Sometimes anxiety comes from a traumatic childhood experience. It’s very important to take care of your anxiety quickly. Don’t let it control you, you have to control it. Anxiety can be with you for life. It’s a matter of controlling it.
I’m in the Marines right now and have been getting help too. So many people have talked shit about me for getting help. I’ve been wanting to make videos about getting help and my experiences. I’m extremely nervous to do it but our brothers and sisters need to see that they aren’t alone
I had some similar experiences when I was in the Corps. I was diagnosed with schizophrenia when I was in the service. My command did everything they could to make sure I didn't get an honorable discharge by lowering my pros and cons. But medical put me through a medical board and I left the military with retired benefits. That part of my life was pretty hard on me. I had other psychological issues too (anxiety and depression among them) that I don't really talk about. The whole time I saw a therapist and we worked through my issues. It's 12 years later, I'm still a schizophrenic but my other psych issues are gone and even though medication has pet a lot of weight on me, things are good. Life is definitely greener on the other side. At least it can be if things go right.
Anxiety is a real thing... I personally think that some people think it’s not real but it in fact is. I have generalized anxiety disorder and a few phobias that go along with it. My anxiety can be so bad at times that I’m stuck at home. I think more awareness needs to be shed on anxiety and mental illness in general.
I'm gonna say this...it wasn't immature of you...at all. What you just described was a call for help. This unfortunately is the side of military life that a lot of people ignore and what a lot of young people never really learn about...until they are in service. As far as getting hit on by men...there is a whole reddit forum of women who have shared there stories like yours...doesn't seem like the culture for that is going to change anytime soon...unforetunately. Hope to God you find the help you need from people you can trust. Thank you for your service. ✌️and ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story, the military life is very hard especially when you feel like your trapped with toxic leadership, bad barracks life, bad work environment, and so much more. Stay strong 💪 ♥️
Hey girl! Listening to your video, I went through a similar situation. I got to my ship, they were on deployment and it was really rough on me. I went through sexually harassment and my anxiety just went through the roof. I’ve had it seen, and I finally got help this year and taken off a ship because I had suicidal ideation. I’m currently on LIMDU. I’m so happy to hear you got the help you needed ❤️ Keep holding on ❤️☺️
I can definitely relate to you. I had anxiety while in the military but thankfully I had met someone who helped me through it and we we've been married for 23 yrs now, it is a very hard environment for females who haven't really been completely independent from their family and its certainly the worst thing ever when you have anxiety as the icing on the cake.
I practice meditation everyday to keep my anxiety and overthinking habits tame. It takes a month for it to make a difference, i believe it's much better than pills because meditation is all natural and a skill
You're such a great person, I hope you get better now that you're out. Don't worry for what people say, you are the most important person in your live ❤
I can definitely relate to everything you are saying. The problem in the USMC is that the lack of purpose as a daily Marine seems to effect young Marines. In 2012, as a 20 year old Marine in Okinawa, Japan I had a lot of feelings of worthlessness. It wasn't the best time of my life, but I know that I am wiser because of it.
Your story about having a hard upbringing reminds me of my own story. I’m sorry your leaders failed you. I stayed in for eight years and I absolutely loved it every minute of it. I loved everything about the Marine Corps. But I honestly do not think that would’ve been possible without the strong leaders I had. I was never treated any differently and they expected a lot from me. I think perhaps the reason I stayed in was because I had nothing left but me. Also, I always thought the Marine Corps was cakewalk compared to getting physically beaten every day by my stepfather. I grew up in an extremely violent home so the Marine Corps was what I saw as the only thing that saved my life. While I was in the Marine corps I focused on being a Marine. And I don’t honestly think that would’ve been possible without good leadership. So in that regard, perhaps they failed you.
I want to thank you for your honesty. It takes courage to do what you did - become a Marine AND talk about your mental health. I commend you for doing what was best for YOU. Is it selfish? Who tf cares. Take the time you need for you, heal... it’s going to be painful and it’s going to get worse before it gets better. I too come from a traumatic childhood and it has been helllllll... like you, in anger management, depression, anxiety, even ptsd... but it does get better IF we put the work IN. May God bless you.💖💖💖
😉I am so proud for you‼️ You went to seek the help you needed from Inside yourself. I totally understand where you're coming from. I may not have experienced the standpoint from the military but from being young with personal issues that I didn't understand, taking on adulthood early by looks for love in all the wrong places, to searching for some discipline to help maintain my everyday life skills. All the help you need comes from you. So you're on the right track. Taking time too and for yourself will definitely give you the sense and guidance for the life you deserve. 🥳Keep your head held high sister girl!! 🥰Your best days are ahead of you shinning brightly❤️💯
Girl I’m so proud of you and you didn’t deserve all you have been through but I’m so proud of you because Ik this was hard for you talk about but you know you always can count on me and I’m always here for you ❤️🙏🏽🥰
Hey Yari you are strong 💪🏼, keep your head up and keep fighting one day at a time hun. Not a lot of people can do what you did or don’t have the courage that you have to get help!!!
This is awesome. It takes a lot to realize that depression is something that hurts us. You’re an amazing person. You did something in your life that not everyone can do. You became a Marine. But your mental health is more important. Stay strong Devil Dog.
Hi there my name is Chantelle Antwonette Foyle I am age 15 in year 11 in Australia I have the same problem as you your not alone with this I had to go and see the mental health provider too and they I been diagnosed with autism and anxiety and I hear voices really badly so your not alone with that stuff there's people out there who go throw that like me
Wow....but on the flipside you found that courage to deal with those issues. It's unfortunate that "yes" there are predators in each branch enlisted/nco/ officer. Not all but a few and sometimes "leadership" breaks down. Sexual harassment at ANY level as a service member or civilian really needs to be dealt with (sorry to be honest) but taking those individuals off to the side somewhere and whipping their MF ass!!! There's NO excuse or reason for any indvidual to disrespect any female or male if that's what their in to,in a very degrading manor period! Ft Hood just recently is a prime example and finally people above my pay grade decided to act on it, just alittle to late... Things are so much easier said then done right? But things that have caused pain just makes you stronger and NEVER GIVE UP/NEVER SURRENDER! Stay strong!!!! ✌👊
0:09 OK Jarhead, this is the part where I call people ate up for getting out before their enlistment was up, usually it's males, never females, but I won't with you, or I'll try not to. In fact, I wasn't even going to watch the rest of this video to be honest with you, that's how strong I feel about it, but I cheated a little and got up to the 1 minute mark and I'm stopping, seriously, you had an f'd up life and you're giving up? Seriously? I'd give you some advice but you probably wouldn't listen anyways, and as a Vet to another Vet, I'm still going to say it. Look, if you end up rich, forget about the military, if you have a great fantastic job where you make six figures, forget about the military, if your husband has any of the above, or he's in the military himself, forget about it, but if he's a mechanic at Pep Boys and you're working at Wal-Mart, well, WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT OVER???? Listen, go back in, pick another branch, pick another job, do whatever you can, you still have the time, but do not, I say again, DO NOT become a civilian. This is what made me not want to watch this in the first place, "I didn’t not have a positive experience", I know EXACTLY what that is like, EXACTLY, my NCO's messed with me all the time,and I got out because of them, and I'm still regretting it, my life has sucked since I've been out, and I don't see it getting any better anytime soon, no need to go into details because no one actually cares, but trust me, go back in.
Yes the Marines has a specific personality which may not fit everyone. Based off your personality, Navy, Air Force, and National Guard could be your match.
@@sunilsheth5974 why very simple, if u have medical or disability problems, there is no way you will be able to adjust to even air force high standards to get yourself sorted out, military requirements as well! Old saying " you need to tough it out to be OK! I'm air force brat, from both parents who served in new Zealand old school Air force as well! Much different to today's standards as well! Understood??
That's not true. It's not easy, but she can apply for a discharge review for a discharge upgrade or a correction to get it changed from administrative to medical discharge.
That’s the problem nowadays with the kids joining the military . Everyone seems to have problems adjusting with responsibility and the inability to handle being told what to do. Then they find any excuse to get out of responsibilities that they put themselves into. It comes down to the cuddled generation not prepared for the reality of life. You joined to Marine Corps to be a warrior, not to sit at a desk all day and expect to be treated different because made the mistake of joining the most elite branch of the United States military. You knew it would be hard yet you still tapped out when we both know you could have finished your contract. I hope you find something that suits your lifestyle better besides A career that is suppose to cater to you. Good luck. The Marine Corps is better with out you and you are better without the Marine Corps.
You seem like the minions in the military that bow down to every wish - even if it’s unethical. At least she stood up for herself, something you probably can’t do because you’ve been programmed to do as THEY PLEASE.
@@raquelr8775 let me guess, you’ve never served? You sound like a typical lame civilian who thinks the military is all about being told what to do. It’s like any job.. you show up, produce and respect the chain of command and You will be successful. She came out and basically said her previous life is the reason she quit. She had the quitting mindset from day one, just like she said but you probably didn’t listen to that part. I don’t wish anything bad to happen to her and if it did, I wish it never happened. But no one forced to join the military. I have almost 20 years in and one of the worst things to deal with is someone new young Marine who has can not take responsibility for themselves and always blame other for their deficiencies.
You both are correct. Military is not for everyone. It’s not a secret that there are rules and a lifestyle you have to follow. This is part of what it takes to protect this country.
Hi there my name is Chantelle Antwonette Foyle I am age 15 in year 11 in Australia I have the same problem as you your not alone with this I had to go and see the mental health provider too and they I been diagnosed with autism and anxiety and I hear voices really badly so your not alone with that stuff there's people out there who go throw that like me
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Sometimes anxiety comes from a traumatic childhood experience. It’s very important to take care of your anxiety quickly. Don’t let it control you, you have to control it. Anxiety can be with you for life. It’s a matter of controlling it.
I’m in the Marines right now and have been getting help too. So many people have talked shit about me for getting help. I’ve been wanting to make videos about getting help and my experiences. I’m extremely nervous to do it but our brothers and sisters need to see that they aren’t alone
I had some similar experiences when I was in the Corps. I was diagnosed with schizophrenia when I was in the service. My command did everything they could to make sure I didn't get an honorable discharge by lowering my pros and cons. But medical put me through a medical board and I left the military with retired benefits.
That part of my life was pretty hard on me. I had other psychological issues too (anxiety and depression among them) that I don't really talk about. The whole time I saw a therapist and we worked through my issues. It's 12 years later, I'm still a schizophrenic but my other psych issues are gone and even though medication has pet a lot of weight on me, things are good. Life is definitely greener on the other side. At least it can be if things go right.
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@@KiLLED5639 so they can help with anxiety and stuff?
@@wxstednxghts yes therapy can help with anxiety. There's also medication you can take too but you have to talk with your psychiatrist for that.
Anxiety is a real thing... I personally think that some people think it’s not real but it in fact is. I have generalized anxiety disorder and a few phobias that go along with it. My anxiety can be so bad at times that I’m stuck at home. I think more awareness needs to be shed on anxiety and mental illness in general.
Stay strong, my sista! There are a many people who are going through the same thing, including myself. You're not alone!!!!
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I'm gonna say this...it wasn't immature of you...at all. What you just described was a call for help. This unfortunately is the side of military life that a lot of people ignore and what a lot of young people never really learn about...until they are in service. As far as getting hit on by men...there is a whole reddit forum of women who have shared there stories like yours...doesn't seem like the culture for that is going to change anytime soon...unforetunately. Hope to God you find the help you need from people you can trust. Thank you for your service. ✌️and ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story, the military life is very hard especially when you feel like your trapped with toxic leadership, bad barracks life, bad work environment, and so much more. Stay strong 💪 ♥️
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Hey girl! Listening to your video, I went through a similar situation. I got to my ship, they were on deployment and it was really rough on me. I went through sexually harassment and my anxiety just went through the roof. I’ve had it seen, and I finally got help this year and taken off a ship because I had suicidal ideation. I’m currently on LIMDU. I’m so happy to hear you got the help you needed ❤️ Keep holding on ❤️☺️
I can definitely relate to you. I had anxiety while in the military but thankfully I had met someone who helped me through it and we we've been married for 23 yrs now, it is a very hard environment for females who haven't really been completely independent from their family and its certainly the worst thing ever when you have anxiety as the icing on the cake.
I practice meditation everyday to keep my anxiety and overthinking habits tame. It takes a month for it to make a difference, i believe it's much better than pills because meditation is all natural and a skill
You're such a great person, I hope you get better now that you're out. Don't worry for what people say, you are the most important person in your live ❤
Omg I’m so sorry they didn’t give you an honorable discharge, I got out of the Army early for a similar reason as you and I got an honorable discharge
I can definitely relate to everything you are saying. The problem in the USMC is that the lack of purpose as a daily Marine seems to effect young Marines. In 2012, as a 20 year old Marine in Okinawa, Japan I had a lot of feelings of worthlessness. It wasn't the best time of my life, but I know that I am wiser because of it.
Your story about having a hard upbringing reminds me of my own story. I’m sorry your leaders failed you. I stayed in for eight years and I absolutely loved it every minute of it. I loved everything about the Marine Corps. But I honestly do not think that would’ve been possible without the strong leaders I had. I was never treated any differently and they expected a lot from me. I think perhaps the reason I stayed in was because I had nothing left but me. Also, I always thought the Marine Corps was cakewalk compared to getting physically beaten every day by my stepfather. I grew up in an extremely violent home so the Marine Corps was what I saw as the only thing that saved my life. While I was in the Marine corps I focused on being a Marine. And I don’t honestly think that would’ve been possible without good leadership. So in that regard, perhaps they failed you.
I want to thank you for your honesty.
It takes courage to do what you did - become a Marine AND talk about your mental health.
I commend you for doing what was best for YOU. Is it selfish? Who tf cares.
Take the time you need for you, heal... it’s going to be painful and it’s going to get worse before it gets better.
I too come from a traumatic childhood and it has been helllllll... like you, in anger management, depression, anxiety, even ptsd... but it does get better IF we put the work IN.
May God bless you.💖💖💖
Thank you! I really appreciate that!
Do whatever makes you happy Queen. We only live once so live it how you want, dont listen to anybody who says otherwise!
😉I am so proud for you‼️
You went to seek the help you needed from Inside yourself. I totally understand where you're coming from. I may not have experienced the standpoint from the military but from being young with personal issues that I didn't understand, taking on adulthood early by looks for love in all the wrong places, to searching for some discipline to help maintain my everyday life skills. All the help you need comes from you. So you're on the right track. Taking time too and for yourself will definitely give you the sense and guidance for the life you deserve. 🥳Keep your head held high sister girl!! 🥰Your best days are ahead of you shinning brightly❤️💯
I'm sorry you went through that. Hopefully now you can move on to better things. You express yourself very well.
Girl I’m so proud of you and you didn’t deserve all you have been through but I’m so proud of you because Ik this was hard for you talk about but you know you always can count on me and I’m always here for you ❤️🙏🏽🥰
Hey Yari you are strong 💪🏼, keep your head up and keep fighting one day at a time hun. Not a lot of people can do what you did or don’t have the courage that you have to get help!!!
Hope you are doing well sorry you had to go thru this time in the marines. Hope things are going well for you 🙏
This is awesome. It takes a lot to realize that depression is something that hurts us. You’re an amazing person. You did something in your life that not everyone can do. You became a Marine. But your mental health is more important. Stay strong Devil Dog.
i feel proud of you yet i dont know you , it takes allot of courage to do what you done . Wishing all the best and stay positive :) good luck .
Once a marines is always a marines
Awww....thanks furr sharing Hon..
Keep the faith and trust the process...a new fan
Keep strong girl! We love you!
You're not alone, sweetie ❤
I relate to you. I had the same kinds of experiences in the Air Force.
We love you girl ❤️
You should go to the VA and apply for disability from them so you can get free medical .
You have to complete your contract to do that. She didn't
Im already filing for disability and have free medical. Thank you for your advice!
@@jwh24553 If they gave her an honorable, or even general discharge she 100% can.
Your so strong luv ❤️
Loved this video! Stay strong you got this girl! Love you❤️
What about your husband? Was he supportive
Hi there my name is Chantelle Antwonette Foyle I am age 15 in year 11 in Australia I have the same problem as you your not alone with this I had to go and see the mental health provider too and they I been diagnosed with autism and anxiety and I hear voices really badly so your not alone with that stuff there's people out there who go throw that like me
Wow....but on the flipside you found that courage to deal with those issues. It's unfortunate that "yes" there are predators in each branch enlisted/nco/ officer. Not all but a few and sometimes "leadership" breaks down. Sexual harassment at ANY level as a service member or civilian really needs to be dealt with (sorry to be honest) but taking those individuals off to the side somewhere and whipping their MF ass!!! There's NO excuse or reason for any indvidual to disrespect any female or male if that's what their in to,in a very degrading manor period! Ft Hood just recently is a prime example and finally people above my pay grade decided to act on it, just alittle to late... Things are so much easier said then done right? But things that have caused pain just makes you stronger and NEVER GIVE UP/NEVER SURRENDER! Stay strong!!!! ✌👊
Your soul valiant and gorgeous
Remember do what’s best for you as long as you’re happy that’s all that matters.
0:09
OK Jarhead, this is the part where I call people ate up for getting out before their enlistment was up, usually it's males, never females, but I won't with you, or I'll try not to.
In fact, I wasn't even going to watch the rest of this video to be honest with you, that's how strong I feel about it, but I cheated a little and got up to the 1 minute mark and I'm stopping, seriously, you had an f'd up life and you're giving up? Seriously? I'd give you some advice but you probably wouldn't listen anyways, and as a Vet to another Vet, I'm still going to say it.
Look, if you end up rich, forget about the military, if you have a great fantastic job where you make six figures, forget about the military, if your husband has any of the above, or he's in the military himself, forget about it, but if he's a mechanic at Pep Boys and you're working at Wal-Mart, well,
WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT OVER????
Listen, go back in, pick another branch, pick another job, do whatever you can, you still have the time, but do not, I say again, DO NOT become a civilian.
This is what made me not want to watch this in the first place, "I didn’t not have a positive experience", I know EXACTLY what that is like, EXACTLY, my NCO's messed with me all the time,and I got out because of them, and I'm still regretting it, my life has sucked since I've been out, and I don't see it getting any better anytime soon, no need to go into details because no one actually cares, but trust me, go back in.
Hi, read your comment. I’m curious as to why you regret not going back in? Have you aged out?
Thank u!
Yes the Marines has a specific personality which may not fit everyone. Based off your personality, Navy, Air Force, and National Guard could be your match.
What personality is exclusive to the Marines, if you don’t mind me asking?
Yeah, I’m curious too. 👂🏽
@@teapoodle3977 A warrior like personality.
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I really like your videos my dear
God can fully deliver you from that and I pray deliverance *without medication* over you in Jesus' Name!
Medical and military are not great unfortunately
Why
@@sunilsheth5974 why very simple, if u have medical or disability problems, there is no way you will be able to adjust to even air force high standards to get yourself sorted out, military requirements as well! Old saying " you need to tough it out to be OK! I'm air force brat, from both parents who served in new Zealand old school Air force as well! Much different to today's standards as well! Understood??
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You can't "go" back and change your discharge status
That's not true. It's not easy, but she can apply for a discharge review for a discharge upgrade or a correction to get it changed from administrative to medical discharge.
Yes you can
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That’s the problem nowadays with the kids joining the military . Everyone seems to have problems adjusting with responsibility and the inability to handle being told what to do. Then they find any excuse to get out of responsibilities that they put themselves into. It comes down to the cuddled generation not prepared for the reality of life. You joined to Marine Corps to be a warrior, not to sit at a desk all day and expect to be treated different because made the mistake of joining the most elite branch of the United States military. You knew it would be hard yet you still tapped out when we both know you could have finished your contract. I hope you find something that suits your lifestyle better besides A career that is suppose to cater to you. Good luck. The Marine Corps is better with out you and you are better without the Marine Corps.
You seem like the minions in the military that bow down to every wish - even if it’s unethical. At least she stood up for herself, something you probably can’t do because you’ve been programmed to do as THEY PLEASE.
@@raquelr8775 let me guess, you’ve never served? You sound like a typical lame civilian who thinks the military is all about being told what to do. It’s like any job.. you show up, produce and respect the chain of command and You will be successful. She came out and basically said her previous life is the reason she quit. She had the quitting mindset from day one, just like she said but you probably didn’t listen to that part. I don’t wish anything bad to happen to her and if it did, I wish it never happened. But no one forced to join the military. I have almost 20 years in and one of the worst things to deal with is someone new young Marine who has can not take responsibility for themselves and always blame other for their deficiencies.
You both are correct. Military is not for everyone. It’s not a secret that there are rules and a lifestyle you have to follow. This is part of what it takes to protect this country.
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Wow
are you single?
No she’s not
Pray, fast and read the Bible this is not the first time it happened.
Hi sergeant
Probably got multiple pg 11's and NJP'd due to a piss poor performance and attitude. You got forced out.
No no
You must continue military service with your Country
Definitely disagree as medical and military not a great combination unfortunately
Thank you for stepping out and sharing your story with us. You have such a sincere and humble spirit. I pray God always shines his blessings on you.💜
Hi there my name is Chantelle Antwonette Foyle I am age 15 in year 11 in Australia I have the same problem as you your not alone with this I had to go and see the mental health provider too and they I been diagnosed with autism and anxiety and I hear voices really badly so your not alone with that stuff there's people out there who go throw that like me
I really like your videos my dear