names she called those sweet babies. She’s a meanie end of discussion, and what you put out there may get you ate up so 🧏🏾♀️.
Unsubscribed. There’s no way you’re defending someone who literally shows narcissistic tendencies.
I just said the same thing..
He’s a narcissistic himself. I’m glad y’all are waking up to his bulllcrap
So Chika can wish someone to choke and die as well as slut shame but her image is offlimits? What about the person and children on the receiving end of Chika's attacts? Its wrong on both ends. But Chika welcomed all the smoke, and unfortunately some ppl go low, and travel the same road traveled to attack them. Chika has to do better to receive better because at the end of the day, the focus is truly on her anti-Blackness vs her appearance, giving she's a beautiful woman ...
She got what she put out 🤷🏾♀️
The internet matched her energy, I don’t feel sorry for her at all 😑
Agreed. She let out that evil energy towards those babies and she got it right back.
Im so proud of you for getting out of the headspace of needing to one-up someone or get out of your character when they come at you. That is a lifelong journey some people NEVER reach the destination of. God bless you Justin.
I completely disagree with you totally ! Chika got what she asked for. You play stupid games you win stupid prizes. It has nothing to do with her being fat & dark skin. She talked shit called them black babies bastards & bitches. You can’t compare your trauma with hers. Plus this ain’t the first time that Chika talked out the side of her neck. & she wanna throw mental illness in there. Like please she deserved what she got.
This girl acted a fool because she took public transportation and was mad that THE PUBLIC was present. You can’t throw out hateful comments and then pick and choose how people respond to it. She needs to fly private or stfu
She called the mother a hoe, told her to choke, and the baby bitches and bastards…. Bffr. Very disappointed in the bias. I think that’s weird to relate to someone like that.
I agree with majority of what you said, when ppl call out/critique others they need to remain on topic. Being bigots/problematic back just worsens everything.
I’m glad ur speaking on this!
I do not for the life of me understand how in 2023, a year where state of the art noise cancelling headphones exist, people still whine about crying kids. ORDER THE GOD DAMN HEADPHONES.
Chika is anti- black and classist herself. Can we discuss that?
I feel for you and have supported your channel for years. We have to seperate our trauma from others. She asked for what she got. She put the toxicity out on social media and got back exactly what she put out, toxicity. I can't defend her this time. Do not make this about you.
Y’all not getting it. For example: Idc what Justin does. I’m never gonna make HIV jokes to put him in his place. Even if i dont like him why does everyone else with HIV have to catch a stray.
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Ok but 2 things can be true at once and that’s what you are not getting. Yes, the fat phobic comments were wrong. But let’s not negate the harm she attempted to cause to innocent black children. Let’s not forget that this isn’t her first time being hateful and anti black toward children on a public platform. Black children are already marginalized and not protected as they should be. So to see a grown adult willfully and intentionally trying to inflict more harm is disturbing. I refuse to allow anyone to gas light the situation and flip it around on the people who are upset about how children were talked about and make us the villains. The comments about her appearance were bad, but her comments were downright AWFUL. You can’t control how people respond to your foolish ways. Oh well
@@featherplucker it’s wild that folks keep acting like anyone is justifying her comments or saying she is above critique. Idk how Justin can say verbatim that she was wrong and you conclude that he doesn’t say that. Genuinely confused how that happens. No one negated the harm or her history. We’re just saying don’t use antiblackness to critique anti blackness.??? I can’t make it any more simple than that. If you think some folks deserve anti blackness then just stand in that.
She deserved everything she got. Sorry but do rude things ≈ equals rude reaction.
You’re being very biased here. smh.
Love ya, Justin. But, I don't really like how we're making Chika the victim here. Yes, she's fat and darker skinned and is receiving harsher repercussions because of that, and of course that's worthy of conversation. And yes, critiquing her body is uncalled for and not okay. HOWEVER, I really wish we wouldn't downplay the fact that Chika has a pattern of saying vile, problematic stuff online then throwing out the mental heath reasoning as an excuse. Chika has proven herself to be a very problematic person and if she's being dragged for her REPEATED problematic behavior, that's a consequence of her chosen actions. Again, dragging her looks is obviously out of line, but dragging her behavior is deserved. She's the villain because she's repeatedly choosing villain behavior. There's a reeeeeally fine line between acknowledging fatphonia and antiblackness and excusing behavior because you empathize with someone's identity. 😬
Thank you!
Yall, he's not saying not hold her accountable. Did we watch the same video? Ppl saying she got what she deserved, but when she did the Calvin Klein ad, she was getting the same anti-black and fatphobic hate. Yes, hold her accountable, but attacking her appearance is doing nothing but justifying colorist and fatphobic language. You're not hurting her, but you're hurting ppl that don't align w/ what's desirable. Ppl be so ready to attack, they not thinking/caring about others that can be hurt by their words.
It’s not always about to being fat & black. I wish you stop with this narrative. She was WRONG period!
Seriously, it seems like he has has some internal issues within himself that he’s projecting. Not everyone views fat and dark skin as negative. But he does.
Multiple things can be right:
No one should ever feel like deleting themselves.
No one should attack children.
No one should weaponize someone's looks.
No one should weaponize mental health.
Mental Health is an explanation, not excuse.
KoR is a bit biased in the video because he relates more to Chika.
Others are a bit biased because they relate more to the mother.
Would you have made this video if Chika was light skinned or.......Chika been disrespectful on twitter for years and we supposed to chill on her cus she fat and dark skinned? LOL
He went harder at China Anne McClain for being a Christian chile
But from what I gather, Chika's has an issue with black kids...that's anti-black behavior that should be called out, right? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. So I have no problem with her being dragged for going after innocent children, especially black kids. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Chika doesn't deserve to be vilified for simply having a body and being dark skin. She is an easy target in that regard and I agree with you on that point.
However, Chika is also a grown woman who isn't above critique or opinion. She was calling black babies bastards and bringing a first world problem to Twitter was never a good idea. #1
Talking about black children in that manner and then to use your mental health as weapon to defend the bigotry is wild. Two things can be true...
Mental health≠ Asshole
Genuinely curious at why you did not read her tweets??
I understand exactly what you're saying.. as a collective we all can stand to learn how to correct people and educate them without automatically declaring war all at once. Every conversation doesn't have to be combative and we definitely should be more mindful about the way we hurt ourselves and participate in our own oppression when we are trying to call ourselves educating someone or are mindfully flat out attacking them..
I also want to add. That we also as a collective need to become more aware and accept another fact that the energy that you put out comes back to you one way or another. So while many of the problematic things that were said to chica and the problematic energy that was transferred in the process was not okay and is not right. And definitely deserves a conversation for correction. We also have to get real with ourselves and other people about the energy that we are putting out. Chica was going to get some type of nasty response one way or another simply because of the energy that she put out. She put out toxic energy & toxicity came back to her. I do agree that it was a specific form of chaotic & problematic because she is dark skin plus size and a woman.. But thee toxicity that she put out was going to get back to her one way or another whether It was people online that dragged her or some other way..
I also want to add that perhaps because you are not a woman. You didn't pick up on or linger on the stigma charged energy that Chika was dishing out to another black woman.. A Mother at that.. and how triggering that is for black women who are mothers. Along the lines of implementing and emphasizing the narrative that black women are the downfall of the family structure and cannot take care of their kids.. That's another layer as to why it was such a dog pile because much like you are able to relate to the anti blackness specifically anti-dark skin and the anti-fatness of it all. Many women were able to relate to the blows that Chika dished out with her stigmatizing antics. She offended a very large group that has their own many layers of oppression, stigmas, stereotype & mental health attacks.. which feeds into the size of the dogpile & feeds into the lack of sympathy & restraint they'd have for her..
Great Vid ! Great Points ! Im glad i didnt let the Comments or any mindless subconscious biases keep me from listening with Higher Senses.. I appreciate thee Msg. 💯👑
Justin, we can drag her for saying this horrible shit AND clock the people who are being fatphobic and colorist towards her. This reminds me of how you responded to the Gorilla Glue Girl situation, just making excuses for bad/idiotic behavior, just because they have certain identities 🙄
Right he never spoke on the tweets he only connected to his own personal emotions and that’s poor journalism
Justin, I don't think I've ever commenting on your videos but I am a long time supporter. Like you, I am someone who stands up against anti-blackness, interethnic conflict (mainly colorism) and systems of oppression in my everyday life so I'm well read on these topics. I fee l like you tend to project your own insecurities and use desirability, colorism and fat phobia as a base for every issue. It can be a bit off putting because everything isn't always predicated on colorism. Sometimes you speak as if all dark skin folks face constant bullying online and I just don't know it thats true. Dark skin people can have "gym bodies" (using your example from the video) and are just as desirable and benefit from pretty privilege because hell, I do. Chicka was wrong and literally made anti-Black comments about a Black mother and two little Black girls. Were her comments not anti-Black because Zonique and the little girls are not dark skin?
You sound like a low key colorist tbh.
I don't know what this person on top of my comment was talking about, but as a dark-skinned mother of two black daughters and a black son I totally agree with this comment. I'm a mother first and at the end of the day she was so annoyed by those babies she could offer that woman help. Maybe she's needs to invest in some noise cancelling headphones I don't know. The same people that clean this woke narrative are always so narcissistic and they Gaslight everything. She's still a new mom she is still learning where is the mothers Grace?
@@SunflowerVibe329 I think whoever it was deleted their comment.
@@SunflowerVibe329 lol you seem like the type that wouldn't know. 👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽
And I really have to question a dark skin person so quick to gaslight another dark skin person talking about colorist comments getting to them, by agreeing that he's "making everything about colorism." Then accuse THEM of doing the gaslighting. Silly.
@@jordannathia1172 nope.
Noise canceling headphones are an amazing investment and in these days essential. Not only do I not want to hear kids on my flights I don't want to hear the adults either and I do my sign language to the flight attendants if I need them which usually I don't cause I don't want to be bothered by them either. We need to share space but people in general are wildly inconsiderate of others. PS....nah $1,000 first class flight and I got to listen to a baby crying the whole flight....🤣🤣🤣 that is wild is the flight attendants passing out extra drinks and snacks even in coach. 🤷🏾♂️ Are the parents trying to find out why the baby crying? I love my noise canceling headphones. I don't know nothing....I don't hear nothing. 🕺🏾🎵 PS I live in NYC I keep my headphones on especially on the train where their is way worse than crying baby.
I’m a long time subscriber of yours Justin you have said some messed up stuff to me you even called another TH-camr fat I won’t say no names cause you will delete and you also made fun of disabilities just because she happen to be dark skinned and big don’t mean y’all can get away with saying stuff like that I feel you’re using that as an excuse for people to not go in
Critiquing her apperance is not okay. What's also not ok is her to pay $34 to tweet nasty, vile thing about Black children. She put extreme negative energy out there so she was going to get that back. You can't use your mental health and appearance as an excuse.
Anyone saying she “deserved” the comments Justin was talking about, missed the point of Justin’s entire video. People are trying to defend what was inappropriately said without acknowledging that it was VERY CLEARLY STATED that WHAT CHIKA SAID WAS WRONG AND DISGUSTING. You all do not give the same energy to people that are “societally acceptable” when it comes to weight and skin tone and THAT is equally wrong. You aren’t vindicated just because she’s a troubled person. If you want to attack her character; do so-but that’s not what is being focused on and attacked when it domes to Chika and people that look like Chika. That’s the point. Chika’s weight and skin tone are more viciously attacked than what she actually said. That’s what’s wrong. Why is that so difficult to see or admit to? A lot of you in the comment section are fatphobic and/or colorist and you’re trying to defend yourselves by saying “what she said was wrong” when no one was disputing that. It hurts but do the work and heal your hate. Have the discussion without demonizing her darkness and weight. Be accountable for your internalized biases.
This is fair. I agree with you👏🏾‼️
Very well said. Idk how they don't see this and think it's giving her grace by calling this out
This, this, this!!! Like I said under another comment this comment section is giving “I agree that she is fat black and nasty..”
Chiiiiile I must be getting old frfr cause I don’t know who Chika is lol. But talking about peoples kids is a big no man.
I never complain about children crying, you never know the reason why, maybe they’re on the spectrum, maybe they have a a chronic illness or maybe they’re just tired, just leave the kids alone